4 Body Language Tricks to Impress Anyone - Improve Communication Skills - Personality Development

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์•„๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฌธ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ”ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋œ ์ž๋ง‰์€ ๊ธฐ๊ณ„ ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

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Hey there!
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์ด๋ด!
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We often think of communication as being verbal; that is, performed using words.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ข…์ข… ์˜์‚ฌ์†Œํ†ต์„ ๊ตฌ๋‘๋กœ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ฆ‰, ๋‹จ์–ด๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ์ˆ˜ํ–‰๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:07
But there is another element to it: the nonverbal, the signals and the messages that we send
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ์—๋Š” ๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์š”์†Œ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋น„์–ธ์–ด์ , ์‹ ํ˜ธ ๋ฐ
00:13
using our body in a conversation.
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๋Œ€ํ™”์—์„œ ๋ชธ์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ๋ณด๋‚ด๋Š” ๋ฉ”์‹œ์ง€์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:16
We call this body language, and mastering it is key to appearing more confident, interesting,
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ฐ”๋”” ๋žญ๊ท€์ง€๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ถ€๋ฅด๋ฉฐ, ์ด๋ฅผ ์ˆ™๋‹ฌํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋” ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ ์žˆ๊ณ  ํฅ๋ฏธ๋กญ๊ณ  ์ธ์ƒ์ ์œผ๋กœ ๋ณด์ด๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•œ ํ•ต์‹ฌ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
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and impressive.
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.
00:24
In other words, you need good body language to be a successful communicator.
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์ฆ‰, ์„ฑ๊ณต์ ์ธ ์˜์‚ฌ ์ „๋‹ฌ์ž๊ฐ€ ๋˜๋ ค๋ฉด ์ข‹์€ ๋ฐ”๋”” ๋žญ๊ท€์ง€๊ฐ€ ํ•„์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
00:29
So, in this video, Iโ€™m going to teach you four body language tricks that you can use
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ด๋ฒˆ ์˜์ƒ์—์„œ๋Š” ๋Œ€ํ™”์—์„œ ๋ˆ„๊ตฌ์—๊ฒŒ๋‚˜ ๊นŠ์€ ์ธ์ƒ์„ ์ฃผ๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋„ค ๊ฐ€์ง€ ๋ฐ”๋”” ๋žญ๊ท€์ง€ ์š”๋ น์„ ์•Œ๋ ค ๋“œ๋ฆฌ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
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to impress anyone in a conversation.
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00:38
Letโ€™s jump into it.
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์— ๋›ฐ์–ด ๋“ค์ž.
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Number one is something Iโ€™m sure youโ€™ve heard many times when it comes to body language:
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์ฒซ ๋ฒˆ์งธ๋Š” ๋ฐ”๋”” ๋žญ๊ท€์ง€์™€ ๊ด€๋ จํ•˜์—ฌ ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ ๋ฒˆ ๋“ค์–ด๋ณด์…จ์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฐ”๋กœ
00:53
smile.
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๋ฏธ์†Œ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:54
Your smile should express your confidence and enthusiasm.
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๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๋ฏธ์†Œ๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ๊ณผ ์—ด์ •์„ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
00:58
Avoid the resting face: the resting face is when your face is totally relaxed, showing
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ํœด์‹ํ•˜๋Š” ์–ผ๊ตด์„ ํ”ผํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค: ํœด์‹ํ•˜๋Š” ์–ผ๊ตด์€ ์–ผ๊ตด์ด ์™„์ „ํžˆ ์ด์™„๋˜์–ด
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no emotion.
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๊ฐ์ •์„ ๋ณด์ด์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:07
This is my resting face.
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์‰ฌ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ์ œ ์–ผ๊ตด์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:08
Do you like it?
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ? ๋น„๋””์˜ค์˜ ๋‚˜๋จธ์ง€ ๋ถ€๋ถ„์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด
01:10
Do you want me to talk to you like thisโ€ฆ for the rest of the video?
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์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ธธ ์›ํ•˜์„ธ์š” ? ๋ฌผ๋ก 
01:14
NO, OF COURSE NOT.
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์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:16
Isnโ€™t this a lot better?
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์ด๊ฒŒ ํ›จ์”ฌ ๋‚ซ์ง€ ์•Š์•„?
01:17
However, a word of caution: itโ€™s just not humanly possible to smile all the time.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ํ•œ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์ฃผ์˜ํ•  ์ ์€ ์ธ๊ฐ„์ ์œผ๋กœ ํ•ญ์ƒ ์›ƒ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋ถˆ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•˜๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:24
If you keep smiling artificially, your facial muscles will grow tired, and your smile will
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์ธ์œ„์ ์ธ ๋ฏธ์†Œ๋ฅผ ๊ณ„์† ์ง€์œผ๋ฉด ์•ˆ๋ฉด ๊ทผ์œก์ด ์ง€์ณ์„œ
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look fake.
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๊ฐ€์งœ ๋ฏธ์†Œ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋ณด์ด๊ฒŒ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:31
And a fake smile can actually have a negative effect on your listener.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ฐ€์งœ ๋ฏธ์†Œ๋Š” ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ๋“ฃ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์—๊ฒŒ ๋ถ€์ •์ ์ธ ์˜ํ–ฅ์„ ๋ฏธ์น  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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So, the solution is smile broadly at the start of the conversation (that is when you meet
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ํ•ด๊ฒฐ์ฑ…์€ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•  ๋•Œ(๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ๋งŒ๋‚ฌ์„ ๋•Œ
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someone), and at the end (when you say goodbye).
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) ํ™œ์ง ์›ƒ์œผ๋ฉฐ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋งˆ์น  ๋•Œ(์ž‘๋ณ„ ์ธ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ํ•  ๋•Œ)์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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But during the rest of the conversation, wear a soft smile on your face: just enough to
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ๋‚˜๋จธ์ง€ ๋Œ€ํ™” ์ค‘์—๋Š” ์–ผ๊ตด์— ๋ถ€๋“œ๋Ÿฌ์šด ๋ฏธ์†Œ๋ฅผ ์ง€์œผ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
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show that youโ€™re engaged in the discussion.
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ํ† ๋ก ์— ์ฐธ์—ฌํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Œ์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ฃผ๊ธฐ์— ์ถฉ๋ถ„ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:54
This will make you appear genuine and fully present.
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์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ง„์‹คํ•˜๊ณ  ์™„์ „ํžˆ ์กด์žฌํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋ณด์ด๊ฒŒ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:58
Number two is make eye contact.
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๋‘ ๋ฒˆ์งธ๋Š” ๋ˆˆ์„ ๋งž์ถ”๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:01
You should do this both when youโ€™re speaking and when youโ€™re listening.
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๋งํ•  ๋•Œ ์™€ ๋“ค์„ ๋•Œ ๋ชจ๋‘ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:05
After all, the annoying thing is when youโ€™re talking to somebody, and their eyes are darting
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๊ฒฐ๊ตญ ์งœ์ฆ๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์™€ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•  ๋•Œ ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ๋ˆˆ์ด
02:11
all across the room.
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๋ฐฉ ์ „์ฒด๋ฅผ ํœ™ํœ™ ๋Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ์„ ๋•Œ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:13
Instead, in any conversation, your focus should be your partnerโ€™s eyes.
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๋Œ€์‹  ์–ด๋–ค ๋Œ€ํ™”์—์„œ๋“  ํŒŒํŠธ๋„ˆ์˜ ๋ˆˆ์— ์ดˆ์ ์„ ๋งž์ถฐ์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:18
But, of course, I realize that there is a problem with that.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ๋ฌผ๋ก  ๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ์— ๋ฌธ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Œ์„ ๊นจ๋‹ซ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‹œ์„ ์„ ๋Œ๋ฆฌ์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ 
02:22
When we keep looking into someoneโ€™s eyes without looking away, it can get uncomfortable
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๊ณ„์† ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์˜ ๋ˆˆ์„ ๋“ค์—ฌ๋‹ค๋ณด๋ฉด ๋‘ ์Œ์˜ ๋ˆˆ์—
02:27
pretty quickly with a lot of tension building up the two pairs of eyes.
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๋งŽ์€ ๊ธด์žฅ์ด ์Œ“์ด๋ฉด์„œ ๊ฝค ๋นจ๋ฆฌ ๋ถˆํŽธํ•ด์งˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
02:31
So, hereโ€™s a simple rule for you to follow: Make eye contact and hold it for a few seconds
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๋”ฐ๋ผ์•ผ ํ•  ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•œ ๊ทœ์น™์€ ๋‹ค์Œ๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ˆˆ์„ ๋งˆ์ฃผ์น˜๊ณ  ๋ช‡ ์ดˆ ๋™์•ˆ ์œ ์ง€ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
02:38
(about seven to ten seconds).
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(์•ฝ 7~10์ดˆ).
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You donโ€™t have to count in your head; just hold eye contact until you start to feel that
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๋จธ๋ฆฟ์†์œผ๋กœ ์…€ ํ•„์š”๊ฐ€ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ ๊ธด์žฅ๊ฐ์„ ๋А๋ผ๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•  ๋•Œ๊นŒ์ง€ ๋ˆˆ์„ ๋งˆ์ฃผ์น˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค
02:46
tension.
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02:47
Then, blink away to the side (just a little bit), and blink back.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๋‹ค์Œ ์˜†์œผ๋กœ ๋ˆˆ์„ ๊นœ๋ฐ•์ด๊ณ ( ์กฐ๊ธˆ๋งŒ) ๋‹ค์‹œ ๋ˆˆ์„ ๊นœ๋ฐ•์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:51
This will release that tension.
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์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ทธ ๊ธด์žฅ์„ ํ’€์–ด์ค„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:53
Now, I say blink because if Iโ€™m looking at you, and I suddenly look away, itโ€™s too
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์ด์ œ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ๋ณด๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ฐ€ ๊ฐ‘์ž๊ธฐ ์‹œ์„ ์„ ๋Œ๋ฆฌ๋ฉด ๋„ˆ๋ฌด
02:59
distracting.
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์‚ฐ๋งŒํ•ด์ง€๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๊นœ๋ฐ•์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:00
So: eye contact for a few seconds as weโ€™re talking; you start to feel the tension building;
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ: ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๋™์•ˆ ๋ช‡ ์ดˆ ๋™์•ˆ ๋ˆˆ์„ ๋งˆ์ฃผ์น˜์„ธ์š” . ๊ธด์žฅ์ด ์Œ“์ด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋А๋ผ๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:06
you blink away and then you blink back.
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๋ˆˆ์„ ๊นœ๋ฐ•์˜€๋‹ค๊ฐ€ ๋‹ค์‹œ ๊นœ๋ฐ•์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:09
Practice this until it feels natural.
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์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ ๋А๊ปด์งˆ ๋•Œ๊นŒ์ง€ ์—ฐ์Šตํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
03:12
Number three is use good posture.
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์„ธ ๋ฒˆ์งธ๋Š” ์ข‹์€ ์ž์„ธ๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:15
Posture refers to how you stand or sit: basically, how you position your body.
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์ž์„ธ๋Š” ์„œ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์•‰๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•, ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ ์œผ๋กœ ๋ชธ์˜ ์œ„์น˜๋ฅผ โ€‹โ€‹๋‚˜ํƒ€๋ƒ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:21
There are three keys to good posture.
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์ข‹์€ ์ž์„ธ์—๋Š” ์„ธ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์—ด์‡ ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:23
The first is: Keep your back straight One of the most common mistakes I see in my trainees
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์ฒซ ๋ฒˆ์งธ๋Š” ๋“ฑ์„ ๊ณง๊ฒŒ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:30
(both in conversations and in public speaking situations) is a rounded back with hunched
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(๋Œ€ํ™” ๋ฐ ๋Œ€์ค‘ ์—ฐ์„ค ์ƒํ™ฉ์—์„œ) ์ œ ํ›ˆ๋ จ์ƒ์—๊ฒŒ์„œ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ํ”ํžˆ ๋ณผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์‹ค์ˆ˜ ์ค‘ ํ•˜๋‚˜๋Š” ์–ด๊นจ๊ฐ€ ๊ตฝ์€ ๋‘ฅ๊ทผ ๋“ฑ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
03:36
shoulders.
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03:38
This signals a lack of confidence.
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์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์ด ๋ถ€์กฑํ•˜๋‹ค๋Š” ์‹ ํ˜ธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:40
At the same time, you donโ€™t want to puff up your chest like youโ€™re ready for a fight.
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๋™์‹œ์— ์‹ธ์šธ ์ค€๋น„๊ฐ€ ๋œ ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๊ฐ€์Šด์„ ๋ถ€ํ’€๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€๋Š” ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:45
So, imagine a piece of thread, a string going up your spine, up through the back of your
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ
03:51
head, and out from the top like youโ€™re a puppet.
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๊ผญ๋‘๊ฐ์‹œ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ์ฒ™์ถ”๋ฅผ ํƒ€๊ณ  ๋จธ๋ฆฌ ๋’ค๋ฅผ ํ†ตํ•ด ์œ„๋กœ ์˜ฌ๋ผ๊ฐ€๋Š” ์‹ค, ์ฆ‰ ๋ˆ์„ ์ƒ์ƒํ•ด ๋ณด์„ธ์š” .
03:55
Now, what would happen if somebody pulled on the thread?
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์ž, ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ์‹ค์„ ์žก์•„๋‹น๊ธฐ๋ฉด ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๋ ๊นŒ์š” ?
03:59
Your back would straighten, and your shoulders would drop to a natural position.
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๋“ฑ์ด ๊ณง๊ฒŒ ํŽด์ง€๊ณ  ์–ด๊นจ๊ฐ€ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด ์œ„์น˜๋กœ ๋–จ์–ด์ง‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:04
This is a posture which expresses strength and confidence; this is how you want to be.
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์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ํž˜๊ณผ ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์„ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•˜๋Š” ์ž์„ธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ์ด๊ฒƒ์ด ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์›ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ์‹์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:10
The second key to good posture is keep your chin level with the other personโ€™s chin
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์ข‹์€ ์ž์„ธ์˜ ๋‘ ๋ฒˆ์งธ ๋น„๊ฒฐ์€ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์˜ ํ„ฑ๊ณผ ํ„ฑ์˜ ๋†’์ด๋ฅผ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:16
โ€“ you donโ€™t want to be looking up at them, because that looks like youโ€™re suspicious,
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04:21
and you donโ€™t want to be looking down like you feel superior.
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์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์„ ์˜ฌ๋ ค๋‹ค๋ณด๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€๋Š” ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์šฐ์›”๊ฐ์„ ๋А๋ผ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
04:25
Instead, maintain a straight line from underneath your chin to the other personโ€™s.
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๋Œ€์‹  ํ„ฑ ์•„๋ž˜์—์„œ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์˜ ํ„ฑ๊นŒ์ง€ ์ผ์ง์„ ์„ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
04:31
Even if that person is taller or shorter than you, this straight line will make sure that
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๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ๋‹น์‹ ๋ณด๋‹ค ํ‚ค๊ฐ€ ํฌ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์ž‘๋”๋ผ๋„ ์ด ์ง์„ ์€
04:36
your eyes are centered on theirs.
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๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์‹œ์„ ์ด ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์˜ ์ค‘์‹ฌ์— ์žˆ๋„๋ก ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:39
The final element of good posture is Keep the center lines aligned.
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์ข‹์€ ์ž์„ธ์˜ ๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰ ์š”์†Œ๋Š” ์ค‘์‹ฌ์„ ์„ ์ผ์ง์„ ์œผ๋กœ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
04:44
Now, you might be surprised to hear this, but the center line of your body is what indicates
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์ž, ์ด ๋ง์„ ๋“ฃ๊ณ  ๋†€๋ผ์‹ค ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ, ๋ชธ์˜ ์ค‘์‹ฌ์„ ์€
04:51
your point of interest.
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๊ด€์‹ฌ ์ง€์ ์„ ๋‚˜ํƒ€๋ƒ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:52
Let me demonstrate.
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์‹œ์—ฐํ•˜๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:53
{I turn away} Now, Iโ€™m looking at you, my face is pointed towards you, and Iโ€™m talking
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{๋Œ์•„์„œ์„œ} ์ง€๊ธˆ ๋‚œ ๋„ ๋ฐ”๋ผ๋ณด๊ณ  ์žˆ์–ด ๋‚ด ์–ผ๊ตด์€ ๋„ˆ๋ฅผ ํ–ฅํ•˜๊ณ  ๋ง์„ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š”๋ฐ
04:59
to you, but am I really interested in you?
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๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์ •๋ง ๋„ค๊ฒŒ ๊ด€์‹ฌ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฑธ๊นŒ?
05:02
Whereโ€™s my point of interest?
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๋‚ด ๊ด€์‹ฌ ํฌ์ธํŠธ๋Š” ์–ด๋””์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
05:05
My point of interest is whatever is on this side because my body is pointed in this direction.
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๋‚˜์˜ ๊ด€์‹ฌ ํฌ์ธํŠธ๋Š” ๋‚ด ๋ชธ์ด ์ด ๋ฐฉํ–ฅ์„ ๊ฐ€๋ฆฌํ‚ค๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ์ด ์ชฝ์— ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋ฌด์—‡์ด๋“ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:11
{I turn back} But, what about now?
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{๋Œ์ด์ผœ๋ณธ๋‹ค} ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ๋ฐ ์ง€๊ธˆ์€?
05:14
Now, you are my point of interest.
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์ด์ œ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋‚˜์˜ ๊ด€์‹ฌ ๋Œ€์ƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:18
This is very important in body language.
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์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์‹ ์ฒด ์–ธ์–ด์—์„œ ๋งค์šฐ ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:21
Your center line should be aligned with that of your conversation partner.
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์ค‘์‹ฌ์„ ์€ ๋Œ€ํ™” ์ƒ๋Œ€์˜ ์ค‘์‹ฌ์„ ๊ณผ ์ผ์น˜ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
05:26
And hereโ€™s a good way to ensure that: Think of your heart.
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์ด๋ฅผ ํ™•์ธํ•˜๋Š” ์ข‹์€ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋งˆ์Œ์„ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜์„ธ์š” .
05:30
The human heart is about in the center of the chest.
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์ธ๊ฐ„์˜ ์‹ฌ์žฅ์€ ๊ฐ€์Šด ์ค‘์•™์— ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
05:34
Imagine that your heart is shooting arrows of positivity โ€“ and you want to aim these
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๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์‹ฌ์žฅ์ด ๊ธ์ •์˜ ํ™”์‚ด์„ ์˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ์ƒํ•ด๋ณด์„ธ์š” . ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ด
05:39
arrows exactly at the other person.
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ํ™”์‚ด์„ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์—๊ฒŒ ์ •ํ™•ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๊ฒจ๋ˆ„๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:43
If you do this, your center line will be aligned with that of your partner.
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์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๋ฉด ์ค‘์‹ฌ์„ ์ด ํŒŒํŠธ๋„ˆ์˜ ์ค‘์‹ฌ์„ ๊ณผ ์ •๋ ฌ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:49
This position shows that you are fully engaged and interested in this conversation.
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์ด ์œ„์น˜๋Š” ๊ท€ํ•˜๊ฐ€ ์ด ๋Œ€ํ™”์— ์™„์ „ํžˆ ์ฐธ์—ฌํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ด€์‹ฌ์ด ์žˆ์Œ์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ค๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:53
So, the three keys to good posture are keep your back straight, keep your chin level,
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์ข‹์€ ์ž์„ธ์˜ ์„ธ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ํ•ต์‹ฌ์€ ๋“ฑ์„ ๊ณง๊ฒŒ ํŽด๊ณ , ํ„ฑ ๋†’์ด๋ฅผ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜๊ณ ,
06:00
and keep the center lines aligned.
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์ค‘์‹ฌ์„ ์„ ๋งž์ถ”๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:03
And finally, body language trick number four is control your hands.
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๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰์œผ๋กœ ๋ฐ”๋”” ๋žญ๊ท€์ง€ ํŠธ๋ฆญ ๋„ค ๋ฒˆ์งธ๋Š” ์†์„ ์ œ์–ดํ•˜๋Š” โ€‹โ€‹๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:09
In any natural conversation, we use our hands a lot.
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์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด ๋Œ€ํ™”์—์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์†์„ ๋งŽ์ด ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
06:13
We make lots of gestures.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋ชธ์ง“์„ ๋งŽ์ด ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:15
This is good, and itโ€™s natural.
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์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์ข‹์€ ์ผ์ด๊ณ  ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด ์ผ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:17
The problem is when you donโ€™t have control over it.
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๋ฌธ์ œ๋Š” ์ œ์–ดํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†์„ ๋•Œ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
06:21
Oftentimes, when we have conversations in a foreign language like English, we might
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์ข…์ข… ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์˜์–ด์™€ ๊ฐ™์€ ์™ธ๊ตญ์–ด๋กœ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ํ•  ๋•Œ
06:26
have trouble coming up with the right words or ideas, and this ups our anxiety level.
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์˜ฌ๋ฐ”๋ฅธ ๋‹จ์–ด ๋‚˜ ์•„์ด๋””์–ด๊ฐ€ ๋– ์˜ค๋ฅด์ง€ ์•Š์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉฐ ์ด๋Š” ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ๋ถˆ์•ˆ ์ˆ˜์ค€์„ ๋†’์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:32
And as a result of that, our heart rate speeds up, our speech rate increases, and our hand
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๊ทธ ๊ฒฐ๊ณผ ์‹ฌ๋ฐ•์ˆ˜๊ฐ€ ๋นจ๋ผ์ง€๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ์†๋„๊ฐ€ ๋นจ๋ผ์ง€๋ฉฐ
06:38
gestures get out of control.
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์†์ง“์„ ํ†ต์ œํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†๊ฒŒ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:40
Itโ€™s as if our hands begin to speak a language of their own.
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๋งˆ์น˜ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ์†์ด ๊ทธ๋“ค๋งŒ์˜ ์–ธ์–ด๋ฅผ ๋งํ•˜๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
06:45
What message does this send to the listener?
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์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๋ฆฌ์Šค๋„ˆ์—๊ฒŒ ์–ด๋–ค ๋ฉ”์‹œ์ง€๋ฅผ ๋ณด๋‚ด๋‚˜์š”?
06:47
Well, it tells the listener that youโ€™re nervous or that you lack confidence.
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์Œ, ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋“ฃ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์—๊ฒŒ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ธด์žฅํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์ด ๋ถ€์กฑํ•˜๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์•Œ๋ ค์ค๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:52
So, hereโ€™s what you should do: make slow and controlled movements like Iโ€™m doing
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์ž, ์—ฌ๊ธฐ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ์ผ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์ง€๊ธˆ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋А๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ํ†ต์ œ๋œ ์›€์ง์ž„์„ ๋งŒ๋“œ์„ธ์š”
06:57
now.
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.
06:58
This shows that you are in control of the situation, and that commands respect from
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์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ƒํ™ฉ์„ ํ†ต์ œํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ฃผ๋ฉฐ , ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์ฒญ์ทจ์ž๋กœ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ์กด์ค‘์„ ์š”๊ตฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
07:03
your listener.
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07:04
If you find yourself getting nervous, begin to focus on your breathing and consciously
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๋ถˆ์•ˆํ•ด์ง€๋ฉด ํ˜ธํก์— ์ง‘์ค‘ํ•˜๊ณ  ์˜์‹์ ์œผ๋กœ
07:10
slow down your movements.
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์›€์ง์ž„์„ ๋Šฆ์ถ”์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
07:12
Avoid fidgeting, that is playing with an object, your clothing or even just with your hands.
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์•ˆ์ ˆ๋ถ€์ ˆ ๋ชปํ•จ, ์ฆ‰ ๋ฌผ๊ฑด, ์˜๋ณต ๋˜๋Š” ์‹ฌ์ง€์–ด ์†๋งŒ์œผ๋กœ ๋…ธ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ํ”ผํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
07:18
Now, making controlled movements takes practice.
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์ด์ œ ์ œ์–ด๋œ ์›€์ง์ž„์„ ๋งŒ๋“œ๋Š” ๋ฐ๋Š” ์—ฐ์Šต์ด ํ•„์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:22
So, you need to get in front of a mirror.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๊ฑฐ์šธ ์•ž์— ์„œ์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:25
I recommend that you spend a few minutes every day just practicing controlled hand gestures.
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ํ†ต์ œ๋œ ์† ์ œ์Šค์ฒ˜๋ฅผ ์—ฐ์Šตํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ ๋งค์ผ ๋ช‡ ๋ถ„์„ ํ• ์• ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:32
Get in front of your mirror and talk about something โ€“ it could be anything.
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๊ฑฐ์šธ ์•ž์— ์„œ์„œ ๋ฌด์–ธ๊ฐ€์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ๋ฌด์—‡์ด๋“  ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:36
As you talk, focus on maintaining a firm posture (remember the string?).
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๋งํ•˜๋ฉด์„œ ํ™•๊ณ ํ•œ ์ž์„ธ๋ฅผ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ ์ง‘์ค‘ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค (์ค„ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•˜์„ธ์š”?).
07:43
Notice your hand gestures, slow yourself down and make controlled movements.
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์†์ง“์— ์ฃผ๋ชฉํ•˜๊ณ  ์†๋„๋ฅผ ๋Šฆ์ถ”๊ณ  ์ œ์–ด๋œ ์›€์ง์ž„์„ ๋งŒ๋“œ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
07:48
Pretty soon, you will see a big difference in your own body language.
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๋จธ์ง€ ์•Š์•„ ์ž์‹ ์˜ ์‹ ์ฒด ์–ธ์–ด์— ํฐ ์ฐจ์ด๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Œ์„ ์•Œ๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:53
You, and other people, will notice that you appear more confident and more impressive
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๋‹น์‹ ๊ณผ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ด์ „๋ณด๋‹ค ๋” ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ ์žˆ๊ณ  ์ธ์ƒ์ ์œผ๋กœ ๋ณด์ธ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์•Œ๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
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than ever before.
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So, those are the four body language tricks you can use to impress anyone: Smile, make
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋ˆ„๊ตฌ์—๊ฒŒ๋‚˜ ๊นŠ์€ ์ธ์ƒ์„ ์ฃผ๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋„ค ๊ฐ€์ง€ ๋ฐ”๋”” ๋žญ๊ท€์ง€ ํŠธ๋ฆญ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๋ฏธ์†Œ ์ง“๊ธฐ,
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eye contact, use good posture, and control your hands.
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๋ˆˆ ๋งž์ถ”๊ธฐ, ์ข‹์€ ์ž์„ธ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๊ธฐ, ์†์„ ์ œ์–ดํ•˜๊ธฐ .
08:12
Remember that the most important thing is to practice.
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๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์€ ์—ฐ์Šต์ด๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•˜์„ธ์š” . ๋Œ€ํ™”
08:16
Learn to notice your own body language in conversations and to keep improving yourself.
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์—์„œ ์ž์‹ ์˜ ์‹ ์ฒด ์–ธ์–ด๋ฅผ ์•Œ์•„์ฐจ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ž์‹ ์„ ๊ณ„์† ๊ฐœ์„ ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ๋ฐฐ์šฐ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
08:21
That is the one true path to becoming a highly successful communicator.
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋งค์šฐ ์„ฑ๊ณต์ ์ธ ์ปค๋ฎค๋‹ˆ์ผ€์ดํ„ฐ๊ฐ€ ๋˜๋Š” ์œ ์ผํ•œ ๊ธธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
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If you liked this lesson, give it a thumbs up by hitting the like button.
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์ด ๊ฐ•์˜๊ฐ€ ๋งˆ์Œ์— ๋“œ์…จ๋‹ค๋ฉด ์ข‹์•„์š” ๋ฒ„ํŠผ์„ ๋ˆŒ๋Ÿฌ ์ข‹์•„์š”๋ฅผ ๋ˆŒ๋Ÿฌ์ฃผ์„ธ์š”. ์—ฌ๊ธฐ YouTube์—์„œ ๋ฐ”๋กœ ์ตœ์‹  ๊ฐ•์˜๋ฅผ
08:30
Remember to subscribe to this channel to get my latest lessons right here on YouTube.
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๋“ค์œผ๋ ค๋ฉด ์ด ์ฑ„๋„์„ ๊ตฌ๋…ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์žŠ์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š” .
08:35
As always, happy learning and I will see you in another lesson soon.
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๋Š˜ ๊ทธ๋ ‡๋“ฏ์ด ์ฆ๊ฑฐ์šด ํ•™์Šต์ด ๋˜์‹œ๊ณ  ๊ณง ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๊ฐ•์˜์—์„œ ๋ต™๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
์ด ์›น์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ ์ •๋ณด

์ด ์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ•™์Šต์— ์œ ์šฉํ•œ YouTube ๋™์˜์ƒ์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ „ ์„ธ๊ณ„ ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜๋“ค์ด ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ˆ˜์—…์„ ๋ณด๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ ๋™์˜์ƒ ํŽ˜์ด์ง€์— ํ‘œ์‹œ๋˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ” ํด๋ฆญํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ณณ์—์„œ ๋™์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋น„๋””์˜ค ์žฌ์ƒ์— ๋งž์ถฐ ์ž๋ง‰์ด ์Šคํฌ๋กค๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜๊ฒฌ์ด๋‚˜ ์š”์ฒญ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์ด ๋ฌธ์˜ ์–‘์‹์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ๋ฌธ์˜ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.

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