Speak English with Confidence | 5 Easy Tips For A Confident Voice

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English Like A Native


ไธ‹ใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžๅญ—ๅน•ใ‚’ใƒ€ใƒ–ใƒซใ‚ฏใƒชใƒƒใ‚ฏใ™ใ‚‹ใจๅ‹•็”ปใ‚’ๅ†็”Ÿใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ็ฟป่จณใ•ใ‚ŒใŸๅญ—ๅน•ใฏๆฉŸๆขฐ็ฟป่จณใงใ™ใ€‚

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Do you want to sound confident?
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00:02
Do you want people to have confidence in you when you speak?
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่ฉฑใ™ใจใใ€ไบบใ€…ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใซ่‡ชไฟกใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ‚‚ใ‚‰ใ„ใŸใ„ใงใ™ใ‹?
00:07
Sounding confident can make the world of difference in every aspect of your life,
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่‡ชไฟกใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่žใ“ใˆใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏใ€ไบบ็”Ÿใฎใ‚ใ‚‰ใ‚†ใ‚‹้ขใงๅคงใใช้•ใ„ใ‚’็”Ÿใ‚€ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ไปŠๆ—ฅใ‹ใ‚‰่‡ชไฟก
00:11
and I'm going to give you five very quick tips that you can put into place right now
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ใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆ่žใ“ใˆใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซใ€ไปŠใ™ใๅฎŸ่ทตใงใใ‚‹ 5 ใคใฎ้žๅธธใซ็ฐกๅ˜ใชใƒ’ใƒณใƒˆใ‚’็ดนไป‹ใ—ใพใ™
00:17
to start sounding confident today.
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00:19
I'm also going to let you into a very special little secret that will change everything.
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ใพใŸใ€ใ™ในใฆใ‚’ๅค‰ใˆใ‚‹้žๅธธใซ็‰นๅˆฅใชๅฐใ•ใช็ง˜ๅฏ†ใ‚’็ดนไป‹ใ—ใพใ™.
00:25
But before we start, real quick:
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ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ๅง‹ใ‚ใ‚‹ๅ‰ใซใ€็ฐกๅ˜ใซ่ชฌๆ˜Žใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
00:26
my name is Anna English, this is English Like a Native and if you are an English language learner,
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็งใฎๅๅ‰ใฏใ‚ขใƒณใƒŠ ใ‚คใƒณใ‚ฐใƒชใƒƒใ‚ทใƒฅใงใ™ใ€‚ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ‚คใƒณใ‚ฐใƒชใƒƒใ‚ทใƒฅ ใƒฉใ‚คใ‚ฏ ใ‚ข ใƒใ‚คใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒ–
00:32
then you're in the right place.
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ใงใ™ใ€‚
00:33
Just be sure to hit that subscribe button and the bell notification button so you don't miss any future lessons.
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ไปŠๅพŒใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใ‚’่ฆ‹้€ƒใ•ใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€่ณผ่ชญใƒœใ‚ฟใƒณใจใƒ™ใƒซใฎ้€š็Ÿฅใƒœใ‚ฟใƒณใ‚’ๅฟ…ใšๆŠผใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
00:39
Right, let's get started.
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ใงใฏใ€ๅง‹ใ‚ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
00:43
Number one: Choose the right voice type
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ใใฎ 1: ้ฉๅˆ‡ใชๅฃฐใฎใ‚ฟใ‚คใƒ—ใ‚’้ธๆŠžใ™ใ‚‹
00:46
Now, people will typically speak in one of three ways:
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็พๅœจใ€ไบบใ€…ใฏ้€šๅธธใ€ใƒ•ใ‚กใƒซใ‚ปใƒƒใƒˆใ€ใƒขใƒผใƒ€ใƒซใ€ใƒ•ใƒฉใ‚คใฎ 3 ใคใฎๆ–นๆณ•ใฎใ„ใšใ‚Œใ‹ใง่ฉฑใ—ใพใ™
00:49
with falsetto, in modal or with fry.
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00:54
Falsetto is higher in the range.
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ใƒ•ใ‚กใƒซใ‚ปใƒƒใƒˆใฏ็ฏ„ๅ›ฒๅ†…ใงใ‚ˆใ‚Š้ซ˜ใใชใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
00:56
It's very weak and wispy and doesn't sound very confident.
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ใใ‚Œใฏ้žๅธธใซๅผฑใใฆใ†ใฃใ™ใ‚‰ใจใ—ใฆใ„ใฆใ€ใ‚ใพใ‚Š่‡ชไฟกใŒใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่žใ“ใˆใพใ™ใ€‚
01:01
Someone who speaks with falsetto sounds a little bit like this.
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ใƒ•ใ‚กใƒซใ‚ปใƒƒใƒˆใง่ฉฑใ™ไบบใฏใ€ใ“ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่žใ“ใˆใพใ™ใ€‚
01:05
Many people say it's irritating to listen to.
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่žใ„ใฆใ„ใฆใ‚คใƒฉใ‚คใƒฉใ™ใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†ไบบใŒๅคšใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
01:09
It certainly doesn't instill a feeling of confidence in your listener,
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่žใๆ‰‹ใซ่‡ชไฟกใ‚’ไธŽใˆใ‚‹ใ‚ใ‘ใงใฏใชใ„
01:14
so avoid falsetto.
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ใฎใงใ€ใƒ•ใ‚กใƒซใ‚ปใƒƒใƒˆใฏ้ฟใ‘ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
01:16
At the bottom end of the range we have fry.
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็ฏ„ๅ›ฒใฎไธ‹้™ใซใฏ็จš้ญšใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
01:19
It's lowing your voice while bringing together the vocal folds very slowly, and it makes a creaking sound.
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ๅฃฐๅธฏใ‚’้žๅธธใซใ‚†ใฃใใ‚Šใจ่ฟ‘ใฅใ‘ใชใŒใ‚‰ๅฃฐใ‚’ไธ‹ใ’ใ€ใใ—ใ‚€ใ‚ˆใ†ใช้Ÿณใ‚’ๅ‡บใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
01:26
A bit like this.
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ใ“ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใชใƒ“ใƒƒใƒˆใ€‚
01:27
Hello, my name is Anna and I am teaching a lesson right now on voice confidence.
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ใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏใ€็งใฎๅๅ‰ใฏใ‚ขใƒณใƒŠใงใ™ใ€‚็งใฏไปŠใ€ๅฃฐใฎ่‡ชไฟกใซ้–ขใ™ใ‚‹ใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใ‚’ๆ•™ใˆใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
01:36
Culturally, this has become quite popular recently.
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ๆ–‡ๅŒ–็š„ใซใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏๆœ€่ฟ‘้žๅธธใซไบบๆฐ—ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
01:40
However, vocal fry is not a natural sound within the English language.
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ใŸใ ใ—ใ€ใƒœใƒผใ‚ซใƒซใƒ•ใƒฉใ‚คใฏ่‹ฑ่ชžใฎ่‡ช็„ถใช้Ÿณใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
01:45
It's also being debated as to whether it's healthy for the voice or not.
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ใพใŸใ€ๅฃฐใซใจใฃใฆๅฅๅบท็š„ใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹ใซใคใ„ใฆใ‚‚่ญฐ่ซ–ใ•ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
01:49
So, my advice is to avoid both fry and falsetto.
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ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€็งใฎใ‚ขใƒ‰ใƒใ‚คใ‚นใฏใƒ•ใƒฉใ‚คใจใƒ•ใ‚กใƒซใ‚ปใƒƒใƒˆใฎไธกๆ–นใ‚’้ฟใ‘ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
01:55
Let's go for the healthy modal voice.
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ๅฅๅบท็š„ใชใƒขใƒผใƒ€ใƒซใƒœใ‚คใ‚นใซ่กŒใใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
01:58
This will certainly make you sound more confident.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ็ขบใ‹ใซใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ‚ˆใ‚Š่‡ชไฟกใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆ่žใ“ใˆใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใชใ‚Šใพใ™.
02:01
If you're unsure whether you are using the right voice type or not, then try this little exercise:
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ๆญฃใ—ใ„ๅฃฐใฎใ‚ฟใ‚คใƒ—ใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹็ขบไฟกใŒๆŒใฆใชใ„ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€ๆฌกใฎๅฐใ•ใชใ‚จใ‚ฏใ‚ตใ‚ตใ‚คใ‚บใ‚’่ฉฆใ—ใฆ
02:07
in the middle of your range, so not pushing the voice up or down, standing up straight, say for me
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ใใ ใ•ใ„: ้ŸณๅŸŸใฎ็œŸใ‚“ไธญใงใ€ๅฃฐใ‚’ไธŠใ’ใŸใ‚Šไธ‹ใ’ใŸใ‚Šใ›ใšใ€ใพใฃใ™ใ็ซ‹ใฃใฆใ€็งใซไปฃใ‚ใฃใฆ่จ€ใฃใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
02:19
It's got what we call a glottal onset.
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ๅฃฐ้–€็™บ็—‡ใ€‚
02:21
It's a very strong onset.
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ใใ‚Œใฏ้žๅธธใซๅผทๅŠ›ใช็™บ็”Ÿใงใ™ใ€‚
02:27
Now take that feeling and make the sentence "Everybody eats apples",
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ใงใฏใ€ใใฎๆ„Ÿ่ฆšใ‚’ๅ–ใ‚Šๅ…ฅใ‚Œใฆใ€ใ€ŒEverybody eats applesใ€ใจใ„ใ†ๆ–‡ใ‚’ไฝœๆˆใ—ใฆใ€
02:35
and feel that same glottal onset: everyone - eats - apples.
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ๅŒใ˜ๅฃฐ้–€็™บ็—‡ใ‚’ๆ„Ÿใ˜ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
02:42
Everyone eats apples.
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ใฟใ‚“ใชใ‚Šใ‚“ใ”ใ‚’้ฃŸในใพใ™ใ€‚
02:45
And there, hopefully, you'll've found a nice strong modal voice.
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ใ†ใพใใ„ใ‘ใฐใ€็ด ๆ•ตใงๅผทใ„ใƒขใƒผใƒ€ใƒซใƒœใ‚คใ‚นใŒ่ฆ‹ใคใ‹ใ‚‹ใฏใšใงใ™ใ€‚
02:52
Number two: Speak at the right speed
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ใใฎ 2: ้ฉๅˆ‡ใช้€Ÿๅบฆใง
02:56
A lot of people will speak too fast, and some people speak too slow.
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่ฉฑใ™ ๅคšใใฎไบบใฏ่ฉฑใ™ใฎใŒ้€Ÿใ™ใŽใพใ™ใŒใ€่ฉฑใ™ใฎใŒ้…ใ™ใŽใ‚‹ไบบใ‚‚ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
03:00
But very few people speak at the right pace.
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ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€้ฉๅˆ‡ใชใƒšใƒผใ‚นใง่ฉฑใ™ไบบใฏใปใจใ‚“ใฉใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
03:04
Those people who speak too slow tend to add lots of pauses and drag the words out
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่ฉฑใ™ใฎใŒ้…ใ™ใŽใ‚‹ไบบใฏใ€ๅคšใใฎไผ‘ๆญขใ‚’ๅŠ ใˆใŸใ‚Šใ€่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’้•ทๅผ•ใ‹ใ›ใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ๅ‚พๅ‘ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใ€
03:16
and they sound like they're not quite sure what they're going to say next.
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ๆฌกใซไฝ•ใ‚’่จ€ใŠใ†ใจใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใ‹ใ‚ˆใใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่žใ“ใˆใพใ™ใ€‚
03:20
That doesn't make me feel very confident as a listener.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใงใฏ่žใๆ‰‹ใจใ—ใฆ่‡ชไฟกใŒๆŒใฆใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
03:24
It also can bore the listener, so get to the point!
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่žใๆ‰‹ใ‚’้€€ๅฑˆใ•ใ›ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚‹ใฎใง่ฆ็‚นใ‚’ๆŠผใ•ใˆใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†๏ผ
03:28
However, if you speed through what you're saying, then it sounds like you just really, really want to get it out
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ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่จ€ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ใ‚นใƒ”ใƒผใƒ‰ใ‚ขใƒƒใƒ—ใ™ใ‚‹ใจใ€
03:34
because you're not very confident and you just want to leave and you don't really want to speaking right now
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่‡ชไฟกใŒใชใใ€ใŸใ ๅŽปใ‚ŠใŸใ„ใ ใ‘ใงใ€ไปŠใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ่ฉฑใ—ใŸใใฏใชใ„ใฎใงใ€ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซใ€ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซใใ‚Œใ‚’ๆ˜Žใ‚‰ใ‹ใซใ—ใŸใ„ใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่žใ“ใˆใพใ™.
03:38
so you just talk talk talk talk talk talk talk.
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ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใŸใ ่ฉฑใ™่ฉฑ่ฉฑ่ฉฑ่ฉฑ่ฉฑ่ฉฑ่ฉฑ่ฉฑใ€‚
03:40
And if you speak too fast, people just shut down.
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๆ—ฉๅฃใง่ฉฑใ™ใจใ€ไบบใ€…ใฏๅฃใ‚’้–‰ใ–ใ—ใฆใ—ใพใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
03:43
They stop listening, they just look at you and smile and nod and go "okay".
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ่žใใฎใ‚’ใ‚„ใ‚ใ€ใŸใ ใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆๅพฎ็ฌ‘ใ‚“ใงใ†ใชใšใใ€ใ€Œๅคงไธˆๅคซใ€ใจ่จ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
03:49
The best thing to do is to take a deep breath, to have a generally steady pace, adding in a few pauses
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ๆœ€ๅ–„ใฎๆ–นๆณ•ใฏใ€ๆทฑๅ‘ผๅธใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ€ใ‚นใƒ”ใƒผใƒใฎ้‡่ฆใชใƒใ‚คใƒณใƒˆใงใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎไธ€ๆ™‚ๅœๆญขใ‚’่ฟฝๅŠ ใ—ใฆใ€ไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใซๅฎ‰ๅฎšใ—ใŸใƒšใƒผใ‚นใ‚’ไฟใคใ“ใจ
03:58
at important points in the speech.
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ใงใ™.
04:01
What I tend to do is watch videos of incredible public speakers.
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็งใŒใ™ใ‚‹ๅ‚พๅ‘ใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใฎใฏใ€ไฟกใ˜ใ‚‰ใ‚Œใชใ„ใปใฉใฎ่ฌ›ๆผ”่€…ใฎใƒ“ใƒ‡ใ‚ชใ‚’่ฆ‹ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
04:05
You'll notice that they have a nice steady pace and they allow big pauses
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ไธ€ๅฎšใฎใƒšใƒผใ‚นใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใ€
04:10
at points where they want to really give emphasis to a point, to allow the audience to think, and absorb.
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ๅฎŸ้š›ใซๅผท่ชฟใ—ใŸใ„ใƒใ‚คใƒณใƒˆใงๅคงใใชไธ€ๆ™‚ๅœๆญขใ‚’่จฑๅฏใ—ใ€่ด่ก†ใŒ่€ƒใˆใฆๅธๅŽใงใใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซๆฐ—ไป˜ใใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
04:19
Number three: Clarity
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04:22
There are many natives who are quite lazy with their diction.
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ๆ˜Žๅฟซใ• ่จ€่‘‰้ฃใ„ใŒใ‹ใชใ‚Šๆ€ ๆƒฐใชใƒใ‚คใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒ–ใŒใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
04:25
They miss off sounds, the ends of words, or in the middle of words.
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ้Ÿณใ€่จ€่‘‰ใฎ็ต‚ใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ใพใŸใฏ่จ€่‘‰ใฎ้€”ไธญใง่žใ้€ƒใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
04:29
They sometimes miss out complete syllables.
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏๆ™‚ใ€…ๅฎŒๅ…จใช้Ÿณ็ฏ€ใ‚’้€ƒใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
04:32
Don't follow their example.
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฎไพ‹ใซๅพ“ใ‚ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
04:34
Be in love with the language.
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่จ€่ชžใซๆ‹ใ‚’ใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
04:37
Enjoy making the sounds.
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้Ÿณไฝœใ‚Šใ‚’ๆฅฝใ—ใ‚“ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
04:40
Chew on the words.
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04:42
If you have better articulation and diction then people will just enjoy listening to you.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ‚ˆใ‚Š่‰ฏใ„็™บ้Ÿณใจ่จ€่‘‰้ฃใ„ใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚Œใฐใ€ไบบใ€…ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใฎ่ฉฑใ‚’่žใใฎใ‚’ๆฅฝใ—ใ‚€ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
04:48
Number four, nice and easy: Vocabulary
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ใใฎ 4 ใฏใ€็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ็ฐกๅ˜ใงใ™: ่ชžๅฝ™
04:52
Spend a little bit of time each day learning a new word or two.
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ๆ–ฐใ—ใ„ๅ˜่ชžใ‚’ 1 ใคใ‹ 2 ใคๅญฆ็ฟ’ใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซใ€ๆฏŽๆ—ฅๅฐ‘ใ—ใฎๆ™‚้–“ใ‚’่ฒปใ‚„ใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
04:56
Try to enrich your vocabulary so that you feel empowered and excited
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05:02
about the things that you're saying, rather than using the same old words over and over again.
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ๅŒใ˜ๅคใ„่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’ไฝ•ๅบฆใ‚‚ไฝฟใ†ใฎใงใฏใชใใ€่ชžๅฝ™ใ‚’่ฑŠใ‹ใซใ—ใฆใ€่‡ชๅˆ†ใŒ่จ€ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซๅŠ›ใ‚’ไธŽใˆใ€่ˆˆๅฅฎใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจๆ„Ÿใ˜ใ‚‰ใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
05:07
For example, if you say, uhm, "My business meeting was very good",
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ใŸใจใˆใฐใ€ใ€Œ็งใฎๅ•†่ซ‡ใฏใจใฆใ‚‚่‰ฏใ‹ใฃใŸใ€
05:12
and you always say that things are "very good",
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ใจ่จ€ใ„ใ€ใ„ใคใ‚‚ใ€Œใจใฆใ‚‚่‰ฏใ‹ใฃใŸใ€
05:14
then why not look up another way of saying "very good"?
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ใจ่จ€ใ†ใชใ‚‰ใ€ใ€Œใจใฆใ‚‚่‰ฏใ‹ใฃใŸใ€ใฎๅˆฅใฎ่จ€ใ„ๆ–นใ‚’่ชฟในใฆใฟใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹?
05:18
My business meeting was exciting.
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็งใฎใƒ“ใ‚ธใƒใ‚นใƒŸใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒณใ‚ฐใฏๅˆบๆฟ€็š„ใงใ—ใŸใ€‚
05:20
My business meeting was interesting.
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็งใฎๅ•†่ซ‡ไผšใฏ้ข็™ฝใ‹ใฃใŸใงใ™ใ€‚
05:23
My business meeting was inspiring.
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็งใฎใƒ“ใ‚ธใƒใ‚นใƒŸใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒณใ‚ฐใฏๅˆบๆฟ€็š„ใงใ—ใŸใ€‚
05:26
Number five: Body language
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ใใฎ 5: ใƒœใƒ‡ใ‚ฃใƒผ
05:29
Your body language can tell the audience so much.
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ใƒฉใƒณใ‚ฒใƒผใ‚ธ ใƒœใƒ‡ใ‚ฃใƒผ ใƒฉใƒณใ‚ฒใƒผใ‚ธใฏ่ด่ก†ใซๅคšใใฎใ“ใจใ‚’ไผใˆใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
05:32
So don't think that having a confident voice alone is going to be enough to convince your audience
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ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€่‡ชไฟกใซๆบ€ใกใŸๅฃฐใ ใ‘ใงใ€่ด่ก†
05:37
that you are confident and that they should believe in you.
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ใซใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่‡ชไฟกใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ€ใใ—ใฆใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ไฟกใ˜ใ‚‹ในใใ ใจ็ดๅพ—ใ•ใ›ใ‚‹ใฎใซๅๅˆ†ใ ใจใฏๆ€ใ‚ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
05:41
What you need to make sure is that you're not betraying yourself with any nervous tics
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็ขบ่ชใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใฎใฏใ€็ฅž็ตŒ่ณชใชใƒใƒƒใ‚ฏ็—‡ใ‚„ไฝ“ใฎๅฅ‡ๅฆ™ใช่กŒๅ‹•ใง่‡ชๅˆ†ใ‚’่ฃๅˆ‡ใฃใฆใ„ใชใ„ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
05:47
or any bizarre behaviours in your body
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05:50
For example, some people might tap with their hand or tap with their foot.
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ใŸใจใˆใฐใ€ๆ‰‹ใงใŸใŸใ„ใŸใ‚Šใ€่ถณใงใŸใŸใ„ใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ไบบใ‚‚ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
05:56
Some people might scratch a lot when they're nervous.
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็ทŠๅผตใ™ใ‚‹ใจใŸใใ•ใ‚“ๆŽปใ„ใฆใ—ใพใ†ไบบใ‚‚ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
06:00
Some people might wring their hands or constantly wipe their brow.
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ๆ‰‹ใ‚’็ตžใฃใŸใ‚Šใ€ๅธธใซ็œ‰ใ‚’ๆ‹ญใ„ใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ไบบใ‚‚ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
06:05
So just be aware of what you do physically when you feel nervous and try to keep that under control.
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ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€็ทŠๅผตใ—ใŸใจใใซ่บซไฝ“็š„ใซไฝ•ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚’ๆ„่ญ˜ใ—ใ€ใใ‚Œใ‚’ใ‚ณใƒณใƒˆใƒญใƒผใƒซใ™ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„.
06:13
A good confident speaker will have a very open posture: they won't cross their arms,
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่‡ชไฟกใซๆบ€ใกใŸ่ฉฑใ—ๆ‰‹ใฏใ€้žๅธธใซใ‚ชใƒผใƒ—ใƒณใชๅงฟๅ‹ขใ‚’ใจใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚่…•ใ‚’
06:19
they won't have their hands in their pockets; they'll be very open and relaxed.
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็ต„ใ‚“ใ ใ‚Šใ€ใƒใ‚ฑใƒƒใƒˆใซๆ‰‹ใ‚’ๅ…ฅใ‚ŒใŸใ‚Šใ—ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใจใฆใ‚‚ใ‚ชใƒผใƒ—ใƒณใงใƒชใƒฉใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚นใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
06:24
Just... be loose, and chill, and... yeah, relax.
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ใŸใ ... ใƒชใƒฉใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚นใ—ใฆใ€ใƒชใƒฉใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚นใ—ใฆใ€ใใ—ใฆ... ใˆใˆใ€ใƒชใƒฉใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚นใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
06:31
Alright, it's time for the big secret.
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ใ•ใฆใ€ๅคงใใช็ง˜ๅฏ†ใฎๆ™‚้–“ใงใ™ใ€‚
06:37
Okay.
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ใ‚ใ‹ใฃใŸใ€‚
06:39
The big secret, the trick, as to how to achieve a confident voice,
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่‡ชไฟกใซๆบ€ใกใŸๅฃฐใง
06:46
to make people confident in you when you speak is:
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่ฉฑใ—ใ€ไบบใ€…ใซ่‡ชไฟกใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ‚‚ใ‚‰ใ†ใŸใ‚ใฎ็ง˜่จฃใฏๆฌกใฎ
06:51
Pretend
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06:54
If you pretend to be confident, if you tell yourself "I am confident, I know what I'm talking about,
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ใจใŠใ‚Šใงใ™ใ€‚
07:03
they're gonna love me, and I'm just gonna go out there and pretend", something incredible happens.
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ็งใ‚’ๆ„›ใ—ใฆใใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ ใ‚ใ†ใ€ใใ—ใฆ็งใฏใŸใ ใใ“ใซๅ‡บใฆใตใ‚Šใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใคใ‚‚ใ‚Šใ ใ€ใจ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ€ไฟกใ˜ใ‚‰ใ‚Œใชใ„ใ“ใจใŒ่ตทใ“ใ‚Šใพใ™.
07:10
You go out there, pretending;
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใตใ‚Šใ‚’ใ—ใฆใใ“ใซๅ‡บใ‹ใ‘ใพใ™ใ€‚
07:13
the audience don't know that you are pretending, so the audience straight away relax,
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่ด่ก†ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒใตใ‚Šใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’็Ÿฅใ‚‰ใชใ„ใฎใงใ€่ด่ก†ใฏใ™ใใซใƒชใƒฉใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚นใ—
07:19
and they believe you, they go with it.
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ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ไฟกใ˜ใฆใ€ใใ‚ŒใซๅŒๆ„ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
07:21
And because they relax, and because they seem to believe you,
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒใƒชใƒฉใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚นใ—ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ไฟกใ˜ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่ฆ‹ใˆใ‚‹ใฎใงใ€
07:25
you naturally start to feel more and more confident.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ่‡ช็„ถใซใพใ™ใพใ™่‡ชไฟกใ‚’ๆŒใกๅง‹ใ‚ใพใ™.
07:29
So, suddenly, it's this big circle of you pretending, the audience believing,
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ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€็ช็„ถใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใตใ‚Šใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ€่ด่ก†ใŒไฟกใ˜ใ€
07:35
then you believing, and they believing and you believing, and you're confident, and they're confident,
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ๆฌกใซใ‚ใชใŸใŒไฟกใ˜ใฆใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒไฟกใ˜ใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒไฟกใ˜ใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่‡ชไฟกใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒ่‡ชไฟกใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆ
07:40
and you're confident; and voilร ... voilร ... voilร ... why am I speaking French?
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ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่‡ชไฟกใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ€ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใฎๅคงใใชๅ††ใŒ็ช็„ถใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใปใ‚‰...ใปใ‚‰...ใปใ‚‰...ใฉใ†ใ—ใฆ็งใฏใƒ•ใƒฉใƒณใ‚น่ชžใ‚’่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎ?
07:47
Uhm... I didn't even say it properly, I said "wala" it's "voilร ".
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ใ†ใƒผใ‚“โ€ฆใกใ‚ƒใ‚“ใจ่จ€ใฃใŸใ‚ใ‘ใ˜ใ‚ƒใชใ„ใ‘ใฉใ€ใ€Œใƒฏใƒฉใ€ใฃใฆ่จ€ใฃใกใ‚ƒใฃใŸใ€Œใปใ‚‰ใ€ใงใ™ใ€‚
07:52
Anyway, the point is, and trust me on this because I have done it countless times,
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ใจใซใ‹ใใ€ใƒใ‚คใƒณใƒˆใฏใ€็งใŒๆ•ฐใˆๅˆ‡ใ‚Œใชใ„ใปใฉใ‚„ใฃใŸใฎใงใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใซใคใ„ใฆ็งใ‚’ไฟก้ ผใ—ใฆ
07:57
if you go out there pretending that you are good, pretending that you are confident,
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ใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚่‡ชๅˆ†ใŒ่‰ฏใ„ใตใ‚Šใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ€่‡ชไฟกใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใตใ‚Šใ‚’ใ—ใฆๅ‡บใ‹ใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใ€
08:02
it will breed confidence.
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่‡ชไฟกใŒ็”Ÿใพใ‚Œใพใ™ใ€‚
08:05
Think of the alternative:
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ๅˆฅใฎๆ–นๆณ•ใ‚’่€ƒใˆใฆใฟใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
08:07
if you go out there thinking "I'm rubbish, I'm scared, they're not gonna like me,
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ใ€Œ็งใฏใใ ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ€ๆ€–ใ„ใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ็งใฎใ“ใจใ‚’ๅฅฝใใซใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ€็งใฎ
08:13
no one is gonna be interested in what I have to say", then that's going to be a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใซ่ชฐใ‚‚่ˆˆๅ‘ณใ‚’ๆŒใŸใชใ„ใ ใ‚ใ†ใ€ใจ่€ƒใˆใฆๅค–ใซๅ‡บใŸใ‚‰ใ€ใใ‚Œใฏ ่‡ชๅทฑ้”ๆˆ็š„ไบˆ่จ€ใ€‚
08:21
Okay, if you found this helpful, then don't forget to show your appreciation by giving it a thumb.
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ใ•ใฆใ€ใ“ใ‚ŒใŒๅฝนใซ็ซ‹ใฃใŸใจๆ€ใฃใŸใ‚‰ใ€่ฆชๆŒ‡ใ‚’็ซ‹ใฆใฆๆ„Ÿ่ฌใฎๆฐ—ๆŒใกใ‚’่กจใ™ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅฟ˜ใ‚Œใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„.
08:26
If you are not yet subscribed, then do press that subscribe button, I'm gonna stop eating my hair,
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ใพใ ่ณผ่ชญใ—ใฆใ„ใชใ„ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€ใใฎ่ณผ่ชญใƒœใ‚ฟใƒณใ‚’ๆŠผใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚็งใฏ้ซชใ‚’้ฃŸในใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ใ‚„ใ‚
08:31
and if you know anyone that you think would benefit from this lesson,
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ใพใ™ใ€‚ใ“ใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใ‹ใ‚‰ๆฉๆตใ‚’ๅ—ใ‘ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ‚ใ‚Œใ‚‹ไบบใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€
08:35
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ใใฎๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใƒœใ‚ฟใƒณใ‚’ใ‚ฏใƒชใƒƒใ‚ฏใ—ใฆไปŠใ™ใๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„.
08:40
Until next time, take care and goodbye!
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