Friendly Ways to Invite Someone in English | Professional & Casual

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μ•„λž˜ μ˜λ¬Έμžλ§‰μ„ λ”λΈ”ν΄λ¦­ν•˜μ‹œλ©΄ μ˜μƒμ΄ μž¬μƒλ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ²ˆμ—­λœ μžλ§‰μ€ 기계 λ²ˆμ—­λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.

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Have you ever felt unsure of how to extend an invitation in English
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μ˜μ–΄λ‘œ μ΄ˆλŒ€λ₯Ό μ „λ‹¬ν•˜λŠ” 방법에 λŒ€ν•΄ 확신이 μ—†μ—ˆλ˜ 적이 μžˆλ‚˜μš”
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without sounding too formal? Or on the flip side, too informal.
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? μ•„λ‹ˆλ©΄ λ°˜λŒ€λ‘œ λ„ˆλ¬΄ λΉ„κ³΅μ‹μ μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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It's already nerve-wracking or scary to invite someone to do something for the
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ—κ²Œ 처음으둜 μ–΄λ–€ 일을 ν•˜λ„λ‘ μ΄ˆλŒ€ν•˜λŠ” 것은 이미 κΈ΄μž₯λ˜κ±°λ‚˜ λ‘λ €μš΄ μΌμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
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very first time. If, for example,
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. 예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄,
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you hoping to get to know a coworker better or develop a friendship,
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λ™λ£Œλ₯Ό 더 잘 μ•Œκ³  μ‹Άκ±°λ‚˜ μš°μ •μ„ μŒ“κ³  싢은 경우,
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it's all the more difficult if you're unsure about the language
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tone and level of formality to use.
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μ‚¬μš©ν•  μ–Έμ–΄ 톀과 κ²©μ‹μ˜ μˆ˜μ€€μ΄ ν™•μ‹€ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠμœΌλ©΄ λ”μš± μ–΄λ ΅μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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That's why we're diving into the art of making invitations in English.
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이것이 λ°”λ‘œ μš°λ¦¬κ°€ μ˜μ–΄λ‘œ μ΄ˆλŒ€μž₯을 λ§Œλ“œλŠ” κΈ°μˆ μ— λŒ€ν•΄ μ•Œμ•„λ³΄κ³  μžˆλŠ” μ΄μœ μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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It's not just about the language you use, it's also about connection,
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μ΄λŠ” μ‚¬μš©ν•˜λŠ” μ–Έμ–΄λΏλ§Œ μ•„λ‹ˆλΌ μ—°κ²°,
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culture, and the right touch of personal warmth.
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λ¬Έν™”, 개인적인 λ”°λœ»ν•¨μ˜ μ μ ˆν•œ 접촉에 κ΄€ν•œ 것이기도 ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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Whether you're inviting a new friend to coffee, proposing a meeting,
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μƒˆλ‘œμš΄ 친ꡬλ₯Ό 컀피에 μ΄ˆλŒ€ν•˜λ“ , λͺ¨μž„을 μ œμ•ˆν•˜λ“ ,
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or organizing a casual, get together.
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μΊμ£Όμ–Όν•œ λͺ¨μž„을 μ‘°μ§ν•˜λ“  ν•¨κ»˜ λͺ¨μ΄μ„Έμš”.
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The words you choose and the tone you use make all the difference.
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당신이 μ„ νƒν•˜λŠ” 단어와 μ‚¬μš©ν•˜λŠ” μ–΄μ‘°κ°€ λͺ¨λ“  차이λ₯Ό λ§Œλ“­λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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In this.
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Confident English will fully explore how to extend invitations in
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이것에.
Confident EnglishλŠ” 격식과 비곡식 μ‚¬μ΄μ˜
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English with confidence from phrases that strike the perfect balance
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μ™„λ²½ν•œ κ· ν˜•μ„ μ΄λ£¨λŠ” 문ꡬ뢀터
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between formality and informality to the cultural nuances that
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make your invitations feel welcoming and genuine.
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μ΄ˆλŒ€κ°€ ν™˜μ˜λ°›λŠ” λŠλ‚Œκ³Ό 진심을 느끼게 ν•˜λŠ” 문화적 λ‰˜μ•™μŠ€μ— 이λ₯΄κΈ°κΉŒμ§€ μžμ‹ κ°μ„ 가지고 μ˜μ–΄λ‘œ μ΄ˆλŒ€λ₯Ό ν™•μž₯ν•˜λŠ” 방법을 μ™„μ „νžˆ νƒκ΅¬ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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So if you've ever hesitated before saying, would you like to,
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κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‹ˆ 'ν•˜κ³  싢은지'라고 λ§ν•˜κΈ° 전에 망섀인 적이 μžˆλ‹€λ©΄,
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then you're in the right place.
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잘 μ°Ύμ•„μ˜€μ…¨μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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Now, before we continue, if this is your first time here, welcome.
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자, κ³„μ†ν•˜κΈ° 전에, 이번이 처음 μ˜€μ‹  것을 ν™˜μ˜ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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I am Annemarie, an English confidence and fluency coach.
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μ €λŠ” μ˜μ–΄ μžμ‹ κ°κ³Ό μœ μ°½μ„± μ½”μΉ˜ Annemarieμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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Everything I do is designed to help you get the confidence you want for your
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μ œκ°€ ν•˜λŠ” λͺ¨λ“  일은 μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ΄
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life and work in English.
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μ˜μ–΄λ‘œ μƒν™œν•˜κ³  μΌν•˜λ©΄μ„œ μ›ν•˜λŠ” μžμ‹ κ°μ„ 얻을 수 μžˆλ„λ‘ 돕기 μœ„ν•΄ κ³ μ•ˆλ˜μ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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If you'd love to discover years of lessons and free resources for me,
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μ €λ₯Ό μœ„ν•œ μˆ˜λ…„κ°„μ˜ μˆ˜μ—…κ³Ό 무료 자료λ₯Ό μ°Ύκ³  μ‹ΆμœΌμ‹œλ‹€λ©΄, 제 Speak Confident English μ›Ήμ‚¬μ΄νŠΈμ—μ„œ
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you can find all of that and more over at my Speak Confident English website.
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κ·Έ λͺ¨λ“  λ‚΄μš©κ³Ό κ·Έ 이상을 찾아보싀 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
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Now, as we continue in this lesson today,
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이제 였늘 이 μˆ˜μ—…μ„ κ³„μ†ν•˜λ©΄μ„œ
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we're going to do three specific things. Number one,
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μ„Έ 가지 ꡬ체적인 μž‘μ—…μ„ μˆ˜ν–‰ν•΄ λ³΄κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 첫째, μ˜μ–΄λ‘œ μ΄ˆλŒ€μž₯을 보낼 λ•Œ
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we're going to look at the general structure we use when extending an invitation
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μ‚¬μš©ν•˜λŠ” 일반적인 ꡬ쑰λ₯Ό μ‚΄νŽ΄λ³΄κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
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in English.
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.
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Then we'll take a look at specific phrases we use for highly
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그런 λ‹€μŒ 맀우
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professional, semi-professional and casual invitations.
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전문적인 μ΄ˆλŒ€, 쀀전문적인 μ΄ˆλŒ€, 일반 μ΄ˆλŒ€μ— μ‚¬μš©ν•˜λŠ” νŠΉμ • 문ꡬλ₯Ό μ‚΄νŽ΄λ³΄κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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And finally,
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λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰μœΌλ‘œ μ΄ˆλŒ€μž₯이 μ‹€μ œλ‘œ μ‚¬μš©λ˜λŠ” 사둀λ₯Ό λ³Ό 수 μžˆλ„λ‘
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we will end with a series of scenarios so that you can see real life
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일련의 μ‹œλ‚˜λ¦¬μ˜€λ‘œ λ§ˆλ¬΄λ¦¬ν•˜κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
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examples of invitations in use. And again,
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. 그리고 λ‹€μ‹œ
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we'll take a look at professional semi-professional and casual.
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ν”„λ‘œνŽ˜μ…”λ„ μ„Έλ―Έν”„λ‘œνŽ˜μ…”λ„κ³Ό 캐주얼에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ‚΄νŽ΄λ³΄λ„λ‘ ν•˜κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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By the end,
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κ²°κ΅­,
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you'll be a hundred percent ready to extend your next invitation in English.
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당신은 λ‹€μŒ μ΄ˆλŒ€λ₯Ό μ˜μ–΄λ‘œ μ—°μž₯ν•  μ€€λΉ„κ°€ 100% 있게 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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So first, the process of extending an invitation in English. Generally speaking,
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λ¨Όμ €, μ˜μ–΄λ‘œ μ΄ˆλŒ€μž₯을 μ—°μž₯ν•˜λŠ” κ³Όμ •μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 일반적으둜
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there are two structures we tend to follow. First,
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μš°λ¦¬κ°€ λ”°λ₯΄λŠ” κ²½ν–₯이 μžˆλŠ” 두 가지 ꡬ쑰가 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ¨Όμ €
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we might ask a question and then include the specific activity or
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μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ ν•œ λ‹€μŒ
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event we'd like to invite someone to. For example, are you free for lunch?
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€λ₯Ό μ΄ˆλŒ€ν•˜κ³  싢은 νŠΉμ • ν™œλ™μ΄λ‚˜ 이벀트λ₯Ό 포함할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄, 점심 μ‹œκ°„μ— μ‹œκ°„μ΄ μžˆλ‚˜μš”?
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After today's meeting, I'd love to chat if you have some time.
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였늘 회의 후에 μ‹œκ°„μ΄ 있으면 이야기λ₯Ό λ‚˜λˆ„κ³  μ‹ΆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. νŠΉμ • ν™œλ™μ΄λ‚˜ μ΄λ²€νŠΈμ— 이어 λˆ„κ΅°κ°€κ°€ 자유둜운
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We have a question exploring whether someone's free followed by the specific
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지 μ—¬λΆ€λ₯Ό μ•Œμ•„λ³΄λŠ” 질문이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
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activity or event.
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The second structure we often follow includes first introducing the specific
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μš°λ¦¬κ°€ 자주 λ”°λ₯΄λŠ” 두 번째 κ΅¬μ‘°μ—λŠ” λ¨Όμ € νŠΉμ •
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activity or event and then following that up with what we want or need.
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ν™œλ™μ΄λ‚˜ 이벀트λ₯Ό μ†Œκ°œν•œ λ‹€μŒ μš°λ¦¬κ°€ μ›ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜ ν•„μš”ν•œ 것을 λ”°λ₯΄λŠ” 것이 ν¬ν•¨λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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For example, I'm having a party this weekend. I'd love it if you could come.
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예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄, λ‚˜λŠ” 이번 주말에 νŒŒν‹°λ₯Ό μ—΄ μ˜ˆμ •μ΄λ‹€ . 당신이 올 수 μžˆλ‹€λ©΄ μ’‹κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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You're going to see those two structures played out again and again and again
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in the examples that we go through today.
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였늘 μš°λ¦¬κ°€ μ‚΄νŽ΄λ³΄λŠ” μ˜ˆμ—μ„œ 이 두 가지 ꡬ쑰가 κ³„μ†ν•΄μ„œ μž¬μƒλ˜λŠ” 것을 보게 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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But before we dive into specific scenarios,
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ νŠΉμ • μ‹œλ‚˜λ¦¬μ˜€μ— λŒ€ν•΄ μžμ„Ένžˆ μ•Œμ•„λ³΄κΈ° 전에
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I want to spend time reviewing common phrases,
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English speakers use to extend those invitations. We'll take a look at examples,
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μ˜μ–΄ μ‚¬μš©μžκ°€ μ΄λŸ¬ν•œ μ΄ˆλŒ€λ₯Ό ν™•μž₯ν•˜κΈ° μœ„ν•΄ μ‚¬μš©ν•˜λŠ” 일반적인 문ꡬλ₯Ό κ²€ν† ν•˜λŠ” 데 μ‹œκ°„μ„ 보내고 μ‹ΆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
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first of highly formal relationships.
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λ¨Όμ € 맀우 곡식적인 κ΄€κ³„μ˜ 예λ₯Ό μ‚΄νŽ΄λ³΄κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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Then we'll transition into more neutral phrases or those that would be
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그런 λ‹€μŒ μ’€ 더 쀑립적인 λ¬Έκ΅¬λ‚˜
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appropriate for professional contacts, and finally, casual connections.
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전문적인 접촉에 μ ν•©ν•œ 문ꡬ둜 μ „ν™˜ ν•˜κ³  λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰μœΌλ‘œ 일상적인 μ—°κ²°λ‘œ μ „ν™˜ν•˜κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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So how you might extend an invitation to someone that you feel close to.
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κ·Έλ ‡λ‹€λ©΄ μΉœλ°€κ°μ„ λŠλΌλŠ” μ‚¬λžŒμ—κ²Œ μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μ΄ˆλŒ€ν•  수 μžˆμ„κΉŒμš”?
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So first, we'll take a look at phrases we use for highly formal,
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λ¨Όμ € 맀우 격식을 차리고
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highly professional situations.
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맀우 전문적인 μƒν™©μ—μ„œ μ‚¬μš©ν•˜λŠ” ν‘œν˜„μ„ μ‚΄νŽ΄λ³΄κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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It's important to keep in mind that in English speaking culture,
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μ˜μ–΄κΆŒ λ¬Έν™”μ—μ„œλŠ”
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the more formal your language is,
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μ–Έμ–΄κ°€ ν˜•μ‹μ μΌμˆ˜λ‘
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the more distant your relationship is.
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관계가 더 λ©€μ–΄μ§„λ‹€λŠ” 점을 λͺ…μ‹¬ν•˜λŠ” 것이 μ€‘μš”ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:15
If I used any of these examples with my close friends,
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κ°€κΉŒμš΄ 친ꡬ,
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my family, my team members, or even most of my students,
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κ°€μ‘±, νŒ€μ›, 심지어 λŒ€λΆ€λΆ„μ˜ ν•™μƒλ“€μ—κ²Œ μ΄λŸ¬ν•œ 예λ₯Ό μ‚¬μš©ν•œλ‹€λ©΄
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it would indicate that I feel like I have a very distant relationship
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λ‚˜λŠ” κ·Έ κ°œμΈλ“€κ³Ό 맀우 λ¨Ό 관계λ₯Ό κ°–κ³  μžˆλ‹€λŠ” λŠλ‚Œμ„ λ‚˜νƒ€λ‚Ό κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
04:28
with those individuals.
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.
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It would be too formal to use for those circumstances.
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κ·ΈλŸ¬ν•œ 상황에 μ‚¬μš©ν•˜κΈ°μ—λŠ” λ„ˆλ¬΄ ν˜•μ‹μ μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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However,
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κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‚˜
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if it is a situation that demands that high level of formality,
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κ·Έ μ •λ„μ˜ 격식을 μš”κ΅¬ν•˜λŠ” 상황이라면 μ΄ˆλŒ€ν•  λ•Œ μ‚¬μš©ν•˜κΈ°
04:41
these are great phrases for extending an invitation. Now,
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쒋은 λ¬Έκ΅¬μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ . 이제 μ΄λŸ¬ν•œ 상황이
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if you're not sure what those situations might be,
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무엇인지 ν™•μ‹€ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šμ€ 경우
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a few examples include diplomatic events,
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외ꡐ 행사, κ²°ν˜Όμ‹κ³Ό 같은
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formal social events,
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곡식적인 사ꡐ 행사
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such as a wedding or high level corporate activities.
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λ˜λŠ” κ³ μœ„κΈ‰ κΈ°μ—… ν™œλ™ 등을 λͺ‡ 가지 예둜 λ“€ 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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Phrase number one. I would like to invite you to, for example,
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첫 번째 문ꡬ. 예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄
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I would like to formally invite you to our company's annual retreat.
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우리 νšŒμ‚¬μ˜ μ—°λ‘€ μˆ˜λ ¨νšŒμ— κ³΅μ‹μ μœΌλ‘œ μ΄ˆλŒ€ν•˜κ³  μ‹ΆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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Not only am I using highly formal language here,
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μ—¬κΈ°μ„œλŠ” 맀우 ν˜•μ‹μ μΈ μ–Έμ–΄λ₯Ό μ‚¬μš©ν•  뿐만 μ•„λ‹ˆλΌ μΆ•μ•½ν˜•λ„
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I'm also avoiding the use of contractions. Rather than say,
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μ‚¬μš©ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . 라고 ν•˜κΈ°λ³΄λ‹€λŠ”,
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I'd like to invite you, I'm using the full words,
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μ΄ˆλŒ€ν•˜κ³  μ‹Άλ‹€, μ •μ‹μœΌλ‘œ,
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I would like to invite you to number two, I'm pleased to invite you,
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2λ²ˆμ— μ΄ˆλŒ€ν•˜κ³  μ‹Άλ‹€, μ΄ˆλŒ€ν•˜κ²Œ λ˜μ–΄ κΈ°μ˜λ‹€,
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I'm pleased to invite you to the Winter Gala I,
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μœˆν„° 갈라 I에 μ΄ˆλŒ€ν•˜κ²Œ λ˜μ–΄ κΈ°μ˜λ‹€λΌκ³  λ§ν•˜λŠ” 것보닀 ,
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or we invite you to attend.
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λ˜λŠ” μ°Έμ„ν•˜λ„λ‘ μ΄ˆλŒ€ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. νƒ€μš΄λ―ΈνŒ…μ—
05:29
We invite you to attend the town meeting, and finally,
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μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ„ μ΄ˆλŒ€ν•˜λ©° , λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰μœΌλ‘œ
05:33
I am looking forward to joining you.
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μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ˜ μ°Έμ—¬λ₯Ό κΈ°λŒ€ν•˜κ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:36
I'm looking forward to joining you in our company's upcoming strategy meeting.
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μ €λŠ” 우리 νšŒμ‚¬μ˜ λ‹€κ°€μ˜€λŠ” μ „λž΅ νšŒμ˜μ— μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„κ³Ό ν•¨κ»˜ ν•˜κΈ°λ₯Ό κ³ λŒ€ν•˜κ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:40
Now, let's move on to phrases that are more neutral in tone.
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이제 μ’€ 더 쀑립적인 μ–΄μ‘°λ‘œ ꡬ문을 μ‚΄νŽ΄λ³΄κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:44
These are perfect for polite yet warm invitations.
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μ •μ€‘ν•˜λ©΄μ„œλ„ λ”°λœ»ν•œ μ΄ˆλŒ€μž₯에 λ”± λ§žμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:48
In other words, we've closed some of that distance gap.
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즉, μš°λ¦¬λŠ” κ·Έ 거리 격차λ₯Ό μ–΄λŠ 정도 μ€„μ˜€μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:52
This language is perfect for someone that you don't know well,
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이 μ–Έμ–΄λŠ” 당신이 잘 λͺ¨λ₯΄μ§€λ§Œ 더
05:56
but you'd like to know better. For example,
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μ•Œκ³  싢은 μ‚¬λžŒμ—κ²Œ μ ν•©ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€ . 예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄,
06:00
if you're aiming to create a stronger relationship with a client,
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고객과 더 κ°•ν•œ 관계λ₯Ό κ΅¬μΆ•ν•˜λ €λŠ” 경우
06:04
get to know a coworker or extend an invitation to a new neighbor
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λ™λ£Œλ₯Ό μ•Œμ•„κ°€κ±°λ‚˜ μƒˆλ‘œμš΄ 이웃 문ꡬ에 μ΄ˆλŒ€λ₯Ό λ³΄λ‚΄μ„Έμš”
06:09
phrase number one. I was wondering if,
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. ν˜Ήμ‹œ,
06:12
I was wondering if you might have time for a quick chat before the meeting.
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회의 전에 잠깐 이야기 λ‚˜λˆŒ μ‹œκ°„μ΄ μžˆμœΌμ‹ μ§€ κΆκΈˆν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:17
Would you like to, would you like to join us for the next luncheon?
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λ‹€μŒ μ˜€μ°¬μ— μš°λ¦¬μ™€ ν•¨κ»˜ ν•˜μ‹œκ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ? 와
06:21
I'd love it if you can come to,
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μ£Όμ‹œλ©΄ μ’‹κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:23
I'd love it if you can come to my son's fifth birthday party.
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제 μ•„λ“€μ˜ λ‹€μ„―λ²ˆμ§Έ μƒμΌνŒŒν‹°μ— μ™€μ£Όμ‹œλ©΄ μ’‹κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:27
Let's pause here for just a moment.
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μ—¬κΈ°μ„œ μž μ‹œλ§Œ 멈좰보자. μžλ…€μ˜ νŒŒν‹°μ— λ‹€λ₯Έ 아이듀을
06:29
If you've ever felt worried or unsure of how to invite
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μ΄ˆλŒ€ν•˜λŠ” 방법에 λŒ€ν•΄ 걱정이 λ˜κ±°λ‚˜ ν™•μ‹€ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šμ€ 경우,
06:34
other kids to your son or daughter's party and you know that you'll
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06:39
have to ask the parents of those kids,
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κ·Έ μ•„μ΄λ“€μ˜ λΆ€λͺ¨μ—κ²Œ 물어봐야 ν•œλ‹€λŠ” 것을 μ•Œκ³  μžˆλ‹€λ©΄
06:42
this is a wonderful phrase to use.
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이 ν‘œν˜„μ„ μ‚¬μš©ν•˜λ©΄ μ’‹μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:45
I'd love it if you can come or I'd love it if your daughter,
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당신이 와주면 μ’‹κ² κ³ , λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ λ”Έ,
06:50
if your son can come to my son's fifth birthday party.
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λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ 아듀이 λ‚΄ μ•„λ“€μ˜ λ‹€μ„― 번째 생일 νŒŒν‹°μ— 올 수 μžˆλ‹€λ©΄ λ‚˜λŠ” 그것을 μ’‹μ•„ν•  κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:55
Two more neutral phrases.
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쀑립 문ꡬ가 두 개 더 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:57
I hope you can join me or I hope you can join us.
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당신이 λ‚˜μ™€ ν•¨κ»˜ ν•  수 있기λ₯Ό λ°”λžλ‹ˆλ‹€. λ˜λŠ” 당신이 μš°λ¦¬μ™€ ν•¨κ»˜ ν•  수 있기λ₯Ό λ°”λžλ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:01
I hope you can join us in celebrating Janice's Retirement,
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Janice의 은퇴λ₯Ό μΆ•ν•˜ν•˜λŠ” 데 μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„λ„ ν•¨κ»˜ ν•΄μ£Όμ‹œκΈ°λ₯Ό λ°”λžλ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:06
and I'd love it if you could join me or if you could join us.
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저와 ν•¨κ»˜ ν•˜μ‹œκ±°λ‚˜ μš°λ¦¬μ™€ ν•¨κ»˜ ν•΄μ£Όμ‹œλ©΄ κ°μ‚¬ν•˜κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:11
I'd love it if you can join me for a yoga class this Wednesday and now let's
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이번 μ£Ό μˆ˜μš”μΌμ— 저와 ν•¨κ»˜ μš”κ°€ μˆ˜μ—…μ— μ°Έμ—¬ν•˜μ‹œλ©΄ μ’‹κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 이제 λ”°λœ»ν•˜κ³  μΉœκ·Όν•œ
07:15
look at casual phrases that are warm and friendly. These are, again,
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μΊμ£Όμ–Όν•œ 문ꡬλ₯Ό μ‚΄νŽ΄λ³΄κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . λ‹€μ‹œ λ§ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ, 이것은
07:19
perfect for anyone you know well or anyone you have a friendly
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당신이 잘 μ•„λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒ μ΄λ‚˜ 우호적인 관계λ₯Ό κ°–κ³  μžˆλŠ” μ‚¬λžŒμ—κ²Œ μ™„λ²½ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€
07:24
relationship with. Now, that doesn't mean that your best friends,
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. κ·Έλ ‡λ‹€κ³  ν•΄μ„œ κ°€μž₯ μΉœν•œ 친ꡬ,
07:28
a friendly relationship is someone that you've encountered multiple times
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우호적인 관계가 μ—¬λŸ¬ 번 λ§Œλ‚œ μ‚¬λžŒμ΄κ³  κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ ν• 
07:33
and every time you've done so,
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λ•Œλ§ˆλ‹€
07:35
you've had a polite and friendly conversation,
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μ •μ€‘ν•˜κ³  우호적인 λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό λ‚˜λˆ„κ³ 
07:38
you've developed a connection for those circumstances.
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관계λ₯Ό λ°œμ „μ‹œμΌ°λ‹€λŠ” μ˜λ―ΈλŠ” μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€. κ·Έ 상황. 거리가 쀄어든 것을 λ‚˜νƒ€λ‚΄λŠ”
07:41
You'll want to use language that indicates that reduced amount of
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μ–Έμ–΄λ₯Ό μ‚¬μš©ν•˜λŠ” 것이 μ’‹μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
07:46
distance. You want to be warm and friendly.
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. 당신은 λ”°λœ»ν•˜κ³  μΉœμ ˆν•˜κ³  μ‹Άμ–΄ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 이λ₯Ό
07:49
Here are phrases you can use to do that. Are you doing anything?
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μœ„ν•΄ μ‚¬μš©ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” λ¬Έκ΅¬λŠ” λ‹€μŒκ³Ό κ°™μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . λ­λΌλ„ν•˜κ³  μžˆλ‹ˆ?
07:54
Are you doing anything after today's meeting? Let's get lunch. Do you want to,
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였늘 회의 λλ‚˜κ³  뭐 ν•  κ±°μ•Ό ? 점심을 먹자. μ‰¬λŠ” μ‹œκ°„
07:59
do you want to grab coffee during the break? Do you feel like,
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에 컀피 ν•œμž” ν•˜μ‹€λž˜μš” ?
08:03
do you feel like going out to dinner tonight? Are you free to?
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였늘 밀에 저녁 먹으러 λ‚˜κ°€κ³  싢은 기뢄이 λ“œμ‹œλ‚˜μš”? 당신은 ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
08:06
Are you free to hang out this Friday? We should check out,
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이번 κΈˆμš”μΌμ— λ†€λŸ¬κ°ˆ μ‹œκ°„ μžˆμ–΄ ? μš°λ¦¬λŠ”
08:10
we should check out that new art exhibit next week.
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λ‹€μŒ 주에 μƒˆλ‘œμš΄ 미술 μ „μ‹œνšŒλ₯Ό 확인해 봐야 ν•΄μš”.
08:14
Any interest in any interest in going to a summer concert next week?
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λ‹€μŒ μ£Ό 여름 μ½˜μ„œνŠΈμ— κ°€λŠ” 데 관심이 μžˆμœΌμ‹ κ°€μš”?
08:18
And finally, how about, how about going to a festival together on Saturday?
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그리고 λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰μœΌλ‘œ ν† μš”μΌμ— ν•¨κ»˜ μΆ•μ œμ— κ°€λŠ” 건 μ–΄λ•Œμš”?
08:24
Now that we have those phrases in place,
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이제 μ΄λŸ¬ν•œ 문ꡬ가 μ€€λΉ„λ˜μ—ˆμœΌλ―€λ‘œ
08:26
let's take a look at several real life scenarios so that you can see
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μ—¬λŸ¬ 가지 μ‹€μ œ μ‹œλ‚˜λ¦¬μ˜€λ₯Ό μ‚΄νŽ΄λ³΄κ³ 
08:30
exactly how we might use these different invitations. In each case,
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μ΄λŸ¬ν•œ λ‹€μ–‘ν•œ μ΄ˆλŒ€λ₯Ό μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μ‚¬μš©ν•  수 μžˆλŠ”μ§€ μ •ν™•νžˆ μ‚΄νŽ΄λ³΄κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . 각각의 κ²½μš°μ—
08:35
I'll also help you reflect on how to determine whether you should be using
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λ‚˜λŠ” λ˜ν•œ
08:40
highly formal, neutral, or more casual language.
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맀우 격식을 κ°–μΆ˜ μ–Έμ–΄, 쀑립적인 μ–Έμ–΄ λ˜λŠ” μ’€ 더 일상적인 μ–Έμ–΄λ₯Ό μ‚¬μš©ν•΄μ•Ό ν•˜λŠ”μ§€ κ²°μ •ν•˜λŠ” 방법을 μˆ™κ³ ν•˜λŠ” 데 도움을 쀄 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:44
We'll start with some professional scenarios.
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λͺ‡ 가지 전문적인 μ‹œλ‚˜λ¦¬μ˜€λΆ€ν„° μ‹œμž‘ν•˜κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 예λ₯Ό
08:47
When you're speaking to a new manager, for example,
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λ“€μ–΄ , μƒˆλ‘œμš΄ κ΄€λ¦¬μž
08:50
or a professional acquaintance, a client,
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λ‚˜ 전문적인 지인, 고객
08:54
or someone you've just met at a conference,
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λ˜λŠ” νšŒμ˜μ—μ„œ 방금 λ§Œλ‚œ μ‚¬λžŒκ³Ό λŒ€ν™”ν•  λ•Œ
08:57
think for a moment about how well you know that individual.
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κ·Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ„ μ–Όλ§ˆλ‚˜ 잘 μ•Œκ³  μžˆλŠ”μ§€ μž μ‹œ 생각해 λ³΄μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
09:01
You might also want to consider the specific situation you're in and how
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λ˜ν•œ ν˜„μž¬ μ²˜ν•΄ μžˆλŠ” νŠΉμ • 상황과
09:05
formal that situation is.
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ν•΄λ‹Ή 상황이 μ–Όλ§ˆλ‚˜ ν˜•μ‹μ μΈμ§€ κ³ λ €ν•  μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:08
Are you at a more casual team retreat? If so,
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μ’€ 더 μΊμ£Όμ–Όν•œ νŒ€ νœ΄μ–‘μ§€μ— κ³„μ‹­λ‹ˆκΉŒ? κ·Έλ ‡λ‹€λ©΄
09:12
you might want to use more neutral language,
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μ’€ 더 쀑립적인 μ–Έμ–΄λ₯Ό μ‚¬μš©ν•˜κ³  싢을 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆκ² μ§€λ§Œ,
09:14
but if you're in a highly formal circumstance,
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맀우 격식을 κ°–μΆ˜ 상황이라면
09:18
even if it's someone that you've encountered once or twice,
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ν•œλ‘ 번 λ§Œλ‚œ μ‚¬λžŒμ΄λΌ ν•˜λ”λΌλ„ 1번 μ‹œλ‚˜λ¦¬μ˜€μ—μ„œλŠ” μ’€
09:22
using a more formal tone would be more appropriate in scenario number one.
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더 격식을 κ°–μΆ˜ μ–΄μ‘°λ₯Ό μ‚¬μš©ν•˜λŠ” 것이 더 μ μ ˆν•  κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 지인을 μ„Έλ―Έλ‚˜μ— μ΄ˆλŒ€ν•˜κ³ 
09:27
I want you to imagine that you'd like to invite an acquaintance to join you in
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μ‹Άλ‹€κ³  상상해 λ³΄μ‹œκΈ° λ°”λžλ‹ˆλ‹€
09:32
a seminar. To do that,
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. 그러기 μœ„ν•΄ 업무에 μžˆμ–΄μ„œ VR의 μž₯점에 λŒ€ν•œ
09:34
you could say there's an interesting seminar on the advantages
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ν₯미둜운 μ„Έλ―Έλ‚˜κ°€ μžˆλ‹€κ³  ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
09:39
of VR for work. I was wondering if you'd like to join me. As you can see here,
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. 당신이 λ‚˜μ™€ ν•¨κ»˜ν•˜κ³  싢은지 κΆκΈˆν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ—¬κΈ°μ—μ„œ λ³Ό 수 μžˆλ“―μ΄
09:44
we're using one of those two structures we've talked about. First,
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μš°λ¦¬λŠ” μ•žμ„œ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•œ 두 가지 ꡬ쑰 쀑 ν•˜λ‚˜λ₯Ό μ‚¬μš©ν•˜κ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . 첫째,
09:47
I'm highlighting what the specific event is, and second,
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λ‚˜λŠ” ꡬ체적인 사건이 무엇인지λ₯Ό κ°•μ‘°ν•˜κ³ , λ‘˜μ§Έ,
09:52
I'm indicating what I want or what I would like to see happen.
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λ‚΄κ°€ μ›ν•˜λŠ” 것, λ‚΄κ°€ 보고 싢은 것이 무엇인지λ₯Ό λ‚˜νƒ€λƒ…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:56
In the second scenario,
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두 번째 μ‹œλ‚˜λ¦¬μ˜€μ—μ„œλŠ”
09:57
I want you to imagine that you'd like to invite a new client to talk about
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μƒˆ 고객을 μ΄ˆλŒ€ν•˜μ—¬
10:02
a project over a cup of coffee at a nearby cafe. To do that,
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근처 μΉ΄νŽ˜μ—μ„œ 컀피 ν•œ μž”μ„ λ§ˆμ‹œλ©° ν”„λ‘œμ νŠΈμ— λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜κ³  μ‹Άλ‹€κ³  상상해 λ³΄μ„Έμš”. 그러기 μœ„ν•΄μ„œλŠ”
10:07
you could say,
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10:08
would you like to meet at the Marble Cafe next to the office and talk about
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사무싀 μ˜† λ§ˆλΈ” μΉ΄νŽ˜μ—μ„œ λ§Œλ‚˜μ„œ
10:12
interior design options? And finally, in scenario number three,
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μΈν…Œλ¦¬μ–΄ λ””μžμΈ μ˜΅μ…˜μ— λŒ€ν•΄ 이야기λ₯Ό λ‚˜λˆ λ³ΌκΉŒ? λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰μœΌλ‘œ μ„Έ 번째 μ‹œλ‚˜λ¦¬μ˜€μ—μ„œλŠ”
10:16
I want you to imagine you're coordinating an event with a coworker. Now,
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λ™λ£Œμ™€ ν•¨κ»˜ 행사λ₯Ό κ³„νšν•˜κ³  μžˆλ‹€κ³  상상해 λ³΄μ„Έμš”. 자,
10:21
it's a coworker, but this is someone you haven't worked with much very often,
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직μž₯ λ™λ£ŒμΈλ° 이 μ‚¬λžŒμ€ 자주 ν•¨κ»˜ μΌν•œ 적이 μ—†μ–΄μ„œ 잘
10:26
so you don't know this person very well,
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μ•Œμ§€ λͺ»ν•˜λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒμ΄κ³ ,
10:28
and you'd like to get together so that you can go over the project details.
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ν”„λ‘œμ νŠΈ μ„ΈλΆ€ 사항을 ν•¨κ»˜ λ…Όμ˜ν•  수 μžˆλ„λ‘ ν•¨κ»˜ λͺ¨μ΄κ³  싢은 μ‚¬λžŒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:33
Here's how you could do that.
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κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” 방법은 λ‹€μŒκ³Ό κ°™μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:35
I would like to invite you to Wednesday's planning meeting to go over possible
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μˆ˜μš”μΌ κ³„νš νšŒμ˜μ— μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ„ μ΄ˆλŒ€ν•˜μ—¬
10:38
last-minute changes to the project,
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ν”„λ‘œμ νŠΈμ˜ λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰ μˆœκ°„ λ³€κ²½ κ°€λŠ₯성을 κ²€ν† ν•˜κ³ 
10:41
and now let's switch to more neutral territory.
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이제 μ’€ 더 쀑립적인 μ˜μ—­μœΌλ‘œ μ „ν™˜ν•˜κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ’€ 더 μΊμ£Όμ–Όν•˜λ‹€κ³  말할
10:44
A few scenarios that we could say are more semi-casual,
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수 μžˆλŠ” λͺ‡ 가지 μ‹œλ‚˜λ¦¬μ˜€λŠ”
10:48
so this would be perfect for encountering a new neighbor,
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μƒˆλ‘œμš΄ 이웃,
10:52
maybe a fellow parent at your child's soccer game,
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μžλ…€μ˜ 좕ꡬ κ²½κΈ°μ—μ„œ λ™λ£Œ λΆ€λͺ¨λ₯Ό λ§Œλ‚˜λŠ” 경우
10:55
or if you've recently met a friend of a friend.
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λ˜λŠ” μ΅œκ·Όμ— 친ꡬ의 친ꡬλ₯Ό λ§Œλ‚œ κ²½μš°μ— μ ν•©ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:59
If you're ever in doubt in these situations that are more social and yet
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μ’€ 더 μ‚¬νšŒμ μ΄μ§€λ§Œ
11:04
you don't know someone particularly well, neutral language is your best bet.
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€λ₯Ό νŠΉλ³„νžˆ 잘 μ•Œμ§€ λͺ»ν•˜λŠ” μƒν™©μ—μ„œ μ˜μ‹¬μ΄ λ“ λ‹€λ©΄ 쀑립적인 μ–Έμ–΄λ₯Ό μ‚¬μš©ν•˜λŠ” 것이 κ°€μž₯ μ’‹μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:10
In the first scenario,
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첫 번째 μ‹œλ‚˜λ¦¬μ˜€μ—μ„œλŠ”
11:11
I want you to imagine someone has recently moved into your neighborhood.
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졜근 λˆ„κ΅°κ°€κ°€ κ·€ν•˜μ˜ λ™λ„€λ‘œ μ΄μ‚¬ν–ˆλ‹€κ³  κ°€μ •ν•΄ λ³΄κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:14
You have a new neighbor now for several weeks,
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이제 λͺ‡ μ£Ό λ™μ•ˆ μƒˆ 이웃이 생겼고,
11:17
you've been planning a backyard barbecue,
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λ’·λ§ˆλ‹Ή 바비큐λ₯Ό κ³„νšν•˜κ³  있으며
11:20
you've invited all the other neighbors and you'd like to extend an invitation to
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λ‹€λ₯Έ λͺ¨λ“  이웃을 μ΄ˆλŒ€ν–ˆμœΌλ©° 이 μƒˆ 이웃 μ—κ²Œ μ΄ˆλŒ€λ₯Ό 보내고 μ‹ΆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
11:25
this new neighbor. Here's how you could do that.
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. κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” 방법은 λ‹€μŒκ³Ό κ°™μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:28
After an initial introduction and maybe some quick small talk with your new
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첫 μ†Œκ°œμ™€ μƒˆλ‘œμš΄ 이웃과 κ°„λ‹¨ν•œ λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό λ‚˜λˆˆ ν›„
11:33
neighbor, you could say, by the way,
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11:35
we're having a barbecue at our place on Sunday.
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μΌμš”μΌμ— 우리 μ§‘μ—μ„œ 바비큐λ₯Ό ν•  거라고 말할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:38
We'd love it if you could join us.
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당신이 μš°λ¦¬μ™€ ν•¨κ»˜ ν•  수 μžˆλ‹€λ©΄ 정말 μ’‹κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그런데
11:40
This invitation has two important phrases, by the way,
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이 μ΄ˆλŒ€μž₯μ—λŠ” 두 가지 μ€‘μš”ν•œ 문ꡬ가 μžˆλŠ”λ°, λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰ μ΄ˆλŒ€μž₯을
11:44
and we'd love it if, by the way,
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11:48
is a great way to insert a last-minute invitation.
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μ‚½μž…ν•˜κΈ°μ— 쒋은 방법이라면 정말 쒋을 것 κ°™μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
11:53
It makes it clear that the invitation is a side note or an afterthought of
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μ΄λŠ”
11:57
some kind, not because you're being impolite,
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κ·€ν•˜κ°€ λ¬΄λ‘€ν•΄μ„œκ°€ μ•„λ‹ˆλΌ λ§‰νŒμ— μ΄ˆλŒ€λ₯Ό
12:00
but because you've just now had the opportunity to extend this last-minute
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μ—°μž₯ν•  기회λ₯Ό μ–»μ—ˆκΈ° λ•Œλ¬Έμ— μ΄ˆλŒ€κ°€ μΌμ’…μ˜ λΆ€μˆ˜μ μ΄κ±°λ‚˜ λ‚˜μ€‘μ— μƒκ°ν•œ κ²ƒμž„μ„ λΆ„λͺ…νžˆ ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
12:05
invitation,
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12:06
and it also reduces the pressure for someone to accept.
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€κ°€ 받아듀일 수 μžˆλ„λ‘.
12:12
Of course, with a last-minute invitation,
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λ¬Όλ‘  막바지 μ΄ˆλŒ€μ˜ 경우
12:14
it's understandable if somebody already has plans and is unable to attend,
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€ 이미 κ³„νšμ„ κ°–κ³  참석할 수 μ—†λŠ” κ²½μš°λ„ 이해할 수 μžˆμœΌλ―€λ‘œ
12:20
so it lessens the anxiety that someone might have about whether they
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12:24
should or shouldn't say yes or no in scenario number two.
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μ‹œλ‚˜λ¦¬μ˜€ 2λ²ˆμ—μ„œ 예 λ˜λŠ” μ•„λ‹ˆμ˜€λΌκ³  λŒ€λ‹΅ν•΄μ•Ό 할지, 말아야 할지에 λŒ€ν•΄ λˆ„κ΅°κ°€κ°€ κ°€μ§ˆ 수 μžˆλŠ” λΆˆμ•ˆκ°μ΄ μ€„μ–΄λ“­λ‹ˆλ‹€.
12:29
Imagine you've recently met a friend's friend.
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μ΅œκ·Όμ— 친ꡬ의 친ꡬλ₯Ό λ§Œλ‚¬λ‹€κ³  상상해 λ³΄μ„Έμš”.
12:32
You were at someone's party, you met a friend of a friend,
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당신은 λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ˜ νŒŒν‹°μ— μžˆμ—ˆκ³ , 친ꡬ의 친ꡬλ₯Ό λ§Œλ‚¬κ³ ,
12:36
and in some small talk conversation you realized you both really love playing
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λͺ‡ 가지 μž‘μ€ λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό λ‚˜λˆ„λ‹€κ°€ 두 μ‚¬λžŒ λͺ¨λ‘ ν…Œλ‹ˆμŠ€λ₯Ό 정말 μ’‹μ•„ν•œλ‹€λŠ” 것을 κΉ¨λ‹¬μ•˜μœΌλ―€λ‘œ
12:40
tennis, so you'd like to extend an invitation to do that.
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κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ ν•˜λ„λ‘ μ΄ˆλŒ€ν•˜κ³  μ‹ΆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
12:45
You could say, do you want to play tennis together in the next week or so?
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λ‹€μŒ 주쯀에 같이 ν…Œλ‹ˆμŠ€ 치러 갈래?
12:49
I usually play after work.
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λ‚˜λŠ” 보톡 퇴근 후에 λ†€μ•„μš”.
12:51
This invitation intentionally uses the vague language of in
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이 μ΄ˆλŒ€μž₯은 μ˜λ„μ μœΌλ‘œ λ‹€μŒ μ£Ό 정도에 λΌλŠ” λͺ¨ν˜Έν•œ μ–Έμ–΄λ₯Ό μ‚¬μš©ν•˜κ³  있으며
12:56
the next week or so, by using that language,
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, ν•΄λ‹Ή μ–Έμ–΄λ₯Ό μ‚¬μš©ν•¨μœΌλ‘œμ¨ λ‚ μ§œμ™€ μ‹œκ°„μ„
12:59
it relieves the pressure to set a date and a time. Right now,
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μ •ν•΄μ•Ό ν•˜λŠ” 뢀담을 λœμ–΄μ€λ‹ˆλ‹€ . μ§€κΈˆμ€
13:04
you've just met this person,
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이 μ‚¬λžŒμ„ 막 λ§Œλ‚œ 터라
13:06
so of course there's gonna be a little bit of feeling things out
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λ‹Ήμ—°νžˆ
13:11
from the other person's response.
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μƒλŒ€λ°©μ˜ λ°˜μ‘μ„ 보고 μ•½κ°„μ˜ 감정이 상할 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμ„ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:12
You'll get a sense of how enthusiastic they might be about getting together
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그듀이 ν•¨κ»˜ λͺ¨μ—¬
13:17
to play tennis, and based on that response,
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ν…Œλ‹ˆμŠ€λ₯Ό μΉ˜λŠ” 것에 μ–Όλ§ˆλ‚˜ 열정적인지 μ•Œκ²Œ 될 것이며 , κ·Έ λ°˜μ‘μ„ λ°”νƒ•μœΌλ‘œ
13:20
you can then decide whether to move forward with a concrete date and time
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ꡬ체적인 λ‚ μ§œμ™€ μ‹œκ°„μ„ μ •ν•˜μ—¬ 진행할 것인지
13:25
or keep it loose and maybe exchange numbers, email addresses, and so on.
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μ•„λ‹ˆλ©΄ λŠμŠ¨ν•˜κ²Œ 지내고 번호, 이메일 μ£Όμ†Œλ₯Ό κ΅ν™˜ν•  것인지 κ²°μ •ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. , λ“±λ“±.
13:30
In this final scenario, for more semi-casual invitations,
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이 λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰ μ‹œλ‚˜λ¦¬μ˜€μ—μ„œλŠ” μ’€ 더 μΊμ£Όμ–Όν•œ μ΄ˆλŒ€λ₯Ό μœ„ν•΄ λͺ‡ λ…„ λ™μ•ˆ λ§Œλ‚˜μ§€ λͺ»ν•œ
13:34
let's imagine you've just run into an old colleague,
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μ˜› λ™λ£Œλ₯Ό μš°μ—°νžˆ λ§Œλ‚¬κ³ 
13:38
someone you haven't seen for years,
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13:41
and in that moment you also remember that this person loves reading,
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κ·Έ μˆœκ°„ κ·Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ λ…μ„œλ₯Ό μ’‹μ•„ν•œλ‹€λŠ” 것을 κΈ°μ–΅ν•˜μ—¬ λ‹€μŒκ³Ό 같이
13:45
so you decide to extend an invitation to a book club that you've joined.
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κ²°μ •ν–ˆλ‹€κ³  κ°€μ •ν•΄ λ³΄κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 당신이 κ°€μž…ν•œ λ…μ„œ ν΄λŸ½μ— μ΄ˆλŒ€λ₯Ό λ³΄λ‚΄μ„Έμš”.
13:50
Here's what you might say,
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당신이 말할 수 μžˆλŠ” 것은 λ‹€μŒκ³Ό κ°™μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:52
I'm part of a fantastic book club and we have a meeting coming up.
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μ €λŠ” ν™˜μƒμ μΈ λ…μ„œ 클럽의 일원 이고 곧 νšŒμ˜κ°€ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ‹œκ°„μ΄ λ˜μ‹œκ³ 
13:57
I'd love it if you could join us if you're available and interested.
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관심이 μžˆμœΌμ‹œλ©΄ ν•¨κ»˜ ν•΄μ£Όμ‹œλ©΄ μ’‹κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
14:00
Similar to the last example,
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λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰ μ˜ˆμ™€ μœ μ‚¬ν•˜κ²Œ,
14:02
that language of if you're available and if you're interested,
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당신이 μ‹œκ°„μ΄ 있고 관심이 μžˆλ‹€λ©΄ κ·Έ μ–Έμ–΄λŠ” κ°€λŠ₯성을 열어두고 λ°›μ•„λ“€μ΄λΌλŠ”
14:06
helps to relieve the pressure to accept it leaves open
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μ••λ ₯을 μ™„ν™”ν•˜λŠ” 데 도움이 λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€
14:11
the possibility.
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.
14:13
And now our final two scenarios that are very casual in tone,
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이제 맀우 μΊμ£Όμ–Όν•œ μ–΄μ‘°μ˜ λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰ 두 가지 μ‹œλ‚˜λ¦¬μ˜€μ—
14:17
and then I've got some practice questions for you. As we've already discussed,
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이어 λͺ‡ 가지 μ—°μŠ΅ λ¬Έμ œκ°€ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . μ•žμ„œ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•œ κ²ƒμ²˜λŸΌ
14:22
these more casual invitations are perfect for close friends, family members,
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μ’€ 더 μΊμ£Όμ–Όν•œ μ΄ˆλŒ€λŠ” μΉœν•œ 친ꡬ, κ°€μ‘±,
14:27
people you know well, or people with whom you have a friendly relationship,
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잘 μ•„λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒ, μΉœν•œ 관계λ₯Ό λ§Ίκ³  μžˆλŠ” μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ—κ²Œ μ ν•©ν•˜κΈ°
14:32
so someone that you've encountered several times had really fun conversations
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λ•Œλ¬Έμ— μ—¬λŸ¬ 번 λ§Œλ‚œ μ‚¬λžŒκ³Ό 정말 즐거운 λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό λ‚˜λˆ΄κ³ 
14:36
with,
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14:36
and you're taking that next step in reducing that distance.
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그리고 당신은 κ·Έ 거리λ₯Ό 쀄이기 μœ„ν•œ λ‹€μŒ 단계λ₯Ό 밟고 μžˆλŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
14:42
In the first scenario,
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첫 번째 μ‹œλ‚˜λ¦¬μ˜€μ—μ„œλŠ”
14:44
I want you to imagine that you and your best friend haven't seen each other in
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λ‹Ήμ‹ κ³Ό λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ κ°€μž₯ μΉœν•œ μΉœκ΅¬κ°€ μ˜€λž«λ™μ•ˆ μ„œλ‘œλ₯Ό 보지 λͺ»ν–ˆλ‹€κ³  상상해 λ³΄μ„Έμš”
14:48
ages.
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14:49
Life just got busy and you've decided to extend an invitation to get
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μƒν™œμ΄ λ°”λΉ μ Έμ„œ
14:54
together. You might say, Hey, I'm gonna be in your area this Friday.
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ν•¨κ»˜ λͺ¨μž„에 μ΄ˆλŒ€ν•˜κΈ°λ‘œ κ²°μ •ν–ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. ' 이번 κΈˆμš”μΌμ— λ‚΄κ°€ λ‹Ήμ‹  지역에 갈 μ˜ˆμ •μ΄μ—μš”'라고 말할 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
14:58
Let's grab lunch. As you may have noticed from that language,
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점심을 먹자. ν•΄λ‹Ή μ–Έμ–΄μ—μ„œ μ•Œ 수 μžˆλ“―μ΄
15:02
casual invitations tend to be more direct,
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μΊμ£Όμ–Όν•œ μ΄ˆλŒ€λŠ”
15:05
more assertive rather than suggestive.
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μ•”μ‹œμ μ΄κΈ°λ³΄λ‹€λŠ” 더 직접적이고 더 λ‹¨ν˜Έν•œ κ²½ν–₯이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
15:09
We're not really inquiring whether someone wants to,
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μš°λ¦¬λŠ” λˆ„κ΅°κ°€κ°€ μ›ν•˜λŠ”μ§€ μ—¬λΆ€λ₯Ό μ‹€μ œλ‘œ λ¬»λŠ” 것이 μ•„λ‹ˆλΌ
15:12
we're simply stating what we want to have happen.
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λ‹¨μˆœνžˆ μš°λ¦¬κ°€ μ›ν•˜λŠ” 일이 μΌμ–΄λ‚˜κΈ°λ₯Ό μ›ν•˜λŠ”μ§€ λ§ν•˜κ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
15:16
And in our final scenario,
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그리고 λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰ μ‹œλ‚˜λ¦¬μ˜€μ—μ„œλŠ”
15:18
I want you to imagine that you and your close work friend have had a long
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κ·€ν•˜μ™€ κ°€κΉŒμš΄ 직μž₯ μΉœκ΅¬κ°€ ν•¨κ»˜
15:22
week to blow off some steam together. In other words,
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슀트레슀λ₯Ό ν’€κΈ° μœ„ν•΄ κΈ΄ ν•œ μ£Όλ₯Ό λ³΄λƒˆλ‹€κ³  상상해 λ³΄μ‹œκΈ° λ°”λžλ‹ˆλ‹€ . 즉, ν•¨κ»˜
15:26
to have some time to relax together. You could say this,
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νœ΄μ‹μ„ μ·¨ν•˜λŠ” μ‹œκ°„μ„ κ°–λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
15:30
are you doing anything after work today?
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였늘 퇴근 후에 뭐 ν•΄μš”?
15:32
Maybe we could do some karaoke or maybe we could grab a drink here.
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μ–΄μ©Œλ©΄ λ…Έλž˜λ°©μ„ ν•  μˆ˜λ„ 있고 μ—¬κΈ°μ„œ 술 ν•œμž” ν•  μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμ„ 것 κ°™μ•„μš”.
15:36
I've used the word maybe to propose a few ideas, provide some alternatives,
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λ‚˜λŠ” μ–΄μ©Œλ©΄μ΄λΌλŠ” 단어λ₯Ό λͺ‡ 가지 아이디어λ₯Ό μ œμ•ˆν•˜κ³ , λͺ‡ 가지 λŒ€μ•ˆμ„ μ œκ³΅ν•˜κΈ° μœ„ν•΄ μ‚¬μš©ν–ˆμœΌλ©°,
15:41
and it also indicates that I'm open to other suggestions. Now,
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μ΄λŠ” λ˜ν•œ λ‚΄κ°€ λ‹€λ₯Έ μ œμ•ˆμ—λ„ μ—΄λ € μžˆλ‹€λŠ” 것을 λ‚˜νƒ€λƒ…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 이제
15:45
I want you to practice what you've learned today.
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였늘 배운 λ‚΄μš©μ„ μ—°μŠ΅ν•΄ λ³΄μ‹œκΈ° λ°”λžλ‹ˆλ‹€.
15:48
I'm going to present a couple of situations to you,
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μ €λŠ” μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ—κ²Œ λͺ‡ 가지 상황을 μ œμ‹œν•  κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
15:51
and after you reflect on these situations,
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μ΄λŸ¬ν•œ 상황을 μˆ™κ³ ν•œ ν›„,
15:54
thinking back to what you've learned in this lesson,
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이번 μˆ˜μ—…μ—μ„œ 배운 λ‚΄μš©μ„ λ‹€μ‹œ 생각해 보고,
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I want you to share how you might invite someone in this particular
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이 νŠΉλ³„ν•œ μƒν™©μ—μ„œ λˆ„κ΅°κ°€λ₯Ό μ΄ˆλŒ€ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” 방법을 κ³΅μœ ν•΄ μ£Όμ‹œκΈ° λ°”λžλ‹ˆλ‹€
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circumstance. For each situation I'm going to share,
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. μ œκ°€ κ³΅μœ ν•  각 상황에 λŒ€ν•΄
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I want you to imagine that you'd like to invite someone to go have some coffee
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€λ₯Ό μ΄ˆλŒ€ν•˜μ—¬ 컀피λ₯Ό λ§ˆμ‹œκ³ 
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and chat. Number one,
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λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό λ‚˜λˆ„κ³  μ‹Άλ‹€κ³  상상해 λ³΄μ„Έμš”. 첫 λ²ˆμ§ΈλŠ”
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a parent you recently met at your child's school.
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졜근 μžλ…€μ˜ ν•™κ΅μ—μ„œ λ§Œλ‚œ ν•™λΆ€λͺ¨μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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How might you invite that person to have coffee with you and chat? Number two,
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κ·Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ„ λ‹Ήμ‹ κ³Ό ν•¨κ»˜ 컀피λ₯Ό λ§ˆμ‹œκ³  이야기λ₯Ό λ‚˜λˆ„μžκ³  μ΄ˆλŒ€ν•˜λ €λ©΄ μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ ν•΄μ•Ό ν• κΉŒμš”? 두 λ²ˆμ§ΈλŠ” 고등학ꡐ
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a close friend you've had since high school, and number three,
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μ‹œμ ˆλΆ€ν„° μΉœν•œ 친ꡬ이고 , μ„Έ λ²ˆμ§ΈλŠ”
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a professional you met during this year's networking event. Again,
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μ˜¬ν•΄ λ„€νŠΈμ›Œν‚Ή ν–‰μ‚¬μ—μ„œ λ§Œλ‚œ 전문직 μ’…μ‚¬μžμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ‹€μ‹œ ν•œλ²ˆ, 각 상황에
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think carefully about each of those situations.
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λŒ€ν•΄ μ‹ μ€‘ν•˜κ²Œ 생각해 λ³΄μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€ . μ›ν•˜μ‹ λ‹€λ©΄
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How would you invite that particular individual to meet you for coffee and have
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κ·Έ νŠΉμ • κ°œμΈμ„ μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μ΄ˆλŒ€ν•˜μ—¬ 컀피λ₯Ό λ§ˆμ‹œκ³  λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό λ‚˜λˆ„μ‹œκ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
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a chat if you want. You can share your examples with me in the comments below.
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μ•„λž˜ λŒ“κΈ€μ„ 톡해 μ˜ˆμ‹œλ₯Ό λ‚˜μ™€ κ³΅μœ ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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If you enjoyed today's lesson,
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였늘 μˆ˜μ—…μ΄ μ¦κ±°μš°μ…¨λ‹€λ©΄
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I would love to know and you can tell me in a few very easy ways. Number one,
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μ•Œκ³  μ‹ΆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ•„μ£Ό μ‰¬μš΄ λͺ‡ 가지 λ°©λ²•μœΌλ‘œ μ•Œλ €μ£Όμ‹€ 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 첫째, YouTube
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give this lesson a thumbs up here on YouTube and share your examples with me.
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μ—μ„œ 이 κ°•μ˜μ— 'μ’‹μ•„μš”'λ₯Ό ν‘œμ‹œ ν•˜κ³  μ˜ˆμ‹œλ₯Ό 저와 κ³΅μœ ν•΄ μ£Όμ„Έμš”.
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Number two, while you're here,
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두 번째, μ—¬κΈ° κ³„μ‹œλŠ” λ™μ•ˆ
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you can also subscribe to my Speak Confident English YouTube channel,
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제 Speak Confident English YouTube 채널을 κ΅¬λ…ν•˜μ‹œλ©΄
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so you never miss one of my Confident English lessons. And lastly,
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제 Confident English 레슨 쀑 ν•˜λ‚˜λ„ λ†“μΉ˜μ§€ μ•ŠμœΌμ‹€ κ²λ‹ˆλ‹€ . λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰μœΌλ‘œ,
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jump on over to my Speak Confident English website where I have years of
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μ œκ°€ μˆ˜λ…„κ°„μ˜
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Confident English lessons, free resources for you,
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Confident English μˆ˜μ—…, 무료 λ¦¬μ†ŒμŠ€,
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and an in-depth fluency training called How to Get the Confidence to
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Say What You Want in English. Thank you so much for joining me,
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μ˜μ–΄λ‘œ μ›ν•˜λŠ” 것을 λ§ν•˜λŠ” μžμ‹ κ°μ„ μ–»λŠ” λ°©λ²•μ΄λΌλŠ” 심측 μœ μ°½μ„± κ΅μœ‘μ„ μ œκ³΅ν•˜λŠ” Speak Confident English μ›Ήμ‚¬μ΄νŠΈλ‘œ μ΄λ™ν•˜μ„Έμš”. ν•¨κ»˜ν•΄μ£Όμ…”μ„œ λ„ˆλ¬΄ κ°μ‚¬λ“œλ¦¬λ©°,
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and I look forward to seeing you next time.
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λ‹€μŒμ— 또 λ΅™κΈ°λ₯Ό κΈ°λŒ€ν•˜κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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이 μ‚¬μ΄νŠΈλŠ” μ˜μ–΄ ν•™μŠ΅μ— μœ μš©ν•œ YouTube λ™μ˜μƒμ„ μ†Œκ°œν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ „ 세계 졜고의 μ„ μƒλ‹˜λ“€μ΄ κ°€λ₯΄μΉ˜λŠ” μ˜μ–΄ μˆ˜μ—…μ„ 보게 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 각 λ™μ˜μƒ νŽ˜μ΄μ§€μ— ν‘œμ‹œλ˜λŠ” μ˜μ–΄ μžλ§‰μ„ 더블 ν΄λ¦­ν•˜λ©΄ κ·Έκ³³μ—μ„œ λ™μ˜μƒμ΄ μž¬μƒλ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. λΉ„λ””μ˜€ μž¬μƒμ— 맞좰 μžλ§‰μ΄ μŠ€ν¬λ‘€λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ˜κ²¬μ΄λ‚˜ μš”μ²­μ΄ μžˆλŠ” 경우 이 문의 양식을 μ‚¬μš©ν•˜μ—¬ λ¬Έμ˜ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.

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