3 Tips to Get Fluent in English — Even if You're Busy!

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so you probably know that if you want to  become fluent in English it is essential to  
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have the habit of practicing your English  every day but with all the things we have  
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to do in life sometimes it can be difficult to  remain consistent with studying something like  
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English while this is something that happens  to all of us there is one really simple way to  
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develop consistency with your practice even if you  think that you don't have time to study English  
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so in today's video I am going to introduce you  to this idea of systems and give you some tips  
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that are going to help you make your English  practice so much more consistent so that you  
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can finally reach all of your goals in English  even if your time is really limited so let's go
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so before I introduce you to this topic of systems  which is going to be immensely helpful it's really  
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important that first we discuss why it is just so  difficult for us as human beings to maintain good  
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habits if you're anything like me your life is  surrounded by all sorts of different distractions  
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you can easily spend hours watching series on  Netflix or watching videos on your favorite social  
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media platform now between doing something that  takes more effort like sitting down and cracking  
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open your English grammar book or doing something  that's fun and easy let's say watching a funny  
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video on Tick Tock our natural tendency always  seems to be to go towards doing the thing that is  
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easier or that is more comfortable right now not  knowing why you started studying your first place  
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makes it really difficult to practice consistently  that's why it's so important to have a clear goal  
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a clear goal can set you in the right direction  without a clear goal it's like you're trying to  
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throw darts without a dartboard but here's where  things get interesting it's not enough just to  
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set goals you also need systems so goals are a  one-time event but systems are how you get there  
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it's a bit like the difference between a journey  and a destination so to give you a couple examples  
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if you want to lose weight then the amount you  want to lose is your goal but your system is  
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eating healthy and exercising right or maybe  something that's more relevant to you if you  
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wanted to get a band 9 on the IELTS exam then  that's your goal but the system is actually  
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sitting down and studying so when you change your  focus to systems it helps you to actually enjoy  
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the process instead of being too focused in on the  result that you're hoping to achieve or the goal  
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for example if you say I want to be fluent in  English that's the end result that you want to  
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have or the goal but now ask yourself what do  I need to do to achieve this goal or in other  
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words how am I going to practice every day  in order to become fluent that's the system  
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in his best-selling book Atomic habits behavior  science expert James Clear explains that we need  
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to spend less time obsessing over our goals and  spend more time at designing the systems that are  
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going to help us on the way to achieve them in  other words he tells us focus more on how we're  
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going to achieve our goals rather than on what  we want to achieve so one quote that I love from  
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James says we think we need to change our results  but the results are not the problem what we really  
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need to change are the systems that cause those  results so this brings us to tip number one  
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forget about goals focus on systems instead okay  so what this means for you as an English learner  
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is that you need to stop focusing so much on  learning English just so you can achieve something  
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else like getting a better job or passing a test  instead shifting your focus to the reality that  
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you're probably going to be spending your entire  life really learning English so you really should  
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make it a fun valuable and meaningful part of  your life it's going to be an endless cycle of  
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improvement and refinement so you might as well  enjoy the journey now this isn't to say that goals  
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can't be useful Milestones along the way however  what systems help us to really do is shift from  
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just having a short-term focus into having a  long-term focus in other words realizing that no  
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one becomes fluent overnight or in three months or  even in a year if you're really wanting to master  
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language it can take years upon years upon years  so what systems help us to do is to put the focus  
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on the little things that we need to do every  day in order to have immense long-term benefits  
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so just to give you an example say that you make  it your Habit to learn three new words every day  
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that's not really that much and it might just  seem like it's too small of an objective to have  
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however if you were able to do this successfully  if you can successfully build this goal of  
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spending just a few minutes every day practicing  and memorizing three new words then over two years  
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you will have added over 2 000 new words to your  vocabulary so you can see it really builds up over  
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time and just imagine if in two years you know  two thousand more words than you know today you're  
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going to understand almost all the words that  you encounter when you're watching a series or  
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reading a book and you're also going to be able to  speak English so much more eloquently than you can  
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now now I'm sure that you clicked on this video  because you probably just don't have a lot of time  
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to dedicate to learning English and I totally  feel you I usually feel like I'm running from  
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one thing to the next that's why the next tip is  just so important for busy people like you and me  
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but before we move on to that I want to let  you know that if you enjoy videos like this  
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that not only help you to improve your English  but also to improve your life well we bring you  
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a new one every single week so make sure that  you don't miss a single one because we're going  
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to help you go from being a lost and insecure  English learner to being a confident successful  
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English speaker hit that subscribe button and the  bell down below so YouTube can let you know every  
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time we publish the new one and that brings  us to tip number two develop micro habits  
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all right so take a quick listen to this podcast  clip where we explain exactly what micro habits  
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are the micro habits come in this ideal micro  habits to solve that because what science says  
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these days about habit building is that first  you must standardize The Habit before you want  
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to optimize it so people normally go big with  habits they think read for an hour or I'm going to  
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try this diet and it's already a very extreme diet  and they don't do they don't practice the actions  
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that are more related to the starting point of the  getting started all right and the reason that this  
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works is because of something called compounding  effects so what this means is that for example if  
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you were to get one percent better every day at  something you would have grown 37 times over the  
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365 days in the year and if on the other side of  things imagine you were to get one percent worse  
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at something every single day one a year you'll  be pretty close to zero in that thing and that's  
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probably why we have the expression English if you  you don't use it you lose it so this is all to say  
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that the small changes may seem insignificant in  the day-to-day but when you start to think long  
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term they can make a really tremendous impacts on  your life this is exactly how investors are able  
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to get rich or if we think of a more practical  example we could go back to weight loss so if  
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you were to change nothing else other than eating  just 100 calories which is a tiny amount less each  
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day you would be able to lose 4.5 kilos in a year  so basically the advice here is to focus more on  
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what are the small easy incremental changes that  you can make in your everyday that will ultimately  
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lead you to long-term success instead of focusing  on trying to make big changes that you'll probably  
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just give up on after a few weeks now studying or  practicing your English really is not that hard  
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what is really hard is just pushing ourselves to  sit down and do it our brains don't mind hard work  
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what they mind is just the idea of having to do  something difficult that's why most people will  
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not be very successful if they try to sit down  and study for one hour every single day instead  
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of something that's much more effective is called  the five minute rule when you think about sitting  
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down and having to study for an English exam  or study in the conjugations it sounds pretty  
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challenging it doesn't sound very gratifying does  it but when you think about having to just sit  
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down and listen to a podcast in English for five  minutes and maybe note down the new vocabulary  
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here that sounds a lot easier doesn't it the  crazy thing is that for most of us if we put on a  
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podcast with the intention to just listen for five  minutes we'll probably listen for more than that  
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getting started really is the biggest effort for  us but once we get started then those five minutes  
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might turn into 10 minutes 15 minutes maybe even  30 minutes or more now your objective here should  
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not be tricking your brain into studying for an  hour by telling it you're only going to study for  
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five minutes rather what the objective here is is  to build a healthy habit of studying consistently  
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if those five minutes turn into 15 or 30 minutes  that's awesome but if they don't then you should  
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still feel good if you only do five minutes about  checking off your English studying for the day so  
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I want to propose and challenge you to adding a  new micro Habit to your life and that is having  
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a conversation every single day for just four  minutes now that might sound a little bit crazy  
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who is going to want to speak with me for just  four minutes well on the real life English app  
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you can do exactly that anytime anywhere you can  just press a button and have a fun and dynamic  
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four to eight minute conversation with another  English speaker from another part of the world  
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and remember how earlier I discussed the micro  habit of learning just if you want new English  
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words every single day well a really great and  fun way to do this is with the real life English  
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podcast which you can listen to on the app for  free with a full transcript and very soon we are  
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going to be adding a vocabulary flash cards which  are going to help you to practice these words and  
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never forget them so what are you waiting for  download the real life English app for free in  
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your favorite app store right now or simply click  up here or down the description below to find it  
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and finally tip number three consistency is key  so hands down the best way to be consistent when  
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it comes to learning a language like English is  to develop a bilingual lifestyle now what do I  
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mean by this remember earlier I said that you  should not just learn English but actually make  
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it an important meaningful part of your life now  there's so many different fun ways that you can  
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do this and a lot of them are really low impact  so it could be small things like changing your  
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device's language to English so that can mean your  phone your social media accounts your computer  
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Etc and that way you'll learn little words by  actually using these different things I actually  
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remember still in Portuguese the word which is  a chat because when I was learning Portuguese I  
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changed my Facebook's language to Portuguese and  there are lots of other things I've talked about  
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today developing a habit of listening to podcasts  be that podcast for English Learners or native  
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podcasts that are just about topics that you're  interested in and the great thing about this is  
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it's really a bilingual like lifestyle so it's  something that you can do in other parts of your  
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life so you can listen to it you know while you're  in line at the supermarket or while you're driving  
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to work in the morning or while you're running  and of course if you're watching TV series try  
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to always watch them in English with or without  English subtitles listen to your favorite songs  
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and actually look up the lyrics all of these  can be great different ways to just have Micro  
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exposures with the language and they're probably  things that you're doing anyway so it's super  
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easy change to make and with all these things  remember that five minutes a day is much better  
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than two hours twice a week so with all of  these you're really required to have a shift  
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in your mentality so thinking long term instead of  thinking so much about your goals you start to see  
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that success really comes from doing little things  every day rather than doing tremendous big efforts  
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in a short amount of time we all want to believe  that there's some magic pill out there that we're  
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going to take and suddenly it's going to help us  to achieve our goal of being fluent or of being  
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super in shape but you know whatever our goal is  it always requires putting in the daily effort  
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be that going to the gym him or for us studying  vocabulary every day and creating a lifestyle  
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that really supports that I promise you that if  you commit to the process you will see progress  
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there's another really great quote from this  book Atomic habits and from James clear that I  
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love and it says you do not rise to the level of  your goals you fall to the level of your systems  
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so today we've been talking all about building  new habits and I want to hear from you after  
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watching this what new English habit do you  want to do for your English practice share  
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it down below and also be sure to check out what  other Learners said it might also just give you  
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a great idea for something you can add to your  own English lifestyle so today we've discussed  
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why contrary to popular belief focusing too  much on goals is counterproductive now this  
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is not to say that goals are not important goals  are the first step in fact with all of my coaching  
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students I used to have them do on the very first  day of class think about why they're learning the  
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language and I would actually have them even  write this down and put it somewhere they would  
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see every single day because this is an immense  motivator however once we've done this then it's  
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really great to spend some time on designing  planning and optimizing our systems that's  
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how you plan on achieving this goal now if you  do this then learning English is just going to  
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become an effortless habit for you and you will  naturally become a confident English speaker as  
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a result of these good habits and learning so in  this episode Casey and Izzy are discussing how  
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to implement good habits in your life for this  first part you will listen to Three extracts  
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and you need to choose the best option A B or C to  answer the questions are you ready after listening  
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to each section we'll give you the option of  playing it again if you feel it's necessary  
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so this is how most of us live our lives including  me and it's really important for us to understand
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