Polite English: How to offer help

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์•„๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฌธ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ”ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋œ ์ž๋ง‰์€ ๊ธฐ๊ณ„ ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

00:03
Hi, my name is Rebecca, and in today's lesson I am going to show you four different ways
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์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”, ์ œ ์ด๋ฆ„์€ Rebecca์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ค๋Š˜ ์ˆ˜์—…์—์„œ๋Š” ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์—๊ฒŒ ์ •์ค‘ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋„์›€์„ ์ œ๊ณตํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋„ค ๊ฐ€์ง€ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•
00:09
in which you can offer help in a polite way to someone and also how you can accept or
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00:17
refuse that help, in a gracious manner, okay?
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๊ทธ ๋„์›€์„ ์€ํ˜œ๋กญ๊ฒŒ ๋ฐ›์•„๋“ค์ด๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๊ฑฐ์ ˆํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ ๋“œ๋ฆฌ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:20
So let's look at the board. This can help you in a personal situation and also at work
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๊ทธ๋Ÿผ ํŒ์„ ๋ด…์‹œ๋‹ค. ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ฐœ์ธ์ ์ธ ์ƒํ™ฉ๊ณผ
00:25
in a professional situation, so let's have a look. Okay, so there are different ways
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์ „๋ฌธ์ ์ธ ์ƒํ™ฉ์—์„œ ์ง์žฅ์—์„œ ๋„์›€์ด ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์œผ๋ฏ€๋กœ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋„ค,
00:33
in which we can offer help, some are more formal and some are more informal. The first
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์ €ํฌ๊ฐ€ ๋„์›€์„ ๋“œ๋ฆด ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋‹ค์–‘ํ•œ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ผ๋ถ€๋Š” ๋” ๊ณต์‹์ ์ด๊ณ  ์ผ๋ถ€๋Š” ๋” ๋น„๊ณต์‹์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:38
two I am going to talk about are more formal and the next two are informal.
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•  ์ฒ˜์Œ ๋‘ ๊ฐœ๋Š” ์ข€ ๋” ๊ณต์‹์ ์ด๊ณ  ๋‹ค์Œ ๋‘ ๊ฐœ๋Š” ๋น„๊ณต์‹์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:44
In a formal situation or in any situation where you want to be more business-like or
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๊ฒฉ์‹์„ ์ฐจ๋ฆฐ ์ž๋ฆฌ๋‚˜ ์ข€ ๋” ์‚ฌ๋ฌด์ ์ด๊ณ 
00:49
more professional you could say, "Would you like me to," for example, "open the window?"
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์ „๋ฌธ์ ์ธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ๋˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ์ƒํ™ฉ์—์„œ๋Š” "Would you like me to", ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด "open the window?"์™€ ๊ฐ™์ด ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:57
"Would you like me to open the window?" or "Would you like me to get you some water?"
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"์ฐฝ๋ฌธ์„ ์—ด์–ด๋“œ๋ฆด๊นŒ์š”?" ๋˜๋Š” "๋ฌผ ์ข€ ๊ฐ–๋‹ค ๋“œ๋ฆด๊นŒ์š”?"
01:05
or you can use this expression as well -- very polite: "Shall I shut the door?"
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๋˜๋Š” ์ด ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋งค์šฐ ์ •์ค‘ํ•˜๊ฒŒ "๋ฌธ์„ ๋‹ซ์„๊นŒ์š”?"
01:11
"Shall I switch off the television?" Okay, well, that's probably going to be more at
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"ํ…”๋ ˆ๋น„์ „์„ ๋Œ๊นŒ์š”?" ์ข‹์•„, ์•„๋งˆ ์ง‘์—์„œ ๋” ๋งŽ์ด ํ• ๊ฑฐ์•ผ
01:17
home. So let's say it was an informal situation. You could say, "Let me switch off the TV",
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. ๋น„๊ณต์‹์  ์ธ ์ƒํ™ฉ์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ๊ฐ€์ • ํ•ด ๋ด…์‹œ๋‹ค. "TV๋ฅผ ๋„๊ฒŒ ํ•ด์ค˜"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
01:24
or just "I'll get the door for you." "Let me help you with you those bags." Okay?
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"๋ฌธ์„ ์—ด์–ด์ค„๊ฒŒ"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. " ๊ทธ ๊ฐ€๋ฐฉ๋“ค ๋„์™€๋“œ๋ฆฌ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค." ์ข‹์•„์š”?
01:31
So again, depending upon who you are talking to and in what context, you are going to use
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹ค์‹œ ๋งํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ, ๋ˆ„๊ตฌ ์™€ ์–ด๋–ค ๋งฅ๋ฝ์—์„œ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๋А๋ƒ์— ๋”ฐ๋ผ ์ข€
01:38
something more formal or something more informal, okay? And any of these will work very well.
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๋” ๊ฒฉ์‹ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋” ๋น„๊ณต์‹์ ์ธ ๊ฒƒ์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค, ์•Œ์•˜์ฃ ? ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ด๋“ค ์ค‘ ์–ด๋–ค ๊ฒƒ์ด๋“  ๋งค์šฐ ์ž˜ ์ž‘๋™ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:45
Now how do you accept or decline -- which is to say "no" to that help? Well, in a formal
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์ด์ œ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๋ฐ›์•„๋“ค์ด๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๊ฑฐ์ ˆํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ? ์ฆ‰, ๊ทธ ๋„์›€์— "์•„๋‹ˆ์˜ค"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ? ๊ธ€์Ž„์š”, ๊ณต์‹์ ์ธ
01:52
way you could say "Thank you very much."
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๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์œผ๋กœ "๋Œ€๋‹จํžˆ ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:56
So if someone says, "Would you like me to get you some water?" You could say "Yes, thank
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€ "๋ฌผ ์ข€ ๊ฐ–๋‹ค ๋“œ๋ฆด๊นŒ์š” ? "๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๋ฉด "์˜ˆ, ๋Œ€๋‹จํžˆ ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค."๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:01
you very much."
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02:03
If someone says "Shall I open the window?" You could say, "Thank you."
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€ "์ฐฝ๋ฌธ์„ ์—ด๊นŒ์š” ?"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๋ฉด "๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค."๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:10
If someone says, "I'll get the door for you." You might just say, "Thanks." Okay?
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€ "๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋ฌธ์„ ์—ด์–ด์ค„๊ฒŒ "๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ "๊ณ ๋งˆ์›Œ"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ข‹์•„์š”?
02:16
So again, the level of response, it matches the level of the question, right? The level
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๋‹ค์‹œ ๋งํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์‘๋‹ต ์ˆ˜์ค€์€ ์งˆ๋ฌธ ์ˆ˜์ค€๊ณผ ์ผ์น˜ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:24
of the offer. If it's more formal then you're going to respond more formally. If it's more
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์˜คํผ์˜ ์ˆ˜์ค€์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋” ํ˜•์‹์ ์ด๋ผ๋ฉด ๋” ํ˜•์‹์ ์œผ๋กœ ๋Œ€์‘ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ข€ ๋”
02:29
informal you will respond informally, all right?
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๋น„๊ณต์‹์ ์ด๋ผ๋ฉด ๋น„๊ณต์‹์ ์œผ๋กœ ๋Œ€๋‹ตํ•  ๊ฑฐ์—์š” , ์•Œ๊ฒ ์ฃ ?
02:33
You can also be very, very polite and if someone says, "Would you like me to get you some water?".
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๋˜ํ•œ ๋งค์šฐ ์ •์ค‘ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋Œ€ํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๊ณ  ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€ "๋ฌผ ์ข€ ๊ฐ–๋‹ค ๋“œ๋ฆด๊นŒ์š”?"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๋ฉด ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:40
"Thank you very much. That's very kind of you."
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"์ •๋ง ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ •๋ง ์นœ์ ˆํ•˜์‹ญ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค."
02:43
Okay? So you could go on and be even more polite.
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์ข‹์•„์š”? ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ณ„์†ํ•ด์„œ ๋” ์˜ˆ์˜ ๋ฐ”๋ฅด๊ฒŒ ํ–‰๋™ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:47
Now let's say you don't need any help. So if someone says, "Let me switch off the TV."
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์ด์ œ ๋„์›€์ด ํ•„์š”ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋‹ค๊ณ  ๊ฐ€์ •ํ•ด ๋ณด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€ "TV๋ฅผ ๋„๊ฒŒ ํ•ด์ฃผ์„ธ์š”."๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•œ๋‹ค๋ฉด.
02:52
You can say, "No, thanks." Okay? Or if someone says, "I'll help you with those bags." "No thanks. I'm good."
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"์•„๋‹ˆ์š”, ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค."๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ข‹์•„์š”? ๋˜๋Š” ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ "๊ทธ ๊ฐ€๋ฐฉ์€ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋„์™€์ค„๊ฒŒ."๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•œ๋‹ค๋ฉด. "์•„๋‹ˆ์š”. ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์•„์š”."
03:03
Okay, "I'm good" is kind of slang, because normally we don't say "I'm good," but it's
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์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. "I'm good"์€ ์ผ์ข…์˜ ์†์–ด์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ผ๋ฐ˜์ ์œผ๋กœ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” "I'm good"์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์ง€๋งŒ
03:08
used a lot, especially in North America, and it means "I'm fine, thanks. I don't need anything."
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ํŠนํžˆ ๋ถ๋ฏธ ์ง€์—ญ์—์„œ ๋งŽ์ด ์‚ฌ์šฉ๋˜๋ฉฐ "I'm fine, thanks. I ์•„๋ฌด๊ฒƒ๋„ ํ•„์š” ์—†์–ด."
03:13
All right?
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๊ดœ์ฐฎ์€?
03:14
Or you could say if someone says "Would you like me to get you some water?" You could
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๋˜๋Š” ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€ " ๋ฌผ ์ข€ ๊ฐ–๋‹ค ๋“œ๋ฆด๊นŒ์š”?"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๋ฉด ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:19
say, "No, thank you. I'm fine." Or "Shall I help you with those suitcases?" "No, thank
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"์•„๋‹ˆ์š”, ๊ณ ๋ง™์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ €๋Š” ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค."๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋˜๋Š” " ๊ทธ ์—ฌํ–‰ ๊ฐ€๋ฐฉ์„ ๋„์™€๋“œ๋ฆด๊นŒ์š”?" "์•„๋‹ˆ,
03:25
you. I can manage." Okay?
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๊ณ ๋งˆ์›Œ. ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์–ด." ์ข‹์•„์š”?
03:30
So something like that... Again, depending on the situation, you could always just say,
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋ญ.. ๋˜, ์ƒํ™ฉ์— ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ๋Š”
03:35
"Thank you" here, and "No, thank you" here, all right?
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์—ฌ๊ธฐ์„  "๊ณ ๋งˆ์›Œ์š”", ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์„  "์•„๋‹ˆ์š”, ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๊ฒ ์ฃ ?
03:40
If you'd like to do a quiz on this subject, just to get a little more practice into how
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์ด ์ฃผ์ œ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ํ€ด์ฆˆ๋ฅผ ํ’€๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ
03:45
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์ด๋Ÿฌํ•œ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์„ ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•๊ณผ ์ˆ˜๋ฝ ๋˜๋Š” ๊ฑฐ๋ถ€ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์กฐ๊ธˆ ๋” ์—ฐ์Šตํ•˜๋ ค๋ฉด ์ €ํฌ ์›น์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ www.engvid.com์„ ๋ฐฉ๋ฌธํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
03:55
Thanks very much for watching. Good luck with your English.
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์‹œ์ฒญํ•ด์ฃผ์…”์„œ ๋Œ€๋‹จํžˆ ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜์–ด์— ํ–‰์šด์„ ๋น•๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:58
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์ด ์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ•™์Šต์— ์œ ์šฉํ•œ YouTube ๋™์˜์ƒ์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ „ ์„ธ๊ณ„ ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜๋“ค์ด ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ˆ˜์—…์„ ๋ณด๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ ๋™์˜์ƒ ํŽ˜์ด์ง€์— ํ‘œ์‹œ๋˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ” ํด๋ฆญํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ณณ์—์„œ ๋™์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋น„๋””์˜ค ์žฌ์ƒ์— ๋งž์ถฐ ์ž๋ง‰์ด ์Šคํฌ๋กค๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜๊ฒฌ์ด๋‚˜ ์š”์ฒญ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์ด ๋ฌธ์˜ ์–‘์‹์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ๋ฌธ์˜ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.

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