SPEAK ENGLISH LIKE A NATIVE USING THIS SIMPLE RULE

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As an English learner, your goal is to speak English like a native English
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speaker, but there's something you have never been taught, something that
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you can't learn from English books.
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You see, when native English speakers are in high school and college, we
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are actually taught a simple rule of threes, and this is the rule I'm going
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to teach you today and help you apply it so that you can sound like me.
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Are you ready?
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Well then I am teacher.
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Tiffani, let's jump right in.
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Now, this rule that I am referring to is actually something my
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English teachers taught me.
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The rule goes like this, provide enough support for your thoughts,
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ideas, and opinions by giving three details, three examples.
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And or three reasons.
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Now I wanna show you how you can apply this rule.
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So let's get started now.
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The three details.
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Here's the simple explanation.
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The first part of this rule focuses on the important details of the topic.
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Subject or person you are discussing.
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In other words, you want to help your listener visualize
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what you are talking about.
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Let me show you how this works.
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In this first example, here's the first part.
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Let's say the topic is winter, winter weather, and someone says, tell me
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about the weather in your hometown.
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Now remember, we are working with the first part of the.
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Three details.
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So here are the details you could give your response like this, my hometown
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is known for its cold weather, but what happens when you add the three details?
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Detail number one.
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Blizzard detail number two, five feet of snow and detail.
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Number three, freezing cold.
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Now again, the basic response is my hometown is known for its cold weather.
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But how will that response change when we add the three details?
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Let me show you.
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This is what the response will look like.
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Now, my hometown is known for its cold weather.
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I live in upstate New York, and just recently we got a lot of snow.
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The news actually said it was a blizzard and one day over five feet of snow fell.
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It was freezing cold That.
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What happened?
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You suddenly started to visualize that day.
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Why?
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Because I added three details.
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How much snow?
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How did it feel?
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Oh, it was a blizzard.
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Now let me explain some of the words and expressions that I used.
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The first one that I wanna explain to you, just to make
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sure you understand is Blizzard.
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Yes.
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Good job, Blizz.
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Excellent.
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Now, a blizzard is just a severe snowstorm with high winds and low visibility.
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Again, it's hard to see because there's so much snow coming down.
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We say it's a blizzard.
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Now the next thing I said was freezing cold.
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Not just cold, but freezing cold.
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If you say that something is freezing or freezing cold, you are emphasizing
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that it is very extremely cold.
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In English, we say freezing cold.
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So again, I gave three details that helped you visualize what I was
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describing when I answered the question.
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So again, part one of the rule is, Details, giving three details
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to help support your idea, your thought, or your opinion.
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Now, what about part two of this rule?
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Part two is giving three examples.
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So the second part of this rule focuses on examples of the topic, the
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subject or person you are discussing.
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In other words, you want to help your listener understand more by giving.
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Real life example situations.
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This is part two of the rules.
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So let's see this in action here.
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Again, we're talking about winter weather.
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Tell me about the weather in your hometown.
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Same basic response.
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My hometown is known for its cold weather, but now remember
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we're looking at part two.
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We're discussing by giving three examples how we can speak English
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like a native English speaker.
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Here we go.
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Example number one, snowball fights with my siblings every winter.
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Example number two, building snowmen after a big snow storm.
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And example number three, racking up money from shoveling
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driveways in my neighborhood.
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So all of a sudden we have three different examples, three different example
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situations to add to our response.
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Let's see what our response looks like.
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Now here's the response, including the three example.
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My hometown is known for its cold weather.
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That's the basic response.
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Every year we get lots of snow.
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The snow helps us make so many memories as kids.
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I remember having snowball fights with my siblings every winter example, number one.
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Then we would build snowmen after every big snow storm example number.
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We would even rack up money from shoveling driveways in our neighborhood.
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Example number three.
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We really enjoyed the winter weather.
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You see how my response expanded as I gave three examples to support my
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idea, my thought, and my opinion.
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Now, within this response, I did use some new expressions.
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So snowball fight, snowball fight.
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This just refers to a playful fight, which in which people
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throw snowballs at each other.
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We love it.
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It's great fun.
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My nieces, whenever there's a snowstorm, whenever there's
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snow, and they would be at my, my parents' house, their grandparents.
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We try to have snowball fights with them, just having a good
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time throwing snow at each other.
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In English, we say snowball fight, and the next thing I used was rack up.
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I said we would even rack up money from shoveling driveways in our.
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Rack up.
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This just means to accumulate or gather or achieve something, typically
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a score or amount of something without other people knowing.
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Right?
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A, we racked up the money.
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We got a lot of money, we accumulated or achieved a large sum of money.
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We got a large sum of.
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Rack up.
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So again, we added three examples.
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We had our basic response.
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Remember the basic response was, my hometown is known for its cold weather.
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But when we added the three examples, what happened?
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We got our long response, the one that sounds like a native English.
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Now part three of the rule, part three of the rule is very important.
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Part three is three reasons.
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So the third part of this rule focuses on giving specific reasons
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for your ideas on the topic, subject or person you are discussing.
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In other words, you want to help your listener understand your thought
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process and how you developed your idea.
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Again, we native English speakers learned this in high school and in
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college, and now I want you to understand it so that you can sound like me.
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So here's an example.
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Again, the topic, winter weather.
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Tell me about the weather in your hometown.
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Same response.
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Same basic response of my hometown is known for its cold weather Now, reason
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number one, it snows like clockwork.
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Reason number two, the temperature never goes above 30 degrees in the winter.
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And reason number, Boiling water transforms into snow in a
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manner of matter of seconds, not manner, but matter of seconds.
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So we have three reasons for the basic response of my hometown
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being known for its cold weather.
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Now, how do we turn this information into a longer response?
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Here's how it works.
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My hometown is known for its cold weather.
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The basic response, there are three reasons why it's so famous.
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First, it snows like clockwork every single week.
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The snowfall so regularly that people stopped paying attention to the news.
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Second, the temperature never goes above 30 degrees in the winter.
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It's always cold outside.
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Finally, if you toss boiling water into the.
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It will turn into snow in a matter of seconds.
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What happened?
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I supported my idea, my thoughts with three reasons, the third part of the
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rule, and now we have this response that sounds like a native English speaker.
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Now, in this response, I also used some new expressions.
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The first one, like clock.
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Like clockwork.
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Now, this means that something happens regularly and almost
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without any interruptions.
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For example, normally my lessons go up on YouTube and on my podcast on
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Sundays like clockwork regularly, right?
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Again, something happens regularly and almost without any interruptions.
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We say like clock.
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Now, the next one I used was a vocabulary word toss.
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Now, this just means to throw something somewhere lightly
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and easily or casually, right?
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You're not throwing it hard, but you're just tossing it in
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the air, throwing it lightly.
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You got it in English, we say toss.
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So again, we used the three reasons to give a longer response.
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Now this rule is something again, that native English speakers learn the
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rule of three again, three details.
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Three examples or three reasons, use this rule to start sounding like me.
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I hope you enjoyed the lesson today.
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I hope you enjoy the lesson and I'll talk to you in the next one.
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Oh, you still there?
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? You know what time it is.
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It's story time eight.
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I said it's story time.
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All right.
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Today I wanna tell you a story that I've told before a while ago.
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So I like cycling when I was in college and a little bit after
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college, I cycled on a regular basis.
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We would go out on Sundays like clockwork.
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You got it right, like clockwork to cycle.
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And I loved it.
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I had a road bike and I had a mountain bike.
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So on this one Sunday, my friend, he and I went to college together.
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We had graduated, both had jobs and he hit me up and he said, Hey
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Tiff, do you wanna go riding today?
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And I said, yeah, definitely.
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He said, let's go on a longer ride.
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I said, okay.
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There was a mountain, um, mount.
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Say no, I went to school in Huntsville.
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He said, TIFF, let's ride to Mount.
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Say no.
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I said, okay.
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I, it will be my first time riding to Mount, say no.
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So I was excited.
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New scenery, new road.
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So he said, the only thing is Tiff, the mountain is kind of
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high, so we have to be careful.
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I said, no problem.
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I've never been scared of heights or anything like that.
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So I was like, Hey, no problem.
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So we ride, we leave our um, apartment.
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We live in the same apartment complex, so we leave the apartment complex
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and we take the ride to the mountain.
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So we're riding up the mountain and it was challenging.
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Uh, our legs were on fire as we're riding up the mountain, but it was a good
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exercise, uh, a good exercise routine, a good route that we were on, right?
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So we're riding up the mountain and we get to the top and I
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was like, man, that was great.
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And I was looking forward to the descent, right?
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Going down the mountain because when you go down, it's really fast.
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But before we took off, my friend said, TIFF.
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I said, yeah, what's going?
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There's one thing you should know.
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I said, Hey, what's up?
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When we go down this mountain, we are going to go super fast.
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I said, yes, my kind of speed.
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He said, no, no, no, no.
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It's gonna be double what you're used to.
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I said, Double what I'm used to.
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You see, up until that point, he and I and some other friends we had did
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a lot of rides and we would get up to maybe 20, 22, 23 miles an hour and
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we had a great time going fast, he said, but Tiff, as we descend down
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the mountain, it's gonna be so steep.
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We are going to hit 40 miles an.
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I said, what'd you say
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He said, we're going to hit 40 miles an hour.
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He said, so just be very careful to avoid rocks.
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Now we're gonna be riding on a road with cars, so watch out for
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the cars, watch out for the rocks.
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He started telling me all this and I said, okay, wait a minute.
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Now again, I, I'm, I like ex um, uh, I like going fast.
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I was looking forward to the thrill of riding down the mountain, but I
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still was thinking about the fact my.
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A road bike, the tire is about that wide, almost an inch or less than an inch.
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If you hit a rock just riding at 10 miles an hour, it can throw you off the bike
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going 40 miles an hour, hitting a rock.
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That's not gonna turn out well.
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So I said, okay.
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He said, are you ready?
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I said, I'm ready.
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So we start down the mountain, 20 miles an hour, 25 miles an hour.
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30, 32, 35 miles an hour, we hit 40 miles an hour.
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And I was passing cars.
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I was passing cars on my bike, looking to the right, I'm passing a
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car going down this mountain and it wasn't a straight, a straight hill.
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It was winding curves, so we had to think carefully as we were riding down the hill.
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So part of me was excited, like Woo.
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And the other part was like, TIFF, stay focused.
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Stay focused.
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Make sure you're looking at the road.
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Make sure you're looking at the car that's next to you that you're passing.
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Now I can remember it like it was yesterday, even though this happened.
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almost 20 years ago.
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I can remember it just like it was yesterday.
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I remember going down the last curve and turning, going 40 miles an hour,
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turning this bike with wheels less than an inch thick, praying, God,
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get me down this mountain safely.
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And also, oh my goodness, this is the most fun I've had in a long time.
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So we made it down the hill, down the mountain safely.
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As you can see, I'm here, and when we got down the mountain, we weren't
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talking at all As we were riding down, when we got down to the bottom
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of the mountain, we were on the road.
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We paused.
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I looked at him and he looked at me.
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and we both said that was amazing, . Even though there was a measure of
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fear and danger, we had a great time.
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So for you, maybe there's something you want to do and there's a measure
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of danger, or you're scared, even with English, you're scared of
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doing something, don't be scared.
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Realize you can do whatever you put your mind to.
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Enjoy the process and you will achieve your goal.
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I hope you enjoyed today's story and today's lesson.
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I'll talk to you next time.
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