How to handle uncomfortable situations

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English with Ronnie


ไธ‹ใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžๅญ—ๅน•ใ‚’ใƒ€ใƒ–ใƒซใ‚ฏใƒชใƒƒใ‚ฏใ™ใ‚‹ใจๅ‹•็”ปใ‚’ๅ†็”Ÿใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ็ฟป่จณใ•ใ‚ŒใŸๅญ—ๅน•ใฏๆฉŸๆขฐ็ฟป่จณใงใ™ใ€‚

00:01
Okay. Sometimes when you're speaking English or you're
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ใ‚ใ‹ใฃใŸใ€‚ ่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใ‚„
00:05
online, you have problems because you're in sticky
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ใ‚ชใƒณใƒฉใ‚คใƒณใง ใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใซใ€ๅŽ„ไป‹ใช็Šถๆณใซใ‚ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซๅ•้กŒใŒ็™บ็”Ÿใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™
00:12
situations. So, "sticky situations" means that you feel
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ใ€‚ ใคใพใ‚Šใ€ใ€Œใ‚นใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒƒใ‚ญใƒผ ใ‚ทใƒใƒฅใ‚จใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใ€ใจใฏใ€่ชฐใ‹ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ๅค‰ใชๆฐ—ๅˆ†ใซใ•ใ›ใŸใŸใ‚ใซใ€
00:16
uncomfortable or you don't really know what to say, or how
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ไธๅฟซใซๆ„Ÿใ˜ใŸใ‚Š ใ€ไฝ•ใ‚’่จ€ใฃใŸใ‚‰ใ„ใ„ใฎใ‹ใ€ใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†
00:19
to act, because someone has made you feel weird.
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ใซ่กŒๅ‹•ใ—ใŸใ‚‰ใ‚ˆใ„ใฎใ‹ใ‚ˆใใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใจใ„ใ†ๆ„ๅ‘ณใงใ™ ใ€‚
00:23
So, I'm here to help you about this. And job interviews. Oh my
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ใใ‚Œใงใ€็งใฏใ“ใ‚Œใซใคใ„ใฆใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ๅŠฉใ‘ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซใ“ใ“ใซใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆๆŽก็”จ้ขๆŽฅใ€‚
00:27
god - the worst. People ask you questions. You're like: "Oh, I
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ใชใ‚“ใฆใ“ใฃใŸ - ๆœ€ๆ‚ชใ€‚ ไบบใ€…ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใซ ่ณชๅ•ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ€ใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ใ€
00:31
don't know. I don't know. I don't know." Don't tell them the
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ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ€‚ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ ใ€‚ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใซ็œŸๅฎŸใ‚’่จ€ใ‚ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„
00:33
truth. Don't tell them that you're... "Oh, okay." So, if
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ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒโ€ฆใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ใ€ๅคงไธˆๅคซใ€ใ ใจๅฝผใ‚‰ใซ่จ€ใ‚ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ใใฎใŸใ‚ใ€
00:36
English is not your first language, or if it is, sometimes
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่‹ฑ่ชžใŒ ๆฏๅ›ฝ่ชžใงใชใ„ๅ ดๅˆใ€ใพใŸใฏๆฏๅ›ฝ่ชžใงใ‚ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€
00:40
we help dealing with things. So, let's get into this.
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็‰ฉไบ‹ใ‚’ๅ‡ฆ็†ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใซๅฝน็ซ‹ใคใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใงใฏใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใซ ๅ…ฅใ‚Šใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
00:44
Where do these things happen? So, uncomfortable questions can
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎใ“ใจใฏใฉใ“ใง่ตทใ“ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ใใฎใŸใ‚ใ€
00:48
happen when you're outside walking your dog, they can
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ๅค–ใง็Šฌใฎๆ•ฃๆญฉใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใซไธๅฟซใช่ณชๅ•ใŒ็™บ็”Ÿใ™ใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฏ
00:50
happen on social media; sticky, sticky situations. Facebook,
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ใ‚ฝใƒผใ‚ทใƒฃใƒซ ใƒกใƒ‡ใ‚ฃใ‚ขใง็™บ็”Ÿใ™ใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใญใฐใญใฐใ—ใŸใ€ ใญใฐใญใฐใ—ใŸ็Šถๆณใ€‚ Facebookใ€
00:55
Instagram, YouTube, comments or messages.
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Instagramใ€YouTubeใ€ใ‚ณใƒกใƒณใƒˆใพใŸใฏ ใƒกใƒƒใ‚ปใƒผใ‚ธใ€‚
00:57
I have a YouTube channel; you're watching it. And people say
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YouTube ใƒใƒฃใƒณใƒใƒซใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใใ‚Œใ‚’ ่ฆ‹ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ไบบใ€…ใฏๆฌกใฎ
01:01
things like... That are just wrong. And that I take thing...
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ใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่จ€ใ„ใพใ™... ใใ‚ŒใฏใŸใ  ้–“้•ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
01:07
They take what I say and make it very different from what happens
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ็งใฎ่จ€ใ† ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅ—ใ‘ๅ…ฅใ‚Œใ€็พๅฎŸใ‹ใ‚‰่ตทใ“ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใจใฏ้žๅธธใซ็•ฐใชใ‚‹ใ‚‚ใฎใซใ—
01:10
from reality. That's a dangerous thing. Know what you're
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ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใฏๅฑ้™บ ใชใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
01:14
commenting on, first of all, and know how to comment back.
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ใพใšใ€ ไฝ•ใซใคใ„ใฆใ‚ณใƒกใƒณใƒˆใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใ‹ใ‚’็†่งฃใ—ใ€ใ‚ณใƒกใƒณใƒˆใ‚’่ฟ”ใ™ๆ–นๆณ•ใ‚’็†่งฃใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
01:20
If you're on Facebook, and people are saying bad things
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ Facebook ใ‚’ๅˆฉ็”จใ—ใฆใ„ใฆใ€ ไบบใ€…ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใซใคใ„ใฆๆ‚ชใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’่จ€ใฃ
01:24
about you - this... This can be terrible, especially if you'r
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ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆ - ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ... ็‰นใซใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่‹ฅใใฆ้žๅธธใซๅ‚ทใคใใ‚„ใ™ใ„ๅ ดๅˆใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใฒใฉใ„
01:27
younger and you're ver vulnerable. So, make sure tha
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ใ“ใจใงใ™ ใ€‚ ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ใ“ใฎ็Šถๆณใง่‡ชๅˆ†่‡ช่บซใ‚’ๅ‡ฆ็†ใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’็ขบ่ชใ—ใฆ
01:33
you know how to handl yourselves in this situation
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ใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
01:36
Because if you type a comment and then you type an answer; an
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ใ‚ณใƒกใƒณใƒˆ ใ‚’ๅ…ฅๅŠ›ใ—ใฆใ‹ใ‚‰ๅ›ž็ญ”ใ‚’ๅ…ฅๅŠ›ใ™ใ‚‹ใจใ€
01:40
then they answer: "Blah, blah blah", it can get very, ver
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ใใ‚Œใ‹ใ‚‰ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ็ญ”ใˆใพใ™๏ผšใ€Œไฝ•ใจใ‹ใ€ไฝ•ใจใ‹ ไฝ•ใจใ‹ใ€ใ€ใใ‚Œใฏใใ“ใซ้žๅธธใซใ€้žๅธธใซๅฑ้™บใซใชใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝ
01:42
dangerous out there. There' many examples of people gettin
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ๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ Facebookใฎใ‚ฝใƒผใ‚ทใƒฃใƒซใƒกใƒ‡ใ‚ฃใ‚ขใฎใ‚ณใƒกใƒณใƒˆใŒๅŽŸๅ› ใง
01:45
killed, people getting sho because of Facebook social medi
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ใ€ไบบใ€…ใŒๆฎบใ•ใ‚ŒใŸใ‚Šใ€้ž้›ฃใ•ใ‚ŒใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ไพ‹ใฏใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใ‚ใ‚Š
01:48
comments. Careful
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ใพใ™ใ€‚ ๆณจๆ„
01:51
These can happen in real life. So, someone could say to you:
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฏๅฎŸ้š›ใซ็™บ็”Ÿใ™ใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€่ชฐใ‹ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใซใ“ใ†่จ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“๏ผš
01:54
"Oh, hey. How old are you?" That's none of your business.
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ใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ใ€ใญใˆใ€‚ใ‚ใชใŸใฏไฝ•ๆญณใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€ ใ‚ใชใŸใซใฏ้–ขไฟ‚ใฎใชใ„ใ“ใจใ ใ€‚
01:57
Really? Is it? Which can be a legitimate question, if it's
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ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ๏ผŸ ใใ‚Œใฏ...ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ใใ‚ŒใŒใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅ‹ไบบใพใŸใฏ่ชฐใ‹ใงใ‚ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏๆญฃๅฝ“ใช่ณชๅ•ใซใชใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Š
02:02
your friend or someone; but if it's a stranger - no, no. That's
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ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ ใใ‚ŒใŒ่ฆ‹็Ÿฅใ‚‰ใฌไบบใชใ‚‰ - ใ„ใ„ใˆใ€ใ„ใ„ใˆใ€‚ ใใ‚Œ
02:06
not their business. "How much money do you make?" These are
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ใฏๅฝผใ‚‰ใฎไป•ไบ‹ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ€Œ ใ„ใใ‚‰็จผใ’ใ‚‹ใฎ๏ผŸใ€ ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฏ
02:09
considered rude questions. And when someone asks you them,
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ๅคฑ็คผใช่ณชๅ•ใจ่ฆ‹ใชใ•ใ‚Œใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆ ใ€่ชฐใ‹ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใซๅฐ‹ใญใŸใจใใ€
02:13
you're put in a ver uncomfortable situation. And yo
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ้žๅธธใซ ไธๅฟซใช็Šถๆณใซ็ฝฎใ‹ใ‚Œใพใ™. ใใ—ใฆ
02:17
want to tell the truth, but yo know you shouldn't, and: Wha
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ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใฎใ“ใจใ‚’่จ€ใ„ใŸใ„ใฎใงใ™ใŒ ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใใ†ใ™ในใใงใฏใชใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™
02:19
are you going to do
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02:20
-"Hey, sweetheart. Can I get your phone number?" -"Oh, I... I
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. -ใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ใ€็งใฏ...็ง
02:27
don't have a phone." Ring-ring. "Mom, that's a bad time to call
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ใฏ้›ป่ฉฑใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ใ€ ใƒชใƒณใ‚ฐใƒชใƒณใ‚ฐใ€‚ ใ€ŒใŠๆฏใ•ใ‚“ใ€ไปŠ้›ป่ฉฑใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใฏๆ™‚ๆœŸๅฐšๆ—ฉ
02:31
me now." So, what do you do if somebody says: "Hey, sweetheart.
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ใงใ™ใ€‚ใ€ ใใ‚Œใงใ€ ่ชฐใ‹ใŒใ€Œใญใˆใ€
02:35
Can I have your phone number?" You say: "No." And then the
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ้›ป่ฉฑ็•ชๅทใ‚’ๆ•™ใˆใฆใ‚‚ใ‚‰ใˆใพใ™ใ‹?ใ€ใจ่จ€ใฃใŸใ‚‰ใฉใ†ใ—ใพใ™ใ‹? ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ่จ€ใ†๏ผšใ€Œใ„ใ„ใˆใ€ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ใใฎ
02:40
person is like: -"Well, why not?" -"Because I don't want
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ไบบใฏๆฌกใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซใชใ‚Šใพใ™๏ผš-ใ€Œใพใ‚ใ€ใฉใ†ใ—ใฆ ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€ -ใ€Œใ—ใŸใใชใ„
02:44
to." -"How old are you?" -"It's not your business." -"How much
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ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ -"ไฝ•ๆญณใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ" -ใ€Œใใ‚Œ ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใฎใƒ“ใ‚ธใƒใ‚นใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ใ€ ใƒปใ€Œ
02:48
money do you make?" -"Why?"
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ใ„ใใ‚‰็จผใ’ใ‚‹ใฎ๏ผŸใ€ -"ใฉใ†ใ—ใฆ๏ผŸ"
02:50
You can ask them a question. "Why do you want to know how
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅฝผใ‚‰ใซ่ณชๅ•ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ€Œใฉใ†ใ—ใฆ็งใŒ
02:52
much money I...? How much money do you make?" Oh! You can ask
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ใ„ใใ‚‰็จผใŽใŸใ„ใฎโ€ฆ๏ผŸใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ„ใใ‚‰็จผใ„ใงใ„ใ‚‹ใฎ ๏ผŸใ€ ใŠใƒผ๏ผ ่ณชๅ•ใ‚’่ฟ”ใ™ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™
02:55
them a question back. -"How old are you?" -"How old are you? Do
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ใ€‚ -" ไฝ•ๆญณใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ" -ใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใฏไฝ•ๆญณใงใ™ใ‹?
02:58
you want to know how old my dog is, too? It's not your
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็งใฎ็Šฌใ‚‚ไฝ•ๆญณใ‹็Ÿฅใ‚ŠใŸใ„ ใงใ™ใ‹?ใใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใชใŸใฎไป•ไบ‹ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“
03:00
business."
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ใ€‚ใ€
03:01
So, you have two options, here. One: You can give them a
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ใ“ใ“ใซใฏ 2 ใคใฎใ‚ชใƒ—ใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ 1: ็งใŒ้€šๅธธ่กŒใ†ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€
03:05
"snarky", which means sarcastic answer, like I usually do. Or,
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็šฎ่‚‰ใช็ญ”ใˆใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ™ใ‚‹ใ€Œsnarkyใ€ใ‚’ไธŽใˆใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใ ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใพใŸใฏใ€
03:10
following the voice of my mom: You can choose to ignore the
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็งใฎๆฏใฎๅฃฐใซๅพ“ใฃใฆ ใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ไบบใ€…ใ‚’็„ก่ฆ–ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’้ธๆŠžใงใใพใ™
03:13
people. This isn't as fun, though. Oh. It means you're not
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ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใใ‚Œใปใฉๆฅฝใ—ใ„ใ‚‚ใฎใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚ ใŠใƒผใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ‚ฒใƒผใƒ ใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใชใ„ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ‚ˆใญ
03:16
playing the game, are you? So, the solution to social media and
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๏ผŸ ใงใฏใ€ ใ‚ฝใƒผใ‚ทใƒฃใƒซ ใƒกใƒ‡ใ‚ฃใ‚ขใจ็พๅฎŸใฎๅ•้กŒใฎ่งฃๆฑบ็ญ–ใฏใ€
03:22
real-life problems: You say nothing.
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ไฝ•ใ‚‚่จ€ใ‚ใชใ„ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
03:25
Somebody types nasty comments about you on your Facebook page,
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่ชฐใ‹ ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใฎ Facebook ใƒšใƒผใ‚ธใ€Instagramใ€ใพใŸใฏ YouTube ใƒใƒฃใƒณใƒใƒซใซใ‚ใชใŸใซ้–ขใ™ใ‚‹ไธๅฟซใชใ‚ณใƒกใƒณใƒˆใ‚’ๅ…ฅๅŠ›ใ—ใพใ™ใŒใ€
03:29
or on your Instagram, or on your YouTube channel - you say
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ
03:32
nothing; you don't reply. Nothing. Nothing. Absolutely.
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ไฝ•ใ‚‚่จ€ใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ่ฟ”ไบ‹ใ‚’ใ—ใชใ„ใ€‚ ไฝ•ใ‚‚ใชใ„ใ€‚ ไฝ•ใ‚‚ใชใ„ใ€‚ ็ตถๅฏพใ€‚
03:35
Because: Why? They're waiting for you to say something.
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็†็”ฑ๏ผšใชใœใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’่จ€ใ†ใฎใ‚’ๅพ…ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
03:39
These people are called: "keyboard warriors". "Warriors",
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎไบบใ€…ใฏใ€Œใ‚ญใƒผใƒœใƒผใƒ‰ๆˆฆๅฃซใ€ใจๅ‘ผใฐใ‚Œใฆใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚
03:44
like a soldier. And "keyboard" is the thing that you type on.
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ๅ…ตๅฃซใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ€Œๆˆฆๅฃซใ€ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€Œใ‚ญใƒผใƒœใƒผใƒ‰ใ€ ใฏใ‚ฟใ‚คใƒ—ใ™ใ‚‹ใ‚‚ใฎใงใ™ใ€‚
03:47
So, these "keyboard warriors" have nothing better to do than
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎใ€Œใ‚ญใƒผใƒœใƒผใƒ‰ ใ‚ฆใ‚ฉใƒชใ‚ขใƒผใ€ ใฏใ€YouTube ใซๅบงใฃใฆไบบใ€…ใฎใƒ“ใƒ‡ใ‚ชใซใ‚ณใƒกใƒณใƒˆใ™ใ‚‹ไปฅๅค–ใซไฝ•ใ‚‚ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“
03:51
sit on YouTube, and comment on people's videos. Well, get a
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ใ€‚ ่ถฃๅ‘ณใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆ
03:56
hobby, go ride a bike, go walk outside. Okay? Because their
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ใ€่‡ช่ปข่ปŠใซไน—ใฃใฆใ€ ๅค–ใ‚’ๆ•ฃๆญฉใ—ใฆใ€‚ ใ‚ใ‹ใฃใŸ๏ผŸ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฎ
03:59
lives are so terribly tragic, that they can think: "Oh, I'm
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ไบบ็”Ÿใฏใฒใฉใๆ‚ฒๅŠ‡็š„ใงใ€ ใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ใ€็งใฏ
04:04
going to go on people's videos and leave these bad comments."
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ไบบใ€…ใฎใƒ“ใƒ‡ใ‚ช ใซๅ‡บใฆใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎๆ‚ชใ„ใ‚ณใƒกใƒณใƒˆใ‚’ๆฎ‹ใ™ใคใ‚‚ใ‚Šใ ใ€ใจ่€ƒใˆใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™.
04:07
Okay.
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ใ‚ใ‹ใฃใŸใ€‚
04:08
Also known as "trolls". "Trolls" go through videos and say:
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ใ€Œใƒˆใƒญใƒผใƒซใ€ใจใ‚‚ๅ‘ผใฐใ‚Œใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ€Œ่’ใ‚‰ใ— ใ€ใฏๅ‹•็”ปใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใ€
04:12
"Ah-ha-ha. I'm going to leave a bad comment. And I'm going to
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ใ€Œใ‚ใฏใฏใฏใ€‚ ๆ‚ชใ„ใ‚ณใƒกใƒณใƒˆใ‚’ๆฎ‹ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ใใ—ใฆใ€
04:15
call this person this name." Nice grade three. Okay? Go back
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ใ“ใฎไบบใ‚’ใ“ใฎๅๅ‰ใงๅ‘ผใณใพใ™ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ็ด ๆ•ตใชไธ‰ๅนด็”Ÿใ€‚ ใ‚ใ‹ใฃใŸ๏ผŸ
04:19
to grade three; get off your keyboard. But say nothing.
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3ๅนด็”Ÿใซๆˆปใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ญใƒผใƒœใƒผใƒ‰ใ‚’้›ขใ—ใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ไฝ•ใ‚‚่จ€ใ‚ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
04:24
That's what my Mom told me. So, I don't like that. I like to
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ใใ‚Œใฏ็งใฎๆฏใŒ็งใซ่จ€ใฃใŸใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ ็งใฏใใ‚ŒใŒๅฅฝใใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ็งใฏ
04:28
fight.
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ๆˆฆใ†ใฎใŒๅฅฝใใงใ™ใ€‚
04:30
So, maybe you're in a job interview and they ask you a
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ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅฐฑ่ทใฎ ้ขๆŽฅใ‚’ๅ—ใ‘ใฆใ„ใฆใ€่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ใ•ใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“
04:35
question. Frank, thank you very much for giving me this advice.
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ใ€‚ ใƒ•ใƒฉใƒณใ‚ฏใ€ ใ“ใฎใ‚ขใƒ‰ใƒใ‚คใ‚นใ‚’ใใ‚Œใฆใฉใ†ใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ€‚
04:42
And you have no idea what the answer, because job interviews
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ๅฐฑ่ทใฎ้ขๆŽฅ
04:49
are sticky. They... They ask you something, but you know you
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ใฏ็ฒ˜็€ๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใ€็ญ”ใˆใŒใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ... ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใซไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’ๅฐ‹ใญใพใ™ ใŒใ€ใ‚ใชใŸ
04:52
shouldn't tell the truth because then you'll lose the job.
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ใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใฎใ“ใจใ‚’่จ€ใ†ในใใงใฏใชใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚
04:54
Hey, guess what? You can say to them: "Let me get back to you on
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ใญใˆใ€ใกใ‚‡ใฃใจ่žใ„ใฆใ‚ˆ๏ผŸ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅฝผใ‚‰ใซ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใ ใพใ™๏ผšใ€Œใใ‚Œใซใคใ„ใฆใ‚ใชใŸใซๆˆปใ•ใ›
05:01
that one." So, they could ask you a question, like: "So, why
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ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€. ใใ‚Œใงใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ ใ‚ใชใŸใซๆฌกใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใช่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™๏ผšใ€Œใงใฏใ€ใชใœใ“ใฎไผš็คพ
05:08
exactly would you like to work for this company?" Real answer:
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ใงๅƒใใŸใ„ใฎใงใ™ ใ‹๏ผŸใ€ ๆœฌๅฝ“ใฎ็ญ”ใˆ๏ผš
05:13
"I need a job. And you had a job interview, and I'm here. And you
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ใ€Œ็งใฏไป•ไบ‹ใŒๅฟ…่ฆใงใ™ใ€‚ใใ—ใฆใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅฐฑ่ทใฎ ้ขๆŽฅใ‚’ๅ—ใ‘ใ€็งใฏใ“ใ“ใซใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ใ‚ใชใŸ
05:17
should hire me." Bad answer. Good answer: "That's a good
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ใฏ็งใ‚’้›‡ใ†ในใใงใ™ใ€‚ใ€ ๆ‚ชใ„็ญ”ใˆใ€‚ ่‰ฏใ„็ญ”ใˆ: ใ€Œใใ‚Œใฏ่‰ฏใ„
05:23
question."--I have no idea--"Let me get back to you on that one."
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่ณชๅ•ใงใ™ใ€‚ใ€--็งใซใฏใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“--ใ€Œใใฎ่ณชๅ•ใซใคใ„ใฆใŠ่ฟ”ไบ‹ใ• ใ›ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ใ€
05:26
So, hopefully what will happen is the interview will be very
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ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ใ†ใพใใ„ใ‘ใฐ ใ€้ขๆŽฅใฏ
05:31
happy with your answer, continue with the job interview, and
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ็ญ”ใˆใซ้žๅธธใซๆบ€่ถณ ใ—ใ€ๅฐฑ่ทใฎ้ขๆŽฅใ‚’็ถšใ‘ใ€
05:36
completely forget to go back and ask you the question you
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ใ‚ใชใŸ
05:41
couldn't remember or you didn't know the answer to. It's magic.
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ใŒๆ€ใ„ๅ‡บใ›ใชใ‹ใฃใŸ่ณชๅ•ใ‚„ ็ญ”ใˆใ‚’็Ÿฅใ‚‰ใชใ‹ใฃใŸ่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅฎŒๅ…จใซๅฟ˜ใ‚Œใฆใ—ใพใ„ใพใ™. ้ญ”ๆณ•ใงใ™ใ€‚
05:45
Because the job interviews: "Dunh-dunh-dunh" done all these,
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ไป•ไบ‹ใฎ้ขๆŽฅใ ใ‹ใ‚‰๏ผš ใ€Œใƒ€ใƒณใƒปใƒ€ใƒณใƒปใƒ€ใƒณใ€ใฏใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใ™ในใฆใ‚’ใ‚„ใฃใŸใ€
05:48
good. Okay. Yes/no. Hired. Good. They forget to ask you most of
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่‰ฏใ„ใ€‚ ใ‚ใ‹ใฃใŸใ€‚ ใฏใ„ใƒปใ„ใ„ใˆใ€‚ ๆŽก็”จใ€‚ ่‰ฏใ„ใ€‚ ๅฐฑ่ทใฎ้ขๆŽฅใงๅคฉๆ‰ใŒๅƒใ„ใฆใ„ใชใ„้™ใ‚Šใ€ ใปใจใ‚“ใฉใฎๅ ดๅˆใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใซๅฐ‹ใญใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๅฟ˜ใ‚Œ
05:52
the time, unless you've got a genius working on your job
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ใพใ™
05:56
interview.
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05:56
The other thing that you can say is... They might ask you
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.
ไป–ใซ่จ€ใˆใ‚‹ใ“ใจ ใฏ...ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ
05:59
something you're not comfortable about at all, and you're going
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใพใฃใŸใๆฐ—ใซใ—ใชใ„ใ“ใจ ใ‚’ใ‚ใชใŸใซๅฐ‹ใญใ‚‹
06:04
to find out that there's many things that they're not allowed
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ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œ ใพใ›
06:07
to ask you. They're not allowed to ask you about your age, your
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ใ‚“. ๅฐฑ่ทใฎ้ขๆŽฅใงใ€ ๅนด้ฝขใ€
06:10
race, and many other discriminatory things in a job
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ไบบ็จฎใ€ใใฎไป–ๅคšใใฎ ๅทฎๅˆฅ็š„ใชใ“ใจใซใคใ„ใฆ่ณชๅ•ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏ่จฑๅฏใ•ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“
06:14
interview. And if they ask you one of these things, or
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ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒใ‚ใชใŸ ใซใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎใ“ใจใฎ1ใคใ€ใพใŸใฏ
06:17
something that you're just like: "No. Do you know what? Nah. No,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๅฅฝใใชใ“ใจใ‚’ ๅฐ‹ใญใŸใ‚‰ใ€ใ€Œใ„ใ„ใˆใ€‚ไฝ•ใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹?ใ„ใ‚„ใ€ใ„ใ„ใˆใ€
06:20
no, no."
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ใ„ใ„ใˆใ€ใ„ใ„ใˆใ€.
06:22
You can say: "I'm not comfortable talking about that."
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ใ€Œใใ‚Œใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ™ใฎใฏๆฐ—ใŒ้€ฒใพใชใ„ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ ใ€‚
06:25
And this might set off a little alarm for the interview, going:
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ใ“ใ‚Œ ใฏใ‚คใƒณใ‚ฟใƒ“ใƒฅใƒผ
06:30
"Oh. Did I say something illegal? Well, I hope that was
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ใซใกใ‚‡ใฃใจใ—ใŸ ่ญฆ้˜
06:34
allowed in my jurisdiction." So, it actually makes the job
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ใ‚’้ณดใ‚‰ใ™ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ ใใ‚ŒใฏๅฎŸ้š›ใซๅฐฑ่ทใฎ
06:38
interview... Interviewer nervous. You're like: "Yes.
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้ขๆŽฅใซใชใ‚Šใพใ™... ้ขๆŽฅๅฎ˜ใฏ ็ทŠๅผตใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ€ใ€Œใฏใ„ใ€‚
06:41
Ha-ha. Give me the job."
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ใฏใฏใฏใ€‚็งใซไป•ไบ‹ใ‚’ใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
06:43
It's a crazy world out there, and people are going to attack
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ใใ“ใฏใ‚ฏใƒฌใ‚คใ‚ธใƒผใชไธ–็•Œใง ใ€ไบบใ€…ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ๆ”ปๆ’ƒใ—ใ‚ˆใ†ใจใ—ใฆ
06:46
you, but stay strong. And if something makes you
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ใ„ใพใ™ใŒใ€ๅผทใใ‚ใ‚Š็ถšใ‘ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„. ใใ—ใฆใ€ ไฝ•ใ‹ไธๅฟซใชใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Œใฐ
06:49
uncomfortable, talk about it. Say things: "Ha. Hey, guess
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ใ€ใใ‚Œใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ็™บ่จ€: ใ€Œใฏใฏใฏใฏใฏใฏใฏใฏใฏใฏใฏใฏใฏใฏใฏใฏใฏใฏ๏ผŸ
06:53
what? I'm not playing your games. Bye."
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