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English with Ronnie


์•„๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฌธ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ”ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋œ ์ž๋ง‰์€ ๊ธฐ๊ณ„ ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

00:00
It's a beautiful day in the neighbourhood.
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์ด์›ƒ์˜ ์•„๋ฆ„๋‹ค์šด ๋‚ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:02
I'm Ronnie.
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์ €๋Š” ๋กœ๋‹ˆ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:03
I'm not Mr. Rogers.
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์ €๋Š” ๋กœ์ €์Šค ์”จ๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:05
I'm going to teach you something today that's I think kind of interesting, and I would like
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์ €๋Š” ์˜ค๋Š˜ ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์—๊ฒŒ ํฅ๋ฏธ๋กœ์šด ๊ฒƒ์„ ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์ณ ๋“œ๋ฆด ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
00:11
to know your opinion; if you agree or disagree with this theory.
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์˜ ์˜๊ฒฌ์„ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด ์ด๋ก ์— ๋™์˜ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋™์˜ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ .
00:17
This is a psychological theory.
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์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์‹ฌ๋ฆฌํ•™ ์ด๋ก ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:19
Let's dive into your brain.
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๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๋‘๋‡Œ ์†์œผ๋กœ ๋›ฐ์–ด๋“ค์–ด ๋ด…์‹œ๋‹ค.
00:24
Delicious.
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๋ง›์žˆ๋Š”.
00:25
There's been many studies done on what we call "birth order".
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ "์ถœ์ƒ ์ˆœ์„œ"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ถ€๋ฅด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋งŽ์€ ์—ฐ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ์ด๋ฃจ์–ด์กŒ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:28
So, "birth order" means if you were born first, second, or third.
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ "์ถœ์ƒ ์ˆœ์„œ"๋Š” ์ฒซ ๋ฒˆ์งธ, ๋‘ ๋ฒˆ์งธ ๋˜๋Š” ์„ธ ๋ฒˆ์งธ๋กœ ํƒœ์–ด๋‚œ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ๋ฅผ ์˜๋ฏธํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:32
We also call it, like, the middle-baby syndrome.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ์ค‘๊ฐ„ ์•„๊ธฐ ์ฆํ›„๊ตฐ์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ถ€๋ฅด๊ธฐ๋„ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:37
I've just made that up.
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๋‚˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๊ธˆ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ๊ตฌ์„ฑํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:39
But if you're... if you're the middle kid, you have disadvantages; there's TV shows about
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋งŒ์•ฝ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด... ์ค‘๊ฐ„ ์•„์ด๋ผ๋ฉด ๋ถˆ๋ฆฌํ•œ ์ ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:45
it, called Malcolm in the Middle.
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Malcolm in the Middle์ด๋ผ๋Š” TV ํ”„๋กœ๊ทธ๋žจ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด
00:48
There's been so many things, so much research done about this, and I'm just going to share
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๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋งŽ์€ ์ผ์ด ์žˆ์—ˆ๊ณ  ๋งŽ์€ ์—ฐ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ €๋Š”
00:53
this with you, and you can learn some vocabulary, and you can learn something about yourself,
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์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„๊ณผ ๊ณต์œ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์€ ์•ฝ๊ฐ„์˜ ์–ดํœ˜๋ฅผ ๋ฐฐ์šธ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ณ  ์ž์‹ ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋ฐฐ์šธ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:00
and if you are a parent you can maybe learn something about your children.
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด ๋ถ€๋ชจ๋ผ๋ฉด ๋ฐฐ์šธ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ž๋…€์— ๊ด€ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ.
01:04
Why are they so crazy?
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์™œ ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋ฏธ์ณค์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
01:07
Why are those little devils doing that?
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๊ทธ ์ž‘์€ ์•…๋งˆ๋“ค์ด ์™œ ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋Š” ๊ฑฐ์ง€?
01:09
Or why is my child an angel?
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์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ์™œ ๋‚ด ์•„์ด๊ฐ€ ์ฒœ์‚ฌ์ผ๊นŒ์š”?
01:11
So, this is called "birth order".
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ "์ถœ์ƒ ์ˆœ์„œ"๋ผ๊ณ  ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:13
And the first thing I want to teach you is few slang words in regard to parenting.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์—๊ฒŒ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ๋จผ์ € ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ๊ฒƒ์€ ์œก์•„์— ๊ด€ํ•œ ๋ช‡ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์†์–ด์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:21
So, one of them is called a "mama's boy".
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๊ทธ๋“ค ์ค‘ ํ•˜๋‚˜๋Š” "์—„๋งˆ์˜ ์†Œ๋…„"์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ถˆ๋ฆฝ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:24
You probably have this in your language.
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์–ธ์–ด๋กœ ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:26
"Mama's boy" is a boy who always depends on their mother.
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'๋งˆ๋งˆ๋ณด์ด'๋Š” ์—„๋งˆ์—๊ฒŒ ๋Š˜ ์˜์ง€ํ•˜๋Š” ์†Œ๋…„์ด๋‹ค .
01:33
So, a mama's boy will never really become fully independent.
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ mama's boy๋Š” ๊ฒฐ์ฝ” ์™„์ „ํžˆ ๋…๋ฆฝํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
01:40
His mother will always do his laundry; cook his dinner, and lunch, and breakfast; and
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๊ทธ์˜ ์–ด๋จธ๋‹ˆ๋Š” ํ•ญ์ƒ ๊ทธ์˜ ๋นจ๋ž˜๋ฅผ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ์˜ ์ €๋…, ์ ์‹ฌ, ์•„์นจ ์‹์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ์š”๋ฆฌํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
01:46
basically never, ever grow up.
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๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ ์œผ๋กœ ์ ˆ๋Œ€ ์ž๋ผ์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:49
So, you don't actually want to produce a mama's boy and you don't actually want to be a mama's
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ๋งˆ๋งˆ๋ณด์ด๋ฅผ ๋‚ณ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ  ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ๋งˆ๋งˆ๋ณด์ด๊ฐ€ ๋˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€๋„ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:57
boy because, in the future, it will cause problems in relationships because no one can
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์™œ๋ƒํ•˜๋ฉด ๋ฏธ๋ž˜์—๋Š” ์•„๋ฌด๋„ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์–ด๋จธ๋‹ˆ๋ฅผ ๋Œ€์‹ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๊ด€๊ณ„์— ๋ฌธ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์ƒ๊ธธ ๊ฒƒ์ด๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:05
ever replace your mother and... oh, so the trauma begins.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ ... ์˜ค , ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ํŠธ๋ผ์šฐ๋งˆ๊ฐ€ ์‹œ์ž‘๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:11
So, "mama's boy" are boys who depend too much on their mothers.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ '๋งˆ๋งˆ๋ณด์ด'๋Š” ์—„๋งˆ์—๊ฒŒ ์ง€๋‚˜์น˜๊ฒŒ ์˜์กดํ•˜๋Š” ๋‚จ์ž์•„์ด๋ฅผ ๋งํ•œ๋‹ค .
02:18
So, mamas, stop babying your son.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ ์—„๋งˆ, ์•„๋“ค์„ ๊ทธ๋งŒ ๋Œ๋ด์ฃผ์„ธ์š”.
02:20
Make him do the cooking and the laundry.
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๊ทธ์—๊ฒŒ ์š”๋ฆฌ์™€ ๋นจ๋ž˜๋ฅผ ์‹œํ‚ค์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
02:24
Relax.
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์•ˆ์‹ฌํ•˜๋‹ค.
02:25
Take a bubble bath.
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๊ฑฐํ’ˆ ๋ชฉ์š•ํ•˜๊ธฐ.
02:26
Eat some bonbons.
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๋ด‰๋ด‰ ์ข€ ๋“œ์„ธ์š”.
02:28
Let that kid do the washing up.
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๊ทธ ์•„์ด๊ฐ€ ์„ค๊ฑฐ์ง€๋ฅผ ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋†”๋‘์„ธ์š”.
02:30
Okay, the other one is a new sensation called "helicopter parenting".
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์ž, ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ํ•˜๋‚˜๋Š” "ํ—ฌ๋ฆฌ์ฝฅํ„ฐ ์œก์•„"๋ผ๋Š” ์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ์„ผ์„ธ์ด์…˜์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:35
So, in our society, because it has become more dangerous, parents now have to actually
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์‚ฌํšŒ์—์„œ๋Š” ๋” ์œ„ํ—˜ํ•ด์กŒ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ์ด์ œ ๋ถ€๋ชจ๋Š” ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ
02:43
walk their children to school.
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์ž๋…€๋ฅผ ํ•™๊ต์— ๋ฐ๋ ค๋‹ค ์ฃผ์–ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:46
When I was a child, I got to go to school by myself-yay-and cross the road, and I survived.
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์–ด๋ ธ์„ ๋•Œ ํ˜ผ์ž ํ•™๊ต์— ๊ฐ€์„œ ๊ธธ์„ ๊ฑด๋„ˆ์„œ ์‚ด์•„๋‚จ์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:52
But, again, our society is getting more dangerous, depending on where you live.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ๋‹ค์‹œ ๋งํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์‚ฌํšŒ๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์‚ฌ๋Š” ๊ณณ์— ๋”ฐ๋ผ ์ ์  ๋” ์œ„ํ—˜ํ•ด์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:57
Now parents must walk the kids to school and pick them up.
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์ด์ œ ๋ถ€๋ชจ๋Š” ์•„์ด๋“ค์„ ํ•™๊ต์— ๋ฐ๋ ค๋‹ค ์ฃผ๊ณ  ๋ฐ๋ฆฌ๋Ÿฌ ๊ฐ€์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
03:01
So, this obviously would interfere with having a job and properly maybe a life.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๋ถ„๋ช…ํžˆ ์ง์—…์„ ๊ฐ–๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๊ณผ ์•„๋งˆ๋„ ์‚ถ์„ ๋ฐฉํ•ดํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
03:09
So, "helicopter parenting" means that the parents watch the children too much.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ 'ํ—ฌ๋ฆฌ์ฝฅํ„ฐ ์œก์•„'๋ž€ ๋ถ€๋ชจ๊ฐ€ ์•„์ด๋ฅผ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋งŽ์ด ์ง€์ผœ๋ณธ๋‹ค๋Š” ๋œป์ด๋‹ค.
03:18
Before it was called being "overprotective".
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"๊ณผ๋ณดํ˜ธ"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ถˆ๋ฆฌ๊ธฐ ์ „์—.
03:20
So, if you have an overprotective mother or father, they're always watching what you're
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๊ณผ์ž‰ ๋ณดํ˜ธํ•˜๋Š” ์–ด๋จธ๋‹ˆ๋‚˜ ์•„๋ฒ„์ง€๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ํ•ญ์ƒ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด
03:25
doing, they're always worried, and it's really annoying because you want your freedom.
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ํ•˜๋Š” ์ผ์„ ์ง€์ผœ๋ณด๊ณ  ํ•ญ์ƒ ๊ฑฑ์ •ํ•˜๋ฉฐ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ž์œ ๋ฅผ ์›ํ•˜๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ์ •๋ง ์งœ์ฆ์ด ๋‚ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:30
So, helicopter parenting is just being overprotective about your children.
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ํ—ฌ๋ฆฌ์ฝฅํ„ฐ ์œก์•„๋Š” ์ž๋…€๋ฅผ ๊ณผ์ž‰ ๋ณดํ˜ธํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
03:36
Of course, it's your natural instinct to protect your children, but sometimes it gets too much.
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๋ฌผ๋ก  ์ž๋…€๋ฅผ ๋ณดํ˜ธํ•˜๋ ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋ณธ๋Šฅ์ด์ง€๋งŒ ๋•Œ๋กœ๋Š” ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๊ณผํ•  ๋•Œ๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:43
Another example of this is for children's birthday parties.
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์ด์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์˜ˆ๋Š” ์–ด๋ฆฐ์ด ์ƒ์ผ ํŒŒํ‹ฐ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:47
When I was a child, I would go to my friend's birthday party by myself, maybe my mother
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๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์–ด๋ ธ์„ ๋•Œ, ๋‚˜๋Š” ํ˜ผ์ž ์นœ๊ตฌ์˜ ์ƒ์ผ ํŒŒํ‹ฐ์— ๊ฐ€๊ณค ํ–ˆ๊ณ , ์–ด์ฉŒ๋ฉด ์—„๋งˆ
03:52
and father would drop me off, and I would play for a couple of hours, eat some cake,
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์™€ ์•„๋น ๊ฐ€ ๋‚˜๋ฅผ ๋‚ด๋ ค์ฃผ๊ณ , ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋ช‡ ์‹œ๊ฐ„ ๋™์•ˆ ๋†€๊ณ , ์ผ€์ดํฌ๋ฅผ ๋จน๊ณ ,
03:57
go home.
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์ง‘์— ๊ฐ€๊ณค ํ–ˆ๋‹ค.
03:58
Now the parents actually go to the kids' birthday parties.
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์ด์ œ ๋ถ€๋ชจ๋Š” ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ์•„์ด๋“ค์˜ ์ƒ์ผ ํŒŒํ‹ฐ์— ๊ฐ‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:03
You guys just want cake.
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๋„ˆํฌ๋“ค์€ ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ์ผ€์ดํฌ๋ฅผ ์›ํ•ด.
04:05
I get it.
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์•Œ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:07
Good idea.
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์ข‹์€ ์ƒ๊ฐ.
04:08
Yeah.
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์‘.
04:09
"I'm protecting my children."
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"๋‚ด ์•„์ด๋“ค์€ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์ง€ํ‚จ๋‹ค."
04:11
You're protecting your stomach from the cake.
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ผ€์ดํฌ๋กœ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ์œ„์žฅ์„ ๋ณดํ˜ธํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:13
Okay, I get it.
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์•Œ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:15
So, this is parent... helicopter parenting.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๋ถ€๋ชจ... ํ—ฌ๋ฆฌ์ฝฅํ„ฐ ์œก์•„์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:18
Negative, positive?
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๋„ค๊ฑฐํ‹ฐ๋ธŒ, ํฌ์ง€ํ‹ฐ๋ธŒ?
04:20
You decide.
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ฒฐ์ •ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:21
So, let's start with the "first born"; your very first baby.
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์ž, "๋ง์•„๋“ค"๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•ฉ์‹œ๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์ฒซ ์•„๊ธฐ.
04:23
So, you are really excited for the very first baby but you are also very, very, very nervous
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์ฒซ ๋ฒˆ์งธ ์•„๊ธฐ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ •๋ง ํฅ๋ถ„๋˜์ง€๋งŒ ์•„๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ์ƒ์กดํ•˜๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ์›ํ•˜๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๋งค์šฐ, ๋งค์šฐ, ๋งค์šฐ ๊ธด์žฅํ•˜๊ธฐ๋„ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
04:33
because you want the baby to survive.
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.
04:36
So, as a parent, the first baby you don't know what to do, of course; you've never done
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๋ถ€๋ชจ๋กœ์„œ ์ฒซ ๋ฒˆ์งธ ์•„๊ธฐ๋Š” ๋‹น์—ฐํžˆ ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ• ์ง€ ๋ชจ๋ฆ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์€
04:43
this before.
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์ „์— ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ํ•œ ์ ์ด ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:44
So, you have very strict rules and everything is crazy.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋งค์šฐ ์—„๊ฒฉํ•œ ๊ทœ์น™์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ณ  ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋ฏธ์ณค์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:50
If the baby is sick: "Oh my god!
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์•„๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ์•„ํ”Œ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ: "๋ง™์†Œ์‚ฌ!
04:52
It's an emergency!"
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๊ธด๊ธ‰ ์ƒํ™ฉ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค!"
04:53
That's normal.
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์ •์ƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:54
So, what the effect of this is: The first born are always going to have the most strict
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์ด๊ฒƒ์ด ๋ฏธ์น˜๋Š” ์˜ํ–ฅ์€ ๋ฌด์—‡์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ? ์žฅ์ž๋Š” ํ•ญ์ƒ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์—„๊ฒฉํ•œ
04:59
parents and the most strict rules.
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๋ถ€๋ชจ์™€ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์—„๊ฒฉํ•œ ๊ทœ์น™์„ ๊ฐ–๊ฒŒ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:01
Okay?
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์ข‹์•„์š”?
05:03
And that's wonderful.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ํ›Œ๋ฅญํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:04
The baby grows up, then-doo-doo-doo-doo-surprise - you have another child.
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์•„๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ์ž๋ผ์„œ ๋‘๋‘๋‘๋‘๋‘๋‘๋‘ ๋†€๋žŒ โ€“ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์•„์ด๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:10
So, what happens is with the birth of the second child, the first born is going to learn
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๋‘ ๋ฒˆ์งธ ์•„์ด์˜ ํƒ„์ƒ๊ณผ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์ผ์–ด๋‚˜๋Š” ์ผ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ์ฒซ ์•„์ด๋Š”
05:17
really, really positive things.
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์ •๋ง ์ •๋ง ๊ธ์ •์ ์ธ ๊ฒƒ๋“ค์„ ๋ฐฐ์šฐ๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:19
The child is going to learn to nurture and love-hopefully-his or her baby brother or
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์•„์ด๋Š” ์ž์‹ ์˜ ๋‚จ๋™์ƒ์ด๋‚˜
05:27
sister.
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์—ฌ๋™์ƒ์„ ์–‘์œกํ•˜๊ณ  ์‚ฌ๋ž‘ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฒ•์„ ๋ฐฐ์šฐ๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:28
So, they are taught to teach the child, and they are taught to love them.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์•„์ด๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ฐฐ์šฐ๊ณ , ์•„์ด๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘ํ•˜๋ผ๊ณ  ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์นฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:36
So, you see little boys and little girls are very excited for their little baby brothers
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์–ด๋ฆฐ ์†Œ๋…„ ์†Œ๋…€๋“ค์ด ๋‚จ๋™์ƒ์ด๋‚˜ ์—ฌ๋™์ƒ์„ ๋ณด๊ณ  ๋งค์šฐ ํฅ๋ถ„ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ณผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
05:42
or baby sisters.
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. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€
05:43
Till they be born, they ask their Mom or Dad: "Mom, I want a baby brother for Christmas."
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ํƒœ์–ด๋‚  ๋•Œ๊นŒ์ง€ ์—„๋งˆ๋‚˜ ์•„๋น ์—๊ฒŒ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋ฌป์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. "์—„๋งˆ, ํฌ๋ฆฌ์Šค๋งˆ์Šค์— ๋‚จ๋™์ƒ์„ ์›ํ•ด์š”."
05:49
Uh-oh.
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์–ด ์˜ค.
05:50
So, this is a very positive thing.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๋งค์šฐ ๊ธ์ •์ ์ธ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:54
They also are very eager or they want to please others.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋˜ํ•œ ๋งค์šฐ ์—ด์„ฑ์ ์ด๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์„ ๊ธฐ์˜๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ดํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:59
They want to please their mother and father; they want their parents to be happy, so this
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์–ด๋จธ๋‹ˆ์™€ ์•„๋ฒ„์ง€๋ฅผ ๊ธฐ์˜๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ดํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋ถ€๋ชจ๊ฐ€ ํ–‰๋ณตํ•˜๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ์›ํ•˜๋ฏ€๋กœ
06:05
is good.
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์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:07
When the new baby is born, they understand other people's needs, so they think: "Oh,
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์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ์•„๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ํƒœ์–ด๋‚˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์˜ ํ•„์š”๋ฅผ ์ดํ•ดํ•˜๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:13
hey, I'm not the only kid here.
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06:15
There's another person, and oh... oh, hey.
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06:21
This little guy wants to use my toys, too.
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๋‚ด ์žฅ๋‚œ๊ฐ๋„.
06:24
Okay."
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์ข‹์•„."
06:25
So they learn to be more adaptive; they learn to share things, they learn to take care of
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋” ์ ์‘ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฒ•์„ ๋ฐฐ์›๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋ฌผ๊ฑด์„ ๊ณต์œ ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฒ•์„ ๋ฐฐ์šฐ๊ณ 
06:33
other people.
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ๋Œ๋ณด๋Š” ๋ฒ•์„ ๋ฐฐ์›๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:35
They like to teach, some of them.
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๊ทธ๋“ค ์ค‘ ์ผ๋ถ€๋Š” ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:37
This, of course, is not everyone.
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๋ฌผ๋ก  ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๋ชจ๋“  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:40
So they like to teach their little brother and sister how to do things because they're
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์ฑ…์ž„๊ฐ ์žˆ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๋‚จ๋™์ƒ๊ณผ ์—ฌ๋™์ƒ์—๊ฒŒ ์ผ์„ ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
06:44
the responsible one.
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.
06:46
And they like to lead; they like to be leaders.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋ฆฌ๋“œํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋ฆฌ๋”๊ฐ€ ๋˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:48
So, most of them like to teach them because they feel proud.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋Œ€๋ถ€๋ถ„์€ ์ž๋ถ€์‹ฌ์„ ๋Š๋ผ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
06:52
So, these are the very positive aspects about being the first born and then having another
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์ฒซ์งธ๋กœ ํƒœ์–ด๋‚œ ๋‹ค์Œ ๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ
06:58
little baby.
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์ž‘์€ ์•„๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๊ฐ–๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋งค์šฐ ๊ธ์ •์ ์ธ ์ธก๋ฉด์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:59
But there are bad things, and this is where you have to watch out if you are a parent.
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์•ˆ ์ข‹์€ ์ ๋„ ์žˆ๊ณ , ๋ถ€๋ชจ๋ผ๋ฉด ์กฐ์‹ฌํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ๋ถ€๋ถ„์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:06
So, of course, with a new baby, the first baby is going to be jealous because all of
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹น์—ฐํžˆ ์ƒˆ ์•„๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ์ƒ๊ธฐ๋ฉด ๋ชจ๋“ 
07:12
the attention is now given to the new baby.
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๊ด€์‹ฌ์ด ์ด์ œ ์ƒˆ ์•„๊ธฐ์—๊ฒŒ ์ ๋ฆฌ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ์ฒซ ๋ฒˆ์งธ ์•„๊ธฐ๋Š” ์งˆํˆฌํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:15
So, the new baby will get toys and the first born won't get any toys.
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์ƒˆ๋กœ ํƒœ์–ด๋‚œ ์•„๊ธฐ๋Š” ์žฅ๋‚œ๊ฐ์„ ๊ฐ–๊ฒŒ ๋˜๊ณ  ์ฒซ์งธ๋Š” ์žฅ๋‚œ๊ฐ์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€์ง€ ์•Š๊ฒŒ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:22
So, a lot of parents buy a toy for the baby and for the older brother or sister.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋งŽ์€ ๋ถ€๋ชจ๋“ค์ด ์•„๊ธฐ ์™€ ํ˜•์ด๋‚˜ ๋ˆ„๋‚˜๋ฅผ ์œ„ํ•ด ์žฅ๋‚œ๊ฐ์„ ๊ตฌ์ž…ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:30
They're going to experience a sense of loss, and this is losing their toys, this is losing
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์ƒ์‹ค๊ฐ์„ ๊ฒฝํ—˜ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์žฅ๋‚œ๊ฐ์„ ์žƒ์–ด๋ฒ„๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด๊ฒƒ์€
07:37
all of the attention from the mother and father as well, and they feel really sad about this
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์–ด๋จธ๋‹ˆ์™€ ์•„๋ฒ„์ง€์˜ ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ด€์‹ฌ์„ ์žƒ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์ด๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ •๋ง ์Šฌํ”„๊ณ 
07:42
and jealous.
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์งˆํˆฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:44
They need to share the attention or share the love of the mother and father; they don't
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๊ด€์‹ฌ์„ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์–ด๋จธ๋‹ˆ์™€ ์•„๋ฒ„์ง€์˜ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘์„ ๋‚˜๋ˆŒ ํ•„์š”๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€
07:50
like this.
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์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:51
And they feel a lot of pressure because they always need help; they always need to help
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ํ•ญ์ƒ ๋„์›€์ด ํ•„์š”ํ•˜๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๋งŽ์€ ์••๋ฐ•๊ฐ์„ ๋Š๋‚๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ํ•ญ์ƒ
08:00
the mother and father.
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์–ด๋จธ๋‹ˆ์™€ ์•„๋ฒ„์ง€๋ฅผ ๋„์™€์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:01
So, the mother... maybe you're busy and you say: "Oh, okay, come on.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ, ์–ด๋จธ๋‹ˆ๋Š”... ์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋ฐ”์˜๊ณ  "์˜ค, ์•Œ์•˜์–ด, ์–ด์„œ. ๊ฐ€์ž
08:04
Let's... let's... help... help me do this.
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...ํ•˜์ž... ๋„์™€์ค˜... ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์ด ์ผ์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ฒŒ ๋„์™€์ค˜.
08:06
I need you to help me", so they feel a lot of responsibility.
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๋‚˜๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋‚˜๋ฅผ ๋„์™€์ค˜์•ผ ํ•ด"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋งŽ์€ ์ฑ…์ž„๊ฐ์„ ๋Š๋‚๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:11
Depending on the child, they might really like this, or they might find it awful because
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์•„์ด์— ๋”ฐ๋ผ ์ •๋ง ์ข‹์•„ํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๊ณ 
08:16
they just want to play, but: "Oh my god, I have to help my baby brother" or "my baby
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๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ๋†€๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ด์„œ ๋”์ฐํ•˜๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ "์˜ค ๋งˆ์ด ๊ฐ“, ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋‚ด ๋‚จ๋™์ƒ์„ ๋„์™€์•ผ ํ•ด" ๋˜๋Š” "๋‚ด
08:22
sister".
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์—ฌ๋™์ƒ".
08:23
So, we have to be aware of what happens in the developmental brain of a child.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์•„์ด์˜ ๋ฐœ๋‹ฌ ๋‡Œ์—์„œ ์–ด๋–ค ์ผ์ด ์ผ์–ด๋‚˜๋Š”์ง€ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ์–ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
08:29
Why are they acting out?
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์™œ ํ–‰๋™ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
08:30
Why are they doing this?
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์™œ ์ด๋Ÿฌ๋Š” ๊ฑธ๊นŒ์š”?
08:32
These are the reasons.
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์ด๊ฒƒ์ด ์ด์œ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:33
They're jealous.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์งˆํˆฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:34
The "second born".
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"๋‘ ๋ฒˆ์งธ๋กœ ํƒœ์–ด๋‚œ".
08:35
So, if you're the second born - wow, you get one thing that's really cool, is your mother
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ, ๋งŒ์•ฝ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋‘˜์งธ๋ผ๋ฉด - ์™€์šฐ, ์ •๋ง ๋ฉ‹์ง„ ํ•œ ๊ฐ€์ง€๋ฅผ ์•Œ๊ฒŒ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์–ด๋จธ๋‹ˆ
08:41
and father have done this already; they're cool.
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์™€ ์•„๋ฒ„์ง€๋Š” ์ด๋ฏธ ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ํ•˜์…จ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋ฉ‹์ง€๋‹ค.
08:44
So, if you sneeze, you're not going to run to the hospital; they know you just have a
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์žฌ์ฑ„๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ํ•˜๋ฉด ๋ณ‘์›์— ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ฐ๊ธฐ์— ๊ฑธ๋ ธ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์••๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
08:50
cold.
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08:51
So, the parents are calmer, they learn more, they've done this already.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋ถ€๋ชจ๋Š” ๋” ์ฐจ๋ถ„ํ•ด์ง€๊ณ , ๋” ๋งŽ์ด ๋ฐฐ์šฐ๊ณ , ์ด๋ฏธ ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ํ•ด์™”์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:56
They know what happened.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋ฌด์Šจ ์ผ์ด ์ผ์–ด๋‚ฌ๋Š”์ง€ ์••๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:57
You get to learn from your older sibling.
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ํ˜•์—๊ฒŒ์„œ ๋ฐฐ์šธ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:00
So, "sibling" means brother or sister.
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ "ํ˜•์ œ"๋Š” ํ˜•์ œ ๋˜๋Š” ์ž๋งค๋ฅผ ์˜๋ฏธํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:03
So, hopefully your older brother and sister will help you do things, and that's fun; you
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ, ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ํ˜•๊ณผ ๋ˆ„์ด๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ผ์„ ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ ๋„์›€์ด ๋˜๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋ฐ”๋ผ๋ฉฐ, ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ์žฌ๋ฏธ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์€
09:09
can learn from them.
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๊ทธ๋“ค๋กœ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ๋ฐฐ์šธ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:12
Because of this, theory has it that you read and you can develop faster because it's the
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๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ์ด๋ก ์€ ์ฝ๋Š”๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์žˆ๊ณ , ํ˜•์ด๋‚˜ ๋ˆ„๋‚˜์˜ ๋„์›€์„ ๋ฐ›๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๋” ๋นจ๋ฆฌ ๋ฐœ์ „ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
09:18
help of your older brother or sister.
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09:21
Now, maybe if your older brother or sister doesn't help you, you can't read faster.
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์ด์ œ ํ˜•์ด๋‚˜ ๋ˆ„๋‚˜๊ฐ€ ๋„์™€์ฃผ์ง€ ์•Š์œผ๋ฉด ๋” ๋นจ๋ฆฌ ์ฝ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:28
That's fine.
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๊ดœ์ฐฎ์•„.
09:29
I have an older brother.
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ํ˜•์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:31
[Clears throat].
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[๋ชฉ์„ ๊ฐ€๋‹ค๋“ฌ ๋‹ค].
09:33
So, in theory, the older one will help the younger one and they will develop faster.
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์ด๋ก ์ ์œผ๋กœ ๋‚˜์ด๊ฐ€ ๋งŽ์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์–ด๋ฆฐ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ๋„์šธ ๊ฒƒ์ด๊ณ  ๋” ๋นจ๋ฆฌ ๋ฐœ์ „ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:40
But with everything in life, there are some drawbacks or some negative things about being
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ์ธ์ƒ์˜ ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฒƒ์—๋Š” ๋‘ ๋ฒˆ์งธ ์ถœ์ƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋ช‡ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ๋‹จ์ ์ด๋‚˜ ๋ถ€์ •์ ์ธ ์ ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
09:46
the second born.
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09:47
The first one is because your sibling is older, they can obviously do more things, so you
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์ฒซ ๋ฒˆ์งธ๋Š” ํ˜•์ œ์ž๋งค๊ฐ€ ๋‚˜์ด๊ฐ€ ๋งŽ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๋ถ„๋ช…ํžˆ ๋” ๋งŽ์€ ์ผ์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์œผ๋ฏ€๋กœ ๊ท€
09:55
or the baby would begin to feel inadequate.
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ํ•˜๋‚˜ ์•„๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ๋ถ€์ ์ ˆํ•˜๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋Š๋ผ๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:59
"Inadequate" means you feel like you can't do something.
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"๋ถ€์ ์ ˆํ•˜๋‹ค"๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋ฌด์–ธ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋Š๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
10:04
So, depending on the age, if a 5-year-old can do something, a 2-year-old can't do it
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๋‚˜์ด์— ๋”ฐ๋ผ 5์„ธ ์•„์ด๊ฐ€ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์ผ์„ 2์„ธ ์•„์ด๋Š” ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:11
- logically we can understand this, but the child doesn't.
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๋…ผ๋ฆฌ์ ์œผ๋กœ ์ดํ•ดํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ ์•„์ด๋Š” ๊ทธ๋ ‡์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:15
So, we need to guide the child and say: "Oh, yeah, yeah, but look it: Your brother is 5
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์•„์ด๋ฅผ ์•ˆ๋‚ดํ•˜๊ณ  ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:20
and you're only 2.
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10:22
Your brother can paint and draw, and you just eat crayons.
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10:25
That's fine; you're only 2 years old."
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2์‚ด๋ฐ–์— ์•ˆ๋์–ด."
10:29
Another thing they do is they try to imitate the older brother or sister.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ํ•˜๋Š” ๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์ผ์€ ํ˜•์ด๋‚˜ ๋ˆ„๋‚˜๋ฅผ ํ‰๋‚ด๋‚ด๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:33
So, you might think: "Oo, okay".
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ "์•„, ์•Œ์•˜์–ด"๋ผ๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:36
"Imitate" means they copy what the older brother or sister does.
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"๋ชจ๋ฐฉ"์€ ํ˜• ์ด๋‚˜ ๋ˆ„๋‚˜๊ฐ€ ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋”ฐ๋ผํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๋œป์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:41
Sometimes this is negative because maybe the older brother and sister do bad things, so
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๋•Œ๋•Œ๋กœ ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ํ˜•๊ณผ ๋ˆ„๋‚˜๊ฐ€ ๋‚˜์œ ์ผ์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๋ถ€์ •์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:48
of course, the child would like to do the same as the brother and sister - this could
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๋ฌผ๋ก  ์•„์ด๋Š” ๋‚จ๋™์ƒ๊ณผ ๋˜‘๊ฐ™์ดํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ดํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด๊ฒƒ์€
10:54
be double; double trouble.
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๋‘ ๋ฐฐ๊ฐ€ ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด์ค‘ ๋ฌธ์ œ.
10:57
And also it annoys the older brother or sister.
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๋˜ํ•œ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ํ˜•์ด๋‚˜ ๋ˆ„๋‚˜๋ฅผ ๊ท€์ฐฎ๊ฒŒ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:00
And, of course, they're jealous.
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๋ฌผ๋ก  ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์งˆํˆฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:03
All kids are jealous.
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๋ชจ๋“  ์•„์ด๋“ค์€ ์งˆํˆฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:04
They're jealous of the older brother or sister, because the older brother and sister can do
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ํ˜•์ด๋‚˜ ๋ˆ„๋‚˜๊ฐ€ ๋ฉ‹์ง„ ์ผ์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ํ˜•์ด๋‚˜ ๋ˆ„๋‚˜๋ฅผ ์งˆํˆฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
11:10
cool things; they can go with their friends and you can't, or they can do different things,
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. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์นœ๊ตฌ๋“ค๊ณผ ๊ฐˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ฐˆ ์ˆ˜ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋˜๋Š” ๊ทธ๋“ค์€
11:17
different activities that you can't do.
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†๋Š” ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์ผ, ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ํ™œ๋™์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:19
So, there's a big loss here and they... they're very competitive.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์— ํฐ ์†์‹ค์ด ์žˆ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋“ค์€... ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋งค์šฐ ๊ฒฝ์Ÿ๋ ฅ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:25
"I want to be like my brother and sister."
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"ํ˜•, ๋ˆ„๋‚˜์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ด์š”."
11:27
They have a drive.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋“œ๋ผ์ด๋ธŒ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฒฝ์Ÿ๋ ฅ์ด ์žˆ๊ธฐ
11:28
Maybe this helps you in real life because you are competitive.
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๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ์‹ค์ƒํ™œ์—์„œ ๋„์›€์ด ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
11:33
The last one-me-is the "last born" or the baby of the family.
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๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰ ํ•œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์€ "๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰์œผ๋กœ ํƒœ์–ด๋‚œ" ๋˜๋Š” ๊ฐ€์กฑ์˜ ์•„๊ธฐ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:42
This word: "imitate" I've spelt wrong, actually only has one "m", so: "I imitate" is only
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์ด ๋‹จ์–ด: "imitate" ์ฒ ์ž๋ฅผ ์ž˜๋ชป ์ž…๋ ฅํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ๋Š” ํ•˜๋‚˜์˜ "m"๋งŒ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ "I mimitate"์—๋Š”
11:50
with one "m".
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ํ•˜๋‚˜์˜ "m"๋งŒ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:51
I like to put in two m's; it's fun, but it's wrong.
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๋‚˜๋Š” ๋‘ ๊ฐœ์˜ m์„ ๋„ฃ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์žฌ๋ฏธ์žˆ๊ธด ํ•œ๋ฐ ํ‹€๋ ธ์–ด.
11:53
So: "imitate".
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ : "๋ชจ๋ฐฉ".
11:54
The last one or the baby is what I am, so I have one older brother-thank god only one-and
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๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰ ํ•˜๋‚˜ ๋˜๋Š” ์•„๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ๋ฐ”๋กœ ๋‚˜์ด๋ฏ€๋กœ ํ˜•์ด ํ•œ ๋ช… ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹คํ–‰์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ๋„ ํ•œ ๋ช…๋ฟ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:59
I am the baby of the family.
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์ €๋Š” ๊ฐ€์กฑ์˜ ์•„๊ธฐ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:01
The babies... are they the coolest?
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์•„๊ธฐ๋“ค...์ œ์ผ ๋ฉ‹์žˆ์ฃ ?
12:04
Maybe.
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์•„๋งˆ๋„.
12:05
I think so.
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๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด์š”.
12:07
So, the babies will never grow up in the parents' eyes.
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์•„๊ธฐ๋Š” ๋ถ€๋ชจ์˜ ๋ˆˆ์—๋Š” ๊ฒฐ์ฝ” ์ž๋ผ์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
12:11
So, the cool thing about this is the parents now have amazing confidence; they've done
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์ด๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋ฉ‹์ง„ ์ ์€ ์ด์ œ ๋ถ€๋ชจ๊ฐ€ ๋†€๋ผ์šด ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์„ ๊ฐ–๊ฒŒ ๋˜์—ˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€
12:17
this not one time before, but two times before, so: "Hey, kid, if you want to run with scissors
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์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ๋„ ์•„๋‹ˆ๊ณ  ๋‘ ๋ฒˆ์ด๋‚˜ ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. "์ด๋ด, ๊ผฌ๋งˆ์•ผ, ๊ฐ€์œ„๋ฅผ ๋“ค๊ณ  ๋ณต๋„๋ฅผ ๋‚ด๋ ค๊ฐ€๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๋ฉด
12:24
down the hall, go ahead.
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์–ด์„œ ๊ฐ€.
12:25
We're cool.
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์šฐ๋ฆฐ ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์•„.
12:26
I'm going to have a bubble bath while you do that."
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๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ฑฐํ’ˆ ๋ชฉ์š•์„ ํ•  ๊ฑฐ์•ผ." ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๋Š” ๋™์•ˆ."
12:31
So, parents have more confidence; therefore, maybe you have fewer rules or the rules are
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๋ถ€๋ชจ๋Š” ๋” ๋งŽ์€ ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์„ ๊ฐ–๊ฒŒ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๊ทœ์น™์ด ๋” ์ ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๊ทœ์น™์ด
12:38
different.
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๋‹ค๋ฅผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:39
So, the child has more freedom.
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์•„์ด๋Š” ๋” ๋งŽ์€ ์ž์œ ๋ฅผ ์–ป์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:43
Now, is this positive or negative?
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์ž, ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ธ์ •์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ, ๋ถ€์ •์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
12:46
I think it's cool.
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๋ฉ‹์ง€๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:48
They get more attention from the mother and father because they're the baby.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์•„๊ธฐ์ด๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ์—„๋งˆ์™€ ์•„๋น ๋กœ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ๋” ๋งŽ์€ ๊ด€์‹ฌ์„ ๋ฐ›์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
12:54
Maybe they're a surprise baby.
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์–ด์ฉŒ๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๊นœ์ง ์•„๊ธฐ์ผ์ง€๋„ ๋ชจ๋ฆ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:56
Now, a "surprise baby" means that the mother and father didn't really plan on having a
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์ž, "๋†€๋ผ์šด ์•„๊ธฐ"๋Š” ์–ด๋จธ๋‹ˆ ์™€ ์•„๋ฒ„์ง€๊ฐ€ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ์•„๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์งˆ ๊ณ„ํš์ด ์—†์—ˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๋œป์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์›ƒ๊ธฐ์ง€๋งŒ
13:06
baby-that's funny-but you're surprised.
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์€ ๋†€๋ž์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:07
So, surprise babies-"Woo-hoo, we're having another brother and sister"-this can be difficult
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์„œํ”„๋ผ์ด์ฆˆ ์•„๊ธฐ๋“ค-"์šฐํ›„์šฐ, ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋‚จ๋™์ƒ์ด ์ƒ๊ฒผ์–ด"-์ด๊ฒƒ์€
13:13
for the first and the second born.
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์ฒซ์งธ์™€ ๋‘˜์งธ์—๊ฒŒ ์–ด๋ ค์šธ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:16
But the baby also develops skills faster than the second one because now they have two kids
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ์•„๊ธฐ๋Š” ๋˜ํ•œ ๋‘ ๋ฒˆ์งธ ์•„์ด๋ณด๋‹ค ๊ธฐ์ˆ ์„ ๋” ๋นจ๋ฆฌ ๊ฐœ๋ฐœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์™œ๋ƒํ•˜๋ฉด ์ด์ œ ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์ณ์•ผ ํ•  ๋‘ ์•„์ด๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๊ณ 
13:21
to teach them, and they have two kids to look up to or two kids to admire.
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, ์กด๊ฒฝํ•  ์•„์ด๊ฐ€ ๋‘ ๋ช… ์žˆ๊ณ , ์กด๊ฒฝํ•  ์•„์ด๊ฐ€ ๋‘ ๋ช… ์žˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:27
"I want to be like my baby brother" or "my older brother or sister".
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"๋‚ด ๋‚จ๋™์ƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ด" ๋˜๋Š” "๋‚ด ํ˜•์ด๋‚˜ ๋ˆ„๋‚˜์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ด".
13:32
They tend to be more creative, probably because, again, they have more freedom.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋” ์ฐฝ์˜์ ์ธ ๊ฒฝํ–ฅ์ด ์žˆ๋Š”๋ฐ, ์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๋‹ค์‹œ ๋งํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋” ๋งŽ์€ ์ž์œ ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ผ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:37
They are more confident; again, no helicopter parenting.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋” ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹ค์‹œ ๋งํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ํ—ฌ๋ฆฌ์ฝฅํ„ฐ ์œก์•„๋Š” ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:43
And a really cool skill is they can be alone because they have a sense of security in the
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ •๋ง ๋ฉ‹์ง„ ๊ธฐ์ˆ ์€ ๊ฐ€์กฑ ์•ˆ์—์„œ ์•ˆ์ •๊ฐ์„ ๋Š๋ผ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ํ˜ผ์ž ์žˆ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
13:50
family.
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13:51
Okay, then we come to the negative things about being a baby.
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์ข‹์•„์š”, ๊ทธ๋Ÿผ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์•„๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ๋˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋ถ€์ •์ ์ธ ์ ์— ๋„๋‹ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:57
Maybe you will always be the baby in the family.
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์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ํ•ญ์ƒ ๊ฐ€์กฑ์˜ ์•„๊ธฐ์ผ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:04
So, you can use this and you can do this crazy thing called "be manipulative".
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ณ  "์กฐ์ž‘ํ•˜๋‹ค"๋ผ๋Š” ๋ฏธ์นœ ์ง“์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:11
You can manipulate people.
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ์กฐ์ž‘ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:12
So, because you're the baby, like: "I'm the baby.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ, ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์•„๊ธฐ์ด๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— "๋‚˜๋Š” ์•„๊ธฐ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:16
I can't do anything", so you always get your older brother and sister to do it for you.
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๋‚˜๋Š” ์•„๋ฌด ๊ฒƒ๋„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค."
14:22
This causes you to be very lazy, and may cause you to be irresponsible.
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์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ๋งค์šฐ ๊ฒŒ์œผ๋ฅด๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ๋“ค๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ๋ฌด์ฑ…์ž„ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ๋“ค ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:29
So, you always depend on someone else to do what you should be doing.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ์ผ์„ ํ•˜๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ํ•ญ์ƒ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์—๊ฒŒ ์˜์กดํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
14:35
"Ah, you know, that other person will do it; I don't need to do it."
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"์•„, ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ํ•  ๊ฑฐ ์•„์‹œ์ฃ ? ์ €๋Š” ํ•  ํ•„์š”๊ฐ€ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค."
14:39
Guess what, baby?
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๋งž์ถฐ๋ด, ์ž๊ธฐ์•ผ?
14:40
Yes, you do.
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๋„ค, ๊ทธ๋ ‡์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:41
You're not a baby anymore; you're an adult.
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋” ์ด์ƒ ์•„๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์„ฑ์ธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:43
Come on.
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์–ด์„œ ํ•ด๋ด์š”.
14:44
Do it.
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ํ•ด.
14:45
They also tend to be dare devils.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋˜ํ•œ ๋Œ€๋‹ดํ•œ ์•…๋งˆ๊ฐ€๋˜๋Š” ๊ฒฝํ–ฅ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:47
What's a "dare devil"?
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"๋ฐ์–ด๋ฐ๋นŒ"์ด๋ž€?
14:49
A "dare devil" is someone who does something a little bit dangerous; bungee jumping - no
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"๋ฐ์–ด ๋ฐ๋ธ”"์€ ์•ฝ๊ฐ„ ์œ„ํ—˜ํ•œ ์ผ์„ ํ•˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๋ฒˆ์ง€ ์ ํ”„ -
14:57
problem.
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๋ฌธ์ œ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:59
Okay?
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์ข‹์•„์š”?
15:00
They like to test the rules; also, they're rebellious.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๊ทœ์น™์„ ํ…Œ์ŠคํŠธํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋˜ํ•œ ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋ฐ˜ํ•ญ์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
15:04
So, the parents give them a rule and they think: "Pfft, whatever.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋ถ€๋ชจ๋Š” ๊ทธ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๊ทœ์น™์„ ์ฃผ๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
15:08
I don't need to follow that rule."
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15:11
So, they test the parents because you have fewer rules, they feel more freedom, they
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๊ทœ์น™์ด ์ ๊ณ  ๋” ๋งŽ์€ ์ž์œ ๋ฅผ ๋Š๋ผ๋ฉฐ
15:18
can get into trouble.
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๋ฌธ์ œ์— ๋น ์งˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๋ถ€๋ชจ๋ฅผ ํ…Œ์ŠคํŠธํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
15:20
Yeah, they can climb a tree and break their leg.
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์˜ˆ, ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋‚˜๋ฌด์— ์˜ฌ๋ผ๊ฐ€์„œ ๋‹ค๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ๋ถ€๋Ÿฌ๋œจ๋ฆด ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
15:23
So, you dare devil babies, be careful.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ ๊ฐํžˆ ์•…๋งˆ ์ƒˆ๋ผ๋“ค์ด์—ฌ, ์กฐ์‹ฌํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
15:26
Do you agree with this?
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์ด์— ๋™์˜ํ•˜์‹ญ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
15:28
What's your opinion of this?
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์ด๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์˜๊ฒฌ์€ ๋ฌด์—‡์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
15:30
What baby are you?
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์–ด๋–ค ์•„๊ธฐ์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
15:31
Are you the first, second, third, fourth, fifth?
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ฒซ ๋ฒˆ์งธ, ๋‘ ๋ฒˆ์งธ, ์„ธ ๋ฒˆ์งธ, ๋„ค ๋ฒˆ์งธ, ๋‹ค์„ฏ ๋ฒˆ์งธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
15:34
How many brothers and sisters do you have?
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ํ˜•์ œ ์ž๋งค๊ฐ€ ๋ช‡๋ช…์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
15:38
Or how many children do you have?
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๋˜๋Š” ์ž๋…€๊ฐ€ ๋ช‡ ๋ช…์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
15:40
If you do have children, good luck.
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์ž๋…€๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด ํ–‰์šด์„ ๋น•๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
15:42
Please take care of them and give them all the love you can.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์„ ๋Œ๋ณด๊ณ  ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•œ ๋ชจ๋“  ์‚ฌ๋ž‘์„ ์ฃผ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
15:45
Till next time, I'm outta here.
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๋‹ค์Œ ์‹œ๊ฐ„๊นŒ์ง€, ๋‚˜๋Š” ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์„œ ๋‚˜๊ฐˆ๊ฑฐ์•ผ.
15:47
Mommy.
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