Clapingo English Conversation #10 | What is use of celebrating B'days? | English Speaking Practice

also but i do not like to celebrate it i

would think that what is the use of

celebrating birthdays

oh my god that's nice

as always

it was a very very nice experience

talking to such a nice wonderful person

who nice

hello

hello sir

hi habisha

nice to see you back

yeah same here

same here even you feel that it

okay fine that's a very very nice

attractive headband that you have

looks like uh

what is what is that called do you have

a name for that technique that you have

one

no but i know it's just here years

i have four years here one

yeah absolutely that's that's what i was

just about to ask you but uh tell me uh

are you interested or do you purchase

your own clothes when uh your parents go

for shopping and let's buy some clothes

for the kids who selects your clothes or

you tell your mummy no you don't select

i will select my clothes who does this

election

well my mother only selects my clothes

and sometimes i choose mom mom i'm

taking this mom taking that but

sometimes she says yes we'll take it

then she takes and sometimes when i um

you know

take a

i force her to do she will take it and

while the booking time i'll take it

while giving the money to the man she

will take it out and

take the all of the items

or sometimes i just

make

okay fine that is good that you have

your own selection also and your parents

listen to you and respect your

selections as well but when you go out

what are some of the colors that you

choose what are some of the colors that

you feel you love and you would want to

wear them

no i don't have any such favorite color

to wear i just like

my leggings pajamas and t-shirts

especially

habitats half sleeves and whether any

color or not any color i'm okay with

them so if i see some new ones which i

like

i'll take it

or i generally like hot light colored

light colored things

great

yeah there is a little bit of a lag in

internet i don't know whether it's from

my side or your side but your voice is

kind of stopping and starting

so

no worries we will continue

when it comes to clothes havisha uh you

told me last session that your native is

jaipur

yes and i can only remember when it

comes to traditional clothes

jaipur has so much to offer in terms of

colors in terms of kids wear

and

bangalore that way find many kinds of

clothes as well but i feel when it comes

to shopping and buying clothes jaipur is

very very nice

traditional clothes on kids is something

that i really like

what what do you have from jaipur do you

have some kind of a speciality clothes

i don't have much man my grandmother

makes a traditional clothe of rare

sanchez's language and she gave it to me

i have some three for now but now i'm

begin i don't have any language but uh

in bangalore shopping list i have some

but they are not

as it doesn't seem that they are uh

like traditional clothes they are

something different

because traditional clothes have simple

but somewhere i've seen it's different

so in bangalore have i have i see those

types of clothes so i have them them

only

those type of clothes i know that i know

when you when you go to shop in

bangalore and when you look for jaipur

kind of clothes you will never find the

true ones it's always some kind of

imitation

do you know what imitation means

a difference

no no no no duplicates

probably what i mean to them is

when you want to go if you go to

bangalore and do that shopping and you

want to if you ask the shop shop uh guy

to give me some

jaipur uh clothes something that you

find in your rajasthan and jackpot he

will give you some but most of the times

they are very

imitation just cheap copy of the actual

clothes from jaipur that is what

imitation means

not original

ones

okay

okay that's what i mean so uh but

whenever there are see when i talked

about these jaipur your traditional

clothes you told the chuni and

all those things your grandmother gives

you

what are the occasions when you wear

these clothes you can't wear these daily

when do you wear these

i would like them wearing daily but my

mother restricts me to do so because i

was small i would

i would um some food would get on it and

my so my mother would make me wear them

traditionally

me sorry okay internationally in the

sense

occasionally and

and also traditionally on probably what

are the kind of occasions do you wear on

the

these kind of clothes

i wear these kind of clothes

when um suppose we have a

holy

holy diwali that type of surface

festivals

in our

it is celebrated so in that type of

festivals we were length

sometimes the boys were dhotis so at

that type of occasions we were it

and sometimes

uh we also added another and sometimes

my mother when you when i'm was

literally growing up and that my

language and i was getting short then

she would say wear it where i'd wear it

so i would wear it

but then i would not wear it because

because i wouldn't feel comfortable and

because mostly in some fancy clothes i

have seen that there's some glitter type

and it's slightly

uh it's like um

slightly doesn't fit my body it's not

soft it's it's slightly something

something so

i like

so i like um hello

thank you much

hello

hello

again yeah hello

yeah that connection glitch is

continuing to happen here

uh there's a little bit of when you talk

the audio stops starts stops starts so

i'm not able to concentrate on what

you're telling but in fact when you told

that these traditional clothes are very

uncomfortable to wear it kind of

kind of pricky from inside isn't it it

picks your body when you wear it so that

is the reason you just wear it once in a

while also

isn't it well i didn't i well probably i

did not mean to say that i meant to say

that some frogs which are not

much traditional but lahinga chuna i

like them i like it

yeah i was wonderful

but you know what uh

your clothes are might not go waste

after it after you outgrow your dresses

because you have a sister as well

probably she can use your dresses once

she comes your age once she comes to

your size

will you share your clothes with your

sister

well i have another option if i would

not what could i do with those clothes

what can i do i will simply anyways it

will be waste

so i will have to share it with my

sister i have no other option

okay

good now

you told me i remember when last session

you told me you don't like movies

and

you just feel that it's just a waste of

time but you told me in this session

that you like to wear clothes on some

traditional locations like festivals and

marriage and all that stuff

now

what are the kind of festivals that you

generally like

well some religious festivals like

janmashtami and specially holi and

diwali

yeah wonderful festivals in fact

my favorite

festival happens to be holi

what about you janmastami is also very

nice deepavali lots of noise lots of

noise lots of crackers and everything

lots of pollution as well sometimes but

holi is very nice i enjoy it what about

you which one is the one that you enjoy

the best

the best

well

in my place in bangalore i like diwali i

like diwali but in

jaipur i like holi and diwali both very

much

okay fine is there a difference between

the way holi is celebrated in bangalore

and jaipur do you find something special

happens in jaipur when it comes to holi

yes when it comes to holi in bangalore

then when we come down to play holy we

won't have much friends and

many people to play holi we will have

some but whereas in jaipur whether we

have friend or we don't it doesn't

matter we have lots of cousins almost

maybe seven or eight people will seven

or eight eight children will be there

so we will have lots we can have

uh nice fun and if when it comes to

diwali uh here there here in bangalore

it will it will be celebrated uh in

diwali it is no no much need of many

people to celebrate i i feel that only

one person is okay

or one or two is okay last

time when we had diwali

we people came one of my brother's

friend

and

and then we did

yeah so we had fun

so so inject so

in bangor i like diwali but in jaipur i

like them both because diwali will also

be celebrated nicely

and holi will also be celebrated nicely

because when when my fan when my when i

was in jaipur my

and when i was small i still remember i

would run away from the

noise of the clock from noise from the

crackers and

my mother who was my brother was too

small i would run there and talk to her

okay fine that's a nice thing in fact

you'd mention that during one of the

deepavali celebrations your brother's

friend had come over but last session

you told me that your brother is very

young

what is the age of your brother

he is three year three he's in lkg

oh he's an lkg and he already has a

friend who comes over to your house and

celebrates festivals with you wow that's

nice that's nice

he has a friend whose name is krishna he

lives just above our

floor and he

plays with

my brother he in the park he generally

comes at late evening

so

my brother comes at him

at six o'clock he must be coming at

seven or eight

okay

then sometimes

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just like your brother

sometimes do you get your own friends to

your home and or do you sometimes go and

join your friend at their house and play

before corona

this would happen but after corona

perhaps i am very in less contact with

friends

yeah that's very sad are you happy or

sad about it at least i am sad i can't

go to my friend's place neither can i

get my friends to my house i'm always

sad about that because of corona what

about you happy or sad

in corona everything changed i could not

meet in my friend's house

and anyway so i gradually lost the taste

of my calling a friend and talking and

all

so i now i'm not

i'm not talking much and nor i have

um too many friends or even i yes i have

some i have but i'm not in much contact

not as much contact okay

but you know havisha there is one thing

corona finally

is allowing all the students to go to

schools and attend schools in person now

you don't have to go through that

sitting in front of the computer and

attending your online classes so i think

very soon you will start meeting your

friends making new friends and i'm sure

you'll start liking it as well

yes but we came to school i would not

then also i would not talk much to my

friend and now

the friend now my one of my best friends

has

another friend named

now she sits with her

but anyways i have no problem

okay

generally when you go to school

uh when you make friends who is the

first person to talk do you go to people

and

you make friends or people come to you

and they make you their friends who is

the first person to talk to another

person when you're making a friend

i'm not making anyone a friend i simply

whenever some people sit with me i

simply allow them they sit with me they

talk to me and simple i'm not don't talk

much i'm and i am they're not too harsh

and i'm

polite

and i would not talk harshly to them

sometimes they would say next time i

also i will sit with you i would say no

problem whoever comes i will agree

and sometimes

some other person sits and sometimes

some children i don't like

also but it's okay if they sit with me i

don't mind much yeah absolutely you're a

friendly little girl and i you don't

mind anybody sitting and you will be

friends with anybody very easily that's

what i assume

you are that's the kind of person you

are you won't mind being friends with

anybody isn't it

yes

okay see uh

when was the

by the way when we are talking about

friends the only time all the friends

come over and meet at one place is when

it is somebody's birthday

and when was havisha's last birthday and

when was the celebration

it was at 12th april but the celebration

um

uh yeah there's a celebration i did not

celebrate it

and because of corona again

no corona

not because of corner without also

corona we could have fun with my sister

and brother also but i do not like to

celebrate it i would think what is the

use of celebrating birthdays

oh my god that's nice

i would want to talk about that

a little bit more maybe but we are

running out of time havisha but as

always

it was a very very nice experience

talking to such a nice wonderful person

who nice

yeah tell me

can i ask you one question

yeah please do

uh behind you i see a lot of books so

can i ask you what type of profession

you have are you a teacher

yes yes avisha i am a teacher but not

the regular one i

know told your friend you're not okay

and tell me what's wrong and why you

never said you felt that way

because you trying to stay strong and

fake