Polite English: What NOT to say to people!

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์•„๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฌธ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ”ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋œ ์ž๋ง‰์€ ๊ธฐ๊ณ„ ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

00:00
Hi. I need to talk to you guys about something. It's important,
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์•ˆ๋…•. ๋„ˆํฌ๋“ค๊ณผ ์–˜๊ธฐํ•  ๊ฒŒ ์žˆ์–ด.
00:07
especially if you're going to talk to a lady.
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ํŠนํžˆ ์—ฌ์„ฑ๊ณผ ๋Œ€ํ™”ํ•  ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:10
Sometimes people leave comments, sometimes people say things to people
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๋•Œ๋กœ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ๋Œ“๊ธ€์„ ๋‚จ๊ธฐ๊ณ  ๋•Œ๋กœ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๋ง์„ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:16
- they do not mean to be offensive, but it makes people sad and it makes people hate you.
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๋ชจ์š•ํ•˜๋ ค๋Š” ์˜๋„๋Š” ์•„๋‹ˆ์ง€๋งŒ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์„ ์Šฌํ”„๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ๋“ค๊ณ  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ๋ฏธ์›Œํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ๋“ญ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:27
This lesson is called: "What Not to Say" or "What Not to Ask Ladies".
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์ด ์ˆ˜์—…์˜ ์ด๋ฆ„์€ " ๋งํ•˜์ง€ ๋ง์•„์•ผ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ" ๋˜๋Š” "์—ฌ์„ฑ์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฌป์ง€ ๋ง์•„์•ผ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ"์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:35
And for all, forsake and truth, men as well. So, if you're trying to talk to a lady that you quite like
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋ชจ๋‘๋ฅผ ์œ„ํ•ด, ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋„ ๋งˆ์ฐฌ๊ฐ€์ง€์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋งŒ์•ฝ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ฝค ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜๋Š” ์—ฌ์ž๋‚˜
00:43
or someone you haven't seen in a long time or a man you haven't seen in a long time,
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์˜ค๋žซ๋™์•ˆ ๋ณธ ์ ์ด ์—†๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ ๋˜๋Š” ์˜ค๋žซ๋™์•ˆ ๋ณธ ์ ์ด ์—†๋Š” ๋‚จ์ž์™€ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์‹œ๋„ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด
00:49
there's some guidelines I'm going to help you out with. Mm-hmm. Don't say these things,
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๋ช‡ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์ง€์นจ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์™€ ๋‚˜๊ฐ€๋‹ค. ์Œ-ํ . ์ •๋ง ๋‚˜์œ ์ผ์ด๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ์ด๋Ÿฐ ๋ง ํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”
00:55
because it's really kind of bad.
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.
00:57
The first one and probably the most important one is someone's weight. Now, maybe the person
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์ฒซ ๋ฒˆ์งธ์ด์ž ์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์˜ ์ฒด์ค‘์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด์ œ ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์€
01:06
has lost a lot of weight, so they've had some weight loss or they've gained weight. Unfortunately,
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์ฒด์ค‘์ด ๋งŽ์ด ์ค„์–ด์„œ ์•ฝ๊ฐ„์˜ ์ฒด์ค‘์ด ๊ฐ์†Œํ–ˆ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์ฒด์ค‘์ด ์ฆ๊ฐ€ํ–ˆ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ถˆํ–‰ํ•˜๊ฒŒ๋„
01:14
for most of us, we gain weight. So, it is not cool at all to say someone:
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๋Œ€๋ถ€๋ถ„์€ ์‚ด์ด ์ฐŒ๊ฒŒ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์—๊ฒŒ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ „ํ˜€ ๋ฉ‹์ง€์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:20
"Oh, hey! You've gained some weight since we've met.
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01:25
Well, I... Pfft, you've put on some pounds, haven't you?"
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"
01:30
Mm-hmm. That's none of your business. I think that the person probably
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์Œ-ํ . ๊ทธ๊ฑฐ ๋„ˆ๋ž‘ ์ƒ๊ด€ ์—†์–ด. ๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์•„๋งˆ๋„
01:35
knows already that they've gained some weight. I don't think that they have known this for
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์ž์‹ ์ด ์‚ด์ด ์ช˜๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ด๋ฏธ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ทธ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๋‹ค์Œ๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์ด ๋งํ–ˆ์„ ๋•Œ ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ์ฒ˜์Œ์œผ๋กœ ์•Œ์•˜๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
01:41
the first time when you've told them: -"You've gained some..."
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01:44
-"I've gained some weight? Really? I haven't noticed. Thanks a lot."
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. ๋งŽ์ด."
01:49
People know that they've done this, so you
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ์ž์‹ ์ด ์ด ์ผ์„ ํ–ˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ์œผ๋ฏ€๋กœ
01:51
don't need to point it out to them. They know this.
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์ง€์ ํ•  ํ•„์š”๊ฐ€ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:57
Be very careful with this one, please:
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์ด๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋งค์šฐ ์กฐ์‹ฌํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
02:00
-"Are you pregnant?"
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- "์ž„์‹ ํ•˜์…จ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?"
02:03
-"No, I'm just fat."
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- "์•„๋‹ˆ, ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ๋šฑ๋šฑํ•ด."
02:05
Be really careful with this one. Maybe someone's got some extra pudge around their tummy, maybe
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์ด๊ฒƒ์— ์ •๋ง ์กฐ์‹ฌํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ๋ฐฐ ์ฃผ์œ„์— ์—ฌ๋ถ„์˜ ํผ์ง€๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์—ฌ๋ฆ„ ๋™์•ˆ ํŒŒํ‹ฐ์˜ค์—์„œ
02:12
they've enjoyed one too many Guinness' on the patio over the summertime. And this is
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๊ธฐ๋„ค์Šค๋ฅผ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋งŽ์ด ์ฆ๊ฒผ์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ด๊ฒƒ์€
02:18
is worse for women, they've got a bit of a gut, big tummy there. Never ask a woman if
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์—ฌ์„ฑ์—๊ฒŒ ๋” ๋‚˜์ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์•ฝ๊ฐ„์˜ ๋‚ด์žฅ๊ณผ ํฐ ๋ฐฐ๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์—ฌ์„ฑ์—๊ฒŒ
02:25
they're pregnant. Maybe they are pregnant, but chances are if they are pregnant, they
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์ž„์‹  ์—ฌ๋ถ€๋ฅผ ๋ฌป์ง€ ๋งˆ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์ž„์‹ ํ–ˆ์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ ์ž„์‹ ํ–ˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด
02:31
would have told you already. It's kind of important news. If you're close to the person,
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์ด๋ฏธ ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ๋งํ–ˆ์„ ๊ฐ€๋Šฅ์„ฑ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ผ์ข…์˜ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ์†Œ์‹์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ๊ฐ€๊น๋‹ค๋ฉด
02:36
they'd probably send you an email and say: "I'm pregnant." Facebook would be a good indication
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ์ด๋ฉ”์ผ์„ ๋ณด๋‚ด๋ฉฐ "๋‚˜๋Š” ์ž„์‹ ํ–ˆ์–ด์š”"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํŽ˜์ด์Šค๋ถ์€
02:43
of: "I'm having a baby. Look at my tummy." Usually if your friend who's a girl is pregnant,
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"๋‚˜๋Š” ์•„๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์กŒ์–ด. ๋‚ด ๋ฐฐ๋ฅผ ๋ด." ์ผ๋ฐ˜์ ์œผ๋กœ ์†Œ๋…€์ธ ์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ์ž„์‹ ํ•œ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ
02:49
you're going to hear about it, especially on Facebook.
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ํŠนํžˆ Facebook์—์„œ ์†Œ์‹์„ ๋“ฃ๊ฒŒ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:52
So never ask a woman if she is pregnant.
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์—ฌ์„ฑ์—๊ฒŒ ์ž„์‹  ์—ฌ๋ถ€๋ฅผ ๋ฌป์ง€ ๋งˆ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
02:59
Even losing weight, some people lose weight, and this is not a good thing. Maybe they are
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์‚ด์„ ๋นผ๋„ ์‚ด์ด ๋น ์ง€๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์žˆ๋Š”๋ฐ ์ด๋Š” ์ข‹์ง€ ์•Š์€ ์ผ์ด๋‹ค.
03:05
sick, maybe they have cancer. How cool would you feel if someone said:
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์•„ํ”Œ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๊ณ  ์•”์— ๊ฑธ๋ ธ์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€
03:11
-"Oh, hey! You've lost weight. You look great."
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"์˜ค, ์ด๋ด! ์‚ด์ด ๋น ์กŒ์–ด. ๋ฉ‹์ ธ ๋ณด์—ฌ."
03:15
-"Yeah, I'm dying of cancer."
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-"์˜ˆ, ์•”์œผ๋กœ ์ฃฝ์–ด๊ฐ€๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค."
03:18
-"Oh." So, be careful about the weight issue.
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-"์˜ค." ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๋ฌด๊ฒŒ ๋ฌธ์ œ์— ์ฃผ์˜ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
03:22
Don't even talk about it, because the people know. Mm-hmm, believe me.
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ์•Œ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋งํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ์Œ, ๋‚  ๋ฏฟ์–ด.
03:27
One of our really, really bad things about... Only one of them. About our society is there's
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ์ •๋ง, ์ •๋ง ๋‚˜์œ ์  ์ค‘ ํ•˜๋‚˜๋Š”... ๊ทธ๋“ค ์ค‘ ํ•˜๋‚˜๋งŒ. ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์‚ฌํšŒ๋Š”
03:32
a lot of pressure on mostly women to look pencil-thin, Angelina-Jolie-skinny, so it's
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๋Œ€๋ถ€๋ถ„์˜ ์—ฌ์„ฑ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ์—ฐํ•„์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ์–‡๊ณ  ์•ˆ์ ค๋ฆฌ๋‚˜-์กธ๋ฆฌ-๋งˆ๋ฅธ ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋ณด์ด๋„๋ก ๋งŽ์€ ์••๋ ฅ์„ ๊ฐ€ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
03:41
hard enough that we have to deal with this on a daily basis. If you read those disgusting
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. ๊ทธ ์—ญ๊ฒจ์šด
03:46
fashion magazines, we don't need other people telling us that we're not living up to the
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ํŒจ์…˜ ์žก์ง€๋ฅผ ์ฝ์œผ๋ฉด
03:52
Photoshopped beauty that you see at the checkout counter. Mm-hmm. That was at Chinga.
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๊ณ„์‚ฐ๋Œ€์—์„œ ๋ณด์ด๋Š” Photoshop ์ฒ˜๋ฆฌ๋œ ์•„๋ฆ„๋‹ค์›€์— ๋ถ€์‘ํ•˜์ง€ ๋ชปํ•œ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ํ•„์š”ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์Œ-ํ . ์นญ๊ฐ€์—์„œ ๊ทธ๋žฌ๋‹ค.
03:57
So, the next thing you want to do is looks. Okay? Maybe you didn't wear makeup one day,
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹ค์Œ์œผ๋กœ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ๊ฒƒ์€ ์™ธ๋ชจ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ข‹์•„์š”? ์–ด์ฉŒ๋ฉด ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์–ด๋Š ๋‚  ํ™”์žฅ์„ ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜,
04:07
ladies, or you just... You... I don't know, you're just hanging out and someone says:
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์ˆ™๋…€๋ถ„๋“ค, ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ... ๋‹น์‹ ... ๋ชจ๋ฅด๊ฒ ์–ด์š”, ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ์–ด์šธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ณ  ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ๋งํ•˜์ฃ :
04:13
-"Oh my god, are you okay? You look tired."
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-"๋ง™์†Œ์‚ฌ, ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์•„? ํ”ผ๊ณคํ•œ."
04:18
-"No, I'm not tired actually. Why?"
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-"์•„๋‹ˆ, ์‚ฌ์‹ค ํ”ผ๊ณคํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•„. ์™œ?"
04:20
-"You look tired." -"Oh, well, I'm not tired."
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-"์ข€ ํ”ผ๊ณคํ•ด ๋ณด์ด๋Š”๊ตฌ๋‚˜." -"์•„, ํ”ผ๊ณคํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•„."
04:24
-"You look hung over."
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-"๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ˆ™์ทจ ๋ณด์ธ๋‹ค."
04:25
Hung over means that you
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Hung over๋Š”
04:26
drank too much the night before,
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์ „๋‚  ๋ฐค์— ์ˆ ์„ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋งŽ์ด ๋งˆ์…จ๊ณ 
04:28
and the next day you feel like shit, which is not good
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๋‹ค์Œ๋‚ ์—๋Š” ๋˜ฅ ๊ฐ™์€ ๊ธฐ๋ถ„์ด ๋“œ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:33
at all because pooh is pretty bad.
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ํ‘ธ๊ฐ€ ๊ฝค ๋‚˜์˜๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ์ „ํ˜€ ์ข‹์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:37
-"Hey, you look older."
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-"์•ผ, ๋„ˆ ๋Š™์–ด ๋ณด์ธ๋‹ค."
04:41
-"I am older. Obviously I'm older than the last time I saw you."
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-"๋‚˜์ด๊ฐ€ ๋“ค์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ถ„๋ช…ํžˆ ๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰์œผ๋กœ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ๋ณด์•˜์„ ๋•Œ๋ณด๋‹ค ๋‚˜์ด๊ฐ€ ๋“ค์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค."
04:44
What a redonkulous thing to say.
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๋ฌด์Šจ ์žฌ์ˆ˜์—†๋Š” ๋ง์ธ๊ฐ€.
04:47
-"You look like shit." -"Thanks." If the person does look bad,
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-"๋„ˆ ๋˜ฅ ๊ฐ™์•„." -"๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ด์š”." ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์•ˆ ์ข‹์•„ ๋ณด์ธ๋‹ค๋ฉด
04:54
they probably have looked in the mirror and gone:
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์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๊ฑฐ์šธ์„ ๋ณด๊ณ 
04:57
"Ah, I look bad today." It's cool. Again, they probably see this in themselves.
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"์•„, ๋‚˜ ์˜ค๋Š˜ ์•ˆ ์ข‹์•„ ๋ณด์—ฌ"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ–ˆ์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ถฅ๋‹ค. ๋‹ค์‹œ ๋งํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ, ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์•„๋งˆ๋„ ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ์Šค์Šค๋กœ ๋ณผ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:02
You don't need to tell you this. Now, if it's your friend, by all means:
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ๋งํ•  ํ•„์š”๊ฐ€ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด์ œ ์นœ๊ตฌ๋ผ๋ฉด
05:08
"Oh my god, you look terrible. What happened?"
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"์˜ค ๋งˆ์ด ๊ฐ“, ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋”์ฐํ•ด ๋ณด์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฌด์Šจ ์ผ์ด ์žˆ์—ˆ๋‚˜์š”?"
05:10
Because it's your friend and you... You're good. You can
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๋‹น์‹ ๊ณผ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์นœ๊ตฌ์ด๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์—... ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์€
05:13
talk to them and they'll help you. But if it's a lady that you're trying to impress,
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๊ทธ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ๋„์šธ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ฐ๋™์„ ์ฃผ๊ณ ์ž ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์—ฌ์„ฑ์ด๋ผ๋ฉด
05:18
no. Just say: "Hi", and smile or something.
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์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. "์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ๋ฏธ์†Œ๋ฅผ ์ง€์œผ์„ธ์š”.
05:23
This one's a doozy, which means it's really, really, really important:
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์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์ •๋ง, ์ •๋ง, ์ •๋ง ์ค‘์š”ํ•˜๋‹ค๋Š” ๋œป์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:29
"What's wrong with your voice?"
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"๋ชฉ์†Œ๋ฆฌ์— ๋ฌด์Šจ ๋ฌธ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๋‚˜์š”?"
05:35
Maybe: "What's wrong with your face?"
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์•„๋งˆ๋„ "์–ผ๊ตด์ด ์™œ ๊ทธ๋ž˜?"
05:38
Maybe some people... I've seen some
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์•„๋งˆ ์–ด๋–ค ๋ถ„๋“ค์€..
05:40
people that are burn victims, so their face has different skin tones. They have... There's
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ํ™”์ƒ์„ ์ž…์€ ๋ถ„๋“ค์„ ๋ดค๋Š”๋ฐ ํ”ผ๋ถ€ํ†ค์ด ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋ถ„๋“ค๋„ ๊ณ„์…จ์–ด์š”. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€...
05:46
a really famous model now that's got skin grafts, and her face is like different colours.
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์ •๋ง ์œ ๋ช…ํ•œ ๋ชจ๋ธ์ด ํ”ผ๋ถ€ ์ด์‹ ์ˆ˜์ˆ ์„ ๋ฐ›์•˜๊ณ , ๊ทธ๋…€์˜ ์–ผ๊ตด์€ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์ƒ‰ ๊ฐ™์•„์š”.
05:51
Really cool. You would never ever say to someone that has something like different about their face:
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์ •๋ง ๋ฉ‹์ง„. ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์–ผ๊ตด์ด ๋ญ”๊ฐ€ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์—๊ฒŒ ์ ˆ๋Œ€ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค :
05:59
-"Hey, what's wrong with your eye? Why doesn't it work?"
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-"์ด๋ด, ๋ˆˆ์— ๋ฌด์Šจ ๋ฌธ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์–ด?
06:02
-"It's glass. Okay?"
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-"์œ ๋ฆฌ์•ผ. ์•Œ๊ฒ ์–ด?"
06:05
So you can't... Do not point out people's flaws.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ... ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์˜ ๊ฒฐ์ ์„ ์ง€์ ํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”.
06:09
"What's wrong with your nose?"
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"์ฝ”์— ๋ฌด์Šจ ๋ฌธ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?"
06:12
Maybe they had a nose job that got really blotched, which means it was really bad, and they look like
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์–ด์ฉŒ๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์ •๋ง ์–ผ๋ฃฉ์ง„ ์ฝ” ์ˆ˜์ˆ ์„ ๋ฐ›์•˜์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ฆ‰, ์ •๋ง ๋‚˜๋นด๋‹ค๋Š” ๋œป์ด๊ณ ,
06:19
Michael Jackson before he died and his nose is really bad. He knows his nose is bad. You
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๋งˆ์ดํด ์žญ์Šจ์ด ์ฃฝ๊ธฐ ์ „์˜ ๋ชจ์Šต๊ณผ ๊ทธ์˜ ์ฝ”๊ฐ€ ์ •๋ง ๋‚˜๋นด๋‹ค๋Š” ๋œป์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Š” ์ž์‹ ์˜ ์ฝ”๊ฐ€ ๋‚˜์˜๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์••๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ตณ์ด
06:24
don't need to point it out, okay?
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์ง€์ ํ•  ํ•„์š”๋Š” ์—†๊ฒ ์ฃ ?
06:27
-"What's wrong with your voice?"
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- "๋ชฉ์†Œ๋ฆฌ์— ๋ฌด์Šจ ๋ฌธ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๋‚˜์š”?"
06:29
-"I talk like this all the time." -"Oh."
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-"ํ•ญ์ƒ ์ด๋Ÿฐ ์‹์œผ๋กœ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค." -"์˜ค."
06:32
A little embarrassing for you. I'm trying to help you guys not embarrass
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์กฐ๊ธˆ ๋ถ€๋„๋Ÿฝ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋„ˆํฌ๋“ค์ด ๋ถ€๋„๋Ÿฌ์›Œํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋„๋ก ๋„์šฐ๋ ค๊ณ  ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์–ด
06:36
yourselves. I'm doing you a good thing.
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. ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ์ข‹์€ ์ผ์„ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:40
This next word, you probably know the word "acne". Right? Maybe. We have a slang word
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์ด ๋‹ค์Œ ๋‹จ์–ด๋Š” ์•„๋งˆ "์—ฌ๋“œ๋ฆ„"์ด๋ผ๋Š” ๋‹จ์–ด๋ฅผ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ค๋ฅธ์ชฝ? ์•„๋งˆ๋„. ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š”
06:46
for it, it's "zits" or more of a doctor word "pimples". But acne, zits, and pimples are
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์†์–ด๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ "zits"๋˜๋Š” ์˜์‚ฌ ๋‹จ์–ด "pimples"์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ์—ฌ๋“œ๋ฆ„, zits ๋ฐ ์—ฌ๋“œ๋ฆ„์€
06:53
the same. So I get pimples, I get zits, I get acne. People say:
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๋™์ผํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์—ฌ๋“œ๋ฆ„์ด ๋‚˜๊ณ  ์—ฌ๋“œ๋ฆ„์ด ๋‚˜๊ณ  ์—ฌ๋“œ๋ฆ„์ด ์ƒ๊น๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ๋งํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:59
-"Ronnie, what's that red thing on your nose?"
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-"๋กœ๋‹ˆ, ์ฝ”์— ์žˆ๋Š” ์ € ๋นจ๊ฐ„ ๊ฑด ๋ญ์ง€?"
07:03
-"I'm Rudolph the Red Nose Reindeer." Okay? It's a zit.
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- "๋‚˜๋Š” ๋นจ๊ฐ„ ์ฝ” ์ˆœ๋ก ๋ฃจ๋Œํ”„์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค." ์ข‹์•„์š”? ์ง€ํŠธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:08
It's a pimple. I know I have it on my nose, you don't need to ask me what it is. It's not
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์—ฌ๋“œ๋ฆ„์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚ด ์ฝ”์— ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฑธ ์•Œ์•„์š”, ๊ทธ๊ฒŒ ๋ญ”์ง€ ๋ฌผ์–ด๋ณผ ํ•„์š”๊ฐ€ ์—†์–ด์š”.
07:14
like I didn't know it was there. So, if you see something a little different about someone,
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๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ์— ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€ ๋ชฐ๋ž๋˜ ๊ฒƒ์€ ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์—๊ฒŒ์„œ ์กฐ๊ธˆ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์ ์„ ๋ฐœ๊ฒฌํ•˜๋”๋ผ๋„
07:23
don't embarrass yourself, don't make them feel uncomfortable. If you are really dying
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์ž์‹ ์„ ๋ถ€๋„๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋ถˆํŽธํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ๋“ค์ง€ ๋งˆ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
07:29
to know what's happened to them, start a conversation with them. When you become friends, maybe
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๊ทธ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฌด์Šจ ์ผ์ด ์ผ์–ด๋‚ฌ๋Š”์ง€ ์ •๋ง๋กœ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ด ์ฃฝ๊ฒ ๋‹ค๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋“ค๊ณผ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค . ์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ๋˜๋ฉด
07:36
they will tell you what happened. But this is a really, really complex subject that you
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๋ฌด์Šจ ์ผ์ด ์žˆ์—ˆ๋Š”์ง€ ์•Œ๋ ค์ค„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‚ฏ์„  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์—๊ฒŒ๋งŒ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•ด์„œ๋Š” ์•ˆ๋˜๋Š” ์ •๋ง, ์ •๋ง ๋ณต์žกํ•œ ์ฃผ์ œ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
07:43
should not just talk to people who are strangers.
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.
07:49
To end my story, one thing you should not say to ladies, this. My friend and I were
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๋‚ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋๋‚ด๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ์—ฌ์„ฑ์—๊ฒŒ ํ•˜์ง€ ๋ง์•„์•ผ ํ•  ํ•œ ๊ฐ€์ง€๋Š” ์ด๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚ด ์นœ๊ตฌ์™€ ๋‚˜๋Š”
07:59
in a pub and we were talking to a guy, not even a gentleman yet, and he thought that
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์ˆ ์ง‘์— ์žˆ์—ˆ๊ณ  ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์•„์ง ์‹ ์‚ฌ๋„ ์•„๋‹Œ ๋‚จ์ž์™€ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์—ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ ๊ทธ๋Š” ์ž์‹ 
08:06
he was... Oh, he was quite friendly with us, wasn't he? He thought he was really funny,
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์ด... ์˜ค, ๊ทธ๋Š” ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์™€ ๊ฝค ์นœํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค, ๊ทธ๋ ‡์ฃ ? ๊ทธ๋Š” ์ž์‹ ์ด ์ •๋ง ์žฌ๋ฏธ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ–ˆ๊ณ ,
08:10
and he thought that he was our pal or our mate, and when he was leaving, he said:
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์ž์‹ ์ด ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์นœ๊ตฌ ๋˜๋Š” ๋ฐฐ์šฐ์ž๋ผ๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ–ˆ๊ณ , ๋– ๋‚  ๋•Œ
08:14
"Later Bitches."
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"๋‚˜์ค‘์— ๊ฐœ๋…„๋“ค"์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:17
Huh, what, dude? Did you just call us "Bitches"? That's awesome. Don't do it.
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์–ด, ์นœ๊ตฌ? ๋ฐฉ๊ธˆ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ "Bitches"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ถˆ๋ €์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ? ๊ต‰์žฅํ•˜๋„ค์š”. ํ•˜์ง€๋งˆ.
08:25
I don't care how well you think you know the person.
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๋‚˜๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ์–ผ๋งˆ๋‚˜ ์ž˜ ์•ˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๋Š”์ง€ ์ƒ๊ด€ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:29
Just don't refer to ladies as bitches.
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์ˆ™๋…€๋ฅผ ์•”์บ๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ถ€๋ฅด์ง€ ๋งˆ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
08:31
It's not going to work.
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์ž‘๋™ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:32
Later.
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