Easy SMALL TALK tips in English: English Speaking Practice

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μ•„λž˜ μ˜λ¬Έμžλ§‰μ„ λ”λΈ”ν΄λ¦­ν•˜μ‹œλ©΄ μ˜μƒμ΄ μž¬μƒλ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ²ˆμ—­λœ μžλ§‰μ€ 기계 λ²ˆμ—­λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.

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Hi, I'm Vanessa from SpeakEnglishWithVanessa.com.
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μ•ˆλ…•ν•˜μ„Έμš”, μ €λŠ” SpeakEnglishWithVanessa.com의 Vanessaμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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Can you have natural small talk?
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μžμ—°μŠ€λŸ¬μš΄ 슀λͺ° 토크λ₯Ό ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
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Yes, you can.
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그래 λ„Œ ν• μˆ˜μžˆμ–΄.
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Let's talk about it.
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그것에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•©μ‹œλ‹€.
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Even native English speakers feel uncomfortable or awkward sometimes having small talk.
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μ˜μ–΄λ₯Ό λͺ¨κ΅­μ–΄λ‘œ μ‚¬μš©ν•˜λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒλ“€λ„ μž‘λ‹΄μ„ ν•˜λŠ” 것이 λΆˆνŽΈν•˜κ±°λ‚˜ 어색할 λ•Œκ°€ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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Small talk means that you're not just saying, "Hi, see you later, bye," instead, you're
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슀λͺ° ν† ν¬λŠ” λ‹¨μˆœνžˆ "μ•ˆλ…•ν•˜μ„Έμš”, μ•ˆλ…•, μ•ˆλ…•"이라고 λ§ν•˜λŠ” 것이 μ•„λ‹ˆλΌ
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having a short, light conversation, usually with someone in passing or before you're going
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짧고 κ°€λ²Όμš΄ λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό λ‚˜λˆ„λŠ” 것을 μ˜λ―Έν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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to have a more in-depth discussion.
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심도 μžˆλŠ” ν† λ‘ .
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When you see someone you know at the grocery store, when you have a quick conversation
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μ‹λ£Œν’ˆμ μ—μ„œ μ•„λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒμ„ λ§Œλ‚¬μ„ λ•Œ ,
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with a coworker as you're eating lunch, or maybe when you're just wanting to make a new
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점심을 λ¨ΉμœΌλ©΄μ„œ 직μž₯ λ™λ£Œμ™€ κ°„λ‹¨ν•œ λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό λ‚˜λˆŒ λ•Œ, λ˜λŠ” κ·Έμ € μƒˆλ‘œμš΄ 친ꡬλ₯Ό 사귀고 싢을 λ•Œ
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friend, you need to have good small talk skills.
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쒋은 슀λͺ° 토크 μŠ€ν‚¬μ΄ ν•„μš”ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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Today, we're going to cover some of the most common small talk questions and answers so
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μ˜€λŠ˜μ€ 전문적인 슀λͺ° 토크 μ „λ¬Έκ°€κ°€ 될 수 μžˆλ„λ‘ κ°€μž₯ 일반적인 슀λͺ° 토크 질문과 닡변을 λ‹€λ£° κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
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that you can be a professional small talk expert.
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Let's go.
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κ°‘μ‹œλ‹€.
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The first topic is weather.
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첫 번째 μ£Όμ œλŠ” λ‚ μ”¨μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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Weather is a very simple, noncontroversial neutral topic, unless you're talking about
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λ‚ μ”¨λŠ” 맀우 κ°„λ‹¨ν•˜κ³  λ…ΌμŸμ˜ 여지가 μ—†λŠ” 쀑립적인 μ£Όμ œμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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climate change, in that case it's a little more serious to talk about, but we often use
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κΈ°ν›„ 변화에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜λŠ” κ²½μš°κ°€ μ•„λ‹ˆλ©΄ μ’€ 더 μ‹¬κ°ν•˜κ²Œ 이야기해야 ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ μš°λ¦¬λŠ” μ’…μ’…
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this as an ice breaker.
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이것을 μ‡„λΉ™μ„ μœΌλ‘œ μ‚¬μš©ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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And ice breaker is a common expression we use when talking about introducing a conversation,
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그리고 ice breakerλŠ” μš°λ¦¬κ°€ λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό μ†Œκ°œν•  λ•Œ μ‚¬μš©ν•˜λŠ” 일반적인 ν‘œν˜„μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. λŒ€ν™”κ°€
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you're helping it to become less awkward.
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덜 어색해지도둝 돕고 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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You're having some icebreaker or small talk discussion, and then you can relax and have
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λΆ„μœ„κΈ°λ₯Ό κΉ¨κ±°λ‚˜ μž‘λ‹΄ 토둠을 ν•˜κ³  μžˆλ‹€κ°€ κΈ΄μž₯을 ν’€κ³ 
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a normal discussion.
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정상적인 토둠을 ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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Some common weather questions you might ask are, "Isn't it a gorgeous day?
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당신이 물을 수 μžˆλŠ” λͺ‡ 가지 일반적인 날씨 μ§ˆλ¬Έμ€ "ν™”μ°½ν•œ 날이지 μ•Šλ‚˜μš”?
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Can you believe how rainy it's been?
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μ–Όλ§ˆλ‚˜ λΉ„κ°€ λ‚΄λ ΈλŠ”μ§€ 믿을 수 μžˆλ‚˜μš”?
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Is it hot enough for you?"
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μΆ©λΆ„νžˆ λ₯λ‚˜μš”?"
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This last one might seem a little strange, but it is a silly or humorous way to address
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이 λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰ ν•­λͺ©μ€ μ•½κ°„ μ΄μƒν•˜κ²Œ 보일 수 μžˆμ§€λ§Œ
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how extremely hot the weather is, or maybe extremely cold if you say, "Is it cold enough
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날씨가 μ–Όλ§ˆλ‚˜ κ·Ήλ„λ‘œ λ”μš΄μ§€ λ˜λŠ” "λ‹Ήμ‹ μ—κ²Œ μΆ©λΆ„νžˆ μΆ”μ›Œμš”
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for you?"
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?"
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You're joking about the extreme temperature that you're experiencing and it's a light
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당신은 당신이 κ²ͺκ³  μžˆλŠ” 극단적인 μ˜¨λ„μ— λŒ€ν•΄ 농담을 ν•˜κ³  있고 그것은
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way to introduce a conversation.
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λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό μ†Œκ°œν•˜λŠ” κ°€λ²Όμš΄ λ°©λ²•μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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Notice that all three of these questions are not open-ended questions.
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이 μ„Έ 가지 μ§ˆλ¬Έμ€ λͺ¨λ‘ κ°œλ°©ν˜• 질문이 μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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They are only yes or no questions, and this makes it a very simple way to introduce the
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예 λ˜λŠ” μ•„λ‹ˆμ˜€ 질문일 λΏμ΄λ―€λ‘œ λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό μ†Œκ°œν•˜λŠ” 맀우 κ°„λ‹¨ν•œ λ°©λ²•μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
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conversation.
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The other person doesn't need to think about some kind of answer, they can just say, "Yes,
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λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ€ μ–΄λ–€ μ’…λ₯˜μ˜ λŒ€λ‹΅μ— λŒ€ν•΄ 생각할 ν•„μš”κ°€ μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. "예,
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it is a gorgeous day.
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멋진 λ‚ μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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Oh yes, it is so rainy.
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였 예, λΉ„κ°€ 많이 μ˜΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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Yes, it's really hot," very simple and it makes for a comfortable introduction.
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예, 정말 λ₯μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€."라고 말할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 맀우 κ°„λ‹¨ν•˜κ³  νŽΈμ•ˆν•œ μ†Œκ°œ. 날씨에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜λŠ”
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If you would like to learn some more ways to talk about the weather, I made a lesson
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방법을 더 배우고 μ‹Άλ‹€λ©΄
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completely dedicated to the weather, a hundred expressions for talking about the weather.
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날씨에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜λŠ” 100가지 ν‘œν˜„μΈ 날씨 μ „μš© μˆ˜μ—…μ„ λ§Œλ“€μ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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You can watch that lesson up here to expand your weather vocabulary.
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μ—¬κΈ°μ—μ„œ ν•΄λ‹Ή κ°•μ˜λ₯Ό μ‹œμ²­ν•˜μ—¬ 날씨 μ–΄νœ˜λ₯Ό ν™•μž₯ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
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Our second small talk topic is where you're at or your location.
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우리의 두 번째 μž‘λ‹΄ μ£Όμ œλŠ” 당신이 μžˆλŠ” κ³³ λ˜λŠ” λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ μœ„μΉ˜μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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Now, you need to think about this, of course, in an understanding way.
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λ¬Όλ‘  μ΄ν•΄ν•˜λŠ” λ°©μ‹μœΌλ‘œ 이에 λŒ€ν•΄ 생각해야 ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
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If you are at a hospital, you might not want to ask these questions, because if you say,
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병원에 계신닀면 이런 μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ ν•˜κ³  싢지 μ•Šμ„ μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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"Do you come here often?" and they're at the hospital, it might be a little bit too sensitive
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"μ—¬κΈ° 자주 μ˜€μ„Έμš”?" 그리고 그듀은 병원에 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜κΈ°μ—λŠ” λ„ˆλ¬΄ 민감할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
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to talk about.
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But you can use these questions for any type of location like a park, the zoo, a library,
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ μ΄λŸ¬ν•œ μ§ˆλ¬Έμ€ 곡원, 동물원, λ„μ„œκ΄€,
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a museum walking down the street.
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길을 따라 κ±Έμ–΄κ°€λŠ” λ°•λ¬Όκ΄€κ³Ό 같은 λͺ¨λ“  μœ ν˜•μ˜ μœ„μΉ˜μ— μ‚¬μš©ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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You can use these for most daily life situations.
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λŒ€λΆ€λΆ„μ˜ 일상 μƒν™œ μƒν™©μ—μ„œ μ‚¬μš©ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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Let's imagine that you see someone who you've met a couple of times, but you don't know
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λͺ‡ 번 λ§Œλ‚¬μ§€λ§Œ 잘 μ•Œμ§€ λͺ»ν•˜λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒμ„ λ§Œλ‚¬λ‹€κ³  상상해 λ΄…μ‹œλ‹€
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that well.
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You might talk about where you're at and you might ask, "This place is great.
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당신은 당신이 어디에 μžˆλŠ”μ§€μ— λŒ€ν•΄ 이야기할 μˆ˜λ„ 있고 "μ—¬κΈ°κ°€ 정말 μ’‹μ•„μš”.
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Do you come here often?
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μ—¬κΈ° 자주 μ˜€μ„Έμš”?
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How long have you been coming here?
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μ—¬κΈ° 온 지 μ–Όλ§ˆλ‚˜ λμ–΄μš”? 이
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Do you live near here?"
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κ·Όμ²˜μ— μ‚¬μ„Έμš”?"라고 물을 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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If you're at a dog park, these are pretty common in the US, people bring their dogs
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λ§Œμ•½ 당신이 개 곡원에 μžˆλ‹€λ©΄, 이것은 λ―Έκ΅­μ—μ„œ κ½€ ν”ν•œ μΌμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ 개λ₯Ό 데리고 μ™€μ„œ
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and their dogs can run freely together, well great, you already have something in common
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κ·Έλ“€μ˜ κ°œλŠ” ν•¨κ»˜ 자유둭게 달릴 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. κΈ€μŽ„μš”, 당신은 이미 곡톡점이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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because that other person probably has a dog, or if you're at the library, you both have
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λ„μ„œκ΄€μ— μžˆλŠ”λ° λ‘˜ λ‹€
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an interest in books.
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책에 관심이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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You have something in common, your location, and you can ask these questions.
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당신은 곡톡점이 있고, λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ μœ„μΉ˜κ°€ 있으며, μ΄λŸ¬ν•œ μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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"Do you come here often?
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"μ—¬κΈ° 자주 μ˜€μ„Έμš”?
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How long have you been coming here?
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μ—¬κΈ° 온 지 μ–Όλ§ˆλ‚˜ λμ–΄μš”? 이
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Do you live near here?
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κ·Όμ²˜μ— μ‚¬μ„Έμš”?
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Do you live in the area?"
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κ·Έ 지역에 μ‚¬μ„Έμš”?"
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Great.
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μ—„μ²­λ‚œ.
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Let's say that you're somewhere that's not a regular hangout, like a coffee shop or a
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μ»€ν”Όμˆμ΄λ‚˜ λ„μ„œκ΄€, 곡원과 같이 일반적인 μž₯μ†Œκ°€ μ•„λ‹Œ μž₯μ†Œμ— μžˆλ‹€κ³  κ°€μ •ν•΄ λ³΄κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
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library or a park.
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Let's imagine that you were at the zoo or a museum, these kind of a special-occasion
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당신이 λ™λ¬Όμ›μ΄λ‚˜ λ°•λ¬Όκ΄€ 같은 νŠΉλ³„ν•œ
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places, you could ask, "Have you seen the DaVinci exhibit?
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μž₯μ†Œμ— μžˆλ‹€κ³  상상해 λ΄…μ‹œλ‹€. " λ‹€λΉˆμΉ˜ μ „μ‹œνšŒ λ³Έ 적 μžˆλ‚˜μš”?
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It's really cool," or, "Which exhibit do you like the most?
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정말 λ©‹μ Έμš”." λ˜λŠ” "μ–΄λ–€ μ „μ‹œνšŒκ°€ κ°€μž₯ λ§ˆμŒμ— λ“œλ‚˜μš”?
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Have you seen the monkey exhibit?
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μ›μˆ­μ΄ μ „μ‹œνšŒ λ΄€μ–΄?
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It's amazing."
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ꡉμž₯ν•΄." ν˜„μž¬
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You can use this to talk about the location where you're at.
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μœ„μΉ˜μ— λŒ€ν•΄ 이야기할 λ•Œ μ‚¬μš©ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
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What if you're in transit somewhere?
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μ–΄λ”˜κ°€λ‘œ 이동 쀑이라면?
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Maybe you're at an airport, you're at a train station, you're waiting for your subway to
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μ–΄μ©Œλ©΄ 당신은 곡항에 있고, 기차역에 있고 , μ§€ν•˜μ² μ΄
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show up.
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λ‚˜νƒ€λ‚˜κΈ°λ₯Ό 기닀리고 μžˆμ„ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 당신이 λͺ¨λ₯΄λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒκ³Ό λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό μ‹œμž‘ν•˜κ³  싢은 μ‚¬λžŒμ—κ²Œ
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Well, what are some questions you could ask to someone who maybe you don't know and you
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μ–΄λ–€ μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ
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want to start a conversation with?
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?
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You might ask, "So, where are you headed?"
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"κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ–΄λ””λ‘œ κ°€λŠ” κ±΄κ°€μš”?"
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Headed is a verb that we often use to say which direction are you going to.
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HeadedλŠ” μš°λ¦¬κ°€ μ–΄λŠ λ°©ν–₯으둜 κ°€κ³  μžˆλŠ”μ§€ 말할 λ•Œ 자주 μ‚¬μš©ν•˜λŠ” λ™μ‚¬μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
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"I'm headed to the office.
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"μ‚¬λ¬΄μ‹€λ‘œ κ°‘λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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I'm headed to San Francisco.
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μƒŒν”„λž€μ‹œμŠ€μ½”λ‘œ κ°‘λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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I'm headed to some place."
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μ–΄λ”˜κ°€λ‘œ κ°‘λ‹ˆλ‹€."
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This is a great question to ask, and I just want to let you know that if you ask someone
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이것은 물어보기 쒋은 μ§ˆλ¬Έμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ—κ²Œ
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this and say, "Oh, so where are you headed?" and they say, "To work," okay, maybe if they're
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이 μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ ν•˜κ³  "였, μ–΄λ””λ‘œ κ°€λŠ” κ±΄κ°€μš”?"라고 λ¬»λŠ”λ‹€λ©΄ μ•Œλ €λ“œλ¦¬κ³  μ‹ΆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그리고 그듀은 "μΌν•˜λŸ¬"라고 λ§ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ•Œκ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ•„λ§ˆλ„ 그듀이
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not open to conversation.
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λŒ€ν™”μ— μ—΄λ € μžˆμ§€ μ•Šλ‹€λ©΄ λ§μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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They just gave you a one-word answer, two-word answer, that's completely fine.
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그듀은 단지 λ‹Ήμ‹ μ—κ²Œ ν•œ λ‹¨μ–΄λ‘œ 된 λŒ€λ‹΅, 두 λ‹¨μ–΄λ‘œ 된 λŒ€λ‹΅μ„ 쀬을 λΏμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:20
Not everyone is going to be open to conversation, but I've started a lot of great conversations
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λͺ¨λ“  μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ λŒ€ν™”μ— μ—΄λ € μžˆλŠ” 것은 μ•„λ‹ˆμ§€λ§Œ, μ €λŠ” κ·Έλƒ₯ μ‹œλ„ν•¨μœΌλ‘œμ¨ 쒋은 λŒ€ν™”μ™€ μš°μ •μ„ 많이 μ‹œμž‘ν–ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
05:26
and even friendships by trying to just give it a try.
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05:31
Try to speak with someone else who you feel like might be open to having a conversation
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λŒ€ν™”μ— 마음이 μ—΄λ € 있고 관심이 μ—†λŠ” 경우
05:36
and also respecting other people's distance if they're not interested.
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거리λ₯Ό μ‘΄μ€‘ν•˜λŠ” λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒκ³Ό λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό μ‹œλ„ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€ .
05:40
When you have established that the other person might be interested in talking, if they say,
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μƒλŒ€λ°©μ΄ λŒ€ν™”μ— 관심이 μžˆλ‹€λŠ” 것을 ν™•μΈν–ˆμ„ λ•Œ μƒλŒ€λ°©μ΄
05:44
"I'm headed to San Francisco," you could ask, "Are you traveling for business or pleasure?"
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"μƒŒν”„λž€μ‹œμŠ€μ½”λ‘œ κ°‘λ‹ˆλ‹€"라고 λ§ν•˜λ©΄ "좜μž₯ λ˜λŠ” κ΄€κ΄‘ λͺ©μ μœΌλ‘œ μ—¬ν–‰ μ€‘μ΄μ‹ κ°€μš”?"라고 λ¬Όμ–΄λ³Ό 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:51
Business is kind of obvious for work, pleasure might mean they're visiting family or they're
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λΉ„μ¦ˆλ‹ˆμŠ€λŠ” 업무에 μžˆμ–΄μ„œ μΌμ’…μ˜ λΆ„λͺ…ν•œ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 즐거움은 그듀이 가쑱을 λ°©λ¬Έν•˜κ±°λ‚˜
05:55
doing something for fun, for vacation, something like this.
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재미λ₯Ό μœ„ν•΄, νœ΄κ°€λ₯Ό μœ„ν•΄ 무언가λ₯Ό ν•œλ‹€λŠ” 것을 μ˜λ―Έν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
05:59
This is a good way to continue the conversation.
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이것은 λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό κ³„μ†ν•˜λŠ” 쒋은 λ°©λ²•μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:03
Of course, you have to be aware that if someone is traveling for a sensitive reason, for example,
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λ¬Όλ‘  예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄ λˆ„κ΅°κ°€ μž₯둀식에 κ°€λŠ” 것과 같이 λ―Όκ°ν•œ 이유둜 μ—¬ν–‰ν•˜λŠ” 경우
06:09
they're going to a funeral, don't push the topic too much.
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주제λ₯Ό λ„ˆλ¬΄ 많이 밀어뢙이지 λ§ˆμ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
06:13
You can just shift your questions accordingly so that the other person also feels comfortable.
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μƒλŒ€λ°©λ„ νŽΈμ•ˆν•˜κ²Œ λŠλ‚„ 수 μžˆλ„λ‘ 그에 따라 μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ λ°”κΏ€ 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:19
Our third topic for small talk conversation is to talk about your plans.
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μž‘λ‹΄ λŒ€ν™”μ˜ μ„Έ 번째 μ£Όμ œλŠ” κ³„νšμ— λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:24
You can talk about the past, in the present, in the future.
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κ³Όκ±°, ν˜„μž¬, λ―Έλž˜μ— λŒ€ν•΄ 이야기할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
06:27
In this first scenario, you run into someone who you kind of know but you maybe don't know
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이 첫 번째 μ‹œλ‚˜λ¦¬μ˜€μ—μ„œ 당신은 당신이 μ•Œκ³  μžˆμ§€λ§Œ
06:32
too well, or you haven't seen them in a little while.
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λ„ˆλ¬΄ 잘 μ•Œμ§€ λͺ»ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜ ν•œλ™μ•ˆ 보지 λͺ»ν•œ μ‚¬λžŒμ„ λ§Œλ‚˜κ²Œ λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
06:35
You can ask them, "Hey, how are you?
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κ·Έλ“€μ—κ²Œ "μ•ˆλ…•ν•˜μ„Έμš”?
06:37
What have you been up to?"
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무슨 일둜 μ§€λ‚΄μ…¨μ–΄μš”?"라고 λ¬Όμ–΄λ³Ό 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:39
You don't need to ask, "How are you?"
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"μ•ˆλ…•ν•˜μ„Έμš”? "라고 물을 ν•„μš”κ°€ μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:41
but it just feels really comfortable and it introduces the conversation instead of being
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 정말 νŽΈμ•ˆν•˜κ²Œ λŠκ»΄μ§€κ³ 
06:47
like an interrogation, "Hey, what have you been up to?"
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"이봐, λ­ν–ˆμ–΄ ?"
06:50
Instead, when you say, "Hey, how are you?
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λŒ€μ‹ μ— "μ•ˆλ…•ν•˜μ„Έμš”?
06:53
What have you been up to?" you can smoothly introduce the conversation.
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무슨 일둜 μ§€λ‚΄μ…¨μ–΄μš”?"라고 λ§ν•˜λ©΄ λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό μ›ν™œν•˜κ²Œ μ†Œκ°œν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
06:58
If you haven't seen this person in a while, you might say, "We have so much to catch up
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ν•œλ™μ•ˆ 이 μ‚¬λžŒμ„ 보지 λͺ»ν–ˆλ‹€λ©΄ "μš°λ¦¬λŠ” λ”°λΌμž‘μ„ 것이 λ„ˆλ¬΄ λ§ŽμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
07:03
on.
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07:04
What are you up to this weekend?"
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이번 주말에 뭐 ν•  κ±°μ˜ˆμš”?"라고 말할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:06
This is asking about the future, this future weekend, "What are you up to?"
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이것은 λ―Έλž˜μ— λŒ€ν•΄ λ¬»λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 이번 주말에 "무슨 일 μžˆμ–΄?"
07:11
Now, of course, if you're asking this, it means that you would like to get together
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λ¬Όλ‘  μ§€κΈˆ μ΄λ ‡κ²Œ λ¬»λŠ”λ‹€λ©΄
07:15
with the other person and catch up.
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μƒλŒ€λ°©κ³Ό ν•¨κ»˜ λͺ¨μ—¬μ„œ λ”°λΌμž‘κ³  μ‹Άλ‹€λŠ” λœ»μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:18
This phrasal verb, to catch up, means that you are learning about what has happened to
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이 ꡬ동사 to catch up은
07:22
them in the past.
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과거에 κ·Έλ“€μ—κ²Œ μΌμ–΄λ‚œ 일에 λŒ€ν•΄ 배우고 μžˆμŒμ„ μ˜λ―Έν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:24
Maybe you don't know, you haven't seen them since elementary school, so you have a lot
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μ–΄μ©Œλ©΄ 당신은 그듀을 μ΄ˆλ“±ν•™κ΅ μ΄ν›„λ‘œ λ³Έ 적이 μ—†κΈ° λ•Œλ¬Έμ—
07:29
to catch up on, you want to know what's going on in their life.
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λ”°λΌμž‘μ„ 것이 많고 κ·Έλ“€μ˜ μ‚Άμ—μ„œ 무슨 일이 μΌμ–΄λ‚˜κ³  μžˆλŠ”μ§€ μ•Œκ³  싢을 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
07:33
If you ask this, be prepared to make some plans and to have some availability, that
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이것을 λ¬»λŠ”λ‹€λ©΄ λͺ‡ 가지 κ³„νšμ„ μ„Έμš°κ³  κ°€μš©μ„±μ„ 확보할 μ€€λΉ„λ₯Ό ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€ .
07:38
way you can follow through on your question.
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κ·Έλž˜μ•Ό μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ 계속할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:41
You can also ask the informal question, "Do you want to grab coffee?
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비곡식적 인 μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ ν•  μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. " 컀피 λ§ˆμ‹€λž˜?
07:46
Do you want to grab a drink?
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술 λ§ˆμ‹€λž˜?
07:48
Do you want to grab lunch, brunch, dinner, and catch up?"
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점심, 브런치, 저녁 식사λ₯Ό ν•˜κ³  따라 μž‘μ„λž˜?"
07:54
To grab something, usually we use this in a very informal situation so that it doesn't
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무언가λ₯Ό 작기 μœ„ν•΄ 보톡 μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 맀우 비곡식적인 μƒν™©μ—μ„œ 이것을 μ‚¬μš©ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. κ·Έλž˜μ„œ
08:00
seem like you need to sit there and talk for five hours.
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μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ΄ κ±°κΈ° μ•‰μ•„μ„œ 5μ‹œκ°„ λ™μ•ˆ 이야기할 ν•„μš”κ°€ μ—†λŠ” κ²ƒμ²˜λŸΌ λ³΄μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
08:03
Instead, you're just going to grab a coffee, maybe a 30-minute conversation, one-hour conversation,
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λŒ€μ‹  컀피λ₯Ό λ§ˆμ‹œλ©° 30λΆ„, 1μ‹œκ°„ 정도
08:10
very informal and spontaneous.
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맀우 비곡식적이고 자발적인 λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό ν•  κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:12
It's also potentially an easier way to not make someone feel uncomfortable if they say
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λ˜ν•œ κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ μ‹¬κ°ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠκΈ° λ•Œλ¬Έμ— λˆ„κ΅°κ°€κ°€ κ±°μ ˆν•΄λ„ λΆˆνŽΈν•¨μ„ λŠλΌμ§€ μ•Šλ„λ‘ ν•˜λŠ” 잠재적으둜 더 μ‰¬μš΄ λ°©λ²•μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
08:19
no, because it's not so serious.
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08:22
Just a little note.
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μ•½κ°„μ˜ μ°Έκ³  μ‚¬ν•­μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:23
If you are a guy asking a girl or any combination I imagine, if you say, "Do you want to grab
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λ‚¨μžκ°€ μ—¬μžμ—κ²Œ λ¬Όμ–΄λ³΄κ±°λ‚˜ λ‚΄κ°€ μƒμƒν•˜λŠ” 쑰합이라면 "λ‚˜λž‘ 컀피 λ§ˆμ‹€λž˜
08:31
coffee with me?"
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?"
08:33
make sure that you say this very lightly if you don't want to ask them on a date, because
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데이트 신청을 ν•˜κ³  싢지 μ•Šλ‹€λ©΄ μ•„μ£Ό κ°€λ³κ²Œ λ§ν•˜μ„Έμš”.
08:40
for me, if a guy tells me this and says, "Hey, do you want to grab lunch later?" and they
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μ™œλƒν•˜λ©΄ μ €λŠ” λ‚¨μžκ°€ 이 말을 ν•˜λ©΄μ„œ "μ•Ό, λ‚˜μ€‘μ— 점심 λ¨Ήμ„λž˜?" 그리고 그듀은
08:45
don't know me or they don't know that I'm married.
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λ‚˜λ₯Ό λͺ¨λ₯΄κ±°λ‚˜ λ‚΄κ°€ κ²°ν˜Όν–ˆλ‹€λŠ” 것을 λͺ¨λ¦…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
08:49
Then I will feel really uncomfortable because is it a date?
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그럼 λ°μ΄νŠΈλΌμ„œ 많이 λΆˆνŽΈν•˜κ² μ§€ ?
08:52
Is it not a date?
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데이트 μ•„λ‹ˆμ•Ό?
08:53
Do I want to just talk with them?
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κ·Έλƒ₯ κ·Έλ“€κ³Ό μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜κ³  μ‹ΆμŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
08:56
Make sure that if you are in this situation, you just ask in a very light and happy manner.
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당신이 이런 상황에 μ²˜ν•΄ μžˆλ‹€λ©΄ μ•„μ£Ό 가볍고 ν–‰λ³΅ν•œ νƒœλ„λ‘œ λ¬Όμ–΄λ³΄μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
09:02
Of course, if you do want to ask them on a date, this is a good question to ask.
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λ¬Όλ‘ , κ·Έλ“€μ—κ²Œ 데이트 신청을 ν•˜κ³  μ‹Άλ‹€λ©΄ λ¬Όμ–΄ 보면 쒋은 μ§ˆλ¬Έμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:06
Finally talking about your plans, we have two very safe questions you can ask.
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λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰μœΌλ‘œ λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ κ³„νšμ— λŒ€ν•΄ λ§ν•˜λ©΄μ„œ, μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 당신이 물을 수 μžˆλŠ” 두 가지 맀우 μ•ˆμ „ν•œ 질문이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:10
The first one is, "I can't believe it's already time for," some kind of holiday, whatever
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첫 λ²ˆμ§ΈλŠ” "벌써 νœ΄κ°€κ°€ μ™”λ‹€λŠ” 게 믿기지 μ•Šμ•„μš” "μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ–΄λ–€
09:16
holiday is coming up.
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νœ΄κ°€κ°€ λ‹€κ°€μ˜€λ“  말이죠.
09:17
"I can't believe it's already time for Thanksgiving.
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"벌써 μΆ”μˆ˜κ°μ‚¬μ ˆμ΄λΌλ‹ˆ 믿기지 μ•Šλ„€μš”.
09:20
I can't believe it's already time for Christmas, for the New Year, for spring break.
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벌써 크리슀마슀, μƒˆν•΄, λ΄„λ°©ν•™μ΄λΌλ‹ˆ 믿기지가 μ•Šλ„€μš”.
09:27
Do you have any plans?"
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무슨 κ³„νšμ΄λΌλ„ μžˆμœΌμ‹ κ°€μš”?"
09:29
This is asking them about the future, "What are you going to do for the holiday season?"
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이것은 κ·Έλ“€μ—κ²Œ λ―Έλž˜μ— λŒ€ν•΄ λ¬»λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. " μ—°νœ΄μ— 무엇을 ν•  κ±΄κ°€μš”?"
09:33
Or you can simply ask, "Do you have any plans for this weekend?"
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λ˜λŠ” "이번 주말에 κ³„νšμ΄ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ?"라고 κ°„λ‹¨ν•˜κ²Œ λ¬Όμ–΄λ³Ό 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. "
09:37
Ask it very lightly so they know that you are just simply asking, "Hey, what are you
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이봐,
09:42
up to this weekend?
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이번 주말에 뭐 ν•  κ±°λ‹ˆ?
09:43
Do you have any plans for this weekend?"
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이번 주말에 무슨 κ³„νš μžˆλ‹ˆ?"
09:46
Great small talk.
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쒋은 μž‘λ‹΄.
09:47
Our next small talk topic is a job.
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λ‹€μŒ μž‘λ‹΄ μ£Όμ œλŠ” μ§μ—…μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. ν•¨κ»˜ μΌν•˜λŠ”
09:51
Even if you're talking with someone who you work with, you can alter these questions slightly
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μ‚¬λžŒκ³Ό μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜κ³  μžˆλ”λΌλ„ μ΄λŸ¬ν•œ μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ μ•½κ°„ λ³€κ²½ν•˜μ—¬
09:55
and still talk about your job with them.
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κ·Έλ“€κ³Ό ν•¨κ»˜ ν•˜λŠ” 직업에 λŒ€ν•΄ 계속 이야기할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:58
In fact, it might be the best option because it's something that you already have in common.
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사싀 이미 κ³΅ν†΅μ μœΌλ‘œ 가지고 μžˆλŠ” 것이기 λ•Œλ¬Έμ— μ΅œμ„ μ˜ 선택일 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. ν•œ λ²ˆλ„ λ§Œλ‚œ 적이 μ—†λŠ”
10:03
If you're talking with someone you've never met before, this is a great question to ask,
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μ‚¬λžŒκ³Ό 이야기λ₯Ό λ‚˜λˆ„κ³  μžˆλ‹€λ©΄
10:06
"So, what do you do?" or, "So, what do you do for work?"
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"κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 무엇을 ν•˜μ‹œλ‚˜μš”?"λΌλŠ” μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ ν•˜κΈ°μ— 쒋은 μ§ˆλ¬Έμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ˜λŠ” "κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 일을 μœ„ν•΄ 무엇을 ν•©λ‹ˆκΉŒ?"
10:12
Sometimes we leave off the last part, for work, and we simply ask, "So, what do you
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λ•Œλ•Œλ‘œ μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 일을 μœ„ν•΄ λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰ 뢀뢄을 μƒλž΅ ν•˜κ³  "κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, 당신은 무엇을
10:17
do?"
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ν•©λ‹ˆκΉŒ?"라고 λ¬»μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 이전에 이 ν‘œν˜„μ„ λ“€μ–΄λ³Έ 적이 μ—†λŠ”
10:18
This might seem a little bit vague for English learners who've never heard this expression
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μ˜μ–΄ ν•™μŠ΅μžμ—κ²ŒλŠ” λ‹€μ†Œ λͺ¨ν˜Έν•˜κ²Œ 보일 수
10:22
before, but it is extremely common.
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μžˆμ§€λ§Œ 맀우 μΌλ°˜μ μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:25
I want to make sure that when someone asks you, "So, what do you do?"
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€ λ‹Ήμ‹ μ—κ²Œ "κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, 당신은 무엇을 ν•©λ‹ˆκΉŒ?"라고 λ¬Όμ—ˆμ„ λ•Œ ν™•μ‹€νžˆ ν•˜κ³  μ‹ΆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:28
you might say, "What do I do?
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"μ–΄λ–‘ν•˜μ£ ?
10:30
Well, I eat breakfast, I wake up, I breathe.
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아침을 λ¨Ήκ³  μΌμ–΄λ‚˜μ„œ μˆ¨μ„ μ‰¬μ–΄μš”.
10:35
I like to run."
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λ‹¬λ¦¬λŠ” 게 μ’‹μ•„μš”."
10:36
No, no, no, this is talking about your job, what do you do.
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μ•„λ‹ˆ, μ•„λ‹ˆ, μ•„λ‹ˆ, 이것은 λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ 직업에 λŒ€ν•΄ λ§ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 당신은 무엇을 ν•©λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
10:39
Next, you could ask them, "How long have you been doing this job?
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λ‹€μŒμœΌλ‘œ, " 이 일을 ν•œ 지 μ–Όλ§ˆλ‚˜ λ˜μ—ˆλ‚˜μš”?
10:45
How long have you been an architect?
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κ±΄μΆ•κ°€λ‘œ μΌν•œ 지 μ–Όλ§ˆλ‚˜ λμ–΄μš”?
10:48
How long have you been a nurse?
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κ°„ν˜Έμ‚¬λ‘œ μΌν•œ 지 μ–Όλ§ˆλ‚˜ λμ–΄μš”?
10:50
How long have you been a builder?"
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κ±΄μΆ•κ°€λ‘œ μΌν•œ 지 μ–Όλ§ˆλ‚˜ λμ–΄μš”?"라고 물을 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:52
Well, this is great, you're trying to ask some more details.
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κΈ€μŽ„, 이것은 ν›Œλ₯­ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 당신은 μ’€ 더 μžμ„Έν•œ λ‚΄μš©μ„ 묻고 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:56
If they haven't done that job for very long, you can follow that up with, "So, what did
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그듀이 μ˜€λž«λ™μ•ˆ κ·Έ 일을 ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šμ•˜λ‹€λ©΄, "κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, κ·Έ μ „μ—λŠ” 무엇을 ν•˜μ…¨μŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ?"라고 λ¬Όμ–΄λ³Ό 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:01
you do before this?"
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11:03
What did you do before this, this means this current job, what was your previous job, or
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이전에 무엇을 ν–ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ? 이것은 ν˜„μž¬ 직업, 이전 직업이 무엇인지, μ•„λ‹ˆλ©΄
11:08
maybe you were a student or maybe you were traveling, what did you do before this.
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ν•™μƒμ΄μ—ˆκ±°λ‚˜ μ—¬ν–‰ 쀑일 수 μžˆλŠ”μ§€ , 이전에 무엇을 ν–ˆλŠ”μ§€λ₯Ό μ˜λ―Έν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:13
You might notice that I'm starting a lot of these questions with the word so.
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μ œκ°€ λ§Žμ€ μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ soλΌλŠ” λ‹¨μ–΄λ‘œ μ‹œμž‘ν•˜κ³  μžˆμŒμ„ λˆˆμΉ˜μ±„μ…¨μ„ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ‹¬λ¬Έμ²˜λŸΌ 듀리지 μ•Šλ„λ‘ 질문
11:17
It just provides a smooth entrance to your question so that it doesn't sound like an
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에 μ›ν™œν•˜κ²Œ μ§„μž…ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
11:24
interrogation.
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11:25
"What do you do?
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"무엇을 ν•˜μ„Έμš”?
11:26
How often have you done this?
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μ–Όλ§ˆλ‚˜ 자주 이런 일을 ν•˜μ…¨μŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
11:27
Where are you coming?
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μ–΄λ””λ‘œ κ°€μ‹­λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
11:28
How often do you come here?"
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μ—¬κΈ° μ–Όλ§ˆλ‚˜ 자주 μ˜€μ‹­λ‹ˆκΉŒ?"
11:30
If you ask questions like this, the other person will feel uncomfortable so we often
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이런 μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ ν•˜λ©΄ μƒλŒ€λ°©μ΄ λΆˆνŽΈν•΄ν•  것 κ°™μ•„μ„œ, μš°λ¦¬λŠ” μ’…μ’…
11:34
add these filler words, like so, to make it seem more casual and just more natural.
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μ΄λ ‡κ²Œ ν•„λŸ¬ 단어λ₯Ό μΆ”κ°€ν•˜μ—¬ 더 μΊμ£Όμ–Όν•˜κ³  μžμ—°μŠ€λŸ½κ²Œ 보이도둝 ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:40
"So, what did you do before this?
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"κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, 이 일 μ „μ—λŠ” 무슨 일을 ν•˜μ…¨μŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
11:42
So, how long have you done this job?"
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 이 일을 ν•˜μ‹  μ§€λŠ” μ–Όλ§ˆλ‚˜ λ˜μ…¨μŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ?"
11:44
Great idea.
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쒋은 생각이야. μžμ‹ 
11:45
If someone really likes their job, you could ask, "So, what made you get into architecture?
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의 일을 정말 μ’‹μ•„ν•˜λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ μžˆλ‹€λ©΄ μ΄λ ‡κ²Œ 물을 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. "κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 건좕을 ν•˜κ²Œ 된 κ³„κΈ°λŠ” λ¬΄μ—‡μž…λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
11:50
So, what made you get into teaching?"
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κ·Έλ ‡λ‹€λ©΄ ꡐ직에 μž…λ¬Έν•˜κ²Œ 된 κ³„κΈ°λŠ” λ¬΄μ—‡μž…λ‹ˆκΉŒ?"
11:54
If someone is a teacher, I'm sure they'd love to share about how they became interested
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μ–΄λ–€ μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ ꡐ사라면 κ°€λ₯΄μΉ˜λŠ” 일에 μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ 관심을 κ°–κ²Œ λ˜μ—ˆλŠ”μ§€ κ³΅μœ ν•˜κ³  μ‹Άμ–΄ν•  κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
11:58
in teaching.
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11:59
That's what the essence of this question is, "So, how did you get into teaching?"
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그것이 이 질문의 λ³Έμ§ˆμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. "κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ κ°€λ₯΄μΉ˜κ²Œ λ˜μ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ?"
12:06
Especially if you have an unusual job, like my job, which is to teach you English online,
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특히 μ˜¨λΌμΈμ—μ„œ μ˜μ–΄λ₯Ό κ°€λ₯΄μΉ˜λŠ” 제 μ§μ—…μ²˜λŸΌ νŠΉμ΄ν•œ 직업을 가지고 μžˆλ‹€λ©΄
12:11
a lot of people ask me this question, "How did you get into teaching English on YouTube
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λ§Žμ€ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ "μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μœ νŠœλΈŒμ™€ μ˜¨λΌμΈμ—μ„œ μ˜μ–΄λ₯Ό κ°€λ₯΄μΉ˜κ²Œ λ˜μ—ˆλ‚˜μš”
12:17
and online?"
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?"라고 λ¬»μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
12:18
I tell a little background story about teaching English in the classroom, and then I was searching
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μ €λŠ” κ΅μ‹€μ—μ„œ μ˜μ–΄λ₯Ό κ°€λ₯΄μΉ˜λŠ” 것에 λŒ€ν•œ μ•½κ°„μ˜ λ°°κ²½ 이야기λ₯Ό ν•˜κ³  λ‚˜μ„œ
12:24
online for how to teach English in the US and I found out I could teach English online
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λ―Έκ΅­μ—μ„œ μ˜μ–΄λ₯Ό κ°€λ₯΄μΉ˜λŠ” 방법을 온라인으둜 κ²€μƒ‰ν•˜κ³  μžˆμ—ˆκ³  온라인으둜 μ˜μ–΄λ₯Ό κ°€λ₯΄μΉ  수 μžˆλ‹€λŠ” 것을 μ•Œκ²Œ λ˜μ—ˆκ³ 
12:28
and I just started to dive into it and give it a try.
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그것에 λ›°μ–΄λ“€μ–΄ μ‹œλ„ν•΄ 보기 μ‹œμž‘ν–ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
12:32
This is a little background story to talk about how I became interested in my current
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이것은 λ‚΄κ°€ μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ ν˜„μž¬ 직업에 관심을 κ°–κ²Œ λ˜μ—ˆλŠ”μ§€μ— λŒ€ν•œ μž‘μ€ λ°°κ²½ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
12:36
job.
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12:37
Not everybody likes their job though, so if someone doesn't seem that excited about their
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λͺ¨λ“  μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ μžμ‹ μ˜ 직업을 μ’‹μ•„ν•˜λŠ” 것은 μ•„λ‹ˆλ―€λ‘œ λˆ„κ΅°κ°€ μžμ‹ μ˜ 직업에 λŒ€ν•΄ 그닀지 ν₯λ―Έλ₯Ό λŠλΌμ§€ μ•ŠλŠ” 것 κ°™κ³ 
12:42
job and you want to learn more about them, you could ask them this fun question, which
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그에 λŒ€ν•΄ 더 μ•Œκ³  μ‹Άλ‹€λ©΄ λ‹€μŒκ³Ό 같은 μž¬λ―ΈμžˆλŠ” μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
12:46
is, "If money was no object, what job would you do?"
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ν•˜λ‹€?"
12:52
This means if you didn't need to make money or you didn't care about how much money you
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즉, λˆμ„ 벌 ν•„μš”κ°€ μ—†κ±°λ‚˜ 가진 λˆμ— 관심이 μ—†λ‹€λ©΄
12:58
had, what kind of job would you have?
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μ–΄λ–€ 직업을 κ°–κ²Œ λ κΉŒμš”?
13:00
This is a classic question and it really gets to the heart of someone's passion.
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이것은 고전적인 질문이며 λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ˜ μ—΄μ •μ˜ 핡심에 λ„λ‹¬ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:05
Maybe they love horses, but they just don't think they can make a career out of loving
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μ•„λ§ˆλ„ 그듀은 말을 μ‚¬λž‘ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 말을 μ‚¬λž‘ν•¨μœΌλ‘œμ¨ κ²½λ ₯을 μŒ“μ„ 수 μžˆλ‹€κ³  μƒκ°ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
13:12
horses.
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.
13:13
They might say, "Oh, I really wish I could be a horse trainer and teach people how to
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"였, λ‚΄κ°€ 말 쑰련사가 λ˜μ–΄ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ—κ²Œ 말 νƒ€λŠ” 법을 κ°€λ₯΄μΉ  수 있으면 정말 μ’‹κ² μ–΄μš”
13:18
ride horses."
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."
13:19
Well, great, all of a sudden you have a treasure, which is a piece of information about the
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κΈ€μŽ„μš”, κ°‘μžκΈ° 당신은 λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒ 에 λŒ€ν•œ 정보인 보물을 κ°–κ²Œ λ˜μ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
13:25
other person.
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.
13:26
They love horses, great.
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그듀은 말을 μ’‹μ•„ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:28
You want to make sure that when you learn something interesting about other people you
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λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ— λŒ€ν•΄ ν₯미둜운 점을 μ•Œκ²Œ 되면
13:32
store that away, because it's a great way to continue conversations or to bring up something
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그것을 μ €μž₯ν•΄ 두어야 ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό κ³„μ†ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜
13:38
interesting with them.
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κ·Έλ“€κ³Ό ν₯미둜운 점을 이야기할 수 μžˆλŠ” 쒋은 방법이기 λ•Œλ¬Έμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:39
What if you're talking with someone who you work with, how can you talk about your job?
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ν•¨κ»˜ μΌν•˜λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒκ³Ό μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜κ³  μžˆλ‹€λ©΄ μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ 직업에 λŒ€ν•΄ 이야기할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
13:44
Because you can't ask them, "What do you do?"
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"무슨 일을 ν•˜μ„Έμš”?"라고 λ¬Όμ–΄λ³Ό 수 μ—†κΈ° λ•Œλ¬Έμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:45
Well, I guess, unless you don't really know what part of the company they work for, but
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κΈ€μŽ„μš”, 그듀이 μΌν•˜λŠ” νšŒμ‚¬μ˜ μ–΄λ–€ 뢀뢄을 μ •λ§λ‘œ μ•Œμ§€ λͺ»ν•˜λŠ” ν•œ,
13:51
in general, we want to ask more specific questions.
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일반적으둜 μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 더 ꡬ체적인 μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ ν•˜κ³  μ‹ΆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:54
Let's imagine this scenario.
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이 μ‹œλ‚˜λ¦¬μ˜€λ₯Ό 상상해 λ΄…μ‹œλ‹€.
13:56
You are in the lunchroom, most offices in the US have a break room or lunch room with
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당신은 식당에 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 미ꡭ의 λŒ€λΆ€λΆ„μ˜ μ‚¬λ¬΄μ‹€μ—λŠ” νœ΄κ²Œμ‹€μ΄λ‚˜ 식당이 있으며
14:03
some tables and a microwave, maybe a sink, so that you can heat up your food or wash
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ν…Œμ΄λΈ”κ³Ό μ „μžλ ˆμΈμ§€, μ–΄μ©Œλ©΄ μ‹±ν¬λŒ€κ°€ μžˆμ–΄ μŒμ‹μ„ λ°μš°κ±°λ‚˜ 섀거지λ₯Ό ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
14:08
some dishes, and you are waiting for your food to heat up, you brought some leftover
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λœ¨κ±°μ›Œμ§€κ³  남은 μˆ˜ν”„λ₯Ό κ°€μ Έ μ™”μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
14:13
soup.
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14:14
This is a very detailed scenario.
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이것은 맀우 μƒμ„Έν•œ μ‹œλ‚˜λ¦¬μ˜€μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
14:15
You brought some leftover chicken noodle soup and you put it in the microwave to heat up,
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남은 μΉ˜ν‚¨ λˆ„λ“€ μˆ˜ν”„λ₯Ό 가져와 μ „μžλ ˆμΈμ§€μ— λ„£μ–΄ λ°μ› μ§€λ§Œ
14:20
but you've got two minutes and there's somebody who works with you, standing beside you.
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2λΆ„μ˜ μ‹œκ°„μ΄ 있고 ν•¨κ»˜ μΌν•˜λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ μ˜†μ— μ„œ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
14:26
What do you do?
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λ„ˆ λ­ν•˜λ‹ˆ?
14:27
What do you say?
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당신은 무엇을 λ§ν•©λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
14:28
Don't worry, I'm here to save you.
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κ±±μ •λ§ˆμ„Έμš”, μ œκ°€ 당신을 κ΅¬ν•˜λŸ¬ μ™”μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
14:29
You can ask these three questions.
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이 μ„Έ 가지 μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
14:31
If you know which department they work in, you might say, "Hey, what's new in the marketing
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그듀이 μ–΄λŠ λΆ€μ„œμ—μ„œ μΌν•˜λŠ”μ§€ μ•ˆλ‹€λ©΄ "였늘 λ§ˆμΌ€νŒ… λΆ€μ„œμ—μ„œ 무슨 일이 생겼어
14:36
department today?" if they work in marketing.
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?"라고 말할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그듀이 λ§ˆμΌ€νŒ…μ—μ„œ μΌν•œλ‹€λ©΄.
14:39
Or if they work in management, you might say, "Hey, what's new in management today?"
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λ˜λŠ” 관리 λΆ€μ„œμ—μ„œ κ·Όλ¬΄ν•˜λŠ” 경우 "였늘 관리 λΆ„μ•Όμ˜ μƒˆλ‘œμš΄ μ†Œμ‹μ€ λ¬΄μ—‡μž…λ‹ˆκΉŒ?"라고 말할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
14:43
Cool, great, you know a little bit about them, but you're just having some small talk.
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멋지닀, ν›Œλ₯­ν•˜λ‹€, 그듀에 λŒ€ν•΄ 쑰금 μ•Œκ³  μžˆμ§€λ§Œ, 단지 μž‘λ‹΄μ„ ν•˜κ³  μžˆμ„ 뿐이닀.
14:47
Or if you know they're working on a project, you could say, "How's your project going?
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λ˜λŠ” 그듀이 ν”„λ‘œμ νŠΈμ—μ„œ μž‘μ—…ν•˜κ³  μžˆλ‹€λŠ” 것을 μ•Œκ³  μžˆλ‹€λ©΄ "ν”„λ‘œμ νŠΈκ°€ μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μ§„ν–‰λ˜κ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
14:52
How's your project going?"
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ν”„λ‘œμ νŠΈκ°€ μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μ§„ν–‰λ˜κ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ?"라고 말할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
14:53
Or if you have no idea what they're doing, you might say, "Do you have any fun or exciting
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λ˜λŠ” 그듀이 무엇을 ν•˜κ³  μžˆλŠ”μ§€ μ „ν˜€ λͺ¨λ₯Έλ‹€λ©΄ "μž¬λ―Έλ‚˜ μ‹ λ‚˜λŠ”
14:59
projects coming up?"
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ν”„λ‘œμ νŠΈκ°€ μ˜ˆμ •λ˜μ–΄ μžˆλ‚˜μš”?"라고 물을 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
15:01
You're asking about the future, what kind of things they're planning for.
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당신은 λ―Έλž˜μ— λŒ€ν•΄, 그듀이 μ–΄λ–€ 일을 κ³„νšν•˜κ³  μžˆλŠ”μ§€ 묻고 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
15:05
Not everybody is great at small talk so they might just say, "Nope, not much."
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λͺ¨λ“  μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ μž‘λ‹΄μ„ μž˜ν•˜λŠ” 것은 μ•„λ‹ˆλ―€λ‘œ "μ•„λ‹ˆ, λ³„λ‘œ"라고 말할 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
15:09
Okay, not everybody is willing to have small talk, but who knows, maybe they'll say, "Yeah,
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μ’‹μ•„μš”, λͺ¨λ“  μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ μž‘λ‹΄μ„ 기꺼이 ν•˜μ§€λŠ” μ•Šκ² μ§€λ§Œ λˆ„κ°€ μ•Œκ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ? "그래,
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we're working on this really cool initiative.
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μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 정말 멋진 μ΄λ‹ˆμ…”ν‹°λΈŒλ₯Ό μœ„ν•΄ λ…Έλ ₯ν•˜κ³  μžˆμ–΄.
15:17
We're working with a charity and we're going to try to raise some funds for this organization,"
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μš°λ¦¬λŠ” μžμ„  단체와 ν•¨κ»˜ μΌν•˜κ³  있고 이 쑰직을 μœ„ν•œ μ•½κ°„μ˜ 자금"이라고 λ§ν•˜λ©°
15:22
and maybe they're excited about it and will want to share it.
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μ•„λ§ˆλ„ 그듀은 그것에 λŒ€ν•΄ ν₯λΆ„ν•˜κ³  그것을 κ³΅μœ ν•˜κ³  μ‹Άμ–΄ν•  κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
15:24
Maybe they'd just been dying to share this with someone and you are that opportunity.
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μ•„λ§ˆλ„ 그듀은 이것을 λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ™€ κ³΅μœ ν•˜κ³  μ‹Άμ—ˆμ„ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그리고 당신은 κ·Έ κΈ°νšŒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
15:29
It's worth a try, you never know, give small talk a shot.
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μ‹œλ„ν•΄ λ³Ό κ°€μΉ˜κ°€ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μž‘λ‹΄μ„ ν•œλ²ˆ μ‹œλ„ν•΄ λ³΄μ„Έμš” .
15:33
Before we go, I want to give you four tips for excellent small talk.
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κ°€κΈ° 전에 ν›Œλ₯­ν•œ μž‘λ‹΄μ„ μœ„ν•œ λ„€ 가지 μš”λ Ήμ„ λ§μ”€λ“œλ¦¬κ³  μ‹ΆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
15:36
These are general ideas about conversation, but they are essential for connecting with
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이것은 λŒ€ν™”μ— λŒ€ν•œ 일반적인 μ•„μ΄λ””μ–΄μ΄μ§€λ§Œ λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒ κ³Ό μ—°κ²°ν•˜λŠ” 데 ν•„μˆ˜μ μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
15:41
someone else.
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15:42
Number one is put your phone away.
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첫 λ²ˆμ§ΈλŠ” μ „ν™”κΈ°λ₯Ό μΉ˜μš°λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
15:47
This seems like a basic thing, right?
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이건 기본인 것 κ°™μ£ ?
15:49
But sometimes we don't realize how often we're opening our phone, checking our messages,
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ λ•Œλ•Œλ‘œ μš°λ¦¬λŠ” μš°λ¦¬κ°€ μ–Όλ§ˆλ‚˜ 자주 μ „ν™”λ₯Ό μ—΄κ³ , λ©”μ‹œμ§€λ₯Ό ν™•μΈν•˜κ³ ,
15:54
there's a little buzz and you open your phone.
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μ•½κ°„μ˜ μœ™μœ™κ±°λ¦¬λŠ” μ†Œλ¦¬κ°€ 듀리고 당신이 μ „ν™”λ₯Ό μ—¬λŠ”μ§€ 깨닫지 λͺ»ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
15:56
This is disconnecting you from the person you're talking with.
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이것은 λŒ€ν™” μƒλŒ€μ™€ 연결을 λŠλŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
16:00
When you're trying to have small talk, keep your phone in your pocket, keep your phone
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μž‘λ‹΄μ„ ν•˜λ €κ³  ν•  λ•ŒλŠ” νœ΄λŒ€ν°μ„ μ£Όλ¨Έλ‹ˆμ— λ„£κ³ 
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away.
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멀리 λ‘μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
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If you have an emergency or urgent phone call, you can just say, "Excuse me, I'm sorry.
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κΈ΄κΈ‰ μ „ν™”λ‚˜ κΈ‰ν•œ μ „ν™”κ°€ μžˆλŠ” 경우 "μ‹€λ‘€ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ£„μ†‘ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
16:10
I have to take this," and that means you have to talk with that person.
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이 μ „ν™”λ₯Ό λ°›μ•„μ•Ό ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€."라고 λ§ν•˜λ©΄ κ·Έ μ‚¬λžŒκ³Ό 톡화해야 ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
16:14
"I'm sorry, it's my boss.
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"μ£„μ†‘ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 제 μƒμ‚¬μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
16:15
I have to talk with them, I'll be back."
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κ·Έλ“€κ³Ό 이야기해야 ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ‹€μ‹œ μ˜¬κ²Œμš”."
16:18
You have to take that emergency call, but in general for small talk, keep your phone
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κΈ΄κΈ‰ μ „ν™”λ₯Ό λ°›μ•„μ•Ό ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 일반적으둜 μž‘λ‹΄μ˜ 경우 μ „ν™”λ₯Ό
16:22
away.
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κ°€κΉŒμ΄ 두지 λ§ˆμ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
16:23
My second tip is to be curious about the other person.
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두 번째 νŒμ€ μƒλŒ€λ°©μ— λŒ€ν•΄ κΆκΈˆν•΄ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
16:27
This is one of the great joys in life, I think, is getting to know other people and being
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이것이 μΈμƒμ˜ 큰 기쁨 쀑 ν•˜λ‚˜λΌκ³  μƒκ°ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ„ μ•Œμ•„κ°€κ³ 
16:32
very sincere about getting to know them.
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그듀을 μ•Œμ•„κ°€λŠ” 것에 λŒ€ν•΄ 맀우 μ§„μ§€ν•΄μ§‘λ‹ˆλ‹€.
16:35
You're not just a robot, blindly asking questions.
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당신은 λ§Ήλͺ©μ μœΌλ‘œ 질문만 ν•˜λŠ” λ‘œλ΄‡μ΄ μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€.
16:38
No, you want to get to know another person, even if it's just for one minute while you're
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μ•„λ‹ˆ, 당신은 λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ„ μ•Œκ³  μ‹Άμ–΄ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 당신이
16:43
waiting for your food to heat up in the microwave, that chicken noodle soup, so you can get to
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μ „μžλ ˆμΈμ§€μ— μŒμ‹μ΄ λ°μ›Œμ§€κΈ°λ₯Ό κΈ°λ‹€λ¦¬λŠ” λ™μ•ˆ 단 1뢄이라도 κ·Έ μΉ˜ν‚¨ λˆ„λ“€ μˆ˜ν”„, κ·Έλž˜μ„œ
16:49
know someone else.
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λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ„ μ•Œ 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
16:50
Be curious.
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ν˜ΈκΈ°μ‹¬μ„ κ°€μ§€μ„Έμš”.
16:51
A great way is to ask why or how questions, "Oh, why did you decide to get this type of
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쒋은 방법은 "였, μ™œ 이런 μœ ν˜•μ˜
16:59
dog?"
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개λ₯Ό ν‚€μš°κΈ°λ‘œ κ²°μ •ν–ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ?"와 같은 μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ μ™œ λ˜λŠ” μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
17:00
Or, "How long have you had this dog?"
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λ˜λŠ” "이 개λ₯Ό μ–Όλ§ˆλ‚˜ 였래 ν‚€μ› μŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ?"
17:02
Wow, this is a great way to ask further questions.
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μ™€μš°, 이것은 μΆ”κ°€ μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” 쒋은 λ°©λ²•μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
17:06
Of course, don't interrogate them.
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λ¬Όλ‘  그듀을 μ‹¬λ¬Έν•˜μ§€ λ§ˆμ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
17:08
"Why did you get this dog?
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"μ™œ 이 개λ₯Ό ν‚€μ› μ–΄?
17:10
How long have you had him?"
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μ–Όλ§ˆλ‚˜ 였래 ν‚€μ› λ‹ˆ?"
17:11
No, you can just be friendly, be yourself, but these open questions with why and how
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μ•„λ‹ˆμ˜€, 당신은 κ·Έλƒ₯ μΉœκ·Όν•˜κ²Œ λŒ€ν•˜κ³  λ‹Ήμ‹  μžμ‹ μ΄ 될 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‚˜ μ™œ 그리고 μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ
17:17
show the other person that you are sincerely interested in their choices in their life.
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당신이 κ·Έλ“€μ˜ μ‚Άμ—μ„œ κ·Έλ“€μ˜ 선택에 μ§„μ‹¬μœΌλ‘œ 관심이 μžˆλ‹€λŠ” 것을 μƒλŒ€λ°©μ—κ²Œ λ³΄μ—¬μ£ΌλŠ” μ—΄λ¦° μ§ˆλ¬Έλ“€μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
17:22
My third tip is what I just mentioned, which is do not interrogate to the other person.
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μ„Έ 번째 μš”λ Ήμ€ 방금 μ–ΈκΈ‰ν•œ 것인데, μƒλŒ€λ°©μ—κ²Œ μ‹¬λ¬Έν•˜μ§€ λ§λΌλŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
17:28
Instead, just be genuine and interested in them.
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λŒ€μ‹ , μ§„μ‹€ν•˜κ³  κ·Έλ“€μ—κ²Œ 관심을 가져라 .
17:32
If you feel like you're asking too many questions, do you know what you can do?
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λ„ˆλ¬΄ λ§Žμ€ μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ ν•˜λŠ” 것 κ°™μœΌλ©΄ μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ ν•  수 μžˆλŠ”μ§€ μ•„μ‹­λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
17:37
You can share about yourself.
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μžμ‹ μ— λŒ€ν•΄ κ³΅μœ ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
17:39
This is something that's also essential to do, but not easy for everyone.
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이것은 λ°˜λ“œμ‹œ ν•΄μ•Ό ν•  μΌμ΄μ§€λ§Œ λͺ¨λ“  μ‚¬λžŒμ—κ²Œ μ‰½μ§€λŠ” μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
17:43
If someone says that they are a math teacher, you might say, "Oh, you know what?
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€κ°€ μžμ‹ μ΄ μˆ˜ν•™ ꡐ사라고 λ§ν•œλ‹€λ©΄ "μ•„, κ·Έκ±° μ•Œμ•„μš”?
17:49
When I was in high school, I had an awesome math teacher who was a really special person."
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μ œκ°€ 고등학ꡐ에 닀닐 λ•Œ 정말 νŠΉλ³„ν•œ μ‚¬λžŒμ΄μ…¨λ˜ 멋진 μˆ˜ν•™ μ„ μƒλ‹˜μ΄ κ³„μ…¨μ–΄μš”."라고 말할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
17:54
Okay, that's really short, but you're sharing some kind of connection from your personal
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μ’‹μ•„μš”, 정말 μ§§μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 당신은 λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ 개인적인 μ‚Άμ—μ„œ μ–΄λ–€ μ’…λ₯˜μ˜ 연결을 κ³΅μœ ν•˜κ³ 
17:59
life and this helps you to not interrogate them.
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있고 이것은 당신이 그듀을 μ‹¬λ¬Έν•˜μ§€ μ•Šλ„λ‘ λ„μ™€μ€λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
18:02
Instead, you're also giving.
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λŒ€μ‹ μ—, 당신은 λ˜ν•œμ£Όκ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
18:04
You're not just taking their answers, instead, you are giving from yourself as well.
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당신은 단지 κ·Έλ“€μ˜ λŒ€λ‹΅μ„ λ°›μ•„λ“€μ΄λŠ” 것이 μ•„λ‹ˆλΌ, λ‹Ήμ‹  μžμ‹ μœΌλ‘œλΆ€ν„°λ„ μ£ΌλŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
18:11
My fourth tip for great small talk is to avoid your personal favorite topic.
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멋진 μž‘λ‹΄μ„ μœ„ν•œ λ„€ 번째 νŒμ€ 개인적으둜 μ’‹μ•„ν•˜λŠ” 주제λ₯Ό ν”Όν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
18:17
If, for example, you're really into gardening and growing vegetables, but you have a feeling
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예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄, 당신이 정원 κ°€κΎΈκΈ° 와 μ±„μ†Œ μž¬λ°°μ— 정말 관심이 μžˆμ§€λ§Œ
18:24
that the other person has no experience with this, well, you want to keep the conversation
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μƒλŒ€λ°©μ΄ 이에 λŒ€ν•œ κ²½ν—˜μ΄ μ—†λ‹€κ³  λŠλ‚€λ‹€λ©΄ λŒ€ν™”μ˜ κ· ν˜•μ„ μœ μ§€ν•˜κ³  싢을 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
18:29
balanced.
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18:30
Of course, you can say, "Yeah, I'm really into gardening and I've been working hard
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λ¬Όλ‘  "예, μ €λŠ” 정원 가꾸기에 정말 관심이 많고 봄에
18:34
to be able to grow lots of kinds of vegetables in the spring."
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λ§Žμ€ μ’…λ₯˜μ˜ μ±„μ†Œλ₯Ό μž¬λ°°ν•  수 μžˆλ„λ‘ μ—΄μ‹¬νžˆ λ…Έλ ₯ν•˜κ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ ."라고 말할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
18:38
Okay, that's great, but if you keep talking on and on and on about it, well, that's not
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μ’‹μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 그것에 λŒ€ν•΄ κ³„μ†ν•΄μ„œ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•œλ‹€λ©΄
18:43
a balanced conversation.
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κ· ν˜• 작힌 λŒ€ν™”κ°€ μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€.
18:45
Of course, you can share what you're interested in, but make sure that you don't get carried
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λ¬Όλ‘  관심 μžˆλŠ” 것을 κ³΅μœ ν•  수 μžˆμ§€λ§Œ μ’‹μ•„ν•˜λŠ” μ£Όμ œμ—
18:49
away lecturing the other person about your favorite topic.
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λŒ€ν•΄ λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ—κ²Œ κ°•μ˜ν•˜λŠ” 데 λ„ˆλ¬΄ λͺ°λ‘ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šλ„λ‘ ν•˜μ„Έμš” .
18:53
All right, well, there you have it.
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자, μ—¬κΈ° μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
18:55
These are 23 great small talk questions and four hot tips for how to have great small
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μž‘λ‹΄ 23가지 질문과 μž‘λ‹΄ μž˜ν•˜λŠ” 방법에 λŒ€ν•œ 4가지 ν•« νŒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
19:00
talk.
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19:01
Now I have a question for you.
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이제 질문이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
19:03
In the comments below, let me know what question you're going to ask the next time that you
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μ•„λž˜ λŒ“κΈ€μ— λ‹€μŒμ—
19:08
have small talk in English.
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μ˜μ–΄λ‘œ μž‘λ‹΄μ„ ν•  λ•Œ μ–΄λ–€ μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ ν•  것인지 μ•Œλ €μ£Όμ„Έμš”.
19:10
You can do it, I believe in you.
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당신은 ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€, λ‚˜λŠ” 당신을 λ―ΏμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 저와
19:12
Thank you so much for learning English with me.
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ν•¨κ»˜ μ˜μ–΄λ₯Ό λ°°μ›Œμ£Όμ…”μ„œ 정말 κ°μ‚¬ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
19:14
I'll see you again next Friday for a new lesson here on my YouTube channel.
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λ‹€μŒ μ£Ό κΈˆμš”μΌμ— 제 YouTube μ±„λ„μ—μ„œ μƒˆλ‘œμš΄ μˆ˜μ—…μœΌλ‘œ λ‹€μ‹œ λ΅™κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
19:18
Bye.
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μ•ˆλ…•.
19:19
The next step is to download my free ebook, Five Steps to Becoming a Confident English
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λ‹€μŒ λ‹¨κ³„λŠ” μ €μ˜ 무료 μ „μžμ±…μΈ μžμ‹ κ° μžˆλŠ” μ˜μ–΄ κ΅¬μ‚¬μžκ°€ 되기 μœ„ν•œ λ‹€μ„― 단계λ₯Ό λ‹€μš΄λ‘œλ“œν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
19:25
Speaker.
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19:26
You'll learn what you need to do to speak confidently and fluently.
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μžμ‹ κ° 있고 μœ μ°½ν•˜κ²Œ λ§ν•˜κΈ° μœ„ν•΄ 무엇을 ν•΄μ•Ό ν•˜λŠ”μ§€ 배우게 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 더 λ§Žμ€ 무료 λ ˆμŠ¨μ„ λ°›μœΌλ €λ©΄
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제 유튜브 채널을 κ΅¬λ…ν•˜λŠ” 것을 μžŠμ§€ λ§ˆμ„Έμš” .
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정말 κ³ λ§ˆμ›Œ, μ•ˆλ…•.
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