How to START a Conversation in English with Anyone

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Speak English With Vanessa


์•„๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฌธ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ”ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋œ ์ž๋ง‰์€ ๊ธฐ๊ณ„ ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

00:00
Vanessa: Hi.
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๋ฐ”๋„ค์‚ฌ: ์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
00:01
I'm Vanessa from SpeakEnglishWithVanessa.com.
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์ €๋Š” SpeakEnglishWithVanessa.com์˜ Vanessa์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:04
Let's talk about starting a conversation.
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๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•ด ๋ด…์‹œ๋‹ค.
00:08
Vanessa: To improve your speaking skills in English, you need to speak, right?
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Vanessa: ์˜์–ด ๋งํ•˜๊ธฐ ์‹ค๋ ฅ์„ ํ–ฅ์ƒ์‹œํ‚ค๋ ค๋ฉด ๋งํ•˜๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ํ•„์š”ํ•˜์ฃ ?
00:16
Practice the skills that you want to improve.
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ํ–ฅ์ƒ์‹œํ‚ค๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ๊ธฐ์ˆ ์„ ์—ฐ์Šตํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
00:18
It's that easy.
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๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ์‰ฝ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:20
Well, maybe it's not that easy.
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๊ธ€์Ž„, ์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ์‰ฝ์ง€๋Š” ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:22
Vanessa: Hi. Dan: Hi.
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๋ฐ”๋„ค์‚ฌ: ์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ๋Œ„: ์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
00:24
Vanessa: What do I say next?
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Vanessa: ๋‹ค์Œ์€ ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ๋งํ•ด์•ผ ํ• ๊นŒ์š”?
00:27
Why isn't he talking more?
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์™œ ๊ทธ๋Š” ๋” ๋งŽ์€ ๋ง์„ ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
00:29
Dan: Oh, no.
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๋Œ„: ์•„, ์•„๋‹ˆ์—์š”.
00:30
I don't know what to say.
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๋ฌด์Šจ ๋ง์„ ํ•ด์•ผํ• ์ง€ ๋ชจ๋ฅด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:32
Vanessa: You know what?
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๋ฐ”๋„ค์‚ฌ: ๊ทธ๊ฑฐ ์•Œ์•„?
00:33
This has probably happened to you in your native language, so it makes sense that in
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์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๋ชจ๊ตญ์–ด๋กœ ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ์ผ์–ด ๋‚ฌ์„ ๊ฒƒ์ด๋ฏ€๋กœ
00:37
English, it can be tough to start a conversation, too.
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์˜์–ด๋กœ๋„ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์–ด๋ ค์šธ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ด์น˜์— ๋งž์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
00:40
But, never fear, Vanessa's tips are here!
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ๋‘๋ ค์›Œํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. Vanessa์˜ ํŒ์ด ์—ฌ๊ธฐ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค!
00:43
Vanessa: In life, there are two kinds of people; people you know and people you don't know.
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Vanessa: ์ธ์ƒ์—๋Š” ๋‘ ์ข…๋ฅ˜์˜ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•„๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ๋ชจ๋ฅด๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ.
00:48
We call those strangers.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ทธ ๋‚ฏ์„  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์„ ๋ถ€๋ฆ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:49
So, it makes sense to have two different types of conversation starters.
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๋‘ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์œ ํ˜• ์˜ ๋Œ€ํ™” ์‹œ์ž‘์ž๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:54
Of course, there's some overlap, but it's helpful to separate them.
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๋ฌผ๋ก  ๊ฒน์น˜๋Š” ๋ถ€๋ถ„๋„ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ ๊ตฌ๋ถ„ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋„์›€์ด ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:57
Vanessa: Let's start with people you know.
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Vanessa: ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์•„๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•ฉ์‹œ๋‹ค.
00:59
Imagine that you are in the grocery store, you're pushing your cart, looking for some
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์‹๋ฃŒํ’ˆ์ ์— ์žˆ๊ณ  ์นดํŠธ๋ฅผ ๋ฐ€๊ณ 
01:03
spinach, and you see a co-worker, and you want to say, hi.
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์‹œ๊ธˆ์น˜๋ฅผ ์ฐพ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š”๋ฐ ๋™๋ฃŒ๋ฅผ ๋ณด๊ณ  ์ธ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ์ƒํ•ด ๋ณด์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
01:06
What can you say?
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
01:07
Well, here are four great questions that you can ask in that situation, or that they might
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์Œ, ์—ฌ๊ธฐ ๊ทธ ์ƒํ™ฉ์—์„œ ๋ฌผ์–ด๋ณผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด
01:12
ask you, so you need to understand them and how to respond.
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๋ฌผ์–ด๋ณผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋„ค ๊ฐ€์ง€ ํ›Œ๋ฅญํ•œ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ๋“ค์„ ์ดํ•ดํ•˜๊ณ  ๋Œ€์‘ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ์•Œ์•„์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:15
Vanessa: The first two questions are about the past.
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Vanessa: ์ฒ˜์Œ ๋‘ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์€ ๊ณผ๊ฑฐ์— ๊ด€ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ
01:18
Let's take a look.
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๋ณด์ž.
01:19
Vanessa: Hi, Dan.
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๋ฐ”๋„ค์‚ฌ: ์•ˆ๋…•, ๋Œ„.
01:21
Dan: Hi.
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๋Œ„: ์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
01:22
Vanessa: How are you?
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๋ฐ”๋„ค์‚ฌ: ์–ด๋•Œ?
01:24
Dan: Pretty good.
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๋Œ„: ๊ฝค ์ข‹์•„.
01:25
Vanessa: Whatโ€™ve(have) you been up to lately?
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Vanessa: ์ตœ๊ทผ์— ๋ญํ–ˆ๋‹ˆ?
01:26
Dan: Oh, not much.
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๋Œ„: ์•„, ๋ณ„๋กœ.
01:28
Just went to see my family yesterday.
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์–ด์ œ ๊ฐ€์กฑ์„ ๋งŒ๋‚˜๋Ÿฌ ๊ฐ”์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:30
What about you?
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์–ด๋•Œ์š”?
01:31
Vanessa: Hi, Dan.
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๋ฐ”๋„ค์‚ฌ: ์•ˆ๋…•, ๋Œ„.
01:32
Dan: Hi.
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๋Œ„: ์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
01:33
Vanessa: How are you?
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๋ฐ”๋„ค์‚ฌ: ์–ด๋•Œ?
01:34
Dan: Pretty good.
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๋Œ„: ๊ฝค ์ข‹์•„.
01:35
Vanessa: What were you up to this weekend?
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Vanessa: ์ด๋ฒˆ ์ฃผ๋ง์— ๋ญ ํ–ˆ์–ด?
01:36
Dan: Oh, not much.
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๋Œ„: ์•„, ๋ณ„๋กœ.
01:37
Just went to see my family yesterday.
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์–ด์ œ ๊ฐ€์กฑ์„ ๋งŒ๋‚˜๋Ÿฌ ๊ฐ”์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:38
What about you?
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์–ด๋•Œ์š”?
01:39
Vanessa: These questions asked about sometime in the past.
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Vanessa: ์ด๋Ÿฌํ•œ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์€ ๊ณผ๊ฑฐ์— ์–ธ์  ๊ฐ€ ์ œ๊ธฐ๋œ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
01:43
You can change the words to say, "lately", "today", "last weekend", for โ€œa recent holiday".
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๋‹จ์–ด๋ฅผ "์ตœ๊ทผ", "์˜ค๋Š˜", "์ง€๋‚œ ์ฃผ๋ง", "์ตœ๊ทผ ํœด๊ฐ€"๋กœ ๋ณ€๊ฒฝํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:49
You can switch that up depending on the situation, but it's great to ask about the past.
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์ƒํ™ฉ์— ๋”ฐ๋ผ ๋ฐ”๊ฟ€ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ ๊ณผ๊ฑฐ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋ฌผ์–ด๋ณด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:53
Vanessa: The next questions are going to ask about the present.
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Vanessa: The ๋‹ค์Œ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์€ ์„ ๋ฌผ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:58
Vanessa: What do you have going on today?
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Vanessa: ์˜ค๋Š˜ ๋ฌด์Šจ ์ผ ์žˆ์–ด์š”?
02:01
Dan: Oh, not much.
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Dan: ์•„, ๋ณ„๊ฑฐ ์•„๋‹ˆ์—์š”.
02:03
Just going to a friend's house this evening.
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๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ์˜ค๋Š˜ ์ €๋…์— ์นœ๊ตฌ ์ง‘์— ๊ฐ€์š”.
02:04
What about you?
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๋‹น์‹ ์€์š”?
02:05
Vanessa: Whatโ€™ve (have) you got going on today?
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Vanessa: ๋ญ ์žˆ์–ด์š”? ์˜ค๋Š˜์€?
02:07
Dan: Oh, not much.
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Dan: ์•„, ๋ณ„๋กœ.
02:09
Just going to a friend's house this evening.
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์˜ค๋Š˜ ์ €๋…์— ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ์นœ๊ตฌ ์ง‘์— ๊ฐ€์š”.
02:11
What about you?
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๋‹น์‹ ์€์š”?
02:12
Vanessa: These questions asked about the present.
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Vanessa: ์ด ์งˆ๋ฌธ์€ ์„ ๋ฌผ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์— ์‚ฌ์šฉ๋œ
02:14
Did you notice the beautiful, casual verbs that were used here?
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์•„๋ฆ„๋‹ต๊ณ  ์บ์ฃผ์–ผํ•œ ๋™์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ๋ณด์…จ๋‚˜์š” ?
02:18
"What've you got going on today?"
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์˜ค๋Š˜ ๋ฌด์Šจ ์ผ ์žˆ์–ด?"
02:22
"What have you got going on today?"
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"์˜ค๋Š˜ ๋ฌด์Šจ ์ผ ์žˆ์–ด?" "
02:26
"What are you doing today?"
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์˜ค๋Š˜ ๋ญํ•ด?"
02:28
That's another way to say it, but we often say, "What have you got going on today?",
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ํ‘œํ˜„์ด์ง€๋งŒ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ข…์ข… "์˜ค๋Š˜ ๋ฌด์Šจ ์ผ ์žˆ์–ด?"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:31
and it's really casual, informal, it's great for these just, passing by, situations when
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์ •๋ง ์บ์ฃผ์–ผํ•˜๊ณ  ๋น„๊ณต์‹์ ์ด๋ฉฐ
02:36
you see someone who you already know.
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์ด๋ฏธ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ๋ณผ ๋•Œ ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ์ง€๋‚˜์น˜๋Š” ์ƒํ™ฉ์— ์ ํ•ฉํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:38
Vanessa: Let's go on to the next questions, which talk about the future.
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Vanessa: ๋ฏธ๋ž˜์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๋Š” ๋‹ค์Œ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์œผ๋กœ ๋„˜์–ด๊ฐ‘์‹œ๋‹ค .
02:44
Vanessa: Do you have anything fun going on this weekend?
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Vanessa: ์ด๋ฒˆ ์ฃผ๋ง์— ์žฌ๋ฏธ์žˆ๋Š” ์ผ์ด ์žˆ์œผ์‹ ๊ฐ€์š” ?
02:47
Dan: Oh, not much.
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๋Œ„: ์•„, ๋ณ„๋กœ.
02:49
Just going to a friend's house tomorrow.
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๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ๋‚ด์ผ ์นœ๊ตฌ์ง‘์— ๊ฐ€์š”.
02:51
What about you?
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์–ด๋•Œ์š”?
02:52
Vanessa: Do you have any plans for Easter?
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Vanessa: ๋ถ€ํ™œ์ ˆ ๊ณ„ํš์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
02:53
Dan: Oh, not much.
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๋Œ„: ์•„, ๋ณ„๋กœ.
02:55
Just going to have lunch with my family.
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๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ๊ฐ€์กฑ๋“ค๊ณผ ์ ์‹ฌ์„ ๋จน์œผ๋Ÿฌ ๊ฐ‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:57
What about you?
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์–ด๋•Œ์š”?
02:58
Vanessa: For these questions that ask about the future, I want you to be a little bit
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Vanessa: ๋ฏธ๋ž˜์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋ฌป๋Š” ์ด ์งˆ๋ฌธ๋“ค์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด์„œ๋Š” ์กฐ๊ธˆ ์กฐ์‹ฌํ•˜์‹œ๊ธฐ ๋ฐ”๋ž๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
03:02
careful, because if you say this with a certain type of intonation, the other person, especially
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. ํŠน์ • ์œ ํ˜•์˜ ์–ต์–‘์œผ๋กœ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•˜๋ฉด ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ, ํŠนํžˆ
03:09
if you're a guy talking to a girl, it could feel like you're trying to ask them on a date,
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์—ฌ์ž์™€ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๋Š” ๋‚จ์ž๋ผ๋ฉด ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ทธ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฐ์ดํŠธ ์‹ ์ฒญ์„ ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋Š๊ปด์ง€
03:15
or maybe they'll feel a little bit uncomfortable.
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๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ์•ฝ๊ฐ„ ๋ถˆํŽธํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋Š๋‚„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:18
So, make sure that when you say, "Oh, do you have anything fun going on this weekend?"
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ "์˜ค, ์ด๋ฒˆ ์ฃผ๋ง์— ์žฌ๋ฏธ์žˆ๋Š” ์ผ ์žˆ๋‹ˆ?"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ๋•Œ ํ™•์ธํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
03:23
Make sure you say it with a smile, very casually.
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์•„์ฃผ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ ๋ฏธ์†Œ๋ฅผ ์ง€์œผ๋ฉฐ ๋งํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
03:26
You don't need to look them into the eye and say it seriously from the bottom of your heart.
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๋ˆˆ์„ ๋˜‘๋ฐ”๋กœ ์ณ๋‹ค๋ณด๋ฉฐ ์ง„์‹ฌ์œผ๋กœ ์ง„์ง€ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•  ํ•„์š”๋Š” ์—†๋‹ค.
03:30
It's just a casual question.
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๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ํ‰๋ฒ”ํ•œ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:31
Of course, unless you do want to ask them for a date.
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๋ฌผ๋ก , ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ทธ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฐ์ดํŠธ ์‹ ์ฒญ์„ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š๋‹ค๋ฉด ๋ง์ด๋‹ค .
03:34
And then, you can say it a little more seriously.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์กฐ๊ธˆ ๋” ์ง„์ง€ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:36
But if you just want to casually say something to your co-worker, you need to have a light
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋™๋ฃŒ์—๊ฒŒ ์•„๋ฌด๋ ‡์ง€ ์•Š๊ฒŒ ๋ง์„ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๋ฉด ๋ฐ์€
03:40
tone.
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ํ†ค์ด ํ•„์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:41
Don't worry about using this, just make sure you have a light tone, and you say it with
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์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๊ฑฑ์ •ํ•˜์ง€ ๋ง๊ณ  ๋ฐ์€ ํ†ค์„ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜๊ณ 
03:44
a smile.
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๋ฏธ์†Œ๋ฅผ ์ง€์œผ๋ฉฐ ๋งํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
03:45
"Oh, do you have anything fun going on this weekend?"
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"์•„, ์ด๋ฒˆ ์ฃผ๋ง์— ๋ญ ์žฌ๋ฏธ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฑฐ ์žˆ๋‹ˆ ?"
03:47
Great.
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์—„์ฒญ๋‚œ.
03:48
Like you saw on those sample conversation, Dan could have just said, "Not much."
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์ƒ˜ํ”Œ ๋Œ€ํ™”์—์„œ ๋ณธ ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ Dan์€ "๋ณ„๋กœ"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:54
And then, stopped the conversation.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ , ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋ฉˆ์ท„๋‹ค.
03:55
Boring, boring, boring.
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์ง€๋ฃจํ•ด, ์ง€๋ฃจํ•ด, ์ง€๋ฃจํ•ด.
03:58
But you know?
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
03:59
Some people do that.
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์–ด๋–ค ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:01
If you're lucky, the person you're talking to might ask, "Not much, what about you?"
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์šด์ด ์ข‹๋‹ค๋ฉด ๋Œ€ํ™” ์ƒ๋Œ€๊ฐ€ "๋ณ„๋กœ, ๋„Œ ์–ด๋•Œ?"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ฌผ์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:06
Okay, at least they're asking a question, and you can share some information about what
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์ข‹์•„, ์ ์–ด๋„ ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์„ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ณ ,
04:10
you're doing, or what you did over the weekend.
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ์ผ์ด๋‚˜ ์ฃผ๋ง์— ํ•œ ์ผ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์ •๋ณด๋ฅผ ๊ณต์œ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:12
So, here, not everyone is going to give a lot of information, but they might give you
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์—์„œ ๋ชจ๋“  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ๋งŽ์€ ์ •๋ณด๋ฅผ ์ œ๊ณตํ•˜์ง€๋Š” ์•Š์ง€๋งŒ ์ •๋ณด๋ฅผ ์ œ๊ณตํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ ‡์ง€
04:17
something, and if they don't, don't worry about it, it's not your fault, you tried your
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์•Š์€ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ๊ฑฑ์ •ํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ๊ท€ํ•˜์˜ ์ž˜๋ชป์ด ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ท€ํ•˜๋Š”
04:21
best.
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์ตœ์„ ์„ ๋‹คํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:22
What about the second kind of people?
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๋‘ ๋ฒˆ์งธ ์ข…๋ฅ˜์˜ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ์–ด๋–ป์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
04:24
People you don't know.
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋ชจ๋ฅด๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค.
04:26
Strangers.
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๋‚ฏ์„  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ.
04:27
In the U.S., we sometimes strike up a conversation with strangers, but it depends where you are.
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๋ฏธ๊ตญ์—์„œ๋Š” ๋•Œ๋•Œ๋กœ ๋‚ฏ์„  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์–ด๋””์— ์žˆ๋Š๋ƒ์— ๋‹ฌ๋ ค ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:31
For example, in the south of the U.S. where I live, it's pretty common that when you pass
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์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์‚ฌ๋Š” ๋ฏธ๊ตญ ๋‚จ๋ถ€์—์„œ๋Š”
04:36
by a stranger, you make eye contact and you might say, "Hi."
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๋‚ฏ์„  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ์ง€๋‚˜๊ฐˆ ๋•Œ ๋ˆˆ์„ ๋งˆ์ฃผ์น˜๊ณ  "์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ๊ฝค ํ”ํ•œ ์ผ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:40
But, if you're in Manhattan in New York, if you did that to every stranger who you passed
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋‰ด์š• ๋งจํ•˜ํƒ„์— ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด ์ง€๋‚˜๊ฐ€๋Š” ๋ชจ๋“  ๋‚ฏ์„  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์—๊ฒŒ
04:45
by, "Hi.
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"์•ˆ๋…•.
04:46
Hi.
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์•ˆ๋…•.
04:47
Hi."
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์•ˆ๋…•."
04:48
People would think you're a little bit strange.
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์กฐ๊ธˆ ์ด์ƒํ•˜๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:49
So, it depends on where you are in the U.S., but it's certainly common to strike up a conversation
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๋ฏธ๊ตญ ๋‚ด ์–ด๋””์— ์žˆ๋Š๋ƒ์— ๋”ฐ๋ผ ๋‹ค๋ฅด์ง€๋งŒ, ๋ชจ๋ฅด๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ํ™•์‹คํžˆ ํ”ํ•œ ์ผ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
04:53
with someone who you don't know.
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.
04:55
If you visit the U.S., I recommend visiting a grocery store called Trader Joe's, because
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๋ฏธ๊ตญ์— ๊ฐ€์‹ ๋‹ค๋ฉด Trader Joe's๋ผ๋Š” ์‹๋ฃŒํ’ˆ์ ์— ๊ฐ€๋ณด์‹œ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ถ”์ฒœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:00
it's a requirement for working there that every employee is amazing at having small
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๊ทธ๊ณณ์—์„œ ์ผํ•˜๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด์„œ๋Š” ๋ชจ๋“  ์ง์›์ด
05:05
talk conversations with strangers, and it's part of their job to talk with customers.
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๋‚ฏ์„  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ์žก๋‹ด์„ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋†€๋ž๊ณ  ๊ณ ๊ฐ๊ณผ ๋Œ€ํ™”ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ง์—…์˜ ์ผ๋ถ€์ด๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:09
So, if you have ever visited a Trader Joe's, you know exactly what I mean.
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ Trader Joe's๋ฅผ ๋ฐฉ๋ฌธํ•œ ์ ์ด ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์˜๋ฏธํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ”๋ฅผ ์ •ํ™•ํžˆ ์•„์‹ค โ€‹โ€‹๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:14
These employees are known for being so kind and so friendly, and if you go there, be prepared
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์ด ์ง์›๋“ค์€ ๋งค์šฐ ์นœ์ ˆ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์นœ์ ˆํ•˜๊ธฐ๋กœ ์œ ๋ช…ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ์— ๊ฐ€๋ฉด
05:20
with some of these questions and be prepared to answer them, because they'll definitely
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์ด๋Ÿฌํ•œ ์งˆ๋ฌธ ์ค‘ ์ผ๋ถ€๋ฅผ ์ค€๋น„ํ•˜๊ณ  ๋Œ€๋‹ตํ•  ์ค€๋น„๋ฅผ ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค . ์™œ๋ƒํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋ถ„๋ช…ํžˆ
05:24
ask you them.
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์งˆ๋ฌธํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ด๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:25
Let's think about a scenario where you might talk with the stranger.
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๋‚ฏ์„  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ๋Œ€ํ™”ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์‹œ๋‚˜๋ฆฌ์˜ค๋ฅผ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด ๋ด…์‹œ๋‹ค.
05:28
We can imagine you're in the park.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ณต์›์— ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ์ƒํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:29
You're walking your dog, and like dogs do, your dog is sniffing and going towards another
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๊ฐœ๋ฅผ ์‚ฐ์ฑ…์‹œํ‚ค๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ณ , ๊ฐœ๋“ค์ด ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌํ•˜๋“ฏ์ด, ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๊ฐœ๋Š” ์ฝ”๋ฅผ ํ‚ํ‚๊ฑฐ๋ฆฌ๋ฉฐ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๊ฐœ๋ฅผ ํ–ฅํ•ด ๊ฐ€๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
05:35
dog.
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.
05:36
Well, you'd like to strike up a conversation with the owner of that dog.
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๊ธ€์Ž„, ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ทธ ๊ฐœ ์ฃผ์ธ๊ณผ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:41
What can you say?
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
05:44
Vanessa: Aww, what a cute dog.
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Vanessa: ์•„, ์ •๋ง ๊ท€์—ฌ์šด ๊ฐœ๋„ค์š”.
05:47
Do you come here often?
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๋„ˆ๋Š” ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์— ์ž์ฃผ ์˜ค๋‹ˆ?
05:48
Dan: Yeah, we try to.
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Dan: ์˜ˆ, ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:50
It's a great place to walk.
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๊ฑท๊ธฐ ์ข‹์€ ๊ณณ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:51
Vanessa: Aww, what a cute dog.
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Vanessa: ์•„, ์ •๋ง ๊ท€์—ฌ์šด ๊ฐœ๋„ค์š”.
05:54
Have you ever been here before?
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์ „์— ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์— ์™€๋ณธ ์ ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
05:55
Dan: Yeah, a lot.
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๋Œ„: ๋„ค, ๋งŽ์ด์š”.
05:56
It's a great place to walk.
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๊ฑท๊ธฐ ์ข‹์€ ๊ณณ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:58
Vanessa: Aww, what a cute dog.
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Vanessa: ์•„, ์ •๋ง ๊ท€์—ฌ์šด ๊ฐœ๋„ค์š”.
06:00
Dan: Yeah, he's a sweetie.
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Dan: ๊ทธ๋ž˜, ๊ทธ๋Š” ์ž๊ธฐ์•ผ.
06:02
Vanessa: Have you been in Asheville for a while?
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Vanessa: ํ•œ๋™์•ˆ ์• ์Šˆ๋นŒ์— ์žˆ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ?
06:04
Dan: Just two years.
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๋Œ„: ๋”ฑ 2๋…„.
06:05
What about you?
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์–ด๋•Œ์š”?
06:06
Vanessa: Aww, what a cute dog.
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Vanessa: ์•„, ์ •๋ง ๊ท€์—ฌ์šด ๊ฐœ๋„ค์š”.
06:08
Dan: Yeah, he's a sweetie.
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Dan: ๊ทธ๋ž˜, ๊ทธ๋Š” ์ž๊ธฐ์•ผ.
06:10
Vanessa: Do you live nearby?
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Vanessa: ๊ทผ์ฒ˜์— ์‚ฌ์„ธ์š”?
06:11
Dan: Yeah, we live just down the street.
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Dan: ์˜ˆ, ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ธธ ์•„๋ž˜์— ์‚ด๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:13
What about you?
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์–ด๋•Œ์š”?
06:14
Vanessa: Like with the previous set of questions, it's important to have a light attitude.
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Vanessa: ์ด์ „ ์งˆ๋ฌธ๊ณผ ๋งˆ์ฐฌ๊ฐ€์ง€๋กœ ๊ฐ€๋ฒผ์šด ํƒœ๋„๋ฅผ ๊ฐ–๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:19
If you ask someone, "Do you come here often?"
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์—๊ฒŒ โ€œ์—ฌ๊ธฐ ์ž์ฃผ ์˜ค์„ธ์š”?โ€๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ฌป๋Š”๋‹ค๋ฉด
06:23
The other person might feel a little bit uncomfortable, like, "Are they following me?
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์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์€ "๋‚˜๋ฅผ ๋”ฐ๋ผ์˜ค๋Š”๊ฑฐ์•ผ?
06:28
Are they a scary person?"
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๋ฌด์„œ์šด ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด์•ผ?"
06:29
So, make sure you just say it lightly.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ ๊ฐ€๋ณ๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
06:31
"Oh, do you come here often?"
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"์•„, ์—ฌ๊ธฐ ์ž์ฃผ ์˜ค์„ธ์š”?"
06:32
No problem.
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๊ดœ์ฐฎ์•„์š”.
06:33
This is a great question to ask.
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์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์ข‹์€ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:35
And I ask this all the time when I go to the park and I'm playing with my toddler, and
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ €๋Š” ๊ณต์›์— ๊ฐ€์„œ ์•„์ด์™€ ๋†€๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š”๋ฐ ์•„์ด๊ฐ€
06:39
he ends up playing with another kid, and I ask the parent, "Oh, do you come here often?"
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๊ฒฐ๊ตญ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์•„์ด์™€ ๋†€๊ฒŒ ๋  ๋•Œ๋งˆ๋‹ค ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋ฌป์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ €๋Š” ๋ถ€๋ชจ์—๊ฒŒ "์˜ค, ์—ฌ๊ธฐ ์ž์ฃผ ์˜ค์„ธ์š”?"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ฌป์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:43
It's just a way to start a conversation.
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๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ผ ๋ฟ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:45
Okay, now it's special notice time.
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์ž, ์ด์ œ ํŠน๋ณ„ ๊ณต์ง€ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:47
I want to let you know that not everyone is a great conversationalist.
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๋ชจ๋“  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ํ›Œ๋ฅญํ•œ ๋Œ€ํ™”๊ฐ€๋Š” ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ๋Š” ์ ์„ ์•Œ๋ ค ๋“œ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
06:52
You have to try your best and practice this.
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์ตœ์„ ์„ ๋‹คํ•˜๊ณ  ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ์—ฐ์Šตํ•ด์•ผํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:55
So, if you ask these questions to someone, and they don't respond, and you don't have
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์—๊ฒŒ ์ด๋Ÿฌํ•œ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์„ ํ–ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ ์‘๋‹ตํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ 
07:00
an amazing conversation, you know what?
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๋†€๋ผ์šด ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„์ง€ ์•Š๋Š”๋‹ค๋ฉด ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ์•„์‹ญ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
07:02
Maybe they're just not a good conversationalist.
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์–ด์ฉŒ๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์ข‹์€ ๋Œ€ํ™” ์ƒ๋Œ€๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:05
Maybe they haven't practiced this skill.
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์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์ด ๊ธฐ์ˆ ์„ ์—ฐ์Šตํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•˜์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:06
So, I want you to be able to try your best, and then, it's really up to the other person.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ตœ์„ ์„ ๋‹คํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋ฐ”๋ผ๋ฉฐ ๊ทธ ๋‹ค์Œ์—๋Š” ์ •๋ง ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์—๊ฒŒ ๋‹ฌ๋ ค ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:12
It's their choice if the conversation continues.
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๋Œ€ํ™”๊ฐ€ ๊ณ„์†๋˜๋Š”์ง€ ์—ฌ๋ถ€๋Š” ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ์„ ํƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:14
You might be thinking, "Vanessa, you seem like a good conversationalist.
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"Vanessa, ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ข‹์€ ๋Œ€ํ™”๊ฐ€์ธ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:20
What do you know about being worried about what to say, or not knowing what to say?"
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๋ฌด์—‡์„ ๋งํ•ด์•ผ ํ• ์ง€ ๊ฑฑ์ •ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ๋งํ•ด์•ผ ํ• ์ง€ ๋ชจ๋ฅด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ์••๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?"
07:24
Let me tell you a little story.
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์•ฝ๊ฐ„์˜ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผํ•˜๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:27
Well, Dan and I lived in South Korea for three years.
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๊ธ€์Ž„์š”, Dan๊ณผ ์ €๋Š” ํ•œ๊ตญ์—์„œ 3๋…„ ๋™์•ˆ ์‚ด์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
07:29
So, that means that for three years, every time that I had small talk or started a conversation
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ 3๋…„ ๋™์•ˆ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์™€ ์žก๋‹ด์„ ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•  ๋•Œ๋งˆ๋‹ค
07:35
with someone, it was in Korean.
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ํ•œ๊ตญ์–ด๋กœ ํ–ˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ์–˜๊ธฐ๋‹ค. 3๋…„ ๋™์•ˆ ์˜์–ด๋กœ
07:37
That means that I didn't practice small talk in English for three years.
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์Šค๋ชฐํ† ํฌ ์—ฐ์Šต์„ ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•˜๋‹ค๋Š” ๋œป์ด๋‹ค .
07:42
When we moved back to the U.S., I remember two situations.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋ฏธ๊ตญ์œผ๋กœ ๋Œ์•„๊ฐ”์„ ๋•Œ ๋‘ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์ƒํ™ฉ์„ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:45
One was when I was getting my drivers license because we had just moved back, so I needed
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ํ•˜๋‚˜๋Š” ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋ง‰ ์ง‘์œผ๋กœ ๋Œ์•„์™”๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ์šด์ „๋ฉดํ—ˆ์ฆ์„ ์ทจ๋“ํ•  ๋•Œ์˜€๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์—
07:49
my driver's license again.
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๋‹ค์‹œ ์šด์ „๋ฉดํ—ˆ์ฆ์ด ํ•„์š”ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:51
And the man at the desk said something to me like, "Have you just moved here," or "How's
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ฑ…์ƒ์— ์žˆ๋˜ ๋‚จ์ž๊ฐ€ ๋‚˜์—๊ฒŒ "์—ฌ๊ธฐ๋กœ ์ด์‚ฌ ์˜ค์…จ์–ด์š”?" ๋˜๋Š” "์˜ค๋Š˜
07:56
your day going?"
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ํ•˜๋ฃจ ์–ด๋•Œ์š”?"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:57
Some kind of typical small talk question.
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์ผ์ข…์˜ ์ „ํ˜•์ ์ธ ์Šค๋ชฐ ํ† ํฌ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:59
And I just did there, and I stuttered, and I didn't really know what to say.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ์— ๊ฐ”๊ณ  ๋ง์„ ๋”๋“ฌ์—ˆ๊ณ  ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ๋งํ•ด์•ผํ• ์ง€ ๋ชฐ๋ž์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:04
And then, he repeated the question, and I said something, probably something silly,
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‚˜์„œ ๊ทธ๊ฐ€ ๋‹ค์‹œ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์„ ํ–ˆ๊ณ  ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์•„๋งˆ๋„ ์–ด๋ฆฌ์„์€ ๋ง์„ ํ–ˆ๊ณ 
08:09
and when I walked away from that conversation, I just laughed and thought, "What happened?
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๊ทธ ๋Œ€ํ™”์—์„œ ๋ฉ€์–ด์กŒ์„ ๋•Œ ์ €๋Š” ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ์›ƒ์œผ๋ฉฐ ์ƒ๊ฐํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:14
This is my native language.
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08:15
Why can't I respond to him?"
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?"
08:17
And then, I realized, "Oh, I haven't practiced small talk with strangers in English in three
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ค๊ฐ€ "์•„, 3๋…„ ๋™์•ˆ ๋‚ฏ์„  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ์˜์–ด๋กœ ์žก๋‹ด ์—ฐ์Šต์„ ์•ˆ ํ–ˆ์–ด
08:23
years.
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08:24
I'm going to need a little bit of practice to get used to speaking like that again."
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๋‹ค์‹œ ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๋ง์— ์ต์ˆ™ํ•ด์ง€๋ ค๋ฉด ์—ฐ์Šต์„ ์ข€ ํ•ด์•ผ๊ฒ ์–ด."
08:28
Then, a few weeks later, I was at Trader Joe's, the grocery store that I mentioned to you,
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋ช‡ ์ฃผ ํ›„, ์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋ง์”€๋“œ๋ฆฐ ์‹๋ฃŒํ’ˆ์ ์ธ Trader Joe's์— ์žˆ์—ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ ์ง์› ์ค‘
08:32
and I was getting a sample of food from one of the workers, and she asked me some typical
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ํ•œ ๋ช…์œผ๋กœ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ์‹ํ’ˆ ์ƒ˜ํ”Œ์„ ๋ฐ›๊ณ  ์žˆ์—ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ ๊ทธ๋…€๊ฐ€ ์ €์—๊ฒŒ ๋ช‡ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์ผ๋ฐ˜์ ์ธ
08:38
question.
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์งˆ๋ฌธ์„ ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:39
I don't even remember what it was, but it was some kind of small talk question, and
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๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋ฌด์—‡์ธ์ง€์กฐ์ฐจ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•˜์ง€ ๋ชปํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ผ์ข…์˜ ์žก๋‹ด ์งˆ๋ฌธ์ด์—ˆ๊ณ 
08:42
my brain just went, "Meeer," and shut down completely.
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๋‚ด ๋‘๋‡Œ๋Š” "Meeer"๋ผ๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์™„์ „ํžˆ ์ข…๋ฃŒ๋˜์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
08:48
And I recognized this feeling because it happened a couple weeks earlier at the driver's license
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‚˜๋Š” ์šด์ „ ๋ฉดํ—ˆ์ฆ ์žฅ์†Œ์—์„œ ๋ช‡ ์ฃผ ์ „์— ์ผ์–ด ๋‚ฌ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์—์ด ๋Š๋‚Œ์„ ์ธ์‹ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
08:52
place.
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08:53
So, I thought, I should just tell her why I am reacting like this.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์™œ ์ด๋Ÿฐ ๋ฐ˜์‘์„ ๋ณด์ด๋Š”์ง€ ๊ทธ๋…€์—๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•ด์•ผ๊ฒ ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ–ˆ๋‹ค .
08:58
So, I said, "I'm sorry.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ œ๊ฐ€ "๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ด์š”.
08:59
I just moved back from Korea and I haven't had small talk in English for a long time,
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ํ•œ๊ตญ์—์„œ ์ด์ œ ๋ง‰ ์ด์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ์™”๊ณ  ์˜ค๋žซ๋™์•ˆ ์˜์–ด๋กœ ์Šค๋ชฐํ† ํฌ๋ฅผ ๋ชปํ•ด์„œ ์–ด์ƒ‰ํ•ด์„œ
09:05
so I'm sorry about my awkwardness."
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๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ด์š”"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:07
And, you know what, she had lived in Korea, too.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋…€๋„ ํ•œ๊ตญ์—์„œ ์‚ด์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
09:10
It was a really unusual circumstance, but we bonded over that, and I could kind of loosen
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์ •๋ง ์ด๋ก€์ ์ธ ์ƒํ™ฉ์ด์—ˆ์ง€๋งŒ, ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ทธ ์ ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์œ ๋Œ€๊ฐ์„ ๋Š๊ผˆ๊ณ ,
09:16
up a little bit and feel comfortable, because we started talking a little bit.
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์•ฝ๊ฐ„์˜ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ–ˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ์กฐ๊ธˆ ๋Š์Šจํ•ด์ง€๊ณ  ํŽธ์•ˆํ•ด์งˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:20
And this helped me to get practice.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์—ฐ์Šตํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ ๋„์›€์ด ๋˜์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:21
And practice and practice and repetition is what's going to help you to really improve
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์—ฐ์Šตํ•˜๊ณ  ์—ฐ์Šตํ•˜๊ณ  ๋ฐ˜๋ณตํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ด ๊ธฐ์ˆ ์„ ํ–ฅ์ƒ์‹œํ‚ค๋Š” ๋ฐ ๋„์›€์ด ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
09:26
this skill.
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09:27
Always remember that, a smile is the best tool.
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ํ•ญ์ƒ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ๋ฏธ์†Œ๋Š” ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ๋„๊ตฌ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:31
Sometimes when we feel nervous, our face gets really serious and we forget to smile.
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๊ฐ€๋” ๊ธด์žฅํ•˜๋ฉด ํ‘œ์ •์ด ์‹ฌ๊ฐํ•ด์ ธ์„œ ์›ƒ๋Š” ๊ฑธ ์žŠ์–ด๋ฒ„๋ฆฌ๊ณค ํ•ด์š”.
09:37
But, something happens when you smile, you start to loosen up.
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋ฏธ์†Œ๋ฅผ ์ง€์„ ๋•Œ ์–ด๋–ค ์ผ์ด ์ผ์–ด๋‚˜๊ณ  ๊ธด์žฅ์ด ํ’€๋ฆฌ๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:41
You start to feel a little more comfortable, and maybe you'll be able to remember some
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์กฐ๊ธˆ ๋” ํŽธ์•ˆํ•ด์ง€๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•œ ๋ฌธ์žฅ๊ณผ ์งˆ๋ฌธ ์ค‘ ์ผ๋ถ€๋ฅผ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
09:44
of the sentences and questions that we talked about.
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09:46
All right, my challenge for you is this, choose one of these questions that you're going to
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์ข‹์•„์š”, ์ œ ๋„์ „์€ ์ด๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:50
ask in your next English conversation, practice it by writing it in the comments, and check
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๋‹ค์Œ ์˜์–ด ๋Œ€ํ™”์—์„œ ๋ฌผ์–ด๋ณผ ์งˆ๋ฌธ ์ค‘ ํ•˜๋‚˜๋ฅผ ์„ ํƒํ•˜๊ณ  ๋Œ“๊ธ€์— ์ ์–ด์„œ ์—ฐ์Šตํ•˜๊ณ 
09:55
out to see what other students questions are, too.
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ํ•™์ƒ๋“ค์˜ ์งˆ๋ฌธ ๋„ ํ™•์ธํ•ด๋ณด์„ธ์š”.
09:57
It's a good chance to pretend that they're asking you.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฌป๋Š” ์ฒ™ํ•  ์ข‹์€ ๊ธฐํšŒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
10:00
Pretend to answer it, and really use this repetition.
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๋Œ€๋‹ตํ•˜๋Š” ์ฒ™ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ์ด ๋ฐ˜๋ณต์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:03
Thanks so much for learning English with me, and I'll see you again next Friday for a new
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์ €์™€ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์˜์–ด๋ฅผ ๋ฐฐ์›Œ์ฃผ์…”์„œ ์ •๋ง ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹ค์Œ ์ฃผ ๊ธˆ์š”์ผ์—
10:07
lesson here on my YouTube channel.
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์ œ YouTube ์ฑ„๋„์—์„œ ์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ์ˆ˜์—…์œผ๋กœ ๋‹ค์‹œ ๋ต™๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:11
Bye.
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์•ˆ๋…•.
10:12
Vanessa: Do you have anything fun going on this weekend?
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Vanessa: ์ด๋ฒˆ ์ฃผ๋ง์— ์žฌ๋ฏธ์žˆ๋Š” ์ผ ์žˆ๋‹ˆ ?
10:16
Dan: Oh, not much.
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๋Œ„: ์•„, ๋ณ„๋กœ.
10:17
Just going to a friend's house tomorrow.
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๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ๋‚ด์ผ ์นœ๊ตฌ์ง‘์— ๊ฐ€์š”.
10:19
What about you?
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์–ด๋•Œ์š”?
10:20
Vanessa: Don't do that.
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๋ฐ”๋„ค์‚ฌ: ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ์ง€ ๋งˆ.
10:21
(haha!)
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(ํ•˜ํ•˜!)
10:22
Vanessa: Hi, Dan.
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Vanessa: ์•ˆ๋…•, ๋Œ„.
10:23
Dan: Hi.
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๋Œ„: ์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
10:24
Vanessa: How are you?
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๋ฐ”๋„ค์‚ฌ: ์–ด๋•Œ?
10:25
Dan: Pretty good.
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๋Œ„: ๊ฝค ์ข‹์•„.
10:26
Vanessa: What were you up to this weekend?
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Vanessa: ์ด๋ฒˆ ์ฃผ๋ง์— ๋ญ ํ–ˆ์–ด?
10:27
Vanessa: Hi Dan.
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๋ฐ”๋„ค์‚ฌ: ์•ˆ๋…• ๋Œ„.
10:28
Dan: Hi.
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๋Œ„: ์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
10:29
Vanessa: How are you?
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๋ฐ”๋„ค์‚ฌ: ์–ด๋•Œ?
10:32
Dan: Pretty good.
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๋Œ„: ๊ฝค ์ข‹์•„.
10:34
Vanessa: What have you been up to lately?
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Vanessa: ์ตœ๊ทผ์— ๋ญ ํ–ˆ๋‹ˆ?
10:39
Dan: I don't remember.
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๋Œ„: ๊ธฐ์–ต์ด ์•ˆ ๋‚˜์š”.
10:43
Dan: Oh, not much.
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๋Œ„: ์•„, ๋ณ„๋กœ.
10:46
Just went to see my family yesterday.
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์–ด์ œ ๊ฐ€์กฑ์„ ๋งŒ๋‚˜๋Ÿฌ ๊ฐ”์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:47
What about you?
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์–ด๋•Œ์š”?
10:48
Vanessa: Aww, what a cute dog.
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Vanessa: ์•„, ์ •๋ง ๊ท€์—ฌ์šด ๊ฐœ๋„ค์š”.
10:51
Dan: Yeah, he's a sweetie.
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Dan: ๊ทธ๋ž˜, ๊ทธ๋Š” ์ž๊ธฐ์•ผ.
10:52
Vanessa: Have you been in Asheville for a while?
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Vanessa: ํ•œ๋™์•ˆ ์• ์Šˆ๋นŒ์— ์žˆ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ?
10:54
Dan: Just two years.
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๋Œ„: ๋”ฑ 2๋…„.
10:56
What about you?
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์–ด๋•Œ์š”?
10:57
Vanessa: I have a unicorn dog.
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Vanessa: ์œ ๋‹ˆ์ฝ˜ ๊ฐœ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์–ด์š”.
11:03
Dan: I want a corn dog?
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๋Œ„: ์ฝ˜๋„๊ทธ๋ฅผ ์›ํ•ด์š”?
11:06
Vanessa: I have a unicorn dog, not I want a corn dog.
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Vanessa: ๋‚˜๋Š” ์˜ฅ์ˆ˜์ˆ˜ ๊ฐœ๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ ์œ ๋‹ˆ์ฝ˜ ๊ฐœ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:11
Dan: I thought you said, "I want a corn dog."
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Dan: "๋‚˜๋Š” ์ฝ˜๋„๊ทธ๋ฅผ ์›ํ•ด."๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ง์”€ํ•˜์‹  ์ค„ ์•Œ์•˜์–ด์š”.
11:15
Unicorn dog.
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์œ ๋‹ˆ์ฝ˜ ๊ฐœ.
11:16
Vanessa: Aww, What a cute ... What a cutie.
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Vanessa: ์•„, ์ •๋ง ๊ท€์—ฝ๋‹ค... ์ •๋ง ๊ท€์—ผ๋‘ฅ์ด.
11:19
But, I said, "Cutie dog".
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ €๋Š” "๊ท€์—ผ๋‘ฅ์ด"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:21
Vanessa: Aww, what a cute dog.
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Vanessa: ์•„, ์ •๋ง ๊ท€์—ฌ์šด ๊ฐœ๋„ค์š”.
11:23
Dan: Mmm.
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๋Œ„: ์Œ.
11:24
Thanks.
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๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ด์š”.
11:25
Vanessa: Mmm.
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๋ฐ”๋„ค์‚ฌ: ์Œ.
11:26
Thanks.
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๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ด์š”.
11:27
Vanessa: The next step is to download my free e-book, Five Steps to Becoming a Confident
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Vanessa: ๋‹ค์Œ ๋‹จ๊ณ„๋Š” ์ œ ๋ฌด๋ฃŒ ์ „์ž์ฑ…์ธ ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ ์žˆ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ๊ตฌ์‚ฌ์ž๊ฐ€ ๋˜๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•œ ๋‹ค์„ฏ ๋‹จ๊ณ„๋ฅผ ๋‹ค์šด๋กœ๋“œํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
11:32
English Speaker.
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11:33
You'll learn what you need to do to speak confidently and fluently.
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์ž์‹ ๊ฐ ์žˆ๊ณ  ์œ ์ฐฝํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•˜๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•˜๋Š”์ง€ ๋ฐฐ์šฐ๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋” ๋งŽ์€ ๋ฌด๋ฃŒ ๋ ˆ์Šจ์„ ๋ฐ›์œผ๋ ค๋ฉด
11:37
Don't forget to subscribe to my YouTube channel for more free lessons.
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์ œ ์œ ํŠœ๋ธŒ ์ฑ„๋„์„ ๊ตฌ๋…ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์žŠ์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š” .
11:41
Thanks so much.
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์ •๋ง ๊ณ ๋งˆ์›Œ.
11:42
Bye.
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์•ˆ๋…•.
์ด ์›น์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ ์ •๋ณด

์ด ์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ•™์Šต์— ์œ ์šฉํ•œ YouTube ๋™์˜์ƒ์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ „ ์„ธ๊ณ„ ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜๋“ค์ด ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ˆ˜์—…์„ ๋ณด๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ ๋™์˜์ƒ ํŽ˜์ด์ง€์— ํ‘œ์‹œ๋˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ” ํด๋ฆญํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ณณ์—์„œ ๋™์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋น„๋””์˜ค ์žฌ์ƒ์— ๋งž์ถฐ ์ž๋ง‰์ด ์Šคํฌ๋กค๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜๊ฒฌ์ด๋‚˜ ์š”์ฒญ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์ด ๋ฌธ์˜ ์–‘์‹์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ๋ฌธ์˜ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.

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