Conversation Skills - How to avoid a conversation!

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ไธ‹ใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžๅญ—ๅน•ใ‚’ใƒ€ใƒ–ใƒซใ‚ฏใƒชใƒƒใ‚ฏใ™ใ‚‹ใจๅ‹•็”ปใ‚’ๅ†็”Ÿใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ็ฟป่จณใ•ใ‚ŒใŸๅญ—ๅน•ใฏๆฉŸๆขฐ็ฟป่จณใงใ™ใ€‚

00:03
Hi. Ronnie. Video. Conversation skills. How to avoid them? So maybe you don't want to
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ใ‚„ใ‚ใ€‚ ใƒญใƒ‹ใƒผใ€‚ ใƒ“ใƒ‡ใ‚ชใ€‚ ไผš่ฉฑใ‚นใ‚ญใƒซใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใ‚‰ใ‚’ๅ›ž้ฟใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใฏ๏ผŸ ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€่ชฐใจใ‚‚่ฉฑใ—ใŸใใชใ„ใฎใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“
00:22
talk to someone. This lesson is called "Conversation Skills: How to avoid a conversation." "Avoid"
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ใ€‚ ใ“ใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใฏใ€ใ€Œไผš่ฉฑ ใ‚นใ‚ญใƒซ๏ผšไผš่ฉฑใ‚’้ฟใ‘ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใ€ใจๅ‘ผใฐใ‚Œใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ "Avoid"
00:34
means you want to stop having or not have something.
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ใฏใ€ไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’ๆŒใคใฎใ‚’ใ‚„ใ‚ใŸใ„ใ€ใพใŸใฏไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’ๆŒใกใŸใใชใ„ใจใ„ใ†ๆ„ๅ‘ณใงใ™ ใ€‚
00:39
So all of your life, probably, when you have been learning English, you've learned many
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ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ใŠใใ‚‰ใใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ ่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’ๅญฆใ‚“ใงใใŸใจใใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ
00:48
lessons about how to have a conversation, how to talk to strangers, how to talk to people
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ไผš่ฉฑใฎไป•ๆ–นใ€่ฆ‹็Ÿฅใ‚‰ใฌไบบใจใฎ่ฉฑใ—ๆ–น
00:56
on the subway, how to talk to people in a store. Sometimes, I don't want to talk to
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ใ€ๅœฐไธ‹้‰„ใงใฎไบบใจใฎ่ฉฑใ—ๆ–นใ€้›ป่ปŠๅ†…ใงใฎไบบใจใฎ่ฉฑใ—ๆ–นใชใฉใ€ๅคšใใฎๆ•™่จ“ใ‚’ๅญฆใ‚“ใงใใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ใŠๅบ—ใ€‚ ่ชฐ ใจใ‚‚่ฉฑใ—ใŸใใชใ„ๆ™‚ใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Š
01:04
anyone. Sometimes, people talk to me.
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ใพใ™ใ€‚ ๆ™‚ใ€…ใ€ไบบใ€…ใฏ็งใซ่ฉฑใ—ใ‹ใ‘ใพใ™ใ€‚
01:09
As an example, every morning, when I wake up, I have to walk my dog. It's cold outside.
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ไพ‹ใจใ—ใฆใ€ๆฏŽๆœใ€็›ฎใŒ่ฆšใ‚ ใŸใ‚‰็Šฌใฎๆ•ฃๆญฉใ‚’ใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ๅค–ใฏๅฏ’ใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
01:17
I've not had my coffee yet. I don't want to walk my dog. I do not want to be outside.
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็งใฏใพใ ใ‚ณใƒผใƒ’ใƒผใ‚’้ฃฒใ‚“ใงใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ็งใฏ็Šฌใฎๆ•ฃๆญฉใ‚’ใ—ใŸใใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ๅค–ใซใ„ใŸใใชใ„ใ€‚
01:24
And I'm generally not wanting to do anything except go back to bed. It seems that people
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ใใ—ใฆใ€็งใฏ้€šๅธธใ€ใƒ™ใƒƒใƒ‰ใซๆˆปใ‚‹ไปฅๅค–ใฏไฝ•ใ‚‚ใ—ใŸใใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ .
01:30
that have dogs love to have conversations with other people who have dogs. I don't want
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็Šฌใ‚’้ฃผใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ไบบใฏใ€็Šฌใ‚’้ฃผใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ไบบใจใฎไผš่ฉฑใŒๅคงๅฅฝใใชใ‚ˆใ† ใงใ™ใ€‚ ็งใฏ
01:37
to talk to you. I don't care. They ask me strange questions like, "Is your dog a boy
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ใ‚ใชใŸใจ่ฉฑใ—ใŸใใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ็งใฏๆฐ—ใซใ—ใชใ„ใ€‚ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ็ง ใซใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใฎ็Šฌใฏ็”ทใฎๅญใงใ™ใ‹ใ€ใใ‚Œใจใ‚‚ๅฅณใฎๅญใงใ™ใ‹?ใ€ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใชๅฅ‡ๅฆ™ใช่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ใ—
01:43
or a girl?" Why? Why do you care if my dog is a boy dog or a girl dog? Do you want to
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ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใชใ‚“ใง๏ผŸ ็งใฎ็Šฌ ใŒ็”ทใฎๅญใฎ็Šฌใ‹ๅฅณใฎๅญใฎ็Šฌใ‹ใ‚’ๆฐ—ใซใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใฏใชใœใงใ™ใ‹.
01:50
have sex with my dog? Are you concerned if my dog has a penis? No. Stop it. Who cares?
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็งใฎ็Šฌใจใ‚ปใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚นใ—ใŸใ„ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ็งใฎ็Šฌใซ้™ฐ่ŒŽใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹ๅฟƒ้…ใงใ™ใ‹? ใ„ใ„ใˆใ€ใ‚„ใ‚ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ่ชฐใ‚‚ๆฐ—ใซใ—ใชใ„๏ผŸ
01:57
"How old is your dog?" Why? Do you want to know his birthday? Are you going to have a
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ใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใฎ็Šฌใฏไฝ•ๆญณใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€ ใชใ‚“ใง๏ผŸ ๅฝผใฎ่ช•็”Ÿๆ—ฅใ‚’็Ÿฅใ‚ŠใŸใ„ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใคใ‚‚ใ‚Š
02:01
party? Is your dog and my dog going to come to my house, and are we going to have a party?
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ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ็Šฌใจ็งใฎ็Šฌใฏ็งใฎๅฎถใซๆฅ ใฆใ€ใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใคใ‚‚ใ‚Šใงใ™ใ‹?
02:07
No. Shut up. I'm walking my dog. Don't talk to me.
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ใ„ใ„ใˆใ€้ป™ใฃใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ็งใฏ็Šฌใฎๆ•ฃๆญฉใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ็งใซ่ฉฑใ—ใ‹ใ‘ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
02:11
So tips on how to avoid a conversation. Rule No. 1, very easy, don't ever make eye contact
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ไผš่ฉฑใ‚’้ฟใ‘ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใฎใƒ’ใƒณใƒˆใงใ™ใ€‚ ใƒซใƒผใƒซ 1 ใฏใ€้žๅธธใซ็ฐกๅ˜
02:21
with anyone you do not want to talk to. Number one rule when you want to have a conversation
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ใงใ™ใ€‚่ฉฑใ—ใŸใใชใ„ไบบใจใฏๆฑบใ—ใฆใ‚ขใ‚คใ‚ณใƒณใ‚ฟใ‚ฏใƒˆใ‚’ใจใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚ ไผš่ฉฑใ‚’ใ—ใŸใ„ใจใใฎไธ€็•ชใฎใƒซใƒผใƒซใฏใ€็›ธๆ‰‹
02:29
is you must look at the people's eyes. Don't look down. Don't look up. Look at their eyes. ok?
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ใฎ็›ฎใ‚’่ฆ‹ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚ ไธ‹ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ไธŠใ‚’่ฆ‹ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฎ็›ฎใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ใ‚ใ‹ใฃใŸ๏ผŸ
02:37
So to not have a conversation, don't look anyone in the eye. I'm not talking to you.
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ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ไผš่ฉฑใ‚’ใ—ใชใ„ใŸใ‚ใซ ใฏใ€่ชฐใฎ็›ฎใซใ‚‚็›ฎใ‚’ๅ‘ใ‘ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ็งใฏใ‚ใชใŸใซ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
02:46
The second one is: Don't ask the speaker any questions. So as an example, "Oh, hi. What
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2 ใค็›ฎใฏใ€ใ‚นใƒ”ใƒผใ‚ซใƒผใซ่ณชๅ•ใ—ใชใ„ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚ ไพ‹ใˆใฐใ€ใ€Œใ‚ใ€ใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏใ€‚ใฉใ‚“ใช
02:58
kind of dog do you have?", "It's a Cairn terrier". "How old is it?", "Seven". "Is it a boy or
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็Šฌใ‚’้ฃผใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€ใ€Œใ‚ฑใ‚ขใƒผใƒณใƒ†ใƒชใ‚ขใงใ™ใ€ใ€‚ ใ€Œไฝ•ๆญณใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€ใ€ใ€Œใ‚ปใƒ–ใƒณใ€ใ€‚ ใ€Œ็”ทใฎๅญ
03:08
a girl?", "Boy". If you've noticed, I did not ask the person about their dog because
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ใงใ™ใ‹ใ€ๅฅณใฎๅญใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€ใ€ใ€Œ็”ทใฎๅญใ€ใ€‚ ใŠๆฐ—ใฅใใฎๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€็งใฏๆฐ—ใซใ—ใชใ„ ใฎใงใ€ใใฎไบบใซ็Šฌใซใคใ„ใฆๅฐ‹ใญ
03:17
I don't care. If you wanted to have a conversation with someone, you could ask the person the
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ใพใ›ใ‚“ใงใ—ใŸ. ่ชฐใ‹ใจไผš่ฉฑใ—ใŸใ„ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€ ใใฎไบบใซๅŒใ˜่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™
03:24
same question. As an example, "Hi", "Hi", "Good, yeah". "What kind of dog do you have?",
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ใ€‚ ไพ‹ใจใ—ใฆใ€ใ€Œใ‚„ใ‚ใ€ใ€Œใ‚„ใ‚ใ€ใ€Œใ„ใ„ใญใ€ใชใฉใ€‚ ใ€Œไฝ•ใฎ็Šฌใ‚’้ฃผใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€
03:32
"It's a Cairn terrier. How about you? What kind of dog do you have?", "It's a Jack Russell".
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ใ€Œใ‚ฑใ‚ขใƒผใƒณใƒ†ใƒชใ‚ขใงใ™ใ€‚ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใฉใ†ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸไฝ• ใฎ็Šฌใ‚’้ฃผใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€ใ€Œใ‚ธใƒฃใƒƒใ‚ฏใƒฉใƒƒใ‚ปใƒซใงใ™ใ€
03:37
"Oh, cool. Don't care. Good". "How old is your dog?" "Seven. How about you? How old
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ใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ใ€ใ‹ใฃใ“ใ„ใ„ใ€‚ๆฐ—ใซใ—ใชใ„ใงใ€‚ใ„ใ„ใ€ใ€‚ ใ€Œ ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ็Šฌใฏไฝ•ๆญณใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€ ใ€Œ7.
03:42
is your dog?", "four". "Great", "Is your dog a boy or a girl?" "My dog's a boy. How about
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใฉใ†ใงใ™ใ‹?ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ็Šฌใฏไฝ•ๆญณใงใ™ใ‹?ใ€,ใ€Œ4ใ€. ใ€Œใ„ใ„ใญใ€ใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใฎ็Šฌ ใฏ็”ทใฎๅญใงใ™ใ‹ใ€ใใ‚Œใจใ‚‚ๅฅณใฎๅญใงใ™ใ‹ใ€ ใ€Œ็งใฎ็Šฌใฏ็”ทใฎๅญใงใ™ใ€‚
03:50
you? How about your dog? Does your dog have a penis or a vagina?", "Girl". "Oh, do you
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใฉใ†ใงใ™ใ‹?ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ็Šฌใฏใฉใ†ใงใ™ใ‹?ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ็Šฌใซ ใฏ้™ฐ่ŒŽใพใŸใฏ่†ฃใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ‹?ใ€ใ€ใ€Œๅฅณใฎๅญใ€. ใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸ
03:56
know what? Maybe my dog and your dog should have a party. Maybe they could have puppies.
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ใฏไฝ•ใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹? ็งใฎ็Šฌใจใ‚ใชใŸใฎ็Šฌใฏใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ในใ ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“. ๅคšๅˆ†ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏๅญ็Šฌใ‚’้ฃผใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใ
04:02
That would be cool. Yeah. Okay. Good to see you. Bye".
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ใพใ™.
04:08
Next one: Look at something or someone else. Now, maybe you have the magic of a cell phone.
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ๆฌกใฎใ‚‚ใฎ๏ผšไฝ•ใ‹ใพใŸใฏไป–ใฎ่ชฐใ‹ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ใ•ใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๆบๅธฏ้›ป่ฉฑใฎ้ญ”ๆณ•ใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
04:22
This is a great conversation avoider. You may go as far as to pretend -- "Hi, Mom. Yeah,
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ไผš่ฉฑๅ›ž้ฟ่€…ใงใ™ใ€‚ ้›ป่ฉฑใง่ชฐใ‹ใจ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ ใตใ‚Šใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ€ใ€Œใ‚„ใ‚ใ€ใƒžใƒžใ€‚ใ†ใ‚“ใ€
04:32
good. No" -- that you're talking to someone on the phone. "Mom. Yeah. Busy. No. No, I
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ใ„ใ„ใ‚ˆใ€‚ใ„ใ„ใˆใ€ใจใพใง่จ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ€Œใƒžใƒžใ€‚ใ†ใ‚“ใ€‚ๅฟ™ใ—ใ„ใ€‚ใ„ใ‚„ใ€ใ„ใ‚„ใ€ใ‚ใ‹ใฃ
04:37
got -- Mom, hi. Yeah. Good". This is a great tool. You can pretend that your phone rang,
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ใŸ - ใƒžใƒžใ€ใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏใ€‚ใ†ใ‚“ใ€‚ใ„ใ„ใ€. ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ใƒ„ใƒผใƒซใงใ™ใ€‚ ้›ป่ฉฑใŒ้ณดใฃใŸใตใ‚Šใ‚’
04:44
and you're talking to your mother. You can pretend you got a text message. Or you can
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ใ—ใฆใ€ๆฏ่ฆชใจ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใตใ‚Šใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ใƒ†ใ‚ญใ‚นใƒˆ ใƒกใƒƒใ‚ปใƒผใ‚ธใ‚’ๅ—ไฟกใ—ใŸใตใ‚Šใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ใพใŸใฏ
04:50
just look at your phone. This will indicate to the speaker that you do not want to talk
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ใ€ๆบๅธฏ้›ป่ฉฑใ‚’่ฆ‹ใ‚‹ใ ใ‘ใงใ‚‚ใ‹ใพใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ ใ€่ฉฑใ—ใŸใใชใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’ใ‚นใƒ”ใƒผใ‚ซใƒผใซ็คบใ—
04:59
to them. In reverse, if you want to talk to a person and have a real conversation, put
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ใพใ™ใ€‚ ้€†ใซ ใ€ไบบใจ่ฉฑใ‚’ใ—ใฆๅฎŸ้š›ใฎไผš่ฉฑใ‚’ใ—ใŸใ„ๅ ดๅˆใฏ
05:05
your phone down. Do not text or talk on the phone when you are trying to have a conversation
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ใ€้›ป่ฉฑใ‚’็ฝฎใใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅฎŸ้š›ใฎ็”Ÿใใฆใ„ใ‚‹ไบบ้–“ใจไผš่ฉฑใ—ใ‚ˆใ†ใจใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใฏใ€ใƒ†ใ‚ญใ‚นใƒˆ ใƒกใƒƒใ‚ปใƒผใ‚ธใ‚’้€ไฟกใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ€้›ป่ฉฑใง่ฉฑใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ—ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„
05:12
with a real live human being. If I'm at a bar and I'm talking to you, if you take out
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ใ€‚ ็งใŒ ใƒใƒผใซใ„ใฆใ‚ใชใŸใจ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใ€
05:19
your phone and start texting someone, bye-bye. Ronnie's gone. She's getting another beer.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๆบๅธฏ้›ป่ฉฑใ‚’ๅ–ใ‚Šๅ‡บใ—ใฆ่ชฐใ‹ใซใƒ†ใ‚ญใ‚นใƒˆใƒกใƒƒใ‚ปใƒผใ‚ธใ‚’้€ใ‚Šๅง‹ใ‚ใŸใ‚‰ใ€ใ•ใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚‰ใ€‚ ใƒญใƒ‹ใƒผใฏใ„ใชใใชใฃใŸใ€‚ ๅฝผๅฅณใฏๅˆฅใฎใƒ“ใƒผใƒซใ‚’้ฃฒใ‚“ใงใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
05:25
So please, if humans want to talk to you, put your phones away. You can text them later.
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ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ไบบ้–“ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใจ่ฉฑใ—ใŸใ„ๅ ดๅˆใฏ ใ€ๆบๅธฏ้›ป่ฉฑใ‚’็‰‡ไป˜ใ‘ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ๅพŒใงใƒ†ใ‚ญใ‚นใƒˆใ‚’้€ไฟกใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
05:35
If you talk really, really, really fast and you don't say your words properly -- no one
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๆœฌๅฝ“ใซใ€ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซใ€ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซๆ—ฉๅฃใง่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใซ ใ€่‡ชๅˆ†ใฎ่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’ใใกใ‚“ใจ
05:44
has any idea what you're talking about -- they will not have a conversation with you. So
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่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒไฝ•ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใ‹่ชฐใ‚‚็†่งฃใงใใพใ› ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใคใพใ‚Š
05:50
if you speak or talk really, really quickly, or if you mumble -- "Mumble?" "Mumble" means
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ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๆœฌๅฝ“ใซใ€ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ้€Ÿใ่ฉฑใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ€่ฉฑใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ€ ใคใถใ‚„ใ„ใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ใจใ€ใ€Œใคใถใ‚„ใใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€ ใ€Œใ‚‚ใใ‚‚ใใ€ใจใฏใ€
06:02
you do not say words clearly. Some people will talk like this. They have their hand
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ใฏใฃใใ‚Šใจ่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’็™บใ—ใชใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ“ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่ฉฑใ™ไบบใ‚‚ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏๆ‰‹ใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™
06:10
-- they put their hand in front of their mouth, and you can't really hear anything that they're
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- ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏๆ‰‹ใ‚’ๅฃใฎๅ‰ใซ็ฝฎใ ใพใ™ใ€ใใ—ใฆใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒ่จ€ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ่žใใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ›ใ‚“
06:16
saying because
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06:17
[inaudible]
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06:18
So rule No.1, put your hand down, okay? Don't talk down. When I talk like this, you can't
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ใ€‚ ่ฉฑใ‚’ใ—ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ็งใŒใ“ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่ฉฑใ™ใจใใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ่žใใ“ใจใ•ใˆใงใใพใ›ใ‚“
06:26
even hear -- okay? "Mumbling" means you don't say your words clearly, or they're muffled.
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- ใ„ใ„ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ใ€Œใ‚‚ใใ‚‚ใใ€ใจ ใฏใ€ใฏใฃใใ‚Šใจ่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’็™บใ—ใชใ„ใ€ใพใŸใฏใ“ใ‚‚ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†ๆ„ๅ‘ณใงใ™ใ€‚
06:30
It's like this.
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ใ“ใ‚“ใชๆ„Ÿใ˜ใงใ™ใ€‚
06:31
[Inaudible]
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[่žใๅ–ใ‚Œใชใ„]
06:33
And talking really, really, really quickly. Maybe you are very excited to meet someone.
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซใ€ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซใ€ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ้€Ÿใ่ฉฑใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใŸใถใ‚“ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ่ชฐใ‹ใซไผšใ†ใ“ใจใซใจใฆใ‚‚่ˆˆๅฅฎใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
06:40
That's cool. But try and speak a little slowly so that the person can understand you.
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ใ‚ซใƒƒใ‚ณใ„ใ„ใ€‚ ใŸใ ใ— ใ€ใใฎไบบใŒใ‚ใชใŸใฎใ“ใจใ‚’็†่งฃใงใใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€ๅฐ‘ใ—ใ‚†ใฃใใ‚Š่ฉฑใ—ใฆใฟใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
07:01
Okay. So this one: strange facial expressions. If I'm having a conversation with you and
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ใ‚ใ‹ใฃใŸใ€‚ ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ“ใ‚Œ๏ผšๅฅ‡ๅฆ™ใช่กจๆƒ…ใ€‚ ็งใŒใ‚ใชใŸใจไผš่ฉฑใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใฆใ€
07:08
you're smiling and you're nodding and you're doing this, I think, "Okay, this person is
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๅพฎ็ฌ‘ใ‚“ใงใ†ใชใšใ„ใฆใ„ใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’ใ—ใฆ ใ„ใ‚‹ใชใ‚‰ใ€็งใฏใ€Œใ‚ˆใ—ใ€ใ“ใฎไบบใฏ
07:16
happy. They like what I'm saying to them". But if your face is very strange or you kind
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ๅนธใ›ใ ใ€‚ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ็งใŒๅฝผใ‚‰ใซ่จ€ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆฐ—ใซๅ…ฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ€ใจๆ€ใ†ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ้ก”ใŒ้žๅธธใซๅฅ‡ๅฆ™ใงใ‚ใฃ
07:24
of make weird facial expressions or you have -- you do strange things. If you pick your
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ใŸใ‚Šใ€ๅค‰ใช่กจๆƒ…ใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใ€ใพใŸใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ ๅ ดๅˆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅฅ‡ๅฆ™ใชใ“ใจใ‚’ใ—ใพใ™.
07:30
nose or pick your ear or something, the person thinks that you don't care about what they're
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้ผปใ‚’ใปใ˜ใฃใŸใ‚Šใ€่€ณใ‚’ใปใ˜ใฃใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ใจใ€ใใฎไบบ ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒไฝ•ใ‚’่จ€ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใ‹ๆฐ—ใซใ—ใชใ„ใจๆ€ใ„
07:37
saying to you. So this is a good thing. If someone's talking to you, you just go...
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ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ่‰ฏใ„ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚ ่ชฐใ‹ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใจ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใชใ‚‰ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใŸใ ่กŒใฃใฆ
07:42
[makes faces]
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07:45
I guarantee you they will stop talking to you, especially if you pick your nose. Number 1.
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ใใ ใ•ใ„. ็•ชๅท 1.
07:51
[picks nose] -- person's gone.
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[้ผปใ‚’ใปใ˜ใ‚‹] -- ไบบใŒใ„ใชใใชใฃใŸใ€‚
07:55
The other one is body language. Now, this may seem strange to you, but if you're talking
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ใ‚‚ใ†ไธ€ใคใฏใƒœใƒ‡ใ‚ฃใƒผใƒฉใƒณใ‚ฒใƒผใ‚ธใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œ ใฏๅฅ‡ๅฆ™ใซๆ€ใˆใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใŒ
08:00
to someone, and you use hand expressions, it's easier for them to understand you. But
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ใ€่ชฐใ‹ใจ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใซๆ‰‹ใฎ่กจ็พใ‚’ไฝฟใ†ใจใ€็›ธๆ‰‹ใฏใ‚ใชใŸ ใฎใ“ใจใ‚’็†่งฃใ—ใ‚„ใ™ใใชใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—
08:09
if you are talking to someone and your hands are folded and you don't even look at them
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ใ€ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่ชฐใ‹ใจ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๆ™‚ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๆ‰‹ใ‚’็ต„ใ‚“ ใงใ„ใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใใฎไบบใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใ‚‚ใ„ใชใ„ใฎใซ
08:16
and you're like this, they think that you don't want to talk to them. So eye contact,
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ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ“ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใช็Šถๆ…‹ใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใจใ—ใŸใ‚‰ใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒใใฎไบบใจ่ฉฑใ—ใŸใใชใ„ใจๆ€ใฃใฆใ„ ใพใ™. ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ใ‚ขใ‚คใ‚ณใƒณใ‚ฟใ‚ฏใƒˆ
08:25
your facial expressions, and your body language are really important to avoid or to have a
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ใ€่กจๆƒ…ใ€ใƒœใƒ‡ใ‚ฃ ใƒฉใƒณใ‚ฒใƒผใ‚ธใฏใ€่ชฐใ‹ใจไผš่ฉฑใ‚’ใ—ใŸใ‚Š้ฟใ‘ใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซ้žๅธธใซ้‡่ฆ
08:31
conversation with someone. If you do not want to talk to someone, you can fold your hands
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ใงใ™. ่ชฐใ‹ใจ่ฉฑใ—ใŸใใชใ„ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€ๆ‰‹ใ‚’็ต„ใ‚“ใงๅœฐ้ขใ‚’่ฆ‹ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™
08:37
and look at the ground. They will stop talking to you hopefully.
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ใ€‚ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ ใ†ใพใใ„ใ‘ใฐใ‚ใชใŸใจ่ฉฑใ™ใฎใ‚’ใ‚„ใ‚ใพใ™ใ€‚
08:44
One thing that could be very useful if you are in a bar and maybe someone -- a man or
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ใ‚ใชใŸ ใŒใƒใƒผใซใ„ใฆใ€็”ทๆ€ง
08:54
a woman -- is talking to you that you don't want to talk to, a really good technique is
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ใพใŸใฏๅฅณๆ€งใฎ่ชฐใ‹ใŒใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่ฉฑใ—ใŸใใชใ„ใ‚ใชใŸใซ่ฉฑใ—ใ‹ใ‘ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใ€้žๅธธใซๅฝน็ซ‹ใคใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ่‰ฏใ„ใƒ†ใ‚ฏใƒ‹ใƒƒใ‚ฏใฏ
08:58
to use slang. Maybe the person's older than you, and you know some crazy whooped up slang
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ใ€ใ‚นใƒฉใƒณใ‚ฐใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™. ๅคšๅˆ†ใใฎไบบใฏใ‚ใชใŸใ‚ˆใ‚ŠๅนดไธŠ ใงใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ‚ฏใƒฌใ‚คใ‚ธใƒผใชใ‚นใƒฉใƒณใ‚ฐใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„
09:05
words. Instead of speaking to them like you would your mother, you would speak to them
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ใพใ™. ๆฏ่ฆชใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่ฉฑใ™ใฎใงใฏใชใใ€
09:10
like you would your best friend. You'd be like, "Yo! Hey! What's going on? What's happening
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่ฆชๅ‹ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่ฉฑใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ€ใ€Œใƒจ๏ผ ใƒ˜ใ‚ค๏ผไฝ•ใŒ่ตทใ“ใฃ
09:12
in the crib? Yo!" And the person who's trying to talk to you will be like, [hesitates].
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ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎ๏ผŸใƒ™ใƒ“ใƒผใƒ™ใƒƒใƒ‰ใงไฝ•ใŒ่ตทใ“ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎ๏ผŸใƒจ๏ผใ€ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซใชใ‚‹ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ ใ‚ใชใŸใซ่ฉฑใ—ใ‹ใ‘ใ‚ˆใ†ใจใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ไบบใฏใ€[ใŸใ‚ใ‚‰ใ†]ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใชใ‚Šใพใ™.
09:23
They're gone. I guarantee it.
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ่กŒใฃใฆใ—ใพใ„ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ไฟ่จผใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
09:26
On the other hand, if you are talking to someone and you know very -- we say "big words" or
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ไธ€ๆ–นใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่ชฐใ‹ใจ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ้žๅธธใซใ‚ˆใ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใ€็งใŸใกใฏใ€Œๅคงใ’ใ•ใช่จ€่‘‰ใ€
09:36
people who are educated say "educated words". Rather than use simple language, if you are
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ใจ่จ€ใ„ใ€ๆ•™่‚ฒใ‚’ๅ—ใ‘ใŸไบบใฏใ€Œๆ•™้คŠใฎใ‚ใ‚‹่จ€่‘‰ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ็ฐกๅ˜ใช่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’ไฝฟใ†ใ‚ˆใ‚Šใ‚‚ใ€
09:43
going to use very big words, it can be intimidating to people. So if you are trying to speak English
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้žๅธธใซๅคงใใช่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’ไฝฟใ†ใจใ€ไบบใ€…ใซๅจๅœงๆ„Ÿใ‚’ไธŽใˆใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใคใพใ‚Š
09:51
to someone who has a very, very large vocabulary and your vocabulary is very small, there's
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ใ€่ชžๅฝ™ใŒ้žๅธธใซๅคšใใ€่ชžๅฝ™ใŒ้žๅธธใซๅฐ‘ใชใ„ไบบใจ่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’่ฉฑใใ†ใจใ™ใ‚‹ใจ
10:02
going to be a communication breakdown because you're going to use words the other person
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ใ€็›ธๆ‰‹ใŒ็Ÿฅใ‚‰ใชใ„ๅ˜่ชžใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซใชใ‚Šใ€ใ‚ณใƒŸใƒฅใƒ‹ใ‚ฑใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใŒใ†ใพใ
10:08
doesn't know. So the other person is not going to understand you and is not going to want
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ใ„ใ‹ใชใใชใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใฎใŸใ‚ใ€็›ธๆ‰‹ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใฎใ“ใจ ใ‚’็†่งฃใงใใšใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใจ่ฉฑใ—ใŸใใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›
10:16
to talk to you. So it's really important that when you try to have a conversation, you realize
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ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ ใ€ไผš่ฉฑใ‚’ใ—ใ‚ˆใ†ใจใ™ใ‚‹ใจใใ€
10:23
what vocabulary or what words you and the speaker -- or you and the listener -- both know.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใจ่ฉฑใ—ๆ‰‹ใ€ใพใŸใฏใ‚ใชใŸใจ่žใๆ‰‹ใŒใฉใ‚“ใช่ชžๅฝ™ใ‚„ๅ˜่ชžใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚’็†่งฃใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒ้žๅธธใซ้‡่ฆใงใ™ ใ€‚
10:31
The last one is how you project your voice, okay? The tone of your voice -- right here.
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ๆœ€ๅพŒใฏๅฃฐใฎๅ‡บใ—ๆ–นใงใ™ใ‚ˆใญ๏ผŸ ใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅฃฐใฎใƒˆใƒผใƒณใฏใ“ใ“ใซใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
10:38
Angry tone. -- makes the person nervous, thinks that you're angry. I have a lot of people
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ๆ€’ใ‚Šใฎๅฃ่ชฟใ€‚ โ€•โ€•ไบบใ‚’็ทŠๅผตใ•ใ›ใ€ ๆ€’ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
10:45
in my class from different countries. Sometimes, a person will ask a student a question. For
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็งใฎใ‚ฏใƒฉใ‚นใซใฏใ€ใ•ใพใ–ใพใชๅ›ฝใ‹ใ‚‰ๆฅใŸไบบใŒใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใ‚‹ไบบใŒ็”Ÿๅพ’ใซ่ณชๅ•ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
10:52
example, "What's your name?" "My name is Ronnie". "[Shouts] What?" "Oh, my God. Why is this
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ใŸใจใˆใฐใ€ใ€Œๅ›ใฎๅใฏใ€‚ใ€ ใ€Œ็งใฎๅๅ‰ใฏใƒญใƒ‹ใƒผใงใ™ใ€ใ€‚ ใ€Œ[ๅซใถ] ใชใซ๏ผŸใ€ ใ€Œใชใ‚“ใฆใ“ใฃใŸใ€‚ใฉใ†ใ—ใฆใ“ใฎ
11:01
person yelling at me? [Softly] My name is Ronnie". If you don't hear someone, it's okay
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ไบบใฏ็งใซๆ€’้ณดใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎ๏ผŸ [ใใฃใจ] ็งใฎๅๅ‰ใฏใƒญใƒ‹ใƒผใงใ™ใ€. ่ชฐใ‹ใฎๅฃฐใŒ่žใ“ใˆใชใ„ๅ ดๅˆ
11:09
to say, "What?" Maybe you're going to want to smile, but be careful of your tone. You
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ใฏใ€ใ€Œใชใซ๏ผŸใ€ใจ่จ€ใฃใฆใ‚‚ๆง‹ใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ็ฌ‘ใ„ใŸใใชใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ ใŒใ€ๅฃ่ชฟใซใฏๆฐ—ใ‚’ใคใ‘ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
11:15
do not want to use an angry voice if you're not angry. If you're angry, you let that person
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ๆ€’ใฃใฆใ„ใชใ„ใฎใชใ‚‰ใ€ๆ€’ใฃใŸๅฃฐใฏไฝฟใ„ใŸใใชใ„ใ‚‚ใฎใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๆ€’ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใชใ‚‰ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใใฎไบบ
11:23
know that you're angry. You can say, "Why do you care what kind of dog I have? Is it
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ใซใ‚ใชใŸใŒๆ€’ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’็Ÿฅใ‚‰ใ›ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ€Œ็ง ใŒ้ฃผใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹็Šฌใฎ็จฎ้กžใ‚’ๆฐ—ใซใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใฏใชใœใงใ™ใ‹?็งใŒ็Šฌใ‚’้ฃผใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏ
11:27
important to you that I have a dog? Do you really care what kind it is? Where did I get
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ใ‚ใชใŸใซใจใฃใฆ้‡่ฆใงใ™ใ‹?ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใซใใฎ็Šฌใฎ ็จฎ้กžใ‚’ๆฐ—ใซใ—ใพใ™ใ‹?ใฉใ“ใงๆ‰‹ใซๅ…ฅใ‚Œ
11:31
it? Who cares? Okay. I am pissed off. I have not had my coffee yet. So don't talk to me,
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ใŸใฎใงใ™ใ‹?่ชฐใŒๆฐ—ใซใ—ใพใ™ใ‹?ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ—ใŸ.็งใฏ่…นใ‚’็ซ‹ใฆใฆใ„ใพใ™. ใ‚ชใƒ• ใ€‚ใพใ ใ‚ณใƒผใƒ’ใƒผใ‚’้ฃฒใ‚“ใงใ„ใชใ„ใ‹ใ‚‰่ฉฑใ—ใ‹ใ‘ใชใ„ใง
11:37
okay?"
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ใญใ€
11:38
So if you want to avoid a conversation -- maybe the person is creepy, scary. Maybe they smell
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ไผš่ฉฑใ‚’้ฟใ‘ใŸใ„ๅ ดๅˆ ใฏใ€ใใฎไบบใŒไธๆฐ—ๅ‘ณใงๆ€–ใ„ไบบใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ๅคšๅˆ†ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏๆ‚ช่‡ญใ‚’
11:46
bad. Maybe they're drunk. Maybe you're drunk. Do all of these things. But if you want to
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ๆ”พใกใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅคšๅˆ†ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ้…”ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ€‚ ๅคšๅˆ†ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ้…”ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใ™ในใฆใ‚’่กŒใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ไผš่ฉฑใ‚’ใ—ใŸใ„ๅ ดๅˆ
11:57
have a conversation, don't do these things. To have a conversation with someone, make
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ใฏใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎใ“ใจใ‚’ใ—ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ่ชฐใ‹ใจไผš่ฉฑใ™ใ‚‹ใซใฏใ€
12:03
eye contact. Ask them questions. You can ask them the same questions. It doesn't have to
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ใ‚ขใ‚คใ‚ณใƒณใ‚ฟใ‚ฏใƒˆใ‚’ๅ–ใ‚Šใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใซ่ณชๅ•ใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ๅŒใ˜่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ ใ€‚
12:11
be about a dog. Look at the people directly in the eye. Look at who you're talking to.
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็Šฌใฎ่ฉฑใงใ‚ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ไบบใฎ็›ฎใ‚’ใพใฃใ™ใ่ฆ‹ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹็›ธๆ‰‹ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
12:20
Don't look at someone else, okay? Don't talk really quickly. Don't mumble. Don't make strange
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ไป–ไบบใ‚’่ฆ‹ใ‚‹ใชใ‚ˆใ€ใ„ใ„๏ผŸ ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซๆ—ฉใ่ฉฑใ•ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ใคใถใ‚„ใใชใ€‚ ๅค‰ใช้ก”ใ—ใชใ„ใง
12:31
faces. Don't use strange body language. Don't use slang or words the person doesn't know.
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ใ€‚ ๅฅ‡ๅฆ™ใชใƒœใƒ‡ใ‚ฃใƒผใƒฉใƒณใ‚ฒใƒผใ‚ธใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ใใฎไบบใŒ็Ÿฅใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ‚นใƒฉใƒณใ‚ฐใ‚„ๅ˜่ชžใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
12:41
And don't use an angry tone. Make sure that all of these things are positive. Do and don't.
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ๆ€’ใ‚Šใฎๅฃ่ชฟใ‚’ไฝฟใ‚ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใ™ในใฆใŒใƒใ‚ธใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒ–ใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’็ขบ่ชใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ ใ€‚ ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใจใ—ใชใ„ใ“ใจใ€‚ ่ชฐใ‹ใจไผš่ฉฑใ—ใŸใใชใ„
12:56
Please tell me about a situation that you've had where you did not want to have a conversation
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ใจใ„ใ†็Šถๆณใซใคใ„ใฆๆ•™ใˆใฆใใ ใ•ใ„
13:04
with someone. And tell me a situation where you wish you could've had a conversation with
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13:10
someone. I'll let you know some tips later on in life. Goodbye.
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