I listened to 100 minutes of English conversation and discovered these 100+ IDIOMS!

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- Should I use idioms in IELTS speaking? And how many?
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Absolutely lots. Maybe one or two.
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One teacher said 33. How do I learn idioms, anyway?
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I don't know. I need some help.
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Need some help with idioms? Let's do it.
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(bright upbeat music)
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Should I use idioms in IELTS speaking? And how many?
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These are questions that many students struggle with.
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Oh, an idiom, by the way, is an expression
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or a phrase that has a different meaning
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from the individual words.
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For example, to hang up your boots.
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Here are my boots, right?
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And if I hang up, I put on the wall, literally.
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But idiomatically, it means to retire or stop working.
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Traditionally for sports people, but nowadays for anybody.
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Now you've probably learned idioms in your English class,
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watching YouTube videos, but you are still not sure
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how common they really are and how many you should use
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in IELTS speaking.
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Now I know social media can be confusing.
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There's different pieces of information, but don't worry.
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'Cause in this video I'm gonna give you
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a simple answer to two questions.
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How common are idioms in English?
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And how many should you use in your IELTS speaking test?
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Oh, as a bonus, I'm also gonna give you
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50 idioms that I discovered, not learned,
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but I discovered through my mini-research for this video.
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So this was my experiment.
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I wanted to discover how common idioms are
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in spoken English.
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So I listened to 100 minutes of natural spoken conversation.
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I actually listened to five episodes
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of a popular English radio drama
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based on everyday life of common British folk.
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So I listened to their conversations in houses, in pubs,
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on the farm, in shops and so on,
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to learn how many idioms we really use.
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If anybody happens to be watching this who is British,
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first of all, why are you watching?
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Secondly, you may laugh because the episodes I watched
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were from a radio show called "The Archers,"
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which is as old as the hills.
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But actually it's really, really good.
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You can get hooked on it.
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So that was it, based on "The Arches."
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But it is perfect for analyzing natural spoken,
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conversational English.
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So I listened to 100 minutes of conversation,
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and here's the result.
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I discovered they used 150, more or less, idioms.
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Now you can probably do the math,
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but that means 1.5 idioms per minute.
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Let's say three idioms every two minutes.
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Now, if you are thinking about IELTS speaking part two,
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speaking for two minutes, that would be three idioms.
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A small caveat, this was a radio drama.
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So the language was maybe a little bit more colorful
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than normal spoken English, a little bit.
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So as a guide, I would be saying probably
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in natural spoken, in conversational English,
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we use one idiom per minute.
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This is not a scientific conclusion. English is not maths.
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But as a rough guide or a rule of thumb, as we say,
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one idiom per minute.
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And this can be useful, because people may think,
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yeah, every sentence must have an idiom,
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or English people never use idioms.
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Well, actually, yes, we do.
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We use them quite a lot, not all the time.
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And please don't count idioms.
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Don't try and structure your IELTS answer around idioms.
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Don't try and squeeze them in. It's like, oh, it's a minute.
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I must use an idiom. No, no, no.
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But as a very rough guide,
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if you're using one idiom per minute, that's great.
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In your whole test, maybe you use three or four, it's fine.
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Just to give you an idea.
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Now, probably what's more interesting for you
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is the idioms I discovered.
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I'm gonna share 50 of them.
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I was gonna share 100 and share the links to the episodes
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so you could listen and get the context.
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Not that you would. That's too much hard work.
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I know. Not many people would do that.
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But what I discovered was,
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oh, they've archived the episodes.
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You cannot access them.
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So that wouldn't help you anyway. So there's no context.
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So what I've done instead, I've taken 50
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of what I feel are the more common idioms.
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I've put them into categories
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of topics like relationships, work, food,
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to help you understand them and learn them in a better way.
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So here they are, 50 of those idioms
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that were coming from this radio show,
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natural spoken English conversations.
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I'll tell you the idiom, tell you what it means,
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and that's it.
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Bob's your uncle. (laughing)
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So the context of this radio show,
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it's like a soap opera or a drama.
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Is it's families, different families in a small village
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called Ambridge in the UK.
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And it's about their daily lives.
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It's conversations in the pub, in the church.
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There are social events, there's shopping,
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all sorts of stuff goes on.
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Very natural spoken, conversational English.
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The categories that I've put them into to help you
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are work, disagreeing, feelings, gossip, (whispering)
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relationships, ideas, bing,
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food, of course, and shopping.
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Okay, are you ready for a rollercoaster of idioms?
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Let's begin with work.
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Number one, a busman's holiday.
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A busman is a person who drives a bus, right?
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A busman's holiday is when your holiday or your free time
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is spent doing what you usually do for work.
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So if I went to Poland on holiday, and I met people,
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and they wanted me to teach them English,
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and I taught them English, that would be a busman's holiday.
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Number two, I got caught up in some work.
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To get caught up in something is to become
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involved in a task or a job
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for a longer time than expected.
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So this may be used for example,
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if you are late for a meeting or for dinner with your spouse
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and you say, "I'm sorry, love.
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I got caught up in some work."
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Next, you really know your stuff,
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or you really know your onions.
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It means that somebody, it's a compliment,
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for somebody to say that somebody is very knowledgeable,
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or they know their subject or their field really well.
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When it comes to cooking,
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Jamie Oliver really knows his stuff.
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Number four, I've hung up my boots.
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To hang up your boots, remember,
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is to retire or to stop working.
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Number five, all your hard work has really paid off.
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And this is where the effort you put into a task
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has resulted in a good successful outcome.
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For example, if you studied hard for the exam,
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and then you pass, all that effort paid off, right?
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The hard work really paid off.
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Next, it turned out great.
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To turn out good or great is to be
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when something is successful,
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often better than expected.
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For example, we had a party last week.
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I didn't organize it very well,
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but in the end, it turned out great.
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Next, don't worry, I'm on top of it.
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I'm on top of it means that I am fully in control
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of the situation and handling it competently.
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So maybe your boss says,
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"Listen, have you finished the work yet?"
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You say, "Yep, don't worry.
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I'm on top of it." I'm controlling it.
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Next, I don't want to pull rank, but...
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To pull rank is to show or assert your authority
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or seniority to control a situation.
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So let's imagine a manager speaks to an employee
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and the manager says, "I think we should do this."
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And the employee says, "No, I disagree."
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The manager may say, "Okay."
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More likely the manager will say,
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"Listen, I don't want to pull rank,
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but we are going to do it my way." (laughing)
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So it's a polite way of showing his authority
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to control the situation, right?
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I don't want to pull rank.
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The rank refers to the level often in the army, right?
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Soldier, lieutenant, general, captain, different ranks.
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Next, I handed in my notice.
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To hand in your notice is to resign
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by giving a formal notification to the company.
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Next one, she has put blood, sweat, and tears
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into this place.
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Blood, sweat, and tears is to put
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a lot of hard work, dedication, and energy into a task.
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This was a situation they were talking about.
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A shop. The owner wanted to sell the shop.
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The manager had worked so hard to make it successful,
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and their friends said, "Listen, you can't sell the shop,
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'cause the manager has put blood, sweat,
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and tears into this place."
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Next, everything went pear-shaped.
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So a pear is the fruit.
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To go pear-shaped is basically when something goes wrong,
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turns out badly, often unexpectedly.
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They were talking about when the manager
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wasn't working one day, everything went wrong.
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Everything went pear-shaped.
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To boss me about.
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To boss someone about is to give them orders
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or try to control them,
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to manage what they're doing, to control what they're doing.
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So sometimes workers will say they don't like their bosses,
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because the boss will boss them about as a verb, right?
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Don't boss me about.
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Next one. You've had a lot on recently.
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This means that you've had a lot of work to do.
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We can say have a lot on your plate,
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or just to have a lot on.
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So I'm sorry I didn't finish that task,
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but I've had a lot on lately.
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Finally, I will run everything by you first.
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If I run something by you,
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it means I will tell you about something
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and get your approval or your ideas about it
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before I make a decision.
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And here again, they were talking about selling the shop
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and the owner said, "Listen, I'm sorry.
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But I will run everything by you first in future."
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So that they are all involved in the decision making.
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To run something by you.
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Nothing to do with running.
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It's just to share the idea with you first.
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That's it, idioms related to work.
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Let's move on to the next topic. Disagreeing.
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Okay, here we go. Seven idioms to do with disagreeing.
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First one, they're going to kick up a stink.
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To kick up a stink is also
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to kick up a fuss.
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We use both idioms.
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And it means to disagree strongly
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and protest against something, right?
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It's quite strong.
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A stink is just something, a very, very bad smell.
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So imagine you're gonna have a party for your family,
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but you decide not to invite Uncle Tom and his family.
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Uncle Tom will probably kick up a stink.
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He will disagree and protest and say, "No, we must come.
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It's a family party."
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They're going to kick up a stink or kick up a fuss.
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Next one, they're going to fight tooth and nail for it.
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To fight tooth and nail for something
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is to fight very strongly for something.
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A situation where maybe two families want to buy
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a property and both of them really want it.
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So they're going to fight tooth and nail
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to get that property.
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I beg to differ. (laughing)
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It sounds very polite, but it's not.
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It's just normal. I beg to differ.
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It means I disagree.
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So if you disagree with someone, you can just say,
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"Well, no, actually I beg to differ.
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I think da, da, da, da, da."
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The next two idioms are actually quite similar.
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The first one, let's not nitpick.
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To nitpick. Nitpick
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Drop the T sound normally. Nitpick.
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To nitpick is to focus on the small details
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or small mistakes rather than the bigger picture.
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So we often say, "Don't nitpick."
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For example, here's my plan for next year.
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And what do you think?
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Oh, you've spelt this word wrong.
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It's missing a full stop.
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Oh, come on, don't nitpick.
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Is it a good plan or not?
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Similar expression. You're splitting hairs.
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To split hairs, those of you who have hair,
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especially women may know, long hair.
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The hair at the end splits. Sometimes it opens.
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So to split hairs is to nitpick.
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It's to focus on small details or fault small mistakes
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that are not important, right?
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So I may say to that person, "Listen, all right,
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this word's spelt wrong, but come on.
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You're splitting hairs. That doesn't matter."
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Next, you are not going to drop it, are you?
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To drop it doesn't mean to drop it.
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It means to stop discussing a topic or an issue.
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So imagine again, we were talking about the plan,
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and my friend continues discussing the little mistakes
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and I say, "Listen, you are not gonna drop it, are you?
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You are not gonna stop discussing it?"
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Or I may say, "Listen, just drop it.
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Stop discussing it."
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Finally, no can do.
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And this is a simple phrase that just means
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it's a colloquial way of saying something cannot be done.
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It's not possible, right?
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Can we go out for dinner tomorrow? No can do.
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No, I can't. We can't.
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It's not possible for whatever reason.
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No can do, lovely. Let's move on.
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Right, let's look at feelings.
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The first two idioms are related
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to being angry or irritated.
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First one, I've had it up to here.
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And often we use this with a physical gesture.
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I've had it up to here. I've had it up to here.
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It means I'm really frustrated and annoyed
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or fed up with a situation.
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I've had it up to here with your nagging
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and nitpicking. (laughing)
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The next one, what really bugs me is...
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So when something bugs you, it irritates you
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or annoys you, makes you angry.
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That really bugs me. Makes me angry, okay?
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What really bugs me is people
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who don't pick up litter in the street.
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Next, I was over the moon.
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Just means to be very happy, really,
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you know, delighted about a situation.
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I passed my test. I was over the moon.
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The next one is about being nervous.
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To describe a situation where you are so nervous,
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you lose control of the situation.
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My nerves got the better of me.
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My nerves got the better of me.
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I was so nervous, I lost control.
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This may happen in your IELTS speaking test.
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You are so nervous that you can't speak properly.
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Your nerves get the better of you.
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Hopefully your nerves won't get the better of you,
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and you'll be calm and everything will go like a dream.
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What possessed you? (laughing)
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What possessed you?
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It's the idea that a spirit or a ghost possesses you
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and controls your behavior, so you do something stupid.
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Not stupid, irrational or unexpected.
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So you can say this to somebody who does something
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really irrational that is not good,
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and you want to know why.
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What possessed you?
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You told Uncle Tom he can't come to the party?
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Ah, what possessed you?
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He's going to kick up a real stink now. (laughing)
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What possessed you?
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And finally, I'm sorry. I got so worked up.
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To get worked up, to get worked up
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or to be worked up is to be agitated,
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emotionally excited, a bit out of control.
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Often you may say this after you've maybe
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got very angry with somebody and you've shouted at somebody
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and you say, "Oh, I'm sorry.
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Really, I'm sorry. I just, I got so worked up."
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Like, you were emotionally out of control.
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Lovely. Let's move on.
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Now the next topic is gossip.
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But just before I gossip,
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today's topic, I think idioms and how many to use
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is really important.
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But another important question I think,
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is how should I learn idioms, right?
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Because it's one thing to watch YouTube videos like this,
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and just listen to idioms or maybe pick up one or two.
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But it's another thing to really learn them
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so you can use them confidently,
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which is what you need for the IELTS speaking test.
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I think it's great to learn by topic as we are doing here,
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but it's really important that you hear the idiom
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in lots of different contexts.
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'Cause that's the only way you'll really learn
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when you can use that idiom.
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It's also important to learn, well,
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which words can you change or can you not change?
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Can you change the tense? How do you use it?
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How do you pronounce the different words?
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And that's why you can do this on your own,
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better if you've got a teacher.
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But if you don't have a teacher,
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I have a new course coming out,
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150 English Idioms for IELTS Speaking.
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And here there are 30 topics with idioms for each topic.
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I show you how to use them, when to use them,
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which words you can change, when you can't use it,
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how to pronounce it, and then get you practicing
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lots of examples.
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So it's a great way, systematic
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to learn 150 idioms that can really help you
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with your IELTS speaking and your general English ability.
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The course is coming out in a few days,
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so keep your eyes peeled on my website,
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Keith Speaking Academy on my social media,
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on the YouTube channel.
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I'll let you know all about it.
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In the meantime, let's get back to some gossip.
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Okay, gossip is where you tell people secret information
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or you spread rumors.
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Tell them things that should be confidential.
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The first one is between you and me.
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And this is when we say something
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that you want to be kept a secret or confidential.
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Great word, right? Confidential, secret.
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Between you and me, his plan is not very good, right?
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Meaning don't tell him.
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The example in the radio program was great.
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There were two men, two blokes.
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Blokes, two men sat in the pub chatting,
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and one bloke, well, his wife was angry with him
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and wouldn't speak to him.
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And so the bloke says to his friend,
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"Oh, I'm having a terrible time.
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My wife won't speak to me. I dunno what to do.
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And I feel terrible, because between you and me,
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I really love her."
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And the waitress walks past and says, "That's your problem.
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You really love her. That shouldn't be between you and him.
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You should tell her. It should be between you and her."
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(laughing) So true, right?
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Between you and me. Great connector if you like.
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The next one, a little bird tells me,
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or a little bird told me.
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And this is where it's a playful way
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to say that you've received information that
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is from a secret source that people didn't know, right?
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For example, somebody says, "Eh, I hear that Uncle Tom
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is not coming to the family party."
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"How did you know that?"
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"Well, a little bird told me." (laughing)
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Next one, word gets around.
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This expression basically means that information or rumors
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tend to spread very easily.
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Word gets around. "How did you know about Uncle Tom?"
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"Well, word gets around, right?"
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Finally, spill the beans.
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And you'll say this when you want to ask somebody
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or tell somebody to reveal the secret,
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tell you the secret.
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Spill the beans.
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The beans, well, it's a kind of food, right, from a can.
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And if you spill the beans, they come out of the can.
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Let the cat out of the bag. Same expression.
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Spill the beans. Tell us the secret.
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That's enough gossip.
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Let's move on to talk about relationships.
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Okay, relationships, idioms to do or talk
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about relationships with people.
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The first one, she can run rings round him.
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To run rings round someone,
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run rings round, run rings round someone
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is to outperform or outsmart somebody, right?
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Do something better than that person.
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The idea you're running rings, it's so easy for you.
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I think many, many wives can run rings round their husbands
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depending on the situation.
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For example, once my wife and I, we invited people to dinner
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and I said, "I'll cook this dish."
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And she said, "Okay, I'll cook that dish."
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And my daughter said, "Dad, don't bother.
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She's going to run rings around you.
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She's gonna do it better."
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Probably true, actually, yes. Oh, well.
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Next, I think I've blown it with him.
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When we say I've blown it,
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it just means I've made a serious mistake
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or an error, sometimes in a situation or a relationship.
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I've blown it with him means I've made a mistake,
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and things are not gonna work out well with that person.
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The situation in the radio drama was a woman
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who had been dating a man,
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and she had talked to him about her family,
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and she went on and on and on, and he got bored.
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And the woman said, "Oh, no,
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I think I've blown it with him."
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He's not interested anymore. He was so bored.
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Next one, he's a nightmare.
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A nightmare is a bad dream.
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But we use this colloquially to mean
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that somebody or something
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is a very difficult situation to handle,
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usually because the situation or the person
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causes lots of problems.
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He's a nightmare.
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And I think in the program they were talking
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about a new waiter or a new cook in the restaurant.
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They were trying to train him,
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and he just kept making mistakes,
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dropping things, burning things.
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And they were saying, "Oh, he's a nightmare."
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It means, right, he just makes lots of mistakes
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and causes problems.
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We often use this in a kind of a exaggerated way
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or a humorous way, right?
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He's a nightmare.
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Next, I wasn't sure where I stood.
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Now to stand, see,
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when you say, "I'm not sure where I stand,
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or where I stood in the past,"
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it suggests that you are not sure about your status
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in a relationship or in a situation.
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I wasn't sure where I stood with him.
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This goes back to the woman who was dating the man.
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And after their first date, the man said,
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"Yes, I'll call you, yes."
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And then after a week, he didn't call, and the woman said,
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"Well, I wasn't sure where I stood."
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She didn't know the status of the relationship anymore.
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You can talk about this for relationships,
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but also in different situations,
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in a work situation as well.
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Next one, we have our moments. We have our moments.
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Now those moments,
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actually, they mean good and bad times.
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So this really means we have our ups and downs.
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We have our moments.
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It's suggesting we have moments of anger,
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frustration, difficult times.
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Sometimes when you look at happily married couples
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from the outside and you look at them and go,
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"Oh, everything looks wonderful.
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You are so much in love."
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Very often the married couple will say,
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"Mm, yes, but we have our moments," right?
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Every marriage has its ups and downs. We have our moments.
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The next one, she's a hoot. A hoot. (laughing)
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A hoot, this means that somebody is very amusing
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or can make you laugh.
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They're a lot of fun, right? It's used very informally.
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She's a hoot. She's a fun person to be with.
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Describing somebody who makes you laugh.
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Finally, let's just wipe the slate clean.
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To wipe is to clean, right?
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The slate is, well, years ago in schools,
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we would have a piece of slate to write things on,
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so you'd have chalk and you'd write things on it.
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So to wipe, to clean the slate,
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to wipe the slate clean,
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just means let's start fresh.
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Start something anew,
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trying to let go of all the past problems.
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This is used often when two people disagree,
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or they argue and they say, "Listen, stop.
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Let's just wipe the slate clean and start new."
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Lovely. Let's wipe the slate clean and move on to ideas.
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Right, ideas. The first one.
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I did toy with the idea of starting again.
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To toy with the idea of something is to consider.
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Think about something.
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We also say to play with the idea.
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Kind of you're looking at it,
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you're playing with it, to toy.
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Toy we know is a noun, but to toy as a verb,
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I toyed with the idea
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of getting a new job, right?
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I considered it.
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Let's park that idea for the moment.
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To park an idea, it's like parking a car.
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You postpone the idea, or you put the idea
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on one side for the moment,
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and maybe come back to it later.
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So great expression in a meeting, right?
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If you are chairing a meeting, you say, "Right, nice idea.
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Let's park that idea for the moment and discuss this."
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Next, this idea has got legs.
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So the idea, if something has legs, it can walk,
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or it can run, it can go places.
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30:26
So if you say an idea has legs,
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it means it has potential to succeed.
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It has the possibility to succeed.
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This idea has got legs.
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Next, we need to push the envelope.
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To push the envelope means to push beyond the limit,
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beyond the existing limit.
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You'll often hear bosses in companies talk about this.
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If you want people to be creative, think outside the box.
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Then you need to push the envelope. Push the envelope.
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Why? I don't know.
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(laughing) But push the limits, right?
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Next, he has already written off the idea.
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To write off an idea is to basically forget,
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or not go ahead with an idea, to give up on an idea,
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because it's not going to work.
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The context was the owner of the restaurant
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who was thinking about, toying with the idea
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of selling the restaurant, but in the end,
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he decided to write the idea off or write off the idea,
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'cause it wasn't going to work.
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And finally, that idea was totally off the cuff.
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If something is off the cuff, it's improvised,
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spontaneously decided, right?
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It wasn't planned.
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The cuff, oh, I don't...
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If you have a shirt, you have a cuff of the shirt.
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I don't wear it. I haven't got a shirt.
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Something off the cuff just means
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it's improvised, not planned.
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Again, it was the idea that the owner
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of the restaurant was going to sell it.
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He wrote the idea off, and then he had a new idea
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to change the style of restaurant to sell different food.
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And that idea was totally off the cuff.
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It was just improvised in that moment,
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in that moment.
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Good. Let's move on talking about restaurants.
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Let's talk a little bit about food.
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Okay, three short idioms about food.
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First, they lay on a great spread,
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or they put on a great spread.
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And this is to give a great selection of food
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and drinks for an event.
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So spread is to put lots of things over a large area.
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So if you imagine all the foods spread out,
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here, it's a noun.
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A spread, a great spread,
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it means a great meal, a great variety of food.
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They lay on a great spread.
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The next one, it was a decent meal.
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It was a decent meal.
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Decent just means that it was reasonable
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or quite good quality.
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We can use decent with a lot of different context.
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A decent meal, quite good quality.
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If you get, let's say six out of 10, that's a decent mark.
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If you think this video is quite good, it's a decent video.
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Not very good, but quite good. (laughing)
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Lastly, let me top up your glass.
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To top up, you can imagine when you've got your glass
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or your cup and you fill to the top.
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Let me top up your glass.
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Often for wine, but not necessarily.
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Okay, the last topic of shopping.
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We've got three idioms here.
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First of all, I've got my eyes on something.
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I've got my eyes on something
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means I want to buy or to get something.
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If I ask my wife what she wants for her birthday present,
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I say, "Let's go shopping and let's find something nice."
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And she says, "Oh, that's a good idea,
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because I've got my eyes on something at the moment.
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I've got my eyes on a nice dress."
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Something she wants to buy.
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The next one, to fork out money for them,
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or to fork out money for something
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is to pay, well, is to spend too much money,
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often reluctantly that you don't want to.
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So something's very expensive, you say,
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"Well, I'm not gonna fork out money on that,"
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or, "I'm not gonna fork out money for that."
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You can use both of them.
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Finally, I bought it for a song.
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If you buy something for a song, la, la, la, la,
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it just means it's cheap.
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It's very low cost.
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When you go shopping in the January sales,
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you'll find some good deals and you can say,
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"Huh, I bought it for a song."
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That's it.
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That's it. 50 idioms.
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