The English Success Formula: 25 Proven Ways to Stay Consistent

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There are 25 proven ways to stay consistent, and you as an English learner,
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no longer have to start and stop, start and stop anymore using these 25 ways
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you'll be able to be more consistent.
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And these 25 ways have been broken down into three specific categories.
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Category number one, daily study habits, category number two, progress tracking and
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category number three, staying motivated.
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In today's lesson, I'm going to teach you each of the categories
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and give you ways that match them.
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Are you ready?
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Well, then I'm teacher Tiffani.
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Let's jump right in.
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Category number one, daily study.
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Habits Now in this category, we have eight specific methods that will help
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you continue on your journey and be consistent with your English studies.
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Number one.
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Start small.
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Begin with manageable English practice sessions that you can maintain daily,
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something that you can do on a regular basis, like a 10 to 15 minute lesson.
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So what does this actually look like?
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For example, instead of attempting to memorize 50 new vocabulary words at once.
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Commit to learning five new words each day and reviewing them consistently.
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Remember this first category is all about daily study habits.
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So my friend, start small.
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Number two, it's important for you to set up your environment,
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create a dedicated space that supports focused English learning.
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This is so important.
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You wanna make sure you have an environment that is conducive to
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learning English, for example.
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Designate a corner of your room as your English zone with relevant resources,
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good lighting, and minimal distractions.
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This is key.
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Minimal distractions.
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Turn your phone off, train your brain to associate this
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space with language learning.
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I'll tell you something, this really works for everyone in every
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situation, even me as your teacher, whenever I'm preparing a lesson, even
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this lesson I'm preparing for you.
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I normally go to a Starbucks coffee shop, a specific Starbucks
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coffee shop that's about.
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20 minutes away from my office.
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Why?
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Because as soon as I step into that environment, my brain knows,
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oh, it is time to organize English lessons for English learners.
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So it's very important again, number two, to set up your environment.
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Number three.
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Set specific times, schedule your learning activities at the same time each day.
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This is quite amazing.
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You'll see how your brain will switch once a certain time of day.
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You are like, oh, wait a minute.
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It's, it's 10 o'clock.
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It's my English studying time.
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So how can you do this for example?
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Dedicate, let's say seven to 7:30 PM every weekday, for example, to
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practicing English conversation patterns.
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Creating a predictable pattern will help your brain begin to anticipate learning.
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Ah, okay.
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7:00 PM My brain knows, Hey, it is English time.
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So again, the third tip is to set a specific time method number four in
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this category, create a morning routine.
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Use the first hours of your day to establish.
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English learning momentum, creating a morning routine is so important.
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I'm an early bird.
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I wake up early in the morning, so I have a certain routine that I follow,
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but even if you're not a morning, a morning, I'm leaving this in here morning.
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Even if you're not a morning person, you still have a routine that you follow.
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Now we're incorporating English, for example.
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Listen to a 10 minute English podcast while having breakfast each morning,
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training your brain to process English before other daily activities.
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It can be this simple.
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Remember, we're speaking about proven ways to help you be consistent as
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you're on your English journey.
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Number five for this category is time.
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Block your schedule.
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Allocate specific time slots for different English learning activities.
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Now I love to time block as I'm teaching you right now, I'm recording this video.
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I have right in front of me, the wall of my office with all of my schedules.
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And I literally have time blocks for certain activities.
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Record this video from this time to this time, teach this class
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from this time to this time.
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Time blocking is very popular, very powerful as well.
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Here's an example for you, Monday, Wednesday, and Friday for speaking
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practice Tuesday and Thursday for reading comprehension and weekends
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for casual English media consumption.
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There's something that happens when you tell your brain on this day, at
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this time, we're going to do this.
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Your brain is amazing.
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You are awesome.
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Use this method to stay consistent once again, helping
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you improve your English method.
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Number six, in this category, prepare the night before.
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Remove potential obstacles by planning your English study session.
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Ahead.
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This is also another powerful method Before you go to bed at night, write
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down, Hey, what am I gonna do tomorrow?
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I'll show you right here actually.
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So this right here.
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Lemme see if you can see it.
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Uh, put my.
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This is a note, right?
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A post-it note.
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If you're watching this video and on this post-it note, I wrote the videos
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I needed to record for today, right?
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And I have them in these boxes like well check off once I finished them.
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Why?
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I wanted my brain to be in the recording mode.
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Hey, these are the videos I need to record and I can check them off as I record them.
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I did this the night before, so how can you put this into practice?
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Before bed, select tomorrow's English article to read.
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Prepare vocabulary, flashcards and set out your materials so everything
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is ready when you sit down to study.
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There's something that happens when you prepare.
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Method number seven.
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Create systems, develop processes that make consistent English practice easier.
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Remember, we're speaking about helping you finally be more consistent.
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So once again, create systems.
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I'll say it again, create systems.
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Why am I emphasizing this?
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Because I'm your teacher.
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The reason I'm able to teach you so many lessons here on YouTube, have a podcast
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and do many other things, is because I use systems, so I know the power of systems.
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So for you as an English learner.
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Create a personal English immersion system where you change
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your phone language to English.
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Use language learning apps during commutes when you're going to and
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from work and listen to English media during exercise, you need to
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create an English learning system.
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If your goal is to be consistent, to stop starting stopping, starting stopping
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your English journey, you have to follow.
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This system.
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All right, here we go.
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Number eight for this category is create a backup plan.
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Having alternative English learning activities ready when
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your usual routine isn't possible.
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I like this one, creating a backup plan because I just said a few
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moments ago, Hey, follow a system.
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This was the one that I said I use all the time, but sometimes life happens.
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Maybe you lose your job.
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Maybe you get in an argument with your spouse.
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Maybe you have a game to go to for your child.
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Maybe insert some life event that throws your routine off in an event.
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Of a schedule change, you have to have a backup plan.
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For example, when you can't attend your conversation group, have a
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backup plan to watch an English YouTube video on the same topic, and
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practice speaking responses aloud.
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You can do it, my friend.
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You are in control of your English journey.
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Have a backup plan.
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So again, first category.
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What was it?
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Yes, you remember?
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Excellent.
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Our first category was daily study habits.
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Now it's time for us to move on to our second category.
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Our second category is progress tracking.
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Progress tracking.
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So we have our daily study habits.
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Now it's time for us to understand how to track your progress over time.
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Here's the first method for this category.
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Use habit stacking.
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You need to attach English learning habits to existing daily routines.
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What does this look like?
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For example, after brushing your teeth each morning, an
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existing habit you have, right?
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You brush your teeth, right?
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Practice speaking English aloud in the mirror for two minutes, creating a
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natural trigger for language practice.
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You'll be amazed.
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By how effective this is, you're brushing your teeth and as soon as
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you put your toothbrush down, set a two minute timer and start speaking,
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looking at yourself in the mirror, speaking English for two minutes.
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Now, every time you go to the bathroom, brush your teeth, your brain is
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gonna say, Hey, we have a trigger.
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You're brushing your teeth, which means you need to speak for two minutes.
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All right.
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This is the first method.
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First method, tongue twister.
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Method number two for this category, set reminders.
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Use phone alerts or calendar notifications.
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For English practice sessions, this is very powerful.
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So how do you actually do this?
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For example, you can set a daily notification that reminds you, Hey, it's
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time to practice your English fluency drills, add a designated study time.
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We all have phones.
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We all have some method of contacting other people.
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Use it.
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Set a daily timer to practice your English method.
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Number three, for this category, use visual reminder.
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Place sticky notes with English phrases or fluency tips where
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you'll see them regularly.
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This is a powerful tip I showed you a few moments ago that I have
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right in front of me, a sticky note.
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I use sticky notes as well as I'm going throughout my day.
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So use the sticky notes.
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So what is an example of using this method for you?
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Here we go.
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Put sticky notes.
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With natural English expressions on household items, your bathroom
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mirror or computer screen, or other item that you use on a regular basis.
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Why?
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Because it will reinforce learning throughout the day.
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Remember, we're speaking about helping you improve your
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English fluency and consistency.
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Category number two, progress tracking.
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You saw me put three right there.
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Category number two, progress tracking.
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Here's the next method.
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Method number four for this category is track your progress.
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Keep a daily log of your English learning activities.
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And achievements.
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Keep a daily log.
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Now, I've mentioned this before, right behind me, if you're watching the
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YouTube video, you'll see that I have tons of notebooks, and this is not even
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a fraction, not even half of the number of notebooks I have, why I usually
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track everything that I'm doing as well.
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So just like your teacher, I want you to track your progress.
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So how can you do this?
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For example, maintain a language journal where you record new vocabulary, fluency,
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tips you've mastered, like the ones in this video and other videos and speaking.
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Practice time.
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Seeing your progress over weeks will build motivation.
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Wow.
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Two weeks ago, I studied for five minutes every single day, single day.
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Then a week ago, I did 10 minutes every single day.
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This week I can do 15 minutes a day.
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Tracking your progress is powerful.
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Method number five for this category, implement the two day rule.
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Never skip your English practice.
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Two days in a row.
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Remember we're speaking about category number two, progress tracking,
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and now we're looking at how you can implement the two day rule.
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So for example, if you miss your regular vocabulary review on Tuesday, for example,
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make it an absolute priority on Wednesday, even if it's just for five minutes.
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Set a timer.
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To maintain the learning momentum, make a promise to yourself and keep the promise
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we're talking about remaining consistent.
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Here's method number six in our second category, measure Progress Weekly.
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Review your English learning consistency and adjust.
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As needed, my friend.
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Don't always depend on a teacher to be right next to you.
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You have more control, more power over your English journey than you
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realize you can track your progress.
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So how can you do this?
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Every Sunday evening, review your week's learning activities, test
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yourself on new material, and identify areas for improvement.
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In the coming week, you'll be amazed at how quickly you'll improve as you start
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tracking your progress, seeing what you did throughout the week, seeing what you
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need to improve upon, and recognizing what you need to study the following week.
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Method number seven for this category, find an accountability partner.
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Share your English learning goals with someone who will check in on you.
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It's so important to have someone else who cares about you, someone else who's
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also trying to improve their English.
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Now you can find that online.
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Maybe you have a friend next to you.
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I have students that are in my family, my academy.
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And they have other partners, so you wanna join our family.
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Please do go to speak
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English with Tiffani.com/sel n,
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and you can join our family.
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But again, you want to find an accountability partner.
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How can you do this?
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Partner with another English learner for weekly video calls where you
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both share what you've learned, practice, conversation, and set
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goals for the following week.
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This will help you remain consistent.
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Method number eight for category number two, join a community, connect
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with others working toward similar English proficiency goals Now.
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Before I give you an exact example of how to do this, I want to explain the
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power of being a part of a community.
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It can be a community as small as three people.
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That's totally okay.
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Find people who are also learning English and stick.
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Together.
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These individuals that are studying English can help you improve, can
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encourage you, can motivate you, and you can do the same for them.
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It can be an online community, it can be an in-person community.
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Just find a community.
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It really makes a difference.
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So how can you do this?
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Participate.
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Participate.
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Participate in an online English learning forum or local language exchange group
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where you can practice regularly and stay motivated through shared challenges.
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It's so powerful to be a part of community.
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So category number two, progress tracking, tracking alone, and
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also tracking with a partner.
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Category number three.
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Staying motivated.
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This is the third category, and also, in my opinion, the most important category
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because as an English learner, you have ups and downs, and it's when you're in
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the down points that sometimes you stop.
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But if you're motivated, you'll continue going.
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So here's method number one for this category.
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Document or write down your why.
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Keep your motivation for learning English visible and revisit it regularly.
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Why are you studying English?
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You are intelligent.
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You are amazing.
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You already speak another language.
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The language of your mother country, your mother tongue.
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You know it perfectly.
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Why are you learning English?
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Keep that reason in front of you.
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How can you do this?
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Write down specific reasons.
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You want to learn English?
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Why do you want to learn English?
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Is it for a job opportunity?
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Travel plans, connecting with people?
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Write them down and post them near your study area to review.
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When your motivation wanes, when it starts to dissipate, when it starts to decrease.
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Read those notes.
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Method number two for staying motivated.
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Focus on identity.
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Think of yourself as someone who naturally engages with English on a regular basis.
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Again, how can you do this?
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Instead of saying, I'm trying to learn English, I. Adopt the
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mindset of I am an English speaker.
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Again, I am an English speaker who is improving every day.
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This subtle shift, this subtle change builds consistency.
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Listen, my goal is to help you speak English fluently, but my goal
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is also to help you be confident.
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This subtle shift, I am an English speaker who is improving every day
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is gonna help you be more consistent.
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Method number three for this category.
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Make it enjoyable.
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Find ways to make the English learning process more pleasant and engaging.
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As you can tell, I absolutely love what I do.
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I love helping you speak English.
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I love recording these lessons.
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I love it.
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I am passionate about what I do.
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You need to enjoy.
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Studying English.
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How can you do this?
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Here's an example.
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Learn English through your favorite hobbies.
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Follow English cooking tutorials if you love cooking or read
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sports news in English.
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If you are a sports fan, find something in English that matches your interests.
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When I was learning Korean, I watched Korean programs about cooking.
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I enjoy cooking.
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I love food.
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So I watched Korean cooking programs do the same, so you can enjoy the
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process as you're learning English.
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Method number four, remove distractions.
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You need to identify and eliminate things that derail
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your English study consistency.
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You have to remove them.
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How can you do this during your 30 minute English reading practice?
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Put your phone in another room.
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I'm not gonna throw my phone if you're watching.
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I was gonna toss it and I was like, Nope, I need this.
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So I act like, wow.
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Imagine it flew off.
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Okay, put your phone in another room and use browser extensions, like internet
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browser extensions that block social media so that you can maintain focus.
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No more notifications, no calls.
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Just focus for that 30 minute period or 15 minute period.
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You can do this.
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Method Number five, set boundaries.
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Learn to say no to activities that conflict with your
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scheduled English learning time.
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You have to set boundaries.
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If your plan is to study every day at 6:00 PM.
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And someone says, Hey, you wanna go to this game?
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If you're going to go, then you need to move your English time to five 30.
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Set boundaries.
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How can you do this?
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For example?
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When friends invite you to activities during your designated study time,
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politely explain that you have a commitment, your English practice,
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and suggest an alternative time.
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It's not that you don't want to go, but it's very easy to say, Hey, can
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we move this back about 30 minutes?
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I wanna be there, but I have something that I have to do that's normal.
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You need to set boundaries.
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You can do it.
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Method number six.
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Reward small wins.
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Celebrate maintaining English, learning streaks, and reaching milestones.
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You did it.
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If you've been tracking, you have your notebook, your journal,
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and you're looking at it.
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You're tracking.
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Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday.
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I was consistent.
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Celebrate it.
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Maybe you can get some ice cream baby, or maybe you wanna get something
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else, but reward the small wins.
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Here's an example.
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After completing 10 consecutive days of English practice, treat yourself to an
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English movie you've been wanting to watch or a special meal you can reward yourself.
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Method number seven in this category.
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Practice self-compassion.
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Don't let occasional missed English practice sessions derail
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your entire learning journey.
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This is something practicing self-compassion that I really
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try to emphasize when I'm speaking to my students.
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Let me say this again.
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You are intelligent, you are amazing.
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You can do anything you put your mind to.
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So you need to stop putting yourself down.
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Stop saying, I'm not smart enough.
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Stop saying, stop saying I'm not good enough.
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Stop saying anything negative about yourself.
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You need to practice self-compassion.
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How can you do this if you skip a day because you're exhausted after
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working or taking care of the kids?
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Acknowledge that rest is important.
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Rather than abandon your studies altogether out of guilt, simply
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resume your routine the next day.
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Don't beat yourself up.
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Yeah, I'm tired.
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Don't abandon your studies completely.
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Just start back the next day.
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Method number eight for this category review.
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And adjust regularly.
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Evaluate what's working in your English learning approach and what isn't.
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It's basically editing yourself, and this is so important.
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What's working and what's not working?
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How can you do this?
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After a month of study?
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Notice that your evening vocabulary sessions are less effective
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than your morning session.
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So adjust your schedule to practice vocabulary before
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work instead of after work.
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Simple adjustment, but you have to look at what you're doing and make the adjustment.
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Method number nine for this category.
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Stay patient.
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Remember that English learning consistency compounds over time.
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Compounds over time.
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That means what you're doing right now, if you're consistent,
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it'll compound over time.
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Over time, getting better and better.
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How can you do this?
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When frustrated by slow progress with English pronunciation or natural
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flow, remind yourself that every native speaker developed fluency.
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Gradually, consistent small efforts will eventually lead to natural speech.
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I also learned gradually, I didn't pop out the womb saying, Hey, the five
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W's, who, what, when, where, and why.
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No.
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My English also developed.
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Gradually be patient with yourself and realize that you are doing well.
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I believe in you.
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I hope you enjoyed this lesson, and if you wanna continue studying with me and
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you wanna follow a plan that will help you be consistent, you can go to speak
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English with Tiffani.com/ 3 6
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5 plan again, speak
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English with Tiffani.com/ 3 6
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5.
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Plan.
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This plan will give you a daily lesson for the entire year.
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You heard me every day of the year, 365 lessons to help you stay
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consistent and not have to worry about what you need to study.
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Speak
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English with Tiffani.com/ 3 6
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5 plan and the link is in the description.
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I'll talk to you next time.
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Hi.
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You still there?
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You know what time?
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It's it's story time.
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Hey, I said it story time.
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Alright.
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This story, you know, we just ended our lesson today about
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motivation at the end, right?
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Talking about staying motivated for category three.
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And I just wanted to quickly remind you.
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That I know as your teacher, what it feels like to lose motivation, what it feels
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like to struggle, to stay consistent.
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Let me tell you, and I've mentioned this before, I can speak Korean.
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I got my master's degree in South Korea.
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Now Korean was very hard, very hard to learn, and I had to study for a long time.
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Now to get my master's degree, I had to take an exam and that exam, the hardest
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exam I have ever taken in my life.
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Now, I have always been an individual who loves learning.
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I was good in school, always got straight A's.
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I was always a good student.
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But this test, it was not easy.
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So I failed.
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The first time I failed.
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When I failed the first time, I was okay because there were other
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students who failed and told me, TIFF, it's not about being an American.
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The test is just hard, because I was thinking, oh, I'm an American.
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That's why I couldn't pass it, because the Korean, they were like, no,
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TIFF, they test is just very hard.
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And teachers also told me, no, the test is very difficult.
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I said, okay.
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I didn't want to fail, but it was a bit more comforting that, okay.
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The test itself was just very, very difficult.
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I said, all right.
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Now, there was a six month period in between taking the tests,
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so I had to spend six months preparing for the next test.
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I said, okay.
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So I spent six months while I was teaching studying.
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I said, Hey, we're gonna knock this baby out the park the second time.
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Second time rolled around.
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I failed.
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Now this time.
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I am not gonna lie to you.
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I'm a very, um, optimistic person.
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I'm always smiling, I'm always happy.
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But after this test, it, it really broke me.
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It really broke me, and it was hard to smile.
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I had studied so hard.
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I didn't understand why I wasn't able to pass.
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I mean, it was a difficult situation.
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I'm telling you about this because I want you to understand
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that I know what you go through.
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Those moments when English is challenging.
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Those moments when you wanna give up those moments when motivation is not there.
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I understand I've been there,
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so I had to make a decision.
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Was I going to study another six months or was I going to quit?
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Prayed about it, talked to family, friends, and I decided, hey, I'm
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gonna push through and I'm gonna study another six months for this one test.
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I actually left Korea for six months.
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Went back, came back home to America, lived with my parents, and I studied
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morning and night for six months.
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Was it hard?
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Yes.
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I.
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It is hard to stay consistent when you have a track record of failure.
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Listen to me, I had failed twice already, so I was studying hard, but
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in my mind, if you fail the first time, you failed the second time, are
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you gonna really pass it this time?
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Is this six months of effort really gonna be worth it?
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These were the thoughts going through my mind as I was trying to study every day.
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Sometimes being consistent is not easy, but you have to stay motivated.
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You have to push through.
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What was my motivation?
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God's gonna help me.
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I'm gonna get my diploma.
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God's gonna help me.
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I'm gonna get my diploma.
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And later on in life, when I have kids, I'll be able to inspire them.
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Don't give up when things get difficult.
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So when I say I understand the challenge of being consistent, the challenge
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of staying motivated, I'm not lying.
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Studied for another six months, took the exam the third time, did I pass?
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Praise God.
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I passed.
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I did pass the third time, but I will never forget how I had to push
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myself, how I had to lean on God, how I had to stay motivated and consistent
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when I had a track record of failure.
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I hope this lesson today and this story helped you.
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I hope you continue moving forward, staying motivated, staying
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consistent, even if you have a track record of failure, look forward.
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To your success.
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I'll talk to you in the next lesson.
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