Stop procrastinating and start learning!

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English with Emma


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Hello.
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My name is Emma, and I have a question for you.
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I want you to imagine this.
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Imagine you have a big English test that's going to happen very soon.
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What do you do?
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Okay? And I want you to be honest.
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Do you open up your book and study right away, and every day study for your test?
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Do you think about your test, feel a little bit sad and maybe go on Facebook?
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Do you, instead of studying, text your friends?
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Or do you think about studying, but instead just watch TV?
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Okay, a lot of students will say that they open up their book and study, but in reality
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a lot of people don't do this.
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A lot of people before tests or presentations or work get really, really nervous, and they
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do something different. Okay?
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They don't want to do the studying, they don't want to do the hard work, they're really afraid
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to do it so instead they do something like go on Facebook, call their friends, go to the mall.
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Okay?
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These are all examples, two, three, and four that is...
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These three are examples of procrastination.
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Okay?
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So, "procrastination" is maybe a new word for you, but it's a very, very important word
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if you are a student or, you know, even if you work.
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It's actually an important word for everybody because most people procrastinate.
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So what does procrastination mean?
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Well, it's when you have something you have to do, but instead of doing what you have
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to do, you do something else that's more fun, and you keep thinking:
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"I'll come back to this", but you're very busy with these other things.
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So let's look at some examples of the word procrastination.
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We have it as a verb, an action: "I am procrastinating."
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Because I'm not studying, I'm on Facebook, I'm procrastinating.
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"I'm not studying. I procrastinate a lot."
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Here we have another verb form. Okay?
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"I procrastinate a lot", which means: I don't study, I don't do my English homework; instead,
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I spend a lot of time texting my friends and doing anything but English.
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I can also use it as a noun: "My procrastination is really bad."
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Okay?
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My procrastination is bad.
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I have a problem with procrastination.
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So this means I have a problem getting stuff done because I don't really want to do it,
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I'd rather focus on doing Facebook or something else.
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Or we can also have it as a noun to say what we are.
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"I'm a procrastinator."
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A procrastinator is a person.
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Okay? So I'm a teacher, that's a person.
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When I was in university sometimes I was a procrastinator.
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This means before any big test or presentation I'd start working on it, and then I'd do something
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else because I'm a procrastinator.
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Okay? So let's...
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We're going to talk about why people procrastinate, and then we're going to talk about
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how to fight procrastination. Okay?
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Because it's something we all need to fight.
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Okay, so why do people procrastinate?
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That's a very good question.
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Okay?
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So, different people procrastinate for different reasons, but usually a lot of the times people
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have the same reasons for procrastinating.
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People procrastinate when they think something is difficult.
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Okay?
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So for me I find math difficult, so when I used to do math I would procrastinate and
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I would do something else like, you know, make a sandwich or clean my room even because
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the math seemed so difficult to me, anything was better than doing the math.
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So I would always get distracted.
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A lot of people find English grammar difficult, and when they're studying grammar a lot of
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the times they procrastinate, they text their friends or they, you know, do anything but grammar.
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Boring.
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A lot of people procrastinate when something is boring.
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They don't want to do it because it's...
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You know, they want to do something interesting.
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People procrastinate when something is a lot of work.
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Okay? And they know it's a lot of work, so they look at the task and it's just too much, so
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then they want to feel good, so they do something else.
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A lot of people also procrastinate just because they're scared or they're afraid.
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They want to do something well, and they don't think that they can so it well, so you know...
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Or, you know, they're worried about making mistakes, so a lot of the times people procrastinate
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because of fear.
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People procrastinate because of stress.
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You know, they have stressful jobs, they have all these stressful things going on, so they
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just want to relax.
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They don't want to do things that cause stress.
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Because if you think about it, you want to be doing something, you know, that makes you feel happy.
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For a lot of these things because they don't make you feel happy you don't want to do them,
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and that's why people procrastinate.
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But you'll actually find that usually the thing that you have to do isn't that bad.
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It's actually your mind and the way you think about things that make it seem very bad and
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very scary, but a lot of the times actually it's just once you start it's a lot easier.
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So let's look at some ways to fight procrastination, because almost everybody procrastinates and
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there are some really good ways to stop procrastinating.
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So, I want you to think about something in your life right now, something that you have
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to do but you don't really want to do it, and you keep procrastinating.
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Maybe you have to write an English essay, maybe you have a test coming up, or a big
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presentation, or a job interview. Okay?
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It can be so many different things.
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Maybe you actually just hate cleaning the dishes, you hate washing the dishes and you
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have a sink filled with them.
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So these are things we can procrastinate about.
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For me, I have a big presentation in two weeks-oh no!-and I have to get started on it.
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So I've been procrastinating, so now I'm going to use some of these tips to fight procrastination. Okay?
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So, to get started with our fight against procrastination,
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I want you to look at this as three parts.
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We need to fight procrastination before we start our task or our activity.
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So, for example, if you're studying for a test, you need to start the fight before you start studying.
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We also need to fight procrastination while we're studying or, you know, working on our
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presentation or whatever, and there's things we can do after we finish our task.
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Okay? So there's three stages to this and we'll go over each one.
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So, before you start what you're procrastinating on, before you start the work you have to
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do, the difficult, scary work, there's a couple of things you can do so you don't feel so
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scared or, you know, so you're not so worried about what you have to do.
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First of all, this is probably one of the most important tips: You need to give yourself time to accomplish things.
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People always underestimate how long something takes.
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Okay?
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So a lot of people, they think: "Oh, I have a test.
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I'll study the night before.
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You know, it's okay, I'll learn everything. It doesn't take me a lot of time."
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You really do need time to learn.
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Learning takes time. Okay?
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It's actually better to do a little bit every day, than to do everything the night before,
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especially for learning a language, you learn more by doing a little bit every day than
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all at the same time.
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So give yourself time to finish what you need to do.
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No cramming, which means don't do everything right before it's due because you're going
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to have so much stress and you're not going to be able to do things as well.
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So give yourself time.
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Set up a schedule. Okay?
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So if you're studying, what days are you going to study on?
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How long will you study each day?
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Maybe you'll just do 20 minutes a day, maybe 30 minutes a day, maybe an hour a day, but
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it's good to set up a schedule.
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So Monday I do this much time, Tuesday this much, Wednesday this much, etc.
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Again, if you're learning a language or you have a test coming up, a little bit each day
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is the way to go.
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Okay? You remember a lot more by doing this.
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So plan for to do a little bit every day for tests.
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At night, the night before you start your task...
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So, for example, imagine I want to study on Monday - Sunday night what I'm going to do
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is I'm going to come up with a list and I'm going to think about:
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What do I need to do for Monday?
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Okay?
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The reason it's good to come up with a to-do list at night is right before bed if you make
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your to-do list while you're sleeping your brain is doing a lot of work, and your brain
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is actually going to start working on some of these things you need to get done and it's
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going to prepare you for it.
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So it's really, really good to make your to-do list the night before so your brain is ready
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to go the next day when you actually have to do the task.
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Okay?
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I actually found this one to be a very interesting tip because I never knew that, but when I
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started learning about procrastination I found that that can really help you with your procrastination.
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Another thing that's very important to do the night before is to decide:
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What time will you start and what time will you finish?
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A lot of people just decide on what time they will start at.
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"I'm going to start studying at 1pm."
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And then they have the whole day and there's no finish time, so you know what this does?
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It makes studying look terrible because it just seems like something that's just going
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to go on forever, and then that's why they get so distracted because you don't have a finish time.
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Okay? So you have no idea of when the pain of studying is going to finish.
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It's a lot better to decide a finish time, and once you finish, relax.
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Give yourself a break.
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You don't have to worry about what you were working on.
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Okay? So have a start time and a finish time.
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Now let's look at some more tips.
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Okay, so we just have a couple more things you can do before you start.
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Actually before you start I have the most tips because I think getting yourself ready
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and your brain in the right mindset can really help you stop procrastination.
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So my next tip is: Think about when will be a good time to work on what you need to do.
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For different people times can be different.
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Some people love doing things really late at night, some people like doing things in the morning.
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It's also good to think about: When will you be the least distracted?
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If your favourite TV show comes on at 4 o'clock, 4 o'clock is probably not a good time to study
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or work on your presentation because you're going to want to watch the TV show.
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Right?
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So think about when is a time where there's not a lot of distractions and when you feel
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comfortable getting a lot of work done.
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Another example of this is think about with food.
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For me, whenever I eat lunch right after I feel kind of tired, so for me, putting a huge
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project to do after lunch, I'm not going to want to do it.
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I'm going to feel, you know, too tired to do it.
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Whereas for me, doing things in the morning, I tend to get the most done in the morning.
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So know yourself and know what is a good time for you.
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Another good idea is a lot of students have these big goals.
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"I want to learn English", "I want to learn, you know, the present perfect", you know,
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they have a lot of goals, and thinking about the big goal is good, but if you think too
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much on it, it can become very stressful because you think about:
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"Oh my god, I have so much work to do."
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It's actually better to take the big goal and put it into smaller goals.
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Okay? So, for example, imagine my big goal is: I will learn the present perfect.
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Okay? This is what I want to do.
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I need to learn the present perfect.
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This is a good goal, but it's nicer if you put it into smaller goals.
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A smaller goal might be: "I will study the present perfect for 20 minutes."
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Okay?
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This goal, then you can look and you can think: "Did I study the present perfect for 20 minutes?
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Yes I did."
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Okay? So you can be more accountable for your goals, and it's actually better to focus on time
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than on product. Okay?
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So what do I mean by that?
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Well, in this case I'm saying: "I will study the present perfect for 20 minutes."
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If you can think about an amount of time you want to spend on something-usually 20 or 25
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minutes is really good-it will help you get over your procrastination.
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Focus on how long something's...
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How long you can work on something.
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Usually it's less scary and difficult if you just think: "Okay, I'll spend 20 minutes on this."
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And if you spend more, great, but, you know, just having an amount of time can really be
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less stressful than thinking: "I have to learn the present perfect."
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Okay? Which would be the product.
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So focus on time, how long something takes, and you know, how much time you're going to
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spend on it, versus you know, focusing on the product at the end.
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All right, now let's look at some more tips.
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Okay, so now, you know, you're actually ready to begin what you need to do.
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Okay?
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So this is how we stop procrastination.
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The first rule is the most important: You need to remove distractions.
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So what's a distraction?
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A distraction is something that's going to take your attention away from what you're doing.
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So, for example, Facebook is a big distraction.
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Instagram, Snapchat, YouTube, you know, all sorts of different things.
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Netflix, movies, TV, your cellphone.
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If you have friends who are constantly messaging you, that's a big distraction. Okay?
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It might even be something, like, in your house.
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Maybe your mom vacuums, that's a big distraction if you're trying to get some work done.
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Or maybe, you know...
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It can be all sorts of different things.
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Maybe your roommate is very loud and has a lot of friends over, that can be a distraction.
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So what you need to do is you need to find a place that is quiet where you won't lose your focus.
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And again, number one thing: Turn off your cellphone.
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I would not even bring my cellphone to where I'm going because I know the distraction to
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want to turn it on and look at it is too much for me.
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So I won't even bring it if I'm studying or working on a presentation.
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Okay? So know what your distractions are, and make sure you get rid of them, you put them away
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before you start.
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It's also important to remember that getting started is actually the hardest part.
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A lot of the times when we procrastinate it's because we're afraid.
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We have a lot of fear or we think something's really hard, but usually getting started is
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the hardest part.
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So keep that in mind.
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I'm a big fan of the Nike expression: "Just do it."
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I think this is a really good expression for when we're talking about getting something done.
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We have all these thoughts in our mind: "Oh, I'd rather do this.
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I don't know, it's so hard."
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Just tell your brain to be quiet and just do it.
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Start.
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That's what this means.
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Just start on what you need to get done.
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So, one thing you can do is if it's really hard and you're really, you know, not in the
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mood to do something, give it five minutes because usually if you just tell yourself:
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"I'm going to just do this for five minutes", usually that's what you need to get started.
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Okay? So usually you'll actually go a lot farther than five minutes, but just give yourself
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five minutes and see if, you know, maybe that will be enough to get you started.
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You can also try the 25-minute technique.
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For most people 25 minutes is bearable, it's something you can do.
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So what I like to do, I have here my alarm clock or my timer and I will set this for
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25 minutes, and then I start working on what I have to do, and then after 25 minutes this rings.
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Instead of focusing on what I have to get done, again, focusing on time:
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"I'm going to work on this for 25 minutes", is very helpful for getting over procrastination.
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Another important tip is: Know yourself, and know about secret distractions.
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Okay? We talked about Facebook, we talked about Instagram, we talked about your friends text
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messaging you - those are the obvious distractions, but there are also secret distractions.
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What are some of these secret distractions?
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Well maybe you're in your room and it's messy.
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So while you're trying to get to work, you think: "Oh, wow, my room's really messy right now, I need to clean it right away."
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Or you have dishes in the sink: "Oh, you know what?
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Before I start I'm going to do these dishes."
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These things that seem like they're good to do are really just distractions, too.
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So be careful of the secret distractions. Okay?
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You know what you need to get done, focus on that.
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Different people have different techniques in terms of what to start with.
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Some people like to start with the hardest part.
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Okay?
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Because that way, once you get started on that, you know, you know everything's going
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to be a bit easier.
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Other people like to actually do the thing that's going to take the least amount of time,
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so they choose the thing they can do the fastest.
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The nice thing about this is if you start with the fastest thing then it usually gets
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you in the mood to do more work.
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So, you know, test them both out, see what works for you because different people are different.
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So you can start with the hardest thing or the thing that will be the fastest to do.
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So, after you finish...
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After you've done all this and you've been working and you've finished what you're doing,
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and you know, again, you have a lot of time, you do a little bit every day, it's very,
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very important to reward yourself.
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Do something nice for yourself to tell yourself: "You know what?
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I did a lot of work today, I worked on, you know, IELTS for 25 minutes.
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I worked on my presentation for half an hour", it's a really good thing to reward yourself
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because then you'll have positive experiences with these things and it'll be easier to start
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the next time because it's not going to seem so bad, and you know that there's something
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good at the end of it.
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Another tip I would say for after you finish, think about what you just did.
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Think about what made you maybe procrastinate.
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What were your triggers?
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What caused you to procrastinate?
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Is it the work was too hard?
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Was it scary?
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Think about: Was it really that bad?
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Or were you way more scared before you began than while you were actually doing it?
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Maybe, you know, you were distracted this time, so maybe you can write down:
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What was that distraction, and how can you stop those distractions in the future?
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Each time we do something it's not going to be perfect, so sometimes you may have a better
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time fighting procrastination, other times maybe you're not so successful.
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But the key here is these tips will really, really help you be successful more often.
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Okay?
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So, I hope you've enjoyed this video.
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I think there are a lot of very important tips here that can really, really help you
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with your English-language learning because one of the most difficult things with learning
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a language is getting distracted and procrastinating because we feel, you know, bad when we don't
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know how to say something or when the work is hard.
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So you can do it.
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You can totally do it.
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Follow these tips, and they will really, really help you with your English-language learning
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or whatever projects you're doing.
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I hope you subscribe to my YouTube channel.
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I have a lot of great resources there.
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Although, if you have something important to do, I don't want you to procrastinate by watching me.
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You know, but if you're learning English this is something you can do.
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So, subscribe to my channel and also I invite you to visit our website at www.engvid.com.
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There, you can actually do a quiz and practice all of the tips you learned today,
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along with your English.
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Until next time, thank you for watching and take care.
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