Easy SMALL TALK tips in English: English Speaking Practice

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ไธ‹ใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžๅญ—ๅน•ใ‚’ใƒ€ใƒ–ใƒซใ‚ฏใƒชใƒƒใ‚ฏใ™ใ‚‹ใจๅ‹•็”ปใ‚’ๅ†็”Ÿใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ็ฟป่จณใ•ใ‚ŒใŸๅญ—ๅน•ใฏๆฉŸๆขฐ็ฟป่จณใงใ™ใ€‚

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Can you have natural small talk?
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่‡ช็„ถใชใ‚นใƒขใƒผใƒซใƒˆใƒผใ‚ฏใฏใงใใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
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Yes, you can.
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ใฏใ„ใ€ใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
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Let's talk about it.
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ใงใฏใ€ใใ‚Œใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
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Even native English speakers feel uncomfortable or awkward sometimes having small talk.
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่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’ๆฏๅ›ฝ่ชžใจใ™ใ‚‹ไบบใงใ•ใˆใ€ ๆ™‚ใ€…ๅฐใ•ใช่ฉฑใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใฏไธๅฟซใพใŸใฏใŽใ“ใกใชใๆ„Ÿใ˜ใพใ™ใ€‚
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Small talk means that you're not just saying, "Hi, see you later, bye," instead, you're
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ๅฐใ•ใช่ฉฑใจใฏใ€ ใ€Œใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏใ€ใพใŸๅพŒใงใ€ใ•ใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚‰ใ€ใจ่จ€ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ ใ‘ใงใฏใชใ
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having a short, light conversation, usually with someone in passing or before you're going
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ใ€้€šๅธธ ใ€้€šใ‚Šใ™ใŒใ‚Šใฎไบบใจใ€ใพใŸใฏใ‚‚ใฃใจ่ฉฑใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ๅ‰ใซใ€็Ÿญใใฆ่ปฝใ„ไผš่ฉฑใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™
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to have a more in-depth discussion.
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ใ€‚ ๆทฑใฟใฎใ‚ใ‚‹่ญฐ่ซ–ใ€‚
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When you see someone you know at the grocery store, when you have a quick conversation
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้ฃŸๆ–™ๅ“ๅบ—ใง็Ÿฅใ‚Šๅˆใ„ใซไผšใ†ใจใ
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with a coworker as you're eating lunch, or maybe when you're just wanting to make a new
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ใ€ๆ˜ผ้ฃŸใ‚’้ฃŸในใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใซๅŒๅƒšใจ็ฐกๅ˜ใซไผš่ฉฑใ™ใ‚‹ใจใใ€ใพใŸใฏ ๅ˜ใซๆ–ฐใ—ใ„ๅ‹้”ใ‚’ไฝœใ‚ŠใŸใ„ใจใ
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friend, you need to have good small talk skills.
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ใฏใ€ๅ„ชใ‚ŒใŸใ‚นใƒขใƒผใƒซใƒˆใƒผใ‚ฏใ‚นใ‚ญใƒซใŒๅฟ…่ฆใงใ™ใ€‚
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Today, we're going to cover some of the most common small talk questions and answers so
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ไปŠๆ—ฅใฏใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใƒ—ใƒญใฎใ‚นใƒขใƒผใƒซใƒˆใƒผใ‚ฏใฎๅฐ‚้–€ๅฎถใซใชใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€ๆœ€ใ‚‚ ไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใชใ‚นใƒขใƒผใƒซใƒˆใƒผใ‚ฏใฎ่ณชๅ•ใจๅ›ž็ญ”ใฎใ„ใใคใ‹ใ‚’ใ‚ซใƒใƒผ
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that you can be a professional small talk expert.
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ใ—ใพใ™ ใ€‚
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Let's go.
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ใ•ใ‚่กŒใ“ใ†ใ€‚
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The first topic is weather.
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ๆœ€ๅˆใฎใƒˆใƒ”ใƒƒใ‚ฏใฏๅคฉๆฐ—ใงใ™ใ€‚ ๆฐ—ๅ€™ๅค‰ๅ‹•ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใงใชใ„้™ใ‚Š
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Weather is a very simple, noncontroversial neutral topic, unless you're talking about
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ใ€ๅคฉๆฐ—ใฏ้žๅธธใซๅ˜็ด”ใง่ญฐ่ซ–ใฎไฝ™ๅœฐใฎ ใชใ„ไธญ็ซ‹็š„ใชใƒˆใƒ”ใƒƒใ‚ฏใงใ™ใ€‚
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climate change, in that case it's a little more serious to talk about, but we often use
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ใใฎๅ ดๅˆใ€ ่ฉฑใ™ใฎใฏใ‚‚ใ†ๅฐ‘ใ—ๆทฑๅˆปใงใ™ใŒใ€็งใŸใกใฏ
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this as an ice breaker.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’็ •ๆฐท่ˆนใจใ—ใฆใ‚ˆใไฝฟ็”จใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
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And ice breaker is a common expression we use when talking about introducing a conversation,
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ใใ—ใฆใ€็ •ๆฐท่ˆนใฏ็งใŸใก ใŒไผš่ฉฑใ‚’็ดนไป‹ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ™ใจใใซไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใช่กจ็พใงใ‚ใ‚Šใ€
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you're helping it to become less awkward.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใใ‚ŒใŒใ‚ˆใ‚ŠๅŽ„ไป‹ใซใชใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๅŠฉใ‘ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
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You're having some icebreaker or small talk discussion, and then you can relax and have
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็ •ๆฐท่ˆนใ‚„ใ‚นใƒขใƒผใƒซใƒˆใƒผใ‚ฏใฎ ใƒ‡ใ‚ฃใ‚นใ‚ซใƒƒใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ€ใƒชใƒฉใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚นใ—ใฆ้€šๅธธใฎใƒ‡ใ‚ฃใ‚นใ‚ซใƒƒใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใ‚’่กŒใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™
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a normal discussion.
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Some common weather questions you might ask are, "Isn't it a gorgeous day?
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ใ‚ˆใใ‚ใ‚‹ๅคฉๆฐ—ใฎ่ณชๅ• ใฏใ€ใ€Œใ‚ดใƒผใ‚ธใƒฃใ‚นใชๆ—ฅใงใฏใชใ„ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
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Can you believe how rainy it's been?
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้›จใŒใฉใ‚Œใปใฉ้™ใฃใŸใ‹ไฟกใ˜
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Is it hot enough for you?"
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ใ‚‰ใ‚Œใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ‚ใชใŸใซใจใฃใฆๅๅˆ†ใซๆš‘ใ„ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€ใงใ™ใ€‚
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This last one might seem a little strange, but it is a silly or humorous way to address
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ใ“ใฎๆœ€ๅพŒใฎ1ใคใฏๅฐ‘ใ—ๅฅ‡ๅฆ™ใซๆ€ใˆใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใŒ
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how extremely hot the weather is, or maybe extremely cold if you say, "Is it cold enough
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ใ€ๅคฉๆฐ—ใŒใฉใ‚Œใปใฉๆš‘ใ„ใ‹ใ€ใพใŸใฏใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใซใจใฃใฆ ๅๅˆ†ใซๅฏ’ใ„ใงใ™ใ‹ใ€ใจ่จ€ใˆใฐๆฅต็ซฏใซๅฏ’ใ„ใ“ใจใซๅฏพๅ‡ฆใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใฎๆ„šใ‹ใชใพใŸใฏใƒฆใƒผใƒขใƒฉใ‚นใชๆ–นๆณ•
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for you?"
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ใงใ™ใ€‚
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You're joking about the extreme temperature that you're experiencing and it's a light
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒ็ตŒ้จ“ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๆฅต็ซฏใชๆธฉๅบฆใซใคใ„ใฆๅ†—่ซ‡ใ‚’่จ€ใฃใฆใ„ ใพใ™ใ€ใใ—ใฆใใ‚Œ
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way to introduce a conversation.
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ใฏไผš่ฉฑใ‚’็ดนไป‹ใ™ใ‚‹่ปฝใ„ๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ™ใ€‚
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Notice that all three of these questions are not open-ended questions.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ3ใคใฎ่ณชๅ•ใฏใ™ในใฆใ€่‡ช็”ฑๅฝขๅผใฎ่ณชๅ•ใงใฏใชใ„ใ“ใจใซๆณจๆ„ใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ ใ€‚
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They are only yes or no questions, and this makes it a very simple way to introduce the
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่ณชๅ•ใฏใ€Œใฏใ„ใ€ใพใŸใฏใ€Œใ„ใ„ใˆใ€ใ ใ‘ใงใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ใ“ใ‚Œ ใซใ‚ˆใ‚Šไผš่ฉฑใ‚’็ดนไป‹ใ™ใ‚‹้žๅธธใซ็ฐกๅ˜ใชๆ–นๆณ•ใซใชใ‚Š
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conversation.
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ใพใ™ใ€‚
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The other person doesn't need to think about some kind of answer, they can just say, "Yes,
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ไป–ใฎไบบใฏใชใ‚“ใ‚‰ใ‹ใฎ็ญ”ใˆใ‚’่€ƒใˆใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใฏใชใ ใ€ใ€Œใฏใ„
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it is a gorgeous day.
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ใ€็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ๆ—ฅใงใ™ใ€‚
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Oh yes, it is so rainy.
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ใ‚ใ‚ใ€ใจใฆใ‚‚้›จใŒ้™ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
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Yes, it's really hot," very simple and it makes for a comfortable introduction.
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ใฏใ„ใ€ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซๆš‘ใ„ใงใ™ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ ใ‘ใง ใ€ใจใฆใ‚‚ใ‚ทใƒณใƒ—ใƒซใงใ€ ๅฟซ้ฉใช็ดนไป‹ใ€‚ ๅคฉๆฐ—ใซใคใ„ใฆ
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If you would like to learn some more ways to talk about the weather, I made a lesson
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ใ‚‚ใฃใจ่ฉฑใ™ๆ–นๆณ•ใ‚’ๅญฆใณใŸใ„ใฎใชใ‚‰ ใ€็งใฏ
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completely dedicated to the weather, a hundred expressions for talking about the weather.
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ๅฎŒๅ…จใซๅคฉๆฐ—ใซ็‰นๅŒ–ใ—ใŸใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใ‚’ใ—ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ๅคฉๆฐ—ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ™ใŸใ‚ใฎ็™พใฎ่กจ็พใงใ™ใ€‚
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You can watch that lesson up here to expand your weather vocabulary.
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ใ“ใ“ใงใใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆ ใ€ๅคฉๆฐ—ใฎ่ชžๅฝ™ใ‚’ๅข—ใ‚„ใ™ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
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Our second small talk topic is where you're at or your location.
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็งใŸใกใฎ2็•ช็›ฎใฎๅฐใ•ใช่ฉฑใฎใƒˆใƒ”ใƒƒใ‚ฏใฏใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใฉใ“ใซใ„ใ‚‹ ใ‹ใ€ใพใŸใฏใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅ ดๆ‰€ใงใ™ใ€‚
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Now, you need to think about this, of course, in an understanding way.
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ใ‚‚ใกใ‚ใ‚“ใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใซใคใ„ใฆ็†่งฃใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Š ใพใ™ใ€‚
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If you are at a hospital, you might not want to ask these questions, because if you say,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ็—…้™ขใซใ„ใ‚‹ใชใ‚‰ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ
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"Do you come here often?" and they're at the hospital, it might be a little bit too sensitive
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ใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใฏ้ ป็นใซใ“ใ“ใซๆฅใ‚‹ใฎใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใชใ‚‰ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ใ—ใŸใใชใ„ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ ็—…้™ขใซใ„ใพใ™ใ€ใใ‚Œใฏ่ฉฑใ™ใซใฏๅฐ‘ใ—ๆ•ๆ„Ÿใ™ใŽใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“
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to talk about.
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03:10
But you can use these questions for any type of location like a park, the zoo, a library,
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ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ่ณชๅ•ใฏ ใ€ๅ…ฌๅœ’ใ€ๅ‹•็‰ฉๅœ’ใ€ๅ›ณๆ›ธ้คจ
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a museum walking down the street.
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ใ€้€šใ‚Šใ‚’ๆญฉใ„ใฆใ„ใ‚‹็พŽ่ก“้คจใชใฉใ€ใ‚ใ‚‰ใ‚†ใ‚‹็จฎ้กžใฎๅ ดๆ‰€ใซไฝฟ็”จใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
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You can use these for most daily life situations.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฏใ€ใปใจใ‚“ใฉใฎๆ—ฅๅธธ็”Ÿๆดปใฎ็Šถๆณใงไฝฟ็”จใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
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Let's imagine that you see someone who you've met a couple of times, but you don't know
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ไฝ•ๅบฆใ‹ไผšใฃใŸใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‘ใ‚Œใฉ
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that well.
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03:29
You might talk about where you're at and you might ask, "This place is great.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏไปŠใฉใ“ใซใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใ‹่ฉฑใ— ใŸใ‚Šใ€ใ€Œใ“ใฎๅ ดๆ‰€ใฏ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
03:33
Do you come here often?
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ“ใ“ใซ้ ป็นใซๆฅใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ“ใ“ใซ
03:35
How long have you been coming here?
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ใฉใ‚Œใใ‚‰ใ„ๆฅใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹
03:37
Do you live near here?"
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03:39
If you're at a dog park, these are pretty common in the US, people bring their dogs
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใƒ‰ใƒƒใ‚ฐใƒ‘ใƒผใ‚ฏใซใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ ใฏ็ฑณๅ›ฝใงใฏใ‹ใชใ‚Šไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใงใ™ใ€‚ไบบใ€…ใฏ็Šฌใ‚’้€ฃใ‚Œใฆใใฆ
03:44
and their dogs can run freely together, well great, you already have something in common
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ใ€็Šฌใฏ่‡ช็”ฑใซไธ€็ท’ใซ่ตฐใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
03:49
because that other person probably has a dog, or if you're at the library, you both have
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ไป–ใฎไบบใŒใŠใใ‚‰ใ็Šฌใ‚’้ฃผใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ™ใงใซไฝ•ใ‹ๅ…ฑ้€š็‚นใŒใ‚ใ‚Š ใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅ›ณๆ›ธ้คจใซใ„ใพใ™ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏไธกๆ–นใจใ‚‚
03:54
an interest in books.
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03:55
You have something in common, your location, and you can ask these questions.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใซใฏๅ…ฑ้€š็‚นใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅ ดๆ‰€ใŒ ใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
03:59
"Do you come here often?
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ใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใฏ้ ป็นใซใ“ใ“ใซๆฅใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ“ใ“ใซ
04:01
How long have you been coming here?
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ใฉใ‚Œใใ‚‰ใ„ๆฅใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹
04:02
Do you live near here?
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๏ผŸใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ“ใฎ่ฟ‘ใใซไฝใ‚“ใงใ„ใพใ™ใ‹
04:03
Do you live in the area?"
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๏ผŸใ‚ใชใŸใฏใใฎๅœฐๅŸŸใซไฝใ‚“ใงใ„ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€
04:05
Great.
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ใ™ใ”ใ„ใ€‚ ใ‚ณใƒผใƒ’ใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒƒใƒ—ใ‚„ๅ›ณๆ›ธ้คจใ€ๅ…ฌๅœ’ใชใฉใ€้€šๅธธใฎใŸใพใ‚Šๅ ดใง
04:06
Let's say that you're somewhere that's not a regular hangout, like a coffee shop or a
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ใฏใชใ„ๅ ดๆ‰€ใซใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ—ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†
04:10
library or a park.
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04:11
Let's imagine that you were at the zoo or a museum, these kind of a special-occasion
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๅ‹•็‰ฉๅœ’ใ‚„็พŽ่ก“้คจใซใ„ใŸใจๆƒณๅƒใ—ใฆใฟใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ ใ€‚ใ“ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใช็‰นๅˆฅใชๆฉŸไผšใฎ
04:17
places, you could ask, "Have you seen the DaVinci exhibit?
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ๅ ดๆ‰€ใงใ€ใ€Œ DaVinciใฎๅฑ•็คบใ‚’่ฆ‹ใŸใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ‹
04:22
It's really cool," or, "Which exhibit do you like the most?
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๏ผŸๆœฌๅฝ“ใซใ‹ใฃใ“ใ„ใ„ใงใ™ใ€ใพใŸใฏใ€Œใฉใฎๅฑ•็คบใŒ ไธ€็•ชๅฅฝใใงใ™ใ‹
04:26
Have you seen the monkey exhibit?
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๏ผŸใ€ใจๅฐ‹ใญใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ็Œฟใฎๅฑ•็คบใ‚’่ฆ‹ใพใ—ใŸใ‹
04:30
It's amazing."
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๏ผŸใ™ใ”ใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚ใ€
04:31
You can use this to talk about the location where you're at.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใฆใ€็พๅœจใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๆ‰€ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ™ใ“ใจ ใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
04:34
What if you're in transit somewhere?
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ใฉใ“ใ‹ใง็งปๅ‹•ไธญใฎๅ ดๅˆใฏใฉใ†ใชใ‚Šใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
04:37
Maybe you're at an airport, you're at a train station, you're waiting for your subway to
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ใŸใถใ‚“ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ็ฉบๆธฏใซใ„ใฆใ€ ้ง…ใซใ„ใฆใ€ๅœฐไธ‹้‰„ใŒ
04:41
show up.
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็พใ‚Œใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๅพ…ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
04:42
Well, what are some questions you could ask to someone who maybe you don't know and you
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ใ•ใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ ็Ÿฅใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใชใ„ใ€ใใ—ใฆใ‚ใชใŸ
04:46
want to start a conversation with?
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ใŒไผš่ฉฑใ‚’ๅง‹ใ‚ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใ†่ชฐใ‹ใซใ‚ใชใŸใŒๅฐ‹ใญใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใ‚‹ใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎ่ณชๅ•ใฏไฝ•ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
04:49
You might ask, "So, where are you headed?"
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ใ€Œใงใฏใ€ใฉใ“ใซๅ‘ใ‹ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€ใจๅฐ‹ใญใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
04:52
Headed is a verb that we often use to say which direction are you going to.
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Headedใฏใ€ใฉใกใ‚‰ใฎๆ–นๅ‘ใซ้€ฒใ‚€ใ‹ใ‚’็คบใ™ใŸใ‚ใซใ‚ˆใไฝฟ็”จใ•ใ‚Œใ‚‹ๅ‹•่ฉž ใงใ™ใ€‚
04:56
"I'm headed to the office.
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ใ€Œ็งใฏใ‚ชใƒ•ใ‚ฃใ‚นใซๅ‘ใ‹ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™
04:58
I'm headed to San Francisco.
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ใ€‚ใ‚ตใƒณใƒ•ใƒฉใƒณใ‚ทใ‚นใ‚ณ
05:00
I'm headed to some place."
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05:03
This is a great question to ask, and I just want to let you know that if you ask someone
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„่ณชๅ• ใงใ™ใ€‚่ชฐใ‹ใซ
05:08
this and say, "Oh, so where are you headed?" and they say, "To work," okay, maybe if they're
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05:14
not open to conversation.
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ใจ่จ€ใ„ใพใ™
05:15
They just gave you a one-word answer, two-word answer, that's completely fine.
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05:20
Not everyone is going to be open to conversation, but I've started a lot of great conversations
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่ชฐใ‚‚ใŒไผš่ฉฑใ‚’ๅ—ใ‘ๅ…ฅใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ‚ใ‘ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ ใŒใ€็งใฏใใ‚Œใ‚’่ฉฆใ—ใฆใฟใ‚‹ใ ใ‘ใงใ€ใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใฎ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ไผš่ฉฑใ‚„ๅ‹ๆƒ…ใ‚’ๅง‹ใ‚ใพใ—ใŸ
05:26
and even friendships by trying to just give it a try.
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05:31
Try to speak with someone else who you feel like might be open to having a conversation
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ไผš่ฉฑใ‚’ใ—ใŸใ‚Š
05:36
and also respecting other people's distance if they're not interested.
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ใ€่ˆˆๅ‘ณใŒใชใ„ๅ ดๅˆใฏไป–ใฎไบบใฎ่ท้›ขใ‚’ๅฐŠ้‡ใ—ใŸใ‚Šใงใใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ†ไบบใจ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใฟ ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
05:40
When you have established that the other person might be interested in talking, if they say,
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ไป–ใฎไบบ ใŒ่ฉฑใซ่ˆˆๅ‘ณใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใชใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’็ขบ่ชใ—ใŸใจใใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒ
05:44
"I'm headed to San Francisco," you could ask, "Are you traveling for business or pleasure?"
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ใ€Œ็งใฏใ‚ตใƒณใƒ•ใƒฉใƒณใ‚ทใ‚นใ‚ณใซๅ‘ใ‹ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใชใ‚‰ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใฏ ใƒ“ใ‚ธใƒใ‚นใพใŸใฏๅจฏๆฅฝใฎใŸใ‚ใซๆ—…่กŒใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€ใจๅฐ‹ใญใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
05:51
Business is kind of obvious for work, pleasure might mean they're visiting family or they're
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ใƒ“ใ‚ธใƒใ‚นใฏไป•ไบ‹ใซใจใฃใฆใฏๆ˜Žใ‚‰ใ‹ใงใ™ใ€‚ๅ–œใณ ใจใฏใ€ๅฎถๆ—ใ‚’่จชใญใŸใ‚Š
05:55
doing something for fun, for vacation, something like this.
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05:59
This is a good way to continue the conversation.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏไผš่ฉฑใ‚’็ถšใ‘ใ‚‹่‰ฏใ„ๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ™ใ€‚
06:03
Of course, you have to be aware that if someone is traveling for a sensitive reason, for example,
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ใ‚‚ใกใ‚ใ‚“ใ€่ชฐใ‹ ใŒใƒ‡ใƒชใ‚ฑใƒผใƒˆใช็†็”ฑใงๆ—…่กŒใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใ€ใŸใจใˆใฐ
06:09
they're going to a funeral, don't push the topic too much.
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ใ€่‘ฌๅผใซ่กŒใๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€ใƒˆใƒ”ใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚’ใ‚ใพใ‚Šใƒ—ใƒƒใ‚ทใƒฅใ—ใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ†ใซๆณจๆ„ใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ ใ€‚
06:13
You can just shift your questions accordingly so that the other person also feels comfortable.
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ใใ‚Œใซๅฟœใ˜ใฆ่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ใ‚ทใƒ•ใƒˆใ™ใ‚‹ใ ใ‘ ใงใ€ไป–ใฎไบบใ‚‚ๅฟซ้ฉใซๆ„Ÿใ˜ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
06:19
Our third topic for small talk conversation is to talk about your plans.
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ใ‚นใƒขใƒผใƒซใƒˆใƒผใ‚ฏไผš่ฉฑใฎ3็•ช็›ฎใฎใƒˆใƒ”ใƒƒใ‚ฏ ใฏใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ่จˆ็”ปใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ™ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
06:24
You can talk about the past, in the present, in the future.
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้ŽๅŽปใ€็พๅœจใ€ๆœชๆฅใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ™ใ“ใจใŒใงใ ใพใ™ใ€‚
06:27
In this first scenario, you run into someone who you kind of know but you maybe don't know
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ใ“ใฎๆœ€ๅˆใฎใ‚ทใƒŠใƒชใ‚ชใงใฏใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ไบบใซๅ‡บใใ‚ใ—ใพใ™ใŒใ€ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ‚ใพใ‚Šใ‚ˆใ็Ÿฅใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“
06:32
too well, or you haven't seen them in a little while.
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ใ€ใพใŸใฏใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ—ใฐใ‚‰ใใฎ้–“ๅฝผใ‚‰ใซไผšใฃใฆใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚
06:35
You can ask them, "Hey, how are you?
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ใ€Œใญใˆใ€ใŠๅ…ƒๆฐ—ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸไฝ•ใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎ๏ผŸใ€ใจ่žใใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
06:37
What have you been up to?"
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06:39
You don't need to ask, "How are you?"
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ใ€ŒใŠๅ…ƒๆฐ—ใงใ™ใ‹ใ€ใจๅฐ‹ใญใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
06:41
but it just feels really comfortable and it introduces the conversation instead of being
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ใงใ‚‚ใใ‚Œใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใซๅฟƒๅœฐใ‚ˆใ
06:47
like an interrogation, "Hey, what have you been up to?"
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ใ€ใ€Œใญใˆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏไฝ•ใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎ๏ผŸใ€ใจใ„ใ†ๅฐ‹ๅ•ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใงใฏใชใใ€ไผš่ฉฑใ‚’็ดนไป‹ ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
06:50
Instead, when you say, "Hey, how are you?
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ไปฃใ‚ใ‚Šใซใ€ใ€Œใญใˆใ€ใŠๅ…ƒๆฐ—ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
06:53
What have you been up to?" you can smoothly introduce the conversation.
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ไฝ•ใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎ๏ผŸใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใจใใ€‚ ไผš่ฉฑใ‚’ใ‚นใƒ ใƒผใ‚บใซ็ดนไป‹ใงใใพใ™ ใ€‚
06:58
If you haven't seen this person in a while, you might say, "We have so much to catch up
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ใ“ใฎไบบใซใ—ใฐใ‚‰ใไผšใฃใฆใ„ใชใ„ๅ ดๅˆ ใฏใ€ใ€Œ่ฟฝใ„ใคใใ“ใจใŒใŸใใ•ใ‚“
07:03
on.
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07:04
What are you up to this weekend?"
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ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ไปŠ้€ฑๆœซใฏไฝ•ใ‚’ใ—ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
07:06
This is asking about the future, this future weekend, "What are you up to?"
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏๆœชๆฅใซใคใ„ใฆๅฐ‹ใญใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€ใ“ใฎๆœชๆฅใฎ ้€ฑๆœซใ€ใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใฏไฝ•ใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€
07:11
Now, of course, if you're asking this, it means that you would like to get together
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ใ•ใฆใ€ใ‚‚ใกใ‚ใ‚“ใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’ๆฑ‚ใ‚ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใชใ‚‰ใ€ใใ‚Œ ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒไป–ใฎไบบใจไธ€็ท’ใซใชใฃใฆ่ฟฝใ„ใคใใŸใ„ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™
07:15
with the other person and catch up.
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07:18
This phrasal verb, to catch up, means that you are learning about what has happened to
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ใ“ใฎๅฅๅ‹•่ฉžใฏใ€่ฟฝใ„ใคใใŸใ‚ใซใ€ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ้ŽๅŽปใซๅฝผใ‚‰ใซไฝ•ใŒ่ตทใ“ใฃใŸใ‹ใซใคใ„ใฆๅญฆใ‚“ใงใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™
07:22
them in the past.
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07:24
Maybe you don't know, you haven't seen them since elementary school, so you have a lot
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่ฆ‹ใŸใ“ใจใŒใชใ„ ใฎใงใ€่ฟฝใ„ใคใใ“ใจใŒใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใ‚ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฎ็”Ÿๆดป
07:29
to catch up on, you want to know what's going on in their life.
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ใฎไธญใงไฝ•ใŒ่ตทใ“ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใ‹็Ÿฅใ‚ŠใŸใ„ใฎใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚
07:33
If you ask this, be prepared to make some plans and to have some availability, that
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’ๅฐ‹ใญใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€ใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎ่จˆ็”ปใ‚’็ซ‹ใฆใ€ใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎๅฏ็”จๆ€งใ‚’็ขบไฟใ™ใ‚‹ๆบ–ๅ‚™ใ‚’
07:38
way you can follow through on your question.
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ใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ใใ†ใ™ใ‚Œใฐใ€่ณชๅ•ใซ็ญ”ใˆใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
07:41
You can also ask the informal question, "Do you want to grab coffee?
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07:46
Do you want to grab a drink?
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ใ‚’้ฃฒใฟใŸใ„ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ้ฃฒใฟ็‰ฉใ‚’้ฃฒใฟใŸใ„ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
07:48
Do you want to grab lunch, brunch, dinner, and catch up?"
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ๆ˜ผ้ฃŸใ€ใƒ–ใƒฉใƒณใƒใ€ๅค•้ฃŸใ‚’ ๅ–ใ‚Šใ€่ฟฝใ„ใคใใŸใ„ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€ใจใ„ใ†้žๅ…ฌๅผใฎ่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
07:54
To grab something, usually we use this in a very informal situation so that it doesn't
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08:00
seem like you need to sit there and talk for five hours.
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08:03
Instead, you're just going to grab a coffee, maybe a 30-minute conversation, one-hour conversation,
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08:10
very informal and spontaneous.
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08:12
It's also potentially an easier way to not make someone feel uncomfortable if they say
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ใใ‚Œใฏใใ‚Œใปใฉๆทฑๅˆปใงใฏใชใ„ใฎใงใ€ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒใƒŽใƒผใจ่จ€ใฃใŸๅ ดๅˆใซ่ชฐใ‹ใŒไธๅฟซใซๆ„Ÿใ˜ใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใฎใ‚ˆใ‚Š็ฐกๅ˜ใชๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ‚ใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Š
08:19
no, because it's not so serious.
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ใพใ™ใ€‚
08:22
Just a little note.
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08:23
If you are a guy asking a girl or any combination I imagine, if you say, "Do you want to grab
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๅฅณใฎๅญใ‚„็งใŒๆƒณๅƒใ™ใ‚‹ไปปๆ„ใฎ็ต„ใฟๅˆใ‚ใ›ใ‚’ๅฐ‹ใญใ‚‹็”ทใชใ‚‰ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ ใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸ
08:31
coffee with me?"
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ใฏ็งใจไธ€็ท’ใซใ‚ณใƒผใƒ’ใƒผใ‚’้ฃฒใฟใŸใ„ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใชใ‚‰ใ€‚ ๆ—ฅไป˜ใ‚’ๅฐ‹ใญใŸใใชใ„
08:33
make sure that you say this very lightly if you don't want to ask them on a date, because
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08:40
for me, if a guy tells me this and says, "Hey, do you want to grab lunch later?" and they
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็งใซใจใฃใฆใ€็”ทใŒใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’่จ€ใฃใฆใ€ใ€Œใญใˆใ€ ๅพŒใงๆ˜ผ้ฃŸใ‚’ๅ–ใ‚ŠใŸใ„ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€ใจ่จ€ใฃใŸๅ ดๅˆใ€‚ ๅฝผใ‚‰
08:45
don't know me or they don't know that I'm married.
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08:49
Then I will feel really uncomfortable because is it a date?
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ใ˜ใ‚ƒใ‚ใƒ‡ใƒผใƒˆใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ™ใ”ใๆฐ—ๆŒใกๆ‚ชใ„ ๏ผŸ
08:52
Is it not a date?
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ใƒ‡ใƒผใƒˆใ˜ใ‚ƒใชใ„๏ผŸ
08:53
Do I want to just talk with them?
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใจ่ฉฑใ—ใŸใ„ใ ใ‘ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
08:56
Make sure that if you are in this situation, you just ask in a very light and happy manner.
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ใ“ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใช็Šถๆณใซใ‚ใ‚‹ ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€้žๅธธใซ่ปฝใใฆๅนธใ›ใชๆ–นๆณ•ใง่ณชๅ•ใ™ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
09:02
Of course, if you do want to ask them on a date, this is a good question to ask.
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09:06
Finally talking about your plans, we have two very safe questions you can ask.
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09:10
The first one is, "I can't believe it's already time for," some kind of holiday, whatever
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ไธ€ใค็›ฎใฏใ€ใ€Œใ‚‚ใ†ๆ™‚้–“ใ ใชใ‚“ใฆไฟกใ˜ใ‚‰ใ‚Œใชใ„ใ€ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใง ใ€ใฉใ‚“ใชไผ‘ๆ—ฅใŒๆฅใ‚ˆใ†ใจใ‚‚ใ€ใ‚ใ‚‹็จฎใฎไผ‘ๆ—ฅ
09:16
holiday is coming up.
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09:17
"I can't believe it's already time for Thanksgiving.
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09:20
I can't believe it's already time for Christmas, for the New Year, for spring break.
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ใ ใจใฏไฟกใ˜ใ‚‰ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ใ‚ฏใƒชใ‚นใƒžใ‚นใ€ๆญฃๆœˆใ€ๆ˜ฅไผ‘ใฟใฎๆ™‚ๆœŸใ ใจใฏไฟกใ˜ใ‚‰ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚
09:27
Do you have any plans?"
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09:29
This is asking them about the future, "What are you going to do for the holiday season?"
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09:33
Or you can simply ask, "Do you have any plans for this weekend?"
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ใพใŸใฏใ€ใ€ŒไปŠ้€ฑๆœซใฎไบˆๅฎšใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€ใจ็ฐกๅ˜ใซๅฐ‹ใญใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใ ใพใ™ใ€‚
09:37
Ask it very lightly so they know that you are just simply asking, "Hey, what are you
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้žๅธธใซ่ปฝใ ่žใ„ใฆใ€ใ€Œใญใˆใ€
09:42
up to this weekend?
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ไปŠ้€ฑๆœซใฏไฝ•ใ‚’
09:43
Do you have any plans for this weekend?"
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09:46
Great small talk.
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็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ๅฐใ•ใช่ฉฑใ€‚
09:47
Our next small talk topic is a job.
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ๆฌกใฎใ‚นใƒขใƒผใƒซใƒˆใƒผใ‚ฏใƒˆใƒ”ใƒƒใ‚ฏใฏไป•ไบ‹ใงใ™ใ€‚ ไธ€็ท’ใซไป•ไบ‹ใ‚’
09:51
Even if you're talking with someone who you work with, you can alter these questions slightly
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09:55
and still talk about your job with them.
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่‡ชๅˆ†ใฎไป•ไบ‹ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ๅˆใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
09:58
In fact, it might be the best option because it's something that you already have in common.
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10:03
If you're talking with someone you've never met before, this is a great question to ask,
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ใ“ใ‚ŒใพใงใซไผšใฃใŸใ“ใจใฎใชใ„ไบบใจ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆ ใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ
10:06
"So, what do you do?" or, "So, what do you do for work?"
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10:12
Sometimes we leave off the last part, for work, and we simply ask, "So, what do you
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ๆ™‚ใ€…ใ€ไป•ไบ‹ใฎใŸใ‚ใซๆœ€ๅพŒใฎ้ƒจๅˆ† ใ‚’็œใ„ใฆใ€ๅ˜ใซใ€Œใใ‚Œใงใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏไฝ•ใ‚’ใ—ใพใ™
10:17
do?"
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10:18
This might seem a little bit vague for English learners who've never heard this expression
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ€ใ“ใ‚Œ ใพใงใ“ใฎ่กจ็พใ‚’่žใ„ใŸใ“ใจใŒใชใ„่‹ฑ่ชžๅญฆ็ฟ’่€…ใซใจใฃใฆใฏๅฐ‘ใ—ๆ›–ๆ˜งใซ่ฆ‹ใˆใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใŒใ€
10:22
before, but it is extremely common.
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10:25
I want to make sure that when someone asks you, "So, what do you do?"
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่ชฐใ‹ใŒ ใ‚ใชใŸใซใ€Œใใ‚Œใงใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏไฝ•ใ‚’ใ—ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€ใจๅฐ‹ใญใ‚‹ใจใใ€็งใฏใใ‚Œใ‚’็ขบๅฎŸใซใ—ใŸใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
10:28
you might say, "What do I do?
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ใ€Œ็งใฏไฝ•ใ‚’ใ—ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
10:30
Well, I eat breakfast, I wake up, I breathe.
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ใพใ‚ใ€็งใฏๆœ้ฃŸใ‚’้ฃŸในใ€็›ฎใ‚’่ฆšใพใ—ใ€ๅ‘ผๅธใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
10:35
I like to run."
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10:36
No, no, no, this is talking about your job, what do you do.
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10:39
Next, you could ask them, "How long have you been doing this job?
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ๆฌกใซใ€ใ€Œ ใ“ใฎไป•ไบ‹ใ‚’
10:45
How long have you been an architect?
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ใฉใฎใใ‚‰ใ„ใ‚„ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸๅปบ็ฏ‰ๅฎถใซใชใฃใฆใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
10:48
How long have you been a nurse?
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10:50
How long have you been a builder?"
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10:52
Well, this is great, you're trying to ask some more details.
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10:56
If they haven't done that job for very long, you can follow that up with, "So, what did
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11:01
you do before this?"
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11:03
What did you do before this, this means this current job, what was your previous job, or
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11:08
maybe you were a student or maybe you were traveling, what did you do before this.
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11:13
You might notice that I'm starting a lot of these questions with the word so.
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11:17
It just provides a smooth entrance to your question so that it doesn't sound like an
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ใใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใชใŸใฎ่ณชๅ•ใธใฎใ‚นใƒ ใƒผใ‚บใชๅ…ฅใ‚Šๅฃใ‚’ๆไพ›ใ™ใ‚‹ใ ใ‘ ใชใฎใงใ€ๅฐ‹ๅ•ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซใฏ่žใ“ใˆใพใ›ใ‚“
11:24
interrogation.
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11:25
"What do you do?
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ใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใฏไฝ•ใ‚’ใ—ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
11:26
How often have you done this?
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’ใฉใฎใใ‚‰ใ„ใฎ้ ปๅบฆใง่กŒใ„ใพใ—ใŸใ‹๏ผŸ
11:27
Where are you coming?
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11:28
How often do you come here?"
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11:30
If you ask questions like this, the other person will feel uncomfortable so we often
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ใ“ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใช่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใจใ€ ็›ธๆ‰‹ใŒไธๅฟซใซๆ„Ÿใ˜ใ‚‹
11:34
add these filler words, like so, to make it seem more casual and just more natural.
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11:40
"So, what did you do before this?
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11:42
So, how long have you done this job?"
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11:44
Great idea.
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11:45
If someone really likes their job, you could ask, "So, what made you get into architecture?
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่ชฐใ‹ใŒ่‡ชๅˆ†ใฎไป•ไบ‹ใ‚’ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซๆฐ—ใซๅ…ฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใชใ‚‰ ใ€ใ€Œใใ‚Œใงใ€ใชใœใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅปบ็ฏ‰
11:50
So, what made you get into teaching?"
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11:54
If someone is a teacher, I'm sure they'd love to share about how they became interested
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11:58
in teaching.
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11:59
That's what the essence of this question is, "So, how did you get into teaching?"
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12:06
Especially if you have an unusual job, like my job, which is to teach you English online,
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12:11
a lot of people ask me this question, "How did you get into teaching English on YouTube
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ใ€ๅคšใใฎไบบใŒใ€Œ YouTubeใ‚„ใ‚ชใƒณใƒฉใ‚คใƒณใง่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’ๆ•™ใˆใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใชใฃใŸใใฃใ‹ใ‘ใฏไฝ•
12:17
and online?"
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12:18
I tell a little background story about teaching English in the classroom, and then I was searching
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12:24
online for how to teach English in the US and I found out I could teach English online
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12:28
and I just started to dive into it and give it a try.
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ใ€ใใ—ใฆ็งใฏใกใ‚‡ใ†ใฉใใ‚Œใซ้ฃ›ใณ่พผใ‚“ใง ใใ‚Œใ‚’่ฉฆใ—ใฆใฟใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
12:32
This is a little background story to talk about how I became interested in my current
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ ใ€็งใŒ็พๅœจใฎไป•ไบ‹ใซใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่ˆˆๅ‘ณใ‚’ๆŒใฃใŸใฎใ‹ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ™ใŸใ‚ใฎใกใ‚‡ใฃใจใ—ใŸ่ƒŒๆ™ฏ่ฉฑ
12:36
job.
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12:37
Not everybody likes their job though, so if someone doesn't seem that excited about their
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12:42
job and you want to learn more about them, you could ask them this fun question, which
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใซใคใ„ใฆใ‚‚ใฃใจ็Ÿฅใ‚Š ใŸใ„ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€ใ“ใฎๆฅฝใ—ใ„่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹
12:46
is, "If money was no object, what job would you do?"
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ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ่กŒใ†๏ผŸ"
12:52
This means if you didn't need to make money or you didn't care about how much money you
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ใคใพใ‚Šใ€ใŠ้‡‘ใ‚’็จผใๅฟ…่ฆใŒใชใ‹ใฃใŸใ‚Šใ€ใ„ใใ‚‰ใŠ้‡‘ใ‚’็จผใ„ใ ใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใชใ‹ใฃใŸใจใ—
12:58
had, what kind of job would you have?
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13:00
This is a classic question and it really gets to the heart of someone's passion.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏๅคๅ…ธ็š„ใช่ณชๅ•ใงใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ ่ชฐใ‹ใฎๆƒ…็†ฑใฎๆ ธๅฟƒใซใชใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
13:05
Maybe they love horses, but they just don't think they can make a career out of loving
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13:12
horses.
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13:13
They might say, "Oh, I really wish I could be a horse trainer and teach people how to
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13:18
ride horses."
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13:19
Well, great, all of a sudden you have a treasure, which is a piece of information about the
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13:25
other person.
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13:26
They love horses, great.
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ้ฆฌใŒๅคงๅฅฝใใงใ™ใ€‚
13:28
You want to make sure that when you learn something interesting about other people you
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ไป–ใฎไบบใซใคใ„ใฆไฝ•ใ‹้ข็™ฝใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅญฆใ‚“ใ ใ‚‰ใ€ใใ‚Œใ‚’
13:32
store that away, because it's a great way to continue conversations or to bring up something
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13:38
interesting with them.
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ใงใ™ใ€‚ ไธ€็ท’ใซไป•ไบ‹ใ‚’
13:39
What if you're talking with someone who you work with, how can you talk about your job?
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ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ไบบใจ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆ ใ€่‡ชๅˆ†ใฎไป•ไบ‹ใซใคใ„ใฆใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่ฉฑใ™ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
13:44
Because you can't ask them, "What do you do?"
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅฝผใ‚‰ใซๅฐ‹ใญใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใชใ„ใฎใงใ€ใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใฏไฝ•ใ‚’ใ—ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€
13:45
Well, I guess, unless you don't really know what part of the company they work for, but
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13:51
in general, we want to ask more specific questions.
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13:54
Let's imagine this scenario.
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ใ“ใฎใ‚ทใƒŠใƒชใ‚ชใ‚’ๆƒณๅƒใ—ใฆใฟใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
13:56
You are in the lunchroom, most offices in the US have a break room or lunch room with
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ ๆ˜ผ้ฃŸๅฎคใซใ„ใพใ™ใ€็ฑณๅ›ฝใฎใปใจใ‚“ใฉใฎใ‚ชใƒ•ใ‚ฃใ‚นใซใฏไผ‘ๆ†ฉๅฎคใพใŸใฏๆ˜ผ้ฃŸๅฎคใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใ€
14:03
some tables and a microwave, maybe a sink, so that you can heat up your food or wash
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ใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎใƒ†ใƒผใƒ–ใƒซใจ้›ปๅญใƒฌใƒณใ‚ธใ€ใŠใใ‚‰ใใ‚ทใƒณใ‚ฏใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ ้ฃŸใน็‰ฉใ‚’ๆธฉใ‚ใŸใ‚Š
14:08
some dishes, and you are waiting for your food to heat up, you brought some leftover
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็šฟใ‚’ๆด—ใฃใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ็†ฑใใชใ‚Šใ€ๆฎ‹ใ‚Š็‰ฉใฎใ‚นใƒผใƒ—ใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใใพใ—ใŸ
14:13
soup.
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14:14
This is a very detailed scenario.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ้žๅธธใซ่ฉณ็ดฐใชใ‚ทใƒŠใƒชใ‚ชใงใ™ใ€‚
14:15
You brought some leftover chicken noodle soup and you put it in the microwave to heat up,
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ๆฎ‹ใ‚Š็‰ฉใฎใƒใ‚ญใƒณใƒŒใƒผใƒ‰ใƒซใ‚นใƒผใƒ—ใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ ใฆใ€ใใ‚Œใ‚’้›ปๅญใƒฌใƒณใ‚ธใซๅ…ฅใ‚ŒใฆๅŠ ็†ฑใ—
14:20
but you've got two minutes and there's somebody who works with you, standing beside you.
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ใพใ—ใŸใŒใ€2ๅˆ†ใ‚ใ‚Š ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใจไธ€็ท’ใซๅƒใ„ใฆใ„ใ‚‹่ชฐใ‹ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใฎใใฐใซ็ซ‹ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
14:26
What do you do?
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่ทๆฅญใฏใชใ‚“ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
14:27
What do you say?
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏไฝ•ใ‚’่จ€ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
14:28
Don't worry, I'm here to save you.
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ๅฟƒ้…ใ—ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€็งใฏใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ๆ•‘ใ†ใŸใ‚ใซใ“ใ“ใซใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
14:29
You can ask these three questions.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ3ใคใฎ่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
14:31
If you know which department they work in, you might say, "Hey, what's new in the marketing
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒใฉใฎ้ƒจ้–€ใงๅƒใ„ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใชใ‚‰ ใ€ใ€Œใญใˆใ€ไปŠๆ—ฅใฎใƒžใƒผใ‚ฑใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒณใ‚ฐ้ƒจ้–€ใฎๆ–ฐๆฉŸ่ƒฝใฏไฝ•ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“
14:36
department today?" if they work in marketing.
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14:39
Or if they work in management, you might say, "Hey, what's new in management today?"
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ใพใŸใฏใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒ็ฎก็†่ทใงๅƒใ„ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใ€ ใ€Œใญใˆใ€ไปŠๆ—ฅใฎ็ฎก็†่ทใฎๆ–ฐๆฉŸ่ƒฝใฏไฝ•ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
14:43
Cool, great, you know a little bit about them, but you're just having some small talk.
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ใ‹ใฃใ“ใ„ใ„ใ€็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใใ‚Œใ‚‰ใซใคใ„ใฆๅฐ‘ใ—็Ÿฅใฃใฆ ใ„ใพใ™ใŒใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใปใ‚“ใฎๅฐ‘ใ—่ฉฑใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ ใ‘ใงใ™ใ€‚
14:47
Or if you know they're working on a project, you could say, "How's your project going?
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ใพใŸใฏใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒใƒ—ใƒญใ‚ธใ‚งใ‚ฏใƒˆใซๅ–ใ‚Š็ต„ใ‚“ใงใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‹ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€ใ€Œใƒ—ใƒญใ‚ธใ‚งใ‚ฏใƒˆใฏ
14:52
How's your project going?"
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ใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ้€ฒใ‚“ใงใ„ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใƒ—ใƒญใ‚ธใ‚งใ‚ฏใƒˆใฏใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ้€ฒใ‚“ใงใ„ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
14:53
Or if you have no idea what they're doing, you might say, "Do you have any fun or exciting
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14:59
projects coming up?"
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15:01
You're asking about the future, what kind of things they're planning for.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅฐ†ๆฅใซใคใ„ใฆใ€ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ“ใจใ‚’่จˆ็”ปใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใ‹ใ‚’ๅฐ‹ใญใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
15:05
Not everybody is great at small talk so they might just say, "Nope, not much."
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่ชฐใ‚‚ใŒใ‚นใƒขใƒผใƒซใƒˆใƒผใ‚ฏใŒ ๅพ—ๆ„ใชใ‚ใ‘ใงใฏใชใ„ใฎใงใ€ใ€Œใ„ใ„ใˆใ€ใใ‚Œใปใฉๅคšใใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
15:09
Okay, not everybody is willing to have small talk, but who knows, maybe they'll say, "Yeah,
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ใ•ใฆใ€่ชฐใ‚‚ใŒๅฐใ•ใช่ฉฑใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ๆฐ—ใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‚ใ‘ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใŒใ€่ชฐใŒ ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€ใ€Œใˆใˆใ€
15:15
we're working on this really cool initiative.
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15:17
We're working with a charity and we're going to try to raise some funds for this organization,"
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ๅ–ใ‚Š็ต„ใ‚“ใงใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚็งใŸใกใฏๆ…ˆๅ–„ๅ›ฃไฝ“ใจๅ”ๅŠ›ใ—ใฆใ„ใฆใ€่‚ฒใฆใ‚ˆใ†ใจใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ ใ“ใฎ็ต„็น”ใฎใŸใ‚ใฎใ„ใใ‚‰ใ‹ใฎ่ณ‡้‡‘ใ€
15:22
and maybe they're excited about it and will want to share it.
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ใใ—ใฆๅคšๅˆ†ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใใ‚Œใซใคใ„ใฆ่ˆˆๅฅฎใ—ใฆใ„ใฆ ใใ‚Œใ‚’ๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ—ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใ†ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
15:24
Maybe they'd just been dying to share this with someone and you are that opportunity.
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ใŸใถใ‚“ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’่ชฐใ‹ใจๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ—ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใฃใฆใ„ใŸใฎใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€ใใ—ใฆใ‚ใชใŸใฏใใฎๆฉŸไผšใงใ™ใ€‚
15:29
It's worth a try, you never know, give small talk a shot.
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ใใ‚Œใฏ่ฉฆใ—ใฆใฟใ‚‹ไพกๅ€คใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๆฑบใ—ใฆ็Ÿฅใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€ๅฐใ•ใช ่ฉฑใ‚’ใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
15:33
Before we go, I want to give you four tips for excellent small talk.
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่กŒใๅ‰ใซ ใ€็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ใ‚นใƒขใƒผใƒซใƒˆใƒผใ‚ฏใฎใŸใ‚ใฎ4ใคใฎใƒ’ใƒณใƒˆใ‚’็ดนไป‹ใ—ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
15:36
These are general ideas about conversation, but they are essential for connecting with
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฏไผš่ฉฑใซ้–ขใ™ใ‚‹ไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใช่€ƒใˆๆ–นใงใ™ ใŒใ€ไป–ใฎไบบใจใคใชใŒใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซไธๅฏๆฌ 
15:41
someone else.
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15:42
Number one is put your phone away.
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15:47
This seems like a basic thing, right?
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15:49
But sometimes we don't realize how often we're opening our phone, checking our messages,
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ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ ้›ป่ฉฑใ‚’้–‹ใ„ใฆใƒกใƒƒใ‚ปใƒผใ‚ธใ‚’็ขบ่ชใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹้ ปๅบฆใŒใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ๅ ดๅˆ
15:54
there's a little buzz and you open your phone.
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ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ๅฐ‘ใ—่ฉฑ้กŒใซใชใ‚Šใ€้›ป่ฉฑใ‚’้–‹ใใพใ™ใ€‚
15:56
This is disconnecting you from the person you're talking with.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹็›ธๆ‰‹ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ๅˆ‡ใ‚Š้›ขใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚
16:00
When you're trying to have small talk, keep your phone in your pocket, keep your phone
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16:04
away.
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16:05
If you have an emergency or urgent phone call, you can just say, "Excuse me, I'm sorry.
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16:10
I have to take this," and that means you have to talk with that person.
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16:14
"I'm sorry, it's my boss.
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16:15
I have to talk with them, I'll be back."
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16:18
You have to take that emergency call, but in general for small talk, keep your phone
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใใฎ็ทŠๆ€ฅ้›ป่ฉฑใซๅ‡บใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใซๅฐใ•ใช่ฉฑใฎใŸใ‚ใซใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ้›ป่ฉฑใ‚’้ ใ–ใ‘ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„
16:22
away.
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16:23
My second tip is to be curious about the other person.
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16:27
This is one of the great joys in life, I think, is getting to know other people and being
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏไบบ็”Ÿใฎๅคงใใชๅ–œใณใฎไธ€ใคใ ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ไป–ใฎไบบใจ็Ÿฅใ‚Šๅˆใ†ใ“ใจใ€ใใ—ใฆ
16:32
very sincere about getting to know them.
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใ‚’็Ÿฅใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซใคใ„ใฆ้žๅธธใซ่ช ๅฎŸใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
16:35
You're not just a robot, blindly asking questions.
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16:38
No, you want to get to know another person, even if it's just for one minute while you're
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16:43
waiting for your food to heat up in the microwave, that chicken noodle soup, so you can get to
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้›ปๅญใƒฌใƒณใ‚ธใง้ฃŸใน็‰ฉใŒๆธฉใพใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๅพ…ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹้–“ใงใ‚‚ใ€ ใใฎใƒใ‚ญใƒณใƒŒใƒผใƒ‰ใƒซใ‚นใƒผใƒ—ใงใ‚ใ‚‹ไป–ใฎไบบใจ็Ÿฅใ‚Šๅˆใ„ใซใชใ‚ŠใŸใ„ใฎใงใ€ไป–ใฎไบบใจ็Ÿฅใ‚Šๅˆใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใ
16:49
know someone else.
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16:50
Be curious.
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16:51
A great way is to ask why or how questions, "Oh, why did you decide to get this type of
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็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ๆ–นๆณ•ใฏใ€ใชใœใ€ใพใŸใฏใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่ณชๅ•ใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ€ ใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ใ€ใชใœใ“ใฎใ‚ฟใ‚คใƒ—ใฎ
16:59
dog?"
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17:00
Or, "How long have you had this dog?"
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ใพใŸใฏใ€ใ€Œใ“ใฎ็Šฌใฏใฉใ‚Œใใ‚‰ใ„้ฃผใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€
17:02
Wow, this is a great way to ask further questions.
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ใ†ใ‚ใƒผใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ•ใ‚‰ใซ่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใซๆœ€้ฉใชๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ™ใ€‚
17:06
Of course, don't interrogate them.
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ใ‚‚ใกใ‚ใ‚“ใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใซๅฐ‹ๅ•ใ—ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
17:08
"Why did you get this dog?
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ใ€Œใชใœใ“ใฎ็Šฌใ‚’้ฃผใฃใŸใฎใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
17:10
How long have you had him?"
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ใฉใ‚Œใใ‚‰ใ„ๅฝผใ‚’้ฃผใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€
17:11
No, you can just be friendly, be yourself, but these open questions with why and how
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ใ„ใ„ใˆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใŸใ ๅ‹ๅฅฝ็š„ใงใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ใ‚ใชใŸ่‡ช่บซใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎๆœช่งฃๆฑบใฎ่ณชๅ•ใฏ
17:17
show the other person that you are sincerely interested in their choices in their life.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๅฝผใ‚‰ใฎไบบ็”ŸใซใŠใ‘ใ‚‹ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฎ้ธๆŠžใซ่ช ๅฎŸใซ่ˆˆๅ‘ณใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ใชใœใใ—ใฆใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซไป–ใฎไบบใซ็คบใ—ใพใ™ ใ€‚
17:22
My third tip is what I just mentioned, which is do not interrogate to the other person.
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็งใฎ3็•ช็›ฎใฎใƒ’ใƒณใƒˆใฏใ€็งใŒไปŠ่ฟฐในใŸใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚ใ“ใ‚Œ ใฏใ€ไป–ใฎไบบใซ่ณชๅ•ใ—ใชใ„ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
17:28
Instead, just be genuine and interested in them.
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ไปฃใ‚ใ‚Šใซใ€ๆœฌ็‰ฉใงใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ใใ‚Œใ‚‰ใซ่ˆˆๅ‘ณใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆ ใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
17:32
If you feel like you're asking too many questions, do you know what you can do?
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่ณชๅ•ใŒๅคšใ™ใŽใ‚‹ใจๆ„Ÿใ˜ใŸๅ ดๅˆใ€ ไฝ•ใŒใงใใ‚‹ใ‹็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
17:37
You can share about yourself.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ่‡ชๅˆ†่‡ช่บซใซใคใ„ใฆๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
17:39
This is something that's also essential to do, but not easy for everyone.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‚้‡่ฆใช ใ“ใจใงใ™ใŒใ€่ชฐใซใจใฃใฆใ‚‚็ฐกๅ˜ใชใ“ใจใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
17:43
If someone says that they are a math teacher, you might say, "Oh, you know what?
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่ชฐใ‹ใŒๆ•ฐๅญฆใฎๅ…ˆ็”Ÿ ใ ใจ่จ€ใฃใŸใ‚‰ใ€ใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ใ€ไฝ•ใ ใ‹็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ‚‹
17:49
When I was in high school, I had an awesome math teacher who was a really special person."
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๏ผŸ้ซ˜ๆ ก็”Ÿใฎๆ™‚ ใ€ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ็‰นๅˆฅใชไบบใ ใฃใŸ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ๆ•ฐๅญฆใฎๅ…ˆ็”ŸใŒใ„ใŸใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
17:54
Okay, that's really short, but you're sharing some kind of connection from your personal
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ใ•ใฆใ€ใใ‚Œใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ็Ÿญใ„ใงใ™ใŒใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ ใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅ€‹ไบบ็š„ใช็”Ÿๆดปใ‹ใ‚‰ใฎใ‚ใ‚‹็จฎใฎใคใชใŒใ‚Šใ‚’ๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ—ใฆ
17:59
life and this helps you to not interrogate them.
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ใ„ใฆใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒๅฝผใ‚‰ใซ่ณชๅ•ใ—ใชใ„ใฎใ‚’ๅŠฉใ‘ใพใ™ ใ€‚
18:02
Instead, you're also giving.
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ไปฃใ‚ใ‚Šใซใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใ‚‚ไธŽใˆใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
18:04
You're not just taking their answers, instead, you are giving from yourself as well.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅฝผใ‚‰ใฎ็ญ”ใˆใ‚’ใจใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ ใ‘ใงใชใใ€ ใ‚ใชใŸ่‡ช่บซใ‹ใ‚‰ใ‚‚ไธŽใˆใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
18:11
My fourth tip for great small talk is to avoid your personal favorite topic.
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็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ใ‚นใƒขใƒผใƒซใƒˆใƒผใ‚ฏใฎ4็•ช็›ฎใฎใƒ’ใƒณใƒˆใฏ ใ€ๅ€‹ไบบ็š„ใชใŠๆฐ—ใซๅ…ฅใ‚Šใฎใƒˆใƒ”ใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚’้ฟใ‘ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
18:17
If, for example, you're really into gardening and growing vegetables, but you have a feeling
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ใŸใจใˆใฐใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๆœฌๅฝ“ใซใ‚ฌใƒผใƒ‡ใƒ‹ใƒณใ‚ฐ ใ‚„้‡Ž่œใฎๆ ฝๅŸนใซ่ˆˆๅ‘ณใŒใ‚ใ‚‹
18:24
that the other person has no experience with this, well, you want to keep the conversation
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ใŒใ€ไป–ใฎไบบใŒใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’็ตŒ้จ“ใ—ใŸใ“ใจใŒใชใ„ใจๆ„Ÿใ˜ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใฏ ใ€ไผš่ฉฑใฎใƒใƒฉใƒณใ‚นใ‚’ไฟใกใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™
18:29
balanced.
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18:30
Of course, you can say, "Yeah, I'm really into gardening and I've been working hard
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ใ‚‚ใกใ‚ใ‚“ใ€ใ€Œใˆใˆใ€็งใฏ ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซใ‚ฌใƒผใƒ‡ใƒ‹ใƒณใ‚ฐใซๅคขไธญใซใชใฃใฆใ„ใฆใ€ๆ˜ฅใซ
18:34
to be able to grow lots of kinds of vegetables in the spring."
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ใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใฎ็จฎ้กžใฎ้‡Ž่œใ‚’่‚ฒใฆใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซไธ€็”Ÿๆ‡ธๅ‘ฝๅƒใ„ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ ใ€‚
18:38
Okay, that's great, but if you keep talking on and on and on about it, well, that's not
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ใ•ใฆใ€ใใ‚Œใฏ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ใ“ใจใงใ™ใŒใ€ใใ‚Œใซใคใ„ใฆไฝ•ๅบฆใ‚‚ไฝ•ๅบฆใ‚‚่ฉฑใ—็ถšใ‘ใ‚‹ ใจใ€ใพใ‚ใ€ใใ‚Œ
18:43
a balanced conversation.
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ใฏใƒใƒฉใƒณใ‚นใฎๅ–ใ‚ŒใŸไผš่ฉฑใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
18:45
Of course, you can share what you're interested in, but make sure that you don't get carried
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ใ‚‚ใกใ‚ใ‚“ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่ˆˆๅ‘ณใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใŒใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅฅฝใใชใƒˆใƒ”ใƒƒใ‚ฏใซใคใ„ใฆไป–ใฎไบบใซ่ฌ›็พฉ ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซๅคขไธญใซใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ—
18:49
away lecturing the other person about your favorite topic.
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18:53
All right, well, there you have it.
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ใ•ใฆใ€ใพใ‚ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใใ‚Œใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
18:55
These are 23 great small talk questions and four hot tips for how to have great small
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฏใ€23ใฎใ™ใฐใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ใ‚นใƒขใƒผใƒซใƒˆใƒผใ‚ฏใฎ่ณชๅ•ใจใ€ใ™ใฐใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ใ‚นใƒขใƒผใƒซใƒˆใƒผใ‚ฏใ‚’่กŒใ† ใŸใ‚ใฎ4ใคใฎใƒ’ใƒณใƒˆใงใ™
19:00
talk.
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19:01
Now I have a question for you.
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19:03
In the comments below, let me know what question you're going to ask the next time that you
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ไธ‹่จ˜ใฎใ‚ณใƒกใƒณใƒˆๆฌ„ใง ใ€ๆฌกๅ›ž่‹ฑ่ชžใงๅฐ่ฉฑใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใจใใซใฉใ‚“ใช่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใ‹ๆ•™ใˆใฆใใ ใ•ใ„
19:08
have small talk in English.
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19:10
You can do it, I believe in you.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใใ‚Œใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€็งใฏใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ไฟกใ˜ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ็ง
19:12
Thank you so much for learning English with me.
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ใจไธ€็ท’ใซ่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’ๅญฆใ‚“ใงใใ‚Œใฆใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ† ใ€‚
19:14
I'll see you again next Friday for a new lesson here on my YouTube channel.
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ๆฅ้€ฑใฎ้‡‘ๆ›œๆ—ฅใซใพใŸ็งใฎYouTubeใƒใƒฃใƒณใƒใƒซใงๆ–ฐใ—ใ„ใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใ‚’ใŠไผšใ„ใ—ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ† ใ€‚
19:18
Bye.
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19:19
The next step is to download my free ebook, Five Steps to Becoming a Confident English
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ๆฌกใฎใ‚นใƒ†ใƒƒใƒ—ใฏใ€็งใฎ็„กๆ–™ใฎ้›ปๅญใƒ–ใƒƒใ‚ฏ ใ€่‡ชไฟกใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆ่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’่ฉฑใ™ไบบใซใชใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใฎ5ใคใฎใ‚นใƒ†ใƒƒใƒ—ใ‚’ใƒ€ใ‚ฆใƒณใƒญใƒผใƒ‰ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจ
19:25
Speaker.
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ใงใ™ใ€‚ ่‡ชไฟกใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆๆตๆšข
19:26
You'll learn what you need to do to speak confidently and fluently.
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ใซ่ฉฑใ™ใŸใ‚ใซไฝ•ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚’ๅญฆใณใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใ‚ˆใ‚Šๅคšใใฎ็„กๆ–™ใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใฎใŸใ‚
19:30
Don't forget to subscribe to my YouTube channel for more free lessons.
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ใซ็งใฎYouTubeใƒใƒฃใƒณใƒใƒซใ‚’่ณผ่ชญใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅฟ˜ใ‚Œใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ ใ€‚
19:34
Thanks so much, bye.
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