Better Ways to Say Yes and No in English | Plus 'Maybe' and 'I can't'

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ไธ‹ใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžๅญ—ๅน•ใ‚’ใƒ€ใƒ–ใƒซใ‚ฏใƒชใƒƒใ‚ฏใ™ใ‚‹ใจๅ‹•็”ปใ‚’ๅ†็”Ÿใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ็ฟป่จณใ•ใ‚ŒใŸๅญ—ๅน•ใฏๆฉŸๆขฐ็ฟป่จณใงใ™ใ€‚

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Okay, I want you to imagine you are at the grocery store.
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ใ•ใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ ้ฃŸๆ–™ๅ“ๅบ—ใซใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ“ใ‚ใ‚’ๆƒณๅƒใ—ใฆใฟใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
00:03
You're there just to pick up a few things for the week,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ ใใฎ้€ฑใซๅฟ…่ฆใชใ‚‚ใฎใ‚’ใ„ใใคใ‹่ฒทใ„ใซๆฅใŸใ ใ‘ใงใ€
00:06
and while you're selecting your favorite tea or coffee,
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ใŠๆฐ—ใซๅ…ฅใ‚Šใฎ็ด…่Œถใ‚„ใ‚ณใƒผใƒ’ใƒผใ‚’้ธใ‚“ใงใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ€
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someone comes over and taps you on the shoulder and says, Hey,
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่ชฐใ‹ใŒใ‚„ใฃใฆๆฅใฆใ‚ใชใŸใฎ ่‚ฉใ‚’ใŸใŸใใ€ใ€ŒใŠไผšใ„ใงใใฆ
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it's so good to see you. What are you doing here?
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ใจใฆใ‚‚ใ†ใ‚Œใ—ใ„ใงใ™ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ“ใ“ใงไฝ•ใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎ๏ผŸ
00:15
And it turns out it's a great friend of yours who you haven't really seen for
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ใใ‚Œใฏๆ•ฐใ‹ๆœˆ้–“ๅฎŸ้š›ใซไผšใฃใฆใ„ใชใ‹ใฃใŸใ‚ใชใŸใฎ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ๅ‹ไบบใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ—ใŸ
00:20
several months. Life has just been really busy.
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ใ€‚ ไบบ็”Ÿใฏ ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซๅฟ™ใ—ใ‹ใฃใŸใงใ™ใ€‚
00:23
So the two of you have some excited small talk in the middle of the grocery
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ใใ‚Œใงใ€ไบŒไบบใฏ้ฃŸๆ–™ๅ“ๅบ—ใฎ็œŸใ‚“ไธญใง่ˆˆๅฅฎใ—ใŸ้›‘่ซ‡ใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™
00:28
store. And then just as the conversation is coming to an end,
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ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆ ไผš่ฉฑใŒ็ต‚ใ‚ใ‚Šใซ่ฟ‘ใฅใ„ใŸใจใใ€
00:32
your friend says, Hey, by the way, we're having a few friends,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅ‹ไบบใŒใ“ใ†่จ€ใ„ใพใ™
00:35
some neighbors over this weekend for dinner. You should all come,
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ใ€‚ ็š†ใ•ใ‚“ใ‚‚
00:39
bring the kids.
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ๅญไพ›ใŸใกใ‚’้€ฃใ‚Œใฆๆฅใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ไธ€็ท’ใซๆ™‚้–“ใ‚’
00:40
It would be so good to spend some time together and you
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้Žใ”ใ™ใฎใฏใจใฆใ‚‚่‰ฏใ„ใ“ใจใ ใ— ใ€็†ฑๆ„ใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ‚คใ‚จใ‚นใจ
00:45
absolutely want to say yes with enthusiasm, you would love to get together,
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่จ€ใ„ใŸใ„ใ—ใ€ ไธ€็ท’ใซใ„ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™
00:49
but you also know that your spouse has some tentative plans.
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ใŒใ€ ้…ๅถ่€…ใŒๆšซๅฎš็š„ใช่จˆ็”ปใ‚’็ซ‹ใฆใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
00:54
So the truth is you have to respond with maybe,
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ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ๆœฌๅฝ“ใฎใจใ“ใ‚ใฏใ€Œ ใŸใถใ‚“ใ€ใจ็ญ”ใˆใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™
00:59
but when responding with the word, maybe at its best,
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ใŒใ€ใ€ŒใŸใถใ‚“ใ€ใจใ„ใ†่จ€่‘‰ใง็ญ”ใˆใ‚‹ใจใ€ ่‰ฏใ่จ€ใˆใฐ
01:04
it sounds a little bit awkward and at its worst,
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ๅฐ‘ใ— ๆฐ—ใพใšใ่žใ“ใˆใ€ๆœ€ๆ‚ชใฎๅ ดๅˆใฏ
01:08
it sounds like you don't really want to go. You're not interested,
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ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ่กŒใใŸใใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่žใ“ใˆใฆใ—ใพใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ่ˆˆๅ‘ณใŒใชใ„ใฎใงใ€ใ‚คใ‚จใ‚นใจ่จ€ใ†
01:11
so you're not committing to saying yes. So in the end,
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็ด„ๆŸใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚ ็ตๅฑ€ใฎใจใ“ใ‚ใ€
01:16
is there a better way? Is there an alternative to using that word?
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ใ‚‚ใฃใจ่‰ฏใ„ๆ–นๆณ•ใฏใ‚ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ‹๏ผŸ ใใฎ่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’ไฝฟใ†ไปฃใ‚ใ‚Šใซไฝ•ใ‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใฏใ‚ใ‚‹ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ‹๏ผŸ ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใŸใ‚‰
01:20
Maybe there absolutely is. In this video today,
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็ตถๅฏพใซใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใชใ„ ใ€‚ ไปŠๆ—ฅใฎใ“ใฎใƒ“ใƒ‡ใ‚ชใงใฏใ€
01:25
we'll dive into how to respond to requests, invitations,
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ใƒชใ‚ฏใ‚จใ‚นใƒˆใ€ๆ‹›ๅพ…ใ€่ณชๅ•ใซใ€ใ€Œ
01:29
and queries with better ways to say yes, no maybe,
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ใฏใ„ใ€ใ€Œใ„ใ„ใˆใ€ใŸใถใ‚“ใ€ใ€Œ
01:33
and I can't.
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็งใซใฏ็„ก็†ใ€ใจไผใˆใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ‚Š่‰ฏใ„ๆ–นๆณ•ใงๅฟœ็ญ”ใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใ‚’่ฉณใ—ใ่ชฌๆ˜Žใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
01:34
Whether it's an invitation to plan a weekend getaway with your closest
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ใใ‚Œใฏใ€ ่ฆชใ—ใ„ๅ‹ไบบใจใฎ้€ฑๆœซๆ—…่กŒใฎ่จˆ็”ป
01:39
friends, give a presentation at an upcoming event, lead a project,
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ใ€ ไปŠๅพŒใฎใ‚คใƒ™ใƒณใƒˆใงใฎใƒ—ใƒฌใ‚ผใƒณใƒ†ใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใ€ใƒ—ใƒญใ‚ธใ‚งใ‚ฏใƒˆใฎใƒชใƒผใƒ€ใƒผใ€
01:44
join a volunteer effort, or have dinner with the neighbors.
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ใƒœใƒฉใƒณใƒ†ใ‚ฃใ‚ขๆดปๅ‹•ใธใฎๅ‚ๅŠ ใ€ ่ฟ‘ๆ‰€ใฎไบบใŸใกใจใฎๅค•้ฃŸใธใฎๆ‹›ๅพ…ใชใฉใงใ™ใ€‚ ่€ƒๆ…ฎใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใฎใฏใ€ใ€Œ
01:48
It isn't only the yes, no,
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ใฏใ„ใ€ใ€Œใ„ใ„ใˆใ€ใ€ŒใŸใถใ‚“ใ€ใ€Œใงใใชใ„ใ€ใ ใ‘ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“
01:52
maybe or I can't, that you need to consider.
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01:55
It's also the amount of enthusiasm you might feel or how much
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ใใ‚Œใฏใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๆ„Ÿใ˜ใ‚‹็†ฑๆ„ใฎ้‡ใ€ ใพใŸใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒใฉใ‚Œใ ใ‘
02:00
reluctance you have and how you might want to express all of that.
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ๆŠตๆŠ—ใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ€ใใ—ใฆใใ‚Œใ‚‰ ใ™ในใฆใ‚’ใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่กจ็พใ—ใŸใ„ใ‹ใงใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
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For example,
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ใŸใจใˆใฐใ€ๅ‹้”ใจ้€ฑๆœซใ‚’้Žใ”ใ™่จˆ็”ปใซใ€Œ
02:06
are you wildly excited about saying yes to planning a weekend away with some of
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ใฏใ„ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใซใจใฆใ‚‚่ˆˆๅฅฎใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹ใ€ใใ‚Œใจใ‚‚
02:11
your friends,
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02:12
or do you know that you have to turn down or say no to that
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02:16
opportunity to give a presentation?
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ใƒ—ใƒฌใ‚ผใƒณใƒ†ใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ๆฉŸไผšใซใฏๆ–ญใ‚‹ใ‹ใƒŽใƒผใจ่จ€ใ‚ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹?
02:19
Because the timing just doesn't work for your schedule,
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ใชใœใชใ‚‰ใ€ใ‚ฟใ‚คใƒŸใƒณใ‚ฐใŒ ่‡ชๅˆ†ใฎใ‚นใ‚ฑใ‚ธใƒฅใƒผใƒซใจๅˆใ‚ใชใ‹ใฃใŸใ ใ‘ใงใ€
02:22
but you're disappointed to do so.
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ใŒใฃใ‹ใ‚Šใ—ใฆใ—ใพใ†ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™ใ€‚
02:25
So whether you're agreeing to take the lead on a project or declining an
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ใƒ—ใƒญใ‚ธใ‚งใ‚ฏใƒˆใงไธปๅฐŽๆจฉใ‚’ๆกใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซๅŒๆ„ใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ€ๆ‹›ๅพ…ใ‚’ ๆ–ญใ‚‹ใ‹ใซใ‹ใ‹ใ‚ใ‚‰ใš
02:29
invitation,
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ใ€
02:30
how you respond has significant impact on your relationships and
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ใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซๅฏพๅฟœใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใŒไบบ้–“ ้–ขไฟ‚ใ‚„ไบคๆตใซๅคงใใชๅฝฑ้Ÿฟใ‚’ไธŽใˆใพใ™
02:35
your interactions. And the truth is,
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ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆๅฎŸใฎใจใ“ใ‚ใ€
02:38
having the right phrases not only contributes to sounding more
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้ฉๅˆ‡ใชใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚Œใฐใ€่‹ฑ่ชžใŒ ใ‚ˆใ‚Šๆตๆšขใซ่žใ“ใˆใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใชใ‚‹ใ ใ‘ใงใชใใ€
02:42
fluent in the English language,
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02:44
but it also helps you to clearly and comfortably express
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02:49
yourself in a variety of situations. And ultimately,
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ใ•ใพใ–ใพใช็Šถๆณใง่‡ชๅˆ†ใฎ่€ƒใˆใ‚’ๆ˜Ž็ขบใ‹ใคๅฟซ้ฉใซ่กจ็พใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใซใ‚‚ๅฝน็ซ‹ใกใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆๆœ€็ต‚็š„ใซใฏใ€
02:53
that can lead to less stress for you when you're put on the spot with
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ใใ‚ŒใŒไบˆๆœŸใ›ใฌ่ช˜ใ„ ใซ็›ด้ขใ—ใŸใจใใฎใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใฎ่ปฝๆธ›ใซใคใชใŒใ‚Šใ€
02:58
an unexpected invitation,
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03:00
and it can help avoid misunderstandings or accepting
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่ชค่งฃใ‚’้ฟใ‘ใŸใ‚Šใ€ๆœฌๅฝ“ใฏใ‚„ใ‚ŠใŸใใชใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅ—ใ‘ๅ…ฅใ‚ŒใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’้ฟใ‘ใ‚‹ใฎใซๅฝน็ซ‹ใกใพใ™
03:05
something that you really don't want to do.
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03:08
All of this requires the understanding of nuance and the ability to
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03:12
express that nuance, whatever the situation might be.
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ใใฎใƒ‹ใƒฅใ‚ขใƒณใ‚นใ‚’่กจ็พใ™ใ‚‹่ƒฝๅŠ›ใŒๅฟ…่ฆใงใ™ ใ€‚
03:16
And that requires going beyond the simple words of yes, no,
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ใใฎใŸใ‚ใซใฏใ€ใ€Œใฏใ„ใ€ใ€Œใ„ใ„ใˆใ€ใ€ŒใŸใถใ‚“ใ€ใ€Œ็งใซใฏ็„ก็†ใ€ใจใ„ใ†ๅ˜็ด”ใช่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’่ถ…ใˆใฆใ„ใๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™
03:21
maybe, and I can't. So by the end of this lesson today,
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ใ€‚ ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ ไปŠๆ—ฅใฎใ“ใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใŒ็ต‚ใ‚ใ‚‹ใพใงใซใ€
03:25
you'll be empowered with a variety of phrases that will help you navigate social
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็คพไบค็š„ใช
03:29
interactions, professional requests,
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ใ‚„ใ‚Šใจใ‚Šใ‚„่ทๆฅญไธŠใฎ่ฆๆฑ‚ใชใฉใซๅฝน็ซ‹ใคใ•ใพใ–ใพใชใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใ‚’่บซใซใคใ‘ใ€
03:31
and more so that you can say exactly what you want to say in
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response to that invitation or request.
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ใใฎ่ช˜ใ„ใ‚„่ฆๆฑ‚ใซๅฟœใˆใฆ่จ€ใ„ใŸใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆญฃ็ขบใซ่จ€ใˆใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใชใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ€‚
03:52
Now, before we go any further, if this is your first time here, welcome.
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ใ•ใฆใ€ๅ…ˆใซ้€ฒใ‚€ๅ‰ใซใ€ ใ“ใ“ใซๅˆใ‚ใฆๆฅใ‚‰ใ‚Œใ‚‹ๆ–นใฏใ€ใ‚ˆใ†ใ“ใใ€‚
03:56
I'm Annemarie, an English confidence and fluency coach.
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็งใฏ่‹ฑ่ชžใฎ ่‡ชไฟกใจๆตๆšขใ•ใฎใ‚ณใƒผใƒใฎใ‚ขใƒณใƒใƒžใƒชใƒผใงใ™ใ€‚ ็งใŒใ‚„ใฃใฆ
04:00
Everything I do is designed to help you get the confidence you want for your
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ใ„ใ‚‹ใ™ในใฆใฎใ“ใจใฏใ€
04:04
life and work in English.
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่‹ฑ่ชžใงใฎ็”Ÿๆดปใ‚„ไป•ไบ‹ใซ่‡ชไฟกใ‚’ๆŒใฆใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใ‚ตใƒใƒผใƒˆใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’็›ฎ็š„ใจใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
04:06
If you'd love to find years of lessons for me and free resources,
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ใ‚‚ใ—ใ€ ็งใŒไฝ•ๅนดใ‚‚ใ‹ใ‘ใฆๆ•™ใˆใฆใใ‚ŒใŸใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใ‚„ใ€ใ€Œ่จ€ใ„ใŸใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’่จ€ใ†่‡ชไฟกใ‚’ๅพ—ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใ€ใจๅ‘ผใฐใ‚Œใ‚‹
04:10
including my in-depth fluency training called How to Get the Confidence to
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ๅพนๅบ•็š„ใชๆตๆšขใ•ใƒˆใƒฌใƒผใƒ‹ใƒณใ‚ฐใ‚’ๅซใ‚€็„กๆ–™ใฎใƒชใ‚ฝใƒผใ‚นใ‚’่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใŸใ„ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€็งใฎใ€Œ
04:15
Say What You Want,
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04:16
you can get all of that and more over at my Speak Confident English website.
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่‡ชไฟกใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆ่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’่ฉฑใ™ใ€ใ‚ฆใ‚งใƒ–ใ‚ตใ‚คใƒˆใงใใฎใ™ในใฆใ‚’ๅ…ฅๆ‰‹ใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ€‚
04:20
Now, to make this lesson easy to navigate, I've divided it into two sections.
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ใ“ใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใ‚’ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใ‚„ใ™ใใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซใ€ ใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใ‚’ 2 ใคใฎใ‚ปใ‚ฏใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใซๅˆ†ๅ‰ฒใ—ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
04:25
First, we're going to review a variety of phrases and sentence starters for
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ใพใšใ€่‚ฏๅฎš็š„ใ€ๅฆๅฎš็š„ใ€้ž็ขบๅ›บใŸใ‚‹ๅฟœ็ญ”ใฎใ•ใพใ–ใพใช ใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใจๆ–‡ใฎๅ†’้ ญใ‚’็ขบ่ชใ—
04:30
affirmative negative and non-committal responses,
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04:34
allowing nuance for those yes nos, maybes, and I can'ts.
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ใฏใ„ใ€ใ„ใ„ใˆใ€ใ€ใ€ŒใŸใถใ‚“ใ€ใ€ใ€Œใงใใชใ„ใ€ใฎใƒ‹ใƒฅใ‚ขใƒณใ‚นใ‚’่€ƒๆ…ฎใ—ใพใ™ ใ€‚
04:39
Then in section two,
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ๆฌกใซใ‚ปใ‚ฏใ‚ทใƒงใƒณ 2 ใงใฏใ€
04:41
we'll take a look at real life examples where we employ these phrases so that
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04:45
you can use them as templates the next time you have an invitation or a request.
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ๆฌกๅ›ž ๆ‹›ๅพ…็Šถใ‚„ใƒชใ‚ฏใ‚จใ‚นใƒˆใ‚’ๅ—ใ‘ๅ–ใ‚‹ใจใใซใƒ†ใƒณใƒ—ใƒฌใƒผใƒˆใจใ—ใฆไฝฟ็”จใงใใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ๅฎŸ้š›ใฎไพ‹ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใ„ใใพใ™ใ€‚
04:50
So let's get started with our first category of how to reply with
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ใใ‚Œใงใฏใ€่‚ฏๅฎš็š„ใชๆ–‡ ใง่ฟ”ไฟกใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใฎๆœ€ๅˆใฎใ‚ซใƒ†ใ‚ดใƒชใ‹ใ‚‰ๅง‹ใ‚ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†
04:55
an affirmative statement. In each example I share with you,
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ใ€‚ ็งใŒ็š†ใ•ใ‚“ใจๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ™ใ‚‹ใใ‚Œใžใ‚Œใฎไพ‹ใซใฏใ€ใใฎ็‰นๅฎšใฎๅ˜่ชžใฎ
05:00
I'm also going to include the general feeling or energy behind
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่ƒŒๅพŒใซใ‚ใ‚‹ไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใชๆ„Ÿๆƒ…ใ‚„ใ‚จใƒใƒซใ‚ฎใƒผใ‚‚ๅซใ‚ใ‚‹ใคใ‚‚ใ‚Šใงใ™
05:05
that particular word. So first,
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ใ€‚ ใใ“ใงใพใšใ€
05:07
let's take a look at a variety of ways you can respond with an affirmative
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่‚ฏๅฎš็š„ใช็™บ่จ€ใงๅฟœ็ญ”ใงใใ‚‹ใ•ใพใ–ใพใชๆ–นๆณ•ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใฟใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†
05:11
statement.
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05:12
If you have an invitation or a request and you want to say a clear yes,
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ๆ‹›ๅพ…็Šถใ‚„ใƒชใ‚ฏใ‚จใ‚นใƒˆใŒใ‚ใ‚Š ใ€ๆ˜Ž็ขบใซใ€Œใฏใ„ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ„ใŸใ„ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€ใใฎใŸใ‚ใฎ
05:18
here are some great ways to do that. First, the simple word, sure,
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ๅ„ชใ‚ŒใŸๆ–นๆณ•ใ‚’ใ„ใใคใ‹็ดนไป‹ใ—ใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใพใšใ€ใ€Œ็ขบใ‹ใซใ€็ขบใ‹ใซใ€ใจใ„ใ†ใ‚ทใƒณใƒ—ใƒซใช่จ€่‘‰ใฏใ€
05:23
sure is super friendly and casual.
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ใจใฆใ‚‚ใƒ•ใƒฌใƒณใƒ‰ใƒชใƒผใงใ‚ซใ‚ธใƒฅใ‚ขใƒซใงใ™ใ€‚
05:26
It's a wonderful way to respond to a request for help or an invitation to
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ€ ๅŠฉใ‘ใ‚’ๆฑ‚ใ‚ใ‚‰ใ‚ŒใŸใ‚Šใ€
05:31
meet someone for coffee. Next,
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ใ‚ณใƒผใƒ’ใƒผใ‚’้ฃฒใฟใซ่ชฐใ‹ใซไผšใŠใ†ใจใ„ใ†่ช˜ใ„ใซๅฟœใˆใ‚‹็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ™ใ€‚ ๆฌกใซใ€
05:34
absolutely this expresses enthusiasm and strong affirmation.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ็ตถๅฏพใซ ็†ฑๆ„ใจๅผทใ„่‚ฏๅฎšใ‚’่กจใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
05:39
Third,
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็ฌฌไธ‰ใซใ€
05:40
I'd love to this simple sentence is warm and positive.
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ใ“ใฎใ‚ทใƒณใƒ—ใƒซใช ๆ–‡็ซ ใŒๆธฉใ‹ใๅ‰ๅ‘ใใชใ‚‚ใฎใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’้ก˜ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ่ช˜ใ„ใซ
05:45
It's a wonderful way to respond to an invitation. Number four,
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ๅฟœใˆใ‚‹็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ™ ใ€‚ 4 ็•ช็›ฎใฏใ€
05:49
definitely this not only signifies strong affirmation but
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้–“้•ใ„ใชใใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ ๅผทใ„่‚ฏๅฎšใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ™ใ‚‹ใ ใ‘ใงใชใใ€
05:54
also confidence in the statement. Then we have, of course,
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ใใฎ็™บ่จ€ใซๅฏพใ™ใ‚‹่‡ชไฟกใ‚‚ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚‚ใกใ‚ใ‚“ใ€
05:59
which indicates readiness or willingness to jump in and do what needs to be
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ€ๅฟ…่ฆใชใ“ใจใ‚’ๅฎŸ่กŒใ™ใ‚‹ๆบ–ๅ‚™ใ‚„ๆ„ๆฌฒใ‚’็คบใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™
06:03
done. If there's a request that requires your participation in some way,
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ใ€‚ ไฝ•ใ‚‰ใ‹ใฎๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅ‚ๅŠ ใŒๅฟ…่ฆใชใƒชใ‚ฏใ‚จใ‚นใƒˆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใ€
06:08
using the response of Count Me In is a wonderful way to respond.
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Count Me In ใฎๅฟœ็ญ”ใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใฏ ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ๅฟœ็ญ”ๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ™ใ€‚
06:14
It's informal and it implies that you're ready to participate in whatever
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ้žๅ…ฌๅผใงใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ๅฟ…่ฆใชๆ–นๆณ•ใงๅ‚ๅŠ ใ™ใ‚‹ๆบ–ๅ‚™ใŒใงใใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™
06:19
way you need. Now, similar to Count Me in is I'm in,
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ใ€‚ ใ•ใฆใ€ใ€Œ I'm inใ€ใฎใ€ŒCount Meใ€ใซไผผใฆใ„ใพใ™ใŒใ€
06:23
which again expresses enthusiasm and willingness to join in and
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‚ใพใŸใ€ ๅ‚ๅŠ ใ—ใฆๅ‚ๅŠ ใ™ใ‚‹็†ฑๆ„ใจๆ„ๆฌฒใ‚’่กจใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™
06:28
participate. And lastly,
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ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆๆœ€ๅพŒใซใ€
06:30
if you're having some sort of a discussion where plans are getting made and you
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่จˆ็”ปใŒ็ญ–ๅฎšใ•ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใชใƒ‡ใ‚ฃใ‚นใ‚ซใƒƒใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใ‚’่กŒใฃใฆใ„ใฆใ€
06:35
want to indicate your affirmative agreement,
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่‚ฏๅฎš็š„ใชๅŒๆ„ใ‚’็คบใ—ใŸใ„ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€ใ‚ทใƒณใƒ—ใƒซใซ่žใ“ใˆใพใ™ใŒใ€
06:38
you can express that with a simple sounds good. So to recap,
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ใใ‚Œใ‚’่กจ็พใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ ใ€‚ ่ฆ็ด„ใ™ใ‚‹ใจใ€
06:43
we have sure, absolutely.
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็งใŸใกใฏ็ขบไฟกใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€็ตถๅฏพใซใ€‚
06:45
I'd love to definitely of course count me in.
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ใ‚‚ใกใ‚ใ‚“ ็งใ‚‚ๅ‚ๅŠ ใ•ใ›ใฆใ„ใŸใ ใใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ๅ‚ๅŠ ใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ—
06:50
I'm in and sounds good.
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ใ€ใ„ใ„ๆ„Ÿใ˜ใงใ™ใ€‚
06:52
This is a rather short list of the alternatives we have when we want to respond
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ€
06:57
with a yes in English.
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่‹ฑ่ชžใงใ€Œใฏใ„ใ€ใจ็ญ”ใˆใŸใ„ใจใใซไฝฟใˆใ‚‹้ธๆŠž่‚ขใฎใ‹ใชใ‚Š็Ÿญใ„ใƒชใ‚นใƒˆใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚‚ใฃใจ
06:59
If you'd like to get a longer list and have distinct casual
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้•ทใ„ใƒชใ‚นใƒˆใ‚’ๅ–ๅพ—ใ—ใฆ ใ€่‚ฏๅฎš็š„ใช่ฟ”ไบ‹ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใฎใ‚ซใ‚ธใƒฅใ‚ขใƒซใชๆ–นๆณ•
07:03
versus professional ways to respond with the affirmative,
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ใจใƒ—ใƒญใƒ•ใ‚งใƒƒใ‚ทใƒงใƒŠใƒซใชๆ–นๆณ•ใ‚’ๅŒบๅˆฅใ—ใŸใ„ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€
07:07
you can find all of that by visiting this lesson at my Speak Confident English
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็งใฎ Speak Confident English ใฎ Web ใ‚ตใ‚คใƒˆใซใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใซใ‚ขใ‚ฏใ‚ปใ‚นใ™ใ‚‹ใจใ€ใใฎใ™ในใฆใŒ่ฆ‹ใคใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ™
07:11
website. I'll leave a link to that lesson in the notes below the video. Now,
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ใ€‚ ใƒ“ใƒ‡ใ‚ชใฎไธ‹ใฎใƒกใƒขใซใใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใธใฎใƒชใƒณใ‚ฏใ‚’ๆฎ‹ใ—ใฆใŠใใพใ™ ใ€‚ ๆฌกใซใ€
07:15
let's move on to negative and non-committal responses that indicate
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07:20
not only the decision that you've made, but also your general feeling behind it,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒไธ‹ใ—ใŸๆฑบๅฎšใ ใ‘ใงใชใใ€ใใฎ ่ƒŒๅพŒใซใ‚ใ‚‹ไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใชๆ„Ÿๆƒ…๏ผˆ
07:25
whether it's enthusiasm, reluctance, or neutrality.
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็†ฑๆ„ใ€ ๆถˆๆฅตๆ€งใ€ไธญ็ซ‹ๆ€งใชใฉ๏ผ‰ใ‚’็คบใ™ใ€ๅฆๅฎš็š„ใง้žใ‚ณใƒŸใƒƒใƒˆ็š„ใชๅฟœ็ญ”ใซ็งปใ‚Šใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ไธๅฏงใซใ€Œใ„ใ„ใˆใ€
07:30
When you want to respond with a polite no, you could use,
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ใจ่ฟ”ใ—ใŸใ„ใจใใฏ ใ€ใ€Œๆฎ‹ๅฟตใชใŒใ‚‰ไฝฟใˆใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€ใ‚’ไฝฟใ†ใจ
07:34
I'm afraid not.
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ใ‚ˆใ„ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
07:36
This is a very polite refusal that is also soft and diplomatic.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ้žๅธธใซไธๅฏงใชๆ–ญใ‚Šๆ–นใงใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ ๆŸ”ใ‚‰ใ‹ใๅค–ไบค็š„ใชใ‚‚ใฎใงใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
07:41
The next one on our list is not really,
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็งใŸใกใฎใƒชใ‚นใƒˆใฎๆฌกใฎใ‚‚ใฎใฏๅฎŸ้š›ใซใฏใใ†ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€
07:44
this is indirect and gentle.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ้–“ๆŽฅ็š„ใงๅ„ชใ—ใ„ใ‚‚ใฎใงใ™ใ€‚ ่ชฐใ‹ใŒไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซ่ˆˆๅ‘ณใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹ๅฐ‹ใญใŸ
07:46
We might use this in a response if someone asks if we're interested in doing
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ๅ ดๅˆใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’ๅฟœ็ญ”ใงไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™
07:51
something. And number three, no thanks. This is a polite,
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ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใใฎ 3 ใฏใ€ ใƒŽใƒผใ‚ตใƒณใ‚ญใƒฅใƒผใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ€
07:56
simple way to decline something, particularly an offer. Now,
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ไฝ•ใ‹ใ€็‰นใซใ‚ชใƒ•ใ‚กใƒผใ‚’ๆ–ญใ‚‹ไธๅฏงใงใ‚ทใƒณใƒ—ใƒซใชๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ™ ใ€‚ ใ•ใฆใ€
08:00
if you need to say no and you want to make it clear that it's not that you are
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ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใƒŽใƒผใจ่จ€ใ†ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ใใ‚Œใฏ
08:05
unwilling, it's just that it's not possible for you, you can respond with,
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ใ‚„ใ‚ŠใŸใใชใ„ใ‚ใ‘ใงใฏใชใใ€ๅ˜ใซ ใ‚ใชใŸใซใฏไธๅฏ่ƒฝใชใ ใ‘ใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ˜Ž็ขบใซใ—ใŸใ„ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€ใ€Œ
08:10
I don't think that I can. And if you want to add on a hint of regret,
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็งใซใฏใงใใชใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€ใจ็ญ”ใˆใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ•ใ‚‰ใซ ๅพŒๆ‚”ใฎๅฟตใ‚’ๅŠ ใˆใŸใ„ใฎใงใ‚ใ‚Œใฐใ€
08:15
you could say, unfortunately no. And sometimes when we say no to something,
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ๆฎ‹ๅฟตใชใŒใ‚‰ใ€ŒใƒŽใƒผใ€ใจ่จ€ใˆใ‚‹ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ ็งใŸใกใŒไฝ•ใ‹ใซใƒŽใƒผใจ่จ€ใ†ใจใใ‚‚ใ€
08:20
again, it's because we can't for that particular invitation or request,
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ใใฎ ็‰นๅฎšใฎๆ‹›ๅพ…ใ‚„ใƒชใ‚ฏใ‚จใ‚นใƒˆใซใฏๅฟœใ˜ใ‚‰ใ‚Œใชใ„ใจใ„ใ†็†็”ฑใงๆ–ญใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™
08:24
but we'd love to consider it in the future. And when that's the case,
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ใŒใ€ๅฐ†ๆฅ็š„ใซใฏใใ‚Œใ‚’ๆคœ่จŽใ—ใŸใ„ใจ่€ƒใˆใฆใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใใฎๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€ใพใŸ
08:28
you can say maybe another time. Now, in that list of negative responses,
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ๅˆฅใฎๆฉŸไผšใซ่จ€ใฃใฆใ‚‚ใ„ใ„ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ใ•ใฆใ€ใใฎ ๅฆๅฎš็š„ใช็ญ”ใˆใฎใƒชใ‚นใƒˆใซใฏใ€ใ€Œ็งใซใฏ
08:33
I included, I don't think I can,
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ใงใใชใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€ใ‚‚ๅซใพใ‚Œใฆใ„ใพใ—ใŸ
08:35
and maybe another time both of those go beyond saying
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ใŒใ€ใŠใใ‚‰ใๅˆฅใฎๅ ดๅˆใ€ ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฏไธกๆ–นใจใ‚‚ใ€ŒใƒŽใƒผใ€ใ‚’่ถ…ใˆใฆใ€
08:40
no, and they indicate that the reality is you can't for some reason.
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็พๅฎŸใซใฏไฝ•ใ‚‰ใ‹ใฎ็†็”ฑใงใงใใชใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’็คบใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
08:46
So let's move on to look at a few more examples of how you can express.
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ใใ‚Œใงใฏใ€ ่กจ็พๆ–นๆณ•ใฎไพ‹ใ‚’ใ•ใ‚‰ใซใ„ใใคใ‹่ฆ‹ใฆใฟใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
08:50
I can't because there's some sort of conflict or inability. First,
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ใงใใชใ„ใฎใฏใ€ไฝ•ใ‚‰ใ‹ใฎ ็Ÿ›็›พใพใŸใฏ่ƒฝๅŠ›ใŒใชใ„ใŸใ‚ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใพใšใ€
08:56
I can't make it unfortunately. This is simple,
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ๆฎ‹ๅฟตใชใŒใ‚‰่กŒใ‘ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ‚ทใƒณใƒ—ใƒซใ‹ใค
09:00
clear and also expresses regret.
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ๆ˜Ž็ขบใงใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ๆฎ‹ๅฟตใชๆฐ—ๆŒใกใ‚’่กจใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
09:02
If you need to say you can't because the timing just doesn't work for you,
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ใ‚ฟใ‚คใƒŸใƒณใ‚ฐใŒๅˆใ‚ใชใ„ใ€
09:07
or perhaps you're already over committ, you could say, I'd love to,
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ใพใŸใฏใ™ใงใซใ‚ณใƒŸใƒƒใƒˆใƒกใƒณใƒˆใ‚’่ถ…ใˆใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใ€ใงใใชใ„ใจ่จ€ใ†ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€ใ€Œใใ†ใ— ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™
09:12
but I can't commit at this moment.
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ใŒใ€็พๆ™‚็‚นใงใฏใ‚ณใƒŸใƒƒใƒˆใงใใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
09:14
This is a very soft diplomatic way to express that I can't.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ€ ็งใซใฏใงใใชใ„ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใ‚’่กจ็พใ™ใ‚‹้žๅธธใซๆŸ”ใ‚‰ใ‹ใ„ๅค–ไบค็š„ใชๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ™ใ€‚
09:20
Now, if you feel that you have to be particularly strong and assertive
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ใ•ใฆใ€ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ ็‰นใซๅผทใใฆ็ฉๆฅต็š„ใซใ€Œ็งใซใฏ
09:25
in saying, I can't, you could use,
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็„ก็†ใงใ™ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใจๆ„Ÿใ˜ใŸใ‚‰ใ€ใ€ŒไปŠใฏใ“ใ‚Œ
09:28
I really can't take on anything more right now. And as I mentioned earlier,
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ไปฅไธŠไฝ•ใ‚‚ๅผ•ใๅ—ใ‘ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€ใจ่จ€ใฃใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ ใ€‚ ๅ…ˆใปใฉใ‚‚่ฟฐในใŸใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€
09:33
there are certainly times when we want to say yes to something,
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ไฝ•ใ‹ใซใ€Œใฏใ„ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ„ใŸใ„ใจใใฏ็ขบใ‹ใซใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใŒใ€
09:36
but it's just not possible in those circumstances.
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ใใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใช็Šถๆณใงใฏใใ‚ŒใŒไธๅฏ่ƒฝใงใ™ใ€‚
09:39
We have two more alternatives. I wish I could,
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ใ•ใ‚‰ใซ 2 ใคใฎ้ธๆŠž่‚ขใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใงใใ‚Œใฐใ„ใ„ใฎใงใ™
09:43
but I can't. A very polite, soft way to express that.
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ใŒใ€ใงใใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใจใฆใ‚‚ไธๅฏงใง ๆŸ”ใ‚‰ใ‹ใ„่กจ็พใงใ™ใ€‚
09:47
And a second option is I can't this week,
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2 ็•ช็›ฎใฎใ‚ชใƒ—ใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใฏใ€ใ€ŒไปŠ้€ฑใฏ็„ก็†ใงใ™
09:51
but let's check in next week or let's check in next month With that particular
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ใŒใ€ๆฅ้€ฑใƒใ‚งใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚คใƒณใ—ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€ใพใŸใฏ ๆฅๆœˆใƒใ‚งใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚คใƒณใ—ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€ใจใ„ใ†ใ‚‚ใฎใงใ™ใ€‚ใ“ใฎ็‰นๅฎšใฎใ‚นใƒ†ใƒผใƒˆใƒกใƒณใƒˆใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใจ
09:56
statement, you're leaving the door open to future possibilities.
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ใ€ ๅฐ†ๆฅใฎๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใธใฎๆ‰‰ใŒ้–‹ใ‹ใ‚ŒใŸใพใพใซใชใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ€Œ่จ€ใˆ
10:01
There's something I want you to pay attention to with some of those I can't
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ใชใ„ใ€็™บ่จ€ใซใฏๆณจๆ„ใ—ใฆใ„ใŸใ ใใŸใ„ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ใใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฏ
10:05
statements, they're not conversation stoppers,
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ไผš่ฉฑใฎ้‚ช้ญ”ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ‚‚ใฎใงใฏใชใใ€
10:08
they don't close the door completely. Instead,
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ใƒ‰ใ‚ขใ‚’ๅฎŒๅ…จใซ้–‰ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‚‚ใฎใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ไปฃใ‚ใ‚Šใซใ€
10:11
they leave the door open for future opportunities.
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ๅฐ†ๆฅใฎๆฉŸไผšใซๅ‘ใ‘ใฆๆ‰‰ใ‚’้–‹ใ„ใŸใพใพใซใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
10:14
And something important they do is clarify your
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒ่กŒใ†้‡่ฆใชใ“ใจใฏใ€ ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ
10:19
situation right now and allow you to entertain those
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็พๅœจใฎ็Šถๆณใ‚’ๆ˜Ž็ขบใซใ—ใ€ๅฐ†ๆฅใฎ ใใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎๆ‹›ๅพ…ใ‚„่ฆๆฑ‚ใซๅฟœใ˜ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™
10:24
invitations or requests at some future date. With that,
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ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใงใฏใ€ๅฎŸ้š›ใฎไพ‹ใซๅ…ฅใ‚‹
10:27
let's move on to our final list before getting into some real life examples,
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ๅ‰ใซๆœ€ๅพŒใฎใƒชใ‚นใƒˆใซ้€ฒใฟ ใ€ๅฟœ็ญ”ใงใ€Œ
10:32
and we'll take a look at several ways to express maybe or
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ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใŸใ‚‰ใ€ใพใŸใฏใ€Œ
10:37
be non-committal in your response. Now, there are eight options we have here,
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้ž็ขบๅ›บใŸใ‚‹ๆ…‹ๅบฆใ€ใ‚’่กจ็พใ™ใ‚‹ใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎๆ–นๆณ•ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใ„ใใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ•ใฆใ€ ใ“ใ“ใซใฏ 8 ใคใฎ้ธๆŠž่‚ขใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
10:41
and the first one is possibly,
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10:44
this one indicates some uncertainty,
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใ‚‹็จ‹ๅบฆใฎไธ็ขบๅฎŸๆ€งใ‚’็คบใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™
10:47
but it leans toward yes. Our second option is,
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ใŒใ€ใฏใ„ใฎๆ–นๅ‘ใซๅ‚พใ„ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ 2 ็•ช็›ฎใฎ้ธๆŠž่‚ขใฏใ€
10:52
I'll think about it. This is entirely non-committal.
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่€ƒใˆใฆใฟใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ ๅฎŒๅ…จใซ้žใ‚ณใƒŸใƒƒใƒˆ็š„ใงใ™ใ€‚
10:56
It doesn't indicate yes or no.
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ใ‚คใ‚จใ‚นใ‹ใƒŽใƒผใ‹ใ‚’็คบใ™ใ‚‚ใฎใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ๆคœ่จŽใ™ใ‚‹
10:58
It just says that you're going to give it some consideration.
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ใจ่จ€ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ ใ‘ใงใ™ ใ€‚
11:02
The next one on our list is, let me see again.
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ใƒชใ‚นใƒˆใฎๆฌกใฎใ‚‚ใฎใฏ ใ€ใ€Œใ‚‚ใ†ไธ€ๅบฆ่ฆ‹ใฆใฟใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€ใงใ™ใ€‚
11:06
This one is completely non-committal,
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ใ“ใ‚ŒใฏๅฎŒๅ…จใซ้žใ‚ณใƒŸใƒƒใƒˆ็š„ใชใ‚‚ใฎใงใ€
11:08
and it indicates that you're going to review your calendar, your schedule,
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ใ‚ซใƒฌใƒณใƒ€ใƒผใ‚„ใ‚นใ‚ฑใ‚ธใƒฅใƒผใƒซใ‚’่ฆ‹็›ดใ—ใฆใ€ใใฎ
11:12
to make sure there are no potential conflicts similar to the word
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ๅ˜่ชžใซไผผใŸๆฝœๅœจ็š„ใช็Ÿ›็›พใŒใชใ„ใ‹็ขบ่ชใ™ใ‚‹ใคใ‚‚ใ‚Šใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’็คบใ—ใฆใŠใ‚Šใ€
11:17
possibly, and that indication that you're leaning toward, yes,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ€Œใฏใ„ใ€ใซๅ‚พใ„ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’็คบใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
11:21
you could also use,
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ใพใŸใ€ใ€Œใใฎๅ˜็ด”ใชใ‚นใƒ†ใƒผใƒˆใƒกใƒณใƒˆใงใงใใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใชใ„ใ€ใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ใ€Œ
11:22
I might be able to with that simple statement,
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11:26
you're indicating that you need to look into a few things, think it over,
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ใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎใ“ใจใ‚’่ชฟในใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ€ใ‚ˆใ่€ƒใˆใฆใฟใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ€
11:31
but you're leaning toward that. Yes. Now,
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ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใใ‚Œใซๅ‚พใ„ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ€ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใ‚’็คบใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใฏใ„ใ€‚ ใ•ใฆใ€
11:34
the next four in this non-committal category,
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ใ“ใฎ้žใ‚ณใƒŸใƒƒใƒˆใƒกใƒณใƒˆใ‚ซใƒ†ใ‚ดใƒชใฎๆฌกใฎ 4 ใคใฏ ใ€
11:37
lean more toward no or indicate some sense of reluctance.
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ใƒŽใƒผใซๅ‚พใ„ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ€ไฝ•ใ‚‰ใ‹ใฎๆŠตๆŠ—ๆ„Ÿใ‚’็คบใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚
11:42
The first one is, we'll see,
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1 ใค็›ฎใฏใ€ๅพŒใงใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ™ใŒใ€
11:44
this is extremely vague and non-committal, or you could use,
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ้žๅธธใซๆ›–ๆ˜งใงใ€ ็ขบ็ด„็š„ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ„ใฏใ€ใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚‚ใฎใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใงใใพใ™ใŒใ€
11:49
I'm not sure yet. This is honest in your uncertainty,
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ใพใ ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ€
11:53
whether you're uncertain due to your ability or your desire to commit.
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่‡ชๅˆ†ใฎ ่ƒฝๅŠ›ใซใ‚ˆใ‚‹ใ‚‚ใฎใ‹ใ€ใ‚ณใƒŸใƒƒใƒˆใ—ใŸใ„ใจใ„ใ†้ก˜ๆœ›ใซใ‚ˆใ‚‹ใ‚‚ใฎใ‹ใซใ‹ใ‹ใ‚ใ‚‰ใšใ€ไธ็ขบๅฎŸๆ€งใ‚’ๆญฃ็›ดใซ่กจใ—ใŸใ‚‚ใฎใงใ™ใ€‚
11:58
If you need more time and you're not ready to give any sense of commitment right
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ใ‚‚ใฃใจๆ™‚้–“ใŒๅฟ…่ฆใงใ€ไปŠใ™ใใซ็ด„ๆŸใ‚’ไผใˆใ‚‹ๆบ–ๅ‚™ใŒใงใใฆใ„ใชใ„ๅ ดๅˆใฏ
12:03
now, you could say, can I get back to you? And lastly,
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ใ€ใ€ŒๆŠ˜ใ‚Š่ฟ”ใ—้€ฃ็ตกใ—ใฆใ‚‚ใ„ใ„ใงใ™ใ‹?ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใจใ‚ˆใ„ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆๆœ€ๅพŒใซใ€
12:07
if you're not sure, and whether you're leaning yes or no right now,
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็ขบไฟกใŒๆŒใฆใชใ„ๅ ดๅˆใ€ใใ—ใฆ ไปŠ็พๅœจใ€Œใ‚คใ‚จใ‚นใ€ใ‹ใ€ŒใƒŽใƒผใ€ใฎใฉใกใ‚‰ใซๅ‚พใ„ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใฏ
12:12
could change. You could say that depends.
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ๅค‰ใ‚ใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใฏๅ ดๅˆใซใ‚ˆใ‚‹ใจ่จ€ใˆใ‚‹ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
12:16
With all those examples in place,
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎไพ‹ใ‚’ใ™ในใฆ็”จๆ„ใ—ใŸไธŠใงใ€
12:18
I want to share with you some real life examples for how to use those
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12:22
affirmative negative and non-committal statements so that you can begin to use
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่‚ฏๅฎš็š„ใ€ๅฆๅฎš็š„ใ€้žใ‚ณใƒŸใƒƒใƒˆ็š„ใช ใ‚นใƒ†ใƒผใƒˆใƒกใƒณใƒˆใ‚’ใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใซใคใ„ใฆใ€ๅฎŸ้š›ใฎไพ‹ใ‚’ใ„ใใคใ‹ๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ—ใฆใ€็š†ใ•ใ‚“ใŒ่‹ฑ่ชžใงใฎใ‚ณใƒŸใƒฅใƒ‹ใ‚ฑใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใงใใ‚Œใ‚‰ใ‚’ไฝฟใ„ๅง‹ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ—ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™
12:27
them in your own English communication.
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12:30
We'll take a look at two real life examples for each of those categories.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎใ‚ซใƒ†ใ‚ดใƒชใ”ใจใซ 2 ใคใฎๅฎŸ้š›ใฎไพ‹ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใ„ใใพใ™ใ€‚
12:35
The yes, no, maybe, and I can't.
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ใฏใ„ใ€ใ„ใ„ใˆใ€ใŸใถใ‚“ใ€ใใ—ใฆ็งใซใฏใงใใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
12:38
Let's start with some affirmative scenarios. In this first one,
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ใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎ่‚ฏๅฎš็š„ใชใ‚ทใƒŠใƒชใ‚ชใ‹ใ‚‰ๅง‹ใ‚ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ† ใ€‚ ใ“ใฎๆœ€ๅˆใฎไพ‹ใงใฏใ€
12:42
imagine an invitation to a party. A friend sends you a text message to say,
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ใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใธใฎๆ‹›ๅพ…็Šถใ‚’ๆƒณๅƒใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ๅ‹ไบบใŒใ‚ใชใŸใซใ€ŒๅœŸๆ›œใฎๅคœ็ฉบใ„ใฆใ‚‹๏ผŸใ€ใจใ„ใ†ใƒ†ใ‚ญใ‚นใƒˆ ใƒกใƒƒใ‚ปใƒผใ‚ธใ‚’้€ใ‚Šใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
12:47
Hey, are you free Saturday night?
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12:49
We're having a few people over for a little get together and you're free.
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ๆ•ฐไบบใง ใกใ‚‡ใฃใจใ—ใŸ้›†ใพใ‚Šใ‚’ใ—ใพใ™ใฎใงใ€ใ”่‡ช็”ฑใซใฉใ†ใžใ€‚ ๅœŸๆ›œใฎๅคœใซใœใฒ
12:53
You would love to join your friends on Saturday night.
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ใŠๅ‹้”ใจใ”ไธ€็ท’ใซใ„ใ‹ใŒใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ‹ ใ€‚
12:57
So you can respond with simply, absolutely, I'd love to come in.
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ๅ˜็ด”ใซใ€ใœใฒใ€ใœใฒๅ‚ๅŠ ใ—ใŸใ„ใจ็ญ”ใˆใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ ใ€‚
13:01
Scenario number two, a request for help. A coworker says to you,
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ใ‚ทใƒŠใƒชใ‚ช 2 ใฏใ€ ๅŠฉใ‘ใ‚’ๆฑ‚ใ‚ใ‚‹ใƒชใ‚ฏใ‚จใ‚นใƒˆใงใ™ใ€‚ ๅŒๅƒšใŒใ‚ใชใŸใซใ€Œ
13:05
can you help me out with this report? I'm struggling to make the deadline,
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ใ“ใฎใƒฌใƒใƒผใƒˆใ‚’ๆ‰‹ไผใฃใฆใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹?ใ€ใจ่จ€ใฃใฆใใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ็งใฏ็ท ใ‚ๅˆ‡ใ‚Šใซ้–“ใซๅˆใ‚ใ›ใ‚‹ใฎใซ่‹ฆๅŠดใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใŒใ€ไปŠๆ—ฅใฏ
13:10
and you happen to have a more relaxed schedule today. So you say,
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ใŸใพใŸใพใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ‚‚ใฃใจ ใƒชใƒฉใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚นใ—ใŸใ‚นใ‚ฑใ‚ธใƒฅใƒผใƒซใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚‚ใกใ‚ใ‚“ใ€
13:14
of course I'd be happy to help. What do you need me to do?
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ๅ–œใ‚“ใงใŠๆ‰‹ไผใ„ใ•ใ›ใฆใ„ใŸใ ใใพใ™ใ€‚ ไฝ•ใ‚’ใ—ใฆใปใ—ใ„ใฎใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
13:17
As we learned earlier, that first scenario with Absolutely,
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ๅ‰ใซๅญฆใ‚“ใ ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€ใ€Œ ็ตถๅฏพใซ
13:22
I'd love to come, not only gives a strong yes,
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่กŒใใŸใ„ใงใ™ใ€ใฎๆœ€ๅˆใฎใ‚ทใƒŠใƒชใ‚ชใงใฏใ€ ๅผทใ„ใ€Œใฏใ„ใ€ใŒ่ฟ”ใ•ใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ ใ‘ใงใชใใ€
13:25
but it shows enthusiasm. And in that second scenario with of course,
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็†ฑๆ„ใŒ็คบใ•ใ‚Œใพใ™ใ€‚ 2 ็•ช็›ฎใฎใ‚ทใƒŠใƒชใ‚ชใงใฏใ€ใ‚‚ใกใ‚ใ‚“ใ€
13:30
you're indicating your willingness,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๆ„ๆฌฒใ‚’็คบใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
13:33
and now let's move on to examples with negative responses.
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ๆฌกใซใ€ ๅฆๅฎš็š„ใชๅฟœ็ญ”ใฎไพ‹ใซ็งปใ‚Šใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
13:38
In this first one, someone has requested that you do additional work.
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ใ“ใฎๆœ€ๅˆใฎไฝœๆฅญใงใฏใ€่ชฐใ‹ใŒ ใ‚ใชใŸใซ่ฟฝๅŠ ใฎไฝœๆฅญใ‚’ไพ้ ผใ—ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
13:44
For example, maybe your boss says, could you take on another project this month?
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ใŸใจใˆใฐใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฎไธŠๅธใŒใ€ไปŠๆœˆๅˆฅใฎใƒ—ใƒญใ‚ธใ‚งใ‚ฏใƒˆใ‚’ๅผ•ใๅ—ใ‘ใฆใ‚‚ใ‚‰ใˆใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
13:48
It's urgent, but the truth is, you are at capacity.
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็ทŠๆ€ฅใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใŒใ€ๅฎŸใฏ ๅฎšๅ“กใซ้”ใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
13:53
You don't have any additional mental space or time to take on another project,
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ๅˆฅใฎใƒ—ใƒญใ‚ธใ‚งใ‚ฏใƒˆใซๅ–ใ‚Š็ต„ใ‚€ใŸใ‚ใฎ่ฟฝๅŠ ใฎ็ฒพ็ฅž็š„ใ‚นใƒšใƒผใ‚นใ‚„ๆ™‚้–“ใฏใชใ„ใฎใงใ€ใ€Œ
13:59
so you might respond with, I'm afraid not.
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ๆฎ‹ๅฟตใชใŒใ‚‰ใใ†ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€ใจ็ญ”ใˆใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ็พๅœจ
14:02
I'm already at capacity right now. In the second scenario,
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ใ™ใงใซๅฎšๅ“กใซ้”ใ—ใฆใŠใ‚Šใพใ™ ใ€‚ 2 ็•ช็›ฎใฎใ‚ทใƒŠใƒชใ‚ชใงใฏใ€
14:05
let's say that you're going to turn down an invitation for a social event.
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็คพไบคใ‚คใƒ™ใƒณใƒˆใธใฎๆ‹›ๅพ…ใ‚’ๆ–ญใ‚ใ†ใจใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
14:10
Perhaps a neighbor says to you,
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ใŠใใ‚‰ใ่ฟ‘ๆ‰€ใฎไบบใŒใ€ไปŠ้€ฑๆœซๅœฐๅŸŸใฎๆธ…ๆŽƒใ‚’
14:12
we're looking for some volunteers to help with a community cleanup this weekend.
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ๆ‰‹ไผใฃใฆใใ‚Œใ‚‹ใƒœใƒฉใƒณใƒ†ใ‚ฃใ‚ขใ‚’ๆŽขใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ€ใจ่จ€ใฃใŸใฎใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
14:16
Are you interested? And the truth is, you are.
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่ˆˆๅ‘ณใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ใใ—ใฆ ็œŸๅฎŸใฏใ€ใ‚ใชใŸ่‡ช่บซใงใ™ใ€‚ ใœใฒ
14:19
You'd love to participate to help out, but you're not able to do so.
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ๅ‚ๅŠ ใ—ใฆๆ”ฏๆดใ—ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ ใŒใ€ใใ‚ŒใŒใงใใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
14:23
So you could say, oh, I'd love to help out,
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ใใ“ใงใ€ใ€Œใœใฒ ๆ‰‹ไผใ„ใŸใ„ใฎใงใ™
14:26
but my family and I will be away this weekend. Perhaps I can help another time.
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ใŒใ€ไปŠ้€ฑๆœซใฏๅฎถๆ—ใ‚‚ไธๅœจใงใ™ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใงใใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใŸใ‚‰ใพใŸๅˆฅใฎๆฉŸไผšใซใŠๆ‰‹ไผใ„ใงใใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
14:31
Okay, so you've got your two affirmative examples,
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ใ•ใฆใ€ ่‚ฏๅฎš็š„ใชไพ‹ใŒ 2 ใคใ€
14:34
two negative or I can't examples,
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ๅฆๅฎš็š„ใชไพ‹ใŒ 2 ใคใ€ใ€Œ็งใซใฏใงใใชใ„ใ€ใจใ„ใ†ไพ‹ใŒใงใใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
14:37
and let's finish up with two real life examples focused on
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ๆœ€ๅพŒใซใ€ใ‚ณใƒŸใƒƒใƒˆใƒกใƒณใƒˆใฎใชใ„ๅฟœ็ญ” ใซ็„ฆ็‚นใ‚’ๅฝ“ใฆใŸๅฎŸ้š›ใฎไพ‹ใ‚’ 2 ใค็ดนไป‹ใ—ใพใ™
14:42
non-committal responses. In this first scenario,
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ใ€‚ ใ“ใฎๆœ€ๅˆใฎใ‚ทใƒŠใƒชใ‚ชใงใฏใ€
14:45
let's imagine a few of your friends are planning some time away.
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ๆ•ฐไบบใฎๅ‹ไบบใŒ ใ—ใฐใ‚‰ใ้›ขใ‚Œใฆๆ—…่กŒใ™ใ‚‹่จˆ็”ปใ‚’็ซ‹ใฆใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจๆƒณๅƒใ—ใฆใฟใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
14:49
One of them sends you a text message saying,
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ใใฎใ†ใกใฎ 1 ไบบใŒใ€
14:52
we're planning a little road trip next month. Do you think you could make it?
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ๆฅๆœˆใกใ‚‡ใฃใจใ—ใŸใƒ‰ใƒฉใ‚คใƒ–ๆ—…่กŒใ‚’่จˆ็”ปใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†ๅ†…ๅฎนใฎใƒ†ใ‚ญใ‚นใƒˆ ใƒกใƒƒใ‚ปใƒผใ‚ธใ‚’้€ไฟกใ—ใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใงใใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
14:55
And the truth is, you'd love to join.
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ใใ—ใฆๅฎŸใ‚’่จ€ใ†ใจใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใ‚‚ใœใฒๅ‚ๅŠ ใ—ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
14:57
You'd love to spend a weekend with your friends,
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ๅ‹้”ใจ้€ฑๆœซใ‚’้Žใ”ใ—ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใŒใ€
14:59
but you've got a busy work schedule next month,
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ๆฅๆœˆใฏไป•ไบ‹ใฎใ‚นใ‚ฑใ‚ธใƒฅใƒผใƒซใŒๅฟ™ใ—ใ„ใฎใงใ€ใใ‚Œใ‚’ไผใˆใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใ†ใพใใ„ใใ‹
15:02
so you're not sure right now whether it will work to indicate that. You can say,
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ใฉใ†ใ‹ใ€็พๆ™‚็‚นใงใฏใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚ ใ€Œ
15:07
Ooh, possibly, I need to check my work schedule first.
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ใ‚ใ‚ใ€ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใŸใ‚‰ใ€ ใพใšไป•ไบ‹ใฎใ‚นใ‚ฑใ‚ธใƒฅใƒผใƒซใ‚’็ขบ่ชใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใชใ„ใ€ใจใ‚ใชใŸใฏ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
15:10
Can I get back to you later today? And in this second scenario,
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ไปŠๆ—ฅๅพŒใปใฉใ”้€ฃ็ตกใ•ใ›ใฆใ„ใŸใ ใ„ใฆใ‚‚ใ‚ˆใ‚ใ—ใ„ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ‹๏ผŸ ใใ—ใฆใ€ใ“ใฎ 2 ็•ช็›ฎใฎใ‚ทใƒŠใƒชใ‚ชใงใฏใ€
15:14
let's say that you've received an unexpected job offer.
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ไบˆๆœŸใ›ใฌไป•ไบ‹ใฎใ‚ชใƒ•ใ‚กใƒผใ‚’ๅ—ใ‘ใŸใจใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
15:18
It's a job that you're interested in,
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ใใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่ˆˆๅ‘ณใฎใ‚ใ‚‹ไป•ไบ‹ใงใ™
15:20
but it will require quite a bit more time away from home,
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ใŒใ€ ๅฎถใ‚’้›ขใ‚Œใ‚‹ๆ™‚้–“ใŒใ‹ใชใ‚Š้•ทใๅฟ…่ฆใซใชใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใ€
15:23
so you're not sure whether you want to accept in this particular scenario.
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ใ“ใฎ็‰นๅฎšใฎใ‚ทใƒŠใƒชใ‚ชใงๅผ•ใๅ—ใ‘ใ‚‹ใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ€Œ็งใŸใก
15:29
You have an email that ends with, we'd love to have you join our team,
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ใฎใƒใƒผใƒ ใซๅ‚ๅŠ ใ—ใฆใ„ใŸใ ใใŸใ„ใจ
15:33
and we look forward to hearing what you think you know that you need to respond,
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ๆ€ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ่ฟ”ไฟกใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏใ‚ใ‹ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚‚ใฎใฎใ€็พๆ™‚็‚น
15:37
but you're not ready to commit at this time. In your email response,
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ใงใฏใ‚ณใƒŸใƒƒใƒˆใ™ใ‚‹ๆบ–ๅ‚™ใŒใงใใฆใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚ใ€ใจใ„ใ†ๅ†…ๅฎนใฎใƒกใƒผใƒซใŒๅฑŠใ„ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใƒกใƒผใƒซใฎ่ฟ”ไฟกใงใ€
15:41
you might say, this is an appealing job offer.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ้ญ…ๅŠ›็š„ใชๆฑ‚ไบบใ ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚
15:45
I'd really appreciate some time to think it over and discuss it with my family.
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ๆ™‚้–“ใ‚’ใ‹ใ‘ใฆ ใ˜ใฃใใ‚Š่€ƒใˆใฆใ€ๅฎถๆ—ใจ่ฉฑใ—ๅˆใฃใฆใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
15:50
If it's okay with you, I'd love to give you an answer by next week.
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ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚ˆใ‚ใ—ใ‘ใ‚Œใฐ ๆฅ้€ฑใพใงใซใŠ่ฟ”ไบ‹ใ‚’ๅทฎใ—ไธŠใ’ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
15:54
Before we end today, I want to encourage you to practice.
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ไปŠๆ—ฅใŒ็ต‚ใ‚ใ‚‹ๅ‰ใซใ€ ็ทด็ฟ’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ใŠๅ‹งใ‚ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
15:57
You've just learned a variety of language that'll allow you to better
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ€ใ‚ณใƒŸใƒฅใƒ‹ใ‚ฑใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใ‚’ใ‚ˆใ‚Š่‰ฏใใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใฎใ•ใพใ–ใพใช่จ€่ชžใ‚’ๅญฆใ‚“ใ ใจใ“ใ‚ใงใ™ใ€‚
16:01
communicate, uh, yes, no, maybe,
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ใˆใˆใจใ€ใฏใ„ใ€ใ„ใ„ใˆใ€ใŠใใ‚‰ใใงใ™ใŒใ€
16:04
and I can't with various levels of enthusiasm, reluctance,
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็งใซใฏใ•ใพใ–ใพใชใƒฌใƒ™ใƒซ ใฎ็†ฑๆ„ใ€ๆถˆๆฅตๆ€งใ€
16:09
and neutrality. So I've got a couple of practice questions for you.
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ไธญ็ซ‹ๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ใใ‚Œใฏไธๅฏ่ƒฝใงใ™ใ€‚ ใใ“ใงใ€็ทด็ฟ’็”จใฎ่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ใ„ใใคใ‹็”จๆ„ใ—ใพใ—ใŸ ใ€‚
16:13
I'm going to share two different scenarios with you,
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2 ใคใฎ ็•ฐใชใ‚‹ใ‚ทใƒŠใƒชใ‚ชใ‚’็ดนไป‹ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ไปŠๆ—ฅใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใงๅญฆใ‚“ใ ใ“ใจใ‚’
16:16
and I want you to consider what you've learned in this lesson today.
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่€ƒใˆใฆใ‚‚ใ‚‰ใ„ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚
16:19
Then I want you to identify the exact phrase that will allow you
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ๆฌกใซใ€
16:24
to express what you want in responding to this particular
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ใ“ใฎ็‰นๅฎšใฎใƒชใ‚ฏใ‚จใ‚นใƒˆใ‚„ๆ‹›ๅพ…ใซๅฟœใ˜ใฆไฝ•ใ‚’่กจ็พใ—ใŸใ„ใ‹ใ‚’ๆญฃ็ขบใซ่กจ็พใงใใ‚‹ใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใ‚’็‰นๅฎšใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„
16:29
request or invitation. As always,
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ใ€‚ ใ„ใคใ‚‚ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€ไธ‹ใฎใ‚ณใƒกใƒณใƒˆๆฌ„ใง
16:31
you can share your examples with me in the comments down below.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฎไพ‹ใ‚’็งใจๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ ใ€‚
16:35
In this first scenario,
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ใ“ใฎๆœ€ๅˆใฎใ‚ทใƒŠใƒชใ‚ชใงใฏใ€
16:36
I want you to consider that someone has asked you to volunteer
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่ชฐใ‹ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใซ
16:41
for an annual charity event, and it's a charity that you believe in,
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ๅนดใซไธ€ๅบฆใฎๆ…ˆๅ–„ใ‚คใƒ™ใƒณใƒˆใธใฎใƒœใƒฉใƒณใƒ†ใ‚ฃใ‚ขใ‚’ไพ้ ผใ—ใŸใจ่€ƒใˆใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ใใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒไฟกใ˜ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๆ…ˆๅ–„ๆดปๅ‹•ใงใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ
16:45
you really are interested in helping, but the truth is,
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16:50
you are at capacity at work right now.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏไป•ไบ‹ใง้™็•Œใซ้”ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚ ไปŠใ™ใใ€‚
16:52
You just can't take on anything else without feeling overwhelmed and
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ๅœงๅ€’ใ•ใ‚Œใฆใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๆ„Ÿใ˜ใšใซใฏใ€ไป–ใฎใ“ใจใซๅ–ใ‚Š็ต„ใ‚€ใ“ใจใฏใงใใพใ›ใ‚“
16:57
stressed. Based on what you've learned here today,
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ใ€‚ ไปŠๆ—ฅใ“ใ“ใงๅญฆใ‚“ใ ใ“ใจใซๅŸบใฅใ„ใฆ ใ€
17:00
how would you respond to that request?
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ใใฎ่ฆๆฑ‚ใซใฉใ†็ญ”ใˆใพใ™ใ‹?
17:02
And now for the second practice opportunity,
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ใ•ใฆใ€2 ็•ช็›ฎใฎ ็ทด็ฟ’ใฎๆฉŸไผšใงใ™ใŒใ€
17:05
I want you to imagine someone has invited you to speak at an upcoming event
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่ชฐใ‹ใŒ ใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ๆฌกใฎใ‚คใƒ™ใƒณใƒˆใงใฎ่ฌ›ๆผ”
17:10
or present at a conference,
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ใ‚„ใ‚ซใƒณใƒ•ใ‚กใƒฌใƒณใ‚นใงใฎ็™บ่กจใซๆ‹›ๅพ…ใ—ใ€
17:12
and it's on a topic that you're very passionate about.
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17:15
You would love to say yes to this request.
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ใ“ใฎใƒชใ‚ฏใ‚จใ‚นใƒˆใซใฏใœใฒใ€Œใฏใ„ใ€ใจ็ญ”ใˆใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
17:18
The problem is the timing of this event overlaps with a
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ๅ•้กŒใฏใ€ใ“ใฎใ‚คใƒ™ใƒณใƒˆใฎใ‚ฟใ‚คใƒŸใƒณใ‚ฐใŒ
17:23
major deadline that you have at work. So you're struggling with what to say,
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ไป•ไบ‹ใฎ้‡่ฆใช็ท ใ‚ๅˆ‡ใ‚Šใจ้‡ใชใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚ ใคใพใ‚Šใ€ไฝ•ใ‚’่จ€ใˆใฐใ‚ˆใ„ใฎใ‹ๆ‚ฉใ‚“ใงใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
17:29
you'd love to commit, but you're not sure that you can,
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ใ‚ณใƒŸใƒƒใƒˆใ—ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใŒใ€ ใงใใ‚‹ใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹ใฏใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
17:31
and the truth is you need more time.
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ๅฎŸ้š›ใซใฏใ‚‚ใฃใจๆ™‚้–“ใŒๅฟ…่ฆใงใ™ใ€‚
17:34
You need time to review your schedule and see if there's anything that you can
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ใ‚นใ‚ฑใ‚ธใƒฅใƒผใƒซใ‚’่ฆ‹็›ดใ— ใ€
17:38
do to make both the deadline and this opportunity possible.
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ๆœŸ้™ ใจใ“ใฎๆฉŸไผšใฎไธกๆ–นใ‚’ๅฏ่ƒฝใซใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซไฝ•ใ‹ใงใใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใชใ„ใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹ใ‚’็ขบ่ชใ™ใ‚‹ๆ™‚้–“ใŒๅฟ…่ฆใงใ™ใ€‚
17:43
How might you respond with the enthusiasm that you might have for
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17:48
the idea of speaking at this event and the reality that you
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ใ“ใฎใ‚คใƒ™ใƒณใƒˆใง่ฌ›ๆผ”ใ™ใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†่€ƒใˆใซๅฏพใ—ใฆ็†ฑๆ„ใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจ ใจใ€
17:53
need a little bit more time to think through it?
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ใใ‚Œใซใคใ„ใฆใ˜ใฃใใ‚Š่€ƒใˆใ‚‹ใซใฏใ‚‚ใ†ๅฐ‘ใ—ๆ™‚้–“ใŒๅฟ…่ฆใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†็พๅฎŸใ‚’่ธใพใˆใฆใ€ใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่ฟ”็ญ”ใ—ใพใ™ใ‹?
17:55
Take a moment to review what you've learned today and then craft your response.
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ๅฐ‘ใ—ๆ™‚้–“ใ‚’ๅ–ใฃใฆใ€ไปŠๆ—ฅๅญฆใ‚“ใ ใ“ใจใ‚’็ขบ่ชใ—ใฆใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ ๅฟœ็ญ”ใ‚’ไฝœๆˆใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
18:00
With that, thank you so much for joining me in today's lesson.
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ใใ‚Œใงใฏใ€ ๆœฌๆ—ฅใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใซใ”ๅ‚ๅŠ ใ„ใŸใ ใใพใ—ใฆ่ช ใซใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ”ใ–ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
18:03
I hope you found this helpful. If you did,
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ใ“ใ‚ŒใŒใŠๅฝนใซ็ซ‹ใฆใฐๅนธใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚‚ใ—ใใ†ใชใ‚‰ใ€ใœใฒ
18:05
I would love to know and you can tell me in a few simple ways. Number one,
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็Ÿฅใ‚ŠใŸใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎ็ฐกๅ˜ใชๆ–นๆณ•ใงๆ•™ใˆใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ 1 ใค็›ฎใฏใ€YouTube ใง
18:09
you can give this lesson a thumbs up here on YouTube, and number two,
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ใ“ใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใซ้ซ˜่ฉ•ไพกใ‚’ไธŽใˆใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ ใ€‚2 ใค็›ฎใฏใ€
18:13
you can subscribe to my Speak Confident English YouTube channel so you never
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18:17
miss a Confident English lesson. Finally,
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Confident English ใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใ‚’่ฆ‹้€ƒใ™ใ“ใจใŒใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ๆœ€ๅพŒใซใ€
18:20
you can also jump on over to my Speak Confident English website where you'll
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18:24
find more resources from me,
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็งใ‹ใ‚‰ใฎใ‚ˆใ‚Šๅคšใใฎใƒชใ‚ฝใƒผใ‚นใ‚’่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ใพใŸใ€
18:25
and you can get weekly emails from me with my top tips
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18:30
and my lessons every week.
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ใจใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใ‚’ๆฏŽ้€ฑใƒกใƒผใƒซใงๅ—ใ‘ๅ–ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
18:32
If you'd love to get those emails directly in your inbox,
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ ใƒกใƒผใƒซใ‚’ๅ—ไฟก็ฎฑใซ็›ดๆŽฅๅ—ใ‘ๅ–ใ‚ŠใŸใ„ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€
18:36
you can do that over at my website. Thank you again,
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็งใฎ Web ใ‚ตใ‚คใƒˆใงใใ‚Œใ‚’่กŒใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ ใ€‚ ๆ”นใ‚ใฆๆ„Ÿ่ฌ็”ณใ—ไธŠใ’ใพใ™ใ€‚
18:39
and I look forward to seeing you next time.
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ๆฌกๅ›žใŠไผšใ„ใงใใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๆฅฝใ—ใฟใซใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
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