SPEAK vs TALK - What’s the Difference? Learn English Grammar

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Hi everybody, my name is Alisha.
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Welcome back to EnglishClass101.com's Youtube channel.
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Today I'm going to talk about the difference between “speak” and “talk,” two commonly
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confused verbs.
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So, let's get started!
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Okay, the first verb I want to talk about is the verb “talk.”
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we use "talk" in casual speech in everyday conversations, if you want to talk about a
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simple topic or a casual discussion with friends, or you just want to report a conversation
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that happened, or a discussion that happened, you can use "talk" to explain this simply
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and casually.
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In most everyday conversations, I use "talk,” you'll hear "talk" a lot when you are listening
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to conversations about discussions on the phone, we use it to explain phone conversations
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a lot ,we use it to explain simple meetings with people, friendly interactions over coffee,
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for example.
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“Talk" is used in most everyday situation.
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So if you're reporting on something that's pretty casual, you should use the word "talk"
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to explain that.
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Also, if the person you are talking to is not someone who you have a professional relationship
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with, it's pretty good to use "talk" in that case; if you use "speak,” you might sound
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a little too formal, we're going to talk about this in just a moment, though.
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So please try to keep in mind that "talk" should be used in everyday conversations to
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report everyday conversations, and in more casual situations.
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Okay we can also use "talk,” the verb "talk" with “to” or “with.”
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By this I mean we can say, I want to "talk" to someone, or I want to "talk" with someone.
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These are, for me, very very similar, we use them in very similar ways.
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If you want to be extremely specific, I would say that perhaps there is a small nuance of
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a difference between "talk to” and "talk with.”
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If I say I want to "talk to” someone, maybe, it could be a more one-sided conversation,
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like, I want to talk to my friend; I expect my friend is going to talk to me as well.
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But I feel like that has a little more of a one-sided conversation feel than using "talk
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with,” if I say, I want to talk with my friend, I want to talk with you, about it,
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“with,” to me, sounds a little bit more like doing something together with someone
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else.
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So again, this is a very very small difference and perhaps this is just my style and how
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I like to use these words, but for the most part we can use them interchangeably, we can
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use them in the same way and you're not going to really have any communication problems
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depending on the words you choose.
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But just for your information, this is how I sometimes use “to” and “with” with
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the verb "talk,” and with "speak,” too, as I'll explain later.
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Okay, finally, about conjugations for the verb "talk.”
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To make the past tense of the verb "talk,” talk is…
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I'm sorry, start again.
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Okay, finally, about conjugations with the verb "talk.”
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To conjugate the verb "talk" into the past tense and the past participle, we simply add
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ED to the end of the verb.
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So "talk" becomes “talked;” this makes past tense and past participle.
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So a very easy conjugation for the verb "talk.”
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So we're going to use this in some example sentences later, let's take a look, though,
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at the verb "speak.”
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Okay, so we talked about how the verb "talk" is used in more casual situations, everyday
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conversations, everyday discussions.
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“Speak,” however, is used in more formal situations.
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If you want to create a more formal nuance or to have a more formal tone when you speak
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with someone, use the verb "speak.”
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So I just used the verb "speak" to sound a little bit more formal in this explanation,
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for example.
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If you would like to sound a little more formal, try using the verb "speak" instead of the
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verb "talk.”
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This is really useful in business situations, at work, you can use this in business emails,
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as well, or in any kind of writing where you would like to sound a little more formal.
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This is more polite than, as you might have guessed so, ”talk" has a more casual nuance,
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"speak" has a more formal nuance about it.
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As with "talk,” we can use this with “to” or “with,” so "speak to” someone or
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"speak with” someone.
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I want to speak to my boss.
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I want to speak with my boss.
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Like I talked about, with "talk,” we can use the two pretty much in the same way, very
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very similarly, I would say there's a very small nuance again.
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“Talk to” might sound a little bit more one-sided, one person is reporting information,
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perhaps, and “with” perhaps sounds more like an exchange of information.
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But again, this is a very small difference in perhaps just a way that I think about how
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to use “to” and “with” with these verbs, but you can use them essentially in
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the same way.
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“Speak to” or "speak with” someone.
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Finally, there's one other key difference between "speak" and "talk,” and that is
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about languages.
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When you are explaining your language ability, for example, I speak English, I speak Japanese,
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I don't speak Chinese.
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We should always use the verb "speak,” please don't use the verb "talk" to explain your
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language abilities.
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So a sentence like, I talk French is not correct, please use I speak French.
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“Speak" is the correct verb to talk about your language abilities or to talk about your
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inability, as well, so please be careful there.
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Lastly, a couple conjugation points about this verb then.
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So "speak" in the past tense, "speak" is an irregular verb, "speak" becomes “spoke”
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in the past tense, spoke.
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So please be careful here, also, to make the past participle form, "speak" becomes “spoken.”
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Have you spoken to someone?
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I've never spoken with someone.
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So there are two conjugations we need to consider for today's practice, spoke and spoken, past
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tense and past participle tense.
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Okay, so now that we reviewed a couple points about the difference between "talk" and "speak,”
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let's take a look at a few examples sentences, and maybe we can decide which verb is a better
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choice in each of these.
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Okay, first one, he _______ to his manager.
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Our hint word here is the word “manager,” this implies it's a work situation so it's
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probably a good idea to sound a little more formal, let's use spoke, past tense.
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He spoke to his manager.
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Of course, you could say he speaks to his manager, but we don't have much other information
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here so maybe a simple sentence, he spoke to his manager.
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Nice.
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Let's see, the next one, you should _______ to your parents.
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So here, we have parents, and also “you should,” this kind of gives us the feeling
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that this sentence is maybe a casual advice situation, so how about "talk,” it sounds
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more casual, so "talk" sounds better.
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You should talk to your parents.
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Again, "talk with” your parents is also okay here.
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Alright, let's look at the next sentence.
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Haven't they _______ to you about this?
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So here, we have “haven’t,” “have not.”
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a negative form here, haven't they _______ to you about this?
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In this sentence, there's no clear hint word, is it a casual situation, is it a formal situation?
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So in a sentence like this, because we don't have enough information about the situation,
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both "talk" and "speak" are actually okay, but we do need to conjugate the verb correctly,
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so that it matches this “haven’t” at the beginning of the sentence.
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So we can say, haven't they talked to you?
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Or, haven't they spoken to you about this?
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Both are correct in this case.
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Haven't they talked to you?
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Haven't they spoken to you?
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It just changes the level of formality of the sentence.
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Okay, let's take a look at the next one.
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I really wanted to _______ to you.
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Again, it's a little bit difficult to determine, is this a formal situation or a casual situation?
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I would guess, I've included the word “really” here, typically “really” is only used
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in casual situations, or it's better to use a word like “really” in less formal situation,
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so I think that is a better choice here.
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I really wanted to talk to you.
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Hmm, nice.
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Alright, next one.
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She is _______ with clients at the moment.
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So here the hint is “clients,” indicating it's a business situation or a more formal
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situation, and here we have the grammar “she is,” this implies progressive or a continuous
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grammar sentence, so she's _______ clients gives us the hint it's more formal, let's
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use "speak,” but again, to change it to the progressive form, she's speaking with
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clients at the moment.
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It sounds nice.
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Okay, let's look at the next sentence then.
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What were they _______ with that guy about?
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Okay, so here I've used “with,” again, we can use “to” or “with” but I've
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included “guy” as a hint word here; “guy” sounds a little bit more casual, we use “guy”
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in, maybe, more casual discussion everyday discussions so we probably want to use "talk"
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in this case, a more casual choice.
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Here, we see it's past, what “were” they _______ with that guy about?
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But we know this should be a past progressive tense sentence, too.
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What were they, just indicates something continuing, what were they talking with that guy about?
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What were they talking with that guy about?
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Great.
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Alright, next one.
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You guys should have _______ about it last week.
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Again, we see this “you guys,” “you guys” implying something more casual.
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You guys should have, so again, this is probably a sentence where we need to use the verb "talk"
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because it's a more casual situation.
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We could use the verb "speak" if you like, but again it's going to sound a little more
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formal.
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Here we have “you guys” which sounds casual, so mixing casual and formal might sound a
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little strange, so therefore, to match our grammar, you guys should have talked about
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it last week, is the nice sentence here.
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Okay, let's look at the last one then.
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She's never _______ to me.
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So “she’s,” this is an interesting contraction, be careful, it's not “she is never,” “never”
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is a big hint here, yeah, we know that “never,” we use “never” a lot in present perfect
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tense sentences, so “she’s” here does not mean “she is,” instead this is the
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contracted form of “she has.”
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So here, she has never _______ to me.
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In this sentence, we don't know if it's a casual or a formal expression so we can choose
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either verb, so she has never talked to me is correct, or she has never spoken to me,
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she's never talked to me, she's never spoken to me, both are correct, just depending on
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the situation and depending on the nuance you would like to communicate, you can choose
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the better form or the better verb accordingly.
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So these are a few cases where we use “speak" and "talk,” it might be a good idea to choose
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one or the other but I would recommend just keep in mind, if you want to sound more formal,
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please choose the verb "speak,” if you want to sound a little more casual, use the verb
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"talk.”
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In most cases, we will use the verb "talk,” but maybe at work, it's a good idea to use
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"speak" instead.
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Also, don't forget to use "speak" to talk about your language abilities, too.
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Okay, so those are a few points about when to use "speak" and "talk.”
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