English Conversations on Stress Management | Common Expressions, Phrasal Verbs, & Idioms

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ไธ‹ใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžๅญ—ๅน•ใ‚’ใƒ€ใƒ–ใƒซใ‚ฏใƒชใƒƒใ‚ฏใ™ใ‚‹ใจๅ‹•็”ปใ‚’ๅ†็”Ÿใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ็ฟป่จณใ•ใ‚ŒใŸๅญ—ๅน•ใฏๆฉŸๆขฐ็ฟป่จณใงใ™ใ€‚

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Let me ask you, when you feel stressed,
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ใŠ่žใใ—ใŸใ„ใฎใงใ™ใŒใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๆ„Ÿใ˜ใŸใจใ
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how would you describe the way that feels?
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ใ€ใใฎๆ„Ÿใ˜ๆ–นใ‚’ใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่ชฌๆ˜Žใ—ใพใ™ใ‹?
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How do you manage stress and ask for help?
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ใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’็ฎก็†ใ—ใ€ๅŠฉใ‘ใ‚’ๆฑ‚ใ‚ใพใ™ใ‹?
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The moment I asked you those questions,
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็งใŒใ‚ใชใŸใซใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ใ—ใŸ็žฌ้–“ใ€
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I'm sure you had an immediate emotional response and you had quite a few
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ™ใใซๆ„Ÿๆƒ…็š„ใช ๅๅฟœใ‚’็คบใ—ใ€ใ‹ใชใ‚Šใฎๆ•ฐใฎ
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thoughts come to mind. However,
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่€ƒใˆใŒ้ ญใซๆตฎใ‹ใ‚“ใ ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™. ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ่€ƒใˆใ‚’่‹ฑ่ชžใง
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you might not be sure how to fully express those thoughts in English.
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ๅฎŒๅ…จใซ่กจ็พใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใŒใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ๅ ดๅˆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ ใ€‚
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Maybe you're missing the precise vocabulary that would allow you
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ใŠใใ‚‰ใใ€ใ“ใฎใƒˆใƒ”ใƒƒใ‚ฏใซใคใ„ใฆๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ่จ€ใ„ใŸใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’่จ€ใ†ใŸใ‚ใฎๆญฃ็ขบใช่ชžๅฝ™ใŒไธ่ถณใ—ใฆ ใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†
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to really say what you want on this topic.
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Today we're going to solve that problem because your ability to
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ไปŠๆ—ฅใฏใใฎๅ•้กŒใ‚’่งฃๆฑบใ— ใพใ™ใ€‚ใชใœใชใ‚‰ใ€ๆ…ขๆ€ง็š„ใชใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’
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recognize, manage,
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่ช่ญ˜ใ€็ฎก็†
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and reduce chronic stress is essential to your wellbeing,
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ใ€่ปฝๆธ›ใ™ใ‚‹่ƒฝๅŠ›ใฏ ๅฅๅบทใซไธๅฏๆฌ ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™ใ€‚
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and if you have friends, family,
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ใพใŸใ€่‹ฑ่ชžใง
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or coworkers you regularly communicate with in English,
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ๅฎšๆœŸ็š„ใซใ‚ณใƒŸใƒฅใƒ‹ใ‚ฑใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใ‚’ใจใ‚‹ๅ‹ไบบใ€ๅฎถๆ—ใ€ๅŒๅƒšใŒใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆ ใ€
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it's very likely the topic of stress management is going to come up.
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ใใ‚ŒใŒ่ฉฑ้กŒใซใชใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒ้žๅธธใซ้ซ˜ใ„ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚น ใƒžใƒใ‚ธใƒกใƒณใƒˆใŒๅ‡บใฆใใพใ™ใ€‚
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In this Confident English lesson today,
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ไปŠๆ—ฅใฎใ“ใฎ่‡ชไฟกใซๆบ€ใกใŸ่‹ฑ่ชžใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใงใฏใ€
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you're going to learn the vocabulary you need to confidently discuss stress
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ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚น็ฎก็†ใซใคใ„ใฆ่‡ชไฟกใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆ่ฉฑใ—ๅˆใ†ใŸใ‚ใซๅฟ…่ฆใช่ชžๅฝ™ใ‚’ๅญฆใณใพใ™
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management.
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01:00
We'll talk about common obstacles to overcoming stress or
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ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๅ…‹ๆœใ™ใ‚‹้š›ใฎไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใช้šœๅฎณใ‚„
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situations that increase stress.
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ใ€ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๅข—ๅคงใ•ใ›ใ‚‹็Šถๆณใซใคใ„ใฆใŠ่ฉฑใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
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We'll also discuss strategies that help to minimize and reduce stress.
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ใพใŸใ€ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๆœ€ๅฐ้™ใซๆŠ‘ใˆใฆ่ปฝๆธ›ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใซๅฝน็ซ‹ใคๆˆฆ็•ฅใซใคใ„ใฆใ‚‚่ชฌๆ˜Žใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
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Along the way,
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ใใฎ้Ž็จ‹ใงใ€ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚น็ฎก็†ใ‚นใ‚ญใƒซใ‚’ๅผทๅŒ–ใ™ใ‚‹
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you'll learn four tips to help you strengthen your own stress management skills.
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ใŸใ‚ใฎ 4 ใคใฎใƒ’ใƒณใƒˆใ‚’ๅญฆใณใพใ™ ใ€‚
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Before we get started, if you don't already know,
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ๅง‹ใ‚ใ‚‹ๅ‰ใซใ€ ใพใ ใ”ๅญ˜ใ˜ใชใ„ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€
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I'm Annemarie with Speak Confident English.
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็งใฏ Speak Confident English ใฎ Annemarie ใงใ™ใ€‚
01:38
Everything I do is designed to help you get the confidence you want for your
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็งใŒใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏใ™ในใฆใ€่‹ฑ่ชžใงใฎ็”Ÿๆดปใจไป•ไบ‹ใซๅฟ…่ฆใช่‡ชไฟกใ‚’ๅพ—ใ‚‹ใฎใซๅฝน็ซ‹ใคใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่จญ่จˆใ•ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใพใ™
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life and work in English.
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One way I do that is by sharing my weekly Confident English lessons where I
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ใใฎใŸใ‚ใฎ 1 ใคใฎๆ–นๆณ•ใฏใ€ ๆฏŽ้€ฑใฎ Confident English ใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใ‚’ๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚ใ“ใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใงใฏใ€ไปŠๆ—ฅใฎใ“ใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ
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ใ€ๆตๆšขใ•ใจ่‡ชไฟกใ‚’้ซ˜ใ‚ใ‚‹ ๆˆฆ็•ฅใ€ใŠใ‚ˆใณไธŠ็ดš
01:53
level vocabulary just like in this lesson today. So while you're here,
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ใƒฌใƒ™ใƒซใฎ่ชžๅฝ™ใ‚’ๅ–ใ‚ŠไธŠใ’ ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ใ“ใ“ใซ
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่ฆ‹้€ƒใ•ใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ ใ€‚
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And now let's dive right into this topic of how to have conversations
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ใใ‚Œใงใฏ
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in English on stress management. To do that effectively,
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ใ€ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚น็ฎก็†ใซใคใ„ใฆ่‹ฑ่ชžใงไผš่ฉฑใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใซใคใ„ใฆใ€ใ“ใฎใƒˆใƒ”ใƒƒใ‚ฏใซ้ฃ›ใณ่พผใฟใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใ‚’ๅŠนๆžœ็š„ใซ่กŒใ†ใซใฏใ€
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we have to understand exactly what stress is. In English,
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ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใจใฏไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’ๆญฃ็ขบใซ็†่งฃใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ่‹ฑ่ชžใง
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we define stress as negative,
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ใฏใ€ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๅ›ฐ้›ฃใช็Šถๆณใ‚„็ตŒ้จ“ใซๅฏพใ™ใ‚‹ๅฆๅฎš็š„ใ€่บซไฝ“็š„ใ€ใพใŸใฏๆ„Ÿๆƒ…็š„ใชๅๅฟœใจๅฎš็พฉใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™
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physical or emotional reactions to difficult situations or
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experiences. And although all of us experience stress,
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ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ ่ชฐใ‚‚ใŒใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๆ„Ÿใ˜ใพใ™ใŒใ€
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the cause of stress and the way that it manifests or the way we
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ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใฎๅŽŸๅ› ใจ ใใฎ็พใ‚Œๆ–นใ€
02:36
experience stress differs from one person to another.
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ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใฎๆ„Ÿใ˜ ๆ–นใฏไบบใใ‚Œใžใ‚Œ็•ฐใชใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
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There are of course numerous situations that result in
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ใ‚‚ใกใ‚ใ‚“ ใ€
02:45
that negative physical or emotional reaction. In other words, stress.
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ใใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใชๅฆๅฎš็š„ใช่บซไฝ“็š„ใพใŸใฏๆ„Ÿๆƒ…็š„ใช ๅๅฟœใ‚’ใ‚‚ใŸใ‚‰ใ™็Šถๆณใฏๆ•ฐๅคšใใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ„ใ‚ใฐใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ€‚
02:50
But four of the most common causes include workload
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ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ๆœ€ใ‚‚ไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใช 4 ใคใฎ ๅŽŸๅ› ใซใฏใ€ใƒฏใƒผใ‚ฏใƒญใƒผใƒ‰ใฎๅœงๅ€’ใŒๅซใพใ‚Œ
02:54
overwhelm, those situations when you think,
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ใพใ™ใ€‚ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ็Šถๆณใฏใ€ใ€Œ
02:58
I can't get it all done, I can't catch up,
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ใ™ในใฆใ‚’็ต‚ใ‚ใ‚‰ใ›ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใชใ„ใ€ใ€ใ€Œ่ฟฝใ„ใคใ‹ใชใ„ใ€ใ€ใ€Œ
03:02
I have too much on my plate.
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ใ‚„ใ‚‹โ€‹โ€‹ในใใ“ใจใŒๅคšใ™ใŽใ‚‹ใ€ใจ่€ƒใˆใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใงใ™ใ€‚
03:05
A second common contributor is major life changes.
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2 ็•ช็›ฎใซไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใช่ฆๅ›  ใฏใ€็”Ÿๆดปใฎๅคงใใชๅค‰ๅŒ–ใงใ™ใ€‚
03:10
For example, if you ever have a thought such as,
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ใŸใจใˆใฐใ€
03:13
I can't keep up with life right now, there's too much going on,
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ไปŠใฎ็”Ÿๆดปใซใคใ„ใฆใ„ใ‘ใชใ„ใ€ใ„ใ‚ใ„ใ‚ใชใ“ใจใŒ ่ตทใ“ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹
03:18
or I didn't know this would be so hard.
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ใ€ใ“ใ‚“ใชใซๅคงๅค‰ใ ใจใฏ็Ÿฅใ‚‰ใชใ‹ใฃใŸใ€ใชใฉใจ่€ƒใˆใŸใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใจใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
03:21
Maybe you had a job change or something amazing like a wedding,
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่ปข่ทใ‚„็ตๅฉšๅผใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใช็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใฃใŸใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใŒใ€
03:26
but suddenly that feels particularly stressful.
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็ช็„ถใใ‚Œใฏ ็‰นใซใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๆ„Ÿใ˜ใพใ™.
03:29
You didn't know it would be so hard. Perhaps you thought,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใใ‚ŒใŒใจใฆใ‚‚้›ฃใ—ใ„ใจใฏ็Ÿฅใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใงใ—ใŸ ใ€‚ ใŸใถใ‚“ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ€
03:34
I thought this would be easier, or I thought this would be more fun.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ‚‚ใฃใจ็ฐกๅ˜ ใ ใจๆ€ใฃใŸใ€ใพใŸใฏใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ‚‚ใฃใจๆฅฝใ—ใ„ใ ใ‚ใ†ใจๆ€ใฃใŸ.
03:39
A third common cause of stress is financial conditions.
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ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใฎ 3 ็•ช็›ฎใฎไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใชๅŽŸๅ›  ใฏใ€่ฒกๆ”ฟ็Šถๆณใงใ™ใ€‚
03:44
If you've ever thought I'm totally broke, in other words,
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็งใŒๅฎŒๅ…จใซไธ€ๆ–‡็„กใ—ใ ใจๆ€ใฃใŸใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใชใ‚‰ ใ€่จ€ใ„ๆ›ใˆใ‚Œใฐใ€
03:48
I don't have any money,
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03:50
I feel like I can't take care of myself or I can't take care of my family
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ใŒใชใ„ใ€่‡ชๅˆ†่‡ช่บซใฎ้ขๅ€’ใ‚’ใฟใ‚‹ ใ“ใจใŒใงใใชใ„ใ€ใพใŸใฏๅฎถๆ—ใฎไธ–่ฉฑใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใชใ„ใจๆ„Ÿใ˜ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใชใ‚‰
03:55
right now, I don't know what I'm going to do.
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ใ€็งใฏไปŠใ€ใใ†ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ ็งใŒ ไฝ•ใ‚’ใ—ใ‚ˆใ†ใจใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใ‹ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ€‚
03:58
And the last common cause on this list is personal relationships.
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ใ“ใฎใƒชใ‚นใƒˆใฎๆœ€ๅพŒใฎไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใชๅŽŸๅ›  ใฏใ€ๅ€‹ไบบ็š„ใช้–ขไฟ‚ใงใ™ใ€‚
04:03
Those experiences when you think my heart is broken
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็งใฎๅฟƒใŒๅฃŠใ‚Œใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ€
04:08
or I don't know what happened, we used to be so close,
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ใพใŸใฏไฝ•ใŒ่ตทใ“ใฃใŸใฎใ‹ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใจๆ€ใ†ใ‚ˆใ†ใช็ตŒ้จ“ ใ€็งใŸใกใฏใจใฆใ‚‚่ฆชๅฏ†ใ ใฃใŸใฎใงใ€
04:12
I thought I could trust her or I thought I could trust him.
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ๅฝผๅฅณใ‚’ไฟก้ ผใงใใ‚‹ ใจๆ€ใฃใŸใ€ใพใŸใฏๅฝผใ‚’ไฟก้ ผใงใใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใฃใŸ.
04:17
When we have those stress feelings,
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ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๆ„Ÿใ˜ใ‚‹ใจใ€
04:20
it isn't always easy to get out of them.
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ใใ“ใ‹ใ‚‰ๆŠœใ‘ๅ‡บใ™ใฎใฏๅฟ…ใšใ—ใ‚‚็ฐกๅ˜ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’็ฎก็†ใ—ใŸใ‚Š่ปฝๆธ›ใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹้š›ใซ็ซ‹ใกใฏใ ใ‹ใ‚‹
04:23
Let's take a look at four common obstacles that stand in the way
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04:28
of managing or even reducing stress.
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04:31
The first one is falling into the extremes of hustle culture.
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1ใค็›ฎใฏ ใƒใƒƒใ‚นใƒซๆ–‡ๅŒ–ใฎๆฅตใฟใซ้™ฅใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
04:36
Hustle culture is the belief that you have to perform at your
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ใƒใƒƒใ‚นใƒซๆ–‡ๅŒ–ใจใฏใ€ๆˆๅŠŸใ‚’ๅŽใ‚ใŸใ‚Šใ€ๆœ›ใ‚€็ตๆžœ
04:41
maximum capacity all the time in order to
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ใ‚’ๅพ—ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซใ€ๅธธใซๆœ€ๅคง้™ใฎ่ƒฝๅŠ›ใ‚’็™บๆฎใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ใจใ„ใ†ไฟกๅฟต
04:46
achieve success or get the results you want. And as I'm sure you know,
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ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ”ๅญ˜ใ˜ใฎใจใŠใ‚Šใ€
04:51
working as hard as you can every single day will lead to
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ๆฏŽๆ—ฅไธ€็”Ÿๆ‡ธๅ‘ฝๅƒใใจใ€
04:56
overwhelm and stress.
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ๅœงๅ€’ใ•ใ‚Œใฆใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใŒๆบœใพใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
04:59
The second common obstacle is believing or accepting that
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2 ็•ช็›ฎใฎไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใช้šœๅฎณใฏ ใ€ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใŒๆˆๅŠŸใฎใ—ใ‚‹ใ—ใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใจไฟกใ˜ใŸใ‚Šๅ—ใ‘ๅ…ฅใ‚ŒใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™
05:04
stress is a sign of success.
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05:07
This is closely connected to that idea of hustle culture.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใƒใƒƒใ‚นใƒซๆ–‡ๅŒ–ใฎ่€ƒใˆๆ–นใจๅฏ†ๆŽฅใซ้–ขไฟ‚ใ— ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
05:12
Unfortunately,
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ๆฎ‹ๅฟตใชใŒใ‚‰ใ€ใƒใƒƒใ‚นใƒซ ใ‚ซใƒซใƒใƒฃใƒผ
05:13
there are many who celebrate hustle culture and they celebrate
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ใ‚’็งฐ่ณ›ใ™ใ‚‹ไบบใฏๅคšใใ€
05:17
this idea of working as hard as possible all the time.
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ๅธธใซๅ…จๅŠ›ใ‚’ๅฐฝใใ™ใจใ„ใ†่€ƒใˆใ‚’็งฐ่ณ›ใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
05:22
And the more they do that,
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒใใ‚Œใ‚’ใ™ใ‚Œใฐ
05:24
the more they believe or the more it might appear that they're
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ใ™ใ‚‹ใปใฉใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใ‚ˆใ‚Šๅคšใใฎใ“ใจใ‚’ไฟกใ˜ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ€ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒๆˆๅŠŸใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่ฆ‹ใˆใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“
05:28
successful. When we accept stress as a sign of success,
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. ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๆˆๅŠŸใฎใ—ใ‚‹ใ—ใจใ—ใฆๅ—ใ‘ๅ…ฅใ‚Œใ‚‹ใจ
05:33
we don't give ourselves any opportunity to take a break.
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ใ€ไผ‘ๆ†ฉใ™ใ‚‹ๆฉŸไผšใŒใชใใชใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
05:37
The third common obstacle is not prioritizing wellness.
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3 ใค็›ฎใฎไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใช้šœๅฎณใฏ ใ€ๅฅๅบทใ‚’ๅ„ชๅ…ˆใ—ใชใ„ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
05:41
And if this is a challenge for you,
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ใ“ใ‚ŒใŒใ‚ใชใŸใซใจใฃใฆๆŒ‘ๆˆฆใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใชใ‚‰ใ€
05:44
I have a couple lessons I'd like to recommend.
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็งใŒใŠๅ‹งใ‚ใ—ใŸใ„ใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใŒใ„ใใคใ‹ใ‚ใ‚Š ใพใ™.
05:47
The first one is a lesson that I did on self-care.
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1ใค็›ฎใฏใ€ ็งใŒใ‚ปใƒซใƒ•ใ‚ฑใ‚ขใซใคใ„ใฆ่กŒใฃใŸใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใงใ™ใ€‚
05:50
I'll share a link to that lesson down below.
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ใใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใธใฎใƒชใƒณใ‚ฏใ‚’ ไปฅไธ‹ใซๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
05:53
The second one is on time management.
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05:56
If you struggle with creating a better work-life balance,
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ใ‚ˆใ‚Š่‰ฏใ„ใƒฏใƒผใ‚ฏใƒฉใ‚คใƒ• ใƒใƒฉใƒณใ‚นใฎๆง‹็ฏ‰ใซ่‹ฆๅŠดใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใ€
05:59
that lesson might have some great tips for you.
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ใ“ใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใซใฏ ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ใƒ’ใƒณใƒˆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
06:03
One more lesson that might be useful is a lesson I recently did on well-being
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ๅฝน็ซ‹ใคใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใชใ„ใ‚‚ใ† 1 ใคใฎๆ•™่จ“ใฏ ใ€็งใŒๆœ€่ฟ‘่กŒใฃใŸใ€่ทๅ ดใงใฎๅนธ็ฆใซใคใ„ใฆใฎๆ•™่จ“ใงใ™
06:08
in the workplace. I'll include links to all those lessons below.
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ใ€‚ ไปฅไธ‹ใซใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใ™ในใฆใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใธใฎใƒชใƒณใ‚ฏใ‚’ๅซใ‚ใพใ™ใ€‚
06:11
And now the fourth common obstacle to managing stress successfully
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ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ไธŠๆ‰‹ใซ็ฎก็†ใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใฎ 4 ใค็›ฎใฎไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใช้šœๅฎณ
06:17
is the belief that you're a lone wolf or a superhero.
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ใฏใ€่‡ชๅˆ†ใŒ ไธ€ๅŒน็‹ผใพใŸใฏใ‚นใƒผใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ’ใƒผใƒญใƒผใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†ๆ€ใ„่พผใฟใงใ™ใ€‚
06:22
A lone wolf is someone who prefers to do things on their own.
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ไธ€ๅŒน็‹ผใจใฏ ใ€่‡ชๅˆ†ใง็‰ฉไบ‹ใ‚’่กŒใ†ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅฅฝใ‚€ไบบใฎใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
06:27
They don't want any help from anyone and they don't want anyone to be
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ่ชฐใ‹ใ‚‰ใ‚‚ๅŠฉใ‘ใ‚’ๆฑ‚ใ‚ใšใ€ ่ชฐใ‚‚ๅ‘จใ‚Šใซใ„ใฆใปใ—ใใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›
06:32
around them. They like to do everything alone.
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ใ‚“ใ€‚ ๅฝผใ‚‰ ใฏไฝ•ใงใ‚‚ไธ€ไบบใงใ‚„ใ‚‹ใฎใŒๅฅฝใใงใ™ใ€‚
06:35
If you're struggling with any of those obstacles and
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ้šœๅฎณใฎใ„ใšใ‚Œใ‹ใซ่‹ฆใ—ใ‚“ใงใ„
06:40
as a result you have an overwhelming amount of stress,
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ใฆใ€ใใฎ็ตๆžœใ€ๅœงๅ€’็š„ใช้‡ใฎใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๆŠฑใˆใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใฏ
06:43
let's talk about four tips to strengthen your stress management
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ใ€ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚น็ฎก็†ใ‚นใ‚ญใƒซใ‚’ๅผทๅŒ–ใ—ใฆ
06:48
skills so you can find better balance. Tip number one,
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ใ‚ˆใ‚Š่‰ฏใ„ใƒใƒฉใƒณใ‚นใ‚’่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใฎ 4 ใคใฎใƒ’ใƒณใƒˆใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ† ใ€‚ ใƒ’ใƒณใƒˆใใฎ 1 ใฏใ€
06:52
find your sweet spot.
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่‡ชๅˆ†ใฎใ‚นใ‚คใƒผใƒˆ ใ‚นใƒใƒƒใƒˆใ‚’่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
06:54
Finding your sweet spot means you have identified a process,
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ใ‚นใ‚คใƒผใƒˆใ‚นใƒใƒƒใƒˆใ‚’่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ† ใ“ใจใฏใ€ใƒ—ใƒญใ‚ปใ‚นใ€ไธ€้€ฃใฎใ‚นใƒ†ใƒƒใƒ—ใ€ใพใŸใฏ็Šถๆณใ‚’็‰นๅฎšใ—ใŸใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
06:59
a series of steps or a situation that is most beneficial
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฏใ€ใ‚ใชใŸ ใซใจใฃใฆๆœ€ใ‚‚ๆœ‰็›Šใง
07:04
to you and allows you to be your most effective.
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ใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ๆœ€ใ‚‚ๅŠนๆžœ็š„ใซใชใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™. ่‡ชๅˆ†ใฎใ‚นใ‚คใƒผใƒˆใ‚นใƒใƒƒใƒˆ
07:07
The first step to identifying your sweet spot and managing
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ใ‚’็‰นๅฎšใ—ใ€ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’็ฎก็†ใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใฎๆœ€ๅˆใฎใ‚นใƒ†ใƒƒใƒ—
07:12
stress is to admit when you have a full plate.
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ใฏใ€ๆบ€่…นใซใชใฃใŸใจใใ‚’่ชใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
07:16
This idiomatic expression means that your schedule or your workload
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ใ“ใฎๆ…ฃ็”จ่กจ็พใฏ ใ€ใ‚นใ‚ฑใ‚ธใƒฅใƒผใƒซใ‚„ไป•ไบ‹้‡
07:21
is beyond your capacity.
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ใŒ่‡ชๅˆ†ใฎ่ƒฝๅŠ›ใ‚’่ถ…ใˆใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
07:24
If you realize that you have a full plate,
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ใŠ่…นใ„ใฃใฑใ„ใซใชใฃใŸใจๆฐ—ใฅใ„ใŸใ‚‰
07:27
it's time to check in with yourself.
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ใ€่‡ชๅˆ†ใงใƒใ‚งใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚คใƒณใ—ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
07:30
So if you're going to check in with yourself,
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ ่‡ชๅˆ†่‡ช่บซใซใƒใ‚งใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚คใƒณใ™ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใ€
07:32
it means being clear with yourself on the current situation.
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ใใ‚Œใฏ ็พๅœจใฎ็Šถๆณใซใคใ„ใฆ่‡ชๅˆ†่‡ช่บซใ‚’ๆ˜Ž็ขบใซใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™. ใใ‚Œใ‚’่กŒใ†ใฎ
07:37
Some questions you can use to help you do that are to ask yourself,
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ใซๅฝน็ซ‹ใคใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎ่ณชๅ• ใฏใ€่‡ชๅˆ†่‡ช่บซใซๅ•ใ„ใ‹ใ‘ใ‚‹
07:42
are there any areas of your life that you're neglecting right now?
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ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚ใ‚ใชใŸใŒไปŠ็„ก่ฆ–ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ไบบ็”Ÿใฎ้ ˜ๅŸŸใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ‹?
07:46
Are you finding it difficult to stay focused?
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้›†ไธญๅŠ›ใ‚’ไฟใคใฎใŒ้›ฃใ—ใ„ใจๆ„Ÿใ˜ใฆใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹?
07:49
Do you feel moody or on edge?
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ไธๆฉŸๅซŒใซใชใฃใŸใ‚Šใ€ใ‚คใƒฉใ‚คใƒฉใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ—ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
07:52
Do you often work after typical work hours or on the weekend?
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้€šๅธธใฎ ๅฐฑๆฅญๆ™‚้–“ๅพŒใพใŸใฏ้€ฑๆœซใซใ‚ˆใๅƒใใพใ™ใ‹?
07:57
Are you making minor errors in your work?
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ไป•ไบ‹ใงไบ›็ดฐใชใƒŸใ‚นใ‚’็Šฏใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹๏ผŸ
08:01
Do you feel sleep deprived, exhausted or overwhelmed?
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็ก็œ ไธ่ถณใ€ ็–ฒใ‚Œๆžœใฆใ€ใพใŸใฏๅœงๅ€’ใ•ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจๆ„Ÿใ˜ใพใ™ใ‹? ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ่ณชๅ•ใฎ
08:05
If you answered yes to quite a few of those questions,
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ใ‹ใชใ‚Šใฎๆ•ฐใซใ€Œใฏใ„ใ€ใจ็ญ”ใˆใŸๅ ดๅˆใฏ ใ€
08:09
it's quite likely you've got too much on your plate right now.
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ไปŠใ€ใ‚„ใ‚Šใ™ใŽใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒ้žๅธธใซ้ซ˜ใ„ใงใ™ ใ€‚
08:12
So to help you find that sweet spot,
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ใ‚นใ‚คใƒผใƒˆ ใ‚นใƒใƒƒใƒˆ
08:15
that series of action steps or that process
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ใ€ไธ€้€ฃใฎใ‚ขใ‚ฏใ‚ทใƒงใƒณ ใ‚นใƒ†ใƒƒใƒ—ใ€ใพใŸใฏ
08:19
that allows you to be your most effective,
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ๆœ€ใ‚‚ๅŠน็Ž‡็š„ใซไฝœๆฅญใงใใ‚‹ใƒ—ใƒญใ‚ปใ‚นใ‚’่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใ‚‹ใซใฏใ€
08:23
try these action steps first,
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ใพใšใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎใ‚ขใ‚ฏใ‚ทใƒงใƒณ ใ‚นใƒ†ใƒƒใƒ—ใ‚’่ฉฆใ—ใ€ๅฎŒไบ†
08:25
create a list of all the tasks you need to complete and then start to
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ใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ™ในใฆใฎใ‚ฟใ‚นใ‚ฏใฎใƒชใ‚นใƒˆใ‚’ไฝœๆˆใ—ใฆใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€
08:30
group them together according to priority.
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ใใ‚Œใ‚‰ใ‚’ใ‚ฐใƒซใƒผใƒ—ๅŒ–ใ—ๅง‹ใ‚ใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅ„ชๅ…ˆ้ †ไฝใซๅพ“ใฃใฆใ€‚
08:34
Then start your day with the tasks that are most important to you or that
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ๆฌกใซใ€ ใ‚ใชใŸใซใจใฃใฆๆœ€ใ‚‚้‡่ฆใชใ‚ฟใ‚นใ‚ฏใ€ใพใŸใฏ
08:39
help you achieve the goals you have or the primary deadlines.
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็›ฎๆจ™ใ‚„ไธป่ฆใช็ท ใ‚ๅˆ‡ใ‚Šใ‚’้”ๆˆใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใซๅฝน็ซ‹ใคใ‚ฟใ‚นใ‚ฏใ‹ใ‚‰ 1 ๆ—ฅใ‚’ๅง‹ใ‚ใพใ™ ใ€‚
08:43
After you set aside time to work toward those goals,
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ็›ฎๆจ™ใซๅ‘ใ‹ใฃใฆไฝœๆฅญใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใฎๆ™‚้–“ใ‚’ๅ–ใฃใฆใŠใ„ใŸๅพŒใฏ
08:48
then you can shift your focus into the smaller tasks or the less important
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ใ€ ใ‚ˆใ‚Šๅฐใ•ใชใ‚ฟใ‚นใ‚ฏใ‚„้‡่ฆๅบฆใฎไฝŽใ„ใ‚ฟใ‚นใ‚ฏใซ็„ฆ็‚นใ‚’็งปใ™ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™
08:53
tasks. Here's why. Why this process is important.
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ใ€‚ ็†็”ฑใฏๆฌกใฎใจใŠใ‚Šใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ“ใฎใƒ—ใƒญใ‚ปใ‚นใŒ้‡่ฆใช็†็”ฑใ€‚
08:57
How many times have you gone into work or started your workday thinking, Oh,
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ไป•ไบ‹ใซ่กŒใฃ ใŸใ‚Šใ€ไธ€ๆ—ฅใฎไป•ไบ‹ใ‚’ๅง‹ใ‚ใŸใ‚Šใ—ใฆใ€ใ‚ใ‚ใ€
09:02
I have so much energy. I'm ready to get this big project finished,
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็งใซใฏใ‚จใƒใƒซใ‚ฎใƒผใŒใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใ‚ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใฃใŸใ“ใจใฏไฝ•ๅ›žใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ‹ใ€‚ ็งใฏ ใ“ใฎๅคงใใชใƒ—ใƒญใ‚ธใ‚งใ‚ฏใƒˆใ‚’็ต‚ใ‚ใ‚‰ใ›ใ‚‹ๆบ–ๅ‚™ใŒใงใใฆใ„ใ‚‹
09:07
or I'm going to finish this deadline by the end of the day.
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ใ‹ใ€ ไปŠๆ—ฅไธญใซ็ท ใ‚ๅˆ‡ใ‚Šใ‚’็ต‚ใˆใ‚‹ใคใ‚‚ใ‚Šใงใ™.
09:10
And then you check your email and there's a task waiting for you,
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ใƒกใƒผใƒซใ‚’ใƒใ‚งใƒƒใ‚ฏใ™ใ‚‹ใจใ€ ใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ๅพ…ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚ฟใ‚นใ‚ฏใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใ€
09:14
something that you have to get done, some little task, but it distracts you,
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ๅฎŒไบ†ใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ไฝ•ใ‹ใ€ ๅฐใ•ใชใ‚ฟใ‚นใ‚ฏใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใŒใ€ๆฐ—ใ‚’ๆ•ฃใ‚‰ใ—ใ€ๅˆฅใฎใ‚ฟใ‚นใ‚ฏใŒ
09:18
and then there's another one,
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09:20
and then there's an update on your team communication channel,
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ใ‚ใ‚Š ใ€ใƒใƒผใƒ ใฎใ‚ณใƒŸใƒฅใƒ‹ใ‚ฑใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใƒใƒฃใƒใƒซใซๆ›ดๆ–ฐใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
09:23
and that completely takes your focus in another direction,
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ๅฎŒๅ…จ ใซๅˆฅใฎๆ–นๅ‘ใซ็„ฆ็‚นใ‚’ๅˆใ‚ใ›
09:26
and suddenly it's the end of the day, you don't know what happened.
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ใ€็ช็„ถไธ€ๆ—ฅใฎ็ต‚ใ‚ใ‚Šใซใชใ‚Š ใ€ไฝ•ใŒ่ตทใ“ใฃใŸใฎใ‹ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
09:31
You don't know where time went. All you know is the big items,
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ๆ™‚้–“ใŒใฉใ“ใซ่กŒใฃใŸใ‹ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใฏใ€ๅคงใใชใ‚ขใ‚คใƒ†ใƒ ใ€ใƒชใ‚นใƒˆใซ
09:36
the important items on your list didn't get done,
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ใ‚ใ‚‹้‡่ฆใชใ‚ขใ‚คใƒ†ใƒ  ใŒๅฎŒไบ†ใ—ใฆใ„ใชใ„ใ“ใจใ€
09:40
and the moment you see that you have that intense feeling
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ใใ—ใฆใ€
09:45
of stress and overwhelm by prioritizing those tasks first
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1ๆ—ฅใฎๅง‹ใพใ‚Šใซๆœ€ๅˆใซใใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎใ‚ฟใ‚นใ‚ฏใ‚’ๅ„ชๅ…ˆใ™ใ‚‹
09:50
thing at the start of your day, before you check email,
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ใ“ใจใซใ‚ˆใฃใฆใ€ใใฎๅผท็ƒˆใชใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใจๅœงๅ€’ๆ„Ÿใ‚’ๆ„Ÿใ˜ใŸ็žฌ้–“ ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใƒใƒผใƒ ใ‚’็ขบ่ชใ™ใ‚‹ๅ‰ใซใ€ใƒกใƒผใƒซใ‚’ใƒใ‚งใƒƒใ‚ฏใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„
09:53
before you review any team,
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09:55
communication channels or social media will help you begin to check off
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ใ‚ณใƒŸใƒฅใƒ‹ใ‚ฑใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณ ใƒใƒฃใƒใƒซใ‚„ใ‚ฝใƒผใ‚ทใƒฃใƒซ ใƒกใƒ‡ใ‚ฃใ‚ขใฏใ€ๆœ€ใ‚‚้‡่ฆใช้ …็›ฎใซใƒใ‚งใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚’ๅ…ฅใ‚Œๅง‹ใ‚ใ‚‹ใฎใซ
10:00
those most important items and help you feel accomplished and
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ๅฝน็ซ‹ใกใ€้€”ไธญใง้”ๆˆๆ„ŸใจๅŠนๆžœใ‚’ๆ„Ÿใ˜ใ‚‹ใฎใซๅฝน็ซ‹ใกใพใ™
10:05
effective along the way. When you do that,
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ใ€‚ ใใ†ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ€ไป–ไบบใ‹ใ‚‰ใฎใŠ้ก˜ใ„ใ‚’ๆ–ญใ‚‰ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ„
10:08
you might find there are times when you have to say no to
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ๆ™‚ใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“
10:13
requests from others. If you struggle with politely saying no,
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10:18
when others ask for your help, I've got a lesson on that topic.
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ไป–ใฎไบบใŒใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅŠฉใ‘ใ‚’ๆฑ‚ใ‚ใŸใจใใซใ€ไธๅฏงใซใƒŽใƒผใจ่จ€ใ†ใฎใซ่‹ฆๅŠดใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใชใ‚‰ใ€ ็งใฏใใฎใƒˆใƒ”ใƒƒใ‚ฏใซ้–ขใ™ใ‚‹ใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™.
10:21
I'll share a link to a lesson on how to politely say no without feeling guilty.
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็ฝชๆ‚ชๆ„Ÿใ‚’ๆ„Ÿใ˜ใšใซไธๅฏงใซๆ–ญใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใซใคใ„ใฆใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใธใฎใƒชใƒณใ‚ฏใ‚’ๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ— ใพใ™ใ€‚
10:26
In the notes below the video,
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ใƒ“ใƒ‡ใ‚ชใฎไธ‹ใฎใƒกใƒขใงใ€่‡ชๅˆ†ใฎใ‚นใ‚คใƒผใƒˆ ใ‚นใƒใƒƒใƒˆ
10:28
the last thing you can do to help you find your sweet spot is to set firm
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ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซๆœ€ๅพŒใซใงใใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏ
10:33
boundaries between your working life and your personal life.
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ใ€ไป•ไบ‹ใจ็ง็”Ÿๆดปใฎ้–“ใซๆ˜Ž็ขบใชๅขƒ็•Œใ‚’่จญๅฎš ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
10:37
This is something I talked about in my lesson on wellbeing at work
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ ใ€่ทๅ ดใงใฎๅฅๅบทใซ้–ขใ™ใ‚‹ใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใงใŠ่ฉฑใ—ใ—ใŸใ“ใจใง
10:42
and an example of setting clear boundaries would include letting others
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ใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ๆ˜Ž็ขบใชๅขƒ็•Œ็ทšใ‚’่จญๅฎšใ™ใ‚‹ไพ‹ใจใ—ใฆใ€ๅค•ๆ–น 5 ๆ™‚ 30 ๅˆ†ใ‹ใ‚‰ๆฏŽๆ—ฅ ใ‚ชใƒ•ใƒฉใ‚คใƒณใซใชใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ไป–ใฎไบบใซ
10:47
know that you'll be offline every day starting at five 30 in the evening.
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10:52
Any emails or updates that come in after five 30 can be dealt
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5 ๆ™‚ 30 ๅˆ†ไปฅ้™ใซๅฑŠใ„ใŸใƒกใƒผใƒซใ‚„ๆ›ดๆ–ฐ
10:57
with the following work day.
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ใฏใ€็ฟŒๅ–ถๆฅญๆ—ฅใซๅ‡ฆ็†ใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
10:59
The second tip to help you manage stress successfully is
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ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ไธŠๆ‰‹ใซ็ฎก็†ใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใฎ 2 ใค็›ฎใฎใƒ’ใƒณใƒˆ ใฏ
11:04
to reframe or redefine success.
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ใ€ๆˆๅŠŸใ‚’ๅ†ๆง‹็ฏ‰ใพใŸใฏๅ†ๅฎš็พฉใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
11:08
If you think back to the obstacles we talked about,
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็งใŸใกใŒ่ฉฑใ—ใŸ้šœๅฎณใ‚’ๆŒฏใ‚Š่ฟ”ใฃใฆใฟใ‚‹ใจ
11:11
one of them was this idea that stress equals
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ใ€ใใฎใ†ใกใฎ 1 ใคใฏ ใ€ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใฏๆˆๅŠŸใซ็ญ‰ใ—ใ„ใจใ„ใ†่€ƒใˆ
11:16
success. However,
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ใงใ—ใŸใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€
11:19
if you are part of hustle culture and you're struggling to keep up,
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ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๅ–งๅ™ชใฎๆ–‡ๅŒ–ใฎไธ€้ƒจใง ใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่ฟฝใ„ใคใใฎใซ่‹ฆๅŠดใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใชใ‚‰
11:24
you're struggling to sleep at night,
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11:26
then you might need to redefine what it means to be successful.
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ใ“ใจใŒใงใใชใ„. ๆˆๅŠŸใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฎๆ„ๅ‘ณใ‚’ๅ†ๅฎš็พฉใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ .
11:31
Of course,
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ใ‚‚ใกใ‚ใ‚“ใ€
11:32
the pathway to success varies from one person to another,
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ๆˆๅŠŸใธใฎ้“ใฎใ‚Šใฏ ไบบใซใ‚ˆใฃใฆ็•ฐใชใ‚Š
11:37
and you can reframe what success means to you.
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ใ€่‡ชๅˆ†ใซใจใฃใฆใฎๆˆๅŠŸใฎๆ„ๅ‘ณใ‚’ๅ†ๆง‹ๆˆใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏใงใ ใพใ™ใ€‚
11:41
To reframe means to look at something in a new way.
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ใƒชใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใƒŸใƒณใ‚ฐใจใฏ ใ€ไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’ๆ–ฐใ—ใ„ๆ–นๆณ•ใง่ฆ‹ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
11:46
If you want to try reframing success, here are four things you can do.
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ๆˆๅŠŸใ‚’ใƒชใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใƒŸใƒณใ‚ฐใ—ใŸใ„ๅ ดๅˆ ใฏใ€ๆฌกใฎ 4 ใคใฎใ“ใจใ‚’ๅฎŸ่กŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
11:51
Number one, reassess what success means to you.
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็ฌฌไธ€ใซใ€ ๆˆๅŠŸใŒใ‚ใชใŸใซใจใฃใฆไฝ•ใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚’ๅ†่ฉ•ไพกใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
11:56
What does success look like or feel like according to you?
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ใ‚ใชใŸใซใจใฃใฆๆˆๅŠŸใจใฏใฉใฎ ใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚‚ใฎใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
12:00
Don't worry about what anyone else thinks.
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ไป–ไบบใŒใฉใ†ๆ€ใŠใ†ใŒๆฐ—ใซใ—ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
12:03
This is about you and your pathway to success.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใชใŸใจ ใ‚ใชใŸใฎๆˆๅŠŸใธใฎ้“ใซใคใ„ใฆใงใ™ใ€‚
12:07
So spend a little bit of time asking yourself those questions.
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ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ๅฐ‘ใ—ๆ™‚้–“ใ‚’ใ‹ใ‘ใฆใ€ ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ่ณชๅ•ใ‚’่‡ชๅ•ใ—ใฆใฟใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
12:10
What does success for you look like? What does it feel like?
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ใ‚ใชใŸใซใจใฃใฆๆˆๅŠŸใจใฏใฉใฎ ใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚‚ใฎใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ใฉใ‚“ใชๆ„Ÿใ˜ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
12:15
The second thing that you can do to reframe success is to set
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ๆˆๅŠŸใ‚’ๅ†ๆง‹ๆˆใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซใงใใ‚‹ 2 ็•ช็›ฎใฎใ“ใจ ใฏ
12:20
tiny flexible goals that help you reach your
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ใ€ๆœ€ๅ„ชๅ…ˆไบ‹้ …ใพใŸใฏๆœ€ไธŠไฝใฎ็›ฎๆจ™ใ‚’้”ๆˆใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใซๅฝน็ซ‹ใคๅฐใ•ใชๆŸ”่ปŸใช็›ฎๆจ™ใ‚’่จญๅฎšใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™
12:25
top priorities or your top goals.
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12:27
Little steps that will allow you to make forward progress
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12:32
even if you do the bare minimum,
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ๆœ€ไฝŽ้™ใฎใ“ใจใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใฆใ‚‚ใ€ๅ‰้€ฒใงใใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ™ใ‚‹ๅฐใ•ใชใ‚นใƒ†ใƒƒใƒ—ใงใ™ใ€‚
12:34
because the truth is there are some days where we have more time or more
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็œŸๅฎŸใฏใ€ไป–ใฎ ๆ—ฅใ‚ˆใ‚Šใ‚‚ๅคšใใฎๆ™‚้–“ใ‚„ใ‚จใƒใƒซใ‚ฎใƒผใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๆ—ฅใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‰
12:39
energy than others.
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ใงใ™ใ€‚
12:41
So even if your one little step is to read
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅฐใ•ใชไธ€ๆญฉใŒใ€ๆœฌใฎ 1 ใƒšใƒผใ‚ธใ‚’่ชญใ‚€ใ“ใจใ€ใคใพใ‚Š
12:46
one page in a book, to finish a book in English,
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่‹ฑ่ชžใงๆœฌใ‚’่ชญใฟ็ต‚ใˆใ‚‹
12:50
then you've done what you need to do that particular day to make progress.
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ใ“ใจใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใจใ—ใฆใ‚‚ใ€้€ฒๆญฉใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซใใฎ็‰นๅฎšใฎๆ—ฅใซๅฟ…่ฆใชใ“ใจใ‚’่กŒใฃใŸใ“ใจใซใชใ‚Šใพใ™ ใ€‚
12:55
One sentence I like to use for these tiny flexible daily goals
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็งใŒใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎๅฐใ•ใชๆŸ”่ปŸใชๆฏŽๆ—ฅใฎ็›ฎๆจ™ใซไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใŒๅฅฝใใช 1 ใคใฎๆ–‡
13:00
is to tell myself today I'm going to show up by to
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ใฏใ€ไปŠๆ—ฅใ€ ็งใฏ
13:05
show up means to arrive and be present.
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13:09
So an example might be,
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ใŸใจใˆใฐใ€
13:10
today I'm going to show up by reading for 15 minutes,
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ไปŠๆ—ฅ ใฏ 15 ๅˆ†้–“ๆœฌใ‚’่ชญใ‚“ใงๅ‚ๅŠ ใ™ใ‚‹ใ€
13:15
or today I'm going to show up by reading in English for five minutes.
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ใพใŸใฏไปŠๆ—ฅ ใฏ่‹ฑ่ชžใง 5 ๅˆ†้–“ๆœฌใ‚’่ชญใ‚“ใงๅ‚ๅŠ ใ™ใ‚‹ใ€ใชใฉใงใ™ใ€‚
13:19
The third thing you can do to help you reframe success is to also
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ๆˆๅŠŸใ‚’ๅ†ๆง‹ๆˆใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซใงใใ‚‹ 3 ใค็›ฎใฎใ“ใจ ใฏ
13:24
reframe your setbacks as learning experiences.
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ใ€ๆŒซๆŠ˜ ใ‚‚ๅญฆ็ฟ’็ตŒ้จ“ใจใ—ใฆๅ†ๆง‹ๆˆใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
13:28
Without a doubt, when we experience a setback,
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้–“้•ใ„ใชใใ€ ๆŒซๆŠ˜ใ‚’็ตŒ้จ“ใ™ใ‚‹ใจใ€
13:31
it's natural to feel frustrated and even a bit discouraged,
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ใƒ•ใƒฉใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใ‚’ๆ„Ÿใ˜ ใŸใ‚Šใ€ๅฐ‘ใ—่ฝ่ƒ†ใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใฏ่‡ช็„ถใชใ“ใจใงใ™ใŒใ€
13:36
but if we stay focused on that frustration and on that setback,
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ใใฎ ใƒ•ใƒฉใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใจๆŒซๆŠ˜ใซ้›†ไธญใ—็ถšใ‘ใ‚‹ใจ
13:41
we increase the amount of stress that we feel to better manage stress
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ใ€ ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ใ‚ˆใ‚Š้ฉๅˆ‡ใซ็ฎก็†
13:46
and overcome those difficult moments. Try some of these sentence starters.
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ใ—ใฆๅ…‹ๆœใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซๆ„Ÿใ˜ใ‚‹ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใฎ้‡ใŒๅข—ใˆใพใ™ ๅ›ฐ้›ฃใช็žฌ้–“ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎๆ–‡ใฎใ‚นใ‚ฟใƒผใ‚ฟใƒผใ‚’ใ„ใใคใ‹่ฉฆใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
13:51
Today I experienced and define your
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ไปŠๆ—ฅใ€็งใฏใ‚ใชใŸใฎๆŒซๆŠ˜ใ‚’็ตŒ้จ“ใ—ใ€ๅฎš็พฉใ—ใ€
13:56
setback and then add, and I learned that,
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่ฟฝๅŠ ใ—ใ€ใใ‚Œใ‚’ๅญฆใณใ€ใใฎ็ตŒ้จ“ใ‹ใ‚‰
14:01
and then share what you learned from that experience.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๅญฆใ‚“ใ ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ—ใพใ™ .
14:05
Another example is, despite X, despite this setback,
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ๅˆฅใฎไพ‹ใจใ—ใฆใ€ X ใซใ‚‚ใ‹ใ‹ใ‚ใ‚‰ใšใ€ใ“ใฎๆŒซๆŠ˜ใซใ‚‚ใ‹ใ‹ใ‚ใ‚‰ใšใ€
14:10
I was able to understand Y I was able to understand
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็งใฏ Y ใ‚’็†่งฃใ™ใ‚‹ ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ—ใŸใ€‚็งใฏ็†่งฃ
14:15
and then define again what you learned from that experience.
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ใ—ใ€ ใใฎ็ตŒ้จ“ใ‹ใ‚‰ๅญฆใ‚“ใ ใ“ใจใ‚’ใ‚‚ใ†ไธ€ๅบฆๅฎš็พฉใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
14:19
A third option is to simply say,
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3 ็•ช็›ฎใฎใ‚ชใƒ—ใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใฏใ€ๅ˜็ด”ใซใ€Œๆฌกๅ›žใฏ็งใŒ่กŒใ„ใพใ™ใ€ใจ่จ€ใฃใฆใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€
14:22
Next time I will and then state what you will do differently
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ๆฌกๅ›ž ใฏๅˆฅใฎๆ–นๆณ•ใง่กŒใ†ใ“ใจใ‚’่ฟฐในใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†ใ‚‚ใฎใงใ™
14:27
next time.
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ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎใ‚นใƒ†ใƒผใƒˆใƒกใƒณใƒˆใฎใ„ใใค
14:28
Let me give you a clear example of how we might use some of those statements.
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ใ‹ใ‚’ใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใซใคใ„ใฆใ€ๆ˜Ž็ขบใชไพ‹ใ‚’ๆŒ™ใ’ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ† ใ€‚
14:32
Imagine at work you had a series of back and forth emails
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่ทๅ ดใง
14:37
about an upcoming event,
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ใ€ไปŠๅพŒใฎใ‚คใƒ™ใƒณใƒˆใซ้–ขใ™ใ‚‹ไธ€้€ฃใฎใƒกใƒผใƒซใŒใ‚„ใ‚Šๅ–ใ‚Šใ•
14:38
and in the process you got confused about the date and in the
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ใ‚Œใ€ใใฎ้Ž็จ‹ใง ๆ—ฅไป˜ใซใคใ„ใฆๆททไนฑใ—ใ€
14:43
end you missed the event. Of course,
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ๆœ€็ต‚็š„ใซใ‚คใƒ™ใƒณใƒˆใซๅ‚ๅŠ ใงใใชใ‹ใฃใŸใจๆƒณๅƒใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ใ‚‚ใกใ‚ใ‚“ใ€
14:46
doing so could cause extreme stress and disappointment,
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ใใ†ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏๆฅตๅบฆใฎใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใจๅคฑๆœ›ใ‚’ๅผ•ใ่ตทใ“ใ™ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚‹
14:50
so to reframe that setback, you could say something like,
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ใฎใงใ€ใใฎๅพŒ้€€ใ‚’ๅ†ๆง‹็ฏ‰ใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซใ€ ๆฌกใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใ
14:54
Through this experience,
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I learned the importance of double checking and setting up reminders on my
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calendar app.
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ใพใ™. ๆˆๅŠŸใ‚’ๅ†ๆง‹ๆˆ
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The fourth and final thing you can do to reframe success is celebrate
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ใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซใงใใ‚‹ๆœ€ๅพŒใฎ 4 ใค็›ฎใฎใ“ใจ ใฏใ€ๅฐใ•ใชๆˆๅŠŸใ‚’็ฅใ†ใ“ใจใงใ™
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the small wins. Remember,
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we talked about the importance of those tiny flexible daily goals.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎๅฐใ•ใชๆŸ”่ปŸใชๆฏŽๆ—ฅใฎ็›ฎๆจ™ใฎ้‡่ฆๆ€งใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ใŸใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ€ใ„ๅ‡บใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„.
15:13
If you have a goal of reading every day in English and finishing a book and you
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ๆฏŽๆ—ฅ่‹ฑ่ชžใงๆœฌใ‚’่ชญใฟ็ต‚ใˆใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†็›ฎๆจ™ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใ€
15:18
were able to read for five minutes today,
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ไปŠๆ—ฅ 5 ๅˆ†้–“ๆœฌใ‚’่ชญใ‚€ใ“ใจใŒใงใใŸใชใ‚‰ใ€
15:21
that is a win and it deserves to be celebrated.
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ใใ‚Œใฏๅ‹ๅˆฉใงใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ ็งฐ่ณ›ใซๅ€คใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
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Our third tip for managing stress successfully is to declutter your
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ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ไธŠๆ‰‹ใซ็ฎก็†ใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใฎ 3 ใค็›ฎใฎใƒ’ใƒณใƒˆ ใฏใ€ๅฟƒใจ็ฉบ้–“ใ‚’ๆ•ด็†ๆ•ด้ “ใ™ใ‚‹
15:29
mind and your space.
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ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚ ไป•ไบ‹ใจไผ‘ๆฏใ‚’ๅŠนๆžœ
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Cultivating and protecting the spaces that allow you to think
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็š„ใซ่€ƒใˆใ‚‰ใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ‚นใƒšใƒผใ‚นใ‚’่‚ฒๆˆใ—ใ€ไฟ่ญทใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจ
15:37
work and rest effectively are crucial to stress management.
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ใฏ ใ€ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚น็ฎก็†ใซไธๅฏๆฌ ใงใ™ใ€‚
15:42
How often have you been trying to think deeply about solving a problem
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15:47
or trying to get work done, but you're distracted by your environment?
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Decluttering is one way we can begin to eliminate that
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overwhelm in all of that distraction.
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ใ€ๆฐ—ใ‚’ๆ•ฃใ‚‰ใ™ใ™ในใฆใฎๅœงๅ€’ใ‚’ๆŽ’้™คใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใฎ 1 ใคใฎๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ™ใ€‚
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To declutter means to tidy things up and to remove
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declutter ใจใฏใ€ ็‰ฉไบ‹ใ‚’ๆ•ด้ “ใ—ใ€
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anything that's unnecessary, to put things in their proper place.
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ไธ่ฆใช ใ‚‚ใฎใ‚’ๅ–ใ‚Š้™คใใ€้ฉๅˆ‡ใชๅ ดๆ‰€ใซ็ฝฎใใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
16:09
If you're looking to declutter your physical environment,
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็‰ฉ็†็š„ใช็’ฐๅขƒ
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you can organize your workspace and even think about what
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ใ‚’ๆ•ด้ “ใ—ใŸใ„ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€ใƒฏใƒผใ‚ฏใ‚นใƒšใƒผใ‚นใ‚’ๆ•ด็†ใ—ใ€
16:18
is around you that you no longer need.
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่บซใฎๅ›žใ‚Šใซใ‚ใ‚‹ไธ่ฆใชใ‚‚ใฎใซใคใ„ใฆ่€ƒใˆใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
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Is it something that you could give away or donate?
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่ญฒใฃใŸใ‚Šๅฏ„ไป˜ใ—ใŸใ‚Šใงใใ‚‹ใ‚‚ใฎใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
16:23
Is it something that simply needs to go to the trash? Once all of that is done,
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ใใ‚Œใฏๅ˜ใซใ‚ดใƒŸ็ฎฑใซ่กŒใๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‚‚ใฎ ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ใใ‚ŒใŒใ™ในใฆๅฎŒไบ†ใ—ใŸใ‚‰ใ€
16:27
you can also begin internal decluttering.
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ๅ†…้ƒจใฎๆ•ด็†ๆ•ด้ “ใ‚’้–‹ๅง‹ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ็ž‘ๆƒณใจๆทฑๅ‘ผๅธใฎใŸใ‚ใฎ
16:31
You can give yourself time and space for meditation and deep breathing
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ๆ™‚้–“ใจ็ฉบ้–“ใ‚’่‡ชๅˆ†ใซไธŽใˆใ‚‹ใ“ใจ
16:36
that allows you to begin to organize your thoughts and hopefully
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ใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ใ“ใ‚Œใซใ‚ˆใ‚Š ใ€่€ƒใˆใ‚’ๆ•ด็†ใ—ๅง‹ใ‚ใ€ใ†ใพใใ„ใ‘ใฐ
16:40
remove some of the negative or stressful thoughts that you're having.
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ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๆŠฑใˆใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅฆๅฎš็š„ใพใŸใฏใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใฎๅคšใ„่€ƒใˆใฎไธ€้ƒจใ‚’ๅ–ใ‚Š้™คใใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™.
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In addition to all that decluttering,
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it's important to also create time and space to recharge your
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ใ€ใƒใƒƒใƒ†ใƒชใƒผใ‚’ๅ……้›ปใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใฎๆ™‚้–“ใจใ‚นใƒšใƒผใ‚นใ‚’ไฝœใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚้‡่ฆ
16:52
batteries.
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This means to regain energy and motivation through
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ€ใƒฌใ‚ฏใƒชใ‚จใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใจไผ‘ๆฏใ‚’้€šใ˜ใฆใ‚จใƒใƒซใ‚ฎใƒผใจใƒขใƒใƒ™ใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใ‚’ๅ›žๅพฉใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—
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recreation and rest.
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ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฎใ‚จใƒใƒซใ‚ฎใƒผใ‚’ๅ–ใ‚Šๆˆปใ™ใŸใ‚ใซๅƒใ
16:59
Notice that it doesn't mean work to regain your energy.
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ใจใ„ใ†ๆ„ๅ‘ณใงใฏใชใ„ใ“ใจใซๆณจๆ„ใ—ใฆ ใใ ใ•ใ„. ใƒฌใ‚ฏใƒชใ‚จใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใ‚„ไผ‘ๆฏใฎ
17:04
It means find opportunities for recreation or rest.
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ๆฉŸไผšใ‚’่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™ ใ€‚
17:09
And now our last tip today for how to successfully manage
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚น ใ‚’ไธŠๆ‰‹ใซ็ฎก็†ใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใซ้–ขใ™ใ‚‹ไปŠๆ—ฅใฎๆœ€ๅพŒใฎใƒ’ใƒณใƒˆ
17:13
stress is to accept that it takes a village.
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ใฏ ใ€ใใ‚Œใซใฏๆ‘ใŒๅฟ…่ฆใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅ—ใ‘ๅ…ฅใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™. ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚น
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Sometimes when it comes to dealing with stress, we need extra help,
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ใซๅฏพๅ‡ฆใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซใชใ‚‹ใจ ใ€็‰นๅˆฅใชๅŠฉใ‘ใŒๅฟ…่ฆใซ
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and as a result,
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it may be time to embrace the idea that it takes a village.
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ใชใ‚‹ ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
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This means that it takes many people working together in cooperation
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ€็›ฎๆจ™ใ‚’้”ๆˆใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซใฏใ€ๅคšใใฎไบบใ€… ใŒๅ”ๅŠ›ใ—ใฆๅ”ๅŠ›
17:33
to achieve a goal.
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ใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
17:35
This also means waving goodbye to any stigmas that may be associated
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ใ“ใ‚ŒใฏใพใŸใ€ๅŠฉใ‘ใ‚’ๆฑ‚ใ‚ใ‚‹ ใ“ใจใซ้–ข้€ฃใ™ใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใฎใ‚ใ‚‹ๆฑšๅใซๅˆฅใ‚Œใ‚’ๅ‘Šใ’ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚ๆ„ๅ‘ณ
17:40
with asking for help.
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17:42
A stigma is a negative or unfair belief a group of people
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17:47
might have toward something else,
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ใ€ไป–ใฎไฝ•ใ‹ใซๅฏพใ—ใฆไบบใ€…ใฎใ‚ฐใƒซใƒผใƒ—ใŒๆŒใคๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใฎใ‚ใ‚‹ๅฆๅฎš็š„ใพใŸใฏไธๅฝ“ใชไฟกๅฟตใงใ™
17:50
such as asking others for help. When it comes to asking for help,
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17:54
there are multiple ways you can do this, including reaching out to friends,
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17:59
talking to a career counselor, calling an anonymous help line,
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้€ฃ็ตกใ™ใ‚‹ใ€ใ‚ญใƒฃใƒชใ‚ข ใ‚ซใ‚ฆใƒณใ‚ปใƒฉใƒผใจ่ฉฑใ™ ใ€ๅŒฟๅใฎใƒ˜ใƒซใƒ—ใƒฉใ‚คใƒณใซ้›ป่ฉฑใ™ใ‚‹
18:04
joining a stress management group,
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ใ€ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚น็ฎก็†ใ‚ฐใƒซใƒผใƒ—ใซๅ‚ๅŠ 
18:06
meeting with HR at your company or asking coworkers for
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ใ™ใ‚‹ใ€ไผš็คพใฎไบบไบ‹้ƒจใจไผšใ†ใ€ ๅŒๅƒšใซๅฐ‹ใญใ‚‹ใชใฉใ€ใ•ใพใ–ใพใชๆ–นๆณ•ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅŠฉใ‘ใ‚’
18:11
help. If you're not sure how to do that in English,
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ๆฑ‚ใ‚ใฆใ€‚ ่‹ฑ่ชžใงใใ‚Œใ‚’่กŒใ†ๆ–นๆณ•ใŒใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ๅ ดๅˆใฏ
18:14
try one of these sentence starters to help.
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ใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎๆ–‡ใฎใ‚นใ‚ฟใƒผใ‚ฟใƒผใฎใ„ใšใ‚Œใ‹ใ‚’่ฉฆใ—ใฆใฟใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ .
18:17
Perhaps you recall a coworker talking about dealing with stress and
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ใŠใใ‚‰ใใ€ๅŒๅƒš ใŒใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใซๅฏพๅ‡ฆใ—ใ€
18:22
trying to manage it so you could reach out to that coworker and say,
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ใใ‚Œใ‚’็ฎก็†ใ—ใ‚ˆใ†ใจใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—
18:26
I remember you had a similar experience.
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ใฆใ„ใŸใฎใ‚’่ฆšใˆใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
18:29
Would you mind lending me a hand with or,
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ใพใŸใฏใ€ๆ‰‹ใ‚’่ฒธใ—ใฆใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹๏ผŸ
18:33
I feel stretched thin and need more support?
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18:36
Could you help with to be stretch thin means to no longer have
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ไฝ•ใ‹ใซ่ฒปใ‚„ใ™
18:41
the time, energy, or resources to use towards something.
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ๆ™‚้–“ใ€ใ‚จใƒใƒซใ‚ฎใƒผใ€ใพใŸใฏใƒชใ‚ฝใƒผใ‚น ใŒใชใใชใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†ๆ‰‹ๆฎตใ‚’่–„ใใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ‰‹ไผใฃใฆใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹ใ€‚
18:46
And a third phrase you can try is, Do you have time to talk?
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3 ใค็›ฎใฎใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บ ใฏใ€ใ€Œ่ฉฑใ™ๆ™‚้–“ใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ‹?ใ€ใงใ™ใ€‚
18:51
I feel overwhelmingly stressed and would really appreciate a listening ear
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็งใฏๅœงๅ€’็š„ใชใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๆ„Ÿใ˜
18:56
right now with these four stress management tips in mind.
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ใฆใŠใ‚Šใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ 4 ใคใฎ ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚น็ฎก็†ใฎใƒ’ใƒณใƒˆใ‚’ๅฟต้ ญใซ็ฝฎใ„ใฆใ€ไปŠใ™ใ่€ณใ‚’ๅ‚พใ‘ใฆใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใ‚Œใฐๅนธใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
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And now that we also know the obstacles that can stand in our way,
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ใใ—ใฆใ€็ซ‹ใกใฏใ ใ‹ใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใฎใ‚ใ‚‹้šœๅฎณใซใคใ„ใฆใ‚‚็†่งฃใ—ใŸใฎใงใ€ใ“ใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใฎๅ†’้ ญใงๅฐ‹ใญ
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I want to ask you the questions I asked at the beginning of this lesson.
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ใŸ่ณชๅ•ใ‚’็š†ใ•ใ‚“ใซ่žใใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚
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When you feel stressed, how do you manage it?
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ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๆ„Ÿใ˜ใŸใจใใ€ ใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซๅฏพๅ‡ฆใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹? ไปŠๆ—ฅใŠ่ฉฑใ—ใ—
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Do you use any of the strategies we've talked about today? If so,
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ใŸๆˆฆ็•ฅใฎใ„ใšใ‚Œใ‹ใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ ใ‹? ใ‚‚ใ—ใใ†ใชใ‚‰
19:18
try using some of the new vocabulary and share your approach
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ใ€ๆ–ฐใ—ใ„่ชžๅฝ™ใฎใ„ใใคใ‹ใ‚’ไฝฟใฃใฆใฟใฆใ€ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚น็ฎก็†ใธใฎ ใ‚ใชใŸใฎใ‚ขใƒ—ใƒญใƒผใƒใ‚’ๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„
19:22
to stress management.
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19:24
Or perhaps there's a strategy you use to manage stress that I didn't talk about
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ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ„ใฏ ใ€็งใŒไปŠๆ—ฅ่ฉฑใ•ใชใ‹ใฃใŸใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’็ฎก็†ใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใฎๆˆฆ็•ฅใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“
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today. If that's the case,
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ใ€‚ ใ‚‚ใ—ใใ†ใชใ‚‰ใ€ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚น
19:31
I would love for you to share how you manage to reduce
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ใ‚’่ปฝๆธ›ใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใ‚’ๆ•™ใˆใฆใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใ‚Œใฐๅนธใ„ใงใ™
19:35
stress. You can share your tips and strategies in the comments below.
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ใ€‚ ไปฅไธ‹ใฎใ‚ณใƒกใƒณใƒˆใงใƒ’ใƒณใƒˆใ‚„ๆˆฆ็•ฅใ‚’ๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
19:41
If you found today's lesson helpful to you, I would love to know,
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ไปŠๆ—ฅใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใŒๅฝนใซ็ซ‹ใฃ ใŸใจๆ€ใฃใŸใ‚‰ใ€ใœใฒ
19:44
and you can tell me in one very simple way.
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ๆ•™ใˆใฆ ใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚้žๅธธใซ็ฐกๅ˜ใชๆ–นๆณ•ใงๆ•™ใˆใฆใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใพใ™ใ‹ใ€‚
19:47
Simply give this lesson a thumbs up here on YouTube, and don't forget,
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YouTube ใงใ“ใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณ ใซ้ซ˜่ฉ•ไพก
19:51
while you're at it,
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ใ‚’ไป˜ใ‘ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ใพใŸใ€
19:53
subscribe as well so you never miss one of my Confident English lessons.
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ใƒใƒฃใƒณใƒใƒซ็™ป้Œฒใ‚‚ๅฟ˜ใ‚Œใšใซ่กŒใฃใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ใใ†ใ™ใ‚Œใฐ ใ€่‡ชไฟกใซๆบ€ใกใŸ่‹ฑ่ชžใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใ‚’่ฆ‹้€ƒใ™ใ“ใจใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
19:57
Thank you so much for joining me, and I look forward to seeing you next time.
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ใ”ๅ‚ๅŠ ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ”ใ–ใ„ใพใ— ใŸใ€‚ๆฌกๅ›žใŠไผšใ„ใงใใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๆฅฝใ—ใฟใซใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
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