IMPROVE YOUR ENGLISH FLUENCY | TIPS FOR SPEAKING ENGLISH WITH CONFIDENCE

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Speak English With Tiffani


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In this week's English lesson, I'm going to give you 10 tips
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that will help you speak English fluently and with more confidence.
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Are you ready?
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Well, then I'm teacher Tiffani.
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Let's jump right in tip number one.
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The very first thing you need to know is to read aloud.
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You heard me right read aloud.
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Sometimes when you are reading in English, when you get a book or when
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you're reading an article and you see that the articles in English, you
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suddenly get a little bit nervous.
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And you start to read a little softer.
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The first thing you must start doing is reading aloud.
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If you want to speak English with confidence and fluently,
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you must read aloud.
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Here's the very first reason reading aloud improves your pronunciation,
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your rhythm and your intonation.
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You've mentioned before, and many other English learners have
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mentioned, wow, Tiffani, we can understand
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you.
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We like the way you speak.
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We enjoy your lessons.
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Why?
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Because I speak clearly, you can follow the rhythm.
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You can follow the intonation.
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You can follow my pronunciation.
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So in order for you to speak fluently, in order for you to speak
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confidently, you must do the same.
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Read aloud.
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Here's the second reason.
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The second reason is it enhances your comprehension and retention of vocabulary.
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There's something very interesting that happens when you read aloud.
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You're reading and your brain is listening.
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Your brain is processing what you're saying.
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So you're helping yourself even more.
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Okay.
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We have this new word.
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Okay.
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Your brain is trying to process the information that you're saying out loud.
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Again, your goal is to speak English fluently and confidently.
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Tip number one, you must read aloud.
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Here's the third reason.
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This builds confidence by practicing articulation and fluency.
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I remember when I was studying Korean.
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And again, I know what you're going through.
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I remember when I was studying Korean and I would go.
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On Sabbath afternoons, I went to church on Saturdays, I would go and
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participate in a Bible study, and we'd have to read the Bible verses in Korean.
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And sometimes when it was my turn, I'd have it on my phone.
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I could read it, no problem, silently.
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But the moment I had to read aloud, all of a sudden I was a little bit nervous.
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I wasn't sure if my pronunciation was going to be correct.
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I wasn't as confident, but the more I did it, the easier it became.
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So tip number one, read aloud again, the reason why it will build your
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confidence and your articulation and your fluency will improve.
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Tip number one.
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What about tip number two?
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Tip number two is also important.
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Don't.
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Worry about making mistakes.
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This is something you've heard me say over and over and over again.
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I emphasize this point because the moment you stop worrying about
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making mistakes, my friend, your English is going to take off.
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You've been putting so much English into your brain over the last few months,
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over the last few years, and maybe even over the last few decades, take away the
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stress that comes with worrying about making mistakes and your brain will
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start to process information faster.
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You'll start to rely on what you've learned and it will come out.
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So three reasons why this is so important reason number one mistakes.
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Are a valuable learning opportunity and can highlight areas for improvement.
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Don't be afraid of mistakes.
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They're actually going to help you.
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Hey, this is something I need to work on.
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Hey, I didn't realize this is something that I was struggling with.
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Don't worry about your mistakes.
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Second reason, this encourages experimenting with new vocabulary
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and sentence structures.
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I love this.
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I encourage my students.
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And again, if you're not a part of our family, please join.
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All you have to do is go to www.
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dailyenglishlessons.
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com or hit the link in the description, but I love watching my students
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stop worrying about mistakes.
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They become so creative and they just try to use words and expressions and idioms.
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It doesn't matter if they make mistakes.
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The point is.
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Trying, making an effort, experimenting, being creative.
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This is how you move forward to fluency.
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Here's the third reason why you must stop worrying about mistakes.
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When you do this, it will reduce your fear of speaking and allow
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for a more natural flow of speech.
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Just let it out.
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Don't worry about making mistakes.
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Mistakes when you worry about making mistakes, suddenly your naturally
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flowing conversation starts to sound more like, Oh, I, um, uh, I, so I make.
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You don't want it to sound like that.
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When you release that fear, when you let go of that worry of making mistakes,
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all of a sudden your conversation will start to flow so much better.
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Tip number two, don't worry about making mistakes.
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What about tip number three?
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Tip number three, practice speaking in front of a mirror.
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Listen, I want you to get in front of a mirror.
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I've heard so many times, Tiff, I live in a country and in my country there are
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not that many native English speakers.
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Tiff, there's no one around me I can practice with.
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Tiff, dot, dot, dot.
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Tip number three will help you overcome those challenges.
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Practice speaking in front of a mirror.
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Maybe
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you're asking Tiffani, how is this
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going to help me?
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I'm so glad you asked reason number one, why this is going to be so helpful.
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Here's reason number one.
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This will build your confidence by seeing your own progress and improvement.
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Imagine I'm holding, if you're watching the video right now, I'm
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holding my phone, but imagine my phone where a mirror is a mirror.
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I'm looking at myself.
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You naturally will start to assess yourself.
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As you do this self assessment, you'll start to improve again.
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You'll recognize your progress and you'll recognize your improvement.
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We're talking about finally being able to speak fluently.
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Finally, being able to speak English with competence, reason number two, this will
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help you improve your body language, your facial expressions, and your gestures.
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When you look at yourself, you'll notice, Oh, wait a minute.
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I'm usually slouching.
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Let me sit up and put my shoulders back.
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Oh man.
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I kind of look angry when I'm speaking in English.
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Okay.
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I don't want to look angry when I speak English.
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So let me smile a little bit more
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like teacher Tiffani.
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Come on
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now.
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Smile with me.
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Good, good.
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So you'll be able to recognize these things as you practice in the mirror.
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And finally, the third reason is.
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It provides a safe environment for practicing without judgment.
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This is something that is very important.
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Many times you feel nervous.
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Ooh, I don't want to make mistakes in front of people.
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Ooh, I don't know what someone's going to say.
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It's just you and the mirror boo.
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You won't have to worry about that.
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Again, tip number three, practice speaking in front of a mirror.
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Tip number four, another important one.
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Record yourself speaking and then listen to the recording.
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You can use a cell phone.
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You can use an audio recorder, record yourself.
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I prefer that you record a video, but if you're not able to, an audio
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recording is also just as good.
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Record yourself saying whatever you'd like to say in English,
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then listen to yourself.
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Self assessment is so important as you are trying to become a fluent English speaker.
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Here are the reasons why this is so important.
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Reason number one, this allows you the opportunity for self assessment
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and the opportunity to identify which areas you need to improve in.
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The second reason is.
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It will help you monitor your progress over time.
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This is so imperative, so important for you as an English learner, you
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have to know how far you've come.
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The third reason it also gives you an opportunity for self correction, just
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because you're by yourself does not mean you cannot speak English fluently.
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It is possible.
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So tip number four, again, record yourself speaking and then listen to
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the recording tip number five, tip number five to help you finally speak
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English confidently and fluently listen and imitate native speakers.
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That includes me.
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It's totally okay.
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You can imitate me, listen, and imitate native speakers.
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Here's the simple breakdown.
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If you want to speak English fluently, if you want to sound like
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a native English speaker, ta da.
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Copy them, imitate us.
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And you'll start sounding like us.
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That's exactly what I did.
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When I was studying Korean, I wanted to sound like a Korean.
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So I listened closely.
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I imitated my friends when they were speaking, I imitated individuals that I
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saw when I was watching Korean dramas.
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And what happened when I was on the phone, other Koreans thought I was
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Korean because I had been imitating.
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Koreans, native Korean speakers.
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So why is this so important?
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Here are the reasons for this tip.
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Number one, this will help you develop a natural accent and intonation.
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That's what you want, right?
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A natural accent and intonation reason.
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Number two, it will enhance your understanding of local idioms and
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expressions as you're imitating native English speakers, you'll naturally
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hear them use idioms properly.
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Expressions properly, and you'll also start using them properly.
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Here's the third reason it will boost your confidence by modeling
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after fluent English speakers.
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You'll know, Hey, I'm mimicking them.
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So I know I'm following the right path.
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I'm on the right path because that's what I want to sound like.
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So again, tip number five, listen and imitate native speakers.
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Tip number six, think in English.
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This is something that I emphasize so much.
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Think in English in order for you to speak, you must first think.
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You've seen some of my lessons where I say, think and speak English, right?
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Think in English and then speak English.
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This is something you have to start doing.
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If you want to speak English fluently.
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Now, before I give you the reasons I do want to remind you each
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week, I send out emails, Three times a week, totally for free.
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And these emails will help you speak English more fluently.
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I give you tips.
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I give you tricks.
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I'm constantly encouraging you along your English journey.
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So if you'd like to receive my free email newsletter, all you have to
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do is go to speakenglishwithtiffani.
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com forward slash newsletter.
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It's a totally free newsletter.
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Three times a week, I'll send you an email that will help you and encourage
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you along your English journey.
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I'd love to continue helping you on your journey.
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So again, speakenglishwithtiffani.
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com forward slash newsletter.
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So let's check out the reasons for this.
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Here are the reasons for thinking in English.
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Reason number one, this.
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We'll speed up thinking and response times in conversations.
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The more you force yourself in your practice time in your alone time to think
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in English, the easier it will be for you.
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When you get to a real conversation to think in English.
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It will come naturally because you've practiced so much
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leading up to the conversations.
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It will also help you improve your fluency and reduce translation efforts.
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Many times I've heard English learners, maybe like you say,
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Tiff, I have this problem.
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Whenever I'm trying to speak English, I only hear my native language in my mind.
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That's simply because you haven't practiced thinking in English.
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Tip number six, practice thinking in English.
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The third reason develop a more natural and competent speaking style.
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The more you practice thinking in English, the more confident you'll be
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when you actually speak English, because you're competent in your own thoughts,
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thoughts that you've already organized.
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You've been practicing over and over again.
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We're talking about speaking English fluently and confidently.
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These tips will help you achieve this goal.
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So remember, think in English tip number seven, practice summarizing, man.
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I can't emphasize this one enough practice summarizing.
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Let me explain something very quickly.
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This is something that even native English speakers struggle with.
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Sometimes it's hard to condense an idea into a smaller phrase, into
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a smaller or shorter sentence.
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I have a friend of mine that I'm helping.
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He's American.
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I'm helping him learn how to summarize.
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Hey, I don't want the 10 minute story.
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Give it to me in 60 seconds.
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The more you practice doing this, taking large amounts of information
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and being able to summarize them, picking out the main ideas, picking out
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the most important details, and being able to summarize that large piece of
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information, the easier it will be for you to speak fluently later on in English.
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So again, Practice summarizing.
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Why is this so important?
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Here are three reasons.
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Let's look at them.
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Three important reasons.
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Reason number one, it will strengthen your listening skills by recognizing
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and extracting, taking out, picking out.
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Important information you are training yourself, how to think, which will affect
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your ability to speak English fluently.
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Reason number two, it will enhance your speaking skills by organizing
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your thoughts in a concise manner.
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Hey, I can't speak for 10 minutes.
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This person only wants a two minute summary.
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So which points should I deliver?
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Which points should I give enhancing your speaking skills?
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And finally, it will build your confidence in delivering
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clear and coherent summaries.
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Your confidence will improve, which will inevitably result in your speaking.
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Improving as well.
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We're talking about speaking English fluently and confidently.
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Tip number seven, practice summarizing tip number eight.
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Tip number eight is focus on one skill at a time.
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Listen closely, my friend.
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Focus on one skill at a time.
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There are so many skills you need to master listening, writing,
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speaking so many different skills.
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Focus on one at a time, master it, move to the next one.
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Let me tell you why this is so important for you to do.
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Here are the reasons.
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Reason number one.
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This will reduce the overwhelm you sometimes feel when it comes to studying
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English, and it will improve your focus on specific areas of improvement.
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English is a language that is made up of so many new words
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that are being added every day.
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So many expressions, so many idioms, so many rules.
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Focus on one skill at a time, master that skill, then move to the next.
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It will help you feel less overwhelmed.
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Remember, I'm giving these tips specifically for upper intermediate
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and advanced English learners.
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If you're a beginner or even a lower intermediate, you need to
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focus on multiple skills at a time.
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But once you get to a certain level, remember who I'm focusing my tips on.
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You need to focus on one skill at a time.
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Next, this will provide systematic approaches to language learning, a
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systematic approach to learning your language, the language you're desiring.
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English reason.
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Number three, it will build confidence by mastering one skill
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before moving on to the next.
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Well, I got that let's move forward.
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We're talking about building your confidence, which will affect your
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ability to speak English fluently.
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Tip number nine.
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Use visual aids.
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I love using visual aids.
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I use them when I taught English in South Korea, I use them with my students.
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Now I might tell very vivid stories if I'm doing an online class, but if I'm
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in person, I like to draw pictures.
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Why?
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Because something happens when you can see what you're learning.
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Here are three reasons.
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I want you to remember reason number one, using visual aids enhances your
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understanding of vocabulary and concepts.
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If I say lion immediately in your brain, a picture of a lion appeared, right?
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Maybe a video clip.
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There's something powerful in using a visual aid reason.
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Number two.
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It supports memory retention through visual associations.
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Remember we talked about triggers, right?
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There's a word.
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If your brain has a visual aid to connect to that word, you'll remember it
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for a longer period of time, making it easier to learn later on down the line.
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And reason number three, this provides a different way to engage with
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the language and build confidence.
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No one wants to be bored.
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This is.
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A bit more of an entertaining way of learning English.
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All right.
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So again, tip number nine, use a visual aids tip number 10, very
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important, believe in yourself.
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That's right.
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The final tip I have for you.
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Is the most important you must believe in your self, you have to
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believe that it's even possible.
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You have to believe that you, yes, you, my friend, you can do it.
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You can and will speak English confidently.
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Why is it so important for you to believe this reason?
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Number one, believing yourself.
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When you do this, you'll develop a positive mindset.
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Towards language learning, no longer will you say to yourself, English is
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just too hard, or I just can't do it.
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Michael's better than me.
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Sally's better than me.
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No, it will change your mindset about language learning.
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Reason number two, it will boost your motivation and resilience in
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speaking English, learning English.
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It's a long journey, but when you believe in yourself, you'll keep going.
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You won't stop.
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You'll stay with me.
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You'll stay with me each week.
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And reason number three allows for a more confident and fluent delivery of
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speech because you believe in yourself.
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When you believe in yourself, listen, you come out there.
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Hi,
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my name is Tiffani.
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I'm an English
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learner.
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I'd like to dot, dot, dot, believe in yourself.
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You can do it.
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Now, these 10 tips will help you finally speak English fluently and confidently.
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I hope you enjoyed this lesson.
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Don't forget to check out the newsletter.
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I'd love to continue helping you throughout the week.
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I'll talk to you in the next lesson.
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You still there?
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Ha ha!
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You know what time it is!
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It's story time!
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Aye!
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I said it's, uh, I said it's Aye!
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I said it's story time!
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Aye!
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I said it's story time!
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Had a little remix for you, a little remix!
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I want to tell you a story.
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that I've told some of my students before, but it's related to believing in yourself.
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So, you know that I have been an English teacher for a while and my journey into
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English teaching being an ESL teacher started in South Korea many years ago.
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During my time in Korea, I decided to study Korean so I can speak Korean.
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And I started studying Korean when I was about 27 or 28 years old.
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And it was not easy.
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Korean is a very difficult language to learn.
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And I had some struggles, but I made it through.
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And I even went to grad school.
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And while in grad school, I had to take classes in Korean and sometimes I
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had to also understand what the Hanja characters meant, Chinese characters.
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Fast forward towards the end of my time in grad school.
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I had to take a test.
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This was about my eighth year of living in Korea, and I was coming to the
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point where I was ready to come home.
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A lot of things had happened.
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I had lost my nephew several years prior to that.
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Um, my niece, uh, was about to be born.
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There was a lot going on, and I wanted to come home.
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I was loving Korea, but I missed my family.
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I took the exam.
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Failed.
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And I had to wait six months to take the exam again.
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It's no problem.
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Hey, first time, even Koreans fail the first time.
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It was a difficult exam.
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So I spent the next six months studying some more for the exam,
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studying and working at the same time, get to the exam the second time.
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And it was aggressive.
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I didn't know anything on the test.
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Mind you, I had studied for six months, but I didn't know anything on the test.
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So that second time I took the exam, when I got the paper that said I had failed, I
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folded the paper and I continued working.
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But a friend came to me and when she asked me about it, I just burst into tears.
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It was difficult.
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It was challenging.
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And I didn't believe at that time I could do it.
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So I made a decision to come back to America.
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In order to study for six months, just dedicate every single day.
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It's up for Saturday.
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I go to church every day.
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I was studying morning, tonight, morning, tonight for six months.
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I had never studied that hard in my life, six months.
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So it'd been a full year since I took the first test.
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So I flew back to Korea, took the test the third time.
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Now, right before I flew to Korea to take the test the third time, This
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is what I want to tell you about.
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I was standing in my parents kitchen.
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I was preparing to fly back to Korea.
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Again, studying morning to night.
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And I just broke down.
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I'm a pretty strong individual.
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But it was a lot.
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I didn't believe I could do it.
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It was just, it seemed like I was climbing a mountain that just never seemed to end.
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And I burst into tears and I said to my parents, I don't know if I can do this.
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I'm overwhelmed.
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I keep failing.
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I don't know if I can do this.
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I was losing faith in myself.
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My parents listened to me.
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They hugged me.
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They comforted me.
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They said, whatever you want to do will support you.
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So I gathered myself together and I said, you know, I want to try one more time.
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I know we don't give up.
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We don't quit.
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My parents said, you're right.
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Our family doesn't quit.
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Believe in yourself, believe that God's got you, and move forward.
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Fast forward, I took the test again, and I did pass the exam.
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That's a whole nother story.
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But in that moment, I'll never forget, I stopped believing in myself for a second.
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Because it was so difficult.
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Why am I telling you this story?
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You might be at a point along your English journey, Where
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it just seems too difficult.
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Maybe you've broken down and you feel like I just want to give up.
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Don't give up.
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Believe in yourself, trust that you can continue along this journey and
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that you will achieve your goal.
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I believe in you and I want you to believe in yourself.
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I'll talk to you in the next lesson.
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