Do you change your voice when you speak English? Here’s why (+ listen to my voice in Hebrew😲)

254,905 views ・ 2019-12-10

Accent's Way English with Hadar


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Hey, there it's Hadar. Thank you for joining me.
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And today we are going to talk about why our voice changes when we speak in English.
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So have you ever felt like when you start speaking in English your voice all of a sudden changes?
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It's not your real voice, the way you're used to yourself in your native tongue
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or perhaps you feel like you're lacking the vocal presence in English that you have in
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your native tongue.
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Or maybe you're just exhausted after speaking in English even though that never happens
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to you in your native tongue.
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Or perhaps you have an idea about how English should sound
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or what is the voice of English
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and you just don't know how to get there or you're trying to get there
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but along the way you just feel extremely fake
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and everything is too tense and stressed and pushed.
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So this is what I'm gonna talk about today in this episode
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and I'm going to give you some strategies to help you improve and find your own voice in English
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and start getting comfortable with your voice in English
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because that is, my friend, so incredibly important.
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You need to feel like yourself, first and foremost,
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and if you stick with us till the end
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I'm also going to talk to you about the vocal placement of American English
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and show you how my voice is really different when I speak in English and when I speak in Hebrew
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which is my native tongue.
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Are you ready? I'm so excited about this one!
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Let's get started!
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Now for those of you who already know me you've probably noticed that we have a new guest
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in this video
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and that is my new microphone.
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The reason why I brought this microphone is one, because for video about voice you want
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the voice or the sound to be the best. So that's the best
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Two, I've already recorded this video three times before.
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This is the fourth time I'm making this video
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and for the first three times we had some sound issues, different sound issues each time.
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So I decided that I'm not taking any chances and I'm bringing on the big guns.
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And three, this is a great opportunity to let you know that I got this microphone for
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my up-and-coming podcast!
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Yes, I'm launching a new podcast in January of 2020!
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So make sure you subscribe to my channel or to my newsletter so you'll find out when that happens.
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Okay, let me tell you why I'm making this video about voice.
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A few weeks ago I walked out of my school, I teach in Tel Aviv.
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As you know I'm not a native English speaker. I speak Hebrew but with my students I only speak in English.
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And as we were walking out I said something in Hebrew.
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I think I was making a joke or I respond to something really quickly and it just came out in Hebrew.
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And my student just looked at me and said: "I thought it was a different person."
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And I said: "Yes, I know, my voice in English and my voice in Hebrew are quite different."
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And this triggered a whole conversation about vocal placement
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but also how we change our voices when we speak a second language
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and that got me thinking about my experience working with non-native speakers for over 10 years.
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And every time I start helping people get more comfortable with their voice in English
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it always comes down to their voices.
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Our voice is our true expression it's so intimate, we are so connected to our voice
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and if we don't feel comfortable with our voice we simply don't feel comfortable.
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We feel fake, we feel like it's someone else and that starts a whole snowball of self-consciousness.
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We start being so judgmental and we don't understand why we're so nervous and uncomfortable.
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Now why we change our voices?
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Well there are a few reasons for that and I'm gonna talk about that in a sec
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but you need to know that your voice is a mere reflection of your internal state
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and usually when we speak English if we feel insecure.
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It's going to come across in your voice unless you become aware of it
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because when you feel self-conscious, when you feel confident, when you feel happy,
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when you feel sad, when you feel anxious, when you feel scared,
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it shows up in your voice.
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The frequencies, the vibrations. Your emotions. Everything is expressed in your voice
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and that's a true gift.
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You'll notice that it's a lot easier for you to connect with someone
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who has an expressive voice.
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Someone that you can connect, understand what they feel, what they think as you listen to their voices.
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It creates trust and the sense of empathy.
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It's called rapport. When you have this connection with someone in a conversation
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and it's not based on verbal communication but nonverbal communication
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and their voice is a huge part of it.
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And this is why when you change your voice or manipulate your voice in English
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you don't feel like you can establish this connection
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and really sometimes it doesn't have anything to do with your vocabulary or grammar or mistakes that you make.
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You just don't feel like yourself in English.
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So I believe that working from the inside out, really learning how to connect with your voice in English
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will significantly help you communicate in English with confidence and with clarity.
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So as we said, your voice is an expression of your internal state
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and I've come to notice that my students who are insecure about their English
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tend to go way below their optimum pitch level when they speak in English.
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Optimum? What?
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Let me explain.
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Optimum pitch level is the ideal vocal placement for your voice.
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So in your optimum pitch level, your voice is at a level where you combine all the resonators in your body.
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Resonators? Can you just speak English?
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Vocal resonators are the areas in your body where your voice resonates.
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Your voice is frequencies, vibrations and for you to be able to hear something the
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voice needs to resonate, to hit a certain wall of something,
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a certain container and bounce around for you to hear it.
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Think of it like a musical instrument.
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Let's think of drums. If you have a small drum it's going to have
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a different sound than a large drum, right.
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Usually a larger instrument with a larger resonance box will generate a sound
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that is deeper, stronger, right.
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Versus a small drum or if you think of a guitar like a ukulele where the sound is thin and
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usually higher and softer, right.
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And the same goes for our vocal resonators.
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So the chest is a vocal resonator and it's relatively big.
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So that's the best place for the voice to resonate.
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Because you have a lot of space here.
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But your mouth is also a resonator, your nasal cavities, your sinuses, right.
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All the spaces inside your mouth are resonators. The smaller the space is the thinner the voices
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or the higher the lighter.
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And there is a difference between a voice that resonates in the chest
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where you can hear and feel those vibrations and when the voice resonates only in the head
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or the nose, right.
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That changes the, that's how we change the vocal placement.
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We just resonate it in different places in the body.
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Now I'm going to talk about the vocal placement of English and vocal placements in general in a different video
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but I just want you to be familiar with those terms.
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So the optimum pitch level is basically an ideal placement
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where you combine all your vocal resonators.
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Now this is the ideal we want to get there. It doesn't need to be perfect, remember.
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And we always want to observe our voice in relation to that ideal voice.
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Now going back to what I said when people feel insecure they tend to go a little lower
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in pitch than their optimum pitch level.
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So I'm going to show you how that might sound.
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For example, right now I'm going below my optimum pitch level.
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You can still hear me but I feel like I really need to force my voice to be heard.
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My voice is a little softer and it rings differently.
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It doesn't have that nice ring that I have when I speak here.
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Now this is effortless for me. This I don't need to strain anything. I didn't need to work hard.
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I feel like my voice is carried through the room and bounces off the walls
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and I don't have a lot of furniture here yet
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so you can maybe hear the echo.
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But when I go here my voice doesn't resonate as well and I feel like I'm straining my throat
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to speak and to be heard.
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And this is something that happens to a lot of the students.
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So if that happens to you I want you to ask yourself why that happens?
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Is it a habit? Do you do it in your native tongue as well?
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And maybe it's because there is something about speaking in English that scares you?
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And in a way you just don't want to be heard? And you hide your voice, you stifle your voice,
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you push it down.
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You don't want to be noticed. Sometimes that's the reason.
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You want to stay in the back and your voice stays in the back too.
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The result you are not being heard. Your voice is not carrying through.
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You are not expressing your emotions, you are not speaking and you feel exhausted after speaking.
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So you feel mm "this is just not for me" or you feel like you're not yourself.
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And then you're like "English is just not for me".
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No, you are doing something that is preventing you from being yourself,
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from feeling comfortable, okay.
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So let's try a little something to see if that is the case for you.
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I want you to start by just saying a sentence something like:
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"Hey, it's really nice to meet you!"
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Just say it.
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"Hey, it's really nice to meet you!"
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You now don't try to imitate me or my voice or how I say it.
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Say it like you'd normally say it if you were to approach someone.
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"Hey, it's really nice to meet you!"
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Say it again.
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And again.
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Now I want you to hum.
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mm
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Don't think about it. Don't try to imitate my hum.
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Just try to hum. Close your lips.
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mm
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Good.
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Now hum again and then say the sentence:
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mm
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"Hey, it's really nice to meet you!"
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Do it again.
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mm
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"Hey, it's really nice to meet you!"
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Now I want to ask you when you started your hum and when you're started your sentence
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Did you start on the same note? Was your voice in the same place?
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Or did you do something like this?
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mm hey it's really nice to meet you
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mm hey it's really nice to meet you
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Because if you did you shifted from your optimum pitch level.
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Because your hum if you don't manipulate it
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and if you don't try to make it sound like someone else's hum
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Your initial hum, your organic hum without thinking about it is usually your optimum pitch level.
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So it's an indication where your voice is most comfortable at
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and if this is quite different from the sentence that you said,
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the way where your voice was when you said that sentence
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then you want to look at this gap and ask yourself
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why that happens and see if you can do something about it.
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Because if you're doing something like:
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mm hey it's really nice to meet you
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Your voice is not in the ideal place and that causes all of the things that we discussed.
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So try to start with a hum again
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mm
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and just from there move on to a word like 'hey'.
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mm mm-hey
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Try to be on the same note and from there go to the sentence:
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mmm hey it's really nice to meet you Hey it's really nice to meet you.
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Now just check in with yourself and see that you're not pushing your voice,
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you're not working too hard. You always want to feel like when you speak in English
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you kind of lean back with a glass of wine or with a cocktail or with club soda
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and you're just like "all good, I'm chilling in the sun", okay.
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That's the quality of your voice or that's the quality that you want your voice to have.
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mm hey it's really nice to meet you.
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Starting with a hum can help you get there, okay.
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Now sometimes people go above their optimum pitch level.
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So sometimes you may hear someone doing something like this:
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mm hey it's really nice to meet you!
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Okay.
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Raise your hand if that's you.
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mm hey
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Straining your voice pushing your voice, pushing it up, right,
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using only your head voice and that's not good for your voice either.
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Cuz that kind of tension creates tension in your voice
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and tension in your voice creates tension in your body
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and tension in your body creates tension in your heart.
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And you know speaking a second language is stressful enough you don't need extra tension here. Okay.
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So shake it off, start again and if you tend to go higher in pitch
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then I want you to go back to the hum and do the very same thing here:
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mm hey hey
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No! Bring it down. mm hey
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Hey, it's really nice to meet you.
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I actually want you to visualize, like your voice has a color and you want that color
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to carry throughout the room:
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mm hey, It's really nice to meet you
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or
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mm hey, my name is Hadar.
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Don't say Hadar, say your name.
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mm Hey, my name is so-and-so.
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Okay.
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And this is how I want you to start exploring your voice
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and see if you can play with a placement of your voice.
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Now what I'm gonna say might seem a little controversial.
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You know when I say bring it back to your voice it probably means
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that you need to bring it back to the voice that you use in your native tongue.
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Now different languages have different vocal placements
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and a lot of times people teach you how to find the vocal placement of English
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and I'm going to talk about that at the end and in another video as well.
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Now I want you to remember this. Before trying to manipulate your voice to fit a certain criterion
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and to fit the expectation of what your voice in English should sound
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you need to know that you first need to sound like yourself.
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You first need to get comfortable with who you are in English.
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And to do that it has to go through your own voice
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even if it doesn't serve English that well it serves you.
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There are enough American voices out there in the world but there is only one you.
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So before trying to get somewhere else understand where you are at right now
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and only after you get comfortable with speaking English in your own voice
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and then starting to play with the different resonators and placements.
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I mean it's always great to improve your vocal presence even for native speakers
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that's when you can start shifting it to where you want to be
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but when you're in control. It doesn't happened to you. You make it happen. Right.
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I have changed my voice and I speak differently in English because I gradually found that placement
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while I was getting comfortable with my own voice.
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So this was not always my voice in English but I got there and now this is my voice.
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My voice. I just happen to speak in English. It's different than my voice in Hebrew
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You wanna hear? Okay? So I'm gonna say the whole thing in Hebrew now
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and you will see how different that is.
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So as you can see my voice in Hebrew is a lot lower than my voice in English
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and if I were to switch my voices between the languages it would feel extremely uncomfortable.
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And I would feel like I have to strain my voice to do that.
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Can't explain it. But as I said I haven't had this vocal placement when I first started
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speaking in English, right. My voice was closer to Hebrew
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but I was able to gradually shift it with exercises, with awareness and just by speaking.
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And it feels like English just took over a different place in my.. in my body
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and I loved it. I loved it and I don't wanna change it.
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But I had to go through a bunch of different steps before getting here.
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But do not go and do that (!) before getting familiar with your vocal needs in a way and what serves you best.
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Okay.
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That's it. I want you to let me know in the comments below what is the one thing that
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resonated the most with you in this video?
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Notice how I use the word resonated in a video about voice.
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After you're done with your comment be sure to subscribe to my Youtube Channel and come
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on over to my website to check it out because there's a lot of great stuff waiting
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for you there for free!
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Like an Accent Crash Course or a List of the most mispronounced words in English by non-native
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speakers and more.
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Thank you so much for being here have a beautiful day full of vocal vibrations
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and I'll see you next week in the next video. Bye!
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