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์•„๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฌธ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ”ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋œ ์ž๋ง‰์€ ๊ธฐ๊ณ„ ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

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Is that with extra cream and marshmallows?
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์—ฌ๋ถ„์˜ ํฌ๋ฆผ๊ณผ ๋งˆ์‹œ๋ฉœ๋กœ์ธ๊ฐ€์š”?
00:01
Or is that with... just plain?
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์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ... ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ํ‰๋ฒ”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
00:04
And is it with oat milk? Or is it with soya milk,
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ท€๋ฆฌ ์šฐ์œ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ? ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ๋‘์œ ์™€ ํ•จ๊ป˜์ธ๊ฐ€์š”,
00:06
or is it with normal milk?
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์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ์ผ๋ฐ˜ ์šฐ์œ ์™€ ํ•จ๊ป˜์ธ๊ฐ€์š”?
00:07
Hot.
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Cold.
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00:07
It's too hot.
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๋”์šด.
์ถ”์šด.
๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋œจ๊ฒ๋‹ค.
00:08
Too cold.
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๋„ˆ๋ฌด ์ถฅ๋‹ค.
00:09
Too wet.
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00:09
Too dry.
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๋„ˆ๋ฌด ์ –์–ด.
๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๊ฑด์กฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:10
I find that British people are very...
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๋‚˜๋Š” ์˜๊ตญ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ๋งค์šฐ...
00:13
they don't take compliments very well.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์นญ์ฐฌ์„ ์ž˜ ๋ฐ›์•„๋“ค์ด์ง€ ์•Š๋Š”๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์•Œ๊ฒŒ ๋˜์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:15
Oh my God, that jacket;ย  that's really cool. - Nice.
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๋ง™์†Œ์‚ฌ, ๊ทธ ์žฌํ‚ท; ์ •๋ง ๋ฉ‹์ง€๋‹ค. - ๋ฉ‹์ง„.
00:19
Where did you get that?
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๊ทธ๊ฑฐ ์–ด๋””์„œ ๋‚ฌ์–ด?
00:20
Where can I get it?
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์–ด๋””์„œ ๊ตฌํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‚˜์š”?
00:21
Oh, it looks really good on you.
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์˜ค, ์ •๋ง ์ž˜ ์–ด์šธ๋ฆฌ์‹œ๋„ค์š”.
00:23
Hiya, welcome to Easy English.
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์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š” Easy English์— ์˜ค์‹  ๊ฒƒ์„ ํ™˜์˜ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:25
So this week, I wanted to approachย  the subject of small talk.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ด๋ฒˆ ์ฃผ์—๋Š” ์žก๋‹ด์ด๋ผ๋Š” ์ฃผ์ œ์— ์ ‘๊ทผํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:29
I want to know what the peopleย  of Britain talk about the most,
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์˜๊ตญ์ธ๋“ค์ด ๊ฐ€๊ฒŒ์—์„œ ์ค„์„ ์„œ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋ฒ„์Šค๋ฅผ ๊ธฐ๋‹ค๋ฆด ๋•Œ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ๋งŽ์ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋ฌด์—‡์ธ์ง€ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
00:32
while they're waiting in the queue at the shops,
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00:34
or for a bus.
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.
00:35
I wanted to know, what is appropriate
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์–ด๋–ค ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ ์ ˆ
00:37
and inappropriate small talk.
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ํ•˜๊ณ  ๋ถ€์ ์ ˆํ•œ ์žก๋‹ด์ธ์ง€ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:39
Before we get started,
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์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๊ธฐ ์ „์—
00:41
if you're a fan of Easy English,
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Easy English์˜ ํŒฌ์ด๋ผ๋ฉด
00:42
then please don't forget toย  like and subscribe to us.
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์ข‹์•„์š”์™€ ๊ตฌ๋…์„ ์žŠ์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”.
00:45
Here we go.
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์‹œ์ž‘ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:46
What in your opinion, is good,
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๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์ƒ๊ฐ์— ์ข‹์€ ๊ฒƒ์ด๋‚˜
00:48
or appropriate, maybe let's say, small talk?
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์ ์ ˆํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋ฌด์—‡์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ? ์žก๋‹ด์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ํ•ฉ์‹œ๋‹ค.
00:52
Something that interests you,
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ด€์‹ฌ์„ ๊ฐ–๋Š” ๊ฒƒ,
00:53
something that's your passion. - Okay.
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๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์—ด์ •์ธ ๊ฒƒ. - ์ข‹์•„์š”.
00:55
So you might meet somebody at the bus stop
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋ฒ„์Šค ์ •๋ฅ˜์žฅ์—์„œ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ๋งŒ๋‚˜
00:58
and have a chinwag about gardens,
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์ •์›์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„
01:00
or you might talk about the weather.
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๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋‚ ์”จ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:04
But my passion personally, is gardens.
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๊ฐœ์ธ์ ์œผ๋กœ ์ œ ์—ด์ •์€ ์ •์›์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:06
What, in your opinion, is good small talk.
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๊ธฐ์— ์ข‹์€ ์žก๋‹ด์ด๋ž€ ๋ฌด์—‡์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
01:11
The weather is probably a really safe thing
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๋‚ ์”จ๋Š” ์•„๋งˆ๋„
01:14
to talk about in the UK. - Yeah.
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์˜๊ตญ์—์„œ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ธฐ์— ์ •๋ง ์•ˆ์ „ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์ผ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. - ์‘.
01:16
Because, it's always horrible,
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ํ•ญ์ƒ ๋”์ฐํ•˜๊ณ 
01:18
which is always somethingย  to complain about. - Yeah.
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ํ•ญ์ƒ ๋ถˆํ‰ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ๋ฌธ์ œ์ด๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. - ์‘.
01:21
Or it's a nice day, which is really exciting.
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๋˜๋Š” ์ •๋ง ์‹ ๋‚˜๋Š” ์ข‹์€ ๋‚ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:24
And so everyone goes; ''oh my God, the sun is out,
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋ชจ๋‘๊ฐ€ ๊ฐ„๋‹ค. ''๋ง™์†Œ์‚ฌ, ํƒœ์–‘์ด ๋–ด๊ณ ,
01:27
the clouds are gone, oh my God!''
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๊ตฌ๋ฆ„์ด ์‚ฌ๋ผ์กŒ์–ด์š”, ๋ง™์†Œ์‚ฌ!''
01:30
And that excites people, a lot,
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01:32
since the weather is awful, a lot of the time.
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๋‚ ์”จ๊ฐ€ ๋”์ฐํ•˜๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๋งŽ์€ ์‹œ๊ฐ„ ๋™์•ˆ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์„ ํฅ๋ถ„์‹œํ‚ต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:35
Let's say that, I don't know you
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๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ๋ชจ๋ฅด๊ณ 
01:37
and we're standing at a bus stop.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋ฒ„์Šค ์ •๋ฅ˜์žฅ์— ์„œ ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๊ฐ€์ •ํ•ด ๋ด…์‹œ๋‹ค.
01:38
We're like; oh hi, how's it going?
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋งˆ์น˜; ์˜ค ์•ˆ๋…•, ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์ง€๋‚ด?
01:40
And then you say like; ''yeahย  not bad thanks, how are you?''
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ''๋„ค ๋‚˜์˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ตฐ์š” ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ์ž˜ ์ง€๋‚ด์„ธ์š”?''
01:42
Then when it becomes a bitย  like, stale and a bit awkward,
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ค๊ฐ€ ์ข€ ์ง„๋ถ€ํ•˜๊ณ  ์–ด์ƒ‰ํ•ด์กŒ์„ ๋•Œ
01:45
the first thing you go toย  is to whether, you think?
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์ œ์ผ ๋จผ์ € ์ƒ๊ฐ๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ฒŒ ๋ญ์ฃ  ?
01:47
Oh I'd say probably the weather, yeah.
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์˜ค, ์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๋‚ ์”จ๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:49
I'd say; oh, isn't it like, a nice day today,
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๋‚˜๋Š” ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค; ์˜ค, ์˜ค๋Š˜ ๋‚ ์”จ๊ฐ€ ์ข‹์€๊ฐ€์š”,
01:51
or what a strange... youย  know, day it is, you know,
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์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ์ด์ƒํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋‚˜์š”... ์•Œ๋‹ค์‹œํ”ผ , ์˜ค๋Š˜์€, ์•Œ๋‹ค์‹œํ”ผ, ๋น„๊ฐ€
01:54
because it might have beenย  raining, it might have been sunny,
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์™”์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๊ณ  , ๋ง‘์•˜์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๊ณ ,
01:57
might just, yeah... or mightย  have had a thunderstorm.
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๊ทธ๋ƒฅ, ์˜ˆ... ๋˜๋Š” ์ฒœ๋‘ฅ ๋ฒˆ๊ฐœ๊ฐ€ ์ณค์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:59
So, probably go straight to the weather.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๋‚ ์”จ์— ๊ณง๋ฐ”๋กœ ๊ฐˆ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:01
And then, I'd also, if we were waiting for a bus,
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋ฒ„์Šค๋ฅผ ๊ธฐ๋‹ค๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์žˆ์—ˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ
02:03
I'd probably say;
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๋งํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:04
ah, thank goodness that theย  bus is here in... 3 minutes.
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์•„, ๋ฒ„์Šค๊ฐ€... 3๋ถ„ ํ›„์— ๋„์ฐฉํ•ด์„œ ๋‹คํ–‰์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:09
We can all, you know, get to where you want to be.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๋ชจ๋‘๋Š” ์›ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ณณ์— ๊ฐˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:10
Ah, that's clever. So you'd apply some sort of,
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์•„, ๋˜‘๋˜‘ํ•˜๋„ค์š”. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์€
02:13
small talk in the sort of, common ground?
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์ผ์ข…์˜ ๊ณตํ†ต ๊ธฐ๋ฐ˜์—์„œ ์ผ์ข…์˜ ์ž‘์€ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์ ์šฉํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
02:15
Yeah, in the like, yeah.
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์˜ˆ, ๊ทธ๋ ‡์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:16
In where I would say like, yeah.
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๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋งํ•  ๊ณณ์—์„œ ์˜ˆ.
02:17
Say, if we're at a bus stop, or say, if we on a...
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋ฒ„์Šค ์ •๋ฅ˜์žฅ์— ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด, ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด
02:19
I dunno, in a...
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02:19
waiting for a queue in like,ย  'Costa', for example. I'd say...
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์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด 'Costa'์™€ ๊ฐ™์ด ์ค„์„ ์„œ์„œ ๊ธฐ๋‹ค๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ค‘์ธ์ง€... ์ž˜ ๋ชจ๋ฅด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋งํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ...
02:24
I'll say; I'm here for aย  coffee. Are you here for coffee?
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๋‚˜๋Š” ๋งํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค; ์ปคํ”ผ ๋งˆ์‹œ๋Ÿฌ ์™”์–ด์š”. ์ปคํ”ผ ๋งˆ์‹œ๋Ÿฌ ์™”๋‹ˆ?
02:26
Yep? Oh, brilliant! And a hot chocolate?
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๋„ค? ์˜ค, ํ›Œ๋ฅญํ•ด! ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ํ•ซ์ดˆ์ฝ”?
02:27
Oh okay, right, yeah yeah.
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์•„, ๊ทธ๋ž˜, ๋งž์•„, ๊ทธ๋ž˜ ๊ทธ๋ž˜.
02:29
Is that with extra cream and marshmallows?
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์—ฌ๋ถ„์˜ ํฌ๋ฆผ๊ณผ ๋งˆ์‹œ๋ฉœ๋กœ์ธ๊ฐ€์š”?
02:31
Or is that with... just plain?
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์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ... ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ํ‰๋ฒ”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
02:33
And is it with oat milk? Or is it with soya milk,
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ท€๋ฆฌ ์šฐ์œ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ? ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ๋‘์œ ์™€ ํ•จ๊ป˜์ธ๊ฐ€์š”,
02:35
or is it with normal milk? - That's fantastic.
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์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ์ผ๋ฐ˜ ์šฐ์œ ์™€ ํ•จ๊ป˜์ธ๊ฐ€์š”? - ํ™˜์ƒ์ ์ด์•ผ.
02:37
Er... appropriate small talk would be;
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์–ด... ์ ์ ˆํ•œ ์žก๋‹ด์€ ๋‹ค์Œ๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:40
obviously, the weather; the Britsย  are obsessed by the weather.
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๋ถ„๋ช…ํžˆ ๋‚ ์”จ; ์˜๊ตญ์ธ์€ ๋‚ ์”จ์— ์ง‘์ฐฉํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:44
Hot, cold, too hot, to cold, too wet, too dry.
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๋ฅ๋‹ค, ์ถฅ๋‹ค, ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋ฅ๋‹ค, ์ถฅ๋‹ค, ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ์Šตํ•˜๋‹ค, ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๊ฑด์กฐํ•˜๋‹ค.
02:48
General small talk, especially during now,
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์žก๋‹ด, ํŠนํžˆ ์ง€๊ธˆ์€
02:50
is are you going on holiday? - Ah, yeah.
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ํœด๊ฐ€ ๊ฐ€์‹œ๋‚˜์š”? - ์•„, ๊ทธ๋ž˜.
02:52
Have you been away? Especially with the lockdown,
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋ฉ€๋ฆฌ ์žˆ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ? ํŠนํžˆ ๋ฝ๋‹ค์šด์œผ๋กœ ์ธํ•ด
02:54
everyone's despe... desperate to get away. - Nice.
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๋ชจ๋‘๊ฐ€ ํ•„์‚ฌ์ ์œผ๋กœ... ๋„๋ง์น˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ดํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. - ๋ฉ‹์ง„.
02:57
Then we like to talk about politics, quite a lot.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๋‹ค์Œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ •์น˜์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๊ฝค ๋งŽ์ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:00
Oh really!? - Yeah. Find out about, you know,
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์˜ค, ์ง„์งœ!? - ์‘. ๋ˆ„๊ตฌ์ธ์ง€ ์•Œ์•„๋ณด์„ธ์š”
03:02
who someone... are you pro...ย  pro-Johnson? Anti-Johnson?
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... ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์นœ... ์นœ์กด์Šจ์ธ๊ฐ€์š”? ์•ˆํ‹ฐ ์กด์Šจ?
03:07
What's going on with Brexit, is also a good sm...
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Brexit์—์„œ ์ง„ํ–‰๋˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ์ผ๋„ ์ข‹์€ SM์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค...
03:10
Well, not a good bit of small...
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03:10
it's what we like to talk about.
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๊ธ€์Ž„์š”, ๊ทธ๋‹ค์ง€ ์ž‘์€ ๊ฒƒ์€ ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค...
์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:12
So anything that's kind of like, current
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ ์œผ๋กœ ํ˜„์žฌ์™€ ๊ฐ™์€ ์ข…๋ฅ˜
03:14
and that we don't have control over, basically.
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์ด๋ฉฐ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ํ†ต์ œํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:14
I would have thought that politics...
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๋‚˜๋Š” ์ •์น˜๋ผ๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ–ˆ์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค...
04:16
they all say like; oh neverย  mention politics. - Oh right, okay.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋ชจ๋‘ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•„, ์ ˆ๋Œ€ ์ •์น˜๋ฅผ ์–ธ๊ธ‰ํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”. - ์•„, ์•Œ์•˜์–ด.
04:19
But maybe... but maybe,ย  you can go into a bit more,
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์•„๋งˆ๋„... ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์•„๋งˆ๋„,
04:20
because I would like to know then;
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๊ทธ๋•Œ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์‹ถ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ์ข€ ๋” ์ž์„ธํžˆ ์•Œ์•„๋ณผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:21
what is sort of unacceptable small talk?
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๋ฐ›์•„ ๋“ค์ผ ์ˆ˜์—†๋Š” ์žก๋‹ด์€ ๋ฌด์—‡์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
04:23
Maybe you shouldn't go into;ย  what... who did you vote for?
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๋“ค์–ด๊ฐ€์ง€ ๋ง์•„์•ผ ํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ญ... ๋ˆ„๊ตฌํ•œํ…Œ ํˆฌํ‘œํ–ˆ์–ด?
04:26
Yes. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.ย  - What would you class as...
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์˜ˆ. ์˜ˆ, ์˜ˆ, ์˜ˆ, ์˜ˆ. - ๋ฌด์—‡์œผ๋กœ ๋ถ„๋ฅ˜ํ•˜์‹œ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ...
04:29
What things would you neverย  sort of, use as small talk?
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์žก๋‹ด์œผ๋กœ ์ ˆ๋Œ€ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋ฌด์—‡์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
04:32
It's a good question, because I think if your...
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์ข‹์€ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์™œ๋ƒํ•˜๋ฉด ์ œ ์ƒ๊ฐ์—๋Š”...
04:35
if I'm having a conversationย  with somebody about politics
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์™€ ์ •์น˜์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„๊ณ 
04:42
and then it goes into Brexit,
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๋‚˜์„œ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด Brexit์— ๋“ค์–ด๊ฐ€๊ณ 
04:45
and then people start saying;
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ๋งํ•˜๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•œ๋‹ค๋ฉด;
04:47
''are you pro-Brexit or anti-Brexit? - Right.
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'๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋ธŒ๋ ‰์‹œํŠธ์— ์ฐฌ์„ฑํ•˜๋Š”๊ฐ€, ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ๋ธŒ๋ ‰์‹œํŠธ์— ๋ฐ˜๋Œ€ํ•˜๋Š”๊ฐ€? - ์˜ค๋ฅธ์ชฝ.
04:49
And then it's like, oh...
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‚˜์„œ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋งˆ์น˜, ์˜ค...
04:50
and then, you know, I've been inย  conversations with people before,
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์•„์‹œ๋‹ค์‹œํ”ผ, ์ „์— ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค๊ณผ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋‚˜๋ˆˆ ์ ์ด ์žˆ๋Š”๋ฐ,
04:53
when it's gone into Brexit
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋ธŒ๋ ‰์‹œํŠธ์— ๋“ค์–ด๊ฐ”์„ ๋•Œ
04:54
and then people start talking very inappropriately
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ์ด๋ฏผ์ž์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋งค์šฐ ๋ถ€์ ์ ˆํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ–ˆ๊ณ 
04:58
about immigrants and... and then you're just like;
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... ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋งˆ์น˜ ;
05:00
Oh! - Okay. - People thinkย  that you're... with them.
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์˜ค! - ์ข‹์•„์š”. - ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ทธ๋“ค๊ณผ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:03
You're like opening up yourย  arms a but too much. - Yeah!
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ํŒ”์„ ๋ฒŒ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์ง€๋งŒ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋งŽ์ด ๋ฒŒ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. - ์‘!
05:05
People... well people justย  think that you're with them,
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค... ๊ธ€์Ž„์š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ทธ๋“ค๊ณผ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๊ณ 
05:07
if they're like, pro-Brexitย  and they start talking about
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๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋ธŒ๋ ‰์‹œํŠธ์— ์ฐฌ์„ฑํ•œ๋‹ค๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๋˜์–ด์•ผ ํ•˜๋Š”์ง€์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:10
how we should be, you know,
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05:12
inappropriately talking aboutย  stopping immigrants from coming in
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์ด๋ฏผ์ž๋“ค์ด ๋“ค์–ด์˜ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ง‰๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋ถ€์ ์ ˆํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๋‹ค๊ฐ€
05:15
and then suddenly your like, that's really not...
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๊ฐ‘์ž๊ธฐ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ข‹์•„ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค , ๊ทธ๊ฑด ์ •๋ง...
05:18
yeah, my jam. - Yeah, okay.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜, ๋‚ด ์žผ. - ๋„ค, ์•Œ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:19
It's sort of, overstepped the line.
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์ผ์ข…์˜ ์„ ์„ ๋„˜์–ด์„  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:21
But where... where is that line?
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์–ด๋””... ์ € ์„ ์€ ์–ด๋””์ฃ ?
05:22
Is it sort of, going to yourย  own personal feelings or?
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์ผ์ข…์˜ ๊ฐœ์ธ์ ์ธ ๊ฐ์ •์ธ๊ฐ€์š”?
05:26
Yeah, yeah. I think it is.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜, ๊ทธ๋ž˜. ๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•œ๋‹ค.
05:27
Well, I think it's about, in theย  same way that it would be like;
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๊ธ€์Ž„์š”, ์ œ ์ƒ๊ฐ์—๋Š” ๋Œ€๋žต ๊ฐ™์€ ๋ฐฉ์‹์ผ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:30
well, who did you vote for?
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๊ธ€์Ž„, ๋ˆ„๊ตฌ์—๊ฒŒ ํˆฌํ‘œ ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
05:31
And then, if somebody you'reย  talking to is against your beliefs,
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๋‹ค์Œ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„๋Š” ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์‹ ๋…์— ๋ฐ˜๋Œ€ํ•œ๋‹ค๋ฉด
05:35
then suddenly it goes fromย  small talk into like, a debate.
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๊ฐ‘์ž๊ธฐ ์žก๋‹ด์—์„œ ์ผ์ข…์˜ ๋…ผ์Ÿ์œผ๋กœ ๋ฐ”๋€๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:38
And then it just gets a bit...
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ค๊ฐ€ ์กฐ๊ธˆ...
05:39
What kind of small talk do youย  do when you approach someone?
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์—๊ฒŒ ๋‹ค๊ฐ€๊ฐˆ ๋•Œ ์–ด๋–ค ์ข…๋ฅ˜์˜ ์žก๋‹ด์„ ํ•˜๋‚˜์š”?
05:44
If I was to approach someone,
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์—๊ฒŒ ๋‹ค๊ฐ€๊ฐ€๋ฉด
05:45
I would ask them, how their day was.
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ํ•˜๋ฃจ๊ฐ€ ์–ด๋• ๋Š”์ง€ ๋ฌผ์–ด๋ณผ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„์š”.
05:47
I would ask them what the weather's been like and,
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๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ทธ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๋‚ ์”จ๊ฐ€ ์–ด๋• ๋Š”์ง€,
05:50
you know, things like that.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๊ฒƒ๋“ค์„ ๋ฌผ์–ด๋ณผ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:51
I'd say like; you know, what's the weather...
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๋‚˜๋Š” ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค; ๋‚ ์”จ๊ฐ€ ์–ด๋•Œ์š”...
05:53
what do you think about the weather today?
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์˜ค๋Š˜ ๋‚ ์”จ ์–ด๋•Œ์š”?
05:55
I'll just ask them... yeah, how their day was,
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๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ๊ทธ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฌผ์–ด๋ณผ๊ฒŒ... ์˜ˆ, ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ํ•˜๋ฃจ๋Š” ์–ด๋• ๋Š”์ง€,
05:57
if they've had a nice day,
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์ข‹์€ ํ•˜๋ฃจ๋ฅผ
05:59
if they've been up to anything nice recently.
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๋ณด๋ƒˆ๋Š”์ง€, ์ตœ๊ทผ์— ์ข‹์€ ์ผ์ด ์žˆ์—ˆ๋Š”์ง€.
06:01
If I was stood next to you at a bus stop
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๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋ฒ„์Šค ์ •๋ฅ˜์žฅ์—์„œ ๋‹น์‹  ์˜†์— ์„œ ์žˆ๊ณ 
06:03
and I sort of... we sort of, made eye contact
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๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์ผ์ข…์˜... ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋ˆˆ์„ ๋งˆ์ฃผ์ณค๋‹ค๋ฉด
06:06
I'd say; oh hello, how are you?
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์˜ค ์•ˆ๋…•, ์ž˜ ์ง€๋‚ด?
06:08
What... would you firstly go; oh...
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๋ญ...๋จผ์ € ๊ฐ€์‹ค๋ž˜์š”; ์˜ค...
06:09
what would you say? How... howย  would it go, our conversation?
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๋ญ๋ผ๊ณ  ํ• ๊นŒ์š”? ์–ด... ์–ด๋•Œ , ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋Š” ์–ด๋•Œ?
06:12
Oh yeah, I'd say; yeah, I'm very well, thanks.
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์˜ค ์˜ˆ, ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋„ค, ์ž˜ ์ง€๋‚ด๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:14
And how are you? And er...ย  - Yeah, very good, thanks.
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์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์ง€๋‚ด์„ธ์š”? ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์–ด... - ๋„ค, ์•„์ฃผ ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:18
Very good. And if you're from another country,
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๋งค์šฐ ์ข‹์€. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋‚˜๋ผ์—์„œ ์˜จ๋‹ค๋ฉด,
06:19
I'd ask them, where they're from.
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๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ทธ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ์–ด๋””์—์„œ ์™”๋Š”์ง€ ๋ฌผ์–ด๋ณผ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:21
Ah Yeah. - Is this (your) first visit to Brighton?
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์•„ ์˜ˆ. - ๋ธŒ๋ผ์ดํŠผ์€ ์ด๋ฒˆ์ด ์ฒ˜์Œ์ธ๊ฐ€์š”?
06:24
Ah, that's a good one. - 'Cos,ย  we used to host students,
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์•„, ๊ทธ๊ฑฐ ์ข‹์€๋ฐ. - '์™œ๋ƒํ•˜๋ฉด, ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ํ•™์ƒ์„ ํ˜ธ์ŠคํŠธํ•˜๊ณค ํ–ˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์—
06:28
so erm... from other countries,
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์Œ... ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋‚˜๋ผ์—์„œ ์™”๊ธฐ
06:30
so it's nice to know where they're from,
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๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ์–ด๋””์—์„œ ์™”๋Š”์ง€,
06:32
how long they're going to be here.
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์–ผ๋งˆ๋‚˜ ์˜ค๋ž˜ ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์— ์žˆ์„ ๊ฒƒ์ธ์ง€๋ฅผ ์•„๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:34
Say I bump into you at bus stop.
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๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋ฒ„์Šค ์ •๋ฅ˜์žฅ์—์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ๊ณผ ๋ถ€๋”ช์ณค๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ•ฉ์‹œ๋‹ค.
06:37
After we've sort of, said hello to each other,
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์–ด๋Š ์ •๋„ ์ธ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ๋‚˜๋ˆˆ ํ›„,
06:38
If we sort of, catch each others eye contact,
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์–ด๋Š ์ •๋„ ๋ˆˆ์ด ๋งˆ์ฃผ์น˜๋ฉด
06:41
Do you first like somethingย  like; oh, nice day innit?
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๋จผ์ € ๋งˆ์Œ์— ๋“œ์‹ญ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ? ์˜ค ์ข‹์€ ํ•˜๋ฃจ ๋˜์„ธ์š”?
06:45
Usually, you'd start off with,
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์ผ๋ฐ˜์ ์œผ๋กœ ์ €๋Š” ์ผ๋ฐ˜์ ์œผ๋กœ
06:47
in general, I usually justย  like, try complimenting people.
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์„ ์นญ์ฐฌํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:50
So I go; oh my God, that jacket,ย  that's really cool! - Nice.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ฐ„๋‹ค; ๋ง™์†Œ์‚ฌ, ๊ทธ ์žฌํ‚ท, ์ •๋ง ๋ฉ‹์ ธ์š”! - ๋ฉ‹์ง„.
06:54
Where did you get that? Why can I get it?
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๊ทธ๊ฑฐ ์–ด๋””์„œ ๋‚ฌ์–ด? ์™œ ๋ฐ›์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‚˜์š”?
06:56
Oh, it looks really good onย  you. Like, that kind of thing.
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์˜ค, ์ •๋ง ์ž˜ ์–ด์šธ๋ฆฌ๋„ค์š” . ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ์ข…๋ฅ˜์˜ ๊ฒƒ.
06:59
Or like, complementing people's hair or like,
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๋˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์˜ ๋จธ๋ฆฌ์นด๋ฝ์„ ๋ณด์™„ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
07:02
glasses or something. - It'sย  interesting you say that.
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์•ˆ๊ฒฝ ๊ฐ™์€ ๊ฒƒ. - ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋ง์”€ํ•˜์‹œ๋‹ˆ ํฅ๋ฏธ๋กญ๋„ค์š”.
07:06
Because, my next question was going to be around,
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์ œ ๋‹ค์Œ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์€
07:08
kind of, what is appropriate?
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์ผ์ข…์˜ ์ ์ ˆํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋ฌด์—‡์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
07:11
Because, I also would say, that I don't mind
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์™œ๋ƒํ•˜๋ฉด
07:14
if people give me a compliment, but then,
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ๋‚˜์—๊ฒŒ ์นญ์ฐฌ์„ ํ•ด๋„ ์ƒ๊ด€์—†๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€๋งŒ, ๊ทธ๋ ‡๋‹ค๋ฉด
07:16
what is like, too much? Whatย  is something you shouldn't...
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๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋งŽ์€ ๊ฒƒ์€ ์–ด๋–ค ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ? ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ํ•˜์ง€ ๋ง์•„์•ผ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์€...
07:19
because you're saying about kind of,
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ผ์ข…์˜,
07:20
personal, character traits, right? - Yeah.
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๊ฐœ์ธ์ , ์„ฑ๊ฒฉ์  ํŠน์„ฑ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค, ๊ทธ๋ ‡์ฃ ? - ์‘.
07:21
Which is kind of, on the edgeย  of maybe where the line is.
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ์•„๋งˆ๋„ ์„ ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ณณ์˜ ๊ฐ€์žฅ์ž๋ฆฌ์— ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:24
Where... where would you think the line is?
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์–ด๋””... ๋ผ์ธ์ด ์–ด๋””์— ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜์‹œ๋‚˜์š”?
07:27
I'd generally say, if it's something the person
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๋‚˜๋Š” ์ผ๋ฐ˜์ ์œผ๋กœ ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด
07:29
has clearly personalised for themselves.
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์ž์‹ ์„ ์œ„ํ•ด ๋ช…ํ™•ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๊ฐœ์ธํ™” ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์ด๋ผ๋ฉด ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:31
So not something that they can't change,
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ
07:33
such as body type or skinย  colour or maybe even eye colour.
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์ฒดํ˜•์ด๋‚˜ ํ”ผ๋ถ€์ƒ‰ ๋˜๋Š” ๋ˆˆ ์ƒ‰๊น”๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์ด ๋ณ€๊ฒฝํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:37
But if you say; thoseย  glasses, they're really nice,
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋งํ•œ๋‹ค๋ฉด; ๊ทธ ์•ˆ๊ฒฝ, ์ •๋ง ๋ฉ‹์ ธ์š”.
07:40
that's a very different compliment from;
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๊ทธ๊ฑด ์•„์ฃผ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์นญ์ฐฌ์ด์—์š”.
07:42
oh, you have beautiful eyes. - Right, I see.
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์˜ค, ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์•„๋ฆ„๋‹ค์šด ๋ˆˆ์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. - ์•Œ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:46
Or erm... I really love theย  way you've done your hair,
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์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ์Œ... ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๋จธ๋ฆฌ ์Šคํƒ€์ผ์ด ์ •๋ง ๋งˆ์Œ์— ๋“ค์–ด์š”.
07:49
that can be a bit...
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๊ทธ๊ฑด ์•ฝ๊ฐ„์ผ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์–ด์š”...
07:54
But yeah, I'd say generally something that
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์˜ˆ, ์ผ๋ฐ˜์ ์œผ๋กœ
07:56
someone has clearly personalised about themselves
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ์ž์‹ ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋ช…ํ™•ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๊ฐœ์ธํ™”
07:59
and they've made a conscious effort for.
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ํ•˜๊ณ  ์˜์‹์ ์œผ๋กœ ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. .
08:01
What is too far? Like, whatย  would you never sort of,
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๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋จผ ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋ฌด์—‡์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ? ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด,
08:03
bring up in small talk?
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์ž‘์€ ๋Œ€ํ™”์—์„œ ์ ˆ๋Œ€ ๊บผ๋‚ด์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋ฌด์—‡์ธ๊ฐ€์š”?
08:04
I'd probably... oh sorry. - No, no, go on, sorry.
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์•„๋งˆ... ์•„ ์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. - ์•„๋ƒ, ์•„๋ƒ, ๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ด.
08:06
I probably wouldn't ask too much,
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๋‚˜๋Š” ์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋งŽ์ด ๋ฌป์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:08
I'd probably just keep it like, to the minimum,
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์•„๋งˆ๋„ ์ตœ์†Œํ•œ์œผ๋กœ ์œ ์ง€ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚˜๋Š”
08:11
I wouldn't... I wouldn't say, maybe, things like;
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... ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋งํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:13
you don't know what's gone on with people's pasts.
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์˜ ๊ณผ๊ฑฐ์— ๋ฌด์Šจ ์ผ์ด ์žˆ์—ˆ๋Š”์ง€ ๋ชจ๋ฆ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์นœ์ฒ™์ด ์ตœ๊ทผ์— ์‚ฌ๋งํ–ˆ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๊ฐ€์กฑ์ด ์—†๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ์™€ ๊ฐ™์ด
08:15
I probably wouldn't ask anything about family,
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๊ฐ€์กฑ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋ฌป์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
08:17
in case like, a relative recently died,
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08:19
or, maybe they don't even have family.
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.
08:22
So I'll probably just keep it to like basic,
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ €๋Š” ์•„๋งˆ ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ ์ธ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์œผ๋กœ ์œ ์ง€ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
08:24
you know, conversation.
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. ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ
08:25
Something along the linesย  of like, yeah, the weather,
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๋“ค์–ด, ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด ๋‚ ์”จ,
08:27
maybe the situation, but have a little bit of,
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์ƒํ™ฉ์ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ
08:30
you know, maybe a little bit of banter,
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์•ฝ๊ฐ„์˜ ๋†๋‹ด์ด ์žˆ์„ ์ˆ˜
08:31
but not too much, because it might offend someone,
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์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋งŽ์ง€๋Š” ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ํ™”๋‚˜๊ฒŒ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์—
08:33
you obviously don't knowย  what's gone on in their life.
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋ถ„๋ช…ํžˆ ๋ชจ๋ฆ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ์‚ถ์—์„œ ๋ฌด์Šจ ์ผ์ด ์žˆ์—ˆ๋Š”์ง€.
08:36
So you keep it outside of theย  realm of personality or...
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ์„ฑ๊ฒฉ์ด๋‚˜... ์„ฑ๊ฒฉ์˜ ์˜์—ญ ๋ฐ–์— ์œ ์ง€ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
08:39
character. - Yes. Or say ifย  like, they've got pink hair,
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. - ์˜ˆ. ๋˜๋Š” ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋ถ„ํ™์ƒ‰ ๋จธ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด,
08:42
I might say like; you've got very cool pink hair.
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๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์•„์ฃผ ๋ฉ‹์ง„ ๋ถ„ํ™์ƒ‰ ๋จธ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:44
Oh, okay. - Or like, a nice denim jacket,
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์•„, ๊ทธ๋ž˜์š”. - ๋˜๋Š” ๋ฉ‹์ง„ ๋ฐ๋‹˜ ์žฌํ‚ท์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ
08:47
might ask where they've got the denim jacket from
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๋ฐ๋‹˜ ์žฌํ‚ท์„ ์–ด๋””์„œ ๊ตฌํ–ˆ๋Š”์ง€ ๋ฌผ์„ ์ˆ˜๋„
08:49
and that's probably about it. - Very good.
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์žˆ๊ณ  ์•„๋งˆ ๊ทธ๊ฒŒ ์ „๋ถ€์ผ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. - ๋งค์šฐ ์ข‹์€.
08:51
'Cos I don't want to offend anyone.
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'์™œ๋ƒํ•˜๋ฉด ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋ˆ„๊ตฌ์—๊ฒŒ๋„ ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋‚ด๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:53
Say like, I wanted to give you a compliment
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์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๋จธ๋ฆฌ์นด๋ฝ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์นญ์ฐฌ์„ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:54
about your hair or about...
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08:58
in terms of like, physicalit... in terms of like,
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์œก์ฒด์ ์ธ ๋ฉด์—์„œ... ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๋ฉด์—์„œ,
09:00
the character traits or... yeah,ย  character traits, let's say.
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์„ฑ๊ฒฉ ํŠน์„ฑ ๋˜๋Š”... ์˜ˆ, ์„ฑ๊ฒฉ ํŠน์„ฑ, ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด ๋ณด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:03
Yeah. - Where could you draw theย  line? Where would the line be?
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์‘. - ์–ด๋””์— ์„ ์„ ๊ทธ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ? ๋ผ์ธ์€ ์–ด๋””์— ์žˆ์„๊นŒ์š”?
09:06
What's acceptable?
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09:06
Can I give you a complimentย  in small talk? Is that okay?
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๋ฌด์—‡์ด ํ—ˆ์šฉ๋˜๋‚˜์š”? ์žก๋‹ด์œผ๋กœ
์นญ์ฐฌ์„ ํ•ด๋„ ๋ ๊นŒ์š” ? ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
09:09
I think, definitely.
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๋‚˜๋Š” ํ™•์‹คํžˆ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•œ๋‹ค.
09:11
I think compliments... personally,
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์นญ์ฐฌ์€... ๊ฐœ์ธ์ ์œผ๋กœ
09:13
I think compliments are always good. - Okay.
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์นญ์ฐฌ์€ ์–ธ์ œ๋‚˜ ์ข‹์€ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„์š”. - ์ข‹์•„์š”.
09:15
You'll find... I find, thatย  British people are very er...
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์•Œ๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค... ์ œ ์ƒ๊ฐ์— ์˜๊ตญ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ๋งค์šฐ ์–ด...
09:19
they don't take compliments very well.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์นญ์ฐฌ์„ ์ž˜ ๋ฐ›์•„๋“ค์ด์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:22
So, for example, if you said;
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์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋งํ–ˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด;
09:24
''I like your hair'', I'd go;
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''๋‚˜๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๋จธ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ์ข‹์•„ํ•œ๋‹ค'', ๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ฐˆ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค;
09:25
Oh, it's... it's a mess. It's a mess.
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์•„, ๊ทธ๊ฑด... ์—‰๋ง์ด์•ผ. ์—‰๋ง์ด์•ผ.
09:27
Oh no, it's... oh, I need it... it needs cutting,
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์˜ค ์•ˆ๋ผ, ๊ทธ๊ฒŒ... ์•„, ํ•„์š”ํ•ด... ์ปทํŒ…์ด ํ•„์š”ํ•˜๋‹ค๊ฑฐ๋‚˜,
09:29
or it's dry or it's this...
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๊ฑด์กฐํ•˜๋‹ค๊ฑฐ๋‚˜, ์ด๊ฑด... ์žก๋‹ดํ•  ๋•Œ
09:31
Are there any subjects you just can't approach,
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์ ‘๊ทผํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†๋Š” ์ฃผ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๋‚˜์š”
09:33
when it comes to small talk?
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?
09:36
Well, you wouldn't get too personal, would you?
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๊ธ€์Ž„, ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๊ฐœ์ธ์ ์ด์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค, ๊ทธ๋ ‡์ฃ ?
09:38
In what way? - Well, about yourย  life, too much about your life.
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์–ด๋–ค ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์œผ๋กœ? - ์Œ, ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์‚ถ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด, ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์‚ถ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋งŽ์ด์š”.
09:42
What goes on in your life.
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๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์‚ถ์—์„œ ์ผ์–ด๋‚˜๋Š” ์ผ.
09:44
You wouldn't ask someone aboutย  what? Like, their parents?
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฌด์—‡์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋ฌป์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ? ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ๋ถ€๋ชจ๋‹˜?
09:46
Or about their... - Only if I knew them. - Yeah.
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์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜... - ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๊ทธ๋“ค์„ ์•ˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด. - ์‘. ๋ฒ„์Šค ์ •๋ฅ˜์žฅ์—์„œ
09:49
Not small talk with someoneย  at a bus stop. - No? - No.
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์™€ ์žก๋‹ด์„ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . - ์•„๋‹ˆ์š”? - ์•„๋‡จ.
09:52
Just; how you doing? And, off you go.
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๊ทธ๋ƒฅ; ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์ง€๋‚ด? ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋– ๋‚˜์„ธ์š”.
09:56
What you up to today,ย  basically? Is a good one? Yeah.
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์˜ค๋Š˜ ๋ญํ•ด? ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ ์œผ๋กœ? ์ข‹์€๊ฐ€์š”? ์‘.
09:58
That's nice. - Just keep it simple.
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์ข‹๋„ค์š”. - ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•˜๊ฒŒ ํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
10:00
And then how far, is too far, inย  terms of small talk, d'you think?
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๋‹ค์Œ ์ž‘์€ ๋Œ€ํ™”์˜ ๊ด€์ ์—์„œ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋ฉ€๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜์‹ญ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
10:03
Well obviously, is to say;ย  ''oh, you look sexy in that'',
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๊ธ€์Ž„, ๋ถ„๋ช…ํžˆ ๋งํ•˜์ž๋ฉด; ''์˜ค, ๋„ˆ ์„น์‹œํ•ด ๋ณด์—ฌ'',
10:06
or... - Okay, yeah. - ''you look hot in that'',
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์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด... - ๊ทธ๋ž˜, ๊ทธ๋ž˜. - ''๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์—์„œ ๋œจ๊ฒ๊ฒŒ ๋ณด์ธ๋‹ค'',
10:09
if it's a girl and er... a bloke say;
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๋งŒ์•ฝ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ์—ฌ์ž์ด๊ณ  ์–ด... ๋‚จ์ž๋ผ๋ฉด ๋ง;
10:13
''yeah, you... you look a bit odd in that''.
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''๊ทธ๋ž˜, ๋„ˆ...๋„ˆ ์ข€ ์ด์ƒํ•ด ๋ณด์—ฌ''.
10:16
That'd be sort of, inappropriate. Not very...
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ผ์ข…์˜ ๋ถ€์ ์ ˆํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋‹ค์ง€...
10:19
Hopefully, that's obvious to people. - Yeah.
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๋ฐ”๋ผ๊ฑด๋Œ€, ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๋ช…๋ฐฑํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. - ์‘.
10:22
So maybe, clothing wise, say they'reย  wearing a nice jacket. - Yeah.
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์˜ท์„ ์ž˜ ์ž…๋Š”๋‹ค๋ฉด ๋ฉ‹์ง„ ์žฌํ‚ท์„ ์ž…๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. - ์‘.
10:27
For women, it can be a little bit harder,
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์—ฌ์„ฑ์˜ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ์—๋Š” ์กฐ๊ธˆ ๋” ์–ด๋ ค์šธ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:30
'cos there are a lot of very creepy people.
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๋งค์šฐ ์†Œ๋ฆ„ ๋ผ์น˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ๋งŽ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:33
So say, if you're complimenting a top,
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์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด ์ƒ์˜๋ฅผ ์นญ์ฐฌํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ
10:37
I'd say the top has to be worthย  giving compliments to. - Right!
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์ƒ์˜๋Š” ์นญ์ฐฌํ•  ๊ฐ€์น˜๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์–ด์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . - ์˜ค๋ฅธ์ชฝ!
10:40
Rather than just saying;ย  ''you have a really nice top''
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๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋ณด๋‹ค; ''๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ •๋ง ์ข‹์€ ์ƒ๋‹จ์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ ''
10:43
and staring at it.
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ณ๋‹ค๋ณด๊ณ .
10:44
Whereas, if you're wearing, Iย  don't know, a 'SpongeBob' top,
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๋ฐ˜๋ฉด์— '์Šคํฐ์ง€๋ฐฅ' ์ƒ์˜๋ฅผ ์ž…๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด ์ž˜ ๋ชจ๋ฅด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
10:46
you go; ''oh, that's a reallyย  cool 'SpongeBob' top''. - Yeah.
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. ''์˜ค, ์ •๋ง ๋ฉ‹์ง„ '์Šคํฐ์ง€๋ฐฅ' ์ƒ์˜''. - ์‘.
10:49
So where it's kind of, worthย  complimenting, sort of,
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์นญ์ฐฌํ•  ๋งŒํ•œ ๊ฐ€์น˜๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๊ณ 
10:53
and the person has clearly put some thought
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๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด
10:55
and effort into it, a little bit.
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์•ฝ๊ฐ„์˜ ์ƒ๊ฐ๊ณผ ๋…ธ๋ ฅ์„ ๋ถ„๋ช…ํžˆ ๊ธฐ์šธ์ธ ๊ณณ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:57
Thanks for watching this week's episode.
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์ด๋ฒˆ ์ฃผ ์—ํ”ผ์†Œ๋“œ๋ฅผ ์‹œ์ฒญํ•ด์ฃผ์…”์„œ ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:59
Please write in the comments below,
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์•„๋ž˜ ๋Œ“๊ธ€๋กœ
11:00
any advice you have for good small talk subjects
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์ข‹์€ ์žก๋‹ด ์ฃผ์ œ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์กฐ์–ธ์„ ์ ์–ด์ฃผ์„ธ์š”.
11:03
and we'll see you next week, te-ra.
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๋‹ค์Œ ์ฃผ์— ๋ต™๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค, ํ…Œ๋ผ.
์ด ์›น์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ ์ •๋ณด

์ด ์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ•™์Šต์— ์œ ์šฉํ•œ YouTube ๋™์˜์ƒ์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ „ ์„ธ๊ณ„ ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜๋“ค์ด ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ˆ˜์—…์„ ๋ณด๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ ๋™์˜์ƒ ํŽ˜์ด์ง€์— ํ‘œ์‹œ๋˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ” ํด๋ฆญํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ณณ์—์„œ ๋™์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋น„๋””์˜ค ์žฌ์ƒ์— ๋งž์ถฐ ์ž๋ง‰์ด ์Šคํฌ๋กค๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜๊ฒฌ์ด๋‚˜ ์š”์ฒญ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์ด ๋ฌธ์˜ ์–‘์‹์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ๋ฌธ์˜ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.

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