Polite English: What NOT to say to people!

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ไธ‹ใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžๅญ—ๅน•ใ‚’ใƒ€ใƒ–ใƒซใ‚ฏใƒชใƒƒใ‚ฏใ™ใ‚‹ใจๅ‹•็”ปใ‚’ๅ†็”Ÿใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ็ฟป่จณใ•ใ‚ŒใŸๅญ—ๅน•ใฏๆฉŸๆขฐ็ฟป่จณใงใ™ใ€‚

00:00
Hi. I need to talk to you guys about something. It's important,
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ใ‚„ใ‚ใ€‚ ็งใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŸใกใจไฝ•ใ‹ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ™ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ ใ€‚
00:07
especially if you're going to talk to a lady.
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็‰นใซๅฅณๆ€งใจ่ฉฑใ™ๅ ดๅˆใฏ้‡่ฆใงใ™ ใ€‚
00:10
Sometimes people leave comments, sometimes people say things to people
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ใ‚ณใƒกใƒณใƒˆใ‚’ๆฎ‹ใ™ ไบบใ‚‚ใ„ใ‚Œใฐใ€ไบบใซไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’่จ€ใ†ไบบใ‚‚ใ„
00:16
- they do not mean to be offensive, but it makes people sad and it makes people hate you.
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ใพใ™ใ€‚ๆ”ปๆ’ƒใ™ใ‚‹ใคใ‚‚ใ‚Šใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใŒใ€ ใใ‚Œใฏไบบใ‚’ๆ‚ฒใ—ใพใ›ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ๆ†Žใพใ›ใพใ™ใ€‚
00:27
This lesson is called: "What Not to Say" or "What Not to Ask Ladies".
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ใ“ใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใฏ ใ€ใ€Œ่จ€ใฃใฆใฏใ„ใ‘ใชใ„ใ“ใจใ€ใพใŸใฏใ€Œๅฅณๆ€งใซ่žใ„ใฆใฏใ„ใ‘ใชใ„ใ“ใจใ€ใจๅ‘ผใฐใ‚Œใพใ™ใ€‚
00:35
And for all, forsake and truth, men as well. So, if you're trying to talk to a lady that you quite like
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ใ™ในใฆใฎไบบใฎใŸใ‚ใซใ€็”ทๆ€งใ‚‚ๅŒๆง˜ใซใ€็œŸๅฎŸใ‚’ๆจใฆใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใจใฆใ‚‚ๅฅฝใใชๅฅณๆ€งใ€
00:43
or someone you haven't seen in a long time or a man you haven't seen in a long time,
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ใพใŸใฏ้•ทใ„้–“ ไผšใฃใฆใ„ใชใ„ไบบใ€ใพใŸใฏ้•ทใ„้–“ไผšใฃใฆใ„ใชใ„็”ทๆ€งใจ่ฉฑใ‚’ใ—ใ‚ˆใ†ใจใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใชใ‚‰ใ€
00:49
there's some guidelines I'm going to help you out with. Mm-hmm. Don't say these things,
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็งใŒใ‚ใชใŸใซๅฝน็ซ‹ใคใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎใ‚ฌใ‚คใƒ‰ใƒฉใ‚คใƒณใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™. ใงใ€‚ ใ†ใƒผใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ“ใ†ใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใฏ่จ€ใ‚ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„
00:55
because it's really kind of bad.
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ใ€‚ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซๆ‚ชใ„ใ“ใจใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™ใ€‚
00:57
The first one and probably the most important one is someone's weight. Now, maybe the person
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ๆœ€ๅˆใฎใ‚‚ใฎใ€ใใ—ใฆใŠใใ‚‰ใๆœ€ใ‚‚้‡่ฆใช ใ‚‚ใฎใฏใ€่ชฐใ‹ใฎไฝ“้‡ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ•ใฆใ€ใŠใใ‚‰ใใใฎไบบ
01:06
has lost a lot of weight, so they've had some weight loss or they've gained weight. Unfortunately,
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ใฏใ‹ใชใ‚Šใฎไฝ“้‡ใ‚’ๆธ›ใ‚‰ใ—ใŸใฎใงใ€ไฝ“้‡ใŒๆธ›ใฃใŸ ใ‹ใ€ไฝ“้‡ใŒๅข—ใˆใพใ—ใŸ. ๆฎ‹ๅฟตใชใŒใ‚‰
01:14
for most of us, we gain weight. So, it is not cool at all to say someone:
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ใ€็งใŸใกใฎใปใจใ‚“ใฉใฏไฝ“้‡ใŒๅข—ใˆใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ ่ชฐใ‹ใซใ“ใ†่จ€ใ†ใฎใฏๅ…จ็„ถใ‚ฏใƒผใƒซ
01:20
"Oh, hey! You've gained some weight since we've met.
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01:25
Well, I... Pfft, you've put on some pounds, haven't you?"
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ใ˜ใ‚ƒใชใ„ใ€‚ "
01:30
Mm-hmm. That's none of your business. I think that the person probably
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ใ†ใƒผใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใซใฏ้–ขไฟ‚ใฎใชใ„ใ“ใจใ ใ€‚ ใใฎไบบใฏใŠใใ‚‰ใ
01:35
knows already that they've gained some weight. I don't think that they have known this for
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ใ€่‡ชๅˆ†ใŒใ„ใใ‚‰ใ‹ๅคชใฃใŸใ“ใจใ‚’ใ™ใงใซ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๅฝผใ‚‰ใซ่จ€ใฃใŸใจใใ€ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’ๅˆใ‚ใฆ็Ÿฅใ‚‰ใชใ‹ใฃใŸใจๆ€ใ„
01:41
the first time when you've told them: -"You've gained some..."
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ใพใ™๏ผš-ใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅฐ‘ใ—ๅข—ใˆใพใ—ใŸ...ใ€
01:44
-"I've gained some weight? Really? I haven't noticed. Thanks a lot."
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-ใ€Œ็งใฏๅฐ‘ใ—ไฝ“้‡ใŒๅข—ใˆใพใ—ใŸใ‹๏ผŸๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ๏ผŸ ็งใฏๆฐ—ใฅใ„ใฆใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ€‚ ๅคšใใฎใ€‚"
01:49
People know that they've done this, so you
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ไบบใ€…ใฏใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’่กŒใฃใŸใ“ใจใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ€
01:51
don't need to point it out to them. They know this.
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ใใ‚Œใ‚’ๆŒ‡ๆ‘˜ใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
01:57
Be very careful with this one, please:
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ใ“ใ‚Œใซใฏๅๅˆ†ๆฐ—ใ‚’ใคใ‘ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„:
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-"Are you pregnant?"
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-ใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅฆŠๅจ ใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹?ใ€
02:03
-"No, I'm just fat."
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-ใ€Œใ„ใ„ใˆใ€ใŸใ ๅคชใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ ใ‘ใงใ™ใ€‚ใ€
02:05
Be really careful with this one. Maybe someone's got some extra pudge around their tummy, maybe
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ใ“ใ‚Œใซใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใซๆณจๆ„ใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ใŸใถใ‚“ใ€่ชฐใ‹ ใŒใŠใชใ‹ใฎๅ‘จใ‚Šใซไฝ™ๅˆ†ใชใƒ‘ใƒƒใ‚ธ
02:12
they've enjoyed one too many Guinness' on the patio over the summertime. And this is
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ใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ .ๅคใฎ้–“ใ€ใƒ‘ใƒ†ใ‚ฃใ‚ชใงใ‚ฎใƒใ‚นใ‚’ๆฅฝใ—ใฟใ™ใŽใŸใฎใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“. ใใ—ใฆใ€
02:18
is worse for women, they've got a bit of a gut, big tummy there. Never ask a woman if
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏๅฅณๆ€งใซใจใฃใฆใฏใ•ใ‚‰ใซๆ‚ชใ„ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏๅฐ‘ใ— ๅ†…่‡“ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ๅคงใใชใŠใชใ‹ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™. ๅฅณๆ€งใซๅฆŠๅจ ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹ๅฐ‹ใญใฆใฏใ„ใ‘ใพใ›ใ‚“
02:25
they're pregnant. Maybe they are pregnant, but chances are if they are pregnant, they
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ใ€‚ ๅฆŠๅจ ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใŒใ€ๅฆŠๅจ ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€ใ™ใงใซใ‚ใชใŸใซ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Š
02:31
would have told you already. It's kind of important news. If you're close to the person,
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ใพใ™. ใกใ‚‡ใฃใจ้‡่ฆใชใŠ็Ÿฅใ‚‰ใ›ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใใฎไบบใฎ่ฟ‘ใใซใ„ใ‚Œใฐใ€
02:36
they'd probably send you an email and say: "I'm pregnant." Facebook would be a good indication
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใŠใใ‚‰ใใ‚ใชใŸใซใƒกใƒผใƒซใ‚’้€ใฃใฆใ€ใ€Œ็งใฏ ๅฆŠๅจ ใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†. Facebook ใฏใ€
02:43
of: "I'm having a baby. Look at my tummy." Usually if your friend who's a girl is pregnant,
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ใ€Œ็งใฏ่ตคใกใ‚ƒใ‚“ใ‚’็”ฃใ‚“ใงใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ใŠ่…นใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ใ€ใจใ„ใ†่‰ฏใ„ๆŒ‡ๆจ™ใซใชใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ้€šๅธธใ€ๅฅณใฎๅญใฎๅ‹้”ใŒๅฆŠๅจ 
02:49
you're going to hear about it, especially on Facebook.
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ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ ๅ ดๅˆใ€็‰นใซ Facebook ใงใใฎใ“ใจใ‚’่€ณใซใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
02:52
So never ask a woman if she is pregnant.
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ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ๅฅณๆ€งใซๅฆŠๅจ ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹ๅฐ‹ใญใฆใฏใ„ใ‘ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
02:59
Even losing weight, some people lose weight, and this is not a good thing. Maybe they are
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็—ฉใ›ใฆใ‚‚็—ฉใ›ใ‚‹ไบบใ‚‚ใ„ใพใ™ใŒ ใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ่‰ฏใใชใ„ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
03:05
sick, maybe they have cancer. How cool would you feel if someone said:
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็—…ๆฐ—ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ—ใ€็™Œใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ่ชฐใ‹ใŒ่จ€ใฃใŸใ‚‰ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใฉใ‚“ใชใซใ‚ฏใƒผใƒซใซๆ„Ÿใ˜ใ‚‹ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ‹:
03:11
-"Oh, hey! You've lost weight. You look great."
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-ใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ใ€ใกใ‚‡ใฃใจ๏ผใ‚ใชใŸใฏไฝ“้‡ใ‚’ๆธ›ใ‚‰ใ—ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ็ด ๆ•ตใซ่ฆ‹ใˆใพใ™ใ€‚ใ€
03:15
-"Yeah, I'm dying of cancer."
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-ใ€Œใˆใˆใ€็งใฏ็™Œใงๆญปใซใ‹ใ‘ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ใ€
03:18
-"Oh." So, be careful about the weight issue.
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-"ใŠใƒผใ€‚" ใใฎใŸใ‚ ใ€้‡้‡ใฎๅ•้กŒใซใฏๆณจๆ„ใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
03:22
Don't even talk about it, because the people know. Mm-hmm, believe me.
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ไบบใ€…ใฏ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ€ใใ‚Œใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ™ใ“ใจใ•ใˆใ—ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„. ใ†ใƒผใ‚“ใ€ไฟกใ˜ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
03:27
One of our really, really bad things about... Only one of them. About our society is there's
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็งใŸใกใฎๆœฌๅฝ“ใซใ€ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซๆ‚ชใ„ใ“ใจใฎ 1 ใค.ใใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ 1 ใคใ ใ‘ใงใ™ใ€‚ ็งใŸใกใฎ็คพไผšใซใคใ„ใฆใฏ
03:32
a lot of pressure on mostly women to look pencil-thin, Angelina-Jolie-skinny, so it's
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ใ€ไธปใซๅฅณๆ€งใŒ ้‰›็ญ†ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ็ดฐใใ€ใ‚ขใƒณใ‚ธใ‚งใƒชใƒผใƒŠใƒปใ‚ธใƒงใƒชใƒผใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ็—ฉใ›ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่ฆ‹ใˆใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซๅคšใใฎใƒ—ใƒฌใƒƒใ‚ทใƒฃใƒผใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใ€ๆ—ฅๅธธ็š„ใซ
03:41
hard enough that we have to deal with this on a daily basis. If you read those disgusting
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ใ“ใ‚Œใซๅฏพๅ‡ฆใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ใปใฉ้›ฃใ—ใ„ . ๅซŒใชใƒ•ใ‚กใƒƒใ‚ทใƒงใƒณ้›‘่ชŒใ‚’่ชญใ‚“ใงใ„ใ‚‹ใชใ‚‰
03:46
fashion magazines, we don't need other people telling us that we're not living up to the
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03:52
Photoshopped beauty that you see at the checkout counter. Mm-hmm. That was at Chinga.
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ใ€ใƒใ‚งใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚ขใ‚ฆใƒˆ ใ‚ซใ‚ฆใƒณใ‚ฟใƒผใง่ฆ‹ใ‚‰ใ‚Œใ‚‹ใƒ•ใ‚ฉใƒˆใ‚ทใƒงใƒƒใƒ—ใงๅ‡ฆ็†ใ•ใ‚ŒใŸ็พŽใ—ใ•ใซๅฏพๅฟœใ—ใฆใ„ใชใ„ใจไป–ใฎไบบใซ่จ€ใ‚ใ‚Œใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ†ใƒผใ‚“ใ€‚ ใƒใƒณใ‚ฌใงใ—ใŸใ€‚
03:57
So, the next thing you want to do is looks. Okay? Maybe you didn't wear makeup one day,
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ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ—ใŸใ„ๆฌกใฎใ“ใจใฏ่ฆ‹ใŸ็›ฎใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใ‹ใฃใŸ๏ผŸ ใŸใถใ‚“ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ‚ใ‚‹ๆ—ฅใƒกใ‚คใ‚ฏใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใชใ‹ใฃใŸใฎใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€
04:07
ladies, or you just... You... I don't know, you're just hanging out and someone says:
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ๅฅณๆ€งใ€ใพใŸใฏใ‚ใชใŸใฏ... ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ.
04:13
-"Oh my god, are you okay? You look tired."
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็–ฒใ‚ŒใŸใ€‚"
04:18
-"No, I'm not tired actually. Why?"
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-ใ€Œใ„ใˆใ€ๅฎŸใฏ็–ฒใ‚Œใฆใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ใชใœใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€
04:20
-"You look tired." -"Oh, well, I'm not tired."
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-"ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ็–ฒใ‚Œใฆ่ฆ‹ใˆใ‚‹ใ€‚" ใƒปใ€Œใ‚ ใ€็–ฒใ‚Œใฆใชใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚ใ€
04:24
-"You look hung over."
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-ใ€ŒไบŒๆ—ฅ้…”ใ„ใงใ™ใญใ€‚ใ€
04:25
Hung over means that you
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ไบŒๆ—ฅ้…”ใ„ใจใฏใ€
04:26
drank too much the night before,
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ๅ‰ใฎๆ™ฉใซ้ฃฒใฟใ™ใŽ
04:28
and the next day you feel like shit, which is not good
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ใฆใ€ๆฌกใฎๆ—ฅใฏ
04:33
at all because pooh is pretty bad.
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ๆฐ—ๅˆ†ใŒๆ‚ชใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
04:37
-"Hey, you look older."
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-ใ€Œใญใˆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅนดไธŠใซ่ฆ‹ใˆใพใ™ใ€‚ใ€
04:41
-"I am older. Obviously I'm older than the last time I saw you."
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-ใ€Œ็งใฏๅนดใ‚’ใจใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ๆ˜Žใ‚‰ใ‹ใซ ใ€ๅ‰ๅ›žใ‚ใชใŸใซไผšใฃใŸๆ™‚ใ‚ˆใ‚Šใ‚‚ๅนดใ‚’ใจใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ใ€
04:44
What a redonkulous thing to say.
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ไฝ•ใจ่จ€ใ†็„ก่Œถใชไบ‹ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
04:47
-"You look like shit." -"Thanks." If the person does look bad,
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-ใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใฏใŸใ‚ใ”ใจใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่ฆ‹ใˆใพใ™ใ€‚ใ€ -"ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ€‚" ใใฎไบบใŒๆ‚ชใ„
04:54
they probably have looked in the mirror and gone:
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้ก”ใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใŠใใ‚‰ใ ้กใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใ€
04:57
"Ah, I look bad today." It's cool. Again, they probably see this in themselves.
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ใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ใ€ไปŠๆ—ฅใฏๆ‚ชใ„้ก”ใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ€ใจ่จ€ใฃใŸใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ใ‹ใฃใ“ใ„ใ„ใญใ€‚ ็นฐใ‚Š่ฟ”ใ—ใพใ™ใŒใ€ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใŠใใ‚‰ใใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’่‡ชๅˆ†่‡ช่บซใง่ฆ‹ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
05:02
You don't need to tell you this. Now, if it's your friend, by all means:
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’ไผใˆใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ‚‚ใ—ใใ‚ŒใŒใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅ‹้”ใชใ‚‰
05:08
"Oh my god, you look terrible. What happened?"
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ใ€ๆ˜ฏ้žใจใ‚‚ใ“ใ†่จ€ใฃใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
05:10
Because it's your friend and you... You're good. You can
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ใใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅ‹ไบบใงใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™. ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ„ใ„ใงใ™. ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ
05:13
talk to them and they'll help you. But if it's a lady that you're trying to impress,
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใจ่ฉฑใ™ใ“ใจใŒใงใใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ๅŠฉใ‘ใ‚‹ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†. ใ—ใ‹ใ— ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๆ„Ÿ้Š˜ใ‚’ไธŽใˆใ‚ˆใ†ใจใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใŒๅฅณๆ€งใงใ‚ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€
05:18
no. Just say: "Hi", and smile or something.
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ใ„ใ„ใˆ. ใ€Œใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏใ€ใจ่จ€ใฃใฆใ€็ฌ‘้ก”ใ‹ไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’่จ€ใฃใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
05:23
This one's a doozy, which means it's really, really, really important:
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ใ“ใ‚ŒใฏใŠใ‹ใ—ใช่ฉฑใงใ™ใ€‚ใคใพใ‚Šใ€
05:29
"What's wrong with your voice?"
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ใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅฃฐใฏใฉใ†ใ—ใŸใฎ๏ผŸใ€
05:35
Maybe: "What's wrong with your face?"
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ใŸใถใ‚“๏ผšใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใฎ้ก”ใฏใฉใ†ใ—ใŸใฎ๏ผŸใ€
05:38
Maybe some people... I've seen some
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ๅคšๅˆ†ไฝ•ไบบใ‹ใฎไบบใ€…โ€ฆ
05:40
people that are burn victims, so their face has different skin tones. They have... There's
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ใ‚„ใ‘ใฉใ‚’่ฒ ใฃใŸไบบใ‚’่ฆ‹ใŸใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ€้ก”ใฎ ่‚Œใฎ่‰ฒใŒ็•ฐใชใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ
05:46
a really famous model now that's got skin grafts, and her face is like different colours.
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... ไปŠใงใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใซๆœ‰ๅใชใƒขใƒ‡ใƒซใŒ็šฎ่†š ็งปๆคใ‚’ๅ—ใ‘ใฆใŠใ‚Šใ€ๅฝผๅฅณใฎ้ก”ใฏใ•ใพใ–ใพใช่‰ฒใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใงใ™.
05:51
Really cool. You would never ever say to someone that has something like different about their face:
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ใ™ใ”ใใ‹ใฃใ“ใ„ใ„ใ€‚ ้ก”ใฎใฉใ“ใ‹ใŒ้•ใ†ไบบใซใ€ใ“ใ‚“ใชใ“ใจใฏ็ตถๅฏพใซ
05:59
-"Hey, what's wrong with your eye? Why doesn't it work?"
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่จ€ใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
06:02
-"It's glass. Okay?"
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ใƒปใ€Œใ‚ฌใƒฉใ‚นใงใ™ใ‚ˆใญ๏ผŸใ€
06:05
So you can't... Do not point out people's flaws.
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ไบบใฎๆฌ ็‚นใ‚’ๆŒ‡ๆ‘˜ใ—ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
06:09
"What's wrong with your nose?"
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ใ€Œ้ผปใฉใ†ใ—ใŸใฎ๏ผŸใ€
06:12
Maybe they had a nose job that got really blotched, which means it was really bad, and they look like
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ใŸใถใ‚“ใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ้ผปใฎไป•ไบ‹ใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใฆใ€ใใ‚Œใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใซใ—ใฟใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ ใใ‚Œใฏใใ‚ŒใŒๆœฌๅฝ“ใซๆ‚ชใ‹ใฃใŸใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณ
06:19
Michael Jackson before he died and his nose is really bad. He knows his nose is bad. You
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ใ—ใ€ๅฝผใŒไบกใใชใ‚‹ๅ‰ใฎใƒžใ‚คใ‚ฑใƒซใƒปใ‚ธใƒฃใ‚ฏใ‚ฝใƒณใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่ฆ‹ใˆใ€ๅฝผใฎ้ผปใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใซๆ‚ชใ„. ๅฝผใฏ่‡ชๅˆ†ใฎ้ผปใŒๆ‚ชใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
06:24
don't need to point it out, okay?
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ๆŒ‡ๆ‘˜ใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใฏใชใ„ใงใ™ใ‚ˆใญ๏ผŸ
06:27
-"What's wrong with your voice?"
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-ใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅฃฐใฏใฉใ†ใ—ใŸใฎ๏ผŸใ€
06:29
-"I talk like this all the time." -"Oh."
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-ใ€Œ็งใฏใ„ใคใ‚‚ใ“ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่ฉฑใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ใ€ -"ใŠใƒผใ€‚"
06:32
A little embarrassing for you. I'm trying to help you guys not embarrass
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ใ‚ใชใŸใซใฏๅฐ‘ใ—ๆฅใšใ‹ใ—ใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚ ๆฅใ‚’ใ‹ใ‹ใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใŠๆ‰‹ไผใ„ใ—ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใ„
06:36
yourselves. I'm doing you a good thing.
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ใพใ™ใ€‚ ็งใฏใ‚ใชใŸใซ่‰ฏใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
06:40
This next word, you probably know the word "acne". Right? Maybe. We have a slang word
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ใ“ใฎๆฌกใฎ่จ€่‘‰ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใŠใใ‚‰ใใ€Œใƒ‹ใ‚ญใƒ“ใ€ใจใ„ใ†่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ๅณ๏ผŸ ๅคšๅˆ†ใ€‚ ็งใŸใกใฏใใ‚Œใ‚’่กจใ™ไฟ—่ชžใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆ
06:46
for it, it's "zits" or more of a doctor word "pimples". But acne, zits, and pimples are
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ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ใใ‚Œใฏใ€Œzitsใ€ใพใŸใฏใ€Œpimplesใ€ใจใ„ใ†ๅŒป่€…ใฎ่จ€่‘‰ใงใ™. ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใซใใณใ€ใซใใณใ€ใซใใณ
06:53
the same. So I get pimples, I get zits, I get acne. People say:
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ใฏๅŒใ˜ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ใซใใณใŒใงใใŸใ‚Šใ€ใซใใณใŒใงใ ใŸใ‚Šใ€ใซใใณใŒใงใใŸใ‚Šใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ไบบใ€…ใฏ่จ€ใ†
06:59
-"Ronnie, what's that red thing on your nose?"
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๏ผšใ€Œใƒญใƒ‹ใƒผใ€ ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ้ผปใฎ่ตคใ„ใ‚‚ใฎใฏไฝ•๏ผŸใ€
07:03
-"I'm Rudolph the Red Nose Reindeer." Okay? It's a zit.
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ใ€Œ็งใฏ ่ตค้ผปใฎใƒˆใƒŠใ‚ซใ‚คใฎใƒซใƒ‰ใƒซใƒ•ใงใ™ใ€‚ใ€ ใ‚ใ‹ใฃใŸ๏ผŸ ใซใใณใงใ™ใ€‚
07:08
It's a pimple. I know I have it on my nose, you don't need to ask me what it is. It's not
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ใƒ‹ใ‚ญใƒ“ใงใ™ใ€‚ ็งใฏใใ‚ŒใŒ็งใฎ้ผปใซใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ ใพใ™ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใใ‚ŒใŒไฝ•ใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚’็งใซๅฐ‹ใญใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“.
07:14
like I didn't know it was there. So, if you see something a little different about someone,
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ใใ“ใซใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’็Ÿฅใ‚‰ใชใ‹ใฃใŸใ‚ใ‘ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ ่ชฐใ‹ใซใคใ„ใฆๅฐ‘ใ—้•ใ†ใจใ“ใ‚ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใŸใจใ—ใฆ
07:23
don't embarrass yourself, don't make them feel uncomfortable. If you are really dying
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ใ‚‚ใ€ๆฅใšใ‹ใ—ใŒใฃใŸใ‚Šใ€ไธๅฟซใซๆ„Ÿใ˜ใ•ใ›ใŸใ‚Šใ—ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ ใ€‚
07:29
to know what's happened to them, start a conversation with them. When you become friends, maybe
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใซไฝ•ใŒ่ตทใ“ใฃใŸใฎใ‹ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ็Ÿฅใ‚ŠใŸใใชใ„ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใจไผš่ฉฑใ‚’ๅง‹ใ‚ ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ๅ‹้”ใซใชใ‚‹ใจใ€
07:36
they will tell you what happened. But this is a really, really complex subject that you
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ไฝ•ใŒใ‚ใฃใŸใ‹ๆ•™ใˆใฆใใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใ“ใ‚Œ ใฏ้žๅธธใซ่ค‡้›‘ใชใƒ†ใƒผใƒžใงใ‚ใ‚Šใ€่ฆ‹็Ÿฅใ‚‰ใฌไบบใจ
07:43
should not just talk to people who are strangers.
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ใ ใ‘่ฉฑใ™ในใใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚
07:49
To end my story, one thing you should not say to ladies, this. My friend and I were
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ๆœ€ๅพŒใซใ€ๅฅณๆ€งใซ่จ€ใฃใฆใฏใ„ใ‘ใชใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’ไธ€ใค ใ€‚ ๅ‹ไบบ
07:59
in a pub and we were talking to a guy, not even a gentleman yet, and he thought that
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ใจ็งใฏใƒ‘ใƒ– ใซใ„ใฆใ€ใพใ ็ดณๅฃซใงใ•ใˆ
08:06
he was... Oh, he was quite friendly with us, wasn't he? He thought he was really funny,
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ใชใ„็”ทใจ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ๅฝผใฏ่‡ชๅˆ†ใฎใ“ใจใ‚’ใจใฆใ‚‚้ข็™ฝใ„
08:10
and he thought that he was our pal or our mate, and when he was leaving, he said:
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ใจๆ€ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ๅฝผใฏ็งใŸใกใฎๅ‹้”ใ‹ไปฒ้–“ใ ใจๆ€ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ—ใŸ
08:14
"Later Bitches."
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08:17
Huh, what, dude? Did you just call us "Bitches"? That's awesome. Don't do it.
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ใˆใ€ใชใซใ€ใŠใ„๏ผŸ ็งใŸใกใ‚’ใ€Œ[ __ ]ใ€ใจๅ‘ผใ‚“ใ ใฎใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ใใ‚Œใฏ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚„ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
08:25
I don't care how well you think you know the person.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใใฎไบบใ‚’ใฉใ‚Œใ ใ‘ใ‚ˆใ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใฏๆฐ—ใซใ—ใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚
08:29
Just don't refer to ladies as bitches.
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ๅฅณๆ€งใ‚’[ __ ]ใจๅ‘ผใฐใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
08:31
It's not going to work.
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08:32
Later.
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