LGBT - Gay Vocabulary in English

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Hi, everybody. It's okay to be gay. Did you know that? Did you know that in Canada, we
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have one of the highest gay populations in the world? So guess what? If you're thinking
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of coming to Canada to study English, you've got to be careful. You've got to wake up.
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You've got to change your mind. You've to change your thinking if you are homophobic.
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"Homophobic" means you do not like or are afraid of gay people. So here's the lesson.
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Here's a head up: Don't be ignorant. Don't be stupid. Listen to what I've got to tell
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you. I'll teach you some very interesting facts. You must keep an open mind. In your
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country, maybe there are no gay people. Guess what? They're all coming here. You have many,
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many, many, thousands, millions of gay people living in your country. There are gay people
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everywhere all over the world, so get used to it. We're here. We're queer. Get used to
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it. You go, girlfriend.
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So check this out. We have this umbrella term -- as some people like to say -- called "queer".
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"Queer" means "LGBT". Now, apparently there are some other letters after that, but they're
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too long and complicated for me to explain to you because I do not understand them. One
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thing that you have to be through this is understanding. Everyone is not a clear-cut
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image of what they should be. Some people hide things. "You have a penis? But you are
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just like a woman." Wow. Surprise? Go to Thailand. "Queer": lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender.
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Let's go through what these mean. A lot of the times, you'll see "LGBT community" or
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"LGBT-friendly". This means if you are lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, come on in. Sit
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down. Have a coffee. We don't care what you do behind closed doors.
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So "lesbian" -- a lot of people know from adult videos, and a lot of people like adult
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videos of lesbians. But do you know that there are real people that are really lesbians and
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they're not all beautiful porn stars? Oh, no. Lesbians are girls who like girls. If
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anyone's familiar with the bland Blur, you might know this song.
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"Gay" can mean both "lesbian" and "gay", but we usually use it for boys who like boys.
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"Girls who like girls who like boys who like boys" -- then we have "bisexual". Do you know
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that in English, "bi" means "two"? "Bicycle" -- "bisexual". "Bisexual" means if you're
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a boy, you like boys and girls. Anything goes. You're like, "I'll have that one and that
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one -- yeah. All of them. Come on. Let's go." Okay? We have slang for this. You could say,
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"He or she swings both ways." Badda, badda swing. So this means that they like boys and
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girls. Cool. Options are open.
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Another one that is in this acronym -- the T, "transgender". Now, "transgender" is a
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little bit difficult for me to explain to you, but I will try. "Transgender people"
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mean they are born with either male or female parts. For example, I was born with woman
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parts, but in my heart, in my soul, I don't think that I am a woman. I think that I am
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a man. So maybe I will wear men's clothes. Maybe I will outwardly look like a man, but
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I still have the female body parts. The same would go for a man who is transgender. This
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means that he has the man parts, but he feels like a woman. "Feel like a woman." Oh, yeah,
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it's karaoke time with Ronnie. Okay. So this means that the man may dress like a woman.
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Maybe they're very sexy. But then, it's a man. Cool. No problem. Don't be surprised.
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Just keep an open mind.
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We have some slang terms for lesbians. Now, please be careful when you are using slang.
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I don't care what the situation is; I don't care what the word is; be careful. Some people
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are sensitive. So we use the words "dyke" and "butch" to mean "lesbians". For gay men
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-- because they're men -- you have "twinkie" and "bear". Isn't that cute? From what I understand,
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a "twinkie" is a man who is very cute. Maybe he is younger. Maybe he acts a little bit
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more like a woman. Did I mention he's cute? He's so cute. Usually has beautiful, beautiful
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clothes. Again, I might be stereotyping, so I have to be careful. And a "bear" is a man
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who maybe, to you, looks more like a man. Now, "twinkies" are easier to see because
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they would be more effeminate, which mean they look more like a girl. "Bears" look more
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-- kind of like a bear -- like a man. They usually have a beard. They're usually muscular
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and hairy on the chest. So sexy those bears. So cute those twinkies. I don't really know
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any slang words for bisexual people. The only thing that I know is "somebody swings both
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ways".
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We have other terms for people who are gay. Somebody might say, "Hey. Have you seen Sharon?"
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"Oh, yes. She's sexy." "Unfortunately, Sharon plays for the other team." This means she
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is a lesbian. Or you might see a very handsome guy named Bob, and your friend says, "Bob
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plays for the other team." "Well, I play football with him on Monday nights. He's on my team."
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This means -- if someone "plays for the other team" -- that they're queer; they're lesbian
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or gay. Surprise. Football players can be gay. Loads of them.
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Another word for "bisexual" is that somebody "switches sides". So that means they go from
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one sex to another sex freely and happily.
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One thing that's really difficult for people to maybe understand or to realize is, is the
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person gay? Maybe in your country -- as I said before -- people hide being gay. That's
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cool. If you're ever in doubt, don't stare; don't laugh; don't look stupid. If you want
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to, you can ask them. It's an easy question. You can just say to the person, "Are you gay?"
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Believe me. They will tell you yes or no. So if you're worried about someone being gay,
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please ask them. Do them the common courtesy of asking them before talking about them.
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One way to find out without asking them, if you're a little shy, is some people will volunteer
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the information. They will say something like, "My partner is a good cook." "Do you have
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a business? Your business partner?" No. No. Usually -- not all the time -- but usually,
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if someone refers to someone as their "partner", it does mean that they're gay. But again,
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not all the time.
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There's another thing that's slang that we say is called a "gaydar". Oh, it's so clever.
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It's actually the word "radar" -- "gaydar". Get it? Ray, gay, radar, gaydar? Good. So
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"gaydar" means someone is very, very good at detecting or understanding if a person
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is gay or not. So some people have a very, very good gaydar. They can point out a gay
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person a mile away. This is a good skill to have especially if you are gay. If you are
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sitting on the subway and you see a handsome boy or a sexy girl and you want to say hi,
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just do so. Don't be afraid. Jump right in.
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We have something in Canada that is huge. It's called "Pride", "Gay Pride". There's
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a huge parade, I believe, on Saturdays -- one Saturday every year. There's a lesbian parade
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-- or the "Dyke March". And then on Sundays -- usually Canada Day or before Canada Day,
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there's the big, big gay parade. There are lots of naked people. So if you'd like to
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see naked people, come to Canada this Sunday, and you can see lots of gay people walking
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on the street. You can take pictures and send them back to your mom. This is what I've seen
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in Canada mom. Would you like one? Bye. Be gay.
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