Speaking English - "I wish I had..."

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์•„๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฌธ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ”ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋œ ์ž๋ง‰์€ ๊ธฐ๊ณ„ ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

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Hi. My name is Rebecca from www.engvid.com. In life, as much as we try, we don't always
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์•ˆ๋…•. ์ œ ์ด๋ฆ„์€ www.engvid.com์˜ Rebecca์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ธ์ƒ์—์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ•˜๋Š” ๋งŒํผ ํ•ญ์ƒ
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do the right thing, right? Sometimes, we do something, and wish afterwards that we hadn't
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์˜ณ์€ ์ผ์„ ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์•„๋‹ˆ์ฃ ? ๋•Œ๋•Œ๋กœ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์–ด๋–ค ์ผ์„ ํ•˜๊ณ  ๋‚˜์„œ ๊ทธ ์ผ์„ ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•˜์œผ๋ฉด ํ•˜๊ณ  ํ›„ํšŒํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
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done it. And sometimes, we don't do something and wish afterwards that we had done it. Well,
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. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋•Œ๋•Œ๋กœ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์–ด๋–ค ์ผ์„ ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ  ๋‚˜์ค‘์— ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๊ทธ ์ผ์„ ํ–ˆ์œผ๋ฉด ์ข‹๊ฒ ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ž,
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in English we have some expressions to express these kinds of situation and these kinds of
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์˜์–ด์—๋Š”
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feelings that we have when we do and don't do something. All right? So this lesson is
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์–ด๋–ค ์ผ์„ ํ•  ๋•Œ์™€ ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๋•Œ ์ด๋Ÿฐ ์ข…๋ฅ˜์˜ ์ƒํ™ฉ๊ณผ ๊ฐ์ •์„ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•˜๋Š” ํ‘œํ˜„์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์€? ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ด ์ˆ˜์—…์€
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focused on that. So what we're basically talking about in this lesson is expressing regret.
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์— ์ดˆ์ ์„ ๋งž์ถ”๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์ด ์ˆ˜์—…์—์„œ ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ ์œผ๋กœ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ํ›„ํšŒ๋ฅผ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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Regret is when we feel somewhat unhappy and uncomfortable with something that we did or
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ํ›„ํšŒ๋Š” ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ํ•œ ์ผ์ด๋‚˜ ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์€ ์ผ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋‹ค์†Œ ๋ถˆํ–‰ํ•˜๊ณ  ๋ถˆํŽธํ•จ์„ ๋Š๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
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didn't do. So let's get started.
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. ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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So the expression you can use to talk about something that you didn't do that you wish
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์€ ์ผ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•  ๋•Œ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ํ‘œํ˜„์€
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you had done is, "I wish I had --." Now, you can use this expression to talk about personal
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"~ํ–ˆ์œผ๋ฉด ์ข‹์•˜์„ ํ…๋ฐ."์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด์ œ ์ด ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ๊ฐœ์ธ์ ์ธ
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situations or social situations or business situations. Okay? So you can use it in a professional
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์ƒํ™ฉ์ด๋‚˜ ์‚ฌํšŒ์  ์ƒํ™ฉ ๋˜๋Š” ๋น„์ฆˆ๋‹ˆ์Šค ์ƒํ™ฉ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ข‹์•„์š”? ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์ „๋ฌธ์ ์ธ ๋งฅ๋ฝ์—์„œ๋„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
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context as well. So these are things that you wish you had done that you didn't do.
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. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ด๊ฒƒ๋“ค์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•˜์œผ๋ฉด ํ•˜๊ณ  ๋ฐ”๋ž๋˜ ์ผ๋“ค์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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And then on the other side, we'll come to the other part of the equation.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๋‹ค์Œ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์ชฝ์—์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋ฐฉ์ •์‹์˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋ถ€๋ถ„์— ๋„๋‹ฌํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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So for example, you could say, "I wish I had studied harder for my test." Or, "I wish I
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์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด " ์‹œํ—˜์„ ์œ„ํ•ด ๋” ์—ด์‹ฌํžˆ ๊ณต๋ถ€ํ–ˆ์œผ๋ฉด ์ข‹์•˜์„ ํ…๋ฐ."๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋˜๋Š” "
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had bought the house last year when it was so much cheaper." Okay? So these are some
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์ž‘๋…„์— โ€‹โ€‹ํ›จ์”ฌ ๋” ์ €๋ ดํ–ˆ์„ ๋•Œ ์ง‘์„ ์ƒ€๋”๋ผ๋ฉด ์ข‹์•˜์„ ํ…๋ฐ ." ์ข‹์•„์š”? ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ด๊ฒƒ๋“ค์€
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examples in the personal realm. You could say, in a social situation, "I wish I had
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๊ฐœ์ธ ์˜์—ญ์˜ ๋ช‡ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์˜ˆ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‚ฌ๊ต์ ์ธ ์ƒํ™ฉ์—์„œ "
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called her last week." "I wish I had gone to the concert." Okay? This means you didn't
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์ง€๋‚œ์ฃผ์— ๊ทธ๋…€์—๊ฒŒ ์ „ํ™”ํ–ˆ์œผ๋ฉด ์ข‹์•˜์„ ํ…๋ฐ."๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. "์ฝ˜์„œํŠธ์— ๊ฐ”์œผ๋ฉด ์ข‹์•˜์„ ํ…๋ฐ ." ์ข‹์•„์š”?
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go to the concert, and you're saying you heard it was really good. "I wish I had gone to
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์ฝ˜์„œํŠธ๋„ ์•ˆ ๊ฐ€๋ณด๊ณ  ์ง„์งœ ์ข‹๋‹ค๋Š” ์†Œ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์—ˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ์–˜๊ธฐ๋‹ค. "์ฝ˜์„œํŠธ์— ๊ฐ”์œผ๋ฉด ์ข‹์•˜์„ ํ…๋ฐ
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the concert." In a professional context you might say, "I wish I had quoted a better price."
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." ์ „๋ฌธ์ ์ธ ๋งฅ๋ฝ์—์„œ "๋” ๋‚˜์€ ๊ฐ€๊ฒฉ์„ ์ œ์‹œํ–ˆ์œผ๋ฉด ์ข‹์•˜์„ ํ…๋ฐ."๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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"I wish I had booked the meeting room earlier." Okay?
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"ํšŒ์˜์‹ค์„ ์ผ์ฐ ์˜ˆ์•ฝํ–ˆ์œผ๋ฉด ์ข‹์•˜์„ ํ…๋ฐ ." ์ข‹์•„์š”?
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So here, you have some examples. Now, you do see another expression down here. Instead
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์—ฌ๊ธฐ ๋ช‡ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์˜ˆ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด์ œ ์—ฌ๊ธฐ ์•„๋ž˜์— ๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ํ‘œํ˜„์ด ํ‘œ์‹œ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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of saying, "I wish I had" plus whatever you need to say, you could also use the expression,
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"I wish I would I have"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๋Œ€์‹ 
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"If only I had --." For example, "If only I had booked the conference room earlier."
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"If only I had --"๋ผ๋Š” ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, "๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ํšŒ์˜์‹ค์„ ๋” ์ผ์ฐ ์˜ˆ์•ฝํ–ˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด."
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"If only I had quoted a better price." Okay? So you get the idea on this side.
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"๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋” ๋‚˜์€ ๊ฐ€๊ฒฉ์„ ์ธ์šฉํ–ˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด." ์ข‹์•„์š”? ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ด์ชฝ์—์„œ ์•„์ด๋””์–ด๋ฅผ ์–ป์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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Now, we come to this side. This is when you did something, and you shouldn't have done
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์ด์ œ ์ด์ชฝ์œผ๋กœ ์™”์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์–ด๋–ค ์ผ์„ ํ–ˆ์„ ๋•Œ, ํ•˜์ง€ ๋ง์•˜์–ด์•ผ ํ–ˆ๊ณ 
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it, and you wish that you had not done it. So then, you could say, "I wish I hadn't eaten
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, ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•˜์œผ๋ฉด ํ•˜๊ณ  ๋ฐ”๋ž„ ๋•Œ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Ÿผ "๋งŽ์ด ์•ˆ ๋จน์—ˆ์œผ๋ฉด ์ข‹์•˜์„ ํ…๋ฐ
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so much. I was really trying lose weight. I'm supposed to be on a diet. Why did I eat
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. ์ง„์งœ ์‚ด ๋นผ๋ ค๊ณ  ํ–ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ. ๋‹ค์ด์–ดํŠธ ํ•ด์•ผ์ง€. ์™œ
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so much? I wish I hadn't eaten so much." Or, "I wish I hadn't waited until now to call
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์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋งŽ์ด ๋จน์—ˆ์ง€? ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ์•ˆ ๋จน์—ˆ์œผ๋ฉด ์ข‹์•˜์„ ํ…๋ฐ. ๋งŽ์ด." ๋˜๋Š” "์ง€๊ธˆ๊นŒ์ง€ ๊ทธ๋…€์—๊ฒŒ ์ „ํ™”ํ•˜๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๊ธฐ๋‹ค๋ฆฌ์ง€ ์•Š์•˜๋”๋ผ๋ฉด ์ข‹์•˜์„ ํ…๋ฐ
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her." Okay? Another example. "I wish I hadn't trusted him/her." I wish I hadn't invited
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." ์ข‹์•„์š”? ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์˜ˆ์‹œ. "๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ทธ๋ฅผ ๋ฏฟ์ง€ ์•Š์•˜๋”๋ผ๋ฉด ์ข‹์•˜์„ ํ…๋ฐ ." ๊ทธ๋“ค์„ ์ดˆ๋Œ€ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•˜๋”๋ผ๋ฉด ์ข‹์•˜์„ ํ…๋ฐ
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them." Or in a profession situation, "I wish I hadn't agreed to their proposal." "I wish
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." ๋˜๋Š” ์ „๋ฌธ์ ์ธ ์ƒํ™ฉ์—์„œ " ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ์ œ์•ˆ์— ๋™์˜ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•˜๋”๋ผ๋ฉด ์ข‹์•˜์„ ํ…๋ฐ." "
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I hadn't paid the contractor already." Or, "I wish I hadn't paid the contractor in advance."
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๊ณ„์•ฝ์ž์—๊ฒŒ ์ด๋ฏธ ๋ˆ์„ ์ง€๋ถˆํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•˜๋”๋ผ๋ฉด ์ข‹์•˜์„ ํ…๋ฐ." ๊ณ„์•ฝ์ž์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฏธ๋ฆฌ ๋ˆ์„ ์ง€๋ถˆํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค."
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Okay? And again, another way of expressing the same thing is to say, "If only I hadn't
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์•Œ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‹ค์‹œ ๊ฐ™์€ ๊ฒƒ์„ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•˜๋Š” ๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์€ "๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๊ณ„์•ฝ์ž์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฏธ๋ฆฌ ์ง€๋ถˆํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•˜๋”๋ผ๋ฉด
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paid the contractor in advance, we could've found another contractor." "If only I hadn't
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๊ณ„์•ฝ์ž๋ฅผ ์ฐพ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์—ˆ์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค." "๋งŒ์•ฝ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€
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agreed to their proposal, I could have considered your offer." Okay? So you see that you can
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๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ์ œ์•ˆ์— ๋™์˜ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•˜๋‹ค๋ฉด, ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์ œ์•ˆ์„ ๊ณ ๋ คํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์—ˆ์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ." ์ข‹์•„์š”? ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์€
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use "I wish I had", "I wish I hadn't", or you can use "if only I had" or "if only I
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"I would I would I would", I wish I didn't" ๋˜๋Š” " if only I had"๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Œ์„ ์•Œ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. " ๋˜๋Š” "๋งŒ์•ฝ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€
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hadn't". Okay? And all of these are used to express regret for something you did or something
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ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•˜๋‹ค๋ฉด". ์•Œ์•˜์ง€? ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ด๊ฒƒ๋“ค์€ ๋ชจ๋‘ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ํ•œ ์ผ์ด๋‚˜ ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์€ ์ผ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ํ›„ํšŒ๋ฅผ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ ์‚ฌ์šฉ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
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you didn't do. And it happens to all of us, so now you know how to express it. Okay? So
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. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๋ชจ๋‘์—๊ฒŒ ์ผ์–ด๋‚˜๋Š” ์ผ์ด๋ฏ€๋กœ ์ด์ œ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ์•Œ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. . ์•Œ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:08
if you'd like to do a quiz on this subject, please go to our website, www.engvid.com.
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์ด ์ฃผ์ œ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ํ€ด์ฆˆ๋ฅผ ํ’€๊ณ  ์‹ถ์œผ๋ฉด ์ €ํฌ ์›น์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ www.engvid.com์œผ๋กœ ์ด๋™ํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
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That way, you'll have a chance to really master what we've studied here. And also, subscribe
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๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๋ฉด ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์—์„œ ๊ณต๋ถ€ํ•œ ๋‚ด์šฉ์„ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ๋งˆ์Šคํ„ฐํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ธฐํšŒ๊ฐ€ ์ƒ๊น๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๋˜ํ•œ ,
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to my YouTube channel. I'd be happy to see you again. Bye, for now.
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๋‚ด YouTube ์ฑ„๋„์„ ๊ตฌ๋…ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ๋‹ค์‹œ ๋งŒ๋‚˜์„œ ๋ฐ˜๊ฐ‘์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ง€๊ธˆ์€ ์•ˆ๋…•.
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์ด ์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ•™์Šต์— ์œ ์šฉํ•œ YouTube ๋™์˜์ƒ์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ „ ์„ธ๊ณ„ ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜๋“ค์ด ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ˆ˜์—…์„ ๋ณด๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ ๋™์˜์ƒ ํŽ˜์ด์ง€์— ํ‘œ์‹œ๋˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ” ํด๋ฆญํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ณณ์—์„œ ๋™์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋น„๋””์˜ค ์žฌ์ƒ์— ๋งž์ถฐ ์ž๋ง‰์ด ์Šคํฌ๋กค๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜๊ฒฌ์ด๋‚˜ ์š”์ฒญ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์ด ๋ฌธ์˜ ์–‘์‹์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ๋ฌธ์˜ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.

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