7 Things That STOP Your Language Learning Progress

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English with Veronika Mark


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hello everyone and welcome back to my Channel  today I want to talk about seven things that  
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stop your language learning progress things  that make you feel like you're stuck like  
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you're not improving at all that might cause  your intermediate Plateau for example so the  
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first thing I would like to begin with is the lack  of consistency we all want to become fluent we all  
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want to improve our language skills however a  lot of us are just not consistent the truth is  
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if you don't practice your languages often enough  you're not going to improve and here I also want  
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to highlight constantly chasing this magic method  instead of actually practicing the language you  
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know watching a lot of videos on YouTube on  Tik Tok and Instagram about how to learn the  
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language learning a lot of different approaches  and methods don't actually applying them when  
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it comes to your language learning Journey don't  get me wrong educating yourself is amazing that's  
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why I have this YouTube channel because here I'm  teaching you a lot of different methods scientific  
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approaches to language learning and you have to  try bu those methods and see which ones work for  
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you because just understanding them in theory and  then theorizing about them and thinking that okay  
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this method sounds good this method sounds better  let me try this one but then never actually trying  
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it is exactly something that is stopping your  language learning progress guys the reality is  
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that there is no one magic method you have to try  a bunch of different approaches and then see which  
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one works for you and if you want to call it a  magic method the one that is going to be working  
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great for you then okay let's call it this one  magic approach to language learning as long as  
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it helps you stay consistent okay the second thing  that is stopping your language learning progress  
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is unrealistic output you don't use the language  you're learning in real life situations you don't  
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speak about your everyday experiences and you  don't Journal about them and obviously this  
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everyday natural fluency happens when you use  a language in the situations that are the most  
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normal to you the most natural to you when you  talk about your job yourself what you did on the  
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weekend and then obviously depending on your level  you can use Advanced phrases or phrasal verbs or  
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idioms while talking about something as basic as  your workout routine honestly this is something  
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that I experienced firsthand when I was learning  Chinese in college because in college my Chinese  
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experience was all about train translating very  complicated texts about politics about economics  
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because I wanted to become a Chinese interpreter  or translator and so what I experienced was that  
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I could talk about complicated business import  export texts but I couldn't really talk about  
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my everyday routines like I brush my teeth I  have breakfast and then I go to the gym that  
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was freaking impossible for me and also that  was very scary because I never practiced it  
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and so I literally had zero experience talking  about my actual life in Chinese and maybe some  
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of you are going to think that Veronica you  were learning Chinese to work in Chinese so  
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why you're complaining that you couldn't talk  about your everyday situations that your output  
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was not really realistic the problem is to be  able to enjoy your work you really need to like  
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every aspect of it or at least most aspect about  your job right and obviously communicating with  
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people yes I would be communicating in about all  of those business related topics but I would also  
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be talking about myself where I was from what I  liked because I didn't get all this practice I  
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felt so shy even working in Chinese because I knew  that the moment we started talking about myself my  
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Chinese would just like crumble disappear I would  not know what to say what I highly recommend here  
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is journaling in your foreign language I know  it's timec consuming but you can do it on your  
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phone or your computer you don't necessarily  have to use a pen and paper if you prefer this  
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traditional approach as do I but the reason  why I like journaling so much is because it  
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really helps you reflect on what you did today  you're going to write everything on paper on your  
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computer and you're going to think how to phrase  those sentences in a better way you have time to  
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look up some of the words in the dictionary it's  not like actually speaking to a real person and  
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you can really explore all of the different  phrases and idioms and better more advanced  
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ways in which you can create a specific sentence  the next thing that stops your language learning  
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progress is trying to be perfect comparing  yourself to this perfect version of yourself  
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speaking English Chinese Spanish or also comparing  yourself to native speakers and yes I speak from  
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my personal experience here because I used to be  overly focused on getting everything right when I  
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spoke English when I spoke Spanish Chinese doesn't  really matter all I was focusing on instead of  
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enjoying the time you know when I was speaking  English was making sure that my pronunciation was  
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perfect my grammar was perfect all of the words  I was using were perfect and the thing is it can  
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really paralyze our progress instead of wanting to  speak wanting to put yourself in those situations  
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where you're going to be speaking the language you  freeze because you understand that the moment you  
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make a mistake you start criticizing yourself  because you want to be perfect and so it's just  
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this vicious circle of wanting to be perfect  and then you make a mistake and then you beat  
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yourself up for it and then you want to be perfect  again and it's a very stressful situation I'm not  
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going to say that I stopped being a perfectionist  over time I think for most people it's just not  
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realistic what I did though is slowly but surely  I started becoming more of an observer I would  
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speak English or Spanish and then it would make  a mistake and then I would be like interesting  
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I made a mistake let me analyze it instead of  immediately criticizing myself instead of feeling  
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shy instead of shutting down I continued talking  to people I continued putting myself in those  
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situations where I would speak to people where  I would write in foreign languages and then I  
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would see what happened without any criticism just  observation now if you guys actually want to make  
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number four why you might be feeling like you're  not making any progress in your language learning  
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and that is relying on passive learning so what  is passive learning is basically when you are  
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listening to something or watching a show in your  foreign language and you're not actually actively  
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engaged maybe you're commuting to work or from  work or maybe you're cooking something so you're  
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not really paying a lot of attention to the show  because you can be watching a show in an active  
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way pausing if there are any words you don't know  saving them to Ay like really actively engaging  
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with a material with a show or you can be watching  a show in a passive way where you actually don't  
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really remember much of what happened like you  just watched the first episode and if somebody  
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were to ask you what happened in the first episode  episode of the show you would be like I think this  
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is what happened I'm not sure because I was also  on Tik Tok for responding to my mom's messages  
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cooking doing something else I was not actually  actively watching the show and here I'm not saying  
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that you should never ever use passive learning  sometimes when you're tired and all you want to  
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do is just spend time on your couch be on Tik Tok  watch a show it's totally fine but please don't  
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rely on this type of learning to actually improve  your language skills and become more and more  
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advanced because if you're not paying attention  you're probably not learning and yes I know  
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that Active Learning is a lot more difficult you  actually have to sit down be present be actively  
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engaged understand what you're doing and not be  just like oh you know it's okay it will happen  
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naturally unfortunately if you're not paying  attention it won't happen naturally I've noticed  
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that usually people rely on passive learning a lot  when they don't have a lot of free time and so if  
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if you are one of those people if you work a lot  if you have kids family responsibilities and you  
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realize that you just don't have a lot of free  time to D get to language learning and you tend  
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to gravitate towards passive learning maybe the  first thing to do for you would be to actually  
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sit down and look at your schedule and be very  honest with yourself and realize that passive  
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learning can only take you so far okay the next  reason that is stopping your language progress  
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is not understanding how language transfer  works and and not even knowing about it that  
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this thing a language transfer exists and that is  happening to you right now when you're learning a  
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new language your native language or all the other  languages that you can already speak really well  
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will influence the new language you're learning  and the thing that happens to most students is we  
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really get demotivated and sad when this happens  but it's inevitable guys just accept it observe  
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it accept it understand that it happens to every  single one of us the languages you can already  
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speak will always influence your new language  and all you have to do is recognize it maybe  
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spend a few more hours learning specific words  that are very similar to your native language  
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but have a completely different meaning in the  foreign language you're learning for example in  
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English there's this word library and in Spanish  a lot of people think that this word is translated  
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to Liberia which is understandable because if  your native language is Spanish libraria Library  
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these words just sound very similar obviously  it's a mistake but I understand why I'm making  
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this mistake so I'm not going to beat myself  up for it I'm not going to feel bad I'm just  
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going to spend a few more hours understanding the  difference and really memorizing that libraria is  
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not Library it's a bookstore reason number six why  your language skills are not improving is because  
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you're relying too heavily on translation that is  something that I see a lot of language Learners do  
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every single time one of you guys are learning  a new word immediately what you have to do is  
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look up the translation memorize the translation  translate every single sentence every single word  
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because without translation you can't memorize  anything and yes maybe in certain situations it's  
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totally okay to translate a word or two but when  you're trying to memorize a word what you're doing  
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is you're trying to internalize a new language and  the process of internalizing in a new language is  
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not about translating everything you're not Google  translate you're not walking around and be like  
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apple Manana Apple yabla that's not what you're  doing the process of internalizing a language is  
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when you see the object that looks like an apple  and depending on what language you're speaking you  
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can immediately communicate it to the other person  that look this is a yabla or Manana you don't need  
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to translate constantly in your head what happens  when you're constantly translating back and forth  
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between your native language and your target  language is that the cognitive processing becomes  
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very slow even though you might think that it's  easier for you in reality it becomes way harder  
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for you to remember certain words it prevents you  from internalizing the syntax the vocabulary the  
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grammar everything it makes your progress super  slow and the goal when you're trying to memorize  
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new words is always to to make them your second  nature like it's your second nature to use these  
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words and so what is going to help you here is  not translating but actually using images or maybe  
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creating example sentences that are connected to  your life and obviously seeing this word more and  
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more often and how are you going to see this word  more and more often if you actually practice the  
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language often enough but if you are a little  bit like me and sometimes I don't practice the  
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language every single day for for example right  now with Spanish I may be busy with work or with  
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doing something else so I don't really practice  Spanish every single day so what I do instead  
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is I use Ani or the space repetition technology  method to help me review all of the words that I  
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have recently learned if you like this approach  use it if you don't like this approach don't use  
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it just make sure that you acquire the language  naturally through your everyday practice so guys  
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