Conversation Skills - How to avoid a conversation!

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์•„๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฌธ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ”ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋œ ์ž๋ง‰์€ ๊ธฐ๊ณ„ ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

00:03
Hi. Ronnie. Video. Conversation skills. How to avoid them? So maybe you don't want to
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์•ˆ๋…•. ๋กœ๋‹ˆ. ๋™์˜์ƒ. ๋Œ€ํ™” ๊ธฐ์ˆ . ๊ทธ๋“ค์„ ํ”ผํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•? ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์™€ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
00:22
talk to someone. This lesson is called "Conversation Skills: How to avoid a conversation." "Avoid"
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. ์ด ์ˆ˜์—…์€ "๋Œ€ํ™” ๊ธฐ์ˆ : ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ํ”ผํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•"์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. "Avoid"๋Š”
00:34
means you want to stop having or not have something.
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๋ฌด์–ธ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๊ฐ€์ง€์ง€ ์•Š์œผ๋ ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:39
So all of your life, probably, when you have been learning English, you've learned many
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ํ‰์ƒ ์˜์–ด๋ฅผ ๋ฐฐ์šฐ๋ฉด์„œ ๋Œ€ํ™”ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•
00:48
lessons about how to have a conversation, how to talk to strangers, how to talk to people
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, ๋‚ฏ์„  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ๋Œ€ํ™”ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•, ์ง€ํ•˜์ฒ ์—์„œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค๊ณผ ๋Œ€ํ™”ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•
00:56
on the subway, how to talk to people in a store. Sometimes, I don't want to talk to
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, ์ง€ํ•˜์ฒ ์—์„œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค๊ณผ ๋Œ€ํ™”ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋งŽ์€ ๊ตํ›ˆ์„ ๋ฐฐ์› ์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ€๊ฒŒ. ๊ฐ€๋”์€ ๋ˆ„๊ตฌ์™€๋„ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
01:04
anyone. Sometimes, people talk to me.
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. ๋•Œ๋•Œ๋กœ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ๋‚˜์—๊ฒŒ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:09
As an example, every morning, when I wake up, I have to walk my dog. It's cold outside.
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์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด ๋งค์ผ ์•„์นจ ์ผ์–ด๋‚˜๋ฉด ๊ฐœ๋ฅผ ์‚ฐ์ฑ…์‹œ์ผœ์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฐ–์€ ์ถฅ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:17
I've not had my coffee yet. I don't want to walk my dog. I do not want to be outside.
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๋‚˜๋Š” ์•„์ง ์ปคํ”ผ๋ฅผ ๋งˆ์‹œ์ง€ ์•Š์•˜๋‹ค. ๊ฐœ๋ฅผ ์‚ฐ์ฑ…์‹œํ‚ค๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋ฐ–์— ์žˆ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š๋‹ค.
01:24
And I'm generally not wanting to do anything except go back to bed. It seems that people
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‚˜๋Š” ์ผ๋ฐ˜์ ์œผ๋กœ ์นจ๋Œ€๋กœ ๋Œ์•„๊ฐ€๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ์™ธ์—๋Š” ์•„๋ฌด๊ฒƒ๋„ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:30
that have dogs love to have conversations with other people who have dogs. I don't want
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๊ฐœ๋ฅผ ํ‚ค์šฐ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ๊ฐœ๋ฅผ ํ‚ค์šฐ๋Š” ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค๊ณผ ๋Œ€ํ™”ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚˜๋Š”
01:37
to talk to you. I don't care. They ask me strange questions like, "Is your dog a boy
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๋‹น์‹ ๊ณผ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚œ ์ƒ๊ด€ ์—†์–ด. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ "๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๊ฐœ๋Š” ๋‚จ์ž์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ
01:43
or a girl?" Why? Why do you care if my dog is a boy dog or a girl dog? Do you want to
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, ์—ฌ์ž์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?"์™€ ๊ฐ™์€ ์ด์ƒํ•œ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์„ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์™œ? ๋‚ด ๊ฐœ๊ฐ€ ๋‚จ์ž ๊ฐœ์ธ์ง€ ์—ฌ์ž ๊ฐœ์ธ์ง€ ์™œ ์‹ ๊ฒฝ ์“ฐ๋‚˜์š”?
01:50
have sex with my dog? Are you concerned if my dog has a penis? No. Stop it. Who cares?
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๋‚ด ๊ฐœ์™€ ์„น์Šคํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ˆ? ๋‚ด ๊ฐ•์•„์ง€์—๊ฒŒ ํŽ˜๋‹ˆ์Šค๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€ ๊ฑฑ์ •๋˜์„ธ์š”? ์•„๋‡จ. ๊ทธ๋งŒํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ๋ฌด์Šจ ์ƒ๊ด€์ด์•ผ?
01:57
"How old is your dog?" Why? Do you want to know his birthday? Are you going to have a
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"๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๊ฐœ๋Š” ๋ช‡ ์‚ด์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?" ์™œ? ๊ทธ์˜ ์ƒ์ผ์„ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
02:01
party? Is your dog and my dog going to come to my house, and are we going to have a party?
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ํŒŒํ‹ฐ๋ฅผ ํ•  ๊ฑด๊ฐ€์š”? ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๊ฐœ์™€ ๋‚ด ๊ฐœ๊ฐ€ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์ง‘์— ์™€์„œ ํŒŒํ‹ฐ๋ฅผ ํ•  ๊ฑด๊ฐ€์š”?
02:07
No. Shut up. I'm walking my dog. Don't talk to me.
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์•„๋‹ˆ. ๋‹ฅ์ณ. ๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ฐœ๋ฅผ ์‚ฐ์ฑ…์‹œํ‚ค๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚˜์—๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
02:11
So tips on how to avoid a conversation. Rule No. 1, very easy, don't ever make eye contact
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ํ”ผํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ํŒ. ๊ทœ์น™ 1๋ฒˆ, ๋งค์šฐ ์‰ฝ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:21
with anyone you do not want to talk to. Number one rule when you want to have a conversation
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๋Œ€ํ™”ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ๋ˆˆ์„ ๋งˆ์ฃผ์น˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์„ ๋•Œ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๊ทœ์น™์€
02:29
is you must look at the people's eyes. Don't look down. Don't look up. Look at their eyes. ok?
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์˜ ๋ˆˆ์„ ๋ด์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•„๋ž˜๋ฅผ ๋‚ด๋ ค๋‹ค๋ณด์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”. ์˜ฌ๋ ค๋‹ค๋ณด์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”. ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ๋ˆˆ์„ ๋ด. ์ข‹์•„์š”?
02:37
So to not have a conversation, don't look anyone in the eye. I'm not talking to you.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„์ง€ ์•Š์œผ๋ ค๋ฉด ๋ˆ„๊ตฌ์™€๋„ ๋ˆˆ์„ ๋งˆ์ฃผ์น˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”. ๋„ˆ ํ•œํ…Œ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ ํ•˜๋Š”๊ฒŒ ์•„๋‹ˆ์•ผ.
02:46
The second one is: Don't ask the speaker any questions. So as an example, "Oh, hi. What
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๋‘ ๋ฒˆ์งธ๋Š” ํ™”์ž์—๊ฒŒ ์–ด๋–ค ์งˆ๋ฌธ๋„ ํ•˜์ง€ ๋ง๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค๋ฉด "์˜ค, ์•ˆ๋…•.
02:58
kind of dog do you have?", "It's a Cairn terrier". "How old is it?", "Seven". "Is it a boy or
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์–ด๋–ค ๊ฐœ๋ฅผ ํ‚ค์› ๋‹ˆ?", "์ผ€์–ธ ํ…Œ๋ฆฌ์–ด์•ผ." "๋ช‡ ์‚ด์ด์•ผ?", "์ผ๊ณฑ". "๋‚จ์ž์•ผ,
03:08
a girl?", "Boy". If you've noticed, I did not ask the person about their dog because
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์—ฌ์ž์•ผ?", "์†Œ๋…„". ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์•Œ์•„์ฐจ๋ฆฌ์…จ๋‹ค๋ฉด, ๋‚˜๋Š” ์ƒ๊ด€ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์—๊ฒŒ ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ๊ฐœ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋ฌป์ง€ ์•Š์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
03:17
I don't care. If you wanted to have a conversation with someone, you could ask the person the
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. ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์™€ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๋ฉด ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์—๊ฒŒ ๊ฐ™์€ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
03:24
same question. As an example, "Hi", "Hi", "Good, yeah". "What kind of dog do you have?",
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. ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค๋ฉด "์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”", "์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”", "์ข‹์•„์š”". "๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์–ด๋–ค ์ข…๋ฅ˜์˜ ๊ฐœ๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?",
03:32
"It's a Cairn terrier. How about you? What kind of dog do you have?", "It's a Jack Russell".
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"์ผ€์–ธ ํ…Œ๋ฆฌ์–ด์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์–ด๋–ป์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ? ์–ด๋–ค ์ข…๋ฅ˜ ์˜ ๊ฐœ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?", "์žญ ๋Ÿฌ์…€์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค".
03:37
"Oh, cool. Don't care. Good". "How old is your dog?" "Seven. How about you? How old
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"์˜ค, ๋ฉ‹์ง€๋‹ค. ์ƒ๊ด€์—†์–ด. ์ข‹์•„." " ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๊ฐœ๋Š” ๋ช‡ ์‚ด์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?" "์ผ๊ณฑ. ๋„Œ ์–ด๋•Œ?
03:42
is your dog?", "four". "Great", "Is your dog a boy or a girl?" "My dog's a boy. How about
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๋„ค ๊ฐœ๋Š” ๋ช‡ ์‚ด์ด๋‹ˆ?", "๋„ค". "์ข‹์•„์š”", "๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๊ฐœ๋Š” ์†Œ๋…„์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ, ์†Œ๋…€์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?" "๋‚ด ๊ฐœ๋Š” ๋‚จ์ž์•ผ.
03:50
you? How about your dog? Does your dog have a penis or a vagina?", "Girl". "Oh, do you
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๋„ˆ๋Š” ์–ด๋•Œ? ๋„ค ๊ฐœ๋Š” ์–ด๋•Œ? ๋„ค ๊ฐœ๋Š” ์„ฑ๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๋‹ˆ, ์งˆ์ด ์žˆ๋‹ˆ?", "์—ฌ์ž". "์˜ค,
03:56
know what? Maybe my dog and your dog should have a party. Maybe they could have puppies.
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๊ทธ๊ฑฐ ์•Œ์•„? ๋‚ด ๊ฐœ์™€ ๋„ค ๊ฐœ๊ฐ€ ํŒŒํ‹ฐ๋ฅผ ์—ด์–ด์•ผ ํ• ์ง€๋„ ๋ชฐ๋ผ. ์–ด์ฉŒ๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๊ฐ•์•„์ง€๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์งˆ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์–ด.
04:02
That would be cool. Yeah. Okay. Good to see you. Bye".
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๋ฉ‹์งˆ๊ฑฐ์•ผ. ๊ทธ๋ž˜. ์•Œ์•˜์–ด. ๋งŒ๋‚˜์„œ ๋ฐ˜๊ฐ€์›Œ. ์•ˆ๋…•."
04:08
Next one: Look at something or someone else. Now, maybe you have the magic of a cell phone.
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๋‹ค์Œ ๊ฒƒ: ๋ฌด์–ธ๊ฐ€ ๋˜๋Š” ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ๋ณด์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ์ž, ์–ด์ฉŒ๋ฉด ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ํœด๋Œ€ํฐ์˜ ๋งˆ๋ฒ•์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ์„์ง€๋„ ๋ชจ๋ฆ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:22
This is a great conversation avoider. You may go as far as to pretend -- "Hi, Mom. Yeah,
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์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ํ›Œ๋ฅญํ•œ ๋Œ€ํ™” ํšŒํ”ผ๊ธฐ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. "์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”, ์—„๋งˆ. ์˜ˆ,
04:32
good. No" -- that you're talking to someone on the phone. "Mom. Yeah. Busy. No. No, I
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์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•„๋‹ˆ์˜ค" -- ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์™€ ์ „ํ™” ํ†ตํ™”๋ฅผ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๊ฐ€์žฅํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. "์—„๋งˆ. ๊ทธ๋ž˜. ๋ฐ”๋น . ์•ˆ๋ผ. ์•ˆ๋ผ, ๋‚œ
04:37
got -- Mom, hi. Yeah. Good". This is a great tool. You can pretend that your phone rang,
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-- ์—„๋งˆ, ์•ˆ๋…•. ๊ทธ๋ž˜. ์ข‹์•„." ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ํ›Œ๋ฅญํ•œ ๋„๊ตฌ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ „ํ™”๋ฒจ์ด ์šธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ 
04:44
and you're talking to your mother. You can pretend you got a text message. Or you can
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์–ด๋จธ๋‹ˆ์™€ ํ†ตํ™”ํ•˜๋Š” ์ฒ™ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฌธ์ž ๋ฉ”์‹œ์ง€๋ฅผ ๋ฐ›์€ ์ฒ™ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด
04:50
just look at your phone. This will indicate to the speaker that you do not want to talk
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ํœด๋Œ€ํฐ๋งŒ ๋ด๋„ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ํ™”์ž์—๊ฒŒ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ทธ๋“ค๊ณผ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋‚˜ํƒ€๋‚ผ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
04:59
to them. In reverse, if you want to talk to a person and have a real conversation, put
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. ๋ฐ˜๋Œ€๋กœ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„๊ณ  ์ง„์ •ํ•œ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๋ฉด
05:05
your phone down. Do not text or talk on the phone when you are trying to have a conversation
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์ „ํ™”๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋‚ด๋ ค๋†“์œผ์„ธ์š”. ์‹ค์ œ ์‚ด์•„์žˆ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์‹œ๋„ํ•  ๋•Œ ๋ฌธ์ž๋ฅผ ๋ณด๋‚ด๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์ „ํ™”๋กœ ๋Œ€ํ™”ํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค
05:12
with a real live human being. If I'm at a bar and I'm talking to you, if you take out
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. ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์ˆ ์ง‘์— ์žˆ๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ๊ณผ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด, ๋‹น์‹ ์ด
05:19
your phone and start texting someone, bye-bye. Ronnie's gone. She's getting another beer.
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์ „ํ™”๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๊บผ๋‚ด ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฌธ์ž๋ฅผ ๋ณด๋‚ด๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•œ๋‹ค๋ฉด, ๋ฐ”์ด๋ฐ”์ด. ๋กœ๋‹ˆ๊ฐ€ ์—†์–ด์กŒ์–ด์š”. ๊ทธ๋…€๋Š” ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋งฅ์ฃผ๋ฅผ ๋ฐ›๊ณ ์žˆ๋‹ค.
05:25
So please, if humans want to talk to you, put your phones away. You can text them later.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ ์ธ๊ฐ„์ด ๋‹น์‹ ๊ณผ ๋Œ€ํ™”ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๋ฉด ์ „ํ™”๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ์น˜์›Œ์ฃผ์„ธ์š”. ๋‚˜์ค‘์— ๋ฌธ์ž๋ฅผ ๋ณด๋‚ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:35
If you talk really, really, really fast and you don't say your words properly -- no one
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ •๋ง, ์ •๋ง, ์ •๋ง ๋นจ๋ฆฌ ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๋ง์„ ์ œ๋Œ€๋กœ ๋งํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š”๋‹ค๋ฉด -- ์•„๋ฌด๋„
05:44
has any idea what you're talking about -- they will not have a conversation with you. So
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋ฌด์Šจ ๋ง์„ ํ•˜๋Š”์ง€ ์ „ํ˜€ ๋ชจ๋ฆ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค -- ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋‹น์‹ ๊ณผ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ
05:50
if you speak or talk really, really quickly, or if you mumble -- "Mumble?" "Mumble" means
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ •๋ง๋กœ, ์ •๋ง๋กœ ๋นจ๋ฆฌ ๋งํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋งํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์ค‘์–ผ๊ฑฐ๋ฆฐ๋‹ค๋ฉด -- "์ค‘์–ผ?" Mumble์€
06:02
you do not say words clearly. Some people will talk like this. They have their hand
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๋‹จ์–ด๋ฅผ ๋ช…ํ™•ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š”๋‹ค๋Š” ๋œป์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์–ด๋–ค ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์†์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:10
-- they put their hand in front of their mouth, and you can't really hear anything that they're
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์†์„ ์ž… ์•ž์— ๋Œ€๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ „ํ˜€ ๋“ค์„ ์ˆ˜ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:16
saying because
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์™œ๋ƒํ•˜๋ฉด
06:17
[inaudible]
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[๋“ค๋ฆฌ์ง€ ์•Š์Œ]
06:18
So rule No.1, put your hand down, okay? Don't talk down. When I talk like this, you can't
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๊ทœ์น™ 1๋ฒˆ, ์†์„ ๋‚ด๋ ค๋†“์œผ์„ธ์š”. ๋งํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”. ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•  ๋•Œ, ๋‹น์‹ ์€
06:26
even hear -- okay? "Mumbling" means you don't say your words clearly, or they're muffled.
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๋“ค์„ ์ˆ˜์กฐ์ฐจ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•Œ์•˜์ฃ ? "์ค‘์–ผ์ค‘์–ผ"์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๋ง์„ ๋ช…ํ™•ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ฑฐ๋‚˜, ๋ง์„ ์ž˜ ๋ชปํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:30
It's like this.
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์ด๋ ‡์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:31
[Inaudible]
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06:33
And talking really, really, really quickly. Maybe you are very excited to meet someone.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ •๋ง, ์ •๋ง, ์ •๋ง ๋นจ๋ฆฌ ๋งํ•ด์š”. ์–ด์ฉŒ๋ฉด ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ๋งŒ๋‚˜ ๋งค์šฐ ํฅ๋ถ„๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:40
That's cool. But try and speak a little slowly so that the person can understand you.
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๋ฉ‹์ง€๋„ค์š”. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์ดํ•ดํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋„๋ก ์กฐ๊ธˆ ์ฒœ์ฒœํžˆ ๋งํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
07:01
Okay. So this one: strange facial expressions. If I'm having a conversation with you and
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์ข‹์•„์š”. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์ด์ƒํ•œ ํ‘œ์ •์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ๊ณผ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์„ ๋•Œ
07:08
you're smiling and you're nodding and you're doing this, I think, "Okay, this person is
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์›ƒ๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ณ  ๊ณ ๊ฐœ๋ฅผ ๋„๋•์ด๋ฉฐ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด, "์ข‹์•„, ์ด ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์€
07:16
happy. They like what I'm saying to them". But if your face is very strange or you kind
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ํ–‰๋ณตํ•ด. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๊ทธ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ•ด"๋ผ๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์–ผ๊ตด์ด ๋งค์šฐ ์ด์ƒํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
07:24
of make weird facial expressions or you have -- you do strange things. If you pick your
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์ด์ƒํ•œ ํ‘œ์ •์„ ์ง“๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์ด์ƒํ•œ ํ–‰๋™์„ ํ•œ๋‹ค๋ฉด. ๋‹น์‹ ์ด
07:30
nose or pick your ear or something, the person thinks that you don't care about what they're
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์ฝ”๋ฅผ ํ›„๋น„๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๊ท€๋ฅผ ํ›„๋น„๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์‹ ๊ฒฝ ์“ฐ์ง€ ์•Š๋Š”๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
07:37
saying to you. So this is a good thing. If someone's talking to you, you just go...
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. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์ข‹์€ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ๋ง์„ ๊ฑธ๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ๊ฐ€์„ธ์š”...
07:42
[makes faces]
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[์–ผ๊ตด์„ ์ฐŒํ‘ธ๋ฆฌ๋ฉฐ]
07:45
I guarantee you they will stop talking to you, especially if you pick your nose. Number 1.
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์žฅ๋‹ดํ•˜๊ฑด๋Œ€ ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ๋ง์„ ๋” ์ด์ƒ ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํŠนํžˆ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ฝ”๋ฅผ ํ›„๋น„๋ฉด ๋ง์ด์ฃ . 1๋ฒˆ.
07:51
[picks nose] -- person's gone.
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[์ฝ”๋ฅผ ํ›„๋น„๋‹ค] -- ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์‚ฌ๋ผ์กŒ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:55
The other one is body language. Now, this may seem strange to you, but if you're talking
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ํ•˜๋‚˜๋Š” ์‹ ์ฒด ์–ธ์–ด์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ž, ์ด๊ฒƒ์ด ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ์ด์ƒํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋ณด์ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ, ๋‹น์‹ ์ด
08:00
to someone, and you use hand expressions, it's easier for them to understand you. But
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์™€ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ณ  ์† ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•œ๋‹ค๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์ดํ•ดํ•˜๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ๋” ์‰ฝ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ๋ฐ
08:09
if you are talking to someone and your hands are folded and you don't even look at them
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์™€ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ํ•  ๋•Œ ์†์ด ์ ‘ํ˜€ ์žˆ๊ณ  ์ณ๋‹ค๋ณด์ง€๋„ ์•Š๊ณ 
08:16
and you're like this, they think that you don't want to talk to them. So eye contact,
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์ด๋Ÿฐ ์‹์ด๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ทธ๋“ค๊ณผ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์™€ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ํ”ผํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„๋ ค๋ฉด ๋ˆˆ๋งž์ถค,
08:25
your facial expressions, and your body language are really important to avoid or to have a
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์–ผ๊ตด ํ‘œ์ •, ๋ชธ์ง“์ด ์ •๋ง ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
08:31
conversation with someone. If you do not want to talk to someone, you can fold your hands
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. ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์™€ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š๋‹ค๋ฉด ์†์„ ๋ชจ์œผ๊ณ 
08:37
and look at the ground. They will stop talking to you hopefully.
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๋•…์„ ๋ฐ”๋ผ๋ณด๋ฉด ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ํฌ๋ง์ ์œผ๋กœ ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ฉˆ์ถœ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:44
One thing that could be very useful if you are in a bar and maybe someone -- a man or
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ˆ ์ง‘์— ์žˆ๊ณ  ์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€(๋‚จ์ž๋“ 
08:54
a woman -- is talking to you that you don't want to talk to, a really good technique is
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์—ฌ์ž๋“ )๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š์€ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์„ ๋•Œ ๋งค์šฐ ์œ ์šฉํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ํ•œ ๊ฐ€์ง€๋Š”
08:58
to use slang. Maybe the person's older than you, and you know some crazy whooped up slang
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์†์–ด๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ๋‹น์‹ ๋ณด๋‹ค ๋‚˜์ด๊ฐ€ ๋งŽ๊ณ  ๋ฏธ์นœ ์†์–ด๋ฅผ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
09:05
words. Instead of speaking to them like you would your mother, you would speak to them
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. ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์–ด๋จธ๋‹ˆ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๊ทธ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๋Œ€์‹ ์— ๋‹น์‹ ์€
09:10
like you would your best friend. You'd be like, "Yo! Hey! What's going on? What's happening
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๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์นœํ•œ ์นœ๊ตฌ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๊ทธ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์€ "์š”! ์ด๋ด! ๋ฌด์Šจ ์ผ์ด์•ผ?
09:12
in the crib? Yo!" And the person who's trying to talk to you will be like, [hesitates].
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์ง‘์—์„œ ๋ฌด์Šจ ์ผ์ด์•ผ? ์š”!" ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ๊ณผ ๋Œ€ํ™”ํ•˜๋ ค๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์€ [์ฃผ์ €ํ•œ๋‹ค]์™€ ๊ฐ™์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:23
They're gone. I guarantee it.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์‚ฌ๋ผ์กŒ๋‹ค. ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋ณด์ฆํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:26
On the other hand, if you are talking to someone and you know very -- we say "big words" or
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๋ฐ˜๋ฉด์— ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์™€ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋งค์šฐ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” "๊ฑฐ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋‹จ์–ด"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
09:36
people who are educated say "educated words". Rather than use simple language, if you are
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๊ต์œก๋ฐ›์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ "๊ต์œก๋ฐ›์€ ๋‹จ์–ด"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•œ ์–ธ์–ด๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋ณด๋‹ค
09:43
going to use very big words, it can be intimidating to people. So if you are trying to speak English
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๋งค์šฐ ๊ฑฐ์ฐฝํ•œ ๋‹จ์–ด๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋ ค๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ์œ„ํ˜‘์ด ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋งŒ์•ฝ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด
09:51
to someone who has a very, very large vocabulary and your vocabulary is very small, there's
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์•„์ฃผ ์•„์ฃผ ๋งŽ์€ ์–ดํœ˜๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์–ดํœ˜๊ฐ€ ์•„์ฃผ ์ ์€ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์—๊ฒŒ ์˜์–ด๋กœ ๋งํ•˜๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•œ๋‹ค๋ฉด, ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์ด ๋ชจ๋ฅด๋Š” ๋‹จ์–ด๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ด๊ธฐ
10:02
going to be a communication breakdown because you're going to use words the other person
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๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ์˜์‚ฌ์†Œํ†ต ๋‹จ์ ˆ์ด ์žˆ์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
10:08
doesn't know. So the other person is not going to understand you and is not going to want
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. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์ดํ•ดํ•˜์ง€ ๋ชปํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ด๊ณ 
10:16
to talk to you. So it's really important that when you try to have a conversation, you realize
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๋‹น์‹ ๊ณผ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ดํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์‹œ๋„ํ•  ๋•Œ
10:23
what vocabulary or what words you and the speaker -- or you and the listener -- both know.
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๋‹น์‹ ๊ณผ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ, ๋˜๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ๊ณผ ๋“ฃ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ๋ชจ๋‘ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ์–ดํœ˜๋‚˜ ๋‹จ์–ด๊ฐ€ ๋ฌด์—‡์ธ์ง€ ๊นจ๋‹ซ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ •๋ง ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:31
The last one is how you project your voice, okay? The tone of your voice -- right here.
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๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๋ชฉ์†Œ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ํˆฌ์‚ฌํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค, ์•Œ์•˜์ฃ ? ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๋ชฉ์†Œ๋ฆฌ ํ†ค์ด -- ๋ฐ”๋กœ ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์— ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:38
Angry tone. -- makes the person nervous, thinks that you're angry. I have a lot of people
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ํ™”๋‚œ ์Œ์ƒ‰. -- ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ๊ธด์žฅํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ๋“ค๊ณ , ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ํ™”๊ฐ€ ๋‚ฌ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:45
in my class from different countries. Sometimes, a person will ask a student a question. For
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์ œ ๋ฐ˜์—๋Š” ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋‚˜๋ผ์—์„œ ์˜จ ๋งŽ์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋•Œ๋•Œ๋กœ ์–ด๋–ค ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ํ•™์ƒ์—๊ฒŒ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์„ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:52
example, "What's your name?" "My name is Ronnie". "[Shouts] What?" "Oh, my God. Why is this
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์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, "๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์ด๋ฆ„์€ ๋ฌด์—‡์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?" "๋‚ด ์ด๋ฆ„์€ ๋กœ๋‹ˆ์•ผ." "[์™ธ์นจ] ๋ญ?" "๋ง™์†Œ์‚ฌ. ์ด
11:01
person yelling at me? [Softly] My name is Ronnie". If you don't hear someone, it's okay
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์™œ ๋‚˜ํ•œํ…Œ ์†Œ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ์งˆ๋Ÿฌ? [๋ถ€๋“œ๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ] ๋‚ด ์ด๋ฆ„์€ ๋กœ๋‹ˆ์•ผ." ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์˜ ๋ง์„ ๋“ฃ์ง€ ์•Š์œผ๋ฉด
11:09
to say, "What?" Maybe you're going to want to smile, but be careful of your tone. You
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"๋ญ?"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•ด๋„ ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์›ƒ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ ์–ด์กฐ์— ์ฃผ์˜ํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
11:15
do not want to use an angry voice if you're not angry. If you're angry, you let that person
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ํ™”๊ฐ€ ๋‚˜์ง€ ์•Š์•˜๋‹ค๋ฉด ํ™”๋‚œ ๋ชฉ์†Œ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ํ™”๊ฐ€ ๋‚ฌ๋‹ค๋ฉด ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์—๊ฒŒ
11:23
know that you're angry. You can say, "Why do you care what kind of dog I have? Is it
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ํ™”๊ฐ€ ๋‚ฌ์Œ์„ ์•Œ๋ฆฌ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. " ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์–ด๋–ค ์ข…๋ฅ˜์˜ ๊ฐœ๋ฅผ ํ‚ค์› ๋Š”์ง€ ์™œ ์‹ ๊ฒฝ ์“ฐ๋‚˜์š”? ๋‚ด๊ฐ€
11:27
important to you that I have a dog? Do you really care what kind it is? Where did I get
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๊ฐœ๋ฅผ ํ‚ค์šฐ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ๊ฐ€์š”? ๊ทธ๊ฒŒ ์–ด๋–ค ์ข…๋ฅ˜์ธ์ง€ ์ •๋ง ์‹ ๊ฒฝ ์“ฐ๋‚˜์š”? ์–ด๋””์„œ ๋‚ฌ์–ด์š”?
11:31
it? Who cares? Okay. I am pissed off. I have not had my coffee yet. So don't talk to me,
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๋ˆ„๊ฐ€ ์‹ ๊ฒฝ ์“ฐ๋‚˜์š”? ์ข‹์•„์š”. ํ™”๋‚ฌ์–ด์š”. ๊บผ์ ธ. ๋‚˜ ์•„์ง ์ปคํ”ผ ์•ˆ ๋งˆ์…จ์–ด. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ ๋‚˜ํ•œํ…Œ ๋ง ๊ฑธ์ง€ ๋งˆ,
11:37
okay?"
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์•Œ์•˜์ง€?"
11:38
So if you want to avoid a conversation -- maybe the person is creepy, scary. Maybe they smell
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ํ”ผํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๋ฉด -- ์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์€ ์˜ค์‹นํ•˜๊ณ  ๋ฌด์„ญ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ƒ„์ƒˆ๊ฐ€ ์‹ฌํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
11:46
bad. Maybe they're drunk. Maybe you're drunk. Do all of these things. But if you want to
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. ์ทจํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์ผ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•„๋งˆ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ˆ ์— ์ทจํ•œ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด ๋ชจ๋“  ์ผ์„ ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ
11:57
have a conversation, don't do these things. To have a conversation with someone, make
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๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๋ฉด ์ด๋Ÿฐ ์ผ์„ ํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”. ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์™€ ๋Œ€ํ™”ํ•˜๋ ค๋ฉด
12:03
eye contact. Ask them questions. You can ask them the same questions. It doesn't have to
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๋ˆˆ์„ ๋งˆ์ฃผ์ณ์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ์งˆ๋ฌธํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ทธ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๊ฐ™์€ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:11
be about a dog. Look at the people directly in the eye. Look at who you're talking to.
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๊ฐœ์— ๊ด€ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์ผ ํ•„์š”๋Š” ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์˜ ๋ˆˆ์„ ๋˜‘๋ฐ”๋กœ ๋ฐ”๋ผ๋ณด์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋ˆ„๊ตฌ์™€ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€๋ณด์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
12:20
Don't look at someone else, okay? Don't talk really quickly. Don't mumble. Don't make strange
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ ๋ณด์ง€๋งˆ, ์•Œ์•˜์ง€? ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋นจ๋ฆฌ ๋งํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”. ์ค‘์–ผ ๊ฑฐ๋ฆฌ์ง€ ๋งˆ. ์ด์ƒํ•œ ํ‘œ์ • ์ง“์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”
12:31
faces. Don't use strange body language. Don't use slang or words the person doesn't know.
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. ์ด์ƒํ•œ ์‹ ์ฒด ์–ธ์–ด๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์ด ๋ชจ๋ฅด๋Š” ์†์–ด๋‚˜ ๋‹จ์–ด๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
12:41
And don't use an angry tone. Make sure that all of these things are positive. Do and don't.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ํ™”๋‚œ ์–ด์กฐ๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ์ด ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฒƒ์ด ๊ธ์ •์ ์ธ์ง€ ํ™•์ธํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค . ํ•˜๋ผ, ํ•˜์ง€ ๋ง๋ผ. ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์™€ ๋Œ€ํ™”ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š์€
12:56
Please tell me about a situation that you've had where you did not want to have a conversation
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์ƒํ™ฉ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋ง์”€ํ•ด ์ฃผ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค
13:04
with someone. And tell me a situation where you wish you could've had a conversation with
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. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€ ์™€ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋‚˜๋ˆŒ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์—ˆ์œผ๋ฉด ํ•˜๋Š” ์ƒํ™ฉ์„ ๋งํ•ด ๋ณด์„ธ์š”
13:10
someone. I'll let you know some tips later on in life. Goodbye.
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. ๋‚˜์ค‘์— ์ธ์ƒ ๊ฟ€ํŒ ์•Œ๋ ค๋“œ๋ฆด๊ป˜์š”. ์•ˆ๋…•ํžˆ ๊ฐ€์„ธ์š”.
์ด ์›น์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ ์ •๋ณด

์ด ์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ•™์Šต์— ์œ ์šฉํ•œ YouTube ๋™์˜์ƒ์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ „ ์„ธ๊ณ„ ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜๋“ค์ด ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ˆ˜์—…์„ ๋ณด๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ ๋™์˜์ƒ ํŽ˜์ด์ง€์— ํ‘œ์‹œ๋˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ” ํด๋ฆญํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ณณ์—์„œ ๋™์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋น„๋””์˜ค ์žฌ์ƒ์— ๋งž์ถฐ ์ž๋ง‰์ด ์Šคํฌ๋กค๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜๊ฒฌ์ด๋‚˜ ์š”์ฒญ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์ด ๋ฌธ์˜ ์–‘์‹์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ๋ฌธ์˜ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.

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