25 Advanced English Vocabulary Phrases for DAILY LIFE

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Vanessa: Hi, I'm Vanessa from SpeakEnglishWithVanessa.com.  
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Can you use these 23 English expressions  for daily conversation? Let's talk about it. 
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Have you ever watched an English movie or TV show  and thought, "Man, it would be great to speak like  
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that?" Well, I have some good news. Today you  are going to learn 23 important conversational  
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expressions for daily life. All of these  23 expressions came from last week's video,  
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the one and a half hour real English conversation  that I had with my husband. I hope that you will  
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be able to use these in your daily life as well.  To help you with that, I have created a free PDF  
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worksheet with all 23 of today's expressions,  definitions, sample sentences, and at the bottom  
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of the free PDF, you can answer Vanessa's  challenge question so that you never forget  
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what you are about to learn. All right.  Are you ready to get started? Let's do it. 
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Daily English expression number one that you  need to know is this phrasal verb to go on  
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about something. In the conversation Dan said that  his grandma would go on about lots of stories.  
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This means that she would talk a lot about  something. Usually it's slightly negative because  
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it means she talks for too long about something,  but we can use this in other context too. Take a  
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look at this sentence. I could go on about my love  for books all day. Maybe you don't want to hear  
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about my love for books all day, but it doesn't  matter. If you asked me a question about books,  
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I could go on about books all day. Is  there something that you could go on about  
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for hours and hours? Let's watch the original  clip from the conversation so that you can hear  
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Dan use to go on about. Dan: 
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My grandma would always give lots of details  about growing up there on the farm and how  
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they didn't have electricity. She would  go on about these stories about... 
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Vanessa: Daily English expression number two is  
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actually another phrasal verb, to scrub out. When  you're scrubbing something you're usually pushing  
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really hard to try to get maybe some kind of  burnt food off of a pan. You're scrubbing the pan.  
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Well, we can use this a little more figuratively  as well. In the conversation Dan said that his  
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grandparents' families came from Germany. As  you can imagine, during the 1930s, 1940s, 1950s,  
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it wasn't very popular to have a German sounding  name or to live in a German community in the US  
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because we were at war with Germany. Dan said  they were trying to scrub out a lot of German  
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sounding things. Dan's family changed their name  slightly so that it didn't sound so German. Let's  
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see how we can use this phrasal verb in another  sentence, maybe you had a really bad year in 2020.  
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A lot of us had a hard year in 2020, and  also 2021. I hope 2022 is better for you.  
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Well, you might say, "I just want to scrub  out all of the bad memories from that year."  
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Means you want to erase them from your memory.  "I just want to scrub out all those bad memories  
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and start fresh." All right, let's watch  the clip from the original conversation  
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so that you can get more context. Dan: 
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Obviously for reasons that we can understand- Vanessa: 
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Political reason. Dan: 
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We were at war with Germany a lot, so I think  they were trying to scrub out a lot of the  
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super German sounding things. Like apparently our  last name was more German sounding at one point. 
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Vanessa: Daily English expression number three is, to get  
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ahead of yourself. Is it possible that as you're  walking, you can get ahead of yourself? Well,  
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it's not possible physically, but it's possible  when you're having a conversation. We usually use  
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this in a verbal situation where you start talking  about something prematurely. You're not ready to  
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talk about something. In the conversation with  Dan, we were talking about our family histories  
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and he asked me another question that I was  going to talk about in the future. But we were  
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talking about that, and then I said, "Oh, we're  getting ahead of ourselves. Let's slow down and  
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try to follow this in order." That's often  how it's used. Take a look at this sentence.  
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"And I love reading books, and I talked to  this lady at the library, and then I got a  
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job at the library, but then it was... I'm  getting ahead of myself. Let me start over." 
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As you can see, I was kind of passionately telling  this little story and it wasn't very clear, maybe  
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not in the right order, the way I wanted to say  it. So I said, "Ugh, I'm getting ahead of myself,  
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verbally, so let me start over. Let me go back  to the beginning and tell you it the proper way."  
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All right, let's watch this in the original  conversation so that you can see the context. 
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They were either in New York or Pittsburgh,  but by the time my great grandma came,  
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they went to Pittsburgh. Okay. We're  getting a little ahead of ourselves. 
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The next English expression for daily  conversation is, to sign up for something. Yes,  
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you can use this to sign up for a class, to sign  up for a marathon, but I want to talk about this  
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in a slightly different way, a little bit more  metaphorical for example. In the conversation  
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with my husband, Dan, he said that he loves  to catch critters, little crawling things.  
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Even on our honeymoon, when we were going for a  hike, he was looking for salamanders. Dan joked,  
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"She, me, she didn't know what she was signing  up for." What was I signing up? I was getting  
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married. This means I was signing the papers to  get married, but I didn't know that I was going  
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to be marrying someone who would be always looking  for Salamanders. Obviously this is a little bit  
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of a joke. It's not a big deal. It's something  that I like too, so it works out. But he said,  
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"Oh, she didn't know what she was signing up  for when she married me." Let's take a look  
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at another sentence. Let's imagine that you meet  someone who's also interested in speaking English.  
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You say, "Yeah, how about we meet up every  Thursday at this cafe and we talk for an hour." 
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Then after the first meeting you realize, "Ugh,  this person is not very interesting to talk to.  
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W don't have anything in common,  but I've committed to this.  
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I didn't know what I was signing up for."  This is obviously a worst case scenario.  
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Hopefully if you do this, you find someone who has  a lot in common with you and you have a good time,  
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but you could use this expression and say,  "I didn't know what I was signing up for.  
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Maybe I should find a different speaking partner."  And you can, in my course, the fearless fluency  
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If you would like to meet some of these wonderful  members and participate and improve your speaking,  
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you can click on the link in the description  to join us in the fearless fluency club. 
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All right, let's watch the original context  for this expression to sign up for something. 
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I think this was the first time I'd  ever caught critters with you. Because  
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maybe when we were dating- Dan: 
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She didn't know what she was signing up for. 
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Vanessa: Maybe when we were dating,  
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we just weren't in those situations. The next expression for daily conversation is,  
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to drill in a point. What's a drill? Well,  this is a drill. This is a electric drill.  
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You can use this to put a screw into a piece of  wood, for example. But when we talk about drilling  
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in a point, we're using it in a little bit more of  a metaphorical way. In the conversation with Dan,  
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we said, "Well, this will really drill  in the point that Dan loves catching  
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critters." We were telling a story that emphasized  the idea that Dan loves to catch critters. 
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That's the idea here when we're talking about  it metaphorically, we are emphasizing a point.  
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Let me give you another example. One of my  English teachers was very passionate about  
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theater and plays, and he used to act out scenes  from literature to drill in the point that he was  
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trying to make. Instead of just telling us about  Romeo and Juliet, for example, he would act out  
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the scenes to make sure that we never forgot it,  to drill in the point. A great thing to do. All  
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right. Let's watch the original clip from the  conversation so that you can see the context. 
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Well, do you want to share also while we're  on this topic, your first memory, the frog? 
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Dan: Oh, my very first memory. 
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Vanessa: Yes, this will drill in the point that Dan  
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really likes to catch critters. Dan: 
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Yeah, I caught a toad. Vanessa: 
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The next expression for daily conversation is,  to come full circle. If you go 360 degrees,  
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where are you? Well, you're back at the  beginning, and that's the idea of this expression.  
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In the conversation with Dan I was talking about  when I was a child, I love to play in the dirt,  
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I love to catch tad poles and do these types of  things. Then when I was a teenager, I did those  
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things less. But now as an adult, I do them  again. We could say, "I have come full circle.  
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The cycle is complete." Let's take a look at  another example. You might say, "Fashion has  
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come full circle from when I was younger. Now  high wasted jeans are back in fashion." Maybe  
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there's something like this for you that when  you are a child or when you were a teenager,  
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something was in fashion, and then it fell out  of fashion for a while and now it's in fashion  
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again. Well, we have come full circle, now those  things are fashionable again. All right. Let's  
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watch the clip from the original conversation. Maybe when I was in eighth grade or so,  
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I had a phase where I stopped playing  in the dirt and did other things,  
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but now I have come full circle and well, I took  a shower recently, so my nails are actually clean. 
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The next expression for daily conversation  is, right and left. We're not talking about  
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turn right, turn left. I'm talking about this  full expression, right and left. In the original  
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conversation Dan said that he thought it would  be really cool to be a professional athlete.  
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Then he said, "Well, maybe I would just be beating  everyone right and left. Because he'd be so good,  
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there wouldn't be any other competition." What did it mean in this context? Well, it meant  
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to do things quickly without even thinking, right  and left. You could even say, "Whoa, that company  
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is giving things away for free, right and left.  If you just call them and say, "Hey, I really like  
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that product." They'd say, "Hey, we'll give it to  you for free. Hey, we'll send you a bunch of free  
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samples."" They are giving away things for free,  right and left. I want to show you another sample  
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sentence for something a little bit negative. You  might say she spends money right and left. Can you  
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imagine what this means? Just without thinking,  quickly here and there all over the place. She's  
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always spending money. She just spends money  right and left. All right. Let's watch the  
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original clip from the conversation so that you  can hear how Dan used right and left. Let's watch. 
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Dan: I would wake up tomorrow and I'd be  
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like the best hockey player on earth. Vanessa: 
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Wow. Dan: 
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Maybe that'd be a little bit boring. I'm  just like beating everybody right and left.  
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I'm sure you still have to work though. Vanessa: 
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The next expression for daily conversation is,  even though. In the conversation with Dan, we were  
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talking about different parts of the country.  We said, "Even though that is part of the US,  
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it feels so different when you go from somewhere  that has a wet, humid geography and climate,  
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and then go somewhere deserty and very dry."  Well, it feels like a different country.  
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Even though it's part of the same country,  it feels very different. A phrase you can  
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substitute for even though is, despite the  fact that it's the same country, it feels so  
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different. We use even though more often than  despite the fact that it's the same country,  
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but that is a substitute that you could use.  Let's take a look at a couple other examples.  
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Even though it snowed while we  were camping, we had a great time. 
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Even though it snowed. Here's kind of the  negative part. Well, what's the conclusion?  
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We still had a great time. You can see that  the beginning of the sentence is the opposite  
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of the end of the sentence. Let's  take a look at one other example,  
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even though the computer was on sale, it was still  $2,000. Here we have the opposite. Something's  
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on sale, you think it's going to be cheap or  cheapish, but it was still $2,000. Even though  
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it was on sale, it was still $2,000. Those have  kind of opposite feels. All right, let's watch the  
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original clip from the conversation so you can get  the context for this lovely phrase, even though. 
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I feel like being somewhere like that, even  though the US is the same country, it feels  
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so different that it does feel like  you've gone almost into a different world. 
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The next expression for daily conversation is,  to be tied up in something. In the original  
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conversation when Dan and I were talking about  food, we were talking a lot about nostalgia.  
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That's kind of the bittersweet feeling you have  when you think back on something from your past. A  
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lot of our favorite memories about food are really  tied up with nostalgia. If I just had that food  
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by itself, maybe I wouldn't feel the same way, but  because of those memories in the past, because the  
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food is tied up with nostalgia, it means so much  more. We can use this expression when there is a  
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deep connection between two things. Let's take a  look at another example. I have so much time and  
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energy tied up in this project. I don't want it  to fail. I have so much time and energy tied up in  
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this project that I don't want it to fail. We're  talking about something that's closely connected,  
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time and energy and the project. These are closely  connected. You know what, I don't want it to fail.  
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All right, let's watch the original clip so  that you can see how this expression was used. 
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Dan: We've had so many delicious meals in our  
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travels and we just love different food as well.  This is very tied up in nostalgia for me too,  
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because we lived in South Korea for three years. Vanessa: 
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The next expression is, when I think back to it.  This is a full fixed phrase that we often use when  
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just talking about the past, you're reflecting on  something in the past. In the conversation we were  
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talking about a trip that we took. We said, "When  I think back to it, we did a lot of nice hikes."  
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This is just a memory that I have. When you're  talking about something that you are reflecting  
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on, maybe there's some nostalgia tied up in this.  When I think back on it, we took some nice hikes  
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there. Let's take a look at another example. Let's  say that you're a really creative person. Maybe  
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now you are a designer or a writer or something  like this. You might say, "Well, when I think back  
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to it, I've always had a big imagination." When  you're trying to think about, "Hmm, did I just  
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enjoy this job because it's for another reason or  is it because..." "Oh, when I think back to it,  
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I've always had a big imagination. This is  something that's been a part of my life ever since  
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I was a child. When I think back to it, you know  what, it's a good fit for me. It makes sense."  
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All right, let's watch the original clip from  the conversation so that you can see how to use  
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this phrase. Dan: 
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That was also a good vibe, nostalgic experience.  Because when I think back to it, we did a lot of  
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beautiful hikes on that trip. Vanessa: 
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The next daily life English expression is a fun  one, a cop out. A cop out. In the conversation  
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with Dan, when I asked him what was his preferred  defense mechanism? He said, "Well, my answer is  
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a bit of a cop out. It's flying." Well, flying is  maybe not something we think about as defense, but  
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he goes on to explain why he said that, so it made  sense. But he said, "You know what? My answer's  
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kind of a cop out." We use this expression when  we're talking about avoiding a problem or avoiding  
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something that might be a little bit difficult.  He chose an easy answer. It was a true answer,  
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but he thought he chose something that was maybe  a little too easy. Let's take a look at another  
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example so that you can use this fun phrase. My excuse was just a cop out. I wasn't actually  
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sick. I just didn't want to go to the party. Have  you ever done that? Have you ever given an excuse  
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that wasn't true? Well, it was just a cop out. In  the same sense you can use it to defend yourself.  
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Maybe you actually are sick and you feel bad about  missing a party. You might say, "Oh, I'm so sorry.  
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I can't come to the party. I'm feeling so sick,  but trust me, it's not a cop out. I'm actually  
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sick. I would really love to come." You can use it  to kind of defend yourself too. All right. Let's  
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watch the original clip from the conversation. If you could imagine having an animal's defense  
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mechanism, what would it be? Dan: 
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Mine would be ... this is a  little bit of a cop out, flying. 
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Vanessa: The next expression for daily conversation  
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is a fun one, to win someone something. Usually  we say to win you something. In the conversation  
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with Dan, I was talking about a silly animal, a  horny toad that can squirt blood out of its eyes.  
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If you haven't watched that conversation yet, I  recommend it. There's a link in the description.  
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He said, "Well, you know what? That's pretty  cool, but it's not going to win you a lot of  
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dates." This is a very silly thing to say. If  someone can squirt blood out of their eyes and  
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they go on a date with someone and they do that,  or they tell someone that, that other person might  
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be a little bit scared and not go on a date with  you again, I imagine. Dan said this funny thing,  
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it's not going to win you a lot of dates. Let's see how you can use this in another context.  
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Yelling at people, isn't going to win you a  lot of friends, just enemies. Or you might say,  
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you know what, telling the truth isn't going  to win you a lot of votes as a politician,  
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but at least you will have your integrity.  Telling the truth isn't going to win you a  
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lot of votes. Do you see that we usually use this  in a negative way. It's not going to win you a  
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lot of dates. It's not going to win you a lot of  friends. It's not going to win you a lot of votes.  
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This is the most common way, but you might  also see it used positively. All right,  
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let's take a look at the original conversation. Oh, I probably would fly away instead of fighting,  
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but shooting blood out of your  eyes when you're in danger. 
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Dan: It's not going to win you a lot of dates. 
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Vanessa: No. 
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Dan: Hey baby. 
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Vanessa: Look what I can do. 
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The next expression for daily conversation  is, to set the stage. A stage is the raised up  
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place in a theater where the actors are, but  we're not talking about a play here. Instead  
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I'm just trying to paint a picture. "Let me set  the stage." I was telling you about my Christmas  
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experiences in the conversation. I said,  "Okay, I'll set the stage." And I told you some  
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background things. "There was popcorn. There was  music." I'm trying to give you an image of what it  
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was like. Let's take a look at another example.  "Let me set the stage for what holidays with my  
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family are like, Well, I have two brothers, three  sisters, and they all have children of their own.  
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As you can imagine, it's a really busy time."  Here, I'm giving you a general idea to paint  
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the picture so that you can imagine what  it's like. I'm setting the stage for you. 
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All right. Let's watch the original clip. When I was a kid, we didn't have a real Christmas  
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tree, we had a fake tree, but even in that, I was  so excited about it. First of all, I'll set the  
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stage, my mom popped popcorn. We ate popcorn and  it smelled great. We listened to Christmas music. 
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The next expression for daily conversation  is, to be experienced. Don't forget the D at  
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the end of this word. In the conversation, Dan  was talking about people who are experienced  
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with rock climbing. He said, "There  were people who were more experienced  
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than he was." Let's take a look at some sentences  so that you can use this in the correct way.  
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If you are going hiking in the mountains, it's  best to go with someone who is experienced.  
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Someone who knows where they're going and has  some experience in the mountains. Or we might say,  
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"The only way to become experienced is to practice  a lot." If you want to be experienced and be able  
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to have English conversations, well, you need  to practice a lot. You want to be experienced.  
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Yes, you have this great skill or knowledge.  All right, let's watch the original clip from  
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the conversation. Dan: 
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There's nothing except for a crack and like  little, tiny ledges. They're experienced,  
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so they got up the first part really easily. Vanessa: 
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The next daily English conversation is, to  size up someone. This is a fun expression.  
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In the conversation with Dan, he was talking  about rock climbing and everyone's talking  
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to each other about different climbs that they  did. They're trying to size each other up. How  
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experienced are you? How inexperienced are you?  They're trying to size each other up. This could  
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be a positive thing or a negative thing where  you feel judged by someone else. Or it could  
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be a situation like this. When I saw the bear in  the woods, he was sizing me up to see if he could  
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eat me. We have a lot of bears around here where  I live, but thankfully they don't eat people. They  
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very rarely attack people too. But if I saw a  bear, I imagine it would size me up and say,  
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"Should I attack? Should I run away?"I  don't want to be in that situation. 
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You can also say, "I sized up my competition at  the hot dog eating contest." This is something  
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that often happens at state fairs  in the US. There's a contest to see  
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who can eat the most hot dogs. Seems like a  very American thing. But as you sit at the  
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table and you see the other people who are also  competing, you might look at them and think, "Hmm,  
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I wonder what they could do. Hmm." You're  judging them. You are sizing them up. What  
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are they capable of? All right. Let's watch the  original clip from the conversation so that you  
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can get more context. Dan: 
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One guy walked up and there's a climb and  they all have funny names. And he was like,  
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"Oh, did you do chalk line? Cool, bro."  It was like, totally surfer vibes. 
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Vanessa: Trying to size each other. 
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Dan: Yeah. 
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Vanessa: I could see that. 
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Dan: Yeah. 
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Vanessa: The next expression for daily conversation is,  
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up until. Here we're talking about a change.  You're doing something and then you're stopping  
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at a certain event. In the conversation with  Dan, he said that he played baseball up until  
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coach pitch. This is a different level when  the coach is throwing the ball a lot harder,  
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but he played baseball and then he stopped  at coach pitch. He played baseball up until  
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coach pitch. You might say, "I played the flute  in our high school band up until my senior  
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year." That means that I stopped at my senior  year. What's the difference between up until  
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and until? Well, not very much. It's just a  personal preference. You could say, "Well,  
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I liked that cake up until I saw that it had mold  on it." Or, "I liked that cake until I saw that it  
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had mold on it." Both of these are used equally  and as just your choice, but I want to make sure  
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that you know about both so that you have the  option. All right, let's watch the original clip. 
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Dan: When I was a kid,  
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I played baseball up until coach pitch, which  is where the coach is pitching, not the players.  
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Then I started getting scared of how fast the ball  was coming. At least back then, that's how I felt. 
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Vanessa: The next expression for daily  
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conversation is one that I don't think I've ever  shared on my YouTube channel before and that is,  
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for lack of a better word. In the conversation  with Dan, I said, "There must be a tiny  
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robot for lack of a better word that fights  cancer." Well maybe in the biotech field,  
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they don't use the word robot, but that's just  the word that I used. We could say, "Well,  
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for lack of a better word." This means I don't  have a better word to describe it, but you get  
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the point. Let's take a look at another example. I  learned that trees can, for lack of a better word,  
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talk to each other. If you've ever looked into  trees or research them, you might know that trees  
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can communicate with each other through their  roots, through these types of systems that really,  
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it's almost impossible for us to imagine. I don't  really have a better word to describe it than  
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talk. So I said, trees can, for lack of a better  word, talk with each other. They're obviously  
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not using voices, but that's the best word that I  could think of and you get the point. All right,  
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let's watch the original clip. Dan: 
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I think there is some kind of tiny robot,  for lack of a better word, that can find  
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certain diseases or cells in the body. Vanessa: 
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The next daily English  conversation is, I must say that.  
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In the conversation with Dan, I said, "I must  say that Dan's cancer fighting robots are a  
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better idea than mine." Do you kind of get the  sense from my voice that I'm emphasizing well,  
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it is true, but also a little bit reluctantly.  "Yeah, yeah, yeah. Your idea's better than mine."  
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Let's take a look at another example. Let's say  that you're telling me, "You know what? I just put  
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peanut butter on celery and it's the best snack  ever." This is pretty common in the US. I say,  
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"Ugh, that sounds terrible. I would never  like that." Then you convince me to try  
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it and I eat it and say, "I must say celery  and peanut butter is a pretty good snack."  
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I'm reluctantly agreeing with you. "You know what?  You were right. I was wrong." I must say, it's a  
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pretty good snack. You should try it sometime. All right. Let's watch the clip from  
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the conversation. Yes. I would like  
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our glass sliding door to be closed more easily so  that it is not a personal hassle or an annoyance  
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in our home. But I must say that Dan's cancer  fighting robots are probably a better idea. 
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The next daily English expression is, to justify  something. In the original conversation with Dan  
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we said that real estate is something that  you can justify sometimes because you say  
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that it's an investment. We usually use the word  justify when you're trying to convince someone or  
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convince yourself that something is okay.  It's okay to buy real estate because  
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it's not just throwing away  money. It's an investment.  
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You can also use the word justify for other  things. Let's take a look. I wanted to justify  
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buying a piano by saying, "Hey, I'll learn  how to play." But the reality is I probably  
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wouldn't take the time to learn how to play. I  couldn't really justify the purchase. All right,  
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let's take a look at the original clip so that  you can see how to justify something was used. 
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Dan: I know for sure I want to have  
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some more property and you can always justify it  by saying, "Well, this is an investment too. You  
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can always resell it." Vanessa: 
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The next daily English expression is a fun one,  to cut someone some slack. When something is  
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not slack, for example, let's just take my  hair, this is tight, but slack is when it's  
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loose. That's more flexible. Something is more  flexible, there is slack. If you said to someone,  
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"Hey, cut me some slack. I've been sick all  week. I haven't had any time to finish my work  
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projects." That means stop being so serious with  me. Be kinder, deal with me in a less critical  
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way. In the conversation with Dan, that's how we  used it. Some people, when they play board games,  
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they are very serious. Whenever I play with  someone like that, I just want to tell them,  
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"Hey, stop being so serious. Cut me some slack.  It's just a game." But then some people might say,  
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"It's not a game. It is a way of life." You can also use this expression if you  
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are the one who is being gentler with someone  else. You might say, "I cut my student some slack  
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because I know he's been having a hard time at  home lately." That means I wasn't so strict with  
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my student because I understood that it wasn't a  good time for that. I cut my student some slack. 
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All right, let's take a look  at the original conversation. 
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I've played this game with people who are so  serious, that they are not fun to play with.  
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As in, if you set the dice down, they'll say,  "Oh, your turns over. It's my turn now." "Oh,  
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what? Give me some slack. Cut me some slack." The next daily English expression is, to bring  
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myself to do something. Usually we use this  in a negative way. I can't bring myself to do  
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something. That's how Dan used it in the original  conversation he was talking about an expensive  
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fish. He said, "I could never bring myself to  spending that much money on an expensive fish.  
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I couldn't bring myself to do that." Let's take  a look at another example. I might say, "Ugh, I  
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can't bring myself to post on Instagram."  Something about Instagram just makes me  
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feel a little bit like I'm just showing the  best things and comparing myself with others.  
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I don't think social media in general is a great  thing. I can't bring myself to post on Instagram.  
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We're talking about taking action about this. I  can't bring myself to get an office job again.  
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I've been working in a different way for the  last seven years and I just can't bring myself  
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to getting an office job again. I can't take that  kind of action. All right. Let's take a look at  
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the original conversation clip. Dan: 
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I wouldn't want to spend money on it. I'd  never bring myself to spend money on it. 
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Vanessa: You can't justify spending money on it. 
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Dan: If somebody just gave me the supplies  
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and the fish. I'd set it up and be happy. Vanessa: 
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Okay. The next expression for daily conversation  
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is another fun one, a twinge of something.  In the conversation with Dan, he said, "I saw  
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a twinge of regret in her eye when she talked  about her cow." We were talking about a farmer who  
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has to take care of this cow relentlessly twice  a day, continually. It's a lot of work. She said,  
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"Yes, I love this cow. I am committed to this  cow." But we saw, a little small, quick sign  
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of regret. We call this a twinge. There's a twinge  of regrets. Let's see some other phrases where we  
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can use this because you don't need to use it only  with the word regret. I felt a twinge of envy when  
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I heard my friends talking about their travels.  This is slight, fast and sudden. It's just a  
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little bit, I felt a twinge of envy. I didn't let  it take over me, but I just felt a twinge of envy.  
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Or you could say, "Ugh, I had a twinge of  regret about not ordering that chocolate  
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cake for dessert." If someone else orders the  chocolate cake and I see it, ugh, I wish I'd  
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gotten that instead. I felt a twinge of regret  and then I got over it. My dessert was just fine. 
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All right, let's take a look at  the original conversation clip. 
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They didn't hire anyone to help them so they never  get a vacation, which they could hire someone to  
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help occasionally. Anyway, not my style. Dan: 
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I will just say, "I saw a twinge of regret in her  eyes when she was talking about this decision." 
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Vanessa: Yeah, they  
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love those cows and they took good care of them. The final expression for daily conversation is,  
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to Google something. Well, you might know, Google  is the most popular internet search engine.  
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We use this now commonly as a verb, to Google  something. In the conversation with Dan,  
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I said, "I Google a lot of things that I don't  know. If I don't know how to fix something,  
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I don't know how to do something in the garden  well, I just Google it." You can also say,  
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"I was trying to decide where to go on vacation  so I Googled top vacation destinations 2022,  
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and it looks like I'm going to Portugal." Oh,  wouldn't that be great? Well, I wish that were  
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true, but you can Google a lot of things.  Maybe you Googled some English expressions  
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and that's how you found my YouTube channel.  I hope so. I hope it's helpful to you. 
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Let's take a look at the original clip so that  you can see how to Google something was used. 
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When I need to, for example, do something with  the garden, what do I do when I don't know,  
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I Google it, I watch a YouTube  video. It's very useful in many ways,  
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say for education or even for entertainment. Well, congratulations on learning 23 common daily  
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life, English expressions. Now I have a question  for you. Do you remember that first expression  
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that we talked about, to go on about something?  I want to know what is something that you could  
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go on about for hours and hours? Something that  really makes you feel passionate. Let me know in  
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the comments and don't forget to download the  free PDF worksheet for this lesson. There's a  
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link in the description. You can learn all of  these phrases, definitions, sample sentences,  
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and answer Vanessa's challenge question so  that you never forget what you've learned. 
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Well, thank you so much for learning English with  me and I'll see you again next Friday for a new  
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lesson here on my YouTube channel. Bye. The next step is to download the free  
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PDF worksheet for this lesson. With this  free PDF, you will master today's lesson  
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