DON'T SAY 'no'! | Learn MUCH better and MORE polite ways

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μ•„λž˜ μ˜λ¬Έμžλ§‰μ„ λ”λΈ”ν΄λ¦­ν•˜μ‹œλ©΄ μ˜μƒμ΄ μž¬μƒλ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ²ˆμ—­λœ μžλ§‰μ€ 기계 λ²ˆμ—­λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.

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Hi there, this is Harry and welcome back to  advanced English lessons with Harry, where I try  
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μ•ˆλ…•ν•˜μ„Έμš”, ν•΄λ¦¬μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 해리와 ν•¨κ»˜ν•˜λŠ” κ³ κΈ‰ μ˜μ–΄ μˆ˜μ—…μ— λ‹€μ‹œ μ˜€μ‹  것을 ν™˜μ˜ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ—¬κΈ°μ„œ μ €λŠ”
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to help you to get a better understanding of the  English language. We help you to understand the  
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μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ΄ μ˜μ–΄λ₯Ό 더 잘 이해할 수 μžˆλ„λ‘ λ„μ™€λ“œλ¦¬κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
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use of adjectives, verbs, adverbs, everything that  you could possibly want. And indeed, if you have  
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ν˜•μš©μ‚¬, 동사, 뢀사 λ“± μ›ν•˜λŠ” λͺ¨λ“  것을 μ΄ν•΄ν•˜λ„λ‘ λ„μ™€λ“œλ¦½λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그리고 μ‹€μ œλ‘œ
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any particular requests, and I'm going to give you  my address at the end of this particular lesson,  
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νŠΉμ • μš”μ²­μ΄ μžˆλŠ” 경우 이 νŠΉμ • μˆ˜μ—…μ΄ 끝날 λ•Œ λ‚΄ μ£Όμ†Œλ₯Ό μ•Œλ € λ“œλ¦΄ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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and you can write to me if you have anything  that you wish to request, or you wish to ask.
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μš”μ²­ν•˜κ³  싢은 것이 μžˆκ±°λ‚˜ μš”μ²­ν•˜κ³  싢은 것이 있으면 μ €μ—κ²Œ νŽΈμ§€λ₯Ό 보내싀 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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So as I said, this is an advanced English  lesson. And in this particular lesson,  
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μ œκ°€ λ§ν–ˆλ“―μ΄ 이것은 κ³ κΈ‰ μ˜μ–΄ μˆ˜μ—…μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그리고 이 νŠΉμ • κ°•μ˜μ—μ„œλŠ”
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we're looking at different ways to say no.  Well, of course, no is a very short word. No,  
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μ•„λ‹ˆμ˜€λΌκ³  λ§ν•˜λŠ” λ‹€μ–‘ν•œ 방법을 μ‚΄νŽ΄λ³΄κ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ¬Όλ‘  'μ•„λ‹ˆμ˜€'λŠ” 맀우 짧은 λ‹¨μ–΄μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ•„λ‹ˆμš”,
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no means no. But sometimes, depending on the  intonation in your voice and how you stress it,  
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μ•„λ‹ˆμš”λŠ” μ•„λ‹ˆμš”λ₯Ό μ˜λ―Έν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ λ•Œλ‘œλŠ” λͺ©μ†Œλ¦¬μ˜ μ–΅μ–‘κ³Ό κ°•μ‘°ν•˜λŠ” 방식에 따라
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it can appear and come across a little bit  rude. You may not intended that way. But  
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쑰금 λ¬΄λ‘€ν•˜κ²Œ 듀릴 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ μ˜λ„ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šμ•˜μ„ μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ
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that's how it sounds. Can I have this? No,  can I go here? No. Would you help me know?  
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κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ λ“€λ¦½λ‹ˆλ‹€. 이거 가져도 λ κΉŒμš”? μ•„λ‹ˆμš”, μ—¬κΈ°λ‘œ 가도 λ κΉŒμš”? 아뇨. μ œκ°€ μ•Œλ„λ‘ λ„μ™€μ£Όμ‹œκ² μ–΄μš”?
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Do you know where the bank is? No. So it's very  repetitive. And it also sounds a little bit rude.
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은행이 어디에 μžˆλŠ”μ§€ μ•„μ„Έμš”? μ•„λ‹ˆμš”. 맀우 λ°˜λ³΅μ μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그리고 μ•½κ°„ λ¬΄λ‘€ν•˜κ²Œ 듀리기도 ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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So what I'm going to give you are alternative  ways, different ways in which you can say no.  
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ œκ°€ μ•Œλ €λ“œλ¦΄ 것은 λŒ€μ•ˆμ μΈ λ°©λ²•μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. κ±°μ ˆν•  수 μžˆλŠ” λ‹€λ₯Έ λ°©λ²•μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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And I broken those down into some  more formal ways to say no. Okay,  
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그리고 κ±°μ ˆν•˜λŠ” μ’€ 더 ν˜•μ‹μ μΈ λ°©λ²•μœΌλ‘œ λ‚˜λˆ„μ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ’‹μ•„μš”,
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ways in which you can be a little bit more  polite so you can avoid just saying no.  
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μ’€ 더 μ •μ€‘ν•˜κ²Œ λŒ€ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” λ°©λ²•μœΌλ‘œ κ·Έλƒ₯ κ±°μ ˆν•˜λŠ” 것을 ν”Όν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ•„λ‹ˆμ˜€λ₯Ό μ˜λ―Έν•œλ‹€λŠ” 사싀을 μ •λ§λ‘œ κ°•μ‘°ν•˜κ³  싢을
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Firm or strong ways in which you can say no, when  you really want to underline the fact that you  
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λ•Œ μ•„λ‹ˆμ˜€λΌκ³  말할 수 μžˆλŠ” λ‹¨ν˜Έν•˜κ³  κ°•λ ₯ν•œ 방법
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do mean no. And then finally, some informal  ways to say no. So four different sections.
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. 그리고 λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰μœΌλ‘œ κ±°μ ˆν•˜λŠ” 비곡식적인 λ°©λ²•μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ΄λ ‡κ²Œ 4개의 λ‹€λ₯Έ μ„Ήμ…˜μ΄ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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So first section are formal ways to say no.  
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λ”°λΌμ„œ 첫 번째 μ„Ήμ…˜μ€ 'μ•„λ‹ˆμ˜€'라고 λ§ν•˜λŠ” 곡식적인 λ°©λ²•μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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I'm afraid not. Will you be joining us  for lunch today, sir? I'm afraid not.  
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λ‚œ λ‘λ €μ›Œν•˜μ§€. 였늘 점심에 저희와 ν•¨κ»˜ ν•˜μ‹œκ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ? λ‚œ λ‘λ €μ›Œν•˜μ§€.
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I have something else to do, or I have another  arrangement or prior appointment. I'm afraid not.
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λ‹€λ₯Έ ν•  일이 μžˆκ±°λ‚˜ λ‹€λ₯Έ 약속 λ˜λŠ” 사전 약속이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ‚œ λ‘λ €μ›Œν•˜μ§€.
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I'm sorry, but the answer is no. So instead  of saying no, somebody asks you for something  
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μ£„μ†‘ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ λŒ€λ‹΅μ€ 'μ•„λ‹ˆμ˜€'μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ•„λ‹ˆμ˜€λΌκ³  λ§ν•˜λŠ” λŒ€μ‹  λΉ„μ¦ˆλ‹ˆμŠ€ λ§₯λ½μ—μ„œ λˆ„κ΅°κ°€κ°€ λ‹Ήμ‹ μ—κ²Œ 무언가λ₯Ό μš”κ΅¬ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€
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from a business context. I'm sorry, but the  answer is no. I'm afraid I am unable to help  
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. μ£„μ†‘ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ λŒ€λ‹΅μ€ 'μ•„λ‹ˆμ˜€'μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. μœ κ°μŠ€λŸ½κ²Œλ„ 당신을 λ„μ™€λ“œλ¦΄ 수 μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
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you. Or I'm unable to attend the meeting, or  I'm unable to contribute to your collection.  
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. λ˜λŠ” νšŒμ˜μ— 참석할 수 μ—†κ±°λ‚˜ κ·€ν•˜μ˜ μ»¬λ ‰μ…˜μ— κΈ°μ—¬ν•  수 μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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I'm afraid not was the first one. And  second, I'm sorry, but the answer is no.
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μœ κ°μŠ€λŸ½κ²Œλ„ 첫 λ²ˆμ§ΈλŠ” μ•„λ‹ˆμ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그리고 두 번째둜, μ£„μ†‘ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ λŒ€λ‹΅μ€ 'μ•„λ‹ˆμ˜€'μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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Now something really, really formal and it's, you  know, you have to be really scratch your head when  
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이제 정말, 정말 격식을 차리고, 이것을 μ‚¬μš©ν•  수 μžˆμ„ λ•Œ 정말 머리λ₯Ό 긁적여야 ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€
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you might use this. I'm sorry, but that request  cannot be fulfilled. Whoa, what is that mean?  
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. μ£„μ†‘ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ κ·Έ μš”μ²­μ„ 이행할 수 μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 와, 그게 무슨 λœ»μ΄μ•Ό?
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When something cannot be fulfilled, we cannot  do it. Yes. So your request for, for example,  
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이행할 수 μ—†λŠ” 것이 있으면 ν•  수 μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . 예. λ”°λΌμ„œ 예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄
02:35
a particular room in a hotel or a particular  table at a restaurant, then the answer coming  
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ν˜Έν…”μ˜ νŠΉμ • λ°©μ΄λ‚˜ μ‹λ‹Ήμ˜ νŠΉμ • ν…Œμ΄λΈ”μ— λŒ€ν•œ μš”μ²­μ΄
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back might not simply be a no, you can't have that  room. Or no, that room isn't available. Or no,  
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λŒμ•„μ˜€λŠ” λŒ€λ‹΅μ€ λ‹¨μˆœνžˆ 'μ•„λ‹ˆμ˜€'κ°€ 아닐 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. κ·Έ 방을 μ‚¬μš©ν•  수 μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . λ˜λŠ” μ•„λ‹ˆμ˜€, ν•΄λ‹Ή 방은 μ‚¬μš©ν•  수 μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ•„λ‹ˆλ©΄
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you can't have that table. I'm sorry, your  request cannot be fulfilled. Sounds like  
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κ·Έ ν…Œμ΄λΈ”μ„ κ°€μ§ˆ 수 μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ£„μ†‘ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. μš”μ²­μ„ μ²˜λ¦¬ν•  수 μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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it's prepared by some bots, I think yes.  I'm sorry, but that cannot be fulfilled.
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일뢀 봇이 μ€€λΉ„ν•œ 것 κ°™μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 제 μƒκ°μ—λŠ” κ·Έλ ‡μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ£„μ†‘ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€λ§Œ, 그것은 이행할 수 μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:59
Now, another former way to say no, not to my  knowledge. Okay. So you definitely say no,  
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이제 λ‚΄κ°€ μ•„λŠ” ν•œμ΄ μ•„λ‹ˆλΌ 'μ•„λ‹ˆμ˜€'라고 λ§ν•˜λŠ” μ΄μ „μ˜ 또 λ‹€λ₯Έ λ°©λ²•μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ . μ’‹μ•„μš”. κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 당신은 ν™•μ‹€νžˆ μ•„λ‹ˆμ˜€λΌκ³  λŒ€λ‹΅ν–ˆμ§€λ§Œ,
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but not to my knowledge. So you come into the  office, you're 10 minutes before the start time,  
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λ‚΄κ°€ μ•„λŠ” ν•œμ€ μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€. κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 당신은 μ‹œμž‘ μ‹œκ°„ 10λΆ„ 전에
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just as you're hanging up your  coat or about to grab your first  
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μ½”νŠΈλ₯Ό κ±Έκ±°λ‚˜ 첫 번째 컀피λ₯Ό λ§ˆμ‹œλ €κ³  ν•  λ•Œ 사무싀에 λ“€μ–΄μ˜΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
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coffee. The boss comes through and says, Have you  seen David? Is he in? Well, not to my knowledge,  
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. 상사가 λ‹€κ°€μ™€μ„œ ' Davidλ₯Ό λ³Έ 적이 μžˆλ‚˜μš”? κ·ΈλŠ” μ•ˆμ— μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ? κΈ€μŽ„μš”, μ œκ°€ μ•„λŠ” ν•œμ€ μ•„λ‹ˆμ§€λ§Œ,
03:24
but I've only just arrived myself. So not to my  knowledge means, Well, he could be, but I haven't  
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막 λ„μ°©ν–ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ”°λΌμ„œ λ‚΄κ°€ μ•„λŠ” ν•œ κΈ€μŽ„μš”, 그럴 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμ§€λ§Œ
03:30
seen him. So he he might he might not be Have  you tried his office? So not to my knowledge.  
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κ·Έλ₯Ό λ³Έ 적이 μ—†λ‹€λŠ” λœ»μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. κ·Έλž˜μ„œ κ·ΈλŠ” κ·Έκ°€ 아닐 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그의 사무싀을 μ‚¬μš©ν•΄ λ³΄μ…¨μŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ? λ‚΄ 지식이 μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:37
Have those customers confirm that order yet?  Not to my knowledge, but I'll get on to the  
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ν•΄λ‹Ή 고객이 주문을 아직 ν™•μΈν•˜μ§€ μ•Šμ•˜μŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ? μ œκ°€ μ•„λŠ” λ°”λŠ” μ•„λ‹ˆμ§€λ§Œ
03:43
people in the marketing department and see, have  they heard anything. Yeah, not to my knowledge.
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λ§ˆμΌ€νŒ… λΆ€μ„œμ˜ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ—κ²Œ μ—°λ½ν•˜μ—¬ 그듀이 듀은 것이 μžˆλŠ”μ§€ ν™•μΈν•˜κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 예, μ œκ°€ μ•„λŠ” ν•œ μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:49
Another way is when we want to be a little  bit apologetic about our answer. No. Sadly,  
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또 λ‹€λ₯Έ 방법은 닡변에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ•½κ°„ μ‚¬κ³Όν•˜κ³  싢을 λ•Œμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ•„λ‹ˆμš”. μ•ˆνƒ€κΉκ²Œλ„
03:55
I'm unable to do that because I'm not going to  be in the city that weekend. Sadly, I'm unable to  
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κ·Έ 주말에 λ„μ‹œμ— μžˆμ§€ μ•Šμ„ 것이기 λ•Œλ¬Έμ— κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ ν•  수 μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ•ˆνƒ€κΉκ²Œλ„
04:03
attend because I've got a prior engagement. Sadly,  I'm unable to help you because I really don't have  
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사전 약속이 μžˆμ–΄μ„œ 참석할 수 μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ•ˆνƒ€κΉκ²Œλ„
04:11
any expertise in that particular area. So a nice  formal way to say no, without actually saying no.
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ν•΄λ‹Ή 뢄야에 λŒ€ν•œ μ „λ¬Έ 지식이 μ—†κΈ° λ•Œλ¬Έμ— 도움을 λ“œλ¦΄ 수 μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ”°λΌμ„œ μ‹€μ œλ‘œλŠ” κ±°μ ˆν•˜μ§€ μ•Šκ³  κ±°μ ˆν•˜λŠ” 쒋은 곡식적인 λ°©λ²•μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:19
And then slightly in between formal  and informal. I'd love to do it,  
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그런 λ‹€μŒ 곡식과 비곡식 사이에 μ•½κ°„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . ν•˜κ³  μ‹Άμ§€λ§Œ
04:26
but I really don't have the time. I'd love to  do it, but I don't think I'm the person that can  
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μ‹œκ°„μ΄ 정말 μ—†μ–΄μš”. ν•˜κ³  μ‹Άμ§€λ§Œ
04:32
best represent you. So again, different ways in  which you can say no, without actually saying no.
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당신을 κ°€μž₯ 잘 λŒ€ν‘œν•  수 μžˆλŠ” μ‚¬λžŒμ€ μ œκ°€ μ•„λ‹Œ 것 κ°™μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ‹€μ‹œ λ§ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ, μ‹€μ œλ‘œ κ±°μ ˆν•˜μ§€ μ•Šκ³  κ±°μ ˆν•  수 μžˆλŠ” λ‹€μ–‘ν•œ λ°©λ²•μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:38
So I run through those once again,  these are the formal ways to say No,  
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ €λŠ” 그것듀을 λ‹€μ‹œ ν•œ 번 κ²€ν† ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 이듀은 μ•„λ‹ˆμš”λΌκ³  λ§ν•˜λŠ” ν˜•μ‹μ μΈ λ°©λ²•μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:43
I'm afraid not. I'm sorry, but the answer is no.  
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μœ κ°μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ£„μ†‘ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ λŒ€λ‹΅μ€ 'μ•„λ‹ˆμ˜€'μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:49
I'm sorry, but that request cannot be fulfilled  at the moment. Not to my knowledge. Sadly,  
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μ£„μ†‘ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. ν˜„μž¬ ν•΄λ‹Ή μš”μ²­μ„ μ²˜λ¦¬ν•  수 μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . λ‚΄κ°€ μ•„λŠ” ν•œ. μŠ¬ν”„κ²Œλ„
04:59
I'm on I'm able to help you or sadly, I'm unable  to attend. Or sadly, I'm unable to contribute.  
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참석할 수 μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ„μ™€λ“œλ¦΄ 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ˜λŠ” μŠ¬ν”„κ²Œλ„ κΈ°μ—¬ν•  수 μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:08
I'd love to do it, but I don't think I'm the right  person. I'd love to do it, but I'm just simply  
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ν•˜κ³  μ‹Άμ§€λ§Œ λ‚΄κ°€ μ μž„μžλΌκ³  μƒκ°ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . ν•˜κ³  μ‹Άμ§€λ§Œ
05:14
not going to be around for the next two to three  weeks. So all former ways in which you can say no.
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μ•žμœΌλ‘œ 2~3 μ£Ό λ™μ•ˆμ€ 없을 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 당신이 κ±°μ ˆν•  수 μžˆλŠ” μ΄μ „μ˜ λͺ¨λ“  방법.
05:21
And if you do like this particular lesson,  then please please like the video and if you  
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그리고 이 νŠΉμ • κ°•μ˜κ°€ λ§ˆμŒμ— λ“ λ‹€ λ©΄ λ™μ˜μƒμ— μ’‹μ•„μš”λ₯Ό λˆŒλŸ¬μ£Όμ„Έμš”.
05:26
can subscribe to the channel, because it  really it does. It really, really helps.
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채널을 ꡬ독할 수 μžˆλ‹€λ©΄ 정말 κ·Έλ ‡κΈ° λ•Œλ¬Έμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 정말 정말 도움이 λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:30
Now, in the second group, we want to look  at ways in which you can politely say no.  
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이제 두 번째 κ·Έλ£Ήμ—μ„œλŠ” μ •μ€‘ν•˜κ²Œ κ±°μ ˆν•  수 μžˆλŠ” 방법을 μ‚΄νŽ΄λ³΄κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:39
Now, first one, not really. Not really is again,  you're saying no, but it's a little bit soft.  
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자, 첫 λ²ˆμ§ΈλŠ” λ³„λ‘œμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ‹€μ‹œλŠ” 그렇지 μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ•„λ‹ˆμš”λΌκ³  ν•˜μ‹œλŠ”λ° μ•½κ°„ λΆ€λ“œλŸ½μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:46
Yeah. Are you going to join us for that game  of bowling? Are you? Are you on for a game of  
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응. κ·Έ 볼링 κ²Œμž„μ— μš°λ¦¬μ™€ ν•¨κ»˜ ν•  κ±΄κ°€μš” ? 당신은?
05:52
bowling at the weekend? Not really. It's not my  cup of tea. Not really, because it's the weekend,  
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주말에 볼링을 ν•˜λŸ¬ κ°€μ‹œλ‚˜μš”? μ„€λ§ˆ. λ‚΄ μ°¨κ°€ μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€. 주말이라
06:00
I like to spend time with the family. Okay,  so not really a nice polite way to say no.  
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κ°€μ‘±κ³Ό ν•¨κ»˜ μ‹œκ°„μ„ λ³΄λ‚΄λŠ” 것을 μ’‹μ•„ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ•Œκ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ •μ€‘ν•˜κ²Œ κ±°μ ˆν•˜λŠ” 방법은 μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:07
Are you going to join that gym?  Not really, you know, me and gyms,  
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κ·Έ μ²΄μœ‘κ΄€μ— λ“€μ–΄κ°ˆ κ±΄κ°€μš”? 사싀, 저와 μ²΄μœ‘κ΄€μ€
06:13
we don't get along so well. Couple of  visits, and then I get bored. Not really.
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잘 μ–΄μšΈλ¦¬μ§€ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. λͺ‡ 번 λ°©λ¬Έν•˜κ³  λ‚˜λ©΄ μ§€λ£¨ν•΄μ§‘λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ„€λ§ˆ.
06:18
And then the next one, either possibly,  or probably not possibly, or probably not.  
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그리고 λ‹€μŒμ€ κ°€λŠ₯ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜ λΆˆκ°€λŠ₯ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜ λΆˆκ°€λŠ₯ν•  μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ‹€μŒ 주에
06:26
Are you going to attend that lecture  next week? I hear it's going to be  
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κ·Έ κ°•μ˜μ— 참석할 κ±΄κ°€μš” ?
06:30
very good. Possibly not or probably  not. I think I'd be busy. And I'll  
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μ•„μ£Ό 잘 될 거라고 λ“€μ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 아닐 μˆ˜λ„ 있고 아닐 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 바쁠 것 κ°™μ•„μš”. 그리고
06:36
see if I have nothing else to do, then  I may go along. Okay, so probably not,  
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λ‚΄κ°€ ν•  일이 μ—†λŠ”μ§€ ν™•μΈν•œ λ‹€μŒ ν•¨κ»˜ 가도 λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ•Œκ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ•„λ§ˆλ„ 그렇지 μ•Šμ„ μˆ˜λ„ 있고 그렇지
06:42
or possibly not. Okay. Are you going to apply  for that promotion, that's an opportunity.  
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μ•Šμ„ μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ’‹μ•„μš”. κ·Έ ν”„λ‘œλͺ¨μ…˜μ— μ§€μ›ν•˜μ‹œκ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ? 그게 κΈ°νšŒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:49
Probably not. It's just, I don't think I really  want to commit myself to the company for the  
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μ•„λ§ˆ 아닐 κ²λ‹ˆλ‹€. 단지, 그듀이 μ°Ύκ³  μžˆλŠ” κΈ°κ°„ λ™μ•ˆ νšŒμ‚¬μ— μ € μžμ‹ μ„ ν—Œμ‹ ν•˜κ³  싢지 μ•Šμ„ λΏμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
06:55
length of time that they're looking for.  So either possibly not, or probably not.
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. λ”°λΌμ„œ 아닐 μˆ˜λ„ 있고 아닐 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:00
Next one not exactly, not quite. Do understand  what we're looking for? Do you understand  
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λ‹€μŒμ€ μ •ν™•ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μš°λ¦¬κ°€ 무엇을 μ°Ύκ³  μžˆλŠ”μ§€ μ΄ν•΄ν•˜μ‹œλ‚˜μš”?
07:08
everything that the customer has asked? Well, not  really, or not exactly or not quite. So again,  
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고객이 μš”μ²­ν•œ λͺ¨λ“  λ‚΄μš©μ„ μ΄ν•΄ν•˜μ…¨μŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ? 음, κ·Έλ ‡μ§€λŠ” μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . λ˜λŠ” μ •ν™•ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šκ±°λ‚˜ μ •ν™•ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. κ·Έλž˜μ„œ λ‹€μ‹œ
07:16
rather than saying, No, I haven't a clue what  they're looking for. So we can soften it a little  
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λ§ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ, 'μ•„λ‹ˆμš”, 그듀이 무엇을 μ°Ύκ³  μžˆλŠ”μ§€ μ „ν˜€ λͺ¨λ₯΄κ² μ–΄μš”'라고 λ§ν•˜λŠ” 것보닀 . κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 그것을 쑰금 λΆ€λ“œλŸ½κ²Œ ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
07:21
bit say, well, not really not quite. Yeah. So  Oh, have you finished that report that we need?  
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. 응. κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 였, ν•„μš”ν•œ λ³΄κ³ μ„œλ₯Ό μž‘μ„±ν•˜μ…¨μŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
07:30
Not really a few little sections to complete. Have  you finished that report I need it tomorrow. Well,  
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μ™„λ£Œν•΄μ•Ό ν•  λͺ‡ 개의 μž‘μ€ μ„Ήμ…˜μ΄ μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€. κ·Έ λ³΄κ³ μ„œλŠ” λλƒˆλ‚˜μš”? 내일 ν•„μš”ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 음,
07:36
not... not quite. But give me another couple  of hours. So rather than saying, No, I haven't,  
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μ•„λ‹ˆ... λ³„λ‘œ. ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ λͺ‡ μ‹œκ°„λ§Œ 더 μ£Όμ„Έμš” . λ”°λΌμ„œ 'μ•„λ‹ˆμš”, μ•ˆ ν–ˆμ–΄μš”'
07:42
or I'm really struggling then, Ah,  not exactly. Not really. Not quite.
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λ˜λŠ” λ•Œ λ‚΄κ°€ 정말 어렀움을 κ²ͺκ³  μžˆλ‹€κ³  λ§ν•˜κΈ°λ³΄λ‹€λŠ” μ•„, μ •ν™•νžˆλŠ” μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ„€λ§ˆ. μ’€ λΉ μ§€λŠ”.
07:48
And then again, just if your your kids perhaps  ask you something, and you don't want to be just  
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그리고 λ‹€μ‹œ λ§ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ, κ·€ν•˜μ˜ μžλ…€κ°€ κ·€ν•˜μ—κ²Œ 무언가λ₯Ό 물을 λ•Œ κ·€ν•˜κ°€ μ ˆλŒ€ κ±°μ ˆν•˜κ³  싢지 μ•Šμ€ 경우,
07:55
say absolutely no, you can say, I think not.  Not this time, perhaps another time? Yeah.  
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κ·€ν•˜λŠ” 'μ•„λ‹ˆμ˜€'라고 말할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 이번이 μ•„λ‹ˆλΌ λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‹œκ°„μ—? 응.
08:01
Okay. Would you like to join us for lunch? I  think not. I think I'll stay at my desk and  
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μ’‹μ•„μš”. μš°λ¦¬μ™€ ν•¨κ»˜ 점심을 λ¨ΉμœΌμ‹œκ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ? λ‚˜λŠ” κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠλŠ”λ‹€. λ‚΄ 책상에 λ¨Έλ¬Όλ©΄μ„œ
08:08
finish this bit of work, I really want to get  home. But thanks, anyway. Yeah, so I think not.
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이 일을 끝내고 집에 κ°€κ³  μ‹Άμ–΄μš” . ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ μ–΄μ¨Œλ“  κ°μ‚¬ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 예, 그렇지 μ•Šλ‹€κ³  μƒκ°ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:13
So nice, polite ways in which you can say no,  without actually saying no, not really. Probably  
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μ•„λ‹ˆμ˜€λΌκ³  말할 수 μžˆλŠ” μΉœμ ˆν•˜κ³  μ •μ€‘ν•œ λ°©μ‹μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ . μ•„λ§ˆλ„
08:22
not or possibly not. Not exactly. Not quite. I  think not, I think not. Okay. So there are good  
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아닐 μˆ˜λ„ 있고 아닐 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ •ν™•νžˆ. μ’€ λΉ μ§€λŠ”. μ•„λ‹ˆλΌκ³  μƒκ°ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ’‹μ•„μš”. λ”°λΌμ„œ
08:32
ways in which you can be a little more polite,  and how you turn down that request or that offer.
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μ’€ 더 μ •μ€‘ν•˜κ²Œ λŒ€ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” 쒋은 방법 κ³Ό κ·ΈλŸ¬ν•œ μš”μ²­μ΄λ‚˜ μ œμ•ˆμ„ κ±°μ ˆν•˜λŠ” 방법이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:38
Now, if we don't want to be so polite,  and we do want to be firm. Okay,  
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이제 예의 λ°”λ₯΄κ²Œ λŒ€ν•˜κ³  싢지 μ•Šκ³  λ‹¨ν˜Έν•˜κ²Œ λŒ€ν•˜κ³  μ‹ΆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ•Œκ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:43
firm means strong to make sure somebody gets the  message. So there's no misunderstanding. There's  
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확고함은 λˆ„κ΅°κ°€κ°€ λ©”μ‹œμ§€λ₯Ό ν™•μ‹€νžˆ μ•Œ 수 μžˆλ„λ‘ κ°•λ ₯함을 μ˜λ―Έν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ˜€ν•΄κ°€ μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:50
no ambiguity in the answer you give people  understand that no, definitely does mean no.
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당신이 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ—κ²Œ μ œκ³΅ν•˜λŠ” λŒ€λ‹΅μ—λŠ” λͺ¨ν˜Έν•¨μ΄ μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ•„λ‹ˆμ˜€, λΆ„λͺ…νžˆ μ•„λ‹ˆμ˜€λ₯Ό μ˜λ―Έν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:57
Certainly not. Absolutely not. Mum, can I stay  up tonight and watch the horror movie? All the  
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ν™•μ‹€νžˆ. μ ˆλŒ€μ μœΌλ‘œν•˜μ§€. μ—„λ§ˆ, 였늘 밀에 μΌμ–΄λ‚˜μ„œ 곡포 μ˜ν™”λ₯Ό 봐도 λ κΉŒμš”?
09:05
kids in the class are watching it. Certainly  not. Absolutely not. You gotta get up early  
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ν•™κΈ‰μ˜ λͺ¨λ“  아이듀이 그것을 보고 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. ν™•μ‹€νžˆ . μ ˆλŒ€μ μœΌλ‘œν•˜μ§€.
09:11
in the morning for school, so certainly not.  Absolutely not. So without a shadow of a doubt  
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학ꡐ에 κ°€κΈ° μœ„ν•΄ 아침에 일찍 μΌμ–΄λ‚˜μ•Ό ν•˜λ―€λ‘œ μ ˆλŒ€ 그렇지 μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ ˆλŒ€μ μœΌλ‘œν•˜μ§€. λ”°λΌμ„œ μ˜μ‹¬μ˜ 여지 없이
09:17
that child is not going to be able to watch that  horror movie. Certainly not. Absolutely not.
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κ·Έ μ•„μ΄λŠ” κ·Έ 곡포 μ˜ν™”λ₯Ό λ³Ό 수 없을 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ . ν™•μ‹€νžˆ. μ ˆλŒ€μ μœΌλ‘œν•˜μ§€.
09:24
Sorry, it's not possible. Yeah.  Can you collect me from school?  
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μ£„μ†‘ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. λΆˆκ°€λŠ₯ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 응. ν•™κ΅μ—μ„œ μ €λ₯Ό 데렀가 μ£Όμ‹œκ² μ–΄μš”?
09:28
Can you take me to the disco? Can  you pick me up from the disco? Sorry,  
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μ €λ₯Ό λ””μŠ€μ½”μ— 데렀가 μ£Όμ‹œκ² μ–΄μš”? λ””μŠ€μ½”μž₯μ—μ„œ 데리러 갈 수 μžˆλ‚˜μš”? μ£„μ†‘ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:33
not possible. Can't do that. I've got a  busy day the next day. I'm not going to be  
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λΆˆκ°€λŠ₯ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. ν•  수 μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ‹€μŒ λ‚  λ°”μœ ν•˜λ£¨λ₯Ό 보내야 ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 당신이 였기λ₯Ό
09:38
sitting outside a disco all night waiting  for you to come. So it's not possible.
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λ°€μƒˆλ„λ‘ λ””μŠ€μ½” 밖에 앉아 μžˆμ§€λŠ” μ•Šμ„ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ . κ·Έλž˜μ„œ λΆˆκ°€λŠ₯ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:42
Or if somebody asks you can you take me  to Mary's house? Can you drop me? Well,  
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λ˜λŠ” λˆ„κ΅°κ°€ λ¬Όμ–΄λ³Έλ‹€λ©΄ μ €λ₯Ό Mary의 μ§‘μœΌλ‘œ 데렀닀 μ£Όμ‹€ 수 μžˆλ‚˜μš”? λ‚  λ–¨μ–΄λœ¨λ €μ€„λž˜? 음,
09:48
not now. I'm busy now. Well, come on,  please. No, I said not now. So again,  
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μ§€κΈˆμ€ μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ‚˜λŠ” μ§€κΈˆ λ°”μ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 자, 제발. μ•„λ‹ˆμš”, μ§€κΈˆμ€ μ•„λ‹ˆλΌκ³  ν–ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ‹€μ‹œ λ§ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ,
09:54
you've been absolutely firm. Give me half an  hour and I'll drop you there. Okay, so not now,  
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당신은 μ ˆλŒ€μ μœΌλ‘œ ν™•κ³ ν–ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 30λΆ„λ§Œ μ‹œκ°„μ„ μ£Όμ‹œλ©΄ κ±°κΈ°κΉŒμ§€ λͺ¨μ‹œκ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ•Œκ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ§€κΈˆμ€ μ•ˆ λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:01
okay. Or if somebody knocks on your office door  and say can I disturb you? I wanted to get your  
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μ•Œκ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ˜λŠ” λˆ„κ΅°κ°€κ°€ 사무싀 문을 λ‘λ“œλ¦¬λ©° 방해해도 λ κΉŒμš”?
10:07
opinion for 10 minutes. Look, not now, come  back later, I'm in the middle of something,  
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10λΆ„ λ™μ•ˆ μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ˜ μ˜κ²¬μ„ λ“£κ³  μ‹Άμ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ§€κΈˆ 말고 λ‚˜μ€‘μ— λ‹€μ‹œ μ˜€μ„Έμš”. μ§€κΈˆ λ­”κ°€ ν•˜κ³  μžˆλŠ”λ°
10:11
and I really have to get it finished. So  a very firm "no" Not now, come back later.
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정말 끝내야 ν•΄μš”. λ”°λΌμ„œ 맀우 λ‹¨ν˜Έν•œ "μ•„λ‹ˆμ˜€" μ§€κΈˆμ€ 말고 λ‚˜μ€‘μ— λ‹€μ‹œ μ˜€μ„Έμš”.
10:17
So firm ways in which you can say No, certainly  not. Absolutely not. Not possible. Not now. Okay.
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μ•„λ‹ˆμ˜€λΌκ³  말할 수 μžˆλŠ” ν™•κ³ ν•œ λ°©μ‹μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ . μ ˆλŒ€μ μœΌλ‘œν•˜μ§€. λΆˆκ°€λŠ₯ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ§€κΈˆμ€ μ•„λ‹ˆμ•Ό. μ’‹μ•„μš”.
10:29
And the last section then informed ways to say no.  Nope, nah. So have you seen the car keys? Nope.  
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그리고 λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰ μ„Ήμ…˜μ—μ„œλŠ” κ±°μ ˆν•˜λŠ” 방법을 μ•Œλ € μ£Όμ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ•„λ‹ˆ, μ•„λ‹ˆ. κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μžλ™μ°¨ μ—΄μ‡ λ₯Ό λ³Έ 적이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ? μ•„λ‹ˆμš”.
10:41
Would you fancy pizza tonight? Nah, something  else. Do you want to go to the movies? Nah,  
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였늘 λ°€ ν”Όμž λ“œμ‹œκ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ? μ•„λ‹ˆμš”, λ‹€λ₯Έ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ˜ν™”λ³΄λŸ¬ 갈래? μ•„λ‹ˆμš”,
10:48
not interested in the movies really.  The weekend, yeah, but not not midweek.
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μ˜ν™”μ— λ³„λ‘œ 관심이 μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 주말, 예, ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 주쀑은 μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€. μΉ΄λ“œ
10:52
Would you like to play a game  of cards or game of Monopoly?  
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κ²Œμž„μ„ ν•˜μ‹œκ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ, μ•„λ‹ˆλ©΄ λͺ¨λ…Έν΄λ¦¬ κ²Œμž„μ„ ν•˜μ‹œκ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
10:56
I think I'll pass. I'm tired. I'm going  to go to bed early. I think I'll pass.
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톡과할 것 κ°™μ•„μš”. ν”Όκ³€ν•΄μš”. 일찍 μž μžλ¦¬μ— λ“€κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 톡과할 것 κ°™μ•„μš”.
11:02
Do you think they're going to  win the football match tomorrow  
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그듀이 내일 λ°€ 좕ꡬ κ²½κΈ°μ—μ„œ 이길 것이라고 μƒκ°ν•˜μ„Έμš”
11:05
night? Not a chance. Absolutely not Not a chance.
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? κΈ°νšŒκ°€ μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ ˆλŒ€ μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€ κΈ°νšŒκ°€ μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:10
Do you think we'll get a salary increase  or indeed, we might get a bonus.  
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μš°λ¦¬κ°€ κΈ‰μ—¬ 인상을 받을 것이라고 μƒκ°ν•˜μ‹­λ‹ˆκΉŒ? μ•„λ‹ˆλ©΄ μ‹€μ œλ‘œ λ³΄λ„ˆμŠ€λ₯Ό 받을 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:14
Not happening. I don't see it happening.  It's not happening. Things are difficult.  
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μΌμ–΄λ‚˜μ§€ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ‚˜λŠ” 그것이 μΌμ–΄λ‚˜λŠ” 것을 보지 λͺ»ν•œλ‹€. 그것은 μΌμ–΄λ‚˜μ§€ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 상황이 μ–΄λ ΅μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:19
I don't think they're going to be given  salary increases. And I definitely don't  
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λ‚˜λŠ” 그듀이 κΈ‰μ—¬ 인상을 받을 것이라고 μƒκ°ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . 그리고 μ €λŠ”
11:23
believe we're going to get any bo...  bonuses. So not happening, not this year.
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μš°λ¦¬κ°€ 보... λ³΄λ„ˆμŠ€λ₯Ό 받을 것이라고 μ ˆλŒ€ 믿지 μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ˜¬ν•΄λŠ” μΌμ–΄λ‚˜μ§€ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:27
Now, some ways to soften this when you want to  say no. Friends come round to your home and say,  
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이제 κ±°μ ˆν•˜κ³  싢을 λ•Œ 이λ₯Ό μ™„ν™”ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” λͺ‡ 가지 방법이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . μΉœκ΅¬λ“€μ΄ 집에 μ™€μ„œ μ΄λ ‡κ²Œ λ§ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ–΄μ„œ
11:35
Come on, we're going for a hike. We're going to  go up there. The mountains are a couple of hours,  
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, ν•˜μ΄ν‚Ήμ„ κ°€κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 거기둜 갈 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 산은 λͺ‡ μ‹œκ°„,
11:39
we'll bring some food with us. And we'll be  back by three o'clock. You must be joking!  
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μš°λ¦¬λŠ” μŒμ‹μ„ μ’€ κ°€μ Έμ˜¬ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그리고 μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 3μ‹œμ— λŒμ•„μ˜¬ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 당신은 농담이 ν‹€λ¦Ό μ—†μ–΄!
11:44
Have you seen the temperature? There's no way  I'm going. You have to be kidding. There's  
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μ˜¨λ„ λ³΄μ…¨λ‚˜μš”? 갈 방법이 μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . 당신은 λ†λ‹΄μ„ν•΄μ•Όν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:48
absolutely no chance that I'm travelling up  that mountain. Okay. So you must be joking.  
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λ‚΄κ°€ κ·Έ 산을 였λ₯΄κ³  μžˆμ„ κ°€λŠ₯성은 μ „ν˜€ μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . μ’‹μ•„μš”. κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 당신은 λ†λ‹΄ν•΄μ•Όν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:54
Or are you kidding? There's no way you're  going to get me out on a day like today,  
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μ•„λ‹ˆλ©΄ λ†λ‹΄ν•˜λ‹ˆ? 당신이 였늘 같은 날에 λ‚˜λ₯Ό λ°–μœΌλ‘œ 데리고 λ‚˜κ°ˆ 방법은 μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 기뢄이 λ‚˜μ•„μ§€λ©΄
11:59
some of the time come back in a few  months when I'm feeling better. Okay,  
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λͺ‡ 달 후에 λ‹€μ‹œ λŒμ•„μ˜¬ λ•Œκ°€ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . μ’‹μ•„μš”,
12:03
so you're really making them aware that there is  no chance that you're going to go hitchhiking or  
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 당신은 당신이 νžˆμΉ˜ν•˜μ΄ν‚Ήμ„ ν•˜λŸ¬ κ°€κ±°λ‚˜
12:10
hiking up the hill or climbing the mountains,  not when the weather is as cold as it is.
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언덕을 였λ₯΄κ±°λ‚˜ 산을 였λ₯Ό κ°€λŠ₯성이 μ—†λ‹€λŠ” 것을 κ·Έλ“€μ—κ²Œ μ •λ§λ‘œ μΈμ‹μ‹œν‚€κ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
12:16
And then finally, when we want to absolutely  tell somebody in a half joking way that No,  
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그리고 λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰μœΌλ‘œ λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ—κ²Œ μ ˆλŒ€ 농담 반으둜 No,
12:23
no way. No way. Yeah. So again, depends on  how you say it because you can say it like  
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No way라고 λ§ν•˜κ³  싢을 λ•Œ. μ•ˆ λΌμš”. 응. λ‹€μ‹œ λ§ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ, κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ 말할 수 있기 λ•Œλ¬Έμ— μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ λ§ν•˜λŠλƒμ— 따라 λ‹¬λΌμ§‘λ‹ˆλ‹€
12:31
that. No way with an element of surprise  in your voice. Or you can say it with real  
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. λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ λͺ©μ†Œλ¦¬μ— λ†€λΌμš΄ μš”μ†Œκ°€ μžˆμ–΄μ„œλŠ” μ•ˆ λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€ . λ˜λŠ” μ§„μ§œ κΉŠμ€ μ–΅μ–‘μœΌλ‘œ 말할 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
12:37
deep intonation. No way. So if someone wants  to borrow your car last time, he borrowed it  
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. μ•ˆ λΌμš”. κ·Έλž˜μ„œ λˆ„κ΅°κ°€κ°€ μ§€λ‚œ λ²ˆμ— λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ μ°¨λ₯Ό 빌리렀고 ν•œλ‹€λ©΄, κ·ΈλŠ” 그것을 λΉŒλ ΈμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
12:43
a little bit of an accident side of the car is  damaged. So when he asked you this time, No way,  
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μ•½κ°„μ˜ μ‚¬κ³ λ‘œ 차의 츑면이 μ†μƒλ˜μ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ΄λ²ˆμ— κ·Έκ°€ λ‹Ήμ‹ μ—κ²Œ λ¬Όμ—ˆμ„ λ•Œ, μ ˆλŒ€,
12:49
you are not driving my car. Full stop. Yeah. Okay.  So you let him know he's not going to get it.
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당신은 λ‚΄ μ°¨λ₯Ό μš΄μ „ν•˜κ³  μžˆμ§€ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ§ˆμΉ¨ν‘œ. 응. μ’‹μ•„μš”. κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 당신은 κ·Έκ°€ 그것을 얻지 λͺ»ν•  것이라고 κ·Έμ—κ²Œ μ•Œλ¦½λ‹ˆλ‹€.
12:57
But if you get a bit of a surprise about  something, and they come in said, Oh,  
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 뭔가에 λŒ€ν•΄ 쑰금 λ†€λžμ„ λ•Œ 그듀이 μ™€μ„œ '였,
13:01
did you hear that Mary got engaged? No way!  Mary? Wow, I must drop her line. I must write  
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메리가 μ•½ν˜Όν–ˆλ‹€λŠ” μ†Œμ‹ λ“€μ—ˆμ–΄? μ•ˆ λΌμš”! 메리? μ™€μš°, λ‚˜λŠ” κ·Έλ…€μ˜ 라인을 μ‚­μ œν•΄μ•Όν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ‚˜λŠ” νŽΈμ§€λ₯Ό μ“°κ³ 
13:08
and tell her congratulations. Wow, no way. That's  great news. So here, it's a bit uplifted. And  
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κ·Έλ…€μ—κ²Œ μΆ•ν•˜ 인사λ₯Ό μ „ν•΄μ•Ό ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 와, μ•ˆ 돼. 쒋은 μ†Œμ‹μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ—¬κΈ°μ—μ„œ μ•½κ°„ ν–₯μƒλ˜μ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그리고
13:14
it's a slightly different way of using Norway.  So all about the intonation in your voice.
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λ…Έλ₯΄μ›¨μ΄μ–΄λ₯Ό μ‚¬μš©ν•˜λŠ” 방식이 μ•½κ°„ λ‹€λ¦…λ‹ˆλ‹€. λͺ©μ†Œλ¦¬μ˜ 얡양에 κ΄€ν•œ λͺ¨λ“  것.
13:20
Okay, so that we have some informal ways. Nope.  Nah. Not interested. I think I'll pass. Not a  
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μ’‹μ•„μš”, 비곡식적 인 방법이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ•„λ‹ˆμš”. μ•„λ‹ˆ. 관심이 μ—†λ‹€. 톡과할 것 κ°™μ•„μš”.
13:32
chance. Not... Not happening. Not today. Not  ever. You must be joking! Are you kidding?  
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κΈ°νšŒκ°€ μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ•„λ‹ˆ... μΌμ–΄λ‚˜μ§€ μ•Šμ•„. 였늘 말고. μ ˆλŒ€λ‘œ. 당신은 농담이 ν‹€λ¦Ό μ—†μ–΄! λ†λ‹΄ν•˜λ‹ˆ? μ ˆλŒ€
13:41
No way or no way. I'm not doing that or you're  not doing that. So really emphasise it strong.
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μ•ˆλΌ. λ‚΄κ°€ κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šκ±°λ‚˜ 당신이 κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šμ„ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 정말 κ°•ν•˜κ²Œ κ°•μ‘°ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:49
Okay, so all of those different ways in which  you can say no without actually seen or you've  
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자, μ‹€μ œλ‘œ 보지 μ•Šκ³  κ±°μ ˆν•  수 μžˆλŠ” λͺ¨λ“  λ‹€μ–‘ν•œ 방법 λ˜λŠ” 보기λ₯Ό ν”Όν•˜κ³  싢을 λ•Œ
13:55
got form ways to see them in formal ways to  see them when you want to avoid seeing it,  
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λ³Ό 수 μžˆλŠ” ν˜•μ‹μ μΈ 방법이 μžˆμ§€λ§Œ
14:01
but you want to be a bit polite. And then finally,  when you want to be really firm to make sure  
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μ•½κ°„ 예의 λ°”λ₯΄κ²Œ λŒ€ν•˜κ³  싢을 λ•Œ λ³Ό 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그리고 λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰μœΌλ‘œ,
14:06
somebody gets the message, that there's absolutely  no chance that they're going to borrow the car,  
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€κ°€ μ°¨λ₯Ό 빌릴 κ°€λŠ₯성이 μ „ν˜€ μ—†λ‹€λŠ” λ©”μ‹œμ§€λ₯Ό ν™•μ‹€νžˆ ν•˜κΈ° μœ„ν•΄ 정말 λ‹¨ν˜Έν•˜κ³  싢을 λ•Œ,
14:11
there's no chance that they're going  to be allowed to do something. Okay.
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그듀이 무언가λ₯Ό ν•  수 μžˆμ„ κ°€λŠ₯성이 μ—†λ‹€λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ . μ’‹μ•„μš”.
14:15
So, again, practice these, try to avoid you're  saying no, all the time, it gets a little bit  
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λ”°λΌμ„œ λ‹€μ‹œ ν•œ 번 μ—°μŠ΅ν•˜μ„Έμš”. 항상 'μ•„λ‹ˆμ˜€'라고 λ§ν•˜λŠ” 것을 ν”Όν•˜μ„Έμš”. 쑰금
14:21
boring. Pick a couple of the options here formal  or informal. Practice them with your friends,  
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μ§€λ£¨ν•΄μ§‘λ‹ˆλ‹€. 곡식 λ˜λŠ” 비곡식 μ˜΅μ…˜ 쀑 λͺ‡ 가지λ₯Ό μ„ νƒν•˜μ„Έμš” . μΉœκ΅¬μ™€ ν•¨κ»˜ μ—°μŠ΅ν•˜κ³ 
14:26
practice writing them down in sentences. And if  you have any problems, any issues, of course,  
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λ¬Έμž₯으둜 μ μ–΄λ³΄λŠ” μ—°μŠ΅μ„ ν•˜μ„Έμš”. 그리고 λ¬Έμ œκ°€ 있으면 λ¬Όλ‘  λ¬Έμ œκ°€ 있으면
14:32
come back to me www.englishlessonviaskype.com.  Very happy to help you very happy to give you some  
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www.englishlessonviaskype.com으둜 λ‹€μ‹œ λ¬Έμ˜ν•΄ μ£Όμ„Έμš”. λͺ‡ 가지
14:40
additional advice or examples. Whatever you happen  to need. Okay, well, this is Harry saying goodbye.  
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μΆ”κ°€ μ‘°μ–Έμ΄λ‚˜ 예λ₯Ό μ œκ³΅ν•˜κ²Œ λ˜μ–΄ 맀우 κΈ°μ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 당신이 ν•„μš”λ‘œ ν•˜λŠ” λͺ¨λ“  것. μ’‹μ•„, 이건 해리가 μž‘λ³„ 인사λ₯Ό ν•˜λŠ” κ±°μ•Ό.
14:46
Thanks for listening. Thanks for watching.  And as always join me for the next lesson.
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λ“£κΈ° μ£Όμ…”μ„œ κ°μ‚¬ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ‹œμ²­ ν•΄μ£Όμ…”μ„œ κ°μ‚¬ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그리고 μ–Έμ œλ‚˜μ²˜λŸΌ λ‹€μŒ μˆ˜μ—…μ— μ°Έμ—¬ν•˜μ„Έμš”.
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이 μ‚¬μ΄νŠΈλŠ” μ˜μ–΄ ν•™μŠ΅μ— μœ μš©ν•œ YouTube λ™μ˜μƒμ„ μ†Œκ°œν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ „ 세계 졜고의 μ„ μƒλ‹˜λ“€μ΄ κ°€λ₯΄μΉ˜λŠ” μ˜μ–΄ μˆ˜μ—…μ„ 보게 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 각 λ™μ˜μƒ νŽ˜μ΄μ§€μ— ν‘œμ‹œλ˜λŠ” μ˜μ–΄ μžλ§‰μ„ 더블 ν΄λ¦­ν•˜λ©΄ κ·Έκ³³μ—μ„œ λ™μ˜μƒμ΄ μž¬μƒλ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. λΉ„λ””μ˜€ μž¬μƒμ— 맞좰 μžλ§‰μ΄ μŠ€ν¬λ‘€λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ˜κ²¬μ΄λ‚˜ μš”μ²­μ΄ μžˆλŠ” 경우 이 문의 양식을 μ‚¬μš©ν•˜μ—¬ λ¬Έμ˜ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.

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