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μ•„λž˜ μ˜λ¬Έμžλ§‰μ„ λ”λΈ”ν΄λ¦­ν•˜μ‹œλ©΄ μ˜μƒμ΄ μž¬μƒλ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ²ˆμ—­λœ μžλ§‰μ€ 기계 λ²ˆμ—­λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.

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Making small talk with senior leaders at work. I know I'm on video right now,
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직μž₯μ—μ„œ κ³ μœ„ 리더듀과 κ°„λ‹¨ν•œ λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό λ‚˜λˆ•λ‹ˆλ‹€ . μ œκ°€ μ§€κΈˆ μ˜μƒμ„ 찍고 μžˆλ‹€λŠ” 건 μ•Œμ§€λ§Œ, 당신이 μ΄λ ‡κ²Œ
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but I feel like I can hear you doing this,
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ν•˜λŠ” 것을 듀을 수 μžˆλŠ” 것 κ°™μ•„μš”. κ·Έ
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sucking your breath in with all that anxiety and you're definitely not alone
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λͺ¨λ“  λΆˆμ•ˆμœΌλ‘œ μˆ¨μ„ λ“€μ΄μ‰¬λ©΄μ„œ κ²½μ˜μ§„κ³Ό λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό μ‹œμž‘ν• 
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in feeling anxious or uncertain when it comes to striking up conversations with
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λ•Œ λΆˆμ•ˆν•˜κ±°λ‚˜ λΆˆν™•μ‹€ν•¨μ„ λŠλΌλŠ” 것은 λ‹Ήμ‹ λΏλ§Œμ΄ μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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executives in your workplace.
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λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ 직μž₯μ—μ„œ. κ²°κ΅­
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It's completely normal to feel intimidated after all.
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μœ„ν˜‘μ„ λŠλΌλŠ” 것은 μ™„μ „νžˆ μ •μƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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These individuals not only have extensive experience,
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이듀은 κ΄‘λ²”μœ„ν•œ κ²½ν—˜μ„ κ°–κ³  μžˆμ„ 뿐만 μ•„λ‹ˆλΌ κ·€ν•˜κ°€ μΌν•˜λŠ” κ³³μ—μ„œ
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but they also take on roles of authority where you work. But here's the truth.
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κΆŒμœ„ μžˆλŠ” 역할도 λ§‘μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 여기에 진싀이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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Ultimately there just people like you and me and today in this
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ꢁ극적으둜 λ‹Ήμ‹ κ³Ό μ € 같은 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ μžˆμ„ λΏμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 였늘 이
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Confident English lesson,
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μžμ‹ κ° μžˆλŠ” μ˜μ–΄ μˆ˜μ—…μ—μ„œλŠ”
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I'm going to show you just how simple it can be to start a conversation,
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λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό μ‹œμž‘ν•˜κ³ ,
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make a positive impression,
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긍정적인 인상을 남기고,
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and maybe even establish some rapport that can benefit your career
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μ–΄μ©Œλ©΄ λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ κ²½λ ₯에 ​​도움이 될 수 μžˆλŠ” 관계λ₯Ό ν˜•μ„±ν•˜λŠ” 것이 μ–Όλ§ˆλ‚˜ κ°„λ‹¨ν•œμ§€ 보여 λ“œλ¦¬κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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in the long run. In this lesson,
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μž₯κΈ°μ μœΌλ‘œλŠ”. 이번 κ°•μ˜μ—μ„œλŠ” μ΄λŸ¬ν•œ 일반적인 μƒν˜Έ μž‘μš©μ— νŽΈμ•ˆν•¨κ³Ό μžμ‹ κ°μ„ λŠλ‚„ 수 μžˆλ„λ‘
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we're going to walk through some easy-to-use tips, strategies,
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μ‚¬μš©ν•˜κΈ° μ‰¬μš΄ λͺ‡ 가지 팁, μ „λž΅
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and questions so you feel both comfortable and confident in these common
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및 μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ μ‚΄νŽ΄λ³΄κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
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interactions. So whether it's at the coffee machine,
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. λ”°λΌμ„œ 컀피 λ¨Έμ‹ ,
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in an elevator or at a company event, you'll be ready to engage.
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μ—˜λ¦¬λ² μ΄ν„°, νšŒμ‚¬ 행사 λ“± μ–΄λ””μ—μ„œλ‚˜ μ°Έμ—¬ν•  μ€€λΉ„κ°€ λ˜μ–΄ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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So if you're ready to turn those awkward situations into opportunities,
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λ”°λΌμ„œ μ΄λŸ¬ν•œ μ–΄μƒ‰ν•œ 상황을 기회둜 λ°”κΏ€ μ€€λΉ„κ°€ λ˜μ—ˆλ‹€λ©΄ 직μž₯의
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let's get started with how to have small talk with senior leaders in your
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κ³ μœ„ 리더듀과 κ°„λ‹¨ν•œ λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό λ‚˜λˆ„λŠ” 방법을 μ‹œμž‘ν•΄ λ³΄μ„Έμš”
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workplace. You might be surprised just how simple it can be.
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. 그것이 μ–Όλ§ˆλ‚˜ κ°„λ‹¨ν•œμ§€ λ†€λž„ μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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Now, very quickly, if this is your first time here, welcome. I'm Annemarie,
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자, μ•„μ£Ό 빨리, 이곳이 처음이라면 ν™˜μ˜ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ €λŠ”
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an English confidence and fluency coach.
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μ˜μ–΄ μžμ‹ κ°κ³Ό μœ μ°½μ„± μ½”μΉ˜ Annemarieμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ œκ°€
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Everything I do is designed to help you get the confidence you want for your
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ν•˜λŠ” λͺ¨λ“  일은 μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ΄
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life and work in English. If you'd love to get years of lessons from me,
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μ˜μ–΄λ‘œ μƒν™œν•˜κ³  μΌν•˜λ©΄μ„œ μ›ν•˜λŠ” μžμ‹ κ°μ„ 얻을 수 μžˆλ„λ‘ 돕기 μœ„ν•΄ κ³ μ•ˆλ˜μ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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including numerous lessons on small talk,
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μž‘λ‹΄μ— λŒ€ν•œ μˆ˜λ§Žμ€ λ ˆμŠ¨μ„ 포함해 μˆ˜λ…„κ°„ μ €μ—κ²Œ λ ˆμŠ¨μ„ λ°›κ³  μ‹ΆμœΌμ‹œλ‹€λ©΄, 제 Speak Confident English μ›Ήμ‚¬μ΄νŠΈμ—μ„œ κ·Έ
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you can find all of that and much more over at my Speak Confident English
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λͺ¨λ“  λ‚΄μš©κ³Ό 훨씬 더 λ§Žμ€ λ‚΄μš©μ„ μ°ΎμœΌμ‹€ 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
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website. While you're there,
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. 그곳에 κ³„μ‹œλŠ” λ™μ•ˆ μ˜μ–΄λ‘œ μ›ν•˜λŠ” 것을 λ§ν•˜λŠ”
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I recommend downloading my free fluency training called How to Get the
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μžμ‹ κ°μ„ μ–»λŠ” λ°©λ²•μ΄λΌλŠ” 무료 μœ μ°½μ„± κ΅μœ‘μ„ λ‹€μš΄λ‘œλ“œν•˜λŠ” 것이 μ’‹μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
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Confidence to Say What You Want In English. Alright,
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. 자,
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now to boost your small talk skills, we're going to do a few things. First,
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이제 μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ˜ μž‘λ‹΄ λŠ₯λ ₯을 ν–₯μƒμ‹œν‚€κΈ° μœ„ν•΄ λͺ‡ 가지 일을 ν•΄λ³΄κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ¨Όμ €, κ³ μœ„ 리더듀과 슀λͺ° 토크λ₯Ό ν•  λ•Œ
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I wanna talk through three essential tips when it comes to small talk with
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κΌ­ ν•„μš”ν•œ μ„Έ 가지 νŒμ„ λ§μ”€λ“œλ¦¬κ³  μ‹ΆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
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senior leaders. Then we'll go through a three-step process.
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. 그러면 3단계 과정을 거치게 λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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You can follow consistently and along the way,
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κΎΈμ€€νžˆ λ”°λΌμ˜€μ‹œλ©΄ λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. κ·Έ κ³Όμ •μ—μ„œ μ‚¬μš©ν•  수 μžˆλŠ”
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I'll give you great example questions to use. So first,
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ν›Œλ₯­ν•œ μ˜ˆμ‹œ μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ λ“œλ¦¬κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ¨Όμ €, 신경을 μ§„μ •μ‹œν‚€κ±°λ‚˜ λΆˆμ•ˆκ°μ„ ν•΄μ†Œν•˜λŠ” 데 도움이 λ˜λ„λ‘ λͺ…심해야 ν• 
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I've got three small talk tips for you to keep in mind to help calm those
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μ„Έ 가지 μž‘λ‹΄ μš”λ Ήμ„ μ€€λΉ„ν–ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
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nerves or push some of that anxiety away. First,
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. 첫째,
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remember that your boss or any senior leader in your company is human
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λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ μƒμ‚¬λ‚˜ νšŒμ‚¬μ˜ κ³ μœ„ 리더가
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just like you. Your boss has interests, feelings,
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λ‹Ήμ‹ κ³Ό λ˜‘κ°™μ€ μΈκ°„μ΄λΌλŠ” 것을 κΈ°μ–΅ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€. λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ μƒμ‚¬λŠ” ν•˜λ£¨ 쒅일 μΌμ–΄λ‚˜λŠ” 관심사, 감정,
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thoughts and experiences happening throughout the day.
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생각 및 κ²½ν—˜μ„ 가지고 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
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It's always appropriate to initiate a small talk conversation with a simple
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question about how someone's day is going.
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ˜ ν•˜λ£¨κ°€ μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μ§„ν–‰λ˜κ³  μžˆλŠ”μ§€μ— λŒ€ν•œ κ°„λ‹¨ν•œ 질문으둜 μž‘λ‹΄ λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό μ‹œμž‘ν•˜λŠ” 것은 항상 μ μ ˆν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. κ³ μœ„ 리더
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The second tip for small talk with senior leaders is to keep your
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μ™€μ˜ μž‘λ‹΄μ„ μœ„ν•œ 두 번째 νŒμ€
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conversations heavy on the professional side and light on the
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전문적인 μΈ‘λ©΄μ—μ„œλŠ” λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό 무겁게 ν•˜κ³ 
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personal to keep these conversational interactions work appropriate.
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개인적인 μΈ‘λ©΄μ—μ„œλŠ” κ°€λ²Όμš΄ λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό μœ μ§€ν•˜μ—¬ μ΄λŸ¬ν•œ λŒ€ν™” μƒν˜Έ μž‘μš©μ΄ μ μ ˆν•˜κ²Œ μœ μ§€λ˜λ„λ‘ ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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It's best to stick to professional topics such as your work experience,
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업무 κ²½ν—˜,
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things that you're learning or the company itself. Then from time to time,
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배우고 μžˆλŠ” λ‚΄μš© λ˜λŠ” νšŒμ‚¬ μžμ²΄μ™€ 같은 전문적인 주제λ₯Ό λ‹€λ£¨λŠ” 것이 κ°€μž₯ μ’‹μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그런 λ‹€μŒ λ•Œλ•Œλ‘œ κ³ μœ„ 리더
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your small talk conversations with senior leaders could look at making
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μ™€μ˜ μž‘λ‹΄ λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό 톡해
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connections on a more personal level. For example,
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보닀 개인적인 μ°¨μ›μ—μ„œ 연결을 λ§Œλ“œλŠ” 방법을 μ‚΄νŽ΄λ³Ό 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . 예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄,
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you might have a discussion over a shared love of a particular podcast,
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νŠΉμ • 팟캐슀트,
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an article, a book, or some event that's happening in the news right now.
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기사, μ±… λ˜λŠ” ν˜„μž¬ λ‰΄μŠ€μ—μ„œ μΌμ–΄λ‚˜κ³  μžˆλŠ” 일뢀 μ΄λ²€νŠΈμ— λŒ€ν•œ κ³΅ν†΅λœ μ‚¬λž‘μ— λŒ€ν•΄ ν† λ‘ ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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But for the most part,
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κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‚˜ λŒ€λΆ€λΆ„μ˜ 경우
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your small talk interactions with senior leaders will emphasize work-related
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κ³ μœ„ λ¦¬λ”μ™€μ˜ μž‘λ‹΄μ—μ„œλŠ” 업무 κ΄€λ ¨ 주제λ₯Ό κ°•μ‘°ν•˜κ²Œ λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€
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topics.
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And tip number three when it comes to small talk with senior leaders is to
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그리고 κ³ μœ„ λ¦¬λ”λ“€κ³Όμ˜ μž‘λ‹΄μ—μ„œ μ„Έ 번째 νŒμ€
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embrace brief exchanges. As you know,
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짧은 λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό λ‚˜λˆ„λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ•„μ‹œλ‹€μ‹œν”Ό,
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your boss is very busy and may not have the time or energy to invest
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κ·€ν•˜μ˜ μƒμ‚¬λŠ” 맀우 λ°”μ˜κΈ° λ•Œλ¬Έμ— κΈ΄ λŒ€ν™”μ— νˆ¬μžν•  μ‹œκ°„μ΄λ‚˜ μ—λ„ˆμ§€κ°€ 없을 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
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in a lengthy conversation. Not only that,
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. 그뿐만 μ•„λ‹ˆλΌ,
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but your boss may have worked to create clear boundaries with workplace
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상사가 직μž₯ 관계에 λŒ€ν•œ λͺ…ν™•ν•œ 경계λ₯Ό λ§Œλ“€κΈ° μœ„ν•΄ λ…Έλ ₯ν–ˆμ„ 수
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relationships and as a result, conversations in the workplace,
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있으며 κ·Έ κ²°κ³Ό 직μž₯μ—μ„œμ˜ λŒ€ν™”,
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particularly those that are more personal, might be very brief.
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특히 보닀 개인적인 λŒ€ν™”λŠ” 맀우 짧을 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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As a result,
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λ”°λΌμ„œ
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it's important to be open to fluctuations in terms of the depth and
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length of your conversations with senior leaders at work.
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직μž₯μ—μ„œ κ³ μœ„ λ¦¬λ”μ™€μ˜ λŒ€ν™”μ˜ κΉŠμ΄μ™€ 길이 μΈ‘λ©΄μ—μ„œ 변동에 개방적인 νƒœλ„λ₯Ό μ·¨ν•˜λŠ” 것이 μ€‘μš”ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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With those tips in mind,
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μ΄λŸ¬ν•œ νŒμ„ 염두에 두고 직μž₯ μƒν˜Έ μž‘μš©μ—
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I want to share with you a three-step approach to help you be confident
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μžμ‹ κ°μ„ κ°–κ³  효과적으둜 λŒ€μ²˜ν•˜λŠ” 데 도움이 λ˜λŠ” 3단계 μ ‘κ·Ό 방식을 κ³΅μœ ν•˜κ³  μ‹ΆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
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and effective in your workplace interactions.
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.
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I'm going to give you a very quick overview of these three steps and then we'll
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이 μ„Έ 단계에 λŒ€ν•΄ 맀우 κ°„λž΅ν•˜κ²Œ μ„€λͺ… ν•˜κ³ 
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take a look at each one in depth.
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각 단계λ₯Ό μžμ„Ένžˆ μ‚΄νŽ΄λ³΄κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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The first step in this approach is to plan ahead. Now, of course,
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이 μ ‘κ·Ό λ°©μ‹μ˜ 첫 번째 λ‹¨κ³„λŠ” 미리 κ³„νšμ„ μ„Έμš°λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ¬Όλ‘ 
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we can't plan for every social interaction.
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μš°λ¦¬κ°€ λͺ¨λ“  μ‚¬νšŒμ  μƒν˜Έμž‘μš©μ„ κ³„νšν•  μˆ˜λŠ” μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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It's inevitable that there will be a situation where you unexpectedly run into a
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μ˜ˆμƒμΉ˜ λͺ»ν•œ
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senior leader and have an opportunity to have a quick exchange. However,
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μ„ λ°° 리더λ₯Ό λ§Œλ‚˜ λΉ λ₯Έ ꡐλ₯˜μ˜ 기회λ₯Ό κ°–κ²Œ λ˜λŠ” 상황은 λΆˆκ°€ν”Όν•˜λ‹€. κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‚˜
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there are times when you know that you'll have that opportunity. For example,
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당신이 κ·Έ 기회λ₯Ό κ°–κ²Œ 될 κ²ƒμ΄λΌλŠ” 것을 μ•Œ λ•Œκ°€ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄, 곧
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there may be a company event coming up soon or perhaps you know that a senior
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νšŒμ‚¬ 행사가 μžˆμ„ μˆ˜λ„ 있고 κ³ μœ„
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leader will be visiting your department next week.
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리더가 λ‹€μŒ 주에 κ·€ν•˜μ˜ λΆ€μ„œλ₯Ό λ°©λ¬Έν•  κ²ƒμ΄λΌλŠ” 사싀을 μ•Œκ³  μžˆμ„ μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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When we talk about this particular step in depth,
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이 νŠΉμ • 단계에 λŒ€ν•΄ 심도 있게 이야기할 λ•Œ 사전 쀀비에 도움이 λ˜λ„λ‘
05:10
I'll give you some key things to think through to help you prepare in advance.
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생각해 보아야 ν•  λͺ‡ 가지 핡심 사항을 μ•Œλ € λ“œλ¦¬κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
05:15
The second step in this approach is to listen and connect.
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이 μ ‘κ·Ό λ°©μ‹μ˜ 두 번째 λ‹¨κ³„λŠ” λ“£κ³  μ—°κ²°ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:18
What that means is once you've initiated that small talk conversation,
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이것이 μ˜λ―Έν•˜λŠ” λ°”λŠ” μž‘λ‹΄ λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό μ‹œμž‘ν•œ ν›„μ—λŠ”
05:23
it's important to listen actively paying attention to little bits of
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μž‘μ€
05:28
information or key details because this will allow you to ask better
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μ •λ³΄λ‚˜ μ£Όμš” μ„ΈλΆ€ 사항에 주의λ₯Ό κΈ°μšΈμ΄λ©΄μ„œ 적극적으둜 λ“£λŠ” 것이 μ€‘μš”ν•˜λ‹€λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ΄λ ‡κ²Œ ν•˜λ©΄ 더 λ‚˜μ€
05:32
follow-up questions and in the end have a more meaningful exchange.
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후속 μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ ν•  수 있고 κ²°κ΅­μ—λŠ” 더 의미 μžˆλŠ” λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό ν•  수 있기 λ•Œλ¬Έμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. .
05:38
And then step number three in this approach end on a positive note.
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그리고 이 μ ‘κ·Ό λ°©μ‹μ˜ μ„Έ 번째 λ‹¨κ³„λŠ” 긍정적인 결과둜 λλ‚©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:42
This means to end your interaction with some positive statement or
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μ΄λŠ” 긍정적인 μ§„μˆ μ΄λ‚˜
05:47
action step. Let's take a closer look at each one of these steps.
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행동 λ‹¨κ³„λ‘œ μƒν˜Έ μž‘μš©μ„ λλ‚΄λŠ” 것을 μ˜λ―Έν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 각 단계λ₯Ό μžμ„Ένžˆ μ‚΄νŽ΄λ³΄κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . μ•žμ„œ
05:51
As I mentioned, step number one is plan ahead.
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μ–ΈκΈ‰ν–ˆλ“―μ΄ 첫 번째 λ‹¨κ³„λŠ” 미리 κ³„νšμ„ μ„Έμš°λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:55
When you know that you'll have an opportunity to interact with a senior leader
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06:00
at a meeting coming up next week,
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λ‹€μŒ 주에 μžˆμ„ 회의,
06:02
a visit to your department or a company retreat,
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λΆ€μ„œ λ°©λ¬Έ λ˜λŠ” νšŒμ‚¬ μˆ˜λ ¨νšŒμ—μ„œ κ³ μœ„ 리더와 λŒ€ν™”ν•  κΈ°νšŒκ°€ μžˆλ‹€λŠ” 것을 μ•Œκ²Œ 되면
06:06
you can take time to plan ahead with some key questions in mind.
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λͺ‡ 가지 μ£Όμš” μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ 염두에 두고 미리 β€‹β€‹κ³„νšμ„ μ„ΈμšΈ μ‹œκ°„μ„ κ°€μ§ˆ 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:10
Preparing in advance will help you feel confident and ready the moment you have
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미리 μ€€λΉ„ν•˜λ©΄ μƒν˜Έμž‘μš©μ„ ν•˜λŠ” μˆœκ°„ μžμ‹ κ°μ„ κ°–κ³  μ€€λΉ„κ°€ λ˜μ–΄ μžˆλ‹€λŠ” λŠλ‚Œμ„ λ°›λŠ” 데 도움이 λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€
06:15
that interaction. It'll also lead to more meaningful exchanges.
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. λ”μš± 의미 μžˆλŠ” ꡐλ₯˜λ‘œ μ΄μ–΄μ§ˆ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:20
When you're in the preparation phase,
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μ€€λΉ„ λ‹¨κ³„μ—μ„œλŠ”
06:22
there are a few questions for you to ask yourself,
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μŠ€μŠ€λ‘œμ—κ²Œ 물어봐야 ν•  λͺ‡ 가지 질문과
06:25
some considerations to take into account. For example,
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κ³ λ €ν•΄μ•Ό ν•  λͺ‡ 가지 κ³ λ € 사항이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . 예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄,
06:29
you might start thinking about where you will be,
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당신은 어디에 μžˆμ„ 것인지,
06:32
will you encounter this particular senior leader at a networking event,
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λ„€νŠΈμ›Œν‚Ή 행사,
06:36
at a corporate dinner or a more relaxed networking company environment?
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κΈ°μ—… 만찬 λ˜λŠ” μ’€ 더 νŽΈμ•ˆν•œ λ„€νŠΈμ›Œν‚Ή νšŒμ‚¬ ν™˜κ²½μ—μ„œ 이 νŠΉμ • κ³ μœ„ 리더λ₯Ό λ§Œλ‚  것인지 μƒκ°ν•˜κΈ° μ‹œμž‘ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:42
How much time do you think you'll have in that interaction?
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κ·Έ μƒν˜Έμž‘μš©μ— μ–Όλ§ˆλ‚˜ λ§Žμ€ μ‹œκ°„μ„ ν• μ• ν•  것이라고 μƒκ°ν•˜μ‹œλ‚˜μš”?
06:45
What is the particular purpose of the event or meeting?
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ν–‰μ‚¬λ‚˜ 회의의 νŠΉλ³„ν•œ λͺ©μ μ€ λ¬΄μ—‡μž…λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
06:50
What does this senior leader already know about you? And lastly,
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이 κ³ μœ„ λ¦¬λ”λŠ” 당신에 λŒ€ν•΄ 이미 무엇을 μ•Œκ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ? λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰μœΌλ‘œ, νŠΉμ • μ‹œκ°„κ³Ό μž₯μ†Œμ—μ„œ λ…Όμ˜ν•˜κΈ°μ—
06:54
what topic might be most appropriate to discuss in that particular time
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κ°€μž₯ μ μ ˆν•œ μ£Όμ œλŠ” λ¬΄μ—‡μž…λ‹ˆκΉŒ
06:59
and place? Once you've thought through those initial questions,
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? μ΄λŸ¬ν•œ 초기 μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ λͺ¨λ‘ κ³ λ €ν•œ ν›„μ—λŠ”
07:03
the next one is the most important.
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λ‹€μŒ 질문이 κ°€μž₯ μ€‘μš”ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. λŒ€ν™”μ—μ„œ
07:06
What is the key message that you want to share with your boss or that senior
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μƒμ‚¬λ‚˜ κ³ μœ„ 리더와 κ³΅μœ ν•˜κ³  싢은 핡심 λ©”μ‹œμ§€λŠ” λ¬΄μ—‡μž…λ‹ˆκΉŒ
07:10
leader in your conversation? For example,
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? 예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄,
07:14
do you want your boss to learn more about your expertise,
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상사가 κ·€ν•˜μ˜ μ „λ¬Έ 지식에 λŒ€ν•΄ 더 많이 μ•ŒκΈ°λ₯Ό μ›ν•˜μ‹­λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
07:18
receive an update about an ongoing project,
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진행 쀑인 ν”„λ‘œμ νŠΈμ— λŒ€ν•œ μ—…λ°μ΄νŠΈλ₯Ό λ°›κ±°λ‚˜ κ·€ν•˜μ˜ 직업적 동기에
07:21
or know more about your professional motivation?
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λŒ€ν•΄ 더 많이 μ•ŒκΈ°λ₯Ό μ›ν•˜μ‹­λ‹ˆκΉŒ ?
07:25
Once you've made a few notes with these particular questions in mind,
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μ΄λŸ¬ν•œ νŠΉμ • μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ 염두에 두고 λͺ‡ 가지 λ©”λͺ¨λ₯Ό μž‘μ„±ν•œ ν›„μ—λŠ” μžμ‹ μ΄ μ²˜ν•˜κ²Œ 될 상황에 κ΄€λ ¨λ˜κ³  μ μ ˆν•œ μ£Όμ œλ‚˜ μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„
07:28
you can then begin to consider the topics or questions that would be
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κ³ λ €ν•˜κΈ° μ‹œμž‘ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
07:33
relevant and appropriate to the situation that you'll be in. For example,
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. 예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄,
07:38
if you know your boss will be visiting your department next week,
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상사가 λ‹€μŒ 주에 κ·€ν•˜μ˜ λΆ€μ„œλ₯Ό λ°©λ¬Έν•˜μ—¬
07:41
spending time to get to know your team,
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νŒ€μ— λŒ€ν•΄ μ•Œμ•„κ°€λŠ” μ‹œκ°„μ„ κ°€μ§€κ²Œ λœλ‹€λ©΄,
07:44
it's obvious that that would not be an appropriate time to try making
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07:49
some personal connection by having a conversation about your kids.
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μžλ…€μ— λŒ€ν•œ λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό 톡해 개인적인 관계λ₯Ό λ§ΊκΈ°μ—λŠ” μ μ ˆν•œ μ‹œκ°„μ΄ μ•„λ‹ˆλΌλŠ” 것은 λΆ„λͺ…ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:53
However,
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κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‚˜
07:55
if your company is hosting a casual dinner for all of its employees,
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νšŒμ‚¬μ—μ„œ λͺ¨λ“  직원을 μœ„ν•œ κ°„λ‹¨ν•œ 저녁 식사λ₯Ό μ£Όμ΅œν•˜λŠ” 경우
08:00
you might have a more personal interaction at that time.
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κ·Έ μ‹œκ°„μ— μ’€ 더 개인적인 μƒν˜Έ μž‘μš©μ„ ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:03
With those guidelines in place,
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μ΄λŸ¬ν•œ 지침을 λ°”νƒ•μœΌλ‘œ
08:05
let's take a look at a few questions that are great ways to get a small talk
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μž‘λ‹΄
08:09
conversation going. If for example,
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λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό μ§„ν–‰ν•˜λŠ” 데 도움이 λ˜λŠ” λͺ‡ 가지 μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ μ‚΄νŽ΄λ³΄κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄,
08:12
you and your boss are at the same conference, you might ask,
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λ‹Ήμ‹ κ³Ό λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ 상사가 같은 νšŒμ˜μ— μ°Έμ„ν–ˆλ‹€λ©΄,
08:15
what did you think of the presentation?
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ν”„λ ˆμ  ν…Œμ΄μ…˜μ— λŒ€ν•΄ μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μƒκ°ν–ˆλ‚˜μš”?
08:17
Did you enjoy it or did you learn anything new?
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μ¦κ±°μ› λ‚˜μš”, μ•„λ‹ˆλ©΄ μƒˆλ‘œμš΄ 것을 λ°°μ› λ‚˜μš”?
08:19
Whether your conversation is planned or unplanned,
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λŒ€ν™”κ°€ κ³„νšλœ 것이든 κ³„νšλ˜μ§€ μ•Šμ€ 것이든,
08:23
you can always start with how's your day going?
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ν•˜λ£¨λŠ” μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μ§€λ‚΄μ‹œλ‚˜μš”?둜 μ–Έμ œλ“ μ§€ μ‹œμž‘ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:26
Or let's say that you recently noticed your bosses reading a particular book and
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μ•„λ‹ˆλ©΄ μ΅œκ·Όμ— 상사가 νŠΉμ • 책을 μ½λŠ” 것을 λͺ©κ²©ν–ˆκ³ ,
08:30
during a casual part of the day, maybe over a lunch break you might say,
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ν•˜λ£¨ 쀑 일상적인 μ‹œκ°„, μ•„λ§ˆλ„ 점심 μ‹œκ°„μ—
08:35
I noticed you were reading X. What do you think of it so far? And finally,
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당신이 Xλ₯Ό 읽고 μžˆλ‹€λŠ” κ±Έ μ•Œμ•„μ°¨λ Έλ‹€κ³  말할 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆλ‹€κ³  κ°€μ •ν•΄ λ³΄κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ§€κΈˆκΉŒμ§€ μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜μ‹œλ‚˜μš”? 그리고 λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰μœΌλ‘œ,
08:39
if you know that your boss has been traveling recently,
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상사가 졜근 좜μž₯ μ€‘μ΄λΌλŠ” 사싀을 μ•ˆλ‹€λ©΄, 상사가
08:42
when they come back to the office, you might say, how was your trip?
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μ‚¬λ¬΄μ‹€λ‘œ λŒμ•„μ™”μ„ λ•Œ 여행은 μ–΄λ• λ‚˜μš”?라고 말할 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:46
Do you notice that? With each of those questions,
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κ·Έκ±Έ λˆˆμΉ˜μ±„μ…¨λ‚˜μš”? 각 μ§ˆλ¬Έμ— λŒ€ν•΄
08:49
I first explained the context or the situation to make sure that the
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λ¨Όμ € 질문의 관련성을 ν™•μΈν•˜κΈ° μœ„ν•΄ λ§₯λ½μ΄λ‚˜ 상황을 μ„€λͺ…ν–ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
08:54
question asked is relevant.
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.
08:56
Going through those key questions I asked you to consider in step number one
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첫 번째 λ‹¨κ³„μ—μ„œ μ œκ°€ κ³ λ €ν•˜λΌκ³  μš”μ²­ν•œ μ£Όμš” μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ μ‚΄νŽ΄λ³΄λ©΄ κ·€ν•˜μ˜ 질문이 ν˜„μž¬ μ²˜ν•œ 상황에 항상 μ μ ˆν•œμ§€
09:00
will help you make sure that your questions are always appropriate to the
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ν™•μΈν•˜λŠ” 데 도움이 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
09:05
situation that you're in.
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. κ³ μœ„ λ¦¬λ”μ™€μ˜
09:07
The second step for an effective small talk conversation with a senior leader is
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효과적인 μž‘λ‹΄ λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό μœ„ν•œ 두 번째 λ‹¨κ³„λŠ”
09:11
to relax, listen, and connect. As I highlighted in step number one,
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κΈ΄μž₯을 ν‘ΈλŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. , λ“£κ³  μ—°κ²°ν•˜μ„Έμš”. 첫 번째 λ‹¨κ³„μ—μ„œ κ°•μ‘°ν–ˆλ“―μ΄,
09:16
we don't always get the luxury of preparing in advance.
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항상 미리 μ€€λΉ„ν•  μ—¬μœ κ°€ μžˆλŠ” 것은 μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€ . μ˜ˆμƒμΉ˜
09:20
There will be situations in which you unexpectedly bump into someone and
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λͺ»ν•œ λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ™€ μš°μ—°νžˆ 마주쳐
09:25
have an opportunity to start a small talk conversation. In that moment,
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μž‘λ‹΄ λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό μ‹œμž‘ν•  κΈ°νšŒκ°€ μƒκΈ°λŠ” 상황이 μžˆμ„ 것이닀 . κ·Έ μˆœκ°„
09:29
the best thing you can do is relax and analyze.
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당신이 ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” μ΅œμ„ μ˜ 일은 κΈ΄μž₯을 ν’€κ³  λΆ„μ„ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ•žμ„œ κ³΅μœ ν•œ 질문 쀑
09:34
Do a quick mental scan of some of those questions I shared with you earlier.
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일뢀λ₯Ό λΉ λ₯΄κ²Œ λ¨Έλ¦Ώμ†μœΌλ‘œ μ‚΄νŽ΄λ³΄μ„Έμš” .
09:40
For example,
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예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄, νŠΉμ • μˆœκ°„μ— μžμ‹ μ΄ 어디에 μžˆλŠ”μ§€
09:41
you can very quickly mentally analyze where are you at that particular moment?
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맀우 λΉ λ₯΄κ²Œ μ •μ‹ μ μœΌλ‘œ 뢄석할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:46
Why are you there and does your boss look like he or she is in a rush?
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당신은 μ™œ κ±°κΈ° 있고 λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ 상사가 μ„œλ‘λ₯΄λŠ” κ²ƒμ²˜λŸΌ λ³΄μž…λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
09:51
While you're mentally scanning those questions,
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당신이 μ •μ‹ μ μœΌλ‘œ κ·Έ μ§ˆλ¬Έλ“€μ„ μ‚΄νŽ΄λ³΄λŠ” λ™μ•ˆ,
09:54
you can certainly smile and greet your boss with a good morning,
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당신은 ν™•μ‹€νžˆ λ―Έμ†Œλ₯Ό μ§€μœΌλ©° μƒμ‚¬μ—κ²Œ 쒋은 μ•„μΉ¨,
09:58
a good afternoon, hello, et cetera.
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쒋은 μ˜€ν›„, μ•ˆλ…•ν•˜μ„Έμš” λ“±μ˜ 인사λ₯Ό ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:00
Now let me give you a quick example of some different circumstances that might
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이제 μ‹œμž‘ν•˜κΈ°μ— κ°€μž₯ 쒋은 μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ μƒκ°ν•˜λŠ” 데 도움이 될 수 μžˆλŠ” λͺ‡ 가지 λ‹€μ–‘ν•œ 상황에 λŒ€ν•œ κ°„λ‹¨ν•œ 예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄ λ³΄κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
10:04
help you think about the best question to begin with. For example,
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. 예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄ μ•„μ£Ό μ€‘μš”ν•œ 회의λ₯Ό ν•˜λŸ¬ κ°€λŠ”
10:08
you might bump into your boss in the elevator on the way up to
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길에 μ—˜λ¦¬λ² μ΄ν„°μ—μ„œ 상사와 마주칠 μˆ˜λ„ 있고,
10:13
a very important meeting and you have about 10 seconds together,
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μ•½ 10초 정도 ν•¨κ»˜ μ‹œκ°„μ„ 보낼 μˆ˜λ„ 있고,
10:17
or you might be getting coffee on a weekend with your family and
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주말에 κ°€μ‘±κ³Ό ν•¨κ»˜ 컀피λ₯Ό λ§ˆμ‹œλ‹€κ°€
10:21
unexpectedly run into your boss at a coffee shop.
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κ°‘μžκΈ° 컀피λ₯Ό λ§ˆμ‹œλ‹€κ°€ 상사와 마주칠 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. κ°€κ²Œ.
10:24
These are two extremely different circumstances that would result in very
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μ΄λŠ” 맀우 λ‹€λ₯Έ μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ μ΄ˆλž˜ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” 맀우 λ‹€λ₯Έ 두 가지 μƒν™©μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
10:29
different questions. Now,
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. 이제 μ΄λŸ¬ν•œ μ‹œλ‚˜λ¦¬μ˜€ 쀑 ν•˜λ‚˜μ—μ„œ 무엇을
10:31
if you're not sure what to do or what to say in either of those scenarios,
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ν•΄μ•Ό 할지, 무엇을 말해야 할지 잘 λͺ¨λ₯΄κ² λ‹€λ©΄,
10:36
the best question to start with is simply, how's your day going?
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μ‹œμž‘ν•˜κΈ° κ°€μž₯ 쒋은 μ§ˆλ¬Έμ€ κ°„λ‹¨ν•˜κ²Œ '였늘 ν•˜λ£¨ 잘 μ§€λ‚΄μ„Έμš”?'μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:39
Or it's good to see you? How's your day going?
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μ•„λ‹ˆλ©΄ λ§Œλ‚˜μ„œ λ°˜κ°€μ› λ‚˜μš”? 였늘 ν•˜λ£¨ 잘 보내고 κ³„μ‹œλ‚˜μš”?
10:43
Once you've asked that first question, the next part of this step is crucial.
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첫 번째 μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ ν•˜κ³  λ‚˜λ©΄ 이 λ‹¨κ³„μ˜ λ‹€μŒ 뢀뢄이 μ€‘μš”ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:48
Listen actively.
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적극적으둜 λ“€μ–΄λ³΄μ„Έμš”.
10:50
That means pay close attention to what your boss says so
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μ΄λŠ” 후속 μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” μ£Όμš” μ •λ³΄λ‚˜ μ„ΈλΆ€ 사항을 식별할 수 μžˆλ„λ‘ 상사가 λ§ν•˜λŠ” λ‚΄μš©μ— μ„Έμ‹¬ν•œ 주의λ₯Ό κΈ°μšΈμ΄λŠ” 것을 μ˜λ―Έν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€
10:55
that you can identify key pieces of information or details that will allow
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you to ask follow up questions. For example,
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. 예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄,
11:03
if you're in an elevator with your boss and you ask how their day is going,
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당신이 상사와 ν•¨κ»˜ μ—˜λ¦¬λ² μ΄ν„°λ₯Ό 타고 μžˆμ„ λ•Œ μƒμ‚¬μ˜ ν•˜λ£¨κ°€ μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μ§€λ‚΄λŠ”μ§€ λ¬»λŠ”λ‹€λ©΄,
11:08
your boss might respond by saying that she's quite busy today due to a project
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μƒμ‚¬λŠ” 당신이 잘 μ•Œκ³  μžˆλŠ” ν”„λ‘œμ νŠΈ λ•Œλ¬Έμ— 였늘 κ½€ λ°”μ˜λ‹€κ³  λŒ€λ‹΅ν•  κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
11:13
that you're familiar with. In this case,
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. 이 경우, νŠΉμ • ν”„λ‘œμ νŠΈμ— λŒ€ν•œ
11:15
you might comment on your own experience with that particular project or
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μžμ‹ μ˜ κ²½ν—˜μ— λŒ€ν•΄ μ–ΈκΈ‰ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜
11:20
compliment your boss on how they've handled that particular project so far.
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상사가 μ§€κΈˆκΉŒμ§€ νŠΉμ • ν”„λ‘œμ νŠΈλ₯Ό μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μ²˜λ¦¬ν–ˆλŠ”μ§€μ— λŒ€ν•΄ μΉ­μ°¬ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:24
Or if for example,
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λ˜λŠ” 예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄,
11:26
you're on your way out of the office at the end of the workday and you run into
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κ·€ν•˜κ°€ 근무일을 마치고 μ‚¬λ¬΄μ‹€μ—μ„œ λ‚˜κ°€λ‹€κ°€
11:30
your boss after hearing about how their day is going,
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μƒμ‚¬μ˜ ν•˜λ£¨ 일과λ₯Ό λ“£κ³  μš°μ—°νžˆ 상사λ₯Ό λ§Œλ‚¬λ‹€λ©΄
11:33
your boss might indicate that she's on her way to pick up her kids from school,
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μƒμ‚¬λŠ” μžλ…€λ₯Ό 데리러 κ°€λŠ” 쀑이라고 말할 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. ν•™κ΅μ—μ„œ,
11:37
and in this circumstance,
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그리고 이 μƒν™©μ—μ„œλŠ”
11:39
because your boss has shared something outside of the workplace,
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상사가 직μž₯ λ°–μ—μ„œ κ³΅μœ ν•œ λ‚΄μš©μ΄ 있기 λ•Œλ¬Έμ—
11:42
it would be appropriate to ask a related question. For example,
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κ΄€λ ¨ μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ ν•˜λŠ” 것이 μ μ ˆν•  κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄,
11:46
how old her kids might be.
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κ·Έλ…€μ˜ μžλ…€κ°€ λͺ‡ 살인지.
11:48
Listening for these little bits of information is the key to
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μ΄λŸ¬ν•œ μž‘μ€ 정보에 κ·€λ₯Ό κΈ°μšΈμ΄λŠ” 것이
11:52
ultimately making a connection,
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ꢁ극적으둜 연결을 λ§Œλ“œλŠ” 열쇠이며,
11:54
and it's the quality of these connections that will make your conversations more
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λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό λ”μš±
11:59
interesting and allow you to establish rapport or even leave a lasting
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ν₯미둭게 λ§Œλ“€κ³  μΉœλ°€κ°μ„ ν˜•μ„±ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜ 지속적인 인상을 남길 수 있게 ν•΄μ£ΌλŠ” 것은 μ΄λŸ¬ν•œ μ—°κ²°μ˜ ν’ˆμ§ˆμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
12:03
impression. Now,
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. 이제 두 번째
12:05
a final note on step number two is it's important to always
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λ‹¨κ³„μ˜ λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰ λ©”λͺ¨λŠ” 항상
12:10
read the room.
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방을 μ½λŠ” 것이 μ€‘μš”ν•˜λ‹€λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
12:12
To read The room means that you pay attention to the subtle nonverbal
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방을 μ½λŠ”λ‹€λŠ” 것은
12:16
details that give information or clues about someone's energy,
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ˜ μ—λ„ˆμ§€, νŠΉμ • μˆœκ°„μ˜
12:21
their feelings or thoughts at a particular moment. For example,
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κ°μ •μ΄λ‚˜ 생각에 λŒ€ν•œ μ •λ³΄λ‚˜ λ‹¨μ„œλ₯Ό μ œκ³΅ν•˜λŠ” λ―Έλ¬˜ν•œ 비언어적 μ„ΈλΆ€ 사항에 주의λ₯Ό κΈ°μšΈμ΄λŠ” 것을 μ˜λ―Έν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€ . 예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄,
12:25
if your boss appears relaxed and is answering your questions at length,
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상사가 νŽΈμ•ˆν•΄ 보이고 μ§ˆλ¬Έμ— 길게 λŒ€λ‹΅ν•œλ‹€λ©΄ μ΄λŠ” λŒ€ν™”
12:31
then it's an indication that they're interested in the conversation and it would
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에 관심이 μžˆλ‹€λŠ” ν‘œμ‹œμ΄λ©° 일정 κΈ°κ°„ λ™μ•ˆ
12:34
be perfectly appropriate to keep it going for a period of time. However,
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λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό κ³„μ†ν•˜λŠ” 것이 맀우 μ μ ˆν•  κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ . ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ
12:39
if their responses are particularly curt or short or it seems that they're not
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κ·Έλ“€μ˜ λ°˜μ‘μ΄ μœ λ‚œνžˆ 퉁λͺ…μŠ€λŸ½κ±°λ‚˜ μ§§κ±°λ‚˜
12:44
really paying attention,
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λ³„λ‘œ 주의λ₯Ό κΈ°μšΈμ΄μ§€ μ•ŠλŠ” 것 κ°™λ‹€λ©΄
12:45
this is a sign that it's time to bring that conversation to a close,
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μ΄λŠ” λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό λ§ˆλ¬΄λ¦¬ν•΄μ•Ό ν•  λ•ŒλΌλŠ” μ‹ ν˜Έμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
12:50
and that leads me to step number three, end on a positive note.
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그러면 3λ‹¨κ³„λ‘œ λ‚˜μ•„κ°€ 긍정적인 κ²°κ³Όλ₯Ό μ–»κ²Œ λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ©”λͺ¨.
12:54
Let's take a look at a few great examples and then I'll highlight how to end on
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λͺ‡ 가지 ν›Œλ₯­ν•œ 예λ₯Ό μ‚΄νŽ΄λ³΄κ³  μ‹€μ œ μ‹œλ‚˜λ¦¬μ˜€μ—μ„œ 긍정적인 κ²°κ³Όλ₯Ό μ–»λŠ” 방법을 κ°•μ‘°ν•˜κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
12:59
a positive note in a real life scenario.
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.
13:02
When it's time to bring your small talk conversation to a close,
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μž‘λ‹΄ λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό λ§ˆλ¬΄λ¦¬ν•  μ‹œκ°„μ΄ 되면
13:06
try using one of these phrases. It was wonderful talking to you.
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λ‹€μŒ ν‘œν˜„ 쀑 ν•˜λ‚˜λ₯Ό μ‚¬μš©ν•΄ λ³΄μ„Έμš”. λ‹Ήμ‹ κ³Ό 이야기λ₯Ό λ‚˜λˆ„λŠ” 것은 정말 멋진 μΌμ΄μ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:10
I hope you have a great day. Thanks for the great conversation.
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쒋은 ν•˜λ£¨ λ³΄λ‚΄μ‹œκΈ° λ°”λžλ‹ˆλ‹€. 쒋은 λŒ€ν™”μ— κ°μ‚¬λ“œλ¦½λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:13
Enjoy the rest of your day.
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남은 ν•˜λ£¨λ„ 잘 λ³΄λ‚΄μ„Έμš”. μ§€κΈˆκΉŒμ§€ λ…Όμ˜ν•œ
13:14
If you want to reference a particular topic that you've been discussing,
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νŠΉμ • 주제λ₯Ό μ–ΈκΈ‰ν•˜κ³  μ‹Άλ‹€λ©΄ "
13:18
you can bring that into your closing by saying,
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13:21
I hope we can talk more about this soon. Have a great day,
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이 λ¬Έμ œμ— λŒ€ν•΄ 곧 더 λ§Žμ€ 이야기λ₯Ό λ‚˜λˆŒ 수 있기λ₯Ό λ°”λžλ‹ˆλ‹€"라고 λ§ν•˜λ©° λ§ˆλ¬΄λ¦¬ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 쒋은 ν•˜λ£¨ λ³΄λ‚΄μ„Έμš”.
13:25
or I hope we can talk more about X soon,
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μ•„λ‹ˆλ©΄ 곧 X에 λŒ€ν•΄ 더 많이 이야기할 수 있기λ₯Ό λ°”λžλ‹ˆλ‹€. 예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄
13:28
and you might highlight the key topic or maybe a book that you've been
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핡심 μ£Όμ œλ‚˜ ν† λ‘ ν–ˆλ˜ 책을 κ°•μ‘°ν•  μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
13:32
discussing, for example. Lastly, thank you for your time.
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. λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰μœΌλ‘œ, μ‹œκ°„μ„ λ‚΄μ£Όμ…”μ„œ κ°μ‚¬ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:37
I really enjoyed our conversation. Now,
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λ‚˜λŠ” 우리 λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό 정말 μ¦κ²ΌμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 이제
13:39
if you're not sure how to bring these into the end of the conversation,
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μ΄λŸ¬ν•œ λ‚΄μš©μ„ λŒ€ν™”μ˜ λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰ λΆ€λΆ„μœΌλ‘œ κ°€μ Έμ˜€λŠ” 방법을 잘 λͺ¨λ₯΄κ² λ‹€λ©΄
13:43
let me give you an example.
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예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄ λ³΄κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:45
Let's say that you and your boss have been having a conversation about a podcast
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λ‹Ήμ‹ κ³Ό λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ 상사가 λ‘˜ λ‹€ λ“£κ³  μžˆλŠ” νŒŸμΊμŠ€νŠΈμ— κ΄€ν•΄ λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό λ‚˜λˆ„κ³  μžˆλ‹€κ³  κ°€μ •ν•΄ λ³΄κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:49
that you're both listening to After some back and forth,
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λͺ‡ μ°¨λ‘€ 주고받은 후에
13:52
it's clear that your boss needs to get on with her day or perhaps you have a
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상사가 업무λ₯Ό μ²˜λ¦¬ν•΄μ•Ό ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜ νšŒμ˜κ°€ μžˆλŠ” 것이 ν™•μ‹€ν•΄μ‘ŒμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:56
meeting to get to, so it's time to bring the conversation to a close.
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이제 λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό λ§ˆλ¬΄λ¦¬ν•  μ‹œκ°„μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ ν• 
14:01
Here's how you could do that. I know you have a busy day,
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수 μžˆλŠ” 방법은 λ‹€μŒκ³Ό κ°™μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 당신이 λ°”μœ ν•˜λ£¨λ₯Ό 보내고 μžˆλ‹€λŠ” 것을 μ•Œκ³  μžˆμœΌλ―€λ‘œ
14:04
so I don't wanna take up all your time,
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μ‹œκ°„μ„ λͺ¨λ‘ λΉΌμ•—κΈ°κ³  μ‹Άμ§€λŠ” μ•Šμ§€λ§Œ
14:05
but it was really fun talking to you about this and let me know what you think
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이것에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜κ³  λ‹€μŒ μ—ν”Όμ†Œλ“œμ— λŒ€ν•΄ μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜λŠ”μ§€ μ•Œλ €μ£ΌλŠ” 것은 정말 μ¦κ±°μ› μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
14:10
about the next episode. I think you'll love it, and then once you've said that,
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. λ‚˜λŠ” 당신이 그것을 μ’‹μ•„ν•  것이라고 μƒκ°ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그리고 일단 κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ λ§ν•œ ν›„μ—λŠ”
14:14
you can say your goodbyes and go on with your day. With that,
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μž‘λ³„ 인사λ₯Ό ν•˜κ³  ν•˜λ£¨λ₯Ό 계속할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 이λ₯Ό 톡해 직μž₯의 κ³ μœ„ 리더와 κ°„λ‹¨ν•œ λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό λ‚˜λˆŒ κΈ°νšŒκ°€ μžˆμ„
14:18
you have a simple three-step approach you can use any time
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λ•Œλ§ˆλ‹€ μ‚¬μš©ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” κ°„λ‹¨ν•œ 3단계 μ ‘κ·Ό 방식이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
14:23
you have an opportunity to enjoy a small talk conversation with a senior
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14:27
leader in your workplace. Now, before we finish today,
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. 자, 였늘 끝내기 전에
14:30
I've got a bonus for you if you want a little bit more information to see how
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14:35
all of these steps interact together.
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이 λͺ¨λ“  단계가 μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μƒν˜Έ μž‘μš©ν•˜λŠ”μ§€ μ•Œμ•„λ³΄κΈ° μœ„ν•΄ μ’€ 더 μžμ„Έν•œ 정보λ₯Ό μ›ν•˜μ‹œλ©΄ λ³΄λ„ˆμŠ€λ₯Ό λ“œλ¦¬κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
14:38
If you visit this lesson over at my Speak Confident English website,
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λ‚΄ Speak Confident English μ›Ήμ‚¬μ΄νŠΈμ—μ„œ 이 λ ˆμŠ¨μ„ λ°©λ¬Έν•˜μ‹œλ©΄ λŒ€ν™”μ—μ„œ 각 단계가 μ§„ν–‰λ˜λŠ” 것을 λ³Ό 수 μžˆλŠ”
14:42
I've provided two dialogues that you can review where you'll see
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두 개의 λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό κ²€ν† ν•˜μ‹€ 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
14:47
each of these steps played out in the conversation.
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.
14:51
You can easily access this lesson by going to the notes below this video,
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이 λΉ„λ””μ˜€ μ•„λž˜μ˜ λ…ΈνŠΈλ‘œ μ΄λ™ν•˜μ—¬ 이 κ°•μ˜μ— μ‰½κ²Œ μ•‘μ„ΈμŠ€ν•  수 있으며, 상단 λͺ¨μ„œλ¦¬
14:55
and I'll also share a link in the top corner as well. With that,
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에도 링크λ₯Ό κ³΅μœ ν•˜κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . 그럼
14:59
thank you so much for joining me today.
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였늘 ν•¨κ»˜ν•΄μ£Όμ…”μ„œ 정말 κ°μ‚¬λ“œλ¦½λ‹ˆλ‹€.
15:01
I hope that you found this lesson helpful, and if you did, I would love to know.
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이 κ°•μ˜κ°€ 도움이 λ˜μ—ˆκΈ°λ₯Ό 바라며, 도움이 λ˜μ…¨λ‹€λ©΄ μ•Œλ €λ“œλ¦¬κ³  μ‹ΆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
15:05
You can tell me in a few very simple ways. Number one,
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give this lesson a thumbs up here on YouTube, and number two,
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이 κ°•μ˜μ— μ’‹μ•„μš”λ₯Ό λˆŒλŸ¬μ£Όμ„Έμš”. λ‘˜μ§Έ,
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make sure you subscribe to my Speak Confident English Channel so you never miss
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제 Speak Confident English 채널을 κ΅¬λ…ν•˜μ…”μ„œ
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one of my Confident English lessons. Lastly,
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Confident English κ°•μ˜λ₯Ό μ ˆλŒ€ λ†“μΉ˜μ§€ λ§ˆμ„Έμš”. λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰μœΌλ‘œ
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you can share a comment with me down below. Thanks again for joining me,
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μ•„λž˜μ—μ„œ λ‚˜μ™€ μ˜κ²¬μ„ κ³΅μœ ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . ν•¨κ»˜ν•΄μ£Όμ…”μ„œ λ‹€μ‹œ ν•œλ²ˆ κ°μ‚¬λ“œλ¦¬λ©°,
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and I look forward to seeing you next time.
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λ‹€μŒμ— λ΅™κΈ°λ₯Ό κΈ°λŒ€ν•˜κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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이 μ‚¬μ΄νŠΈλŠ” μ˜μ–΄ ν•™μŠ΅μ— μœ μš©ν•œ YouTube λ™μ˜μƒμ„ μ†Œκ°œν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ „ 세계 졜고의 μ„ μƒλ‹˜λ“€μ΄ κ°€λ₯΄μΉ˜λŠ” μ˜μ–΄ μˆ˜μ—…μ„ 보게 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 각 λ™μ˜μƒ νŽ˜μ΄μ§€μ— ν‘œμ‹œλ˜λŠ” μ˜μ–΄ μžλ§‰μ„ 더블 ν΄λ¦­ν•˜λ©΄ κ·Έκ³³μ—μ„œ λ™μ˜μƒμ΄ μž¬μƒλ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. λΉ„λ””μ˜€ μž¬μƒμ— 맞좰 μžλ§‰μ΄ μŠ€ν¬λ‘€λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ˜κ²¬μ΄λ‚˜ μš”μ²­μ΄ μžˆλŠ” 경우 이 문의 양식을 μ‚¬μš©ν•˜μ—¬ λ¬Έμ˜ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.

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