The 5 Most Common Small Talk Questions in English with Answers

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ไธ‹ใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžๅญ—ๅน•ใ‚’ใƒ€ใƒ–ใƒซใ‚ฏใƒชใƒƒใ‚ฏใ™ใ‚‹ใจๅ‹•็”ปใ‚’ๅ†็”Ÿใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ็ฟป่จณใ•ใ‚ŒใŸๅญ—ๅน•ใฏๆฉŸๆขฐ็ฟป่จณใงใ™ใ€‚

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How often do you feel stuck and frustrated answering English small talk
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ใ€ŒไปŠๆ—ฅใฏใฉใ†ใงใ™ใ‹?ใ€ใชใฉใฎ ่‹ฑ่ชžใฎไธ–้–“่ฉฑใฎ
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questions like, how's your day going? How was your weekend?
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่ณชๅ•ใซ็ญ”ใˆใ‚‹ใฎใซ่กŒใ่ฉฐใพใ‚Šใ€ใ‚คใƒฉใ‚คใƒฉใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใฉใ‚Œใใ‚‰ใ„ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ‹ ? ้€ฑๆœซใฏใฉใ†ใงใ—ใŸใ‹๏ผŸ
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How was your vacation?
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ไผ‘ๆš‡ใฏใฉใ†ใงใ—ใŸใ‹๏ผŸ
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I know these questions seem so simple and yet you might be
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ่ณชๅ•ใฏ ใจใฆใ‚‚็ฐกๅ˜ใชใ“ใจใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซๆ€ใˆใพใ™ใŒใ€
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thinking Small talk is so uncomfortable,
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ไธ–้–“่ฉฑใฏใจใฆใ‚‚ไธๅฟซใงใ€
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I never know what to say or it's tricky.
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ไฝ•ใ‚’่จ€ใˆใฐใ„ใ„ใฎใ‹ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ€ใพใŸใฏ้›ฃใ—ใ„ใจๆ€ใ‚ใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
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I think I give too many details, or maybe I don't give enough.
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่ฉณ็ดฐใ‚’่ชฌๆ˜Žใ—ใ™ใŽใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ€ ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ„ใฏๅๅˆ†ใซ่ชฌๆ˜Žใ—ใฆใ„ใชใ„ใฎใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
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Maybe you're even feeling a bit embarrassed right now that it's so challenging
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ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใŸใ‚‰ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ ไปŠใ€
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to answer these questions, but the truth is,
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ่ณชๅ•ใซ็ญ”ใˆใ‚‹ใฎใŒใจใฆใ‚‚้›ฃใ—ใใฆใ€ๅฐ‘ใ—ๆฅใšใ‹ใ—ใ„ใจใ•ใˆๆ„Ÿใ˜ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใŒใ€ ๅฎŸ้š›ใฎใจใ“ใ‚ใ€
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small talk in English is tricky if you don't
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่‹ฑ่ชžใงใฎไธ–้–“่ฉฑใฏใ€
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know its purpose and you don't know some of the basic formulas
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ใใฎ็›ฎ็š„ใ‚„ ๅŸบๆœฌ็š„ใชๅ…ฌๅผใ‚’็Ÿฅใ‚‰ใชใ„ใจ้›ฃใ—ใ„ใฎใงใ™ใ€‚
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English speakers use when giving answers to these common small talk
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่‹ฑ่ชž่ฉฑ่€…ใฏใ€ ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใชไธ–้–“่ฉฑใฎ
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questions.
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่ณชๅ•ใซ็ญ”ใˆใ‚‹ใจใใซไฝฟ็”จใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
00:53
Small talk is an essential skill in English.
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ไธ–้–“่ฉฑใฏ ่‹ฑ่ชžใฎๅฟ…้ ˆใ‚นใ‚ญใƒซใงใ™ใ€‚
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In fact,
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this is one of the reasons why we dedicate time to perfecting small talk.
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ใ“ใ‚ŒใŒใ€็งใŸใกใŒ ้›‘่ซ‡ใ‚’ๅฎŒ็’งใซใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซๆ™‚้–“ใ‚’ๅ‰ฒใ็†็”ฑใฎ 1 ใคใงใ™ใ€‚
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In my Fluency School course.
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็งใฎFluency Schoolใ‚ณใƒผใ‚นใงใ€‚ ็งใŒ
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I want to share with you some of the same strategies I use with my students.
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็”Ÿๅพ’ใŸใกใซไฝฟใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใจๅŒใ˜ๆˆฆ็•ฅใ‚’ใ„ใใคใ‹ๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ—ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
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So today we're going to go over five of the most common small talk questions in
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ใใ“ใงไปŠๆ—ฅใฏใ€่‹ฑ่ชž ใงใฎ้›‘่ซ‡ใงๆœ€ใ‚‚ไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใช่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ 5 ใคๅ–ใ‚ŠไธŠใ’ใพใ™
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English, the kinds of questions you're going to hear every day,
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ใ€‚ ๆฏŽๆ—ฅ่žใ‹ใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใช่ณชๅ•ใงใ™ใ€‚
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and with each question I'll highlight a variety of answers,
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ใใ‚Œใžใ‚Œใฎ่ณชๅ•ใงใ€ใ•ใพใ–ใพใช ็ญ”ใˆใ€
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the kind of answers I would give to these small talk questions.
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็ญ”ใˆใฎ็จฎ้กžใ‚’ๅผท่ชฟใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ็งใฏ ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎไธ–้–“่ฉฑใฎ่ณชๅ•ใซ็ญ”ใˆใพใ™ใ€‚
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We'll talk about why some of these answers are successful and how we can
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ ๅ›ž็ญ”ใฎไธ€้ƒจใŒๆˆๅŠŸใ™ใ‚‹็†็”ฑใจใ€ใ‚‚ใ†ๅฐ‘ใ—่ฉณใ—ใ่ชฌๆ˜Žใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹
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improve some of these answers because they need just a little bit more detail.
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ใŸใ‚ใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎๅ›ž็ญ”ใฎไธ€้ƒจใ‚’ใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซๆ”นๅ–„ใงใใ‚‹ใ‹ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ชฌๆ˜Žใ—ใพใ™ ใ€‚
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And as we go through these questions,
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ๆคœ่จŽใ™ใ‚‹้š›ใซใ€
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I'll also share with you little tips along the way that you can use with any
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small talk question in English.
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่‹ฑ่ชžใงใฎ้›‘่ซ‡ใฎ่ณชๅ•ใซไฝฟ็”จใงใใ‚‹ๅฐใ•ใชใƒ’ใƒณใƒˆใ‚‚็ดนไป‹ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
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็งใŒใ‚„ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ™ในใฆใฎใ“ใจใฏใ€
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่‹ฑ่ชžใงใฎ็”Ÿๆดปใ‚„ไป•ไบ‹ใซ่‡ชไฟกใ‚’ๆŒใฆใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใ‚ตใƒใƒผใƒˆใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’็›ฎ็š„ใจใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ่‹ฑ่ชžใธใฎ่‡ชไฟกใจๆตๆšขใ•ใฎๆง‹็ฏ‰ใซ้–ขใ™ใ‚‹็ง
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before we get to the first of five small talk questions,
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้›‘่ซ‡ใซ้–ขใ™ใ‚‹ 5 ใคใฎ่ณชๅ•ใฎใ†ใกใฎๆœ€ๅˆใฎ่ณชๅ•ใซ้€ฒใ‚€ๅ‰ใซใ€
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I want to take a step back and talk a little bit about the overall purpose of
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ไธ€ๆญฉไธ‹ใŒใฃใฆ้›‘่ซ‡ใฎ ๅ…จไฝ“็š„ใช็›ฎ็š„
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small talk, what small talk is and isn't.
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ใ€้›‘่ซ‡ใจใฏไฝ•ใ‹ใ€ใใ†ใงใชใ„ใ‚‚ใฎใซใคใ„ใฆๅฐ‘ใ—ใŠ่ฉฑใ—ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
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The reason this is important is when you understand its purpose,
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ใ“ใ‚ŒใŒ้‡่ฆใช็†็”ฑใฏใ€ ใใฎ็›ฎ็š„ใ‚’็†่งฃใ™ใ‚‹ใจใ€ไธ–้–“่ฉฑใฎไผš่ฉฑใซ
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it's much easier to engage in small talk conversation. In fact,
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ๅ‚ๅŠ ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใŒใฏใ‚‹ใ‹ใซ็ฐกๅ˜ใซใชใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใงใ™ ใ€‚ ๅฎŸ้š›ใ€
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some of this information might even make you feel a bit relieved.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎๆƒ…ๅ ฑใซใ‚ˆใฃใฆใฏใ€ ๅฐ‘ใ—ๅฎ‰ๅฟƒใงใใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
02:51
So first small talk is a form of polite
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ๆœ€ๅˆใฎไธ–้–“่ฉฑใฏไธๅฏงใชไผš่ฉฑใฎไธ€็จฎใงใ™
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conversation. It's part of our politeness culture in English.
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ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ ่‹ฑ่ชžใซใŠใ‘ใ‚‹็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ•ใฎๆ–‡ๅŒ–ใฎไธ€้ƒจใงใ™ใ€‚
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I like to say that small talk is a way to recognize others'
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็งใฏใ€้›‘่ซ‡ใฏ ไป–ไบบใฎ
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humanity or to recognize that there are other humans in the room with you.
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ไบบ้–“ๆ€งใ‚’่ช่ญ˜ใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ€ๅŒใ˜ ้ƒจๅฑ‹ใซไป–ใฎไบบ้–“ใŒใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’่ช่ญ˜ใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใจ่จ€ใ„ใŸใ„ใฎใงใ™ใ€‚ ็ฌฌ
03:10
Second, small talk is a form of quick conversation.
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ไบŒใซใ€ใ‚นใƒขใƒผใƒซใƒˆใƒผใ‚ฏใฏ ็ฐกๅ˜ใชไผš่ฉฑใฎไธ€็จฎใงใ™ใ€‚
03:15
It's back and forth. What that means is you say a little,
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ใใ‚Œใฏ่กŒใฃใŸใ‚ŠๆฅใŸใ‚Šใงใ™ใ€‚ ใใ‚ŒใŒ ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใฏใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๅฐ‘ใ—่จ€ใ„ใ€
03:19
I say a little, you say a little, I say a little.
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็งใŒๅฐ‘ใ—่จ€ใ„ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ ๅฐ‘ใ—่จ€ใ„ใ€็งใŒๅฐ‘ใ—่จ€ใ†ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ“ใ“ใซใฏ
03:23
There are no lengthy stories or overly complex answers
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้•ทใ„่ฉฑ ใ‚„้Žๅบฆใซ่ค‡้›‘ใช็ญ”ใˆใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“
03:28
here. It's just quick exchange, quick conversation,
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ใ€‚ ็ฐกๅ˜ใช ไบคๆ›ใ€็ฐกๅ˜ใชไผš่ฉฑใ€
03:33
and everyone's involved. Lastly,
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ใใ—ใฆๅ…จๅ“กใŒๅ‚ๅŠ ใ™ใ‚‹ใ ใ‘ใงใ™ใ€‚ ๆœ€ๅพŒใซใ€
03:36
small talk is a way to make an initial connection with someone.
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้›‘่ซ‡ใฏ ่ชฐใ‹ใจๆœ€ๅˆใฎใคใชใŒใ‚Šใ‚’ไฝœใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ™ใ€‚ ๆœ€ๅˆใซๅŸบๆœฌ็š„ใชใคใชใŒใ‚Šใ‚’่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใ€
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It is not possible to have strong relationships with
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coworkers, potential clients, neighbors,
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ๅŒๅƒšใ€ๆฝœๅœจ็š„ใช้กงๅฎขใ€่ฟ‘ๆ‰€ใฎไบบใ€
03:50
or future friends without first finding some basic
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ๅฐ†ๆฅใฎๅ‹ไบบใจๅผทใ„้–ขไฟ‚ใ‚’็ฏ‰ใใ“ใจใฏไธๅฏ่ƒฝใงใ‚ใ‚Š
03:55
connections, and we do that through small talk.
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ใ€็งใŸใกใฏ ใใ‚Œใ‚’้›‘่ซ‡ใ‚’้€šใ˜ใฆ่กŒใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
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Small talk is the gateway to meaningful conversations
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ไธ–้–“่ฉฑใฏใ€ ๆœ‰ๆ„็พฉใชไผš่ฉฑ
04:04
and deeper connections. With all of that in mind,
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ใจใ‚ˆใ‚Šๆทฑใ„ใคใชใŒใ‚Šใธใฎๅ…ฅใ‚Šๅฃใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใ™ในใฆใ‚’ๅฟต้ ญใซ็ฝฎใ„ใฆใ€
04:08
here's what small talk isn't. It isn't profound,
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ไธ–้–“่ฉฑใŒใใ†ใงใฏ ใชใ„ใ‚‚ใฎใฏๆฌกใฎใจใŠใ‚Šใงใ™ใ€‚ ๆทฑใ„ใ€
04:13
lengthy or complicated conversation.
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้•ทใ„ใ€่ค‡้›‘ใชไผš่ฉฑใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ้ซ˜ๅบฆ
04:17
You don't need to worry about using overly advanced vocabulary or
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ใ™ใŽใ‚‹่ชžๅฝ™ใ‚„
04:21
complex grammar structures. Small talk is simple,
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่ค‡้›‘ใชๆ–‡ๆณ•ๆง‹้€ ใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅฟƒ้…ใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ไธ–้–“่ฉฑใฏใ‚ทใƒณใƒ—ใƒซใง
04:26
quick and easy. I hope you're feeling a little bit relieved.
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ๆ—ฉใใฆ็ฐกๅ˜ใงใ™ใ€‚ ๅฐ‘ใ—ใงใ‚‚ๅฎ‰ๅฟƒใ—ใฆใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใ‚Œใฐๅนธใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
04:31
So now let's get to the five questions we're going to discuss today. First,
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ใใ‚Œใงใฏใ€ไปŠๆ—ฅๅ–ใ‚ŠไธŠใ’ใ‚‹ 5 ใคใฎ่ณชๅ•ใซ็งปใ‚Šใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ† ใ€‚ ใพใšใ€่ชฟๅญใฏ
04:36
how are you or how's your day going? How was your weekend?
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ใฉใ†ใงใ™ใ‹ใ€ใพใŸใฏไธ€ๆ—ฅใฏใฉใ†ใงใ™ใ‹ ๏ผŸ ้€ฑๆœซใฏใฉใ†ใงใ—ใŸใ‹๏ผŸ
04:40
How was your vacation?
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ไผ‘ๆš‡ใฏใฉใ†ใงใ—ใŸใ‹๏ผŸ
04:42
What do you do in your free time and what are your plans for this weekend?
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่‡ช็”ฑๆ™‚้–“ใซใฏไฝ•ใ‚’ใ—ใพใ™ใ‹? ไปŠ้€ฑๆœซใฎไบˆๅฎšใฏไฝ•ใงใ™ใ‹? ๅ…ˆใปใฉใ‚‚
04:46
As I said,
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่จ€ใ„ใพใ—ใŸใŒใ€
04:47
these are probably the five most common small talk
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฏใŠใใ‚‰ใใ“ใ‚Œใพใงใง ๆœ€ใ‚‚ไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใชไธ–้–“่ฉฑใฎ
04:52
questions ever. So question number one,
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่ณชๅ•ใฎ 5 ใคใงใ™ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใงใ€่ณชๅ•ใใฎ1ใ€่ชฟๅญใฏ
04:55
how are you or how's your day going? To be honest with you,
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ใฉใ†ใงใ™ใ‹ใ€ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ„ใฏไธ€ๆ—ฅใฏใฉใ†ใงใ™ใ‹ ๏ผŸ ๆญฃ็›ดใซ่จ€ใ†ใจใ€
04:59
I think this might be the trickiest question on the list and here's why.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ ใƒชใ‚นใƒˆใฎไธญใงๆœ€ใ‚‚้›ฃใ—ใ„่ณชๅ•ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ใใฎ็†็”ฑใฏๆฌกใฎใจใŠใ‚Šใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ€Œ
05:04
The question,
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05:04
how are you has two purposes in English or can be used in
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How are youใ€ใจใ„ใ†่ณชๅ•ใซใฏใ€่‹ฑ่ชžใงใฏ 2 ใคใฎ็›ฎ็š„ใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ€ ใพใŸใฏ
05:09
two very different circumstances,
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2 ใคใฎ้žๅธธใซ็•ฐใชใ‚‹็Šถๆณใงไฝฟ็”จใงใใ‚‹
05:11
so let's talk a little bit about each one first.
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ใŸใ‚ใ€ๆœ€ๅˆใซใใ‚Œใžใ‚Œใซใคใ„ใฆๅฐ‘ใ—่ชฌๆ˜Žใ—ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ† ใ€‚ ่ฟ‘ๆ‰€ใ‚’
05:15
Imagine you're taking a walk in your neighborhood and you see that you're going
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ๆ•ฃๆญฉใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใซใ€
05:19
to pass by one of your neighbors.
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่ฟ‘ๆ‰€ใฎไบบใจใ™ใ‚Œ้•ใ†ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆƒณๅƒใ—ใฆใฟใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
05:22
It's clear that both of you are out for some morning exercise.
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ใŠไบŒไบบใจใ‚‚ ๆœใฎ้‹ๅ‹•ใซๅ‡บใ‹ใ‘ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใฏๆ˜Žใ‚‰ใ‹ใงใ™ใ€‚
05:26
You're not gonna stop and talk to each other, so what you're likely to hear is,
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็ซ‹ใกๆญขใพใฃใฆใŠไบ’ใ„ใซ่ฉฑใ™ใคใ‚‚ใ‚Šใฏใชใ„ ใฎใงใ€ใŠใใ‚‰ใ่žใ‹ใ‚Œใ‚‹ใฎใฏใ€Œ
05:31
hi, how are you? Or hey, how's your day going? Hey, how's your morning going?
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ใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏใ€่ชฟๅญใฏใฉใ†ใงใ™ใ‹?ใ€ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ใพใŸใฏใ€ไปŠๆ—ฅใฏใฉใ†ใงใ™ใ‹ ๏ผŸ ใ‚„ใ‚ใ€ๆœใฏใฉใ†ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
05:37
A response is going to be fine. Thanks you. The other person's going to say,
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่ฟ”ไบ‹ใฏใใกใ‚“ใจๅ‡บใพใ™ใ‚ˆใ€‚ ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ”ใ–ใ„ ใพใ™ใ€‚ ็›ธๆ‰‹ใฏใ€Œ
05:42
great, thanks. Have a good day. In that context,
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ใ™ใ”ใ„ใญใ€ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ่‰ฏใ„ไธ€ๆ—ฅใ‚’ใ€‚ ใใฎๆ–‡่„ˆใงใฏใ€ใ€Œ่ชฟๅญใฏ
05:45
how are you or how's your day going is simply a long greeting.
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ใฉใ†ใงใ™ใ‹ใ€ใ€ŒไปŠๆ—ฅใฎ่ชฟๅญใฏใฉใ†ใงใ™ใ‹ใ€ใฏ ๅ˜ใซ้•ทใ„ๆŒจๆ‹ถใซใ™ใŽใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
05:50
It is a long form of hello and there's no expectation
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ้•ทใ„ๅฝขๅผใฎใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏใงใ‚ใ‚Š ใ€ใใ‚Œ
05:55
of any more information. However,
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ไปฅไธŠใฎๆƒ…ๅ ฑใฏๆœŸๅพ…ใงใใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใŸใ ใ—ใ€
05:59
let's say you are in a Zoom meeting.
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Zoom ไผš่ญฐใซๅ‚ๅŠ ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
06:02
It's just you and a coworker,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใจๅŒๅƒšใ ใ‘ใงใ™ใ€‚
06:04
you're waiting for some of your colleagues to arrive,
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ๅŒๅƒšใŒๅˆฐ็€ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๅพ…ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใ€
06:06
or you're waiting for the meeting to start,
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ใพใŸใฏ ไผš่ญฐใŒๅง‹ใพใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๅพ…ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใ€
06:09
and it's clear that you have a few minutes together in that context
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ใใฎ็Šถๆณใงๆ•ฐๅˆ†้–“ไธ€็ท’ใซใ„ใฆใ€
06:14
simply saying, fine, thanks, and you isn't enough.
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ๅ˜ใซใ€Œๅˆ†ใ‹ใฃใŸใ€ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใฎใฏๆ˜Žใ‚‰ใ‹ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ‚ใชใŸใซใฏๅๅˆ†ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใกใ‚‡ใฃใจ
06:20
Imagine for a moment it's you and I in a meeting and you say,
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ๆƒณๅƒใ—ใฆใฟใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸ ใจ็งใŒไผš่ญฐใซๅ‚ๅŠ ใ—ใฆใ„ใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ€Œ
06:25
Annemarie, how's your day going? Fine, thanks. Now what?
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ใ‚ขใƒณใƒใƒžใƒชใƒผใ€ไปŠๆ—ฅใฎ ่ชฟๅญใฏใฉใ†๏ผŸใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใจใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅ…ƒๆฐ—ใงใ™ใ€ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใง๏ผŸ
06:30
Now it's just this weird awkward silence.
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ไปŠใฏใŸใ ๅฅ‡ๅฆ™ใงๆฐ—ใพใšใ„ๆฒˆ้ป™ใ ใ‘ใ ใ€‚
06:33
We're looking at each other and you have to do the work to find something
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็งใŸใกใฏใŠไบ’ใ„ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใคใ‚ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€ใใ—ใฆใ‚ใชใŸใฏ ไฝ•ใ‹
06:38
else to say, I did not make it very easy for you.
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ไป–ใซ่จ€ใ†ในใใ“ใจใ‚’่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซไป•ไบ‹ใ‚’ใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€็งใฏ ใ‚ใชใŸใฎใŸใ‚ใซใใ‚Œใ‚’ใ‚ใพใ‚Š็ฐกๅ˜ใซใ—ใพใ›ใ‚“ใงใ—ใŸใ€‚
06:42
I could add on a little bit and say, fine, thanks, and you,
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ๅฐ‘ใ—ไป˜ใ‘ๅŠ ใˆใฆใ€ใ€Œ ๅˆ†ใ‹ใฃใŸใ€ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ€ใใ—ใฆใ‚ใชใŸใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใจใ€
06:47
and then you could say, great, thanks. And again,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ€Œ ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ใ€ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใพใŸใ€
06:51
we're kind of at the same point. It's just this weird awkward silence.
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็งใŸใกใฏใ‚ใ‚‹ๆ„ๅ‘ณๅŒใ˜ๅœฐ็‚นใซใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใŸใ ใ€ใ“ใฎๅฅ‡ๅฆ™ใงๆฐ—ใพใšใ„ๆฒˆ้ป™ใงใ™ใ€‚
06:56
So here's what we can do instead, rather than simply saying, fine, thanks,
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ใใ“ใงใ€ไปฃใ‚ใ‚Šใซ็งใŸใกใŒใงใใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏๆฌกใฎใจใŠใ‚Šใงใ™ใ€‚ ๅ˜็ด”ใซใ€Œใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ—ใŸใ€ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ€ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใฎใงใฏใชใ
07:01
and you,
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ใ€ไปŠๆ—ฅใฎไธ€ๆ—ฅใซใคใ„ใฆๅฐ‘ใ—ๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ™ใ‚‹
07:02
we can add on one simple detail that
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็ฐกๅ˜ใช่ฉณ็ดฐใ‚’ 1 ใค่ฟฝๅŠ ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™
07:07
shares a little bit about our day.
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07:10
Why are we doing fine or what's happening in our life today? What's going on?
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ใชใœ็งใŸใกใฏใ†ใพใใ„ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใ‹ใ€ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ„ใฏ ไปŠๆ—ฅ็งใŸใกใฎ็”Ÿๆดปใซไฝ•ใŒ่ตทใ“ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใ‹? ใฉใ†ใ—ใŸใฎ๏ผŸ
07:15
Let me give you an example. If you say to me, Annemarie, how's your day going?
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ไพ‹ใ‚’ๆŒ™ใ’ใฆใฟใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ใ‚ขใƒณใƒใƒžใƒชใƒผใ€ไปŠๆ—ฅใฏใฉใ†ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
07:21
I could say I'm hanging in there. It's been a bit of a busy week.
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็งใฏใใ“ใง้ ‘ๅผตใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจ่จ€ใˆใ‚‹ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ใกใ‚‡ใฃใจๅฟ™ใ—ใ„ไธ€้€ฑ้–“ใงใ—ใŸใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใฏ
07:26
That's it, but now let's think about that.
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ใใ‚Œใงใงใ™ใŒใ€ไปŠๅบฆใฏใใ‚Œใซใคใ„ใฆ่€ƒใˆใฆใฟใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
07:30
It's been a bit of a busy week. There are some questions you could ask me.
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ใกใ‚‡ใฃใจๅฟ™ใ—ใ„ไธ€้€ฑ้–“ใงใ—ใŸใ€‚ ใ„ใใคใ‹่ณชๅ•ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
07:35
Why has it been a busy week? Do you have a big deadline coming up?
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ใชใœๅฟ™ใ—ใ„ไธ€้€ฑ้–“ใ ใฃใŸใฎใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ‹๏ผŸ ๅคงใใช็ท ใ‚ๅˆ‡ใ‚ŠใŒ่ฟซใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
07:39
What's going on at work? What project are you working on?
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่ทๅ ดใงไฝ•ใŒ่ตทใ“ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใช ใƒ—ใƒญใ‚ธใ‚งใ‚ฏใƒˆใซๅ–ใ‚Š็ต„ใ‚“ใงใ„ใพใ™ใ‹?
07:42
There's suddenly so many questions that could be asked,
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็ช็„ถใ€ใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใฎ ่ณชๅ•ใŒๅ‡บใฆใใฆใ€
07:45
or perhaps you're having a busy week as well,
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ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ„ใฏใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใ‚‚ๅฟ™ใ—ใ„ไธ€้€ฑ้–“ใ‚’้Žใ”ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใชใ„ใฎใงใ€
07:49
and so you could comment on what I've said and you could say, oh my gosh, yeah,
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็งใฎ ่จ€ใฃใŸใ“ใจใซใ‚ณใƒกใƒณใƒˆใ—ใฆใ€ใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ใ€ใชใ‚“ใฆใ“ใจใ ใ€ใใ†ใ€
07:54
I am having a busy week as well.
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07:55
We've got this huge project that we're working on.
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07:59
Suddenly it's so much easier to have that conversation
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08:04
just because we added one simple detail.
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็ฐกๅ˜ใช่ฉณ็ดฐใ‚’ 1 ใค่ฟฝๅŠ ใ—ใŸใ ใ‘ใงใ€็ช็„ถใ€ไผš่ฉฑใŒใจใฆใ‚‚็ฐกๅ˜ใซใชใ‚Šใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
08:08
It's not overly complex, it's not a long story. It's one detail.
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ใใ‚Œใปใฉ่ค‡้›‘ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ—ใ€ ้•ทใ„่ฉฑใงใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใฏไธ€ใคใฎ่ฉณ็ดฐใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ“ใฎไพ‹ใ‚’
08:13
Let me give you a few more examples of this. If someone says,
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ใ•ใ‚‰ใซใ„ใใคใ‹ๆŒ™ใ’ใฆใฟใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ† ใ€‚ ่ชฐใ‹ใŒใ€Œ
08:17
how's your day going? Oh my gosh, it's great.
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ไปŠๆ—ฅใฏใฉใ†ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€ใจ่จ€ใฃใŸใ‚‰ใ€ ใ„ใ‚„ใ‚ใ€ใ™ใ”ใ„ใงใ™ใญใ€‚
08:20
I'm finally moved into my new apartment and I have some free time back in my
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ใ‚ˆใ†ใ‚„ใๆ–ฐใ—ใ„ใ‚ขใƒ‘ใƒผใƒˆใซๅผ•ใฃ่ถŠใ—ใฆใใฆใ€ ่‡ช็”ฑใชๆ™‚้–“ใŒๆˆปใฃใฆใใพใ—ใŸ
08:25
life. That's it. From there,
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ใ€‚ ใใ‚ŒใงใŠใ—ใพใ„ใ€‚ ใใ“ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€
08:27
there are a variety of questions we could ask. Oh,
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ใ•ใพใ–ใพใช ่ณชๅ•ใŒ่€ƒใˆใ‚‰ใ‚Œใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใ‚ใ€
08:31
I didn't know you were moving into a new apartment. Where is it?
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๆ–ฐใ—ใ„ใ‚ขใƒ‘ใƒผใƒˆใซๅผ•ใฃ่ถŠใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใฏ็Ÿฅใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใงใ—ใŸ ใ€‚ ใฉใ“ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
08:34
Do you like your new place? We can go on and on.
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ๆ–ฐใ—ใ„ๅ ดๆ‰€ใฏๆฐ—ใซๅ…ฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹ ๏ผŸ ใšใฃใจ็ถšใ‘ใฆใ„ใ‘ใพใ™ใ€‚
08:38
Another example, answer, I'm hanging in there.
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ใ‚‚ใ†ไธ€ใคใฎไพ‹ใ€็ญ”ใˆใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€ ็งใฏใใ“ใง้ ‘ๅผตใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ๆฅ้€ฑใฎไผ‘ๆš‡ใซๅ‘ใ‘ใฆๆบ–ๅ‚™ใงใใ‚‹
08:42
I've got a lot to do at work so that I can be ready to go on vacation next week.
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ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€ไป•ไบ‹ใงใ‚„ใ‚‹ในใใ“ใจใŒใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ ใ€‚
08:47
Again,
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08:47
there are quite a few questions we can ask about that topic and here's a final
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็นฐใ‚Š่ฟ”ใ—ใพใ™ใŒใ€
ใ“ใฎใƒˆใƒ”ใƒƒใ‚ฏใซ้–ขใ—ใฆๅฐ‹ใญใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใ‚‹่ณชๅ•ใฏใ‹ใชใ‚ŠใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ใ“ใ“ใซๆœ€ๅพŒใฎ
08:52
example, but this time I have a challenge for you.
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ไพ‹ใ‚’็คบใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ไปŠๅ›žใฏ็งใŒ ใ‚ใชใŸใซๆŒ‘ๆˆฆใ—ใŸใ„ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ๆ–‡
08:55
I'm going to give you the beginning of the sentence and I want you to end it
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ใฎๅ†’้ ญใ‚’่ฟฐในใฆใ€ๆœ€ๅพŒใซ
08:58
with some kind of detail. The beginning is I'm swamped.
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09:04
To be swamped means to be overwhelmed with tasks,
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ๅฟ™ๆฎบใ•ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใฏใ€ ใ‚ฟใ‚นใ‚ฏใซๅœงๅ€’ใ•ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
09:09
so how could you finish that? I'm swamped.
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ใงใฏใ€ใฉใ†ใ™ใ‚Œใฐใใ‚Œใ‚’็ต‚ใ‚ใ‚‰ใ›ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใ‚‹ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ‹? ่กŒใ่ฉฐใพใฃใฆใ—ใพใฃใŸใ€‚
09:12
One option might be I'm swamped at work this week we have a deadline
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้ธๆŠž่‚ขใฎ 1 ใคใฏใ€ ไปŠ้€ฑใฏ
09:17
coming up on Friday or I'm swamped this week.
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้‡‘ๆ›œๆ—ฅใซ็ท ใ‚ๅˆ‡ใ‚ŠใŒ่ฟซใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใงไป•ไบ‹ใซ่ฟฝใ‚ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ€ใพใŸใฏ ไปŠ้€ฑใฏๅฟ™ๆฎบใ•ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ๆ–ฐใ—ใ„ใ‚ขใƒ‘ใƒผใƒˆใซๅผ•ใฃ่ถŠใ™ใŸใ‚ใซใ€ๅฎถใฎ
09:22
I have so much to do to finish packing up my house so that I can move into my
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่ท้€ ใ‚Šใ‚’็ต‚ใ‚ใ‚‰ใ›ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซใ‚„ใ‚‹ในใใ“ใจใŒใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™
09:26
new apartment.
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ใ€‚ ๆฌกใฎ่ณชๅ•ใ‚’
09:27
You're going to see this strategy used again and again as we continue with the
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09:31
next questions,
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09:32
adding one or two details can help you have easy,
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ใพใŸใฏ 2 ใคใฎ่ฉณ็ดฐใ‚’่ฟฝๅŠ ใ™ใ‚‹ใจใ€่‹ฑ่ชžใงใฎ
09:37
successful small talk conversations in English. So question number two,
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09:42
how was your weekend? The most common question on Monday mornings.
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้€ฑๆœซใฏใฉใ†ใงใ—ใŸใ‹๏ผŸ ๆœˆๆ›œใฎๆœใซใ‚ˆใใ‚ใ‚‹่ณชๅ•ใ€‚
09:47
Here are some possible answers. I took it easy.
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่€ƒใˆใ‚‰ใ‚Œใ‚‹็ญ”ใˆใ‚’ใ„ใใคใ‹ๆŒ™ใ’ใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใ‚†ใฃใใ‚Šใ—ใฆใ„ใใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
09:51
I got caught up on some reading. If you take it easy,
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ใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎ่ชญๆ›ธใซๅคขไธญใซใชใ‚Šใพใ—ใŸ ใ€‚ ใ‚†ใฃใใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใฏใ€
09:55
it means that you relax. You didn't do much. A second option,
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10:00
it was a blast. We went to the Beyonce concert. Third,
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ใจใฆใ‚‚ๆฅฝใ—ใ‹ใฃใŸใงใ™ใ€‚ ็งใŸใกใฏใƒ“ใƒจใƒณใ‚ปใฎใ‚ณใƒณใ‚ตใƒผใƒˆใซ่กŒใใพใ—ใŸ ใ€‚ ็ฌฌไธ‰ใซใ€
10:05
it was a bit of a whirlwind.
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ใกใ‚‡ใฃใจใ—ใŸๆ—‹้ขจใงใ—ใŸใ€‚
10:07
We had so much scheduled with friends and with the kids.
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็งใŸใกใฏๅ‹้”ใ‚„ๅญไพ›ใŸใกใจใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใฎไบˆๅฎšใ‚’็ซ‹ใฆใฆใ„ใพใ—ใŸ ใ€‚
10:10
If you describe something as a whirlwind,
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10:13
it means that it was busy and fast-paced.
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ใใ‚Œใฏๅฟ™ใ—ใใฆใƒšใƒผใ‚นใŒ้€Ÿใ‹ใฃใŸใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
10:16
Take a look at those first three examples. Each one gives a specific detail,
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ๆœ€ๅˆใฎ 3 ใคใฎไพ‹ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใžใ‚ŒใŒๅ…ทไฝ“็š„ใช่ฉณ็ดฐใ‚’็คบใ—ใฆใŠใ‚Šใ€
10:22
and because you have that detail,
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ใใฎ่ฉณ็ดฐใŒใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใ€
10:24
it's so much easier to think of the next question to ask.
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ๆฌกใฎ่ณชๅ•ใ‚’่€ƒใˆใ‚‹ใฎใŒ้žๅธธใซ็ฐกๅ˜ใซใชใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
10:28
We just have to ask a simple follow-up question or perhaps you're in a similar
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็ฐกๅ˜ใชใƒ•ใ‚ฉใƒญใƒผใ‚ขใƒƒใƒ—ใฎ่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ ใ‘ใงๆธˆใฟใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ„ใฏใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใ‚‚ๅŒใ˜ใ‚ˆใ†ใช็Šถๆณใซใ‚ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ€
10:33
circumstance so you can comment on what was said and share your story
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่ฉฑใ•ใ‚ŒใŸๅ†…ๅฎนใซใคใ„ใฆใ‚ณใƒกใƒณใƒˆใ—ใฆใ€ใ‚‚ใ†ไธ€ๅบฆใ‚ใชใŸใฎ่ฉฑใ‚’ๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™
10:38
once more. I've got a challenge for you.
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ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใซๆŒ‘ๆˆฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
10:40
I'm gonna share the beginning of a fourth option and I want you to finish it.
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4 ็•ช็›ฎใฎใ‚ชใƒ—ใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใฎ้–‹ๅง‹้ƒจๅˆ†ใ‚’ๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ—ใพใ™ใฎใงใ€ๆœ€ๅพŒใพใง ็ต‚ใ‚ใ‚‰ใ›ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
10:45
It was nothing out of the ordinary.
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10:48
What this means is it was nothing special.
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ใ“ใ‚ŒใŒๆ„ๅ‘ณใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใฏใ€็‰นๅˆฅใชใ“ใจใฏไฝ•ใ‚‚ใชใ‹ใฃใŸใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
10:51
It was pretty normal or very typical.
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ใใ‚Œใฏใ”ใๆ™ฎ้€šใฎใ€ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ„ใฏ้žๅธธใซๅ…ธๅž‹็š„ใชใ‚‚ใฎใงใ—ใŸใ€‚ ใŸใฃใŸ 1 ใคใฎ็ฐกๅ˜ใช่ฉณ็ดฐใง
10:54
How might you finish that with one simple detail?
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ใใ‚Œใ‚’็ต‚ใ‚ใ‚‰ใ›ใ‚‹ใซใฏใฉใ†ใ™ใ‚Œใฐใ‚ˆใ„ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ‹ ?
10:58
One that I might consider it was nothing out of the ordinary. Unfortunately,
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ใใ‚Œใฏไฝ•ใ‚‚็ใ—ใ„ใ“ใจใงใฏใชใ‹ใฃใŸใจ็งใฏ่€ƒใˆใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚ ๆฎ‹ๅฟตใชใŒใ‚‰ใ€
11:02
some of my plans got canceled or it was nothing out of the ordinary.
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็งใฎ่จˆ็”ปใฎไธ€้ƒจใŒใ‚ญใƒฃใƒณใ‚ปใƒซใซใชใฃใŸใ‹ใ€ ใใ‚Œใฏ็‰นๅˆฅใชใ“ใจใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใงใ—ใŸใ€‚
11:07
I mostly ran some errands. Before we move on to the third question,
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็งใฏไธปใซใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎ็”จไบ‹ใ‚’ๆธˆใพใ›ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ 3 ็•ช็›ฎใฎ่ณชๅ•ใซ้€ฒใ‚€ๅ‰ใซใ€
11:11
I want to talk for a moment about how to decide which details to share and
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ใฉใฎ่ฉณ็ดฐใ‚’ๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚’ๆฑบๅฎšใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใจใ€
11:16
how many I like to tell my students to give brief or
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็”Ÿๅพ’ใซ็ฐกๆฝ”ใพใŸใฏ
11:21
short, but detailed answers.
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็Ÿญใ„ใŒ่ฉณ็ดฐใชๅ›ž็ญ”ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซๆŒ‡็คบใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใซใคใ„ใฆๅฐ‘ใ—ใŠ่ฉฑใ—ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
11:24
And if you're having a hard time deciding what details to share,
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ใพใŸใ€ ใฉใฎ่ฉณ็ดฐใ‚’ๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚’ๆฑบใ‚ใ‚‹ใฎใŒ้›ฃใ—ใ„ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€
11:30
you can simply take a moment to think.
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ๅฐ‘ใ—่€ƒใˆใฆใฟใ‚‹ใฎใ‚‚ใ„ใ„ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ่ชฐใ‹ใŒ่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ใ—ใŸๅพŒใ€
11:33
Allow yourself just a little bit of time after someone asks a question to ask
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ๅฐ‘ใ—ใ ใ‘ๆ™‚้–“ใ‚’ใจใฃใฆ
11:38
yourself a few questions. For example,
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่‡ชๅˆ†่‡ช่บซใซใ„ใใคใ‹่ณชๅ•ใ—ใฆใฟใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ใŸใจใˆใฐใ€
11:41
if someone asks about your weekend,
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่ชฐใ‹ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใฎ้€ฑๆœซใซใคใ„ใฆๅฐ‹ใญใŸใ‚‰ใ€็งใŒไฝ•ใ‚’ใ—ใŸใฎใ‹
11:43
you might take a moment to think about what did I do?
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ๅฐ‘ใ—่€ƒใˆใฆใฟใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚
11:48
Who did I see? Where did I go? Who did I go with?
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็งใŒ่ฆ‹ใŸใฎใฏ่ชฐใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ็งใฏใฉใ“ใซ่กŒใฃใŸใฎใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ็งใฏ่ชฐใจไธ€็ท’ใซ่กŒใใพใ—ใŸใ‹๏ผŸ
11:53
Was it fun? Would I recommend anything?
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ๆฅฝใ—ใ‹ใฃใŸใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ไฝ•ใ‹ใŠๅ‹งใ‚ใ—ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
11:56
As you ask yourself those questions,
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ่ณชๅ•ใ‚’่‡ชๅ•ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ€
11:58
you can decide which details you're comfortable sharing or might enjoy talking
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ใฉใฎ่ฉณ็ดฐใ‚’ ๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ—ใฆใ‚‚ๅ•้กŒใชใ„ใ‹ใ€ใพใŸใฏๆœ€ใ‚‚่ฉฑใ—ใฆๆฅฝใ—ใ„ใจๆ€ใ‚ใ‚Œใ‚‹่ฉณ็ดฐใ‚’ๆฑบๅฎšใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
12:03
about the most, and that's the detail you share.
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ใใ‚ŒใŒใ€ ๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ™ใ‚‹่ฉณ็ดฐใงใ™ใ€‚ ๆฌกใฎ่ณชๅ•ใงใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’
12:06
We're going to see how to apply this in our next question.
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้ฉ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใ„ใใพใ™ ใ€‚
12:09
How was your vacation? The moment someone asks this,
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ไผ‘ๆš‡ใฏใฉใ†ใงใ—ใŸใ‹๏ผŸ ่ชฐใ‹ใŒใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’ๅฐ‹ใญใŸ็žฌ้–“ใ€
12:13
you can immediately begin thinking about those questions.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ™ใใซ ใใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ่ณชๅ•ใซใคใ„ใฆ่€ƒใˆๅง‹ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
12:17
Where did I go on vacation? What did I do? What was the highlight?
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็งใฏไผ‘ๆš‡ไธญใซใฉใ“ใซ่กŒใใพใ—ใŸใ‹? ็งใŒไฝ•ใ‚’ใ—ใŸใฎ๏ผŸ ใƒใ‚คใƒฉใ‚คใƒˆใฏไฝ•ใงใ—ใŸใ‹๏ผŸ
12:21
Was I disappointed in anything? Who did I go with? How long did I stay?
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็งใฏไฝ•ใ‹ใซๅคฑๆœ›ใ—ใพใ—ใŸใ‹๏ผŸ ็งใฏ่ชฐใจไธ€็ท’ใซ่กŒใใพใ—ใŸใ‹๏ผŸ ใฉใฎใใ‚‰ใ„ๆปžๅœจใ—ใพใ—ใŸใ‹๏ผŸ
12:26
Would I recommend where I went?
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็งใŒ่กŒใฃใŸๅ ดๆ‰€ใ‚’ๅ‹งใ‚ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
12:30
Once you have all those details in your mind,
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ ่ฉณ็ดฐใ‚’ใ™ในใฆ้ ญใฎไธญใซๅ…ฅใ‚ŒใŸใ‚‰ใ€
12:33
you can choose which ones to share,
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ใฉใ‚Œใ‚’ๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚’้ธๆŠžใงใใพใ™
12:35
and I recommend limiting it to just one or two.
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ใŒใ€1 ใคใพใŸใฏ 2 ใคใซ้™ๅฎšใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ใŠๅ‹งใ‚ใ—ใพใ™ ใ€‚
12:39
After you share one or two details,
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1 ใคใพใŸใฏ 2 ใคใฎ่ฉณ็ดฐใ‚’ๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ™ใ‚‹ใจใ€
12:41
it allows the other person to ask questions if they want to or
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็›ธๆ‰‹ใŒ ๅธŒๆœ›ใซๅฟœใ˜ใฆ่ณชๅ•ใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ€
12:47
comment. So again, we're thinking about that quick back and forth.
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ใ‚ณใƒกใƒณใƒˆใ—ใŸใ‚Šใงใใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใชใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ“ใงใ‚‚ใ†ไธ€ๅบฆใ€็งใŸใกใฏ ใใฎ็ด ๆ—ฉใ„ใ‚„ใ‚Šๅ–ใ‚Šใซใคใ„ใฆ่€ƒใˆใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
12:52
I say a little, you say a little, I say a little, you say a little,
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็งใŒๅฐ‘ใ—่จ€ใ„ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใ‚‚ๅฐ‘ใ—่จ€ใ„ใ€ ็งใŒๅฐ‘ใ—่จ€ใ„ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใ‚‚ๅฐ‘ใ—่จ€ใ†ใ ใ‘
12:56
just one or two details helps that conversation along.
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ใงใ€ใปใ‚“ใฎ 1 ใคใพใŸใฏ 2 ใคใฎ่ฉณ็ดฐใŒ ไผš่ฉฑใ‚’้€ฒใ‚ใ‚‹ใฎใซๅฝน็ซ‹ใกใพใ™ใ€‚
13:00
So if someone asks about my vacation, I might say, ah, it was amazing.
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ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰่ชฐใ‹ใŒ็งใฎไผ‘ๆš‡ใซใคใ„ใฆๅฐ‹ใญใŸใ‚‰ใ€ ใ‚ใ‚ใ€ใใ‚Œใฏ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ‹ใฃใŸใจ็ญ”ใˆใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
13:06
I just soaked up the sun and the beach or it was incredible.
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ใŸใ ๅคช้™ฝใจใƒ“ใƒผใƒใ‚’ๆบ€ๅ–ซใ—ใŸใ ใ‘ใงใ™ ใŒใ€ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ‹ใฃใŸใงใ™ใ€‚
13:12
I soaked up the culture. If you soak something up,
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ๆ–‡ๅŒ–ใ‚’ๅธๅŽใ—ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ไฝ•ใ‹ใซๆตธใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใฏใ€
13:16
it means that you spent time indulging in it,
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ใใ‚Œใซๆตธใฃใฆๆ™‚้–“ใ‚’้Žใ”ใ—ใŸใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
13:20
or you could say it was perfectly relaxing.
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ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ„ใฏใ€ ๅฎŒๅ…จใซใƒชใƒฉใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚นใ—ใฆใ„ใŸใจ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
13:23
I just relaxed on the beach.
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ใŸใ ใƒ“ใƒผใƒใงใƒชใƒฉใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚นใ—ใฆใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใงใ™ใ€‚
13:26
It was a long overdue vacation.
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ไน…ใ—ใถใ‚Šใฎไผ‘ๆš‡ใงใ—ใŸใ€‚
13:29
If something is long overdue,
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ไฝ•ใ‹ใŒๅคงๅน…ใซ้…ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€ๆœŸ้™ใŒ
13:31
it means that it's late or past the deadline.
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้…ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใ‚‹ ใ‹ใ€ๆœŸ้™ใ‚’้ŽใŽใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
13:35
And a third option for talking about your vacation. I made the most of it.
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ไผ‘ๆš‡ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ™ใŸใ‚ใฎ 3 ็•ช็›ฎใฎใ‚ชใƒ—ใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใงใ™ ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใ‚’ๆœ€ๅคง้™ใซๆดป็”จใ—ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
13:40
I think I checked off everything on my to-do list of what to see and
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13:45
what to do in Rome. If you make the most of something,
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ใƒญใƒผใƒžใงไฝ•ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆไฝ•ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ€ใ‚„ใ‚‹ในใใ“ใจใƒชใ‚นใƒˆใฎใ™ในใฆใซใƒใ‚งใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚’ๅ…ฅใ‚ŒใŸใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’ๆœ€ๅคง้™ใซๆดป็”จใ™ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€ใใ‚Œใ‚’
13:49
you make sure to fully enjoy it or fully appreciate it.
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ๅๅˆ†ใซๆฅฝใ—ใ‚“ใ ใ‚Šใ€ ๅๅˆ†ใซๆ„Ÿ่ฌใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
13:53
And now question number four, what do you like to do in your free time?
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ใใ‚Œใงใฏ่ณชๅ• 4 ็•ช็›ฎใงใ™ใŒใ€ ่‡ช็”ฑๆ™‚้–“ใซใฏไฝ•ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใŒๅฅฝใใงใ™ใ‹?
13:58
This is a more common alternative to the question, what are your hobbies?
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ€ใ€Œ่ถฃๅ‘ณใฏไฝ•ใงใ™ใ‹?ใ€ใจใ„ใ†่ณชๅ•ใฎใ‚ˆใ‚Šไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใชไปฃๆ›ฟๆ‰‹ๆฎตใงใ™ใ€‚
14:03
Here are four ways you could answer this,
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ใ“ใ‚Œใซ็ญ”ใˆใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใ‚’ 4 ใคๆŒ™ใ’ใพใ™ใ€‚
14:05
and I want you to pay attention to the fact that we have a detail at least one
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14:11
with every example answer on the weekends.
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้€ฑๆœซใซใฏใ€ใ™ในใฆใฎ่งฃ็ญ”ไพ‹ใซๅฐ‘ใชใใจใ‚‚ 1 ใคใฎ่ฉณ็ดฐใŒ่จ˜่ผ‰ใ•ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†ไบ‹ๅฎŸใซๆณจ็›ฎใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ไป•ไบ‹ไธญใฏใ‚ใพใ‚Šๆ™‚้–“ใŒใชใ„ใฎใงใ€
14:14
I love hanging out with my friends and family because I just don't have a lot of
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ๅ‹้”ใ‚„ๅฎถๆ—ใจๅ‡บใ‹ใ‘ใ‚‹ใฎใŒๅคงๅฅฝใใงใ™
14:18
time to do that during the work week. A second option,
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ใ€‚ 2 ็•ช็›ฎใฎ้ธๆŠž่‚ขใฏใ€
14:22
I recently took up rock climbing, so I do it almost every weekend now,
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ๆœ€่ฟ‘ใƒญใƒƒใ‚ฏ ใ‚ฏใƒฉใ‚คใƒŸใƒณใ‚ฐใ‚’ๅง‹ใ‚ใŸ ใฎใงใ€ไปŠใงใฏใปใผๆฏŽ้€ฑๆœซ่กŒใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
14:27
to take up something means to start or adopt a new hobby.
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14:32
Answer number three, I'm really into painting right now.
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็ญ”ใˆ 3 ใงใ™ใ€‚็งใฏ ไปŠใ€็ตตใ‚’ๆใใ“ใจใซใจใฆใ‚‚ใƒใƒžใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
14:36
It makes me feel relaxed and allows me to be a bit creative.
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14:41
If you are really into something,
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14:43
it means that you're passionate or enthusiastic about it.
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ใใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒ ใใ‚Œใซๅฏพใ—ใฆๆƒ…็†ฑ็š„ใพใŸใฏ็†ฑๆ„ใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
14:47
And a fourth option on the weekends,
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้€ฑๆœซใฎ 4 ็•ช็›ฎใฎใ‚ชใƒ—ใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใฏใ€ๆ™‚้–“ใฎๆ„Ÿ่ฆšใ‚’ๅฟ˜ใ‚Œใฆใ—ใพใ†ใฎใงใ€
14:50
I I love to kick back with a good book because I just lose all sense of time
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่‰ฏใ„ๆœฌใ‚’่ชญใฟใชใŒใ‚‰ใƒชใƒฉใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚นใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใŒๅคงๅฅฝใใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ญใƒƒใ‚ฏใƒใƒƒใ‚ฏใจใฏใ€
14:56
to kick back means to sit back, unwind,
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15:00
and just relax or enjoy something.
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15:03
Now I have one more tip for you before we go on to question number five.
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15:07
If you look closely at all of the answers I've provided for you
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ใ™ในใฆใฎๅ›ž็ญ”ใ‚’ใ‚ˆใ่ฆ‹ใฆใฟใ‚‹ใจ
15:12
so far, you'll notice that most of them use words such as and
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ใ€ใปใจใ‚“ใฉ ใฎๅ›ž็ญ”ใงใ€ใ€Œ
15:18
but yet so or because these words are
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ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใใ‚Œใงใ‚‚ใใ†ใ ใ€ใ€Œใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎๅ˜่ชžใฏๆŽฅ็ถš่ฉžใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใ€ใชใฉใฎๅ˜่ชžใŒไฝฟ็”จใ•ใ‚ŒใฆใŠใ‚Š
15:23
conjunctions, and when we use them in a sentence,
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15:25
we have to add a detail.
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่ฉณ็ดฐใ‚’่ฟฝๅŠ ใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
15:28
So when you're engaging in small talk, I want you to remember those words.
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ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ไธ–้–“่ฉฑใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใจใใฏใ€ ใ“ใฎ่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’ๆ€ใ„ๅ‡บใ—ใฆใปใ—ใ„ใฎใงใ™ใ€‚
15:33
Think about using them. If you say something like,
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15:37
I had fun and or I had fun because,
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15:43
or It was a good weekend,
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่‰ฏใ„้€ฑๆœซใ ใฃใŸใ‘ใฉใ€
15:45
but we have to add something, we can't stop there.
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ไฝ•ใ‹ไป˜ใ‘ๅŠ ใˆใชใ„ใจใ„ใ‘ใชใ„ใ€ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ“ใจใ‚’่จ€ใ†ใจใ€ ใใ“ใง็ต‚ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‚ใ‘ใซใฏใ„ใใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
15:50
So using those words is a great push to add a little
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎๅ˜่ชžใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใจใ€ๆ–‡ใซ ๅฐ‘ใ—่ฉณ็ดฐใ‚’่ฟฝๅŠ ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใซ้žๅธธใซๅฝน็ซ‹ใกใพใ™
15:55
detail onto your sentence.
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15:57
Let's take a look at how we do that with question number five.
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่ณชๅ• 5 ใงใใ‚Œใ‚’่กŒใ†ๆ–นๆณ•ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใฟใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
16:00
What do you have planned this weekend?
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ไปŠ้€ฑๆœซใฏไฝ•ใ‚’ไบˆๅฎšใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹? ้‡‘ๆ›œๆ—ฅใฎๅˆๅพŒใซ
16:02
The most common question on Friday afternoon,
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16:06
one possible answer is I'll be catching up on some Z's because
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1 ใคใฏใ€ใ€ŒไปŠ้€ฑใฏๅคœ้…ใใพใงไป•ไบ‹ใ‚’ใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ‹ใฃใŸใฎใงใ€ ใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎ Z ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฟฝใ„ใคใใคใ‚‚ใ‚Šใงใ™ใ€ใงใ™ใ€‚
16:11
I've had to work late a lot of nights this week. Now,
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16:14
two things to catch up on some Z's means to catch up on your sleep typically
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ใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎ Z ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฟฝใ„ใคใใจใ„ใ† 2 ใคใฎใ“ใจใฏใ€ ้€šๅธธใฏ
16:19
because you're sleep deprived. Second, notice the word,
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็ก็œ ไธ่ถณใฎใŸใ‚ใ€็ก็œ ใ‚’ๅ–ใ‚Šๆˆปใ™ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ๆฌกใซใ€ใ“ใฎๅ˜่ชžใซๆณจ็›ฎใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„
16:23
because I could say I think I'll catch up on some Z's.
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ใ€‚Z ใซใคใ„ใฆใฏใ„ใใคใ‹่ฟฝใ„ใคใใจๆ€ใ†ใจ่จ€ใˆใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™ใ€‚
16:28
It's just kind of a boring sentence, and we have that awkward silence,
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ใกใ‚‡ใฃใจ้€€ๅฑˆใชๆ–‡็ซ ใงใ€ ๆฐ—ใพใšใ„ๆฒˆ้ป™ใŒ็ถšใ„ใฆใ„ใพใ™
16:32
but I've added on some detail.
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ใŒใ€ใ‚‚ใ†ๅฐ‘ใ—่ฉณใ—ใๆ›ธใๅŠ ใˆใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ้…ใใพใงไป•ไบ‹ใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ€
16:34
I'm going to catch up on some Z's because I've been working late.
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ใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎ Z ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฟฝใ„ใคใใคใ‚‚ใ‚Šใงใ™ ใ€‚
16:38
Now there's a little bit more to talk about.
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ใ•ใฆใ€ ใ‚‚ใ†ๅฐ‘ใ—่ฉฑใ—ใŸใ„ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
16:40
You might be curious about why I've been working late.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ ็งใŒใชใœ้…ใใพใงๅƒใ„ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใ‹็Ÿฅใ‚ŠใŸใ„ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
16:44
Maybe you've been working late as well,
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ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใŸใ‚‰ใ‚ใชใŸใ‚‚้…ใใพใงๅƒใ„ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใชใ„
16:45
so we have something in common that we can talk about. Here's another example.
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ใฎใงใ€ไฝ•ใ‹ๅ…ฑ้€šใฎ ่ฉฑ้กŒใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ๅˆฅใฎไพ‹ใ‚’็คบใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
16:49
Answer.
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็ญ”ใˆใ€‚ ๆฅ้€ฑ่ช•็”Ÿๆ—ฅใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใ‚’ไธปๅ‚ฌใ™ใ‚‹
16:51
I think I'll be running errands all weekend because I'm hosting a birthday party
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ใฎใงใ€้€ฑๆœซไธญใšใฃใจ็”จไบ‹ใ‚’ใ“ใชใ™ใ“ใจใซใชใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™
16:55
next week. And number three,
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16:58
everyone's talking about this new cafe that just opened up in our neighborhood,
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ๆ–ฐใ—ใ„ใ‚ซใƒ•ใ‚งใซใคใ„ใฆใฟใ‚“ใชใŒ่ฉฑ้กŒใซใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚“ใงใ™
17:02
but I haven't been yet, so I think I'll check it out.
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ใŒใ€็งใฏใพใ ่กŒใฃใŸใ“ใจใŒใชใ„ใฎใงใ€ ่กŒใฃใฆใฟใ‚ˆใ†ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎๅ›ž็ญ”ไพ‹ใฎใ™ในใฆใซใ€ใ€Œ
17:06
Notice that I have the words because,
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17:08
but or so in all of these example answers,
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17:13
doing that helps me add on one little detail,
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17:17
but a very important one also,
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17:21
that expression to checkout means to consider trying something new or
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ใƒใ‚งใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚ขใ‚ฆใƒˆใ™ใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†่กจ็พใฏใ€ ไฝ•ใ‹ๆ–ฐใ—ใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’่ฉฆใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ€ใƒฆใƒผใ‚ถใƒผใฎ
17:25
doing something for the first time to see what it's like.
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ใŸใ‚ใซไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆคœ่จŽใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ‚ŒใŒใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚‚ใฎใชใฎใ‹ๅˆใ‚ใฆ่ฆ‹ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ้›‘่ซ‡ใฎ
17:30
Now that you understand the purpose of small talk and you have some tips or
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็›ฎ็š„ใ‚’็†่งฃใ—ใ€ๆ—ฅๅธธใฎ้›‘่ซ‡ใฎ่ณชๅ•ใซใ†ใพใ็ญ”ใˆใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใฎ ใƒ’ใƒณใƒˆใ‚„ๅ…ฌๅผใ‚’็†่งฃใ—ใŸใฎใงใ€
17:35
formulas that help you create successful answers to
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17:40
everyday small talk questions, I want you to practice.
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17:44
You can use what you've learned here to answer a couple of questions. First,
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ใ“ใ“ใงๅญฆใ‚“ใ ใ“ใจใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใฆใ€ ใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎ่ณชๅ•ใซ็ญ”ใˆใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ใพใšใ€
17:49
I want you to imagine you're outside taking a walk and you see a neighbor,
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17:53
but this time it's a neighbor that you are friendly with and you are going
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ไปŠๅ›žใฏใ€ใใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่ฆชใ—ใใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹้šฃไบบใงใ‚ใ‚Šใ€
17:57
to stop to have a conversation. Your neighbor asks, how was your weekend?
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ไผš่ฉฑใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซ็ซ‹ใกๆญขใพใ‚ใ†ใจใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ้šฃไบบใฏใ€้€ฑๆœซใฏใฉใ†ใงใ—ใŸใ‹?ใจๅฐ‹ใญใพใ™ใ€‚
18:03
What would you say? My second question for you is now,
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18:07
I want you to imagine that you're at a friend's backyard barbecue,
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18:11
or maybe your friend is having a birthday party.
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ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ„ใฏๅ‹ไบบใŒ ่ช•็”Ÿๆ—ฅใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ“ใ‚ใ‚’ๆƒณๅƒใ—ใฆใฟใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
18:13
You meet someone new and in the conversation they ask,
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18:18
so what do you like to do on the weekends? What do you do in your free time?
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้€ฑๆœซใฏไฝ•ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใŒๅฅฝใใงใ™ใ‹?ใ€ใจๅฐ‹ใญใ‚‰ใ‚Œใพใ™ใ€‚ ่‡ช็”ฑๆ™‚้–“ใซใฏไฝ•ใ‚’ใ—ใพใ™ใ‹?
18:22
How would you answer that question?
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ใ‚ใชใŸใชใ‚‰ใใฎ่ณชๅ•ใซใฉใ†็ญ”ใˆใพใ™ใ‹? ไปฅไธ‹ใฎใ‚ณใƒกใƒณใƒˆๆฌ„ใง
18:24
I want you to share your answers with me in the comments below.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ็ญ”ใˆใ‚’็งใจๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ ใ€‚
18:29
Be sure to include at least one little detail and use those conjunction
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ๅฐ‘ใชใใจใ‚‚ 1 ใคใฎๅฐใ•ใช่ฉณ็ดฐใ‚’ๅฟ…ใšๅซใ‚ใฆใ€ ใใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎๆŽฅ็ถš่ฉžใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
18:33
words and but yet so because to help you do that.
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18:38
As always, thank you so much for being here.
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ใ„ใคใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ”ใ–ใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚
18:40
I really appreciate it and I hope that you found this lesson helpful.
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ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซๆ„Ÿ่ฌใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ“ใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใŒใŠๅฝนใซ็ซ‹ใฆใฐๅนธใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
18:44
If you did, I'd love to know and you can tell me in one very simple way,
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18:49
give this lesson a thumbs up here on YouTube, and while you're at it,
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ใ“ใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใซ้ซ˜่ฉ•ไพกใ‚’ไป˜ใ‘ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ใใฎ้–“ใ€
18:53
subscribe to my channel so you never miss one of my Confident English lessons.
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็งใฎใƒใƒฃใƒณใƒใƒซใซ็™ป้Œฒใ—ใฆใ€ ็งใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใ‚’่ฆ‹้€ƒใ•ใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ่‡ชไฟกใฎใ‚ใ‚‹่‹ฑ่ชžใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใ€‚
18:58
Thanks again and I'll see you next time.
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