Advanced English Conversation: Education in the US

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Vanessa: You are invited to a real English  
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conversation with me and my husband, Dan. Dan: 
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Hi. Vanessa: 
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We're going to be talking about education  today. You asked us your top education  
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questions in English, and we're going to  have a chit-chat about those questions,  
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immerse you in English. I hope you will end  up on the other side of this conversation  
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with a higher level of vocabulary, more  confidence about speaking in English,  
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and you'll enjoy it along the way. Like  always, I've created a free PDF worksheet,  
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which is over Dan's face at the moment,  with all of today's important vocabulary,  
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definitions, sample sentences. Everything  that you're going to hear in this lesson,  
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you will get in the free PDF worksheet. So you can  click on the link in the description to download  
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that free PDF worksheet today. All right, Dan, are  you ready to get started with the first question- 
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Dan: Yes. 
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Vanessa: ... that our students have asked us? 
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Dan: I'm ready to get educated. 
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Vanessa: All right, let's do it.  
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These education questions were asked by my student  Carmen from Italy and Mayi in Australia. Are you  
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ready for the first one? Dan: 
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I'm ready. Vanessa: 
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All right. The first question is, "What age does  school start in the U.S., that's where we're from,  
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the U.S. "and what does the education system look  like?" So let's start with the first question,  
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"What age does school start in the U.S.?" Dan: 
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So a lot of kids go to some kind of school around  four years old, so this would be preschool. In a  
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lot of cases, this is not provided by the state. Vanessa: 
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Yeah, this is something that parents  have to pay for out of pocket. 
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Dan: I would say this is  
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like daycare except maybe a little more education  peppered in 'cause they're really little kids,  
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and then official school is kindergarten, which  starts around five or six years old. This is where  
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real school begins. We're sitting and trying to  learn our letters and alphabet and reading and,  
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"Here's numbers," and all that kind of thing.  Then elementary school would be first through  
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fifth grade. Yeah, first through fifth grade,  which is probably what, seven to 11 or 12? 
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Vanessa: Yeah. Yeah. 
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Dan: Something like that. 
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Vanessa: 10, 11 years  
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old. Dan: 
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Then it moves on to middle school, which  is everybody's favorite time of existence,  
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12 to 14-ish. Vanessa: 
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This is a great example of sarcasm. Dan: 
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Oh, yes. This is sarcasm. Yeah, middle  school not known for being the most fun time. 
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Vanessa: No. 
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Dan: It's funny because a lot of kids are moving  
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at this time. They could be going to a different  school, different classes, and then you're going  
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through this awkward time in your life and,  "Here's some other new people for you. It'll be  
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fun." So yeah, that's an interesting time. Vanessa: 
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Usually, middle school has the  stereotype of being pretty rough,  
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pretty tricky. Then after middle school is high  school. By that point you're what, 14 years old? 
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Dan: You're a real man. 
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Vanessa: 14 through 18 years old,  
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so you're not right at the beginning, the cusp of  puberty. Instead, you're a little further in and  
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maybe a little more mature, maybe? Dan: 
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Ninth grade is still awkward- Vanessa: 
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Ninth grade is still pretty awkward. Dan: 
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... 'cause when you're in ninth grade and you're  14 or 15, and then you see a 17 or 18 year old,  
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especially if you're a guy like me, puberty can  hit all of a sudden and then you'll be a man  
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versus like I was, a boy. Vanessa: 
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A little boy when you were- Dan: 
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Yes. Vanessa: 
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... in ninth grade. Dan: 
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Hi, guys. Vanessa: 
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So this is the typical progression of school,  and there's a couple different options in the  
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U.S. You could go to public school, which is free.  It's paid for by your taxes. So if you pay taxes,  
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it's technically not free. Dan: 
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Free, not free. Vanessa: 
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Yes, free, not free. It's paid for by the state.  You could go to public school. You could go to a  
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public charter school, so this is a nuance where  you don't have to pay extra to go to a charter  
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school, but it's somehow- Dan: 
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It's run privately. Vanessa: 
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It's run privately, it's smaller. Usually, the  programs have a little bit higher quality, and to  
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get into a charter school, you often need to do a  lottery. This isn't like the lottery where you try  
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to win a million dollars. This is where you just  sign up and they pull a kid's name out of a hat,  
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totally random. If you get it, you get it, and if  you don't, you don't. So it's not based on your  
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income, it's not based on where you live, because  most public schools are based on where you live.  
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You have to go to the school in your neighborhood. Dan: 
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Yeah. Vanessa: 
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But a charter- Dan: 
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... kind of stinks. Vanessa: 
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... school, especially if you live in an area  that's really poor, well, your school is probably  
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not going to be very high quality, and there's a  lot of controversy about that 'cause it's a cycle. 
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Dan: Yeah, it's definitely a cycle. 
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Vanessa: You don't have as  
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many resources to get out of poverty and all of  that. So we've got public school, charter school,  
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private school. I have a little statistic here  I looked up in advance, fancy. Private schools,  
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9% of students go to a private school and parents  have to pay extra for a private school. It could  
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be a religious private school, it could be  a secular private school. Our child, Theo- 
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Dan: He's probably in the 1% because  
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he goes to a nature school. Vanessa: 
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It's not religious based- Dan: 
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He's in the 0.5%. Vanessa: 
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It's a very unusual private school. But there's  also other types of private schools like in nature  
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school where half of the day they spend time  outside in the woods or the teachers try to  
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incorporate the outside nature into the lessons. Dan: 
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A lot of times these schools will call themselves  alternative education, so that just means, "We're  
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trying to do something different here." Vanessa: 
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There's varying degrees of quality. Just because  you're paying for it doesn't mean that it's going  
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to be vastly better quality than the free public  school. So if you come to the U.S. and you think,  
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"I want my kid to have the best education. I  think I can afford to pay for private school,"  
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make sure you check it out first, and make  sure that it's actually the quality that  
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you want. There are a lot of scholarships,  actually. So the school that our son goes to,  
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a lot of people have an 80% scholarship to go to  the school, which makes it very affordable. The  
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state has scholarships, the school provides  some scholarships. There's some grants given  
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to the school to provide scholarships, so  they're trying to make it more accessible. 
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Dan: Yeah. Most schools, especially private schools and  
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anything education related, you're going to find  a lot of organizations that will try to help kids  
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get into whatever they really, really want, and  the government helps with that as well in America. 
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Vanessa: Yeah. I think a lot  
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of it comes down to the parents having the ability  to sign up, follow through with the applications,  
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sign up for the scholarships- Dan: 
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Now, that doesn't mean it's easy. Vanessa: 
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It doesn't mean it's easy, but it is an option.  There's a fourth option, which is what Dan  
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experienced when he was a child, homeschooling. Dan: 
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Look at me. Vanessa: 
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So interestingly enough, what percent of Americans  do you think homeschool? This means that generally  
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don't peak your mom or- Dan: 
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This is what I learned in homeschooling. Vanessa: 
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Your mom or your dad is your teacher, usually your  mom. There's local organizations that you can join  
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weekly, like a co-op, they call it a homeschooling  co-op. What percent of American children  
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are homeschooling as of 2021 or 2022? Dan: 
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Well, I would've guessed it was very low. See, I  think I looked at your phone earlier and saw it- 
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Vanessa: You cheated. 
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Dan: Well, you showed it to me- 
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Vanessa: Okay. 
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Dan: ... but I would've guessed like 2%- 
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Vanessa: Ah, okay. 
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Dan: ... before seeing that- 
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Vanessa: Okay. 
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Dan: ... but I think it's higher. 
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Vanessa: Yes, the answer is 7%. 
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Dan: Which is pretty high, actually. 
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Vanessa: It's almost the same amount  
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as go to private school. Dan: 
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Yeah, that's crazy. Vanessa: 
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Yeah, so 7%. The interesting thing is- Dan: 
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I guess it probably bumped up after COVID too. Vanessa: 
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Yes, that's the big thing. So before COVID, it was  I think, 4 or 5%, and now it's 7% and it's growing  
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10% every year. So it's hard to talk about those  stats, but it's growing every year because of all  
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the changes in education. Dan: 
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Yeah. Public school has gotten a bad reputation  as well. There's varying qualities, but a lot  
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of people, where they live, their school is not  very good. It is not just teachers, it's also the  
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peers you're with, and it's... I don't know.  Obviously, I teach at an alternative school,  
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so I am not a big fan of the traditional model,  and I don't like all the bureaucracy. Not to say  
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that there's not a lot of good-hearted people in  the system, I just think that the system is, well,  
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it might sound a little cliche, but it's broken. Vanessa: 
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Yeah. So those are the general options in the  U.S., and I think the cool thing is that if you  
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choose an alternative option, private school,  charter school, homeschooling, it's not seen as  
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very weird. It's unusual, it's not the majority,  but you're not like an outcast. You're not so  
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weird like, "Oh my goodness, you homeschool?"  It's not that generally it's just, "Oh, okay,  
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someone does something different." I  think that's in the American culture. 
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Dan: That is very much an American culture thing. 
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Vanessa: You try to accept people who do different things. 
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Dan: Because we lived in South Korea for a while,  
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we felt that difference so big. We never met  anybody who homeschooled there. We met one family  
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and we're like, "Whoa, this is amazing." Vanessa: 
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Everyone uses the same education system  and deviating from that norm is really  
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unusual in that culture. Dan: 
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Yeah, or even looked down on. But in America,  if you do something different like that, people,  
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they may sometimes go and whisper about it  or say, "I don't really agree with that," but  
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they'll never tell you to your face that they  have a problem with a decision you might make,  
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especially a personal decision. Vanessa: 
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Dan was homeschooled until how old? Dan: 
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Yes, until 13- Vanessa: 
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13? Dan: 
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I think, yes- Vanessa: 
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Okay- Dan: 
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... until middle school- Vanessa: 
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... and Dan's pretty cool. Dan: 
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... roughly. Yes, and I feel like homeschooling  today is way better than it was when I was a kid. 
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Vanessa: Way more resources. 
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Dan: I think that what I experienced I don't want for  
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my kids, but today, I can feasibly see how you can  build up certain social exposures, have certain  
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groups. There's a ton of resources online. Vanessa: 
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Yeah. Dan: 
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Yeah. Vanessa: 
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Your mom certainly did the best that she could do. Dan: 
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Oh, yeah. My mom did a good job. I think it was  just, for me personally, I don't think it fit what  
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I probably needed as a child looking back. Vanessa: 
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Like you needed more pressure to- Dan: 
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I needed an- Vanessa: 
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... have deadlines- Dan: 
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... out. Vanessa: 
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... and stuff. Dan: 
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I needed another authority other  than my mom, and I needed better,  
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a bigger social circle and a little more  structured education I think would've been  
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good for me. Not that my mom wasn't somewhat  structured, but it is a different kind of thing. 
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Vanessa: Yeah. Homeschooling in the '90s compared  
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to homeschooling now 30 years later, that's crazy.  All right, let's go on to question number two,  
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"Do most American students go to universities  after their graduation? Is it considered  
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important?" Let's talk about our general feel  first, and then I've got some stats about- 
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Dan: Yeah, good- 
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Vanessa: ... how many people actually go- 
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Dan: ... because I haven't looked at the stats. 
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Vanessa: Okay. 
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Dan: This time, I didn't make it that far. 
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Vanessa: Let's hear what's inside your heart, Dan? 
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Dan: So I think, yes, people generally go to,  
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we would say college, but I think- Vanessa: 
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It's the same thing. Dan: 
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... a lot of the world would say university.  I don't know the percentage, but I would say- 
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Vanessa: What's your guess? What's  
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your guess is a good time? Dan: 
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80? No, 75%. Vanessa: 
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Wow. Really? Dan: 
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Yeah. Vanessa: 
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Okay. Dan: 
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What is it? Vanessa: 
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Okay, well- Dan: 
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No, no, no, it's 92%, 61%. Vanessa: 
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I think this is showing your bias because- 
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Dan: 50%- 
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Vanessa: ... let's- 
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Dan: I don't know which way the bias is. 
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Vanessa: Let's say that, so for us,  
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we have a four-year degree, and that's what you  call it when you go to college for four-years.  
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You could have a two-year degree. It's called an  associate's degree or a four-year degree. We have  
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four-year degrees, and I think there's been some  studies that show if you have a four-year degree,  
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most of the people in your social circle also have  the same or close to the same level of education. 
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Dan: Yeah, everybody I know is edumacated. 
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Vanessa: So that's why you think it's so high. 
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Dan: Dang it. I should have thought about that. 
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Vanessa: Okay, let's compare 1990 to 2021. 
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Dan: Okay. 
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Vanessa: In 1990,  
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the people who graduated high school were 77%. So  77% of students graduated from high school and 20%  
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of people graduated from college. Okay?2021,  91% of people graduated from high school- 
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Dan: Okay. 
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Vanessa: ... so much higher percentage rate,  
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and 38% of people graduate from college. Dan: 
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I'm way off. Vanessa: 
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Yep, so it is higher. Dan: 
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It has bumped up a lot, though. Vanessa: 
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All of the charts that I saw were all going up, so  finishing high school and college are definitely  
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on the rise, not 70% or whatever you said.  But it probably is 70% of the people we know,  
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which I think is- Dan: 
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Oh, for sure. Vanessa: 
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... quite interesting. That's part of the cycle  of education, I think, that if you don't know  
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anyone who's been to college, it probably won't  be a priority for you. It will be harder for you  
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to go 'cause you won't have people who know how  that process works and all of that. But if you've  
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been to college like us, it will be easier for our  kids to do that process because we've been there. 
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Dan: Yes, I'm glad I could be instructive of  
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a fallacy about my personal experience, but- Vanessa: 
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Well, thanks for being willing to be the  fallacy in front of millions of people online. 
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Dan: Yes, you're welcome everybody. 
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Vanessa: But this is also a part two of the question,  
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"Is it considered important?" Dan: 
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Oh, well, again, this probably goes to your  social circle because in my social circle,  
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it was super important, and I think  this is probably family by family. 
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Vanessa: I would say it's almost expected. If your parents- 
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Dan: Yes. 
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Vanessa: ... are college graduates- 
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Dan: ... definitely. 
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Vanessa: ... it's almost expected,  
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of course, you'll go to college. Dan: 
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However, I think I have heard from certain...  like our neighbor, I think she said she was the  
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first to go to college, and it was looked  upon as great, but it wasn't expected.  
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But as a society, it is definitely encouraged.  There's ads playing on the TV and YouTube,  
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and every teacher will tell you going to college,  and I'm just going to say university 'cause more  
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people say that probably, going to university is  going to be a great benefit to your life and all  
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this kind of stuff. So I think that is definitely  pushed in society. That probably is another reason  
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why I think that a lot of people go, but I'm  also forgetting about how expensive it is. 
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Vanessa: Yeah, that's the other thing is that it's- 
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Dan: For a lot of schools- 
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Vanessa: ... really expensive.  
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I would say anywhere between 30,000 and $200,000  for a four-year degree, depending on if you go to  
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a community college or if you go to a state  school or if you go to a private school,  
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it can range anywhere in there. That's a big  burden for a young person starting off in their  
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career to have to pay for the schools. Dan: 
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The state schools aren't cheap or free? Vanessa: 
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They are not cheap, and they are not free. Dan: 
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Okay. I actually don't know. Vanessa: 
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They are cheaper than private schools.  It's a very complicated system, but- 
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Dan: I think  
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I'm a little ignorant in this realm because I  haven't thought about college in a while, but  
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we went to a small private school and  that's known for being pretty expensive. 
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Vanessa: Yeah. Yeah. For me,  
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I had to get a lot of scholarships to go to that  school, so I applied for tons of scholarships. The  
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school also had scholarships, and it was pretty  much required if I was going to go to that school,  
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I had to have a lot of money already paid for;  otherwise, it was just too expensive. But I think  
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it's interesting because of our experience, we  felt, I can speak for you too, we felt pretty  
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burdened. Even though we had scholarships,  we felt pretty burdened post-college to pay  
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back our student loans. When you start off your  life, your adult life in debt, that's so hard. My  
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parents tried so hard, they paid a lot of money. I had a lot of scholarships, and I still had  
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college debt that I had to pay back. So even  though I think I was probably starting off  
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in the best possible position, it still  felt like a burden. So I think for us,  
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at least for our children, I have no idea what  the education scene will look like in another  
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15 years, but I think that we might have a  different perspective on college because we've  
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been there. We know what it's like. We know if  it helped us or not in our life and how expensive  
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it is and if it's worth it. Are there other  alternatives? Yeah, and in our changing world,  
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those might be better. I don't know. Dan: 
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Yeah, I think it's a cliche among people our age  that college is not worth it and that it's just  
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way too expensive for what you get out of it, and  it doesn't really prepare you and all this stuff. 
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Vanessa: I think if you graduated  
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2005 to 2010, 2000, around that  2000, maybe even 15 in that range,  
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you probably feel like us that your degree does  not mean you will get a good-paying job. It's not  
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a given that that will happen. Dan: 
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Yeah, and I think initially when we went to  college, there was a transitional phase where  
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everything was getting... it was getting a lot  more expensive, and that cost benefit analysis  
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was maybe making less sense. But a lot of our  families were still saying the same message  
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that you just have to go even if you're not even  sure what you want to do, which was in my case,  
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which I think didn't help me. Vanessa: 
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Yeah. Well, my job didn't even exist when I went  to college. This job, teaching English online was  
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not even an option, so I don't know. It is tricky. Dan: 
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Yeah. I don't know what the future holds, but- Vanessa: 
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Oh, you don't? Dan: 
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... I feel like the world changes really, really  fast in that I will certainly not tell my children  
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they have to go to college, and that this will  make all the difference. I'll be like, "Well,  
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what exactly do you want to do? Let's get in that  program. Let's look at the cost benefit analysis  
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of how much it costs and really dig in there."  Unfortunately, I don't feel like my parents did  
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that, but that's what I'll do. Vanessa: 
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I think their generation really was the last  generation who said, "I'll get a university degree  
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and that will give me a good job," and it worked.  So their expectation was what happened to them,  
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but that's not how it is now. Anyway, who knows  what will happen in the next 10 to 15 years for  
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our kids? But I certainly won't pressure them and  I won't feel disappointed if they decide not to go  
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to college as long as they are independent  adults trying to do something different.  
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I'm going to transition to the last question  and skip one question, actually, because I think  
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you're about to say something about it. Dan: 
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Oh, am I? Vanessa: 
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I'm going to guess- Dan: 
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Okay. Vanessa: 
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... because it has to do with what happens if you  don't get a college degree? Is it hard to find a  
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job if you don't have a university degree?  I did a little bit of research about this,  
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but what's your gut say? Dan: 
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If you don't get a university degree, is it harder  
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to get a job? Vanessa: 
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Yeah. Yeah. Like if you didn't have a degree  right now, would your prospects be more difficult? 
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Dan: I think it probably is.  
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I don't think it has to be, but I do think that...  I don't know if I've actually read a study about  
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this, but I think I heard in a podcast that is  something that employers will look at. They'll  
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be like, all right, check off four-year degree.  They'll just assume that that means a lot. So I  
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do think it does mean something. Unfortunately,  I don't think it has to be. I think that you can  
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probably really get well-educated without it- Vanessa: 
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Definitely. Dan: 
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... nowadays, and I think that might even be  preferable when you consider how much it costs. So  
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other than there's a lot of social experiences,  however, a lot of the social experiences are  
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getting really drunk and misbehaving and stuff- Vanessa: 
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Yeah, that's kind of- Dan: 
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... that doesn't really have anything to do with- Vanessa: 
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... the stereotype- Dan: 
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... keeping a job. Vanessa: 
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... of American College is that you just go  there, get drunk, sleep with a lot of people,  
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and then maybe you stumble into class once a week. Dan: 
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Yeah, it doesn't really make any sense at all. Vanessa: 
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Then you pay lots of money for that. That wasn't  my college experience, but that is certainly- 
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Dan: Oh, it was there. 
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Vanessa: ... certainly what happens to a lot of people. 
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Dan: Right. Yeah. But I'm still saying that it does,  
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unfortunately, probably still matter. Vanessa: 
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Yeah, I would say that that's probably the  case for specific careers. So what I saw was,  
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of course, if you're going to be a  doctor, if you're going to be an engineer- 
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Dan: Well, yeah. 
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Vanessa: ... if you're going  
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to be in the medical field, those very specific  technical type of jobs that require education,  
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that education is probably necessary. But for  other careers, what I read online said is a  
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college degree necessary? Yes and no. The yes was  if you want to be in those specific career fields,  
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yeah, if you're going to be a nurse, go get a  degree in nursing and you'll be fine. I think it's  
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actually even a two-year degree. That's amazing. Dan: 
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That sounds preferable to me. Some kind of  two-year program, I feel like you can learn  
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maybe not anything but a lot of things in  two-years. It doesn't have to be four-years. 
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Vanessa: But it said if you want a  
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job that usually says we require a degree or they  highly recommend a degree in their application,  
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maybe like a software engineer or something like  this. If you are an assertive person who has  
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done a lot of alternative experiences, now this  takes a specific personality type, I think, like- 
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Dan: Got to have something for that resume. 
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Vanessa: Yes, you have a  
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good resume. You've interned. You have maybe taken  some extracurricular classes at the local college  
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or maybe even some online courses about that  specific field. It doesn't have to be a degree- 
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Dan: There's a lot of alternatives out there. 
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Vanessa: Yeah, that you can buy your  
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assertiveness, which is really what people are  looking for often, people who will see a problem  
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and fix the problem. The skills can really  be taught, but that personality and character  
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quality can't be taught as much. So if you show  that, then you could get in. So for example,  
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this isn't about a job, this is about getting  into college. There was a homeschooler  
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who had been homeschooled their entire life and  they wanted to get into a huge university. I  
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don't think it was Harvard, but it was a really  high-level university. What they did instead  
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is they wrote out, of course, every charity  they worked with, every volunteer experience,  
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all of this, but they also wrote a list. The second page of their application was,  
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"100 books that I read last year." Holy cow,  that's like two books a week. They wrote out  
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everything that they had read and in order and  all of this, and it showed their assertiveness,  
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"I'm going to be a good student, I'm going  to be dedicated." I think for a lot of jobs,  
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if you can be outstanding like that, then  who cares if you have a degree, ideally?  
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A little example too is someone who works for me,  
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Laura. Hi, Laura, if you're watching. She  helps to write some of the sales content,  
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like sales emails. She's called a copywriter. When I interviewed her, I don't even know if  
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she has a college degree, I don't even know her  official education, but her application process,  
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her experience, and she had taken the initiative  to do some online copywriting classes and had been  
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working on and off for some other businesses  doing their writing as well. So she had this  
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kind of initiative, and that's really what I  was looking for, was someone who was organized,  
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took the initiative, creative and was interested  in the job. She had taken some classes of her own  
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volition and really done it, and that's why  I hired her. She's been amazing. Actually,  
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a lot of my students who join my courses, they  say that their job didn't require them to take  
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English classes, but they write on their resume,  "Completed a three-month English course with Speak  
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English With Vanessa," and this is the- Dan: 
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You're an institution. Vanessa: 
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It's not a four-year degree, it's not in IL  certificate, something official like that,  
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but it shows that you took the initiative- Dan: 
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I think she's pretty official. Vanessa: 
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... and it showed that you're willing to  go the extra mile to try to do your best.  
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So I think that's a good example of a way  that extracurricular education can enhance  
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your career as well. Well, talking about  internships, I'm curious in your country,  
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is it common to do an internship? I think in  Germany it's maybe required that you do a year  
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internship after high school, that it's part of  the system. I'm not sure. If you're from Germany,  
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let me know- Dan: 
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That sounds like a better system to me- Vanessa: 
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... that you get- Dan: 
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I don't know if that's real. Vanessa: 
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... real-world experience in the world  doing something, but I feel like for me,  
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that would've been pretty helpful just to  get out of the education system. I felt very  
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overwhelmed going from high school to four-years  of college. Then I had had part-time jobs working  
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in restaurants and these types of things, but  nothing like a career. By my third year of  
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college, I just felt like, "I just want to go  out into the real world and try to get a job.  
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I don't want to- Dan: 
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Do something. Vanessa: 
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Yeah, I want to do something. It's not common  in the U.S. to take a gap year. This is a common  
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thing, I think, in Europe and Australia, that  after high school students will take a gap year  
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and go out and do something. Dan: 
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Good job, Europe. Vanessa: 
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Go be a nanny, go volunteer- Dan: 
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If that's standard. Vanessa: 
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... on a farm. Dan: 
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Yeah, I think when we were- Vanessa: 
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Go travel in Southeast Asia, do something. Dan: 
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When we were in France that one year, we did meet  some younger people who seem to either be taking  
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a gap year or doing some kind of intern thing.  I don't know. I like that a lot. In the U.S.,  
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it's strange that you graduate high school and  you have this big ceremony and congratulations,  
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you get to move on to more school. Vanessa: 
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Yeah. I pretty much guarantee that if you were  in the U.S. and you graduated from high school  
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and you said, "I'm going to take a gap year, and  then I'll decide what I want to do," every single  
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person will say, "If you don't go to college  now, you're never going to do it. This is your  
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chance to do it now because you'll forget about  it or you won't have the motivation to do it,  
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or you'll forget about education and forget about  math," these types of things. But in reality,  
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if you're not meant to go to college and you  wait a year and you decide not to go to college,  
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well, maybe that was a better path for you.  I don't know. I feel a little biased because  
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I saw people doing that Europeans who were doing  that gap year, and I felt really jealous like,  
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oh, I would've loved to do that, but  it's just not in American culture. 
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Maybe it might start becoming part of it as we  learn more about Europe, we're 10 years behind  
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Europe in those things, but right now, it's not  part of American culture. You just do school,  
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possibly more school and then- Dan: 
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Or stop school. Vanessa: 
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... pay back your school with your job. So that's  it. All right. Well, thanks for talking to me  
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today about education. Dan: 
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You're welcome. Vanessa: 
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I appreciate it. Thank you all for asking  us your great questions. Well, let us know  
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in the comments if having an internship or  doing a gap year is common in your country,  
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I would love to learn more about that. Don't  forget to download the free PDF worksheet,  
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which includes all of the great vocabulary  that you saw pop up on the screen here that  
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we use. You can get that vocabulary, definition,  sample sentences, and at the bottom of that free  
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worksheet, you can answer Vanessa's challenge  question so that you never forget what you've  
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learned. You can click on the link in  the description to download that free  
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PDF worksheet today. Well, thanks so much, Dan,  for joining me today to talk about education. 
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Dan: You're welcome. It was fun. I  
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hope you're a little bit smarter. Vanessa: 
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Yeah, thank you so much for learning English  with me. I'll see you again next Friday  
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for a new lesson here on my YouTube channel. Bye. Dan: 
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Bye. Vanessa: 
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But wait, do you want more? I recommend  watching this video next where you'll  
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see another real English conversation  between Dan and I about parenting our 1,  
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2, 3 children. I can't wait to help you immerse  yourself in English more, and I'll see you there.
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