English Speaking Secrets ๐Ÿ˜‰ How To Have GREAT Conversations!

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mmmEnglish


ไธ‹ใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžๅญ—ๅน•ใ‚’ใƒ€ใƒ–ใƒซใ‚ฏใƒชใƒƒใ‚ฏใ™ใ‚‹ใจๅ‹•็”ปใ‚’ๅ†็”Ÿใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ็ฟป่จณใ•ใ‚ŒใŸๅญ—ๅน•ใฏๆฉŸๆขฐ็ฟป่จณใงใ™ใ€‚

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Hey there I'm Emma from mmmEnglish!
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ใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏใ€mmmEnglishใฎEmmaใงใ™ใ€‚
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Today I've got three things that I want to share with you
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ไปŠๆ—ฅใ€็งใฏใ‚ใชใŸใจๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ—ใŸใ„3ใคใฎใ“ใจใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
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that awesome English speakers do and
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ใใ‚Œใฏ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’่ฉฑใ™ไบบใŒใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚ใใ—ใฆ
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I want to show you how you can get good at them too.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใใ‚Œใ‚‰ใ‚’ไธŠๆ‰‹ใซใงใใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใ‚’ใ‚ใชใŸใซ็คบใ—ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
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This video is perfect for you if you are learning English
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ใ“ใฎใƒ“ใƒ‡ใ‚ชใฏ
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as a second language and you want to communicate
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ใ€็ฌฌไบŒ่จ€่ชžใจใ—ใฆ่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’ๅญฆใณ
00:19
more clearly, more effectively and build
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ใ€ใ‚ˆใ‚Šๆ˜Ž็ขบใซใ€ใ‚ˆใ‚ŠๅŠนๆžœ็š„ใซใ‚ณใƒŸใƒฅใƒ‹ใ‚ฑใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใ‚’ๅ–ใ‚Š
00:22
good relationships with other English speakers.
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ใ€ไป–ใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’่ฉฑใ™ไบบใจใฎ่‰ฏๅฅฝใช้–ขไฟ‚ใ‚’็ฏ‰ใใŸใ„ๅ ดๅˆใซๆœ€้ฉใงใ™ใ€‚
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But these tips are also useful for anyone who speaks
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ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎใƒ’ใƒณใƒˆใฏใ€่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’่ฉฑใ—ใ€
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English and wants to communicate more effectively
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่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’
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because not all native English speakers are awesome
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ๆฏๅ›ฝ่ชžใจใ™ใ‚‹ใ™ในใฆใฎไบบใŒใ‚ณใƒŸใƒฅใƒ‹ใ‚ฑใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใซๅ„ชใ‚Œใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚ใ‘ใงใฏใชใ„ใŸใ‚ใ€ใ‚ˆใ‚ŠๅŠนๆžœ็š„ใซ
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at communicating.
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ใ‚ณใƒŸใƒฅใƒ‹ใ‚ฑใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใ‚’ๅ–ใ‚ŠใŸใ„ไบบใซใ‚‚ๅฝน็ซ‹ใกใพใ™ใ€‚
00:37
Awesome communication is about more than just
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็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ใ‚ณใƒŸใƒฅใƒ‹ใ‚ฑใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใจใฏ
00:41
the words that you choose
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ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ้ธใ‚“ใ ่จ€่‘‰ใ ใ‘ใง
00:43
and today we're going to learn
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ใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ไปŠๆ—ฅใฏ
00:44
how this information could change the way
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ใ€ใ“ใฎๆƒ…ๅ ฑใŒ่‹ฑ่ชžใฎไผš่ฉฑใซๅฏพใ™ใ‚‹่€ƒใˆๆ–นใ‚’ๆฐธ้ ใซๅค‰ใˆใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅญฆใณ
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that you think about English conversations forever.
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ใพใ™ใ€‚
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Hey ladies, I'm talking just at you for a minute.
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ใญใˆใ€ๅฅณๆ€งใ€็งใฏใกใ‚‡ใฃใจใ‚ใชใŸใซ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ€‚ ็‰นใซใ‚ชใƒณใƒฉใ‚คใƒณใง็ทด็ฟ’ใ™ใ‚‹
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I know that it's really hard to find genuine speaking
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ๆœฌ็‰ฉใฎใ‚นใƒ”ใƒผใ‚ญใƒณใ‚ฐใƒ‘ใƒผใƒˆใƒŠใƒผใ‚’่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใ‚‹ใฎใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ้›ฃใ—ใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’็งใฏ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„
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partners to practise with, especially online.
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ใพใ™ใ€‚
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So I created The Ladies' Project to help women learning
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ใใ“ใง็งใฏใ€
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English to make international friends
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่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’ๅญฆใถๅฅณๆ€งใŒๅ›ฝ้š›็š„ใชๅ‹้”ใ‚’ไฝœใ‚Š
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and practise speaking often
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no matter where you are in the world.
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ใ€ไธ–็•Œใฎใฉใ“ใซใ„ใฆใ‚‚้ ป็นใซ่ฉฑใ™็ทด็ฟ’ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๅŠฉใ‘ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซใ€ใƒฌใƒ‡ใ‚ฃใƒผใ‚นใƒ—ใƒญใ‚ธใ‚งใ‚ฏใƒˆใ‚’ไฝœๆˆใ—ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
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It's an affordable way to get a lot of speaking practice,
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ€่‹ฑ่ชžใงใฎ
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the amount that you need to build up your confidence
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่‡ชไฟกใจๆตๆšขใ•ใ‚’้ซ˜ใ‚ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซๅฟ…่ฆใช้‡ใฎใ‚นใƒ”ใƒผใ‚ญใƒณใ‚ฐใฎ็ทด็ฟ’ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใฎๆ‰‹้ ƒใชๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ™
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and your fluency in English.
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Maybe you're living in an English-speaking country
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ่‹ฑ่ชžๅœใฎๅ›ฝใซไฝใ‚“ใงใ„ใ‚‹
01:30
but you aren't getting the daily practice
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ใฎใซใ€ๆ”นๅ–„ใŒๅฟ…่ฆใชๆ—ฅๅธธใฎ็ทด็ฟ’ใŒใงใใฆใ„ใชใ„
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that you need to improve or maybe you want to improve
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ใ‹ใ€ไป•ไบ‹ใงๆ˜‡้€ฒใ‚’่ฉฆใฟใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซไผš่ฉฑใ‚นใ‚ญใƒซใ‚’ใ™ใฐใ‚„ใๅ‘ไธŠใ•ใ›ใŸใ„ใ€ใพใŸใฏใ‚‚ใฃใจๆ—…่กŒใ—ใŸใ„ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
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your conversation skills quickly
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to try and get a promotion at work
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or because you want to travel more independently.
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็‹ฌ็ซ‹ใ—ใฆใ€‚
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Maybe you just want to immerse yourself in a safe
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ใŸใถใ‚“ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅฎ‰ๅ…จใงๅ”ๅŠ›็š„ใช่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’่ฉฑใ™ใ‚ณใƒŸใƒฅใƒ‹ใƒ†ใ‚ฃใซๆฒก้ ญใ—ใŸใ„ใ ใ‘ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“
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and supportive English-speaking community.
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01:48
If that's true, you should definitely check it out.
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ใใ‚ŒใŒๆœฌๅฝ“ใชใ‚‰ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ้–“้•ใ„ใชใใใ‚Œใ‚’ใƒใ‚งใƒƒใ‚ฏใ™ใ‚‹ในใใงใ™ใ€‚
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You're gonna make friends in different countries,
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ใ•ใพใ–ใพใชๅ›ฝใงๅ‹้”ใ‚’ไฝœใ‚Šใ€
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learn about different cultures and lifestyles and
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ใ•ใพใ–ใพใชๆ–‡ๅŒ–ใ‚„ใƒฉใ‚คใƒ•ใ‚นใ‚ฟใ‚คใƒซใซใคใ„ใฆๅญฆใณ
01:57
boost your English speaking confidence.
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ใ€่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’่ฉฑใ™่‡ชไฟกใ‚’้ซ˜ใ‚ใพใ™ใ€‚
01:59
Now enrollments are opening very soon
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็พๅœจใ€็™ป้Œฒใฏ้–“ใ‚‚ใชใ้–‹ๅง‹
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so if you want to find out more
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ใ•ใ‚Œใพใ™ใ€‚
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check this link or the link in the description
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่ฉณ็ดฐใซใคใ„ใฆใฏใ€ใ“ใฎใƒชใƒณใ‚ฏใพใŸใฏ่ชฌๆ˜Žใฎใƒชใƒณใ‚ฏ
02:06
and make sure you're on our mailing list
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ใ‚’็ขบ่ชใ—ใ€ๅ ดๆ‰€ใŒ้™ใ‚‰ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใ€ใƒกใƒผใƒชใƒณใ‚ฐใƒชใ‚นใƒˆใซๅ‚ๅŠ ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’็ขบ่ชใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„
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because places are limited.
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During a conversation, if you don't communicate
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ไผš่ฉฑใฎไธญใงใ€
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your message clearly,
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ใƒกใƒƒใ‚ปใƒผใ‚ธใ‚’ใฏใฃใใ‚Šใจไผใˆใชใ„ใจใ€
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people feel unsure.
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ไบบใ€…ใฏไธๅฎ‰ใ‚’ๆ„Ÿใ˜ใพใ™ใ€‚
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They might not know what's going on.
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏไฝ•ใŒ่ตทใ“ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใ‹ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
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They might misinterpret or misunderstand you.
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’่ชค่งฃใ—ใŸใ‚Š่ชค่งฃใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
02:23
This can be annoying, it can create confusion
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ่ฟทๆƒ‘ใชๅ ดๅˆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ๆททไนฑใ‚’ๆ‹›ใ
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but even worse, they might start to feel a little
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uncomfortable or awkward or uncertain and
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ไธๅฟซใพใŸใฏๅŽ„ไป‹ใพใŸใฏไธ็ขบๅฎŸใซๆ„Ÿใ˜ๅง‹ใ‚ใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Š
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you probably didn't mean that, you didn't intend it
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ใ€ใŠใใ‚‰ใใใ‚Œใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใฆใ„ใชใ‹ใฃใŸใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใใ‚Œใ‚’ๆ„ๅ›ณใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ใงใ—ใŸ
02:38
but if they don't enjoy that experience of talking to you
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ใŒใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒใใฎ็ตŒ้จ“ใ‚’ๆฅฝใ—ใ‚“ใงใ„ใชใ„ๅ ดๅˆ ใ‚ใชใŸ
02:42
it might mean that in the future,
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02:44
they don't really want to do it again.
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒๆœฌๅฝ“ใซใใ‚Œใ‚’ใ‚„ใ‚ŠใŸใใชใ„ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
02:46
They might try to avoid you or perhaps you know,
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’้ฟใ‘ใ‚ˆใ†ใจใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ—ใ€ใŠใใ‚‰ใใ‚ใชใŸใŒ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›
02:49
try not to work with you on a project and this makes it
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ใ‚“ใŒใ€ใƒ—ใƒญใ‚ธใ‚งใ‚ฏใƒˆใงใ‚ใชใŸใจไธ€็ท’ใซไป•ไบ‹ใ‚’ใ—ใชใ„
02:53
really hard to fit in in your new language right
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ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„
02:56
and to feel accepted.
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02:58
So this whole topic that we're talking about today
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ไปŠๆ—ฅ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใฎใƒˆใƒ”ใƒƒใ‚ฏๅ…จไฝ“
03:02
is quite serious.
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ใฏ้žๅธธใซๆทฑๅˆปใงใ™ใ€‚
03:03
Good or awesome communication is about more than
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่‰ฏใ„ใพใŸใฏ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ใ‚ณใƒŸใƒฅใƒ‹ใ‚ฑใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใจใฏ
03:07
just the words that you choose.
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ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ้ธใ‚“ใ ่จ€่‘‰ใ ใ‘ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
03:09
It also relates to the tone of your voice,
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ใใ‚ŒใฏใพใŸใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅฃฐใฎ่ชฟๅญใ€
03:13
your body language and other actions that support you
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฎใƒœใƒ‡ใ‚ฃใƒผใƒฉใƒณใ‚ฒใƒผใ‚ธใ€ใใ—ใฆ
03:16
while you're speaking and in English, we communicate
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹้–“ใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ใ‚ตใƒใƒผใƒˆใ™ใ‚‹ไป–ใฎ่กŒๅ‹•ใซใ‚‚้–ขไฟ‚ใ—ใฆใŠใ‚Šใ€่‹ฑ่ชžใงใฏใ€็งใŸใก
03:19
with so much more than just words.
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ใฏๅ˜ใชใ‚‹่จ€่‘‰ไปฅไธŠใฎใ‚‚ใฎใจใ‚ณใƒŸใƒฅใƒ‹ใ‚ฑใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใ‚’ๅ–ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
03:22
So actually, these three things that
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03:25
awesome English speakers do are not just about
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็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’่ฉฑใ™ไบบใŒใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ3ใคใฎใ“ใจใฏใ€ๅ˜ใซ่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใ ใ‘ใงใฏใชใ
03:29
saying words, these are things that they do
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ใ€ไผš่ฉฑไธญใซๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™
03:33
during conversations.
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03:34
And this is what we're going to talk about today.
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ใ“ใ‚ŒใŒไปŠๆ—ฅใŠ่ฉฑใ—ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
03:37
Starting with body language.
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ใƒœใƒ‡ใ‚ฃใƒผใƒฉใƒณใ‚ฒใƒผใ‚ธใ‹ใ‚‰ๅง‹ใ‚ใพใ™ใ€‚
03:40
That's eye contact, that's facial expression,
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ใใ‚Œใฏใ‚ขใ‚คใ‚ณใƒณใ‚ฟใ‚ฏใƒˆใงใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ใใ‚Œใฏ้ก”ใฎ่กจๆƒ…ใงใ‚ใ‚Šใ€
03:43
it's the gestures that you make as you speak.
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ใใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่ฉฑใ™ใจใใซ่กŒใ†ใ‚ธใ‚งใ‚นใƒใƒฃใƒผใงใ™ใ€‚
03:47
All of these things communicate messages
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03:49
to the person who you're talking to.
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่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹็›ธๆ‰‹ใซใƒกใƒƒใ‚ปใƒผใ‚ธใ‚’ไผใˆใพใ™ใ€‚
03:52
In fact, these are the loudest and the most
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03:55
truthful messages that we use when we communicate.
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็งใŸใกใŒใ‚ณใƒŸใƒฅใƒ‹ใ‚ฑใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใ‚’ใจใ‚‹ใจใใซไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ๆœ€ใ‚‚ๅคงใใใ€ๆœ€ใ‚‚็œŸๅฎŸใฎใƒกใƒƒใ‚ปใƒผใ‚ธใงใ™ใ€‚
03:58
They're even louder or clearer
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04:01
than the actual words that we use. In fact,
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ใ€็งใŸใกใŒไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ๅฎŸ้š›ใฎ่จ€่‘‰ใ‚ˆใ‚Šใ‚‚ใ•ใ‚‰ใซๅคงใใใพใŸใฏๆ˜Ž็ขบใงใ™ใ€‚ ๅฎŸ้š›ใ€
04:04
even when you don't have the perfect words to use,
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ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใซๆœ€้ฉใชๅ˜่ชžใŒใชใ„ๅ ดๅˆใงใ‚‚
04:09
your body language, your tone of voice and other
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ใ€ใƒœใƒ‡ใ‚ฃใƒฉใƒณใ‚ฒใƒผใ‚ธใ€ๅฃฐใฎใƒˆใƒผใƒณใ€ใŠใ‚ˆใณ
04:12
interactions that you have during a conversation
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ไผš่ฉฑไธญใซ่กŒใ†ใใฎไป–ใฎๅฏพ่ฉฑใซใ‚ˆใฃใฆ
04:15
can make up for it.
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ใ€ใใ‚Œใ‚’่ฃœใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
04:16
You can still create a really great positive connection
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04:20
that will result in awesome things,
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04:22
even if you don't have the perfect words to do it.
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ใฎๅฎŒ็’งใช่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใชใใฆใ‚‚ใ€็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ใ‚‚ใฎใ‚’ใ‚‚ใŸใ‚‰ใ™ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ใƒใ‚ธใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒ–ใชใคใชใŒใ‚Šใ‚’ไฝœใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
04:26
Now I know you're thinking
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ไปŠใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ‚จใƒžใ‚’่€ƒใˆใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
04:28
Emma, I'm concentrating enough on finding the
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04:31
right words to say, let alone what my hands are doing
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ใ€็งใฎๆ‰‹ใ‚„็›ฎใ€่‚ฉใŒใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏ่จ€ใ†ใพใงใ‚‚ใชใใ€่จ€ใ†ในใๆญฃใ—ใ„่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซๅๅˆ†ใซ้›†ไธญใ—
04:35
and my eyes are doing, my shoulders are doing.
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ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
04:38
I can't do everything!
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็งใฏใ™ในใฆใ‚’่กŒใ†ใ“ใจใฏใงใใพใ›ใ‚“๏ผ
04:39
But this is a huge conversation hack to help you build
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ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ
04:44
awesome relationships with other English speakers.
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ไป–ใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’่ฉฑใ™ไบบใจใฎ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„้–ขไฟ‚ใ‚’็ฏ‰ใใฎใซๅฝน็ซ‹ใคๅทจๅคงใชไผš่ฉฑใƒใƒƒใ‚ฏใงใ™ใ€‚
04:46
If you're a nervous speaker,
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็ฅž็ตŒ่ณชใช่ฉฑใ—ๆ‰‹ใง
04:49
if you're a little unsure about speaking in English,
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ใ€่‹ฑ่ชžใง่ฉฑใ™ใ“ใจใซๅฐ‘ใ—่‡ชไฟกใŒใชใ„ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€
04:52
learning more about these nonverbal communication
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ้ž่จ€่ชžใ‚ณใƒŸใƒฅใƒ‹ใ‚ฑใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใƒ„ใƒผใƒซใซใคใ„ใฆใ•ใ‚‰ใซๅญฆใถ
04:57
tools is going to help you to create more positive
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ใ“ใจใงใ€ใ‚ˆใ‚Šๅ‰ๅ‘ใใชไผš่ฉฑไฝ“้จ“ใ‚’็”Ÿใฟๅ‡บใ™ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™
05:00
conversation experiences.
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05:02
Whether you are aware of it or not, your body language
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05:04
is constantly sending information to other people.
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ใฏๅธธใซไป–ใฎไบบใซๆƒ…ๅ ฑใ‚’้€ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
05:08
It's helping them to trust you and feel comfortable with
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ใใ‚Œใฏๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ไฟก้ ผใ—ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใซๅฟƒๅœฐใ‚ˆใๆ„Ÿใ˜ใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๅŠฉใ‘ใŸใ‚Šใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใ‚’
05:11
you or it's confusing them or offending them in some
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ๆททไนฑใ•ใ›ใŸใ‚Šใ€
05:15
way which is obviously not what you want.
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ๆ˜Žใ‚‰ใ‹ใซใ‚ใชใŸใŒๆœ›ใ‚“ใงใ„ใชใ„ๆ–นๆณ•ใงๅฝผใ‚‰ใ‚’ๆ€’ใ‚‰ใ›ใŸใ‚Šใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
05:18
And sometimes the words that someone is saying
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ใใ—ใฆๆ™‚ใ€…่ชฐใ‹ใŒ่จ€ใฃ
05:21
don't match what their body language is telling you
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ใฆใ„ใ‚‹่จ€่‘‰ใฏๅฝผใ‚‰ใฎใƒœใƒ‡ใ‚ฃใƒผใƒฉใƒณใ‚ฒใƒผใ‚ธใŒใ‚ใชใŸใซ่จ€ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚‚ใฎใจไธ€่‡ดใ›ใš
05:24
and this can be really confusing. If your colleague said
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ใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใซๆททไนฑใ™ใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅŒๅƒšใŒ
05:29
"Hey, a few of us are going for a run around the park
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05:32
at lunch time. Do you want to come?"
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ๆ˜ผ้ฃŸๆ™‚ใซๅ…ฌๅœ’ใ‚’่ตฐใ‚Šๅ›žใ‚‹ใคใ‚‚ใ‚Šใงใ™ใ€‚ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๆฅใŸใ„ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€ใจ่จ€ใฃใŸๅ ดๅˆใ€‚
05:34
And then you said
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05:35
"Yeah that'd be great."
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ใ€Œใ†ใ‚“ใ€ใใ‚Œใฏ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ใ ใ‚ใ†ใ€ใจ่จ€ใฃใŸใ€‚
05:40
They'd probably be surprised or confused
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05:44
and wondering
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05:46
what does she actually mean? Does she want to come?
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ๅฝผๅฅณใŒๅฎŸ้š›ใซไฝ•ใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใ‹็–‘ๅ•ใซๆ€ใ†ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ๅฝผๅฅณใฏๆฅใŸใ„ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
05:49
The reason why I want you to think about this
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็งใŒใ‚ใชใŸใซใ“ใ‚Œใซใคใ„ใฆ่€ƒใˆใฆใ‚‚ใ‚‰ใ„ใŸใ„
05:52
is because many of my English students
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็†็”ฑใฏใ€็งใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžใฎๅญฆ็”Ÿใฎๅคšใใฏใ€
05:55
sometimes have quite a serious look of concentration
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05:58
on their faces when they're trying to listen to someone
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่ชฐใ‹ใฎ่ฉฑใ‚’่žใ„ใŸใ‚Šใ€ไฝ•ใ‚’่จ€ใŠใ†ใจใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใ‹ใ‚’่€ƒใˆใ‚ˆใ†ใจใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใซใ€้ก”ใซใ‹ใชใ‚Š็œŸๅ‰ฃใซ้›†ไธญใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‰
06:01
or think of what they're gonna say and this is totally
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06:04
understandable because they're doing a lot of
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06:07
concentrating and thinking about
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06:08
what they need to say and how they need to express it
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ไฝ•ใ‚’่จ€ใ†ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใฎใ‹ใ€ใใ‚Œใ‚’ใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่กจ็พใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใฎใ‹ใซใคใ„ใฆๅคšใใฎ้›†ไธญใจ่€ƒใˆใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใง็†่งฃ
06:11
and is it the right tense but this can be a problem
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ใงใใพใ™ใŒใ€ใใ‚Œใฏๆญฃใ—ใ„ๆ™‚ๅˆถใงใ™ใŒใ€่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹็›ธๆ‰‹ใซ
06:14
because it creates conflicting messages
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็Ÿ›็›พใ™ใ‚‹ใƒกใƒƒใ‚ปใƒผใ‚ธใ‚’ไฝœๆˆใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏๅ•้กŒใซใชใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Š
06:17
for the person you're talking to.
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ใพใ™ ใ€‚
06:19
If you have this confused sort of scrunched up look
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใใ‚Œใ‚‰ใ‚’่žใ„ใฆใ„ใ‚‹้–“ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ‚ใชใŸใฎ้ก”ใซใ“ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใชๆททไนฑใ—ใŸ็จฎ้กžใฎใŽใใ—ใ‚ƒใใ—ใŸ่กจๆƒ…ใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใชใ‚‰ใฐ
06:22
on your face while you're listening to them,
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06:25
then that person that might feel a little uncomfortable.
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06:28
They might think maybe you don't agree with them
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒๅฝผใ‚‰ใซๅŒๆ„ใ—ใชใ„ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใชใ„ใจๆ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ—ใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰
06:31
or you know they're feeling a little uncomfortable and
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ใŒๅฐ‘ใ—ไธๅฟซใงไธๅฎ‰ใ‚’ๆ„Ÿใ˜ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹
06:34
unsure and you know all this means is that they're
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06:37
probably gonna try and leave the conversation.
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ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
06:40
No one likes to feel awkward and uncomfortable right?
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06:43
I mean there are times when you want to send that
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06:46
type of message to someone that you're confused
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06:49
or you're lost or you disagree
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ใŸใ‚Šใ€่ฟทใฃใŸใ‚Šใ€ๆ„่ฆ‹ใŒๅˆใ‚ใชใ‹ใฃใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใชใƒกใƒƒใ‚ปใƒผใ‚ธใ‚’่ชฐใ‹ใซ้€ใ‚Š
06:50
but I don't want you to do it by mistake
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ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใ†ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ™ใŒใ€่ชคใฃใฆๅถ็„ถใซ้€ใฃใฆใปใ—ใใชใ„ใฎใงใ™
06:53
and by accident.
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06:55
Let's face it. If people enjoy being around you,
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ใใ‚Œใซ็›ด้ขใ—ใ‚ˆใ†ใ€‚ ไบบใ€…ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅ‘จใ‚Šใซใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆฅฝใ—ใ‚“ใงใ„ใ‚‹ใชใ‚‰ใ€
06:59
they're probably gonna be more polite,
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใŠใใ‚‰ใใ‚‚ใฃใจ็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใใชใ‚‹ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€
07:00
they'll probably want to help you more
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใŠใใ‚‰ใใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ใ‚‚ใฃใจๅŠฉใ‘ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใ†ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใใ—ใฆใ‚ใชใŸใจ
07:02
and want to spend more time with you.
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ใ‚‚ใฃใจๅคšใใฎๆ™‚้–“ใ‚’้Žใ”ใ—ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใ†ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
07:05
So improving your body language will help you to
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ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ใƒœใƒ‡ใ‚ฃใƒผใƒฉใƒณใ‚ฒใƒผใ‚ธใ‚’ๆ”นๅ–„ใ™ใ‚‹
07:08
express what you mean, connect with others in a really
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ใ“ใจใฏใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๆ„ๅ‘ณใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’่กจ็พใ—ใ€ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซๅ‰ๅ‘ใใชๆ–นๆณ•ใงไป–ใฎไบบใจใคใชใŒใ‚Šใ€
07:12
positive way and build good relationships.
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่‰ฏใ„้–ขไฟ‚ใ‚’็ฏ‰ใใฎใซๅฝน็ซ‹ใกใพใ™ใ€‚
07:15
Now I've been part of a lot of online conversations
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ไปŠใ€็งใฏๆœ€่ฟ‘ๅคšใใฎใ‚ชใƒณใƒฉใ‚คใƒณไผš่ฉฑใซๅ‚ๅŠ ใ—ใฆใ„
07:19
lately, perhaps you have too
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ใพใ™ใ€‚ใŠใใ‚‰ใใ‚ใชใŸใ‚‚ใใ†ใงใ™ใ€‚
07:20
and this is one thing that English learners don't
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07:24
pay enough attention to.
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ๅๅˆ†ใซๆณจๆ„ใ‚’ๆ‰•ใฃใฆใ„ใชใ„ใ“ใจใฎ1ใคใงใ™ใ€‚
07:26
This is how you create relationships with your teachers,
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ€ๆ•™ๅธซใจใฎ้–ขไฟ‚ใ‚’ๆง‹็ฏ‰ใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ๅ‹้”ใ‚’ไฝœใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ™ใ€‚ไป–ใฎไบบใŒใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„้–ขไฟ‚ใ‚’ไฝœๆˆใ™ใ‚‹
07:29
you make friends and if you've ever wondered why
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07:33
you know it's so obvious
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ใ“ใจใŒ้žๅธธใซๆ˜Ž็™ฝใง็ฐกๅ˜ใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใชใœใ‚ใ‹ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใ‹็–‘ๅ•ใซๆ€ใฃใŸใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆ
07:34
and easy for others to create these great relationships,
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07:38
this is what they're doing differently.
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ใฏใ€ใ“ใ‚ŒใŒๅฝผใ‚‰ใฎใ‚„ใ‚Šๆ–นใจใฏ็•ฐใชใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
07:41
They're looking at the camera when people are talking.
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ไบบใ€…ใŒ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใ‚ซใƒกใƒฉใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
07:44
They're you know keeping people interested,
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏไบบใ€…ใซ่ˆˆๅ‘ณใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ‚‚ใ‚‰ใ†ใ“ใจใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’
07:47
they're nodding and smiling
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07:48
to show that they're listening
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่žใ„
07:50
you know and that they respect the time that you
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07:53
have that you're sharing with them.
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07:55
If you're only half paying attention to someone
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่ชฐใ‹ใซๅŠๅˆ†ใ ใ‘ๆณจๆ„ใ‚’ๆ‰•ใฃใฆใ„ใฆ
07:58
and maybe you're checking your phone or
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ใ€ๅคšๅˆ†ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ‚ใชใŸใจ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹้–“ใซใ‚ใชใŸใฎ้›ป่ฉฑใ‚’ใƒใ‚งใƒƒใ‚ฏใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ€ใพใŸใฏ
08:02
checking your emails while they're talking to you,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ้›ปๅญใƒกใƒผใƒซใ‚’ใƒใ‚งใƒƒใ‚ฏใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใชใ‚‰ใ€
08:06
well, this is what it feels like.
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ใพใ‚ใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใใ‚ŒใŒใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซๆ„Ÿใ˜ใ‚‹ใ‹ใงใ™ใ€‚
08:08
Obviously, you're gonna get a much better result
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08:11
if you give your full attention to someone.
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่ชฐใ‹ใซๅฎŒๅ…จใซๆณจๆ„ใ‚’ๅ‘ใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใ€ใฏใ‚‹ใ‹ใซ่‰ฏใ„็ตๆžœใŒๅพ—ใ‚‰ใ‚Œใพใ™ใ€‚
08:14
If you look them in the eye, if you smile at them and you
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใใ‚Œใ‚‰ใ‚’็›ฎใง่ฆ‹ใ‚‹ใชใ‚‰ใฐใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใใ‚Œใ‚‰ใซๅพฎ็ฌ‘ใ‚“ใงใ€ใ‚ใชใŸ
08:17
acknowledge them and appreciate the time
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ใŒใใ‚Œใ‚‰ใ‚’่ชใ‚ใฆใ€
08:19
that they have for you.
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใฎใŸใ‚ใซๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๆ™‚้–“ใ‚’ๆ„Ÿ่ฌใ™ใ‚‹ใชใ‚‰ใฐใ€‚
08:21
The tone of your voice
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅฃฐใฎใƒˆใƒผใƒณใฏใ‚ใชใŸใซ
08:22
allows you to convey meaning too
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ใ‚‚ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ‚’ไผใˆใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅฏ่ƒฝใซใ—ใพใ™ใ€
08:25
and I'm talking about the pitch of your voice
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ใใ—ใฆ็งใฏใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅฃฐใฎใƒ”ใƒƒใƒ
08:28
and how it changes.
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ใจใใ‚ŒใŒใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซๅค‰ๅŒ–ใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
08:29
This affects the meaning or the way that people
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08:32
interpret your meaning.
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08:34
Now in lots of other languages, a change in tone
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็พๅœจใ€ไป–ใฎๅคšใใฎ่จ€่ชžใงใฏใ€ใƒˆใƒผใƒณใฎ
08:37
might actually change the meaning of a word
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ๅค‰ๆ›ดใซใ‚ˆใ‚Šใ€ๅฎš็พฉไธŠใ€ๅ˜่ชžใฎๆ„ๅ‘ณใŒๅฎŸ้š›ใซๅค‰ๆ›ดใ•ใ‚Œใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Š
08:40
by definition.
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08:41
But in English, this isn't the case. A change in pitch is
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08:45
about changing the attitude or the mood of what you're
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08:49
saying. It could show enthusiasm or
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08:54
boredom or interest.
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08:56
In English, it really is not just what you say
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่‹ฑ่ชžใงใฏใ€ใใ‚Œใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใซใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใ ใ‘ใงใฏใชใใ€
09:00
but it's how you say it as well. The tone of your voice
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใใ‚Œใ‚’่จ€ใ†ๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅฃฐใฎใƒˆใƒผใƒณ
09:04
works in a really similar way to body language
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09:06
you know. If the tone doesn't match the words
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09:10
that are coming out of your mouth,
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ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅฃใ‹ใ‚‰ๅ‡บใฆใใ‚‹่จ€่‘‰ใจไธ€่‡ดใ—ใชใ„ๅ ดๅˆ
09:11
then people feel confused
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09:14
or like they don't really trust you.
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09:16
Both of these things, tone and body language,
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ๅฃฐ่ชฟใจใƒœใƒ‡ใ‚ฃใƒผใƒฉใƒณใ‚ฒใƒผใ‚ธใฎไธกๆ–นใŒ
09:18
they work together like a super team
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ใ‚นใƒผใƒ‘ใƒผใƒใƒผใƒ ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ้€ฃๆบใ—
09:21
to strengthen your communication
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ใฆใ‚ณใƒŸใƒฅใƒ‹ใ‚ฑใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใ‚’ๅผทๅŒ–ใ—ใพใ™
09:23
but tone is one of the hardest things to master
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09:26
as an English student because
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09:28
there are no clear rules about how it works.
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ใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซๆฉŸ่ƒฝใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใซใคใ„ใฆๆ˜Ž็ขบใชใƒซใƒผใƒซใŒใชใ„ใŸใ‚ใ€่‹ฑ่ชžใฎๅญฆ็”Ÿใจใ—ใฆ็ฟ’ๅพ—ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใŒๆœ€ใ‚‚้›ฃใ—ใ„ใ‚‚ใฎใฎ1ใคใงใ™ใ€‚
09:31
It's just a feeling.
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ใŸใ ใฎๆฐ—ๆŒใกใงใ™ใ€‚
09:34
When it comes to tone, louder can be excitement
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ใƒˆใƒผใƒณใซ้–ขใ—ใฆ่จ€ใˆใฐใ€ๅคงใใชๅฃฐใฏ่ˆˆๅฅฎ
09:39
but it can also be anger.
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09:41
Tone is also that magic ingredient in
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09:44
complicated humour like sarcasm.
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ใ€็šฎ่‚‰ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใช่ค‡้›‘ใชใƒฆใƒผใƒขใ‚ขใฎ้ญ”ๆณ•ใฎๆˆๅˆ†ใงใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
09:47
Yeah, you'd be really good at that.
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ใˆใˆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใใ‚ŒใŒๆœฌๅฝ“ใซๅพ—ๆ„ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
09:51
And it's also an important part of
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ใใ‚Œใฏๆฌฒๆฑ‚ไธๆบ€ใ‚’ไผใˆใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฎ้‡่ฆใช้ƒจๅˆ†ใงใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Š
09:53
communicating frustration.
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ใพใ™ใ€‚
09:57
I told you. I'm really busy right now.
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ๅ…ˆใปใฉใ‚‚่จ€ใ„ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ไปŠใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใซๅฟ™ใ—ใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
10:01
These are some of the trickiest parts of English
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฏ่‹ฑ่ชžใฎไผš่ฉฑใฎไธญใงๆœ€ใ‚‚้›ฃใ—ใ„้ƒจๅˆ†ใฎใ„ใใคใ‹ใงใ‚ใ‚Šใ€
10:04
conversation and they're hugely affected by tone.
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ใƒˆใƒผใƒณใฎๅฝฑ้Ÿฟใ‚’ๅคงใใๅ—ใ‘ใพใ™ใ€‚
10:08
And while it might sound complicated,
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่ค‡้›‘ใซ่žใ“ใˆใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใŒ
10:10
as your English teacher, I really want you to pay
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ใ€่‹ฑ่ชžใฎๅ…ˆ็”Ÿใจใ—ใฆใ€
10:13
attention to tone and to start experimenting with it.
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้Ÿณ่‰ฒใซๆณจๆ„ใ‚’ๆ‰•ใ„ใ€ๅฎŸ้จ“ใ‚’ๅง‹ใ‚ใฆใปใ—ใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
10:17
And I suggest you focus on the positive aspects
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ใใ—ใฆใ€้ž่จ€่ชžใ‚ณใƒŸใƒฅใƒ‹ใ‚ฑใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใฎใƒใ‚ธใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒ–ใชๅด้ขใซๆœ€ๅˆใซ็„ฆ็‚นใ‚’ๅฝ“ใฆใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ใŠๅ‹งใ‚ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
10:20
of nonverbal communication first
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10:23
because these are the most visible or the most obvious
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ใชใœใชใ‚‰ใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๆœ€ใ‚‚็›ฎใซ่ฆ‹ใˆใ‚‹ใ€ใพใŸใฏๆœ€ใ‚‚ๆ˜Ž็™ฝใช
10:27
parts you know and because it's positive,
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้ƒจๅˆ†ใงใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ใƒใ‚ธใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒ–ใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚
10:30
it's gonna help you with your communication.
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ใ€ใ‚ณใƒŸใƒฅใƒ‹ใ‚ฑใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใซๅฝน็ซ‹ใคใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™ใ€‚
10:33
Practise making positive exclamations
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่บซๆŒฏใ‚Šๆ‰‹ๆŒฏใ‚Š
10:36
in front of a mirror, you know, focusing on your body
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ใ€้ก”ใฎ่กจๆƒ…ใ€ๅฃฐใฎใƒˆใƒผใƒณใซ็„ฆ็‚นใ‚’ๅฝ“ใฆใฆใ€้กใฎๅ‰ใงๅ‰ๅ‘ใใชๅซใณๅฃฐใ‚’ไธŠใ’ใ‚‹็ทด็ฟ’ใ‚’ใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„
10:39
language, your facial expression and the tone
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10:42
of your voice.
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10:43
Wow, that's amazing.
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ใ‚ใŠใใ‚Œใฏ้ฉšใใ ใ€‚
10:46
Wow, that's amazing!
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ใ‚ใŠใใ‚Œใฏ้ฉšใใ ๏ผ
10:49
I've got some good news.
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่‰ฏใ„ใƒ‹ใƒฅใƒผใ‚นใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
10:51
I've got some good news!
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่‰ฏใ„ใƒ‹ใƒฅใƒผใ‚นใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™๏ผ
10:54
Hello, I need your help.
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ใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏใ€็งใฏใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅŠฉใ‘ใŒๅฟ…่ฆใงใ™ใ€‚
10:57
Hello, I need your help.
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ใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏใ€็งใฏใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅŠฉใ‘ใŒๅฟ…่ฆใงใ™ใ€‚
11:00
Of course, getting a really strong feel for this
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ใ‚‚ใกใ‚ใ‚“ใ€ใ“ใฎ่‡ช็„ถใชๆ„Ÿ่ฆšใ‚’ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซๅผทใ
11:03
a natural feel for it is gonna take practise
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ๆ„Ÿใ˜ใ‚‹ใซใฏ
11:06
and if you want to keep practising with me,
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ใ€็ทด็ฟ’ใŒๅฟ…่ฆใงใ™ใ€‚็งใจไธ€็ท’ใซ็ทด็ฟ’ใ‚’็ถšใ‘ใŸใ„ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€
11:08
my imitation lessons are a really great place to practise
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็งใฎๆจกๅ€ฃใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใฏใ€
11:12
vocabulary, facial expression, tone, body language,
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่ชžๅฝ™ใ€่กจๆƒ…ใ€ใƒˆใƒผใƒณใ€ใƒœใƒ‡ใ‚ฃใƒผใƒฉใƒณใ‚ฒใƒผใ‚ธใชใฉใ‚’็ทด็ฟ’ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใซๆœ€้ฉใชๅ ดๆ‰€ใงใ™ใ€‚
11:16
all of these things together through storytelling.
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ใ‚นใƒˆใƒผใƒชใƒผใƒ†ใƒชใƒณใ‚ฐใ‚’้€šใ—ใฆใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎใ‚‚ใฎใ‚’ไธ€็ท’ใซใ€‚
11:20
Check out my latest lesson up here.
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ใ“ใ“ใง็งใฎๆœ€ๆ–ฐใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใ‚’ใƒใ‚งใƒƒใ‚ฏใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
11:22
Awesome English speakers are also great team players
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็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’่ฉฑใ™ไบบใฏใ€ไผš่ฉฑใฎ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ใƒใƒผใƒ ใƒ—ใƒฌใƒผใƒคใƒผใงใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
11:26
in conversations which means they share
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ใคใพใ‚Šใ€ไผš่ฉฑใ‚’ๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใ
11:29
the conversation. They listen, they respond
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ใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ่€ณใ‚’ๅ‚พใ‘ใ€ๅๅฟœ
11:32
and they help others to participate as well
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ใ—ใ€ไป–ใฎไบบใ‚‚ๅ‚ๅŠ 
11:35
and to enjoy themselves.
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ใ—ใฆๆฅฝใ—ใ‚€ใฎใ‚’ๅŠฉใ‘ใพใ™ใ€‚
11:37
They don't dominate the conversation, they don't speak
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏไผš่ฉฑใ‚’ๆ”ฏ้…ใ—ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ
11:40
over the top of everyone.
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ใฟใ‚“ใชใฎไธŠใซ่ฉฑใ—ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
11:42
They're there to participate.
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏๅ‚ๅŠ ใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซใใ“ใซใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
11:43
Now just because someone talks a little too much
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่ชฐใ‹ใŒไผš่ฉฑใงๅฐ‘ใ—่ฉฑใ—ใ™ใŽใŸใ‹ใ‚‰
11:46
in conversation doesn't mean that they're a bad person
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ใจใ„ใฃใฆใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒๆ‚ชใ„ไบบใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ€ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ„ใฏๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒๆ‚ชใ„่žใๆ‰‹ใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†ๆ„ๅ‘ณใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“
11:50
or even that they're a bad listener.
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11:52
Some of the kindest, loveliest people that I know
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็งใŒ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๆœ€ใ‚‚่ฆชๅˆ‡ใงๆ„›ใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ไบบใ€…ใฎไธญใซใฏใ€
11:56
still struggle with this, with talking over the top of others
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ไป–ใฎไบบใฎไธŠใซ่ฉฑใ—ใ‹ใ‘ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใพใ ใ“ใ‚Œใซ่‹ฆๅŠดใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ไบบใ‚‚ใ„ใพใ™
11:59
but the reason why this is especially important
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ใŒใ€ใ“ใ‚ŒใŒ
12:02
to you as an English Learner is because
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่‹ฑ่ชžๅญฆ็ฟ’่€…ใจใ—ใฆใ‚ใชใŸใซใจใฃใฆ็‰นใซ้‡่ฆใงใ‚ใ‚‹็†็”ฑใฏ
12:05
you want to make sure that people enjoy talking to you
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ใ€ไบบใ€…ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใจ่ฉฑใ™ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆฅฝใ—ใ‚“ใงใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’็ขบ่ชใ—ใŸใ„ใ‹ใ‚‰
12:09
when you're speaking in English.
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ใงใ™ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ่‹ฑ่ชžใง่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ€‚
12:10
Sharing the conversation is going to make people
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ไผš่ฉฑใ‚’ๅ…ฑๆœ‰
12:13
want to stay, to talk more, to find out more about you
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ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ€ไบบใ€…ใฏๆปžๅœจใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ€่ฉฑใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใซใคใ„ใฆใ‚‚ใฃใจ็Ÿฅใ‚ŠใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใ†ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใชใ‚Šใ€
12:17
and allow you to build that relationship
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ใใฎ้–ขไฟ‚ใ‚’็ฏ‰ใใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
12:20
because that relationship means
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ใชใœใชใ‚‰ใ€ใใฎ้–ขไฟ‚
12:22
more chances to speak, more chances to learn,
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ใฏใ€่ฉฑใ™ๆฉŸไผšใ€ๅญฆใถๆฉŸไผš
12:25
someone to speak with regularly
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ใ€ๅฎšๆœŸ็š„ใซ่ฉฑใ™ไบบใ€
12:27
and I mean who knows, you know you might build a
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ใใ—ใฆ็งใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™ใ€‚ ่ชฐใŒ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸ
12:29
relationship with them where they start
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ใฏๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒ
12:32
helping you and giving you feedback or supporting you
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ใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ๅŠฉใ‘ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใซใƒ•ใ‚ฃใƒผใƒ‰ใƒใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚’ไธŽใˆใŸใ‚Š
12:34
with your pronunciation.
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ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ็™บ้Ÿณใงใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ใ‚ตใƒใƒผใƒˆใ—ๅง‹ใ‚ใ‚‹ใจใ“ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๅฝผใ‚‰ใจใฎ้–ขไฟ‚ใ‚’็ฏ‰ใใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใชใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
12:36
I mean obviously, you can't expect random people
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12:40
to do that for you but if you build a good relationship
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ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใฎใŸใ‚ใซใใ‚Œใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆœŸๅพ…ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏใงใใพใ›ใ‚“ใŒ
12:43
with someone like a colleague, a neighbour,
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12:46
someone in your class, an online friend,
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ใ‚ฏใƒฉใ‚นใฎ่ชฐใ‹ใ€ใ‚ชใƒณใƒฉใ‚คใƒณใฎๅ‹ไบบใชใฉใฎ่ชฐใ‹ใจ่‰ฏใ„้–ขไฟ‚ใ‚’็ฏ‰ใ‘
12:50
then it might pay off for you.
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12:52
And I'm not saying that this is gonna be easy
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12:54
but if you think a little more broadly about the benefits
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12:58
and the value of these skills and how
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ใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎใ‚นใ‚ญใƒซใฎๅˆฉ็‚นใจไพกๅ€คใ€ใใ—ใฆ
13:01
they can help you to keep improving your English
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ใใ‚Œใ‚‰ใŒ่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’่‡ช็„ถใซไธŠ้”ใ•ใ›็ถšใ‘ใ‚‹ใฎใซใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซๅฝน็ซ‹ใคใ‹ใซใคใ„ใฆใ‚‚ใ†ๅฐ‘ใ—ๅบƒใ่€ƒใˆใ‚Œใฐ
13:04
naturally, well that's interesting and valuable to you.
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ใ€ใใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใชใŸใซใจใฃใฆ่ˆˆๅ‘ณๆทฑใไพกๅ€คใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
13:07
Now I don't care if you say
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13:09
"Emma, I always let other people speak.
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13:12
I always listen to them."
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13:14
because people who talk too much and they don't
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13:16
share a conversation usually never even notice
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13:20
that they're doing it. They don't mean to do it
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ใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซๆฐ—ไป˜ใใ“ใจใ•ใˆใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใใ‚Œใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใคใ‚‚ใ‚Šใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“
13:22
but you need to actively practise that curiosity.
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13:26
Be curious about a person
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13:28
and what they're talking about.
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13:29
Ask questions, show that you're interested in them
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13:33
and bring them into the conversation.
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13:35
Show them that you're listening to them as well
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่žใ„ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ€ใใ—ใฆใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่ˆˆๅ‘ณใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅฝผใ‚‰ใซ็คบใ™ใฎ
13:38
you know by making sounds and expressions like
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13:47
Show them that you're listening
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ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๅฝผใ‚‰ใ‚’่žใ„ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅฝผใ‚‰ใซ็คบใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„
13:48
and that you're interested.
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13:50
So how do you work on these skills?
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13:53
How do you know if you are good at these things or not
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13:57
and what can you do about it?
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ใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹ใ€ใใ—ใฆใใ‚Œใซใคใ„ใฆไฝ•ใŒใงใใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚’ใฉใ†ใ‚„ใฃใฆ็Ÿฅใ‚‹ใฎใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
13:58
So it's simple. You watch and you copy,
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ใจใฆใ‚‚็ฐกๅ˜ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ่ฆ‹ใฆใ€ใ‚ณใƒ”ใƒผใ—ใฆ
14:02
you imitate an English speaker.
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14:04
Not just any native English speaker,
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่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’ๆฏๅ›ฝ่ชžใจใ™ใ‚‹ไบบใ ใ‘ใงใชใ
14:07
you know you need to choose someone who is a really
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14:10
positive communicator.
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14:11
I've added five YouTube videos down in the
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ไปฅไธ‹ใฎ่ชฌๆ˜Žใซ5ใคใฎYouTubeใƒ“ใƒ‡ใ‚ชใ‚’่ฟฝๅŠ ใ—ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ€
14:14
description below that I think are good examples
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14:18
of people who are communicating really effectively,
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14:22
you know and I want you to watch them, watch
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14:24
what their body does, listen to the tone of their voice
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14:28
and how that influences what they're saying.
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ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ‚ŒใŒๅฝผใ‚‰ใฎ่จ€ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซๅฝฑ้Ÿฟใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ€‚
14:31
And then record yourself talking about that same topic
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ๅŒใ˜ใƒˆใƒ”ใƒƒใ‚ฏใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’่จ˜้Œฒใ—ใฆใ€่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใซ่‡ชๅˆ†
14:34
to see what you look like while you're talking
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ใŒใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่ฆ‹ใˆใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚’็ขบ่ชใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
14:37
you know, do you have a friendly expression,
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14:41
you know, does it feel positive or do you feel confused
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ใพใ™ใ‹ใ€ใใ‚Œใฏๅ‰ๅ‘ใใซๆ„Ÿใ˜ใพใ™ใ‹ใ€ใใ‚Œใจใ‚‚ๆททไนฑ
14:44
and uncomfortable or awkward. So what is it
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14:47
that you can do to change that?
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ใ‚’ๅค‰ใˆใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซใ‚ใชใŸใŒใงใใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏไฝ•ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
14:49
You know, and it might be as simple as
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14:51
trying to smile a little bit more as you're talking
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่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใ‚„ใ‚ขใ‚คใ‚ณใƒณใ‚ฟใ‚ฏใƒˆใ‚’็ถญๆŒใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใซใ€ใ‚‚ใ†ๅฐ‘ใ—็ฌ‘้ก”ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใ›ใ‚ˆใ†ใจใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใจๅŒใ˜ใใ‚‰ใ„็ฐกๅ˜ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“
14:54
or maintain eye contact. These are really small
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ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใซๅฐใ•ใ
14:59
and subtle things
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15:01
that have a huge impact on
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15:03
the way that you communicate with other people.
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ใ€ไป–ใฎไบบใจใฎใ‚ณใƒŸใƒฅใƒ‹ใ‚ฑใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใฎไป•ๆ–นใซๅคงใใชๅฝฑ้Ÿฟใ‚’ไธŽใˆใพใ™ใ€‚
15:05
And often, these things are different between languages
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ๅคšใใฎๅ ดๅˆใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎใ“ใจใฏ่จ€่ชž
15:09
and cultures right?
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ใ‚„ๆ–‡ๅŒ–ใซใ‚ˆใฃใฆ็•ฐใชใ‚Šใพใ™ใ‚ˆใญ๏ผŸ
15:10
So the way that we do this in English
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€่‹ฑ่ชžใงใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’่กŒใ†ๆ–นๆณ•ใฏใ€ๆฏๅ›ฝใง็Ÿฅใฃ
15:13
might be a little different to the way that you do it
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ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใจใฏๅฐ‘ใ—็•ฐใชใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใŒใ‚ใ‚Š
15:16
you know in your native country.
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15:17
So these three things that awesome English speakers
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ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’่ฉฑใ™ไบบใŒๅฎŸ้š›ใซ่กŒใ†ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰3ใคใฎใ“ใจใฏใ€
15:21
do really are hacks for great conversation.
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็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ไผš่ฉฑใฎใŸใ‚ใฎใƒใƒƒใ‚ฏใงใ™ใ€‚
15:26
Improving these things is gonna help you to have
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15:29
better English conversation experiences you know.
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15:33
You'll make more English-speaking friends,
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15:35
you'll get more speaking practice and ultimately
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ๅคšใใฎใ‚นใƒ”ใƒผใ‚ญใƒณใ‚ฐใฎ็ทด็ฟ’ใ‚’ใ—ใ€ใใ—ใฆๆœ€็ต‚
15:39
it's gonna help you to become more fluent
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็š„ใซใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ‚ˆใ‚Šๆตๆšข
15:42
and a more confident English communicator.
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ใง่‡ชไฟกใฎใ‚ใ‚‹่‹ฑ่ชžใฎใ‚ณใƒŸใƒฅใƒ‹ใ‚ฑใƒผใ‚ฟใƒผใซใชใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๅŠฉใ‘ใ‚‹ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
15:45
I mean really don't underestimate the importance
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15:48
of these things.
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I hope that I've given you some interesting ideas
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15:52
to think about.
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15:53
Let me know your thoughts about this video
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ใ“ใฎใƒ“ใƒ‡ใ‚ชใซใคใ„ใฆใฎใ‚ใชใŸใฎ่€ƒใˆใ‚’ๆ•™ใˆใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€
15:55
in the comments below and give it a like if you enjoyed it
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ใใ ใ•ใ„ใ‚ใชใŸใŒไปŠ็งใจไธ€็ท’ใซ็ทด็ฟ’ใ—็ถšใ‘ใŸใ„ใชใ‚‰ใƒใƒฃใƒณใƒใƒซใ‚’่ณผ่ชญ
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and head over into one of these lessons
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here if you want to keep practising with me now.
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16:06
I'll see you in there!
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