How to Make a Good First Impression

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์•„๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฌธ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ”ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋œ ์ž๋ง‰์€ ๊ธฐ๊ณ„ ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

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Hi there. Today we have a very exciting but important lesson on these things
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์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ์˜ค๋Š˜ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ฒซ์ธ์ƒ์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ถˆ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋“ค์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋งค์šฐ ํฅ๋ฏธ๋กญ์ง€๋งŒ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๊ตํ›ˆ์„ ์–ป์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
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called first impressions. Now, how good are you at determining people's
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. ์ž, ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์˜ ์„ฑ๊ฒฉ์„ ์–ผ๋งˆ๋‚˜ ์ž˜ ํŒ๋‹จํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ
00:16
personality? Can you know within three seconds if you're gonna like someone or
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? ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ์ข‹์•„ํ• ์ง€ ์•ˆ ์ข‹์•„ํ• ์ง€ 3์ดˆ ์•ˆ์— ์•Œ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‚˜์š”
00:23
not? According to research, I don't know who did the research, but when I was
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? ์—ฐ๊ตฌ์— ๋”ฐ๋ฅด๋ฉด ๋ˆ„๊ฐ€ ์—ฐ๊ตฌ๋ฅผ ํ–ˆ๋Š”์ง€๋Š” ๋ชจ๋ฅด๊ฒ ์ง€๋งŒ, ์—ฐ๊ตฌ๋ฅผ ํ•ด๋ณด๋‹ˆ
00:30
researching this, they said that people can determine if you're going to like
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ์€ ๋งŒ๋‚œ ์ง€ 3์ดˆ ๋งŒ์— ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ์ข‹์•„ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ธ์ง€, ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ธ์ง€ ํŒ๋‹จํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ•˜๋”๊ตฐ์š”
00:35
someone or not like someone within three seconds of meeting them. So much
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. ๋„ˆ๋ฌด
00:40
pressure, but I'm here to help you. So how to make good first impressions? It's
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๋ถ€๋‹ด์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ธด ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋„์™€๋“œ๋ฆฌ๋ ค๊ณ  ์™”์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ ‡๋‹ค๋ฉด ์ข‹์€ ์ฒซ์ธ์ƒ์„ ๋‚จ๊ธฐ๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์€ ๋ฌด์—‡์ผ๊นŒ์š”?
00:46
hard, and remember you cannot please everyone. So if you meet people and they
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์–ด๋ ค์šด ์ผ์ด์ง€๋งŒ ๋ชจ๋“  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ๊ธฐ์˜๊ฒŒ ํ•  ์ˆ˜๋Š” ์—†๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค . ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์„ ๋งŒ๋‚ฌ๋Š”๋ฐ ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด
00:52
don't like you, that's okay. And if you meet people and you don't like them, hey,
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๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋”๋ผ๋„ ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์„ ๋งŒ๋‚ฌ๋Š”๋ฐ ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ๋งˆ์Œ์— ๋“ค์ง€ ์•Š๋Š”๋‹ค๋ฉด,
00:58
that's your choice. So we have to be careful with our first impressions. First
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๊ทธ๊ฑด ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์„ ํƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋ฏ€๋กœ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ฒซ์ธ์ƒ์„ ์กฐ์‹ฌํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:03
of all, let's go through some expressions or vocabulary that you're
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์šฐ์„ , ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๋ช‡ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ํ‘œํ˜„์ด๋‚˜ ์–ดํœ˜๋ฅผ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
01:08
going to hear people saying. You might hear someone say, "Oh yeah, we really hit
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. ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ "์•„, ๊ทธ๋ž˜, ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์ •๋ง ์„ฑ๊ณตํ–ˆ์–ด
01:13
it off." What are you hitting? Why are you hitting people? Okay, to really hit it off
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."๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋“ค์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ญ˜ ๋•Œ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ฑฐ์•ผ? ์™œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ๋•Œ๋ฆฌ๋‚˜์š”? ์ข‹์•„์š”,
01:21
with someone means you got along really well. Like, oh, the first time you meet
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์™€ ์ •๋ง ์ž˜ ์–ด์šธ๋ ธ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ •๋ง ์ž˜ ์ง€๋ƒˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๋œป์ด์—์š” . ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, ๊ทธ๋“ค์„ ์ฒ˜์Œ ๋งŒ๋‚ฌ์„ ๋•Œ
01:26
them, you're like, "Hey, oh, I like this band."
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"์•ผ, ๋‚˜ ์ด ๋ฐด๋“œ ์ข‹์•„ํ•ด"๋ผ๊ณ  ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฑฐ์ฃ .
01:28
"Oh, I don't like this band." "No, but I like
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"์•„, ๋‚œ ์ด ๋ฐด๋“œ๋ฅผ ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•„ ." "์•„๋‹ˆ์š”. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ €๋Š”
01:31
this band." "Oh yeah, me too." "Okay, yeah." So you have maybe a lot of things in
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์ด ๋ฐด๋“œ๋ฅผ ์ข‹์•„ํ•ด์š”." "์•„, ์‘, ๋‚˜๋„ ๋งˆ์ฐฌ๊ฐ€์ง€์•ผ." "์•Œ์•˜์–ด, ์‘." ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ๋‹น์‹ ์€
01:36
common with the person, or I don't know, you hate the same things, like you two.
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๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ๊ณตํ†ต์ ์ด ๋งŽ์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๊ณ , ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ๋‘ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๊ฐ™์€ ๊ฒƒ์„ ์‹ซ์–ดํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ธ์ง€๋„ ๋ชจ๋ฅด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:45
So that's a good thing. Hitting it off with someone is really good. Good vibes. I
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ข‹์€ ์ผ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์™€ ํ•จ๊ป˜ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ •๋ง ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ข‹์€ ๋Š๋‚Œ. ์ €๋Š”
01:50
see this all the time now in children's t-shirts, when I go to Old Navy. Good
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์ง€๊ธˆ ์˜ฌ๋“œ ๋„ค์ด๋น„์— ๊ฐˆ ๋•Œ๋งˆ๋‹ค ์•„๋™์šฉ ํ‹ฐ์…”์ธ ์—์„œ ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ํ•ญ์ƒ ๋ด…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ข‹์€
01:55
vibes, man. And this is kind of a really old expression, but if someone, she gave
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๋Š๋‚Œ์ด์—์š”. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ด๊ฑด ์ข€ ์˜ค๋ž˜๋œ ํ‘œํ˜„์ธ๋ฐ, ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€
02:01
me some good vibes, whew, it means you got a good impression from the person. The
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๋‚˜์—๊ฒŒ ์ข‹์€ ๋Š๋‚Œ์„ ์ฃผ์—ˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด, ํœด, ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์—๊ฒŒ ์ข‹์€ ์ธ์ƒ์„ ๋ฐ›์•˜๋‹ค๋Š” ๋œป์ด๋‹ค. ๊ทธ
02:07
person was probably friendly or nice to you. They didn't pull your hair or
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ์€ ์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ์นœ์ ˆํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์นœ์ ˆํ–ˆ์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ๋งŒ๋‚ฌ์„ ๋•Œ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๋จธ๋ฆฌ์นด๋ฝ ๊ฐ™์€ ๊ฒƒ์„ ์žก์•„๋‹น๊ธฐ์ง€ ์•Š์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
02:13
something when they met you. So the opposite being bad vibes.
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. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๊ทธ ๋ฐ˜๋Œ€๋Š” ๋‚˜์œ ๋ถ„์œ„๊ธฐ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:18
Sometimes you meet people, and I don't know, they're a little weird, but not a
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๊ฐ€๋” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์„ ๋งŒ๋‚˜๋ฉด, ๊ธ€์Ž„์š” , ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ์ข€ ์ด์ƒํ•˜๊ธด ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ,
02:24
cool weird, like a, hmm, a weird weird. Like, you play video games for 36 hours and
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ํ , ์ด์ƒํ•œ ์ด์ƒํ•จ ๊ฐ™์€ ๋ฉ‹์ง„ ์ด์ƒํ•จ์€ ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, 36์‹œ๊ฐ„ ๋™์•ˆ ๋น„๋””์˜ค ๊ฒŒ์ž„์„ ํ•˜๊ณ 
02:33
don't shower and pee in the seat, don't you? Kind of weird. Like, kind of the
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์ž๋ฆฌ์—์„œ ์ƒค์›Œ๋‚˜ ์†Œ๋ณ€์„ ๋ณด์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ๊ฑฐ์ฃ , ๊ทธ๋ ‡์ฃ ? ์ข€ ์ด์ƒํ•ด์š”. ์ผ์ข…์˜
02:37
smell, too, would give it away. So, good vibes, bad vibes.
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๋ƒ„์ƒˆ๋„ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ์—†์• ์ค„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ์ข‹์€ ๊ธฐ์šด, ๋‚˜์œ ๊ธฐ์šด.
02:40
Another bad way of saying this, and this is weird, "She rubbed me the wrong way."
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์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋‚˜์œ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์€ ์ด์ƒํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. "๊ทธ๋…€๊ฐ€ ๋‚˜์—๊ฒŒ ์ž˜๋ชป๋œ ๋ฐฉํ–ฅ์œผ๋กœ ๋ฌธ์งˆ๋ €์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค."
02:49
Rub me this way, rub me that... Wrong rub. I don't know why we're rubbing people. So
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์ด์ชฝ์œผ๋กœ ๋ฌธ์ง€๋ฅด๊ณ  ์ €์ชฝ์œผ๋กœ ๋ฌธ์ง€๋ฅด์„ธ์š”... ์ž˜๋ชป ๋ฌธ์ง€๋ฅธ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์™œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์„ ๋ฌธ์ง€๋ฅด๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€ ๋ชจ๋ฅด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ
02:55
don't rub people when you meet them, like, hey, you got something there, okay? "She
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์„ ๋งŒ๋‚ฌ์„ ๋•Œ ' ์•ผ, ๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ ๋ญ”๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์–ด'๋ผ๋Š” ์‹์œผ๋กœ ๋ฌธ์ง€๋ฅด์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”. "๊ทธ๋…€๊ฐ€
03:01
rubs me the wrong way" means, yeah, bad vibes, not a good situation. Maybe
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๋‚˜๋ฅผ ์ž˜๋ชป๋œ ๋ฐฉํ–ฅ์œผ๋กœ ๋ฌธ์ง€๋ฅธ๋‹ค"๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ข‹์€ ์ƒํ™ฉ์ด ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ ๋‚˜์œ ๋Š๋‚Œ์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์–ด์ฉŒ๋ฉด
03:09
the person said something that you disagree with, and you're like, ooh, yeah,
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๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋™์˜ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ๋ง์„ ํ•ด์„œ '์•„,
03:16
okay, I don't want to be friends with that person. Like, someone's like, hey, I
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๊ทธ๋ž˜, ๋‚œ ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ๋˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š์•„'๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ '์•ผ, ๋‚˜๋„
03:19
like you, too, and you're like, okay, that person rubbed me the wrong way. Yeah, okay.
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๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜๋Š”๋ฐ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ๋‚˜๋ฅผ ์ž˜๋ชป ๊ฑด๋“œ๋ ธ๋‹ค'๊ณ  ๋งํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‘, ์•Œ์•˜์–ด.
03:25
Another expression, "to warm up to someone". So, this is kind of when you
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๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ํ‘œํ˜„์€ "๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์—๊ฒŒ ๋”ฐ๋œปํ•จ์„ ์ฃผ๋‹ค "์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด
03:33
first meet the person, you're like, I don't know. They weren't giving bad vibes, and it
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๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ์ฒ˜์Œ ๋งŒ๋‚ฌ์„ ๋•Œ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ '์ž˜ ๋ชจ๋ฅด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋‚˜์œ ๋Š๋‚Œ์„ ์ฃผ์ง€๋„ ์•Š์•˜๊ณ 
03:41
wasn't good. It was just kind of like, whatever. But then maybe you meet the
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์ข‹์ง€๋„ ์•Š์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ๋ญ ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•˜์–ด์š” . ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ๋ฐ ๊ทธ
03:46
person again. You're like, okay, well, yeah.
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ๋‹ค์‹œ ๋งŒ๋‚  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์–ด์š”. ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ทธ๋ž˜, ๊ทธ๋ž˜, ๊ทธ๋ž˜.
03:50
And then maybe the next time, and maybe it
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‹ค์Œ ๋ฒˆ์—๋Š” ์•„๋งˆ๋„
03:53
takes five times. After that, you're like,
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5๋ฒˆ์ด ๊ฑธ๋ฆด ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ ํ›„, ๋‹น์‹ ์€ '๊ทธ๋ž˜
03:56
okay, yeah, you know what? I don't mind that
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, ๊ทธ๋ž˜, ๊ทธ๊ฑฐ ์•Œ์•„ ? ๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ์‹ ๊ฒฝ ์“ฐ์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
03:59
person. They're okay. I like them. Yeah. "I didn't like him at first", so the first
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. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ทธ๋“ค์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ•ด. ์‘. "์ฒ˜์Œ์—๋Š” ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•˜๋‹ค"๊ณ  ์ฒซ
04:07
impression, but he's warmed up to me. Okay, he's rubbing you the right way now.
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์ธ์ƒ์„ ๋ฐ›์•˜๋Š”๋ฐ ๊ทธ๋Š” ๋‚˜์—๊ฒŒ ๋”ฐ๋œปํ•ด์กŒ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ข‹์•„, ๊ทธ๋Š” ์ง€๊ธˆ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์˜ฌ๋ฐ”๋ฅธ ๋ฐฉํ–ฅ์œผ๋กœ ๋น„๋น„๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:14
He's warming you up. It means that gradually, you got to like the person.
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๊ทธ๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ๋”ฐ๋œปํ•˜๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ ์ฐจ ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋๋‹ค๋Š” ๋œป์ด๋‹ค.
04:22
I've said this before. Please, when you meet people making your first impression,
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๋‚˜๋Š” ์ „์— ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ๋งํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ถ€๋””, ์ฒซ์ธ์ƒ์„ ์ฃผ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์„ ๋งŒ๋‚  ๋•Œ
04:28
don't be negative. Okay? When you meet someone for
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๋ถ€์ •์ ์œผ๋กœ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”. ์ข‹์•„์š”? ํŠนํžˆ ์ง์žฅ์—์„œ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ์ฒ˜์Œ ๋งŒ๋‚  ๋•Œ
04:32
the first time, especially in a work environment,
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,
04:37
let's say you have a big presentation or sales
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ํฐ ํ”„๋ ˆ์  ํ…Œ์ด์…˜์ด๋‚˜ ์˜์—…
04:40
pitch to do, don't say to people, hey, my name's
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ํ™๋ณด๋ฅผ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๊ฐ€์ •ํ•ด ๋ณด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ '์•ˆ๋…•, ๋‚ด ์ด๋ฆ„์€
04:43
Ronnie. I don't speak English. Why are you here?
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๋กœ๋‹ˆ'๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”. ๋‚˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด๋ฅผ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์™œ ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์— ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
04:47
Remember, you can say things like, English is my
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์˜์–ด๋Š” ๋‚˜์˜
04:52
second, or third, or fourth language, or English
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๋‘ ๋ฒˆ์งธ, ์„ธ ๋ฒˆ์งธ, ๋„ค ๋ฒˆ์งธ ์–ธ์–ด์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด๋Š”
04:55
is not my mother tongue, but please don't be
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๋‚˜์˜ ๋ชจ๊ตญ์–ด๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ
04:59
negative. Don't put yourself down. I don't speak
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๋ถ€์ •์ ์œผ๋กœ ๋งํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ์ž์‹ ์„ ์‹ค๋ง์‹œํ‚ค์ง€ ๋งˆ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ๋‚˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด๋ฅผ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
05:02
English. Well, you just did. So, think of other
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. ๊ธ€์Ž„, ๋ฐฉ๊ธˆ ๊ทธ๋žฌ์–ด. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ
05:05
expressions you can use to give the person a
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์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์—๊ฒŒ
05:09
really good impression of you. Like, oh, hey,
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๋‹น์‹ ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ •๋ง ์ข‹์€ ์ธ์ƒ์„ ์ฃผ๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด ๋ณด์„ธ์š”. ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, ์•„, ์ด๋ด,
05:13
this isn't the person's first language. Whoa,
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์ด๊ฑด ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์˜ ๋ชจ๊ตญ์–ด๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹ˆ์ž–์•„ . ์™€,
05:15
hey, that means they know more than one language.
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์ด๋ด, ๊ทธ๊ฑด ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ํ•˜๋‚˜ ์ด์ƒ์˜ ์–ธ์–ด๋ฅผ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๋œป์ด์•ผ.
05:19
Cool. Here's another expression. It's not what you know-okay?-it's how you say it.
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์‹œ์›ํ•œ. ์—ฌ๊ธฐ ๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ํ‘œํ˜„์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์•„๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•Œ์•˜์ฃ ? ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ์‹์ด ๊ทธ๋ ‡์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:31
What does that mean? So, you might have all the
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๊ทธ๊ฒŒ ๋ฌด์Šจ ๋œป์ด์—์š”? ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์„ธ์ƒ์˜ ๋ชจ๋“  ์ง€์‹์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ
05:34
knowledge in the world, which is impossible,
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋ถˆ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:37
but you might know a lot about something. But when you're communicating with people,
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์–ด๋–ค ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋งŽ์€ ๊ฒƒ์„ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค๊ณผ ์†Œํ†ตํ•  ๋•Œ, ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ
05:42
when you're delivering your message to people, you might do it in a very arrogant,
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๋ฉ”์‹œ์ง€๋ฅผ ์ „๋‹ฌํ•  ๋•Œ ๋งค์šฐ ์˜ค๋งŒํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์ „๋‹ฌํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:49
which means you think you're better than everyone
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์ด๋Š” ์ž์‹ ์ด ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋ชจ๋“  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋ณด๋‹ค ๋‚ซ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ์˜๋ฏธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
05:53
else way. So, you're like, okay, like, you guys,
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. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์€ "๋‚˜๋Š”
05:57
I know everything about this, so, like, I'll just
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์ด๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฒƒ์„ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ
06:00
tell you everything, because you guys don't know
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์€ ์•„๋ฌด๊ฒƒ๋„ ๋ชจ๋ฅด๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ง์”€ ๋“œ๋ฆฌ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
06:03
anything. When you're sharing knowledge, especially
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." ํŠนํžˆ
06:06
in a work environment, you have to let the people
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์—…๋ฌด ํ™˜๊ฒฝ์—์„œ ์ง€์‹์„ ๊ณต์œ ํ•  ๋•Œ๋Š” ์ž์‹ ์ด ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ์‚ฌ์‹ค์„ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ์•Œ๋ ค์•ผ
06:09
know that you know, but you're willing to share
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ
06:13
in a friendly, direct way. You can't be arrogant,
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์นœ์ ˆํ•˜๊ณ  ์ง์ ‘์ ์ธ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์œผ๋กœ ๊ธฐ๊บผ์ด ๊ณต์œ ํ•˜๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ค๋งŒํ•˜๋ฉด ์•ˆ ๋ผ์š”,
06:16
oh, I know everything, you guys don't know anything. Not a good first impression. You
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์•„, ๋‚œ ๋‹ค ์•Œ์•„์š”, ๋„ˆํฌ๋“ค์€ ์•„๋ฌด๊ฒƒ๋„ ๋ชฐ๋ผ์š”. ์ข‹์€ ์ฒซ์ธ์ƒ์€ ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด๋ฅผ ๋ชปํ•œ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋ฐ”๋ณด์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ
06:22
don't want to come across as being stupid, like
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๋ณด์ด๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
06:25
saying, I don't speak English. Okay? So, you might
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. ์ข‹์•„์š”? ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ
06:29
know how to do it, but it's how you react to
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์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•˜๋Š”์ง€ ์•Œ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ, ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๋ฐ˜์‘ํ•˜๋Š๋ƒ์— ๋”ฐ๋ผ
06:32
people that are going to give you a good first
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์ข‹์€ ์ฒซ์ธ์ƒ
06:35
or last impression. Oh my god. Begin to do some ABCs. Yeah. All right, so next,
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์ด๋‚˜ ๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰ ์ธ์ƒ์„ ์ค„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ง™์†Œ์‚ฌ. ๋ช‡ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ABC ์ž‘์—…์„ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ์‘. ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹ค์Œ์œผ๋กœ
06:43
let's look at the ABCs of first impressions. Trying to make it easy.
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์ฒซ์ธ์ƒ์˜ ABC๋ฅผ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ์‰ฝ๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ๋“ค๋ ค๊ณ  ๋…ธ๋ ฅ ์ค‘์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:50
Probably the most important is your appearance.
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์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์€ ์™ธ๋ชจ์ผ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:54
Okay? I'm not saying you have to go out and buy
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์ข‹์•„์š”? ๋‚˜๊ฐ€์„œ
06:59
$1,000 shirts or expensive jewelry, but try not to have stains on your shirt.
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1,000๋‹ฌ๋Ÿฌ์งœ๋ฆฌ ์…”์ธ ๋‚˜ ๊ฐ’๋น„์‹ผ ๋ณด์„์„ ์‚ฌ์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๋œป์€ ์•„๋‹ˆ์ง€๋งŒ, ์…”์ธ ์— ์–ผ๋ฃฉ์ด ์ƒ๊ธฐ์ง€ ์•Š๋„๋ก ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
07:08
Please take a shower. Smell good, but not too
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์ƒค์›Œ๋ฅผ ํ•ด์ฃผ์„ธ์š”. ๋ƒ„์ƒˆ๋Š” ์ข‹์€๋ฐ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด
07:12
good. Okay? Don't douse yourself in cologne or
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์ข‹์ง€๋Š” ์•Š์•„์š”. ์ข‹์•„์š”? ์ง€๊ธˆ์€ ๋งŽ์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ๋ƒ„์ƒˆ์— ๋ฏผ๊ฐํ•˜๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ์ฝœ๋กฑ์ด๋‚˜ ํ–ฅ์ˆ˜์— ๋ชธ์„ ๋‹ด๊ทธ์ง€ ๋งˆ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค
07:16
perfume, because a lot of people are scent-sensitive
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07:20
now. A shower's going to be good. Use some soap,
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. ์ƒค์›Œํ•˜๋ฉด ์ข‹์„ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„์š”. ๋น„๋ˆ„๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๊ณ ,
07:23
wash all the bits, don't forget to wash your
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๋ชจ๋“  ๋ถ€๋ถ„์„ ์”ป๊ณ , ๋ฐœ์„ ์”ป๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์žŠ์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”
07:26
feet. Yeah? How you look, how you smell,
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. ์‘? ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์™ธ๋ชจ, ๋ƒ„์ƒˆ,
07:29
important. Your clothes, your hair, do your hair, brush it, comb it, wash it. Makeup.
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์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ท, ๋จธ๋ฆฌ, ๋จธ๋ฆฌ ์†์งˆ , ๋น—์งˆ, ๋น—์งˆ, ์„ธํƒ. ์กฐ๋ฆฝ.
07:36
If you're going to wear makeup, don't wear too much. I don't know what it is now,
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ํ™”์žฅ์„ ํ•  ์˜ˆ์ •์ด๋ผ๋ฉด ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋งŽ์ด ๋ฐ”๋ฅด์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”. ์ง€๊ธˆ์€ ๋ญ”์ง€๋Š” ๋ชจ๋ฅด๊ฒ ์ง€๋งŒ
07:42
but I've seen the trend of fake eyelashes, and sometimes I'm like,
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์ธ์กฐ์†๋ˆˆ์น ์œ ํ–‰์„ ๋ณด๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ๊ฐ€๋”์”ฉ
07:46
what is that person... What... What is on their eye? Is that a caterpillar? No. Oh,
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์ € ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์€ ๋ญ์ง€... ๋ญ์•ผ... ๋ˆˆ์— ๋ญ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์ง€ ? ๊ทธ๊ฑฐ ์• ๋ฒŒ๋ ˆ์ธ๊ฐ€์š”? ์•„๋‡จ. ์•„,
07:52
they're fake eyelashes. Okay, so you're not
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๊ฐ€์งœ ์†๋ˆˆ์น์ด์—์š”. ์ข‹์•„์š”, ๊ทธ๋Ÿผ ๋‹น์‹ ์€
07:55
going out to a nightclub. You're just... Well,
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๋‚˜์ดํŠธํด๋Ÿฝ์— ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๊ฑฐ์˜ˆ์š”. ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋‹จ์ง€... ๊ธ€์Ž„์š”,
07:58
maybe you are, and that's fine, but if you're
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์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๊ทธ๋Ÿด ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๊ณ  ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด
08:01
doing a work thing, I don't know, maybe save
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์ผ์„ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด, ์ž˜ ๋ชจ๋ฅด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:04
the fake eyelashes for the nighttime. Okay? It's
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๊ฐ€์งœ ์†๋ˆˆ์น์€ ๋ฐค์— ๋‚จ๊ฒจ ๋‘๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ข‹์„ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ข‹์•„์š”?
08:07
up to you, though. Okay. I'm not trying to tell
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ๋‹ฌ๋ ค ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ข‹์•„์š”. ๋‚˜๋Š”
08:09
you what to do with your lashes, because mine
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๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์†๋ˆˆ์น์„ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ• ์ง€ ๋งํ•˜๋ ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์™œ๋ƒํ•˜๋ฉด ๋‚ด ์†๋ˆˆ์น์€
08:11
are blue, so that's cool. But conservative on the
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ํŒŒ๋ž€์ƒ‰์ด๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๋ฉ‹์ง€๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ํ™”์žฅ์— ์žˆ์–ด์„œ๋Š” ๋ณด์ˆ˜์ ์œผ๋กœ
08:14
makeup, we would say, or don't wear any, whatever.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์•„๋ฌด๊ฒƒ๋„ ์ž…์ง€ ์•Š๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์•„๋ฌด๊ฒƒ๋„ ์ž…์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:17
Take a shower. Okay? Because the first thing that
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์ƒค์›Œ๋ฅผํ•˜๋‹ค. ์ข‹์•„์š”?
08:20
people notice about you is your appearance. Unfortunately, people look you up and down,
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ๋‹น์‹ ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๊ฐ€์žฅ ๋จผ์ € ์•Œ์•„์ฐจ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์™ธ๋ชจ์ด๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ถˆํ–‰ํ•˜๊ฒŒ๋„ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์œ„์•„๋ž˜๋กœ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณด๊ณ 
08:26
they look at your shoes, they look at your
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, ์‹ ๋ฐœ
08:29
clothes, and they will judge. Oh, they will judge.
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๊ณผ ์˜ท์„ ๋ณด๊ณ  ํŒ๋‹จํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•„, ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ํŒ๋‹จํ•  ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:33
Oh my god, did Ronnie get a top in Giant Tiger?
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๋ง™์†Œ์‚ฌ, Ronnie๊ฐ€ Giant Tiger์—์„œ 1์œ„๋ฅผ ์ฐจ์ง€ํ–ˆ๋‚˜์š”?
08:37
Oh, I would never go there. Okay? So, make it very,
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์•„, ๋‚œ ์ ˆ๋Œ€ ๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ์—” ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๊ฑฐ์•ผ. ์ข‹์•„์š”? ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋ฏ€๋กœ
08:41
very clear to the person that you shower and
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ƒค์›Œ๋ฅผ ํ•˜๊ณ 
08:44
you do laundry. Okay? And that's it. We're good.
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๋นจ๋ž˜๋ฅผ ํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์—๊ฒŒ ๋งค์šฐ ๋ช…ํ™•ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ์ข‹์•„์š”? ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๊ฒŒ ๋‹ค์•ผ. ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ข‹๋‹ค.
08:48
Behavior. Actions. This is important. It's not how you treat other people, but it's...
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ํ–‰๋™. ํ–‰์œ„. ์ด๊ฑด ์ค‘์š”ํ•˜๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ๋Œ€ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ด ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ...
08:57
that you're talking to, but the other people
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ
09:00
around you. So, how you treat others. If I say
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๋‹น์‹  ์ฃผ๋ณ€์˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Ÿผ, ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๋Œ€ํ•˜๋Š”๊ฐ€. ๋‚ด๊ฐ€
09:03
this, warm up to someone. Remember I told you
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์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•˜๋ฉด ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ๋”ฐ๋œปํ•˜๊ฒŒ ํ•ด์ฃผ์„ธ์š”. ๋‚ด๊ฐ€
09:07
that in the beginning? If I say, you know what,
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์ฒ˜์Œ์— ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๋ง์„ ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ ๊ธฐ์–ต๋‚˜? ๋งํ•˜์ž๋ฉด,
09:11
I really didn't like him at first, but...
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์ฒ˜์Œ์—๋Š” ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ์ •๋ง ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•˜์ง€๋งŒ...
09:16
Uh-oh. Hold on. I should say I warmed up to him.
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์–ด-์˜ค. ๊ธฐ๋‹ค๋ฆฌ๋‹ค. ๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ทธ์—๊ฒŒ ๋งˆ์Œ์ด ๋”ฐ๋œปํ•ด์กŒ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•ด์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค.
09:24
Made a mistake there. Sorry about that. So, I didn't like him at first, but you know,
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๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ์—์„œ ์‹ค์ˆ˜๋ฅผ ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ฒ˜์Œ์—๋Š” ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๊ทธ
09:29
I warmed up to him. When you're going to a conference or when you're doing
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ์—๊ฒŒ ๋งˆ์Œ์ด ๋”ฐ๋œปํ•ด์กŒ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ปจํผ๋Ÿฐ์Šค์— ๊ฐ€๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
09:36
a pitch for work, it's very important that you treat everyone, no matter their job,
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์—…๋ฌด ๋ฐœํ‘œ๋ฅผ ํ•  ๋•Œ, ์ง์—…์— ๊ด€๊ณ„์—†์ด ๋ชจ๋“  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„
09:43
with equal respect and politeness. You don't want
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๋™๋“ฑํ•œ ์กด์ค‘๊ณผ ์˜ˆ์˜๋กœ ๋Œ€ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋งค์šฐ ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ปคํ”ผ๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ์ฃผ๋Š”
09:46
to be rude to the person that's getting you coffee.
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฌด๋ก€ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๊ตด๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€๋Š” ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
09:49
You've seen this in movies. Like, give me a
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ์˜ํ™”์—์„œ ๋ณธ ์ ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, ๋‚˜์—๊ฒŒ
09:51
coffee. Because people are watching you. People
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์ปคํ”ผ๋ฅผ ์ฃผ์„ธ์š”. ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์ง€์ผœ๋ณด๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€
09:54
are watching your behaviour. If you're in line
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๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ํ–‰๋™์„ ์ง€์ผœ๋ณด๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:57
for a job interview and you speak to the person
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์ทจ์—… ๋ฉด์ ‘์„ ์œ„ํ•ด ์ค„์„ ์„œ์„œ
10:00
at the front desk rudely, don't find out about
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ํ”„๋ŸฐํŠธ ๋ฐ์Šคํฌ์— ์žˆ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฌด๋ก€ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•œ๋‹ค๋ฉด ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ์‹ค์„ ์•Œ์•„๋‚ด์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”
10:03
that. So, make sure you treat everyone with respect
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. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋ฏ€๋กœ ๋ชจ๋“  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ์กด์ค‘
10:07
and just be polite. Everyone. Okay? All the time.
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ํ•˜๊ณ  ์˜ˆ์˜ ๋ฐ”๋ฅด๊ฒŒ ๋Œ€ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ๋ชจ๋“  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ. ์ข‹์•„์š”? ํ•ญ์ƒ.
10:12
Be on time. Now, I'm not good at being on time,
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์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ์ง€ํ‚ค์„ธ์š”. ์ง€๊ธˆ์€ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ์ž˜ ๋ชป ์ง€ํ‚ค๋Š” ํŽธ
10:17
but for a job interview or a sales pitch or
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์ด์ง€๋งŒ ์ทจ์—… ๋ฉด์ ‘ ์ด๋‚˜ ์˜์—… ํ™๋ณด ๋“ฑ
10:19
anything that you have to do, if you have an
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ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ์ผ์ด๋‚˜ ์•ฝ์†์ด ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉด
10:22
appointment, try to be on time. Leave an
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์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ์ง€ํ‚ค๋„๋ก ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
10:25
hour early if you have to. I like to do that.
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๋ถ€๋“์ดํ•œ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ํ•œ ์‹œ๊ฐ„ ์ผ์ฐ ์ถœ๋ฐœํ•˜์„ธ์š” . ๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ•œ๋‹ค.
10:31
Your actions will convey how confident you
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๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ํ–‰๋™์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ๋งŒ๋‚ฌ์„ ๋•Œ ์–ผ๋งˆ๋‚˜ ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์ด ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€๋ฅผ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ค„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
10:35
are when you meet someone. If you, you know,
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.
10:39
walk into an office and kind of look around,
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์‚ฌ๋ฌด์‹ค์— ๋“ค์–ด๊ฐ€์„œ ์ฃผ์œ„๋ฅผ ๋‘˜๋Ÿฌ๋ณด๊ณ 
10:42
don't say hi to anyone, and sit down in a chair,
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๋ˆ„๊ตฌ์—๊ฒŒ๋„ ์ธ์‚ฌํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ  ์˜์ž์— ์•‰์•„
10:47
and whip out your phone, the people around you
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์ „ํ™”๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๊บผ๋‚ธ๋‹ค๋ฉด ์ฃผ๋ณ€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€
10:50
aren't getting any confidence vibes from you.
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๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ์„œ ์–ด๋–ค ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ๋„ ๋Š๋ผ์ง€ ๋ชปํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. .
10:53
But if you go into the same office, you're like,
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๊ฐ™์€ ์‚ฌ๋ฌด์‹ค์— ๋“ค์–ด๊ฐ€๋ฉด
10:56
"Hey, my name's Ronnie. I'm here for the job
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"์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”, ์ œ ์ด๋ฆ„์€ ๋กœ๋‹ˆ์˜ˆ์š”. ์ทจ์—… ๋ฉด์ ‘์„ ๋ณด๋Ÿฌ ์™”์–ด์š”
10:57
interview. How are you?" You know? You're giving
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. ์ž˜ ์ง€๋‚ด์„ธ์š”?"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•Œ์ž–์•„? ๋‹น์‹ ์€
11:00
people good energy, and you're giving people,
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ์ข‹์€ ์—๋„ˆ์ง€๋ฅผ ์ฃผ๊ณ , ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ
11:03
"Hey, you know what? I like this one. She's
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"์•ผ, ๊ทธ๊ฑฐ ์•Œ์•„? ๋‚˜ ์ด๊ฑฐ ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜๋Š”๋ฐ, ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ
11:05
confident." She might not have any idea what
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์ž์‹ ๊ฐ ์žˆ์–ด"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๊ฒŒ ํ•ด์ค€๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋…€๋Š” ์ž์‹ ์ด ๋ฌด์—‡์„
11:07
she's doing, but at least she pretends to be
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ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€ ์ „ํ˜€ ๋ชจ๋ฅผ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ ์ ์–ด๋„
11:10
confident, and that's where you're... You've
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์ž์‹ ๊ฐ ์žˆ๋Š” ์ฒ™ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋ฉด ๋‹น์‹ ์€...
11:12
got to do it. Maybe you're nervous. Okay? That's
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ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ธด์žฅํ–ˆ์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ข‹์•„์š”?
11:16
fine. When you're nervous, you do something called
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๊ดœ์ฐฎ์•„. ๊ธด์žฅ๋˜๋ฉด
11:19
fumble. Fumble means you, like, drop things or,
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ํŽŒ๋ธ”(fumble)์ด๋ผ๋Š” ์ผ์„ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. Fumble์€ ๋ฌผ๊ฑด์„ ๋–จ์–ด๋œจ๋ฆฌ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
11:23
like, you fall on things. Fumbling is normal,
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๋ฌผ๊ฑด ์œ„์— ๋–จ์–ด์ง€๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”๋“ฌ๊ฑฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ •์ƒ์ ์ด๊ณ ,
11:27
natural, kind of cute, but try to keep those to a minimal if you can.
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์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ณ , ๊ท€์—ฝ์ง€๋งŒ, ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•˜๋‹ค๋ฉด ์ตœ์†Œํ™”ํ•˜๋„๋ก ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ๊ฐ€๋”์€
11:33
I know it's hard sometimes. You trip over
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ํž˜๋“ค๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฑธ ์•Œ์•„์š” . ๋‹น์‹ ์€
11:36
your own feet. I do that. But just, you know,
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์ž์‹ ์˜ ๋ฐœ์— ๊ฑธ๋ ค ๋„˜์–ด์ง‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํ•œ๋‹ค. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ง‘
11:40
practice walking at home, maybe. Look at me,
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์—์„œ ๊ฑท๊ธฐ ์—ฐ์Šต์„ ํ•ด๋ณด์„ธ์š” . ๋‚˜๋ฅผ ๋ณด์„ธ์š”,
11:42
I'm walking. Walk backwards, that's always fun.
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๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ฑท๊ณ  ์žˆ์–ด์š”. ๋’ค๋กœ ๊ฑท๋Š” ๊ฑด ์–ธ์ œ๋‚˜ ์žฌ๋ฏธ์žˆ์–ด์š”.
11:44
Practice body language. Eye contact. I tell you
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์‹ ์ฒด ์–ธ์–ด๋ฅผ ์—ฐ์Šตํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ๋ˆˆ๋งž์ถค. ๋‚˜๋Š”
11:49
this all the time. If you want people to pay
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์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ํ•ญ์ƒ ๋งํ•œ๋‹ค. ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด
11:53
attention to you, to like you, to think that
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๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ๊ด€์‹ฌ์„ ๊ฐ–๊ณ , ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜๊ณ ,
11:56
you're confident, two things. Eye contact. Look
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์ด ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด์ฃผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ์›ํ•œ๋‹ค๋ฉด, ๋‘ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ˆˆ๋งž์ถค.
11:59
at the people. And number two, the magic of the
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์„๋ณด์„ธ์š”. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‘ ๋ฒˆ์งธ๋Š” ๋ฏธ์†Œ์˜ ๋งˆ๋ฒ•์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
12:04
smile. As soon as you smile at people, they know,
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. ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฏธ์†Œ๋ฅผ ์ง€์œผ๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋“ค์€
12:11
"Oh, hey, hey, this person's happy. Oh, I'm
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"์•„, ์ด ์‚ฌ๋žŒ ํ–‰๋ณตํ•ด. ์•„,
12:13
happy." You can do it as a social experiment.
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ํ–‰๋ณตํ•ด."๋ผ๊ณ  ์•Œ๊ฒŒ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‚ฌํšŒ์  ์‹คํ—˜์œผ๋กœ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:16
Walk around your town and smile at people,
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๋™๋„ค๋ฅผ ๋Œ์•„๋‹ค๋‹ˆ๋ฉฐ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฏธ์†Œ๋ฅผ ์ง€์œผ๋ฉด
12:19
and you can see people's different reactions.
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์˜ ๋‹ค์–‘ํ•œ ๋ฐ˜์‘์„ ๋ณผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:23
We'll get into that in a different lesson. But if you smile and make eye contact,
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์ด์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด์„œ๋Š” ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๊ฐ•์˜์—์„œ ๋‹ค๋ฃจ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์›ƒ์œผ๋ฉฐ ๋ˆˆ์„ ๋งˆ์ฃผ์น˜๋ฉด
12:27
it's going to be a very positive thing. Smile at everyone. Okay?
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๋งค์šฐ ๊ธ์ •์ ์ธ ์ผ์ด ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ชจ๋‘์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฏธ์†Œ๋ฅผ ์ง€์œผ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ์ข‹์•„์š”?
12:33
You have to see what the other people are
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ๋ฌด์—‡์„
12:35
doing. Depending on what country you live in,
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ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€ ์‚ดํŽด๋ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์‚ฌ๋Š” ๋‚˜๋ผ์— ๋”ฐ๋ผ
12:38
some people at business meetings shake hands,
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๋น„์ฆˆ๋‹ˆ์Šค ๋ฏธํŒ…์—์„œ ์•…์ˆ˜๋ฅผ ํ•˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋„ ์žˆ๊ณ , ๊ณง๋ฐ”๋กœ ํฌ์˜น์œผ๋กœ ๋‹ค
12:41
some people are all in with a hug right away,
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๋“ค์–ด๊ฐ€๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋„ ์žˆ๊ณ ,
12:44
some people kiss each other, not with tongue.
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ํ˜€๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹Œ ํ‚ค์Šค๋ฅผ ํ•˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:47
Okay? Just like one on the cheek, two on the cheek.
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์ข‹์•„์š”? ๋บจ์— ํ•˜๋‚˜ , ๋บจ์— ๋‘ ๊ฐœ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ์š”. ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ ์œผ๋กœ
12:50
You have to see what the other people are doing,
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€ ์‚ดํŽด๋ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
12:53
basically. So, if you rock into a job interview
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. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ทจ์—… ๋ฉด์ ‘์— ๋“ค์–ด๊ฐ€์„œ
12:55
and you start, like, kissing people, that's weird.
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ํ‚ค์Šคํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•œ๋‹ค๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ด์ƒํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:59
Make sure you just kind of shake the hands and
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์•…์ˆ˜๋ฅผ ํ•˜๊ณ 
13:02
observe other people first. That's a good thing.
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์„ ๋จผ์ € ๊ด€์ฐฐํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ข‹์€ ์ผ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:06
The next one, communication. This goes back to
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๋‹ค์Œ์€ ์†Œํ†ต์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์ด๊ฒƒ์œผ๋กœ ๋Œ์•„๊ฐ‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:09
this one, right? It's not what you know, it's how
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๊ทธ๋ ‡์ฃ ? ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์•„๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ
13:12
you say it. So, if your first impression comes off
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ์‹์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ฒซ์ธ์ƒ์ด
13:16
as you don't really know what you're talking
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13:19
about because your confidence is low, or you
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์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์ด ๋‚ฎ์•„์„œ ๋ฌด์Šจ ๋ง์ธ์ง€ ์ž˜ ๋ชจ๋ฅด๊ฒ ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜,
13:23
think you know everything because you're an
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13:25
arrogant prick, this is not a good impression.
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์˜ค๋งŒํ•œ ๋†ˆ์ด๋ผ ๋‹ค ์•ˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•œ๋‹ค๋ฉด ์ข‹์€ ์ธ์ƒ์ด ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:28
I don't care if it's socially or at a job
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์‚ฌํšŒ์ ์œผ๋กœ๋“ 
13:32
function, at a party. Just don't be arrogant with
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์—…๋ฌด์ƒ์œผ๋กœ๋“ , ํŒŒํ‹ฐ์—์„œ๋“  ์ƒ๊ด€์—†์–ด์š”. ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค ์—๊ฒŒ ์˜ค๋งŒํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค
13:35
people. It's hard because you're communicating in
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. ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์–ธ์–ด ๋กœ ์˜์‚ฌ์†Œํ†ต์„ ํ•˜๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ํž˜๋“ค๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์—
13:40
another language, so practice. If you have a sales
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์—ฐ์Šตํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
13:45
pitch in English, it's twice as hard because
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์˜์–ด๋กœ ์˜์—… ํ™๋ณด๋ฅผ ํ•œ๋‹ค๋ฉด
13:48
you've got to get your target audience, you've got
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๋ชฉํ‘œ ์ฒญ์ค‘์„ ํ™•๋ณดํ•ด์•ผ ํ•˜๊ณ ,
13:52
to get the people motivated and interested, and you
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๋™๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋ถ€์—ฌ ํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ด€์‹ฌ์„ ๊ฐ–๋„๋ก ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•˜๋ฉฐ,
13:55
have to do it in another language. So, practice,
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์–ธ์–ด๋กœ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•˜๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๋‘ ๋ฐฐ๋กœ ์–ด๋ ต์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ ์—ฐ์Šตํ•˜๊ณ ,
13:59
practice, practice. Sit outside and stare at a
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์—ฐ์Šตํ•˜๊ณ , ์—ฐ์Šตํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ๋ฐ–์— ์•‰์•„
14:02
tree and talk to the tree. Practice what you're
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๋‚˜๋ฌด๋ฅผ ๋ฐ”๋ผ๋ณด๋ฉฐ ๋‚˜๋ฌด์™€ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋‚˜๋ˆ ๋ณด์„ธ์š” . ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋งํ•  ๋‚ด์šฉ์„ ์—ฐ์Šตํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค
14:05
going to say. So, you have confidence and talk
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. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์„ ๊ฐ–๊ณ 
14:08
loud enough. Not too loud. Don't scream at the
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์ถฉ๋ถ„ํžˆ ํฐ ์†Œ๋ฆฌ๋กœ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ์‹œ๋„๋Ÿฝ์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๋น„๋ช…์„ ์ง€๋ฅด์ง€ ๋งˆ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค
14:12
people. Okay? They're not deaf. Well, they might
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. ์ข‹์•„์š”? ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๊ท€๋จธ๊ฑฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ธ€์Ž„์š”, ๊ทธ๋Ÿด ์ˆ˜๋„
14:15
be, but don't scream at people. Talk loud enough,
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์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ์†Œ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ์ง€๋ฅด์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š” . ์ถฉ๋ถ„ํžˆ ํฐ ์†Œ๋ฆฌ๋กœ,
14:19
calmly enough. When I'm nervous, I talk really
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์ถฉ๋ถ„ํžˆ ์นจ์ฐฉํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ๊ธด์žฅํ•  ๋• ์ •๋ง
14:23
fast, and it's hard for me, even now, to speak
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๋น ๋ฅด๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•˜๋Š”๋ฐ, ์ง€๊ธˆ๋„ ์ฒœ์ฒœํžˆ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒŒ ํž˜๋“ค์ง€๋งŒ
14:28
slowly, but you can learn. You have to speak
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๋ฐฐ์šธ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์–ด์š”.
14:30
slowly, you have to speak in a very calm manner.
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์ฒœ์ฒœํžˆ ๋งํ•ด์•ผ ํ•˜๊ณ , ๋งค์šฐ ์ฐจ๋ถ„ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:33
And listen, okay? One thing that people do in
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋“ค์–ด๋ด, ์•Œ์•˜์ง€? ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ์ทจ์—… ๋ฉด์ ‘์—์„œ ํŠนํžˆ ํ•˜๋Š” ์ผ ์ค‘ ํ•˜๋‚˜๋Š”
14:37
a job interview especially is they do something
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14:42
called "overshare". So, if in a job interview they
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"๊ณผ์ž‰ ๊ณต์œ "๋ผ๋Š” ์ผ์„ ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๋ฉด์ ‘์—์„œ ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด
14:49
ask you a question, answer that question. Then,
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๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์„ ํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์— ๋Œ€๋‹ตํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ๊ทธ๋Ÿผ,
14:55
whoop, fermez la bouche. That means close your
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์œฝ, ํŽ˜๋ฅด๋ฉ”์ฆˆ ๋ผ ๋ถ€์‰ฌ. ์ฆ‰ ์ž…์„ ๋‹ค๋ฌผ๋ผ๋Š” ๋œป์ด๋‹ค
14:58
mouth. Don't give them more information than
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. ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋ฌป๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ๋ณด๋‹ค ๋” ๋งŽ์€ ์ •๋ณด๋ฅผ ์ œ๊ณตํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค
15:01
they ask. Why? Because maybe that information is
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. ์™œ? ์–ด์ฉŒ๋ฉด ๊ทธ ์ •๋ณด๊ฐ€
15:05
bad. So, also do your research. What's the company
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์ข‹์ง€ ์•Š์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์—ฐ๊ตฌ๋„ ์ˆ˜ํ–‰ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค . ๋ฉด์ ‘์ด๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋ฌด์–ธ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ๋ฐœํ‘œํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ํšŒ์‚ฌ๋Š” ๋ฌด์—‡์—
15:09
about if it's a job interview or if you're pitching
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๊ด€ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ
15:12
something? Make sure you know your audience.
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? ์ฒญ์ค‘์„ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€ ํ™•์ธํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
15:17
Keep a nice, calm pace. Or let's say you're going
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์กฐ์šฉํ•˜๊ณ  ์ข‹์€ ์†๋„๋ฅผ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด
15:21
for a job at a gym, okay? And the other people
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์ฒด์œก๊ด€์—์„œ ์ผ์„ ํ•˜๋Ÿฌ ๊ฐ„๋‹ค๊ณ  ๊ฐ€์ •ํ•ด ๋ณผ๊นŒ์š”? ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ฒด์œก๊ด€์— ์žˆ๋Š” ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€
15:25
at the gym are hyper and souped up on steroids,
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15:28
like, "Yeah, I want to join the gym." You have to
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"๊ทธ๋ž˜, ๋‚˜๋„ ์ฒด์œก๊ด€์— ๋“ค์–ด๊ฐ€๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ด"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๋ฉด์„œ ์Šคํ…Œ๋กœ์ด๋“œ์— ํ‘น ๋น ์ ธ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
15:30
mirror the people. If you're going to a work
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์„ ๊ฑฐ์šธ์‚ผ์•„์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
15:33
environment that's calm and peaceful and relaxing,
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์กฐ์šฉ ํ•˜๊ณ  ํ‰ํ™”๋กญ๊ณ  ํŽธ์•ˆํ•œ ์ž‘์—… ํ™˜๊ฒฝ์œผ๋กœ ๊ฐ€๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๋ฉด
15:37
try and do that. If you're going to some place
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๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๋„๋ก ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
15:40
that's hyper and like, "Ah, nightclub", try and
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"์•„, ๋‚˜์ดํŠธํด๋Ÿฝ" ํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ณผ๊ฒฉํ•œ ๊ณณ์— ๊ฐˆ ๊ฑฐ๋ฉด
15:44
mirror people, okay? Mirror others. "Mirror" means
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์„ ๊ฑฐ์šธ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋น„์ถฐ๋ด, ์•Œ์•˜์ง€? ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์„ ๋ฏธ๋Ÿฌ๋งํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. "๋ฏธ๋Ÿฌ"๋Š” ๋ณต์‚ฌํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ์˜๋ฏธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
15:48
you copy them. Why? It's a strange thing about
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. ์™œ? ์ธ๊ฐ„ ์—๊ฒŒ๋Š” ์ด์ƒํ•œ ์ผ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
15:51
humans. If you and I have things in common, for
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. ๋‹น์‹ ๊ณผ ๋‚˜์˜ ๊ณตํ†ต์ ์ด ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด,
15:56
some reason I like you more, generally. I'm not
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์™ ์ง€ ๋‚˜๋Š” ์ผ๋ฐ˜์ ์œผ๋กœ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ๋” ์ข‹์•„ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚˜๋ผ๊ณ 
16:01
saying I, people, because I think people that are
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๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒŒ ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€
16:04
different than me are cool. But generally, people,
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๋‚˜์™€ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ๋ฉ‹์ง€๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ผ๋ฐ˜์ ์œผ๋กœ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€
16:07
if you can find something in common with them
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๊ณตํ†ต์ ์„ ์ฐพ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
16:10
or they remind me of me when I was younger,
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์–ด๋ ธ์„ ๋•Œ ์ƒ๊ฐ๋‚˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด
16:14
you've got a connection with this person, you've
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์ด ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ์ธ์—ฐ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด๊ณ , ์ธ์ด
16:17
got an in. So, if you can mirror the other person
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์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
16:20
with their gestures, with their voice, with their
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๋ชธ์ง“, ๋ชฉ์†Œ๋ฆฌ,
16:24
energy level, humans like that. I don't know. Humans
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์—๋„ˆ์ง€ ์ˆ˜์ค€์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ, ์ธ๊ฐ„์ด ๊ทธ๋ž˜์š”. ๋ชจ๋ฅด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ธ๊ฐ„์€
16:29
are weird. So, the very, very first impression that
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์ด์ƒํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์•ˆํƒ€๊น๊ฒŒ๋„
16:34
you give people, unfortunately, it is important.
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ์ฃผ๋Š” ์ฒซ์ธ์ƒ์ด ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
16:39
If you need a second chance to make a first impression, you can just say to the person,
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์ฒซ์ธ์ƒ์„ ๋‚จ๊ธฐ๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ๋‘ ๋ฒˆ์งธ ๊ธฐํšŒ๊ฐ€ ํ•„์š”ํ•˜๋‹ค๋ฉด ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์—๊ฒŒ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
16:43
you know, like, "That was terrible. I'm sorry.
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"๊ทธ๊ฑด ์ •๋ง ๋”์ฐํ–ˆ์–ด์š”. ๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ด์š”.
16:46
Can we start again? I was just a terrible day
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๋‹ค์‹œ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•ด๋„ ๋ ๊นŒ์š”? ์ €๋Š” ์ •๋ง ๋”์ฐํ•œ ํ•˜๋ฃจ์˜€์–ด์š”.
16:49
for me when I first met you. So, let's... Let's start again." But in a job interview,
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์ฒ˜์Œ ๋งŒ๋‚ฌ์œผ๋‹ˆ, ๊ทธ๋Ÿผ... ๋‹ค์‹œ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜์ž." ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋ฉด์ ‘์—์„œ๋Š”
16:56
it doesn't work that way. If you're doing something for business or for work,
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ์‹์œผ๋กœ ์ž‘๋™ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‚ฌ์—…์ด๋‚˜ ์—…๋ฌด๋ฅผ ์œ„ํ•ด ๋ฌด์–ธ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด
16:59
you get one chance. So, follow my rules.
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๊ธฐํšŒ๋Š” ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ ๋ฟ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ ๋‚ด ๊ทœ์น™์„ ๋”ฐ๋ฅด์„ธ์š”.
17:03
Remember, appearance, take a shower, behavior,
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๊ธฐ์–ตํ•˜์„ธ์š”, ์™ธ๋ชจ, ์ƒค์›Œํ•˜๊ธฐ, ํ–‰๋™,
17:07
don't be mean to people, and communication.
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฌด๋ก€ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ํ–‰๋™ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ธฐ, ์˜์‚ฌ ์†Œํ†ต.
17:10
Be confident and get what you want. All right.
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์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์„ ๊ฐ–๊ณ  ์›ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์–ป์œผ์„ธ์š”. ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์€.
17:13
I'm Ronnie. I'm out of here. Please don't rub me the wrong way.
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์ €๋Š” ๋กœ๋‹ˆ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚˜๋Š” ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์„œ ๋น ์ง€ ๊ฒ ์–ด. ๋‚˜๋ฅผ ์ž˜๋ชป๋œ ๋ฐฉํ–ฅ์œผ๋กœ ๋ฌธ์ง€๋ฅด์ง€ ๋งˆ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
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์ด ์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ•™์Šต์— ์œ ์šฉํ•œ YouTube ๋™์˜์ƒ์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ „ ์„ธ๊ณ„ ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜๋“ค์ด ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ˆ˜์—…์„ ๋ณด๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ ๋™์˜์ƒ ํŽ˜์ด์ง€์— ํ‘œ์‹œ๋˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ” ํด๋ฆญํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ณณ์—์„œ ๋™์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋น„๋””์˜ค ์žฌ์ƒ์— ๋งž์ถฐ ์ž๋ง‰์ด ์Šคํฌ๋กค๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜๊ฒฌ์ด๋‚˜ ์š”์ฒญ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์ด ๋ฌธ์˜ ์–‘์‹์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ๋ฌธ์˜ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.

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