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์•„๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฌธ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ”ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋œ ์ž๋ง‰์€ ๊ธฐ๊ณ„ ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

00:09
Hi, Iโ€™m George,
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์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”, ์ €๋Š” George์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:10
and today weโ€™re going to learn how to politely
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์˜ค๋Š˜์€ ์ •์ค‘ํ•˜๊ฒŒ
00:13
exit a conversation.
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๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์ข…๋ฃŒํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ๋ฐฐ์›Œ๋ณด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:14
Did I tell you about my catโ€™s birthday last week?
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๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์ง€๋‚œ์ฃผ์— ๋‚ด ๊ณ ์–‘์ด ์ƒ์ผ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋งํ–ˆ๋‹ˆ ?
00:17
Some of the local cats came round and we had a little party.
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๋™๋„ค ๊ณ ์–‘์ด ๋ช‡ ๋งˆ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋Œ์•„์™”๊ณ  ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ž‘์€ ํŒŒํ‹ฐ๋ฅผ ์—ด์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:20
We hadโ€ฆ we had a sort of cat cake.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š”โ€ฆ ์ผ์ข…์˜ ๊ณ ์–‘์ด ์ผ€์ดํฌ๋ฅผ ๋จน์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:23
Did you know that cats donโ€™t even eat cake?
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๊ณ ์–‘์ด๋Š” ์ผ€์ดํฌ๋„ ์•ˆ ๋จน๋Š”๋‹ค๋Š” ์‚ฌ์‹ค, ์•Œ๊ณ  ๊ณ„์…จ๋‚˜์š”?
00:25
Bet you didnโ€™t.
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•˜๋‹ค ๋‚ด๊ธฐ.
00:26
Max is a nice guy, but he does waffle a lot.
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Max๋Š” ์ข‹์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด์ง€๋งŒ ์™€ํ”Œ์„ ๋งŽ์ด ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:30
Hey!
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00:30
And Iโ€™m a busy man.
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์—ฌ๊ธฐ์š”!
๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋ฐ”์œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฌด๋ก€ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ 
00:32
How can I exit the conversation without being rude?
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์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์ข…๋ฃŒํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ?
00:36
Did I tell you about my catโ€™s birthday last week?
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๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์ง€๋‚œ์ฃผ์— ๋‚ด ๊ณ ์–‘์ด ์ƒ์ผ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋งํ–ˆ๋‹ˆ ?
00:39
Er, bye, Max.
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์–ด, ์•ˆ๋…•, ๋งฅ์Šค.
00:41
What do you mean?
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๋ฌด์Šจ ๋œป์ด์—์š”?
00:43
Iโ€™m leaving this conversation.
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์ด ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์ข…๋ฃŒํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:47
Tell me you donโ€™t mean that.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๋œป์ด ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•ด์ฃผ์„ธ์š”.
00:50
This would be too rude.
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์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋ฌด๋ก€ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:51
I needed another way.
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ด ํ•„์š”ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:54
Anyway, Iโ€™ve started giving her this new type of food.
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์–ด์จŒ๋“ , ๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ทธ๋…€์—๊ฒŒ ์ด ์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ์ข…๋ฅ˜์˜ ์Œ์‹์„ ์ฃผ๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ–ˆ๋‹ค.
00:56
Before, weโ€™d always used dried food,
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์ „์—๋Š” ํ•ญ์ƒ ๊ฑด ์‚ฌ๋ฃŒ๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ–ˆ์ง€๋งŒ
00:58
but then someoneโ€ฆ Itโ€™s been nice chatting to you, Max,
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€โ€ฆ ๋งฅ์Šค, ๋Œ€ํ™” ์ฆ๊ฑฐ์› ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
01:01
but Iโ€™ve really got to get back to work.
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.
01:03
Oh, okay.
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์•„, ๊ทธ๋ž˜์š”.
01:05
See you later.
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๋‚˜์ค‘์— ๋ด์š”.
01:06
Yeah, speak soon.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜, ๋นจ๋ฆฌ ๋งํ•ด.
01:07
Bye.
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01:07
What a nice guy.
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์•ˆ๋…•.
์ •๋ง ์ข‹์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด ์ง์žฅ๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์€ ๊ณต์‹์ ์ธ ์ƒํ™ฉ์—์„œ
01:08
When exiting a conversation in a formal situation,
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๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์ข…๋ฃŒํ•  ๋•Œ ๋‹ค์Œ๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์ด
01:12
for example,
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01:13
at work, you can start by saying, well,
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์‹œ์ž‘ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
01:16
itโ€™s been really nice chatting to you.
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.
01:18
Or well, itโ€™s been nice talking to you, but โ€ฆ
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๋˜๋Š” ๊ธ€์Ž„์š”, ๋‹น์‹ ๊ณผ ๋Œ€ํ™”ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ฆ๊ฑฐ์› ์ง€๋งŒ...
01:22
And then you can explain why you need to leave the conversation.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‚˜์„œ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋– ๋‚˜์•ผ ํ•˜๋Š” ์ด์œ ๋ฅผ ์„ค๋ช…ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
01:26
For example, you can say,
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์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด,
01:28
Iโ€™ve really got to get back to work,
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๋‹ค์‹œ ์ผ์„ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
01:31
or Iโ€™ve really got to finish my essay.
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์—์„ธ์ด๋ฅผ ์ •๋ง ๋๋‚ด์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:35
That day, Max continued to try to talk to me about his cat.
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๊ทธ๋‚  Max๋Š” ๊ณ„์†ํ•ด์„œ ๊ณ ์–‘์ด์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๋ ค๊ณ  ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:42
I couldnโ€™t avoid him any longer.
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๋‚˜๋Š” ๋” ์ด์ƒ ๊ทธ๋ฅผ ํ”ผํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†์—ˆ๋‹ค. ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ
01:44
I needed to exit the conversation.
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์ข…๋ฃŒํ•ด์•ผ ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
01:47
George, I was just trying to tell you before,
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์กฐ์ง€, ๋ฐฉ๊ธˆ ์ „์— ๋ง์”€๋“œ๋ฆฌ๋ ค๊ณ  ํ–ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ,
01:50
weโ€™ve actually got her on the dry food now.
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์‚ฌ์‹ค ์ด์ œ ๊ฑด์กฐ์‹ํ’ˆ์„ ๋จน๊ฒŒ ๋˜์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:52
Max, Iโ€™m really sorry, Iโ€™ve got to run.
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๋งฅ์Šค, ์ •๋ง ๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ด์š”. ๋„๋ง์ณ์•ผ ํ•ด์š”.
01:55
Oh, okay.
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01:55
Yeah, I should actually get going now.
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์•„, ๊ทธ๋ž˜์š”.
์˜ˆ, ์ด์ œ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
01:58
Okay.
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01:58
All right.
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์ข‹์•„์š”.
๊ดœ์ฐฎ์€.
01:59
Sorry.
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01:59
Speak to you soon.
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์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
๊ณง ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
02:00
Yeah, bye.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜, ์•ˆ๋…•.
02:01
If youโ€™re trying to exit a conversation in the street,
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๊ฑฐ๋ฆฌ์—์„œ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋๋‚ด๋ ค๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ
02:04
you can apologise first,
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๋จผ์ € ์‚ฌ๊ณผ๋ฅผ ํ•œ
02:06
and then explain
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๋‹ค์Œ
02:07
that you urgently need to be somewhere else.
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๊ธ‰ํžˆ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๊ณณ์— ๊ฐ€์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์„ค๋ช…ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:10
For example, Iโ€™m really sorry, but Iโ€™ve gotta run.
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์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, ์ •๋ง ๋ฏธ์•ˆ ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋„๋ง์ณ์•ผ ํ•ด์š”.
02:15
In this sentence,
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์ด ๋ฌธ์žฅ์—์„œ
02:17
we push got to together to make gotta.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” got to๋ฅผ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ๋ˆŒ๋Ÿฌ์„œ got to๋ฅผ ๋งŒ๋“ญ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:20
Iโ€™m really sorry, but Iโ€™ve gotta run.
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์ •๋ง ๋ฏธ์•ˆ ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋„๋ง์ณ์•ผ ํ•ด.
02:23
Or you can say, Iโ€™m really sorry,
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์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ์ •๋ง ๋ฏธ์•ˆ
02:26
but I should probably get going.
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๊ฐ€๋ด์•ผ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:29
Should probably, in this sentence,
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์•„๋งˆ๋„ ์ด ๋ฌธ์žฅ์—์„œ
02:31
makes it sound like you donโ€™t want to leave the conversation,
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๋‹น์‹  ์ด ๋Œ€ํ™”์—์„œ ๋‚˜๊ฐ€๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š์€ ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋“ค๋ฆฌ๊ฒ ์ง€๋งŒ, ๊ทธ๋ž˜์•ผ๋งŒ
02:34
but you have to.
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ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:38
Hi, George.
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์•ˆ๋…•, ์กฐ์ง€.
02:39
This is a picture of my cat.
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์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‚ด ๊ณ ์–‘์ด์˜ ์‚ฌ์ง„์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:41
This is actually her third birthday
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์‚ฌ์‹ค ์ด๋ฒˆ์ด ๊ทธ๋…€์˜ ์„ธ ๋ฒˆ์งธ ์ƒ์ผ
02:43
and we got herโ€ฆ Have you met my friend, Ben?
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์ด๊ณ  ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๊ทธ๋…€๋ฅผ ์–ป์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹คโ€ฆ ์ œ ์นœ๊ตฌ Ben์„ ๋งŒ๋‚ฌ๋‚˜์š”?
02:46
This is Max.
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๋งฅ์Šค์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:47
Oh, hi, Max.
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02:47
Hello, Ben.
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์˜ค, ์•ˆ๋…•, ๋งฅ์Šค.
์•ˆ๋…•, ๋ฒค.
02:48
Do you have any pets?
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์–ด๋–ค ์• ์™„ ๋™๋ฌผ์„ํ•ด์•ผํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
02:50
Yes, I do.
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02:50
Iโ€™ve got a cat.
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๋„ค ์ €๋„ ๊ทธ๋ ‡์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
๊ณ ์–‘์ด๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์–ด์š”. ๋Œ€ํ™”์—์„œ
02:51
If you want to leave the conversation,
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๋‚˜๊ฐ€๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€๋งŒ
02:53
but you arenโ€™t going to leave the room,
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๋ฐฉ์—์„œ ๋‚˜๊ฐˆ ์ƒ๊ฐ์ด ์—†๋‹ค๋ฉด,
02:56
you can introduce the person to someone else by saying,
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02:59
oh, have you met my friendโ€ฆ?
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oh, have you met my friendโ€ฆ
03:01
Thatโ€™s all we have time for today.
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ์˜ค๋Š˜ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๊ฐ€์ง„ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์˜ ์ „๋ถ€์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:03
If you enjoyed the lesson,
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๊ฐ•์˜๊ฐ€ ๋งˆ์Œ์— ๋“œ์…จ๋‹ค๋ฉด
03:04
please like the video and subscribe to the channel.
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์˜์ƒ ์ข‹์•„์š” ์™€ ์ฑ„๋„ ๊ตฌ๋… ๋ถ€ํƒ๋“œ๋ฆฝ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:07
Also, if youโ€™re interested in learning
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๋˜ํ•œ
03:09
how to start a conversation,
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๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์— ๊ด€์‹ฌ์ด ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด
03:11
you can check out Gregโ€™s video linked in the description below.
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์•„๋ž˜ ์„ค๋ช…์— ๋งํฌ๋œ Greg์˜ ๋น„๋””์˜ค๋ฅผ ํ™•์ธํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:14
See you next time.
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๋‹ค์Œ์— ๋ณด์ž.
03:15
Bye.
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