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μ•„λž˜ μ˜λ¬Έμžλ§‰μ„ λ”λΈ”ν΄λ¦­ν•˜μ‹œλ©΄ μ˜μƒμ΄ μž¬μƒλ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ²ˆμ—­λœ μžλ§‰μ€ 기계 λ²ˆμ—­λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.

00:02
Hello, and welcome back.
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μ•ˆλ…•ν•˜μ„Έμš”, λ‹€μ‹œ μ˜€μ‹  것을 ν™˜μ˜ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:04
We are going to get into a bunch of great expressions about relationships and sex and
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μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 이 Fluency Corner λ ˆμŠ¨μ—μ„œ 관계, μ„ΉμŠ€, 이
00:09
biological things having to do with all of this, uh, in this Fluency Corner lesson.
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λͺ¨λ“  것과 κ΄€λ ¨λœ 생물학적인 것듀에 λŒ€ν•œ λ§Žμ€ ν›Œλ₯­ν•œ ν‘œν˜„μ„ μ ‘ν•˜κ²Œ 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
00:14
Now, I'm going to be talking, uh, about a couple of things here.
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이제, μ €λŠ” μ—¬κΈ°μ„œ λͺ‡ 가지에 λŒ€ν•΄ 이야기할 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
00:18
One of those is the social expressions.
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κ·Έ 쀑 ν•˜λ‚˜κ°€ μ‚¬νšŒμ  ν‘œν˜„μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:20
Uh, and then we'll also have more biological words as well.
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μ–΄, 그리고 μš°λ¦¬λŠ” λ˜ν•œ 더 λ§Žμ€ 생물학적 단어λ₯Ό κ°–κ²Œ 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:24
Uh, but one common theme for both of these things is the euphemism.
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μ–΄, ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 이 두 가지에 λŒ€ν•œ 곡톡 μ£Όμ œλŠ” μ™„κ³‘μ–΄λ²•μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:30
And this is something, if you've not heard of this before, a euphemism is just a way
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그리고 이것은, 전에 λ“€μ–΄λ³Έ 적이 μ—†λ‹€λ©΄ 완곑 어법은
00:34
of saying something that if you said it directly like, sex, like, if I say that to some people,
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당신이 그것을 μ§μ ‘μ μœΌλ‘œ λ§ν•˜λ©΄ , μ„ΉμŠ€μ™€ 같이, λ‚΄κ°€ μ–΄λ–€ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ—κ²Œ 그것을 λ§ν•˜λ©΄,
00:40
whoa!
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μ›Œ!
00:41
They would, they, like, people would, you know, they would blush.
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그듀은 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ 얼꡴을 λΆ‰νž κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:43
Like, their, their cheeks would get rosy.
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마치 κ·Έλ“€μ˜ 뺨이 μž₯밋빛이 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:45
You wouldn't, you know, say that, maybe, while you're out just, you know, aft, after, uh,
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당신은 μ•„λ§ˆλ„
00:49
a meal with your family or something like that.
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당신이 κ°€μ‘±κ³Ό ν•¨κ»˜ 식사λ₯Ό ν•œ 후에 후미에 밖에 μžˆμ„ λ•Œ κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ λ§ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šμ„ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
00:52
Uh, so we use a euphemism where we're talking about that.
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μ–΄, κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 그것에 λŒ€ν•΄ 이야기할 λ•Œ 완곑어법을 μ‚¬μš©ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
00:55
So, a euphemism for sex could be, let's see, there are lots of them.
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λ”°λΌμ„œ μ„ΉμŠ€μ— λŒ€ν•œ 완곑어법은 λ‹€μŒκ³Ό 같을 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 보자, 많이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:59
Uh, like, a very, like, a very, like, bad euphemism, like, one that's, like, it's kind
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μ–΄, μ•„μ£Ό, μ•„μ£Ό, μ•„μ£Ό, λ‚˜μœ 완곑 어법, 마치,
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of funny, like, hide the sausage.
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μ†Œμ‹œμ§€λ₯Ό μˆ¨κΈ°λŠ” 게 μ’€ μ›ƒκΈ°λ„€μš”.
01:06
Now, it's funny, like, now I'm gonna blush over here.
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자, μ›ƒκΈ°λ„€μš”. 이제 μ—¬κΈ°μ„œ 얼꡴을 λΆ‰νžˆκ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
01:09
But this is a, kind of a crude, uh, like, a, like, a, not very, like, subtle, uh, idea.
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κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‚˜ 이것은 μΌμ’…μ˜ μ‘°μž‘ν•œ, μ–΄, μ–΄, μ–΄, μ–΄, μ–΄, 그닀지, μ–΄, λ―Έλ¬˜ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šμ€, μ–΄, μ•„μ΄λ””μ–΄μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:15
But a euphemism for something again, we're trying to take something that might sound
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ λ‹€μ‹œ 완곑 μ–΄λ²•μœΌλ‘œ λ§ν•˜μžλ©΄
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impolite or be, uh, blunt.
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λ¬΄λ‘€ν•˜κ²Œ λ“€λ¦¬κ±°λ‚˜ λ¬΄λšλšν•˜κ²Œ 듀릴 수 μžˆλŠ” 것을 μ·¨ν•˜λ €κ³  ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:21
And again, blunt meaning, like, we say something, and people are maybe a little bit offended
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그리고 λ‹€μ‹œ λ§ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ λ¬΄λšλšν•œ μ˜λ―ΈλŠ” μš°λ¦¬κ°€ 무언가λ₯Ό λ§ν•˜λ©΄ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ 그것에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ•½κ°„ 기뢄이 상할 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆλ‹€λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
01:26
by that.
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01:27
So, we think of a better way, a euphemism, by which to explain that thing.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 그것을 μ„€λͺ…ν•  더 λ‚˜μ€ 방법, 즉 완곑어법을 μƒκ°ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
01:31
So, I'll cover a lot more of those.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ λ‚˜λŠ” 그것듀을 더 많이 λ‹€λ£° κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:32
I just wanted to give you an example because when we talk about, uh, not only the, the
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01:37
different social phrases that we're using or phrases that are describing, uh, kind of
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μš°λ¦¬κ°€ μ‚¬μš©ν•˜λŠ” λ‹€μ–‘ν•œ μ‚¬νšŒμ  ν‘œν˜„ μ΄λ‚˜
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the social interactions between people, but also the biological processes, uh, that people
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μ‚¬λžŒλ“€ μ‚¬μ΄μ˜ μ‚¬νšŒμ  μƒν˜Έμž‘μš©μ„ μ„€λͺ…ν•˜λŠ” ν‘œν˜„λΏλ§Œ μ•„λ‹ˆλΌ 생물학적 과정에 λŒ€ν•΄μ„œλ„ 이야기할 λ•Œ ν•œ 가지 예λ₯Ό 듀어보고 μ‹Άμ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. , μ–΄, μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄
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have.
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가지고 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:48
So, the biological things that go on with your body.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ˜ λͺΈκ³Ό ν•¨κ»˜ μ§„ν–‰λ˜λŠ” 생물학적인 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
01:50
Uh, an interesting way to think about this, like a doctor would use more of these blunt
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μ–΄, μ˜μ‚¬κ°€ 이런 λ¬΄λšλšν•œ μš©μ–΄λ₯Ό 더 많이 μ‚¬μš©ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμ²˜λŸΌ 이것에 λŒ€ν•΄ μƒκ°ν•˜λŠ” ν₯미둜운 λ°©λ²•μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
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terms.
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Like, he would talk about, we'll kind of talk about it more when I get to that.
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예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄, κ·ΈλŠ” 그것에 λŒ€ν•΄ 이야기 ν•  κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ‚΄κ°€ 그것에 λ„λ‹¬ν•˜λ©΄ μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 그것에 λŒ€ν•΄ 더 이야기 ν•  κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:58
Uh, but the terms that a doctor would use, most people would use a euphemism for those
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μ–΄, ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ μ˜μ‚¬κ°€ μ‚¬μš©ν•˜λŠ” μš©μ–΄, λŒ€λΆ€λΆ„μ˜ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ 일상적인 λŒ€ν™”μ—μ„œ 완곑어법을 μ‚¬μš©ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€
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things in regular casual conversations.
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02:06
So, if you can learn those things, and I'll help you learn a lot of them in this video,
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λ”°λΌμ„œ μ΄λŸ¬ν•œ 것듀을 배울 수 μžˆλ‹€λ©΄ 이 λΉ„λ””μ˜€μ—μ„œ λ§Žμ€ 것을 배울 수 μžˆλ„λ‘ λ„μ™€λ“œλ¦¬κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:09
then you're going to become a much more confident speaker.
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그러면 훨씬 더 μžμ‹ κ° 있게 λ§ν•˜λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:12
You also understand a lot more as well.
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당신은 λ˜ν•œ 훨씬 더 많이 μ΄ν•΄ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:14
So, let's get into it.
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자, 그것에 λ“€μ–΄κ°€ λ΄…μ‹œλ‹€.
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We'll begin with a lot of the social expressions, and then we'll move on to the biological ones
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λ§Žμ€ μ‚¬νšŒμ  ν‘œν˜„μœΌλ‘œ μ‹œμž‘ν•œ λ‹€μŒ 생물학적 ν‘œν˜„μœΌλ‘œ μ΄λ™ν•˜μ—¬
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to end the video.
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λΉ„λ””μ˜€λ₯Ό λ§ˆλ¬΄λ¦¬ν•˜κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:20
First, we've got a lot of different expressions that can describe touching someone.
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첫째, λˆ„κ΅°κ°€λ₯Ό λ§Œμ§€λŠ” 것을 λ¬˜μ‚¬ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” λ‹€μ–‘ν•œ ν‘œν˜„μ΄ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:26
And I’ll, again, like, this is the interesting thing about the language.
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그리고 μ €λŠ” λ‹€μ‹œ λ§ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 이것이 μ–Έμ–΄μ˜ ν₯미둜운 μ μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:29
Where you begin with, it's the same idea about a tree where we have one idea, touch, where
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μ²˜μŒμ—λŠ”
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you're connecting skin to skin or maybe you're touching someone even on their shirt or their
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피뢀와 ν”ΌλΆ€λ₯Ό μ—°κ²°ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜ λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ˜ μ…”μΈ λ‚˜
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dress or something like that.
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λ“œλ ˆμŠ€ 등을 λ§Œμ§€κ³  μžˆλ‹€λŠ” ν•˜λ‚˜μ˜ 아이디어가 μžˆλŠ” λ‚˜λ¬΄μ— λŒ€ν•œ λ™μΌν•œ μ•„μ΄λ””μ–΄μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:41
Uh, this is the basic term here, to touch someone.
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μ–΄, 이것은 λˆ„κ΅°κ°€λ₯Ό λ§Œμ§€λ‹€λΌλŠ” κΈ°λ³Έ μš©μ–΄μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
02:45
But then we can move into a lot more different meanings or more subtle or more specific things
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ μš°λ¦¬κ°€ ν‘œν˜„ν•˜κ³ μž ν•˜λŠ” μ•„μ΄λ””μ–΄μ˜ μ’…λ₯˜μ— 따라 훨씬 더 λ‹€μ–‘ν•œ μ˜λ―Έλ‚˜ 더 λ―Έλ¬˜ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜ 더 ꡬ체적인 κ²ƒμœΌλ‘œ 이동할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
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depending on what kind of idea we want to express.
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So, the first one here, we'll just cover because it's one of the first that appears in the
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자, μ—¬κΈ°μ„œ 첫 λ²ˆμ§ΈλŠ” λŒ€ν™” 에 처음 λ“±μž₯ν•˜λŠ” 것 쀑 ν•˜λ‚˜κ°€
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conversation, is to grope someone.
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€λ₯Ό λ”λ“¬λŠ” 것이기 λ•Œλ¬Έμ— λ‹€λ£¨κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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To grope.
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더듬닀.
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Now, grope usually has an idea of touching someone, but not in a very gentle way.
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자, λͺ¨μƒ‰μ€ 일반적으둜 λˆ„κ΅°κ°€λ₯Ό λ§Œμ§„λ‹€λŠ” 생각을 가지고 μžˆμ§€λ§Œ μ•„μ£Ό λΆ€λ“œλŸ¬μš΄ 방법은 μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:06
Uh, not in a very confident way either, uh, and this is, uh, a problem.
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μ–΄, 그닀지 μžμ‹  μžˆλŠ” 방식도 μ•„λ‹ˆκ³ , μ–΄, 그리고 이건, μ–΄, λ¬Έμ œμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:10
So, we, you'll hear us talking about this, uh, in the conversation where even in Japan
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μš°λ¦¬λŠ” μš°λ¦¬κ°€ 이것에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜λŠ” 것을 λ“£κ²Œ 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ–΄, 심지어 μ§€κΈˆ μΌλ³Έμ—μ„œλ„
03:15
now, so a lot of people, especially in very busy cities like Tokyo, uh, people will have,
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λ§Žμ€ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€, 특히 도쿄와 같은 맀우 λ°”μœ λ„μ‹œμ—μ„œ, μ–΄, μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€,
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uh, or there will be separate trains just for women so that they're not groped.
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μ–΄, λ˜λŠ” 더듬지 μ•Šλ„λ‘ μ—¬μ„± μ „μš© μ—΄μ°¨λ₯Ό λΆ„λ¦¬ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€ .
03:25
Like, you know, men are trying to reach out and, uh, touch these women while they're on
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예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄, λ‚¨μžλ“€μ€ 손을 λ»—μ–΄ , μ–΄, 기차에 μžˆλŠ” μ—¬μžλ“€μ„ λ§Œμ§€λ €κ³  ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€
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the train.
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So, it was such a problem that they needed to have their own train.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ κ·Έλ“€ μžμ‹ μ˜ κΈ°μ°¨κ°€ ν•„μš”ν•˜λ‹€λŠ” 것은 그런 λ¬Έμ œμ˜€μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
03:34
Uh, you know, not, not all women ride on this, and it's not all times of the day, I believe.
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μ–΄, μ•„μ‹œλ‹€μ‹œν”Ό, λͺ¨λ“  여성이 이것을 νƒ€λŠ” 것은 μ•„λ‹ˆλ©° ν•˜λ£¨ 쀑 항상 그런 것도 μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:38
Uh, but particularly busy times when, when you have lots of people really crammed into
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μ–΄, ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 특히 λ°”μœ μ‹œκ°„μ—λŠ” λ§Žμ€ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ 기차에 꽉 찼을 λ•Œμš”
03:43
the train.
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03:44
Uh, you have to be careful because, you know, you could get touched by someone else.
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μ–΄, λ„ˆλ„ μ•Œλ‹€μ‹œν”Ό, λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ—κ²Œ 만질 수 μžˆμœΌλ‹ˆ 쑰심해야 ν•΄.
03:47
It might be accidental, or you're really getting groped where someone's like really grabbing
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그것은 우발적일 μˆ˜λ„ 있고, λˆ„κ΅°κ°€κ°€
03:52
you, something like that.
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당신을 μ •λ§λ‘œ λΆ™μž‘κ³  μžˆλŠ” 것과 같은 κ³³μ—μ„œ 당신이 μ •λ§λ‘œ 더듬고 μžˆλŠ” 것일 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:53
So, it could be grabbing your leg or some other, uh, more sexual body part or something
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, 그것은 λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ 닀리λ₯Ό μž‘κ±°λ‚˜ λ‹€λ₯Έ μ–΄λ–€ 것, μ–΄, 더 성적인 신체 λΆ€μœ„λ₯Ό μž‘λŠ” 것일 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
03:58
like that.
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But grope is the word that we use for that, uh, even not in a sexual situation where you're
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ λͺ¨μƒ‰μ€ μš°λ¦¬κ°€ μ‚¬μš©ν•˜λŠ” λ‹¨μ–΄μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 음, 무언가λ₯Ό μ°ΎκΈ° μœ„ν•΄
04:04
talking about groping around in the dark for something.
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μ–΄λ‘  μ†μ—μ„œ λ”λ“¬λŠ” 것에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜λŠ” 성적인 상황이 μ•„λ‹Œ κ²½μš°μ—λ„ λ§μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
04:07
Like, I’m, I, like, I can't, I'm not expressing my zerf, I'm not expressing myself well.
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예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄, λ‚˜λŠ”, λ‚˜λŠ”, ν•  수 μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€, λ‚˜λŠ” λ‚΄ zerfλ₯Ό ν‘œν˜„ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šκ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:13
You can see even right now, uh, uh, uh, uh.
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μ§€κΈˆ 봐도 uh, uh, uh, uh.
04:14
I can't really speak.
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λ‚˜λŠ” μ •λ§λ‘œ 말할 수 μ—†λ‹€.
04:16
I'm groping, groping for the right word to say.
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λ‚˜λŠ” 더듬거리고, ν•  말을 더듬고 μžˆλ‹€ .
04:19
So, it means I'm not doing it in a skillful way, a way that's impressive to people.
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즉, μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ—κ²Œ 감동을 쀄 수 μžˆλŠ” λŠ₯μˆ™ν•œ λ°©λ²•μœΌλ‘œ ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠλŠ”λ‹€λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:24
I'm doing it in a, like, I'm fumbling around with my language.
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μ €λŠ” 제 μ–Έμ–΄λ‘œ 더듬거리고 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:27
Uh, I'm groping for something to say.
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μ–΄, ν•  말을 더듬고 μžˆμ–΄μš”.
04:29
So, all these different ideas come from this.
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λ”°λΌμ„œ 이 λͺ¨λ“  λ‹€μ–‘ν•œ μ•„μ΄λ””μ–΄λŠ” μ—¬κΈ°μ—μ„œ λ‚˜μ˜΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:31
And again, like, this idea of touching something, but if we're doing it in kind of a bad way,
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그리고 λ‹€μ‹œ λ§ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ, λ­”κ°€λ₯Ό λ§Œμ§„λ‹€λŠ” 생각인데, μš°λ¦¬κ°€ 그것을 λ‚˜μœ λ°©μ‹μœΌλ‘œ ν•œλ‹€λ©΄,
04:36
a negative way, something that's maybe, uh, offensive to someone else.
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뢀정적인 λ°©μ‹μœΌλ‘œ, λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ—κ²Œ λΆˆμΎŒκ°μ„ 쀄 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:40
So, if I'm groping a woman, you know, she probably doesn't want me to be doing that.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ λ‚΄κ°€ μ—¬μžλ₯Ό λ”λ“¬λŠ”λ‹€λ©΄, κ·Έλ…€λŠ” μ•„λ§ˆ λ‚΄κ°€ κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ ν•˜λŠ” 것을 μ›ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šμ„ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:44
I'm not doing, I'm not like, uh, touching her gently.
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μ•ˆ ν•΄μš”, μ–΄, κ·Έλ…€λ₯Ό λΆ€λ“œλŸ½κ²Œ λ§Œμ§€λŠ” 것 같지 μ•Šμ•„μš” .
04:47
So, if I want to touch her gently, maybe we would call that a caress.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ λ‚΄κ°€ κ·Έλ…€λ₯Ό λΆ€λ“œλŸ½κ²Œ λ§Œμ§€κ³  μ‹Άλ‹€λ©΄ 그것을 애무라고 λΆ€λ₯Ό κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:51
So, if I'm caressing someone, or I'm massaging something.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ λ‚΄κ°€ λˆ„κ΅°κ°€λ₯Ό μ• λ¬΄ν•˜κ³  μžˆκ±°λ‚˜ 무언가λ₯Ό λ§ˆμ‚¬μ§€ν•˜κ³  μžˆλ‹€λ©΄.
04:54
These are different ways of touching.
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이것듀은 λ§Œμ§€λŠ” λ‹€λ₯Έ λ°©λ²•μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:56
Again, it's that same idea, but you're getting more specific for that kind of thing about
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λ‹€μ‹œ λ§ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ, 같은 μƒκ°μ΄μ§€λ§Œ 언어에 λŒ€ν•œ 그런 μ’…λ₯˜μ˜ 일에 λŒ€ν•΄ 더 ꡬ체적이게 λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€
05:01
the language.
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05:02
So, what's the feeling of it?
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, κ·Έ λŠλ‚Œμ€ μ–΄λ•Œ?
05:03
What's the pressure of the touch?
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ν„°μΉ˜μ˜ μ••λ ₯은 λ¬΄μ—‡μž…λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
05:05
Is the other person, uh, happy about that or not happy about that, in the case of groping.
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μƒλŒ€λ°©μ΄, μ–΄, λ”λ“¬λŠ” κ²½μš°μ— 그것에 λŒ€ν•΄ κΈ°λ»ν•˜λŠ”μ§€, κΈ°λ»ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠλŠ”μ§€.
05:09
Uh, so in the case of groping, typically not.
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μ–΄, κ·Έλž˜μ„œ λ”λ“¬λŠ” κ²½μš°μ—λŠ” 일반적으둜 그렇지 μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:12
Now, one more thing here, just this same kind of idea about touching someone.
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자, μ—¬κΈ°μ„œ ν•œ 가지 더, λˆ„κ΅°κ°€λ₯Ό λ§Œμ§€λŠ” 것과 같은 μ’…λ₯˜μ˜ μƒκ°μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:17
Maybe you accidentally touch something, uh, or touched someone.
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μ‹€μˆ˜λ‘œ 무언가λ₯Ό 만쑌 κ±°λ‚˜ λˆ„κ΅°κ°€λ₯Ό λ§Œμ‘Œμ„ μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:20
You don't mean to do it.
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당신은 그것을 ν•  μ˜λ„κ°€ μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:21
Like, I turn around and maybe I, with my elbow, I hit, you know, some woman in the chest area
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λŒμ•„μ„œμ„œ νŒ”κΏˆμΉ˜λ‘œ μ–΄λ–€ μ—¬μžμ˜ κ°€μŠ΄ λΆ€μœ„λ₯Ό λ•Œλ Έμ„ μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
05:26
or something.
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05:27
So, I graze someone.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ λ‚˜λŠ” λˆ„κ΅°κ°€λ₯Ό λ°©λͺ©ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:28
So, this just means to touch someone just kind of lightly like this.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 이것은 λˆ„κ΅°κ°€λ₯Ό μ΄λ ‡κ²Œ κ°€λ³κ²Œ λ§Œμ§€λŠ” 것을 μ˜λ―Έν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
05:31
I'm not groping, not, oh my God, groping someone like this.
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λ‚œ λ”λ“¬λŠ” 게 μ•„λ‹ˆμ•Ό, λ§™μ†Œμ‚¬, λˆ„κ΅°κ°€λ₯Ό μ΄λ ‡κ²Œ λ”λ“¬λŠ” 게 μ•„λ‹ˆμ•Ό.
05:35
Just, just gently touching, gently grazing, something like that.
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κ·Έλƒ₯, μ‚΄μ‚΄ 만져주고, μ‚΄μ‚΄ 쓰닀듬어주고, 그런 κ±°μš”.
05:39
And again, this idea of touching just like groping for words, means you're not doing
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그리고 λ‹€μ‹œ λ§ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ, 말을 λ”λ“¬λŠ” κ²ƒμ²˜λŸΌ λ§Œμ§„λ‹€λŠ” 생각은 당신이 그것을 λŠ₯μˆ™ν•˜κ²Œ ν•˜κ³  μžˆμ§€ μ•Šλ‹€λŠ” 것을 μ˜λ―Έν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€
05:43
it in a skillful way.
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05:44
When you graze something, like, if I shoot a bullet and it grazes the person, it just
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당신이 무언가λ₯Ό 슀쳐갈 λ•Œ, 예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄, λ‚΄κ°€ μ΄μ•Œμ„ 쏘고 그것이 μ‚¬λžŒμ„ μŠ€μΉœλ‹€λ©΄, 그것은
05:49
means, like, the bullet, you know, just went kind of…
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단지, μ΄μ•Œμ΄, κ·Έλƒ₯ κ°”λ‹€λŠ” 것을 μ˜λ―Έν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€
05:51
It went, like, right by me.
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05:53
It kind of barely touched me but didn't hit me directly.
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그것은 거의 λ‚˜λ₯Ό λ§Œμ§€μ§€ μ•Šμ•˜μ§€λ§Œ 직접 λ•Œλ¦¬μ§€λŠ” μ•Šμ•˜μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
05:56
So, that's to graze something or someone.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 그것은 무언가 λ˜λŠ” λˆ„κ΅°κ°€λ₯Ό λ°©λͺ©ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:59
Next, we've got a couple of words and expressions having to do with making a connection for
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λ‹€μŒμœΌλ‘œ, 처음으둜 μ—°κ²°ν•˜λŠ” 것과 κ΄€λ ¨λœ λͺ‡ 가지 단어와 ν‘œν˜„μ΄ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
06:04
the first time.
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06:05
Now, this is typically when you're talking about a social situation.
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이것은 일반적으둜 μ‚¬νšŒμ  상황에 λŒ€ν•΄ 이야기할 λ•Œμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:09
Like a classic example is just going out to a bar.
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고전적인 예처럼 κ·Έλƒ₯ μˆ μ§‘μ— κ°€λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
06:13
Although, as the young ladies were explaining to me, this is not something that happens
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μ Šμ€ μˆ™λ…€λ“€μ΄ λ‚˜μ—κ²Œ μ„€λͺ…ν–ˆλ“―이
06:17
as much now because a lot of people are using online dating tools.
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λ§Žμ€ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ 온라인 데이트 도ꡬλ₯Ό μ‚¬μš©ν•˜κ³  있기 λ•Œλ¬Έμ— μ§€κΈˆμ€ κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ 많이 λ°œμƒν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
06:20
And people are almost forgetting how to go out and, you know, walk up to a man or a woman
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그리고 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ μ™ΈμΆœν•˜λŠ” 방법을 거의 μžŠμ–΄λ²„λ¦¬κ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . μ•„μ‹œλ‹€μ‹œν”Ό λ‚¨μžλ‚˜ μ—¬μžμ—κ²Œ λ‹€κ°€κ°€
06:25
and approach somebody.
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ—κ²Œ λ‹€κ°€κ°‘λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:26
Uh, but in these examples, we're talking about hitting on someone.
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μ–΄, ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 이 μ˜ˆμ—μ„œ μš°λ¦¬λŠ” λˆ„κ΅°κ°€λ₯Ό λ•Œλ¦¬λŠ” 것에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜κ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:30
To hit on someone, this is a really great phrasal verb, very common.
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To hit on someone, 이것은 맀우 일반적인 맀우 ν›Œλ₯­ν•œ κ΅¬λ™μ‚¬μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:35
And this is used for talking about beginning a conversation with someone, usually because
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그리고 이것은 일반적으둜
06:39
you like the person.
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당신이 κ·Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ„ μ’‹μ•„ν•˜κΈ° λ•Œλ¬Έμ— λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ™€ λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό μ‹œμž‘ν•˜λŠ” 것에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜λŠ” 데 μ‚¬μš©λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:40
You, even if you don't know anything about them, you find them physically attractive
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당신은 그듀에 λŒ€ν•΄ 아무것도 λͺ¨λ₯΄λ”라도 μ–΄λ–€ λ©΄μ—μ„œ 그듀이 윑체적으둜 맀λ ₯μ μ΄λΌλŠ” 것을 μ•Œκ²Œ λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€
06:44
in some way.
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06:45
So, you're going to approach that person.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ κ·Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ—κ²Œ μ ‘κ·Όν•˜κ²Œ λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:48
So, you're talking about going on an approach, or approaching someone, uh, to hit on that
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, 당신은 μ ‘κ·Όν•˜κ±°λ‚˜ λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ—κ²Œ μ ‘κ·Όν•˜λŠ” 것에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜κ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
06:54
person.
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06:55
Now, you can hit on someone.
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이제 λˆ„κ΅°κ°€λ₯Ό λ•Œλ¦΄ 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:56
You can also, you also hear, uh, chat someone up.
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당신은 λ˜ν•œ λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ—κ²Œ μˆ˜λ‹€λ₯Ό λ– λŠ” 것을 듀을 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
06:59
This is a little bit more of a British English expression.
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이것은 μ˜κ΅­μ‹ μ˜μ–΄ ν‘œν˜„μ— 쑰금 더 κ°€κΉμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
07:01
Uh, but you will hear that, like, I was chatting up some girl at a bar.
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μ–΄, ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 당신은 λ‚΄κ°€ μˆ μ§‘μ—μ„œ μ–΄λ–€ μ—¬μžμ™€ μˆ˜λ‹€λ₯Ό λ–¨κ³  μžˆμ—ˆλ‹€λŠ” 말을 λ“£κ²Œ 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:05
But typically, like, hitting on, uh, is a more common American English, the United States
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 일반적으둜 'hit on'은 더 일반적인 λ―Έκ΅­ μ˜μ–΄, 미ꡭ식
07:10
expression, uh, that you will hear.
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ν‘œν˜„μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ΄ λ“£κ²Œ 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:12
Also, I hear from some people sometimes about my use of the word America.
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λ˜ν•œ 가끔 λ―Έκ΅­μ΄λΌλŠ” 단어λ₯Ό μ‚¬μš©ν•˜λŠ” 것에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ–΄λ–€ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€λ‘œλΆ€ν„° λ“£μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
07:16
Now, when I say America, I know there are many countries.
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이제 λ―Έκ΅­μ΄λΌκ³ ν•˜λ©΄ λ§Žμ€ λ‚˜λΌκ°€ μžˆλ‹€λŠ” 것을 μ••λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:19
You know, we have North America and South America.
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뢁미와 남미가 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
07:21
But American, like, people who live in the United States, will often just shorten the
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 미ꡭ에 μ‚¬λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ²˜λŸΌ 미ꡭ인듀은
07:25
name, uh, United States of America to America because it's the only country with the name
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λ―Έκ΅­μ΄λΌλŠ” 이름이 μ‹€μ œλ‘œ μžˆλŠ” μœ μΌν•œ λ‚˜λΌμ΄κΈ° λ•Œλ¬Έμ—
07:30
of America actually in it.
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λ―Έκ΅­μ΄λΌλŠ” 이름을 아메리카 ν•©μ€‘κ΅­μœΌλ‘œ 쀄여 λΆ€λ₯΄λŠ” κ²½μš°κ°€ λ§ŽμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:32
So, many countries are in North America and South America, but the United States just
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ λ§Žμ€ λ‚˜λΌλ“€μ΄ 뢁미와 남미에 μžˆλŠ”λ° 미ꡭ은
07:37
uses this.
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이걸 κ·Έλƒ₯ μ‚¬μš©ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:38
And that's just why people typically call it, uh, America.
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이것이 λ°”λ‘œ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ 일반적으둜 미ꡭ을 미ꡭ이라고 λΆ€λ₯΄λŠ” μ΄μœ μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:40
So, it's not meant to be offensive to anybody from a particular country.
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λ”°λΌμ„œ νŠΉμ • κ΅­κ°€μ˜ μ‚¬λžŒμ—κ²Œ λΆˆμΎŒκ°μ„ μ£ΌλŠ” 것은 μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
07:44
It's just really what we say, and this is why it comes out of my mouth naturally.
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κ·Έλƒ₯ 정말 μš°λ¦¬κ°€ ν•˜λŠ” 말이고, 이것이 λ‚΄ μž…μ—μ„œ μžμ—°μŠ€λŸ½κ²Œ λ‚˜μ˜€λŠ” μ΄μœ μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:48
When you're learning a language in this way, uh, again, it's best to think about it like
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이런 μ‹μœΌλ‘œ μ–Έμ–΄λ₯Ό 배울 λ•ŒλŠ” μ–΄, λ‹€μ‹œ λ§ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ κ³Όν•™μžμ²˜λŸΌ μƒκ°ν•˜λŠ” 것이 κ°€μž₯ μ’‹μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
07:52
a scientist.
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07:53
To not be worried about, you know, having to express it in a certain way.
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μ–΄λ–€ λ°©μ‹μœΌλ‘œ ν‘œν˜„ν•΄μ•Ό ν•˜λŠ”μ§€ κ±±μ •ν•˜μ§€ λ§ˆμ„Έμš”.
07:57
Or that, like, okay, my, like, you know, Mexico is also in Central America.
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μ•„λ‹ˆλ©΄ λ©•μ‹œμ½” 도 쀑앙 아메리카에 μžˆλ‹€λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:01
So, we're Americans too.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μš°λ¦¬λ„ λ―Έκ΅­μΈμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:03
Like, yes, I understand.
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예, μ΄ν•΄ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:04
Lots of people are in the, you know, the continents of united, or continents of North America
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λ§Žμ€ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ 뢁미
08:09
and South America.
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와 남미 λŒ€λ₯™μ— μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:10
Uh, many countries are within these two continents as well, but casually and conversationally,
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μ–΄, λ§Žμ€ λ‚˜λΌλ“€μ΄ 이 두 λŒ€λ₯™ μ•ˆμ— 도 μžˆμ§€λ§Œ, μΌμƒμ μœΌλ‘œ 그리고 λŒ€ν™”μ μœΌλ‘œ,
08:15
uh, people in the United States just refer to themselves as Americans because United
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μ–΄, λ―Έκ΅­ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ 슀슀둜λ₯Ό 미ꡭ인이라고 λΆ€λ¦…λ‹ˆλ‹€
08:19
States of America is what we have in the name.
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08:22
Now, getting back to what I was talking about, uh, so you get on to the approach.
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이제, μ œκ°€ μ–˜κΈ°ν–ˆλ˜ κ²ƒμœΌλ‘œ λŒμ•„κ°€μ„œ, μ–΄, μ ‘κ·Ό 방식을 μ‹œμž‘ν•˜μ„Έμš”.
08:27
So, you're approaching someone, and this is where flirting begins.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, 당신은 λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ—κ²Œ μ ‘κ·Όν•˜κ³  있고, μ—¬κΈ°μ„œ 유혹이 μ‹œμž‘λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:31
And again, we have a β€˜t’ in there, flirting, but it becomes more of a β€˜d’ sound.
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그리고 λ‹€μ‹œ, μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 거기에 't'κ°€ 있고, 유혹 ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ, 그것은 'd' μ†Œλ¦¬μ— 더 κ°€κΉμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:36
Flirting with someone.
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ™€ 유혹.
08:37
So, to flirt with someone means I say something.
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λ”°λΌμ„œ λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ™€ λ°”λžŒμ„ ν”Όμš΄λ‹€λŠ” 것은 λ‚΄κ°€ 무언가λ₯Ό λ§ν•˜λŠ” 것을 μ˜λ―Έν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:39
I’m maybe teasing someone a little bit, or I say, β€œOh, you…
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€λ₯Ό μ•½κ°„ λ†€λ¦¬κ±°λ‚˜ "였, λ„ˆβ€¦
08:43
That's a really nice jacket,” or something.
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정말 멋진 μž¬ν‚·μ΄μ•Ό"라고 말할 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:44
You know, I'm just using a way to, uh, what we call in English to break the ice.
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μ•Œλ‹€μ‹œν”Ό, μ €λŠ” 단지 어색함을 κΉ¨κΈ° μœ„ν•΄ μ˜μ–΄λ‘œ λΆ€λ₯΄λŠ” 방법을 μ‚¬μš©ν•˜κ³  μžˆμ„ λΏμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:49
So, to maybe, you know, the first time you're making a, a connection with someone, you have,
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ•„λ§ˆ 처음으둜 λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ™€ 관계λ₯Ό 맺을 λ•Œ
08:54
uh, you have to break that barrier there.
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거기에 μžˆλŠ” μž₯벽을 ν—ˆλ¬Όμ–΄μ•Ό ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:56
There's maybe trust that you have to think about, uh, and you have to warm up that relationship.
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당신이 생각해야 ν•  μ‹ λ’°κ°€ μžˆμ„ 수 있고 , μ–΄, 당신은 κ·Έ 관계λ₯Ό λ”°λœ»ν•˜κ²Œ ν•΄μ•Ό ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:01
So, these are all, you know, physical ideas we talk about.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 이것듀은 λͺ¨λ‘ μš°λ¦¬κ°€ λ§ν•˜λŠ” 물리적 μ•„μ΄λ””μ–΄μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:04
Uh, but there's a barrier there because people are naturally a little bit wary about meeting
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μ–΄, ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ μžμ—°μŠ€λŸ½κ²Œ μƒˆλ‘œμš΄ μ‚¬λžŒμ„ λ§Œλ‚˜λŠ” 것에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ•½κ°„ κ²½κ³„ν•˜κΈ° λ•Œλ¬Έμ— μž₯벽이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
09:10
new people.
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09:11
So, you have to, you know, approach someone and be confident.
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κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‹ˆ λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ—κ²Œ λ‹€κ°€κ°€μ„œ μžμ‹ κ°μ„ 가지고 λ‹€κ°€κ°€μ•Ό ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:13
And there are actually a lot of things that are quite difficult to do, especially for
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그리고 특히 μ Šμ€μ΄λ“€μ—κ²ŒλŠ” μ‹€μ œλ‘œ ν•˜κΈ° μ–΄λ €μš΄ 일듀이 많이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
09:16
young men.
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09:17
I remember they were difficult for me.
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λ‚˜λŠ” 그듀이 λ‚˜μ—κ²Œ μ–΄λ €μ› λ˜ 것을 κΈ°μ–΅ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:19
Um, I don't really do them anymore now because I'm married.
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음, 이제 κ²°ν˜Όμ„ ν–ˆκΈ° λ•Œλ¬Έμ— 더 이상 그런 일을 ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
09:21
But, uh, it was fun to talk about these different things.
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ, μ–΄, 이런 λ‹€μ–‘ν•œ 것듀에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜λŠ” 것은 μž¬λ―Έμžˆμ—ˆμ–΄μš” .
09:24
So, when you're flirting with someone, uh, we also talk about, you know, which, which
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, 당신이 λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ™€ λ°”λžŒμ„ ν”ΌμšΈ λ•Œ, μš°λ¦¬λŠ” λ˜ν•œ μ–΄λ–€
09:28
person does the approach.
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μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ μ ‘κ·Όν•˜λŠ”μ§€μ— λŒ€ν•΄μ„œλ„ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:30
So, like, if a woman looks at a man in a bar, and then it's his job then to walk over.
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예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄, λ§Œμ•½ μ—¬μžκ°€ μˆ μ§‘μ—μ„œ λ‚¨μžλ₯Ό 쳐닀본닀면, κ·Έ λ‚¨μžμ—κ²Œ λ‹€κ°€κ°€λŠ” 것이 그의 μΌμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:35
Or, does the woman walk over and initiate the conversation, and we talk about this as
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μ•„λ‹ˆλ©΄ μ—¬μžκ°€ 걸어와 λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό μ‹œμž‘ν•˜κ³  μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 이것을
09:39
making the first move.
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첫 번째 μ›€μ§μž„μœΌλ‘œ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:41
So, who makes the first move in a situation like that?
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κ·Έλ ‡λ‹€λ©΄ 이런 μƒν™©μ—μ„œ λˆ„κ°€ λ¨Όμ € μ›€μ§μ΄κ² λŠ”κ°€ ?
09:44
Does a man approach and then make that, you know, make the first move to, to try to talk
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λ‚¨μžκ°€ λ‹€κ°€κ°€μ„œ
09:49
to, talk to the woman?
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μ—¬μžμ—κ²Œ λ¨Όμ € λ‹€κ°€κ°€μ„œ 말을 ν•˜λ €κ³  ν•©λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
09:50
To approach, to flirt with her, to initiate that, or does the woman?
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μ ‘κ·Όν•˜κ³ , 그녀와 λ°”λžŒμ„ ν”Όμš°κ³ , 그것을 μ‹œμž‘ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜ μ—¬μžκ°€ν•©λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
09:55
Next, in the conversation, you'll also hear us talking about gender roles, traditional
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λ‹€μŒμœΌλ‘œ, λŒ€ν™”μ—μ„œ μ„± μ—­ν• , 전톡적인
10:00
gender roles.
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μ„± 역할에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜λŠ” 것을 λ“£κ²Œ 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:01
Uh, and so, this is things where we're talking about what's traditionally masculine or what's
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μ–΄, κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 이것은 μš°λ¦¬κ°€ μ „ν†΅μ μœΌλ‘œ λ‚¨μ„±μ μ΄κ±°λ‚˜
10:06
traditionally feminine.
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μ „ν†΅μ μœΌλ‘œ 여성적인 것에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:07
And I mentioned in the, uh, in the Phrase Builder lesson, talking about, uh, like, the
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그리고 μ €λŠ” Phrase Builder μˆ˜μ—…μ—μ„œ μ–΄, λ‹€λ₯Έ μ’…λ₯˜μ— λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν–ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
10:13
kind of different…
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10:14
What's the way to best describe it?
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그것을 κ°€μž₯ 잘 μ„€λͺ…ν•˜λŠ” 방법은 λ¬΄μ—‡μž…λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
10:15
So, in the, in the Phrase Builder lesson, I was talking about like liberal and conservative.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ Phrase Builder μˆ˜μ—…μ—μ„œ μ €λŠ” 진보와 λ³΄μˆ˜μ— λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν–ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:19
And these are, uh, kind of the same ideas about like masculine and feminine where there
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그리고 이것듀은 μ–΄, 전톡적인 사고 방식이 μžˆλŠ” κ³³μ—μ„œ 남성적, 여성적 같은 κ°œλ…μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
10:24
are traditional ways of thinking about it.
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10:26
And it's really just traditional because it's the way it's been done for a long time.
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그리고 그것은 μ˜€λž«λ™μ•ˆ ν–‰ν•΄μ Έ 온 방식이기 λ•Œλ¬Έμ— 정말 전톡적인 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:30
So, it doesn't necessarily mean it's better, or one is good, or one is worse than the other.
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λ”°λΌμ„œ 이것이 λ°˜λ“œμ‹œ 더 λ‚«λ‹€λŠ” μ˜λ―ΈλŠ” μ•„λ‹ˆλ©°, ν•˜λ‚˜κ°€ μ’‹λ‹€, λ˜λŠ” ν•˜λ‚˜κ°€ λ‹€λ₯Έ 것보닀 λ‚˜μ˜λ‹€λŠ” μ˜λ―ΈλŠ” μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:35
But again, it's how people think about those.
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κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‚˜ λ‹€μ‹œ λ§ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ 그것듀에 λŒ€ν•΄ μƒκ°ν•˜λŠ” λ°©μ‹μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:37
And then, uh, we all kind of have these rules for our lives that we live by.
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그리고 λ‚˜μ„œ, μ–΄, 우리 λͺ¨λ‘λŠ” μš°λ¦¬κ°€ μ‚΄μ•„κ°€λŠ” 삢에 λŒ€ν•œ μ΄λŸ¬ν•œ κ·œμΉ™μ„ 가지고 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:41
And so, if it's a traditional one, maybe you, you are more traditional and more conservative.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ λ§Œμ•½ 그것이 전톡적인 것이라면, μ•„λ§ˆλ„ μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ€ 더 전톡적이고 더 보수적일 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:45
Uh, and then if you're more, uh, feminine, or not feminine, but if you're more liberal,
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μ–΄, 그리고 당신이 μ’€ 더, μ–΄, 여성적 μ΄κ±°λ‚˜ 그렇지 μ•Šλ‹€λ©΄, ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 당신이 μ’€ 더 진보적이라면,
10:50
uh, maybe you have kind of new or more modern ideas about how men and women should treat
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μ–΄, λ‚¨μžμ™€ μ—¬μžκ°€ β€‹β€‹μ„œλ‘œλ₯Ό λŒ€ν•˜λŠ” 방식에 λŒ€ν•΄ μΌμ’…μ˜ μƒˆλ‘­κ±°λ‚˜ 더 ν˜„λŒ€μ μΈ 생각을 가지고 μžˆμ„μ§€λ„ λͺ¨λ¦…λ‹ˆλ‹€
10:55
each other.
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10:56
So, I was talking to the, the young women in the conversation just because it was an
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ €λŠ”
11:01
interesting thing to hear their perspective.
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κ·Έλ“€μ˜ 관점을 λ“£λŠ” 것이 ν₯λ―Έλ‘œμ›Œμ„œ λŒ€ν™”μ— μ°Έμ—¬ν–ˆλ˜ μ²­λ…€λ“€κ³Ό 이야기λ₯Ό λ‚˜λˆ„μ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:04
Now, I, I didn't have a young man from America or some other place with me to, to, to kind
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μ €λŠ” λ―Έκ΅­ μ΄λ‚˜ λ‹€λ₯Έ κ³³μ—μ„œ
11:09
of talk with them also, um, because I don't really know much about how the culture is
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κ·Έλ“€κ³Ό 이야기λ₯Ό λ‚˜λˆŒ μ Šμ€μ΄κ°€ μ—†μ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:14
changing for young people who are dating in the United States now.
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ν˜„μž¬ λ―Έκ΅­μ—μ„œ 데이트 쀑인 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€.
11:18
Or even, uh, other countries like the united, like the United Kingdom or Australia or Canada.
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λ˜λŠ” 영ꡭ, 호주, μΊλ‚˜λ‹€μ™€ 같은 λ―Έκ΅­κ³Ό 같은 λ‹€λ₯Έ ꡭ가도 λ§ˆμ°¬κ°€μ§€μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:23
Uh, but I get the impression just from news and, uh, like, a lot of…
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μ–΄, ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ μ €λŠ” λ‰΄μŠ€μ—μ„œ 인상을 λ°›μ•˜κ³  , μ–΄, λ§Žμ€...
11:30
With a lot of people talking more about the equality of men and women and, and talking
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λ§Žμ€ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ 남성과 μ—¬μ„±μ˜ 평등에 λŒ€ν•΄ 더 많이 μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜κ³ ,
11:33
about women's rights and making sure men and women are equal.
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μ—¬μ„±μ˜ κΆŒλ¦¬μ— λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜κ³  남성과 여성이 ν‰λ“±ν•˜λ‹€λŠ” 것을 ν™•μΈν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:36
Uh, it's making it a bit more different, or difficult, for people to express kind of different
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μ–΄, μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ λ‹€μ–‘ν•œ
11:41
gender roles.
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성별 역할을 ν‘œν˜„ν•˜λŠ” 것이 μ’€ 더 λ‹€λ₯΄κ±°λ‚˜ μ–΄λ ΅κ²Œ λ§Œλ“€κ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:42
Uh, if you have those kinds of values.
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μ–΄, 그런 μ’…λ₯˜μ˜ κ°€μΉ˜κ°€ μžˆλ‹€λ©΄.
11:45
So, again, it's not about if it's correct or not to, like, to look at, like, should
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λ‹€μ‹œ λ§ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ,
11:49
a woman traditionally do this or should a man traditionally do that.
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여성이 μ „ν†΅μ μœΌλ‘œ 이것을 ν•΄μ•Ό ν•˜λŠ”μ§€ λ˜λŠ” 남성이 μ „ν†΅μ μœΌλ‘œ 저것을 ν•΄μ•Ό ν•˜λŠ”μ§€λ₯Ό λ³΄λŠ” 것이 μ˜³μ€μ§€ μ•„λ‹Œμ§€μ— κ΄€ν•œ 것이 μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:53
But in, like, the social climate now it's changing, uh, to try to bring more equality
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ μ‚¬νšŒμ  λΆ„μœ„κΈ°λŠ” 이제 λ³€ν™”ν•˜κ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ–΄, 상황에 더 λ§Žμ€ 평등을 κ°€μ Έμ˜€λ €κ³  λ…Έλ ₯ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
11:58
into the, the situation.
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12:00
But it's also bringing a bit more confusion, uh, from what I hear.
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ μ œκ°€ 듀은 λ°”λ‘œλŠ” μ’€ 더 ν˜Όλž€μŠ€λŸ½κΈ°λ„ ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
12:04
Next, we've got nightlife.
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λ‹€μŒμœΌλ‘œ λ°€λ¬Έν™”κ°€ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
12:06
Now, nightlife can be talking, I think in the conversation, uh, it was used more talking
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이제 λ°€λ¬Έν™”λŠ” 이야기할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 제 μƒκ°μ—λŠ” λŒ€ν™”μ—μ„œ κ΄€κ³„λ‚˜ 밀에 μΌμ–΄λ‚˜λŠ” ν™œλ™κ³Ό 같은 λ‚­λ§Œμ μΈ 것듀에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜λŠ” 데 더 많이 μ‚¬μš©λ˜μ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
12:11
about like romantic kind of things like relationships and the kinds of activities that happen at
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12:17
night.
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12:18
You see I’m, I'm speaking in euphemisms right here, so I'm not saying sex or something
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μ•„μ‹œλ‹€μ‹œν”Ό μ €λŠ” μ—¬κΈ°μ„œ 완곑 μ–΄λ²•μœΌλ‘œ λ§ν•˜κ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ„ΉμŠ€λ‚˜ 그와 λΉ„μŠ·ν•œ 것을 λ§ν•˜λŠ” 것이 μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€
12:21
like that.
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12:22
Uh, but you can also talk about nightlife as the general, like, going out in the evening
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μ–΄, ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 일반적으둜 밀문화에 λŒ€ν•΄μ„œλ„ 이야기할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄ 저녁에 μ™ΈμΆœ
12:26
and parties and things like that, that younger people do when they're going out and being
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ν•˜κ³  νŒŒν‹° 같은 것, μ Šμ€ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ μ™ΈμΆœν•  λ•Œ ν•˜κ³ 
12:31
social and, you know, connecting with one another.
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사ꡐ적이며 μ„œλ‘œ μ—°κ²°ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
12:33
So, you can talk about what's the nightlife like in a city.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ λ„μ‹œμ˜ 밀문화에 λŒ€ν•΄ 이야기할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
12:37
Uh, and it's really just talking about more like, not sex specifically, it's just more
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μ–΄, 그리고 그것은 ꡬ체적으둜 μ„ΉμŠ€κ°€ μ•„λ‹ˆλΌ 단지 더 λ§Žμ€ 것에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그것은 단지 더 λ§Žμ€ 것에 λŒ€ν•΄
12:41
talking about, can you go to the theater, or are there good restaurants open, that kind
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μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. κ·Ήμž₯에 갈 수 μžˆλŠ”μ§€ λ˜λŠ” 쒋은 식당이 μ—΄λ € μžˆλŠ”μ§€, 그런 μ’…λ₯˜
12:45
of thing.
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의 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
12:46
The nightlife.
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유ν₯.
12:47
Next, a really great expression, this is another phrasal verb, two of them actually.
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λ‹€μŒμœΌλ‘œ, 정말 ν›Œλ₯­ν•œ ν‘œν˜„μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 이것은 또 λ‹€λ₯Έ κ΅¬λ™μ‚¬μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 사싀 κ·Έ 쀑 두 κ°œμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
12:51
This is to turn on and turn off.
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켜고 λ„λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
12:54
Now, casually and conversationally, and you'll hear, you'll even hear me give a lesson about
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이제 μΊμ£Όμ–Όν•˜κ³  λŒ€ν™”μ‹μœΌλ‘œ, 그리고 μ œκ°€ μ²­λ…€λ“€μ—κ²Œ λŒ€ν™”μ—μ„œ ꡬ동사에 λŒ€ν•΄ κ°•μ˜ν•˜λŠ” 것을 λ“£κ²Œ 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
12:59
phrasal verbs in the conversation, uh, to the young women.
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13:02
But I was talking about the, the idea of where phrasal verbs come from.
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ μ €λŠ” ꡬ동사가 μ–΄λ””μ—μ„œ μ˜€λŠ”μ§€μ— λŒ€ν•œ 아이디어에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜κ³  μžˆμ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
13:07
And it's really interesting that we have, uh, you know, and, like, an old television
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그리고 μš°λ¦¬κ°€ μΌœκ±°λ‚˜ 끌 수 μžˆλŠ” 였래된 ν…”λ ˆλΉ„μ „μ„ 가지고 μžˆλ‹€λŠ” 것이 정말 ν₯λ―Έλ‘­μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
13:10
set where you turn it on or turn it off.
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13:12
And this is where we get that idea of turning something in order to activate a switch, to
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μ—¬κΈ°μ„œ μš°λ¦¬λŠ” μŠ€μœ„μΉ˜λ₯Ό ν™œμ„±ν™”ν•˜κΈ° μœ„ν•΄ 무언가λ₯Ό λŒλ¦¬λŠ” 아이디어λ₯Ό μ–»μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:17
add power to something.
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무언가에 νž˜μ„ λ”ν•˜κΈ° μœ„ν•΄μ„œμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:19
Even though now we push a button or slide a dial or something like that.
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μ§€κΈˆ μš°λ¦¬λŠ” λ²„νŠΌμ„ λˆ„λ₯΄κ±°λ‚˜ 닀이얼을 λ°€κ±°λ‚˜ 그런 μ‹μœΌλ‘œ μ›€μ§μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:23
Uh, but sexually when we're talking about being physically excited and we're in the
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μ–΄, ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ μ„±μ μœΌλ‘œ μš°λ¦¬κ°€ μ‹ μ²΄μ μœΌλ‘œ ν₯λΆ„ν•˜κ³ 
13:28
mood, again, this is a, a euphemism here.
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기뢄이 μ’‹λ‹€λŠ” 말을 ν•  λ•Œ λ‹€μ‹œ λ§ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 이것은 완곑 μ–΄λ²•μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:30
I'm in the mood for, you know, sex or something like that.
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μ„ΉμŠ€λ‚˜ 그런 κ±Έ ν•˜κ³  싢은 κΈ°λΆ„μ΄μ—μš”.
13:34
But you can say, β€œHoney, I'm in the mood tonight.”
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ "여보, 였늘 λ°€ 기뢄이 μ’‹μ•„μš”."라고 말할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:36
And then my wife says, β€œI'm not in the mood.”
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그러자 μ•„λ‚΄κ°€ β€œμ •μ‹ μ΄ μ—†μ–΄μš”.”라고 λ§ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:38
And I say, β€œOh no!”
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그리고 μ €λŠ” "였 μ•ˆλΌ!"라고 λ§ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:39
You know, like, that kind of thing.
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그런 μ’…λ₯˜μ˜ 것을 μ•Œκ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:41
We're talking a, we're talking in euphemisms.
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μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 완곑 μ–΄λ²•μœΌλ‘œ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜κ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:43
Uh, we know what we're talking about.
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μ–΄, μš°λ¦¬λŠ” μš°λ¦¬κ°€ 무슨 말을 ν•˜λŠ”μ§€ μ••λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:45
But again, this is more about expressing that in a way that's, you know, a bit more casual
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κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‚˜ λ‹€μ‹œ λ§ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 이것은 μ’€ 더 캐주얼
13:49
and conversational.
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ν•˜κ³  λŒ€ν™”μ μΈ λ°©μ‹μœΌλ‘œ ν‘œν˜„ν•˜λŠ” 것에 κ΄€ν•œ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:50
Uh, so, if you feel maybe you can use those expressions, if you, if you walk up to a woman
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μ–΄, κ·Έλž˜μ„œ λ§Œμ•½ 당신이 μˆ μ§‘μ—μ„œ μ—¬μžμ—κ²Œ λ‹€κ°€κ°€
13:55
at a bar and you say, β€œHey, like, we should have sex.”
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"이봐, 우리 μ„ΉμŠ€ν•΄μ•Όκ² μ–΄."
13:58
Now, may, she might think that's funny, but she probably won't.
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자, 메이, κ·Έλ…€λŠ” 그것이 μž¬λ―Έμžˆλ‹€κ³  생각할지 λͺ¨λ₯΄μ§€λ§Œ μ•„λ§ˆ 그렇지 μ•Šμ„ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
14:01
You know, it's just getting to know that kind of person.
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그런 μ‚¬λžŒμ„ μ•Œμ•„κ°€λŠ” κ²ƒλΏμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
14:03
Uh, but again, that's why we speak in euphemisms.
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μ–΄, ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ λ‹€μ‹œ, 그것이 μš°λ¦¬κ°€ μ™„κ³‘μ–΄λ²•μœΌλ‘œ λ§ν•˜λŠ” μ΄μœ μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
14:06
But this idea of being turned on or turned off, um, or you can talk about the phrasal
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 켜져 μžˆκ±°λ‚˜ κΊΌμ Έ μžˆλ‹€λŠ” 생각 , 음, λ˜λŠ” ꡬ동 λͺ…사에 λŒ€ν•΄ 이야기할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
14:11
nouns.
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14:12
So, not the phrasal verb, but the phrasal noun of saying that something is a turn on
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λ”°λΌμ„œ ꡬ동사가 μ•„λ‹ˆλΌ 무엇인가λ₯Ό μΌœλ‹€
14:17
or a turn off.
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λ˜λŠ” 끄닀라고 λ§ν•˜λŠ” ꡬ동 λͺ…μ‚¬μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
14:18
So, uh, like, if my, my wife, like, wears, you know, some very sexy outfit or something
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, μ–΄, 제 μ•„λ‚΄κ°€ μ•„μ£Ό μ„Ήμ‹œν•œ μ˜·μ΄λ‚˜
14:24
like that.
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그런 κ±Έ μž…λŠ”λ‹€λ©΄μš”.
14:25
Like, yeah, that's a turn on for me.
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예, 그것은 μ €λ₯Ό μΌœλŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
14:27
Uh, or if she's just wearing some old clothes and, you know, just, like, sick or something
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μ–΄, μ•„λ‹ˆλ©΄ κ·Έλ…€κ°€ κ·Έλƒ₯ 낑은 μ˜·μ„ μž…κ³  있고 , μ•„μ‹œλ‹€μ‹œν”Ό, κ·Έλƒ₯, μ•„ν”„κ±°λ‚˜
14:32
or whatever.
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뭐 그런 κ±°λΌλ©΄μš”.
14:33
I mean, it's a bad example.
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λ‚΄ 말은, 그것은 λ‚˜μœ μ˜ˆμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
14:34
But that's a turn off kind of thing.
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κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‚˜ 그것은 κΊΌμ§€λŠ” μ’…λ₯˜μ˜ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
14:36
So, it's how you feel, uh, about a person doing something.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, μ–΄, μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ 무언가λ₯Ό ν•˜λŠ” 것에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ λŠλΌλŠ”μ§€μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
14:40
If they're exciting you in a sexual way, uh, this is known as a turn on, uh, or they are
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그듀이 당신을 성적인 λ°©μ‹μœΌλ‘œ ν₯λΆ„μ‹œν‚¨λ‹€λ©΄, μ–΄, 이것은 ν₯뢄이라고 ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€, μ–΄, λ˜λŠ” 그듀이
14:45
turning you on.
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당신을 ν₯λΆ„μ‹œν‚€λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
14:46
Like an oven, you know, like something like that.
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μ˜€λΈμ²˜λŸΌμš”, 그런 κ±°μš”.
14:49
Uh, or the opposite would be a turnoff.
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μ–΄, λ˜λŠ” κ·Έ λ°˜λŒ€λŠ” ν„΄μ˜€ν”„κ°€ 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
14:51
Next, very quickly, a prude.
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λ‹€μŒμœΌλ‘œ, μ•„μ£Ό 빨리, ν”„λ£¨λ“œ.
14:54
A prude.
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μžμ‘΄μ‹¬.
14:55
Now, prude is just a term used for, like, typically a conservative woman, uh, especially
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자, ν”„λ£¨λ“œλŠ” 일반적으둜 보수적인 여성을 κ°€λ¦¬ν‚€λŠ” 데 μ‚¬μš©λ˜λŠ” μš©μ–΄μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ–΄, 특히
15:01
in the modern-day climate of dating where, uh, people are often having, like, a one-night
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μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ μ’…μ’… μ›λ‚˜μž‡
15:07
stand.
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μŠ€νƒ λ“œλ₯Ό ν•˜λŠ” ν˜„λŒ€ 데이트 ν™˜κ²½μ—μ„œ 말이죠.
15:08
Or, they're connecting, a one-night stand just means having sex, like, typically on
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λ˜λŠ”, 그듀은 μ—°κ²°λ˜μ–΄ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ›λ‚˜μž‡ μŠ€νƒ λ“œλŠ” 일반적으둜 첫 λ§Œλ‚¨, μ²«λ‚ λ°€μ²˜λŸΌ μ„ΉμŠ€λ₯Ό ν•˜λŠ” 것을 μ˜λ―Έν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€
15:11
the first meeting, the first night.
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15:13
Uh, and maybe you never have any kind of relationship or anything like that ever again with the
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μ–΄, 그리고 μ•„λ§ˆλ„ 당신은 같은 μ‚¬λžŒκ³Ό λ‹€μ‹œλŠ” μ–΄λ–€ μ’…λ₯˜μ˜ 관계도 가지지 μ•Šμ„ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
15:17
same person.
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15:18
Uh, so that's a one-night stand.
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μ•„, μ›λ‚˜μž‡ μŠ€νƒ λ“œκ΅°μš”.
15:20
Uh, but when you, you look at that, like, if you are the kind of person who does that,
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μ–΄, ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 당신이 그것을 λ³Ό λ•Œ, 당신이 그런 일을 ν•˜λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒμ΄λΌλ©΄
15:26
that sort of thing, uh, and you maybe are talking with someone who does not.
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, μ–΄, 당신은 μ•„λ§ˆ 그렇지 μ•Šμ€ μ‚¬λžŒκ³Ό μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜κ³  μžˆμ„ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
15:31
Maybe you will look at that person and say, β€œWell that person's kind of a prude.”
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μ–΄μ©Œλ©΄ 당신은 κ·Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ„ 보고 β€œμ € μ‚¬λžŒμ€ μ’€ κ±°λ§Œν•œ μ‚¬λžŒμ΄κ΅°.”이라고 말할 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
15:34
Uh, you know, like, they should be able to have fun and enjoy themselves.
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μ–΄, μ•Œλ‹€μ‹œν”Ό, 그듀은 재미있고 즐길 수 μžˆμ–΄μ•Ό ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
15:38
Maybe they should, you know, have sex with people more freely or whatever.
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μ•„λ§ˆλ„ 그듀은 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€κ³Ό 더 자유둭게 μ„ΉμŠ€λ₯Ό ν•΄μ•Ό ν•  κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
15:41
Again, it doesn't matter if you agree or disagree with that for the purposes of this lesson.
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λ‹€μ‹œ λ§ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ, 이 μˆ˜μ—…μ˜ λͺ©μ μ„ μœ„ν•΄ 당신이 그것에 λ™μ˜ν•˜λŠ”μ§€ λ™μ˜ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠλŠ”μ§€λŠ” μ€‘μš”ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
15:46
It's just more so you understand the vocabulary.
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그것은 당신이 μ–΄νœ˜λ₯Ό μ΄ν•΄ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
15:49
Next, to have game.
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λ‹€μŒμœΌλ‘œ κ²Œμž„μ„ ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
15:51
To have game.
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κ²Œμž„μ„ ν•˜κΈ° μœ„ν•΄.
15:52
Now, you’ll hear, again, it's a euphemism.
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이제 μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ€ λ‹€μ‹œ λ“£κ²Œ 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그것은 완곑 μ–΄λ²•μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
15:55
We're talking about game as in the game of, of men and women, or relationships in general,
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μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 남성과 μ—¬μ„±μ˜ κ²Œμž„, λ˜λŠ” 일반적인 관계,
16:01
whatever that relationship is.
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κ·Έ 관계가 무엇이든 간에 κ²Œμž„μ— λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜κ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
16:02
Uh, but we think about it like a game.
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μ–΄, ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 그것을 κ²Œμž„μ²˜λŸΌ μƒκ°ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
16:04
There are different rules to it.
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κ·Έκ²ƒμ—λŠ” λ‹€λ₯Έ κ·œμΉ™μ΄ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
16:06
What socially should you, should, you should do?
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μ‚¬νšŒμ μœΌλ‘œ 무엇을 ν•΄μ•Ό ν•©λ‹ˆκΉŒ, ν•΄μ•Ό ν•©λ‹ˆκΉŒ, ν•΄μ•Ό ν•©λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
16:08
Is this allowed or is that not allowed?
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이것이 ν—ˆμš©λ©λ‹ˆκΉŒ μ•„λ‹ˆλ©΄ ν—ˆμš©λ˜μ§€ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
16:10
Um, but these are the, kind of the games that people play.
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음, ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 이것듀은 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ ν•˜λŠ” μΌμ’…μ˜ κ²Œμž„μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
16:14
And men and women, uh, you know, we will talk about, like, don't play games with me or I
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그리고 λ‚¨μžμ™€ μ—¬μž, μ–΄, μš°λ¦¬λŠ” λ‚˜λž‘ κ²Œμž„ν•˜μ§€ λ§κ±°λ‚˜
16:19
don't want someone who plays games.
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κ²Œμž„ν•˜λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒμ„ μ›ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠλŠ” 것에 λŒ€ν•΄ 이야기할 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
16:21
So, these, this kind of expression of a game we're talking about, uh, just the rules and
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, 이것듀, μš°λ¦¬κ°€ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜κ³  μžˆλŠ” κ²Œμž„μ˜ 이런 μ’…λ₯˜μ˜ ν‘œν˜„μ€ , μ–΄,
16:27
the different rituals that we have when we go out on dates.
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μš°λ¦¬κ°€ 데이트λ₯Ό ν•  λ•Œ κ°–λŠ” κ·œμΉ™κ³Ό λ‹€λ₯Έ μ˜μ‹λ“€μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
16:29
So, uh, it, like, people will argue.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, μ–΄, μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ λ…ΌμŸμ„ 벌일 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
16:33
Can you, like, sleep with someone on the second date?
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두 번째 λ°μ΄νŠΈμ—μ„œ λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ™€ μž μ„ 잘 수 μžˆλ‚˜μš” ?
16:36
Should you kiss someone on the first date or not?
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첫 λ°μ΄νŠΈμ—μ„œ λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ—κ²Œ ν‚€μŠ€λ₯Ό ν•΄μ•Ό ν• κΉŒμš”, 말아야 ν• κΉŒμš”?
16:38
Is that too fast or too slow or whatever?
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λ„ˆλ¬΄ λΉ λ₯΄κ±°λ‚˜ λ„ˆλ¬΄ λŠλ¦¬κ±°λ‚˜ κ·ΈλŸ°κ°€μš”?
16:41
So, people talk about these different rules, and what's okay to do.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ μ΄λŸ¬ν•œ λ‹€μ–‘ν•œ κ·œμΉ™μ— λŒ€ν•΄ 이야기 ν•˜κ³  무엇을 해도 λ˜λŠ”μ§€μ— λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
16:44
And then they change over time just like the language.
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그런 λ‹€μŒ μ–Έμ–΄μ²˜λŸΌ μ‹œκ°„μ΄ 지남에 따라 λ³€κ²½λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
16:47
So, now, like, the rules are becoming a bit more liberal and they used to be more conservative,
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ§€κΈˆμ€ κ·œμΉ™μ΄ μ’€ 더 μžμœ λ‘œμ›Œμ§€κ³  있고
16:51
uh, years ago.
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λͺ‡ λ…„ μ „μ—λŠ” 더 λ³΄μˆ˜μ μ΄μ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
16:53
Anyway, so, that idea of game, uh, there's also the idea of having game.
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μ–΄μ¨Œλ“ , κ²Œμž„μ— λŒ€ν•œ μ•„μ΄λ””μ–΄λŠ”, μ–΄, κ²Œμž„μ„ ν•œλ‹€λŠ” 아이디어도 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
16:59
And this is typically used more for men, uh, approaching women and talking to women.
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그리고 이것은 일반적으둜 λ‚¨μ„±μ—κ²Œ 더 많이 μ‚¬μš©λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ–΄, μ—¬μ„±μ—κ²Œ λ‹€κ°€κ°€μ„œ μ—¬μ„±κ³Ό λŒ€ν™”ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
17:03
Because, uh, as I'll talk more about, uh, in the, the, in this video a little bit later,
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μ™œλƒλ©΄, μ–΄, μ’€ 더 μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜κ² μ§€λ§Œ, μ–΄, 쑰금 뒀에 μžˆλŠ” 이 λΉ„λ””μ˜€μ—μ„œ,
17:09
um, the idea of evolutionary, uh, psychology is looking at the biology of men and women
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음, μ§„ν™”λΌλŠ” κ°œλ…μ€, μ–΄, 심리학은 남성과 μ—¬μ„±μ˜ 생물학과 κ·Έ 차이점을 μ‚΄νŽ΄λ³΄κ³  있기 λ•Œλ¬Έμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
17:15
and the differences that we have physically.
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μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 윑체적으둜 가지고 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
17:17
Uh, and thinking about how that changes our mental strategy for, for finding a different
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μ–΄, 그리고 그것이 μ§€κΈˆκΉŒμ§€ λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ„ μ°ΎκΈ° μœ„ν•œ 우리의 μ •μ‹  μ „λž΅μ„ μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ λ°”κΎΈλŠ”μ§€ μƒκ°ν•΄λ³΄μ„Έμš”
17:23
person to date.
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17:24
Uh, or how we, how we do the game of dating, that kind of thing.
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μ–΄, λ˜λŠ” μš°λ¦¬κ°€ μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ 데이트 κ²Œμž„μ„ ν•˜λŠ”μ§€ 그런 μ’…λ₯˜μ˜ 것.
17:28
So, not just dating as well but, uh, producing children and the other things that we have
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, 데이트뿐만 μ•„λ‹ˆλΌ, μ–΄, 아이λ₯Ό λ‚³λŠ” 것과 μš°λ¦¬κ°€ ν•΄μ•Ό ν•  λ‹€λ₯Έ 일듀
17:32
to do.
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17:33
But the idea of having game or when you hear about, uh, like, wow, that guy over there
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ κ²Œμž„μ„ ν•œλ‹€λŠ” μƒκ°μ΄λ‚˜ μ–΄, μ™€μš°, μ € μ‚¬λžŒμ΄
17:37
has great game.
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κ²Œμž„μ„ 잘 ν•œλ‹€λŠ” μ–˜κΈ°λ₯Ό λ“€μ—ˆμ„ λ•Œ.
17:38
It's just talking about he's very good at talking to women and, uh, getting dates or
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κ·Έλƒ₯ κ·Έκ°€ μ—¬μžμ™€ λŒ€ν™”ν•˜λŠ” 데 μ•„μ£Ό λŠ₯μˆ™ν•˜κ³  μ–΄, λ°μ΄νŠΈλ‚˜
17:42
other things like that.
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그와 λΉ„μŠ·ν•œ 것듀을 κ΅¬ν•˜λŠ” 것에 λŒ€ν•΄ λ§ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
17:44
Next, some more great phrasal verbs to be called out and to be shot down.
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λ‹€μŒμœΌλ‘œ, λΆˆλ €μ§€κ³  격좔될 λͺ‡ 가지 더 큰 κ΅¬λ™μ‚¬μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
17:50
To be called out for something.
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무언가λ₯Ό μœ„ν•΄ ν˜ΈμΆœλ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
17:52
When you're called out and you, it means you're being noticed by other people usually in a
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당신이 뢀름을 λ°›μ•˜λ‹€λŠ” 것은 당신이 어리석은 말을 ν–ˆκ±°λ‚˜ μ–΄λ–€ 일을 ν•˜λŠ” 데 λ¬Έμ œκ°€ 생겼기 λ•Œλ¬Έμ— 일반적으둜 뢀정적인 λ°©μ‹μœΌλ‘œ λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ—κ²Œ μ£Όλͺ©λ°›κ³  μžˆλ‹€λŠ” 것을 μ˜λ―Έν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€
17:57
negative way because maybe you said something silly or you got, you know, in trouble for
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18:02
doing something.
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18:03
So, if I'm, uh, like, cheating, uh, on a test in the classroom with the next, with the student
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ œκ°€, μ–΄, 예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄, κ΅μ‹€μ—μ„œ λ‹€μŒ 학생과 μ˜†μ— μžˆλŠ” 학생과 ν•¨κ»˜ μ‹œν—˜μ—μ„œ λΆ€μ • ν–‰μœ„λ₯Ό ν•˜κ³  μžˆλŠ”λ°
18:09
next to me, and the teacher looks at me and said, β€œAre you cheating over there?”
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μ„ μƒλ‹˜μ΄ μ €λ₯Ό 보고 "κ±°κΈ° λΆ€μ • ν–‰μœ„λ₯Ό ν•˜κ³  μžˆλ‹ˆ?"
18:13
She is calling me out.
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κ·Έλ…€λŠ” λ‚˜λ₯Ό λΆ€λ₯΄κ³  μžˆλ‹€.
18:14
So, she is, uh, again, signaling that I did something wrong and making it known to everybody
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, κ·Έλ…€λŠ”, μ–΄, λ‹€μ‹œ λ‚΄κ°€ λ­”κ°€ 잘λͺ»ν–ˆλ‹€λŠ” μ‹ ν˜Έλ₯Ό 보내고 그것을 λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ—κ²Œ μ•Œλ¦¬κ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
18:19
else.
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18:20
Uh, and then this is like, in a way it's ostracizing me.
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μ–΄, 그리고 이것은 마치, μ–΄λ–€ λ©΄μ—μ„œ μ €λ₯Ό λ°°μ²™ν•˜λŠ” 것과 κ°™μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
18:23
So, she says, β€œYou have to go, like, sit in the other classroom and take the test because
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ κ·Έλ…€λŠ” "λ„€κ°€ λΆ€μ •ν–‰μœ„λ₯Ό ν•˜κ³  μžˆμœΌλ‹ˆ λ‹€λ₯Έ ꡐ싀에 κ°€μ„œ μ‹œν—˜μ„ 봐야 ν•΄
18:27
you're cheating.”
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"라고 λ§ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
18:28
So, again, it’s a, as I talked about in the Phrase Builder lesson, uh, ostracizing
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λ‹€μ‹œ λ§ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ, μ œκ°€ Phrase Builder μˆ˜μ—…μ—μ„œ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν–ˆλ“―μ΄, μ–΄, λˆ„κ΅°κ°€λ₯Ό λ°°μ²™ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
18:31
someone.
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18:32
So, the other phrasal verb here is to get shot down.
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λ”°λΌμ„œ μ—¬κΈ°μ„œ λ‹€λ₯Έ κ΅¬λ™μ‚¬λŠ” κ²©μΆ”μ‹œν‚€λ‹€μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
18:35
If you think about a plane that's flying somewhere, like especially in the, in the, in a war.
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μ–΄λ”˜κ°€λ‘œ λ‚ μ•„κ°€λŠ” λΉ„ν–‰κΈ°λ₯Ό 생각해 λ³΄μ„Έμš”. 특히 μ „μŸμ—μ„œμš”.
18:40
You’ve got those little planes that are operated by one man and, you know, one whatever,
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당신은 ν•œ μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ μ‘°μ’…ν•˜λŠ” μž‘μ€ λΉ„ν–‰κΈ°λ₯Ό 가지고 있고, μ•„μ‹œλ‹€μ‹œν”Ό,
18:45
one person in the, in the, uh, in the plane, uh, or two people.
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ν•œ μ‚¬λžŒμ΄, μ•ˆμ—, μ–΄, λΉ„ν–‰κΈ° μ•ˆμ—, μ–΄, λ˜λŠ” 두 μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
18:48
And, like, it gets shot, you know, out of the sky.
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그리고 마치 ν•˜λŠ˜μ—μ„œ λ°œμ‚¬λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
18:52
So, we talk about that like a man walking up to a woman, approaching her and maybe he
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μš°λ¦¬λŠ” λ‚¨μžκ°€ μ—¬μžμ—κ²Œ λ‹€κ°€κ°€ κ·Έλ…€μ—κ²Œ λ‹€κ°€
18:57
says, β€œOh, hello.
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κ°€ β€œμ˜€, μ•ˆλ…•ν•˜μ„Έμš”.
18:58
How are you?”
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μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μ§€λ‚΄μ„Έμš”?"
18:59
And he tries to say something, and the woman is clearly not interested.
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그리고 κ·ΈλŠ” 무언가λ₯Ό λ§ν•˜λ €κ³ ν•˜λŠ”λ° κ·Έ μ—¬μžλŠ” λΆ„λͺ…νžˆ 관심이 μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
19:02
We say that the man has been shot down.
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μš°λ¦¬λŠ” κ·Έ λ‚¨μžκ°€ 총에 λ§žμ•˜λ‹€κ³  λ§ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
19:05
And this is why it's often difficult because even if maybe social ideas about men and women
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그리고 이것이 μ’…μ’… μ–΄λ €μš΄ μ΄μœ μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ™œλƒν•˜λ©΄ 남녀가
19:10
talking to each other have changed, still we have, you know, a majority of people, you
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μ„œλ‘œ λŒ€ν™”ν•˜λŠ” 것에 λŒ€ν•œ μ‚¬νšŒμ  관념이 λ°”λ€Œμ—ˆλ‹€κ³  해도 μ—¬μ „νžˆ λŒ€λ‹€μˆ˜μ˜ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€, μ•„μ‹œλ‹€μ‹œν”Ό
19:14
know, a lot of people are still…
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λ§Žμ€ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ μ—¬μ „νžˆβ€¦ μ—¬μ„±μ—κ²Œ λ‹€κ°€κ°€κΈ° μœ„ν•΄
19:16
It's still men trying to walk up to approach women, and women often expecting men to do
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κ±Έμ–΄κ°€κ³  , 여성은 μ’…μ’… 남성이 μ ‘κ·Όν•˜κΈ°λ₯Ό κΈ°λŒ€ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€
19:21
the approach.
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19:22
But what happens there, uh, is that the man is the one that he is taking the risk because
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ κ·Έκ³³μ—μ„œ μΌμ–΄λ‚˜λŠ” 일은, μ–΄, λ‚¨μžκ°€ μœ„ν—˜μ„ κ°μˆ˜ν•˜κ³  μžˆλ‹€λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ™œλƒν•˜λ©΄
19:26
he is, he is approaching the woman.
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κ·Έκ°€ μ—¬μžμ—κ²Œ μ ‘κ·Όν•˜κ³  있기 λ•Œλ¬Έμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
19:28
And either she accepts him or rejects him or not.
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그리고 κ·Έλ…€λŠ” κ·Έλ₯Ό λ°›μ•„λ“€μ΄κ±°λ‚˜ κ±°λΆ€ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
19:32
And this is why, uh, it's good to have some kind of sense about the person before you
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ ‘κ·Όν•˜κΈ° 전에 κ·Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ— λŒ€ν•΄ μ–΄λŠ 정도 μ΄ν•΄ν•˜λŠ” 것이 μ’‹μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
19:36
approach them.
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19:37
If the woman is looking at you many times, usually that's a good indicator of interest.
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μ—¬μžκ°€ 당신을 μ—¬λŸ¬ 번 쳐닀본닀면 보톡 그것은 관심이 μžˆλ‹€λŠ” 쒋은 μ§€ν‘œμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
19:41
That she's, you know, happy to have you come over and speak with her.
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κ·Έλ…€λŠ” 당신이 μ™€μ„œ 그녀와 μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜λŠ” 것을 기쁘게 μƒκ°ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
19:45
Next, we've got sexual harassment.
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λ‹€μŒμ€ μ„±ν¬λ‘±μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
19:48
That's another thing that came up.
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그것은 또 λ‹€λ₯Έ μΌμ΄μ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
19:49
It's also a very common thing, uh, in just everyday conversations as well, especially
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그것은 λ˜ν•œ 맀우 일반적인 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ–΄, 일상적인 λŒ€ν™”μ—μ„œλ„ λ§ˆμ°¬κ°€μ§€μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 특히
19:54
if you're working at a company, a larger company.
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νšŒμ‚¬, 더 큰 νšŒμ‚¬μ—μ„œ μΌν•˜λŠ” 경우 λ”μš± κ·Έλ ‡μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
19:57
Uh, but sexual harassment is now more of a thing.
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μ–΄, ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 성희둱은 이제 λ¬Έμ œκ°€ λ˜μ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
20:00
Uh, I remember reading an interesting, uh, and just, it was, I forget what, what, what
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μ–΄, ν₯미둜운 것을 읽은 기얡이 λ‚©λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ–΄, 그리고 κ·Έλƒ₯, 무엇을, 무엇을, μ–΄λ–€
20:06
online website or something like that.
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온라인 μ›Ήμ‚¬μ΄νŠΈ 같은 것을 μžŠμ–΄λ²„λ ΈμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
20:07
But it was, uh, it was talking about psychology, uh, and it was talking about men and women
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 그건, μ–΄, 심리학에 λŒ€ν•œ μ–˜κΈ°μ˜€κ³ , μ–΄, 직μž₯μ—μ„œ μΌν•˜λŠ” 남녀에 λŒ€ν•œ μ–˜κΈ°μ˜€μ–΄μš”
20:12
working at the workplace.
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20:14
Because before it used to be more segregated.
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μ΄μ „μ—λŠ” 더 λΆ„λ¦¬λ˜μ–΄ μžˆμ—ˆκΈ° λ•Œλ¬Έμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
20:16
Women would have maybe their particular place at the office, and men would have their particular
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여성은 μ‚¬λ¬΄μ‹€μ—μ„œ νŠΉμ • μœ„μΉ˜λ₯Ό κ°€μ§ˆ 수 있고 남성은 νŠΉμ • μœ„μΉ˜λ₯Ό κ°€μ§ˆ 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
20:20
place.
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20:21
Uh, but when you start mixing them together, what, what this article was saying, uh, is
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μ–΄, ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 그것듀을 μ„žκΈ° μ‹œμž‘ν•˜λ©΄, 이 기사가 λ§ν•˜κ³  μžˆλŠ” 것은, μ–΄,
20:26
that women wanted to be treated equally.
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여성듀이 λ™λ“±ν•˜κ²Œ λŒ€μš°λ°›κΈ°λ₯Ό μ›ν•œλ‹€λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
20:28
So, they were saying, β€œDon't, like, you shouldn't be sexually harassing us, saying
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 그듀은 "νšŒμ‚¬μ—μ„œ μš°λ¦¬μ—κ²Œ 성적인 말을 ν•˜λ©΄μ„œ 우리λ₯Ό μ„±ν¬λ‘±ν•˜μ§€ λ§ˆμ„Έμš”
20:32
like sexual things to us at work.”
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"라고 λ§ν–ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
20:34
But the interesting thing that this article was saying, is that men would do that to each
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 이 κΈ°μ‚¬μ—μ„œ λ§ν•˜κ³  μžˆλŠ” ν₯미둜운 점은 λ‚¨μžλ“€μ΄ μ„œλ‘œμ—κ²Œ κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ ν•œλ‹€λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
20:38
other.
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20:39
So, if you have, many years ago it's only men working in this area and they are saying
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κ·Έλ ‡λ‹€λ©΄ λͺ‡ λ…„ μ „λ§Œ 해도 이 λΆ„μ•Όμ—μ„œ μΌν•˜λŠ” 것은 λ‚¨μ„±λΏμ΄μ—ˆκ³  그듀은
20:43
sexual things to each other.
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μ„œλ‘œμ—κ²Œ 성적인 말을 ν–ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
20:44
And they're joking around, and that's just kinda what they do.
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그리고 그듀은 농담을 ν•˜κ³  있고, 그것이 그듀이 ν•˜λŠ” μΌμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
20:47
Uh, and there's some teasing and this is, you know, just part of being human for most
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μ–΄, μ•½κ°„μ˜ 놀림감이 μžˆλŠ”λ° 이것은 λŒ€λΆ€λΆ„μ˜ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ—κ²Œ μžˆμ–΄ 인간이 λ˜λŠ” κ²ƒμ˜ 일뢀일 λΏμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
20:51
people.
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20:52
There's, like, different levels of people.
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λ‹€μ–‘ν•œ μˆ˜μ€€μ˜ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
20:54
You have a boss and other people that work for him and her or whatever.
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당신은 그와 κ·Έλ…€ λ˜λŠ” 무엇이든을 μœ„ν•΄ μΌν•˜λŠ” 상사와 λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
20:57
And, uh, so, this is kind of a general thing.
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그리고, μ–΄, κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 이것은 μΌμ’…μ˜ 일반적인 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
20:59
And so, what, what this, uh, this psychology report, it was just documenting how, uh, women
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, 뭐, 뭐, 이 심리학 λ³΄κ³ μ„œλŠ”, μ–΄, 여성듀이 직μž₯μ—μ„œ
21:06
were being treated equal by being kind of, like, harassed in the same way that men are
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남성듀이 κ΄΄λ‘­νž˜μ„ λ‹Ήν•˜λŠ” 것과 같은 λ°©μ‹μœΌλ‘œ κ΄΄λ‘­νž˜μ„ λ‹Ήν•¨μœΌλ‘œμ¨ λ™λ“±ν•˜κ²Œ λŒ€μš°λ°›κ³  μžˆλ‹€λŠ” 것을 λ¬Έμ„œν™”ν•œ κ²ƒλΏμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
21:10
harassed in the workplace.
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21:11
So, it was a really interesting article.
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μ•”νŠΌ 정말 μž¬λ°ŒλŠ” κΈ°μ‚¬μ˜€μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
21:13
Uh, I don't remember where I saw it.
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μ•„ μ–΄λ””μ„œ 본건지 기얡이 μ•ˆλ‚˜λ„€
21:15
Um, I would recommend it though if you can find something like that.
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음, κ·Έλž˜λ„ 그런 것을 찾을 수 μžˆλ‹€λ©΄ μΆ”μ²œν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
21:17
But again, har, uh, sexual harassment, uh, it, it can mean anything from looking at someone.
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ λ‹€μ‹œ, ν•˜, μ–΄, 성희둱, μ–΄ , 그것은 λˆ„κ΅°κ°€λ₯Ό λ°”λΌλ³΄λŠ” κ²ƒμ—μ„œ 무엇이든 μ˜λ―Έν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
21:23
Like if I'm standing in an elevator and I look at a woman in, like, a suggestive, uh,
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마치 λ‚΄κ°€ μ—˜λ¦¬λ² μ΄ν„°μ— μ„œμ„œ μ—¬μžλ₯Ό μ•”μ‹œμ μœΌλ‘œ, μ–΄,
21:28
sexually suggestive way.
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μ„±μ μœΌλ‘œ μ•”μ‹œμ μœΌλ‘œ λ°”λΌλ³΄λŠ” κ²ƒμ²˜λŸΌμš”.
21:29
So, I'm, like, looking up and down.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ €λŠ” μœ„μ•„λž˜λ‘œ 보고 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
21:31
Like, oh!
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였!
21:32
Like, you look really nice or I say something to her.
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예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄, 당신은 정말 λ©‹μ Έ λ³΄μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ•„λ‹ˆλ©΄ λ‚΄κ°€ κ·Έλ…€μ—κ²Œ λ­”κ°€λ₯Ό λ§ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
21:34
Um, but again, we have this also, also kind of traditional cultural idea.
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음, ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ λ‹€μ‹œ λ§ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ, μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 이것도 μΌμ’…μ˜ 전톡적 λ¬Έν™” 아이디어λ₯Ό 가지고 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
21:39
Uh, and this is just another funny example of something I saw.
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μ–΄, 이것은 μ œκ°€ λ³Έ κ²ƒμ˜ 또 λ‹€λ₯Έ μž¬λ―ΈμžˆλŠ” μ˜ˆμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
21:42
It was a, um, I think it might've been, uh, it was some comedy show, I think.
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음, 제 μƒκ°μ—λŠ” μ½”λ―Έλ”” μ‡Όμ˜€λ˜ 것 κ°™μ•„μš”.
21:47
But they were, they were explaining what sexual harassment was.
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 그듀은 성희둱이 무엇인지 μ„€λͺ…ν•˜κ³  μžˆμ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
21:50
Uh, and they were saying sexual harassment is when an unattractive man tries to approach
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μ–΄, 그리고 성희둱은 λͺ»μƒκΈ΄ λ‚¨μžκ°€ μ—¬μžμ—κ²Œ λ‹€κ°€κ°€λ €κ³  ν•˜λŠ” 것이라고 ν•˜λ˜λ°
21:55
a woman.
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21:56
So, when a, when a, a good-looking guy approaches a woman and says, β€œHey, like, you look good
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, a, a, a, μž˜μƒκΈ΄ λ‚¨μžκ°€ μ—¬μžμ—κ²Œ λ‹€κ°€κ°€μ„œ "μ•Ό, 였늘 λ„ˆ λ©‹μ Έ 보여"라고 λ§ν•œλ‹€λ©΄,
22:00
today,” uh, it's not sexual harassment.
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μ–΄, 그건 성희둱이 μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€.
22:02
But when an unattractive guy to that woman approaches that woman, and she's not interested,
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ κ·Έ μ—¬μžμ—κ²Œ 맀λ ₯ μ—†λŠ” λ‚¨μžκ°€ μ ‘κ·Όν•˜κ³  κ·Έ μ—¬μžκ°€ 관심이 μ—†μœΌλ©΄
22:07
then that becomes sexual harassment.
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성희둱이 λœλ‹€.
22:09
Now, this is kind of joking.
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자, 이것은 μΌμ’…μ˜ λ†λ‹΄μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
22:10
But, uh, it's funny because it, it, it goes into, like, a kind of more broader, uh, idea
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ, μ–΄, μ›ƒκΈ°λ„€μš”. μ™œλƒλ©΄,
22:16
about how men and women, uh, deal with each other in the workplace or other things like
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λ‚¨μžμ™€ μ—¬μžκ°€, μ–΄, 직μž₯μ—μ„œ μ„œλ‘œλ₯Ό λŒ€ν•˜λŠ” λ°©μ‹μ΄λ‚˜ 그와 λΉ„μŠ·ν•œ 것듀에 λŒ€ν•œ μ’€ 더 κ΄‘λ²”μœ„ν•˜κ³ , μ–΄, 아이디어에 λ“€μ–΄κ°€κΈ° λ•Œλ¬Έμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
22:20
that.
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22:21
Uh, but in general it just means you're, you’re doing something negative that the other person
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μ–΄, ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 일반적으둜 그것은 당신이 μƒλŒ€λ°©μ΄
22:24
doesn't really like.
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λ³„λ‘œ μ’‹μ•„ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠλŠ” 뢀정적인 일을 ν•˜κ³  μžˆλ‹€λŠ” λœ»μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
22:25
There can be sexual harassment both ways.
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μ–‘λ°©ν–₯ 성희둱이 μžˆμ„ 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
22:28
Like, maybe women are harassing men and men are harassing women.
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예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄, 여성이 남성을 괴둭히고 남성이 여성을 κ΄΄λ‘­νžˆλŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
22:31
Uh, but you hear a lot more about that as men harassing women.
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μ–΄, ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ λ‚¨μžκ°€ μ—¬μžλ₯Ό κ΄΄λ‘­νžˆλŠ” 것에 λŒ€ν•΄ 더 많이 λ“£μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
22:35
Next, I also mentioned or, uh, it was mentioned, courtship.
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λ‹€μŒμœΌλ‘œ ꡬ애에 λŒ€ν•΄μ„œλ„ μ–ΈκΈ‰ν–ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
22:39
And courtship is just another one of those kind of, um, it's like a classier way of describing
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그리고 κ΅¬μ• λŠ” 그런 μ’…λ₯˜μ˜ 또 λ‹€λ₯Έ 것일 뿐인데 , 음, λ‚¨μžμ™€ μ—¬μžκ°€ β€‹β€‹μžˆλŠ” κ³³μ—μ„œ 데이트λ₯Ό μ„€λͺ…ν•˜λŠ” μ’€ 더 κ³ κΈ‰μŠ€λŸ¬μš΄ 방법 κ°™μ•„μš”
22:45
dating where you have, you know, a man and a woman.
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. λ‚¨μžλŠ” 이런 일을 ν•΄μ•Ό ν•˜κ³  μ—¬μžλŠ” μ €λŸ° 일을 ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμ²˜λŸΌ,
22:47
They have certain roles that they have, even if it's not, you know, like a man has to do
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그듀은 νŠΉμ •ν•œ 역할을 가지고 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
22:51
this and a woman does that.
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그렇지 μ•Šλ”λΌλ„ 말이죠.
22:53
Um, but in general, just like every other species on the planet, like, two birds are
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음, ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 일반적으둜 μ§€κ΅¬μƒμ˜ λ‹€λ₯Έ λͺ¨λ“  μ’…κ³Ό λ§ˆμ°¬κ°€μ§€λ‘œ 두 마리의 μƒˆκ°€
22:57
coming together.
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ν•¨κ»˜ λͺ¨μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
22:58
The, the male bird does this thing and the female bird does this thing.
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κ·Έ, 수컷 μƒˆλŠ” 이런 일을 ν•˜κ³  μ•”μ»· μƒˆλŠ” 이런 일을 ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
23:02
And they have a courtship ritual or something.
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그리고 그듀은 ꡬ애 μ˜μ‹ 같은 것을 가지고 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
23:04
And it's very complicated with humans.
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그리고 μΈκ°„μ—κ²ŒλŠ” 맀우 λ³΅μž‘ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
23:06
Uh, and it's different with even in different cultures or different neighborhoods within
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μ–΄, 그리고 같은 λ‚˜λΌ μ•ˆμ—μ„œλ„ λ¬Έν™”κ°€ λ‹€λ₯΄κ³  동넀가 λ‹€λ₯΄λ©΄ λ‹¬λΌμš”
23:10
the same country.
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23:11
Uh, but again, these are just interesting things you notice, but courtship is just talking
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μ–΄, ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ λ‹€μ‹œ λ§ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 이것듀은 μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ΄ μ•Œμ•„μ°¨λ¦¬λŠ” ν₯미둜운 κ²ƒλ“€μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ κ΅¬μ• λŠ” 단지
23:16
about the process of meeting and dating and, uh, building a relationship so that maybe
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λ§Œλ‚˜κ³  λ°μ΄νŠΈν•˜λŠ” κ³Όμ •, μ–΄, κ²°ν˜Όν•˜κ³  가쑱을 κ°€μ§ˆ 수 μžˆλ„λ‘ 관계λ₯Ό κ΅¬μΆ•ν•˜λŠ” 과정에 λŒ€ν•΄ λ§ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
23:20
you get married and have a family, that kind of thing.
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23:23
Next, I also mentioned MGTOW.
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λ‹€μŒμœΌλ‘œ MGTOW도 μ–ΈκΈ‰ν–ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
23:26
So M-G-T-O-W.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ M-G-T-O-W.
23:27
This is Men Going Their Own Way.
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이것은 μžμ‹ μ˜ 길을 κ°€λŠ” λ‚¨μžλ“€μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
23:30
This is actually something I don't know very much about.
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이것은 사싀 μ œκ°€ 잘 λͺ¨λ₯΄λŠ” λΆ€λΆ„μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
23:32
Again, I'm learning, you know, things like this because I'm not in the dating world anymore.
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λ‹€μ‹œ λ§ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ, λ‚˜λŠ” 더 이상 데이트 세계에 μžˆμ§€ μ•ŠκΈ° λ•Œλ¬Έμ— 이와 같은 것을 배우고 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
23:37
Uh, but when you hear something like this, there's a, uh, we call this a backlash.
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μ–΄, ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 이런 말을 λ“€μœΌλ©΄, μ–΄, μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 이것을 반발이라고 λΆ€λ¦…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
23:43
Where it just means if men are perceiving themselves as, like, they're not, uh, able
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남성이
23:48
to communicate with women or their opportunities are restricted or other things like that.
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μ—¬μ„±κ³Ό μ˜μ‚¬μ†Œν†΅ν•  수 μ—†κ±°λ‚˜ κΈ°νšŒκ°€ μ œν•œλ˜μ–΄ μžˆλ‹€κ³  μΈμ‹ν•˜λŠ” 경우λ₯Ό μ˜λ―Έν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
23:53
Like, you know, you hear, uh, like, younger people are delaying marriage longer and longer.
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예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄, μ Šμ€ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ κ²°ν˜Όμ„ 점점 더 미루고 μžˆλ‹€λŠ” 말을 λ“£μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
23:57
And we talk about this as well in the conversation.
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그리고 μš°λ¦¬λŠ” λŒ€ν™”μ—μ„œλ„ 이것에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
24:00
Whether that's a good idea, I don't know.
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그게 쒋은 생각인지 λͺ¨λ₯΄κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
24:02
It's just something that I wanted to discuss because I figured you might be interested
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당신이 그것에 관심을 κ°€μ§ˆ 것이라고 μƒκ°ν–ˆκΈ° λ•Œλ¬Έμ— λ‚΄κ°€ λ…Όμ˜ν•˜κ³  μ‹Άμ—ˆλ˜ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
24:06
in that.
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24:07
Uh, but this idea of men going their own way, is men saying, β€œWell, uh, like, the laws
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μ–΄, ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ λ‚¨μžλ“€μ΄ κ·Έλ“€λ§Œμ˜ 길을 κ°„λ‹€λŠ” 생각은 λ‚¨μžλ“€μ΄ "κΈ€μŽ„, μ–΄, 법은
24:12
are designed to, to benefit women.”
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μ—¬μžλ“€μ—κ²Œ ν˜œνƒμ„ μ£ΌκΈ° μœ„ν•΄ λ§Œλ“€μ–΄μ‘Œμ–΄."라고 λ§ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
24:15
So, if we get married, uh, then, like, the woman can, you know…
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, μš°λ¦¬κ°€ κ²°ν˜Όν•˜λ©΄, μ–΄, 그럼, κ·Έ μ—¬μžλŠ”, μ•Œλ‹€μ‹œν”Ό...
24:18
It's just, like, a lot of the laws are there for, for women to get custody.
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λ§Žμ€ 법이 μžˆλŠ”λ° , μ—¬μžκ°€ μ–‘μœ‘κΆŒμ„ 가지도둝 λ˜μ–΄ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
24:22
So, to get control of the children if there, there’s a divorce, other things like that.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 아이듀을 ν†΅μ œν•˜κΈ° μœ„ν•΄ 이혼과 같은 것듀이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
24:26
Again, I don't know specifically about, like, the rules or whatever or what their particular
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λ‹€μ‹œ λ§ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ, κ·œμΉ™μ΄λ‚˜ νŠΉμ •
24:30
principles are.
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원칙이 무엇인지에 λŒ€ν•΄ ꡬ체적으둜 μ•Œμ§€ λͺ»ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
24:31
But it's just an interesting thing that there is such a group of people like Men Going Their
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ μžμ‹ μ˜ 길을 κ°€λŠ” 남성과 같은 그룹이 μžˆλ‹€λŠ” 것은 ν₯미둜운 μΌμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
24:36
Own Way, meaning they don't want to have relationships with women because it's, you know, too much
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. 즉, μ—¬μ„±κ³Όμ˜ 관계λ₯Ό μ›ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠλŠ” μ΄μœ λŠ” λ„ˆλ¬΄ λ§Žμ€
24:40
trouble or something like that.
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λ¬Έμ œκ°€ 있기 λ•Œλ¬Έμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
24:43
Next, kind of the opposite of someone who is a MGTOW.
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λ‹€μŒμœΌλ‘œ, MGTOW인 μ‚¬λžŒκ³ΌλŠ” μ •λ°˜λŒ€μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
24:46
This is the alpha male.
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이것은 μ•ŒνŒŒ λ‚¨μ„±μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
24:48
Now, this is going back to that evolutionary psychology idea or evolutionary psychology
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자, 이것은 진화 심리학 아이디어 λ˜λŠ”
24:54
with evolutionary biology, uh, of where you have kind of a group of different people,
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진화 생물학과 ν•¨κ»˜ 진화 μ‹¬λ¦¬ν•™μœΌλ‘œ λŒμ•„κ°€λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ–΄, νšŒμ‚¬μ—μ„œμ™€ λ§ˆμ°¬κ°€μ§€λ‘œ μΌμ’…μ˜ λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ˜ 그룹이 μžˆλŠ” κ³³μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
24:59
just like you have in a company.
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25:00
You have a boss and then some people under that boss and then more people under that.
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당신은 상사가 있고 κ·Έ 상사 μ•„λž˜μ— λͺ‡λͺ‡ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ 있고 κ·Έ μ•„λž˜μ— 더 λ§Žμ€ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
25:04
Um, so, all humans are organized into these kinds of groups.
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음, κ·Έλž˜μ„œ λͺ¨λ“  인간은 이런 μ’…λ₯˜μ˜ 그룹으둜 μ‘°μ§λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
25:08
So, even within a family, uh, even if, like, the mother and father are basically equal,
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λ”°λΌμ„œ κ°€μ‘± λ‚΄μ—μ„œλ„ μ–΄, μ–΄λ¨Έλ‹ˆμ™€ 아버지가 기본적으둜 λ™λ“±ν•˜λ”λΌλ„
25:13
usually there's one that's a little bit more dominant than the other.
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일반적으둜 λ‹€λ₯Έ μͺ½λ³΄λ‹€ μ•½κ°„ 더 지배적인 μͺ½μ΄ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
25:16
Um, and even within the, like, the kids, like, the older children are a little bit more dominant
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음, 심지어 아이듀 μ‚¬μ΄μ—μ„œλ„ λ‚˜μ΄κ°€ λ§Žμ€ 아이듀이 μ–΄λ¦° 아이듀보닀 쑰금 더 μ§€λ°°μ μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
25:21
than the younger children, that kind of thing.
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25:23
So, it doesn't always have to work that way.
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λ”°λΌμ„œ 항상 그런 μ‹μœΌλ‘œ μž‘λ™ν•  ν•„μš”λŠ” μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
25:25
Uh, but these are interesting things that happen.
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μ–΄, ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 이것듀은 ν₯미둜운 μΌλ“€μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
25:28
And so, because of that, like we dis, we, you kind of, uh, naturally create different,
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, 그것 λ•Œλ¬Έμ—, μš°λ¦¬κ°€ μ‹«μ–΄ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμ²˜λŸΌ, 우리, 당신은 μžμ—°μŠ€λŸ½κ²Œ 성희둱과 같은
25:34
different things that could become things like sexual harassment.
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것이 될 수 μžˆλŠ” λ‹€λ₯Έ, λ‹€λ₯Έ 것듀을 λ§Œλ“€μ–΄λƒ…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
25:37
Uh, or even just the ways that we relate to other, the ways that we relate to other, to
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μ–΄, λ˜λŠ” μš°λ¦¬κ°€ λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒκ³Ό 관계λ₯Ό λ§ΊλŠ” 방식, μš°λ¦¬κ°€ μ„œλ‘œ 관계λ₯Ό λ§ΊλŠ” 방식,
25:43
each other, excuse me, uh, in relationships.
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μ‹€λ‘€ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ–΄, κ΄€κ³„μ—μ„œμš”.
25:46
And so, this means, like, you have power relationships, like, like a boss.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 이것은 당신이 상사와 같은 ꢌλ ₯ 관계λ₯Ό 가지고 μžˆλ‹€λŠ” 것을 μ˜λ―Έν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
25:50
Like this was another thing recently, uh, like, the MeToo Movement.
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이와 같이 μ΅œκ·Όμ— 또 λ‹€λ₯Έ 일이 μžˆμ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ–΄, MeToo μš΄λ™κ³Ό 같은 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
25:54
So, this is where a lot of actresses and, like, famous, even some men were, um, were
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ—¬κΈ°μ—μ„œ λ§Žμ€ μ—¬λ°°μš°λ“€κ³Ό 유λͺ…인사듀, 심지어 일뢀 남성듀도
25:59
saying that, like, powerful people in Hollywood were, you know, sexually harassing other people
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ν—λ¦¬μš°λ“œμ˜ ꢌλ ₯μžλ“€μ΄ 그런 μ‹μœΌλ‘œ λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ„ μ„±ν¬λ‘±ν•œλ‹€κ³  λ§ν–ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
26:04
like that.
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26:05
And again, this is, it's kind of just, not saying it's a good thing.
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그리고 λ‹€μ‹œ λ§ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 이것은 쒋은 것이라고 λ§ν•˜λŠ” 것이 μ•„λ‹ˆλΌ μΌμ’…μ˜ μ •λ‹Ήν•œ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
26:08
But obviously, it's something that happens because people are naturally kind of in groups
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ λΆ„λͺ…νžˆ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ μžμ—°μŠ€λŸ½κ²Œ 이런 μ’…λ₯˜μ˜ 그룹에 있기 λ•Œλ¬Έμ— λ°œμƒν•˜λŠ” μΌμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
26:12
like this.
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26:13
Um, but also, we get these, uh, same ideas of, uh, because we have these groups, we have
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음, κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‚˜ λ˜ν•œ, μš°λ¦¬λŠ” μ΄λŸ¬ν•œ 그룹을 가지고 있기 λ•Œλ¬Έμ—
26:19
the alpha male or the idea of the alpha male.
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μš°λ‘λ¨Έλ¦¬ 남성 λ˜λŠ” μš°λ‘λ¨Έλ¦¬ 남성에 λŒ€ν•œ 아이디어λ₯Ό 가지고 있기 λ•Œλ¬Έμ— λ™μΌν•œ 아이디어λ₯Ό μ–»μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
26:22
Um, because typically, like, often in, in groups of, of animals like us, uh, you will
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음, μ™œλƒλ©΄ 일반적으둜, μ’…μ’…, 우리 같은 λ™λ¬Όμ˜ κ·Έλ£Ήμ—μ„œ, 음,
26:28
have maybe the dominant male who will, you know, get access to all these, all the women,
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μ•„λ§ˆλ„ 지배적인 수컷이 μžˆμ„ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 지배적인 μˆ˜μ»·μ€ 이 λͺ¨λ“  것, λͺ¨λ“  μ—¬μ„±,
26:33
all, like, the females in his area.
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λͺ¨λ‘, μ•”μ»·κ³Ό 같은 λͺ¨λ“  것에 μ ‘κ·Όν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그의 μ§€μ—­μ—μ„œ.
26:36
And so, all the other males are trying to become the alpha.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ λ‹€λ₯Έ μˆ˜μ»·λ“€μ€ λͺ¨λ‘ μ•ŒνŒŒκ°€ 되렀고 ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
26:39
So, the alpha like that, it's, it's a similar idea, uh, for, for people as well.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 그런 μ•ŒνŒŒλŠ” μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ—κ²Œλ„ λΉ„μŠ·ν•œ μƒκ°μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
26:43
So, you might have a group of men, and then there's, like, the alpha.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, 당신은 남성 그룹을 κ°€μ§ˆ 수 있고 μ•ŒνŒŒμ™€ 같은 것이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
26:46
Like, and he might not be the biggest or the strongest, but maybe the most confident or
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예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄, κ·ΈλŠ” κ°€μž₯ ν¬κ±°λ‚˜ κ°€μž₯ κ°•ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šμ„ μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμ§€λ§Œ μ•„λ§ˆλ„ κ°€μž₯ μžμ‹ κ°μ΄ μžˆκ±°λ‚˜ κ°€μž₯
26:50
the wealthiest or just the highest status of those groups of, uh, or that group of men
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λΆ€μœ ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜ κ·Έ 그룹의 κ°€μž₯ 높은 μ§€μœ„, μ–΄, λ˜λŠ” κ·Έ 남성
26:55
or women.
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λ˜λŠ” μ—¬μ„± 그룹일 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
26:57
Next, some other great euphemisms, some other great words that describe just casual relationships.
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λ‹€μŒμœΌλ‘œ, λ‹€λ₯Έ ν›Œλ₯­ν•œ 완곑어법, μš°μ—°ν•œ 관계λ₯Ό λ¬˜μ‚¬ν•˜λŠ” λ‹€λ₯Έ ν›Œλ₯­ν•œ λ‹¨μ–΄λ“€μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
27:02
Typically, when you're getting into a relationship, you might, at the very beginning, just to
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일반적으둜 관계λ₯Ό 맺을 λ•Œ μ²˜μŒμ—λŠ” κ·Έλƒ₯
27:07
weed out.
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κ±ΈλŸ¬λ‚Ό 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
27:08
And this is a great phrasal verb, to weed out, like you’re pulling weeds out of a
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그리고 이것은 정원 μ—μ„œ 작초λ₯Ό λ½‘λŠ” κ²ƒμ²˜λŸΌ 작초λ₯Ό λ½‘λŠ” ν›Œλ₯­ν•œ κ΅¬λ™μ‚¬μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
27:12
garden.
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27:13
Uh, this means to remove things that maybe you don't want, that you don't care about.
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μ–΄, 이것은 당신이 μ›ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠλŠ” 것, 당신이 신경쓰지 μ•ŠλŠ” 것을 μ œκ±°ν•˜λŠ” 것을 μ˜λ―Έν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
27:17
Um, so to weed out the people or things that are not interesting to you.
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음, 관심이 μ—†λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒμ΄λ‚˜ 사물을 κ±ΈλŸ¬λ‚΄λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
27:21
So, you might want a casual relationship.
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λ”°λΌμ„œ 캐주얼 ν•œ 관계λ₯Ό 원할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
27:23
Uh, this is also described as friends with benefits.
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μ–΄, 이것도 ν˜œνƒμ΄ μžˆλŠ” 친ꡬ라고 ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
27:27
So, maybe if someone is just a friend of yours, you have no sexual relationship with that
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λ”°λΌμ„œ λˆ„κ΅°κ°€κ°€ λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ 친ꡬ일 뿐이라면 당신은 κ·Έ μ‚¬λžŒκ³Ό 성적 관계가 없을 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
27:32
person.
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27:33
But a friend with benefits, those benefits are maybe sex or other things that are related
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ ν˜œνƒμ΄ μžˆλŠ” 친ꡬ, κ·Έ ν˜œνƒμ€ μ„ΉμŠ€λ‚˜ 그와 κ΄€λ ¨λœ λ‹€λ₯Έ 것일 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
27:36
to that.
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27:37
Um, so, you're looking for a friend with benefits.
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음, ν˜œνƒμ΄ μžˆλŠ” 친ꡬλ₯Ό μ°Ύκ³  κ³„μ‹œκ΅°μš”.
27:41
And people will say, β€œWell, I'm just looking for a casual relationship right now.”
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그리고 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ "κΈ€μŽ„, μ§€κΈˆμ€ μΊμ£Όμ–Όν•œ 관계λ₯Ό μ°Ύκ³  μžˆμ–΄μš”."라고 말할 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
27:44
It means I don't want a long-term commitment, a long-term relationship.
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μž₯기적인 약속, μž₯기적인 관계λ₯Ό μ›ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠλŠ”λ‹€λŠ” λœ»μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
27:48
Next, I mentioned this a little bit in the conversation itself, but I thought I would
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λ‹€μŒμœΌλ‘œ λŒ€ν™” μžμ²΄μ—μ„œ 쑰금 μ–ΈκΈ‰ν–ˆμ§€λ§Œ μ—¬κΈ°μ„œ 이야기 ν•΄μ•Όκ² λ‹€κ³  μƒκ°ν–ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
27:53
talk about it here.
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27:54
And this is that again, evolutionary psychology.
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그리고 이것은 λ‹€μ‹œ μ§„ν™”μ‹¬λ¦¬ν•™μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
27:56
So, the way we think coming from the different, uh, kind of ways that, uh, that we are physically
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μš°λ¦¬κ°€ 윑체적으둜
28:01
as men and women.
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남성과 μ—¬μ„±μ΄λΌλŠ” μ„œλ‘œ λ‹€λ₯Έ λ°©μ‹μ—μ„œ μ˜€λŠ” 생각을 ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
28:02
Uh, and so, you might have women, again, like, women have to be choosy as I mentioned before
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μ–΄, κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 여성이 μžˆμ„ 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ‹€μ‹œ λ§ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 여성은 이전에
28:08
in the Phrase Builder video.
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Phrase Builder λΉ„λ””μ˜€μ—μ„œ μ–ΈκΈ‰ν–ˆλ“―μ΄ κΉŒλ‹€λ‘œμ›Œμ•Ό ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
28:10
Uh, because they have a limited supply, and also limited amount of time of being able
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μ–΄, 곡급이 μ œν•œλ˜μ–΄ 있고 아이λ₯Ό 낳을 수 μžˆλŠ” μ‹œκ°„λ„ μ œν•œλ˜μ–΄ 있기 λ•Œλ¬Έμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
28:14
to produce children.
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28:15
So, a man, conceivably, like, it's possible to, to make a million different babies.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ ν•œ λ‚¨μžκ°€ 수백만 λͺ…μ˜ λ‹€λ₯Έ μ•„κΈ°λ₯Ό λ§Œλ“œλŠ” 것이 κ°€λŠ₯ν•˜λ‹€κ³  생각할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
28:21
It's, like, very possible for a man to do that, especially with science, you know.
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λ‚¨μžκ°€ κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ ν•˜λŠ” 것은 맀우 κ°€λŠ₯ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 특히 κ³Όν•™μ˜ 경우 말이죠.
28:25
You could go to a lab and you know, give your sperm or whatever and have lots of kids all
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μ‹€ν—˜μ‹€μ— κ°€μ„œ μ •μžλ“  뭐든 μ£Όκ³  μ „ 세계에 λ§Žμ€ 아이λ₯Ό κ°€μ§ˆ 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
28:29
over the world.
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28:30
Uh, but a woman can only, you know, care for one baby or maybe one or two or three or whatever,
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μ–΄, ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ μ—¬μžλŠ” ν•œ λ²ˆμ— μ•„κΈ° ν•œ λͺ…, μ•„λ‹ˆλ©΄ ν•œλ‘ λͺ…, μ„Έ λͺ… μ •λ„λ§Œ 돌볼 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
28:36
uh, at a time.
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28:37
And then, you're still raising that child maybe for two or three years or something.
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그리고 κ·Έ 아이λ₯Ό 2~3λ…„ λ™μ•ˆ 계속 ν‚€μš°κ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
28:40
So, you have a limited supply and a limited time.
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λ”°λΌμ„œ μ œν•œλœ 곡급과 μ œν•œλœ μ‹œκ°„μ΄ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
28:43
Uh, but men, again, like, we, we don't have to do that.
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μ–΄, ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ λ‚¨μžλ“€μ€ λ‹€μ‹œ λ§ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ μš°λ¦¬λŠ” κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ ν•  ν•„μš”κ°€ μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
28:47
So, this is where the, the different reproductive strategies come from.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, 이것은 λ‹€λ₯Έ λ²ˆμ‹ μ „λž΅μ΄ λ‚˜μ˜€λŠ” κ³³μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
28:50
Uh, and so that's why a woman, you know, they have to be very selective about the kind of
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μ–΄, κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ—¬μžλŠ” 그듀이 μ°Ύκ³  μžˆλŠ” μ’…λ₯˜μ˜ λ‚¨μžμ— λŒ€ν•΄ 맀우 κΉŒλ‹€λ‘­κ²Œ 선택해야 ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
28:55
man they're looking for.
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28:56
But maybe men, like, we don't have to care as much.
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ μ•„λ§ˆλ„ λ‚¨μžλ“€μ€, μš°λ¦¬κ°€ κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ μ‹ κ²½ μ“Έ ν•„μš”κ°€ 없을 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
28:59
Like, you know, for just like a fun evening or something if you're looking for a friend
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예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄, μž¬λ―ΈμžˆλŠ” 저녁 μ΄λ‚˜ ν˜œνƒμ΄ μžˆλŠ” 친ꡬλ₯Ό μ°Ύκ³  μžˆλ‹€λ©΄
29:03
with benefits, you don't really care so much about maybe the person long-term.
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μž₯기적으둜 κ·Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ— λŒ€ν•΄ 그닀지 μ‹ κ²½ 쓰지 μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
29:07
And you're not thinking about it in an evolutionary way.
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그리고 당신은 그것에 λŒ€ν•΄ 진화둠적인 λ°©μ‹μœΌλ‘œ μƒκ°ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
29:10
Most people don't think about it like that anyway, but it's just a natural way we think.
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λŒ€λΆ€λΆ„μ˜ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ μ–΄μ°¨ν”Ό κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šμ§€λ§Œ , μš°λ¦¬κ°€ μƒκ°ν•˜λŠ” μžμ—°μŠ€λŸ¬μš΄ 방식일 λΏμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
29:14
Next, Mr. Right.
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λ‹€μŒμ€ Mr. Rightμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
29:16
Mr. Right.
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λ―ΈμŠ€ν„° 였λ₯Έμͺ½.
29:17
Now, we often don't hear about Mrs. Right, but it's a word or expression that you could
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μ§€κΈˆ μš°λ¦¬λŠ” μ’…μ’… Mrs. Right에 λŒ€ν•΄ 듣지 λͺ»ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ μ‚¬μš©ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” λ‹¨μ–΄λ‚˜ ν‘œν˜„μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
29:22
use.
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.
29:23
But Mr. Right is talking about, uh, the, the man that's right for me as a woman.
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ Mr. RightλŠ” μ €μ—κ²Œ μ—¬μ„±μœΌλ‘œμ„œ λ”± λ§žλŠ” λ‚¨μžμ— λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜κ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
29:27
So, I'm out looking for Mr. Right.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ €λŠ” Mr. Rightλ₯Ό μ°Ύκ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
29:29
Maybe I go out on dates with a couple of different men.
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μ•„λ§ˆλ„ λ‚˜λŠ” 두 λͺ…μ˜ λ‹€λ₯Έ λ‚¨μžμ™€ 데이트λ₯Ό ν•  κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
29:31
Uh, and then I find one that I really like and, ah!
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μ–΄, 그리고 λ‚˜μ„œ λ‚΄κ°€ 정말 μ’‹μ•„ν•˜λŠ” 것을 μ°Ύμ•˜κ³  , μ•„!
29:34
That's Mr. Right.
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였λ₯Έμͺ½ μ”¨μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
29:35
That's the, that's the good man for me.
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그게, 그게 λ‚˜μ—κ²Œ 쒋은 μ‚¬λžŒμ΄μ•Ό.
29:36
So, the one that maybe he's funny, and does other things, and he's, you know, the way
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, κ·ΈλŠ” 재미있고 λ‹€λ₯Έ 일을 ν•  μˆ˜λ„ 있고,
29:41
I want him to look or something like that.
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μ œκ°€ μ›ν•˜λŠ” κ·Έ λͺ¨μŠ΅μ΄λ‚˜ 그와 λΉ„μŠ·ν•œ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
29:43
Mr. Right.
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λ―ΈμŠ€ν„° 였λ₯Έμͺ½.
29:44
So, women will often be waiting for Mr. Right.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 여성듀은 μ’…μ’… Mr. Rightλ₯Ό 기닀리고 μžˆμ„ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
29:47
And maybe until he arrives, they date other people.
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그리고 μ•„λ§ˆλ„ κ·Έκ°€ 도착할 λ•ŒκΉŒμ§€ 그듀은 λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€κ³Ό 데이트λ₯Ό ν•  κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
29:49
Next, you got a stay-at-home mom or a stay-at-home dad, which is, uh, uh, becoming increasingly
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λ‹€μŒμœΌλ‘œ, μ „μ—…μ£ΌλΆ€ μ—„λ§ˆλ‚˜ μ „μ—…μ£ΌλΆ€ μ•„λΉ κ°€ μžˆλŠ”λ°, μ–΄, μ–΄, 점점 더 λ³΄νŽΈν™”λ˜κ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
29:56
common.
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.
29:57
I am at home.
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λ‚˜λŠ” 집에 μžˆλ‹€.
29:58
I'm not a stay-at-home dad, uh, because my wife is at home as well.
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μ €λŠ” μ „μ—… μ•„λΉ κ°€ μ•„λ‹ˆμ—μš”, μ–΄, 제 아내도 집에 μžˆμœΌλ‹ˆκΉŒμš”.
30:01
But this just means to be at home taking care of the children.
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κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‚˜ 이것은 단지 μ§‘μ—μ„œ 아이듀을 λŒλ³΄λŠ” 것을 μ˜λ―Έν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
30:04
Next, you’ll also hear to settle down.
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λ‹€μŒμœΌλ‘œ μ •μ°©ν•˜λΌλŠ” μ†Œλ¦¬λ„ λ“€λ¦½λ‹ˆλ‹€.
30:07
And the opposite is to see what's out there.
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그리고 κ·Έ λ°˜λŒ€λŠ” 밖에 μžˆλŠ” 것을 λ³΄λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
30:10
So, when you're talking about settling down, this is another great phrasal verb, a way
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λ”°λΌμ„œ 정착에 λŒ€ν•΄ 이야기할 λ•Œ 이것은 κ²°ν˜Όμ— λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜λŠ” 또 λ‹€λ₯Έ ν›Œλ₯­ν•œ κ΅¬λ™μ‚¬μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
30:14
of talking about getting married.
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.
30:16
So, we say, well, it's time for me to settle down.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 이제 λ‚΄κ°€ μ •μ°©ν•΄μ•Ό ν•  λ•ŒλΌκ³  λ§ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
30:19
I'm, you know, 40 years old.
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μ €λŠ” 40μ‚΄μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
30:21
I have a good job and I'm looking for now a wife, and I want to have kids and that kind
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λ‚˜λŠ” 쒋은 직업을 가지고 있고 μ§€κΈˆ μ•„λ‚΄λ₯Ό μ°Ύκ³  있고 아이λ₯Ό κ°–κ³  μ‹Άκ³  그런 μ’…λ₯˜
30:26
of thing.
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의 일을 ν•˜κ³  μ‹ΆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
30:27
So, it's time for me to settle ra, settle down.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 이제 λ‚΄κ°€ μ •μ°©ν•  μ‹œκ°„μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
30:29
Or, I’m, you know, seeing what my options are.
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λ˜λŠ” λ‚΄ μ˜΅μ…˜μ΄ 무엇인지 μ•Œκ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
30:32
Or, I'm, you know, still playing the field.
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λ˜λŠ”, μ €λŠ” μ—¬μ „νžˆ ν˜„μž₯μ—μ„œ λ›°κ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
30:35
These are, again, euphemisms where you're talking about still going out and, you know,
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이것은 λ‹€μ‹œ λ§ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ, μ—¬μ „νžˆ μ™ΈμΆœν•˜κ³ ,
30:39
trying to meet people and date people and see what your options are.
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μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ„ λ§Œλ‚˜κ³ , λ°μ΄νŠΈν•˜κ³ , λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ 선택이 무엇인지 μ•Œμ•„λ³΄λ €κ³  λ…Έλ ₯ν•˜λŠ” 것에 λŒ€ν•΄ λ§ν•˜λŠ” 완곑 μ–΄λ²•μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
30:43
Keep your options open.
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μ˜΅μ…˜μ„ μ—΄μ–΄ λ‘μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
30:45
Next, to seal the deal.
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λ‹€μŒμœΌλ‘œ 거래λ₯Ό μ„±μ‚¬μ‹œν‚€κΈ° μœ„ν•΄.
30:47
To seal the deal.
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거래λ₯Ό μ„±μ‚¬μ‹œν‚€κΈ° μœ„ν•΄.
30:48
This is another euphemism where you're talking about having sex, or some kind of connection
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이것은 당신이 μ„ΉμŠ€λ₯Ό ν•˜λŠ” 것에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜λŠ” 또 λ‹€λ₯Έ 완곑 어법 μ΄κ±°λ‚˜
30:53
where maybe you kiss someone or did something.
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ—κ²Œ ν‚€μŠ€λ₯Ό ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜ 무언가λ₯Ό ν•œ μΌμ’…μ˜ μ—°κ²°κ³ λ¦¬μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
30:55
Uh, but this is just coming from an idea of having a deal where maybe you have a contract
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μ–΄, ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 이것은
31:00
with a different company or something, uh, and you write down, you sign what that is.
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λ‹€λ₯Έ νšŒμ‚¬λ‚˜ λ‹€λ₯Έ νšŒμ‚¬μ™€ 계약을 λ§ΊλŠ” κ±°λž˜μ— λŒ€ν•œ μ•„μ΄λ””μ–΄μ—μ„œ λ‚˜μ˜¨ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
31:04
You put your seal on that.
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당신은 그것에 도μž₯을 μ°μ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
31:05
So, to seal the deal, to make sure it's, uh, like, a strong physical thing.
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λ”°λΌμ„œ 거래λ₯Ό μ„±μ‚¬μ‹œν‚€κΈ° μœ„ν•΄, μ–΄, κ°•λ ₯ν•œ 물리적인 것을 ν™•μΈν•˜κΈ° μœ„ν•΄.
31:10
But then we use that, uh, in a euphemistic way.
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κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‚˜ μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 그것을 μ™„κ³‘ν•˜κ²Œ μ‚¬μš©ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
31:13
So, as a euphemism talking about, well, like, I went out with this girl last night.
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완곑 μ–΄λ²•μœΌλ‘œ λ§ν•˜μžλ©΄, 어젯밀에 이 μ—¬μžλž‘ λ‚˜κ°”λ‹€.
31:17
And I, I come back and meet my friend for breakfast, and he says, β€œHey man, did you
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그리고 λŒμ•„μ™€μ„œ μ•„μΉ¨ 식사λ₯Ό μœ„ν•΄ 친ꡬλ₯Ό λ§Œλ‚¬λŠ”λ° μΉœκ΅¬κ°€ λ§ν–ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. "이봐,
31:21
seal the deal last night?”
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어젯밀에 거래λ₯Ό μ„±μ‚¬μ‹œμΌ°μ–΄?"
31:23
And I say, β€œOh, well, I don't kiss and tell.”
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그리고 μ €λŠ” "였, κΈ€μŽ„μš”, μ €λŠ” ν‚€μŠ€ν•˜κ³  λ§ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šμ•„μš”."라고 λ§ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
31:25
I don't kiss and tell.
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λ‚˜λŠ” ν‚€μŠ€ν•˜κ³  λ§ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒκ³Ό ν•œ 일을 λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ—κ²Œ λ§ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠμœΌλ €κ³  ν• 
31:26
That's another great phrase you can use when you want to, like, not tell other people what
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λ•Œ μ‚¬μš©ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” 또 λ‹€λ₯Έ 쒋은 ν‘œν˜„μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
31:30
you did with someone.
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.
31:31
Like, maybe you went out on a date, but I don't kiss and tell.
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예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄, 당신이 데이트λ₯Ό λ‚˜κ°”μ„ μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμ§€λ§Œ λ‚˜λŠ” ν‚€μŠ€ν•˜κ³  λ§ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
31:34
I don't kiss and tell.
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λ‚˜λŠ” ν‚€μŠ€ν•˜κ³  λ§ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
31:35
But, seal the deal just means to, to physically connect or do something in that way.
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κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‚˜ 거래 봉인은 물리적으둜 μ—°κ²°ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜ 그런 μ‹μœΌλ‘œ 무언가λ₯Ό ν•˜λŠ” 것을 μ˜λ―Έν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
31:40
Next, you'll hear Carly talking about bonus points.
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λ‹€μŒμœΌλ‘œ Carlyκ°€ λ³΄λ„ˆμŠ€ ν¬μΈνŠΈμ— λŒ€ν•΄ λ§ν•˜λŠ” 것을 λ“£κ²Œ 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
31:44
And now, points, uh, talking about that for people.
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그리고 이제 포인트, μ–΄, μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ„ μœ„ν•΄ 그것에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€ . μš°λ¦¬κ°€
31:46
It's almost like we do keep a mental score of people when we're out dating or even, you
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데이트λ₯Ό ν•  λ•Œ λ˜λŠ”
31:52
know, if you're using a dating app.
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데이트 앱을 μ‚¬μš©ν•˜λŠ” κ²½μš°μ—λ„ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ˜ μ •μ‹  점수λ₯Ό μœ μ§€ν•˜λŠ” 것과 거의 κ°™μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
31:54
And you're, like, okay, this person gets ten points because, you know, they're an athlete.
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그리고 당신은 이 μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ μš΄λ™μ„ μˆ˜μ΄κΈ° λ•Œλ¬Έμ— 10점을 μ–»μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
31:58
And so, they're very strong.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 그듀은 맀우 κ°•ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
32:00
Maybe they get another ten points because, uh, they're a very smart person, they went
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μ•„λ§ˆλ„ 그듀은 10점을 더 받을 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ–΄, 그듀은 맀우 λ˜‘λ˜‘ν•œ μ‚¬λžŒμ΄κ³ 
32:04
to a good college.
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쒋은 λŒ€ν•™μ„ λ‚˜μ™”κΈ° λ•Œλ¬Έμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
32:05
Uh, but they lose 20 points because they went to jail for doing something.
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μ–΄, ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 그듀은 μ–΄λ–€ 일을 ν•΄μ„œ 감μ˜₯에 κ°”κΈ° λ•Œλ¬Έμ— 20점을 μžƒμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
32:09
So, we, we talk about having different points for, uh, for people in this way.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 이런 μ‹μœΌλ‘œ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ—κ²Œ λ‹€λ₯Έ 점을 κ°–λŠ” 것에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
32:14
And so, Carly was saying, β€œWell, that guy gets bonus points because he, uh, like, you
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ CarlyλŠ” "κΈ€μŽ„μš”, κ·Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ€ λ³΄λ„ˆμŠ€ 포인트λ₯Ό μ–»μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ™œλƒν•˜λ©΄ κ·Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ€, μ–΄, κ·Έκ°€, μ•„μ‹œλ‹€μ‹œν”Ό
32:19
know, went out and, like, took care of my family,” or does something like this.
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, λ‚˜κ°€μ„œ, 마치, 우리 가쑱을 돌봀기 λ•Œλ¬Έμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ ." λ˜λŠ” 이와 같은 행동을 ν–ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
32:23
So, you can, like, kind of over time in a relationship, you can change your own point
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λ”°λΌμ„œ κ΄€κ³„μ—μ„œ μ‹œκ°„μ΄ 지남에 따라 λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ„ μœ„ν•΄ μžμ‹ μ˜ 포인트 μˆ˜μ€€μ„ λ³€κ²½ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
32:27
level, uh, for the other person.
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.
32:29
So, they're, they're thinking about you in a certain way.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 그듀은 νŠΉμ •ν•œ λ°©μ‹μœΌλ‘œ 당신에 λŒ€ν•΄ μƒκ°ν•˜κ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
32:32
If you do something nice for them, you kind of increase your point level for that.
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당신이 κ·Έλ“€μ—κ²Œ 쒋은 일을 ν•΄μ€€λ‹€λ©΄ 그에 λŒ€ν•œ 점수λ₯Ό μ˜¬λ¦¬λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
32:35
So, Carly was saying bonus points for, you know, my mom liking a guy.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ CarlyλŠ” 우리 μ—„λ§ˆκ°€ λ‚¨μžλ₯Ό μ’‹μ•„ν•˜λŠ” 것에 λŒ€ν•΄ λ³΄λ„ˆμŠ€ 포인트λ₯Ό λ§ν•œ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
32:41
And finally, a few more things.
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λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰μœΌλ‘œ λͺ‡ 가지 더 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
32:42
We've got sleazy.
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μš°λ¦¬λŠ” μ²œλ°•ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
32:43
So, sleazy just meaning, like, a guy walks up to you and he says, β€œHey, we should go
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ sleazyλŠ” μ–΄λ–€ λ‚¨μžκ°€ λ‹Ήμ‹ μ—κ²Œ λ‹€κ°€μ™€μ„œ "이봐,
32:47
back to my house and have sex right now.”
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우리 μ§‘μœΌλ‘œ λŒμ•„κ°€μ„œ μ§€κΈˆ λ‹Ήμž₯ μ„ΉμŠ€λ₯Ό ν•΄μ•Ό ν•΄"라고 λ§ν•˜λŠ” 것을 μ˜λ―Έν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
32:50
And you say, β€œEww.
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그리고 당신은 β€œμš°μ™€.
32:51
Like, I don't want to do that.”
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예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄, λ‚˜λŠ” κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ ν•˜κ³  싢지 μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.”
32:52
That doesn't sound like you're, I don't know, I'm not attracted to you.
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그건 당신이 μ•„λ‹Œ κ²ƒμ²˜λŸΌ λ“€λ¦¬λŠ”λ°, λͺ¨λ₯΄κ² μ–΄, λ‚œ λ‹Ήμ‹ μ—κ²Œ λŒλ¦¬μ§€ μ•Šμ•„.
32:55
And that was a really horrible way to begin the conversation.
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그리고 그것은 λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό μ‹œμž‘ν•˜λŠ” 정말 λ”μ°ν•œ λ°©λ²•μ΄μ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
32:59
That's just sleazy.
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그것은 단지 μ²œλ°•ν•œ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
33:00
Sleazy.
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μ–„νŒν•œ.
33:01
And it's not something you like.
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그리고 그것은 당신이 μ’‹μ•„ν•˜λŠ” 것이 μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€.
33:03
Uh, another expression is to hit it and quit it.
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μ–΄, 또 λ‹€λ₯Έ ν‘œν˜„μ€ 치고 그만 λ‘λΌλŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
33:06
Now, listen carefully, I'll pronounce it so you can understand.
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자, 잘 λ“€μœΌμ„Έμš”. 이해할 수 μžˆλ„λ‘ λ°œμŒν•˜κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
33:10
Hit it and quit it.
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치고 μ’…λ£Œν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
33:12
But we're pronouncing it quickly as hidit and quidit.
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κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‚˜ μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 그것을 hidit 및 quidit둜 빨리 λ°œμŒν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
33:15
Hidit and quidit.
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Hidit 및 quidit.
33:16
Hidit and quidit.
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Hidit 및 quidit.
33:17
It's almost like hidid en quidit.
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그것은 거의 hidid en quidit와 κ°™μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
33:20
Hidid en quidit, hit it and quit it.
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Hidid en quidit, λ•Œλ¦¬κ³  μ’…λ£Œν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
33:23
So, hit it, again, this is a euphemism for having sex.
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λ‹€μ‹œ ν•œ 번 λ§ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 이것은 μ„ΉμŠ€λ₯Ό μ™„κ³‘ν•˜κ²Œ ν‘œν˜„ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
33:27
Again, we've got lots of these.
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λ‹€μ‹œ λ§ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ, μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 이것듀을 많이 가지고 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
33:28
So, to hit something and then to quit means, like, to leave.
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λ”°λΌμ„œ 무언가λ₯Ό 치고 λ‚˜μ„œ κ·Έλ§Œλ‘”λ‹€λŠ” 것은 λ– λ‚˜λŠ” 것과 같은 μ˜λ―Έμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
33:31
So, it's like a one-night stand, where a guy sleeps with a girl and then they don't do
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, 그것은 λ‚¨μžκ°€ μ—¬μžμ™€ 자고
33:36
anything more for whatever reason.
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μ–΄λ–€ 이유둜 λ“  더 이상 μ•„λ¬΄κ²ƒλ„ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠλŠ” μ›λ‚˜μž‡ μŠ€νƒ λ“œμ™€ κ°™μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
33:37
But, uh, yeah, like, he hit it and quit it.
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ, μ–΄, 예, κ·ΈλŠ” 그것을 치고 그만 λ‘μ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
33:40
So, it's a very kind of, like, sad thing.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 그것은 맀우 μΌμ’…μ˜ μŠ¬ν”ˆ μΌμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
33:42
Or, you know, if both people were interested in that, that's great.
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λ˜λŠ” 두 μ‚¬λžŒ λͺ¨λ‘ 관심이 μžˆλ‹€λ©΄ μ’‹μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
33:45
But, uh, this is more how people can describe it in that way.
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ, μ–΄, 이것은 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ 그런 μ‹μœΌλ‘œ μ„€λͺ…ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” λ°©λ²•μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
33:50
Now finally, we'll just cover some of the biological terms that were used in the conversation
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이제 λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰μœΌλ‘œ λŒ€ν™”μ—μ„œ μ‚¬μš©λœ 일뢀 생물학적 μš©μ–΄λ„ λ‹€λ£° κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
33:54
as well.
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.
33:55
Again, they'll be euphemisms for these kinds of things.
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λ‹€μ‹œ λ§ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ, 그듀은 이런 μ’…λ₯˜μ˜ 것듀에 λŒ€ν•œ 완곑 어법이 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
33:58
The first one is a period.
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첫 λ²ˆμ§ΈλŠ” κΈ°κ°„μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
33:59
So, period, uh, this is kind of the everyday conversational term, the most commonly used
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음, λ§ˆμΉ¨ν‘œλŠ” μΌμ’…μ˜ 일상 λŒ€ν™” μš©μ–΄λ‘œ,
34:05
expression, uh, for a, a woman's monthly menstrual cycle.
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μ—¬μ„±μ˜ μ›”κ²½ 주기에 λŒ€ν•΄ κ°€μž₯ 일반적으둜 μ‚¬μš©λ˜λŠ” ν‘œν˜„μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
34:09
So, you have, you know, like, like, blood and things that come out.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, 당신은 ν”Ό 와 λ‚˜μ˜€λŠ” 것듀을 가지고 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
34:13
I don't need to go specifically into that.
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λ‚˜λŠ” 그것에 ꡬ체적으둜 λ“€μ–΄κ°ˆ ν•„μš”κ°€ μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
34:15
But, anyway, to saying, to say you have your period.
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κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‚˜ μ–΄μ¨Œλ“  생리가 μžˆλ‹€κ³  λ§ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
34:18
Um, it's kind of like, like a period, like a period of time.
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음, μΌμ’…μ˜ κΈ°κ°„κ³Ό κ°™μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. κΈ°κ°„κ³Ό κ°™μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
34:22
So, like, it's my period or you would say or hear women say, β€œI'm on my period right
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, 예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄, λ‚΄ κΈ°κ°„μ΄κ±°λ‚˜ 여성이 "μ§€κΈˆ λ‚΄ κΈ°κ°„ μ€‘μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
34:27
now.”
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"라고 λ§ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜ λ“£κ²Œ 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
34:28
So, that's a very common expression for that.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 그것은 그것에 λŒ€ν•œ 맀우 일반적인 ν‘œν˜„μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
34:29
Um, there are other ways of describing it, but really this is the most common one.
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음, 그것을 μ„€λͺ…ν•˜λŠ” λ‹€λ₯Έ 방법이 μžˆμ§€λ§Œ μ‹€μ œλ‘œλŠ” 이것이 κ°€μž₯ 일반적인 λ°©λ²•μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
34:33
And so if you're using that, like, if you were a woman and talking to your girlfriends
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ λ§Œμ•½ 당신이 그것을 μ‚¬μš©ν•˜κ³  μžˆλ‹€λ©΄, 예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄ 당신이 μ—¬μžμ΄κ³  λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ μ—¬μž 친ꡬ
34:36
and say, β€œYeah, I'm not feeling very good right now.
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와 μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜κ³  β€œκ·Έλž˜, μ§€κΈˆ 기뢄이 쒋지 μ•Šμ•„ .
34:40
Like, I'm, like, I'm on my period.”
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마치, μ œκ°€ 생리 μ€‘μ΄μ—μš”.”
34:42
You can also say, or you will hear people talking about, it's my time of the month.
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당신은 λ˜ν•œ 말할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€, λ˜λŠ” 당신은 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ λ§ν•˜λŠ” 것을 λ“£κ²Œ 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
34:47
It's my time of the month, or it's her time of the month.
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이 λ‹¬μ˜ λ‚΄ μ‹œκ°„μ΄κ±°λ‚˜ κ·Έ λ‹¬μ˜ κ·Έλ…€μ˜ μ‹œκ°„μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
34:50
And this just means, again, it's a euphemism for talking about a period.
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그리고 이것은 단지 기간에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜κΈ° μœ„ν•œ μ™„κ³‘μ–΄λ²•μ΄λΌλŠ” 것을 μ˜λ―Έν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
34:54
So, women have a monthly cycle, uh, where they're, you know, like, more likely to get
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λ”°λΌμ„œ 여성은 μ›”κ°„ μ£ΌκΈ°κ°€ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ–΄, μž„μ‹  ν•  κ°€λŠ₯성이 더 높은 κ³³μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
34:59
pregnant.
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.
35:00
And then, you know, they release a new egg.
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그리고 μ•Œλ‹€μ‹œν”Ό 그듀은 μƒˆλ‘œμš΄ μ•Œμ„ λ‚³μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
35:01
And again, I don't need to talk about the biology of it, but it's more about the expressions
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λ‹€μ‹œ λ§ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 생물학에 λŒ€ν•΄ 말할 ν•„μš”λŠ” μ—†μ§€λ§Œ
35:05
that people use.
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μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ μ‚¬μš©ν•˜λŠ” ν‘œν˜„μ— κ΄€ν•œ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
35:06
But very common ones are to be on your period, or to have your period, uh, or having your
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κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‚˜ 맀우 일반적인 것은 생리 쀑이 κ±°λ‚˜ 생리 μ€‘μ΄κ±°λ‚˜
35:11
time of the month.
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ν•œ 달 쀑 μ‹œκ°„μ„ λ³΄λ‚΄λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
35:14
You'll also hear me talking about a gestation period.
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λ˜ν•œ μž„μ‹  기간에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜λŠ” 것을 λ“£κ²Œ 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
35:16
And this just refers to how long a baby is growing, uh, inside of a woman.
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그리고 이것은 μ•„κΈ°κ°€ μ–Όλ§ˆλ‚˜ 였래 자라고 μžˆλŠ”μ§€λ₯Ό μ˜λ―Έν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€ . μ–΄, μ—¬μ„±μ˜ λ±ƒμ†μ—μ„œ 말이죠.
35:21
So, for humans, it's nine months.
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λ”°λΌμ„œ μΈκ°„μ—κ²ŒλŠ” 9κ°œμ›”μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
35:23
For elephants, it's, I don’t know two years or something like that.
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μ½”λΌλ¦¬μ˜ 경우, 2λ…„ μ •λ„μΈμ§€λŠ” λͺ¨λ₯΄κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
35:26
I don't remember how long it is, but it takes a long time I think.
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μ–Όλ§ˆμΈμ§€λŠ” 기얡이 μ•ˆλ‚˜λŠ”λ° 생각보닀 μ˜€λž˜κ±Έλ¦¬λ„€μš”.
35:29
Uh, but anyway, that's the gestation, the gestation period.
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μ–΄, ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ μ–΄μ¨Œλ“  그건 μž„μ‹ , μž„μ‹  κΈ°κ°„μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
35:32
Uh, but even from this idea of the physical, like, uh, like, having a baby, being pregnant,
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μ–΄, ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ μ•„κΈ°λ₯Ό κ°–λŠ” 것, μž„μ‹ ν•˜λŠ” 것,
35:38
the gestation period of that.
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μž„μ‹  κΈ°κ°„κ³Ό 같은 신체적인 μƒκ°μ—μ„œμ‘°μ°¨μš”.
35:40
Uh, we also talk about that, like, the incubation period or the gestation period, uh, for, like,
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μ–΄, μš°λ¦¬λŠ” λ˜ν•œ 잠볡기 λ˜λŠ” μž„μ‹  기간에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄
35:46
building a, a company or something like that.
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νšŒμ‚¬λ₯Ό κ΅¬μΆ•ν•˜λŠ” 것과 같은 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
35:47
So, maybe a company would have a division that's building some new product, and there's
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λ”°λΌμ„œ νšŒμ‚¬μ— μƒˆλ‘œμš΄ μ œν’ˆμ„ λ§Œλ“œλŠ” λΆ€μ„œκ°€ μžˆμ„ 수 있으며 μ œν’ˆμ— λŒ€ν•΄
35:52
a gestation period where they're thinking about it.
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μƒκ°ν•˜λŠ” μž„μ‹  기간이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
35:55
They're figuring out what that is.
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그듀은 그것이 무엇인지 μ•Œμ•„λ‚΄κ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
35:56
Like, they're incubating an idea.
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예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄, 그듀은 아이디어λ₯Ό λ°°μ–‘ν•˜κ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
35:58
Uh, that same kind of thing, but it's just before something is released or born or given
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μ–΄, 같은 μ’…λ₯˜μ˜ κ²ƒμ΄μ§€λ§Œ 무언가가 μΆœμ‹œλ˜κ±°λ‚˜ νƒœμ–΄λ‚˜κ±°λ‚˜
36:03
to the market.
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μ‹œμž₯에 제곡되기 μ§μ „μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
36:04
Uh, it's taking some time to grow internally.
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μ–΄, λ‚΄λΆ€μ μœΌλ‘œ μ„±μž₯ν•˜λŠ” 데 μ‹œκ°„μ΄ μ’€ κ±Έλ¦½λ‹ˆλ‹€.
36:07
Next, we have contraceptive.
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λ‹€μŒμœΌλ‘œ ν”Όμž„λ²•μ΄ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
36:10
A contraceptive.
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ν”Όμž„μ•½.
36:11
Now, a contraceptive is something that inhibits a woman becoming pregnant.
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자, ν”Όμž„μ•½μ€ 여성이 μž„μ‹ ν•˜λŠ” 것을 λ§‰λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
36:15
Uh, so, really, for men, this could be just wearing a condom.
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μ–΄, κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, μ •λ§λ‘œ, λ‚¨μžλ“€μ—κ²Œ 이것은 단지 μ½˜λ”μ„ λΌλŠ” 것일 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
36:19
Really that’s about all you can do, uh, unless you're getting, like, an actual operation
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정말 그게 당신이 ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” μ „λΆ€μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 음, μ •κ΄€ 절제술 같은 μ‹€μ œ μˆ˜μˆ μ„ 받지 μ•ŠλŠ” ν•œμš”
36:24
where, um, like, you're getting a, a vasectomy.
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.
36:26
So, you won't hear this.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, 당신은 이것을 듣지 μ•Šμ„ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
36:28
Like, I don't go into detail about this in the conversation.
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예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄, λ‚˜λŠ” λŒ€ν™”μ—μ„œ 이것에 λŒ€ν•΄ μžμ„Ένžˆ μ„€λͺ…ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
36:30
I just thought maybe you would be interested in that.
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λ‚˜λŠ” 당신이 그것에 κ΄€μ‹¬μ΄μžˆμ„ 것이라고 μƒκ°ν–ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
36:33
But that's the operation where you're getting your tubes tied.
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κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‚˜ 그것은 튜브λ₯Ό λ¬ΆλŠ” μž‘μ—…μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
36:36
And so, you actually can't, uh, produce any children anymore.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 더 이상 아이λ₯Ό 낳을 수 μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
36:39
Actually, some people maybe it, it heels or something.
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사싀, μ–΄λ–€ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ 그럴 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
36:41
Uh, but typically when you get your tubes tied, then you're, it’s, you’re unable
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μ–΄, ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 일반적으둜 튜브λ₯Ό 묢으면
36:45
to have, uh, make, pro, produce children anymore.
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더 이상 아이λ₯Ό 낳을 수 μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
36:48
But you can still have sex.
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κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‚˜ 당신은 μ—¬μ „νžˆ β€‹β€‹μ„ΉμŠ€λ₯Ό ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
36:49
So, this is why people would do it, uh, because men don't want to wear a condom, you know.
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이것이 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ μ½˜λ”μ„ μ°©μš©ν•˜λŠ” 것을 μ›ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠλŠ” μ΄μœ μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
36:55
Uh, but, uh, like, for women, there are lots of different things you can do, and I won't
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μ–΄, ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ, μ–΄, 예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄, μ—¬μ„±μ˜ 경우 ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” 일이 μ•„μ£Ό λ§ŽμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 이
36:58
go into all these.
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λͺ¨λ“  것을 λ‹€λ£¨μ§€λŠ” μ•Šκ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
36:59
But again, contraceptive is just, um, uh, talking about either you're blocking something
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ λ‹€μ‹œ λ§ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ, ν”Όμž„μ€ 음, μ–΄, 물리적으둜 무언가λ₯Ό μ°¨λ‹¨ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜
37:03
physically or doing something like taking, uh, what women just call the pill.
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여성듀이 μ•Œμ•½μ΄λΌκ³  λΆ€λ₯΄λŠ” 것을 λ³΅μš©ν•˜λŠ” 것과 같은 것을 λ§ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
37:08
So, women say I'm on the pill, and this is just talking about, you know, they're taking
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 여성듀은 λ‚΄κ°€ 약을 λ¨Ήκ³  μžˆλ‹€κ³  λ§ν•˜λŠ”λ°, 이것은 단지 그듀이
37:13
their pill every day.
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맀일 약을 λ¨Ήκ³  μžˆλ‹€λŠ” 것을 λ§ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
37:14
So it's, it’s stopping them, uh, from being able to get pregnant.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 그것은 그듀이, μ–΄, μž„μ‹ ν•  수 μ—†κ²Œ ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
37:17
Again, so they can, you know, still not use a condom and enjoy sex.
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λ‹€μ‹œ λ§ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ, 그듀은 μ—¬μ „νžˆ β€‹β€‹μ½˜λ”μ„ μ‚¬μš©ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šκ³  μ„ΉμŠ€λ₯Ό 즐길 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
37:21
Next, you’ll also hear us talking about young children, and then you can have adoptive
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λ‹€μŒμœΌλ‘œ μš°λ¦¬κ°€ μ–΄λ¦° 아이듀에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜λŠ” 것을 λ“£κ²Œ 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ . 그런 λ‹€μŒ μž…μ–‘
37:26
children or foster children.
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μžλ…€λ₯Ό κ°–κ±°λ‚˜ μœ„νƒ μžλ…€λ₯Ό κ°€μ§ˆ 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
37:28
Uh, typically when, uh, like, a regular family will go to, like, an orphanage or they will
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μ–΄, 일반적으둜 일반 가쑱이 고아원에 κ°€κ±°λ‚˜
37:33
just go to the hospital and adopt a baby from some other family.
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κ·Έλƒ₯ 병원에 κ°€μ„œ λ‹€λ₯Έ κ°€μ‘±μ˜ μ•„κΈ°λ₯Ό μž…μ–‘ν•  λ•Œμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
37:37
Uh, this is just having a child that is not yours or your, of your blood.
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μ–΄, 이것은 단지 λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ 것이 μ•„λ‹Œ, λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜, λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ ν˜ˆν†΅μ΄ μ•„λ‹Œ 아이λ₯Ό κ°–λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
37:41
And so, you're raising that child, or you could have a foster child.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, 당신은 κ·Έ 아이λ₯Ό ν‚€μš°κ³  μžˆκ±°λ‚˜ μœ„νƒ 아동을 κ°€μ§ˆ 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
37:45
And typically, a foster child, it, it's like, um, like a child that isn't directly given
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그리고 일반적으둜 μœ„νƒμ•„λ™μ€ 음, νƒœμ–΄λ‚  λ•Œ λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ—κ²Œ 직접 주어지지 μ•ŠλŠ” 아이와 κ°™μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
37:49
to someone else at birth.
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.
37:50
So, maybe they go into an orphanage.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 그듀은 고아원에 갈 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
37:52
This is a, a house or a place where, uh, a lot of children who don't have parents are.
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이것은, μ–΄, λΆ€λͺ¨κ°€ μ—†λŠ” λ§Žμ€ 아이듀이 μžˆλŠ” μ§‘μ΄λ‚˜ μž₯μ†Œμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
37:56
So, they're being raised in that.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 그듀은 κ·Έκ³³μ—μ„œ 자라고 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
37:58
Um, and so, they would go through maybe a foster parent.
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음, κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 그듀은 μ–‘λΆ€λͺ¨λ₯Ό 톡해 갈 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
38:01
So, this is a similar thing of being adopted, but maybe it's not you’re like adopting
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 이것은 μž…μ–‘λ˜λŠ” 것과 λΉ„μŠ· ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ μ•„λ§ˆλ„ 당신이
38:05
that child, you know, for, for life.
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κ·Έ 아이λ₯Ό 평생 λ™μ•ˆ μž…μ–‘ν•˜λŠ” 것과 κ°™μ§€λŠ” μ•Šμ„ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
38:07
So, you might, like, kind of take care of that child for a while, uh, and then put them
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μž μ‹œ λ™μ•ˆ κ·Έ 아이λ₯Ό 돌본 λ‹€μŒ
38:12
on a, you know, maybe do something else or give them to a different family.
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λ‹€λ₯Έ 일을 ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜ λ‹€λ₯Έ κ°€μ‘±μ—κ²Œ 맑길 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
38:15
Uh, or they just get older and then they begin to take care of themselves.
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μ–΄, μ•„λ‹ˆλ©΄ λ‚˜μ΄κ°€ λ“€λ©΄μ„œ 슀슀둜λ₯Ό 돌보기 μ‹œμž‘ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
38:20
And finally, this isn't exactly a biological term, but I talked about a young buck.
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그리고 λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰μœΌλ‘œ, 이것은 μ •ν™•ν•˜κ²Œ 생물학적 μš©μ–΄λŠ” μ•„λ‹ˆμ§€λ§Œ μ €λŠ” μ Šμ€ μˆ˜μ‚¬μŠ΄μ— λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν–ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
38:24
Now, this is a term for young men.
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자, 이것은 μ Šμ€μ΄λ“€μ„ μœ„ν•œ μš©μ–΄μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
38:26
Uh, and I was saying, β€œWell, I'm not a young buck anymore,” you know, a young man.
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μ–΄, 그리고 μ €λŠ” "κΈ€μŽ„μš”, μ €λŠ” 더 이상 μ Šμ€ 벅이 μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€."라고 λ§ν•˜κ³  μžˆμ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
38:30
This is like, you know, like, 18 to 20, I don't know, 9 or something like that.
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18μ„Έμ—μ„œ 20μ„Έ, μž˜μ€ λͺ¨λ₯΄κ² μ§€λ§Œ 9μ„Έ μ •λ„μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
38:35
So, younger men that are maybe not married yet and they're going out and, you know, still
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 아직 κ²°ν˜Όν•˜μ§€ μ•Šμ€ μ Šμ€ λ‚¨μžλ“€μ΄ 사귀고 있고,
38:39
playing the field in the dating scene, other things like that.
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데이트 μž₯λ©΄μ—μ„œ μ—¬μ „νžˆ ν•„λ“œλ₯Ό 노리고 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
38:43
But they're not married, and they're going out and just younger and, uh, doing things
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 그듀은 κ²°ν˜Όν•˜μ§€ μ•Šμ•˜κ³ , 사귀고 있고, 더 젊고, μ–΄, 이런 일을 ν•˜κ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
38:47
like this.
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.
38:48
But typically, older men are describing younger men in that way.
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κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‚˜ 일반적으둜 λ‚˜μ΄λ“  남성은 μ Šμ€ 남성을 그런 μ‹μœΌλ‘œ λ¬˜μ‚¬ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
38:50
A young buck, just like a young deer, uh, compared to an older deer.
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λŠ™μ€ μ‚¬μŠ΄μ— λΉ„ν•˜λ©΄ μ–΄λ¦° μ‚¬μŠ΄κ³Ό 같은 μ–΄λ¦° μ‚¬μŠ΄μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
38:55
Well, that's it for this lesson.
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자, 이번 κ°•μ˜λŠ” μ—¬κΈ°κΉŒμ§€μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
38:56
I hope you have enjoyed going back and reviewing this.
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λ‚˜λŠ” 당신이 λŒμ•„κ°€μ„œ 이것을 κ²€ν† ν•˜λŠ” 것을 즐겼기λ₯Ό λ°”λžλ‹ˆλ‹€ .
38:59
Uh, and again, do go back.
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μ–΄, 그리고 λ‹€μ‹œ λŒμ•„κ°€μ„Έμš”.
39:00
Uh, listen to things again.
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μ–΄, λ‹€μ‹œ 듀어봐.
39:02
Remember to go back and practice speaking with me.
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λŒμ•„κ°€μ„œ 저와 λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό μ—°μŠ΅ν•˜λŠ” 것을 μžŠμ§€ λ§ˆμ„Έμš” .
39:04
Watch how I speak.
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λ‚΄κ°€ μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ λ§ν•˜λŠ”μ§€ λ³΄μ„Έμš”.
39:06
Remember, I don't, I don't have a script for these lessons.
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κΈ°μ–΅ν•˜μ„Έμš”, μ €λŠ” 이 μˆ˜μ—…μ„ μœ„ν•œ λŒ€λ³Έμ΄ μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
39:08
So, I'm just thinking about what I want to say as I say it.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ λ‚˜λŠ” λ§ν•˜λ©΄μ„œ λ‚΄κ°€ ν•˜κ³  싢은 말만 μƒκ°ν•˜κ³  μžˆλ‹€ .
39:11
But I'm still able to communicate fluently and automatically.
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κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‚˜ λ‚˜λŠ” μ—¬μ „νžˆ μœ μ°½ν•˜κ³  μžλ™μ μœΌλ‘œ μ˜μ‚¬ μ†Œν†΅μ„ ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
39:14
And really this is something you can develop.
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그리고 μ‹€μ œλ‘œ 이것은 μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ΄ κ°œλ°œν•  수 μžˆλŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
39:16
You can watch as I do this.
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λ‚΄κ°€ μ΄λ ‡κ²Œ ν•˜λŠ” 것을 μ§€μΌœλ³Ό 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
39:17
Sometimes I'm even thinking about something I want to say, uh, but then maybe I have to
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가끔은 λ‚΄κ°€ ν•˜κ³  싢은 말에 λŒ€ν•΄ μƒκ°ν•˜κΈ°λ„ ν•˜κ³  , μ–΄, ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ
39:21
change my mind, or I have to think about it in a different way.
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λ§ˆμŒμ„ λ°”κΎΈκ±°λ‚˜ λ‹€λ₯Έ λ°©μ‹μœΌλ‘œ 생각해야 ν•  μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
39:25
But you develop a better sense for this if you actually go back and repeat to try to
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κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‚˜ μ‹€μ œλ‘œ λŒμ•„κ°€μ„œ
39:29
speak with me or speak right after me.
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λ‚˜μ—κ²Œ λ§ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜ λ°”λ‘œ λ’€μ—μ„œ λ§ν•˜λ €κ³  λ°˜λ³΅ν•˜λ©΄ 이에 λŒ€ν•œ 더 λ‚˜μ€ 감각을 κ°œλ°œν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
39:32
Uh, and this will help you get fluent faster.
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μ–΄, 그리고 이것은 당신이 더 빨리 μœ μ°½ν•΄μ§€λŠ” 데 도움이 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
39:33
So, go back and review this, and I'll see you in the Master Class Conversation coming
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λŒμ•„κ°€μ„œ 이것을 κ²€ν† ν•˜κ³  λ‹€μŒ λ§ˆμŠ€ν„° 클래슀 λŒ€ν™”μ—μ„œ λ΅™κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
39:37
up next.
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.
39:46
Bye bye.
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μ•ˆλ…•.
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