How to handle uncomfortable situations

128,679 views ・ 2021-10-16

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μ•„λž˜ μ˜λ¬Έμžλ§‰μ„ λ”λΈ”ν΄λ¦­ν•˜μ‹œλ©΄ μ˜μƒμ΄ μž¬μƒλ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ²ˆμ—­λœ μžλ§‰μ€ 기계 λ²ˆμ—­λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.

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Okay. Sometimes when you're speaking English or you're
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μ’‹μ•„μš”. λ•Œλ•Œλ‘œ μ˜μ–΄λ‘œ λ§ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜ 온라인 μƒνƒœμΌ λ•Œ
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online, you have problems because you're in sticky
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κ³€λž€ν•œ
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situations. So, "sticky situations" means that you feel
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상황에 μ²˜ν•˜κΈ° λ•Œλ¬Έμ— λ¬Έμ œκ°€ 생길 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. κ·Έλž˜μ„œ "λˆμ κ±°λ¦¬λŠ” 상황"은 λˆ„κ΅°κ°€κ°€ 당신을
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uncomfortable or you don't really know what to say, or how
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μ΄μƒν•˜κ²Œ 느끼게 ν–ˆκΈ° λ•Œλ¬Έμ— 당신이 λΆˆνŽΈν•¨μ„ λŠλΌκ±°λ‚˜ 무엇을 말해야 할지 λ˜λŠ” μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ 행동해야 할지 μ •λ§λ‘œ λͺ¨λ₯Έλ‹€λŠ” 것을 μ˜λ―Έν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€
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to act, because someone has made you feel weird.
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.
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So, I'm here to help you about this. And job interviews. Oh my
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, λ‚˜λŠ” 이것에 λŒ€ν•΄ 당신을 돕기 μœ„ν•΄ μ—¬κΈ° μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . 그리고 λ©΄μ ‘.
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god - the worst. People ask you questions. You're like: "Oh, I
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λ§™μ†Œμ‚¬ - μ΅œμ•…. μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ λ‹Ήμ‹ μ—κ²Œ μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 당신은 "μ•„,
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don't know. I don't know. I don't know." Don't tell them the
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λͺ¨λ₯΄κ² μ–΄μš”. λͺ¨λ₯΄κ² μ–΄μš”. λͺ¨λ₯΄κ² μ–΄μš”." κ·Έλ“€μ—κ²Œ 진싀을 λ§ν•˜μ§€ λ§ˆμ‹­μ‹œμ˜€
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truth. Don't tell them that you're... "Oh, okay." So, if
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. κ·Έλ“€μ—κ²Œ 당신이... "였, μ•Œμ•˜μ–΄."라고 λ§ν•˜μ§€ λ§ˆμ„Έμš”. λ”°λΌμ„œ
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English is not your first language, or if it is, sometimes
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μ˜μ–΄κ°€ λͺ¨κ΅­μ–΄κ°€ μ•„λ‹ˆκ±°λ‚˜ λͺ¨κ΅­μ–΄ 인 경우 가끔
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we help dealing with things. So, let's get into this.
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도움을 λ“œλ¦½λ‹ˆλ‹€. 자, 이것에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ•Œμ•„λ΄…μ‹œλ‹€.
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Where do these things happen? So, uncomfortable questions can
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μ–΄λ””μ„œ 이런 일듀이 μΌμ–΄λ‚˜λŠ” κ±ΈκΉŒμš”? λ”°λΌμ„œ λΆˆνŽΈν•œ μ§ˆλ¬Έμ€
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happen when you're outside walking your dog, they can
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λ°–μ—μ„œ 개λ₯Ό μ‚°μ±…μ‹œν‚¬ λ•Œ λ°œμƒν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ΄λŸ¬ν•œ μ§ˆλ¬Έμ€
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happen on social media; sticky, sticky situations. Facebook,
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μ†Œμ…œ λ―Έλ””μ–΄μ—μ„œ λ°œμƒν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 끈적 λˆμ ν•œ 상황. Facebook,
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Instagram, YouTube, comments or messages.
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Instagram, YouTube, λŒ“κΈ€ λ˜λŠ” λ©”μ‹œμ§€.
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I have a YouTube channel; you're watching it. And people say
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YouTube 채널이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 당신은 그것을보고 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그리고 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ 이런 말을 ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€
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things like... That are just wrong. And that I take thing...
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... 그것은 단지 잘λͺ»λœ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그리고 λ‚΄κ°€ 그것을 λ°›μ•„λ“€μ΄λŠ” 것...
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They take what I say and make it very different from what happens
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그듀은 λ‚΄κ°€ λ§ν•˜λŠ” 것을 받아듀이고 그것을 ν˜„μ‹€μ—μ„œ μΌμ–΄λ‚˜λŠ” 것과 맀우 λ‹€λ₯΄κ²Œ λ§Œλ“­λ‹ˆλ‹€
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from reality. That's a dangerous thing. Know what you're
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. 그것은 μœ„ν—˜ν•œ μΌμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 무엇보닀
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commenting on, first of all, and know how to comment back.
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λŒ“κΈ€μ„ 달고 μžˆλŠ” λ‚΄μš©μ„ νŒŒμ•…ν•˜κ³  λ‹΅μž₯을 λ³΄λ‚΄λŠ” 방법을 μ•Œμ•„λ‘μ„Έμš”.
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If you're on Facebook, and people are saying bad things
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당신이 νŽ˜μ΄μŠ€λΆμ„ ν•˜κ³  있고 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ 당신에 λŒ€ν•΄ λ‚˜μœ 말을 ν•œλ‹€λ©΄
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about you - this... This can be terrible, especially if you'r
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이것은... 이것은 끔찍할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 특히 당신이
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younger and you're ver vulnerable. So, make sure tha
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젊고 당신이 맀우 μ·¨μ•½ν•˜λ‹€λ©΄ λ§μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ”°λΌμ„œ
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you know how to handl yourselves in this situation
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이 μƒν™©μ—μ„œ μžμ‹ μ„ μ²˜λ¦¬ν•˜λŠ” 방법을 μ•Œκ³  μžˆλŠ”μ§€ ν™•μΈν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
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Because if you type a comment and then you type an answer; an
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λŒ“κΈ€μ„ μž…λ ₯ν•œ λ‹€μŒ 닡을 μž…λ ₯ν•˜λ©΄ 되기 λ•Œλ¬Έμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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then they answer: "Blah, blah blah", it can get very, ver
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"Blah, blah blah"라고 λŒ€λ‹΅ν•˜λ©΄ 맀우
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dangerous out there. There' many examples of people gettin
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μœ„ν—˜ν•΄μ§ˆ 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. Facebook μ†Œμ…œ λ―Έλ””μ–΄ λŒ“κΈ€ λ•Œλ¬Έμ— μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ μ£½μž„μ„ λ‹Ήν•˜κ³  μ‡Όλ₯Ό λ‹Ήν•˜λŠ” 사둀가 많이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
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killed, people getting sho because of Facebook social medi
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comments. Careful
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. 주의
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These can happen in real life. So, someone could say to you:
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μ‹€μƒν™œμ—μ„œ 이런 일이 일어날 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. κ·Έλž˜μ„œ λˆ„κ΅°κ°€ λ‹Ήμ‹ μ—κ²Œ μ΄λ ‡κ²Œ 말할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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"Oh, hey. How old are you?" That's none of your business.
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"였, 이봐. λͺ‡ μ‚΄μ΄λ‹ˆ?" κ·Έκ±° λ„ˆλž‘ 상관 μ—†μ–΄.
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Really? Is it? Which can be a legitimate question, if it's
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정말? 그래?
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your friend or someone; but if it's a stranger - no, no. That's
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λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ μΉœκ΅¬λ‚˜ λˆ„κ΅°κ°€λΌλ©΄ μ •λ‹Ήν•œ 질문이 될 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ λ‚―μ„  μ‚¬λžŒμ΄λΌλ©΄ - μ•„λ‹ˆ, μ•„λ‹ˆ. 그것은
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not their business. "How much money do you make?" These are
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κ·Έλ“€μ˜ 사업이 μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€. " λˆμ„ μ–Όλ§ˆλ‚˜ λ²Œμ–΄μš”?"
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considered rude questions. And when someone asks you them,
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λ¬΄λ‘€ν•œ 질문으둜 κ°„μ£Όλ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그리고 λˆ„κ΅°κ°€κ°€ λ‹Ήμ‹ μ—κ²Œ 그것을 λ¬»λŠ”λ‹€λ©΄,
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you're put in a ver uncomfortable situation. And yo
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당신은 맀우 λΆˆνŽΈν•œ 상황에 λ†“μ΄κ²Œ λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그리고 당신은
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want to tell the truth, but yo know you shouldn't, and: Wha
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진싀을 λ§ν•˜κ³  μ‹Άμ§€λ§Œ 당신이 κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ ν•΄μ„œλŠ” μ•ˆ λœλ‹€λŠ” 것을 μ•Œκ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그리고: 당신은 무엇을
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are you going to do
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ν•  κ±΄κ°€μš”
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-"Hey, sweetheart. Can I get your phone number?" -"Oh, I... I
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-"μ•ˆλ…•, μ–˜μ•Ό. μ „ν™”λ²ˆν˜Έλ₯Ό μ•Œ 수 μžˆμ„κΉŒ ?" -"μ•„, λ‚˜...
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don't have a phone." Ring-ring. "Mom, that's a bad time to call
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μ „ν™”κ°€ μ—†μ–΄." 링링. "μ—„λ§ˆ, μ§€κΈˆ λ‚˜ν•œν…Œ μ „ν™”ν•˜κΈ° μ•ˆ 쒋은 λ•Œμ•Ό
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me now." So, what do you do if somebody says: "Hey, sweetheart.
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." κ·Έλž˜μ„œ λˆ„κ΅°κ°€κ°€ "μ•ˆλ…•, μ–˜μ•Ό.
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Can I have your phone number?" You say: "No." And then the
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μ „ν™”λ²ˆν˜Έ μ’€ μ•Œλ €μ€„λž˜?" 당신은 "μ•„λ‹ˆμ˜€"라고 λ§ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그리고 κ·Έ
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person is like: -"Well, why not?" -"Because I don't want
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μ‚¬λžŒμ€ λ‹€μŒκ³Ό κ°™μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. -"κΈ€μŽ„, μ™œ μ•ˆλΌ?" -"μ‹«μœΌλ‹ˆκΉŒ
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to." -"How old are you?" -"It's not your business." -"How much
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." -"λͺ‡ μ‚΄μ΄μ—μš”?" -" λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ 일이 μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€." - "μ–Όλ§ˆλ‚˜
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money do you make?" -"Why?"
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λ²„μ„Έμš”?" -"μ™œ?"
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You can ask them a question. "Why do you want to know how
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당신은 κ·Έλ“€μ—κ²Œ μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. "μ™œ
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much money I...? How much money do you make?" Oh! You can ask
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λ‚΄κ°€ μ–Όλ§ˆλ‚˜ λ§Žμ€ λˆμ„ μ•Œκ³  μ‹Άμ–΄...? 당신은 μ–Όλ§ˆλ‚˜ λ§Žμ€ λˆμ„ 벌고 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ?" 였!
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them a question back. -"How old are you?" -"How old are you? Do
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κ·Έλ“€μ—κ²Œ λ‹€μ‹œ μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. -"λͺ‡ μ‚΄μ΄μ—μš” ?" -"λ„ˆ λͺ‡ μ‚΄μ΄λ‹ˆ?
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you want to know how old my dog is, too? It's not your
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λ‚΄ 강아지도 λͺ‡ 살인지 μ•Œκ³  μ‹Άλ‹ˆ ? 그건 λ‹ˆκ°€ 상관할
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business."
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λ°”κ°€ μ•„λ‹ˆμ•Ό."
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So, you have two options, here. One: You can give them a
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λ”°λΌμ„œ μ—¬κΈ°μ—λŠ” 두 가지 μ˜΅μ…˜μ΄ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. One: 당신은 κ·Έλ“€μ—κ²Œ
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"snarky", which means sarcastic answer, like I usually do. Or,
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"snarky"λ₯Ό 쀄 수 μžˆλŠ”λ°, 그것은 λ‚΄κ°€ 보톡 ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμ²˜λŸΌ λΉ„κΌ¬λŠ” λŒ€λ‹΅μ„ μ˜λ―Έν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ˜λŠ”
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following the voice of my mom: You can choose to ignore the
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우리 μ—„λ§ˆμ˜ λͺ©μ†Œλ¦¬λ₯Ό 따라: μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ„ λ¬΄μ‹œν•˜λ„λ‘ 선택할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
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people. This isn't as fun, though. Oh. It means you're not
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. ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 이것은 그닀지 μž¬λ―Έμžˆμ§€λŠ” μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . 였. 그것은 당신이 κ²Œμž„μ„ ν•˜κ³  μžˆμ§€ μ•Šλ‹€λŠ” 것을 μ˜λ―Έν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€
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playing the game, are you? So, the solution to social media and
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, κ·Έλ ‡μ£ ? λ”°λΌμ„œ μ†Œμ…œ 미디어와 μ‹€μƒν™œ λ¬Έμ œμ— λŒ€ν•œ 해결책은
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real-life problems: You say nothing.
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아무 말도 ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠλŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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Somebody types nasty comments about you on your Facebook page,
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€ κ·€ν•˜μ˜ Facebook νŽ˜μ΄μ§€,
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or on your Instagram, or on your YouTube channel - you say
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Instagram λ˜λŠ” YouTube 채널에 κ·€ν•˜μ— λŒ€ν•œ λΆˆμΎŒν•œ λŒ“κΈ€μ„ μž…λ ₯ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. κ·€ν•˜λŠ”
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nothing; you don't reply. Nothing. Nothing. Absolutely.
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아무 말도 ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 당신은 λŒ€λ‹΅ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 아무것도 μ•„λ‹˜. 아무것도 μ•„λ‹˜. μ „μ μœΌλ‘œ.
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Because: Why? They're waiting for you to say something.
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μ™œλƒν•˜λ©΄: μ™œ? 그듀은 당신이 무언가λ₯Ό 말해주기λ₯Ό 기닀리고 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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These people are called: "keyboard warriors". "Warriors",
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이 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ„ "ν‚€λ³΄λ“œ 전사"λΌκ³ ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. ꡰ인처럼 "전사"
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like a soldier. And "keyboard" is the thing that you type on.
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. 그리고 "ν‚€λ³΄λ“œ"λŠ” μž…λ ₯ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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So, these "keyboard warriors" have nothing better to do than
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λ”°λΌμ„œ μ΄λŸ¬ν•œ "ν‚€λ³΄λ“œ μ›Œλ¦¬μ–΄"λŠ”
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sit on YouTube, and comment on people's videos. Well, get a
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YouTube에 앉아 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ˜ λ™μ˜μƒμ— λŒ“κΈ€μ„ λ‹€λŠ” 것보닀 더 ν•  일이 μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. κΈ€μŽ„,
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hobby, go ride a bike, go walk outside. Okay? Because their
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μ·¨λ―Έλ₯Ό κ°–κ³ , μžμ „κ±°λ₯Ό νƒ€λŸ¬ κ°€κ³ , 밖에 λ‚˜κ°€μ„œ 산책을 ν•΄ . μ’‹μ•„μš”? κ·Έλ“€μ˜
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lives are so terribly tragic, that they can think: "Oh, I'm
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삢은 λ„ˆλ¬΄λ‚˜ λΉ„κ·Ήμ μ΄μ–΄μ„œ "μ•„,
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going to go on people's videos and leave these bad comments."
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μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ˜ λΉ„λ””μ˜€μ— κ°€μ„œ 이런 λ‚˜μœ λŒ“κΈ€μ„ 남길거야"라고 생각할 수 있기 λ•Œλ¬Έμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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Okay.
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μ’‹μ•„μš”.
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Also known as "trolls". "Trolls" go through videos and say:
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"트둀"이라고도 ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. "νŠΈλ‘€λ“€"은 μ˜μƒμ„ 훑어보며
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"Ah-ha-ha. I'm going to leave a bad comment. And I'm going to
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"μ•„ν•˜ν•˜. μ•…ν”Œμ„ λ‚¨κΈΈκ²Œμš” . 그리고
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call this person this name." Nice grade three. Okay? Go back
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이 뢄을 이 μ΄λ¦„μœΌλ‘œ λΆ€λ₯΄κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€." 쒋은 3 ν•™λ…„. μ’‹μ•„μš”?
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to grade three; get off your keyboard. But say nothing.
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3ν•™λ…„μœΌλ‘œ λŒμ•„κ°€μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€. ν‚€λ³΄λ“œμ—μ„œ λ‚΄λ €. κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‚˜ 아무 말도 ν•˜μ§€ λ§ˆμ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
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That's what my Mom told me. So, I don't like that. I like to
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그게 우리 μ—„λ§ˆκ°€ λ‚˜μ—κ²Œ λ§ν•œ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. κ·Έλž˜μ„œ λ‚˜λŠ” 그것을 μ’‹μ•„ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ‚˜λŠ” μ‹Έμš°λŠ” 것을 μ’‹μ•„ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€
04:28
fight.
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.
04:30
So, maybe you're in a job interview and they ask you a
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, μ•„λ§ˆλ„ 당신은 μ·¨μ—… 면접에 있고 그듀은 λ‹Ήμ‹ μ—κ²Œ μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ ν•  κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
04:35
question. Frank, thank you very much for giving me this advice.
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. ν”„λž­ν¬, 이런 쑰언을 ν•΄μ£Όμ…”μ„œ 정말 κ°μ‚¬ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:42
And you have no idea what the answer, because job interviews
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μ·¨μ—… 면접은 λˆλˆν•˜κΈ° λ•Œλ¬Έμ— 닡이 무엇인지 μ•Œ 수 μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
04:49
are sticky. They... They ask you something, but you know you
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. 그듀은... 그듀은 λ‹Ήμ‹ μ—κ²Œ 무언가λ₯Ό μš”κ΅¬ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 당신은 당신이
04:52
shouldn't tell the truth because then you'll lose the job.
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진싀을 λ§ν•΄μ„œλŠ” μ•ˆ λœλ‹€λŠ” 것을 μ•Œκ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
04:54
Hey, guess what? You can say to them: "Let me get back to you on
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맞좰봐? 당신은 κ·Έλ“€μ—κ²Œ 말할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ : "그것에 λŒ€ν•΄ λ‹€μ‹œ μ•Œλ € λ“œλ¦¬κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
05:01
that one." So, they could ask you a question, like: "So, why
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." κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 그듀은 λ‹Ήμ‹ μ—κ²Œ λ‹€μŒκ³Ό 같은 μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. "κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ •ν™•νžˆ μ™œ
05:08
exactly would you like to work for this company?" Real answer:
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이 νšŒμ‚¬μ—μ„œ μΌν•˜κ³  μ‹ΆμŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ?" μ‹€μ œ λ‹΅λ³€:
05:13
"I need a job. And you had a job interview, and I'm here. And you
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"μ €λŠ” 직업이 ν•„μš”ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그리고 당신은 면접을 λ³΄μ•˜κ³  μ €λŠ” μ—¬κΈ° μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그리고 당신은
05:17
should hire me." Bad answer. Good answer: "That's a good
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μ €λ₯Ό κ³ μš©ν•΄μ•Ό ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€." 잘λͺ»λœ λ‹΅λ³€μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 쒋은 λ‹΅λ³€: "쒋은
05:23
question."--I have no idea--"Let me get back to you on that one."
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μ§ˆλ¬Έμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€."--잘 λͺ¨λ₯΄κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€--" κ·Έ μ§ˆλ¬Έμ— λŒ€ν•΄ λ‹€μ‹œ λ§μ”€λ“œλ¦¬κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€."
05:26
So, hopefully what will happen is the interview will be very
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λ”°λΌμ„œ λ©΄μ ‘μ—μ„œ
05:31
happy with your answer, continue with the job interview, and
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κ·€ν•˜μ˜ 닡변에 맀우 λ§Œμ‘±ν•˜κ³  μ·¨μ—… 면접을 κ³„μ†ν•˜κ³  λŒμ•„κ°€μ„œ
05:36
completely forget to go back and ask you the question you
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κ·€ν•˜κ°€
05:41
couldn't remember or you didn't know the answer to. It's magic.
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κΈ°μ–΅ν•˜μ§€ λͺ»ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜ 닡을 λͺ°λžλ˜ μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ λ¬»λŠ” 것을 μ™„μ „νžˆ μžŠμ„ 수 있기λ₯Ό λ°”λžλ‹ˆλ‹€. λ§ˆλ²•μ΄μ•Ό.
05:45
Because the job interviews: "Dunh-dunh-dunh" done all these,
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μ·¨μ—… λ©΄μ ‘: "Dunh-dunh-dunh"이 이 λͺ¨λ“  것을 μ™„λ£Œν–ˆκΈ° λ•Œλ¬Έμ—
05:48
good. Okay. Yes/no. Hired. Good. They forget to ask you most of
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μ’‹μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ’‹μ•„μš”. 예 μ•„λ‹ˆμ˜€. 고용. 쒋은. 면접에 μ²œμž¬κ°€ μžˆμ§€ μ•ŠλŠ” ν•œ 그듀은 λŒ€λΆ€λΆ„μ˜ μ‹œκ°„μ— λ¬Όμ–΄λ³΄λŠ” 것을 μžŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
05:52
the time, unless you've got a genius working on your job
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05:56
interview.
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05:56
The other thing that you can say is... They might ask you
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.
당신이 말할 수 μžˆλŠ” λ‹€λ₯Έ 것은 ... 그듀은
05:59
something you're not comfortable about at all, and you're going
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당신이 μ „ν˜€ λΆˆνŽΈν•΄ν•˜λŠ” 것을 λ‹Ήμ‹ μ—κ²Œ 물을 μˆ˜λ„ 있고 당신은
06:04
to find out that there's many things that they're not allowed
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그듀이 λ‹Ήμ‹ μ—κ²Œ λ¬Όμ–΄λ³Ό 수 μ—†λŠ” λ§Žμ€ 것듀이 μžˆλ‹€λŠ” 것을 μ•Œκ²Œ 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
06:07
to ask you. They're not allowed to ask you about your age, your
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. μ·¨μ—… λ©΄μ ‘μ—μ„œ λ‚˜μ΄,
06:10
race, and many other discriminatory things in a job
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인쒅 및 기타 μ—¬λŸ¬ 가지 차별적인 사항에 λŒ€ν•΄ λ¬Όμ–΄λ³Ό 수 μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
06:14
interview. And if they ask you one of these things, or
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. 그리고 그듀이 μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ—κ²Œ 이런 μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜
06:17
something that you're just like: "No. Do you know what? Nah. No,
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μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ΄ μ’‹μ•„ν•˜λŠ” 것을 λ¬»λŠ”λ‹€λ©΄ "μ•„λ‹ˆ. κ·Έκ±° μ•Œμ•„? μ•„λ‹ˆ. μ•„λ‹ˆ,
06:20
no, no."
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μ•„λ‹ˆ, μ•„λ‹ˆ."
06:22
You can say: "I'm not comfortable talking about that."
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"λ‚˜λŠ” 그것에 λŒ€ν•΄ λ§ν•˜λŠ” 것이 λΆˆνŽΈν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€."라고 말할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:25
And this might set off a little alarm for the interview, going:
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그리고 이것은 인터뷰에 μ•½κ°„μ˜ 경각심을 λΆˆλŸ¬μΌμœΌν‚¬ 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:30
"Oh. Did I say something illegal? Well, I hope that was
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"였. λ‚΄κ°€ λ­”κ°€ λΆˆλ²•μ μΈ 말을 ν–ˆλ‚˜μš”? 음, 그것이
06:34
allowed in my jurisdiction." So, it actually makes the job
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제 κ΄€ν• κΆŒμ—μ„œ ν—ˆμš©λ˜κΈ°λ₯Ό λ°”λžλ‹ˆλ‹€." κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ‹€μ œλ‘œ μ·¨μ—…
06:38
interview... Interviewer nervous. You're like: "Yes.
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면접을... 면접관이 κΈ΄μž₯ν•˜κ²Œ λ§Œλ“­λ‹ˆλ‹€. 당신은 "예.
06:41
Ha-ha. Give me the job."
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ν•˜ν•˜. μ €μ—κ²Œ 일자리λ₯Ό μ£Όμ„Έμš”." 세상은
06:43
It's a crazy world out there, and people are going to attack
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미친 세상이고 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ 당신을 곡격할 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
06:46
you, but stay strong. And if something makes you
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. ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ κ°•ν•˜κ²Œ λ²„ν‹°μ„Έμš”. 그리고 λ­”κ°€
06:49
uncomfortable, talk about it. Say things: "Ha. Hey, guess
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λΆˆνŽΈν•˜λ©΄ 그것에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€. λ‹€μŒκ³Ό 같이 λ§ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. "ν•˜. 이봐,
06:53
what? I'm not playing your games. Bye."
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κ·Έκ±° μ•Œμ•„? λ‚œ λ„€ κ²Œμž„ μ•ˆ ν• κ±°μ•Ό . μ•ˆλ…•."
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이 μ‚¬μ΄νŠΈλŠ” μ˜μ–΄ ν•™μŠ΅μ— μœ μš©ν•œ YouTube λ™μ˜μƒμ„ μ†Œκ°œν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ „ 세계 졜고의 μ„ μƒλ‹˜λ“€μ΄ κ°€λ₯΄μΉ˜λŠ” μ˜μ–΄ μˆ˜μ—…μ„ 보게 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 각 λ™μ˜μƒ νŽ˜μ΄μ§€μ— ν‘œμ‹œλ˜λŠ” μ˜μ–΄ μžλ§‰μ„ 더블 ν΄λ¦­ν•˜λ©΄ κ·Έκ³³μ—μ„œ λ™μ˜μƒμ΄ μž¬μƒλ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. λΉ„λ””μ˜€ μž¬μƒμ— 맞좰 μžλ§‰μ΄ μŠ€ν¬λ‘€λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ˜κ²¬μ΄λ‚˜ μš”μ²­μ΄ μžˆλŠ” 경우 이 문의 양식을 μ‚¬μš©ν•˜μ—¬ λ¬Έμ˜ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.

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