Always have something to say in English conversations

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Business English with Christina


์•„๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฌธ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ”ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋œ ์ž๋ง‰์€ ๊ธฐ๊ณ„ ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

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- Hi there, and welcome to Speak English with Christina
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- ์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”. Speak English with Christina์— ์˜ค์‹  ๊ฒƒ์„ ํ™˜์˜ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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where you'll learn American culture and business know how
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์—ฌ๊ธฐ์—์„œ ๋ฏธ๊ตญ ๋ฌธํ™”์™€ ๋น„์ฆˆ๋‹ˆ์Šค๋ฅผ ๋ฐฐ์šฐ๊ณ 
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to become confident in English
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์˜์–ด์— ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์„ ๊ฐ–๊ฒŒ ๋˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ์•Œ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฏธ๋‹ˆ ์ฝ”์Šค์˜
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and welcome back for the next part in our mini course
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๋‹ค์Œ ๋ถ€๋ถ„์— ๋‹ค์‹œ ์˜ค์‹  ๊ฒƒ์„ ํ™˜์˜ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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and today's episode is all about how to always have
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something to say and to hesitate less in conversations
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๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ๋Œ€ํ™”์—์„œ ์ฃผ์ €ํ•˜์ง€ ๋ง๊ณ 
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and as always, if you want to activate the subtitles
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ํ•ญ์ƒ ๊ทธ๋ ‡๋“ฏ์ด
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for this video, go ahead and click on that little CC icon
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์ด ๋น„๋””์˜ค์˜ ์ž๋ง‰์„ ํ™œ์„ฑํ™”ํ•˜๋ ค๋ฉด ์ž‘์€ CC ์•„์ด์ฝ˜
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and just a reminder, this is part of our free mini course,
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๊ณผ ์•Œ๋ฆผ์„ ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ Confident Conversation์ด๋ผ๋Š” ๋ฌด๋ฃŒ ๋ฏธ๋‹ˆ ๊ณผ์ •์˜ ์ผ๋ถ€์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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which is called Confident Conversation Skills:
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๊ธฐ์ˆ :
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Small Talk Strategies For Big Success
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ํฐ ์„ฑ๊ณต์„ ์œ„ํ•œ ์žก๋‹ด ์ „๋žต
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and it's all about helping you feel more confident
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š”
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in your small talk conversations,
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์ธ๋งฅ์„
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so that you can, you know, make connections
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์Œ“๊ณ 
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and advance in your career
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๊ฒฝ๋ ฅ์„ ๋ฐœ์ „์‹œํ‚ฌ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋„๋ก ์žก๋‹ด ๋Œ€ํ™”์—์„œ ๋” ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์„ ๊ฐ–๋„๋ก ๋„์™€์ฃผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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and if you want to get all of the lessons
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00:49
that I'll send in the future,
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์•ž์œผ๋กœ ๋ณด๋‚ด๋“œ๋ฆฌ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:51
go ahead and sign up at christinarebuffet.com
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๊ณ„์†ํ•ด์„œ christinarebuffet.com์— ๊ฐ€์ž…ํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด
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and I'll send you a new English lesson every Tuesday
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๋งค์ฃผ ํ™”์š”์ผ์— ์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ์˜์–ด ์ˆ˜์—…์„ ๋ณด๋‚ด๋“œ๋ฆฌ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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and you'll be a part of our
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋ฉด ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์€
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Speak English Ambassador community
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Speak English Ambassador ์ปค๋ฎค๋‹ˆํ‹ฐ์˜ ์ผ์›์ด ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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and today is part three of our mini course
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์˜ค๋Š˜์€ ๋ฏธ๋‹ˆ ์ฝ”์Šค์˜ 3๋ถ€์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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and it's about how to always have something to say
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ ํ•ญ์ƒ ํ•  ๋ง์ด ์žˆ๊ณ 
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and hesitate less in conversations,
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๋Œ€ํ™”์—์„œ ๋œ ์ฃผ์ €ํ•˜์—ฌ
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so that you feel more confident
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์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์ด ์ƒ๊ธฐ๊ณ 
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and you feel more comfortable
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ํŽธ์•ˆํ•ด ์ง€๋„๋ก ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด
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and we're going to look at specifically
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๊ตฌ์ฒด์ ์œผ๋กœ ์•Œ์•„๋ณด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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how to make connections and share personal information
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in a small talk conversation
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because connecting with the other person is the key
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ์˜ ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ์€
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to you know, using small talk wisely
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์žก๋‹ด์„ ํ˜„๋ช…ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์‚ฌ์šฉ
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and having a good small talk conversation.
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ํ•˜๊ณ  ์ข‹์€ ์žก๋‹ด ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์•„๋Š” ์—ด์‡ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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So in this lesson, we're going to look at key vocabulary,
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ด๋ฒˆ ๋ ˆ์Šจ์—์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ฃผ์š” ์–ดํœ˜,
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discourse markers and we'll also see what those are exactly
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๋‹ดํ™” ํ‘œ์ง€๋ฅผ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณด๊ณ  ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ๋“ค์ด ์ •ํ™•ํžˆ ๋ฌด์—‡์ธ์ง€๋„ ๋ณผ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
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but for now, just know that they are essential
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if you want to sound relaxed and natural.
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. ๋Œ€ํ™”์˜ ์ฃผ์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋ฌด์—‡์ด๋“  ๊ด€๊ณ„์—†์ด ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ๊ณผ์˜ ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ์—
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We'll look at a conversation strategy that is very effective
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๋งค์šฐ ํšจ๊ณผ์ ์ธ ๋Œ€ํ™” ์ „๋žต์„ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณด๊ณ 
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for connecting with the other person,
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01:59
no matter what the topic of conversation
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and we'll also look at some cultural insights
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๋ฌธํ™”์  ํ†ต์ฐฐ๋ ฅ
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and the American conversation style
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๊ณผ ํ•ฉ์˜๋ฅผ ์ฐพ๋Š” ๋ฏธ๊ตญ์‹ ๋Œ€ํ™” ์Šคํƒ€์ผ๋„ ์‚ดํŽด๋ด…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
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of looking for consensus.
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.
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So let's get into the key vocabulary
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ํ•ต์‹ฌ ์–ดํœ˜
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and the discourse markers
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์™€ ๋‹ดํ™” ํ‘œ์ง€์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์•Œ์•„๋ณด๊ณ 
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and to start, we will just define,
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์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด
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you know, what are discourse markers?
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๋‹ดํ™” ํ‘œ์ง€๊ฐ€ ๋ฌด์—‡์ธ์ง€ ์ •์˜ํ•˜๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:20
They are these little words and phrases that are used
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02:23
in conversations to show reactions, transitions,
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๋ฐ˜์‘, ์ „ํ™˜,
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to show interest et cetera,
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๊ด€์‹ฌ ํ‘œ์‹œ ๋“ฑ์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ฃผ๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ๋Œ€ํ™”์—์„œ ์‚ฌ์šฉ๋˜๋Š” ์ž‘์€ ๋‹จ์–ด์™€ ๋ฌธ๊ตฌ์ด๋ฉฐ ๋Œ€ํ™”์˜
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and they are a big part of spoken conversations.
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ํฐ ๋ถ€๋ถ„์„ ์ฐจ์ง€ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
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Like according to studies by linguists,
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์–ธ์–ดํ•™์ž์˜ ์—ฐ๊ตฌ์— ๋”ฐ๋ฅด๋ฉด
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65% of sentences in conversations
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๋Œ€ํ™” ๋ฌธ์žฅ์˜ 65%๊ฐ€
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begin with discourse markers
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๋‹ดํ™” ํ‘œ์ง€๋กœ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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and something that I've noticed in 15 years
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์ œ๊ฐ€ 15๋…„ ๋™์•ˆ
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of teaching students, adult students
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ํ•™์ƒ๋“ค์„ ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋ฉด์„œ ์•Œ์•„์ฐจ๋ฆฐ ์ ์€ ์„ฑ์ธ ํ•™์ƒ๋“ค์€ ๋Œ€ํ™”์—์„œ ๊ทœ์น™์ ์œผ๋กœ
02:51
is that very few students use them
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์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋Š” ํ•™์ƒ์ด ๊ฑฐ์˜ ์—†๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
02:54
regularly in their conversation,
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.
02:57
but like I said, they are essential
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋งํ–ˆ๋“ฏ์ด,
02:59
if you want to sound natural and friendly.
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์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ณ  ์นœ๊ทผํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋“ค๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๋ฉด ํ•„์ˆ˜์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:02
So we're going to look at five very common discourse markers
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” 5๊ฐ€์ง€ ๋งค์šฐ ์ผ๋ฐ˜์ ์ธ ๋‹ดํ™” ๋งˆ์ปค
03:07
and how you can use them in your conversation.
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์™€ ๋Œ€ํ™”์—์„œ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
03:10
We're going to look at actually, well,
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณผ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์Œ,
03:15
so anyway, you're kidding and I know what you mean.
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์–ด์จŒ๋“ , ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋†๋‹ด ์ด๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์˜๋ฏธํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ”๋ฅผ ์••๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:21
You can see a discourse marker,
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๋‹ดํ™” ๋งˆ์ปค๋ฅผ ๋ณผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:23
sometimes it's just a single word,
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๋•Œ๋กœ๋Š” ํ•œ ๋‹จ์–ด์ผ ์ˆ˜๋„
03:25
but sometimes it can be a complete sentence.
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์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ ๋•Œ๋กœ๋Š” ์™„์ „ํ•œ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์ด ๋  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:28
We're going to look at each one individually,
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ฐ๊ฐ์„ ๊ฐœ๋ณ„์ ์œผ๋กœ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณผ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:31
we'll define it, you know, how it works
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ •์˜ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์ž‘๋™ํ•˜๋Š”์ง€,
03:34
and I'll give you an example of how you would use it
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด ์žก๋‹ด ๋Œ€ํ™”์—์„œ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋Š”์ง€์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋ณด์—ฌ๋“œ๋ฆฌ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
03:38
in a small talk conversation.
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.
03:40
So actually, this modifies or contradicts
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ์ด๊ฒƒ์€
03:44
what the other person said.
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์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์ด ๋งํ•œ ๋‚ด์šฉ์„ ์ˆ˜์ •ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋ชจ์ˆœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ๋ฐ”๋กœ์žก๋Š”
03:45
It's like a polite way of correcting someone
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์ •์ค‘ํ•œ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์œผ๋ฉฐ
03:49
and it does not mean at the moment.
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์ง€๊ธˆ์€ ์˜๋ฏธ๊ฐ€ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:54
In some languages, I know that words that look similar
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์ผ๋ถ€ ์–ธ์–ด์—์„œ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ์™€ ๋น„์Šทํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋ณด์ด๋Š” ๋‹จ์–ด๋Š”
03:57
to actually, they mean now or currently or at the moment,
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์ง€๊ธˆ ๋˜๋Š” ํ˜„์žฌ ๋˜๋Š” ํ˜„์žฌ๋ฅผ ์˜๋ฏธ
04:02
but that's a false friend.
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ฑฐ์ง“ ์นœ๊ตฌ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:04
So in a conversation, let's imagine you're at a conference
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๋Œ€ํ™” ์ค‘์— ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด ํšŒ์˜์— ์ฐธ์„ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š”๋ฐ
04:09
and someone asks you, you know,
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์—๊ฒŒ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋ฌป๋Š”๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ์ƒํ•ด ๋ณด์„ธ์š”.
04:12
oh is this your first time at the conference?
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04:15
Well, it's not.
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๊ธ€์Ž„์š”.
04:16
So you can very nicely correct them
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ๋“ค์„ ์•„์ฃผ ํ›Œ๋ฅญํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๊ณ ์น  ์ˆ˜
04:18
and just say well actually, this is my fourth year here.
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์žˆ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ์ž˜ ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
04:22
So you modify or contradict what the other person says,
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์ด ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ˆ˜์ •ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋ฐ˜๋ฐ•ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ,
04:26
but of course, in a very natural polite way.
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๋ฌผ๋ก  ๋งค์šฐ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด ๊ณต์†ํ•œ ๋ฐฉ์‹์œผ๋กœ ๋ง์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:30
Well, this makes a disagreement more polite.
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๊ธ€์Ž„, ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๋ถˆ์ผ์น˜๋ฅผ ๋” ์ •์ค‘ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ๋“ญ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:34
So for example, someone says, oh your brother's a policeman.
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์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ๋งํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ค, ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ํ˜•์€ ๊ฒฝ์ฐฐ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:38
That must be pretty exciting and in reality, not really.
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ฝค ํฅ๋ฏธ๋กญ๊ณ  ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ๋Š” ๊ทธ๋ ‡์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:41
So you would say, well,
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์€
04:44
I think it's more stressful than exciting.
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ํฅ๋ฏธ์ง„์ง„ํ•˜๋‹ค๊ธฐ๋ณด๋‹ค๋Š” ์ŠคํŠธ๋ ˆ์Šค๊ฐ€ ๋งŽ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:46
So you're politely disagreeing
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ •์ค‘ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋™์˜ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์ง€๋งŒ
04:49
but the well is also very useful
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์šฐ๋ฌผ์€ ๋˜ํ•œ
04:53
to give you time to think and to find your words.
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๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ์ƒ๊ฐ ํ•˜๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๋ง์„ ์ฐพ์„ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ์ฃผ๋Š” ๋ฐ ๋งค์šฐ ์œ ์šฉํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:57
So for example, someone says,
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์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:59
well what do you think of the new director?
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์ƒˆ ๊ฐ๋…์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜์„ธ์š”?
05:02
And you're not sure what you want to say.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ๊ฒƒ์ด ํ™•์‹คํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:04
You can take a minute to think and, you know, well,
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•  ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ๊ฐ€์งˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ณ  , ์Œ,
05:10
hmm, he's not too bad, I guess
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์Œ, ๊ทธ๋Š” ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋‚˜์˜์ง€ ์•Š์€ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„์š”.
05:13
and that is a very natural way of hesitating
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€
05:18
to look for your words.
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๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๋ง์„ ์ฐพ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ฃผ์ €ํ•˜๋Š” ๋งค์šฐ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:19
So you don't always have to have a response
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์›Œ์ง€๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ํ•ญ์ƒ ์ฆ‰๊ฐ์ ์œผ๋กœ ๋ฐ˜์‘ํ•  ํ•„์š”๋Š” ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
05:22
immediately to be natural.
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.
05:25
So anyway, this is a very smooth way to change the topic,
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์–ด์จŒ๋“  ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์ฃผ์ œ๋ฅผ ๋ฐ”๊พธ๋Š” ๋งค์šฐ ๋ถ€๋“œ๋Ÿฌ์šด ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ด๋ฉฐ ์ฃผ์ œ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€
05:31
especially useful if you don't want to talk about a subject.
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์•Š์€ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ์— ํŠนํžˆ ์œ ์šฉํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
05:36
So for example, someone wants to talk about politics
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์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด ์–ด๋–ค ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์ •์น˜์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ดํ•˜๋Š”๋ฐ
05:39
and they say, ah, I can't believe
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05:41
that the president said that.
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๋Œ€ํ†ต๋ น์ด ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๋ง์„ ํ–ˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒŒ ๋ฏฟ๊ธฐ์ง€ ์•Š๋Š”๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋งํ•˜๋Š”
05:43
You can acknowledge what they say, like, yeah, I know
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๊ฒƒ์„ ์ธ์ •ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, ์˜ˆ, ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ
05:47
and then change the topic.
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๋‹ค์Œ ์ฃผ์ œ๋ฅผ ๋ณ€๊ฒฝํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
05:48
So anyway, got any plans for the weekend.
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์—ฌํ•˜ํŠผ, ์ฃผ๋ง์— ์–ด๋–ค ๊ณ„ํš์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€.
05:52
That's a very natural polite way of doing that
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋งค์šฐ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด ๊ณต์†ํ•œ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•
05:57
and then, you're kidding.
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์ด๋ฉฐ ๋†๋‹ด์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:59
This is very useful to show a reaction after a coincidence
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์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์šฐ์—ฐ์˜ ์ผ์น˜
06:04
or something surprising that someone says.
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๋‚˜ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ๋งํ•œ ๋†€๋ผ์šด ์ผ ์ดํ›„์˜ ๋ฐ˜์‘์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ค„ ๋•Œ ๋งค์šฐ ์œ ์šฉํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:08
For example, someone says, oh my daughter went to New York
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์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ๋งํ•˜๊ธฐ๋ฅผ, ์˜ค ๋‚ด ๋”ธ์ด ์ž‘๋…„์— ์˜์–ด ๊ณต๋ถ€๋ฅผ ํ•˜๋Ÿฌ ๋‰ด์š•์— ๊ฐ”๊ณ 
06:10
to study English last year
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06:13
and oh, it's a coincidence because
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์˜ค,
06:16
your son was in New York also
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๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์•„๋“ค๋„ ๋‰ด์š•์— ๊ฐ”๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ์šฐ์—ฐ์˜ ์ผ์น˜์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:18
and you can say, oh you're kidding, so did my son
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06:21
but to study architecture.
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๊ฑด์ถ•ํ•™.
06:23
So that's a good way of, you know,
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ข‹์€ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:25
showing a reaction to something
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๋ฌด์–ธ๊ฐ€์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋ฐ˜์‘์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ฃผ๊ณ 
06:28
and finally, I know what you mean.
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๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰์œผ๋กœ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์˜๋ฏธํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ”๋ฅผ ์••๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:31
This is a way of saying I understand your point of view,
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์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๊ด€์ ์„ ์ดํ•ดํ•˜๊ณ 
06:35
I sympathize with you.
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๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ๊ณต๊ฐํ•œ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ์‹์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:37
So imagine you come out of a very long meeting
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋™๋ฃŒ์™€์˜ ์•„์ฃผ ๊ธด ํšŒ์˜์—์„œ ๋‚˜์™”๊ณ 
06:40
with a colleague and the colleague is like geesh,
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๊ทธ ๋™๋ฃŒ๊ฐ€ ๊ดด์ƒํ•œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ ๊ฐ™๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ์ƒํ•ด๋ณด์„ธ์š”.
06:43
that was the longest meeting ever
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ๊ธด ํšŒ์˜์˜€์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:46
and you can say yeah, I know what you mean,
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์˜ˆ, ๋ฌด์Šจ ๋ง์ธ์ง€ ์•Œ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:49
time for a coffee break and it just shows that you are
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์ปคํ”ผ ๋ธŒ๋ ˆ์ดํฌ๋ฅผ ํ•  ์‹œ๊ฐ„์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:52
sympathizing or that you understand the other person.
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๊ณต๊ฐํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์„ ์ดํ•ดํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:55
It's a great way to build a connection.
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์—ฐ๊ฒฐ์„ ๊ตฌ์ถ•ํ•˜๋Š” ์ข‹์€ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:59
Now, let's look at that conversation strategy
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์ด์ œ
07:02
for connecting with the other person.
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์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ๊ณผ ์—ฐ๊ฒฐํ•˜๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•œ ๋Œ€ํ™” ์ „๋žต์„ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณด์ž.
07:05
So what you want to do here is to identify
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์—ฌ๊ธฐ์„œ ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ๊ฒƒ์€
07:08
things that you have in common.
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด ๊ณตํ†ต์ ์œผ๋กœ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์‹๋ณ„ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:10
This creates trust, it builds rapport
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์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์‹ ๋ขฐ๋ฅผ ํ˜•์„ฑํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ๊ตฌ์ถ•ํ•˜๋ฉฐ ๋น„์ฆˆ๋‹ˆ์Šค์—์„œ
07:14
and it shows that you have a connection together
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ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ๋˜์–ด ์žˆ์Œ์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ค๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
07:17
and in business, this is very important
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. ์ด๋Š” ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์™€ ๊ฐ™์€ ๊ด€์‹ฌ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์ง„ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ๊ฐ€์น˜๋ฅผ ๊ณต์œ ํ•˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค
07:20
because we want to work with people who share our values,
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๊ณผ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์ผํ•˜๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ์›ํ•˜๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์—
07:25
not necessarily who have the same interests as us,
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07:29
that can help, but it's really more about showing
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๋„์›€์ด ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€
07:32
that you have some kind of similar values
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋น„์Šทํ•œ ๊ฐ€์น˜๊ด€์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ฃผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์— ๊ด€ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:36
and the key to this is to listen to the other person
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์ด๊ฒƒ์˜ ํ•ต์‹ฌ์€ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์˜ ๋ง์„
07:42
very actively, very attentively
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๋งค์šฐ ์ ๊ทน์ ์œผ๋กœ, ๋งค์šฐ ์ฃผ์˜ ๊นŠ๊ฒŒ ๋“ฃ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
07:45
and we'll see why that's important,
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. ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ์™œ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ์ง€ ์•Œ๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:48
because when you're listening,
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07:50
you can hear lots of different things
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๋งŽ์€ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๊ฒƒ๋“ค
07:52
and you can connect something that they say to your life
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๊ณผ ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์‚ถ์— ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ
07:57
and show that connection.
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ํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ทธ ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ค„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:00
So let's look at a concrete example.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿผ ๊ตฌ์ฒด์ ์ธ ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด๋ณด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:03
So let's imagine you are in a conversation.
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋Œ€ํ™” ์ค‘์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ์ƒ์ƒํ•ด ๋ด…์‹œ๋‹ค.
08:07
Someone says oh, so how was your vacation?
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€ ๋งํ•˜๊ธธ ์˜ค, ํœด๊ฐ€๋Š” ์–ด๋• ์–ด?
08:09
Very common small talk topic
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๋งค์šฐ ์ผ๋ฐ˜์ ์ธ ์žก๋‹ด ์ฃผ์ œ
08:12
and your colleague says, oh it was great.
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์ด๋ฉฐ ๋™๋ฃŒ๊ฐ€ ๋งํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ค ํ›Œ๋ฅญํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:15
We went to Aspen in the Rockies
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” Rockies์˜ Aspen์— ๊ฐ”๊ณ 
08:17
and we tried skiing for the first time.
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์ฒ˜์Œ์œผ๋กœ ์Šคํ‚ค๋ฅผ ํƒ€ ๋ณด์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:19
That's hard stuff.
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์–ด๋ ค์šด ์ผ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:21
Now, we have lots of possibilities
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์ด์ œ ๊ทธ๋…€๊ฐ€ ๋ฐฉ๊ธˆ ๋งํ•œ ๋‚ด์šฉ์„ ๊ธฐ๋ฐ˜์œผ๋กœ
08:25
to create a connection with this person
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์ด ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ๋งบ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋งŽ์€ ๊ฐ€๋Šฅ์„ฑ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
08:28
based on what she just said.
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.
08:31
We're going to see.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋ณผ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:32
So imagine you say hmm, okay, so she's talking about travel.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๊ทธ๋…€๊ฐ€ ์—ฌํ–‰์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ์ƒํ•ด๋ณด์„ธ์š”.
08:38
I can talk about travel and oh, coincidence,
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๋‚˜๋Š” ์—ฌํ–‰์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ณ  ์˜ค, ์šฐ์—ฐํžˆ๋„
08:41
I went to the Rockies in the past as well.
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๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ณผ๊ฑฐ์— ๋กœํ‚ค์‚ฐ๋งฅ์— ๊ฐ”์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:45
Now, maybe you didn't, but you can still talk about travel
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์ž, ์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๊ทธ๋ ‡์ง€ ์•Š์•˜์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ, ์—ฌ์ „ํžˆ ์—ฌํ–‰์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ข€
08:47
in a more general way and you can say something like,
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๋” ์ผ๋ฐ˜์ ์ธ ๋ฐฉ์‹์œผ๋กœ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ณ  ์ด๋Ÿฐ ์‹์œผ๋กœ ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:52
oh, was it fun?
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์˜ค, ์žฌ๋ฏธ์žˆ์—ˆ๋‚˜์š”?
08:53
So you're showing interest in the other person
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์—๊ฒŒ ๊ด€์‹ฌ์„ ๋ณด์ด๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ณ ,
08:57
and then you're making a connection.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๋‹ค์Œ ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ์„ ๋งŒ๋“ค๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:58
I visited the Rockies 10 years ago during a trip to the US.
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๋‚˜๋Š” 10๋…„ ์ „ ๋ฏธ๊ตญ ์—ฌํ–‰ ์ค‘์— ๋กœํ‚ค ์‚ฐ๋งฅ์„ ๋ฐฉ๋ฌธํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:02
I loved it.
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๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ–ˆ๋‹ค.
09:04
So even if it was 10 years ago,
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ 10๋…„ ์ „๋งŒ ํ•˜๋”๋ผ๋„
09:07
you didn't go skiing specifically,
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ํŠน๋ณ„ํžˆ ์Šคํ‚ค๋ฅผ ํƒ€๋Ÿฌ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ 
09:10
but you had a you know, a trip to the US
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๋ฏธ๊ตญ์— ์—ฌํ–‰์„ ๊ฐ€์„œ
09:13
and you can share something
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๋ฌด์–ธ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ๊ณต์œ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์—ˆ๊ณ 
09:14
and you've built a connection with that person.
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๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ์„ ๊ตฌ์ถ•ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:17
Now let's look at another way that you can find
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์ด์ œ
09:21
a different topic of conversation.
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋Œ€ํ™” ์ฃผ์ œ๋ฅผ ์ฐพ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:24
We don't change what the other person says
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์ด ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ฐ”๊พธ์ง€ ์•Š์ง€๋งŒ
09:27
but we say, oh I can talk about skiing,
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, ์˜ค, ์Šคํ‚ค์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:32
I've tried that one time as well.
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์ €๋„ ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ ํ•ด๋ดค์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:34
There's something we have in common
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ณตํ†ต์ ์ด ์žˆ๊ณ 
09:36
and you say ah, I know what you mean.
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์•„, ๋ฌด์Šจ ๋ง์ธ์ง€ ์•Œ์•„์š”.
09:39
So, I understand when you say skiing is difficult.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์Šคํ‚ค๊ฐ€ ์–ด๋ ต๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋ง์”€ํ•˜์‹œ๋Š” ๊ฑด ์ดํ•ดํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:42
I know what you mean.
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๋‚˜๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋ฌด์Šจ ๋œป์ธ์ง€ ์••๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:44
I tried one time in the Alps and I fell all the time,
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์•Œํ”„์Šค์—์„œ ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ ํ•ด๋ณด๊ณ  ๊ณ„์† ๋„˜์–ด์กŒ๋Š”๋ฐ ์ •๋ง
09:47
but it was lots of fun.
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์žฌ๋ฏธ์žˆ์—ˆ์–ด์š”.
09:50
So again, showing a connection to some kind of activity
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹ค์‹œ, ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ณตํ†ต์ ์œผ๋กœ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ์–ด๋–ค ์ข…๋ฅ˜์˜ ํ™œ๋™์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ฃผ๊ณ 
09:55
that you have in common
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09:57
and let's look at another way that you can find
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10:01
another topic of conversation,
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10:03
just in that same thing that your colleague said.
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๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๋™๋ฃŒ๊ฐ€ ๋งํ•œ ๊ฒƒ๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์€ ๊ฒƒ์—์„œ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋Œ€ํ™” ์ฃผ์ œ๋ฅผ ์ฐพ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ์‚ดํŽด๋ด…์‹œ๋‹ค.
10:07
Hmm, okay, I haven't been to the Rockies.
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์Œ, ์•Œ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ €๋Š” Rockies์— ๊ฐ€๋ณธ ์ ์ด ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:10
I haven't traveled to the US.
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๋‚˜๋Š” ๋ฏธ๊ตญ์„ ์—ฌํ–‰ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:12
I don't like skiing but I can talk about sports in general
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๋‚˜๋Š” ์Šคํ‚ค๋ฅผ ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์ง€๋งŒ ์ผ๋ฐ˜์ ์œผ๋กœ ์Šคํฌ์ธ ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์œผ๋ฏ€๋กœ ์žฌ๋ฏธ์žˆ์„ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™๋‹ค๊ณ 
10:18
and so you can say, oh that sounds like fun.
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๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
10:21
I love doing things outdoors, but I've never been skiing.
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๋‚˜๋Š” ์•ผ์™ธ ํ™œ๋™์„ ์ข‹์•„ ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์Šคํ‚ค๋Š” ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ๋„ ํƒ€๋ณธ ์ ์ด ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:24
How was it?
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๊ทธ๊ฑฐ ์–ด๋• ์–ด?
10:26
So again, you know, you found something in common.
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๋‹ค์‹œ ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ ๊ณตํ†ต์ ์„ ์ฐพ์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:30
It's quite general, this is true but that is totally fine.
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋งค์šฐ ์ผ๋ฐ˜์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์‚ฌ์‹ค์ด์ง€๋งŒ ์™„์ „ํžˆ ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:34
You're talking about sports and being outdoors
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์Šคํฌ์ธ ์™€ ์•ผ์™ธ ํ™œ๋™์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ณ 
10:37
and you're also putting the person, you know,
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์žˆ์œผ๋ฉฐ, ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์˜ ๊ฒฝํ—˜์„
10:41
in a position where you want to listen to them
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10:44
because you've asked them to describe and share
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์„ค๋ช…ํ•˜๊ณ 
10:47
their experience with you and I think especially today,
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๋‹น์‹ ๊ณผ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ๊ณต์œ ํ•˜๋„๋ก ์š”์ฒญํ–ˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋“ฃ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ์œ„์น˜์— ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ๋ฐฐ์น˜ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ €๋Š” ํŠนํžˆ ์˜ค๋Š˜ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ,
10:52
you know, people don't listen to each other enough
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์•Œ๋‹ค์‹œํ”ผ, ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ์„œ๋กœ์˜ ๋ง์„ ์ถฉ๋ถ„ํžˆ ๋“ฃ์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:55
and so, when someone asks you a question,
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์„
10:58
and they really want to hear your answer,
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ํ•˜๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๋‹ต์„ ์ •๋ง๋กœ ๋“ฃ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ดํ•  ๋•Œ,
11:00
you know that just builds a great connection.
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ํ›Œ๋ฅญํ•œ ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ์„ ๊ตฌ์ถ•ํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์••๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:04
So, you know, the important thing in that technique
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ, ์•„์‹œ๋‹ค์‹œํ”ผ, ๊ทธ ๊ธฐ์ˆ ์—์„œ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์€
11:08
is to really, to listen and to connect
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์ •๋ง๋กœ, ๊ฒฝ์ฒญํ•˜๊ณ ,
11:11
what the other person says to your life
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์–ด๋–ค ๋ฐฉ์‹์œผ๋กœ๋“  ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์‚ถ์— ์—ฐ๊ฒฐํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:14
in any way that you can, even if it's just,
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11:17
oh, I've never done that, what is it like?
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๊ฐ™์€๊ฐ€์š”?
11:20
That's connecting it to your life and you can ask questions
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์‚ถ์— ์—ฐ๊ฒฐํ•˜๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜
11:24
and then of course, listen to their answer,
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์žˆ๊ณ  ๋ฌผ๋ก  ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ๋Œ€๋‹ต์„ ๋“ฃ๊ณ 
11:27
show interest in the other person.
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์—๊ฒŒ ๊ด€์‹ฌ์„ ๋ณด์ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:30
So next, let's look at cultural insights
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๋‹ค์Œ์œผ๋กœ ๋ฌธํ™”์  ํ†ต์ฐฐ์„ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณด๊ณ 
11:33
and looking for consensus.
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ํ•ฉ์˜๋ฅผ ์ฐพ์•„๋ด…์‹œ๋‹ค.
11:35
In the US, in small talk, we tend to look for connections,
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๋ฏธ๊ตญ์—์„œ๋Š” ์Šค๋ชฐ ํ† ํฌ์—์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์—ฐ๊ด€์„ฑ์„ ์ฐพ๊ณ ,
11:39
to look for similarities, to try to find consensus,
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์œ ์‚ฌ์ ์„ ์ฐพ๊ณ , ํ•ฉ์˜์ ์„ ์ฐพ์œผ๋ ค๊ณ  ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒฝํ–ฅ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ •์ค‘ํ•œ ์˜๊ฒฌ ๋ถˆ์ผ์น˜์ผ
11:43
maybe polite disagreement perhaps
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์ˆ˜๋„
11:47
but we don't try to provoke people
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์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ ์ ์–ด๋„ ์Šค๋ชฐ ํ† ํฌ์—์„œ๋Š” ๋…ผ๋ž€์ด ๋˜๋Š” ์ฃผ์ œ๋‚˜ ์•„์ด๋””์–ด๋กœ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์„ ์ž๊ทนํ•˜๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:49
with controversial topics or ideas
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11:51
at least not in small talk and not in the early stages,
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11:56
not before you have built a connection with the person
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๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ๊ตฌ์ถ•ํ•˜๊ณ 
12:00
and you know them a little better.
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์กฐ๊ธˆ ๋” ์ž˜ ์•Œ๊ธฐ ์ „์ธ ์ดˆ๊ธฐ ๋‹จ๊ณ„๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:02
So, you want to stay with some safe topics
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์ ์–ด๋„ ์ฒ˜์Œ์—๋Š” ์•ˆ์ „ํ•œ ์ฃผ์ œ์— ๋จธ๋ฌผ๊ณ  ์‹ถ๊ณ 
12:06
at least in the beginning and the more you get to know
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12:09
the person, the stronger your connections,
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๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ๋” ๋งŽ์ด ์•Œ๊ฒŒ ๋ ์ˆ˜๋ก ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ์ด ๋” ๊ฐ•ํ•ด์ง€๊ณ  ๋œจ๊ฑฐ์šด ์ฃผ์ œ
12:12
the more you can get into hot topics, let's say,
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์— ๋” ๋งŽ์ด ๋“ค์–ด๊ฐˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด
12:15
you know things like US foreign policy and wars,
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๋ฏธ๊ตญ ์™ธ๊ต ์ •์ฑ… ๋ฐ ์ „์Ÿ,
12:20
the gap between the rich and the poor in the US,
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๋ฏธ๊ตญ์˜ ๋นˆ๋ถ€ ๊ฒฉ์ฐจ,
12:23
US domestic politics, the growing power
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๋ฏธ๊ตญ ๊ตญ๋‚ด ์ •์น˜,
12:27
of what we call GAFA.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ GAFA๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ถ€๋ฅด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์˜ ์ปค์ ธ๊ฐ€๋Š” ํž˜.
12:28
This is Google, Amazon, Facebook and not Amazon twice,
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์ด๊ฒƒ์€ Google, Amazon, Facebook์ด๊ณ  Amazon์ด ๋‘ ๋ฒˆ์ด ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:32
that should be Apple, sorry about that.
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Apple์ด์–ด์•ผํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:35
Guns and violence and the role that those have
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์ด๊ธฐ์™€ ํญ๋ ฅ ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ๋“ค์ด
12:38
in American society.
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๋ฏธ๊ตญ ์‚ฌํšŒ์—์„œ ๊ฐ–๋Š” ์—ญํ• .
12:40
These, you know, are considered interesting to discuss
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์•Œ๋‹ค์‹œํ”ผ ์ด๊ฒƒ๋“ค์€
12:43
in a lot of cultures and you may you know, genuinely
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๋งŽ์€ ๋ฌธํ™”๊ถŒ์—์„œ ํ† ๋ก ํ•˜๊ธฐ์— ํฅ๋ฏธ๋กœ์šด ๊ฒƒ์œผ๋กœ ๊ฐ„์ฃผ๋˜๋ฉฐ , ์ง„์ •์œผ๋กœ
12:48
want to take advantage of having an American there
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๋ฏธ๊ตญ์ธ์ด ๊ทธ๊ณณ์— ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ด์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ
12:51
to ask about this and get their perspective
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์ด๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์งˆ๋ฌธํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ๊ด€์ ์„ ์–ป๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ด
12:54
but these can be divisive and controversial topics.
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๋ถ„์—ด์ ์ด๊ณ  ๋…ผ์Ÿ์˜ ์—ฌ์ง€๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๋Š” ์ฃผ์ œ์ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:58
So you want to build that relationship first.
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๋จผ์ € ๊ทธ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ๊ตฌ์ถ•ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:01
Like don't start the conversation like,
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์˜ค,
13:04
oh, what do you think of President Trump?
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ํŠธ๋Ÿผํ”„ ๋Œ€ํ†ต๋ น์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜์„ธ์š”?
13:07
I've had so many people say like, oh, you're American,
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๋งŽ์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ์˜ค, ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋ฏธ๊ตญ์ธ์ด๊ตฐ์š”.
13:10
nice to meet you, what do you think about Trump?
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๋งŒ๋‚˜์„œ ๋ฐ˜๊ฐ€์›Œ์š”. ํŠธ๋Ÿผํ”„์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜์„ธ์š”?
13:13
And I'm like, you know, I don't want to get into this
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ €๋Š” ์ง€๊ธˆ ์ด ๋ฌธ์ œ์— ๊ฐœ์ž…ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ 
13:16
right now, I don't want to argue about politics yet.
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์•„์ง ์ •์น˜์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋…ผ์Ÿํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:20
Let's get to know each other a little bit.
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์„œ๋กœ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์กฐ๊ธˆ ์•Œ์•„๊ฐ€์ž.
13:22
So you've got to build that relationship first
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋จผ์ € ๊ทธ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ๊ตฌ์ถ•ํ•ด์•ผ
13:25
and this is really part of, I guess,
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ํ•˜๊ณ  ์ด๊ฒƒ์ด ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ
13:28
the American logic of conversation,
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๋ฏธ๊ตญ์˜ ๋Œ€ํ™” ๋…ผ๋ฆฌ์˜ ์ผ๋ถ€๋ผ๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:31
for better or for worse, let's say, it's what it is,
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์ข‹๋“  ๋‚˜์˜๋“ , ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋ฐ”๋กœ ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๊ฒƒ์ด์ง€๋งŒ
13:34
but we do tend to try to avoid confrontation
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋Œ€๋ฆฝ์„ ํ”ผํ•˜๋ ค๊ณ  ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒฝํ–ฅ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:38
that can damage a personal or professional relationship
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๊ฐœ์ธ์  ๋˜๋Š” ์ง์—…์  ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ์†์ƒ์‹œํ‚ฌ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:42
and like I said, you have to first find the connections
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋งํ–ˆ๋“ฏ์ด ๋จผ์ € ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ๊ณผ
13:47
and the reasons to relate to the other person
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๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ๋งบ์„ ์ด์œ ์™€ ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ์„ ์ฐพ์•„์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:49
and to build and strengthen those connections
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ด๋Ÿฌํ•œ ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ์„ ๊ตฌ์ถ•ํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ฐ•ํ™”ํ•˜๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ๊ณตํ†ต์ ์ด ์žˆ๋Š”
13:54
and when you've connected on the things
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๊ฒƒ๋“ค์— ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ๋˜์—ˆ์„ ๋•Œ
13:56
that you have in common, then you can address
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, ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๋‹ค์Œ ๋ฏผ๊ฐํ•œ ์ฃผ์ œ๋ฅผ ๋‹ค๋ฃฐ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:59
the sensitive topics because they are interesting
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์™œ๋ƒํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ๋“ค์€ ํฅ๋ฏธ๋กญ๊ณ 
14:02
and it is interesting to get a you know,
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14:04
a different person's perspective but to do it carefully
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์˜ ๊ด€์ ์„ ์•Œ๊ฒŒ ๋˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ํฅ๋ฏธ๋กญ์ง€๋งŒ
14:08
after you've got those other connections in place.
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ์„ ์ œ์ž๋ฆฌ์— ๋†“์€ ํ›„์— ์‹ ์ค‘ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ํฅ๋ฏธ๋กญ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:13
So here's the recap for today
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14:15
on how to always have things to say.
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ํ•ญ์ƒ ํ•  ๋ง์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์˜ค๋Š˜์˜ ์š”์•ฝ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:18
Use those discourse markers to sound natural,
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์ด๋Ÿฌํ•œ ๋‹ดํ™” ๋งˆ์ปค๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ ๋“ค๋ฆฌ๊ฒŒ ํ• 
14:21
but also to give you time to think in a very natural way.
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๋ฟ๋งŒ ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ ๋งค์šฐ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด ๋ฐฉ์‹์œผ๋กœ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•  ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ์ค๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:25
Connect with others by listening
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๊ฒฝ์ฒญํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ณตํ†ต์ ์„ ์ฐพ์•„ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค๊ณผ ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ
14:28
and finding things in common,
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14:31
and remember that many Americans look for consensus
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ํ•˜๊ณ , ๋งŽ์€ ๋ฏธ๊ตญ์ธ๋“ค์ด
14:34
and agreement to build relationships
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14:37
before discussing sensitive topics
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๋ฏผ๊ฐํ•œ ์ฃผ์ œ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋…ผ์˜ํ•˜๊ธฐ ์ „์— ๊ด€๊ณ„ ๊ตฌ์ถ•์„ ์œ„ํ•œ ํ•ฉ์˜์™€ ๋™์˜๋ฅผ ๊ตฌํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ์ ์„ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค
14:40
if they discuss them at all.
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.
14:43
Now I have a question for you.
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์ด์ œ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:46
Talking about topics of conversation,
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๋Œ€ํ™” ์ฃผ์ œ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๋ฉด
14:49
what is one topic of conversation
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14:51
that you need more vocabulary for,
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๋” ๋งŽ์€ ์–ดํœ˜๊ฐ€ ํ•„์š”ํ•œ ๋Œ€ํ™” ์ฃผ์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋ฌด์—‡์ธ์ง€
14:54
that you just really feel stuck
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14:56
when the conversation turns to that topic.
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๋Œ€ํ™”๊ฐ€ ๊ทธ ์ฃผ์ œ๋กœ ๋ฐ”๋€” ๋•Œ ์ •๋ง ๋ง‰ํžŒ ๋Š๋‚Œ์ด ๋“ญ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:59
Share your suggestions with me in the comments
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์˜๊ฒฌ์— ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์˜ ์ œ์•ˆ์„ ์ €์™€ ๊ณต์œ ํ•ด ์ฃผ์‹œ๋ฉด
15:02
and then I can make lots of videos on that vocabulary
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ํ•ด๋‹น ์–ดํœ˜์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋งŽ์€ ๋น„๋””์˜ค๋ฅผ ๋งŒ๋“ค ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
15:07
and if you are, you know, feel like you want to become
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์•„์‹œ๋‹ค์‹œํ”ผ ์˜์–ด ๋Œ€ํ™”์—
15:11
more confident and better at conversations in English,
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๋” ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์„ ๊ฐ–๊ณ  ๋” ์ž˜ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋Š๋ผ์‹ ๋‹ค๋ฉด
15:15
I've got a very special offer that is going to start
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์•„์ฃผ ํŠน๋ณ„ํ•œ ์ œ์•ˆ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
15:18
on Wednesday, November 13th on a new course
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11์›” 13์ผ ์ˆ˜์š”์ผ์—
15:22
an updated course, that's called American English
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๋ฏธ๊ตญ์‹ ์˜์–ด
15:25
Confident Conversation Skills.
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์ž์‹ ๊ฐ ๋Œ€ํ™” ๊ธฐ์ˆ ์ด๋ผ๋Š” ์—…๋ฐ์ดํŠธ๋œ ์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ๊ณผ์ •์—์„œ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•  ์˜ˆ์ •์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
15:27
This was the course formerly called Successful Small Talk,
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์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์ด์ „์— ์„ฑ๊ณต์ ์ธ ์Šค๋ชฐ ํ† ํฌ(Successful Small Talk)๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ถˆ๋ ธ๋˜ ๊ณผ์ •์ด์—ˆ์ง€๋งŒ
15:31
but we're updating it, we're adding new materials
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์—…๋ฐ์ดํŠธํ•˜๊ณ  ์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ์ž๋ฃŒ๋ฅผ ์ถ”๊ฐ€ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์œผ๋ฏ€๋กœ
15:34
and so we're also changing the title to reflect that
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์ด๋ฅผ ๋ฐ˜์˜ํ•˜๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ์ œ๋ชฉ๋„ ๋ณ€๊ฒฝํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉฐ
15:39
and on Wednesday, November 13th, that special offer,
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11์›” 13์ผ ์ˆ˜์š”์ผ์— ํ•ด๋‹น ํŠน๋ณ„ ์ œ์•ˆ์„ ํ†ตํ•ด ๋‹ค์Œ์„ ์ˆ˜ํ–‰ํ• 
15:43
you will be able to get the online course,
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์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜จ๋ผ์ธ ๊ณผ์ •,
15:45
American English Confident Conversation Skills
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American English Confident Conversation Skills
15:48
and a bonus of two months of live conversation practice
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๋ฐ
15:53
in my Faster Fluency Conversation Club.
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Faster Fluency Conversation Club์—์„œ 2๊ฐœ์›”๊ฐ„์˜ ๋ผ์ด๋ธŒ ๋Œ€ํ™” ์—ฐ์Šต ๋ณด๋„ˆ์Šค๋ฅผ ๋ฐ›์œผ๋ ค๋ฉด.
15:56
Normally that package together would be 395 euros
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์ผ๋ฐ˜์ ์œผ๋กœ ๊ทธ ํŒจํ‚ค์ง€๋ฅผ ํ•ฉํ•˜๋ฉด 395์œ ๋กœ๊ฐ€ ๋˜์ง€๋งŒ
16:01
but we're doing a very special offer,
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋งค์šฐ ํŠน๋ณ„ํ•œ ์ œ์•ˆ์„ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
16:03
you can get it for only 197 euros.
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๋‹จ 197์œ ๋กœ์— ๊ตฌ์ž…ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
16:07
That's like 50% off almost that package.
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๊ฑฐ์˜ 50% ํ• ์ธ๋œ ํŒจํ‚ค์ง€์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
16:11
So, I want to help you to become more confident.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋”์šฑ ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์„ ๊ฐ€์งˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋„๋ก ๋„์™€๋“œ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
16:14
I want to help you to become better
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๋‚˜๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์˜์–ด ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋” ์ž˜ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋„๋ก ๋•๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
16:16
at conversation in English and for me to do that,
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. ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๋ ค๋ฉด christinarebuffet.com์—
16:20
I need you to go and sign up at christinarebuffet.com,
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๊ฐ€์„œ ๊ฐ€์ž…ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
16:24
so that I can send you that special offer
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์•ผ ํŠน๋ณ„ ์ œ์•ˆ์„ ๋ณด๋‚ผ ์ˆ˜
16:27
and also, I can send you a free English lesson every week.
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์žˆ๊ณ  ๋ฌด๋ฃŒ๋กœ ๋ณด๋‚ผ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋งค์ฃผ ์˜์–ด์ˆ˜์—….
16:32
Alright, that's it for today.
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์ž, ์˜ค๋Š˜์€ ์—ฌ๊ธฐ๊นŒ์ง€์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
16:33
Thanks a lot and I'll see you next time.
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๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹ค์Œ์— ๋ต™๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
์ด ์›น์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ ์ •๋ณด

์ด ์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ•™์Šต์— ์œ ์šฉํ•œ YouTube ๋™์˜์ƒ์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ „ ์„ธ๊ณ„ ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜๋“ค์ด ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ˆ˜์—…์„ ๋ณด๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ ๋™์˜์ƒ ํŽ˜์ด์ง€์— ํ‘œ์‹œ๋˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ” ํด๋ฆญํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ณณ์—์„œ ๋™์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋น„๋””์˜ค ์žฌ์ƒ์— ๋งž์ถฐ ์ž๋ง‰์ด ์Šคํฌ๋กค๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜๊ฒฌ์ด๋‚˜ ์š”์ฒญ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์ด ๋ฌธ์˜ ์–‘์‹์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ๋ฌธ์˜ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.

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