Learn the English Phrases BACKHANDED COMPLIMENT and TO FISH FOR COMPLIMENTS

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Bob's Short English Lessons


μ•„λž˜ μ˜λ¬Έμžλ§‰μ„ λ”λΈ”ν΄λ¦­ν•˜μ‹œλ©΄ μ˜μƒμ΄ μž¬μƒλ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ²ˆμ—­λœ μžλ§‰μ€ 기계 λ²ˆμ—­λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.

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In this English lesson I wanted
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이번 μ˜μ–΄ μˆ˜μ—…μ—μ„œλŠ”
00:01
to help you learn the English term backhanded compliment.
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λ°±ν•Έλ“œ μΉ­μ°¬μ΄λΌλŠ” μ˜μ–΄ μš©μ–΄λ₯Ό λ°°μš°λŠ” 데 도움을 λ“œλ¦¬κ³  μ‹Άμ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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A compliment is something you say
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칭찬은 당신이
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to someone that's kind of nice.
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ—κ²Œ μΉœμ ˆν•˜κ²Œ λ§ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:09
Like if you said, "Your haircut looks good.
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당신이 "λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ 머리 λͺ¨μ–‘이 μ’‹μ•„ λ³΄μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:10
Your new haircut looks good."
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λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ μƒˆλ‘œμš΄ 머리 λͺ¨μ–‘이 μ’‹μ•„ λ³΄μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€."라고 λ§ν•˜λŠ” 것과 κ°™μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:11
Or, "Wow, you look really good in that shirt."
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λ˜λŠ” "μ™€μš°, κ·Έ μ…”μΈ  정말 잘 μ–΄μšΈλ¦¬λ„€μš”."
00:14
But a backhanded compliment is when you give a compliment,
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그런데 λ’·λ‹΄ν™” 칭찬은 칭찬을 ν–ˆμ„ λ•Œ ν•˜λŠ” 말인데
00:19
but it's actually an insult.
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사싀은 λͺ¨μš•μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:20
Here's a really good example.
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μ—¬κΈ° 정말 쒋은 μ˜ˆκ°€ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:22
I use a lot of technology when I make these videos,
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이 μ˜μƒμ„ λ§Œλ“€ λ•Œ λ§Žμ€ κΈ°μˆ μ„ μ‚¬μš©
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but I'm also old.
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 저도 λŠ™μ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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So a younger person could give me a backhanded compliment
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ Šμ€ μ‚¬λžŒμ΄
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if they said, "Wow, you make really good videos
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"와, 당신은 노인을 μœ„ν•΄ 정말 쒋은 λΉ„λ””μ˜€λ₯Ό λ§Œλ“€μ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
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for an old man."
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."
00:35
So basically they're saying something that sounds nice.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 기본적으둜 그듀은 μ’‹κ²Œ λ“€λ¦¬λŠ” 것을 λ§ν•˜κ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:38
"You make really good videos,"
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"당신은 정말 쒋은 λΉ„λ””μ˜€λ₯Ό λ§Œλ“­λ‹ˆλ‹€."
00:40
but then they add the little phrase, "for an old man,"
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 그듀은 μ•½κ°„μ˜ λͺ¨μš•μ μΈ "노인을 μœ„ν•΄"λΌλŠ” 짧은 문ꡬλ₯Ό μΆ”κ°€ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€
00:42
which is kind of a little bit of an insult.
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. 그건
00:44
By the way, no one's ever given me
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κ·Έλ ‡κ³ , 아무도 λ‚˜μ—κ²Œ
00:46
that backhanded compliment,
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λ°±ν•Έλ“œ 칭찬을 ν•œ 적이 μ—†μ§€λ§Œ
00:47
but that would be a good example
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그것은
00:49
of what one would sound like.
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€κ°€ μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ 듀릴지에 λŒ€ν•œ 쒋은 μ˜ˆκ°€ 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 였늘
00:51
The other phrase I wanted to teach you today
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μ œκ°€ μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ—κ²Œ κ°€λ₯΄μΉ˜κ³  μ‹Άμ—ˆλ˜ 또 λ‹€λ₯Έ ν‘œν˜„μ€
00:53
is the phrase to fish for compliments.
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칭찬을 λ‚šλŠ” ν‘œν˜„μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:56
When you fish for compliments,
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당신이 칭찬을 κ΅¬ν•œλ‹€λŠ” 것은
00:57
it means you're trying to get someone else
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λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ΄
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to compliment you.
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당신을 μΉ­μ°¬ν•˜λ„λ‘ ν•˜λ €λŠ” 것을 μ˜λ―Έν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:01
You might say something like, "How's my hair look?"
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"λ‚΄ 머리 μ–΄λ•Œ?"와 같이 말할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:03
Or, "Hey, do you notice anything different about me today?"
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λ˜λŠ” "이봐, 였늘 λ‚˜μ— λŒ€ν•΄ λ­”κ°€ 달라진 게 μžˆλ‹ˆ?"
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Both of those phrases would be considered
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이 두 λ¬Έκ΅¬λŠ” λͺ¨λ‘
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someone fishing for compliments.
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칭찬을 κ΅¬ν•˜λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒμœΌλ‘œ κ°„μ£Όλ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:10
So when you fish, you go to a river or lake
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ λ‚šμ‹œλ₯Ό ν•  λ•Œ κ°•μ΄λ‚˜ ν˜Έμˆ˜μ— κ°€μ„œ
01:13
and you try to catch a fish.
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λ¬Όκ³ κΈ°λ₯Ό 작으렀고 ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:14
When you fish for compliments, you say things to try
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칭찬을 κ΅¬ν•˜λŠ” 것은
01:18
and encourage the other person to say something nice to you.
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μƒλŒ€λ°©μ΄ λ‹Ήμ‹ μ—κ²Œ 쒋은 말을 ν•˜λ„λ‘ κ²©λ €ν•˜κΈ° μœ„ν•œ 말을 ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:22
So you could say something like, I could say,
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 당신은 μ΄λ ‡κ²Œ 말할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
01:24
"Hey, this is a pretty good video today, isn't it?
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"μ•Ό, 였늘 이거 κ½€ 쒋은 μ˜μƒμ΄μ§€?
01:26
Let me know in the comments."
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λŒ“κΈ€λ‘œ μ•Œλ €μ€˜."
01:27
But you don't have to do that.
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ ν•  ν•„μš”λŠ” μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:28
That would just be me fishing for compliments.
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그것은 칭찬을 μœ„ν•΄ λ‚šμ‹œν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:31
Anyways, to review, a backhanded compliment is a compliment
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μ—¬νŠΌ μ—­μŠ΅ 칭찬은
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that sounds nice, but is actually an insult
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μ’‹κ²Œ λ“€λ¦¬μ§€λ§Œ μ‹€μ œλ‘œλŠ” λͺ¨μš•
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or kind of a little bit of an insult.
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μ΄κ±°λ‚˜ μΌμ’…μ˜ λͺ¨μš•μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:41
And when you fish for of compliments,
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그리고 당신이 칭찬을 κ΅¬ν•œλ‹€λŠ” 것은
01:43
it means that you try to get someone else
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λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ΄
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to give you compliments.
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λ‹Ήμ‹ μ—κ²Œ 칭찬을 ν•˜λ„λ‘ ν•˜λ €λŠ” 것을 μ˜λ―Έν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:50
Yeah, I do it sometimes.
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λ„€, 가끔 ν•΄μš”.
01:52
Sometimes when I get my haircut, I'll do it.
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가끔 머리 자λ₯΄λ©΄ ν•΄μ€„κ²Œ.
01:54
Hey, I'm just putting my gloves on for a sec.
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μ•„, μž μ‹œλ§Œ μž₯갑을 끼고 μžˆμ–΄μš” .
01:56
It's a little colder than I thought out here.
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μ—¬κΈ°λŠ” 생각보닀 쑰금 μΆ₯λ„€μš”.
01:58
Hey, let's look at a comment from a previous video.
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이봐, 이전 λΉ„λ””μ˜€μ˜ λŒ“κΈ€μ„ 보자.
02:01
This comment is from Noriko.
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λ…Έλ¦¬μ½”λ‹˜μ˜ λŒ“κΈ€μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:04
"Wow. Those phrases are really funny.
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"μ™€μš°. κ·Έ 문ꡬ가 정말 μ›ƒκΈ°λ„€μš”.
02:06
Your camera decided to just go upside down,
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λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ μΉ΄λ©”λΌλŠ” κ·Έλƒ₯ 거꾸둜 κ°€κΈ°λ‘œ ν–ˆμœΌλ‚˜
02:09
but the wheels didn't fall off.
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λ°”ν€΄λŠ” 떨어지지 μ•Šμ•˜μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:10
It kept recording the nice view.
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쒋은 λͺ¨μŠ΅μ„ 계속 λ…Ήν™”ν–ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:12
Keep yourself warm, sir."
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λͺΈμ‘°μ‹¬ν•˜μ„Έμš”, μ„ μƒλ‹˜."
02:14
In my response I said, "A long time ago,
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이에 λ‚˜λŠ” "μ˜ˆμ „μ—λŠ”
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I used to cut out segments like that,
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그런 뢀뢄을 μž˜λΌλƒˆλŠ”λ°
02:19
but now I feel like it makes the video more authentic."
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μ§€κΈˆμ€ μ˜μƒμ΄ 더 μ‹€κ°λ‚˜λŠ” 것 κ°™λ‹€"κ³  λ‹΅ν–ˆλ‹€.
02:22
Yeah, when I first started doing these short videos,
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λ„€, 처음 이 짧은 λ™μ˜μƒμ„ μ‹œμž‘ν–ˆμ„ λ•Œ
02:25
I would actually, if I made a little mistake like that
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μ €λŠ” 사싀 μ œκ°€ 그런 μž‘μ€ μ‹€μˆ˜λ₯Ό ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜
02:29
or if the camera did something weird,
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카메라가 μ΄μƒν•œ 일을 ν•˜λ©΄ '
02:31
I would edit that out because I thought,
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02:33
"Oh, I want my videos to be really, really good."
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μ•„, λ‚΄ λ™μ˜μƒμ΄ 정말 , 정말 μ’‹λ‹€."
02:36
Here, just a sec here.
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μ—¬κΈ°, μž κΉλ§Œμš”.
02:40
Oscar, (whistles) hey, puppy. How you doing? (whistles)
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였슀카, (휘파람) 헀이, 강아지. μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ 지내? (휘파람)
02:45
There a little bit of a look at Oscar.
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μ˜€μŠ€μΉ΄κ°€ 쑰금 λ³΄μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:50
Anyways, I used to cut those segments out,
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μ–΄μ¨Œλ“ , λ‚˜λŠ” κ·Έ 뢀뢄을 μž˜λΌλ‚΄κ³€ ν–ˆμ§€λ§Œ,
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but now when something goes wrong
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μ§€κΈˆμ€
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while I'm videotaping these little lessons,
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이 짧은 μˆ˜μ—…μ„ λΉ„λ””μ˜€λ‘œ λ…Ήν™”ν•˜λŠ” λ™μ•ˆ λ¬Έμ œκ°€ λ°œμƒν•˜λ©΄
02:56
I just keep the camera running
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because I feel like it's more authentic.
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더 사싀적이라고 느끼기 λ•Œλ¬Έμ— 카메라λ₯Ό 계속 μž‘λ™μ‹œν‚΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:00
I'm more likely to say something
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λ‚˜λŠ”
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just without thinking about it,
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그것에 λŒ€ν•΄ μƒκ°ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šκ³  무언가λ₯Ό 말할 κ°€λŠ₯성이 더 λ†’μœΌλ©°,
03:04
which I think is a more authentic English lesson for you.
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이것이 당신을 μœ„ν•œ 더 μ§„μ •ν•œ μ˜μ–΄ μˆ˜μ—…μ΄λΌκ³  μƒκ°ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:07
Hey, the reason I showed you Oscar
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μ œκ°€ 였슀카λ₯Ό λ³΄μ—¬λ“œλ¦° μ΄μœ λŠ”
03:09
is because many of you asked questions about Oscar,
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λ§Žμ€ 뢄듀이 μ˜€μŠ€μΉ΄μ— λŒ€ν•΄ μ§ˆλ¬Έν•˜μ…¨κΈ° λ•Œλ¬Έμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:13
in particular about how long he's outside
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특히 정말 μΆ”μšΈ λ•Œ κ·Έκ°€ 밖에 μ–Όλ§ˆλ‚˜ 였래 μžˆλŠ”μ§€μ— λŒ€ν•΄μš”
03:16
when it's really cold out.
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.
03:18
So the answer I gave, I think, was if it's like today
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ œκ°€ ν•œ λŒ€λ‹΅μ€ 였늘
03:22
where it's -3, anything above -5,
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처럼 -3이고 -5 이상이면
03:25
Oscar will play outside for a couple hours.
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μ˜€μŠ€μΉ΄λŠ” λͺ‡ μ‹œκ°„ λ™μ•ˆ λ°–μ—μ„œ 놀 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:27
He does not mind at all.
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κ·ΈλŠ” μ „ν˜€ μ‹ κ²½ 쓰지 μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:29
He actually, I think quite enjoys it.
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κ·ΈλŠ” μ‹€μ œλ‘œ 그것을 κ½€ 즐긴닀고 μƒκ°ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:32
Let's have another look at him.
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κ·Έλ₯Ό ν•œ 번 더 μ‚΄νŽ΄λ΄…μ‹œλ‹€.
03:36
Here we go. He actually enjoys it quite a bit.
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μ‹œμž‘ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. κ·ΈλŠ” μ‹€μ œλ‘œ 그것을 κ½€ μ¦κΉλ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:39
But if it's below -5,
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ -5 미만이면
03:42
now he wants to look at my tripod.
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이제 κ·ΈλŠ” λ‚΄ μ‚Όκ°λŒ€λ₯Ό 보고 μ‹Άμ–΄ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:44
If it's below -5. Hi, Oscar.
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-5 μ΄ν•˜λ©΄. μ•ˆλ…•, 였슀카.
03:49
If it's below -5,
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μ˜ν•˜ 5도 미만이면
03:52
usually he goes out for about 10 minutes or so,
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보톡 10λΆ„ 정도 밖에 λ‚˜κ°€ μžˆλ‹€κ°€
03:54
and then we let him back into the warm, cozy house.
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λ”°λœ»ν•˜κ³  μ•„λŠ‘ν•œ μ§‘μœΌλ‘œ λŒλ €λ³΄λƒ…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:56
Anyways, see you in a couple days
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μ–΄μ¨Œλ“ ,
03:58
with another short English lesson, bye.
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또 λ‹€λ₯Έ 짧은 μ˜μ–΄ μˆ˜μ—…μœΌλ‘œ λ©°μΉ  후에 λ§Œλ‚˜μš”, μ•ˆλ…•.
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