Friendly Ways to Invite Someone in English | Professional & Casual

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ไธ‹ใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžๅญ—ๅน•ใ‚’ใƒ€ใƒ–ใƒซใ‚ฏใƒชใƒƒใ‚ฏใ™ใ‚‹ใจๅ‹•็”ปใ‚’ๅ†็”Ÿใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ็ฟป่จณใ•ใ‚ŒใŸๅญ—ๅน•ใฏๆฉŸๆขฐ็ฟป่จณใงใ™ใ€‚

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Have you ever felt unsure of how to extend an invitation in English
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ๅ …่‹ฆใ—ใ่žใ“ใˆใšใซ่‹ฑ่ชžใงๆ‹›ๅพ…็Šถใ‚’ไผใˆใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใŒใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใจๆ„Ÿใ˜ใŸใ“ใจใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹
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without sounding too formal? Or on the flip side, too informal.
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? ้€†ใซ่จ€ใˆใฐใ€ใ‚ซใ‚ธใƒฅใ‚ขใƒซใ™ใŽใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅˆใ‚ใฆ่ชฐใ‹ใ‚’ไฝ•ใ‹ใซ่ช˜ใ†ใฎใฏใ€
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It's already nerve-wracking or scary to invite someone to do something for the
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ใ™ใงใซ็ทŠๅผตใ—ใŸใ‚Šๆ€–ใ„ใ‚‚ใฎใงใ™
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very first time. If, for example,
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ใ€‚ ใŸใจใˆใฐใ€
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you hoping to get to know a coworker better or develop a friendship,
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ๅŒๅƒšใฎใ“ใจใ‚’ใ‚‚ใฃใจ็Ÿฅใ‚ŠใŸใ„ใ€ ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ„ใฏๅ‹ๆƒ…ใ‚’ๆทฑใ‚ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹
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it's all the more difficult if you're unsure about the language
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ๅ ดๅˆใ€ ่จ€่‘‰ใฎ
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tone and level of formality to use.
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่ชฟๅญใ‚„ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใƒ•ใ‚ฉใƒผใƒžใƒซใชใƒฌใƒ™ใƒซใŒใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใจใ€ใใ‚Œใฏใ•ใ‚‰ใซๅ›ฐ้›ฃใซใชใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
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That's why we're diving into the art of making invitations in English.
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ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ“ใใ€็งใŸใกใฏ ่‹ฑ่ชžใงๆ‹›ๅพ…็Šถใ‚’ไฝœๆˆใ™ใ‚‹ๆŠ€่ก“ใซ้ฃ›ใณ่พผใฟใพใ™ใ€‚
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It's not just about the language you use, it's also about connection,
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ใใ‚Œใฏไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹่จ€่ชžใ ใ‘ใงใฏใชใ ใ€ใคใชใŒใ‚Šใ€
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culture, and the right touch of personal warmth.
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ๆ–‡ๅŒ–ใ€ใใ—ใฆ ๅ€‹ไบบ็š„ใชๆธฉใ‹ใฟใ‚‚้‡่ฆใงใ™ใ€‚
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Whether you're inviting a new friend to coffee, proposing a meeting,
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ๆ–ฐใ—ใ„ๅ‹้”ใ‚’ ใ‚ณใƒผใƒ’ใƒผใซๆ‹›ๅพ…ใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ€ไผš่ญฐใ‚’ๆๆกˆใ—ใŸใ‚Š
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or organizing a casual, get together.
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ใ€ใ‚ซใ‚ธใƒฅใ‚ขใƒซใชใ‚คใƒ™ใƒณใƒˆใ‚’ไผ็”ปใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใงใ‚‚ใ€้›†ใพใ‚Šใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
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The words you choose and the tone you use make all the difference.
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้ธใ‚“ใ ่จ€่‘‰ใจๅฃ่ชฟใŒ ใ™ในใฆใ‚’ๅค‰ใˆใพใ™ใ€‚
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In this.
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Confident English will fully explore how to extend invitations in
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ใ“ใ‚Œใงใ€‚
Confident English ใงใฏใ€ใƒ•ใ‚ฉใƒผใƒžใƒซใจใ‚คใƒณใƒ•ใ‚ฉใƒผใƒžใƒซใฎ
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English with confidence from phrases that strike the perfect balance
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ๅฎŒ็’งใชใƒใƒฉใƒณใ‚นใ‚’ใจใฃใŸใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€
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between formality and informality to the cultural nuances that
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make your invitations feel welcoming and genuine.
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ๆ‹›ๅพ…็Šถใ‚’ ๆญ“่ฟŽ็š„ใงๆœฌ็‰ฉใซๆ„Ÿใ˜ใ•ใ›ใ‚‹ๆ–‡ๅŒ–็š„ใชใƒ‹ใƒฅใ‚ขใƒณใ‚นใพใงใ€่‡ชไฟกใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆ่‹ฑ่ชžใงๆ‹›ๅพ…็Šถใ‚’ไผใˆใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใ‚’ๅพนๅบ•็š„ใซๆŽขใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
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So if you've ever hesitated before saying, would you like to,
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ใ€Œ ใ—ใŸใ„ใงใ™ใ‹ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ๅ‰ใซใŸใ‚ใ‚‰ใฃใŸใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Œใฐใ€
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then you're in the right place.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๆญฃใ—ใ„ๅ ดๆ‰€ใซใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
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Now, before we continue, if this is your first time here, welcome.
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ใ•ใฆใ€่ฉฑใ‚’็ถšใ‘ใ‚‹ๅ‰ใซใ€ ใ“ใ“ใซๅˆใ‚ใฆๆฅใ‚‰ใ‚Œใ‚‹ๆ–นใฏใ€ใ‚ˆใ†ใ“ใใ€‚
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็งใฏ่‹ฑ่ชžใฎ ่‡ชไฟกใจๆตๆšขใ•ใฎใ‚ณใƒผใƒใฎใ‚ขใƒณใƒใƒžใƒชใƒผใงใ™ใ€‚
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Everything I do is designed to help you get the confidence you want for your
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็งใŒใ‚„ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ™ในใฆใฎใ“ใจใฏใ€
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01:48
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ใใฎใ™ในใฆใ‚„ใใฎไป–ใฎๆƒ…ๅ ฑใ‚’่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ ใ€‚
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Now, as we continue in this lesson today,
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ใ•ใฆใ€ไปŠๆ—ฅใฏใ“ใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใ‚’็ถšใ‘ใชใŒใ‚‰ใ€
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we're going to do three specific things. Number one,
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3 ใคใฎ ๅ…ทไฝ“็š„ใชใ“ใจใ‚’ๅฎŸ่กŒใ—ใฆใ„ใใพใ™ใ€‚ ใพใšๆœ€ๅˆใซใ€่‹ฑ่ชžใงๆ‹›ๅพ…็Šถใ‚’ๅทฎใ—ๅ‡บใ™ใจใใซ
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we're going to look at the general structure we use when extending an invitation
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ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใชๆง‹้€ ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใ„ใใพใ™
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in English.
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Then we'll take a look at specific phrases we use for highly
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ๆฌกใซใ€ ้ซ˜ๅบฆใซ
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professional, semi-professional and casual invitations.
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ใƒ—ใƒญใƒ•ใ‚งใƒƒใ‚ทใƒงใƒŠใƒซใชๆ‹›ๅพ…็Šถใ€ใ‚ปใƒŸใƒ—ใƒญใƒ•ใ‚งใƒƒใ‚ทใƒงใƒŠใƒซใช ๆ‹›ๅพ…็Šถใ€ใ‚ซใ‚ธใƒฅใ‚ขใƒซใชๆ‹›ๅพ…็Šถใซไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ๅ…ทไฝ“็š„ใชใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใ„ใใพใ™ใ€‚
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And finally,
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ๆœ€ๅพŒใซใ€
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we will end with a series of scenarios so that you can see real life
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ๅฎŸ้š›ใฎ
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examples of invitations in use. And again,
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ๆ‹›ๅพ…็Šถใฎไฝฟ็”จไพ‹ใ‚’็ขบ่ชใงใใ‚‹ไธ€้€ฃใฎใ‚ทใƒŠใƒชใ‚ชใง็ต‚ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚‚ใ†ไธ€ๅบฆใ€
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we'll take a look at professional semi-professional and casual.
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ใƒ—ใƒญ ใ€ใ‚ปใƒŸใƒ—ใƒญใ€ใ‚ซใ‚ธใƒฅใ‚ขใƒซใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฆ‹ใฆใฟใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
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By the end,
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ๆœ€ๅพŒใซใฏใ€
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you'll be a hundred percent ready to extend your next invitation in English.
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ๆฌกใฎๆ‹›ๅพ…็Šถใ‚’่‹ฑ่ชžใงไผใˆใ‚‹ๆบ–ๅ‚™ใŒ 100 ใƒ‘ใƒผใ‚ปใƒณใƒˆๆ•ดใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
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So first, the process of extending an invitation in English. Generally speaking,
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ใพใšใ€ ่‹ฑ่ชžใงๆ‹›ๅพ…็Šถใ‚’้€ไฟกใ™ใ‚‹ใƒ—ใƒญใ‚ปใ‚นใงใ™ใ€‚ ไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใซใ€็งใŸใกใŒๅพ“ใ†ๅ‚พๅ‘ใซใ‚ใ‚‹
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there are two structures we tend to follow. First,
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ๆง‹้€ ใฏ 2 ใคใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใพใš
02:47
we might ask a question and then include the specific activity or
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่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ใ—ใ€ๆฌกใซ่ชฐใ‹ใ‚’ๆ‹›ๅพ…ใ—ใŸใ„ ๅ…ทไฝ“็š„ใชใ‚ขใ‚ฏใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒ“ใƒ†ใ‚ฃใ‚„ใ‚คใƒ™ใƒณใƒˆใ‚’ๅซใ‚ใพใ™
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event we'd like to invite someone to. For example, are you free for lunch?
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ใ€‚ ใŸใจใˆใฐใ€ใƒฉใƒณใƒใฏ็ฉบใ„ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
02:57
After today's meeting, I'd love to chat if you have some time.
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ไปŠๆ—ฅใฎไผš่ญฐใฎๅพŒใ€ ใ‚‚ใ—ใŠๆ™‚้–“ใŒใ‚ใ‚ŒใฐใœใฒใŠ่ฉฑใ—ใ—ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
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We have a question exploring whether someone's free followed by the specific
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่ชฐใ‹ใŒๆš‡ใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹ใ€ใใฎๅพŒใซ็‰นๅฎšใฎ
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activity or event.
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ใ‚ขใ‚ฏใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒ“ใƒ†ใ‚ฃใ‚„ใ‚คใƒ™ใƒณใƒˆใŒ็ถšใใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹ใ‚’่ชฟในใ‚‹่ณชๅ•ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
03:07
The second structure we often follow includes first introducing the specific
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็งใŸใกใŒใ‚ˆใๅพ“ใ† 2 ็•ช็›ฎใฎๆง‹้€ ใซใฏใ€ ๆœ€ๅˆใซ็‰นๅฎšใฎ
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activity or event and then following that up with what we want or need.
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ใ‚ขใ‚ฏใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒ“ใƒ†ใ‚ฃใ‚„ใ‚คใƒ™ใƒณใƒˆใ‚’็ดนไป‹ใ—ใ€ใใฎๅพŒใซ ๅฟ…่ฆใชใ‚‚ใฎใ‚„ๅฟ…่ฆใชใ‚‚ใฎใ‚’่ฟฝๅŠ ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒๅซใพใ‚Œใพใ™ใ€‚
03:17
For example, I'm having a party this weekend. I'd love it if you could come.
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ใŸใจใˆใฐใ€ไปŠ้€ฑๆœซใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ไบˆๅฎšใงใ™ ใ€‚ ๆฅใฆใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใ‚Œใฐๅนธใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚ ไปŠๆ—ฅ่ชฌๆ˜Žใ™ใ‚‹ไพ‹ใงใฏใ€
03:22
You're going to see those two structures played out again and again and again
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ 2 ใคใฎๆง‹้€ ใŒ ไฝ•ๅบฆใ‚‚ไฝ•ๅบฆใ‚‚ๅฎŸ่กŒใ•ใ‚Œใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’่ฆ‹ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซใชใ‚Šใพใ™
03:27
in the examples that we go through today.
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03:29
But before we dive into specific scenarios,
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ใŸใ ใ—ใ€ ๅ…ทไฝ“็š„ใชใ‚ทใƒŠใƒชใ‚ชใซๅ…ฅใ‚‹ๅ‰ใซใ€
03:32
I want to spend time reviewing common phrases,
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03:35
English speakers use to extend those invitations. We'll take a look at examples,
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่‹ฑ่ชž่ฉฑ่€…ใŒๆ‹›ๅพ…็Šถใ‚’ไผใˆใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใชใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใ‚’็ขบ่ชใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซๆ™‚้–“ใ‚’่ฒปใ‚„ใ—ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚
03:40
first of highly formal relationships.
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ใพใšใ€้žๅธธใซใƒ•ใ‚ฉใƒผใƒžใƒซใช้–ขไฟ‚ใฎไพ‹ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใ„ใใพใ™ใ€‚
03:43
Then we'll transition into more neutral phrases or those that would be
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ๆฌกใซใ€ใ‚ˆใ‚Š ไธญ็ซ‹็š„ใชใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใ‚„
03:47
appropriate for professional contacts, and finally, casual connections.
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ไป•ไบ‹ไธŠใฎ้€ฃ็ตกใซ้ฉใ—ใŸใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใ€ ใใ—ใฆๆœ€ๅพŒใซใ‚ซใ‚ธใƒฅใ‚ขใƒซใชใคใชใŒใ‚Šใซ็งป่กŒใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
03:52
So how you might extend an invitation to someone that you feel close to.
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ใงใฏใ€่ฆช่ฟ‘ๆ„Ÿใ‚’ๆŠฑใ„ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ไบบใซใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซๆ‹›ๅพ…ใ™ใ‚Œใฐใ‚ˆใ„ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ‹ ใ€‚
03:57
So first, we'll take a look at phrases we use for highly formal,
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ใใ“ใงใพใšใ€ ้žๅธธใซใƒ•ใ‚ฉใƒผใƒžใƒซใง้žๅธธ
04:02
highly professional situations.
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ใซๅฐ‚้–€็š„ใช็Šถๆณใงไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใฟใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
04:04
It's important to keep in mind that in English speaking culture,
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่‹ฑ่ชžๅœใฎๆ–‡ๅŒ–ใงใฏใ€
04:08
the more formal your language is,
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่จ€่‘‰ใŒใƒ•ใ‚ฉใƒผใƒžใƒซใงใ‚ใ‚Œใฐใ‚ใ‚‹ใปใฉใ€ไบบ้–“
04:11
the more distant your relationship is.
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้–ขไฟ‚ใฏ้ ใ–ใ‹ใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅฟƒใซ็•™ใ‚ใฆใŠใใ“ใจใŒ้‡่ฆใงใ™ใ€‚
04:15
If I used any of these examples with my close friends,
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎไพ‹ใฎใ„ใšใ‚Œใ‹ใ‚’ใ€ ่ฆชใ—ใ„ๅ‹ไบบใ€
04:19
my family, my team members, or even most of my students,
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ๅฎถๆ—ใ€ใƒใƒผใƒ ใƒกใƒณใƒใƒผใ€ ใ•ใ‚‰ใซใฏใปใจใ‚“ใฉใฎ็”Ÿๅพ’ใซๅฏพใ—ใฆไฝฟ็”จใ—ใŸๅ ดๅˆใ€ใใ‚Œใฏ
04:24
it would indicate that I feel like I have a very distant relationship
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็งใŒใใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎไบบใ€…ใจ้žๅธธใซ้ ใ„้–ขไฟ‚ใซใ‚ใ‚‹ใจๆ„Ÿใ˜ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’็คบใ™ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†
04:28
with those individuals.
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ใ€‚ ใใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใช็Šถๆณใงไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹
04:30
It would be too formal to use for those circumstances.
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ใซใฏใƒ•ใ‚ฉใƒผใƒžใƒซใ™ใŽใ‚‹ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ† ใ€‚
04:35
However,
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ใŸใ ใ—ใ€
04:36
if it is a situation that demands that high level of formality,
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ใใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใช้ซ˜ๅบฆใชใƒ•ใ‚ฉใƒผใƒžใƒซใ•ใŒๆฑ‚ใ‚ใ‚‰ใ‚Œใ‚‹็Šถๆณใงใ‚ใ‚Œใฐใ€
04:41
these are great phrases for extending an invitation. Now,
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฏๆ‹›ๅพ…็Šถใ‚’ๅทฎใ—ๅ‡บใ™ใฎใซๆœ€้ฉใชใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใงใ™ ใ€‚
04:44
if you're not sure what those situations might be,
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ็ŠถๆณใŒใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚‚ใฎใ‹ใ‚ˆใใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€
04:47
a few examples include diplomatic events,
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ใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎไพ‹ใจใ—ใฆใ€ๅค–ไบค่กŒไบ‹ใ€็ตๅฉšๅผใชใฉใฎ
04:51
formal social events,
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ๆญฃๅผใช็คพไบค่กŒไบ‹ใ€
04:53
such as a wedding or high level corporate activities.
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ใพใŸใฏใƒใ‚ค ใƒฌใƒ™ใƒซใชไผๆฅญๆดปๅ‹•ใชใฉใŒๆŒ™ใ’ใ‚‰ใ‚Œใพใ™ใ€‚
04:57
Phrase number one. I would like to invite you to, for example,
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ใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใใฎ๏ผ‘ใ€‚ ใŸใจใˆใฐใ€
05:02
I would like to formally invite you to our company's annual retreat.
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ๅฝ“็คพใฎๅนดๆฌกใƒชใƒˆใƒชใƒผใƒˆใซๆญฃๅผใซใ”ๆ‹›ๅพ…ใ—ใŸใ„ใจ่€ƒใˆใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ“ใ“ใงใฏ
05:06
Not only am I using highly formal language here,
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้žๅธธใซใƒ•ใ‚ฉใƒผใƒžใƒซใช่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ ใ‘ใงใชใ ใ€็Ÿญ็ธฎๅฝข
05:09
I'm also avoiding the use of contractions. Rather than say,
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ใฎไฝฟ็”จใ‚‚้ฟใ‘ใฆใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใ€Œ
05:14
I'd like to invite you, I'm using the full words,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ๆ‹›ๅพ…ใ—ใŸใ„ใฎใงใ™ใŒใ€ ็งใฏๅฎŒๅ…จใช่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’ไฝฟใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚2็•ช็›ฎใซ
05:18
I would like to invite you to number two, I'm pleased to invite you,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ๆ‹›ๅพ…ใ—ใŸใ„ใฎใงใ™ใŒใ€ ็งใฏใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ๆ‹›ๅพ…ใ—ใฆๅ–œใ‚“ใงใ„ใพใ™ใ€
05:23
I'm pleased to invite you to the Winter Gala I,
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็งใฏใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ ๅ†ฌใฎใ‚ฌใƒฉIใซๆ‹›ๅพ…ใ—ใฆๅ–œใ‚“ใงใ„ใพใ™ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใฎใงใฏใชใใ€ ใ€
05:26
or we invite you to attend.
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ใพใŸใฏใ”ๅ‚ๅŠ ใ‚’ใŠๅ‹งใ‚ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
05:29
We invite you to attend the town meeting, and finally,
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ใœใฒ ใ‚ฟใ‚ฆใƒณใƒŸใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒณใ‚ฐใซใ”ๅ‚ๅŠ ใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ๆœ€ๅพŒใซใ€็š†ใ•ใ‚“ใฎใ”
05:33
I am looking forward to joining you.
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ๅ‚ๅŠ ใ‚’ๆฅฝใ—ใฟใซใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
05:36
I'm looking forward to joining you in our company's upcoming strategy meeting.
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ๅฝ“็คพใฎไปŠๅพŒใฎๆˆฆ็•ฅไผš่ญฐใซๅ‚ๅŠ ใงใใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆฅฝใ—ใฟใซใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
05:40
Now, let's move on to phrases that are more neutral in tone.
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ๆฌกใซใ€ ใ‚ˆใ‚Šใƒ‹ใƒฅใƒผใƒˆใƒฉใƒซใชใƒˆใƒผใƒณใฎใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใซ็งปใ‚Šใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
05:44
These are perfect for polite yet warm invitations.
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ไธๅฏงใ‹ใคๆธฉใ‹ใ„ใŠ่ช˜ใ„ใซๆœ€้ฉใงใ™ใ€‚
05:48
In other words, we've closed some of that distance gap.
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่จ€ใ„ๆ›ใˆใ‚Œใฐใ€ ่ท้›ขใฎใ‚ฎใƒฃใƒƒใƒ—ใ‚’ใ‚ใ‚‹็จ‹ๅบฆๅŸ‹ใ‚ใŸใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
05:52
This language is perfect for someone that you don't know well,
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ใ“ใฎ่จ€่ชžใฏใ€ใ‚ใพใ‚Š ่ฉณใ—ใใชใ„
05:56
but you'd like to know better. For example,
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ใ‘ใ‚Œใฉใ€ ใ‚‚ใฃใจ่ฉณใ—ใ็Ÿฅใ‚ŠใŸใ„ไบบใซๆœ€้ฉใงใ™ใ€‚ ใŸใจใˆใฐใ€
06:00
if you're aiming to create a stronger relationship with a client,
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ใ‚ฏใƒฉใ‚คใ‚ขใƒณใƒˆใจใ‚ˆใ‚Šๅผทใ„้–ขไฟ‚ใ‚’็ฏ‰ใใŸใ„ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€
06:04
get to know a coworker or extend an invitation to a new neighbor
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ๅŒๅƒšใจ็Ÿฅใ‚Šๅˆใ„ใซใชใ‚‹ใ‹ใ€ ๆ–ฐใ—ใ„้šฃไบบใ‚’
06:09
phrase number one. I was wondering if,
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ใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บ 1 ใซๆ‹›ๅพ…ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
06:12
I was wondering if you might have time for a quick chat before the meeting.
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ไผš่ญฐใฎๅ‰ใซๅฐ‘ใ—ใŠใ—ใ‚ƒในใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ๆ™‚้–“ใ‚’ใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใชใ„ใ‹ใจๆ€ใฃใŸใฎใงใ™ใŒใ€‚
06:17
Would you like to, would you like to join us for the next luncheon?
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ใ‚ˆใ‚ใ—ใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใ€ ๆฌกๅ›žใฎใƒฉใƒณใƒไผšใซใ”ๅ‚ๅŠ ใ•ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹?
06:21
I'd love it if you can come to,
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ๆฅใฆใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใ‚Œใฐๅฌ‰ใ—ใ„ใงใ™ใ€
06:23
I'd love it if you can come to my son's fifth birthday party.
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็งใฎๆฏๅญใฎ5ๆญณใฎ่ช•็”Ÿๆ—ฅใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใซๆฅใฆใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใ‚Œใฐๅฌ‰ใ—ใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
06:27
Let's pause here for just a moment.
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ใ“ใ“ใงๅฐ‘ใ—ไผ‘ๆ†ฉใ—ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
06:29
If you've ever felt worried or unsure of how to invite
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06:34
other kids to your son or daughter's party and you know that you'll
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ๆฏๅญใ‚„ๅจ˜ใฎใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใซไป–ใฎๅญไพ›ใŸใกใ‚’ๆ‹›ๅพ…ใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใŒๅฟƒ้…ใ ใฃใŸใ‚Š่‡ชไฟกใŒใชใ‹ใฃใŸใ‚Šใ€
06:39
have to ask the parents of those kids,
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ใใฎๅญไพ›ใŸใกใฎ่ฆชใซ้ ผใพใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ“ใจใŒๅˆ†ใ‹ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใซใฏใ€
06:42
this is a wonderful phrase to use.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏไฝฟใˆใ‚‹็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใงใ™ใ€‚ ็งใฎๆฏๅญใฎ5ๆญณใฎ่ช•็”Ÿๆ—ฅใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใซ
06:45
I'd love it if you can come or I'd love it if your daughter,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๆฅใฆใใ‚ŒใŸใ‚‰ๅฌ‰ใ—ใ„ใงใ™ใ€ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ„ใฏ ใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅจ˜ใ•ใ‚“ใ€
06:50
if your son can come to my son's fifth birthday party.
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ๆฏๅญใ•ใ‚“ใŒๆฅใฆใใ‚ŒใŸใ‚‰ๅฌ‰ใ—ใ„ใงใ™ ใ€‚ ใ‚ใจ
06:55
Two more neutral phrases.
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2 ใคใฎไธญ็ซ‹็š„ใชใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใ€‚
06:57
I hope you can join me or I hope you can join us.
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ใ”ๅ‚ๅŠ ใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใ‚‹ใจๅนธใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚ใพใŸใฏใ€ใ” ๅ‚ๅŠ ใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใ‚Œใฐๅนธใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
07:01
I hope you can join us in celebrating Janice's Retirement,
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ใ‚ธใƒฃใƒ‹ใ‚นใฎๅผ•้€€ใ‚’ไธ€็ท’ใซ็ฅใ„ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใฎใงใ€ใ”
07:06
and I'd love it if you could join me or if you could join us.
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ๅ‚ๅŠ ใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใ‚‹ๆ–นใ€ใ‚‚ใ—ใใฏใ”ๅ‚ๅŠ ใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใ‚‹ใจๅฌ‰ใ—ใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚ ไปŠ้€ฑๆฐดๆ›œๆ—ฅใฎใƒจใ‚ฌใ‚ฏใƒฉใ‚นใซใ”
07:11
I'd love it if you can join me for a yoga class this Wednesday and now let's
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ๅ‚ๅŠ ใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใ‚Œใฐๅนธใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใงใฏใ€ๆธฉใ‹ใใƒ•ใƒฌใƒณใƒ‰ใƒชใƒผใช
07:15
look at casual phrases that are warm and friendly. These are, again,
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ใ‚ซใ‚ธใƒฅใ‚ขใƒซใชใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใฟใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ† ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฏใ€็นฐใ‚Š่ฟ”ใ—ใซใชใ‚Šใพใ™ใŒใ€
07:19
perfect for anyone you know well or anyone you have a friendly
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ใ‚ˆใ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ไบบ ใ‚„ๅ‹ๅฅฝ็š„ใช
07:24
relationship with. Now, that doesn't mean that your best friends,
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้–ขไฟ‚ใซใ‚ใ‚‹ไบบใซๆœ€้ฉใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ•ใฆใ€ใใ‚Œใฏ ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ่ฆชๅ‹ใ€
07:28
a friendly relationship is someone that you've encountered multiple times
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ๅ‹ๅฅฝ็š„ใช้–ขไฟ‚ใจใฏใ€ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒไฝ•ๅบฆใ‚‚้ญ้‡ใ—ใ€
07:33
and every time you've done so,
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ใใฎใŸใณใซ
07:35
you've had a polite and friendly conversation,
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็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ ๅ‹ๅฅฝ็š„ใชไผš่ฉฑใ‚’ใ—ใ€ๅ‹ๅฅฝ็š„ใช
07:38
you've developed a connection for those circumstances.
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้–ขไฟ‚ใ‚’็ฏ‰ใ„ใฆใใŸไบบใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ™ใ‚‹ใ‚‚ใฎใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ็Šถๆณใ€‚ ่ท้›ขใŒ็ธฎใพใฃใŸใ“ใจใ‚’็คบใ™
07:41
You'll want to use language that indicates that reduced amount of
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่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใจใ‚ˆใ„ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†
07:46
distance. You want to be warm and friendly.
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ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ ๆธฉใ‹ใใƒ•ใƒฌใƒณใƒ‰ใƒชใƒผใงใ‚ใ‚ŠใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใฎใŸใ‚
07:49
Here are phrases you can use to do that. Are you doing anything?
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ใซไฝฟใˆใ‚‹ใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใ‚’็ดนไป‹ใ—ใพใ™ ใ€‚ ไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚„ใฃใฆใ‚‹ใฎ๏ผŸ
07:54
Are you doing anything after today's meeting? Let's get lunch. Do you want to,
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ไปŠๆ—ฅใฎไผš่ญฐใฎๅพŒไฝ•ใ‹ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ‹ ๏ผŸ ๆ˜ผ้ฃŸใ‚’ใจใ‚Šใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ไผ‘ๆ†ฉ
07:59
do you want to grab coffee during the break? Do you feel like,
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ไธญใซใ‚ณใƒผใƒ’ใƒผใ‚’้ฃฒใฟใŸใ„ใงใ™ใ‹ ? ไปŠๅคœใƒ‡ใ‚ฃใƒŠใƒผ
08:03
do you feel like going out to dinner tonight? Are you free to?
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ใซๅ‡บใ‹ใ‘ใŸใ„ๆฐ—ๅˆ†ใงใ™ใ‹ ๏ผŸ ใ”่‡ช็”ฑใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
08:06
Are you free to hang out this Friday? We should check out,
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ไปŠ้€ฑใฎ้‡‘ๆ›œๆ—ฅใ€้Šใณใซ่กŒใๆš‡ใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ‹ ๏ผŸ
08:10
we should check out that new art exhibit next week.
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ๆฅ้€ฑใใฎๆ–ฐใ—ใ„็พŽ่ก“ๅฑ•ใ‚’ใƒใ‚งใƒƒใ‚ฏใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
08:14
Any interest in any interest in going to a summer concert next week?
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ๆฅ้€ฑใฎใ‚ตใƒžใƒผใ‚ณใƒณใ‚ตใƒผใƒˆใซ่กŒใใ“ใจใซ่ˆˆๅ‘ณใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
08:18
And finally, how about, how about going to a festival together on Saturday?
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ใใ—ใฆๆœ€ๅพŒใซใ€ ๅœŸๆ›œๆ—ฅใซไธ€็ท’ใซใŠ็ฅญใ‚Šใซ่กŒใฃใฆใฟใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹๏ผŸ
08:24
Now that we have those phrases in place,
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใ‚’็”จๆ„ใ—ใŸใจใ“ใ‚ใงใ€
08:26
let's take a look at several real life scenarios so that you can see
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08:30
exactly how we might use these different invitations. In each case,
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ ใ•ใพใ–ใพใชๆ‹›ๅพ…็Šถใ‚’ใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚’ๆญฃ็ขบใซ็†่งฃใงใใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€ๅฎŸ้š›ใฎใ‚ทใƒŠใƒชใ‚ชใ‚’ใ„ใใคใ‹่ฆ‹ใฆใฟใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใžใ‚Œใฎๅ ดๅˆใซใŠใ„ใฆใ€
08:35
I'll also help you reflect on how to determine whether you should be using
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08:40
highly formal, neutral, or more casual language.
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้žๅธธใซใƒ•ใ‚ฉใƒผใƒžใƒซใช่จ€่‘‰ใ€ไธญ็ซ‹็š„ใช ่จ€่‘‰ใ€ใพใŸใฏใ‚ˆใ‚Šใ‚ซใ‚ธใƒฅใ‚ขใƒซใช่จ€่‘‰ใฎใฉใ‚Œใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ในใใ‹ใ‚’ๅˆคๆ–ญใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใซใคใ„ใฆใ‚‚่€ƒใˆใฆใฟใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
08:44
We'll start with some professional scenarios.
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ใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎ ๅฐ‚้–€็š„ใชใ‚ทใƒŠใƒชใ‚ชใ‹ใ‚‰ๅง‹ใ‚ใพใ™ใ€‚
08:47
When you're speaking to a new manager, for example,
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ใŸใจใˆใฐใ€ๆ–ฐใ—ใ„ใƒžใƒใƒผใ‚ธใƒฃใƒผใ€
08:50
or a professional acquaintance, a client,
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ไป•ไบ‹ไธŠใฎ็Ÿฅไบบใ€้กงๅฎขใ€
08:54
or someone you've just met at a conference,
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ใ‚ซใƒณใƒ•ใ‚กใƒฌใƒณใ‚นใงไผšใฃใŸใฐใ‹ใ‚Šใฎไบบใจ่ฉฑใ™ใจใใฏใ€
08:57
think for a moment about how well you know that individual.
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ใใฎไบบใฎใ“ใจใ‚’ใฉใ‚Œใ ใ‘ใ‚ˆใ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚’ๅฐ‘ใ—่€ƒใˆใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
09:01
You might also want to consider the specific situation you're in and how
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ใพใŸใ€ ่‡ชๅˆ†ใŒ็ฝฎใ‹ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใ‚‹็‰นๅฎšใฎ็Šถๆณใจใ€
09:05
formal that situation is.
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ใใฎ็ŠถๆณใŒใฉใ‚Œใปใฉๆญฃๅผใชใ‚‚ใฎใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚’่€ƒๆ…ฎใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
09:08
Are you at a more casual team retreat? If so,
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ใ‚‚ใฃใจใ‚ซใ‚ธใƒฅใ‚ขใƒซใช ใƒใƒผใƒ ๅˆๅฎฟใซๅ‚ๅŠ ใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹? ใใฎๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€ใ‚ˆใ‚Šไธญ็ซ‹็š„ใช่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’
09:12
you might want to use more neutral language,
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ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใŸๆ–นใŒใ‚ˆใ„ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“
09:14
but if you're in a highly formal circumstance,
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ใŒใ€้žๅธธใซ ใƒ•ใ‚ฉใƒผใƒžใƒซใช็Šถๆณใซใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€
09:18
even if it's someone that you've encountered once or twice,
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ใŸใจใˆใใ‚ŒใŒ ไธ€ๅบฆใ‹ไบŒๅบฆไผšใฃใŸใ“ใจใฎใ‚ใ‚‹ไบบใงใ‚ใฃใฆใ‚‚ใ€ใ‚ทใƒŠใƒชใ‚ช 1 ใงใฏใ€
09:22
using a more formal tone would be more appropriate in scenario number one.
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ใ‚ˆใ‚Šใƒ•ใ‚ฉใƒผใƒžใƒซใชๅฃ่ชฟใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–นใŒ ้ฉๅˆ‡ใงใ™ใ€‚
09:27
I want you to imagine that you'd like to invite an acquaintance to join you in
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็Ÿฅไบบใ‚’ใ‚ปใƒŸใƒŠใƒผใซ่ช˜ใ„ใŸใ„ใจๆƒณๅƒใ—ใฆใฟใฆใใ ใ•ใ„
09:32
a seminar. To do that,
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ใ€‚ ใใฎใŸใ‚ใซใฏใ€
09:34
you could say there's an interesting seminar on the advantages
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09:39
of VR for work. I was wondering if you'd like to join me. As you can see here,
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ไป•ไบ‹ใซใŠใ‘ใ‚‹ VR ใฎๅˆฉ็‚นใซ้–ขใ™ใ‚‹่ˆˆๅ‘ณๆทฑใ„ใ‚ปใƒŸใƒŠใƒผใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใจ่จ€ใˆใพใ™ใ€‚ ไธ€็ท’ใซๆฅใชใ„ใ‹ใจๆ€ใฃใฆใŸใ‚“ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ“ใ“ใงใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใพใงใซ่ชฌๆ˜Žใ—ใŸ
09:44
we're using one of those two structures we've talked about. First,
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2 ใคใฎๆง‹้€ ใฎใ†ใกใฎ 1 ใคใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใพใšใ€
09:47
I'm highlighting what the specific event is, and second,
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็‰นๅฎšใฎใ‚คใƒ™ใƒณใƒˆใŒไฝ•ใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚’ๅผท่ชฟใ—ใ€ๆฌกใซใ€
09:52
I'm indicating what I want or what I would like to see happen.
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็งใŒไฝ•ใ‚’ๆœ›ใ‚“ใงใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใ‹ใ€ไฝ•ใŒ่ตทใ“ใฃใฆใปใ—ใ„ใฎใ‹ใ‚’็คบใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚
09:56
In the second scenario,
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2 ็•ช็›ฎใฎใ‚ทใƒŠใƒชใ‚ชใงใฏใ€
09:57
I want you to imagine that you'd like to invite a new client to talk about
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ๆ–ฐใ—ใ„ใ‚ฏใƒฉใ‚คใ‚ขใƒณใƒˆใ‚’ๆ‹›ๅพ…ใ—ใฆใ€
10:02
a project over a cup of coffee at a nearby cafe. To do that,
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่ฟ‘ใใฎใ‚ซใƒ•ใ‚งใงใ‚ณใƒผใƒ’ใƒผใ‚’้ฃฒใฟใชใŒใ‚‰ใƒ—ใƒญใ‚ธใ‚งใ‚ฏใƒˆใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ใŸใ„ใจๆƒณๅƒใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ใใฎใŸใ‚ใซใฏใ€
10:07
you could say,
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10:08
would you like to meet at the Marble Cafe next to the office and talk about
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ใ‚ชใƒ•ใ‚ฃใ‚นใฎ้šฃใซใ‚ใ‚‹ใƒžใƒผใƒ–ใƒซ ใ‚ซใƒ•ใ‚งใงไผšใฃใฆใ€
10:12
interior design options? And finally, in scenario number three,
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ใ‚คใƒณใƒ†ใƒชใ‚ข ใƒ‡ใ‚ถใ‚คใƒณใฎใ‚ชใƒ—ใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹?ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ๆœ€ๅพŒใซใ€ใ‚ทใƒŠใƒชใ‚ช 3 ใงใฏใ€ๅŒๅƒšใจใ‚คใƒ™ใƒณใƒˆใ‚’
10:16
I want you to imagine you're coordinating an event with a coworker. Now,
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่ชฟๆ•ดใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ“ใ‚ใ‚’ๆƒณๅƒใ—ใฆใฟใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ ใ€‚ ใ•ใฆใ€
10:21
it's a coworker, but this is someone you haven't worked with much very often,
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ใใ‚ŒใฏๅŒๅƒšใงใ™ใŒใ€ ใ‚ใพใ‚Šไธ€็ท’ใซไป•ไบ‹ใ‚’ใ—ใŸใ“ใจใŒใชใ„ใฎใงใ€
10:26
so you don't know this person very well,
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ใ“ใฎไบบใฎใ“ใจใ‚’ใ‚ˆใ็Ÿฅใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใŒใ€
10:28
and you'd like to get together so that you can go over the project details.
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ใƒ—ใƒญใ‚ธใ‚งใ‚ฏใƒˆใฎ่ฉณ็ดฐใ‚’ๆคœ่จŽใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซไธ€็ท’ใซ้›†ใพใ‚ŠใŸใ„ใจ่€ƒใˆใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
10:33
Here's how you could do that.
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ใใฎๆ–นๆณ•ใฏๆฌกใฎใจใŠใ‚Šใงใ™ใ€‚ ใƒ—ใƒญใ‚ธใ‚งใ‚ฏใƒˆใฎๅœŸๅฃ‡ๅ ดใงใฎๅค‰ๆ›ดใฎๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใ‚’ๆคœ่จŽใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใ€
10:35
I would like to invite you to Wednesday's planning meeting to go over possible
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ๆฐดๆ›œๆ—ฅใฎ่จˆ็”ปไผš่ญฐใซใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ๆ‹›ๅพ…ใ—ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
10:38
last-minute changes to the project,
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10:41
and now let's switch to more neutral territory.
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ๆฌกใซใ€ ใ‚ˆใ‚Šไธญ็ซ‹็š„ใช้ ˜ๅŸŸใซๅˆ‡ใ‚Šๆ›ฟใˆใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
10:44
A few scenarios that we could say are more semi-casual,
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ใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎใ‚ทใƒŠใƒชใ‚ชใฏ ใ‚ˆใ‚Šใ‚ซใ‚ธใƒฅใ‚ขใƒซใชใ‚‚ใฎใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใ€
10:48
so this would be perfect for encountering a new neighbor,
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ๆ–ฐใ—ใ„่ฟ‘ๆ‰€ใฎไบบใ€
10:52
maybe a fellow parent at your child's soccer game,
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ใŠใใ‚‰ใ ๅญไพ›ใฎใ‚ตใƒƒใ‚ซใƒผใฎ่ฉฆๅˆใซๅ‚ๅŠ ใ™ใ‚‹่ฆชๅŒๅฃซใ€
10:55
or if you've recently met a friend of a friend.
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ใพใŸใฏๆœ€่ฟ‘ ๅ‹้”ใฎๅ‹้”ใซไผšใฃใŸๅ ดๅˆใซๆœ€้ฉใงใ™ใ€‚
10:59
If you're ever in doubt in these situations that are more social and yet
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ใ‚ˆใ‚Š็คพไบค็š„ใงใ‚ใ‚ŠใชใŒใ‚‰ใ€
11:04
you don't know someone particularly well, neutral language is your best bet.
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็›ธๆ‰‹ใฎใ“ใจใ‚’็‰นใซใ‚ˆใ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚ใ‘ใงใ‚‚ใชใ„ใ“ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใช็Šถๆณใง็–‘ๅ•ใ‚’ๆ„Ÿใ˜ใŸๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€ ไธญ็ซ‹็š„ใช่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’ไฝฟใ†ใฎใŒๆœ€ๅ–„ใฎ็ญ–ใงใ™ใ€‚
11:10
In the first scenario,
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ๆœ€ๅˆใฎใ‚ทใƒŠใƒชใ‚ชใงใฏใ€
11:11
I want you to imagine someone has recently moved into your neighborhood.
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่ชฐใ‹ใŒ ๆœ€่ฟ‘ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ่ฟ‘ๆ‰€ใซๅผ•ใฃ่ถŠใ—ใฆใใŸใจๆƒณๅƒใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
11:14
You have a new neighbor now for several weeks,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ ๆ•ฐ้€ฑ้–“ๅ‰ใ‹ใ‚‰ๆ–ฐใ—ใ„้šฃไบบใŒใ„ใฆใ€
11:17
you've been planning a backyard barbecue,
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่ฃๅบญใงใƒใƒผใƒ™ใ‚ญใƒฅใƒผใ‚’่จˆ็”ปใ—ใฆใŠใ‚Šใ€
11:20
you've invited all the other neighbors and you'd like to extend an invitation to
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ไป–ใฎใ™ในใฆใฎ้šฃไบบใ‚’ๆ‹›ๅพ…ใ—ใฆใŠใ‚Š ใ€ใ“ใฎๆ–ฐใ—ใ„้šฃไบบใซใ‚‚ๆ‹›ๅพ…็Šถใ‚’้€ใ‚ŠใŸใ„ใจ่€ƒใˆใฆใ„ใพใ™
11:25
this new neighbor. Here's how you could do that.
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ใ€‚ ใใฎๆ–นๆณ•ใฏๆฌกใฎใจใŠใ‚Šใงใ™ใ€‚
11:28
After an initial introduction and maybe some quick small talk with your new
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ๆœ€ๅˆใฎ่‡ชๅทฑ็ดนไป‹ใจใ€ ๆ–ฐใ—ใ„้šฃไบบใจใฎ็ฐกๅ˜ใชไธ–้–“่ฉฑใ‚’ใ—ใŸๅพŒ
11:33
neighbor, you could say, by the way,
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ใ€ใ€Œใจใ“ใ‚ใงใ€
11:35
we're having a barbecue at our place on Sunday.
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ๆ—ฅๆ›œๆ—ฅใซ็งใŸใกใฎๅฎถใงใƒใƒผใƒ™ใ‚ญใƒฅใƒผใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใคใ‚‚ใ‚Šใงใ™ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
11:38
We'd love it if you could join us.
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ใœใฒใ”ๅ‚ๅŠ ใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ใกใชใฟใซใ€
11:40
This invitation has two important phrases, by the way,
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ใ“ใฎๆ‹›ๅพ…็Šถใซใฏ 2 ใคใฎ ้‡่ฆใชใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใŒๅซใพใ‚ŒใฆใŠใ‚Šใ€ๅœŸๅฃ‡ๅ ดใงใฎๆ‹›ๅพ…็Šถใ‚’
11:44
and we'd love it if, by the way,
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11:48
is a great way to insert a last-minute invitation.
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ๆŒฟๅ…ฅใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใซๆœ€้ฉใชๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ‚ใ‚Œใฐๅนธใ„ใงใ™ ใ€‚ ใ“ใ†ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ€
11:53
It makes it clear that the invitation is a side note or an afterthought of
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ใใฎ่ช˜ใ„ใŒ ไฝ™่ซ‡ใ‚„ๆ€ใ„ใคใใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒๆ˜Žใ‚‰ใ‹ใซใชใ‚Š
11:57
some kind, not because you're being impolite,
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ใ€ๅคฑ็คผใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใฏใชใใ€
12:00
but because you've just now had the opportunity to extend this last-minute
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็›ดๅ‰ใฎ่ช˜ใ„ใ‚’ๅปถ้•ทใ™ใ‚‹ๆฉŸไผšใŒไปŠไธŽใˆใ‚‰ใ‚ŒใŸใฐใ‹ใ‚Šใชใฎใง
12:05
invitation,
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ใ€ใƒ—ใƒฌใƒƒใ‚ทใƒฃใƒผ
12:06
and it also reduces the pressure for someone to accept.
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ใ‚‚่ปฝๆธ›ใ•ใ‚Œใพใ™ใ€‚ ่ชฐใ‹ใซๅ—ใ‘ๅ…ฅใ‚Œใฆใ‚‚ใ‚‰ใ†ใŸใ‚ใซใ€‚
12:12
Of course, with a last-minute invitation,
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ใ‚‚ใกใ‚ใ‚“ใ€็›ดๅ‰ใฎๆ‹›ๅพ…ใงใ‚ใ‚Œใฐใ€
12:14
it's understandable if somebody already has plans and is unable to attend,
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ใ™ใงใซ ไบˆๅฎšใŒๅ…ฅใฃใฆใ„ใฆๅ‚ๅŠ ใงใใชใ„
12:20
so it lessens the anxiety that someone might have about whether they
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ไบบใŒใ„ใŸใจใ—ใฆใ‚‚ๅฝ“็„ถใฎใ“ใจใชใฎใงใ€
12:24
should or shouldn't say yes or no in scenario number two.
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ใ‚ทใƒŠใƒชใ‚ช 2 ใงใ€Œใ‚คใ‚จใ‚นใ€ใ‹ใ€ŒใƒŽใƒผใ€ใ‚’่จ€ใ†ในใใ‹ใ€ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ„ใฏใ€ŒใƒŽใƒผใ€ใ‚’่จ€ใ†ในใใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ชฐใ‹ใŒๆŠฑใใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใชใ„ไธๅฎ‰ใŒ่ปฝๆธ›ใ•ใ‚Œใพใ™ใ€‚
12:29
Imagine you've recently met a friend's friend.
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ๆœ€่ฟ‘ใ€ ๅ‹้”ใฎๅ‹้”ใซไผšใฃใŸใจๆƒณๅƒใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
12:32
You were at someone's party, you met a friend of a friend,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ่ชฐใ‹ใฎใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใซๅ‚ๅŠ ใ—ใฆใ„ใฆใ€ ๅ‹ไบบใฎๅ‹ไบบใจไผšใ„ใ€
12:36
and in some small talk conversation you realized you both really love playing
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ไธ–้–“่ฉฑใฎไธญใง ใŠไบ’ใ„ใซใƒ†ใƒ‹ใ‚นใŒๅคงๅฅฝใใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซๆฐ—ใฅใใ€ใƒ†ใƒ‹ใ‚นใซ
12:40
tennis, so you'd like to extend an invitation to do that.
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่ช˜ใ„ใŸใ„ใจ่€ƒใˆใฆใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใ€Œ
12:45
You could say, do you want to play tennis together in the next week or so?
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ๆฅ้€ฑใใ‚‰ใ„ใซไธ€็ท’ใซใƒ†ใƒ‹ใ‚นใ‚’ใ—ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹?ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
12:49
I usually play after work.
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ใŸใ„ใฆใ„ไป•ไบ‹ใฎๅพŒใซ้Šใ‚“ใงใพใ™ใ€‚
12:51
This invitation intentionally uses the vague language of in
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ใ“ใฎๆ‹›ๅพ…็Šถใงใฏใ€ใ€Œๆฅ้€ฑใ‚ใŸใ‚Šใ€ใจใ„ใ† ใ‚ใ„ใพใ„ใช่กจ็พใ‚’ๆ„ๅ›ณ็š„ใซไฝฟ็”จใ—ใฆใŠใ‚Š
12:56
the next week or so, by using that language,
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ใ€ ใใฎ่กจ็พใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ€ๆ—ฅไป˜ใจๆ™‚้–“ใ‚’
12:59
it relieves the pressure to set a date and a time. Right now,
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่จญๅฎšใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ใจใ„ใ†ใƒ—ใƒฌใƒƒใ‚ทใƒฃใƒผใ‚’่ปฝๆธ›ใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚ ไปŠใ€
13:04
you've just met this person,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใใฎไบบใซไผšใฃใŸใฐใ‹ใ‚Šใชใฎใงใ€
13:06
so of course there's gonna be a little bit of feeling things out
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13:11
from the other person's response.
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็›ธๆ‰‹ใฎๅๅฟœใ‹ใ‚‰ๅฐ‘ใ—ใฏๆ„Ÿใ˜ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒใƒ†ใƒ‹ใ‚นใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซ้›†ใพใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซ
13:12
You'll get a sense of how enthusiastic they might be about getting together
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ใฉใ‚Œใ ใ‘็†ฑๅฟƒใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚’็Ÿฅใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใ€
13:17
to play tennis, and based on that response,
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ใใฎๅๅฟœใซๅŸบใฅใ„ใฆใ€
13:20
you can then decide whether to move forward with a concrete date and time
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ๅ…ทไฝ“็š„ใชๆ—ฅๆ™‚ใ‚’ๆฑบใ‚ใฆ้€ฒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ€
13:25
or keep it loose and maybe exchange numbers, email addresses, and so on.
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ใใ‚Œใจใ‚‚็ทฉใใ—ใฆ ็•ชๅทใ‚„ใƒกใƒผใƒซใ‚ขใƒ‰ใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ไบคๆ›ใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚’ๆฑบใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ€ ็ญ‰ใ€…ใ€‚
13:30
In this final scenario, for more semi-casual invitations,
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ใ“ใฎๆœ€ๅพŒใฎใ‚ทใƒŠใƒชใ‚ชใงใฏใ€ ใ‚ˆใ‚Šใ‚ซใ‚ธใƒฅใ‚ขใƒซใชๆ‹›ๅพ…็Šถใจใ—ใฆใ€ไฝ•ๅนดใ‚‚ไผšใฃใฆใ„ใชใ‹ใฃใŸ
13:34
let's imagine you've just run into an old colleague,
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ๆ˜”ใฎๅŒๅƒšใซๅถ็„ถๅ‡บไผšใฃใŸใจๆƒณๅƒใ—ใฆใฟใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
13:38
someone you haven't seen for years,
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13:41
and in that moment you also remember that this person loves reading,
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ใใฎ็žฌ้–“ใ€ ใ“ใฎไบบใŒ่ชญๆ›ธใŒๅฅฝใใ ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใ‚‚ๆ€ใ„ๅ‡บใ—ใŸใฎใงใ€ๆฌกใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ“ใจ
13:45
so you decide to extend an invitation to a book club that you've joined.
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ใซๆฑบใ‚ใŸใจใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅ‚ๅŠ ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹่ชญๆ›ธใ‚ฏใƒฉใƒ–ใซๆ‹›ๅพ…็Šถใ‚’้€ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
13:50
Here's what you might say,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ“ใ†่จ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€
13:52
I'm part of a fantastic book club and we have a meeting coming up.
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็งใฏ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„่ชญๆ›ธใ‚ฏใƒฉใƒ–ใซๅ‚ๅŠ ใ—ใฆใ„ใฆใ€ ใ‚‚ใ†ใ™ใไผš่ญฐใŒไบˆๅฎšใ•ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ”้ƒฝๅˆใŒ
13:57
I'd love it if you could join us if you're available and interested.
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ๅˆใฃใฆ่ˆˆๅ‘ณใฎใ‚ใ‚‹ๆ–นใฏใœใฒใ”ๅ‚ๅŠ ใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใ‚Œใฐๅนธใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
14:00
Similar to the last example,
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ๆœ€ๅพŒใฎไพ‹ใจๅŒๆง˜ใซใ€
14:02
that language of if you're available and if you're interested,
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ใ‚‚ใ— ๅฏพๅฟœๅฏ่ƒฝใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹ใ€่ˆˆๅ‘ณใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹ใ‚’ไผใˆใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ€ๅ—ใ‘ๅ…ฅใ‚Œใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ใจใ„ใ†
14:06
helps to relieve the pressure to accept it leaves open
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ใƒ—ใƒฌใƒƒใ‚ทใƒฃใƒผใ‚’ๅ’Œใ‚‰ใ’ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใ€ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒ ๆฎ‹ใ•ใ‚Œใพใ™
14:11
the possibility.
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14:13
And now our final two scenarios that are very casual in tone,
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14:17
and then I've got some practice questions for you. As we've already discussed,
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็ทด็ฟ’็”จใฎ่ณชๅ•ใŒใ„ใใคใ‹ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใ™ใงใซ่ชฌๆ˜Žใ—ใŸใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€
14:22
these more casual invitations are perfect for close friends, family members,
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎใ‚ˆใ‚Šใ‚ซใ‚ธใƒฅใ‚ขใƒซใชๆ‹›ๅพ…็Šถใฏใ€ ่ฆชใ—ใ„ๅ‹ไบบใ€ๅฎถๆ—ใ€
14:27
people you know well, or people with whom you have a friendly relationship,
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14:32
so someone that you've encountered several times had really fun conversations
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14:36
with,
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14:36
and you're taking that next step in reducing that distance.
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14:42
In the first scenario,
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14:44
I want you to imagine that you and your best friend haven't seen each other in
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14:48
ages.
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14:49
Life just got busy and you've decided to extend an invitation to get
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14:54
together. You might say, Hey, I'm gonna be in your area this Friday.
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ใ€‚ ใ€Œใญใˆใ€ ไปŠ้€ฑ้‡‘ๆ›œๆ—ฅใซใ‚ใชใŸใฎ่ฟ‘ใใซ่กŒใใคใ‚‚ใ‚Šใ‚ˆใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
14:58
Let's grab lunch. As you may have noticed from that language,
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ๆ˜ผ้ฃŸใ‚’ใจใ‚Šใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ใ“ใฎ่จ€่‘‰้ฃใ„ใ‹ใ‚‰ใŠๆฐ—ใฅใใ‹ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใŒใ€
15:02
casual invitations tend to be more direct,
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15:05
more assertive rather than suggestive.
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ๆš—็คบ็š„ใจใ„ใ†ใ‚ˆใ‚Šใ‚‚ใ€ใ‚ˆใ‚Š็›ดๆŽฅ็š„ใงใ€ใ‚ˆใ‚Š่‡ชๅทฑไธปๅผต็š„ใชใ‚‚ใฎใซใชใ‚‹ๅ‚พๅ‘ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
15:09
We're not really inquiring whether someone wants to,
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็งใŸใกใฏ ่ชฐใ‹ใŒใใ‚Œใ‚’ๆœ›ใ‚“ใงใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹ใ‚’ๅฎŸ้š›ใซๅฐ‹ใญใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใงใฏใชใใ€
15:12
we're simply stating what we want to have happen.
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ๅ˜ใซ็งใŸใกใŒ่ตทใ“ใฃใฆใปใ—ใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’่ฟฐในใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ ใ‘ใงใ™ ใ€‚
15:16
And in our final scenario,
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ใใ—ใฆๆœ€ๅพŒใฎใ‚ทใƒŠใƒชใ‚ชใงใฏใ€
15:18
I want you to imagine that you and your close work friend have had a long
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ใ‚ใชใŸใจ ่ฆชใ—ใ„ไป•ไบ‹ไธŠใฎๅ‹ไบบใŒใ€ไธ€็ท’ใซ
15:22
week to blow off some steam together. In other words,
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ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’็™บๆ•ฃใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซ้•ทใ„ไธ€้€ฑ้–“ใ‚’้Žใ”ใ—ใŸใจๆƒณๅƒใ—ใฆใฟใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ ใ€‚ ่จ€ใ„ๆ›ใˆใ‚Œใฐใ€ไธ€็ท’ใซ
15:26
to have some time to relax together. You could say this,
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ใƒชใƒฉใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚นใ™ใ‚‹ๆ™‚้–“ใ‚’้Žใ”ใ™ใ“ใจใงใ™ ใ€‚
15:30
are you doing anything after work today?
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15:32
Maybe we could do some karaoke or maybe we could grab a drink here.
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ใ‚ซใƒฉใ‚ชใ‚ฑใ‚’ใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ€ ใ“ใ“ใง้ฃฒใฟ็‰ฉใ‚’้ฃฒใ‚“ใ ใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใงใใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
15:36
I've used the word maybe to propose a few ideas, provide some alternatives,
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็งใฏใ€ŒใŸใถใ‚“ใ€ใจใ„ใ†่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’ใ€ ใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎใ‚ขใ‚คใƒ‡ใ‚ขใ‚’ๆๆกˆใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ€ไปฃๆ›ฟๆกˆใ‚’ๆไพ›ใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซไฝฟ็”จใ—ใพใ—ใŸใŒใ€
15:41
and it also indicates that I'm open to other suggestions. Now,
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ไป–ใฎๆๆกˆใ‚‚ๅ—ใ‘ๅ…ฅใ‚Œใ‚‹็”จๆ„ใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’็คบใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ•ใฆใ€ไปŠๆ—ฅๅญฆใ‚“ใ ใ“ใจใ‚’
15:45
I want you to practice what you've learned today.
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15:48
I'm going to present a couple of situations to you,
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ใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎ็Šถๆณใ‚’็ดนไป‹ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
15:51
and after you reflect on these situations,
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15:54
thinking back to what you've learned in this lesson,
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ใ“ใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใงๅญฆใ‚“ใ ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ€ใ„ๅ‡บใ—ใฆใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ็Šถๆณใ‚’ๆŒฏใ‚Š่ฟ”ใฃใŸๅพŒใ€ใ“ใฎ็‰นๅฎšใฎ็Šถๆณใง
15:56
I want you to share how you might invite someone in this particular
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ใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซไบบใ‚’่ช˜ใ†ใ‹ใ‚’ๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ—ใฆใ‚‚ใ‚‰ใ„ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™
16:01
circumstance. For each situation I'm going to share,
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ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œใ‹ใ‚‰็ดนไป‹ใ™ใ‚‹ใใ‚Œใžใ‚Œใฎ ็Šถๆณใซใคใ„ใฆใ€
16:05
I want you to imagine that you'd like to invite someone to go have some coffee
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่ชฐใ‹ใ‚’ใ‚ณใƒผใƒ’ใƒผใ‚’้ฃฒใฟใซ
16:10
and chat. Number one,
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ใŠใ—ใ‚ƒในใ‚Šใซ่ช˜ใ†ใจใ“ใ‚ใ‚’ๆƒณๅƒใ—ใฆใฟใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ 1 ใค็›ฎใฏใ€ใŠๅญๆง˜ใฎๅญฆๆ กใง
16:12
a parent you recently met at your child's school.
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16:17
How might you invite that person to have coffee with you and chat? Number two,
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16:22
a close friend you've had since high school, and number three,
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ๆ™‚ไปฃใ‹ใ‚‰ใฎ่ฆชๅ‹ ใ€3 ็•ช็›ฎใฏ
16:27
a professional you met during this year's networking event. Again,
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ไปŠๅนดใฎใƒใƒƒใƒˆใƒฏใƒผใ‚ญใƒณใ‚ฐ ใ‚คใƒ™ใƒณใƒˆใงๅ‡บไผšใฃใŸๅฐ‚้–€ๅฎถใงใ™ ใ€‚ ใ‚‚ใ†ไธ€ๅบฆใ€ใใ‚Œใžใ‚Œใฎ็Šถๆณ
16:31
think carefully about each of those situations.
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ใซใคใ„ใฆๆณจๆ„ๆทฑใ่€ƒใˆใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ ใ€‚ ๅฟ…่ฆใซๅฟœใ˜ใฆใ€
16:34
How would you invite that particular individual to meet you for coffee and have
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ใใฎ็‰นๅฎšใฎไบบใ‚’ใ‚ณใƒผใƒ’ใƒผใ‚’้ฃฒใฟใซ่กŒใฃใŸใ‚Šใ€ใŠใ—ใ‚ƒในใ‚Šใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ๆ‹›ๅพ…ใ™ใ‚‹ใซใฏใฉใ†ใ™ใ‚Œใฐใ‚ˆใ„ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ‹
16:39
a chat if you want. You can share your examples with me in the comments below.
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ใ€‚ ไปฅไธ‹ใฎใ‚ณใƒกใƒณใƒˆๆฌ„ใงใ‚ใชใŸใฎไพ‹ใ‚’็งใจๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
16:44
If you enjoyed today's lesson,
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ไปŠๆ—ฅใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใŒๆฐ—ใซๅ…ฅใฃใฆใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใŸใชใ‚‰ใ€
16:46
I would love to know and you can tell me in a few very easy ways. Number one,
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ใœใฒๆ•™ใˆใฆใ„ใŸใ ใใŸใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚ใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎ ็ฐกๅ˜ใชๆ–นๆณ•ใงๆ•™ใˆใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ใพใšใ€YouTube
16:51
give this lesson a thumbs up here on YouTube and share your examples with me.
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ใงใ“ใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใซ้ซ˜่ฉ•ไพกใ‚’ไป˜ใ‘ใฆใ€ ไพ‹ใ‚’็งใจๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ 2
16:55
Number two, while you're here,
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็•ช็›ฎใซใ€ใ“ใ“ใซใ„ใ‚‹้–“ใ€
16:57
you can also subscribe to my Speak Confident English YouTube channel,
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็งใฎ Speak Confident English YouTube ใƒใƒฃใƒณใƒใƒซใซ็™ป้Œฒใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใงใใ‚‹ใฎใงใ€
17:00
so you never miss one of my Confident English lessons. And lastly,
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็งใฎ Confident English ใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใ‚’่ฆ‹้€ƒใ™ใ“ใจใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆๆœ€ๅพŒใซใ€
17:05
jump on over to my Speak Confident English website where I have years of
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็งใฎ Speak Confident English ใ‚ฆใ‚งใƒ–ใ‚ตใ‚คใƒˆใซ้ฃ›ใ‚“ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ใ“ใ“ใซใฏใ€็งใŒ้•ทๅนดใซใ‚ใŸใฃใฆ่กŒใฃใฆใใŸ
17:09
Confident English lessons, free resources for you,
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Confident English ใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใ€ ็„กๆ–™ใฎใƒชใ‚ฝใƒผใ‚นใ€
17:12
and an in-depth fluency training called How to Get the Confidence to
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ใใ—ใฆใ€Œ่‹ฑ่ชžใง่จ€ใ„ใŸใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’่จ€ใ†่‡ชไฟกใ‚’ๅพ—ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใ€ใจใ„ใ†่ฉณ็ดฐใชๆตๆšขใ•ใฎใƒˆใƒฌใƒผใƒ‹ใƒณใ‚ฐใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™
17:17
Say What You Want in English. Thank you so much for joining me,
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ใ€‚ ใ”ๅ‚ๅŠ ใ„ใŸใ ใ่ช ใซใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ”ใ–ใ„ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
17:21
and I look forward to seeing you next time.
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