“THANKS”: 5 Common Expressions (that don’t all mean the same thing!)

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Hi there, my name is Emma, and in today's video, we are going to learn some great expressions
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with the word "thank you" or "thanks" in them.
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So, many of you know the word "thank you", but did you know the expressions "thanks anyway"
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or "thank you though" or "thanks but no thanks"?
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Even though these expressions have the word "thank you" or "thanks" in them, they actually
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have a different meaning than "thank you".
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So, in today's lesson, I'm going to teach you the many different meanings of these words.
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So, let's get started by talking about the most basic, which you probably already know,
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which is "thank you".
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So, "thank you" is one of the most common expressions we use in English.
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What does it mean?
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Well, we use it when someone helps us or does something nice for us.
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How do we use it?
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Well, we can just say "thank you".
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We can say "thank you very much", or if there is something specific we want to thank a person
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for, we can say "thank you for something".
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So, for example, "thank you for your help", "thank you for the gift", "thank you for coming
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to my party".
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So, this is, again, one of the most common things we use in English, and the answer to
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"thank you" in English is "you're welcome" or "it's no problem".
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Well, sometimes we might want to speak a little bit more informally, especially if we're talking
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with our friends or our family.
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So, another way to say "thank you" is to say "thanks".
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So, notice we don't have "you" after that, we just say "thanks" with an S. Again, this
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is not formal, so I usually don't use this in writing business emails or, you know, business
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letters.
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It's informally used often with friends and family.
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So, how do we use this?
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Well, for example, I can use it on its own, like "thanks", or if there's something specific
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I want to say "thank you" for, I can say "thanks for something".
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So, for example, "thanks for your help", "thanks for the gift", "thanks for coming".
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So, these are the most common expressions using "thank" or "thank you".
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Now, let's look at some of the other expressions I mentioned, including "thanks anyway", "thanks
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though", and "thanks, but no thanks".
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Okay, so we've just talked about the expressions "thank you" and "thanks", and we're going
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to look at some more "thank" expressions, but before we do that, I just wanted to call
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your attention to the "th" in "thanks" and "thank you", and "thanks anyway".
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Many students have trouble with "th".
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It's a difficult sound.
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In English, when we pronounce "th", our tongue has to come a little out of our mouth and
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touch our top teeth.
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So, I'll show you what this looks like.
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Notice my tongue comes out and it touches the top teeth.
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So, when I am pronouncing "thanks", I want you to pay attention to what my mouth is doing,
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because this can help your pronunciation, too.
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If you don't say "thanks", it might sound like "tanks", which is a totally different
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word that has different meanings.
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So, let's now look at the next expression that has the word "thanks" in it.
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We have "thanks anyway" or "thanks anyways", so I'll tell you the difference between these
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two in a moment, but first let's talk about "thanks anyway".
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What does this mean?
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It has a different meaning than "thank you".
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When we say "thanks anyway", we use this when we ask someone for help and they can't give
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us the help we need.
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So, for example, maybe you go to a store and you ask where they, you know, keep the apples.
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You want to buy apples, you say, "Oh, hi, I'd like to buy some apples.
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Where are the apples?"
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And maybe the store has no apples, so they say, "Sorry, we're out of apples.
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No apples today."
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Your response would be, "Oh, thanks anyway."
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So, again, you didn't get the help you wanted, but you still, in English, will say something
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like "thanks anyway".
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So, let's look at another example of this.
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So, we have here Jack and Jill.
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So, Jack and Jill are friends.
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Jack says to Jill, "Hey, Jill, can you drive me to the airport?"
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And Jill says, "Mm, I can't.
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My car is at the mechanic."
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So, this means Jill's car is not working; it's at the mechanic to get fixed.
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So, Jill doesn't have her car.
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So, what does Jack say?
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Well, Jack says, "Oh, thanks anyway."
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Did Jill actually help Jack?
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No, Jill did not help Jack, but Jack still says "thanks anyway".
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Okay.
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So, what about "thanks any ways"?
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You might hear English speakers say this.
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"Thanks anyway" is the more formal or more correct expression, but if you like slang,
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and I love slang, you might actually say "thanks anyways", which is just the informal way or
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the more slang version of "thanks anyway".
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So, you can use either of these.
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This is a little bit more formal, and this is more slang.
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All right, so now let's look at some other expressions.
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Let's look at "thanks, though" and "thanks, but no thanks".
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Okay, so our next expression might be a little difficult for some of you to pronounce, and
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that's because "thanks, though" has two th's in it.
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So, if you have trouble with the th sound, this expression might be a little more difficult
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for you.
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So, it's an important expression.
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We use it a lot in conversation.
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What does it mean when we say "thanks, though"?
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Well, before we get to the meaning, I just want to focus a little bit on the pronunciation.
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You might already know this, but in English, O-U-G-H has different ways we can pronounce
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it depending on the word.
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In this word, "though", it sounds just like the letter O, "though".
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So, even though you have these four letters, this is how I would spell it for pronunciation
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reasons.
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The real spelling is this one, of course.
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So, if you're writing it, write this, but this is what the pronunciation would look
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like, "though".
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So, "thanks, though", what does it mean?
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Well, we use it when someone wants to help us.
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They offer us something, maybe they try to give us something, or maybe they want to do
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something for us, but we don't want the help.
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For different reasons, maybe we don't need the help, maybe we actually don't want the
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help, but the problem is, we can't just say, "No, I don't want your help," or "No, I don't
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want that.
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I don't need that."
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If you say this, it might sound a little rude and impolite.
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So, "thanks, though" is the polite way to say, "I don't want the help or your offer."
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So, let's look at an example of this.
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So, we have here our good friend, Mickey.
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Mickey says to Minnie, "Hey, Minnie, can I buy you a coffee?"
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Well, Minnie already has a coffee.
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She knows she has a coffee at her office, so she doesn't want the coffee.
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So instead of saying, "I don't want a coffee," which might sound a little rude, Minnie says,
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"I have one, so I have a coffee.
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Thanks though."
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So, you see, "thanks though" means you appreciate the offer, even though you're not taking the
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offer.
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Let's look at a couple more examples of "thanks though".
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Alright, so now let's look at some more examples of the word "thanks though".
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So, we have here Barbie, and what does Barbie say?
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Well, Barbie says to Ken, her boyfriend, she says, "I'm going to the beach.
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Want to come?"
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Well, Ken, unfortunately, doesn't want to come.
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So, what does he say?
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He wants to be polite.
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He can't say, "I don't want to go, Barbie."
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So what does he say?
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He says, "Oh, I can't.
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I have work.
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Thanks though for the invite."
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So, again, this is where something is offered.
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In this case, Barbie offers Ken an invitation to the beach.
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Ken doesn't or can't go, so he says, "I can't.
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I have work.
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Thanks though."
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Now, we have Tony and Jen.
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Tony is at Jen's house, and he sees Jen cooking, and he says, "Can I give you a hand with dinner?"
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This means, "Can I help you make dinner?"
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And Jen says, "It's already cooking.
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Thanks though."
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So, Jen is not taking Tony's help.
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You know, it could be true.
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Dinner's already cooking.
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She doesn't need his help.
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So, Tony offered, Jen refuses the help, so she uses "thanks though".
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So, now let's look at another example of an expression with "thanks".
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We're going to now look at "thanks, but no thanks".
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Okay.
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So, this might be the funniest expression I'm going to teach you today.
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The expression is "thanks, but no thanks".
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So, you have to be careful with this expression, and the reason is it has multiple meanings.
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So, it has different meanings, and you can usually tell the meaning based on a person's
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voice or their tone, so how they say it.
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So, I'm going to give you some examples of "thanks, but no thanks".
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So, the first meaning is a little impolite.
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So, I would not use this with my boss.
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I might not, you know, it depends on the situation, but it can sound rude, so you have to be careful.
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And it means a strong rejection, so this means you're really saying no, okay?
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It's a very strong no.
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So, let me give you an example.
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So, for some people, they are afraid of bugs, and insects, and spiders.
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That's how some people feel about bugs and insects.
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So nowadays, some people actually might cook using insects, like grasshoppers and crickets.
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So, imagine this.
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We'll go back to Jen and Tony.
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Jen says, "Oh, I cooked a dish with insects.
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I cooked some food with grasshoppers in it.
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Do you want some?"
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And Tony, who does not like insects and thinks that they're gross, says, "Ugh, thanks, but
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no thanks."
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So, this is a strong rejection, he's saying, "No, absolutely not."
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Again, tone is important.
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You can also use this when you're telling a story about something that happened, and
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you want to show to your audience or the listener that you didn't like something.
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So, for example, imagine you have a teacher, and your teacher gives you homework on Christmas.
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You might say to your friends, "Ugh, my teacher wants us to study and do our homework on Christmas.
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Thanks but no thanks."
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So, again, it has a little bit of attitude, "Thanks, but no thanks."
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So, again, this expression shows that you disagree with something strongly.
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Now, we can also use this, "Thanks but no thanks", a little bit more politely, but again,
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it depends on our voice and on our tone and the situation.
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If my mother says, "Emma, do you want a little bit more salad?", I might say, "Ugh, thanks
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but no thanks."
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And because of the way I use my voice, it doesn't sound rude.
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So, your tone for this word or this expression really matters.
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If my mom offers me salad, and she says, "Emma, do you want some salad?", and I say, "Ugh,
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mom, thanks but no thanks", then that's a strong rejection.
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So, it depends on how you say it.
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Now, one more thing I want to add is "thanks but no thanks" is a funny expression, and
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so it's actually been made into many GIFs, or some people will pronounce this as GIFs,
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or memes.
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So, if you're somebody that likes to use memes and GIFs, you can search "thanks but no thanks"
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and see many different examples of GIFs using this.
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All right, well, so let's now look at some examples of all of these, and let's practice
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using them in some actual questions.
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All right, so let's practice what you have learned.
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So, I have your three questions, and I want you to fill in the blanks with either "thanks
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though", "thanks anyway", "thanks but no thanks", or just "thanks" or "thank you".
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So, think about the context and the situation, and which answer is the most appropriate.
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So, my first question, George says to his friend Sheila, "Hey, I have an extra movie
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ticket.
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Do you want it?"
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And Sheila says, "No, I have work tonight."
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So, what does Sheila say?
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"Thanks, though."
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So, again, "thanks, though" we use when we are offered something, but we don't want it,
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or we can't use it.
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So, I say, "Thanks, though."
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Okay, so our next question, the president wants to raise taxes by 500%.
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So, what do the people say?
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Are the people happy with this?
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I don't think so.
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I think the people would be very angry, and they would probably show a strong rejection.
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So, what do you think the people will say?
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"Thanks, but no thanks."
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So, the people say, "Thanks, Mr. President, but no thanks."
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So, "Thanks, but no thanks."
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Okay, so our final example, Paul from the Beatles asks Ringo to play at his concert.
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And Paul's very excited, he says, "Ringo, can you play at my concert?"
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But Ringo, unfortunately, is busy.
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He's having dinner with the Queen of England, so he can't make it.
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So, Ringo says, "No, sorry, I can't."
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What does Paul say?
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So, again, Ringo's not helping him with the concert, so Paul would say, "Thanks, anyway."
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Because he's not getting the help he's asking for.
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"Thanks, anyway," but he still wants to be polite.
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And there you have it.
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So, for more practice, you can come visit our website at www.engvid.com, and there you
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will find a longer quiz where you can practice everything you learned in this video, all
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the different expressions we covered.
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