British Mother's Day Mystery - Why It's NOT in May?

Hmm.

Did you know that Mother's Day in the UK is not celebrated in May?

In fact, it's coming up this Sunday.

But why do Brits celebrate Mother's Day earlier than the

rest of most of the world?

And why does the date change every single year?

Well, let's unravel this little mystery together.

In the uk, we don't just call it Mother's Day.

We can also call it Mothering Sunday.

And unlike the American version, which is fixed to the second

Sunday in May hours moves around.

That's because in the UK mothering Sunday is connected to Easter,

which follows the lunar calendar.

So British Mother's Day falls on the fourth Sunday of Lent.

Originally, it had nothing to do with mums at all.

It was a religious festival where people would return to their mother church.

That's the main church in their local area.

It was often the only day off for servants and apprentices in a whole year, so

they'd use that chance to visit home.

Over time, this tradition transformed into what we now know as Mother's Day.

A chance to say thank you to the amazing women who raised us with a card, a box

of chocolates, some flowers, or even a well deserved cup of tea in bed.

Let's now look at some common vocabulary that you might use on this special day.

Firstly, let me mention the most important word mum.

Mum.

In British English we spell this with A-U-M-U-M, and the pronunciation of

that middle vowel is ah, ah, mum, or in Northern English you might hear mum.

Mom.

Hey mom.

Next is to spoil someone.

This means to treat someone with extra kindness.

Treat them like they are extra special.

Usually for a special occasion you might spoil them.

Here is one of my favorites.

Breakfast in bed.

Breakfast in bed is simply serving someone their morning breakfast while

they are still in bed as a treat.

Although I have to be honest these days, I would be more concerned

about crumbs and spillages in my bed, so I'd actually be happier to come

down to the breakfast table next.

A bunch of flowers.

This is just the most common way to talk about a bouquet.

So if someone has gifted you a bouquet or you are thinking of getting a bouquet

for someone that you love, your mom perhaps, or your wife, then you could just

simply use the term a bunch of flowers.

The next few items of vocabulary are my favorites.

First it is.

Take it easy.

Take it.

Easy means relax.

Slow down.

Don't stress.

Don't worry.

Just relax.

Take it easy.

It's something that you'd say to somebody when you want them to relax.

Just take it easy.

Or you might decide yourself today.

I'm going to take it easy.

Very similar to that, is to take a load off.

To take a load off means to sit down and relax.

The idea that when you are standing is that you are holding weight, you are

holding a load, and being told to take a load off means sit down, take a load off.

Next we have another similar phrase, which is to put your feet up.

To put your feet up.

To put your feet up is another expression used to describe relaxing.

The idea that someone might sit back in a chair and put their feet up.

Ah, do you like my socks?

Da.

I love my colorful woolly socks.

And finally.

Quality time.

Quality time.

This is special time that you use to focus on relationship building.

So we often spend quality time.

With someone special.

And how about you?

Do you celebrate Mother's Day in your country?

If so, what day is it usually on?

And what are some of the traditions that you follow?

Please let me know in the comments.

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Now we're also coming up to Easter, so if you want to learn more about

Easter in the uk then I have a video for you to watch just here.

I'll also link in the description as well.

Until then, take very good care and goodbye.