LOVE AND GRAMMAR: English for Online Dating

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English with Emma


ไธ‹ใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžๅญ—ๅน•ใ‚’ใƒ€ใƒ–ใƒซใ‚ฏใƒชใƒƒใ‚ฏใ™ใ‚‹ใจๅ‹•็”ปใ‚’ๅ†็”Ÿใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ็ฟป่จณใ•ใ‚ŒใŸๅญ—ๅน•ใฏๆฉŸๆขฐ็ฟป่จณใงใ™ใ€‚

00:00
Hello, my name is Emma, and today I am going to change your life.
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ใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏใ€็งใฎๅๅ‰ใฏใ‚จใƒžใงใ™ใ€‚ ไปŠๆ—ฅใฏใ‚ใชใŸใฎไบบ็”Ÿใ‚’ๅค‰ใˆใฆใฟใพใ™ใ€‚
00:07
How am I going to do that?
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ใฉใ†ใ™ใ‚Œใฐใ„ใ„ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ‹๏ผŸ
00:08
Well, I am going to teach you about love and about grammar.
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ใ•ใฆใ€็งใฏใ‚ใชใŸใซ ๆ„›ใซใคใ„ใฆใ€ใใ—ใฆๆ–‡ๆณ•ใซใคใ„ใฆๆ•™ใˆใ‚ˆใ†ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
00:14
These two things actually go hand in hand.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ 2 ใคใฏ ๅฎŸ้š›ใซใฏๅฏ†ๆŽฅใซ้–ข้€ฃใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
00:17
It might surprise you, but it's true.
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้ฉšใ‹ใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใŒใ€ ๆœฌๅฝ“ใงใ™ใ€‚
00:19
So, let me explain.
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ใใ‚Œใงใฏใ€่ชฌๆ˜Žใ•ใ›ใฆใ„ใŸใ ใใพใ™ใ€‚
00:22
Did you know that one-third of North Americans find love through online dating?
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ๅŒ—็ฑณไบบใฎ 3 ๅˆ†ใฎ 1 ใŒ ใ‚ชใƒณใƒฉใ‚คใƒณ ใƒ‡ใƒผใƒˆใ‚’้€šใ˜ใฆๆ„›ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ใ”ๅญ˜็Ÿฅใงใ™ใ‹?
00:31
So a lot of North Americans are finding their partner, they're finding a boyfriend or a
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ใใฎใŸใ‚ใ€ๅคšใใฎๅŒ—็ฑณไบบใŒ ใƒ‘ใƒผใƒˆใƒŠใƒผใ‚„ใƒœใƒผใ‚คใƒ•ใƒฌใƒณใƒ‰ใ€ใ‚ฌใƒผใƒซ
00:36
girlfriend online.
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ใƒ•ใƒฌใƒณใƒ‰ใ‚’ใ‚ชใƒณใƒฉใ‚คใƒณใง่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
00:39
So, this is why I drew this heart, because this is happening.
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ใใ‚Œใงใ€ใ“ใ‚ŒใŒ็งใŒใ“ใฎใƒใƒผใƒˆใ‚’ๆใ„ใŸ็†็”ฑใงใ™ใ€‚ ใชใœใชใ‚‰ใ€ใ“ใ‚ŒใŒ่ตทใ“ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™ใ€‚
00:43
Love is in the air, it's happening, but - big but - and this is where grammar comes in.
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ๆ„›ใŒๆผ‚ใฃใฆใ„ใฆใ€ๅฎŸ้š›ใซ่ตทใ“ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใŒใ€ใใ‚Œใฏใจใฆใ‚‚ ๅคงใใชใ“ใจใงใ™ใŒใ€ใ“ใ“ใงๆ–‡ๆณ•ใŒ้‡่ฆใซใชใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
00:50
Dating and grammar mistakes might stop you from finding love.
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ใƒ‡ใƒผใƒˆใ‚„ๆ–‡ๆณ•ใฎ้–“้•ใ„ใซใ‚ˆใฃใฆใ€ ๆ„›ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใชใ„ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
00:57
So, when you are doing online dating, you are not seeing each other face-to-face.
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ใคใพใ‚Šใ€ใ‚ชใƒณใƒฉใ‚คใƒณใƒ‡ใƒผใƒˆใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใฏใ€ ใŠไบ’ใ„ใซ็›ดๆŽฅไผšใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚ใ‘ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
01:05
You are judging each other, a lot of the times actually based on what you write.
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ๅคšใใฎๅ ดๅˆใ€ๅฎŸ้š›ใซๆ›ธใ„ใŸๅ†…ๅฎนใซๅŸบใฅใ„ใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใŠไบ’ใ„ใ‚’ๅˆคๆ–ญใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚
01:11
So because of that, and because we're writing a lot more nowadays to find a date, grammar
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ใใฎใŸใ‚ใ€ใใ—ใฆ ไปŠๆ—ฅใงใฏๆ—ฅไป˜ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซๆ›ธใใ“ใจใŒๅข—ใˆใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใ€ๆ–‡ๆณ•
01:20
and spelling has become more important than it probably ever has been in the past.
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ใจใ‚นใƒšใƒซใฏใŠใใ‚‰ใ้ŽๅŽปใ‚ˆใ‚Šใ‚‚้‡่ฆใซใชใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚
01:27
Or at least it's more important from a love perspective.
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ๅฐ‘ใชใใจใ‚‚ใ€ ๆ‹ๆ„›ใฎ่ฆณ็‚นใ‹ใ‚‰ใฏใใ‚ŒใŒใ‚ˆใ‚Š้‡่ฆใงใ™ใ€‚
01:31
So in today's video, I am going to teach you some key grammar mistakes to avoid so you
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ใใ“ใงไปŠๆ—ฅใฎใƒ“ใƒ‡ใ‚ชใงใฏใ€ๆ„›ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซ ้ฟใ‘ใ‚‹ในใ้‡่ฆใชๆ–‡ๆณ•ใฎ้–“้•ใ„ใ‚’ใ„ใใคใ‹ๆ•™ใˆใพใ™
01:39
can find love.
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01:41
So, I talked to my friends about this, and I asked them what grammar mistakes really
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ใใ“ใงใ€็งใฏใ“ใฎใ“ใจใซใคใ„ใฆๅ‹้”ใซ่ฉฑใ—ใ€ ๆ–‡ๆณ•ใฎใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใช้–“้•ใ„ใŒๆœฌๅฝ“ใซไธๅฟซใซใ•ใ›ใ‚‹ใฎใ‹ใ‚’ๅฐ‹ใญใพใ—ใŸ
01:49
turn you off.
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01:51
This means what grammar mistakes make you not want to meet a person.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ€ๆ–‡ๆณ•ไธŠใฎ้–“้•ใ„ใซใ‚ˆใฃใฆ ไบบใซไผšใ„ใŸใใชใ„ใจใ„ใ†ๆ„ๅ‘ณใงใ™ใ€‚
01:58
Here is what they said.
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒ่จ€ใฃใŸใ“ใจใฏๆฌกใฎใจใŠใ‚Šใงใ™ใ€‚
02:01
They said when people make mistakes with "your", this makes them think the person is not educated.
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใ€ไบบใ€…ใŒใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใ€ใ‚’้–“้•ใˆใ‚‹ใจใ€ ใใฎไบบใฏๆ•™่‚ฒใ‚’ๅ—ใ‘ใฆใ„ใชใ„ใจ่€ƒใˆใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใชใ‚‹ใจ่จ€ใ„ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
02:11
So it's really important for online dating to use "your" correctly.
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ใ‚ชใƒณใƒฉใ‚คใƒณ ใƒ‡ใƒผใƒˆใงใฏใ€Œyourใ€ใ‚’ๆญฃใ—ใไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒ้žๅธธใซ้‡่ฆใงใ™ใ€‚
02:18
This is a common mistake in English.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ ่‹ฑ่ชžใงใ‚ˆใใ‚ใ‚‹้–“้•ใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
02:20
Why?
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ใชใœ๏ผŸ
02:21
Well, we have two words here, "your" and "your".
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ใ•ใฆใ€ใ“ใ“ใซใฏ ใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใ€ใจใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใฎใ€ใจใ„ใ† 2 ใคใฎๅ˜่ชžใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
02:26
In conversation, they sound the exact same, but these two words actually have very different
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ไผš่ฉฑใงใฏใพใฃใŸใๅŒใ˜ใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่žใ“ใˆใพใ™ใŒใ€ ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ 2 ใคใฎๅ˜่ชžใฏๅฎŸ้š›ใซใฏใพใฃใŸใ็•ฐใชใ‚‹ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™
02:32
meanings.
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02:34
So let's look at an example of what someone might write on an online dating app.
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ใใ‚Œใงใฏใ€่ชฐใ‹ใŒ ใ‚ชใƒณใƒฉใ‚คใƒณๅ‡บไผšใ„็ณปใ‚ขใƒ—ใƒชใซๆ›ธใ่พผใ‚€ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใฎใ‚ใ‚‹ไพ‹ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใฟใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
02:40
They might say something like, "I like your photo."
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ ใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅ†™็œŸใŒๅฅฝใใงใ™ใ€ใชใฉใจ่จ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
02:46
Is this "your" correct?
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ใ“ใฎใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใฎใ€ใฏๆญฃใ—ใ„ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
02:49
The answer is no.
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็ญ”ใˆใฏใ„ใ„ใˆใ ใ€‚
02:54
So how do we correct this?
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ใงใฏใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’ใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซไฟฎๆญฃใ™ใ‚Œใฐใ‚ˆใ„ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ‹?
02:57
Well, "your" is usually used with a noun.
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ใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใฎใ€ใฏ้€šๅธธใ€ๅ่ฉžใจไธ€็ท’ใซไฝฟ็”จใ•ใ‚Œใพใ™ใ€‚
03:02
Remember, a noun is a person, it can be a place, it can be a thing, or an idea.
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ๅ่ฉžใฏไบบใงใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ ๅ ดๆ‰€ใ€็‰ฉใ€ใพใŸใฏใ‚ขใ‚คใƒ‡ใ‚ขใงใ‚ใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’่ฆšใˆใฆใŠใ„ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
03:09
So "your" is - would be used in this case.
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ใ€Œyourใ€ใฏ - ใ“ใฎๅ ดๅˆใซไฝฟ็”จใ•ใ‚Œใพใ™ใ€‚
03:14
I like your photo.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅ†™็œŸใŒๅฅฝใใงใ™ใ€‚
03:19
A good way to remember this is if you're thinking, "Is it this one?", "your" with this apostrophe
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’่ฆšใˆใฆใŠใใจใ‚ˆใ„ใฎใฏใ€ ใ€Œใ“ใ‚Œใงใ™ใ‹?ใ€ใจๆ€ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใ€ใ“ใฎใ‚ขใƒใ‚นใƒˆใƒญใƒ•ใ‚ฃใŒไป˜ใ„ใŸใ€Œyourใ€ใฏ
03:25
up here actually means "you are".
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ๅฎŸ้š›ใซใฏ ใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ€ใจใ„ใ†ๆ„ๅ‘ณใงใ™ใ€‚
03:30
So what you can do is when you write something and you're not sure, is it "your" or "your",
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ใใ‚Œใงใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใงใใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏใ€ไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’ๆ›ธใ„ใฆใ„ใฆใ€ใใ‚ŒใŒ ใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใ€ใชใฎใ‹ใ€Œ
03:36
try to put "you are" in and see if it makes sense.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฎใ€ใชใฎใ‹ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใจใใฏใ€ใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ€ใ‚’ๅ…ฅใ‚Œใฆใ€ ใใ‚ŒใŒๆ„ๅ‘ณใ‚’ใชใ™ใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹ใ‚’็ขบ่ชใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
03:40
When I say, "I like your photo", no, that does not make sense.
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ใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅ†™็œŸใŒๅฅฝใใงใ™ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใจใ€ ใ„ใ„ใˆใ€ใใ‚Œใฏๆ„ๅ‘ณใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
03:46
So whenever you use "your", and I have to do this too, even though I'm an English teacher,
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ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ€Œyourใ€ใ‚’ไฝฟใ†ใจใใฏใ„ใคใ‚‚ใ€็งใ‚‚ใใ†ใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ็งใฏ่‹ฑ่ชžๆ•™ๅธซใงใ™ใŒใ€
03:53
this was one of the mistakes I used to make when I was a student.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ็งใŒๅญฆ็”Ÿใฎ้ ƒใซ็Šฏใ—ใŸ้–“้•ใ„ใฎ 1 ใคใงใ—ใŸ ใ€‚
03:57
So anytime I send out an email, anytime I send out a message, I always double check
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ใใฎใŸใ‚ใ€้›ปๅญใƒกใƒผใƒซใ‚„ใƒกใƒƒใ‚ปใƒผใ‚ธใ‚’้€ใ‚‹ใจใใฏ ๅธธใซใ€
04:05
that I used "your" correctly, because it's a very easy mistake to make.
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ใ€Œyourใ€ใ‚’ๆญฃใ—ใไฝฟ็”จใ—ใŸใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹ใ‚’ๅ†็ขบ่ชใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ้žๅธธใซ้–“้•ใ„ใ‚„ใ™ใ„ใŸใ‚ใงใ™ใ€‚
04:11
So always check, is it "your" or "you are"?
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ ใใ‚ŒใŒใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใ€ใชใฎใ‹ใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸ่‡ช่บซใ€ใชใฎใ‹ใ‚’ๅธธใซ็ขบ่ชใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
04:16
Okay.
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ใ‚ใ‹ใฃใŸใ€‚
04:18
So another common mistake people make online dating is they often write "me too" incorrectly.
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ใ‚ชใƒณใƒฉใ‚คใƒณ ใƒ‡ใƒผใƒˆใงใ‚ˆใใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‚‚ใ† 1 ใคใฎ้–“้•ใ„ใฏใ€ ใ€Œ็งใ‚‚ใ€ใจ้–“้•ใฃใฆๆ›ธใใ“ใจใŒใ‚ˆใใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
04:26
They make a spelling mistake, or they choose the wrong "too".
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ใ‚นใƒšใƒซใ‚’้–“้•ใˆใŸใ‚Šใ€ ้–“้•ใฃใŸใ€Œtooใ€ใ‚’้ธๆŠžใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
04:30
In English, this is going to sound like a weird sentence, but in English there are three
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่‹ฑ่ชžใงใ“ใ‚Œใฏๅฅ‡ๅฆ™ใชๆ–‡ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่žใ“ใˆใ‚‹ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ† ใŒใ€่‹ฑ่ชžใซใฏ 2 ใŒ 3 ใคใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™
04:36
twos.
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04:38
There is "to", there is "too", and then there is "two", like the number two.
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ใ€Œtoใ€ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ใ€Œtooใ€ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ ใใ—ใฆๆ•ฐๅญ—ใฎ 2 ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€Œtwoใ€ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
04:47
So there are three twos in English.
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ใคใพใ‚Šใ€ ่‹ฑ่ชžใซใฏ 2 ใŒ 3 ใคใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
04:50
This is actually a sentence I can't even write.
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ๅฎŸใฏใ“ใ‚Œใ€ ็งใซใ‚‚ๆ›ธใ‘ใชใ„ๆ–‡็ซ ใชใ‚“ใงใ™ใ€‚
04:54
It's actually impossible to write this and get the meaning correct.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’ๆ›ธใ„ใฆๆ„ๅ‘ณใ‚’ๆญฃใ—ใ็†่งฃใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏๅฎŸ้š›ใซใฏไธๅฏ่ƒฝใงใ™ใ€‚
04:59
So a lot of the times when we talk online, we often want to show we are similar to the
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ใใฎใŸใ‚ใ€ใ‚ชใƒณใƒฉใ‚คใƒณใงไผš่ฉฑใ™ใ‚‹ใจใใฏใ€่‡ชๅˆ†ใŒใƒ‡ใƒผใƒˆใ—ใŸใ„็›ธๆ‰‹ใซ ไผผใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’็คบใ—ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใ†ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ˆใใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™
05:06
person we want to date.
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05:09
So maybe they say, "I love soccer."
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ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ ใ€Œใ‚ตใƒƒใ‚ซใƒผใŒๅคงๅฅฝใใ ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใฎใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใชใ„ใ€‚
05:12
And I say, "Me too.
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ใใ—ใฆ็งใฏใ“ใ†่จ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€ใ€Œ็งใ‚‚ใงใ™ใ€‚
05:14
I love reading books.
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ๆœฌใ‚’่ชญใ‚€ใฎใŒๅคงๅฅฝใใงใ™ใ€‚
05:16
Me too."
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็งใ‚‚ใงใ™ใ€‚ใ€ ็งใŸใกใฏๅ…ฑ้€š
05:17
We really want to find things that we have in common.
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็‚นใ‚’ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚
05:22
So we use "me too" a lot when we are online dating.
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ใใฎใŸใ‚ใ€ใ‚ชใƒณใƒฉใ‚คใƒณใƒ‡ใƒผใƒˆใงใฏใ€Œme tooใ€ใ‚’ใ‚ˆใไฝฟใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚
05:26
So it's very important to spell "too" correctly.
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ ใ€Œtooใ€ใ‚’ๆญฃใ—ใ็ถดใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏ้žๅธธใซ้‡่ฆใงใ™ใ€‚
05:30
So how do we spell it?
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ใงใฏใ€ใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ็ถดใ‚Œใฐใ„ใ„ใฎใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ‹๏ผŸ
05:32
Is it "me t-o" or is it "me t-o-o"?
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ใใ‚Œใฏใ€Œme t-oใ€ใงใ™ใ‹ใ€ใใ‚Œใจใ‚‚ ใ€Œme t-o-oใ€ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
05:38
The correct answer is "me too".
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ๆญฃ่งฃใฏใ€Œ็งใ‚‚ใ€ใงใ™ใ€‚
05:44
There are two o's in "too".
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ใ€Œtooใ€ใซใฏใ€Œoใ€ใŒ2ใคใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
05:46
"T-o-o" is another way to say "also".
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ใ€ŒT-o-oใ€ใฏ ใ€ŒใพใŸใ€ใฎๅˆฅใฎ่จ€ใ„ๆ–นใงใ™ใ€‚
05:50
"Me too."
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"็งใ‚‚ใ€‚"
05:52
Okay, the third common thing my friends complain about with online dating is capital letters.
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็งใฎๅ‹้”ใŒ ใ‚ชใƒณใƒฉใ‚คใƒณใƒ‡ใƒผใƒˆใซ้–ขใ—ใฆใ‚ˆใไธๆบ€ใ‚’่จ€ใ†3็•ช็›ฎใฏใ€ๅคงๆ–‡ๅญ—ใงใ™ใ€‚
06:02
Sometimes they see a potential love interest, and that person writes to them like this.
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ๆ™‚ใ€…ใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏๆฝœๅœจ็š„ใชๆ‹ๆ„›ๅฏพ่ฑกใ‚’่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใ€ ใใฎไบบใŒๅฝผใ‚‰ใซใ“ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซๆ‰‹็ด™ใ‚’ๆ›ธใใพใ™ใ€‚
06:10
"Where are you?"
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"ใฉใ“ใซใ„ใ‚‹ใฎ๏ผŸ"
06:13
What's the problem here?
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ใ“ใ“ใงไฝ•ใŒๅ•้กŒใซใชใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ‹๏ผŸ
06:15
Well, there's probably a couple problems, but the problem I wanted to talk about today
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ใพใ‚ใ€ใŠใใ‚‰ใใ„ใใคใ‹ๅ•้กŒใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ ใŒใ€ไปŠๆ—ฅ่ฉฑใ—ใŸใ‹ใฃใŸๅ•้กŒใฏใ€
06:20
is that every letter here is a capital letter in English.
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ใ“ใ“ใซใ‚ใ‚‹ใ™ในใฆใฎๆ–‡ๅญ—ใŒ ่‹ฑ่ชžใงใฏๅคงๆ–‡ๅญ—ใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
06:26
There are no small letters or lowercase letters.
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ๅฐๆ–‡ๅญ—ใ‚„ๅฐๆ–‡ๅญ—ใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
06:31
When you write in all capital letters, it makes you look...
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ใ™ในใฆๅคงๆ–‡ๅญ—ใงๆ›ธใใจใ€ๆฌกใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ ่ฆ‹ใˆใพใ™...
06:35
Let me show you a photo...
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ๅ†™็œŸใ‚’่ฆ‹ใ›ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†...
06:37
Or not a photo, a picture.
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ใพใŸใฏๅ†™็œŸใงใฏใชใใ€ๅ†™็œŸใงใ™ใ€‚
06:41
It makes you look like this.
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ใ“ใ‚“ใชๆ„Ÿใ˜ใซใชใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
06:43
When you write in all capital letters, it makes you look very angry.
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ใ™ในใฆๅคงๆ–‡ๅญ—ใงๆ›ธใใจใ€ ใจใฆใ‚‚ๆ€’ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่ฆ‹ใˆใพใ™ใ€‚
06:47
So what's going to happen if you write in all capital letters?
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ใงใฏใ€ ใ™ในใฆๅคงๆ–‡ๅญ—ใงๆ›ธใ„ใŸใ‚‰ใฉใ†ใชใ‚‹ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ‹๏ผŸ
06:51
A person's going to think, "Wow, this person is crazy, and they're very angry.
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ไบบใฏใ€Œใ†ใ‚ใ€ใ“ใฎ ไบบใฏ้ ญใŒใŠใ‹ใ—ใ„ใ€ใจใฆใ‚‚ๆ€’ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ€‚
06:56
I don't want to meet this person.
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ใ“ใฎไบบใซใฏไผšใ„ใŸใใชใ„ใ€‚
06:58
They're probably angry or very mad."
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ใŠใใ‚‰ใ ๆ€’ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ€้žๅธธใซๆ€’ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใ ใ‚ใ†ใ€‚ใ€ใจๆ€ใ†ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
07:04
So what do you do?
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ใใ‚Œใงใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏไฝ•ใ‚’ใ—ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
07:06
You use lowercase letters.
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ๅฐๆ–‡ๅญ—ใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
07:08
So I'll just fix "where" as an example.
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ไพ‹ใจใ—ใฆใ€Œใฉใ“ใ€ใ‚’ไฟฎๆญฃใ—ใพใ™ ใ€‚
07:14
And now that looks so much nicer, don't you think?
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่ฆ‹ใŸ็›ฎใŒใจใฆใ‚‚่‰ฏใใชใฃใŸใจ ๆ€ใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹?
07:16
Much less angry.
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ๆ€’ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚ๅฐ‘ใชใใชใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
07:17
All right, so now let's look at some other common things people do, and other common
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ใ•ใฆใ€ใใ‚Œใงใฏใ€ใ‚ชใƒณใƒฉใ‚คใƒณใƒ‡ใƒผใƒˆใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใจใใซ ไบบใ€…ใŒใ‚„ใฃใฆใ—ใพใ†ไป–ใฎไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใชใ“ใจใจใ€ไบบใ€…ใŒ็Šฏใ—ใ‚„ใ™ใ„ไป–ใฎ้–“้•ใ„ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใฟใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†
07:23
mistakes people make when they are doing online dating.
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07:28
Okay, so now I'm going to talk about some more mistakes that really are a turn-off in
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ใ•ใฆใ€ใใ‚Œใงใฏใ“ใ‚Œใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€
07:36
the dating world, especially with online dating.
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ใƒ‡ใƒผใƒˆใฎไธ–็•Œใ€ ็‰นใซใ‚ชใƒณใƒฉใ‚คใƒณใƒ‡ใƒผใƒˆใงๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ่ฟทๆƒ‘ใจใชใ‚‹ใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎ้–“้•ใ„ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
07:41
This next mistake is a little personal for me, and that's because it's a mistake my ex-boyfriend
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ๆฌกใฎ้–“้•ใ„ใฏ็งใซใจใฃใฆๅฐ‘ใ—ๅ€‹ไบบ็š„ใชใ‚‚ใฎใงใ™ ใŒใ€ใใ‚Œใฏ็งใฎๅ…ƒใƒœใƒผใ‚คใƒ•ใƒฌใƒณใƒ‰ใŒ
07:46
used to make all the time.
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ใ„ใคใ‚‚็Šฏใ—ใฆใ„ใŸ้–“้•ใ„ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™ใ€‚
07:50
And as an English teacher, that made me crazy; I hated this mistake.
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่‹ฑ่ชžๆ•™ๅธซใจใ—ใฆใ€ ใใ‚Œใฏ็งใ‚’ๅคขไธญใซใ•ใ›ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ใ“ใฎ้–“้•ใ„ใŒๅคงๅซŒใ„ใงใ—ใŸใ€‚
07:56
So I'm going to show you what the mistake is.
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ใใ“ใงใ€ ไฝ•ใŒ้–“้•ใ„ใชใฎใ‹ใ‚’่ชฌๆ˜Žใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
07:59
"Should've", "should've", or you might see somebody write it as "should've".
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ใ€Œใ™ในใใ ใฃใŸใ€ใ€ใ€Œใ™ในใใ ใฃใŸใ€ใ€ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ„ใฏ ใ€Œใ™ในใใ ใฃใŸใ€ใจๆ›ธใ„ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ไบบใ‚’่ฆ‹ใ‹ใ‘ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
08:07
And here I've written Emma's ex-boyfriend's mistake.
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ใใ—ใฆใ“ใ“ใซ ใ‚จใƒžใฎๅ…ƒใƒœใƒผใ‚คใƒ•ใƒฌใƒณใƒ‰ใฎ้–“้•ใ„ใ‚’ๆ›ธใใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
08:12
This makes me feel a little emotional thinking about this mistake.
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ใ“ใฎ้–“้•ใ„ใ‚’่€ƒใˆใ‚‹ใจใ€ๅฐ‘ใ—ๆ„Ÿๆƒ…็š„ใซใชใฃใฆใ—ใพใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
08:16
So what is the mistake here?
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ใงใฏใ€ใ“ใ“ใงใฎ้–“้•ใ„ใฏไฝ•ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ‹๏ผŸ
08:19
"Should've", that sounds right, doesn't it?
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ใ€Œใ™ในใใ ใฃใŸใ€ใ€ ใใ‚Œใฏๆญฃใ—ใ„ใงใ™ใญใ€‚
08:24
It's not correct.
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ใใ‚Œใฏๆญฃใ—ใใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
08:25
"Should've" actually is "should have".
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ใ€Œใ™ในใใ ใฃใŸใ€ใฏๅฎŸ้š›ใซใฏ ใ€Œใ™ในใใ ใฃใŸใ€ใงใ™ใ€‚
08:32
When we create a contraction or when we want to speak in conversational English, we often
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็Ÿญ็ธฎๅฝขใ‚’ไฝœๆˆใ™ใ‚‹ใจใใ€ใพใŸใฏ ่‹ฑไผš่ฉฑใง่ฉฑใ—ใŸใ„ใจใใ€
08:40
delete letters and put two words together.
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ๆ–‡ๅญ—ใ‚’ๅ‰Š้™คใ—ใฆ 2 ใคใฎๅ˜่ชžใ‚’็ตๅˆใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ˆใใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
08:45
These are known as contractions in English.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฏ่‹ฑ่ชžใงใฏ็Ÿญ็ธฎๅฝขใจใ—ใฆ็Ÿฅใ‚‰ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚
08:48
So we don't actually write "should've" because the word "of" is not in this.
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ใ“ใฎไธญใซใ€Œใฎใ€ใจใ„ใ†่จ€่‘‰ใŒๅซใพใ‚Œใฆใ„ใชใ„ใŸใ‚ใ€ๅฎŸ้š›ใซใฏใ€Œใ™ในใใ ใฃใŸใ€ใจใฏๆ›ธใใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚
08:54
We actually write "should've" where we have the apostrophe, we have a "v", and an "e".
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ๅฎŸ้š›ใซใฏใ€ ใ‚ขใƒใ‚นใƒˆใƒญใƒ•ใ‚ฃใ€ใ€Œvใ€ใ€ใ€Œeใ€ใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ๅ ดๆ‰€ใซใ€ŒShould'veใ€ใจๆ›ธใใพใ™ใ€‚
09:03
When do we use "should've" in English?
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่‹ฑ่ชžใงใ€Œในใใ ใฃใŸใ€ใฏใฉใ‚“ใชใจใใซไฝฟใ†ใฎ๏ผŸ ๅพŒๆ‚”ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ™
09:06
We often use it when we are talking about regrets.
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ใจใใซใ‚ˆใไฝฟใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚
09:10
So I'll give you an example.
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ใใ‚Œใงใฏไพ‹ใ‚’ๆŒ™ใ’ใฆใฟใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
09:11
Imagine you are dating somebody and you forget to call them because maybe you're feeling
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่ชฐใ‹ใจใƒ‡ใƒผใƒˆใ—ใฆใ„ใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ
09:17
tired, you had a long day at work, and so you're online, the person you're interested
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็–ฒใ‚Œใฆใ„ใŸใ‚Šใ€ไป•ไบ‹ใง้•ทใ„ไธ€ๆ—ฅใ‚’้Žใ”ใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ—ใฆใ€ ใ‚ชใƒณใƒฉใ‚คใƒณใซใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใใฎไบบใซ้›ป่ฉฑใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๅฟ˜ใ‚Œใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่ˆˆๅ‘ณใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ไบบใŒ
09:23
in is angry.
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ๆ€’ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจๆƒณๅƒใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
09:25
You might say to them, "Oh, I should've called you.
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ใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ใ€้›ป่ฉฑใ™ใ‚Œใฐ่‰ฏใ‹ใฃใŸใ€‚ใƒ†ใ‚ญใ‚นใƒˆใƒกใƒƒใ‚ปใƒผใ‚ธใ‚’้€ใ‚Œใฐ
09:30
I should've texted you.
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่‰ฏใ‹ใฃใŸใ€‚ใ‚‚ใฃใจ
09:32
I should've come earlier."
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ๆ—ฉใๆฅใ‚‹ในใใ ใฃใŸใ€‚ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
09:33
Okay?
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ใ‚ใ‹ใฃใŸ๏ผŸ ใ‚ชใƒณใƒฉใ‚คใƒณใƒ‡ใƒผใƒˆใงใฏๅพŒๆ‚”ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใ‚ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ€ใ‚ชใƒณใƒฉใ‚คใƒณใƒ‡ใƒผใƒˆใซใคใ„ใฆ
09:34
So we often use "should've" when we are talking about online dating because there are a lot
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่ฉฑใ™ใจใใฏใ€Œใ™ในใใ ใฃใŸใ€ใจใ„ใ†่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’ใ‚ˆใไฝฟใ„ใพใ™
09:39
of regrets with online dating that can happen.
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09:44
So "should've", no, never; "should've", this is even worse because this word doesn't exist.
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ใ€Œใ™ในใใ ใฃใŸใ€ใ€ใ„ใ„ใˆใ€ๆฑบใ—ใฆใใ†ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ€Œใ™ในใใ ใฃใŸใ€ใ€ ใ“ใฎ่จ€่‘‰ใŒๅญ˜ๅœจใ—ใชใ„ใŸใ‚ใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ•ใ‚‰ใซๆ‚ชใ„ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
09:54
It's just made up, so we'll get rid of that one.
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ใใ‚ŒใฏใŸใ ไฝœใ‚‰ใ‚ŒใŸใ‚‚ใฎใช ใฎใงใ€ใใ‚Œใ‚’ๅ‰Š้™คใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
09:58
It's the same with "would've".
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ใ€Œใ—ใŸใ‹ใฃใŸใ€ใ‚‚ๅŒๆง˜ใงใ™ใ€‚
10:01
We hear the word "of", but that's not actually what we are saying.
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ใ€Œใฎใ€ใจใ„ใ†่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’่žใใพใ™ ใŒใ€ๅฎŸ้š›ใซ่จ€ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏใใ†ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
10:06
What we are actually saying is "would have", and the contraction form of "would have" is
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็งใŸใกใŒๅฎŸ้š›ใซ่จ€ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใฏใ€Œwould haveใ€ใงใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ใ€Œ would haveใ€ใฎ็Ÿญ็ธฎๅฝขใฏ
10:16
"would", apostrophe, "ve", "would've", "should've".
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ใ€Œwouldใ€ใ€ใ‚ขใƒใ‚นใƒˆใƒญใƒ•ใ‚ฃใ€ใ€Œveใ€ใ€ ใ€Œwould'veใ€ใ€ใ€ŒShould'veใ€ใงใ™ใ€‚
10:21
You might even hear "could've".
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ใ€ŒใงใใŸใ€ใจใ„ใ†ๅฃฐใ‚‚่žใ“ใˆใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
10:24
None of these words have "of" in it.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ ๅ˜่ชžใซใฏใ€Œofใ€ใŒๅซใพใ‚Œใฆใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
10:29
Okay?
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ใ‚ใ‹ใฃใŸ๏ผŸ
10:30
Sorry, I got so passionate I made a bit of a mess on the board just now, but this is
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็”ณใ—่จณใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใŒใ€ๅ…ˆใปใฉๆƒ…็†ฑใŒ้ซ˜ใใชใ‚Šใ™ใŽใฆใƒœใƒผใƒ‰ใ‚’ๅฐ‘ใ—ๆฑšใ—ใฆใ—ใพใ„ใพใ—ใŸ ใŒใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ
10:34
a mistake I really hate seeing.
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ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ่ฆ‹ใŸใใชใ„้–“้•ใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
10:37
Okay, here is just a tip in general.
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ใ•ใฆใ€ ใ“ใ“ใงไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใชใƒ’ใƒณใƒˆใ‚’็ดนไป‹ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
10:44
Everyone makes mistakes; it happens.
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่ชฐใงใ‚‚ ้–“้•ใ„ใฏใ‚ใ‚‹; ใใ‚Œใฏ่ตทใ“ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
10:47
Maybe you make a mistake with "its" or "whose" or "their"; you use the wrong one.
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ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใŸใ‚‰ใ€ใ€Œใใ‚Œใ€ใ€ ใ€Œ่ชฐใ€ใ€ใพใŸใฏใ€Œๅฝผใ‚‰ใ€ใ‚’้–“้•ใˆใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ้–“้•ใฃใŸใ‚‚ใฎใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
10:53
It's very common, but in the online dating world, this is really going to impact your
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ้žๅธธใซไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใชใ“ใจใงใ™ใŒใ€ใ‚ชใƒณใƒฉใ‚คใƒณใƒ‡ใƒผใƒˆใฎไธ–็•Œใงใฏ ใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใชใŸใฎ
11:00
ability to find love.
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ๆ„›ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใ‚‹่ƒฝๅŠ›ใซๅคงใใชๅฝฑ้Ÿฟใ‚’ไธŽใˆใพใ™ใ€‚
11:02
So here is my tip; always, always, always edit.
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ใใ“ใงใ€ใ“ใ‚ŒใŒ็งใฎใƒ’ใƒณใƒˆใงใ™ใ€‚ ๅธธใซใ€ ๅธธใซใ€ๅธธใซ็ทจ้›†ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
11:09
Reread what you write.
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่‡ชๅˆ†ใฎๆ›ธใ„ใŸใ‚‚ใฎใ‚’่ชญใฟ็›ดใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ใŸใ 
11:11
Never just send a message; always read it carefully.
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ใƒกใƒƒใ‚ปใƒผใ‚ธใ‚’้€ไฟกใ™ใ‚‹ใ ใ‘ใงใฏๆฑบใ—ใฆใฏใ„ใ‘ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ๅธธใซๆณจๆ„ๆทฑใ่ชญใ‚“ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
11:15
And if you are not sure about, you know, which word to use or spelling, you can always look
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ใฉใฎ ๅ˜่ชžใ‚„ใ‚นใƒšใƒซใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚Œใฐใ‚ˆใ„ใ‹ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€ใ„ใคใงใ‚‚
11:23
on YouTube or there's a whole bunch of different English resources available.
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YouTube ใ‚’ๅ‚็…งใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ€ ใ•ใพใ–ใพใช่‹ฑ่ชžใƒชใ‚ฝใƒผใ‚นใŒใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
11:29
You can use a dictionary, but always check, because after you send out a message, that
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่พžๆ›ธใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใงใใพใ™ใŒใ€ ใƒกใƒƒใ‚ปใƒผใ‚ธใ‚’้€ไฟกใ—ใŸๅพŒใฏ
11:36
can really impact your dating.
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ใƒ‡ใƒผใƒˆใซๅคงใใชๅฝฑ้Ÿฟใ‚’ไธŽใˆใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใ€ๅฟ…ใš็ขบ่ชใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
11:40
Okay, so the next example of a common mistake people might make in the online dating world
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ใ•ใฆใ€ ใ‚ชใƒณใƒฉใ‚คใƒณใƒ‡ใƒผใƒˆใฎไธ–็•Œใงไบบใ€…ใŒ็Šฏใ™ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใฎใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใใ‚ใ‚‹้–“้•ใ„ใฎๆฌกใฎไพ‹ใฏใ€
11:48
is they might confuse "then" or "than".
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ใ€Œthenใ€ใจใ€Œthanใ€ใ‚’ๆททๅŒใ™ใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
11:54
This is a very easy mistake to make, and it's because these words sound alike in English,
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ้žๅธธใซ้–“้•ใ„ใ‚„ใ™ใ„้–“้•ใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎๅ˜่ชžใฏ่‹ฑ่ชžใงใฏไผผใฆใ„ใพใ™ใŒใ€
12:00
but they have very different meanings.
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ๆ„ๅ‘ณใฏๅคงใใ็•ฐใชใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใงใ™ใ€‚
12:04
I'm going to make a confession now.
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ไปŠใ‹ใ‚‰ๅ‘Š็™ฝใ™ใ‚‹ใคใ‚‚ใ‚Šใงใ™ใ€‚
12:06
This is actually my own sister's most common mistake in English.
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ใ“ใ‚ŒใฏๅฎŸ้š›ใ€็งใฎๅฆนใŒ ่‹ฑ่ชžใงๆœ€ใ‚‚ใ‚ˆใ็Šฏใ™้–“้•ใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
12:13
It breaks my heart as an English teacher, but my sister always makes this mistake.
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่‹ฑ่ชžๆ•™ๅธซใจใ—ใฆ่ƒธใŒ็—›ใ‚€ใฎใงใ™ ใŒใ€ๅง‰ใฏใ„ใคใ‚‚ใ“ใฎ้–“้•ใ„ใ‚’็Šฏใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
12:19
So, this is for you, Audra; do not make this mistake anymore.
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ใใ‚Œใงใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใชใŸใฎใŸใ‚ใฎใ‚‚ใฎใงใ™ใ€ ใ‚ชใƒผใƒ‰ใƒฉใ€‚ ใ‚‚ใ†ใ“ใฎ้–“้•ใ„ใ‚’ใ—ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
12:26
What do you use, "then" or "than"?
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ใ€Œใใ‚Œใงใฏใ€ใจใ€Œใ‚ˆใ‚Šใ€ใฏใฉใกใ‚‰ใ‚’ไฝฟใ„ใพใ™ใ‹?
12:29
Well, notice I have a little clock here.
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ใ•ใฆใ€ ใ“ใ“ใซๅฐใ•ใชๆ™‚่จˆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซๆณจ็›ฎใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
12:33
This clock means we're talking about time.
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ใ“ใฎๆ™‚่จˆใฏ ๆ™‚้–“ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
12:36
"Then" is used to talk about time.
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ใ€ŒใใฎๅพŒใ€ใฏ ๆ™‚้–“ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ™ใจใใซไฝฟใ‚ใ‚Œใพใ™ใ€‚ ็‰ฉไบ‹ใฎ้ †ๅบใชใฉ
12:41
We use it when we are talking about, like, an order of things.
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ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ™ใจใใซไฝฟใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚
12:47
So, for example, if you think about how to tie your shoe, first you put on your shoe,
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ใŸใจใˆใฐใ€ ้ดใฎ็ตใณๆ–นใ‚’่€ƒใˆใ‚‹ใจใ€ใพใš้ดใ‚’ๅฑฅใใ€
12:55
then you take the laces and you tie them.
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ๆฌกใซ้ด ็ดใ‚’ๅค–ใ—ใฆ็ตใณใพใ™ใ€‚
12:58
So, we're talking about a sequence of events.
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ใคใพใ‚Šใ€ ไธ€้€ฃใฎๅ‡บๆฅไบ‹ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ™ใ€‚
13:02
What order something happens in, that's when we use "then".
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ไฝ•ใ‹ใŒใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใช้ †ๅบใง่ตทใ“ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ€ ใใ‚ŒใŒใ€Œthenใ€ใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใจใใงใ™ใ€‚
13:07
When we're telling stories, we use "then" to talk about the order of what happened.
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็‰ฉ่ชžใ‚’่ชžใ‚‹ใจใใ€็งใŸใกใฏ ไฝ•ใŒ่ตทใ“ใฃใŸ้ †ๅบใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ™ใฎใซใ€ŒใใฎๅพŒใ€ใ‚’ไฝฟใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
13:13
This is very different from "than".
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ ใ€Œใ‚ˆใ‚Šใ€ใจใฏๅคงใใ็•ฐใชใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
13:16
"Than" is used to compare two things.
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ใ€Œthanใ€ใฏ 2ใคใฎใ‚‚ใฎใ‚’ๆฏ”่ผƒใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใซไฝฟใ‚ใ‚Œใพใ™ใ€‚
13:19
So, you'll see here two people.
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ใใ‚Œใงใ€ใ“ใ“ใซ2ไบบใŒ่ฆ‹ใˆใพใ™ใ€‚
13:23
This person is taller than this person.
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ใ“ใฎไบบใฏ ใ“ใฎไบบใ‚ˆใ‚Š่ƒŒใŒ้ซ˜ใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
13:28
So, when we compare, we use "than", and when we're talking about time, we use "then".
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ๆฏ”่ผƒใ™ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€Œthanใ€ใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใ€ ๆ™‚้–“ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ™ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€Œthenใ€ใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
13:36
Alright, so now let's look at a couple other common mistakes people make and how to fix
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ใ•ใฆใ€ใใ‚Œใงใฏใ€ ไบบใŒ็Šฏใ™ไป–ใฎใ‚ˆใใ‚ใ‚‹้–“้•ใ„ใจใใฎไฟฎๆญฃๆ–นๆณ•ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใฟใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†
13:43
them, because I want you all to find love.
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ใ€‚ ็š†ใ•ใ‚“ใซๆ„›ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใฆใปใ—ใ„ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™ใ€‚
13:46
This next tip is probably my favourite one, because it's actually really changed my own
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ๆฌกใฎใƒ’ใƒณใƒˆใฏใ€ใŠใใ‚‰ใ็งใŒๆœ€ใ‚‚ๆฐ—ใซๅ…ฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใƒ’ใƒณใƒˆใงใ™ใ€‚ ใชใœใชใ‚‰ใ€ใ“ใฎใƒ’ใƒณใƒˆใŒๅฎŸ้š›ใซ็ง่‡ช่บซใฎๆ–‡็ซ ใ‚’ๅคงใใๅค‰ใˆใŸใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™
13:52
writing.
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13:54
What is the tip?
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ใƒ’ใƒณใƒˆใฏไฝ•ใงใ™ใ‹?
13:56
Well, when you write anything, it's important to think about the audience, or the person
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ใใ†ใงใ™ใญใ€ไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’ๆ›ธใใจใใฏใ€ ่ชญ่€…ใ€ใคใพใ‚Š
14:03
who will read what you write.
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่‡ชๅˆ†ใฎๆ›ธใ„ใŸใ‚‚ใฎใ‚’่ชญใ‚€ไบบใฎใ“ใจใ‚’่€ƒใˆใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒ้‡่ฆใงใ™ใ€‚
14:06
What you want to do is make what you write as easy to understand and as easy to read
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ—ใŸใ„ใฎใฏใ€่‡ชๅˆ†ใŒๆ›ธใ„ใŸใ‚‚ใฎใ‚’ใงใใ‚‹ ใ ใ‘็†่งฃใ—ใ‚„ใ™ใใ€่ชญใฟใ‚„ใ™ใ„ใ‚‚ใฎใซใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™
14:13
as you can.
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14:15
So, one way to make things easier to read is to use paragraphs and to use space.
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€่ชญใฟใ‚„ใ™ใใ™ใ‚‹ 1 ใคใฎๆ–นๆณ•ใฏใ€ ๆฎต่ฝใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใ€ใ‚นใƒšใƒผใ‚นใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
14:24
If you look at these two different...
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ 2 ใคใฎ็•ฐใชใ‚‹ใ‚‚ใฎใ‚’่ฆ‹ใ‚‹ใจ...
14:27
Imagine these are computer screens.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใŒใ‚ณใƒณใƒ”ใƒฅใƒผใ‚ฟใƒผใฎ็”ป้ขใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใจๆƒณๅƒใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ ใ€‚
14:30
If I look at this, and these are...
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใ€ ใ“ใ‚ŒใŒโ€ฆ
14:31
I know I just drew lines, but imagine these are words.
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็ทšใ‚’ๅผ•ใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใ ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ ใŒใ€ใ“ใ‚ŒใŒๆ–‡ๅญ—ใ ใจๆƒณๅƒใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
14:35
If I look at this, I might feel like, "Wow, that's a lot of writing.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’่ฆ‹ใŸใ‚‰ใ€ ใ€Œใ†ใ‚ใƒผใ€ใŸใใ•ใ‚“ๆ›ธใ„ใฆใ‚ใ‚‹ใ€‚ๅ…จ้ƒจ่ชญใฟใŸใ
14:39
I don't really want to read all of that.
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ใชใ„ใ€‚
14:41
I'm feeling tired, there's too much, I'm not going to read it."
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็–ฒใ‚ŒใŸใ€ๅคšใ™ใŽใ‚‹ใ€ ่ชญใพใชใ„ใ€ใจๆ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ€‚ใ€
14:47
So this actually happens a lot with online dating.
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ๅฎŸ้š›ใ€ ใ‚ชใƒณใƒฉใ‚คใƒณใƒ‡ใƒผใƒˆใงใฏใ“ใ‚ŒใŒใ‚ˆใ่ตทใ“ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ๆ–‡็ซ ใ‚’
14:51
When people write too much, and they don't use paragraphs, and they don't use spacing,
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ๆ›ธใใ™ใŽใŸใ‚Šใ€ ๆฎต่ฝใ‚„ใ‚นใƒšใƒผใ‚นใ‚’ไฝฟใ‚ใชใ‹ใฃใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ใจใ€
14:58
other people don't want to read, because they feel like they're reading a novel, okay, instead
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ไป–ใฎไบบใฏ่ชญใฟใŸใใชใใชใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ๅ˜็ด”ใชใƒกใƒƒใ‚ปใƒผใ‚ธใง ใฏใชใใ€ๅฐ่ชฌใ‚’่ชญใ‚“ใงใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใชๆฐ—ๅˆ†ใซใชใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™ใ€‚
15:03
of just a simple message.
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15:05
Now, if you look at the second screen, I have lots of space, okay?
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2 ็•ช็›ฎใฎ็”ป้ขใ‚’่ฆ‹ใ‚‹ใจใ€ ใ‚นใƒšใƒผใ‚นใŒใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใญใ€‚
15:12
So I have just a couple points, space, couple points, space, couple points.
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ใคใพใ‚Šใ€ๆ•ฐ็‚นใ€ใ‚นใƒšใƒผใ‚นใ€ ๆ•ฐ็‚นใ€ใ‚นใƒšใƒผใ‚นใ€ๆ•ฐ็‚นใ—ใ‹ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
15:18
This is way easier on the eyes.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ็›ฎใซใจใฆใ‚‚ๅ„ชใ—ใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
15:22
So when somebody sees messages like this, they're more likely to read them because they're
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ใใฎใŸใ‚ใ€ใ“ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใชใƒกใƒƒใ‚ปใƒผใ‚ธใ‚’่ฆ‹ใŸไบบใฏใ€ๅœงๅ€’ใ•ใ‚Œใšใซ ่ชญใ‚€ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒ้ซ˜ใใชใ‚Šใพใ™
15:28
not overwhelmed.
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15:29
They don't feel stressed seeing so much writing.
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใ€ ใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใฎๆ›ธใ่พผใฟใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๆ„Ÿใ˜ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
15:33
Something like this looks easy to read, and it looks like it's going to be a quick read.
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ใ“ใ†ใ„ใ†ใฎใฏ่ชญใฟใ‚„ใ™ใใ†ใ ใ—ใ€ ใ‚ใฃใจใ„ใ†้–“ใซ่ชญใ‚ใใ†ใงใ™ใ€‚
15:38
So when you write, use lots of space and use paragraphs.
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ๆ–‡็ซ ใ‚’ๆ›ธใใจใใฏใ€ ๅคšใใฎใ‚นใƒšใƒผใ‚นใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใ€ๆฎต่ฝใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
15:45
So what is a paragraph?
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ใงใฏใ€ๆฎต่ฝใจใฏไฝ•ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ‹?
15:47
Well, in English, we usually write things in maybe four to five sentences per paragraph.
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่‹ฑ่ชžใงใฏ้€šๅธธใ€1 ๆฎต่ฝใ‚ใŸใ‚Š 4 ๏ฝž 5 ๆ–‡ใง็‰ฉไบ‹ใ‚’ๆ›ธใใพใ™ใ€‚
15:55
A paragraph is just - we explain an idea in a paragraph.
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ๆฎต่ฝใจใฏใ€ ใ‚ขใ‚คใƒ‡ใ‚ขใ‚’ๆฎต่ฝใง่ชฌๆ˜Žใ™ใ‚‹ใ ใ‘ใงใ™ใ€‚
16:03
So if you are talking about an idea, maybe you have three things to say about this idea,
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ใ‚ขใ‚คใƒ‡ใ‚ขใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใ€ใŠใใ‚‰ใ ใ“ใฎใ‚ขใ‚คใƒ‡ใ‚ขใซใคใ„ใฆ่จ€ใ„ใŸใ„ใ“ใจใŒ 3 ใคใ‚ใ‚Šใ€
16:09
you would write that in one paragraph.
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ใใ‚Œใ‚’ 1 ใคใฎๆฎต่ฝใงๆ›ธใใ“ใจใซใชใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
16:12
And then you have a second idea, you write about that in the next paragraph.
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ใใ—ใฆใ€2 ใค็›ฎใฎใ‚ขใ‚คใƒ‡ใ‚ขใŒๆ€ใ„ใคใใ€ ใใ‚Œใซใคใ„ใฆใฏๆฌกใฎๆฎต่ฝใงๆ›ธใใพใ™ใ€‚
16:18
So idea equals paragraph, new idea equals a new paragraph.
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ใคใพใ‚Šใ€ใ‚ขใ‚คใƒ‡ใ‚ขใฏๆฎต่ฝใซ็›ธๅฝ“ใ—ใ€ ๆ–ฐใ—ใ„ใ‚ขใ‚คใƒ‡ใ‚ขใฏๆ–ฐใ—ใ„ๆฎต่ฝใซ็›ธๅฝ“ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
16:25
And so, for example, here we have three paragraphs.
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ใŸใจใˆใฐใ€ ใ“ใ“ใซใฏ 3 ใคใฎๆฎต่ฝใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
16:28
We have one paragraph, two paragraph, three paragraphs.
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1 ๆฎต่ฝใ€ 2 ๆฎต่ฝใ€3 ๆฎต่ฝใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
16:33
A paragraph essentially is how we organize our ideas.
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ๆฎต่ฝใฏๆœฌ่ณช็š„ใซใ€ ใ‚ขใ‚คใƒ‡ใ‚ขใ‚’ๆ•ด็†ใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ™ใ€‚
16:38
So, to become a better writer, especially in online dating, think about the audience.
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€็‰นใซใ‚ชใƒณใƒฉใ‚คใƒณใƒ‡ใƒผใƒˆใซใŠใ„ใฆใ‚ˆใ‚Š่‰ฏใ„ใƒฉใ‚คใ‚ฟใƒผใซใชใ‚‹ใซใฏ ใ€่ชญ่€…ใฎใ“ใจใ‚’่€ƒใˆใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
16:47
Think about what is easiest for the audience.
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่ฆ–่ด่€…ใซใจใฃใฆไฝ•ใŒๆœ€ใ‚‚็ฐกๅ˜ใ‹ใ‚’่€ƒใˆใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
16:50
What would you like to read?
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ไฝ•ใ‚’่ชญใฟใŸใ„ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
16:52
Sometimes I like to think about that.
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ๆ™‚ใ€… ใใ‚Œใซใคใ„ใฆ่€ƒใˆใ‚‹ใฎใŒๅฅฝใใงใ™ใ€‚
16:53
What makes it easier for me to read something?
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ไฝ•ใŒ่ชญใฟใ‚„ใ™ใใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ‹?
16:56
And then I follow those tips myself.
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ใใ—ใฆใ€็ง ่‡ช่บซใ‚‚ใใฎใƒ’ใƒณใƒˆใซๅพ“ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
16:59
Okay, final tip for today.
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ใ•ใฆใ€ไปŠๆ—ฅใฎๆœ€ๅพŒใฎใƒ’ใƒณใƒˆใงใ™ใ€‚
17:05
It has to do with the word "can't".
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ใใ‚Œใฏ ใ€Œใงใใชใ„ใ€ใจใ„ใ†่จ€่‘‰ใจ้–ขไฟ‚ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
17:08
I have here three words - "can't", "cannot", "cannot".
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ใ“ใ“ใซใฏใ€Œใงใใชใ„ใ€ใ€ ใ€Œใงใใชใ„ใ€ใ€ใ€Œใงใใชใ„ใ€ใจใ„ใ† 3 ใคใฎๅ˜่ชžใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ชใƒณใƒฉใ‚คใƒณใƒ‡ใƒผใƒˆใซ้–ขใ—ใฆใฏใ€ใใฎใ†ใก
17:14
One of these is really good to write when it comes to online dating.
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ใฎ1ใคใ‚’ๆ›ธใใฎใŒๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ่‰ฏใ„ใงใ™ ใ€‚
17:19
Two of these are not so good.
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ใ“ใฎใ†ใก 2 ใคใฏใ‚ใพใ‚Š่‰ฏใใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
17:21
Can you guess which is the best one to write and which ones are not the best ones to write?
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ใฉใ‚ŒใŒๆ›ธใใฎใซๆœ€้ฉใงใ€ ใฉใ‚ŒใŒๆ›ธใใฎใซๆœ€้ฉใงใฏใชใ„ใ‹ๆŽจๆธฌใงใใพใ™ใ‹?
17:25
Well, let's look at these.
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ใ•ใฆใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใฟใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
17:28
I have the same sentence here.
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ใ“ใ“ใซใ‚‚ๅŒใ˜ๆ–‡ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
17:29
I can't go.
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่กŒใ‘ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
17:31
I can space not go, or I cannot go as one word.
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็งใฏๅฎ‡ๅฎ™ใซ่กŒใ‘ใชใ„ใ€ ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ„ใฏไธ€่จ€ใง่จ€ใˆใฐ่กŒใ‘ใชใ„ใ€‚
17:39
So one of these, let's start with grammar.
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ใใฎ 1 ใคใจใ—ใฆใ€ ๆ–‡ๆณ•ใ‹ใ‚‰ๅง‹ใ‚ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
17:41
One of these is actually incorrect from a grammar perspective, okay?
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎใ†ใกใฎ 1 ใคใฏใ€ๆ–‡ๆณ•ใฎ่ฆณ็‚นใ‹ใ‚‰ใ™ใ‚‹ใจๅฎŸ้š›ใซใฏ้–“้•ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚
17:47
Which one is incorrect?
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ใฉใ‚ŒใŒ้–“้•ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹?
17:49
If you said this one, you are correct.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’่จ€ใฃใŸใชใ‚‰ใ€ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๆญฃใ—ใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
17:53
"Cannot" is actually one word.
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ใ€Œใงใใชใ„ใ€ใฏๅฎŸ้š›ใซใฏ 1 ใคใฎๅ˜่ชžใงใ™ใ€‚
17:56
It's together.
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ไธ€็ท’ใ ใ‚ˆใ€‚
17:58
So this is actually not correct.
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ใ“ใ‚ŒใฏๅฎŸ้š›ใซใฏๆญฃใ—ใใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
18:00
"Cannot" is how we would write this.
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ใ€Œใงใใชใ„ใ€ใฏ ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’ๆ›ธใๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ™ใ€‚
18:03
I cannot go.
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่กŒใ‘ใชใ„ใ€‚
18:05
So this is correct from a grammar perspective, but when we're talking to people in online
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏๆ–‡ๆณ•ใฎ่ฆณ็‚นใ‹ใ‚‰ใฏๆญฃใ—ใ„ใฎใงใ™ ใŒใ€ใ‚ชใƒณใƒฉใ‚คใƒณใƒ‡ใƒผใƒˆใงไบบใ€…ใจ่ฉฑใ™ใจใใฏ
18:13
dating, we want to use conversational English.
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ใ€ ไผš่ฉฑ็š„ใช่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใŸใ„ใจ่€ƒใˆใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ็งใŸใกใฏ
18:18
We don't want to sound like we are a professor and that we are using the most formal English.
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ๆ•™ๆŽˆใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€ ๆœ€ใ‚‚ใƒ•ใ‚ฉใƒผใƒžใƒซใช่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซๆ€ใ‚ใ‚ŒใŸใใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
18:25
"Cannot" sounds very dramatic.
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18:29
It sounds like very formal English.
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ใจใฆใ‚‚ใƒ•ใ‚ฉใƒผใƒžใƒซใช่‹ฑ่ชžใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่žใ“ใˆใพใ™ ใ€‚
18:32
So if you use this, people might think that you are arrogant.
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใจใ€ ไบบใ€…ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒๅ‚ฒๆ…ขใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ‚ใ‚Œใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
18:36
It's actually better to use words like "can't", "I can't go", because this is actually what
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ใ€Œใงใใชใ„ใ€ใ€ ใ€Œ่กŒใ‘ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€ใชใฉใฎ่จ€่‘‰ใฏ
18:44
we use in everyday conversation.
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ๆ—ฅๅธธไผš่ฉฑใงๅฎŸ้š›ใซไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใ‚‚ใฎใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใ€ๅฎŸ้š›ใซใฏไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–นใŒ่‰ฏใ„ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
18:47
So even though "cannot" is correct from a grammar perspective, from a conversation perspective,
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ใใฎใŸใ‚ใ€ๆ–‡ๆณ•ใฎ่ฆณ็‚นใ‹ใ‚‰ใฏใ€Œcannotใ€ใŒๆญฃใ—ใ„ใจใ—ใฆใ‚‚ ใ€ไผš่ฉฑใฎ่ฆณ็‚นใ‹ใ‚‰่ฆ‹ใ‚‹ใจ
18:55
it seems too formal.
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ๅฝขๅผ็š„ใ™ใŽใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซๆ€ใˆใพใ™ใ€‚
18:57
So "can't" is the best one to use out of these three.
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ 3 ใคใฎไธญใงไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใซๆœ€้ฉใชใฎใฏใ€Œcan'tใ€ใงใ™ ใ€‚
19:01
So we have covered a lot.
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ไปฅไธŠใ€ใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใฎใ“ใจใ‚’ๅ–ใ‚ŠไธŠใ’ใฆใใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
19:03
I hope you've learned a lot because, again, the purpose of this video is to help you find
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ใ‚‚ใ†ไธ€ๅบฆ่จ€ใ„ใพใ™ใŒใ€ ใ“ใฎใƒ“ใƒ‡ใ‚ชใฎ็›ฎ็š„ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒๆ„›ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๅŠฉใ‘ใ‚‹ใ“ใจ
19:10
love, or maybe you have love and you have friends who are looking for love, so you can
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ใ€ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ„ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใซใฏๆ„›ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ๆ„›ใ‚’ ๆŽขใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ‹้”ใŒใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใชใ„ใฎใงใ€ใ‚ชใƒณใƒฉใ‚คใƒณใƒ‡ใƒผใƒˆใซใคใ„ใฆ
19:16
give great advice now about online dating.
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ไปŠใ™ใ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ใ‚ขใƒ‰ใƒใ‚คใ‚นใ‚’ไธŽใˆใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใ‚‹ใฎใงใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๅคšใใ‚’ๅญฆใ‚“ใ ใ“ใจใ‚’้ก˜ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚
19:20
These tips are really important because they really matter.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎใƒ’ใƒณใƒˆใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ้‡่ฆใช ใฎใงใ€้žๅธธใซ้‡่ฆใงใ™ใ€‚
19:24
If you make these mistakes, they really will impact your ability to find somebody online.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ้–“้•ใ„ใ‚’็Šฏใ™ใจใ€ ใ‚ชใƒณใƒฉใ‚คใƒณใง่ชฐใ‹ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใ‚‹่ƒฝๅŠ›ใซๅคงใใชๅฝฑ้Ÿฟใ‚’ไธŽใˆใพใ™ใ€‚
19:32
So be very careful when you write in online dating.
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ใ‚ชใƒณใƒฉใ‚คใƒณใƒ‡ใƒผใƒˆใซๆ›ธใ่พผใ‚€ใจใใฏ้žๅธธใซๆณจๆ„ใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ ใ€‚
19:37
We've covered a lot here.
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ใ“ใ“ใงใฏๅคšใใฎใ“ใจใ‚’ๅ–ใ‚ŠไธŠใ’ใฆใใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
19:38
Again, the key is practice.
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็นฐใ‚Š่ฟ”ใ—ใพใ™ใŒใ€้ตใฏ็ทด็ฟ’ใงใ™ใ€‚
19:42
Practice makes perfect.
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็ทด็ฟ’ใฏๅฎŒ็’งใ‚’ไฝœใ‚‹ใ€‚
19:43
If you don't know something, always double-check.
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ไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Œใฐใ€ ๅฟ…ใšๅ†็ขบ่ชใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
19:46
The internet is a great resource.
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ใ‚คใƒณใ‚ฟใƒผใƒใƒƒใƒˆใฏ ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ใƒชใ‚ฝใƒผใ‚นใงใ™ใ€‚
19:49
You can check my videos; I have tons of videos on different grammatical mistakes people make.
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็งใฎใƒ“ใƒ‡ใ‚ชใ‚’ใƒใ‚งใƒƒใ‚ฏใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ็งใซใฏใ€ ไบบใ€…ใŒ็Šฏใ™ใ•ใพใ–ใพใชๆ–‡ๆณ•ไธŠใฎ้–“้•ใ„ใซ้–ขใ™ใ‚‹ใƒ“ใƒ‡ใ‚ชใŒใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
19:54
There's a lot of different resources online.
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19:58
When you are first communicating with someone, that is the most important time to have good
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20:04
grammar because you are showing...
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20:07
It's a first impression, so you want to make a really good first impression and not make
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ็ฌฌไธ€ๅฐ่ฑกใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใ€ ้žๅธธใซ่‰ฏใ„็ฌฌไธ€ๅฐ่ฑกใ‚’ไธŽใˆใ€
20:12
mistakes.
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20:13
Maybe a little later, once people get to know you better.
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ใŠใใ‚‰ใๅฐ‘ใ—ๅพŒใ€ ไบบใ€…ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใฎใ“ใจใ‚’ใ‚‚ใฃใจใ‚ˆใ็Ÿฅใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใชใ‚‹ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
20:16
If you make the occasional mistake, maybe it's not as big of a deal, but when you're
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ใŸใพใซ้–“้•ใ„ใ‚’็Šฏใ™ใจใ—ใฆใ‚‚ใ€ ใใ‚Œใฏใใ‚Œใปใฉๅคงใ—ใŸใ“ใจใงใฏใชใ„ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใŒใ€
20:21
first meeting somebody, especially when it comes to dating, these things really do matter.
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ๅˆใ‚ใฆ่ชฐใ‹ใซไผšใ†ใจใใ€็‰นใซ ใƒ‡ใƒผใƒˆใซ้–ขใ—ใฆใฏใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎใ“ใจใŒๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ้‡่ฆใงใ™ใ€‚
20:27
So, I'd like to invite you to visit our website at www.engvid.com, and there you can actually
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ใใ“ใงใ€ๅฝ“็คพใฎ Web ใ‚ตใ‚คใƒˆ ( www.engvid.com) ใซใ‚ขใ‚ฏใ‚ปใ‚นใ—ใฆใ„ใŸใ ใใ€ใ‚ฏใ‚คใ‚บใซ็ญ”ใˆใฆใ€ใ“ใฎใƒ“ใƒ‡ใ‚ชใงๅญฆใ‚“ใ ๅ†…ๅฎนใ‚’ๅฎŸ้š›ใซ็ทด็ฟ’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™
20:34
practice what you learned in this video by taking our quiz.
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20:38
You can also subscribe to my YouTube channel; I have many different resources on grammar
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็งใฎ YouTube ใƒใƒฃใƒณใƒใƒซใซ็™ป้Œฒใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ๆ–‡ๆณ•ใ‚„ใ‚นใƒšใƒซใซ้–ขใ™ใ‚‹ใ•ใพใ–ใพใชใƒชใ‚ฝใƒผใ‚นใŒใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใ‚ใ‚‹ใฎใง
20:44
and spelling, and I highly recommend checking them out.
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ใ€ ใœใฒใƒใ‚งใƒƒใ‚ฏใ—ใฆใฟใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ใŠๅ‹งใ‚ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
20:49
Finally, you can check out my website at www.teacheremma.com for more free resources.
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ๆœ€ๅพŒใซใ€ ใใฎไป–ใฎ็„กๆ–™ใƒชใ‚ฝใƒผใ‚นใซใคใ„ใฆใฏใ€็งใฎ Web ใ‚ตใ‚คใƒˆ (www.Teacheremma.com) ใ‚’ใƒใ‚งใƒƒใ‚ฏใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
20:56
So, thank you for watching, everyone.
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ใใ‚Œใงใฏใ€็š†ใ•ใ‚“ใ€ใ”่ฆงใ„ใŸใ ใใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ”ใ–ใ„ใพใ—ใŸ ใ€‚
21:00
The thing I want you most to take away from this video is that grammar matters, especially
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ใ“ใฎใƒ“ใƒ‡ใ‚ชใ‹ใ‚‰ๆœ€ใ‚‚็†่งฃใ—ใฆใ‚‚ใ‚‰ใ„ใŸใ„ใฎใฏใ€็‰นใซ
21:08
when it comes to love and online dating.
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21:11
Okay?
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21:12
So, grammar...
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21:13
Grammar does matter.
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ๆ–‡ๆณ•ใฏ้‡่ฆใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ”
21:14
Thank you for watching, and until next time, take care.
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่ฆ–่ดใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ”ใ–ใ„ใพใ—ใŸใ€ ๆฌกๅ›žใพใงๆฐ—ใ‚’ใคใ‘ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
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