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Hello my amazing students.
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Today we're going to.
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Read a news article together.
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From The Guardian.
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And this article.
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Is about the world's happiest.
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Man.
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Welcome back to JForrest English.
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Of course,
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I'm Jennifer.
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Now let's get.
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Started.
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1st I'll read.
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The headline A 69 year old monk whose scientists called the World's Happiest Man says the Secret
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to being happy takes just 15 minutes a day.
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Do you have?
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15.
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Minutes a day.
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Well.
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You can become the.
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World's happiest.
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Person.
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As well maybe.
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Let's see in this article.
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So first of all, notice a 69 year old.
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This functions as an adjective because if you remove it, it's a monk who scientists
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call.
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Now we're giving more information.
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You could use a nationality, a British monk.
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Perhaps.
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Now here they're using an age, a 69 year old.
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We don't modify adjectives by making them singular or.
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Plural.
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That's.
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Why there's no?
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S So.
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A 69 year old monk whose.
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Scientists call the.
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World's happiest man says.
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The secret to.
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Being notice.
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This because it's the secret.
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To something.
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The secret to.
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Learning English is what do you think?
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The secret to.
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Learning.
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The secret to.
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Becoming a confident English speaker is maybe the secret to learning English.
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Is.
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To watch.
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Notice that infinitive.
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To watch AJ Force English video a day, Because that's about 15 minutes a day.
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So if.
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You practice 15 minutes a day.
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Well, then you'll be confident.
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What do you think?
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If you agree, put.
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That's right.
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That's right, Jennifer.
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That's right, put.
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That's right in the comments and you are going to learn what you can do in just 15 minutes
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a day to become the world's happiest person.
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Now don't worry about taking these notes because I summarize everything in a free lesson PDF.
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You can find the link in the description.
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Now let's continue.
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Who is the happiest?
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Man in the world.
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If you Google it.
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The name Matthew.
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Ricard pops up.
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What do you?
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Notice.
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About how this.
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Word is being used.
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What?
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Part of speech is this.
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Of course, you know Google as a noun.
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You use.
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Google, but in this case it's being.
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Used as a verb.
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Which native speakers love doing?
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Do you know who the happiest man in the world is?
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Do you know who the best YouTube English teacher is?
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Just Google it.
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Google.
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It.
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So I'm using that as a verb in the imperative.
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Now if.
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You use Google.
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As the noun, you would say.
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Just look up.
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And here.
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Your verb is to look up the phrasal verb just.
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Look up the answer on Google Now.
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Remember Google is being used.
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As a.
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Verb so in the past simple, you would need.
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That Ed, I googled, googled.
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I googled it.
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I searched for.
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The answer on Google.
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You can look up information on Google.
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You can search for information on Google.
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Or.
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You can just.
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Google.
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It which makes you sound like a native.
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Speaker.
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Now also to make you sound like a native speaker, you can learn and use more.
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Phrasal verbs like.
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This one pop up the name Matthew.
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Ricard pops up to pop up.
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This is our phrasal verb.
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This means to appear suddenly or unexpectedly, for example.
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I was.
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Watching AJ for his English video.
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And my boss popped up.
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So your boss appeared, but you.
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Weren't expecting your boss and you were doing something you shouldn't have been doing.
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You should have been working, but instead you were watching my video.
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Thank you very much.
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Because remember, this is a.
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Verb.
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So this is in the past.
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Simple, my boss.
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Popped up.
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And isn't that always the?
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Case.
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Someone pops up when you least expect them to and when you definitely don't want them
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to.
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Let's continue.
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Matthew Ricard 6, 9 Here they're saying his age, 69, is a Tibetan Buddhist monk originally
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from France.
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Who has been?
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Called the.
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World's happiest.
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Man, we already know this information.
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It was summarized in the headline.
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And they're just stating it in a different way.
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That's.
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Because he participated.
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In a 12 year brain study on meditation and compassion led by a neuroscientist from the.
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University of Wisk.
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Gonson Notice this pronunciation.
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Wisconsin.
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Wisconsin.
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Richard Davidson.
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So this is the neuroscientist.
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Who led the 12?
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Year Brain study.
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Ah, we have.
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Another adjective.
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Again, we know it's an adjective.
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For one, it comes before the noun.
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Which is study or?
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Brain study.
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You could consider brain to be another adjective which.
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Tells you what type of.
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Study and I.
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Also know it's an adjective because there's no on the noun year because adjectives don't
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take a singular or plural form.
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And notice this preposition when you learn a new.
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Word like to participate.
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You should always learn how to use it in a full sentence.
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Because you participate.
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In something for example.
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I would love.
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To.
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Participate in because this is something in the finely fluent Academy, which is.
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A course that ioffer.
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Now you.
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Could say I would love to participate.
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In the conference, in the meeting in the.
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Course or whatever.
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Else you're participating in, but that preposition in is.
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Part of the verb to.
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Participate in something.
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Are you enjoying this lesson?
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If you are, then I.
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Want to?
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Tell you about the Finely Fluent Academy.
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This is my premium training program where we study native English speakers from TV,
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the movies, YouTube and the news so you can improve your listening skills of fast English.
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Expand your vocabulary.
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With natural expressions and.
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Learn advanced grammar.
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Easily.
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Plus, you'll have me.
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As your personal.
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Coach.
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You can look in the description for the.
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Link to learn more or you can go to my website and.
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Click on.
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Finally, Fluent Academy.
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Now let's.
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Continue with our.
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Lesson Davidson.
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Remember, he's the neuroscientist who.
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Led this study, Davidson hooked up Ricard's head to.
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200.
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Sensors.
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Hook.
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Up is another phrasal verb.
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Very useful because.
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It means to link or connect.
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Now the verb is.
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Hooked.
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So that's what you conjugate here in the past simple and then the preposition is up.
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But remember, just like participate in, you need to understand the full grammar to.
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Be able to use this because you hook.
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Something up to something else, and you link something to something else.
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You connect something to something else.
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So this.
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Preposition too is very important now.
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We use this a lot with technology where.
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Should we hook up?
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The modem.
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Where should we?
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Connect the modem.
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Oh, maybe hook it up?
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Right here, this is a great spot.
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Or hook it up.
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Over there and you can use this with.
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A lot of.
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Electronic devices, Davidson.
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Hooked up Ricard's head to 200.
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56 sensors and found that when Ricard was meditating on compassion, his mind was unusually
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light.
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Ricard who says he.
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Sometimes meditates for entire days without getting bored.
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Immense.
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He's a generally happy person.
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Let's.
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Look at this.
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Without getting.
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Bored.
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Let's review to get bored.
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You could also say to.
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Become bored native.
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Speakers prefer.
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Get, but you can also say become in this case getting.
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It's used in the ING form because.
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Without is a.
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Preposition and we use the gerund verb after prepositions to get or become bored.
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This means that you lose interest so he can meditate for entire days.
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Without.
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Losing interest without getting bored, without becoming bored.
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Now I could say.
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I hope you.
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Don't get bored in this lesson.
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I hope you don't lose interest now.
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Get refers to the transition from, not.
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Bored to, bored, Interested to.
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Not interested.
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That's how we use GET.
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Or become now to talk about your current state.
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Just.
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Use the verb to be to be bored, but hopefully.
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You say.
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Don't worry, Jennifer, I'm not.
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Bored.
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Bored.
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Bored.
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I'm not bored.
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To be.
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As a contraction and then you're negative.
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I'm not.
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Bored.
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Hopefully you would say that.
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But you could also.
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Be honest and say this lesson is boring, so notice here.
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The structure is to be.
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Boring to be boring and this means not interesting.
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Now if something is boring not interesting, then.
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You will be.
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Bored.
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OK, I'm bored.
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This lesson is boring.
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So the result.
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I'm bored.
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So to be bored.
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Describes your current state, because something or someone, hopefully not me or my lesson,
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is boring.
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So hopefully you would say this.
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Please reassure me, Put this in the comments.
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I'm not bored.
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I'm not bored.
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And if you are.
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Bored.
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Please be honest and let me know what can I do to make this lesson less boring, so therefore
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more interesting.
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OK?
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He admits he's a generally happy person, so generally happy by using generally it includes.
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It acknowledges that sometimes he's not happy, but mainly, mostly.
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He is happy.
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Generally happy person.
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Although he feels his.
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Happiest man title is a media driven overstatement.
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An overstatement means that something is exaggerated.
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The way it's stated is.
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More than the truth.
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It exceeds the truth.
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You are the world's happiest.
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Man, really?
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Am I really the?
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World's.
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Happiest man or does that?
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Exceed.
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The reality is that exaggerated.
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He says.
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It's a.
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Media driven overstatement.
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So media driven means driven by the media.
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And if it's driven by the media, it means it's influenced by the media.
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It only exists because of articles like this.
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Headlines like this.
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Who say he's the world's?
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Happiest man the.
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Media created this.
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Here's his advice for how.
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To be happy.
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All right, we've come to.
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His advice?
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So.
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Pay close attention.
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This is the interesting part.
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You shouldn't be bored right now.
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Stop thinking.
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Me.
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Me.
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Me.
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Me.
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Me.
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Me.
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Notice how it's.
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Me and not I stop thinking.
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I I, I because the subject is I I.
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Want to I need to.
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I like this I.
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Don't like this.
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I'm bored.
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But the.
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Expression in English uses me.
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Here's how you could use this in a real context, because native speakers do use this.
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It was supposed.
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To be a group brainstorming session, but Richard talked the entire time it was.
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Me.
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Me.
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Me.
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Now notice when you say.
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Me.
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Me.
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Me.
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You probably say it with a.
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Little bit of an attitude.
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Because.
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It's a negative thing.
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Oh, it was me, me, me the whole time.
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But even though the person is saying.
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Me.
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Me.
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Me.
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He's actually talking about Richard, so it's imagining that Richard was saying.
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Me.
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Me.
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Me.
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It's all about me, but I'm.
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Richard So even though we vocalize it as.
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Me, me, me.
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We're often referring to another person, and this just means.
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Yourself.
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So stop.
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Thinking about yourself or in the context of Richard, stop thinking.
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He should stop thinking about himself is not all.
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Me.
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Me.
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Me.
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All right, so that's the first thing.
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Stop thinking.
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Me, me, me.
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Stop thinking.
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About yourself.
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Hmm.
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What do you think about that?
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That's the secret.
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To being happy.
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To Ricard.
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The answer comes down to altruism.
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Notice the pronunciation.
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Here we have the.
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Word true.
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ISM.
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Put that together.
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Truism.
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Truism.
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That's a truism.
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That's something that is.
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True.
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And then you add OWL, OWL, Altruism, altruism, altruism.
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This is the noun, and it's when you're more focused on others than yourself.
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The adjective would be altruistic.
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But the noun is altruism, so the answer comes down to altruism.
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Notice how something the answer comes down to.
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When something comes down to something, it means that it's the most important factor
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or consideration.
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So he's saying that altruism is the most important factor or consideration of being happy now.
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You could say.
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Successfully learning English.
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This is the.
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First, something successfully learning English comes down to I have comes.
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Because this is.
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Conjugated as it.
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It or this so.
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Jaron statements are always conjugated as.
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It or this?
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In the singular.
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This it.
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Comes down to.
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Now you.
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Can have two things, a noun motivation, or you can have a jaron verb being motivated
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and I honestly believe.
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This is true because.
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If you have a strong enough motivation.
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You will do what it takes.
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To successfully learn English.
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But if you're not that committed, then you just won't put in the time and effort that's
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required.
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But that's my personal opinion.
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The reason is so the reason why altruism is so important to happiness.
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The reason is because thinking.
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About yourself.
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Me.
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Me.
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Me.
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About yourself.
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And how to make things better?
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For yourself.
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All the time is exhausting, stressful, and ultimately leads to unhappiness.
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Interesting perspective.
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Notice how I just said interesting perspective.
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You could say like I did.
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Interesting perspective.
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The.
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Full sentence would be that's an that.
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Is what you just said.
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That's an interesting perspective.
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That's an interesting point.
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That's an interesting opinion and you can add on or simply say.
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I've never thought about it like that before.
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I've never thought about it like that before.
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Which is a very common thing to say when learning, hearing, receiving new information if you
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want to be happy.
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Which, of course, we all.
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Do if you want to be happy.
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Ricard says you should strive to be.
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Benevolent, which will not only make you.
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Feel better.
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But it will also make others.
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Like you better?
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The verb strive means to try.
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Really hard strive.
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To be benevolent.
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Try really hard.
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To be benevolent.
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And when you're benevolent, you're kind.
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You have goodwill.
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Towards others.
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You have this desire to help others.
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It's similar to altruism, but altruism.
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Is entirely focused.
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On others, but they are quite similar.
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Strive.
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To be benevolent, which will not only make you feel.
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Better, but it will.
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Also make others.
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Like you better?
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Well of.
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Course, if you're kind to.
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Others, they'll like you better.
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If you have a desire to help others, they'll like you better.
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That makes sense.
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Right.
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Would you agree?
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That's not to.
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Say you should let other.
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People take advantage of you, Ricard warns.
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But you should generally.
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Strive to be.
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Kind within reason.
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So again, generally this means most of the time, but of.
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Course there.
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May be situations where you're not benevolent.
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You are thinking me, me, me, but generally you.
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Should strive to.
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Be kind, within reason, within reason is saying that you'll act in a way that sensible or.
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Practical.
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Practical.
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So someone might say we'll do everything we can to help you.
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Within reason they're saying, well, I'm not going to.
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Break a law to help you.
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I'm not.
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Going to spend millions of dollars or maybe even hundreds of dollars.
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To help you, it has to be.
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Reasonable.
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A reasonable amount of help.
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But we'll do everything we can to help you.
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Within reason.
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OK, so.
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How does one train their mind?
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To be happier.
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The ultimate question Are you ready for it?
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Just spend 15 continuous minutes.
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A day.
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Thinking happy thoughts?
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Well, how simple.
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Is that you have 15 minutes a day and you can think.
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Happy thoughts, right?
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Now, continuous means without stopping.
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So don't think happy thoughts for three minutes and then go back to being stressed and overwhelmed
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and oh, I'm never going to learn English.
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My English is terrible.
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Are those happy?
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Thoughts.
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No, they're not.
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So don't think 3 minutes of happy thoughts, 7 minutes of unhappy thoughts, Three more
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minutes of happy thoughts.
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It means 15 continuous minutes.
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Set your timer for 15 minutes and only think happy.
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Thoughts that would be?
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Continuous.
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What do you think if the?
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Secret to.
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Being happy truly is spending 15 continuous minutes a day thinking happy thoughts.
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Is that something that you can do if it?
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Is PUT that's doable this?
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Is how a.
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Native.
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Speaker would say.
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I can do that, that's.
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Doable.
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So if your boss asks you, can you finish this by 5:00 PM?
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Yep.
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That's doable.
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That's doable I.
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Can do that.
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I have the ability to do that.
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So what do you think?
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Is this doable?
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But.
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That's doable.
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That's doable.
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I can do it.
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That's doable.
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Put that.
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In the comments And now you have the secret to happiness.
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How awesome is that?
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Now what I'll do is I'll read the article from start to finish and this time you can
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focus on my pronunciation.
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A 69 year old monk whose scientists.
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Called the World.
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'S happiest man says the secret to being happy takes.
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Just.
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15 minutes a day.
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Who is the?
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Happiest man in the world.
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If you Google it.
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The name Matthieu Ricard pops up.
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Matthieu Ricard, 69, is a Tibetan Buddhist monk originally from France who has been called.
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The.
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World's happiest man.
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That's because he participated.
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In a 12 year brain study on meditation and compassion led by a neuroscientist from the
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University of Wisconsin, Richard Davidson, Davidson hooked up.
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Ricard's head.
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To 256 sensors and found that when Ricard was meditating on compassion, his mind was
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unusually light.
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Ricard, who says he sometimes meditates for entire days without getting bored, admits
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he's a generally happy person.
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Although he feels.
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His.
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Happiest man title is a media driven overstatement.
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Here's his advice for how to be happy.
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Stop thinking.
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Me.
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Me.
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Me.
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To Ricard, the answer comes down to altruism.
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The reason is because thinking about yourself and how to make things.
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Better for yourself.
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All the time is exhausting, stressful and ultimately leads to unhappiness if you want
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to be happy.
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Ricard says you should strive to be.
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Benevolent, which will not only make you.
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Feel better.
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But it will also make.
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Others like you better.
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That's not to.
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Say you should let other people take.
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Advantage of you, Ricard warns.
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But you should generally strive to be kind within reason.
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OK, so how?
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Does one train their mind to be happier?
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Just spend 15 continuous minutes a day thinking happy thoughts.
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