Soft vs. Assertive Language in English [3 Simple Changes]

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ไธ‹ใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžๅญ—ๅน•ใ‚’ใƒ€ใƒ–ใƒซใ‚ฏใƒชใƒƒใ‚ฏใ™ใ‚‹ใจๅ‹•็”ปใ‚’ๅ†็”Ÿใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ็ฟป่จณใ•ใ‚ŒใŸๅญ—ๅน•ใฏๆฉŸๆขฐ็ฟป่จณใงใ™ใ€‚

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Several months ago,
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ๆ•ฐใ‹ๆœˆๅ‰ใ€
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I received this fascinating question from Evandro who asked:
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็งใฏ Evandro ใ‹ใ‚‰ๆฌกใฎ่ˆˆๅ‘ณๆทฑใ„่ณชๅ•
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"I received one interesting link, but it seems poorly discussed.
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ใ‚’ๅ—ใ‘ๅ–ใ‚Šใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ใ€Œ่ˆˆๅ‘ณๆทฑใ„ใƒชใƒณใ‚ฏใ‚’ 1 ใคๅ—ใ‘ๅ–ใ‚Šใพใ—ใŸ ใŒใ€ใ‚ใพใ‚Š่ญฐ่ซ–ใ•ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ†ใงใ™ใ€‚
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Maybe you could do something related to this article with more explanation and
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ใ“ใฎ่จ˜ไบ‹ใซ้–ข้€ฃใ—ใฆใ€ใ‚ˆใ‚Šๅคšใใฎ่ชฌๆ˜Žใจ
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examples?" The article in question was about 10 words and phrases to
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ไพ‹ใ‚’็คบใ—ใฆไฝ•ใ‹ใ—ใฆใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใชใ„ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ‹?ใ€ ๅ•้กŒใฎ่จ˜ไบ‹ใฏ
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stop using in 2021, including the words might, pretty,
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ใ€2021 ๅนดใซไฝฟ็”จใ‚’ใ‚„ใ‚ใ‚‹็ด„ 10 ใฎ่ชžๅฅใงใ—ใŸใ€‚ใใฎไธญใซ ใฏใ€mayใ€prettyใ€ใŠใ‚ˆใณ I think ใจใ„ใ†่จ€่‘‰ใŒๅซใพใ‚Œใฆใ„ใพใ—ใŸ
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and I think. For example, that might be a good idea.
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ใ€‚ ใŸใจใˆใฐใ€ ใใ‚Œใฏ่‰ฏใ„่€ƒใˆใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
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That's a pretty good option. I think that might work.
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ใใ‚Œใฏใ‹ใชใ‚Š่‰ฏใ„ใ‚ชใƒ—ใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใงใ™ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใฏใ†ใพใใ„ใใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใชใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
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The argument in this article is that those words diminish or
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ใ“ใฎ่จ˜ไบ‹ใงใฎไธปๅผต ใฏใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ่จ€่‘‰ใฏใ€ใ‚ณใƒŸใƒฅใƒ‹ใ‚ฑใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใฎ
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weaken your meaning when you communicate. Now,
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้š›ใฎๆ„ๅ‘ณใ‚’ๅผฑใ‚ใŸใ‚Šๅผฑใ‚ใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ† ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ•ใฆใ€
00:42
if you've been following me for awhile,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ—ใฐใ‚‰ใ็งใ‚’ใƒ•ใ‚ฉใƒญใƒผใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใชใ‚‰ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ
00:44
you know that I've actually recently done lessons on how to use
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็งใŒๅฎŸ้š›
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pretty as an adverb in English and seven effective ways to use the word
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ใซ่‹ฑ่ชžใงใ‹ใชใ‚Šใ‚’ๅ‰ฏ่ฉžใจใ—ใฆ ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใจ่‹ฑ่ชžใงๅ˜่ชžใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹7ใคใฎๅŠนๆžœ็š„ใชๆ–นๆณ•ใซใคใ„ใฆใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใ‚’ๅฎŸ้š›ใซ่กŒใฃใŸใ“ใจใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„
00:54
might in English. So is this article accurate?
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ใพใ™. ใงใฏใ€ ใ“ใฎ่จ˜ไบ‹ใฏๆญฃ็ขบใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
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Is it true?
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ๆœฌๅฝ“ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
01:00
Should you stop using the words might pretty,
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ใใ‚Œใ„ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใชใ„ใจใ„ใ†่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’ไฝฟใ†ใฎใฏใ‚„ใ‚ใŸๆ–นใŒ
01:04
and I think? The answer is simple. Yes and no.
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ใ„ใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ็ญ”ใˆ ใฏ็ฐกๅ˜ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใฏใ„ใจใ„ใ„ใˆใ€‚
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If you don't already know, I'm Annemarie with Speak Confident English,
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ใพใ ใ”ๅญ˜ใ˜ใชใ„ๆ–นใ‚‚ใ„ใ‚‰ใฃใ—ใ‚ƒใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใŒใ€็งใฏ Speak Confident English ใฎ Annemarie
01:14
everything I do here is designed to help you get the confidence you want for
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ใงใ™ใ€‚ใ“ใ“ใง่กŒใ†ใ“ใจใฏใ™ในใฆใ€่‹ฑ่ชžใงใฎ็”Ÿๆดปใจไป•ไบ‹ใซ ๅฟ…่ฆใช่‡ชไฟกใ‚’ๅพ—ใ‚‹ใฎใซๅฝน็ซ‹ใคใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่จญ่จˆใ•ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใพใ™
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your life and work in English. When it comes to using words like might, pretty,
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ใ€‚ may ใ‚„ pretty ใชใฉใฎ่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’ไฝฟใ†ใ“ใจใซใชใ‚‹
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and I think,
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ใจ
01:23
the truth is there is a time and place for all
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ใ€็œŸๅฎŸใฏ ใ™ในใฆใฎ่จ€่ชžใซๆ™‚ใจๅ ดๆ‰€ใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™
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language.
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ใ€‚ ่จ€ใ„ใŸใ„ใ“ใจ
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There is a time to soften what we want to say.
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ใ‚’ๅ’Œใ‚‰ใ’ใ‚‹ๆ™‚ใŒใ‚ใ‚Š ใพใ™ใ€‚
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And there's a time to strengthen what we want to say.
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ใใ—ใฆ ใ€่จ€ใ„ใŸใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅผทใ‚ใ‚‹ๆ™‚ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
01:37
As you become a more advanced English speaker,
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understanding these nuances,
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎใƒ‹ใƒฅใ‚ขใƒณใ‚นใ‚’
01:43
understanding the subtle differences of the words you choose to use will help
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็†่งฃใ—ใ€ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ๅ˜่ชžใฎๅพฎๅฆ™ใช้•ใ„ใ‚’็†่งฃใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ€่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’
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you become a better, more powerful speaker overall.
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ใ‚ˆใ‚ŠไธŠๆ‰‹ใซ่ฉฑใ›ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใชใ‚‹ใจใ€ๅ…จไฝ“็š„ใซใ‚ˆใ‚ŠไธŠๆ‰‹ใง ๅผทๅŠ›ใช่ฉฑ่€…ใซใชใ‚‹ใฎใซๅฝน็ซ‹ใกใพใ™.
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Even when you use the words might, pretty, or I think.
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่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’ไฝฟใ†ใจใใ‚‚ ใ€ใŸใถใ‚“ใ€ใ‹ใ‚ใ„ใ„ใ€ใจใ‹ๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
01:56
It is true that those words can weaken your tone and
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ่จ€่‘‰ ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใฎใƒˆใƒผใƒณใ‚„
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overall meaning. So it's important to not overuse that language.
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ๅ…จไฝ“็š„ใชๆ„ๅ‘ณใ‚’ๅผฑใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏไบ‹ๅฎŸใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ ใใฎ่จ€่ชžใ‚’ไฝฟใ„ใ™ใŽใชใ„ใ“ใจใŒ้‡่ฆใงใ™ใ€‚
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Instead,
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ไปฃใ‚ใ‚Šใซใ€้ฉๅˆ‡ใชใจใใซใใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จ
02:07
you want to be able to make the choice to use those words when it's appropriate
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ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’้ธๆŠžใงใใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ—ใŸใ„ใจ่€ƒใˆใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
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and, when more assertive language is necessary,
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ใ‚ˆใ‚Šๆ–ญๅฎš็š„ใช ่จ€่‘‰ใŒๅฟ…่ฆใชๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€
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I want you to be able to make the choice to be more assertive as well.
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ใ‚ˆใ‚Š็ฉๆฅต็š„ใซ้ธๆŠžใงใใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ—ใฆใปใ—ใ„.
02:20
That's exactly what you're going to learn to do today.
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ใใ‚Œใ“ใ ใŒใ€ไปŠๆ—ฅใ‚ใชใŸใŒๅญฆใถในใใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
02:23
By the end of this lesson today,
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ไปŠๆ—ฅใฎใ“ใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใฎ็ต‚ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใงใซ
02:25
you'll have strategies to help you avoid overusing words that weaken your
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ใ€ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ‚’ๅผฑใ‚ใ‚‹่จ€่‘‰ใฎไฝฟใ„ใ™ใŽใ‚’้ฟใ‘ใ€ๅฟ…่ฆใซๅฟœใ˜
02:29
meaning and confidently communicate with assertiveness
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ใฆ็ฉๆฅต็š„ใซ่‡ชไฟกใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ‚ณใƒŸใƒฅใƒ‹ใ‚ฑใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใ‚’ใจใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใฎๆˆฆ็•ฅใ‚’่บซใซใคใ‘ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™
02:34
when necessary.
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02:41
Let's start by talking about what it means to overuse some words and why
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ใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎๅ˜่ชžใ‚’ไฝฟใ„ใ™ใŽใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฎๆ„ๅ‘ณใจใ€
02:46
that's something to avoid.
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ใใ‚Œใ‚’้ฟใ‘ใ‚‹ในใ็†็”ฑใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ™ใ“ใจใ‹ใ‚‰ๅง‹ใ‚ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
02:48
Have you ever been in a conversation with someone else and they use the same
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ไป–ใฎไบบใจไผš่ฉฑใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใฆใ€ใปใจใ‚“ใฉใ™ในใฆใฎๆ–‡ใฎๅ†’้ ญใงๅŒใ˜ๅ˜่ชžใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใŸใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ‹
02:52
word at the beginning of almost every sentence.
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ใ€‚
02:56
I often tell my students that my danger word,
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็งใฏ็”Ÿๅพ’ใŸใกใซใ‚ˆใ ใ€็งใฎๅฑ้™บใช
02:59
the word I have to be careful with is the word 'so.' If I don't pay
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่จ€่‘‰ใ€ๆณจๆ„ใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ„่จ€่‘‰ใฏใ€Œใใ†ใ€ใจใ„ใ†่จ€่‘‰ใ ใจ่จ€ใฃใฆ ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
03:03
attention to my word choice,
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่จ€่‘‰ใฎ้ธๆŠžใซๆณจๆ„ใ‚’ๆ‰•ใ‚ใชใ„ใจ
03:05
I have the tendency to begin a lot of sentences with the word 'so.' I
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ใ€ๅคšใ ใฎๆ–‡ใ‚’ใ€Œใใ†ใ€ใจใ„ใ†่จ€่‘‰ใงๅง‹ใ‚ใ‚‹ๅ‚พๅ‘ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ๆฐ—ใ‚’ๆ•ฃใ‚‰ใ™ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใ€ไฝฟใ„ใ™ใŽ
03:10
have to be careful to not overuse it because it can become
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ใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ†ใซๆณจๆ„ใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Š
03:15
distracting. Or if it's a word like might, pretty,
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ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ„ใฏ ใ€mayใ€pretty ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใช่จ€่‘‰ใงใ‚ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใ€็งใฎๆ„ๅ‘ณใ‚„ๅฃฐใŒๅฐใ•ใใชใ‚Šใ€
03:20
I think it might undermine what I'm trying to say
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็งใŒ่จ€ใŠใ†ใจใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒๅฐ็„กใ—ใซใชใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™
03:24
by diminishing my meaning,
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03:28
diminishing my voice.
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ใ€‚ ใƒ“ใ‚ธใƒใ‚นใƒŸใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒณใ‚ฐใฎไผš่ฉฑ
03:30
Let me give you an example in a business meeting conversation.
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ใฎไพ‹ใ‚’ๆŒ™ใ’ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ† ใ€‚
03:34
When there's a decision to be made, you have an option, you have a choice:
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ๆฑบๅฎšใ‚’ไธ‹ใ•ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ใจใ ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใซใฏ้ธๆŠž่‚ขใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚้ธๆŠž่‚ข
03:38
You could either say something like, I think this will work,
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ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ใŸใจใˆใฐ ใ€ใ€Œใ“ใ‚Œใงใ†ใพใใ„ใใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€ใพใŸใฏใ€Œใ“ใ‚Œใงใ†ใพใใ„ใใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™
03:41
or this will work.
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03:45
If you are certain, if you have.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ็ขบไฟกใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใชใ‚‰ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใชใ‚‰ใ€‚
03:48
Areas of expertise and you know what the right way forward is,
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ๅฐ‚้–€ๅˆ†้‡Žใง ใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ไปŠๅพŒใฎๆญฃใ—ใ„้“ใŒไฝ•ใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใฏ
03:52
then be assertive and say,
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ใ€ๆ–ญๅฎš็š„ใซ่จ€ใฃใฆใใ ใ•ใ„
03:55
:this will work." When we use,
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:ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ†ใพใใ„ใใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†."
03:57
'I think' we're softening our tone.
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็งใŸใกใŒใ€Œ็งใฏๆ€ใ†ใ€ใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใจใใ€็งใŸใกใฏๅฃ่ชฟใ‚’ๅ’Œใ‚‰ใ’ใฆใ„ใพใ™.
04:01
We're weakening it and indicating some uncertainty.
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็งใŸใกใฏใใ‚Œใ‚’ๅผฑใ‚ใ€ ใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎไธ็ขบๅฎŸๆ€งใ‚’็คบใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™.
04:06
If we lead.
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ใ‚‚ใ—็งใŸใกใŒใƒชใƒผใƒ‰ใ™ใ‚‹ใชใ‚‰.
04:07
Every sentence with,
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ใ™ในใฆใฎๆ–‡ใง,
04:09
I think we're diminishing our voice in
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็งใŸใกใฏไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใซ็งใŸใกใฎๅฃฐใ‚’ๅฐใ•ใใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™
04:13
general. And that is something to avoid. The same thing is true.
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. ใใ—ใฆใใ‚Œใฏ ้ฟใ‘ใ‚‹ในใใ‚‚ใฎใงใ™. ๅŒใ˜ใ“ใจใŒ็œŸๅฎŸใงใ™
04:18
If we overuse might and pretty. Now,
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. ๅŠ›ใจ็พŽใ—ใ•ใ‚’ไฝฟใ„ใ™ใŽใ‚‹ใจ.
04:22
as I said earlier in the past,
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04:23
I have done lessons on these very words.
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04:27
So after you watch today's lesson,
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ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ไปŠๆ—ฅใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใ‚’่ฆ‹ใŸๅพŒ
04:29
I recommend that you do go back and watch my lesson on using pretty as an adverb
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ใ€ๅ‰ฏ่ฉžใจใ—ใฆใฎใ‹ใชใ‚Šใฎไฝฟ็”จใจใƒžใ‚คใƒˆใ‚คใƒณใ‚ฐใƒชใƒƒใ‚ทใƒฅใฎไฝฟใ„ๆ–นใซ้–ขใ™ใ‚‹็งใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใซๆˆปใฃใฆ่ฆ‹ใ‚‹
04:33
and how to use might English,
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04:35
because there is a time and place to use those.
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ใ“ใจใ‚’ใŠๅ‹งใ‚ ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
04:39
There are times when we want to make suggestions or when we want to
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ๆๆกˆใ‚’ใ—ใŸใ„ใจใใ‚„
04:44
indicate uncertainty. And when that is the case,
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ไธ็ขบๅฎŸๆ€งใ‚’็คบใ—ใŸใ„ ใจใใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™. ใใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใชๅ ดๅˆใ€
04:47
those are great words to use,
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ใใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฏ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„่จ€่‘‰ใงใ™ใŒใ€้‡่ฆใชใจใใซใใ‚Œใ‚‰
04:50
but now let's move on to how to avoid them when it's important,
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ใ‚’้ฟใ‘ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใซ็งปใ‚Šใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†.
04:54
to be more clear and assertive. Strategy number one,
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ๆˆฆ็•ฅใใฎ 1 ใฏ
04:59
in any conversation,
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ใ€ใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใชไผš่ฉฑใซใŠใ„ใฆใ‚‚
05:01
always be aware of what language is most appropriate and use words
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ใ€ใฉใฎ่จ€่ชžใŒๆœ€ใ‚‚้ฉๅˆ‡ใ‹ใ‚’ๅธธใซๆ„่ญ˜ใ—ใ€ ่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
05:05
that weaken your meaning sparingly. Might, pretty,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฎๆ„ๅ‘ณใ‚’ๆŽงใˆใ‚ใซๅผฑใ‚ใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใชใ„ใ€ใใ‚Œใ„ใ€
05:10
and I think are great for casual conversation, brainstorming,
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ใใ—ใฆ็งใฏใ€ใ‚ซใ‚ธใƒฅใ‚ขใƒซใช ไผš่ฉฑใ€ใƒ–ใƒฌใ‚คใƒณใ‚นใƒˆใƒผใƒŸใƒณใ‚ฐ
05:14
making recommendations or indicating uncertainty.
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ใ€ๆŽจๅฅจไบ‹้ …ใฎไฝœๆˆใ€ใพใŸใฏ ไธ็ขบๅฎŸๆ€งใ‚’็คบใ™ใฎใซๆœ€้ฉใ ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™.
05:20
But let's look at how we can transition from weakening our tone or
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ใ—ใ‹ใ— ใ€ใƒˆใƒผใƒณใ‚„ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ‚’ๅผฑใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‹ใ‚‰
05:25
meaning into saying something with certainty and clarity.
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ใ€็ขบๅฎŸใ‹ใคๆ˜Ž็ขบใซไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใซ็งป่กŒใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใฟใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†.
05:29
Here are a couple of examples.
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ใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎไพ‹ใ‚’ๆฌกใซ็คบใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
05:31
If someone has just shared a fantastic solution to a problem,
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่ชฐใ‹ใŒ ๅ•้กŒใซๅฏพใ™ใ‚‹็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„่งฃๆฑบ็ญ–ใ‚’ๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ—ใŸๅ ดๅˆใ€
05:36
you could say,
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05:37
I think Jenna just had a really good idea with those words.
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ใ‚ธใ‚งใƒŠ ใฏใใฎ่จ€่‘‰ใงๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ่‰ฏใ„ใ‚ขใ‚คใƒ‡ใ‚ขใ‚’ๆ€ใ„ใคใ„ใŸใ€ใจ่จ€ใˆใพใ™ใ€‚
05:41
I think you're indicating some level of uncertainty.
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ใ‚ใ‚‹็จ‹ๅบฆใฎไธ็ขบๅฎŸๆ€งใ‚’็คบใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
05:45
Maybe you don't trust your own instincts. But if you do,
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่‡ชๅˆ†ใฎ็›ดๆ„Ÿใ‚’ไฟกใ˜ใฆใ„ใชใ„ใฎใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใใ†ใ™ใ‚‹ใชใ‚‰ใ€
05:49
if you know that Jenna's idea is the solution.
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ใ‚ธใ‚งใƒŠใฎ ใ‚ขใ‚คใƒ‡ใ‚ขใŒ่งฃๆฑบ็ญ–ใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚Œใฐ.
05:53
You can say that by simply stating Jenna had great idea
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Jenna had a great ideaใ€
05:58
or Jenna's idea is exactly what we need.
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ใพใŸใฏ Jenna ใฎใ‚ขใ‚คใƒ‡ใ‚ขใฏใพใ•ใซ็งใŸใกใŒๅฟ…่ฆใจใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚‚ใฎใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใจ็ฐกๅ˜ใซ่ฟฐในใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
06:02
In both sentences, I'm saying almost the same thing,
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ใฉใกใ‚‰ใฎๆ–‡ใงใ‚‚ ใปใผๅŒใ˜ใ“ใจใ‚’่จ€ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™
06:06
but one is much clearer and more certain.
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ใŒใ€ไธ€ๆ–นใฎๆ–นใŒใ‚ˆใ‚Šๆ˜Ž็ขบใง็ขบๅฎŸใงใ™ใ€‚
06:11
Here's another example. If you have a deadline approaching, you could say,
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ๅˆฅใฎไพ‹ใ‚’ๆฌกใซ็คบใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ็ท ใ‚ๅˆ‡ใ‚ŠใŒ่ฟซใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€
06:16
I might be able to get the drafts to you by Friday.
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้‡‘ๆ›œๆ—ฅใพใงใซไธ‹ๆ›ธใใ‚’ใŠๅฑŠใ‘ใงใใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
06:20
Your boss may not like that response. Your boss wants a deadline.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฎไธŠๅธใฏใใฎๅๅฟœใ‚’ๆฐ—ใซๅ…ฅใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฎไธŠๅธใฏ็ท ใ‚ๅˆ‡ใ‚Šใ‚’ๆœ›ใ‚“ใงใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
06:26
She wants certainty. So instead you could say,
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ๅฝผๅฅณใฏ็ขบๅฎŸๆ€งใ‚’ๆœ›ใ‚“ใงใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ไปฃใ‚ใ‚Šใซ
06:29
I will get the drafts done by Friday.
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ใ€้‡‘ๆ›œๆ—ฅใพใงใซไธ‹ๆ›ธใใ‚’ๅฎŒๆˆใ•ใ›ใพใ™ใ€‚
06:33
And a final example. I'm pretty certain we sent that to the right address.
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ใใ—ใฆๆœ€ๅพŒใฎไพ‹ใ€‚ ็ง ใŸใกใฏใใ‚Œใ‚’ๆญฃใ—ใ„ไฝๆ‰€ใซ้€ใฃใŸใจ็ขบไฟกใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
06:38
Again,
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็นฐใ‚Š่ฟ”ใ—ใซ
06:39
the word pretty is used to weaken the meaning and insert some
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ใชใ‚Šใพใ™ใŒใ€ใ‹ใชใ‚Šใจใ„ใ†่จ€่‘‰ใฏใ€ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ‚’ๅผฑใ‚ใ€ไธ็ขบๅฎŸๆ€งใ‚’ๆŒฟๅ…ฅใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซไฝฟ็”จใ•ใ‚Œ
06:44
uncertainty.
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ใพใ™ใ€‚
06:45
But if you know that you sent it to the right address,
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ใ—ใ‹ใ— ใ€ๆญฃใ—ใ„ใ‚ขใƒ‰ใƒฌใ‚นใซ้€ไฟกใ—ใŸใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‹ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€I'm sure we sent it to the right address
06:49
you can simply state that with I'm certain we sent it to the right address.
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ใจ็ฐกๅ˜ใซ่ฟฐในใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใ ใพใ™ใ€‚
06:54
Again,
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็นฐใ‚Š่ฟ”ใ—ใซ
06:55
it's all about considering the situation you're in and the message you want to
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ใชใ‚Š ใพใ™ใŒใ€่‡ชๅˆ†ใŒ็ฝฎใ‹ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใ‚‹็ŠถๆณใจไผใˆใŸใ„ใƒกใƒƒใ‚ปใƒผใ‚ธใ‚’่€ƒๆ…ฎใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใ™ในใฆใงใ™
07:00
convey.
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07:01
Those words are appropriate in some circumstances,
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ่จ€่‘‰ใฏ ใ€ใ‚ใ‚‹็Šถๆณใงใฏ้ฉๅˆ‡ใงใ™ใŒใ€ไป–ใฎ็Šถๆณใงใฏใ€
07:06
and in others, you want to avoid them and be more assertive.
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ใใ‚Œใ‚‰ใ‚’้ฟใ‘ใฆใ‚ˆใ‚Š่‡ชๅทฑไธปๅผตใ—ใŸใ„ๅ ดๅˆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
07:10
Strategy number two is show assertiveness
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2 ็•ช็›ฎใฎๆˆฆ็•ฅใฏใ€ใƒกใƒƒใ‚ปใƒผใ‚ธใ‚’ๅ’Œใ‚‰ใ’ใŸใ‚Šๅผฑใ‚ใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใฎ
07:14
with bold or more powerful substitutions,
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ใงใฏใชใใ€ๅคง่ƒ†ใชใ€ใพใŸใฏใ‚ˆใ‚ŠๅผทๅŠ›ใชไปฃๆ›ฟ็‰ฉ
07:18
rather than using those words that soften or weaken your message.
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ใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใฆ่‡ชๅทฑไธปๅผตใ‚’็คบใ™ใ“ใจ ใงใ™ใ€‚ ๅผฑไฝ“ๅŒ–ใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใชใ‚Š
07:22
Change them into words that show certainty and
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07:27
confidence instead of using the adverb, pretty which weakens.
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ใฎๅ‰ฏ่ฉžใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ไปฃใ‚ใ‚Šใซใ€็ขบๅฎŸๆ€งใจ่‡ชไฟกใ‚’็คบใ™่จ€่‘‰ใซๅค‰ใˆใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ ใ€‚
07:32
You can use words such as very extremely,
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้žๅธธใซ้žๅธธใซใ€็ตถๅฏพใซใชใฉใฎๅ˜่ชžใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใงใใพใ™
07:36
absolutely. For example,
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07:38
rather than being pretty certain that you sent something to the right address,
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07:42
you can be absolutely certain rather than being pretty
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07:47
sure that's a good idea.
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่‰ฏใ„่€ƒใˆใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใจใ‹ใชใ‚Š็ขบไฟกใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใงใฏใชใใ€ๅฎŒๅ…จใซ็ขบไฟกใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
07:48
You can be absolutely sure this is the right idea or the right
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ใ“ใ‚Œ ใŒๆญฃใ—ใ„ใ‚ขใ‚คใƒ‡ใ‚ขใงใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ๆญฃใ—ใ„
07:53
solution. Rather than using the word might.
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่งฃๆฑบ็ญ–ใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใจ็ขบไฟกใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใจใ„ใ†่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใงใฏใชใใ€‚
07:57
You could replace that with other substitutes, such as.
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ใชใฉใฎไป–ใฎไปฃ็”จๅ“ใซ็ฝฎใๆ›ใˆใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
08:01
Should, can do will, and won't.
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08:06
I might have that done on Friday. I will have that done on Friday.
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08:11
I might get that finished for you today.
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08:14
I can get that finished for you today. And lastly,
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08:19
rather than using,
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08:20
I think you could replace those words with more powerful substitutes,
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ ๅ˜่ชžใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ไปฃใ‚ใ‚Šใซใ€ใ‚ˆใ‚ŠๅผทๅŠ›ใชไปฃ็”จ่ชž
08:24
such as I believe, I'm sure that, I'm certain.
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08:29
For example, I think this is the right way forward.
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08:34
I believe this is the right way forward.
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ใ“ใ‚ŒใŒๆญฃใ—ใ„ๅ‰้€ฒใ ใจไฟกใ˜ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
08:37
I'm sure that this is the right way forward. Choosing words,
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08:41
like believe or to be certain that demonstrate that you're
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08:46
taking ownership, ownership of that responsibility,
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ใ“ใจ ใ€ใใฎ่ฒฌไปปใฎๆ‰€ๆœ‰ๆจฉใ€
08:49
that action or opinion. All right.
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ใใฎ่กŒๅ‹•ใ‚„ๆ„่ฆ‹ใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’็คบใ™่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’้ธใถ. ใ‚ใ‹ใฃใŸใ€‚
08:52
So we've talked about the importance of being aware of the situation you're in
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08:56
and making appropriate choices of which words to use.
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ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’้ฉๅˆ‡ใซ้ธๆŠžใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฎ้‡่ฆๆ€งใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
09:00
We've also talked about using more powerful substitutes to words such as
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ใพใŸใ€prettyใ€mightใ€I think ใชใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ‚ŠๅผทๅŠ›ใชไปฃๆ›ฟ่ชžใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซใคใ„ใฆใ‚‚่ฉฑใ—ใพใ—ใŸ
09:05
pretty, might, and I think.
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09:07
And now strategy number three is simply eliminate those words
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09:12
from your vocabulary when it's appropriate.
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ใฆ่ชžๅฝ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎๅ˜่ชžใ‚’ๅ‰Š้™ค ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
09:15
When it's necessary to be concise and to communicate strength and
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็ฐกๆฝ”ใซใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Š
09:20
confidence in your position or opinion,
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09:23
it's best to simply eliminate those words from your sentences.
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ใฏใ€ๆ–‡็ซ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎๅ˜่ชžใ‚’ๅ˜็ด”ใซๅ‰Š้™คใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใŒๆœ€ๅ–„ใงใ™ใ€‚
09:28
If you know that something is highly likely or factual
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09:33
eliminate pretty, might, and I think.
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09:37
Let me give you an example, instead of saying,
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09:40
I think our product is still too new to draw any conclusions
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09:45
about its performance.
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ใฆใ€ใใฎใƒ‘ใƒ•ใ‚ฉใƒผใƒžใƒณใ‚นใซใคใ„ใฆ็ต่ซ–ใ‚’ๅ‡บใ™ใ“ใจใŒใงใใชใ„ใจ่จ€ใ†ไปฃใ‚ใ‚Šใซใ€ไพ‹ใ‚’ๆŒ™ใ’ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
09:47
Simply state the fact that our product is too new to
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09:52
draw any conclusions about its performance. I'm stating the same thing.
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09:56
But my second example is more concise.
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10:00
It's stronger.
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10:01
And I'm stating it with more confidence because I'm stating something that is
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ใใ—ใฆใ€็งใฏไบ‹ๅฎŸใ‚’่ฟฐในใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ€ใ‚ˆใ‚Š่‡ชไฟกใ‚’ๆŒใฃ ใฆ่ฟฐในใฆใ„
10:06
factual. Here's another example that might be used in casual conversation.
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ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ซใ‚ธใƒฅใ‚ขใƒซใชไผš่ฉฑใงไฝฟ็”จใงใใ‚‹ๅˆฅใฎไพ‹ใ‚’ๆฌกใซ็คบใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
10:12
The kids were pretty tired after playing at the beach all day,
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ไธ€ๆ—ฅไธญใƒ“ใƒผใƒใง้Šใ‚“ใ ๅพŒใ€ๅญไพ›ใŸใกใฏใ‹ใชใ‚Š็–ฒใ‚Œใฆ ใ„ใพใ—ใŸใŒใ€ไธ€ๆ—ฅไธญใƒ“ใƒผใƒใง้Šใ‚“ใ 
10:16
versus the kids were tired after playing at the beach all day.
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ๅพŒใ€ๅญไพ›ใŸใกใฏ็–ฒใ‚Œใฆ ใ„ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
10:22
They weren't pretty tired or kind of tired. They were tired.
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใ‹ใชใ‚Š็–ฒใ‚Œใฆใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ใงใ—ใŸ ใ€‚ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ็–ฒใ‚Œใฆใ„ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
10:26
They were exhausted. By making that tiny little change,
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ็–ฒใ‚Œๆžœใฆใฆใ„ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ใใฎๅฐใ•ใชๅฐใ•ใชๅค‰ๆ›ด
10:30
I'm strengthening my sentence,
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10:33
making it more powerful and concise. Before we finish today,
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10:37
I want you to practice this. To help you do that,
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10:40
I have three sentences for you,
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10:42
and I'm going to ask you to use what you've learned to turn them into something
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ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ๅญฆใ‚“ใ ใ“ใจใ‚’ไฝฟใฃใฆ
10:46
that's more assertive and powerful. But before we do,
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ใ€ใ‚ˆใ‚Šๆ–ญๅฎš็š„ใง ๅผทๅŠ›ใชใ‚‚ใฎใซๅค‰ใˆใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใใฎๅ‰ใซ
10:50
I want to finish with this.
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10:52
I want to reiterate that all language has a
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10:57
purpose. Using words like might,
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็›ฎ็š„ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ may ใ‚„ pretty ใชใฉใฎ่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จ
11:00
pretty and I think are great when it's the right context,
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ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใฏใ€้ฉๅˆ‡ใชๆ–‡่„ˆใง
11:05
but you always have a choice. Your voice matters,
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11:09
your opinions matter, your expertise matters.
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11:13
So when you know something to be true,
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ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ไฝ•ใ‹ใŒ็œŸๅฎŸใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃ
11:16
when you have an opinion that you know needs to be shared,
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ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใ€ๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใจใ‚ใ‹ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๆ„่ฆ‹ใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใจใ
11:20
don't be afraid to be more assertive and powerful in your word choices.
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ใฏใ€่จ€่‘‰ใฎ้ธๆŠžใซใŠใ„ใฆใ‚ˆใ‚Šๆ–ญๅฎš็š„ใงๅผทๅŠ›ใซใชใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆใ‚Œใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
11:25
And now let's get to our practice. Examples.
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ใใ—ใฆไปŠใ€ ็งใŸใกใฎ็ทด็ฟ’ใซๅ–ใ‚ŠๆŽ›ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ไพ‹ใ€‚
11:28
Here are three different phrases and I want you to share more powerful
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ใ“ใ“ใซ 3 ใคใฎ็•ฐใชใ‚‹ใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใŒ ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ใ‚ˆใ‚ŠๅผทๅŠ›ใชไปฃๆ›ฟใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใ‚’ๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„
11:33
alternatives. The best place to share with me is in the comments below.
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ใ€‚ ็งใจๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใซๆœ€้ฉใชๅ ดๆ‰€ ใฏใ€ไปฅไธ‹ใฎใ‚ณใƒกใƒณใƒˆใงใ™ใ€‚
11:38
So here they are. Number one,
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ใใ‚Œใงใ€ใ“ใ“ใซใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ็ฌฌไธ€ใซ
11:40
the movie was pretty interesting and I can't wait to see part two.
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ใ€ใ“ใฎๆ˜ ็”ปใฏใจใฆใ‚‚้ข็™ฝใ‹ใฃใŸใฎใงใ€ ใƒ‘ใƒผใƒˆ 2 ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใ‚‹ใฎใŒๅพ…ใกใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
11:45
Number two, Nora is stuck in traffic and she might run late for the meeting.
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็ฌฌ 2 ใซใ€ใƒŽใƒฉใฏไบค้€šๆธ‹ๆปžใซๅทปใ่พผใพ ใ‚Œใ€ไผš่ญฐใซ้…ใ‚Œใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
11:51
And number three,
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11:52
I think team needs to prioritize tasks that must be finished before the product
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ใƒใƒผใƒ ใฏ่ฃฝๅ“ใฎ็™บๅฃฒๅ‰ใซๅฎŒไบ†ใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ‚ฟใ‚นใ‚ฏใซๅ„ชๅ…ˆ้ †ไฝใ‚’ไป˜ใ‘ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™
11:57
launches.
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11:59
Take some time to review those phrases and share your more powerful alternative
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ๆ™‚้–“ใ‚’ใ‹ใ‘ใฆใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บ ใ‚’็ขบ่ชใ—ใ€ใ‚ˆใ‚ŠๅผทๅŠ›ใชไปฃๆ›ฟๆกˆ
12:03
with me below. If you found this lesson useful to you, I would love to know,
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ใ‚’ไปฅไธ‹ใงๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„. ใ“ใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใŒ ๅฝนใซ็ซ‹ใฃใŸใจๆ€ใ‚ใ‚Œใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€ใœใฒ
12:08
and you can let me know in one very simple way,
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ใŠ็Ÿฅใ‚‰ใ›ใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚YouTube ใง
12:10
give this lesson a thumbs up here on YouTube. And while you're at it,
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ใ“ใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใ‚’้ซ˜ใ่ฉ•ไพก ใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ใใฎ้–“
12:15
subscribe to the Speak Confident English channel.
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ใ€Speak Confident English ใƒใƒฃใƒณใƒใƒซใซ็™ป้Œฒใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
12:16
So you never miss one of my Confident English lessons.
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ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ ่‡ชไฟกใซๆบ€ใกใŸ่‹ฑ่ชžใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใ‚’่ฆ‹้€ƒใ™ใ“ใจใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
12:20
Thank you so much for being here. And I look forward to seeing you next time.
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ใ“ใ“ใซใ„ใฆใใ‚Œใฆใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ ๆฌกๅ›žใŠไผšใ„ใงใใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๆฅฝใ—ใฟใซใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
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