How to be polite in English, with Leandra King -

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ไธ‹ใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžๅญ—ๅน•ใ‚’ใƒ€ใƒ–ใƒซใ‚ฏใƒชใƒƒใ‚ฏใ™ใ‚‹ใจๅ‹•็”ปใ‚’ๅ†็”Ÿใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ็ฟป่จณใ•ใ‚ŒใŸๅญ—ๅน•ใฏๆฉŸๆขฐ็ฟป่จณใงใ™ใ€‚

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- Hello and welcome to Speak English With Christina, the place to learn fun, fluent,
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- ใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏใ€Speak English With Christina ใธใ‚ˆใ†ใ“ใ ใ€‚ๆฅฝใ—ใๆตๆšขใง
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and easy American English.
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็ฐกๅ˜ใชใ‚ขใƒกใƒชใ‚ซ่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’ๅญฆในใ‚‹ๅ ดๆ‰€ใงใ™ใ€‚
00:09
Today I'm really excited because I have a special guest on today, I'll be interviewing
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ไปŠๆ—ฅใฏ ็‰นๅˆฅใ‚ฒใ‚นใƒˆใŒใ„ใฆใ€
00:15
Leandra King, who is the creator of The Culture Sensitive Phrasebook.
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The Culture Sensitive Phrasebook ใฎไฝœๆˆ่€…ใงใ‚ใ‚‹ Leandra King ใซใ‚คใƒณใ‚ฟใƒ“ใƒฅใƒผใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ€ใจใฆใ‚‚ๆฅฝใ—ใฟใงใ™ ใ€‚
00:22
Because, you know, in American English especially, but also in British English, and in lots of
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็‰นใซใ‚ขใƒกใƒชใ‚ซ่‹ฑ่ชžใ ใ‘ใงใชใใ€ ใ‚คใ‚ฎใƒชใ‚น่‹ฑ่ชžใงใ‚‚ใ€
00:29
different places in the English speaking world, politeness is really important.
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่‹ฑ่ชžๅœใฎใ•ใพใ–ใพใชๅ ดๆ‰€ใงใ‚‚ใ€ ็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ•ใฏ้žๅธธใซ้‡่ฆใงใ™ใ€‚
00:36
Like when you communicate with native English speakers, it's really important to be polite.
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่‹ฑ่ชžใฎใƒใ‚คใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒ– ใ‚นใƒ”ใƒผใ‚ซใƒผใจใ‚ณใƒŸใƒฅใƒ‹ใ‚ฑใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใ‚’ใจใ‚‹ใจใใจๅŒๆง˜ใซ ใ€็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒ้žๅธธใซ้‡่ฆใงใ™ใ€‚
00:43
And Leandra is the creator of this Culture Sensitive Phrasebook to help non native English
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ใƒฌใ‚ขใƒณใƒ‰ใƒฉใฏใ€ ่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’ๆฏๅ›ฝ
00:52
speaking expats to understand the culture that is behind the English language.
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่ชžใจใ—ใชใ„ๅค–ๅ›ฝไบบใŒ่‹ฑ่ชžใฎ่ƒŒๅพŒใซใ‚ใ‚‹ๆ–‡ๅŒ–ใ‚’็†่งฃใงใใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€ใ“ใฎใ‚ซใƒซใƒใƒฃใƒผ ใ‚ปใƒณใ‚ทใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒ– ใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใƒ–ใƒƒใ‚ฏใฎไฝœๆˆ่€…ใงใ™ ใ€‚
00:59
So, lots of things about politeness, and this is something that will help you to have better
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ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ•ใซ้–ขใ™ใ‚‹ๅคšใใฎใ“ใจใฏใ€ ใ‚ˆใ‚Š่‰ฏใ„ไบบ้–“้–ขไฟ‚ใ‚’็ฏ‰ใใฎใซๅฝน็ซ‹ใคใ‚‚ใฎใงใ™ใ€‚
01:07
relationships, it could be professional relationships or friendships, if you're trying to meet,
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01:17
let's say, native speakers because you live in the United States or you live in a different
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ใŸใจใˆใฐใ€ใ‚ขใƒกใƒชใ‚ซใซไฝใ‚“ใงใ„ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซใƒใ‚คใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒ– ใ‚นใƒ”ใƒผใ‚ซใƒผใซไผšใŠใ†ใจใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใ‚„ใ€ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅˆฅใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžๅœใฎๅ›ฝใซไฝใ‚“ใงใ„ใพใ™
01:22
English speaking country.
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She's from Barbados, as well, so it's good to have a different accent from my American
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ๅฝผๅฅณใ‚‚ใƒใƒซใƒใƒ‰ใ‚นๅ‡บ่บซใชใฎใงใ€ ็งใฎใ‚ขใƒกใƒชใ‚ซ่จ›ใ‚Šใจใฏ้•ใ†่จ›ใ‚ŠใŒใ„ใ„ใงใ™ใญ
01:30
accent.
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01:31
I think you'll really enjoy that.
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ใใฃใจๆฅฝใ—ใ‚“ใงใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
01:33
So, I'm gonna let you enjoy this conversation.
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ใใ‚Œใงใฏใ€ใ“ใฎไผš่ฉฑใ‚’ใŠๆฅฝใ—ใฟใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
01:37
You're going to learn a lot about politeness, why it's important, how to be polite, how
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็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ•ใซใคใ„ใฆใ€ ใชใœใใ‚ŒใŒ้‡่ฆใชใฎใ‹ใ€็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใ€
01:43
to be sure that you avoid being rude even if you don't mean to be rude, like you do
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็„ก็คผใซใชใ‚‹ใคใ‚‚ใ‚ŠใŒใชใใฆใ‚‚็„ก็คผใซใชใ‚‰
01:52
it not on purpose.
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ใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใชใฉใ€ๅคšใใฎใ“ใจใ‚’ๅญฆใณใพใ™ใ€‚
01:54
Alright, and I'll see you after the video, as well.
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ใงใฏใ€ใƒ“ใƒ‡ใ‚ชใฎๅพŒใงใŠไผšใ„ใ—ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ† ใ€‚
01:57
Okay, so hello Leandra, and how are you?
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ใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏใ€ใƒฌใ‚ขใƒณใƒ‰ใƒฉใ€ใŠๅ…ƒๆฐ—ใงใ™ใ‹?
02:00
- Hi, Christina, I'm good, how are you doing?
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-ใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏใ€ใ‚ฏใƒชใ‚นใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใƒŠใ€ๅ…ƒๆฐ—ใงใ™ใ€‚ใŠๅ…ƒๆฐ—ใงใ™ใ‹?
02:04
- I'm good, I'm good.
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- ็งใฏใ„ใ„ใงใ™ใ€็งใฏใ„ใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใพใšๆœ€ๅˆ
02:05
So, first of all, I just wanna say thank you for taking some time to talk with us today.
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ใซใ€ไปŠๆ—ฅใฏใŠๆ™‚้–“ใ‚’ๅ‰ฒใ„ใฆใŠ่ฉฑใ—ใ„ใŸใ ใใ€ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ”ใ–ใ„ใพใ—ใŸ ใ€‚
02:12
Especially because the whole issue of politeness and sort of being sensitive to that is, in
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็‰นใซใ€็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ• ใจใใ‚Œใซๆ•ๆ„Ÿใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฎๅ…จไฝ“็š„ใชๅ•้กŒใฏใ€
02:22
my opinion, one of the neglected aspects of English language teaching a lot of times.
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็งใฎๆ„่ฆ‹ใงใฏใ€่‹ฑ่ชžๆ•™่‚ฒใฎๅคšใใฎๅ ดๅˆใ€็„ก่ฆ–ใ•ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅด้ขใฎ1ใคใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใงใ™ .
02:28
- Yes.
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- ใฏใ„ใ€‚
02:29
- Yeah, yeah, I agree.
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-ใˆใˆใ€ใˆใˆใ€ๅŒๆ„ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
02:31
And your book, The Culture Sensitive Phrasebook, I've read it, it's absolutely awesome.
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ่‘—ๆ›ธ The Culture Sensitive Phrasebook ใ‚’ ่ชญใฟใพใ—ใŸใŒใ€ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
02:38
So maybe just to start out, can you maybe tell us some stories or maybe some experiences,
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ๅง‹ใ‚ใซใ€ ใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎใ‚นใƒˆใƒผใƒชใƒผใ‚„็ตŒ้จ“ใ‚’ๆ•™ใˆใฆใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใพใ™ใ‹
02:45
I mean what led you to write this book, basically?
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02:47
- Yeah, well, first of all, thanks for having me.
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-ใˆใˆใ€ใพใ‚ใ€ใพใšใ€็งใ‚’่ฟŽใˆใฆใใ‚Œใฆใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ† ใ€‚
02:51
And, as you mentioned, The Culture Sensitive Phrasebook is about being more polite in English.
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ใŠใฃใ—ใ‚ƒใฃใŸใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€The Culture Sensitive Phrasebook ใฏใ€่‹ฑ่ชžใงใ‚ˆใ‚Šไธๅฏงใซใชใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’็›ฎ็š„ใจใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
02:57
And the reason I really lean towards this area is because I've had experiences before
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ใใ—ใฆใ€็งใŒๆœฌๅฝ“ใซใ“ใฎๅˆ†้‡Žใซๅ‚พๅ€’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹็†็”ฑใฏใ€
03:04
where, as you noticed, that non native speakers weren't as polite as they ought to be.
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ใŠๆฐ—ใฅใใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€้žใƒใ‚คใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒ– ใ‚นใƒ”ใƒผใ‚ซใƒผใŒๆœฌๆฅใ‚ใ‚‹ในใใปใฉ ็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใใชใ„ใจใ„ใ†็ตŒ้จ“ใ‚’ไปฅๅ‰ใซๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใŸใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™ใ€‚
03:09
And it wasn't only towards me, I observed it with other native speakers, and the result
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ใใ‚Œใฏ็งใ ใ‘ใงใชใใ€ ไป–ใฎใƒใ‚คใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒ–ใ‚นใƒ”ใƒผใ‚ซใƒผใจไธ€็ท’ใซ่ฆณๅฏŸใ—ใŸ็ตๆžœใ€
03:16
that that led to, how they were regarded, how they were viewed, that it was not positive,
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่ฆ‹ใ‚‰ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ€ ใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่ฆ‹ใ‚‰ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ€ใƒใ‚ธใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒ–ใงใฏใชใ„ใ“ใจใซใคใชใŒใฃใŸ
03:21
so I wanted to make persons aware of the mistakes because I think that a lot of times it's unintentional
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ใฎใงใ€ไบบใ€…ใซใใ‚Œใ‚’่ช่ญ˜ใ•ใ›ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ—ใŸ. ๅคšใใฎๅ ดๅˆใ€ใใ‚Œใฏๆ„ๅ›ณ็š„ใงใฏใชใใ€
03:30
and the persons aren't aware of the mistakes that they're making, so that led me to my
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ไบบใฏ่‡ชๅˆ†ใŒ็Šฏใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹้–“้•ใ„ใซๆฐ—ใฅใ„ใฆใ„ใชใ„ใจๆ€ใ† ใฎใงใ€ใใ‚ŒใŒ็งใฎ
03:36
experiences and wanting others to be aware of the mistakes, that led me to want to create
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็ตŒ้จ“ใซใคใชใŒใ‚Šใ€ไป–ใฎไบบใซ ้–“้•ใ„ใ‚’่ช่ญ˜ใ—ใฆใ‚‚ใ‚‰ใ„ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใ†ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใชใ‚Šใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ๆœฌใ‚’ไฝœๆˆใ—ใพใ™
03:41
the book.
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03:42
- Right, okay.
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03:43
Yeah, cause I think it's the same, you know I've had the same experience, especially as
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ใˆใˆใ€ๅŒใ˜ใ ใจๆ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ ็‰นใซๆ•™ๅธซใจใ—ใฆๅŒใ˜็ตŒ้จ“ใ‚’ใ—ใŸใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
03:49
a teacher, you know when you say something and let's say that the polite way, if someone
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ไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’่จ€ใ†ใจใใฏ ใ€็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ่จ€ใฃใฆใฟใพใ—ใ‚‡
03:56
says something to you and you don't understand, the polite thing is to say something like,
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ใ†ใ€‚ ใ€ ็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ่จ€ใ†ใจใ€ใ€Œ
04:01
sorry, or, I didn't quite catch that, or, wait can you say that again?
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ใ”ใ‚ใ‚“ใชใ•ใ„ใ€ใ€ใ€Œใใ‚Œใฏใ‚ˆใใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใงใ—ใŸใ€ใ€ใ€Œ ใ‚‚ใ†ไธ€ๅบฆ่จ€ใฃใฆใ‚‚ใ‚‰ใˆใพใ™ใ‹?ใ€ใชใฉใงใ™ใ€‚
04:07
And a lot of times people would just say like, I don't understand.
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ๅคšใใฎๅ ดๅˆใ€ไบบใ€…ใฏใŸใ ใ€Œ ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
04:11
And especially, like between the sentence, which is very direct, and the intonation,
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็‰นใซใ€ ้žๅธธใซ็Ž‡็›ดใชๆ–‡ใจใ€
04:18
which a lot of times people don't really pay much attention to, it comes off as almost
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ใ‚ใพใ‚Šๆณจๆ„ใ‚’ๆ‰•ใ‚ใชใ„ใ“ใจใŒๅคšใ„ใ‚คใƒณใƒˆใƒใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใฎ้–“ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€ใปใจใ‚“ใฉ
04:23
aggressive.
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ๆ”ปๆ’ƒ็š„ใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ‚ใ‚Œใพใ™ใ€‚
04:24
- Yes.
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- ใฏใ„ใ€‚
04:25
- And I don't think they want to sound that way, I think it's just they're using what
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-ใใ—ใฆใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่žใ“ใˆใŸใ„ใจใฏๆ€ใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ
04:29
they have to express the idea as directly as they can, and it comes out sounding like,
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ใ‚ขใ‚คใƒ‡ใ‚ขใ‚’ใงใใ‚‹ใ ใ‘็›ดๆŽฅ็š„ใซ่กจ็พใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚‚ใฎใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ ใ‘ใ ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™
04:38
they're kind of rude.
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04:41
-Yeah, definitely.
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ใˆใˆใ€้–“้•ใ„ใชใใ€‚
04:43
Also to add to that, I was having a Skype conversation with a French speaker the other
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ใใ‚ŒใซๅŠ ใˆใฆใ€ๅ…ˆๆ—ฅใ€ใƒ•ใƒฉใƒณใ‚นไบบใ‚นใƒ”ใƒผใ‚ซใƒผใจ Skype ใงไผš่ฉฑใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใŸใฎใงใ™
04:47
day and she didn't understand what I said, and her response was like, what?
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ใŒใ€ๅฝผๅฅณใฏ็งใฎ่จ€ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒ็†่งฃใงใใšใ€ใ€Œ ไฝ•๏ผŸใ€ใจใ„ใ†ใ‚ˆใ†ใชๅๅฟœใงใ—ใŸใ€‚
04:52
- Yeah, yeah, I get that, yeah, what?
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-ใˆใˆใ€ใˆใˆใ€ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ—ใŸใ€ใˆใˆใ€ไฝ•ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
04:54
- And she said it so aggressively, I was a bit, like even though I teach polite English
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-ใใ—ใฆใ€ๅฝผๅฅณใฏใใ‚Œใ‚’ใจใฆใ‚‚ๆ”ปๆ’ƒ็š„ใซ่จ€ใฃใŸใฎใงใ€ ็งใฏไธๅฏงใช่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’ๆ•™ใˆ
05:00
I was a bit taken aback, because she said in such an aggressive manner, and I know she
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ใฆใ„ใŸใซใ‚‚ใ‹ใ‹ใ‚ใ‚‰ใšใ€ๅฐ‘ใ—
05:07
didn't mean it in an aggressive manner, but she just didn't understand, and so then I
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ใณใฃใใ‚Šใ—ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ใงใ‚‚ ๅฝผๅฅณใฏ็†่งฃใงใใชใ‹ใฃใŸใฎใงใ€็งใฏ
05:11
had to explain to her, you need to say, well, sorry, I didn't catch that.
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ๅฝผๅฅณใซ่ชฌๆ˜Žใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใงใ— ใŸใ€‚
05:16
Yeah, because.
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ใˆใˆใ€ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€‚
05:18
- Yeah, the what is.
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-ใˆใˆใ€ใใ‚Œใฏไฝ•ใงใ™ใ‹ใ€‚
05:20
- Just simple things like that can really create problems when you're communicating
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- ใƒใ‚คใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒ– ใ‚นใƒ”ใƒผใ‚ซใƒผใจใฎใ‚ณใƒŸใƒฅใƒ‹ใ‚ฑใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใงใฏใ€ใ“ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใช็ฐกๅ˜ใชใ“ใจใ ใ‘ใงๅ•้กŒใŒ็™บ็”Ÿใ™ใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™
05:24
with a native speaker.
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05:26
- Yeah, exactly, because it can be perceived in like an aggressive way.
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- ใˆใˆใ€ใพใ•ใซใ€ๆ”ปๆ’ƒ็š„ใชๆ–นๆณ•ใง่ช่ญ˜ใ•ใ‚Œใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™ ใ€‚
05:31
And I think, you know, like I think, you know, in the U.S. and maybe in the English speaking
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ใใ—ใฆใ€็งใŒๆ€ใ†ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€ ใ‚ขใƒกใƒชใ‚ซใ‚„ใŠใใ‚‰ใ่‹ฑ่ชž
05:37
world, in general, for example, with French people we have this stereotype that French
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ๅœใงใฏใ€ไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใซใ€ไพ‹ใˆใฐใƒ•ใƒฉใƒณใ‚น ไบบใซๅฏพใ—ใฆใ€ใƒ•ใƒฉใƒณใ‚นไบบใฏ็„ก็คผใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†ๅ›บๅฎš่ฆณๅฟตใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™
05:42
people are rude, and I think it comes, and maybe a part of that comes from this notion
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ใ€‚ ใŠใใ‚‰ใใใฎไธ€้ƒจใฏ
05:50
of like, probably when American tourists are interacting with people on their visit to
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ใ€ใŠใใ‚‰ใใ‚ขใƒกใƒชใ‚ซไบบ่ฆณๅ…‰ๅฎขใŒใƒ•ใƒฉใƒณใ‚นใ‚’ ่จชใ‚ŒใŸไบบใ€…ใจไบคๆตใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ
05:56
France, yeah, I'm sure the Americans, their French level is probably not so great, so
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ใ€ใŠใใ‚‰ใใ‚ขใƒกใƒชใ‚ซไบบใฏ ใƒ•ใƒฉใƒณใ‚น่ชžใฎใƒฌใƒ™ใƒซใŒใใ‚Œใปใฉ้ซ˜ใใชใ„ใฎใงใ€
06:02
they're speaking English to French people, and the French people are maybe saying like,
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†่€ƒใˆใ‹ใ‚‰ๆฅใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ่‹ฑ่ชžใ‹ใ‚‰ใƒ•ใƒฉใƒณใ‚นไบบใธใ€ ใใ—ใฆใƒ•ใƒฉใƒณใ‚นไบบใฏๅคšๅˆ†ใ€
06:06
what, what?
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ไฝ•ใ€ไฝ•๏ผŸ
06:07
And they're like, ugh, these people are so rude.
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใ€ใ†ใƒผใ‚“ใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎไบบใ€…ใฏใจใฆใ‚‚ ๅคฑ็คผใงใ™ใ€‚
06:10
And I think that's perhaps part of the stereotype.
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ใใ‚ŒใฏใŠใใ‚‰ใใ‚นใƒ†ใƒฌใ‚ชใ‚ฟใ‚คใƒ—ใฎไธ€้ƒจใ ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
06:14
So, yeah, so in your opinion why it is so important to be polite in English, I mean,
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ใงใฏใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฎๆ„่ฆ‹ใงใฏใ€ใชใœ ่‹ฑ่ชžใง็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒ้‡่ฆใชใฎใงใ™ใ‹? ใคใพใ‚Šใ€
06:22
why is it not sufficient just to express your idea?
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ่€ƒใˆใ‚’่กจ็พใ™ใ‚‹ใ ใ‘ใงใฏไธๅๅˆ†ใชใฎใฏใชใœใงใ™ใ‹ ?
06:26
- Right, well, I think you had touched on this before, but this is an area that's so
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-ใใ†ใงใ™ใญใ€ไปฅๅ‰ใซใ‚‚่งฆใ‚ŒใŸใจโ€‹โ€‹ๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ ใŒใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ
06:32
often overlooked, like especially in language classes the focus is on fluency in terms of
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่ฆ‹้Žใ”ใ•ใ‚ŒใŒใกใชๅˆ†้‡Žใงใ™ใ€‚็‰นใซ่ชžๅญฆใฎๆŽˆๆฅญใงใฏใ€่จ€่ชžใฎๆตๆšขใ•ใซ้‡็‚นใŒ็ฝฎใ‹ใ‚Œใ€่จ€่ชžใฎๆตๆšขใ•ใซ
06:38
linguistic fluency, and I find that not much attention is paid towards polite English.
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ใ‚ใพใ‚Šๆณจๆ„ใŒๆ‰•ใ‚ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใชใ„ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ไธๅฏงใช่‹ฑ่ชžใ€‚
06:43
And, yes, you learn please and thank you, but polite English goes way beyond just those
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ใฏใ„ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏpleaseใจthank youใ‚’ๅญฆใณใพใ™ ใŒใ€ไธๅฏงใช่‹ฑ่ชžใฏใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰
06:49
two basic words.
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2ใคใฎๅŸบๆœฌ็š„ใช่จ€่‘‰ใ ใ‘ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“.
06:51
And if you want to have better relationships with your, let's say you're working with English
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ใ‚ˆใ‚Š่‰ฏใ„้–ขไฟ‚ใ‚’็ฏ‰ใใŸใ‘ใ‚Œใฐ ใ€ใŸใจใˆใฐ่‹ฑ่ชž
06:57
speaking colleagues or you have friends, if you're living in a native speaking country
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ใ‚’่ฉฑใ™ๅŒๅƒšใจไป•ไบ‹ใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ€ใพใŸใฏๅ‹ไบบใŒใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ—ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ๆฏๅ›ฝ่ชžใฎๅ›ฝใซไฝใ‚“ใงใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใฏ
07:01
you have neighbors, you have to interact with them on a daily basis, you need to have good
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้šฃไบบใŒใ„ใฆใ€ ๆ—ฅๅธธ็š„ใซๅฝผใ‚‰ใจไบคๆตใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ , ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ่‰ฏใ„้–ขไฟ‚ใ‚’็ฏ‰ใๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™
07:06
relationships, have a good rapport with people, and also it shows good manners because you
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, ไบบใ€…ใจใฎ่‰ฏๅฅฝใช้–ขไฟ‚ใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™, ใใ—ใฆใใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒ
07:13
don't want to be seen as that rude expat, you know, she's so rude, he's so rude, and
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ใใฎ็„ก็คผใชๅค–ๅ›ฝไบบใจใ—ใฆ่ฆ‹ใ‚‰ใ‚ŒใŸใใชใ„ใฎใง่‰ฏใ„ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใ‚’็คบใ™ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™.
07:19
then you will find that if you are rude, even if it's unintentional, persons start to view
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ็„ก็คผใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใจใ€ ใŸใจใˆใใ‚ŒใŒๆ„ๅ›ณ็š„ใงใฏใชใใฆใ‚‚ใ€ไบบใ€…ใฏ
07:27
you differently, they treat you differently, and you might start to notice their attitudes,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’้•ใฃใŸ่ฆ‹ๆ–นใ‚’ใ—ๅง‹ใ‚ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸ
07:32
maybe their attitude is changing and you don't even know what you've done wrong or why.
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ใ‚’้•ใฃใŸๆ‰ฑใ„ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใชใ‚Šใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅฝผใ‚‰ใฎๆ…‹ๅบฆใซ ๆฐ—ใฅใๅง‹ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ้–“้•ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ€ใใฎ็†็”ฑใ€‚
07:37
So it's so important.
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ใจใฆใ‚‚้‡่ฆใงใ™ใ€‚
07:39
I was thinking, too, that persons think in terms of fluency as expressing yourself.
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็งใ‚‚ใ€ไบบใฏ ๆตๆšขใ•ใจใฏ่‡ชๅˆ†ใ‚’่กจ็พใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ ใจ่€ƒใˆใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
07:47
I've even noticed persons who, like they have an advanced level of English, I mean like
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้ซ˜ๅบฆใชใƒฌใƒ™ใƒซใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ไบบใ€ใคใพใ‚Š
07:52
near native speaker or almost like a native speaker, and sometimes they're so rude in
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ใƒใ‚คใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒ– ใ‚นใƒ”ใƒผใ‚ซใƒผใซ่ฟ‘ใ„ไบบใ€ใพใŸใฏใปใจใ‚“ใฉใƒใ‚คใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒ– ใ‚นใƒ”ใƒผใ‚ซใƒผใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใชไบบใซใ•ใˆๆฐ—ไป˜ใใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
07:57
the way they communicate with others, even though they already have an advanced level.
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้ซ˜ๅบฆใชใƒฌใƒ™ใƒซใ€‚
08:02
So it just goes to show, like you have to understand the culture behind the language
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ใคใพใ‚Šใ€ ่จ€่ชžใฎ่ƒŒๅพŒใซใ‚ใ‚‹ๆ–‡ๅŒ–ใ‚’็†่งฃใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ€
08:05
being more sensitive, being more thoughtful, things like that, because if you are just
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ใ‚ˆใ‚Šๆ•ๆ„Ÿใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ€ใ‚ˆใ‚Šๆ€ๆ…ฎ
08:14
able to express yourself that's not enough, like you need to actually understand the way
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ๆทฑใ„ใ“ใจใชใฉใ‚’็คบใ™ใ“ใจใซใชใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
08:18
behind certain things.
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08:19
- Right, yeah, it's because there's a lot of cultural let's say expectations, I think,
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- ใใ†ใงใ™ใ€ ๆ–‡ๅŒ–็š„ใชๆœŸๅพ…ใŒใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใŒใ€
08:25
that are connected to this idea of politeness, like what is considered polite or rude in
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ใใ‚Œใฏ็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ•ใฎใ“ใฎ่€ƒใˆใซ้–ข้€ฃใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™.ใ‚ใ‚‹ๆ–‡ๅŒ– ใงใฏ็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใใพใŸใฏ็„ก็คผใจ่ฆ‹ใชใ•ใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ‚‚ใฎใฏใ€ๅˆฅใฎๆ–‡ๅŒ–ใงใฏ
08:31
one culture is maybe completely different in another culture, and so you just have to
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08:38
also be aware of that.
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ใใ‚Œใ‚‚ๆ‰ฟ็Ÿฅใ—ใฆใŠใๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
08:39
And so, it even goes beyond language, it's even maybe country specific, as well, and
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ใใ‚Œใฏ่จ€่ชžใ‚’่ถ…ใˆใฆใ€ ใŠใใ‚‰ใๅ›ฝๅ›บๆœ‰ใฎใ‚‚ใฎใงใ•ใˆใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
08:45
that's something to learn when you're learning the language, especially, yeah.
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ใใ‚Œใฏใ€่จ€่ชžใ‚’ๅญฆใถใจใใซๅญฆใถในใใ“ใจใงใ™ ใ€‚็‰นใซใใ†ใงใ™ใ€‚
08:51
And you talked about people, like if you're not careful about being polite, how people's
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ใใ—ใฆใ‚ใชใŸใฏไบบใ€…ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ใพใ—ใŸ ็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซๆฐ—ใ‚’ใคใ‘ใชใ„ใจ ไบบใ€…ใฎใ‚ใชใŸใซๅฏพใ™ใ‚‹
08:57
attitudes can change towards you, like how will the other people see you if you're not
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ๆ…‹ๅบฆใŒใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซๅค‰ๅŒ–ใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ ็คผๅ„€
09:07
doing these polite things or using this polite language, like what happens?
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09:13
- Right, so you like start to notice maybe the person is a bit standoffish, a bit cold,
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- ใใ†ใงใ™ใญใ€ ใใฎไบบใฏๅฐ‘ใ—ๅ†ทๆทกใงใ€ๅฐ‘ใ—ๅ†ทๆทกใงใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใจ
09:21
or they don't wanna spend much time around you, or even maybe dismissive of certain things
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ไธ€็ท’ใซใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใซใ‚ใพใ‚Šๆ™‚้–“ใ‚’ใ‹ใ‘ใŸใใชใ„ใ‹ใ‚‚ ใ—ใ‚Œใชใ„ใ“ใจใซๆฐ—ไป˜ใๅง‹ใ‚ใพใ™ใ€‚
09:26
that you may say just because of that perception of rudeness and like, okay, well I don't have
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09:33
time to put up with this kind of thing, and you might notice this, yeah, this standoffish
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09:38
kind of attitude and you're not sure why, and also I was thinking it could affect you
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ๆ…‹ๅบฆใจใ‚ใชใŸใฏ็†็”ฑใŒใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€ ใใ—ใฆ็งใฏใใ‚ŒใŒใงใใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ—ใŸ. ่‡ชๅˆ†
09:44
financially because I know persons who, because of how they express themselves, they lost
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่‡ช่บซใ‚’่กจ็พใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใฎใŸใ‚ใซใƒ“ใ‚ธใƒใ‚นใ‚’ๅคฑใฃใŸไบบใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ€
09:51
business, persons, they don't want to become clients because of their attitude and how
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ ๆ…‹ๅบฆใ‚„ๅๅฟœใฎไป•ๆ–นใฎใŸใ‚ใซ้กงๅฎขใซใชใ‚ŠใŸใใชใ„ไบบใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™
09:57
they responded, and, I mean, it might have been unintentional, but it could really affect
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ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใชใŸใฎใ‚ญใƒฃใƒชใ‚ขใซใ‚‚ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซๅฝฑ้Ÿฟใ‚’ไธŽใˆใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™
10:03
your career, as well.
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10:04
- Okay, yeah, yeah.
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- ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ—ใŸใ€ใˆใˆใ€ใˆใˆใ€‚
10:05
So, yeah, that's a really good point about, yeah, if you're talking to a potential client
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ใˆใˆใ€ใใ‚Œใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ่‰ฏใ„็‚นใงใ™ใ€ ใˆใˆใ€ๆฝœๅœจ็š„ใชใ‚ฏใƒฉใ‚คใ‚ขใƒณใƒˆใจ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใซใ€
10:11
and you're not using these polite expressions or this polite way of speaking and communicating,
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎไธๅฏงใช่กจ็พ ใ‚„ไธๅฏงใช่ฉฑใ—ๆ–นใ‚„ใ‚ณใƒŸใƒฅใƒ‹ใ‚ฑใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณๆ–นๆณ•ใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใฆใ„ใชใ„ๅ ดๅˆใ€
10:19
they might say, I don't wanna work with this guy, he's a jerk.
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ่จ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€็งใฏไป•ไบ‹ใ‚’ใ—ใŸใใชใ„. ใ“ใฎ็”ทใจไธ€็ท’ใซ ใ€ๅฝผใฏใ‚ธใƒฃใƒผใ‚ฏใงใ™ใ€‚ ใกใ‚‡ใฃใจ
10:22
Well maybe just a quick little vocabulary thing, you said people are standoffish, like
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็ฐกๅ˜ใช่ชžๅฝ™ ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใŒใ€
10:30
some of the people watching the video, they might not know that expression, how would
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10:36
you explain, like what is, how do you recognize when someone is standoffish?
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่ชฌๆ˜Žใ—ใพใ™ใ‹ ?
10:41
- I would say it's another word for how they're being cold towards you, so they're not being
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- ็งใฏๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใซๅฏพใ—ใฆใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซๅ†ทใŸใ„ใ‹ใ‚’ๅˆฅใฎ่จ€่‘‰ใง่กจ็พใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ€
10:46
close towards you, close to you, they might be not coming around you as much anymore,
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ ใ‚ใชใŸใซ่ฟ‘ใฅใ„ใฆใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
10:53
spending more time, there's more distance between you two, I guess you can say.
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10:57
- Okay, yeah, exactly.
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- ใใ†ใงใ™ใญใ€ใพใ•ใซใ€‚
10:58
Yeah, like they're really avoiding.
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11:01
It could be avoiding you, but you can definitely tell that they're not enjoying being in your
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11:05
company.
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11:06
- Yeah, your company, yeah.
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11:07
- Okay, yeah, sure.
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- ใˆใˆใ€็ขบใ‹ใซใ€‚
11:09
Now what about some tips for people who maybe they're afraid of being unintentionally rude,
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11:20
like they don't feel like they're being rude, and maybe they're a little worried about that,
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11:25
like what tips would you give someone who wants to be sure that they're not unintentionally
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11:32
being rude?
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11:33
- Right, okay.
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11:34
So a good one I can think of is in terms of making requests.
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11:38
So, like you're asking for help with something, I mean it's something you have to do almost
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11:44
on a daily basis.
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11:45
- All the time, yeah.
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- ใ„ใคใ‚‚ใใ†ใงใ™ใญใ€‚
11:46
- Yeah.
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11:47
So, some persons have a tendency of just giving like a direct command and maybe just adding
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11:54
please at the end of it.
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ๆœ€ๅพŒใซใ€Œpleaseใ€ใ‚’่ฟฝๅŠ ใ™ใ‚‹ๅ‚พๅ‘ใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ไบบใ‚‚ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
11:56
- Right, yeah, thinking that's polite.
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- ใใ†ใงใ™ใ€ใใ†ใงใ™ใ€ใใ‚Œใฏ็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
11:57
If I say please, it's okay.
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11:59
- Yeah, but it might not be seen as that polite.
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- ใˆใˆใ€ใงใ‚‚ใใ‚Œใฏ็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ„ใจใฏๆ€ใ‚ใ‚Œใชใ„ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
12:03
So, in terms of using a verb like could.
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€could ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใชๅ‹•่ฉžใฎไฝฟ็”จใซ้–ขใ—ใฆใฏใ€‚
12:08
So, instead of, give me the plate please, you know, could you please give me the plate,
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12:15
could you please hand me the plate.
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12:17
Something like that, using that could, it softens your request for help, because you
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12:23
don't want to do it in such a way that's like you're bossing the person around, you're being
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12:27
domineering, and you want the person to feel more inclined to actually help you.
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12:33
- Right, yeah, exactly.
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12:35
- Yeah, so that's one.
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12:36
Another one that I think is often overlooked is body language, as well, because when you're
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12:43
communicating your body language says a lot, and if your body language is not in sync with
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12:48
what you're saying, in terms of maintaining eye contact, nodding, not folding or crossing
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12:55
your arms, things like that, smiling during a conversation, that helps a lot in terms
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13:00
of politeness.
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13:02
Another thing would be being more sensitive.
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13:05
So, when I was doing some research on polite English and stuff, I found out that the Dutch,
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13:11
and Germans, as well, that they're very direct and they don't mince words, they just say
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13:17
it directly, so if you ask them for something they'll say no without like any explanation,
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13:22
based on my research.
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13:23
But, you know, you need to be a bit more sensitive, especially when you're giving feedback and
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13:29
giving your opinion on something, or telling someone what you think, you know, could kind
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13:36
of beat around the bush a bit.
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13:38
So you have a bit more time, and so you aren't considered rude.
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13:45
Also, like when you're giving your feedback, there are sometimes words you can add to make
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13:51
it a bit nicer.
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13:52
- Yeah, yeah, yeah, like what are some examples?
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13:55
- So, for example, you know, like even a simple, okay, you say, I'm not fond of, I don't know,
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14:02
this drawing.
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14:03
Or you could say, I'm not too fond, I don't know, just those little, or, there are some
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14:10
issues with this, or, there are a few issues, instead of just saying, there are issues,
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14:16
you know, you add in a few to soften.
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14:19
- Yeah, like to minimize it a little bit.
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14:22
- Yeah, yeah.
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14:23
Yeah, of course there are times when you need to give strong counsel, but in general when
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14:27
you're having a conversation every day with your colleagues, you don't want to be burning
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14:32
bridges like that unnecessarily.
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14:34
So being more sensitive, thinking of how your comments affect persons, whether positively
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14:40
or negatively, you're giving someone feedback on maybe their clothing, or hair style or
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14:46
something, thinking about, you know, taking the person's feelings into consideration and
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14:51
trying to think of how would it affect you if it was said, if it was the other way around.
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14:57
- Like if they said, if someone said that to you how would it make you feel?
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15:01
- Exactly.
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15:02
- Yeah, okay, so there's a lot of empathy, as well, like putting yourself in the place
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15:07
of the other person, too.
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15:10
You know, think before you speak basically, which is sort of good common sense advice,
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15:16
in any case.
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15:17
Right, okay, so that's really good to just think about, especially I think when working
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15:23
with like English speaking cultures we are very big on politeness and indirectness, and,
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15:33
yeah, exactly.
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15:35
And there are some cultures where they prefer, it's actually considered better to be direct
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15:41
and frank and, you know, an expression we have in English, brutally honest.
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15:45
- Exactly, yeah, I've heard it's actually like that, you have to be, if you're beating
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15:50
around the bush you're being, like that's considered rude.
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15:53
- Yeah, yeah, cause you're not being honest, exactly.
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-ใˆใˆใ€ใˆใˆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๆญฃ็›ดใงใฏใชใ„ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™ ใ€‚
15:56
So, yeah, there is a lot of cultural differences sort of wrapped up in this notion of politeness,
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ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ใˆใˆใ€ ใ“ใฎ็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ•ใฎๆฆ‚ๅฟตใซใฏๅคšใใฎๆ–‡ๅŒ–็š„ใช้•ใ„ใŒๅซใพใ‚Œใฆใ„ใพใ™ใŒใ€
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but if you're dealing with English speaking cultures we do tend to kind of lean towards
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่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’่ฉฑใ™ๆ–‡ๅŒ–ใ‚’ๆ‰ฑใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใ€ ็งใŸใกใฏ
16:10
the politeness side of it, right, good.
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็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ•ใฎๅด้ขใซๅ‚พใๅ‚พๅ‘ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
16:14
Okay, great, great, great.
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16:15
Leandra, I just wanna say thank you so much for this conversation because it was very
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Leandraใ€ใ“ใฎไผš่ฉฑใฏใจใฆใ‚‚่ˆˆๅ‘ณๆทฑใ„ใ‚‚ใฎใ ใฃใŸใฎใงใ€ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใจ่จ€ใ„ใŸใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚Speak
16:23
interesting, and I think it's going to be useful for a lot of people in the Speak English
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English ใ‚ณใƒŸใƒฅใƒ‹ใƒ†ใ‚ฃใฎๅคšใใฎไบบใ€…ใซใจใฃใฆใ€ใ“ใฎไผš่ฉฑใฏๅฝนใซ็ซ‹ใคใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
16:28
community because a lot of them work with Americans, different nationalities, and politeness
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16:36
is definitely a hot topic.
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้–“้•ใ„ใชใใƒ›ใƒƒใƒˆใช่ฉฑ้กŒใงใ™ใ€‚
16:38
So thank you so very much for all of your time and your advice.
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ใใ‚Œใงใฏใ€ ใŠๅฟ™ใ—ใ„ไธญใ€่ฒด้‡ใชใ”ๆ„่ฆ‹ใ‚’่ณœใ‚Šใ€่ช ใซใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ”ใ–ใ„ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
16:42
- Yeah, so thank you for having me.
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-ใˆใˆใ€็งใ‚’่ฟŽใˆใฆใใ‚Œใฆใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ€‚
16:44
- Okay, thanks.
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- ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ—ใŸใ€ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ€‚
16:45
Okay, so I hope that you really enjoyed that interview.
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ใงใฏใ€ใใฎใ‚คใƒณใ‚ฟใƒ“ใƒฅใƒผใ‚’ๆฅฝใ—ใ‚“ใงใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใŸใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ‹ ใ€‚
16:50
I had a lot of fun talking to Leandra.
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ใƒฌใ‚ขใƒณใƒ‰ใƒฉใจใฎไผš่ฉฑใฏใจใฆใ‚‚ๆฅฝใ—ใ‹ใฃใŸใงใ™ใ€‚
16:53
If you don't know, Leandra and I, we actually met on Facebook in a group for English teachers
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ใ”ๅญ˜ใ˜ใชใ„ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใŒใ€Leandra ใจ็งใฏใ€ Facebook ใงใ€
17:01
who make videos on YouTube.
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YouTube ใงๅ‹•็”ปใ‚’ไฝœๆˆใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹่‹ฑ่ชžๆ•™ๅธซใฎใ‚ฐใƒซใƒผใƒ—ใงๅฎŸ้š›ใซไผšใ„ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
17:04
So I definitely want to encourage you to check out her site, and I'll put the link to that
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ๅฝผๅฅณใฎใ‚ตใ‚คใƒˆใ‚’ใƒใ‚งใƒƒใ‚ฏใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅผทใใŠๅ‹งใ‚ใ—ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ใ“ใฎใƒ“ใƒ‡ใ‚ชใฎไธ‹ใฎใƒกใƒขใซใใฎใƒชใƒณใ‚ฏใ‚’่จ˜่ผ‰ใ—ใพใ™
17:10
in the notes below this video, but also to go over and to actually check out her book,
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ใŒใ€ๅฎŸ้š›ใซ ๅฝผๅฅณใฎ่‘—ๆ›ธ
17:18
The Culture Sensitive Phrasebook, because there is a phrasebook, and there is also a
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The Culture Sensitive Phrasebook ใ‚’ใƒใ‚งใƒƒใ‚ฏใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใƒ–ใƒƒใ‚ฏใจใƒฏใƒผใ‚ฏใƒ–ใƒƒใ‚ฏใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™
17:23
workbook, and it is, I had a look at it, and personally, I think that this is just a really
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ใ€‚็งใฏใใ‚Œใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใใพใ—ใŸใŒใ€ ๅ€‹ไบบ็š„ใซใฏใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ
17:32
useful resource for helping you to avoid those situations where the way that you speak could
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ่ฉฑใ—ๆ–นใŒ
17:40
be perceived as rude, and the book will help you to improve those situations, to use the
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็Ÿฅ่ฆšใ•ใ‚Œใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใฎใ‚ใ‚‹็Šถๆณใ‚’้ฟใ‘ใ‚‹ใฎใซๅฝน็ซ‹ใค้žๅธธใซๅฝน็ซ‹ใคใƒชใ‚ฝใƒผใ‚นใ ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™. ใ“ใฎๆœฌใฏใ€ใใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใช ็Šถๆณใ‚’ๆ”นๅ–„ใ—ใ€
17:47
language and the attitudes that help you to speak English in a more polite way, to improve
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ใ‚ˆใ‚Šไธๅฏงใชๆ–นๆณ•ใง่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’่ฉฑใ™ใฎใซๅฝน็ซ‹ใค่จ€่ชžใจๆ…‹ๅบฆใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใ€ไบบ้–“
17:56
the relationships, to maybe get more clients or better clients, and just to enjoy the conversations
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้–ขไฟ‚ใ‚’ๆ”นๅ–„ใ—ใ€ใŠใใ‚‰ใใ‚ˆใ‚Šๅคšใใฎใ‚ฏใƒฉใ‚คใ‚ขใƒณใƒˆ ใพใŸใฏใ‚ˆใ‚Š่‰ฏใ„ใ‚ฏใƒฉใ‚คใ‚ขใƒณใƒˆใ‚’็ฒๅพ—ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใซๅฝน็ซ‹ใกใพใ™ใ€‚
18:05
that you have more because people are friendlier, people are more open with you, people enjoy
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ไบบใ€…ใฏใ‚ˆใ‚Š่ฆชใ—ใฟใ‚„ใ™ใใ€ ไบบใ€…ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใซๅฏพใ—ใฆใ‚ˆใ‚Šใ‚ชใƒผใƒ—ใƒณใงใ‚ใ‚Šใ€
18:12
talking with you in English because you are polite and friendly in English.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่‹ฑ่ชžใง็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใๅ‹ๅฅฝ็š„ใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใ€ไบบใ€…ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใจใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžใงใฎไผš่ฉฑใ‚’ๆฅฝใ—ใ‚“ใงใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใจใฎไผš่ฉฑใ‚’ใ‚‚ใฃใจๆฅฝใ—ใ‚“ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ ใ€‚
18:18
So definitely go over, I'll put the notes, put the link, sorry, in the notes below this
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ใ“ใฎๅ‹•็”ปใฎไธ‹ใฎใƒกใƒขใซใƒชใƒณใ‚ฏใ‚’่ฒผใฃใฆใŠใใพใ™ใ€‚Leandra
18:25
video so you can check out Leandra's site, you can get a copy of The Culture Sensitive
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ใฎใ‚ตใ‚คใƒˆใ‚’ใƒใ‚งใƒƒใ‚ฏใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚The Culture Sensitive Phrasebook ใจใƒฏใƒผใ‚ฏใƒ–ใƒƒใ‚ฏใฎใ‚ณใƒ”ใƒผใ‚’ๅ…ฅๆ‰‹ใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
18:32
Phrasebook and the workbook, and you can just start becoming lovely, and friendly, and polite
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ๆ„›ใ‚‰ใ—ใใ€ๅ‹ๅฅฝ็š„ใงใ€็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ„่‹ฑ่ชžใซใชใ‚Šๅง‹ใ‚ใพใ™
18:39
in English.
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18:40
I'm sure you're very polite already, and very friendly, but, you know, there's always things
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ™ใงใซ้žๅธธใซ็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใใ€ใจใฆใ‚‚ ๅ‹ๅฅฝ็š„ใ ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใŒใ€ใ”ๅญ˜็Ÿฅใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€
18:46
that can be improved, and politeness really is one of those complex aspects of speaking
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ๆ”นๅ–„ใงใใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏๅธธใซ ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ•ใฏใ€่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’่ฉฑใ™ไธŠใง่ค‡้›‘ใชๅด้ขใฎ 1 ใคใงใ™ใ€‚
18:55
English because it's culturally connected, it's connected to the language, and, like
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19:02
Leandra said, just putting please on the end of your sentence is not always sufficient.
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ใƒฌใ‚ขใƒณใƒ‰ใƒฉใŒ่จ€ใฃใŸใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€ๆ–‡ๆœซใซใ€Œpleaseใ€ใ‚’ไป˜ใ‘ใ‚‹ใ ใ‘ใงใฏ ๅฟ…ใšใ—ใ‚‚ๅๅˆ†ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“.
19:08
So, enjoy that and I'm gonna tell you I will you see you next week for a new Speak English
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ใใ‚Œใงใฏใ€ใใ‚Œใ‚’ใŠๆฅฝใ—ใฟใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ๆฅ้€ฑใ€ๆ–ฐใ—ใ„ Speak English
19:17
With Christina episode.
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With Christina ใฎใ‚จใƒ”ใ‚ฝใƒผใƒ‰ใงใŠไผšใ„ใ—ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
19:18
Alright, you guys, have a good day, and I'll see you next time.
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ใ“ใฎใ‚ตใ‚คใƒˆใงใฏ่‹ฑ่ชžๅญฆ็ฟ’ใซๅฝน็ซ‹ใคYouTubeๅ‹•็”ปใ‚’็ดนไป‹ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ไธ–็•Œไธญใฎไธ€ๆต่ฌ›ๅธซใซใ‚ˆใ‚‹่‹ฑ่ชžใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใ‚’่ฆ‹ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ๅ„ใƒ“ใƒ‡ใ‚ชใฎใƒšใƒผใ‚ธใซ่กจ็คบใ•ใ‚Œใ‚‹่‹ฑ่ชžๅญ—ๅน•ใ‚’ใƒ€ใƒ–ใƒซใ‚ฏใƒชใƒƒใ‚ฏใ™ใ‚‹ใจใ€ใใ“ใ‹ใ‚‰ใƒ“ใƒ‡ใ‚ชใ‚’ๅ†็”Ÿใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ๅญ—ๅน•ใฏใƒ“ใƒ‡ใ‚ชใฎๅ†็”ŸใจๅŒๆœŸใ—ใฆใ‚นใ‚ฏใƒญใƒผใƒซใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ใ”ๆ„่ฆ‹ใƒปใ”่ฆๆœ›ใŒใ”ใ–ใ„ใพใ—ใŸใ‚‰ใ€ใ“ใกใ‚‰ใฎใŠๅ•ใ„ๅˆใ‚ใ›ใƒ•ใ‚ฉใƒผใƒ ใ‚ˆใ‚Šใ”้€ฃ็ตกใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚

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