15 Essential Advanced English Phrases: Do you know them?

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Speak English With Vanessa


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Vanessa: Hi, I'm Vanessa from SpeakEnglishWithVanessa.com.
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Are you ready to expand your vocabulary?
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Let's go.
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Vanessa: It's a fact, the more vocabulary you know, the more you can understand natural
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English conversations.
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So today I'd like to help you understand and use 15 advanced English expressions for daily
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life.
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These aren't phrases specifically for business, though of course you could use them in those
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situations.
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These aren't all slang expressions or expressions to make you sound really educated.
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No, these are expressions for daily life.
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They're ones that I use all the time and I hope that you'll be able to integrate into
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your daily conversations as well.
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All of the phrases that you're going to learn today are part of my monthly course, The Fearless
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Fluency Club.
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Some of these expressions I took from lessons in 2018, some are from lessons from 2019,
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some are from 2020.
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But today they are for you.
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If you would like to learn 15 to 20 new expressions just like this every month, feel free to click
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up here to learn more about my course, The Fearless Fluency Club.
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Vanessa: During today's lesson, I challenge you to try to say all of the sample sentences
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out loud with me.
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This is going to help you get used to hearing your voice using the expressions and also
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help your pronunciation muscles, help you have a chance to speak and also help you to
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remember them, which is always a challenging thing with new vocabulary, right?
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So make sure that you speak out loud today.
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Try to repeat some of these sentences with me.
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I have a feeling that some of these expressions are going to be new for you.
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So let's get started with the first one.
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Vanessa: A false sense of security, carrying mace gave me a false sense of security.
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Can you guess what this means from the sentence?
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Carrying mace, which is like pepper spray or a minor weapon, gave me a false sense of
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security.
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Well, I feel secure, I feel safe, but in reality, danger is near.
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If I were in a really dangerous situation, carrying mace or pepper spray is probably
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not going to help me too much.
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It gave me a false sense of security.
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Vanessa: His wife didn't argue with him about his drinking, but this was a false sense of
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security.
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She would blow up one day.
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Blow up means get extremely angry.
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This is a pretty common thing that happens in relationships unfortunately.
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One person has a problem and the other person doesn't say anything about it, so that person
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thinks, "Oh, maybe it's not a problem.
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Maybe it's fine, maybe he or she doesn't care."
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This is a false sense of security because probably the other person is building up some
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strong feelings and will just explode in anger one day.
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So make sure that you don't have this false sense of security.
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All right, let's go to the next expression.
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Vanessa: To bounce ideas off or to bounce ideas off of.
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The word of here is just optional.
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Let's look at a sample sentence and I want you to guess what you think it means.
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It's a good idea to bounce ideas off of your coworkers.
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When a ball bounces, it goes down and then it comes back up.
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Well, when you bounce ideas off of a coworker, you're getting some feedback and opinions
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from someone.
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You're bouncing ideas off of someone.
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In the sentence, you can just as naturally say it's a good idea to bounce ideas off your
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coworkers or it's a good idea to bounce ideas off of your coworkers.
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The word of is completely optional.
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Both are correct.
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A common question in business is, can I bounce some ideas off of you?
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And this means that you have some ideas, you would like some feedback about it, especially
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if the other person has more experience than you.
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This is a really polite way to say, "Hey, can I ask you some questions and get some
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feedback?"
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You can just simply say, "Can I bounce some ideas off of you?"
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Great.
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Beautiful sentence.
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Vanessa: The next expression is wise, but this is just a suffix.
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That means that we put it at the end of another word.
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Take a look at this sentence.
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Safety-wise, my city is pretty safe, but education-wise, we could use some improvement.
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You're introducing each category with the word safety, but then you're adding wise to
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show I'm talking about this category.
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Safety-wise.
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My city is pretty safe, but education-wise, we could use some improvement.
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It's not so good.
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So on the topic of education we could use some improvement.
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When my friends ask how old my students are.
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Well there is quite a range of ages of people who learn online.
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Vanessa: If you teach a class of adults about coding, like how to make software code, you
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might say, "Well, age-wise," you're introducing this category with the suffix wise.
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"Age-wise my students are around 40 years old."
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Okay, cool.
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Or, "Age-wise, my students are generally 18 to 25."
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Okay.
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They're probably right out of high school and they're learning a career path.
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Age-wise.
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This is a little bit tricky, a little bit advanced.
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That's why I wanted to include this but you'll definitely see this and I use this in daily
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conversation all the time.
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When you want to talk about a category or talk about two different categories like safety-wise.
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Well, education-wise.
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We can use this for so many different things.
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You can talk about kids, "How's your life?"
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"Well, health-wise, I'm doing pretty fine, but kid-wise I am overwhelmed."
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You can use this for any category.
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Vanessa: "Are you hungry?"
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"Food-wise, I feel great, but drink-wise, yeah, let's go get a drink."
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Okay.
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You can use this for so many different categories.
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I hope to introduce this to you so that you'll start to hear this as you listen to natural
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English conversations.
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Let's go to the next one.
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Vanessa: For the sake of.
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This expression has two different meanings.
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So let me give you one sample sentence.
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A lot of people make art for the sake of making art.
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What do you think this means?
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We could also say a lot of people make art for the sake of it, and that's just replacing
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making art.
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What do you think that means?
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We're talking about the purpose.
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What is their purpose for making art?
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Well, if they're making art for the sake of making art, it's not for the sake of making
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money, for the sake of creative enhancement.
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It's just because they like making art.
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It's not for a school project.
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It's not a requirement.
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It's just for the purpose of making art.
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Vanessa: Or we could just say for the sake of it.
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"Why are you learning English?"
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"Well, I don't need it for my job.
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I don't travel that much.
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I don't know many people from other countries.
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I'm learning English for the sake of it, just because I want to."
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The purpose is, well, just the purpose of learning, for the sake of learning English.
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But there's a second meaning for this expression.
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Let's take a look at this sentence, for the sake of the people who haven't read the book,
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I'll give a quick summary.
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For the sake of the people who haven't read the book.
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If you are discussing a book with some friends, but other people in the room haven't read,
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it well you could use this expression, for the sake of the people who haven't read the
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book.
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I'll give a quick summary.
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This is what happened in the story.
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Vanessa: In this situation we're using for the sake of someone to talk about in respect
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for someone.
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So to respect the people who haven't read the book, so that they aren't completely lost
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in our conversation.
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Well, here's a quick summary.
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So you could say, "For the sake of those who have sacrificed a lot, we are going to have
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a special dinner or a special celebration in respect for those people."
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All right, so we've got two different ways to use this.
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The purpose of something, "I'm learning English for the sake of my job."
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I'm learning English for the sake of it, just because I like learning.
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Or for the sake of someone to respect someone.
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Let's go to the next expression.
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Vanessa: Let alone.
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When we think about the word alone, we think about someone who's not with other people,
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but erase that idea from your mind.
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Let's look at this sample sentence and try to guess what you think it means.
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I've never been to China, let alone seen the Great Wall.
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The Great Wall of China is a big tourist attraction and a really cool historical feature in China,
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but in my sentence I said I've never been to China, let alone seeing the Great Wall.
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Yeah, I've seen pictures and videos, but it's not the same as in real life.
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What's an expression that we can substitute in this situation?
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Vanessa: You could say, "I've never been to China.
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Not to mention seeing the Great Wall."
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Oh, here we have a big category, been to China, and then I'm getting a little bit more specific
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and saying, seeing the Great Wall.
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You might also substitute much less.
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I've never been to China, much less seen the Great Wall.
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So we've got a big category and then we're narrowing it.
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If I've never done that big category, of course I haven't done that small category too.
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Let's look at another example.
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After the accident, he couldn't walk, let alone play soccer.
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What's the big category here?
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Walking.
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Well, if you can't walk, you probably have a difficult time playing soccer.
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So we could say after the accident he couldn't walk much less play soccer.
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After the accident he couldn't walk, not to mention play soccer.
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Vanessa: Of course, if he can't walk, he can't play soccer.
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I'm sure there are some exceptions, but in this situation we're going to use let alone.
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He couldn't walk, let alone play soccer.
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We're getting more specific.
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This is a wonderful advanced expression that you're definitely going to hear all the time
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around you.
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Now that you're aware of this expression, you're going to hear it a lot.
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All right, let's go to the next one.
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Vanessa: A whole ‘nother something.
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A whole ‘nother level.
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A whole ‘nother thing.
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A whole ‘nother animal.
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There's a lot of different ways that we can use this, but the main part that's used in
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each of these expressions is a whole ‘nother.
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What is ‘nother?
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Well, let's look at a sample sentence and I want you to guess.
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We've been dating for two years, but deciding to get married is a whole ‘nother animal.
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Am I getting married to an animal?
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No.
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We're not really talking about animals in this situation.
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We can just substitute thing or level.
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Getting married is a whole ‘nother level.
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What if I said getting married is another level?
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Does that make a little bit more sense to you?
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We've been dating for two years, but getting married is another level.
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I'm not sure if I'm ready to commit.
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That's more serious.
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Well, this is pretty much what we're saying here except this is using, if you want to
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get a little nerdy and grammatical, this is using something called tmesis, which is when
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you insert one word into another word.
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Vanessa: So look at this expression.
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Do you see another and then the word whole splitting it?
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Yep.
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That's what's happening.
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Here we have another, but the word whole has just cut into the middle of that word.
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Another whole or a whole ‘nother.
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When I was thinking about this expression, I had no idea why this actually happened,
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because we use this all the time in daily life, but if you really try to break down,
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wait, ‘nother?
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‘Nother is not a word.
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Why do we say a whole ‘nother?
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I had to do a little bit of research about this, because it's so commonly used, but it's
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not something that you would write in an essay.
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It's not common grammar from a grammar textbook.
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So I hope to introduce this to you so that you can hear it everywhere now and you can
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use it yourself.
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Let's take a look at another example.
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Vanessa: Going to college is relatively easy, but finding a job in your field is a whole
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‘nother thing.
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Here we're talking about something that's a little bit more difficult.
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It's a little bit more challenging, at least in the US, going to college, getting into
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college.
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It's a pretty simple process.
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But it is much more difficult to find a job in the field that you studied.
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If you studied History, well, it's going to be pretty difficult to find a career or find
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a job in that field, in the field of History, so we could say finding a job in your field
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is a whole ‘nother thing.
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All of these words that we can add afterwards, a whole ‘nother animal, a whole ‘nother
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level, a whole ‘nother thing.
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They all have that same meaning, so you can really interchange them however you want.
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A common way to use this grammatical form tmesis if you're curious, is often you'll
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hear really casual situations where native speakers will say, "Abso-freaking-lutely."
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Well, the expression is absolutely, and the word freaking, which is a polite way to say
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a bad word, but we often split it.
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Vanessa: If you eat some ice cream, that is unbelievable.
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It is so good.
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You could say, "Wow, this ice cream is abso-freaking-lutely amazing."
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You're splitting the word absolutely with the word freaking.
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You're probably going to hear this commonly in casual conversation, in this situation
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because you're using the word freaking, it is really casual, but this idea of tmesis
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is used a lot in English, especially with a whole ‘nother something.
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So I hope to introduce this to you just to expand your mind and hopefully you'll be able
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to hear this and use it yourself.
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All right, let's go to the next one.
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Vanessa: To give it a shot.
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Are we talking about guns here?
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Shooting a gun, to give someone a shot?
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No.
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Instead, we're talking about something pretty different.
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What about the sample sentence?
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The food looks strange, but I'll give it a shot.
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Well, we've got two things that should be different from each other, because they're
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combined with the word but.
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So they should kind of be opposites.
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Vanessa: The food looks strange.
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We can assume, "Oh, I don't really want to try it, but I'll give it a shot."
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So what's the opposite of that?
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I'll try it.
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Usually this is with a little bit of hesitation.
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I'll give it a shot.
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I don't feel so certain about it, but I'll give it a shot.
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Maybe your friend says to you, "You've never sung in karaoke.
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Come on, give it a shot."
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You're probably going to try it tentatively.
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Try it hesitantly.
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But you're still going to try it.
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I'm going to give it a shot.
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You could use this for an English course.
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Maybe you thought, "I don't really know if I have time or if this course is going to
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be helpful, but okay, I'll give it a shot."
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For example, the course that all of these expressions came from, The Fearless Fluency
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Club, it usually costs $35 per month, but I want to give, I always give a $5 price for
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the first month.
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Vanessa: If you write new, N-E-W, in the coupon code box when you purchase the course, that
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means the first 30 days is only $5.
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This way you can give it a shot.
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You can just try the course.
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It's $5.
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And if you cancel before 30 days, then you don't need to pay the full price if it's not
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a good fit for you.
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So it's a good way to try the course if you feel hesitant or tentative.
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Well, okay, it's $5, I'll give it a shot.
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And I can cancel before 30 days and not pay the $35 monthly fee.
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So I hope that this makes it easier for you to give it a shot, to see if it's a good fit
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for you.
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All right, let's go to the next expression.
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Vanessa: To be under the impression.
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What about this sentence?
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I was under the impression that being an elementary school teacher was mainly about being fun.
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If I have a fun personality, if we have a fun time together, then I'll be a good teacher.
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Do you think that this is true?
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Do you think that the most important characteristic of an elementary school teacher is being fun?
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No.
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So this means that you have an idea that is later proven wrong.
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Well, if you think this is true about being an elementary school teacher and you walk
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into the classroom and there's 20 or 30 6-year-olds and you say, "All right, this year we're going
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to have a lot of fun.
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Every day is fun."
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You might have some difficulties with the children in the classroom.
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They might not listen to you.
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It might be disorderly.
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You need to have some structure as well.
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There's a lot of different qualities that are good in elementary school teachers not
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just being fun.
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Vanessa: So in this situation you have an idea, but because of some experience it is
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proven wrong.
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I was under the impression, well, but then I found out the truth.
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Let's look at another example.
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She was under the impression that he was a nice guy, she was wrong.
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This means that maybe after their first date she thought he was pretty nice.
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But then after the second date she realized, "Oh, this guy is a little bit strange.
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He's got some strange characteristics."
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Her original idea was later proven wrong because of her experience.
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She was under the impression that he was a nice guy, but she was wrong.
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You don't even need to add that final part, because this expression already implies that
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your idea is later going to be changed.
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So you could just say, "Yeah, I was under the impression that he was a nice guy."
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And it means, "Yeah, but later I found out that he wasn't."
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But initially, at the beginning, early on, I thought that he was, but really he wasn't.
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All right, let's go to the next expression.
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Vanessa: To nip it in the bud.
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We can imagine nip is like to cut and there is a flower that is opening.
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It is almost going to open.
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It is called a bud before it opens.
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If you see a rose or a tulip or some flower that's still closed, before it opens, this
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is called a bud, a flower bud.
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If you cut the flower before it opens, you are nipping it in the bud literally.
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But we often use this figuratively.
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So take a look at a sample sentence and try to guess what it means in a figurative sense.
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The moment that my daughter started lying, I knew I needed to nip it in the bud.
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Am I cutting my daughter?
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No.
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She has some bad behavior, which is lying, not telling the truth.
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The moment that my daughter started lying, I knew I needed to nip it in the bud.
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This means to stop some bad behavior before it becomes too big, before it becomes a habit
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or uncontrollable.
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We often use this for habits of young people.
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Vanessa: Well, I saw that my son started smoking.
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Well, I think we need to nip it in the bud because he might become addicted.
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He might have some health problems.
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We need to stop this bad behavior before it becomes too big.
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We need to nip it in the bud.
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What is it in this expression?
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We always say it.
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You could say we need to nip her lying in the bud.
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We need to nip his smoking in the bud.
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But we hardly ever say that.
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Instead, we always say it because we know the context already.
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We know that lying is the problem or smoking is the problem, so it is the bad behavior.
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Vanessa: If you have, I think we all have these with different languages.
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If you have some bad habits with English grammar that have built up over time, you always use
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since instead of for or something like this, you might say, "Okay, I need to nip it in
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the bud.
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I need to learn which one is correct and I need to stop using it in an incorrect way
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because this is a bad habit that could become a big problem.
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It could become a habit that I can't stop in the future, so I need to nip it in the
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bud."
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Vanessa: Let's look at another sentence.
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If your dog jumps up on strangers in the park, you need to nip it in the bud.
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Don't tolerate it.
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I have cats.
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I've never had dogs, so I'm not really a dog person, but something that I really don't
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like.
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Maybe people who have dogs tolerate it.
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I don't know.
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But when a dog is walking in the park with its owner, even if it's on a leash, if it
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jumps up on me, I don't want that.
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I don't know your dog, your dog is dirty.
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Don't touch my clothes with your dog's dirty paws.
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An owner needs to nip this behavior in the bud.
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The moment that your dog does that, you need to teach your dog that that's not good behavior.
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Don't tolerate it.
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Don't think it's cute.
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No one wants that.
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So you could say the moment your dog jumps up on someone, you need to nip it in the bud.
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Do not let this bad behavior become something big.
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All right, let's go to the next expression.
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Vanessa: To serve me well.
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Are we talking about a restaurant?
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A server served me well.
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The waiter served me well.
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No.
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Look at this sentence.
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The hiking stick served me well when I saw a bear on my hike.
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The hiking stick served me well.
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What do you think this means?
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It's something that's been helpful to have or to know.
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It was helpful to have a hiking stick, when I saw the bear, I could lift it above my head
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and the bear just got a little scared and walked away.
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At least bears in my area are not aggressive.
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So if you have a hiking stick, which is always a good idea when you're hiking, at least in
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this area, you can just make some loud noises or you can lift it above your head and say,
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"Ah," and the bear will most likely, nine times out of 10, or more, just go away because
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they don't care about you.
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They just happen to see you.
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Vanessa: So we could say the hiking stick served me well.
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It was helpful to have, or we could use this not necessarily in a physical way, but we
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could use it about knowledge.
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Something that's helpful to know.
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You could say knowing English has served me well in my job.
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Maybe you didn't think that you would need English for your job, but then you got a new
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position and now you need to write emails every day in English.
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Okay, so you're glad you already have a base in English, you could say, "Knowing English
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has served me well.
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It's been helpful to have this knowledge so that I can use it in my job and I'm not scrambling
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trying to figure out what to say.
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No, I have this knowledge and it's helpful to have.
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It served me well."
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Vanessa: The next expression is to think twice.
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Why would you need to think twice about something?
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Look at this sample sentence.
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Americans don't think twice about tipping in a restaurant.
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Tipping means adding usually 20% extra on their bill.
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If your bill is $20 you need to add $4 to give to the server.
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It can be on your check, it could be cash, but for Americans, this is obvious, we always
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do this.
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We don't need to think twice about this.
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So can you guess what this means?
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It means that you're consciously considering or thinking about something.
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For Americans, we don't need to consider the idea of should I tip, should I not?
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No.
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We always do, because this is just part of American culture.
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Vanessa: If your service has been okay, the server was adequate, then you should give
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at least 15%, probably 20% as a tip.
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This expression, to think twice, is often used for negative situations.
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When you're warning someone about something, so you might say, "You should think twice
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about walking in that neighborhood alone at night.
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That neighborhood is not so safe.
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So before you walk to your friend's house in that neighborhood at night, think twice
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about it."
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It just means carefully consider, is this a good idea?
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Maybe I should drive there.
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Maybe it's close by and you can ride your bike, which is a little faster.
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You should think twice about this.
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Okay.
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You can also say this in other English-type situations.
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Maybe you're thinking about just living in the US.
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Well, that's a big, a big deal.
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You might say, "I should think twice about living in the US.
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Yeah, the idea is good, but I need to leave my family, my friends, my culture.
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Okay.
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I'm going to think twice about it.
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I need to think twice about this because it's a big deal."
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Vanessa: All right.
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Let's go to the next phrase.
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The next expression is the big picture.
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Are we talking about taking a picture and then printing it to be giant on your wall?
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No.
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This is a more figurative expression.
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What if I said this to you, what would you think it means?
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I often don't think about the big picture, instead I just think about the little details.
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The big picture of what?
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What do you think I'm talking about here?
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This is the big picture of life.
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I don't think about 10 years in the future, 20 years in the future.
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How this will impact a broader spectrum of people.
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No, I just think about the details.
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So the big picture means a broad, overall perspective.
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And this can be used to talk about life, the big picture of life, or it can be used to
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talk about other things.
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Vanessa: If you're playing a board game with some friends or a video game, any kind of
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game, you could say, "Before you learn the rules of the game, you need to understand
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the big picture."
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Okay.
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You need to know how do you win.
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What is the overall broad perspective of the game.
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How do you win.
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What are the main goals of the game.
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That's the big picture.
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And then you can go back and learn all of the little rules, but it's good to start with
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learning the big picture of the game.
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All right, let's go to the next expression.
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Vanessa: Back in the day.
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The day?
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Back in the day?
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When is the day?
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What if I said to you, we used to hang out a lot back in the day.
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We used to hang out a lot, that means spend time together, back in the day.
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Does this mean yesterday?
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No, this just means generally a long time ago.
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It's a little bit odd because we can use this to talk about hundreds of years ago, thousands
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of years ago, or we could use this to talk about 20 years ago.
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So it all depends on how much you want to exaggerate with this.
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I feel like the main feeling of this expression is hundreds of years ago, thousands of years
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ago, something that feels like a long time ago.
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Vanessa: But we often use this for our daily lives.
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If you had a friend in high school and now you're 50 years old, well, maybe you see that
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friend very, very rarely now.
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You could say, "Yeah, we used to hang out a lot back in the day."
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Which means in high school, so maybe 30 years ago, it's not thousands of years ago, but
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it feels like a long time ago.
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So that's the sense here.
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Or you might say, "Back in the day, women used to spend all day doing laundry."
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It was laundry day.
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They spent the entire day doing laundry.
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It was really physically intensive, really difficult.
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And that's not really happening that often nowadays.
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So we could say back in the day, I don't know exactly when, I don't have a specific date
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for you, but I'm talking about something that was a long time ago.
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Vanessa: This expression is pretty casual, so I don't really recommend using this in
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a business presentation.
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You wouldn't really say, "Oh, back in the day our company was selling five units and
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nowadays we are selling 300."
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It's a little too casual for that situation.
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You might just say, "In 2005."
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You might talk about the past in a little bit more of a specific way in a business situation.
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But this is great for daily conversations, which is the point of this video, to help
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you with daily expressions.
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So back in the day, something that happened a long time ago, or it felt like a long time
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ago, let's go to the next one.
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Vanessa: To be in over your head, to be in.
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Where are you in?
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To be in over your head.
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There's a lot of prepositions going on in this expression.
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What if I said this to you?
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When he joined the basketball tournament, he was in over his head.
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Do you think that he's an amazing basketball player and he knows what he's doing and he's
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confident and prepared?
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Nope.
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Instead, in this situation, he is less prepared and probably less skilled than the other people
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in the tournament.
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So when he joined the basketball tournament, he was in over his head.
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We never add, he was in the tournament over his head.
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We never add that word there, but we're talking about in this situation, whatever that situation
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is, he is overwhelmed.
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We can imagine jumping into a swimming pool and the water covers your head.
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You are in the water and it is over your head.
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You are overwhelmed because you are probably less skilled and less prepared than the other
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people.
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Vanessa: Let's look at another example.
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I was in over my head on my first day as a teacher.
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Maybe you thought you were prepared, but really you were completely overwhelmed.
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You were in over your head.
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Notice how the subject and the pronoun match in all of these situations.
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I was in over my head.
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He was in over his head.
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We never say I was in over his head.
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He was in over her head.
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That's not possible with this expression, so make sure that they match.
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We were in over our heads.
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They were in over their head.
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I was in over my head.
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I was overwhelmed.
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I was less prepared, less skilled than other people, and I felt really overwhelmed.
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All right, let's look at the next expression.
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Vanessa: To ease into it.
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To ease into it.
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Do you sense that the word ease comes from the word easy, smooth?
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Yeah.
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What if I said this sentence?
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You need to ease into the water of the swimming pool because it's really cold.
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You need to ease into the water.
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Oh, does this mean you need to jump in, go off the diving board and just get completely
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wet immediately?
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Some people like to do that if it's cold, but in the sentence, we're talking about slowly
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doing something, doing something cautiously, maybe preparing a little bit.
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You are easing into the water.
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If you just started relearning English after your childhood classes recently, well, don't
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give a speech in English tomorrow.
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You need to ease into it.
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You need to practice English a little bit every day.
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You need to give yourself maybe a couple months of preparation before you give a 30-minute
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speech in English.
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You need to ease into it.
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Vanessa: Notice that there's always a noun after this expression.
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It means a speech.
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You need to ease into it.
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Don't give a speech right away.
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You need to ease into it.
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Or we could say you need to ease into the water.
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That's the noun.
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You're going slowly into the water.
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We can use it in a physical way, going slowly into the water.
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Or in a more metaphorical way, slowly prepare to give a 30-minute speech in English.
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You need to ease into it.
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Great work with these 15 new phrases.
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Let's go through and review one sentence for each of these phrases.
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Vanessa: What I want you to do is I want you to try to say them out loud with me.
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Repeat.
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Use your pronunciation muscles.
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It's going to help you remember them, as I mentioned at the beginning, so just try to
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speak with me.
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All right.
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Let's start with the first one.
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Carrying Mace gave me a false sense of security.
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It's a good idea to bounce ideas off of your coworkers before starting a new project.
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Safety-wise, my city is pretty safe, but education-wise, I think the schools could improve.
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A lot of people make art for the sake of making art.
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I've never been to China, let alone seeing the Great Wall.
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We've been dating for two years, but deciding to get married is a whole ‘nother animal.
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The food looks strange, but I guess I'll give it a shot.
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I was under the impression that being a good elementary school teacher was mainly about
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being fun.
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The moment that my daughter started lying, I knew I needed to nip it in the bud.
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Vanessa: The walking stick served me well when I saw a bear on my hike.
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Americans don't think twice about tipping at a restaurant.
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I usually don't think about the big picture of my life, only the daily details.
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We used to hang out a lot back in the day.
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He was really in over his head when he joined the basketball tournament.
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I had to ease into the water because it was really cold.
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Vanessa: Great work with these 15 phrases.
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I hope you had a chance to learn something new.
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Expand your vocabulary.
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I'm sure that you will hear these around you as you surround yourself with English, that's
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the first step to recognize them.
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Then you'll be able to understand them, and after some time you'll be able to use them
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yourself.
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So feel free to repeat this lesson, go back and review some of these expressions so that
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you can add them to your daily life.
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Vanessa: Well, now I have a question for you.
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I want to know what is something that you should think twice about?
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Give us some advice.
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You should think twice before you go there on vacation.
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You should think twice before you eat that.
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Give us some good sentences in the comments and make sure you read each other's sentences
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as well, just to get a broader perspective of all of these wonderful expressions.
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Well, thanks so much for learning English with me and I'll see you again next Friday
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for a new lesson here on my YouTube channel.
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Bye.
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Vanessa: The next step is to download my free ebook, Five Steps to Becoming a Confident
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English Speaker.
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You'll learn what you need to do to speak confidently and fluently.
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Don't forget to subscribe to my YouTube channel for more free lessons.
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Thanks so much.
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Bye.
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