The #1 Way To Speak English Like A Native Speaker

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Speak English With Tiffani


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Hey in today's lesson, I'm going to give you the solution you need to finally speak
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English like a native English speaker.
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No more frustration, no more feeling discouraged.
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You will finally be able to sound just like me.
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Now, if you want to continue studying with me even after this lesson, don't forget.
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All you have to do is go to www dot English fluency plan dot.
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Follow the plan and you will speak English like me.
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I'm teacher.
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Tiffani let's jump right in.
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All right.
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So let me break down your real struggle.
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You see the struggle you are experiencing right now is even though you have been
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studying English for years, you are still not able to speak English fluently.
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In other words, you still don't speak English like a native English speaker.
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This is why you are frustrated.
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Why am I studying so much?
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And yet I'm still not able to sound like teacher.
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Tiffani, let me break it down some more for you because so many students
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just like you have the same issue.
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For example, you passed an English exam, but you still get stuck when
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you try to express yourself in certain situations, I've had so many students
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over the years that had this exact same.
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One of my students in South Korea, great guy.
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He passed the exams.
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However, he still did not sound like a native English speaker.
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And maybe this is your situation right now, or what about this situation?
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You can understand when English speakers speak, you understand what we say,
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but when you try to express yourself, it does not come out the same way.
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You know, the classic.
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My mind went blank.
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You feel like everything is gone, even though when you watch television
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dramas or watch my English lessons, you understand it is very frustrating
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when you try to speak in English and it doesn't come out the same way.
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This is something you are experiencing right now.
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What about this one?
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You keep studying advanced English books.
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But they don't seem to be helping you speak English better.
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You're doing all that you can do, but you still don't feel
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like you are moving forward.
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You don't feel like your English is improving.
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Listen, I understand what you are experiencing.
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I experienced the same thing when I was studying Korean.
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I hit this point and I could not go above.
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I couldn't.
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Until I found this solution.
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Here's the solution that will help you finally speak English
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like a native English speaker.
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The solution to your English fluency issue is to learn how to organize your thoughts.
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Like a native English speaker.
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In other words, you have to learn the thought organization, techniques
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that native English speakers learn.
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Now, I'm sure you've heard this expression many times.
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Think in English, think like a native English speaker, but you need to know
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the techniques that we native English speakers actually use to think in English.
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So let me break this down for.
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Point number one is this native English speakers spend years.
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You heard me write years practicing the technique of thought organization.
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We work on expressing details, giving examples, and also connecting our personal
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experiences to the topics we are discuss.
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Notice I said three specific things, details, examples
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and personal experiences.
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Listen, my friend, I am literally giving you the key that will help you
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unlock the door to finally helping you walk through it and speaking
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English like a native English speaker.
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I wanna tell you this story, my niece, she is five years old,
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but my mom, her grandmother used to keep her during the week.
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So my sister and brother-in-law could.
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And every day she was about one or two years old every morning.
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During the week, she would walk upstairs to my office when I stayed with my family
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and she would come in my office and I would ask her a series of questions,
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I'd say, Hey, how are you today?
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And she'd tell me, remember, she was only one or two years old, I'd say, oh, okay.
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Did you enjoy hanging out with gamy?
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She calls my mom gamy and she'd say yes, then I would say why I
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wanted her to give me details.
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Then I would ask her, Hey, tell me, what did you do?
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Give me examples.
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And then I'd ask her, Hey, tell me some more information.
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I wanted her to give me her personal experience.
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Remember, my niece was two years old or one year old at the time.
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And I was asking her to give me details, examples and personal experiences.
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This is what we have been doing our entire lives as native English speakers,
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practicing thought organization.
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But these are the three main skills that we actually kind of perfect over time.
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And you can learn this technique to sound like us.
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Another thing I want to say to break down this idea for you, that will help you.
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Is this one right here.
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When you get to the intermediate or advanced English level, you have to, you
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need to, you must change the way that you study, basically at this point where you
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are right now, you need to start mastering the thought organization technique.
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I love revealing this to my students because.
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Like my students are intelligent.
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You are amazing.
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Don't forget that you are learning another language, right?
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English is not your first language.
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So you have all of this information stored within your mind.
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You've been learning words, expressions, idioms, watching
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television dramas, watching my English lessons and other teachers.
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So you have a lot of information stored in your brain.
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So when you get to the intermediate advanced level, now it's time to organize.
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What's already in your brain.
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Well, books can't teach you this technique.
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You have to do it in the same way that native English speakers
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actually apply the technique.
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The other thing I need you to understand is in order to master
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the thought organization T.
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You need to organize and access the information that you have
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been putting into your brain.
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Like I just explain.
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Organizing your thoughts.
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This technique is more important than inputting more information.
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Listen to me, I'm gonna say it one more time.
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Organizing your thoughts is more important than inputting more information.
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That's right.
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The technique that I am showing you, that I'm gonna explain to you.
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It's more important for you to master this technique than to get another
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book and to memorize another word, you need to organize your thought.
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Now, let me explain this to you again, the solution that will help you is right here.
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I'm gonna give you a real life example.
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You can master the thought organization technique by
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watching and listening to others.
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Apply it in real life.
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You heard me, right.
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All you have to do is watch others apply the technique in real life.
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In other words, the more you observe natural English conversations
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between native English speakers and they are applying the thought
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organization technique, the easier it will be for you to apply it as well.
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Once again, I'll say it again.
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In other words, The more you observe native English speakers.
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Notice I said, observe.
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That means instead of the book, you need to watch a conversation
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between native English speakers.
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So let me break this down for you once again.
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Here we go thought organization during a real English conversation, native English
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speakers, like me, give details, examples and personal experiences that help the
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listener understand their point of view.
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So here's the breakdown again, to help you understand how this happens.
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I want to break down a simple conversation I had with another English teacher.
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Now this is teacher Carly.
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She is amazing.
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The conversation started off.
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I said, I love it.
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All right, so I'll get started.
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The first question I wanna ask you is what is fashionable in your city nowadays?
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Like, do you like the current fashion and if so, why?
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If not, why?
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Like, so what's the kind of the current, you know, when I'm saying
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the trendy fashion statement right now, now, what will you notice?
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I literally just wrote verbatim exactly what I was saying.
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It was a natural English conversation.
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Right.
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So you heard me ask the question and then I started saying other
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words, so follow along, I asked the.
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Watch how teacher Carly responded.
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We're gonna look at the transcript and then you're gonna listen to the
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conversation and watch the conversation.
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This is what she said.
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So right now I'm currently in like Northwest Atlanta and I'm
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in like a little suburban area.
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In other words, she was giving details.
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She started giving details immediately in order to answer my
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question, she started giving details.
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Then she continued.
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She said, so a lot of times you just see sweatpants leggings and like
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athletic wear it's called a leisure.
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She gave examples.
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Then I responded and said yes, because I agreed with.
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Carly continued and gave a personal experience.
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She said, you see that a lot.
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And when I first moved here, I was like, Ew, never, how dare they wear athletic
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clothes when they're not going to the gym, but you know, ever since COVID started.
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And I basically, I, I work from home and I don't really do much.
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I have turned into one of those people that wear athletic clothes,
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even when I'm not going to the.
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I have adapted to all the other moms in my area.
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And I wear sweatpants or leggings or hoodies and different like different
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workout shirts just to go to the store and people look at me like, oh, she
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must have just worked out good for her.
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And I'm like, I just spent seven hours on Netflix.
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And then I came here to get some groceries wearing these clothes, you know?
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That was a short part of a conversation that I had with Carly.
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But you see what happened again, thought organization for native
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English, speakers, details, examples and personal experiences.
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These string three things are integral and important part of
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speaking English like a native.
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Now I want to play the clip.
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We just read through the transcript now that you understand
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how native English speakers.
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. And when we respond to a question or are speaking about a topic, how
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we go from details to examples in a personal experience, you are going
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to able under you are going to be able to understand I'm gonna leave
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this in here so you guys can realize sometimes , even when we are speaking,
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we get tongue twisted or tongue tied.
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So we're gonna watch the clip real quick and see what Carly said.
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We just read through it here.
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We.
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Check out the conversation, a short part of the conversation I had with Carly.
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I love it.
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All right.
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So I'll get started.
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The first question I wanna ask you is what is fashionable in your city nowadays?
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Um, like do you like the current fashion and if so, why?
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If not, why not?
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Like, so what's the kind of the current, you know what I'm saying?
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The trendy fashion statement, right?
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So right now I'm currently in like Northwest Atlanta and I'm
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in like a little suburban area.
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So a lot of times you just see sweatpants leggings and like
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athletic wear it's called ale.
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Yes.
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Um, you feel that a lot.
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And when I first moved here, I was like, Ew.
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Never how dare they wear athletic clothes when they're not going to the gym, but
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you know, ever since COVID started.
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And I basically, I work from home and I don't really do much.
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Exactly.
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I have turned into one of those people that wear athletic clothes,
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even when I'm not going to the gym.
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Yes.
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I, I have adapted to all the other moms in this area and I wear
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sweatpants or leggings or hoodies.
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Different like different workout shirts just to go to the store and
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people look at me like, oh, she must have just worked out good for her.
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And I'm like, I just spent seven hours on Netflix.
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and then I came here to get me some grocer wearing these clothes, you know?
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Okay.
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So you see how we had the conversation, a very short part of our conversation
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talking about what's fashionable.
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Right.
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But again, she gave details, examples, and then a personal experience.
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So, if you want to sound like a native English speaker, all you have to do
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is observe native English speakers, having conversations about real
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topics and then pay attention to how we organize our thoughts, details,
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examples, personal experiences.
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And as you observe, you will start being able to speak just like we are speaking.
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It's not just the words and expressions.
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It's how you organize your thoughts.
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Now again.
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This was just a small piece of what I teach my students in my speak
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English like a native membership.
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Now, if you want to join our family, this conversation actually came from
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a lesson that I taught my students.
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So.
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This is actually step three of a five step method.
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I use to teach my students how to speak English like a native.
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We just went over step three, analyzing the conversation.
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So if you wanna join our family, remember just go to www dot
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English, fluency plan.com.
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And finally start speaking English like a native don't be stressed anymore.
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We look forward to seeing you and I'll talk to you in the next.
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You still there you know what time it is?
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It's story time.
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I said story time.
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So today's story is actually about one of my students.
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I was coaching him and helping him with his English.
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And I want to tell you something that happened to him and
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how happy it made me feel.
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So.
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I met this student about a month and a half ago, a month and a half ago.
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Um, he actually became my student and I remember the very first class, right.
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We, we hopped onto a zoom, uh, call and, um, I was explaining to
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him what I was going to teach him.
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And I said, listen to me, I am going to teach you a method that will help
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you speak English more fluently.
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It will transform your English in less than a month.
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And I remember seeing the look on his face.
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okay.
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you know, when someone says something and you're like, uh, that's not possible.
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You see this student, he had been studying English for years.
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And for me to tell him, Hey, in about a month or a little less than a month,
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I'm going to help you speak English better than you've ever spoken before.
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Using a simple method.
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He liked me, but he really wasn't on board.
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Just.
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I said, okay, don't worry.
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So we proceeded to study together.
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We met twice a week and about the fourth class, I saw something happen to him.
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You see the very first class, let me show you the very first class we met.
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I could tell he was a little bit nervous.
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He wasn't able to speak with as much confidence as he wanted to.
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When I asked him questions during our first.
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But when we got to the fourth class, I had taught him the method and now
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we were putting it into practice.
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I remember him jumping into our zoom class and I said, Hey, how are you?
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His shoulders were back.
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And he was speaking with so much confidence.
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I was honestly in shock.
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He said, Hey, Tiffani, I'm doing really well.
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Thank you.
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I said, well, I'm glad to hear that.
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And I asked him just to let me know what he had learned so far and how he
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felt about our classes and this man who in the first class seems so nervous.
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Started to speak to me and he spoke for 20 minutes.
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You heard me write 20 minutes with confidence telling me that,
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Hey T before I met you before our first class, I was uncomfortable
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speaking in meetings in English.
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I, I wasn't confident in, in what I was saying, and I didn't
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really feel good about myself.
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Listen, this man is a genius, but yet because of English, he would start to
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feel frustrated and discouraged and not.
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. But in that fourth class, I saw a transformation.
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And why am I telling you this?
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Because as I watched him, my heart was touched because my whole goal
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is to help him and English learners.
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Just like you speak English with confidence.
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I can give you the tools.
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I can give you the tips and the techniques, but once you start putting
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them into practic, And you watch yourself transform and then I'm able to see it.
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Woo.
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I get excited and it makes me want to help more.
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So I listened to him talk for about 20 minutes.
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He didn't even realize he was talking for that long.
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And he said, TIFF, I just wanna say that I just feel better about myself.
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I'm just feeling more confident.
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I'm realizing that I, I am a good English speaker and I said, you are.
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I said, you are, you're applying what you're learning and I'm proud.
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and we had more classes after that, but I'll never forget that
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moment because it was like watching someone experience something
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they've never experienced before.
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And if you've never watched someone gain confidence in themself, start smiling, fix
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their posture, stand tall, or even sit.
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You will never understand how that feels until you've watched somebody transform.
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Maybe you have a child and you've watched your child transform or your spouse.
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It's an amazing feeling.
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So that student, and I know he knows I'm talking about him.
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If he's watching right now, I had to thank him for blessing me to see him change.
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I'm so proud of him and I was proud of him in that.
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So again, hopefully you enjoyed this short story.
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Again, I am so honored to be your teacher and I love helping you
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speak English with confidence.
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So I will see you in the next lesson.
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Don't forget if you wanna keep studying with me and start
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speaking like a native don't worry.
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Just hit the link in the description.
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www.englishfluencyplan.com.
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And I'll talk to you next time.
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