Professional English Communication: Invitations, Small Talk, and Thank Yous

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Benjaminโ€™s English


์•„๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฌธ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ”ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋œ ์ž๋ง‰์€ ๊ธฐ๊ณ„ ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

00:00
Hi there, and welcome back to engVid.
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์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”. engVid์— ๋‹ค์‹œ ์˜ค์‹  ๊ฒƒ์„ ํ™˜์˜ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:02
My name's Benjamin, and in today's lesson, we're going to be looking at a formal style
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์ €๋Š” ๋ฒค์ €๋ฏผ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ค๋Š˜ ์ˆ˜์—…์—์„œ๋Š”
00:08
of English to make invitations and respond to invitations.
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์ดˆ๋Œ€์žฅ์„ ๋งŒ๋“ค๊ณ  ์ดˆ๋Œ€์žฅ์— ์‘๋‹ตํ•˜๋Š” ๊ณต์‹์ ์ธ ์˜์–ด ์Šคํƒ€์ผ์„ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:15
We're also going to be looking at small talk,
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๋˜ํ•œ ์žก๋‹ด,
00:18
good topics of small talk, and things to avoid.
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์žก๋‹ด์˜ ์ข‹์€ ์ฃผ์ œ , ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ํ”ผํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด์„œ๋„ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณผ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:21
And we're going to be looking at how to make
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์–ด๋–ค ํ–‰์‚ฌ๊ฐ€
00:25
a... or to write a thank you letter after
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๋๋‚œ ํ›„ ๊ฐ์‚ฌํŽธ์ง€๋ฅผ ์“ฐ๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณผ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
00:28
an occasion.
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00:29
Specifically, the source material for today's
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๊ตฌ์ฒด์ ์œผ๋กœ ์˜ค๋Š˜ ์ˆ˜์—…์˜ ์ถœ์ฒ˜ ์ž๋ฃŒ๋Š” ๊ธฐ์—… ์—”ํ„ฐํ…Œ์ธ๋จผํŠธ
00:33
lesson has a context of corporate entertainment.
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์˜ ๋งฅ๋ฝ์„ ๋‹ด๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ์ด๊ฒŒ ๋ญ”์ง€ ๋ชจ๋ฅด๋Š”
00:38
Now, for those of you who are not familiar
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๋ถ„๋“ค์„ ์œ„ํ•ด ์„ค๋ช…๋“œ๋ฆฌ์ž๋ฉด
00:40
with what this is, it's kind of halfway between
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, ์ด๊ฑด
00:44
a social occasion and straight out business negotiations.
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์‚ฌ๊ต ๋ชจ์ž„๊ณผ ์ง์ ‘์ ์ธ ์‚ฌ์—… ํ˜‘์ƒ์˜ ์ค‘๊ฐ„์ฏค ๋˜๋Š” ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:49
It's a way of companies trying to woo their clients by taking them to some of the best
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์ด๋Š” ๊ธฐ์—…์ด ๊ณ ๊ฐ ์—๊ฒŒ ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•œ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ข‹์€ ๊ฒƒ๋“ค์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•จ์œผ๋กœ์จ ๊ณ ๊ฐ์„ ์œ ์น˜ํ•˜๋ ค๋Š” ๋ฐฉ์‹์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
00:59
things available.
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01:01
For example, sports events, the opera, going
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์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, ์Šคํฌ์ธ  ๊ฒฝ๊ธฐ, ์˜คํŽ˜๋ผ,
01:05
out on a yacht, yep, giving them a really
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์š”ํŠธ ํƒ€๊ธฐ ๋“ฑ, ๊ทธ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ์ •๋ง
01:08
good time.
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์ฆ๊ฑฐ์šด ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ์„ ์‚ฌํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฑฐ์ฃ .
01:11
Now, there is such a thing as the Briberies Act, which is in place both in the UK and
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์˜๊ตญ๊ณผ ๋ฏธ๊ตญ ๋ชจ๋‘์— ๋‡Œ๋ฌผ ๋ฐฉ์ง€๋ฒ•์ด ์žˆ์–ด์„œ
01:17
the US, so there's a thin line to negotiate as to what is acceptable and what is not.
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๋ฌด์—‡์ด ํ—ˆ์šฉ๋˜๊ณ  ๋ฌด์—‡์ด ํ—ˆ์šฉ๋˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š”์ง€์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ํ˜‘์ƒ์˜ ์—ฌ์ง€๊ฐ€ ์ข์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:26
But I'm more focused on teaching the English phrases, so let's dive straight in.
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ €๋Š” ์˜์–ด ๊ตฌ๋ฌธ์„ ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋Š” ๋ฐ ๋” ์ง‘์ค‘ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์œผ๋ฏ€๋กœ ๋ฐ”๋กœ ๋“ค์–ด๊ฐ€๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:32
So, as I've mentioned, you could be invited or inviting to one of the most premium, top
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ์–ธ๊ธ‰ํ–ˆ๋“ฏ์ด ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์€ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ํ”„๋ฆฌ๋ฏธ์—„, ์ตœ๊ณ ๊ธ‰ ์ด๋ฒคํŠธ ์ค‘ ํ•˜๋‚˜์— ์ดˆ๋Œ€๋˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์ดˆ๋Œ€๋ฅผ ๋ฐ›์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์œผ๋ฏ€๋กœ
01:42
of the range events available, so it's important
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์ด๊ฒƒ์ด ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:46
that any invitation is written exceptionally
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๋ชจ๋“  ์ดˆ๋Œ€์žฅ์€ ํƒ์›”
01:50
well, that it stands out, that the quality of the event is reflected in the style of
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ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์ž‘์„ฑ๋˜์–ด์•ผ ํ•˜๋ฉฐ, ๋ˆˆ์— ๋„์–ด์•ผ ํ•˜๋ฉฐ, ์ด๋ฒคํŠธ์˜ ํ’ˆ์งˆ์ด
01:57
communication in the invitation.
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์ดˆ๋Œ€์žฅ์˜ ์ปค๋ฎค๋‹ˆ์ผ€์ด์…˜ ์Šคํƒ€์ผ์„ ํ†ตํ•ด ๋ฐ˜์˜๋˜์–ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:00
So, if it's an email, it could be an email, it
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ, ์ด๋ฉ”์ผ์ด๋ผ๋ฉด, ์ด๋ฉ”์ผ์ผ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๊ณ ,
02:04
could be a paper, a written or typed invitation.
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์„œ๋ฅ˜์ผ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๊ณ , ์„œ๋ฉด์ด๋‚˜ ํƒ€์ดํ•‘ํ•œ ์ดˆ๋Œ€์žฅ์ผ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์ฃ . ์šฐ์„  ์ด๋ฉ”์ผ์„
02:09
I'm going to be looking at an email to start
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์‚ดํŽด๋ณผ ํ…๋ฐ
02:12
with, so you want to make sure that the subject
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02:16
line of the email is very clear what the invitation is to.
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์ด๋ฉ”์ผ ์ œ๋ชฉ๋ž€์— ์ดˆ๋Œ€์žฅ์˜ ๋‚ด์šฉ์ด ๋ช…ํ™•ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ํ‘œ์‹œ๋˜์–ด ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€ ํ™•์ธํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
02:23
So, don't just write "invite to football", like, what is it, "down the pub to play a
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ "์ถ•๊ตฌ ์ดˆ๋Œ€"๋ผ๊ณ ๋งŒ ์“ฐ์ง€ ๋ง๊ณ , "์ˆ ์ง‘์— ๊ฐ€์„œ
02:30
five-a-side football", "opportunity to join
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5์ธ์ œ ์ถ•๊ตฌ๋ฅผ ํ•˜์ž", "11์›” 6์ผ
02:36
us in the director's box at Stamford Bridge,
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์Šคํƒฌํฌ๋“œ ๋ธŒ๋ฆฌ์ง€์—์„œ ๊ฐ๋…์„์— ํ•จ๊ป˜ํ•  ๊ธฐํšŒ
02:43
November 6th", something like that.
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"๋ผ๊ณ  ์“ฐ์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”. , ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๊ฒƒ.
02:48
Okay, going into the main body of the email, what do we need?
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์ข‹์•„์š”, ์ด๋ฉ”์ผ ๋ณธ๋ฌธ์œผ๋กœ ๋“ค์–ด๊ฐ€๋ณผ๊นŒ์š” ? ๋ฌด์—‡์ด ํ•„์š”ํ• ๊นŒ์š”? ๋‚ ์งœ๋ฅผ
02:54
We need to know what the date is, yep.
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์•Œ์•„์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๋‚ ์งœ๋ฅผ ์“ฐ๋Š” ๋ฐ์—๋Š”
02:56
Now, there are different conventions of how to write the date, so just make sure that
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ๊ทœ์น™์ด ์žˆ์œผ๋ฏ€๋กœ ํ•ด๋‹น ๊ตญ๊ฐ€์˜
03:03
you're following the right date convention for the country that you're in, in terms of
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์˜ฌ๋ฐ”๋ฅธ ๋‚ ์งœ ๊ทœ์น™์„ ๋”ฐ๋ฅด๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€ ํ™•์ธํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ์ฆ‰,
03:10
does the date go first or the month go first.
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๋‚ ์งœ๋ฅผ ๋จผ์ € ์จ์•ผ ํ•˜๋Š”์ง€, ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ์›”์„ ๋จผ์ € ์จ์•ผ ํ•˜๋Š”์ง€ ํ™•์ธํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
03:14
I cover that in another video.
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์ด ๋‚ด์šฉ์€ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์˜์ƒ์—์„œ ๋‹ค๋ฃจ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ–‰์‚ฌ์˜
03:17
We need to know what the start, time, and
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์‹œ์ž‘, ์‹œ๊ฐ„,
03:20
finish is, so your guests, your invited guests
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์ข…๋ฃŒ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ์•Œ์•„์•ผ ์†๋‹˜, ์ดˆ๋Œ€๋ฐ›์€ ์†๋‹˜์ด
03:24
can plan their day accordingly.
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๊ทธ์— ๋”ฐ๋ผ ํ•˜๋ฃจ๋ฅผ ๊ณ„ํšํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:27
What is the occasion, yep, and you're going
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๋ฌด์Šจ ํ–‰์‚ฌ์ธ๊ฐ€์š”? ๋„ค, ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ 
03:32
to need to sell it a bit, so why is this such
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๋ญ”๊ฐ€ ํŒ”์•„์•ผ ํ•  ํ…๋ฐ , ์™œ ์ด
03:36
an amazing thing to go to?
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ํ–‰์‚ฌ๊ฐ€ ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ์ข‹์€ ๊ฑธ๊นŒ์š”?
03:37
I've put an example sentence here, "I do hope
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์—ฌ๊ธฐ์— "์ €๋Š”
03:41
you will be able to join us for what is surely
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด ํ™•์‹คํžˆ
03:44
one of the most", and then we need an adjective,
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๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ํ–‰์‚ฌ ์ค‘ ํ•˜๋‚˜์— ํ•จ๊ป˜ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋ฐ”๋ž๋‹ˆ๋‹ค"๋ผ๋Š” ์˜ˆ๋ฌธ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์„ ๋„ฃ์—ˆ๊ณ , ๊ทธ ๋‹ค์Œ์—๋Š”
03:51
"prestigious, famous, sought-after days in
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"๋ช…์„ฑ ์žˆ๊ณ  ์œ ๋ช…ํ•˜๋ฉฐ ๊ฒฝ์ฃผ ์ผ์ • ์—์„œ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ธ๊ธฐ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋‚ "์ด๋ผ๋Š” ํ˜•์šฉ์‚ฌ๊ฐ€ ํ•„์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:56
the racing calendar", or "anticipated", yep.
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", ๋˜๋Š” "์˜ˆ์ƒ", ๊ทธ๋ ‡์ฃ .
04:00
If you anticipate, then you wait for, so an
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๊ธฐ๋Œ€ํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ธฐ๋‹ค๋ฆฌ๊ฒŒ ๋˜๊ณ ,
04:03
anticipated event is lots of people are waiting
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๊ธฐ๋Œ€๋˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๊ฑด์€ ๋งŽ์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ๊ธฐ๋‹ค๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š”
04:07
for it, okay?
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๊ฑฐ์ฃ , ์•Œ๊ฒ ์ฃ ?
04:09
So, "I do hope you'll be able to join us,
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ "์ €๋Š” ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด ์šฐ๋ฆฌ, ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ํšŒ์‚ฌ์™€ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋ฐ”๋ž๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฐ˜๋“œ์‹œ
04:13
we, the company, for what is surely", adverb,
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๊ทธ๋Ÿด ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค", ๋ถ€์‚ฌ,
04:19
"one of the most", adjective, "in the racing
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"๊ฐ€์žฅ" ์ค‘ ํ•˜๋‚˜, ํ˜•์šฉ์‚ฌ, "๋ ˆ์ด์‹ฑ
04:23
calendar", adjective and noun, prestigious
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์ผ์ •์—์„œ", ํ˜•์šฉ์‚ฌ ๋ฐ ๋ช…์‚ฌ, ๊ถŒ์œ„ ์žˆ๋Š”
04:28
events or anticipated or talked about, okay?
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์ด๋ฒคํŠธ ํ˜น์€ ๊ธฐ๋Œ€ ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•œ ์ ์ด ์žˆ๋‚˜์š”?
04:33
So we try and sell the occasion.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ทธ ๊ธฐํšŒ๋ฅผ ํŒ๋งคํ•˜๋ ค๊ณ  ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:36
The location needs to be really clear.
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์œ„์น˜๋Š” ์ •๋ง ๋ช…ํ™•ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:39
How do they get there?
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๊ทธ๊ณณ์— ๊ฐ€๋‚˜์š”?
04:40
Is there parking?
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์ฃผ์ฐจ์žฅ์ด ์žˆ๋‚˜์š”?
04:42
Most people I know in London don't actually have
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๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์•„๋Š” ๋Ÿฐ๋˜ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์˜ ๋Œ€๋ถ€๋ถ„์€ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ์ฐจ๊ฐ€ ์—†์–ด์š”
04:45
a car because they rely on public transport.
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. ๋Œ€์ค‘๊ตํ†ต์„ ์ด์šฉํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋“ ์š”.
04:49
If going by public transport, where's the nearest station?
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๋Œ€์ค‘๊ตํ†ต์„ ์ด์šฉํ•  ๊ฒฝ์šฐ, ๊ฐ€์žฅ ๊ฐ€๊นŒ์šด ์—ญ์€ ์–ด๋””์ธ๊ฐ€์š”?
04:53
How do they get from the station to the actual event?
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์—ญ์—์„œ ์‹ค์ œ ํ–‰์‚ฌ์žฅ๊นŒ์ง€ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์ด๋™ํ•˜๋‚˜์š”?
04:58
And then they need to know how and when to
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์–ธ์ œ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ
05:03
RSVP, French for "Respondez-vous plus", yep,
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RSVP๋ฅผ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•˜๋Š”์ง€ ์•Œ์•„์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ”„๋ž‘์Šค์–ด๋กœ "Respondez-vous plus"์˜ ์•ฝ์ž์ฃ .
05:09
you need to give an answer.
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๋Œ€๋‹ต์„ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:10
How do they give their answer?
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๋Œ€๋‹ตํ•˜๋‚˜์š”?
05:13
And then at the end, you might want to sort of
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰์—
05:16
finish it off with something kind of personal
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05:19
to them, like, "I know last time you didn't put the bets on the", "I hope you have more
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"์ง€๋‚œ๋ฒˆ์— ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋ฒ ํŒ…์„ ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•˜๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฑธ ์•Œ์•„์š” ", "๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์ผ์— ๋” ๋งŽ์€ ํ–‰์šด์„ ๋นŒ๊ฒŒ์š”"์™€ ๊ฐ™์ด ๊ทธ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๊ฐœ์ธ์ ์ธ ๋ฌด์–ธ๊ฐ€๋กœ ๋งˆ๋ฌด๋ฆฌํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:26
luck with your bets this time", if they're going to a horse racing event or hopefully
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์ด๋ฒˆ์—๋Š” ๋ฒ ํŒ…์„ ํ•˜๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฒฝ๋งˆ ํ–‰์‚ฌ์— ๊ฐˆ ๊ฒƒ์ธ์ง€, ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด
05:33
the right team wins, if related to who supports football teams or...
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์˜ฌ๋ฐ”๋ฅธ ํŒ€์ด ์ด๊ธฐ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋ฐ”๋ž„ ๊ฒƒ์ธ์ง€, ์ถ•๊ตฌ ํŒ€์„ ์‘์›ํ•˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ๊ด€๋ จ์ด ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€...
05:41
And then you need to sign off, so, you know,
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‚˜์„œ๋Š” ๋กœ๊ทธ์˜คํ”„๋ฅผ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
05:45
"Hoping to see you on such and such a date
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"๊ธฐ๋Œ€ํ•˜๋ฉด์„œ" "๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ด๋Ÿฐ ๋‚ ์งœ์— ์žˆ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ
05:49
with best wishes", and then your name, okay?
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๊ธฐ์›ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค"๋ผ๊ณ  ์ ๊ณ , ๊ทธ ๋‹ค์Œ์— ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์ด๋ฆ„์„ ์ ์œผ์„ธ์š”, ์•Œ๊ฒ ์–ด์š”?
05:53
So, it's kind of...
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ, ์ผ์ข…์˜...
05:55
It's quite friendly with best wishes.
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์ตœ์„ ์˜ ์†Œ์›์„ ๋‹ด์•„ ๋งค์šฐ ์นœ์ ˆํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋Œ€ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฑฐ์ฃ .
05:58
If "Kind regards" is a little bit too cold for something you're inviting someone to,
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"๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค"๋ผ๋Š” ์ธ์‚ฌ๋ง์ด ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ์ดˆ๋Œ€ํ•  ๋•Œ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ์ฐจ๊ฐ‘๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋Š๊ปด์ง„๋‹ค๋ฉด, ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ
06:03
I would say, but these are all negotiable.
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๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ๊ฒ ์ง€๋งŒ, ์ด๋Ÿฐ ํ‘œํ˜„์€ ๋ชจ๋‘ ํ˜‘์ƒ์˜ ์—ฌ์ง€๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:07
Okay.
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์ข‹์•„์š”.
06:10
We need to accept or refuse, decline an invitation.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ดˆ๋Œ€๋ฅผ ์ˆ˜๋ฝํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ , ๊ฑฐ์ ˆํ•˜๊ณ , ๊ฑฐ์ ˆํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:16
If you're going to decline the invitation, you can say, "No, I'm really sorry."
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์ดˆ๋Œ€๋ฅผ ๊ฑฐ์ ˆํ•  ๊ฒฝ์šฐ์—๋Š” "์•„๋‹ˆ์š”, ์ •๋ง ์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๋ฉด ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:22
You could say, "Thank you so much for the very kind invitation to..."
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"์ •๋ง ์นœ์ ˆํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์ดˆ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ฃผ์…”์„œ ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค..."๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์„ ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:29
What event have you been invited to?
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์–ด๋–ค ํ–‰์‚ฌ ์— ์ดˆ๋Œ€๋ฅผ ๋ฐ›์œผ์…จ๋‚˜์š”?
06:31
Before that, you're going to need to write
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๊ทธ ์ „์—,
06:34
"Dear", so whoever you are writing to, yeah?
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"์นœ์• ํ•˜๋Š”"์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ์จ์•ผ ํ•ด์š”. ๋ˆ„๊ตฌ ์—๊ฒŒ ํŽธ์ง€๋ฅผ ์“ฐ๋“ , ๊ทธ๋ ‡์ฃ ?
06:38
"Unfortunately, on this occasion, I or we will not be able to join you as..."
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"๋ถˆํ–‰ํžˆ๋„, ์ด๋ฒˆ โ€‹โ€‹๊ธฐํšŒ์— ์ €๋‚˜ ์ €ํฌ๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ๊ณผ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†์„ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค..."
06:44
And then you need to give a reason, as unfortunately, we already...
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ ์ด์œ ๋ฅผ ๋งํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๋ถˆํ–‰ํžˆ๋„, ์ €ํฌ๋Š” ์ด๋ฏธ...
06:48
We have "prior".
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"์‚ฌ์ „"์ด ์žˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:50
Let's write that down.
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์ ์–ด๋ณด์ฃ .
06:52
"Prior" means before commitments.
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"์‚ฌ์ „"์€ ์•ฝ์† ์ด์ „์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:57
It means I'm already doing something.
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๊ทธ๊ฑด ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์ด๋ฏธ ๋ญ”๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๋œป์ด์•ผ.
07:00
We already have prior commitments, or we have a client visit on that date, yep?
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ด๋ฏธ ์‚ฌ์ „ ์•ฝ์†์ด ์žˆ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๊ทธ ๋‚ ์งœ์— ๊ณ ๊ฐ ๋ฐฉ๋ฌธ์ด ์žˆ์–ด์š”. ๊ทธ๋ ‡์ฃ ?
07:09
Some sort of good, valid reason.
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์–ด๋–ค ์ข…๋ฅ˜์˜ ์ข‹๊ณ  ํƒ€๋‹นํ•œ ์ด์œ ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์–ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:13
I do hope the day is a great success and that, again, make it personal to the event
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๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ทธ๋‚ ์ด ํฐ ์„ฑ๊ณต์„ ๊ฑฐ๋‘๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋ฐ”๋ผ๋ฉฐ , ๋‹ค์‹œ ํ•œ๋ฒˆ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ดˆ๋Œ€๋ฐ›์€ ํ–‰์‚ฌ์— ๊ฐœ์ธ์ ์œผ๋กœ ์ฐธ์—ฌํ•˜๊ณ 
07:23
that you've been invited to and that you have...
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...
07:26
And that you watch an absolute thriller of a
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ ˆ๋Œ€์ ์œผ๋กœ ์Šค๋ฆด ๋„˜์น˜๋Š”
07:29
game, a really exciting game, or, you know,
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๊ฒฝ๊ธฐ, ์ •๋ง ํฅ๋ฏธ๋กœ์šด ๊ฒฝ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๊ด€๋žŒํ•˜๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋ฐ”๋ž๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด,
07:31
try and make it unique, personalize it.
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๋…ํŠนํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ๋“ค๊ณ  ๊ฐœ์ธํ™”ํ•˜๋ ค๊ณ  ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฑฐ์ฃ .
07:36
Now, we need to change this a little bit if we are accepting.
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์ด์ œ, ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋ฐ›์•„๋“ค์ด๋ ค๋ฉด ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ์•ฝ๊ฐ„ ๋ฐ”๊ฟ”์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:40
So, let's have a look at how we would change it if it was a "no".
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋ฉด, "์•„๋‹ˆ์š”"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋Œ€๋‹ตํ–ˆ์„ ๋•Œ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๋ฐ”๊พธ์—ˆ๋Š”์ง€ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:44
So, now it's no...
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ, ์ด์ œ๋Š”...
07:46
It's not "unfortunately", because we've got good news.
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"๋ถˆํ–‰ํžˆ๋„"๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ข‹์€ ์†Œ์‹์ด ์žˆ๊ฑฐ๋“ ์š”.
07:50
We can come.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋„ ๊ฐˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์–ด์š”.
07:51
We can come to this event.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋„ ์ด ํ–‰์‚ฌ์— ์ฐธ์„ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์–ด์š”.
07:54
So, let's go straight to there, and let's see how it reads.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿผ, ๋ฐ”๋กœ ๋“ค์–ด๊ฐ€์„œ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์ฝํžˆ๋Š”์ง€ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณด๋„๋ก ํ•˜์ฃ .
08:02
"Thank you so much for the very kind invitation to Ascot on the 12th November.
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" 11์›” 12์ผ ์• ์Šค์ฝง์— ์ดˆ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ฃผ์…”์„œ ์ •๋ง ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:09
I'm pleased to say that I, or we, are, or am, let's say we are, I am, able to attend
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์ €๋Š”, ๋˜๋Š” ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€, ๋˜๋Š” , ๋งํ•˜์ž๋ฉด, ์ €๋Š”, ์ฐธ์„ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ณ ,
08:18
and I'm very much looking forward to it.
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๋งค์šฐ ๊ธฐ์ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋งค์šฐ ๊ธฐ๋Œ€ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:23
Then, if you have any questions about the
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ด๋ฒคํŠธ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์ด ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด
08:25
event, that would be the right time for asking
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, ๊ทธ๋•Œ๊ฐ€ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์„ ํ•  ์ ์ ˆํ•œ ๋•Œ์ด๊ณ 
08:28
a question, and then sign off, saying goodbye, with very best wishes.
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, ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๋‹ค์Œ ์ž‘๋ณ„ ์ธ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ํ•˜๊ณ , ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ์†Œ์›์„ ์ „ํ•˜๋ฉฐ ๋๋ƒ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:34
Da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da."
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๋‹ค-๋‹ค-๋‹ค-๋‹ค-๋‹ค -๋‹ค-๋‹ค-๋‹ค-๋‹ค-๋‹ค."
08:37
Okay.
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์ข‹์•„์š”.
08:38
So, we've done the invitation, we're going,
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๊ทธ๋Ÿผ, ์ดˆ๋Œ€์žฅ์„ ์ž‘์„ฑํ•˜๊ณ  ,
08:41
date's in the calendar, now we need to prepare
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์ผ์ •์„ ์ •ํ–ˆ์œผ๋‹ˆ, ์ด์ œ๋Š” ์ž ์žฌ์ ์œผ๋กœ
08:45
the kind of things we might be talking about
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08:48
to some potentially influential people.
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์˜ํ–ฅ๋ ฅ ์žˆ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•  ๋งŒํ•œ ๋‚ด์šฉ์„ ์ค€๋น„ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:52
The small talk is absolutely vital, because it establishes whether someone is going to
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์žก๋‹ด์€ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€
08:58
like you, whether they're going to carry on
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๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ• ์ง€, ๋‹น์‹ 
09:01
wanting to have any kind of association with
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๊ณผ ์–ด๋–ค ์ข…๋ฅ˜์˜ ๊ต๋ฅ˜๋ฅผ ๊ณ„์† ์›ํ• ์ง€
09:04
you, and then even to the possibility of doing business, but that's a long way down
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, ์‹ฌ์ง€์–ด๋Š” ์‚ฌ์—… ๊ฐ€๋Šฅ์„ฑ๊นŒ์ง€ ๊ฒฐ์ •ํ•˜๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ์ ˆ๋Œ€์ ์œผ๋กœ ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ›จ์”ฌ ๋‚˜์ค‘์— ์ผ์–ด๋‚  ์ผ
09:09
the line, and you should never be thinking about it when you're making small talk.
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์ด๊ณ , ์žก๋‹ด์„ ๋‚˜๋ˆŒ ๋•Œ๋Š” ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด์„œ๋Š” ์•ˆ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:14
You just want to be trying to create an enjoyable experience for the other person.
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋‹จ์ง€ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์ด ์ฆ๊ฑฐ์šด ๊ฒฝํ—˜์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋„๋ก ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์„ ๋ฟ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:23
It's something you can plan for, so think about the kind of occasion you're going to.
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์ด๋Š” ๊ณ„ํšํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์‚ฌํ•ญ์ด๋ฏ€๋กœ ์–ด๋–ค ์ข…๋ฅ˜์˜ ํ–‰์‚ฌ์— ์ฐธ์„ํ• ์ง€ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด ๋ณด์„ธ์š”.
09:29
Think about who's inviting you.
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๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์ดˆ๋Œ€ํ•˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ๋ˆ„๊ตฌ์ธ์ง€ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด๋ณด์„ธ์š”.
09:32
You could even, if it's a social occasion, you can look on Facebook.
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์‹ฌ์ง€์–ด, ์‚ฌ๊ต ๋ชจ์ž„์ด๋ผ๋ฉด Facebook์—์„œ ํ™•์ธํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:37
Who's been invited to it?
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๋ˆ„๊ฐ€ ์ดˆ๋Œ€๋ฐ›์•˜๋‚˜์š”?
09:39
Who are these person's friends?
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์ด ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์˜ ์นœ๊ตฌ๋Š” ๋ˆ„๊ตฌ์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
09:41
If it's a business context, then think, well,
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์‚ฌ์—…์ ์ธ ๋งฅ๋ฝ์ด๋ผ๋ฉด,
09:45
who are the key clients of this particular
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์ด ํŠน์ • ์‚ฌ์—…์˜ ์ฃผ์š” ๊ณ ๊ฐ์ด ๋ˆ„๊ตฌ์ธ์ง€ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด๋ณด์„ธ์š”
09:48
business?
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. ๊ทธ๋“ค์€
09:49
What kind of interests are they likely to have?
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์–ด๋–ค ์ข…๋ฅ˜์˜ ๊ด€์‹ฌ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์งˆ ๊ฐ€๋Šฅ์„ฑ์ด ๋†’์„๊นŒ?
09:53
And then just think about some of the conversations you might have.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด ๋‚˜๋ˆŒ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋Œ€ํ™”์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด๋ณด์„ธ์š”.
09:59
Avoiding, I've said down here, avoiding politics,
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ํ”ผํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฑด, ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์—ฌ๊ธฐ ์•„๋ž˜์—์„œ ๋งํ–ˆ๋“ฏ์ด, ์ •์น˜,
10:02
religion, money, and anything really personal.
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์ข…๊ต, ๋ˆ, ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ •๋ง ๊ฐœ์ธ์ ์ธ ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฒƒ์„ ํ”ผํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๋œป์ด์—์š”.
10:05
So, you want to be looking at having conversations
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ,
10:09
that are not particularly serious, passing
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๋ณ„๋กœ ์ง„์ง€ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์€ ๋Œ€ํ™”, ์ž ๊น ๋‚˜๋ˆ„๋Š”
10:13
conversations, until you find that conversation,
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๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•ด์„œ, ๋Œ€ํ™”๊ฐ€ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ ์ด์–ด์ง€๋Š”
10:17
that area of interest where the conversation
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๊ด€์‹ฌ ์žˆ๋Š” ์ฃผ์ œ๋ฅผ ์ฐพ์œผ์„ธ์š”
10:21
flows.
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10:21
For example, last night, I'm filming this in Toronto, in Canada, and after ten days
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.
์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, ์–ด์ ฏ๋ฐค์— ์ €๋Š” ์บ๋‚˜๋‹ค ํ† ๋ก ํ† ์—์„œ ์ด ์˜์ƒ์„ ์ดฌ์˜ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์—ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ, ์นด๋ฉ”๋ผ
10:30
of not having too much contact with human
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10:34
beings other than my esteemed colleague behind
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๋’ค์— ์žˆ๋Š” ์กด๊ฒฝํ•˜๋Š” ๋™๋ฃŒ ์™ธ์—๋Š” ์ธ๊ฐ„๊ณผ ๊ฑฐ์˜ ์ ‘์ด‰ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์€ ์ฑ„ 10์ผ์„ ๋ณด๋‚ธ ํ›„์—
10:38
the camera, I decided to venture out, and I went to a social of other people from the
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๋ชจํ—˜์„ ๋– ๋‚˜๊ธฐ๋กœ ๊ฒฐ์‹ฌํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ทธ๊ณณ์— ๊ฐ”์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ† ๋ก ํ† ์— ์žˆ๋Š” ์˜๊ตญ์ธ๋“ค๊ณผ์˜ ์‚ฌ๊ต์ ์ธ ๋Œ€ํ™”๊ฐ€
10:46
UK who were in Toronto, and at that occasion,
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์žˆ์—ˆ๊ณ  , ๊ทธ ๋•Œ
10:52
the conversation struggled a little bit to
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๋Œ€ํ™”๊ฐ€
10:58
begin with, with one or two of them, until with two of them, I found that we had this
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์ฒ˜์Œ์—๋Š” ๊ทธ๋“ค ์ค‘ ํ•œ๋‘ ๋ช…๊ณผ ์•ฝ๊ฐ„ ์–ด๋ ค์› ์ง€๋งŒ, ๊ทธ๋“ค ์ค‘ ๋‘ ๋ช…๊ณผ๋Š” ์ถ•๊ตฌ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๊ณตํ†ต ๊ด€์‹ฌ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์•Œ๊ฒŒ ๋˜์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:03
shared interest of football, and once we started
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€
11:06
talking about football, we were away, like
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์ถ•๊ตฌ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜์ž๋งˆ์ž,
11:09
there was no stopping us.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ๋ง‰์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์€ ์•„๋ฌด๋„ ์—†๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ, ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋ฉ€์–ด์ ธ ๊ฐ”์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:11
But it's just, you know, finding out what kind of things they are interested in.
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ, ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋ฌด์—‡์— ๊ด€์‹ฌ์ด ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€ ์•Œ์•„๋‚ด๋Š” ๊ฑฐ์˜ˆ์š”.
11:18
Research and prepare, yep.
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์กฐ์‚ฌํ•˜๊ณ  ์ค€๋น„ํ•˜์„ธ์š”, ๊ทธ๋ ‡์ฃ .
11:21
Last night, I was very much with a group of people who were interested in football, not
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์–ด์ ฏ๋ฐค์—๋Š” ๋Ÿญ๋น„๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ ์ถ•๊ตฌ์— ๊ด€์‹ฌ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค๊ณผ ์–ด์šธ๋ ธ๊ธฐ
11:26
rugby, so I quickly had to ditch the rugby conversations and focus on football.
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๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๋Ÿญ๋น„์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๊ณง ์ ‘๊ณ  ์ถ•๊ตฌ์— ์ง‘์ค‘ํ•ด์•ผ ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:33
Now, if you were like me last night, and you're
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์ด์ œ, ๋งŒ์•ฝ ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด ์–ด์ ฏ๋ฐค์˜ ์ €์™€ ๊ฐ™์ด
11:37
going somewhere where you knew no one, you
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์•„๋ฌด๋„ ๋ชจ๋ฅด๋Š” ๊ณณ์œผ๋กœ ๊ฐ„๋‹ค๋ฉด,
11:40
have to take the initiative.
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์ฃผ๋„๊ถŒ์„ ์žก์•„์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:41
You have to be confident and lead and start and open conversations.
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์„ ๊ฐ–๊ณ  ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์ด๋Œ๊ณ  ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๊ณ  ์—ด์–ด๋‚ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:47
Introduce yourself.
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์ž๊ธฐ์†Œ๊ฐœ๋ฅผ ํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
11:49
Hey, I'm whatever your name is, nice to meet you, what's your name?
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์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”, ์ €๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์ด๋ฆ„์ด ๋ญ๋“  ์ƒ๊ด€์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋งŒ๋‚˜์„œ ๋ฐ˜๊ฐ‘์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์ด๋ฆ„์ด ๋ญ๋‹ˆ?
11:56
And find out why they're there, and keep the conversation going.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ์— ์žˆ๋Š” ์ด์œ ๋ฅผ ์•Œ์•„๋‚ด๊ณ  ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๊ณ„์†ํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ์ง€๋ฃจํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์—
12:02
If you're talking about something boring that
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๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๋‹ค๊ฐ€
12:04
becomes painful, change the conversation.
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๊ณ ํ†ต์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด ์ผ์ด ์ƒ๊ธฐ๋ฉด ๋Œ€ํ™” ์ฃผ์ œ๋ฅผ ๋ฐ”๊พธ์„ธ์š”.
12:07
You want to have approachable body language, yep.
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์ ‘๊ทผํ•˜๊ธฐ ์‰ฌ์šด ๋ฐ”๋”” ๋žญ๊ท€์ง€๋ฅผ ์›ํ•˜์‹œ์ฃ  .
12:10
Not just looking at a phone, yep, if you're looking at a phone, then it signals to not
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๋‹จ์ˆœํžˆ ํœด๋Œ€์ „ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋ณด๋Š” ๊ฒŒ ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ, ํœด๋Œ€์ „ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋ณด๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฑด
12:16
talk to that person.
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๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ํ†ตํ™”ํ•˜์ง€ ๋ง๋ผ๋Š” ์‹ ํ˜ธ์˜ˆ์š”.
12:17
So, put the phone away, yep, and be open to the environment in which you are in.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ ์ „ํ™”๋ฅผ ์น˜์šฐ๊ณ , ์˜ˆ, ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ํ™˜๊ฒฝ์— ๋งˆ์Œ์„ ์—ด์–ด๋‘์„ธ์š”.
12:25
Okay, in terms of a little bit more detail about the things to talk about, so you can
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์•Œ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•  ๋‚ด์šฉ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์กฐ๊ธˆ ๋” ์ž์„ธํžˆ ๋งํ•˜์ž๋ฉด , ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ฆ‰๊ฐ์ ์ธ ํ™˜๊ฒฝ
12:31
make statements and questions about the immediate environment and context.
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์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์ง„์ˆ ๊ณผ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๋ฌธ๋งฅ.
12:38
For example, have you ever been here before?
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์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ด๊ณณ์— ์™€๋ณธ ์ ์ด ์žˆ๋‚˜์š”?
12:43
So, the context that I was in yesterday evening
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ, ์–ด์ œ ์ €๋… ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์—ˆ๋˜ ์ƒํ™ฉ์€ ํ† ๋ก ํ† 
12:46
was British people in Toronto, so you could
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์— ์žˆ๋Š” ์˜๊ตญ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด์—ˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์—,
12:49
ask them about that context.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๊ทธ ์ƒํ™ฉ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋ฌผ์–ด๋ณผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์—ˆ์„ ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:51
How long have you been living here for?
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์—ฌ๊ธฐ์„œ ์‚ฐ ์ง€ ์–ผ๋งˆ๋‚˜ ๋์–ด์š”?
12:55
Do you live in this part of town, because it's a big city?
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ด ์ง€์—ญ์ด ํฐ ๋„์‹œ๋ผ์„œ ์ด ์ง€์—ญ์— ์‚ด๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‚˜์š” ? ์ด๋Ÿฐ ํ–‰์‚ฌ
13:01
Have you ever been to one of these events before?
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์— ์ฐธ์„ํ•ด ๋ณธ ์ ์ด ์žˆ๋‚˜์š” ?
13:05
Talking about corporate business entertaining,
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๊ธฐ์—… ๋น„์ฆˆ๋‹ˆ์Šค ์ ‘๋Œ€์— ๊ด€ํ•ด ๋ง์”€๋“œ๋ฆฌ์ž๋ฉด ,
13:09
how long have you known this company for?
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์ด ํšŒ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ์–ผ๋งˆ ๋™์•ˆ ์•Œ๊ณ  ๊ณ„์…จ๋‚˜์š”?
13:13
Have they ever taken you here before?
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๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์—ฌ๊ธฐ๋กœ ๋ฐ๋ ค๊ฐ„ ์ ์ด ์žˆ๋‚˜์š”?
13:16
The weather, passing comment can be a bit boring, so you don't want to bang on and on
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๋‚ ์”จ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋Š” ์ง€๋ฃจํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์œผ๋ฏ€๋กœ, ๋‚ ์”จ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๊ณ„์†ํ•ด์„œ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€๋Š” ์•Š์„ ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
13:22
and on about the weather.
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.
13:23
Yeah, we get the idea, it's raining, yeah, okay, it's cold, okay, you can't talk about
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๋„ค, ์ดํ•ดํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋น„๊ฐ€ ์˜ค๊ณ , ๋„ค, ์•Œ๊ฒ ์–ด์š”. ์ถ”์›Œ์š”. ์•Œ๊ฒ ์–ด์š”. ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ์˜ค๋ž˜ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๋ฉด ์•ˆ ๋ผ์š”
13:27
it for too long.
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.
13:30
How did they get there?
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ์— ๋„์ฐฉํ–ˆ๋‚˜์š”?
13:32
For example, last night, there was a group of people that had been at another event,
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์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, ์–ด์ ฏ๋ฐค์—๋Š” ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ํ–‰์‚ฌ์— ์ฐธ์„ํ–ˆ๋˜ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ๋ชจ์—ฌ์„œ
13:38
and they were catching the bus to where we were.
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๋ฒ„์Šค๋ฅผ ํƒ€๊ณ  ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ณณ์œผ๋กœ ์™”์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:42
So, one of the questions I could ask was, did you go to this other event?
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋ฌผ์–ด๋ณผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์งˆ๋ฌธ ์ค‘ ํ•˜๋‚˜๋Š” , ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ํ–‰์‚ฌ์—๋„ ๊ฐ”์—ˆ๋ƒ๋Š” ๊ฑฐ์˜€์–ด์š”.
13:48
And then that starts a whole conversation.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋ฉด ๋ณธ๊ฒฉ์ ์ธ ๋Œ€ํ™”๊ฐ€ ์‹œ์ž‘๋˜์ฃ .
13:51
Was it good, or if they hadn't been to it, so yeah, you're like me, you've been busy
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์ข‹์•˜๋Š”์ง€, ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋ ‡์ง€ ์•Š์•˜๋Š”์ง€, ๋„ค, ๋‹น์‹ ๋„ ์ €์™€ ๋งˆ์ฐฌ๊ฐ€์ง€๋กœ
13:57
today, and you can start a conversation about what you've been doing today.
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์˜ค๋Š˜ ๋ฐ”๋นด์„ ํ…Œ๊ณ , ์˜ค๋Š˜ ๋ฌด์Šจ ์ผ์„ ํ–ˆ๋Š”์ง€์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์„ ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๊ทธ ๋ฌธ์ œ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด
14:02
Keep the conversation on them, yep?
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๊ณ„์† ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜์„ธ์š” , ๊ทธ๋ ‡์ฃ ?
14:05
Be interested in the other person, and keep
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์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์—๊ฒŒ ๊ด€์‹ฌ์„ ๊ฐ–๊ณ 
14:08
it positive, oh, that's great, oh, that sounds
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๊ธ์ •์ ์ธ ํƒœ๋„๋ฅผ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ์˜ค, ๋ฉ‹์ง€๋‹ค, ์˜ค,
14:10
really interesting, that's good.
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์ •๋ง ํฅ๋ฏธ๋กœ์šธ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™๋‹ค, ์ข‹๋‹ค.
14:13
Think before you speak, especially if you've
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๋งํ•˜๊ธฐ ์ „์— ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜์„ธ์š” . ํŠนํžˆ,
14:17
been entertained, and the entertainment has
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์ฆ๊ฑฐ์šด ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ๋ณด๋ƒˆ๊ณ , ๊ทธ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด
14:21
been quite generous, maybe you have had a
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์•„์ฃผ ์ข‹์•˜๊ณ , ์™€์ธ์„ ๋ช‡ ์ž” ๋งˆ์…จ๋‹ค๋ฉด
14:23
couple of glasses of wine, it's more difficult
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, ๋งํ•˜๊ธฐ
14:27
to think before you speak, obviously, if you're
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์ „์— ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ๋” ์–ด๋ ค์šธ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฌผ๋ก ,
14:29
a child, then you're not drinking, so this
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์–ด๋ฆฐ์•„์ด์˜ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ, ๊ทธ๋ ‡๋‹ค๋ฉด ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ˆ ์„ ๋งˆ์‹œ์ง€ ์•Š์œผ๋ฏ€๋กœ ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‹น์‹ 
14:31
is not a problem for you, so do try and check
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์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฌธ์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๋Œ€ํ™”ํ•˜๊ธฐ
14:36
yourself before you talk to make sure that
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์ „์— ์ž์‹ ์„ ํ™•์ธํ•˜๊ณ  ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์„ ํ™”๋‚˜๊ฒŒ
14:40
you're not going to say anything that's going
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ํ•  ๋ง์„ ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋„๋ก ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
14:42
to upset them, and you're not going to ask
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14:44
a question that's too personal, or go into
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๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๊ฐœ์ธ์ ์ธ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์„ ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜,
14:48
a conversation where you feel uncomfortable.
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๋ถˆํŽธํ•จ์„ ๋Š๋ผ๋Š” ๋Œ€ํ™”์— ๋“ค์–ด๊ฐ€์„ธ์š”.
14:52
As I said, these are the topics to avoid, because we're trying to create connection,
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋งํ–ˆ๋“ฏ์ด, ์ด๋Ÿฐ ์ฃผ์ œ๋Š” ํ”ผํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋‹จ์ ˆ์ด ์•„๋‹Œ ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ์„ ๋งŒ๋“ค๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•˜๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
15:00
not disconnection, and people have strong views on these topics.
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. ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ์ด๋Ÿฐ ์ฃผ์ œ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๊ฐ•ํ•œ ๊ฒฌํ•ด๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
15:07
Even if you're speaking to someone who you find a little tedious, yep, not your cup of
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์กฐ๊ธˆ ์ง€๋ฃจํ•˜๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์„ ๋•Œ, ๊ทธ๋ ‡์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์ทจํ–ฅ์ด ์•„๋‹์ง€๋ผ๋„
15:13
tea, you still need to have good manners,
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, ์—ฌ์ „ํžˆ ์ข‹์€ ๋งค๋„ˆ๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์ ธ์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
15:16
yeah, you still need to listen to that person,
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๊ทธ๋ ‡์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์—ฌ์ „ํžˆ ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์˜ ๋ง์„ ๋“ค์–ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
15:20
obviously, you might be thinking, at some
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๋‹น์—ฐํžˆ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์–ด๋–ค
15:22
point, I would like to go and talk to someone
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์‹œ์ ์—์„œ ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ด์ง€๋Š”๋ฐ
15:24
else, but you need to have the grace to take
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, ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์—๊ฒŒ ๊ด€์‹ฌ์„ ๊ฐ–๋Š” ์€ํ˜œ๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์ ธ์•ผ ํ•˜๊ณ 
15:27
an interest in that person, and not rush the
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, ์„œ๋‘˜๋Ÿฌ ๋‚˜๊ฐ€์ง€ ์•Š์•„์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
15:33
exit, so, you know, not just walking off,
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. ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ "
15:36
like saying, oh, well, that sounds absolutely,
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์•„, ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ๋– ๋‚˜์„œ๋Š” ์•ˆ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ธ€์Ž„์š”, ๊ทธ๊ฑฐ ์ •๋ง ํ™˜์ƒ์ ์œผ๋กœ ๋“ค๋ฆฌ๋„ค์š”.
15:40
you know, fantastic, that sounds a little bit
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์ข€
15:43
insincere, well, it's been very interesting
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์ง„์ง€ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์€ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™๊ธฐ๋„ ํ•œ๋ฐ, ๊ธ€์Ž„์š”,
15:46
finding out about such and such, and I hope
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์ด๋Ÿฐ์ €๋Ÿฐ ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์•Œ์•„๊ฐ€๋Š” ๊ฑด ์ •๋ง ํฅ๋ฏธ๋กœ์› ๊ณ ,
15:49
that goes really well, it's been really nice
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์ž˜๋˜๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋ฐ”๋ผ์š”. ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„๊ณผ ๋Œ€ํ™”ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋˜์–ด ์ •๋ง ์ข‹์•˜์–ด์š”.
15:52
talking to you, I'm just going to have to go
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๊ทธ๋ƒฅ
15:56
and go to the bathroom, or whatever, yeah,
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ํ™”์žฅ์‹ค์— ๊ฐ€์•ผ ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๊ทธ๋Ÿด ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์œผ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ,
15:59
so closing conversations before you move on.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ๋„˜์–ด๊ฐ€๊ธฐ ์ „์— ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋๋‚ด๋Š” ๊ฒŒ ์ข‹์„ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„์š”.
16:04
Hopefully, with those small talk skills, you will
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๋‹คํ–‰ํžˆ๋„ ์ด๋Ÿฌํ•œ ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•œ ๋Œ€ํ™” ๊ธฐ์ˆ ๋กœ
16:08
have had an enjoyable, successful, constructive
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์ฆ๊ฒ๊ณ , ์„ฑ๊ณต์ ์ด๋ฉฐ, ๊ฑด์„ค์ ์ธ
16:13
event, and now we're going to look at how to say thank you after the event.
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ํ–‰์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์งˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์—ˆ๊ณ , ์ด์ œ๋Š” ํ–‰์‚ฌ ํ›„์— ๊ฐ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ํ‘œํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
16:19
Now, there are some that would say that it
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์ด์ œ,
16:21
should be the host following up after a business
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๋น„์ฆˆ๋‹ˆ์Šค ์ด๋ฒคํŠธ๊ฐ€ ๋๋‚œ ํ›„ ํ˜ธ์ŠคํŠธ๊ฐ€
16:24
event to make sure that the guests had, or have enjoyed whatever they were doing, but
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๊ฒŒ์ŠคํŠธ๊ฐ€ ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ํ–ˆ๋Š”์ง€, ๋˜๋Š” ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ํ–ˆ๋Š”์ง€ ํ™•์ธํ•˜๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ํ›„์† ์กฐ์น˜๋ฅผ ์ทจํ•ด์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ, ๋‚˜๋Š” ํ˜ธ์ŠคํŠธ๊ฐ€ ์ด๋ฒคํŠธ๋ฅผ ๋งˆ์น  ๋•Œ๋งˆ๋‹ค
16:31
I think it's good manners to thank a host whenever you've been hosted.
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๊ฐ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ํ‘œํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์˜ˆ์˜ ๋ฐ”๋ฅธ ํ–‰๋™์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ˜ธ์ŠคํŒ…๋˜์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
16:36
On that subject, if you would like to thank
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๊ทธ ์ฃผ์ œ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด, ๋งŒ์•ฝ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด
16:41
me, the channel, for putting content, useful
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๋‚˜, ์ฑ„๋„์—,
16:45
content for free to you guys, then you can do something for me, which is to subscribe
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๋‹น์‹ ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฌด๋ฃŒ๋กœ ์œ ์šฉํ•œ ์ฝ˜ํ…์ธ ๋ฅผ ์ œ๊ณตํ•ด์ค€ ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๊ฐ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ํ‘œํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๋ฉด, ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋‚˜๋ฅผ ์œ„ํ•ด ๋ฌด์–ธ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ YouTube์—์„œ ์ฑ„๋„์„ ๊ตฌ๋…ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
16:52
to the channel on YouTube, and then after you've
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์ด
16:56
done that, have a look at the www.engvid.com
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๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํ•œ ํ›„, www.engvid.com
17:00
website, and have a look at all the other videos that I have up there.
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์›น์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ๋ฅผ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณด์‹œ๊ณ , ๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ์— ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์˜ฌ๋ฆฐ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์˜์ƒ๋„ ๋ชจ๋‘ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณด์„ธ์š”.
17:06
I suggest going to the www.engvid.com website,
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www.engvid.com ์›น์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ๋กœ ๊ฐ€๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
17:09
because you can then select what type of videos
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋ฉด ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋ณด๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ๋น„๋””์˜ค ์œ ํ˜•์„ ์„ ํƒํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
17:12
you want to see from me, so I've got sections
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.
17:16
on business English, idioms, writing, vocab,
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๋น„์ฆˆ๋‹ˆ์Šค ์˜์–ด, ๊ด€์šฉ์–ด, ์“ฐ๊ธฐ, ์–ดํœ˜,
17:20
exam English, so you just select there which
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์‹œํ—˜ ์˜์–ด์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์„น์…˜์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ์ค‘์—์„œ
17:24
are the ones you want to watch most, and also
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๊ฐ€์žฅ ๋ณด๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ์ˆ˜์—…์„ ์„ ํƒํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ๋˜ํ•œ, ํ›Œ๋ฅญํ•œ
17:27
there are other teachers there who are excellent.
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜๋“ค๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
17:32
Okay, so how do we say thank you?
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์ข‹์•„์š”. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋ฉด ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•จ์„ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•ด์•ผ ํ• ๊นŒ์š”?
17:36
Dear, person's name, I just wanted to thank you for a fantastic day at...
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์นœ์• ํ•˜๋Š”, ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์˜ ์ด๋ฆ„, ์ €๋Š” ๋‹จ์ง€ ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ํ™˜์ƒ์ ์ธ ํ•˜๋ฃจ๋ฅผ ์„ ์‚ฌํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค...
17:43
Where did you go?
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์–ด๋””์— ๊ฐ”์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
17:44
Maybe it wasn't today.
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์•„๋งˆ๋„ ์˜ค๋Š˜์€ ์•„๋‹ˆ์—ˆ์„ ๊ฑฐ์˜ˆ์š”.
17:46
Maybe it was a meal.
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์•„๋งˆ๋„ ์‹์‚ฌ์˜€์„ ๊ฑฐ์˜ˆ์š”.
17:48
Maybe it was...
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์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๊ทธ๋Ÿด ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๊ฒ ๋„ค์š”...
17:50
So, you might need to change that.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ, ๊ทธ๊ฑธ ๋ฐ”๊ฟ”์•ผ ํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๊ฒ ๋„ค์š”.
17:53
Last...
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17:53
When was it?
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๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰์œผ๋กœ...
์–ธ์ œ์˜€๋‚˜์š”?
17:54
Last Tuesday?
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์ง€๋‚œ ํ™”์š”์ผ์š”?
17:55
Last Thursday?
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์ง€๋‚œ ๋ชฉ์š”์ผ? ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•œ ํ•œ
17:56
You should always try and do a thank you
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17:58
letter as soon after the occasion as possible.
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๋นจ๋ฆฌ ํ–‰์‚ฌ๊ฐ€ ๋๋‚œ ํ›„ ๊ฐ์‚ฌํŽธ์ง€๋ฅผ ์“ฐ๋„๋ก ํ•˜์„ธ์š” .
18:03
It can appear...
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๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋ณด์ผ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์ฃ ...
18:05
Well, the person might be waiting for a thank
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๊ธ€์Ž„์š”, ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์€ ๊ฐ์‚ฌ ํŽธ์ง€๋ฅผ ๊ธฐ๋‹ค๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์žˆ์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๊ณ 
18:06
you letter and think you're rude if you wait
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18:08
too long, and it's also fresher in your mind and easier to write soon after.
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๋„ˆ๋ฌด ์˜ค๋ž˜ ๊ธฐ๋‹ค๋ฆฌ๋ฉด ๋ฌด๋ก€ํ•˜๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๊ณ , ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๊ธฐ์–ต์—๋„ ๋” ์ƒ์ƒํ•ด์ง€๊ณ  ๋ฐ”๋กœ ์“ฐ๊ธฐ๋„ ๋” ์‰ฝ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
18:16
The hospitality was first class.
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ํ™˜๋Œ€๋Š” ์ผ๋ฅ˜์˜€์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
18:19
Now, "hospitality" is a formal word, and you
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"ํ™˜๋Œ€"๋Š” ๊ณต์‹์ ์ธ ๋‹จ์–ด์ด๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๊ฐ€์กฑ๊ณผ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์‹์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ํ•ด์ค€ ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๊ฐ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ํ‘œํ• 
18:22
wouldn't use this if you were thanking someone
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๋•Œ๋Š” ์ด ๋‹จ์–ด๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
18:26
for a meal with their family or something.
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.
18:30
You would probably make a specific comment on the dish that you had.
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋จน์€ ์š”๋ฆฌ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๊ตฌ์ฒด์ ์ธ ์˜๊ฒฌ์„ ๋งํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
18:34
The apple crumble was absolutely delicious.
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์‚ฌ๊ณผ ํฌ๋Ÿผ๋ธ”์€ ์ •๋ง ๋ง›์žˆ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
18:38
The...
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18:38
And now I'm starting to think about the actual
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๊ทธ...
๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ด์ œ ์‹ค์ œ์ ์ธ ์—”ํ„ฐํ…Œ์ธ๋จผํŠธ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ–ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ
18:43
entertainment, so the football match was absolutely
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, ์ถ•๊ตฌ ๊ฒฝ๊ธฐ๋Š” ์ •๋ง๋กœ
18:48
riveting, and I thought the result was probably
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ํฅ๋ฏธ์ง„์ง„ํ–ˆ๊ณ , ๊ฒฐ๊ณผ๋„ ์•„๋งˆ
18:51
about fair, but such a pleasure to be there.
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๊ณตํ‰ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์„๊นŒ ์ƒ๊ฐํ–ˆ์ง€๋งŒ, ๊ทธ๊ณณ์— ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ์ž์ฒด๊ฐ€ ์ •๋ง ์ฆ๊ฑฐ์› ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
18:55
Thank you.
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๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
18:57
I very much enjoyed speaking with...
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...๊ณผ ๋Œ€ํ™”ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋งค์šฐ ์ฆ๊ฒผ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
18:59
This is optional; you don't have to say that.
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์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์„ ํƒ ์‚ฌํ•ญ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•  ํ•„์š”๋Š” ์—†์–ด์š”.
19:02
It might not be relevant, pertinent to put it in.
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๊ด€๋ จ์„ฑ์ด ์—†๊ฑฐ๋‚˜, ๋„ฃ์„ ๋งŒํ•œ ๋‚ด์šฉ์ด ์•„๋‹ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
19:07
And it was...
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19:07
Maybe this is about them, and it was also very interesting to hear about...
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€...
์•„๋งˆ๋„ ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ทธ๋“ค์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์ผ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๊ณ , ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋“ฃ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋„ ๋งค์šฐ ํฅ๋ฏธ๋กœ์› ์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค...
19:12
Maybe the host told you about a business project they were doing.
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์•„๋งˆ๋„ ํ˜ธ์ŠคํŠธ๊ฐ€ ์ž์‹  ์ด ์ง„ํ–‰ ์ค‘์ธ ์‚ฌ์—… ํ”„๋กœ์ ํŠธ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋งํ–ˆ์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
19:17
So you at least pretend or show an interest in that because they have, you know, paid
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ์ ์–ด๋„ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์— ๊ด€์‹ฌ์ด ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ์ฒ™ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ค˜์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์™œ๋ƒํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋“ค์€
19:23
out for you to have a nice day.
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ข‹์€ ํ•˜๋ฃจ๋ฅผ ๋ณด๋‚ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋„๋ก ๋ˆ์„ ์คฌ์œผ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ์š”.
19:25
I do hope...
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์ €๋Š” ๋ฐ”๋ž๋‹ˆ๋‹ค...
19:27
Now this is about sort of future plans.
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์ด๊ฑด ์ผ์ข…์˜ ๋ฏธ๋ž˜ ๊ณ„ํš์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
19:29
What are you going to be doing next with that person?
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๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ๋‹ค์Œ์— ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ํ•  ๊ฑด๊ฐ€์š”?
19:32
I do hope we will be able to see you, da-da-da-da-da, as planned.
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๊ณ„ํš๋Œ€๋กœ, ๋‹ค-๋‹ค-๋‹ค-๋‹ค-๋‹ค-๋‹ค, ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ๋ต ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋ฐ”๋ž๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
19:39
Thanks once again.
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๋‹ค์‹œ ํ•œ๋ฒˆ ๊ฐ์‚ฌ๋“œ๋ฆฝ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
19:40
Best regards.
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๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
19:41
Okay.
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19:41
Quick review.
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์ข‹์•„์š”.
๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•œ ๊ฒ€ํ† .
19:42
Dear, person's name.
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์นœ์• ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ถ„์˜ ์ด๋ฆ„.
19:44
Thank them for...
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๊ทธ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๊ณ ๋ง™๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜์„ธ์š”...
19:45
Where did you go?
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์–ด๋””๋กœ ๊ฐ€์…จ๋‚˜์š”?
19:47
When was it?
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์–ธ์ œ์˜€๋‚˜์š”?
19:49
Talk about the food and the drink.
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์Œ์‹๊ณผ ์Œ๋ฃŒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•ด ๋ณด์„ธ์š” .
19:50
Talk about the event.
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ํ–‰์‚ฌ์— ๊ด€ํ•ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•ด ๋ณด์„ธ์š”.
19:52
Who did you enjoy speaking with?
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๋ˆ„๊ตฌ์™€ ๋Œ€ํ™”ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒŒ ์ฆ๊ฑฐ์› ๋‚˜์š”?
19:54
What did you enjoy speaking about with the host?
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ํ˜ธ์ŠคํŠธ์™€ ์–ด๋–ค ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„๋Š” ๊ฒŒ ์ฆ๊ฑฐ์› ๋‚˜์š”?
19:59
What are you going to do next?
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๋‹ค์Œ์—๋Š” ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ํ•  ๊ฑด๊ฐ€์š”?
20:01
Thank them again.
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๋‹ค์‹œ ํ•œ๋ฒˆ ๊ฐ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ํ‘œํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
20:03
Best regards.
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๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
20:04
This is business semi-informal.
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์ด๊ฑด ๋ฐ˜์ฏค ๋น„๊ณต์‹์ ์ธ ์‚ฌ์—…์ด์—์š”.
20:07
You wouldn't so much use that in a social context.
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์‚ฌํšŒ์  ๋งฅ๋ฝ์—์„œ๋Š” ๊ทธ๊ฑธ ๋ณ„๋กœ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๊ฑฐ์˜ˆ์š”.
20:13
Okay.
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20:13
To remind yourself of some of the content
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์ข‹์•„์š”. ์˜ค๋Š˜ ์˜์ƒ์˜
๋‚ด์šฉ ์ค‘ ์ผ๋ถ€๋ฅผ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•ด ๋ณด๋ ค๋ฉด
20:16
from today's video, you can do the quiz, which
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20:20
will pop up below, and I look forward to seeing you in the next video.
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์•„๋ž˜์— ๋‚˜ํƒ€๋‚˜๋Š” ํ€ด์ฆˆ๋ฅผ ํ’€์–ด๋ณด์„ธ์š”. ๋‹ค์Œ ์˜์ƒ์—์„œ ๋งŒ๋‚˜์š”.
์ด ์›น์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ ์ •๋ณด

์ด ์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ•™์Šต์— ์œ ์šฉํ•œ YouTube ๋™์˜์ƒ์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ „ ์„ธ๊ณ„ ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜๋“ค์ด ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ˆ˜์—…์„ ๋ณด๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ ๋™์˜์ƒ ํŽ˜์ด์ง€์— ํ‘œ์‹œ๋˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ” ํด๋ฆญํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ณณ์—์„œ ๋™์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋น„๋””์˜ค ์žฌ์ƒ์— ๋งž์ถฐ ์ž๋ง‰์ด ์Šคํฌ๋กค๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜๊ฒฌ์ด๋‚˜ ์š”์ฒญ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์ด ๋ฌธ์˜ ์–‘์‹์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ๋ฌธ์˜ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.

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